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A recent study shows Black women are at higher risk of dying from pregnancy-related causes than white or Asian women.

Black women are more at risk for gestational diabetes, hemorrhage and hypertensive disorders, and they are three times as likely to die during pregnancy than their white counterparts.

Black women are sharing their stories of perfectly healthy pregnancies experiencing traumatic births and, in the worst cases, ending tragically with death of the parent or the baby.

Actress and advocate Tatyana Ali, shared her own deeply traumatic and life-threatening birth at the BlogHer Health 2021 event in January.

She closed out BlogHer Health 2021 in conversation with Sugaberry Founder Thai Randolph about the birth inequality crisis.

"I lived a very privileged life," Ali said, citing her background as a Harvard-educated former child actor. "The birth of my son and my pregnancy was really my first interaction with a type of racism that could kill me and affect the health of my child."

The 42-year-old actress said her privilege didn't protect her from the systemic racism in the medical community.

She detailed the traumatic moments from her first birthing story — experiences of being ignored, coerced and traumatized at such a vulnerable moment that resulted in an emergency C-section and her newborn spending the first few days of his life in the NICU.

"When we left the hospital it felt like we were running," Ali said.

It wasn't until she was really able to connect and talk with people in the reproductive justice space — in her case, a lactation consultant — that she says it fully clicked how valid her feelings of trauma and violation were.

"When we were healing our wounds the best we could, not even knowing our story fit neatly in the statistics, a lactation consultant asked what happened," Ali said. "When I told her, the look on her face let me know that what I was feeling was real — and that something needlessly horrible had happened."

Ali started to connect with other organizations in the reproductive justice space — like Black Mamas Matter — and she said "the paradigm shift started to take place."

"The guilt is something I carried with me for a very long time, until I started to hear similar stories and realized there's something bigger happening," Ali said. "That my story is one piece of it. And it didn’t have to be that way."

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For her second pregnancy, Ali said, "I wanted a black midwife who I felt connected to. [Finding her] was not easy to do and there are historical reasons for that and there are corrections for that too."

"At my [male] OBGYN I had a pelvic exam every time, he was always in it," she said. "My midwife asked me 'can I touch you? can I touch your belly?' She always asked. If I didn't need a pelvic exam, she didn’t give me a pelvic exam."

And this second birth? It was exactly the experience she wanted and needed: "My second birth, for both my husband and I, it completely changed, it cleared up the trauma."

To other women who are scared about their pregnancies or processing their own trauma from birth inequality, Ali urges them to feel empowered to take charge of their and to reclaim the joy of giving birth and being a new parent.

"Share your story, share it, share it, do not stop digging. You can have the type of birth that you want, the kind of support that you want. We are often talked about as a needy community, that we have more needs than anyone else. Any mother of any ethnicity knows, we need community, we need support, we need help when things go wrong. Unfortunately our systems are such that some people get those needs met and some don't. Remember that and let that empower you to get what you need."

 

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Khloe Kardashian couldn't contain her excitement after her bestie Malika Haqq gave birth to her first child at age 37. The newborn is the latest addition to the Kardashian Klan reality TV empire.

The "Dash Dolls" reality TV personality gave birth to son Ace Flores on Saturday, March 14. The newborn is Haqq's first child. The daddy is her ex-boyfriend, rapper O.T. Genasis, who vows to be a constant presence in his son's life.

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Malika and O.T. announced the happy baby news via Instagram on Monday.

Taking to the comments section on Malika's post, which contained a snap of the new arrival, Khloe wrote: "My beautiful beautiful nephew!!!! Ace, we have been waiting for you."

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Khloe's sisters also weighed in, with Kim Kardashian writing, "He's perfect!!!! We can't wait to meet him! Love you so much!!!" and Kourtney Kardashian adding: "Life is beautiful can't wait to smell him... Congrats!!! love you."

Khloe's half sister Kylie Jenner also commented: "Ace!!!!!! I can't wait to meet him!!"

Tamar Braxton, Adrienne Bailon, and Ashlee Simpson were among the stars sending well wishes to Malika after she announced the new addition to her family.

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Malika and her twin sister Khadijah are known for being professional friends to Khloe and the Kardashians. Malika made her acting debut at age 19 in an episode of Strong Medicine.

She also had roles in Sky High (2005) and ATL (2006).

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Ashley Graham shared a personal snap of herself giving birth to her first child, Isaac, in celebration of International Women's Day on Sunday, March 8.

The plus-size model welcomed her son with husband, film director Justin Ervin, back in January. She took to Instagram on Sunday to share a photo of herself suffering during childbirth to celebrate "the face of my greatest strength. The greatest pain I've ever known and the greatest accomplishment that I've ever achieved."
 

"On this International Women's Day understand that despite whatever pain or trial we have all experienced as women, we are also strong, powerful and capable of accomplishing greatness. Happy International Women's Day! Let's all celebrate our, and each other's strengths today," she added.

Ashley, 32, was praised by fans for documenting her childbirth journey, speaking about changes to her body and the difficulties of parenting in social media posts.

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But the first-time mom caught flack last month after she posted an image that showed her changing Isaac's dirty diaper on the floor of a Staples office store.

She captioned the image:

"Sh-t just got real! First diaper blow up while running errands with no restroom in sight! Thank God I remembered to put the changing mat in the diaper bag!!!

While her followers supported the model, she was heavily criticized by Wendy Williams on her popular daytime talk show. "I don't want to see that," Wendy said, expressing her disgust and disapproval.
 


 

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If you hop on the pony immediately after giving birth, you may not be waiting long enough.

One doctor says new moms don't give their bodies enough time to recover before having sex after childbirth.

Wisconsin-based OB-GYN Dr. Sara Swift tells PEOPLE the "general rule" for waiting to have sex after childbirth "is six weeks or until your provider has cleared you."

This should be common sense, but some moms are hopping back in the saddle too quickly after giving birth. As a result, they develop infections that land them back in the hospital and away from their newborns.

Dr. Swift tells PEOPLE of the timeline she would normally recommend, saying that "applies to both cesarean [section] and vaginal [delivery]."

Some couples are eager to get busy after the baby is born, but Dr. Swift says six weeks is necessary to give the body enough time to heal from what she describes as "a big raw wound".

"Mainly because where your placenta was is a big raw spot (think big wound), which can be a great place for an infection. That, combined with a dilated cervix, is a perfect setup for an infection."

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Pierre “Pee” Thomas took to his Instagram Story to show off the latest addition to his large blended family on Thursday. The proud father-of-5 welcomed a baby girl with Instagram model Lira Galore this week. The baby is Pee's 2nd child to be born in less than 2 months.

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Pierre “Pee" Thomas is rejoicing the birth of his 2nd baby in less than 2 months. The father-of-5 welcomed a baby girl with Instagram model Lira Galore this week.

In March, Instagram entrepreneur Kaylar Will also gave birth to Pee's baby. He is also father to three minor children by as many women.

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