A new app is causing panic among cheating men everywhere. The new TEA App is similar to the once popular website Don’t Date Him Girl, which exposed cheating men and other scurrilous scoundrels.
“This app got the whole city in shambles,” said one blue-haired woman in Detroit. The TEA App is the No. 1 free app in the U.S.
DontDateHimGirl.com was launched in July 2005 by founder Tasha Joseph. Women were able to post photos of cheating men and write anonymous reviews about them.
When asked about the accuracy of the reviews, Tasha pointed to the site’s Terms and Conditions. She also said men could register and respond to the reviews.
Despite the website’s popularity, DontDateHimGirl.com was sued out of existence by Todd Hollis, a Pennsylvania attorney who was the subject of multiple negative reviews by women he allegedly dated.
But the new TEA app avoids lawsuits by verifying users’ identities before women are allowed to register. Users must verify their identity by providing a driver’s license and working phone number.
I got the tea app. Who y’all looking for and what city. Charging 1$ a search ?? pic.twitter.com/a9oWxJlTyl
— Nosy bystanders (@NosyBystanders) July 23, 2025
The TEA App is similar to TikTok, but without the dancing. Women share information about men they slept with and they upload his photos.
Men who are diagnosed with HIV and other STDs are outed on the TEA app.
One woman said, “Y’all, your ni–a might be on here, he might be cheating and he might be giving out that sh–.”
Who thought this was a good idea fr? That Tea app gonna get somebody hurt.
Imagine minding your biz & somebody put you on app like this. pic.twitter.com/RXu8by1SQ5
— ? LOOTED VUITTON DON ? (@ItsJustPay) July 22, 2025
Members of the Manosphere are rightfully in a panic. One married man who saw himself on the TEA app reached out to a divorce attorney to discuss his options.
This is what worried men are saying on manosphere boards:
“It’s a new game out here fellas be very careful and keep to yourself.”
“More psyops to destroy the black family.”
“All fun and games ’til somebody gets hurt.”
“Man if u cheatin on yo bi#ch the other bi#ch aint even posed to know yo real name & who the fu#k is lettin h0es take pictures of them anyway?”
“Yea a lot of people didn’t know about the facebook are we dating the same person page but this sh1t here already number 1 in the Apple Store. Not good.”
