Bravo network has reportedly green-lit a reality TV show featuring B. Smith’s husband, Dan Gasby, who is involved in an adulterous relationship with his mistress, Alex Lerner. The good news is Bravo’s camera crew will be in the house every day monitoring B. Smith.
According to published reports, former Real Housewives of Atlanta producer Carlos King signed a production deal with Dan Gasby and his mistress, Alex Lerner, for a reality TV show about their unorthodox relationship.
READ ALSO: B. Smith’s Friend Spills Tea About Her Husband
The show will follow the lives of Gasby, Lerner and Smith, who was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease in 2014.
Smith, 69, was a restaurateur, model, author and television host with her own line of bedding and bath products in Bed Bath and Beyond.
She was dubbed “the Black Martha Stewart” and she authored three books featuring her original recipes.
Smith was a millionaire many times over when she began experiencing memory loss and other symptoms of dementia about 10 years ago.
Gasby, Smith’s husband of 27 years, angered her fanbase by moving his mistress into Smith’s Hamptons mansion last year. He angrily responded to the criticism on his social media page and he sold his story to PEOPLE magazine and other publishers.
Rumor has it that the former television executive is quickly running out of funds after spending Smith’s fortune on gifts and lavish vacations with Lerner over the past 2 years.
Fans were outraged earlier this month when Smith’s close friend, Good Morning Washington anchorman Paul Wharton, revealed he witnessed Lerner abusing Smith.
Wharton described an incident when Lerner “chastised” Smith by smacking her hand.
“And I grabbed Alex’s hand, and I said, ‘Alex, you know you really can’t do that,'” Wharton recalled during a recent segment on Good Morning Washington.
The reality show will give Smith’s fans a rare glimpse into her home life, as her mental condition continues to deteriorate.
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I’ll be damned….this shat IS true ?????
WOW! Perpetuating the efffery….maybe this will be “the light” in this dim shituation
Lordt the ish is about to hit the fan.
The ?????
um mmm. no. please gawd nobody watch this so the f*ckery can go away.
I am praying to Black Jesus that not one of us watches!! Bravo execs are the goddamn devil!! They will greenlight anything. DO NOT WATCH!!!
Lord Jesus take the wheel
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They are ALL taking advantage of B. Smith…..even Dan Gasby daughter. She said this about B and I for one thought that it was very disrespectful, even if true:
She suffered symptoms of the disease years before that and is now, as step-daughter and caregiver Dana Gasby, 32, tells PEOPLE in this week’s issue, a “physically strong toddler who speaks in gibberish,” who sometimes needs to be forced to shower and use the toilet.
A new low for Andy Cohen , exploiting this horrific situation. We already know the husband is despicable.
Issa No for me dawg! Sad
see. that’s why this is not a good idea. who would want to see this woman in whatever condition she is in, go through this so her husband can have a TV show with his live-in mistress.
TF?!!
Agree totally, I will not be watching.
My grandmother died, from complications of Alzheimer’s, it’s a very hard disease to cope with. ….It’s not easy, but I’m not sure about this….
Why would anyone wanna tune in to see this? It’s not even worth watching.
Glad I don’t have Bravo, this is a train wreck waiting to happen.
Well IBD. People never cease to amaze me
Well IBD. People never cease to amaze me
Right! I am utterly speechless!
Right! I am utterly speechless!
Glad to hear that Dan and his tramp are running out of B’s money to spend. That tells me that she probably didn’t leave Dan all her assets and rights to her businesses.
Glad to hear that Dan and his tramp are running out of B’s money to spend. That tells me that she probably didn’t leave Dan all her assets and rights to her businesses.
High Five!!
High Five!!
we need to start a boycott. This is too much
we need to start a boycott. This is too much
REALLY!!??? SMH
REALLY!!??? SMH
Don’t have to tell me twice, I don’t even have the station to watch that bull cr@p.
Don’t have to tell me twice, I don’t even have the station to watch that bull cr@p.
Right back at you.
Right back at you.
Are there bills he can’t pay? Why exploit your wife in such a disrespectful way? He needs money or maybe the girlfriend does. I would not want someone recording me while I was not in my right mind.
Are there bills he can’t pay? Why exploit your wife in such a disrespectful way? He needs money or maybe the girlfriend does. I would not want someone recording me while I was not in my right mind.
So, that is why he is on the blogs making a fool of himself. Publicity. Shameful. I cannot imagine the B. Smith I remember wanting to be a part her Alzheimer’s journey made PUBLIC.
That last part. I guess they didn’t need consent from B to do it. The husband has POA prolly and he can sign anything she can’t.
Anyone with a mother should NOT be down for this. I can’t imagine coming home to MY mama’s house and my daddy has moved her out of HER master bedroom and moved a b*tch in while they share the master and have made my mama a guest in HER house. I would literally turn that MF upside down! I ain’t never wanted to fight my daddy, but Ida whooped his ass, her ass and anybody there to break it up on THAT day.
Just the THOUGHT makes me want to dig my daddy up and beat his ass and rebury him and he ain’t got nothing to do with this.
I watched my aunt die from this disease. It is absolutely awful. Why? Why? Why?
You have got to be friggin kidding me. This is going too far. Ms. B. needs an advocate, social worker or court-appointed guardian or someone to step in. This foolishness has got to stop. So I guess that white trash bish gonna be on her best behavior with the cameras rolling. This is shameful third world shyt.
That’s one of the issues for me, B doesn’t have children of “her own” that could possibly look out for her best interest.
I watched my dad, my hero, my protector go through this and regress to a child and we would have NEVER agreed to exploit him like this…heartbreaking
I just canna today with this. This is disgusting.
Right. Her kids should be ashamed. Then again if they’re getting a check money talks. You could not pay me to exploit my mother like that.
Which is why HIS daughter is OK with this $hit. No WAY she’d be cool with it if B were her mother.
So it’s her husband’s chirren that are okay with this nonsensse?
She doesn’t have any kids, to my knowledge, I think he has at least two.
This is terrible, he has no respect for the woman he made his vows to… disgusting
Exactly. I posted a comment below on something Dana Gasby said I thought was really disrespectful. Goes to show they prolly didn’t get along when B was in her right mind.
Oh, I see. Either way no child, including step-chirren should be okay with this.
How does a woman, who’s mental capacity is diminishing give consent, to 1). allow another woman to move into her home, 2). to have her life and her illness filmed and aired? I am bothered by this. It’s savage. Somebody call B’s attorney. It’s something shady in the air.
Nah, now this right here is unacceptable. This is a whole other level of portraying foolery……….
Yeah, husband has a daughter.
Word! We all have to do our part and STOP this exploitation of “US” No disrespect to anyone who watches The Real Housewife of *insert location* or L&HH *insert location* or any of the other un-real reality shows (which are scripted and fake AF) but these are shows that made me boycott Bravo and any other station that aired the fckery. Saltine male execs see $$$$ and don’t give AF about our culture or image. I am so heated right now at this new low blow from Bravo, I hope people petition to keep it off the air. Bunch of demons, all of them including the husband and his horse face saltine *vomit*
I’d sign an online petition to have this show shutdown. Who got 5 on it and who knows how to go about doing this?
It can’t get any lower. This man and woman are scum.
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Right on pass this network, hell I don’t even have cable
Yup, sounds about right. He needs money.
Wow. Unbelievable. How disgusting. “White woman comes and saves the day again while helping a defenseless, needing Black woman and providing comfort she never could to her very own husband”. That’s the narrative they’ll display to the white world and they’re going to eat every part of it up.
There would be lots of slow singing and flower bringing…
I won’t be watching.
Very heartbreaking. I have relatives going through it too.
Alright, i need the same folks who kept Shawty Lo(RIP) and his folks off the air to do the same here. We can not let Stephen(Django) and his Neanderthal make money off this sh!t.
I think he would’ve been better off to just have a mistress. Don’t strip that woman of her dignity. She lived with style, grace and was the epitome of black sophistication and then, when she’s at her lowest you move a white woman in to inherit all of her hard work and reduce her to your house guest. Guy, buy your b*tch a house and a car and hire someone to take care of her when you’re out on the town with your concubine… but don’t move that hoe into her house. That’s just disrespectful ASF to me and I’m a man!
F Bravo they are sick af..Dude is by far the most filthiest dogmatic f-boy of today..Ms. B would never stand for what he’s doing..I swear all of them mf’s deserve to be 6 feet under!
See this is about to make me cry because most of us have a family member going through it with this illness or we know someone who is going through. Oh, this angers me so much.
^^All this.
Come on, cuh! My daddy and I have never even had an argument and I’ve only been mad at him twice in my life – one because he believed some broad who said I cussed her out, over me, and one day he made my mama cry. But , I swear – we would’ve fought that day.
so whyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy film her in her most vulnerable state DANA!!!!?? Film yo daddy trying to get his peen up for his too young a$$ wife instead.
He’s foul for allowing this to be filmed.
I’ve been told that typically when one has Dementia or Alzheimer disease, its common for the spouse or family member to get power of attorney to make decisions on that person’s behalf since their mental health is diminishing.
Same here, sorry for your loss. ..
Yeah I agree. Can’t stop him from dating her, But her white azz shouldn’t have wanted to move in B’s home. Just really white trash like.
That devil looks like she came to collect. That husband is pitiful! How could you be comfortable in another woman’s house? Whores these days smmfh
This is beyond disgusting. I consider this a cautionary tale of choosing wisely who you love, while still in your right mind. Besides your kids and parents, who you decide to love is a choice. Poor B. Smith chose to love and trust the wrong man.
WHAT in the ENTIRE HAIL??????
Wow. I’m about to cry.
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Wow sorry to hear that. ..
This needs to be shut down the same way shawty lo’s show was shut down.
This is disgraceful
Get it canceled before it even airs, like that dude who had all those different women who had his children, I think he was a rapper.
THISSSSSSSSSSSSSS!!!!! It can happen.
Believe what I tell you, their participation in that will put a monkey on their back that they will never be able to shake up except by the grace of God.
And you KNOW she wouldn’t have gone for this if his ass worked at the post office! “I wish I would move in with you to take care of another b*tch!”
that decision should not include the use of one’s image for entertainment purposes. There has to be something on the books to protect Ms. B. Why would i want to watch one of the greats at her most vulnerable state? this is disgusting!! There should be a petition.
How do we start a damn petition? Anyone know?
I totally agree! Hopefully there will be a petition. I’d sign it.
Ain’t no way in THEE HELL!! This is not going down !
Bravo greenlighting Gatsby Sweet N’Low a** all for the next level of degrading and tainting another positive legacy..Ms. B and And this trash network shouldn’t be in the same sentence!
Show me where to sign.
In other news… Carlos King says this is a lie.
Thank you for saying that. I appreciate it. And to make matters worse, her FORM of Alzheimer’s was EARLY onset Alzheimer’s. She was diagnosed at 55 and dead at 63. Y’all please love each other. And if you cannot, say a prayer for that person. This dude, man….
Well, Carlos Luther King says this is NOT true.
What you say, somebody would be bringing patato salad, and macaroni and cheese to the house……look, with a lemon pound cake….
I felt like it wasn’t true because only MTO reported it, but then Auntie posted this so it’s hard to say.
If you don’t mind, I’ll finish your sentence. Whores these days don’t care. They don’t give a damn.
RIGHT! I went on MTO and saw it and was like nah this is fake like everything else they post. Guess we’ll have to wait and see
I hope he’s not just saying this because it has been “leaked”.
I think it’s a lie too. More news outlet other than a blog like MTO would have reported on this.
i mean! Right? How could you not see the arms of KARMA clawing out the walls every time she tried to take a nap, a sh!t or bite to eat in that house. May Ms. B’s ancestors dance in your head!!
I figured the rumors were true about a reality show when I saw Carlos sitting next to the mistress in the audience on “The View”.
who yall talking about? andy needs to make a statement if this is not true.
My theory: Her family never cared for him, and Ms. B loved his dirty drawers. They were done with him (them) years before she fell ill. Now, there is nothing that they can do because they were written out of their lives.
I’m wit it. I was asking the same thing. How can we go about doing that? I will definitely sign it and ask my family and friends to sign it as well. I have 2 family members going through it with Alzheimer’s and this is the most deplorable thing I have heard as it relates to someone who is helpless and has Alzheimer’s. You just don’t do this.
I guess he a Bravo producer.
KARMA IS A BAD B%^ HER GAY HUSBAND N STIFF FACE WILL PAY . ISNT IT SAD ENUFF THIS LADY BUILT HER OWN EMPEROR SUCCUMBS TO SICKNESS . N THIS SPINELESS YT WHORE MOVES IN THIS QUEENS HOME SPENDING HER HARD EARNED MONEY WITHOUT A CONSCIENCE . MAKE MATTERS WORSE LETS MAKE MONEY OFF HER STORY -PUT IT OUT FOR THE WORLD TO SEE.
While he talking about…”Oh B said she wanted me to live my life and be happy”…but I’m sure she never said do it right under her nose. Whether she knows what’s going on or not. I would not want the man that I loved to be loved up under Becky in the house we shared as a couple while I sleep alone in my bed down the hall scared and lonely because I don’t understand what’s happening to me anymore. He’s a clown, that other bish is a clown, and his daughter is a clown, just one big azz circus!!!
Bravo and Andy love exploiting black people. Hell the black people they exploit don’t mind so?????
I wish tf I would support some mess like this. B’s philandering POS spouse won’t see ISH from me. Not a rating nann. ?????
Putting all this woman’s business out there just to justify his side bytch living in the same house with them.
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Can i tell yall that this whole situation has saddened me, even beyond anger. i have purposely NOT read about Dan and his shenanigans because it feels (to me) like such a large scale betrayal. i idolize very few, but i genuinely “admired” this couple and Dan’s loving support of B. Smith and all her endeavors & successes. to now learn that he is a snake, a rake, and a self-centered, mercenary, gold digging, bishnigga is too much! God bless B. because she clearly loved & trusted this dude, but it seems even her beautiful, smart, savvy, cultured, enlightened self got it wrong when she got with him. (fugg you Dan!) https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/f9871d87b84a5f89c924c4ad190a6c73ef9f008a41e04e72db1eff535c7d2024.gif
“You” dog gone right…mannn
So all the B wanted me to be happy bs tour they did was all for a reality show?
They should start a position to boycott this foolishness
Malcolm X said it best: “The most disrespected woman in America, is the Black Woman. The most un-protected person in America is the Black Woman. The most neglected person in America, is the Black Woman”
I am with you sis. Last week I was so “in my feelings” over this mess. I cried like B was my own family and wished I was family to try something to help her. Unfortunately than demon is her husband and I am sure even if she has relatives he has cut them out of her life. I am going to gym and work off my sads (again!!) Cho!!
This is ridiculous and sad. Black people should boycott this. I’d love to see black folk organize a campaign to boycott the entire Bravo network.
B. been in her life since she was a little girl, referred to her as her daughter even, and this bish gonna put this dignified woman’s business out here like this????!!!!!. If this is the actual state she’s in, why wouldn’t they use HER money to put her in a facility specifically for people in the advanced stages of the disease??
fugg you, you ungrateful bish!
IKYFL… #smh
I promise you! Her husband is gonna get his first. He’s the initiator.
Y’all let this man live what is he to do be a hermit ?
And who disrespects them the most ? The black man…smh
That was than not now
*sad wave*
okay, see you later Yardy…. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/e991917bfa86939868786a74b4d6c5702f0db38288778b07ac87d4a3303e0787.gif
Y’all is tripping he was the behind the scenes force in all her endeavors…and her daughter live with them and she is fine with it
So that is what all of this was about, him shopping for a reality TV show. Come on Ms. B, just have one lucid day and pluck em both up and them tell em to put that on TV.
YOU MADE THAT DUMB ISH UP WHITE PERSON AND MAY I ASK WHY ARE U HERE STALKING ? BEAT IT PUTA
let’s not get it twisted, B. was the TALENT. WTF else has Dan done since she became unable to work??????
B. had money from her very successful modeling career. that was HER money, not Dan’s. her endeavors were hers; he was the glorified ‘help’ …”force” my azz!
He is desperately in need of a cash infusion. You’d be surprised how quickly millions of dollars evaporates when money is spent like water.
Sad and pitiful. All for money.
you better say it!
You have got to be kidding me. This is disgusting as hell!
Come on man, you know this ain’t right.
If they do this I will boycott the hell out of Bravo. I be damned if I show the world the hell my mom goes through daily. At times it sad, others it’s scary, and honestly embarrassing.
Ms. Smith deserves so much better.
yeah, he better be watching his back and his koolaid ’cause if he already got his ‘girlfriend’ on paper as HIS beneficiary, B could be standing around (albeit cluelessly) at HIS gravesite.
it might not go like you think, Dan! https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/68bc52b2a4f54f3dc0d4dea29ec0c12c203c19b65d4d18beb2fbbd13d0be6a55.gif
lordt! i said the same thing!!!!
Step daughter. That’s HIS child, and she has just as much to gain as he does.
YOU ARE DEF EXPOSING THE TRUTH THANKS FOR THE RECOGNITION. SHE IS CALLED MANLY LOOKING, LOUD AND UGLY. BUT NEVER LOVING , LOYAL, PROTECTIVE, SUPPORTIVE OF HER CHILDREN ALONE, INTELLIGENT, BEAUTIFUL N BAD 2THE BONE. SOCIETY + HER MEN HAVE DEEMED HER AS THE ENEMY- SO THEY PROWL AND BEAT HER DAILY. BUT SHE IS # SHATTERPROOF
No no no, hell to the NO! He must be hard up for money.
I think I may be over Andy for a while. This show is rooted in evil. He just had a baby, he should be worried about negative energy he’s bringing into his life with this mess.
Let this woman have a least one shred of dignity! Why does he have to put her on TV in order to live?
Step daughter the same thing
So sad, but true. The more things change…..you know the rest.
He is gross for this and this other woman really is a weasel, oh she’s good, damn good, and she’s about to get PAID off his wife’s suffering. B. Smith has no defense, her husband is long gone.
Women do this all the time divorce a man get half his money and it was she was the guiding force I bet you belive it when it’s the women getting over on the man
She probably didn’t think he’d ever do her this way before she gave him power of attorney.
The hell it is!
Yep, my mom went through it too before she passed. This is just terrible.
I’m starting to wonder did this man “lowkey” hate his wife???? Whatever time she has left on this planet, why would you do her and her legacy the way he is doing? Why you allow someone to get inside your brain and make you believe all of this is okay? Yeah, you have a Becky but a tv show, that is just low down dirty. Everything this him and this woman do from this point on will never succeed. When the fame/attention/money runs low…Becky face will be out the door and on to the next….ugly a55 somewhere crying, wanting to end it all. Bravo, yeah, you will get your ratings you seeking but this right here is a low blow to B.Smith, her family, friends, fans and her brand.
A mess!
yep..this happens far too often. women shut out their families for love/marriage and families walk away. This is how abusers prefer their victims, alone. Isolation is a dangerous thing, no matter when, where or why.
So what is her other option? Just wondering what do you do with a person suffering with Dementia? My family suffers with the same illness..
This is fvcked up on so many levels….I will never watch this shyt show.
Bye Fool!
No TF it aint!
Women DO NOT MOVE THEIR NEW FVCK partner in while their still married….you know whay? I’m done.
No dignity no morals at all who would do that to a sick person.
I was so sad when she went missing and her illness was exposed…and now this..
i believe what’s true. men fugg over women, and women fugg over men (just like Dan’s new woman gonna doe him, LMAO!!!!!!!!!)
Does she have children ? If so, where are they? Because if that was MY mother, they would have her ALLLLLLLL the way fucked up. Uncle Ben and his beastiality babe BOTH would get these hands and there would NO tv show displaying my mother’s condition all over TV for money !
So this is why he went public….I do not watch Bravo anymore…so I will definitely miss this b…s…I would respect him more if he was to get divorce and move on.
No kids and B’s friends say that the stepdaughter was always rude and disrespectful growing up in B’s house, she was sent away to boarding school. So now Dan has his daughter drawing a check as B’s so called caretaker. ??
Her no good husband probably has Power of Attorney.. The step daughter isn’t any better!! Mrs Smith would be better cared for in a Alzheimer facility but the family want keep the money..
It seems like this was his plan all along.. Karma
Y’all bet not watch!!!
The Blackman
This really p*sses me off to the highest degree. To publicly humiliate B. like that. Dementia diagnosis does NOT mean we stop treating our loved ones with dignity.
Somebody should start a petition to boycott this like they did Sidechicks of Charlotte (which can only be seen online). If Bravo airs this, I am done with ALL of their shows, and I mean it…..so this is why that weasel went public in the first place…should have known….SMH…That’s alright Karma has EVERYONE’s address…NO MATTER HOW MANY TIMES YOU MOVE!
the same Carlos King that made up the Porsha / Kandi dungeon story?
THIS ^^^ THIS ^^ THIS ^^ CAN I HIT LIKE x 1000000000000
I just typed the same thing. Like for real. This shat BET GNAT see the light of day. I may would have to come out of social media exile JUST this once for this so I can spread the word. This is CRIMINAL!!!!!
She looks happy..I know she’s clueless but who gives a f*ck.. shes smiling and that’s all that matters. I don’t agree with the show tho..
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You mean to tell me this nicca is getting ready to pour salt into the wound? This is not going to turn out well.
Of course, considering that MTONews is the primary source putting this story out there, this might not be true at all. MTO is notorious for putting out stories that turn out to be false.
Don’t quote me, but…sometimes people just turn up d3ad…
All those cameras and people may scare her too.
All of this seems to be coming too easily to him. Wonder what else he’s done behind her back we don’t know about?
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I just want to know whos going to watch ? I know Im not ?
everyone needs to boycott the hell out of this buffoonery
SAMETHING she grew up around b Smith since she was young
Legally how can B. Smith give her consent to be on this show?!? B. Is not in her right mind due to her illness. I don’t have any social media accounts but someone needs to @Bravo regarding this travesty. My grandmother had Alzheimer’s. I can’t imagine exploiting someone in that condition. My God!!!
I agree. I’ll boycott the phuck outta them for this. No way this woman should be on tv in her condition. Not to mention Dan and Alex’ll use this opportunity to steer the narrative thier way. I’m literally disgusted by Bravo right now.
I cried too when this story broke a month or so ago. Hot tears. This is so wrong and Bravo is complicit.
So he ran through whatever money, he had access to?!?!
Calling her a mistress is too civilized. In my opinion, she’s a shameless, wh@r3!
This is WRONG in SOOOO many ways!! I’m so disturbed that Bravo would give this the green light!! Makes me sick to my stomach!!!
Ion think she has any churn…l think he does….I read where his dawta gave him her blessings
While I do admit his relationship with his white woman is an orthodox I nor anyone who has never been in a relationship with someone suffering from dementia cannot say what we would or would not do to continue on with our lives as our partners mind deteriorates. The truth is it’s very stressful on caretakers and B Smith is not going to recover from this it will eventually kill her it’s a long road so I can see why he would feel like he needed to find a companion to help him go through this.
It’s very easy to run through a couple million when he’s living way above his means. The fact that he’s getting paid for his story, and now a reality show, means the funds have run dry.
The fact that Bravo would be so insensitive to BSmith’s illness to even consider a show. The executives should be ashamed of themselves,SMDH!!Her husband will most definitely get his karma
You’re right…connect the dots. Smh
Dan, Alexandro & Bravo are all trash. Karma please come quickly.
I don’t believe the majority of people don’t care that he’s in a relationship. Folks are upset, angry, etc. because she stays there from time to time! Be happy, but at a distance! Why does she have to stay there?
Won’t be watching ??
I am convinced Andy will sell his own mama if the price is right. I am serious….Andy better pull up his skirt, and stop this.
I am convinced Andy will sell his own mama if the price is right. I am serious….Andy better pull up his skirt, and stop this.
Don’t forget Carlo.
Don’t forget Carlo.
Guttersnipe blond biatch! This divorced mother of 3 definitely has a type and they are both foul AF for being in that home together “taking care” of B.Smith!
If Gasby were sick, I doubt his daughter would be happy about B having some man in their home to help take care of him!
I hate this!
This show will never make it on air. I think people will protest the show. It clearly shows a mentally disabled icon being mentally and perhaps physically abused. I think the Alzheimer community will go off and shut this crap down.
It’s stressful!!
Yet when you agree to take someone in “sickness & in health”, THIS is exactly what the vows mean.
Where’s the link to the petition to stop this?? They do NOT deserve to make an even bigger come up off of her name ?
He’s probably has POA
I hope that’s the case
I’m sorry I don’t know her, but I’m VERY SURE SHE did not want this BS…hes a Damn coon azz negro
So we SHOULD BOYCOTT bravo.
In their pockets is where it will hurt
sl$tty little byotch
He is her POA
Amen
Empire
Laaaawd this jess grieves my heart…Ms.B deserves so much more. Secondly B’s trifflin,misguided huzbind tawkin bout we are only upset cuz hiz mistress is white. Nah nugga we upset cuz yo as is still married,your wife is fighting a debilitating dieseas and yew got your mistress livin in yall martial home.
Yep… The controlling abusers isolate their victims quickly and whoo the victim with charm. Then once they have them wrapped up in them the ugly side comes out in full force
I’d sign it in a heartbeat!
Exactly!
Lies!
? I ? WILL ? NOT ? F-IN ? watch ? this!
This is disgusting and sad at the same dang time!
I’m not feeling the idea of him being in a relationship and trying to convince me it’s ok because he’s stressed and lonely taking care of his ill wife. I’m not feeling that she stays in the home. I’m not feeling that she takes care of B. I’m not feeling the daughter being ok with this. I’m not feeling he spends B’s money on his mistress. I’m just not feeling this…lol.
That part!!
How sick can get this get…(ddd) dirty dusty dan is beyond contempt he is making a mockery of his wife and any legacy she may have had . Bm getting every penny he can get from this bw. Who pitched the idea to bravo ddd or his whore? Have people no shame?
If they air this I will
Typical fukk boy response
I can understand your point but what happened to discretion? I can bet it was the hoe that suggested they go public. What woman of any class Grace or discretion would openly flaunt this mess?
That’s right a shameless whore!
I’m with you. ?
Won’t be watching this. He did this for attention. He can’t stop riding her coattails. He’ll always be Mr. Smith.
Isn’t this some foul BS! I will not entertain this mess.
Not watching this, they are not convincing me this is ok. This show is exploitation , I think that at this point Ms. B deserved to be in a place of an peace and serenity . As much as possible , he is making this about him, poor , poor caregiver. He could have taken care of her , gotten support from the community and other caregiver groups or even hired the best help to come in that money could buy . Yet he doesn’t want to spend any extra money. Divorcing her would have been more noble and kind them this.
B looks better with Alzheimers than the tacky Michael Bolton-looking mistress.
Smh they’re exploiting the hell out of her condition
I’m good love. Enjoy.
What is the name of this show gonna be? Me, You, and Who??
Is the theme song gonna be “What’s My Name?”
You and I + Who am I?
throw the whole Bravo Network away…. It’s now tainted.
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Carlos king just when I thought yo arse couldn’t get any lower you go and get lower than a pregnant ant belly! Guess since that’s joselyn thing didn’t work he decided to get messy and low down with this! But guess what we ain’t watching it like we wasn’t gone watch Jose
On the bright side maybe he will keep B alive and well instead of putting her on buses to get lost, and in the shower to fall. He needs all eyes on his dusty azz. He’s garbage in my book and nothing can change my opinion how he is disrespecting her legacy and the life she has left. I don’t believe B would ever mistreat him in this foul way.
Hell won’t be hot enough for B’s husband.
Disgusting.
I truly hope you are right. This Uncle Tom is destroying B’s legacy. Ugh I cannot deal with this disrespect to B.
I have seen countless men and women stand tall, strong and ridiculously loyal to their ailing spouses. Just thinking about one in particular brings tears to my eyes. The patient was riddled with alzheimers and cancer but that MAN (her hubby) treated her like a bonafied QUEEN. He fed her, changed her, bathed her, cleaned house, administered medications, carried her from bed to recliner. Both were elderly and he had NO help outside of hospice. She was always Baby, Sweetheart and Darlin. The world will never know his name but he is truly what REAL MEN ARE MADE OF.
This Degenerate has the means to get help, leaving him nothing else to do but DOTE on her…and her ONLY.
He’s a POS & there’s no excuse for the mockery and shame he’s bringing to this woman.
Sorry so long but this is beyond disgusting.
Exactly. He can have a life but dont post pics on IG calling Lerner the love of his life and move her into his bedroom and B into her own room.
I agree with all of the above. PS the daughter is his from a prior relationship. B had no kids.
Exactly
His other option is to hire a medical professional to live in the house and then he can run the streets with his ho
At the end of every episode B had to thank Dan.
He could have sold their mansion, buy something smaller and hire a medical professional for B. He didnt need to wine and dine his side chick.
I had 2 give my married coworker the side eye when she said b told him 2 move on bcas she wanted him 2 b happy. I told her your husband dont need your permission 2 get some trim just like a teenager dont need a parent permission 2 have sex. A man could b married 2 a woman for 50 years n if she dies his azz would b married 2 another woman in 6 weeks. Go on n fool youraelf if u want 2 if u rhink he aint gonna move on without your blessings. Some of their azzes got a secret calendar just waiting on something 2 happen 2 your behind.
I had a coworker who was married to a civil rights attorney. He had Alzheimer’s and by the end couldnt even write his nam or bathe himself. My coworker took care of him with no outside help until his death. I told her she let her husband die with real dignity and that was priceless and a rare commodity. So it can be done. Dan has alot more resources than my coworker did.
Can l eat my night ice cream in peace without spitting it out.???
She look a tired azz mess.
Happy I dont watch ‘TV PROGRAMMING’ just YT for TRUTH!! #WakeUp
God bless em all man.
Sickening….
Gave up tv almost 5 years ago the stuff they put on it is sick
This here is as bad as trying to make our society “genderless” when God created us as male and female!
Men identifying as a woman, using the women’s restrooms, NO!
Chicks with Dacks or a man in dress being normalized as biological women!
This isn’t a Modern Family, this is lust, greed, hatred, jealousy, blatant disrespect to ALL WOMEN WHO ARE ILL OR WILL BE!
KARMA will certainly handle these two!
Don’t watch this sh#t show, even out of curiosity!
Let Bravo know, drop them a line on their website!
Same.
Im so desperately trying my darndest not to laugh here
WHAT de WHAT. I actually watched Dirty Dans appearance on The View, (it’s on UTube…) alex learner was there IN the audience and a familiar blaque man was seated next 2 her.. i couldn’t initially remember where i remembered HIM from but I never forget a FACE.. it was CARLOS KING.
I’m sick to my stumach
Medical cost are expensive.
But I dont want to watch “Black Sheroes” decline in a reality TV show with her husbands mistress as caregiver.
Then people say why do you all act the way you do…mad bossy y’all too strong! Wtf you want from us?
That was THEN…then and than often get misused.
You’re welcome in advance
Well I don’t look at bravo, so I can see if they can remove it from my lineup.
The fact that it’s considered and talked about is enough for me.
This man is Satan… and his mistress should be concerned about what kind of man she is dealing with.. If he doing his wife like this, what do she think he would do to her?
B. Smith fans will be BOYCOTTING!!!!!!!
To those of you following this story, we must VOW to stay on top of this story and hold true to that vow, unlike DUSTY DAN.
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That truly was a sad time ?
Hearts breaking everywhere ?
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Yasss!
I believe they only child in this mess is his daughter from another relationship. So that definitely explains some things!
The pound cake I would bring home and eat with Blue Bell ice cream
This is just another example of why B. Smith is in an unhealthy environment. A person with Alzheimer should not wake up daily to strangers and cameras in her home. Was this approved by her physician? And Bravo is trash for trying to make a profit off her misfortune!!
Nope will not be watching… Wishing nothing by tv flops and uncessful ratings!
Umm….so Carlo King went on his twitter or whatever yesterday saying that he is not a part of this and this is not true…sooooo..
ethier way….I WILL NOT WATCH OR SUPPORT SUCH FUKKKERY!!!
Chill
Messy Messy, keep this shit private.
Yessssss, one of my weakness …….
Nobody wants to see this. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/14bb623afbb5a8b6213048456f24871122fb570bd69521713ce6433bcfc1c607.gif
Pathetic!
I am CONVINCED that Bravo is run by a bunch of Narcissistic Sociopaths ???
That is the way it SHOULD be! Your post made me tear up some because if you let some people tell it, men like that dont exist!
Thank you for your post??
Good stuff??
Hope his BALLS feel that HEAT first???
WOW…there is Good and BAD to this…now people can SEE what’s going on, BUT I’m SURE we will only SEE what “they” want us to SEE…well, that’s IF I even tune in to the FOOLishness!
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This $ hit beyond ridiculous!
Sorry for your loss??
I hope this show fails!
That poor lady won’t even know she’s been exploited until after she has passed…I hope she haunts tf out of everybody associated w this bs.
I won’t be watching nor supporting this mess.
When I first read the story about B. Smith and her husband, I wasn’t upset, because you just never know, as husband and wife, what people talk about and agree too.
Now, fast forward, putting this on TV for the world,her fans, former colleagues and business partners, family and friends to see this, and she is really unaware…. that is not a good look. he should have kept this private. I hope Bravo only agreed to a few episodes and it will be over quickly… or hopefully Bravo pulls it completely. This is unfair to B. Smith.
Both will put on a good show because of TV but behind close doors the nightmare for this woman begins…I will never support those two or the show….Bravo May want to think long and hard with this one….?
oh oh..and Another thing!, I don’t like the way he has his hand on B’s neck like that!!!
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That was the first thing that irked me! I wanted to pry his damn hand loose!!
“Shatterproof” I like that?
I am so tired of this douche bag and “Becky”. I don’t know who raised him but he has no morals and clearly doesn’t have any respect for his wife. B would have a fit if she was cognizant of what is happening around her (don’t believe him when he said “B would approve”). My opinion, they have spent most of her money and think getting a tv reality show is the easiest way to make bucks – especially since a majority watch crappy reality shows. Hopefully Carlos will not stoop low and produce their garbage. Douche Bag & Becky – have a seat.
This is awful!! Poor B
Carlos was sitting beside the mistress when they were on The View. Maybe that’s why his name came up, or he’s lying.
SMDH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
So just embarrass her more why don’t we … Does SHE know she will be in this show ???!!!…. The way she is being exploited is sickening ……
You would have to be a low down, dirty b/tch to move into a dying and confused woman’s house, and lay up with her husband.
But as you can see he is taking care of her. People with a lot less money than them just ship their loved ones to a nursing home when they start losing it.
Meh. It’s their life to live how they want. If they want to showcase their non traditional arrangement to educate people about it then so be it
You ever thought maybe because in addition to being his lover she also helps caretaking duties. Why would he turn down extra hands to help him out in taking care of his wife who it’s pretty much an infantile state at this point.
He could get someone else to assist with “caretaking” duties – not his Lover! They could get an apartment nearby so she doesn’t stay in the house. It’s the disrespect! If he was sick, I don’t think people would be so forgiving if she was taking care of him with her Lover!
Even had she suggested it out of love she felt for him, he should have rejected even the slightest hint of anything like this. Like many people who know they are terminally ill, they will tell their mate that they want them to move on and live their life AFTER their death but certainly not to move their cum dump of a girlfriend into their home while they are still living. Key phrase being AFTER MY DEATH.
THK U QUEEN – HAPPY LOVE DAY !!!
HAPPY LOVE DAY QUEEN !!!!!
Well that sounds like a personal choice if it were you. But it’s not. If he wants to stay in his home and B Smith does too then that is their prerogative. Just because it’s not the way you would do it doesn’t mean it’s wrong.
oh wow. So this is true huh? I was hoping it wasn’t
LOL…It’s not personal! It’s the decent thing to do! Have a wonderful day!
Hey girl thanks…I know you did judging by “ALLSEDUCTRESS” you put that shyt in all CAPS, so I already know what time it is??
I don’t like the look of this at all. But truth be told B Smith’s spirit has already left and with nothing but vacancy there and the vultures are moving in to finish off what’s left of it.
The good news is Bravo’s camera crew will be in the house every day monitoring B. Smith.
* Yes but the crew aren’t obligated to step in and intervene with anything that may go wrong. I learned that from years of watching Teen Mom when an ex producer was fired from the show and spilled the beans about his time working on the show and what he had witnessed. Remember, the crew is there to capture drama, B’s illness and mental incapacity will serve as contrast against the “strong black woman programming that has been the mantra for black women for years. Add in the fact that her husband’s mistress is white and not hidden in the shadows but instead leaving right alongside her in her own home and you’ve got ratings gold. I can’t stand Hollyweird!*
That man and his girlfriend are both the most disgusting and despicable people I ever want to throw up on! Look at that fool and his trash smiling and singing in their mind: “I’m getting all your money!”
Thank you!! ?
We will BOYCOTT Bravo if this is true. #BSMITHDESERVESBETTER!
Carlos is now trying to back peddle and say this is false… but why did he have his ass sitting there next to Alex during The View interview, shaking his head in agreement to everything Alex was saying. I believe they were vetting for a reality show, but with the recent backlash, Carlos wants to bow out quietly. I’m sure his messy ass considered it.
Carlos is back peddling and lying to save his ass.
Exactly… if we all live long enough, we will all be caregivers to the old, young and disabled. His journey is not unique. If you had a sick child, you wouldn’t replace that child with a healthy one in order to be happy… Dan’s logic.
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But without B.Smiths’ consent… that is illegal. It is illegal to get the consent of someone who is incoherent.
He is not taking good care of her. She is placed in a lower level living area with dogs keeping her company and she eats alone on most days. Paul Wharton also reports that he witnessed Dan’s mistress slapping B’s hands. The mistress also slapped Dan for simply saying his wife is the sweetest woman he’s ever met. We have reason to be concerned about B. Smith. B. Smith is a multi-millionaire and she would have 24/7 care in the comfort of her home without a opportunistic mistress in her home.
The majority of us are very upset… it is people who sympathise with caregivers who do not understand the point. I feel Dan is not an example of healthy caregiving and if they want a good example, they should observe Rushern Baker and how he cares for his wife. Rushern would never have his wife in public looking like the Dave Chapelle crackhead character. Dan is very evil and wrong.
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POA becomes invalid when a person becomes incoherent or dies. Also it was questionable if he had DURABLE power of attorney during a court case last year. He could not prove that he had durable power of attorney. Even if he is, he does not have legal right to exploit her financially.
He’s already financially exploiting her tho…by using their marital income to support his gf and his daughter.
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Thanks sis!!!??????
Not really. That’s her husband. He is her next of kin by law. So unless there is a real problem then it’s nobody else’s business how he takes care of his wife.
Most Black ppl are totally against this moral decay. Bravo moving ahead with this is a clear sign of disrespect for most Black people. If they can this easily trash you family, I suggest we take to the airways and trash them back! Two can play at this game!!! Don’t watch the show and it’ll be an advertising flop. Money is their god, they’ll LOSE $.
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Is it nobody one else’s business when a child is abused by a mother? You’re dumb.
Naw you the dumb heaux cause you don’t “read good”, honey. And reaching to make a point only proves how stupid you are. This is not a case of child abuse nor is it a case of abuse period. It’s a case of nosy folk like you drawing your own conclusions based on very little evidence. If you were so concerned, Nancy Drew, then you’d file a legitimate complaint with DSS. Now go along and do something useful with yourself.