I must confess that I had no idea who video vixen Esther Baxter was until yesterday when celebrity blog Bossip.com posted graphic photos of her spontaneously aborted embryo resting in a toilet.
For those of you who are unfamiliar with Baxter, the 26-year-old first gained fame by dancing in Petey Pablo’s “Freek-A-Leek” music video in 2004.
It seems that the gossip blog got ahold of the disturbing pictures of the embryo after Baxter, who was involved In a toxic on/off relationship with NY rapper Joseph Budden, lost her embryo during a violent confrontation with the 30-year-old rapper back in February.
The dictionary defines an “embryo” as:
“…an unborn or unhatched offspring in the process of development.”
The embryo wasn’t even in the fetus stage yet because it was less than 8 weeks from conception. But that didn’t prevent a sizable uproar on the social networking website Twitter.com last night, with protesters calling for a boycott of the blog that printed the pictures.
According to Bossip, it was Esther herself who provided the graphic photos of the bloody embryo prior to being flushed down a toilet in a post titled “Esther Baxter: “Joe Budden Killed Our Baby”.
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According to Esther — and detailed in court documents: Budden, the rapper, caused Baxter’s spontaneous abortion when he grabbed Baxter “by her ankles and dragged her causing injury to her back.” Additionally, the little known rapper caused injury to Baxter by “attempting to choke the victim against the wall, and sitting on her stomach…” This was all done in clear violation of a restraining order.
Budden was initially arrested for assaulting Baxter, but he couldn’t be prosecuted because she dropped the charges.
According to my followers on Twitter.com, these two unfortunate people are still together after taking their stormy relationship public in numerous online videos, on social networking sites and in rap songs.
Of course, we shouldn’t be surprised that a black woman remains in a dysfunctional, violent relationship with an emotionally unavailable black man who displays clear absentee father/domineering mother issues. This seems to be a learned behavior among black women in our community.
I wish Esther Baxter well.
Yes…I saw the Graphic pictures yesterday and was SHOCKED! Even if Esther did allow use of the pictures someone should have used some discretion. The pictures should not have been shown publicly on a so called “celebrity website”!
On a different note…my prayers are with the young lady because I am sure she is in pain..physically, mentally, and emotionally. The whole situation is just BAD…I have a feeling this story is about to spin out…
he is a fukn dummy and she is a fukn slow as fuka too why r u still talkn about it then why do and interview for money or ur next five minutes if u were soo fukn hurt u would try to stay out the fukn drama but now u doing interviews u as stoopid as he is
Wow! No words. Hope they can get their lives together. Love can be annoying but it’s not supposed to hurt.
my first question was WHERE DID THEY GET IT? if that stupid b**** gave this blog those pics because of some animosity w/JB, i have no feelings.
as a woman and a relatively new mother, i’m personally outraged at this b*****, not the blog. i’m a bossip reader and i have to shake my head at them but no words for how LOW we go as women and mothers. that was STILL her child whether it was a cell, a glob of blood, or full born because she knew what it was.
Jesus take the wheel
No woman deserves for hands to be laid on by anybody but this begs the question, I’m sure this isn’t the first time he has put hands on her, not only did he cause bruises and make her lose her baby so why would she stay/get back together with him??
Jesus be a slap and knock some common sense into this heffa.
Oh yeah is Joe Buttons even relevant anymore, at least get with somebody with some cred if you are gonna sell the puzz to the highest bidder.
JB has abused other chicks so i don’t understand why she was with him in the first place and if the embyro is really that young, i’m not sure she lost it because he dragged her. unless he beat her in her reproductive area where it was settling in, it was probably just a spontaneous one; it does not have to be caused by trauma because it’s so tiny at that point.
both of these negroes is TRASH and i’m through.
If she cared so much about her “daughter” why put the pics out to begin with? Isn’t that disrespecting the memory and the relationship between her and her child?? For what?? Some publicity?? To get her “story” out?? Please heffa try again, this time come betta.
What was the purpose of her sending this pic to bossip.com again? Some people really need to grow up. This Child and i use that term due to the fact that’s how she’s acting needs help asap. Jesus please take the wheel!:cuss:
Hey BBW
how triflin do you have to be,smh at this post
Hoesitdown she got exactly what she wanted, people talking about her
Lucious whats up baby? I missed you last week!
*grabs Al’s face and puts 1 finger tp his lips*
No, YOU were the one that was missed!
@ Lucious Oh yea?
Morning Luscious! I just watched the video and I still don’t see why she put that out. Even if he did speak about it in his songs, nobody knew that but them…and if it was an embryo, why did they call it their daughter. If u knew the sex, it would have been more developed, u don’t know what you’re having at 8 weeks. That was different embryo/fetus/child. It’s just sad.
Damn. I always liked Esther too. But shorty done had like 4/5 miscarriages so I’m thinkin her you dig might be defective. Don’t condone the dv but if you were pretty like her and got passed around like her you have to think her general demeanor is shyt……….
I agree with Ester this chit should have stayed private… Joe Budden is a straight b*itch
GAGIRL87 says:
I agree with Ester this chit should have stayed private… Joe Budden is a straight b*itch
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Esther did way more than Joe. He referenced the situation in a song. She submitted pictures. I rarely listen to Joe budden like a lot of people, but I do read blogs like most people. If you don’t buy the cd, u don’t hear the song, but video are passed like change. She was a dumb azz bytch that put herself out there like she wanted.
JB should know you can’t turn a ho into a housewife OR beat them into submission leave that pimp shyt to pimpin ken
@ !*LaKErCHiC@*! and BigCityGirl: I think the problem is her age; she’s still in her twenties. Those young chicks are just dumb. That’s why I don’t date anyone in her twenties.
BBW
yesterday you said you had somethin for me but I guess you didnt see where I asked you to email it to me
The sad part about it is that when she gets older and more mature she’s gonna regret this decision, whether it be having the abortion or sellin the pics if not both
It was immoral for them to post it YES but was she stupid for giving them the photos YES! The nerve of Joe to try and thrown shade at Chris on twitter yesterday. I’m sorry but Joe is a repeat offender and as far as I know CB is not! Funny that he apologized and Chris never replied back
#pumppumpitup
Sandra, please quanify that statement because some twenty-somethings are dumb cause this here twenty-something has never had an abortion, been preggo, laid up wid a man for money/gifts, has a degree and is working towards something.
Esther is an exceptional case because as video chicks go there is only one way they are expected to get anywhere and most if not all of them are of that age group. Outside of that people of my age group have goals or are working towards something or at least the ones I associate with anyways.
Who the hell would wanna see that ish ????
I’m torn because I want to sympathize with her because no one deserves to be hit. But what kind of woman would disrespect the memory of their unborn child by putting them on display like that.
why the hell would someone take a picture of that?!
I wonder what in the hell type of dr’s office she went to
@Kingston Exactly……..
Just freaking disgusting…
@ Luscious I was gonna send it at home, but something’s wrong with my internet. Dam U-verse
They’re supposed to come out today, on top of that I can’t find my labtop charger…but as soon as I get access I’ll show u 
Good Morning.
PPL take things a lot too far when they are trying to destroy someone! True, Joe Budden should not have opened his IRRELEVANT MOUF but she should have had a little more class with this ‘ish! TOO MUCH FOR ME TODAY ALREADY!
just the thought of flushing the fetus omg… joe is a monster. did you see the tweets last night?..he needs help
TheRealAshland says:
just the thought of flushing the fetus omg… joe is a monster. did you see the tweets last night?..he needs help
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What was he saying????
Who cares about the uterine contents of this woman? Jesus. Some folks. I tell ya.
cant the person who took the pic get into trouble and why were they flushing it down a toilet??????
I dont care what he did dhe is triflin for doin this
I’m glad I didn’t see the pics. I do feel sorry for the chick…no one deserves to be abused like that. However…if you wanted it to be private you shouldn’t have said anything…You should’ve just let Joe Budden act an ass by himself.
Really sad situation..
And Sandra…I don’t think they’re together anymore…that’s why he made that dumb azz song.
I think that because of last week’s events, she went a little to far in trying to “win” in the court of public opinion…for those that don’t kno, last week JB put out a song that he made about their relationship and said that she cheated on him etc. He also posted nude pics of her on twitter…people were going at her saying shes a video hoe and shes dirty for doing him like that blah blah blah. I guess her coming out with this was her way of saying “look what he did to me” “look who’s side you’re taking” and it backfired unfortunately. He is dead wrong for what he did. I’m glad she had sense enough to leave after that. I guess Obama was right, posting grisly pics to prove a point is pointless. It makes YOU the monster in some peoples eyes
@Binki I agree with you partially. I think she should have taken the high road and not even showed the gruesome pics. I didn’t see them, but I did view her interview this morning.
The abuse photos I get, she wanted to at least explain her side of the story, but releasing the other pics IS just toooooo much. He has always been open about everything going on in his world regarding addiction and women in his lyrics so the song is nothing outside of what he normally does as a rapper. It was actually Part 3 of a Series where in Parts 1 and 2 he discussed issues they were having. Its sad overall, because they both have to sleep at night with knowing the truth about what an argument over Twitter and other woman did to their future ? I am praying for both of them, and hoping this doesn’t get any more uglier then it already has been.
SMDH.
Sandra Rose says:
@ !*LaKErCHiC@*! and BigCityGirl: I think the problem is her age; she’s still in her twenties. Those young chicks are just dumb. That’s why I don’t date anyone in her twenties.
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wait a min… her bein in her 20’s has nuthin to do wit her stupidity..this
will be stupid well into her 40’s. Im only 26 n i know this was stupid. He has a history of beating chicks and has done so to her before. shes had multiple miscarriages by him and still continued to sleep with him hoping to get a check (from what..i dunno) But hey i guess thas what youll accept when your only aspirations in life are to be some rappers eye candy in his video
another question….is it normal to take pics of the embryo in the toilet? Im seriously asking bcuz u usually take pics of things your planning on showing somebody right?
@iyonah I understand. Artists definitely need to express themselves and him discussing his relationship in his music us probably cathartic. It’s just a sad situation all around. The abuse pics were def enough to prove her point.
Peace!
This is from her twitter page:
Esther_Baxter Esther Baxter
For those of u IDIOTS that r saying”I” took pics of my unborn child & put them out I DIDN’T!!Fuck ALL of u AND u assholes who put them up!!
I’m glad that she didn’t because that would have been nasty as hell! IMHO
“Esther_Baxter Esther Baxter
I’ve been thru ENOUGH!! Leave me the fuck alone!! I did the interview you didn’t have to go that far to disrespect my lost CHILD!!!!!!!!!!!!”
I would guess that this was directed towards Bossip.
FYI: here is Joe’s side of things from his 105.1 interview.
http://www.power1051fm.com/pages/onair/breakfast-club/?uri=channels/449330/1330605
Remember where you got it from.