Gervonta Davis’s relationship advice stirred emotions on social media. The champion boxer said women who want to date good men like the late rapper Nipsey Hussle won’t do it by showing their bodies in skimpy clothing on social media.
Nipsey was gunned down outside his clothing store in March. He and fiancee Lauren London were raising his son and her two boys together.
Gervonta, who is dating Instagram socialite Ariana Fletcher, remarked on Lauren’s wholesome social media photos – none of which show off her ASSets.
“Lauren London got 1300 pics, not one showing her ass and tits, but you females want a NIP. Yeah ok,” he said. The 24-year-old two-time super featherweight champion has a professional boxing record of 21 wins with 20 by knockouts.
His remarks fired up the comments section on Instagram.
One chick argued that a woman’s choice of slutty attire shouldn’t dictate what type of man she ends up with.
Another user pointed to photos of Gervonta’s pregnant girlfriend, Ari, who dresses in very provocative clothing.
“What is this man even saying?!?! He chose to date a woman that does just that. It’s always guys who have girlfriends who do things like that who stay complaining. How about you start dating girls who don’t, then you wouldn’t have anything to worry about.”
Photos by Jayne Kamin-Oncea/Getty Images, Prince Williams/ATLPics.net
lol at good man like Nip… mmkay
Aris arse job looks horrible.
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Is this the one who beat up his gf last week?
Woman said how she dresses shouldn’t dictate the kind of man she ends up with…if you say so. A man sees a woman dressed like a hooker, he already decided what she’s good for. Based on his comments, he’s implicitly saying he doesn’t take Ari seriously.
no, that was her baby daddy but my understanding is that she and the baby daddy always engage in mutual combat.
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In the words of majorie harvey. Get on way from here with that mess
Oh but there is an azz behind her that I do see in this photo ….. if folks don’t miss me with this trash azz shyt periodt …. hanging with any man in da strip club is lust based periodt … how da hell do you even speak on what a getting a good man should be with that shyt up there in da mix …. ifs folks really that damn blank out here … da fuggggggg who is these folks https://media3.giphy.com/media/azQMsWt5Oz9hm/giphy.gif
i think it’s the photoshop that messed it up
Auntie sure is cranking out these posts quick. She must be finna dip for the whole weekend or summ…(She think she’s slick.) ??
Anyway, Ari’s booty reminds me of Squidward.
And that IG poster is right. Lookatcho g/f. So in essence, you’re saying that YOU aren’t a man like Nip.
Anddddd…(not saying there is anything wrong with it) but is dude really trynna give moral advice and his girlfriend is pregnant? ANDDD he’s inna pic about to make it rain on heauxs?
Chile
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Yet he likes rewarding the naked ones with single dollar bills.
Exactly!
I didn’t even notice he’s in a strip club…chileeeeee??
Thanks.
Lol he making it seem like Lauren is a angel. And he ain’t no “NIP” so his opinion does not count.
And is he telling this to Ari? She always has her assets out. ?
Who? What? Where? When? Why?
Chile, that’s like a man with no arms trynna tell people how to tie their shoes.
Shut da hell up.??
Exactly … this must be a spoof post ….
lmao! I’m lost af too!
I guess the women in the strip clubs dress like nuns.
Boy byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee.
Her butt looks weird in that picture up top. Really weird.
That’s all I got for this.
Droopyyyyy ???
Its doing the gangsta lean
Like da wtf….. what’s wrong with folks chile https://media0.giphy.com/media/GpyS1lJXJYupG/giphy.gif
LOLOLOLOL…. Chile….. this is that fake news ……
Lol ?
OK, but… Your gf… Nevermind…
LMAO!!!
Handle YOUR scandal sir. Nobody asked you for relationship advise, smh?
Ok, but YOU, are at the strip club with bands..Ok then…..
Lawd, why? ?
Boy thats what u choose cuz thats what u like! U are no nipsey, wheres ur own business, where the ppl at saying how much u do for ur community?? & not jus thanksgiving turkeys !
She got her body done. So young and all that elasticity in your skin yet so quick to go to the surgeon.
Girl I’m dyinggggggg…that was slick.
Before Nipsey’s death, people were calling Lauren a bird for having two kids by two different men. Nowadays she’s the saint that we should all look up to. Crazy how things work.
Plus, he has a girls name too so..
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So I’m guessing he realizes that HE’S NOT NIP, right?
Ain’t it crazy. I remember on this blog, folks were going in on her about gaining weight after she had the baby and they were sitting at a basketball game. I’ve always thought she was a cute girl.
and of course YOU caught it, Lol!
I said same.
He doesn’t realize the dissonance tho Yoni…shhhh..don’t tell him.
Gervonte is so punch drunk he can barely form sentences with his mini pitbull looking self…I dont take advice from any man under 5 ft 6 anyway…
“The one’s who don’t have it, always be the first to tell you how to get it.”
We are too mature of a crowd to care about what these youngins are talking about. Next.
He probably can’t even spell dissonance. LOL
Her butt looks like when you try to stuff a greeting card in a smaller envelope…it gets that bend at the bottom…Chile…
What dat mean? LOL j/k j/k
I’m torn.
On the one hand, what a woman wears should NOT dictate her character or the way she’s percieved. But I can see how it can. But it shouldn’t. But I can see how it could. But it shouldn’t.
I hate the double standard though. A woman wears some booty cutter shorts and she’s a slut…but a MAN can wear some booty cutter shorts and…well that would mean he’s gay. Never mind.
It sounded good in my head though.
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You saying he “dis honest”? LMAOOOOOOOOOOOO
Boy you are under 6ft, please sit down somewhere with your lil self.
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Loloolooll
*looks at his underarm pits*
I can’t WAIT until my waxing appointment this evening. WHEW! https://media1.giphy.com/media/559gUG7UAs1o2peLzU/giphy-downsized-medium.gif
And you know thissssssssss man!!! ??
Ha! His ole lady just like the rest of them hoes. Glad they called him out.
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they said Ari looks like Thomas the Train ?and i cant unsee it ???
“Super featherweight” Yeah. Little guys normally have a big mouth.
I’m stealing that.
Yes it looks like it needs a bra to hold it up! #whysodroopy
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Right. ….and a woman like Ayesha Curry wouldn’t even give him the time of day.
But you short tiny sir, are nothing like Nipsey
can she see through those lashes? well, at least she’s black
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By all means. One of those food for thought phrases that rings true and has stuck with me over the years.
Well he has a right to his truth. If that’s what works for him and his personal life then do you guy. Everybody different. If that’s what floats your boat then float on.
Her butt looks nasty. Like it’s sagging. Maybe too much plastic, I don’t know but it doesn’t look right.
ROTFL!!!!! Between the meme and the write-up, you had me in stitches. I actually saw the meme first and started laughing knowing the write-up had to be funny as hell. Thanks for the laugh!
Is it just me or have many men been comparing women to Ms. London.
And then be pictured with IG women. I am so confused….
rofl lololol !!!
Yet he impregnated her with his modesty standards and idk how much more seriously you can take a person but ?????
No sir, women don’t need slutty clothes. All they gotta do to land a guy like a Nipsey or yourself is have their first born by a rapper, something you both have in common.
Women should wear what makes them feel comfortable. Period end of story.
DAMN, SHE DO!!!! LOLOLOL
This is akin’ (sp) to when Meek Mill told women to boycott wigs, then turned around and had a chick on his arm who robbed a whole stable of horses from the Kentucky Derby.
Ari got drapes for eyelashes. She can barely see
But anywho umm I think he was speaking of in general and not his personal preference clearly his likes his women half newd I mean ari be outchea chileee
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Nip was cool and all but he does not fit my definition of a good man. A decent guy sure. Good man. Steup. But wtf is this ignant bug on about anyway doesnt he have a baby by that type of female? Shut up rat
Is he lying? LOL
Is he saying he won’t wife his current gf?
but the types of guys like nipsey and guys from his background like those thotty types of chicks. or at least the lauren london biracial confused complexed classy hood ones.
I don’t think anyone wants to trade places with Lauren London… my god ease her pain & rest his soul??
Aint you bustin down the thotiana named Ari who shows hern? Young man hush
And he clearly is not a Nipsey and his girl is not LL.
Say it louder so the birds can hear you. It seems that today’s women are worthless and have nothing to offer society as a whole anything other than t and a. The house of Babylon has record attendance levels. Now we are using guttersnipes to guide our moral compass. What is the world coming to?
Ikr? This idolization of him and LL shows how low the bar is set for a lot of people.
You get who u can pull, and his 1st bm speaks volumes to what type of man he was, which speaks volumes abt LL, along with Wayne, a questionably gay but admitted drug addict being her bd ? and wasn’t she pregnant with another person Wayne impregnated at the same time?
Damn, it’s sad.
I’ll stick with the handsome, drug-free, fit, nerdy engineers with diverse investments and no baby mamas..
I thought Gervonta & Ariana were the same person ???…
Lauren is a tomboy, a mother of two, and an actress, that’s why her IG isn’t filled with T&A. Plus, I think she’s half Jewish… ?… which could also explain the “modesty”.
I still don’t understand why Nipsey is aspirational. We have a lot of black ppl trying to better themselves and their communities. Nipseys popularity has more to do with who he was affiliated with, and less to do with his business acumen. I admire what he tried to do for his hood, despite his background, but, black folks stay taking things to whole other (deity) level ? when nuccas just do the bare minimum (or less).
Nipsey was not saint and Lauren London was no Madonna. Her other baby daddy was lil Wayne need I say more? so i don’t no how they have come to this delusional conclusion. The black community is effing lost. Nipsey was a effing gang member.
Well said.
Say it louder for the people in the back.
God bless the dead…
but a good man has a good woman..
I only know of two of Nip’s women, and they are both trash.
Personally, I don’t dress provocatively outside of the house bc my butt is too big and I don’t care for the attention.
But you mean to tell me, a woman who gets pregnant by a possibly gay, admittedly drug abuser at the same time as another woman, can pull a Nip, but a scantily clad woman can’t?
Is he serious? ?
Whang go take a nap.???
All that sis! At the end of the day he was a hood nigg and lauren’s a hoodrat. Yeah im sure they are amazing ppl to their loved ones but facts are facts. Ppl act like being single parents of several kids and getting all them together under one roof during the relationship is goals. I cry for the future young women of our communities
Who’s her tattoo of?
Sorry, I don’t know!
That applies to all Grade A man and woman. He trying to put y’all up on game. But he missed the reverse.
and I don’t know why he felt the need to single out Nip. But yeah no King wants a thot for a WIFE…. and No Queen wants a thot for a HUSBAND…
However I don’t think Nip was judgemental like that. He had a daughter by a woman that already had 2 kids and another by a woman that already had 1. So I wouldn’t say he was looking for no Ayesha Curry. I think he found exactly what he was looking for, Lauryn. A good mix between class and hood, Not perfect but not ran through.
Men like him want wholesome quality women but they also expect for them to look like these Instagram “models” (fat transfer, fake butt, fake boobs, tummy tuck, 10 layers of make-up, fake lashes and tattoos all over).
You put a brown or dark skin woman with natural hair, a college degree, her own money etc they will pass her up for a light skin or mixed stripper with a pink lacefront wig, no education, living out of a damn suitcase ?????
Butt don’t that mean its real then? Ij asking
I thought Gervonta & Ariana were the same person ???…
—sign out ??
I wish TF I would take ANY ADVICE from these dayum kids…lil boy BYE!
Nip didn’t marry anyone, he had two children out of wedlock.
You can be classy with out looking trashy. I really don’t think what you wear have any bearing on who you will end up with. I’m sure it’s has everything to do with who you are as a person. In great relationships, souls connect not clothing.
I TRIED not to laugh but the suitcase got me https://media1.giphy.com/media/ZqlvCTNHpqrio/giphy.gif
First and foremost define “Good Man” secondly all wimmen don’t want no Hood didk
I love her, but Lauren London had ‘hood twins’ before she got with Nipsey?
He has a point but his baby momma to be has some ass hanging out and ugly tatoos. Tatoos make women look unclean or rather ghetto dirty. The bible is against them too and those who have them will not enter the Kingdom of heaven.
CLEARLY!!!
Yeah them butt cheeks does look like Droopy’s Jaws
He is funny looking. Some of these men try so hard to control black women.
Its a good message however wrong messenger.
He never claimed to be like Nipsey so him dating a woman whose ass and tits are out is a moot point.
He’s right, he’s nowhere near Nip’s caliber…
Lmao… At least she was utilizing prized horses
that’s yall problem, RIP, but yalls ideal guy is a felonist thug gangbanger who possibly murdered others and perpetuated gangs?
ok, doctors and etc is not what you all want..
Damn. He looked at all 1300 of her pics?
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Who!? What is a featherweight?
He’s right…. it’s very important when looking for a man or teaching one how to treat you, that he sees you as more then just a sexual object. They are in my opinion better companions and have a greater respect for you as a person.
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Nipsey is dead and may he rest in peace. I serve a living God. I don’t know how this deloutional fallacy of him being a saint was concocted but it needs to stop. He was a hood booger who’s baby Mamas was guttersnipes. Where is is the logic in making this proclaimed gangsters a diety? Next we will be saying lol Wayne should be able to be named the saint of Louisiana. Black need to just stop it with the crazy talk.
Nipsey was probably a good person, but I wouldn’t want my daughter, sister, mother or saleswoman at Neiman Marcus dating him. He was gang member who was brutally murdered by a violent associate. We really need to define what a GOOD man is!
Then he needs to practice what he preaches and be that man. I dont think he was eluding to Nipsey being a good catch and the point he was making was that Nipsey was a gangster. This leads me to believe he was more than likely saying that real gangsters want virtue and not just t and a.
I agree and think he was saying that gangsters want virtue and not just t and a. But his life and the women he dates contradicts his statements.
I know this sounds nuts, but a man sleeping w/you w/o a condom doesn’t mean he wants a baby w/you. Women assume that. He wanted skin on skin action w/a big butt. Women need to “gatekeep” their bodies better. They won’t be together next year. She’s low hanging fruit to him. He’s trolling all of Laurens’s IG pics, lol.
didn’t that boxer get caught up with a tranny?
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He could practice his azzz being on fire for all I care but he did bring up a good point that is true and you are right in what you said…im seeing today alot of women use sex to pull a man in, I think those women think that men in general are that simple, but better men are very complex and sex is just one component to them, so if he only sees you as a sex thing your not seeing his full greatness. Behind every great man is a good woman, “behind” not in front of him twerking …. I’m just saying.
He could practice his azzz being on fire for all I care but he did bring up a good point that is true and you are right in what you said…im seeing today alot of women use sex to pull a man in, I think those women think that men in general are that simple, but better men are very complex and sex is just one component to them, so if he only sees you as a sex thing your not seeing his full greatness. Behind every great man is a good woman, “behind” not in front of him twerking …. I’m just saying.
That butt looks like it is depressed and needs to lay down on a psychologist’s floor to figure out how it all went wrong.
That butt looks like it is depressed and needs to lay down on a psychologist’s floor to figure out how it all went wrong.
He right in a way because men are territorial. Once they view your as “their woman” they don’t want to share you. The women who post provacative pictures do it for likes. They don’t care if the likes come from men or women. The type of men who drool over and marry instathots are men like Offset. It’s resonable for community puzzay marry to marry community “D.” If they like I love it.
and she’s just a baby momma nothing to aspire to be smh
I kinda thought that’s exactly what I said or nah??????
The difference between how I said it vs how you’re saying it. Is that I understand nobody is perfect.
But you sound like you are perfect. ?? more power to you.
Preach! Soo the next generation can get thier heads right. Looking at what going on now it looks abysmal.
Lol @ drapes ??
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I guess hes Nooo So called good man like “Nip” either ?…u impregnated a broad thats the exact type and not only did he not wife her first he probably liked one of the many provocative pics she posted and snaked into her DM! I detest hypocrisy! Dont talk about it be about boy…u aint datin no Cindy lou u got a carmen jones!
Thank you..glad someone finally spoke the truth!
Egg-zacly!! Lol. I like Nipsey but he wasn’t perfect the way all these hoodboogers are trying to make him out to be. He was a good dude, though.
I just used the word hoodbooger in my comment above…???
Nipsey is Laurens type i will leave it at that out of respect!!
Lauren is hood. She’s just low key. And she has a successful career, somewhat, of her own so she didn’t need to do all that for a famous man. She could have been a hooch to raise her star a bit, but again she is low key LoLo.
Lmao !
1.) RIP to Nip but nah …. I would never want a guy like him
2.) Her booty looks a MESS. Obviously it’s been done.
3.) She looks like Lamb Chop in the first pic. Thick ass lashes. Good evening
Booty on sag saaag… ?
And why that look like a tatoo like Nipsey on her arm??
Nipsey was a handsome ,intelligent man although gangbangers do not make good partners! ! https://media1.giphy.com/media/3I8N0FeJgw6Hu/giphy.gif
That tattoo looks like Big Sean to me.
Her cheeks looks like those of an old face man….drooping.
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P0t meet kettle
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While Nip wasn’t a saint, he was dedicated to raising his children, building wealth legally, and teaching people other ways besides crime to make a living. So many people in his situation get caught up in the environment they see around them. It’s hard to think anything is wrong when everyone around you does it.
Ermias had a mom and dad. They were immigrants who did their best to raise their kids. Nipsey even though he claimed crip was an entertainer. Like most people when they get older and wiser he matured and focused on turning his money into security for his family.
The reality is few of these insta-thots will get a decent man and go off to live in the suburbs. They will get passed around like the plastic toys they are.
Men screw hoes and marry women.
Heehee.
Is that her abusive baby daddy on her shoulder?? ?
No man in his right mind would deal with a female who carries like most hos today. They are disgusting and don’t even know it. Well once they 40+, ran through and manless….then they get it! Smdh…?
He was not a good man. He did good things for HIS community. End of story. I don’t want no hood dude. Or any man like that who looks like, talks like, a gang banger and lives in the hood among gangs and gunshots or is or was a gangbanger. NOooooooooo
These women want to argue with a man for telling them the truth. Open your eyes and ears….close your mouth!
Ok and he won’t stop no show bec insta thots wouldn’t be in business if men wasn’t condoning slutiness in the first place. Also even if they found a man like Nip and was all wholesome, he would prolly be cheating with a side chick anyways. Get yah thot coins. I ain’t mad at yah ?!
Stacks of $1 bills ?
Didn’t his girlfriend get her azz beat recently by her ex,…why not speak out about men hitting females?
But hey what do I know? I gotta work in the am ?? I’m tired
They can change their clothes but the thot will come out eventually. That’s just who they are, if they getting mad at a man for telling them to put some clothes on
Nope they don’t. At 40 and 50 they still doing the same shyt.
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Woman are even more territorial. Just FYI.
I’d rather take a man like Nipsey than a Corny azz nigga any day. Nip passed as a King.
The attorney representing Eric Holder, you know the educated non gangbanger black attorney will be remembered as a F—k Up…
Id take a smart, hood, educated, respected man like Nip over an educated loser attorney any day.
It’s not where you came from it’s who you are and how you are respected as a man. And Nip did not pass as a gangster, her passed as a respected King.
Nipsey was there for a community that people turned there back on. That’s not something everybody can do. He overcame adversity.
He was honest, humble and took care of his people.
Why does it bother you so much?
That’s called jealousy!! First you said he wasn’t popular, now to make your point in this post, you’re claiming he was. Which one is it?
Than y’all thought everybody was overreacting cause he’s famous. Well that’s been proven to be a lie because a much more famous black person has passed and it’s went in one ear and out the other and right back to Nipsey’s passing. So clearly it ain’t about the fame. People really love him.
Hmmmmmm u mean she had no ass and tit pics while she was with nipsey, her behavior before that speaks for itself. She does have a kid by one of the ugliest mtfs on the planet LIL WAYNE. How do you think that happened
When I first heard Nip left us, my heart sunk to my stomach. 30+ days later and I’m still waiting for this joke to be reversed.
This man touched a lot of hearts. I love where he came from, his struggle and who he grew to be.
My heart hurts for his entire family and friends.
Despite what he came from, no one saw this coming. We loved him too much to think of the possibility that it’s someone else that may not love him. And we were all caught slippin. He should’ve had security and we should’ve been praying for him because the Bible says to pray for our leaders!
I believe they weigh anywhere from 100 to 125 pounds. The smallest class of boxer.
Sigh if he liked it he would have put a ring on it.
Huh? Lol. All black communities have had their inhabitants “turn their back on them”, so LA’s hoods are no different than the hoods across America. And a little fun fact: many black Americans are struggling to achieve what Nipsey attempted to do – and more. So, yes, his extreme exaltation in death does confuse and anger me. Particularly when he hasn’t actually done anything… like I said, I admire his ambition but social media has exalted him to a level that can’t be justified. Sorry it is what it is ?????…
Who caresses !! ???
She asked, “What is this man even saying?” Duh. He is no NIP, the gentleman he defined ????? lbvs. Just because he has a girlfriend doesn’t mean he is or fits this description.
Men screw hoes and marry women. Truth.
Nipsey was no saint. Facts.
But he didn’t marry Lauren ?. Either marriage isn’t for everyone or she may have been a “hoe”. After all, they connected through Instagram. The worst “hoes” are the sneaky ones; usually, they don’t dress the part lol but their behavior/character is always what it is and cannot be covered by clothing. I am not saying she was an undercover “hoe” but just stating another fact.
Exactly.
WOW!
You read all that he says, then you see the last pic, and can’t believe it!
First, what made her think this is or was a good looking photo to post (too, Rupaul drag race)?
And, she should keep that fake (?) butt covered, ewww!
Talk about everybody exploiting and running this mans name in the ground.
His girlfriend looks decent except for the photo in the bathing suit not being by no water….
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Droopy ass smh….
“I’ll stick with the handsome, drug-free, fit, nerdy engineers with diverse investments and no baby mamas..” THIS ALL DAY..If I could LIKE YALLS comments x 1000, I would.
Black men try to front like they like natural hair. The thing is they like certain types ! I remember when I was dating a guy and I revealed my natural hair one night when we met for drinks. Half of my hair is 3C and the other half is 4A. He said “I’m glad your natural hair isn’t nappy. You have pretty hair.” I was offended and didn’t talk to him afterwards. The majority of black women have 4B or 4C hair. It’s just offensive that some black men view 4B/4C hair as nappy when all black MEN have the SAME texture in their head.
He was still representing that life style and gang life style. The stereotype of all women liking bad boys is all in your head. Only chicken heads and birds are enticed by this lifestyle and real women re looking for something more tangible. He lived how he died and that is not something that smart educated women ain’t looking for when they are trying build. Lauren was a mediocre actress at best and settled for a mediocre life with an ex gang banger. Before that she was with a drug addicted raper who lived the same lifestyle. If you take inventory of these type of men and the women they date you will not find one desirable thing to envy and only effery to give.
Oh stfu, you sound like hiv waiting to happen. If you wanna fawk raw, get a fefe.
Lol! That’s all I got too ?
Agreed 100%!
exactly. my mama always called them old hos lol
Yooo I wasn’t ready! Lmaooooooooooo !!
Where does it say that in Scripture?
The pink lace front got me ? cause I just saw a green one an hour ago at the airport
You’re absolutely right lmao but men are visual. They’re not about to invest in a chick who is not aesthetically attractive. Not unless he knew her from school/work or in an environment that allows him to get to know her personality, her intellect. And I’m going to be honest with you lol, as many ratchet chicks as I see – with rainbow lace front wigs, caked on makeup, questionable clothing lol etc – I see “natural” chicks who look like they live in a homeless shelter and shop at thrift clothing stores. Lmao and I say this as someone who wears their hair natural. Some natural women take pride in doing absolutely nothing to enhance their sexual appeal or appearance. Even on this blog, they brag about not wearing makeup and not doing their hair lmao like it’s something to be proud of – or like men are supposed to respect them/desire them as is. Lol and the reality is that it just doesn’t work that way. If you want a man (similar to what thots attract – successful, wealthy, fine etc) then you have to enhance your appearance. Natural hair doesn’t mean matted to the side, dry, and knotted up (which I see too often lol), it’s healthy/moisturizer curls styled in a neat, yet sexy way. I don’t know why black women are so indignant about making themselves look more beautiful ?????
Lol yeah that’s unfortunately true. My male friend told me, after I shaved my head lol, that he only like natural hair when it’s long ?… I told him that sounds like a personal self-hate issue that he needs to work out in therapy lmao. But I think a lot of that internalized hatred comes from the women that raise them and the communities that they grow up in. I’ve had my maternal grandmother tell me that I better not cut my hair cause “long hair is the only thing that I have going for me” ?.. it’s hurtful but it’s also generational, from a time when dating folks who were lighter than a paper bag, ensured better economic standing. These ideologies are so ingrained in our ppl. That’s why I say: it starts with the women. Stop feeding into the actions and hurtful comments that black men do and say, and start focusing on the women who are raising them. I’ve never seen a black woman who loved her skin, hair, culture, community, and history raise black kids that hated everything about their hair texture & skin tone. Never. Maybe it’s because my upbringing was different (my mother hated my creole grandmothers mentality), but my parents had so much black pride – not just in their words, but their actions – and that’s why I love everything about black ppl ??
Well, men w mothers will only bring home certain type of women that their mother would approve of.
While ge sits in the strip club with 10,000 cash. Stfu and throw rhise dollar bills.
He never said he is a good man. He said Nipsey was a good man and if you want a man like that, stay dressed. Big difference…..
Yeah that was a big reach when he’s dating somebody who posts those types of pics. I wander if he is sending her a message….I ain’t gonna be no Nips if you keep showing that ass n tits ?
You don’t get a say on who enters the kingdom of heaven. A thief who died on the cross and asked for forgiveness beforehand was granted entrance so…..stop being so judgemental and you might make it there too.
I’m not hip to the ABC’s and 123’s of hair. I just know that I haven’t had a relaxer in (a couple – I really can’t remember how long it’s been) years and that all “nappy” hair grades are just tight CURLS!
They DO invest in unattractive chicks though you idiot!
Exactly. As you can see where that leads. I’m into a different type of man in general.
Lol no they don’t… and calling me an idiot doesn’t change that fact… ?
Seems like everyone missed the ball on this one. That’s what happens when you read but cannot comprehend, Jokes on them I guess, *Kanye Shrug… LOL.
“or SHE may have been a Hoe?” What if he was the Hoe?? and Last I heard, He admitted to be unfaithful to her which is why they broke up briefly. Stop assuming a woman isn’t married just because a man doesn’t want to marry her, that woman may have been thru some shit and may be holding off until she’s fully ready. Truth is, none of us know their situation but all of us can tell they loved each other immensely and that’s more than what I can say for half the people holding a microscope to their private lives and insinuating negativity.
Keywords: MAY HAVE BEEN. I never said she WAS or IS lbvs. I don’t know her personally and neither do you. Calm down. Lbvs.
lol good point. He didnt say he was a good man lol
I have seen some natural black female doctors that be looking a mess so I can say you told zero lies?
They be having me so mad at them like “sis I know you a resident and you sometimes be on call and have to sleep at the hospital but can you at least 2 strand twist the front part of your head?”
What’s wrong with that musty looking booty?
lol
who that whole man on her arm? not him!
They do that with all slain rappers. They become our heroes somehow ????
Good woman