FanMAIL: Why doesn’t Obama show the black side of his family?’

Date: Fri, 29 Aug 2008 19:47:46
Subject: RE: Obama

Sandra, thanks for including that clip from Tavis Smiley’s show on your site. I hadn’t seen that. Unlike 99% of your readers, I agree with everything that they said. And, maybe I missed it last night, but, in the movie they showed of Barack’s life before he spoke, I don’t remember seeing any pictures of his Kenyan family, even though I’ve seen pictures of them all over the Internet. He seems to take pride in the fact that he’s interracial, but yet only wants to highlight the white side of the family, while pretty much denying anything about him that is black or African.

People are saying Barack is going to be the president of all America, so he shouldn’t address black issues. But, for as long as I can remember, white Democrats running for president have been asked to tell what they are going to do for the black community. How many times did I hear this year people asking what have Hillary and Bill Clinton done for the black community to “deserve the black vote”, or what have Republicans done for blacks?

Before McCain spoke before the Urban League, the director of the UL said he would ask McCain what he was going to do for the black community. Why is it, if you’re a white candidate, you’re expected to kiss up to the black community, but if you’re a black candidate, you can just ignore our issues and pretend we don’t exist?

Oh, yeah, it’s because Obama has the black vote in his pocket. Because, we saw how he pandered to the Latino community to get their vote. Once again, blacks getting taken advantage of by the Democratic party. Things will not change if Barack gets elected; he’ll continue to pretend we don’t exist, except to perform for him.

And, Michelle IS the brains in that family. Anyway, keep up the good work!


426 Responses to “FanMAIL: Why doesn’t Obama show the black side of his family?’”

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    ldorisca says:

    His BLACK father left him when he was a baby. It was his white family that really took care of him and that was the side of the family that he connected with. It has nothing to do with catering to any community. He catered to the black community when he served as an activist for the BLACK people. Stop making something out of nothing. As far as I am concerned he didn’t have to connect with his African family. He chose to do that because he wanted to connection. What did they do for him in relation to what his mother’s family did? NOTHING

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    Oracle says:

    WHY should he show his black family when they were not there for him while growing up?????? He said the last time he saw his dad was when he visited him for a month and that was that. And they showed a picture last night of him and his dad together.

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    Oracle says:

    At least he didn’t become bitter towards blacks because of his dad not raising him. Instead, this man married a BLACK woman who he really pursued and now they have a beautiful family.

    If you wanna get pissed off with someone for disowning his black family, then get pissy with TIGER “Im Asian” Woods!!!!

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    TIGHT29 says:

    You guys took the words right out of my mouth. I do the same thing with my family. Although, I am not bi-racial, my mother’s family was who I was raised with and have memories of. When I became a teenager, I reached out to my father’s family and built relationships but those relationships will never compare to the relationships to my family on my mother’s side. I totally understand and identify with Obama in that respect. Furthermore, Obama mentions his Kenyan father in damn every speech that I have heard him give. His father left him at 3, mine left at 10 and I give him no props! If I was running for school board president I wouldn’t mention not one member of my father’s family including him.

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    TIGHT29 says:

    Also, Obama is never asked what he’s going to do for Black people because he has always done things for Black people pre and post his political career. White politicians r always asked that question because 99% of the time, they had been in politics for years and have done nothing for he Black community but no sooner than they begin campaigning they find they way to the Black churches begging for votes.

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    Hottie76 says:

    Obama can not make any decision totally by his self so once america decides or if he gets into the office it is then left up to us to put the right people in the Senate and the House of Representative from your state!!! Don’t just stop with the president!!! As much as we want to know what the president is going to do for us we should be as eager to know what or Senators and House Representatives will do for us to get new bills passed and what will they do to help the black community. I totally agree with Tight 29 his real father ran away another man stepped up to the plate. His mother’s family is the one that helped put him through school besides all the student loans he stated he got.

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    Tasha says:

    I pretty much agree with everyone else who has commented. I have seen Obama with his family in Africa, but he may not be as close to them. I don’t fault them b/c I don’t know their situation and they did not father him. I don’t fault anyone other than his father for the possible lack of relationship. Still, he has visited with him but he knows his mother’s side b/c his mother and her parents raised him.

    I’m not close to my father’s side of the family(though my dad is my best friend). But they live in another state and I don’t travel there often. When I do visit that state, I’m more apt to visit my mother’s family b/c they have always taken the initiative to maintain contact w/ me via phone, visits, and letters.

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    2bme says:

    I agree with the fam on this one..Barack has NEVER denied who he was..and by marrying a STRONG black woman shows you just how much being black means to him. He doesn’t have to continue to show his black side..he is constantly reminded of it. Who the hell are you to question him..Direct those questions to the deadbeat father he had and what his black family didn’t do for him..until then don’t judge

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    JustSaying says:

    His Africian father left when he was a baby. His white family raised him. He went to might his family peps as an adult but he really doesn’t know them. No bond.

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    This is another attempt by US to assasinate our own people because “our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.” Barack doesn’t deny that he is black but why dwell on it? It is obvious. When he deals with black issues like the black family and personal responsibility, we (Jesse Jackson)get pissed and call him uppity. When he doesn’t say anything, he is ignoring us. GROW THE HELL UP AND STOP LOOKING FOR SOMEONE TO SAVE YOU. Barack is running for President of the US and not President of the NAACP. He has already been painted as a radical black man with a angry black woman who is reverse racist. How does he answer that I wonder/ Oh, you want him to get up and make speeches about black people all the time. He hasn’t done anything wrong yet but leave it to US to find womething wrong with US.

    They white people are wondering why we don’t see his white family and black people are wondering why we don’t see his black family (that he never saw either). Grow up.

    Sidebar: According to the US census, there are 281 million people in the US. 36.4 million of the are black. 14.6 million black people voted in 2004 which only represented 13% of the total votes. If that is the case and since then we have moved from #2 in population to #3 then I think Obama is doing exactly what he needs to do and PANDERING is what John McCain is doing in appointing a woman when he has never voted in favor of women’s rights, equalization or protection in 20+ years in the Senate while calling his wife a “cunt” among other things in public.

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    *forgive the typos but I was typing fast and pissed*

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    Kymystry says:

    AKA you are forgiven .. and thank you for your righteous indignation.

    My MOTHER gave me away when I was 3 days old .. just walk out of my life. My FATHER’S mother raised me … Guess who I identify with …

    I’ll wait …

    Ok .. I’ll tell you .. MY FATHER’S SIDE OF THE FAMILY TOTALLY. !!

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    ladilovely says:

    In any black family, the WOMAN is the backbone that keeps it together. Martin had Coretta, Malcolm had Betty, Will Smith has Jada and Bill Cosby has Camilla. Have you hear Alicia Keys song, “Unbreakable.” If not please find it and listen. Woman have always keep the family strong and allowed the men to been men in public but took care of them and their pride in private. Black Women has been the one helping the man figure his next move and being his cheerleader so he knows he is not alone. So STOP giving me the bulls&&t stating that Michelle is running the show. Michelle is the Executive Producer along with Barack. They are showing how a real Black family is suppose to be. They are making decision based on bother of their opinion. So once again, go listen to Alicia Keys song “UNBREAKABLE” because Obama and Michelle are an example of the meaning of that song. And I will leave you with the words of Alica Keys song
    And we got to stay tuned
    Cuz there’s more to see (Unbreakable)
    Through the technical difficulties (Unbreakable)
    We might have to take a break
    But ya’ll know we’ll be back next week
    I’m singing this love is unbreakable

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    tanders says:

    RIGHT ON AKATASTROPHY!!!! I COULDN’T HAVE SAID IT BETTER MYSELF!! I was watching the Tavis Smiley show after Obamas speech and it was two black activist on there just downing the brother all because he didnt address Martin Luther King on this particular day of the speech because it was the anniversary of the I HAVE A DREAM speech. My thing is, this man is trying to win PRESIDENT OF THE UNITED STATES! He has to grasp ALL races. We have never known a black man to make it as far as Barack has and yet we’re still not happy all because we want him to single us (black people) out. I think Barack is playing it smart because the white folks is just waiting on him to play the race card. But, instead his own people are playing it for him. Wait til the man get in office first. It;s bad enough that he’s getting pressured from the whites, women, republicans, independents. Why we have to add on to the stress. If he had every black vote in america (only) do you think the brother will win? That’s what happen to Jessie Jackson. Instead of playing his cards right until he got in the white house, he was to busy trying to prove to us that he wasnt a sell-out. Obama is playing it smart. I aint mad at him. May God bless him and protect him and his family.

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    Mspeng says:

    I totally agree with most of the commenters…my father was in and out of my life until I was about 8 and then went out totally. I do not have ONE picture with anyone in his family or him so if I were running for president today, I could not identify with my father’s family. I don’t know his siblings…couldn’t tell you my grandmother’s name, nothing. So don’t be hard on the man for not mentioning people that he might barely know and don’t wrong him for putting the people that did right by him (white or not) in his clip.

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    I find it almost comical that there are those who still want to say that this man run away from being black. Let me say that he does not have to say “I am black”, you see who he is standing at the podium and it is already clear. See who he married. Take the time to look at his record instead of relying on Mass Media sound bites

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    Sharonda says:

    There’s this thing where people say “give credit where it is due.” He going to give credit where it’s due and if his father wasn’t there, then his father didn’t have much of an impact on his life rather to be better than his father.I guess people think that some men (mostly black men) can’t strive for anything better.Obama is a man that happens to be bi-racial at first hand though.His skin tone should not really matter, his intelligence should really matter the most.If people start connected the dots (and I mean do read his recent book) then you see the kind of man he is.

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    Sharonda says:


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    kwallace577 says:

    i agree with all said. his father not being there could have pushed this man in the other direction against the black community. it could have really messed him up if he did not have a strong WHITE family who loved him enough to take him in and raise him. has anybody sat back and thought how hard it probably was for his white grandparents to accept him enough to raise him? they were white people from the midwest. and they still taught him to embrace the other side of his racial identity. i have a bi-racial homie and her white side wants nothing to do with her or her other bi-racial sibling AT ALL. they send the white sibling gifts at x-mas and birthday. her and her brother gets na-than. this in reality could have happened to obama but it did not.

    his mom was a strong woman and for that it sounds like he is grateful. he is also grateful to his father to some extent or he would not have named his book “dreams from my father.” and i HAVE seen pics of him with the kenyans before. the kenyan grandmother is named sarah i think.

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    cocoa49 says:

    thank you AKAtasktrophy1908 you said it all and said it well….

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    Anyone can check the bill sponsorship/cosponsorship for any member of the House or Senate by looking at

    As far as the ever snide remarks. Michelle & Barack are equal partners in their relationship. I think it is actually disrespectful of Michelle to suggest otherwise. Do you think she chooses weak? I doubt it.

    Oh well, guess you’re getting the page hits that you want. That is really what these posts are about, right?

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    brownewoman says:

    What? can someone direct me to where McCaint called his wife a ‘cunt’. First I’ve heard of it.

    Also, think about this……….. if you don’t vote for Obama, you will get 8 more years of Clarence Thomas.

    He is on the Supreme Court and that is where THEIR decisions directly YOUR everday life.

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    brownewoman says:

    **that is where THEIR decisions directly affect YOUR everyday lives.

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    I agree with the very first comment posted. Also, if he didn’t want to connect or identify with the black community he wouldn’t have married a black woman knowing he would have black children. If you read his first book, you would have known that he dated a white woman who was really into him, but he could not fully give himself to her. She asked him, “is it because I’m not black?” and he said, “yes”. Therefore, he connects with the black community. I did not grow up with my father either. If I was in his position, I wouldn’t show my paternal family either because although I knew them, they did not have a direct affect on my life and the woman that I have become. Folks are making something out of nothing. The Senator has the anointing of God on his life. Some will know what I mean and the other’s will not understand what I am talking about.

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    omina-homina says:

    the black side of his family are all foreigners. He’s trying to reinforce is national patriotism, identity and loyalty. focusing on the foreign side of his family won’t help his campaign.

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    trina@atl says:

    The person that wrong this long drawn out thing about Obama not mentioning his black side of the family, did not read my comment under the Tavis Smiley post. His white mama raised him and his black a** daddy walked out on him. I am sure all of the fathers side of the family now is tyring to reach out to him, just like the athletes who fathers walk out on them but time they sign a big contract they try to come back into their lives.
    Also just like someone mentioned before if he did not like his black side he would not have married a black women, he would have married someone white or LSLH that you have to do a double take on to see if they are black. Will black people please leave this man alone and stop trying to tear him down about everything.

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    teecee says:




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    w@d11 says:

    It baffles me that we gladly supported OJ, when we knew damn well he killed his wife! Michael Jackson, who I would not let my children near! TI, a career criminal and all of our baby daddies,and sons who never grow up. I have an aunt who throws big ass parties for her sons whenever they come home from serving jail sentences. But when my sister and I graduated college, with multiple degrees, we got nothing from a woman who my mother adored. My mom died before witnessing all of her kids achievments and no one in her family cares. Obama should have the black vote in the bag. Sandra obviously didnt watch his speech or didnt pay attention. He touched base on dead beat dads, poverty, and mentioned how our government watched one of our most important cities drown. He doesn’t have to be all im black yall, im black yall, im blackity black im black yall, to get his point across. Celebrate this man for playing these crackers and beating them at their own game. Something Al “give me money all i’ll boycott your company” sharpton, or Jessey “messy” Jackson will never be able to do. He has accomplished what we all deemed impossible. He’s running for president, not beating a gun charge or murder or drugs charge! This is why our generation is running wild, thinking being a dumb thug makes them a man. Case in point rick “fraud” ross. Black people wake up! If you can support OJ for killing his wife, support Obama for running and winning the Presidency! Teach your kids to be like him, not to aspire to be like TI.

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    istandbehindtheIam says:

    >>People are saying Barack is going to be the president of all America, so he shouldn’t address black issues. But, for as long as I can remember, white Democrats running for president have been asked to tell what they are going to do for the black community. How many times did I hear this year people asking what have Hillary and Bill Clinton done for the black community to “deserve the black vote”, or what have Republicans done for blacks?<

    First @ AKA…..that’s it and that’s all!!!

    Secondly, I put this paragraph in quotations because I find it funny blacks are always looking to politicians to do everything for them. Yes, there are issues in every community that requires change at the legislative level, but what about issues that can be tackled at a community level. How ’bout banning together to get these drug dealing heathens up outta our communities, how ’bout protesting to get these liquor stores outta our neighborhoods and lobbying to get more libraries put up in our communities, how bout mentoring our young folk to seek higher education so they understand that rap music is not the only vehicle outta the hood. These are some issues we all can get our hands into and quit relying on politicians to pull us up outta our muck and mire. So I ask the writer, what is it that YOU’VE done for the black community?
    Quit looking for handouts and be a go-getter, life is too short.

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    istandbehindtheIam says:

    @ w@d11….good job, let’s keep the word out there, the WORLD is witnessing something groudbreaking that’s happening in these United States of America! IMHO, Obama is not sitting well with some blacks because he’s not your typical black politician where “gubment milk and cheese” are the words of the day, there’s actually gonna need to be some EFFORT and hard work done in our communities WHEN he’s elected to office. By the way, who do you think Middle East leaders are gonna respect? I can tell you it won’t be McCaint and his forty something year old white woman running mate. Trust.

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    AlwaysSweet says:

    Amen and Amen

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    istandbehindtheIam says:

    Obama is destined to be….read Jeremiah 29:11 if you don’t believe me.

    Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end.

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    karaz says:

    Methinks spearle has deeper issues than Obama not flaunting his Luo family. Instead of looking at the issues that actually affect them in this presidential race, you’re focused on trivial things like his cousins n’em… wow.

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    Charles says:

    Jesus take the wheel

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    NC_NYer says:

    Well, there’s nothing more to be said. I think we’re all in agreement. Barack is running for President, not president of black people. Let me ask ya’ll this: did ya’ll REALLY watch the DNC? Did you hear them play The O’Jay’s “Love Train?” Did you hear them play McFadden & Whitehead’s “Ain’t No Stopping Us Now?” Did you see CNN CONTINUALLY put the camera on black folks dancing like they’re at the damn family reunion? THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT WE DON’T NEED, and what White folks don’t want to see. YOU ALREADY KNOW THEY’RE SCARED OBAMA’S GOING TO TURN THE WHITE HOUSE INTO SOUL TRAIN. Black folks really need to straighten up sometimes, like that fool interrupting Obama talking about, “What about Black America?” Black America needs to get off their ass….that’s what!

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    JustSaying says:

    I hope this vacation thingy is over for Auntie Sandra soon because having no new news is killing me.

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    Krysi J says:

    huh?…I mean, is this person not aware that Obama’s father wasn’t even around for the majority of his life, and when he decided to show up,once Obama Jr moved to hawaii to live with his grandparents at the age of 10, Obama Sr. died shortly after their reunion!!?? Did he ever take him to Kenya to meet the other half of his family, or did Obama and his mother have to make the effort by themselves??!! Educated and all Obama’s father was still the typical black man of today who don’t make an effort to be apart of their children’s lives, you can’t blame Obama for cherishing whats closest to his heart, the PEOPLE who took care of him! He’s not bias like the person who wrote this email expected him to be, how do you think he should campaign for president, speaking only in favor of black people?..I’m sure he would have made just as much history running for president as Al Sharpton doing so!!! The black community is a bucket of crabs always looking for a way to bring somebody down!!! If he wanted to do the Tiger Woods and claim that multicultural sh*t he could do it with pride, ITS THE TRUTH!! Obama does the opposite, and black people still find something to complain about?

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    mizzdallas says:

    GM! SR fam!

    Okay, Auntie Sandra, we need new postings please!!! and no more Obama,Rihanna,Solange., Zoe, Monica! We need new people, and oh yeah our Morning Wood!!!

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    Kymystry says:

    Morn SR Family !!!

    Wake up Auntie … after the Morn I had .. I need .. I mean NEED something to make me smile …

    Yall it’s 10:08 am est and it’s been a hella morn ALREADY .. lawd !

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    goat76 says:

    What’s Up, What’s Happenin……..WAKE UP WAKE UP(In my Larry FishBurne voice from School Daze) WAKE UP WAKE UP…..

    Good morning ya’ll

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    kwallace577 says:

    morning all.

    i have had two meetings already and in between both i have been checking the site my ownself to check for news. maybe auntie is still on her holiday weekend?

    @goat76 hope you had a good birthday weekend, pimpin’.

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    goat76 says:

    Thanks Kwallace, yeah I did it up…..tired as hell right now though

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    i see what the writer of the email was coming from but here is the thing she may fail to realize…
    barack’s dad left him at a very young age so he didn’t really get a chance to know him or that side of the family. and i’m not sure that his fathers family even reached out to barack when he was living with his mom or white grandparents.

    also YES whites needs to speak for the blacks because they normally will not do that since they don’t have a true part of us.

    barack is speaking for the blacks just by running for office and having a black family (wife and children) in the white house. hello! for him to focus on blacks hard core would be as weird as if the white candidates focused on whites. how would that look? we may even loose votes on that note. don’t worry, we will get the help we need from barack. he will get to that but remember there is a strategy dear. blacks will get direction. because before barack there was God. and barack can’t be expected to change the world if we don’t get guidance from God or even help ourselves…

    p.s. i am tired of people treating blacks like we are cripples or need special attention! look yes blacks were opressed and at times still discriminated against but we are not the only ones and we can come up just like any body else so lets not put our own race down like we always need hand holding. some of the problems in our own community is at fault of our own due to: hate, crime, and laziness. it’s sad. i’m not saying ignore our race but lets also help and empower ourselves and know we can do just as good as any other race without handouts.

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    Kymystry says:

    the evacuee’s that were fleeing Gustav on the way to Atl .. that died in a car accident

    They were a co-worker’s fam.. so my heart has been a lil heavy yall ..

    Glad you had a great birthday goat :-)

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    Kymystry says:

    the evacuee’s that were fleeing Gustav on the way to Atl .. that died in a car accident

    http(semi-colon) //

    They were a co-worker’s fam.. so my heart has been a lil heavy yall ..

    Glad you had a great birthday goat

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    Kymystry says:

    the evacuee’s that were fleeing Gustav on the way to Atl .. that died in a car accident

    They were a co-worker’s fam.. so my heart has been a lil heavy yall ..

    Glad you had a great birthday goat :-)

  47. 47

    i agree with
    IstandBehindTheIam and

    He does not have to run around saying i’m black, i’m black to be considered a man to vote for or a man who cares about the black community. i think barack is focused on change and help for everyone overall. that will help all races. we are all in need. and also yes how about not being so critical of barack but looking to other leaders and ourselves in the community and how they and we can help the black race. it takes a whole village…remember that!

    i know that barack and michelle (so what if she is smarter than him…and?? is that a crime? he married a strong black woman, that’s GREAT! and they are a team. hillary was smarter than bill too.) are going to HELP lead this country toward growth. but he’s not perfects so yes some things may not be as all would like. but it WILL get better. believe that. ol mcain is using tricks like having a woman as VP, not that it’s bad, but it’s a trick. do not be mislead. black complain about bush and todays america YET complain about change because obama is not perfect. come on now folks!

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    Mzsuave says:

    Good Mownin’ fam!

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    mizzdallas says:

    Kymystry the evacuee’s that were fleeing Gustav on the way to Atl .. that died in a car accident

    They were a co-worker’s fam.. so my heart has been a lil heavy yall ..
    WOW! Thats so sad……

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    Kymystry says:

    @ MizzD .. there were 6 in the car… 4 died .. the driver his son (2yrs old) the child’s mother .. and the child’s grandmother … it’s beyond sad ..

    fleeing a storm that didn’t manifest (thank God) .. fall asleep behind the wheel and die…

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    Kymystry says:

    Morn MissSuave !!

    Since Auntie is still at Piedmont (it was black gay pride this weekend) … she prolly still caught up and forgot about us … lol

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    Krysi J says:

    Good point Miesha, well said. To everyone else, Goodmorning…Im back in the Fam, after months of exile…LOL!! Just kidding, auntie fixed me up, incase yall don’t remember ya girl I’m Krysi J – the same one. If ya don’t give a d*mn, cool, I don’t either but IM BACK!!!Thanks again Sandra!

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    Mzsuave says:

    Since Auntie is still at Piedmont (it was black gay pride this weekend) … she prolly still caught up and forgot about us … lol


    heheheheh….long weekend Sandy?

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    goat76 says:

    @kymy……..yeah she laying up wit her bustitbutch and forgot all about us………..I shoulda did like MzSuave and called in today….

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    Kymystry says:

    @ goat … thanks for making me SCREAM laffin .. literally … lol .. lol .. bustitb!tch …. priceless .. lol

    lawd I needed that …hollerinnnnnnnn

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    Kymystry says:

    oops .. i meant bustitBUTCH … whooo .. see i was laffin so hard i mis-read .. lol .. lol

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    aprilshowers says:

    ya’ll crazy…lol, didn’t know it was gay pride weekend…LOL!!! She needs to hurry up and POST, what’s up with that? hahahahaahaha

    I need my morning dose… :-D

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    goat76 says:

    Come up for some Air, Sandra

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    Kymystry says:

    @ April … my son and I were hangin with my uncle and his son this weekend … on the way back from our destination my uncle lives near piedmont park .. and it was gridlock trying to get thru there … chile .. the Queens were OUT in full effect … it was a Hot Azz MESS !!! . .. lol

    Men were NOT made to wear bellbottom jumpsuits with a plunging neck line and stilettos … lol .. lol


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    goat76 says:

    I bet Sandra face looks like a Krispy Kreme Glazed Doughnut by now………Labor Day is over now get to work……How am I suppose to make it through my work day with this old stale news…..

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    Kymystry says:

    goat… u are officially on punishment young man … lol… lol… lol

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    goat76 says:

    Man, do you know how much you can get for a slip ‘n’ fall in a store…..

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    Kymystry says:

    a slip and fall ? ? ?

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    goat76 says:

    I got a lil happy…….and had an Ezelle from Friday moment, I’m sorry if I scared anybody….

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    Mzsuave says:

    I bet Sandra face looks like a Krispy Kreme Glazed Doughnut by now………Labor Day is over now get to work……How am I suppose to make it through my work day with this old stale news…..


    LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO Yall retarded, I swear!!! BTW, I’m at work like the rest of yall…I couldn’t call in sick today…I’m a save that for Friday, yea boyyyyyy!

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    Mzsuave says:

    Men were NOT made to wear bellbottom jumpsuits with a plunging neck line and stilettos … lol .. lol


    @ Kym….ahhahahahahahahah, I’m rollin’ picturing that in my head…that’s just nasty. lol

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    Kymystry says:

    @ MissSuave .. chile .. it was a nut crunching eye sore .. they had on Skinny jeans .. skin tight shirts …there was men with weaves and razor bumps on the face .. lol .. lol

    me and my uncle was in the front .. my son and cousin in the back .. they were like .. thank GOD the back windows are a dark tint so they couldn’t see them … lol

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    Sharonda says:

    The queens were out this weekend??Lord.I don’t they have thoe kinds of events around my way I can only imagine the chaos.

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    toy says:

    This post is nuts! You have to get in the game in order to play the game. You certainly can’t play from the sidelines. Get real people! Obama knows exactly who he is, and he knows he has to play their game in order to win. TRUST ME!

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    ladilovely says:

    Now All of you line up for TIMEOUT. Sandra is going to bann all you.
    Sandra, I did not say anything bad about you. You could have got some donuts from Krispy Kreme on Ponce.

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    Kymystry says:

    LOL … I ain’t say nuffin bout no krippy kremes edda Auntie .. lol .. lol

    I HATE Krispy Kremes .. too dag on sweet and messy … I’m a yankee .. give me my Dunkin Donuts … lol

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    goat76 says:

    @Kymy…….too dag on sweet and messy …….
    Whats wrong Sandra, Cat got yo tongue……

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    Mzsuave says:


    goat…kym….lmao…you gone get us in trouble, for real. (Lord, forgive them) lol

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    goat76 says:

    MzSuave…….I can’t help it, I’m bored and time is creepin….if today was yesterday I would be off work by now(meaning that time flies when you are not at work)

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    Kymystry says:

    HAHAHAHAHAHAH .. Lawd … i didn’t even realized what I typed … goat … imma pop u … lol .. lol

    Well .. I’m straight .. so I prefer to have my Donut Dunked repeately … lol .. lol

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    goat76 says:

    I like to repeatedly Dunk Doughnuts……

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    Kymystry says:

    LAWD … I literally threw my hands in the air and laughed so loud folk around me think i’m crazy … hahahahahahah

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    shanie says:

    Good Morning Ladies & Genltemen of our SR Family!!!!

    I just have one question and I will leave this Obama thing alone. Why in the hell did McCain pick a woman VP as his running mate who has more issues than needs to. I was alredy second guessing when they said she has 5 kids with the oldest being 17 and the youngest 10 months. Now I am a mother too but how are you gonna help run the US and be a mother too? Yes I have heard of Super Woman but in the world that we live in that is not gonna work. I figured McCain picked her to get the women majority vote but now I am really starting to think that McCain is pro OBAMA on the low. Now she just announced that her 17 yr old is pregnant and there is a chance that the child she was holding when McCain announced her as his running mate may have been her 17 year old’s first child but that has not been confirmed as of yet. All I am saying is McCain may wanna re-think his choices. If he is making bad decisions pre election just think what will happen post election….? Hmm something to think about.

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    goat76 says:

    Damn Shanie where you at…..don’t tell me you went out with Sandra last night…….(Saying good morning and it’s time to go home almost)

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    Mzsuave says:

    hahahahah @ goat. Shanie must be on westcoast time…11 am.

    @ Shanie….it’s a hot azz mess…and I am glad it was the Republican side. I heard on the radio this morning, that someone, I think Bush, (don’t quote me on this) addressed the issue and said that this political race should not address any family-life-matters of the candidates because it’s not of any importance. I just laughed…had it been on Obama’s side………………………

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    Kymystry says:

    Whewwww .. Shanie .. i hope u on the West Coast or in Hawaii … lol .. it’s Morning somewhere …

    now about jurassic John McCain’t … he’s in his twilight years … he don’t know no better…

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    shanie says:

    Yes I am in LA so my day is just starting but trust and believe I am so JEALOUS that yall day is almost over. DAMN IT!!!! But hey while I am sleep you guys are awake so I can’t hate!

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    shanie says:

    …and GOAT HELL NAW I ain’t going NO WHERE like that with Sandra. I’m cool. I like my donuts getting dunked in some nice hot chocolate. Gurl Stop playin!

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    Kymystry says:

    goat is a dude… one of the few straight ones on this blog .. yippie … lol

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    ms.bstdressed says:

    Where the hell is the news?!

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    shanie says:


    Girl Please they would definitely went bananas had that been Obama. Hell they already peg us as sitting at home having a bunch of kids and watching TV all day. I am glad that FINALLY we have the majority and we don’t have some illiterate ill mannered man trying to be voted in to run our country. PRAISE GOD!!!!

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    shanie says:

    Sorry GOAT……

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    Kymystry says:

    @ms.bestdressed … Auntie had a busy weekend .. being that it was Black Gay Pride here in the Atl … she prolly got some young’un hemmed up and forgot all about us… lol

    don’t bann me Auntie … I’m just sending positive thoughts your way … lol .. lol. :-D

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    goat76 says:

    I am a MAN, Shanie……but I won’t hold it against you…..
    What kind of doughnuts you got….Glazed or Kreme filled…..

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    iyonah says:

    Good afternoon all …

    This is just to many comments to read through.

    Where are you Ms. Rose????

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    Mzsuave says:

    Praise him, Shanie!!! My fellow Los Angeles-er!!! Westsideeeeeee!!! :)

    Hey, where’s HunE?

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    Mzsuave says:

    <<<<< on the floor rolling at Goat…Goat, I’m tired of laughing at you today, when do you go home? lol

    Hi, Iyonah!!!
    Hi & bye, Blackbarbie!!!

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    Kymystry says:

    Where is ggouch and prynsexxx too ? ? ? ?

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    Kymystry says:

    Hey Iyonah … hey and lata Barbie !!

    yall know we some die hard SR family members.. we gonna MAKE up a convo no matta WHAT …lol

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    Mzsuave says:

    Iono, Kym, it’s a lil empty, today :(

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    goat76 says:

    I leave at 4:00pm cst……….

    @iyonah………She can’t hear you…….she got a pair of thighs wrapped around her head……..You will have to speak louder……

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    shanie says:

    Umm Goat I get my Doughnut’s glazed but they are very much cream filled…LOL!!!! Don’t none wont Be none…..!

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    shanie says:

    I mean t to say don’t start none won’t be none!

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    shanie says:


    You know the west is the best!!!!! :)

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    goat76 says:

    What u talking about……I love doughnuts…..

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    Kymystry says:

    I am actually trying to get some work done … lol

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    shanie says:


    I meant to tell you earlier my prayer are with your co-worker……

    Considering the circumstances how do they expect you to get some work done on this draggin azz tuesday! At least for me it is.

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    goat76 says:

    @kymy…….I tried to do some work, but that didn’t work out for me……Monday’s and Friday’s nobody does any work…since Monday was a holiday we carry the tradition on to Tuesday

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    Sharonda says:

    Gosh my lunch must been good because Zaxbys sure did fill me up!No doughnuts for me :)

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    Kymystry says:

    Thanks Shanie … it’s crazy …right ..

    and goat … you ain’t GAT NO SENSE !!! … lol

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    Sharonda says:

    Oh I was post 100!

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    tlenice says:

    Hello Everyone I’m a newbie here…If I’m not mistaken one of Obama’s brothers was interviewd saying that after 15 minute with Obama he thinks he is the most evil person in the world! Why would he want to connect with people who thinks he is evil…family or not!

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    Kymystry says:

    I had a Chick-Fil-A sammich Sharonda … and was stuffed like a tick in a bucket of blood .. and all I had was the sammich and for dessert some canned pineapple chunks they took me 2 hours to eat a small can (imma slow eater)

    … Lawd you KNOW we bored we talkin about what we had for lunch … lol

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    Sharonda says:

    And Sandra could of left us some Morning Wood :(

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    shanie says:

    Oooh Chickfila is my favorite when I come to the A. Which is why its one of the reason’s I am considering moving. We have all of about 2 or 3 Chickfila’s and they are all far out. :-(

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    goat76 says:

    I had Subway club……..I got a couple of protien shakes for later……

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    Sharonda says:

    LOL Im a slow eater too especially when it comes to Chik Fil A because I be wanting to go to sleep right after eat, and I know I ain’t the only one!Haha..

    But those Chik Fil A salads!I cut for those but whats 3 strips, they cutting back!

    Instead of seeing Queens this weekend did anybody go to the Ludaday Weekend???

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    goat76 says:

    @Sharonda……KcuF morning wood, I just wanted some New news

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    Sharonda says:

    Awww @ Shanie I felt like that when I was in Nebraska.After I got to St Louis and stopped at Mcdonalds and ask for a $1 Sweet Tea and they didn’t even have it :(

    I need to switch back to Subway I was doing so good :(, but I’m seeing lot of Indians running the joint though..they taking over.

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    Kymystry says:

    What the hail is a Ludaday ? ? ? ohhhhhh

    Ludacris .. naw .. I don’t go to hip/hop rap events .. i can only take Ghetto-ness in teeeeeny doses …

    I went to a Folk from Plainfield NJ that live in the “A” cookout .. it was cool .. saw a BUNCH of folk I went to high School with.

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    Sharonda says:

    Lol@ goat, but I need something to look at too!!!But then again I saw Tyson B taco meat downstairs on another blog.I like coming here because not all blogs post what Sandra be posting.I can’t stand when there is a holiday on a Monday ruins my thought process because Tuesday is just a drag.

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    Sharonda says:

    Kym I love some Luda though!I really not a hip-hop person myself though I just stan him like Sandra stan R_h_nn_ lol

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    shanie says:

    Shoot I guess everybody else had a four day weekend except for us huh. We didn’t get the bulletin. No Sandra. No Hune, No Pryn…..what the hell?

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    Mzsuave says:

    lol @ sharonda… I seen that too,taco meat and all…that nugga looks tasteful. :)

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    iyonah says:

    @Kym,Mzsuave, goat and SR FAM … Happy Tuesday!

    LOL @ goat – “she got a pair of thighs wrapped around her head……..You will have to speak louder……”

    hahahhaha …

    How was yall weekend?

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    goat76 says:

    My weekend was good….ready for the next one….

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    Kymystry says:

    Mine was cool as a fan Iyonah and yours? .? ?

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    Sharonda says:

    @Mzsuave see I know I wasn’t the only one and I already heard he don’t have no wood lol

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    JustSaying says:

    Ok, I am beginning to think this site was shut down. Does anybody know why there hasn’t been a new post in days?

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    kwallace577 says:

    i am just checking back in before i cut outta here for the day to see if auntie woke up or something yet (i’m not saying more than that. b/c hell i JUST got re-instated after 3 months of being banned…)

    and yes goat76 is not only a skrait dude he is my long lost fam (feel like it don’t it? not may folks on the earth know where dee-mop is… lawd).

    and @sharonda we too saw the taco meat (me and the work female crew. probably some of the males too..i wouldn’t doubt it.).

    bye fam. maybe auntie….will be able to pay more attention to the blog tomorrow.

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    Mzsuave says:

    lol @ sharonda….4real??????? That can’t be!!!

    @Iyonah, my weekend was a blast. I went to the African Market Place out here in LA, it was sooooo much fun. I was Chicago Style Two-Stepping, buying earrings that are Ankhs, and met a couple of African men that was almost cute. Lol Then I went to a Jamaican (sp) club Sunday night in Hollywood with a couple of my girls. Nothing majah….

    How was yours?

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    Kymystry says:

    HAHAHAHAHAHA @ MzSuave .. they are usually ALMOST cute .. it it just something about them that turns me the hail OFF … lol

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    Kymystry says:

    Ohhh yall … I just got some Flowers and a Teddy bear delivered here … awwwww sniff sniff

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    goat76 says:

    kwallace…….what u get banned for fam…….
    Im holla at ya’ll 2morrow, I got some bushes to burn dis evening(sound like my Grandma working in her yard)…….To my L.A ladies(Los Angles & Lower Alabama) keep it supatight…

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    Mzsuave says:

    you feel me then, kym!!! lol

    Awwww, who sent you flowers?

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    Mzsuave says:

    Smooches Goat!!!!!

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    goat76 says:

    @Kymy……..somebody’s getting their doughnut dunked tonite….

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    shanie says:

    Hey Kym that means you are doing something right! So Sweet!

    @mssuave…Girl them AFRIKANS thats all I am going to say I like to call them Apple Heads…lol!

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    Mzsuave says:

    lmao at Apple Head…wtf is an Apple Head…hahahah

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    goat76 says:

    @MzSuave…..Ya’ll got that good out there, I need to take me vacation soon….Cute pic…….

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    shanie says:

    Have a Good one Goat!

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    Kymystry says:

    My ex sent the flowers he’s in Tx …. trying to make a move back … … No dunking of donuts (not since feb as a matta o fact) … ain’t found a dunker worthy of the donut since he and I ended ..

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    Kymystry says:

    crackin UP at the Apple Head comment… lol … lol .. lol

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    shanie says:


    Some of them always be almost cute until I look at their heads they are shaped like apples so I call them appleheads.

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    kwallace577 says:

    @goat. ohlawd. my black arse got banned waaay back in june by what auntie says was an “accident” when everybody was making mean comments about her one day. see i am still being careful with what i say….

    anyways… i sent her an e-mail when she said to go back and look at your last comment and you will SEE why you got banned. well i not only looked at it, i sent it to her and said what is wrong with that comment?? and i sent it from my work e-mail to PROVE i am employed since you gots to have a J O B nowadays to be part of mizz rose’s circle. she was appologetic about it. but i am trying to stay up OUTTA timeout for real.

    a sista could barely work those 2.5 months i was banned….

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    Mzsuave says:

    hahhahahaha @ shanie….with them yellow eyes and heavy azz accents.

    Goat…the best is on the west….

    Kym…get ‘em girl!!!

    Sandra…(where ever you are)don’t ban us, we are just bored. :)

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    kwallace577 says:

    @kym i feel you about not finding a good dunker. i say wait on the flower dunker girl. if you have waited since feb. a few more months ain’t gonna kill ya. and he must like your donut if he sending a sista flowers and stuffed animals and all.

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    goat76 says:

    Sorry to hear that Kymy, I bet your doughnut got extra glaze on it……

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    Kymystry says:

    @ kwallace .. it was the same with me .. I was banned for about 2 months … when someone posted a pic of her on a different thread .. and I said .. Oh My Gawd .. and say goodbye to whomever posted the link … next thing you know I was banned like a mug… I too begged and well-ahhh I was back .. and I am treading VERY lightly .. cause i was feening like pookie on new jack city to post my comments … lol

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    shanie says:

    LOL @ Goat…you are truly a mess…….

    Kym….I agree with Mzsuave get umm gurl! If he can take the time out to roder flowers from Texas then let him glaze the doughnut one mo time for ol time sake… know after a while we got to get the cobb webs out.

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    Kymystry says:

    Well .. he’s coming to Ga next month (my birthday is Oct 3) .. he’s leaving for Afganistan in Dec .. so he is trying to get a dozen or so donuts before he leaves … lol

    and hush @ goat .. thought u were leaving for the day … lol .. lol

    @ blackbarbie .. yep ..I’m from Plainfield .. born and raised … big up to Dirty Jerzee !!

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    goat76 says:

    Damn Kwallace………they must have been doggin Sandra to get banned……
    Yeah MzSuave I know ya’ll got the best weed, but the best Doughnuts come from the SOUTH

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    shanie says:


    all hell to the naw yall don’t it’s always been said that the best of everything is in the west…except for these triflin NICCAHS…yall can have them.

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    goat76 says:

    @shanie how do you know, What you eat doughnuts too………. Shanie Im just nikcuf wit you…we cool homie

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    Mzsuave says:

    ^5 Shanie!!!

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    Kymystry says:

    yall play nice… I’m going home …. (two fangas) PEACE !

    Auntie thank you for leaving us Unattended today .. we behaved outselves and ‘erthang :-D

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    goat76 says:

    I’m gone 4 real 400

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    kwallace577 says:

    @kym….i bet you $$ it was the same dayum post. the person who got us banned was somebody named lucky1…..and ALL i said was i was going to the bar and i was going to pour some out for lucky b/c i knew she was going to get banned.

    next thing you know i was at work..actually doing some work. all summer. my entire work ethic changed for real. folks like “dayum. why you got this report to me a whole day early??”

    because my blackazz got banned from that’s why…

    now i’m back my same ole self. like bernie mac said black folks will tell you “i did not come here to work today!”

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    BayArea says:

    You guys are CRAZY! I have been lurking ALL day!

    Sandra can you believe you can get 150+ comments while posting nothing new on the blog?????????

    Gotta love :)

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    Anna says:

    Welcome back kwallace 577.

    Sandra can you believe you can get 150+ comments while posting nothing new on the blog?????????
    It’s because we know how to get along and realize that being banned only makes you email and beg to get back in the click. There may have not been a new post today but we all got through our 9-5.

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    HunE916 says:

    Mzsuave Says:

    Hey, where’s HunE?
    shanie Says:

    Shoot I guess everybody else had a four day weekend except for us huh. We didn’t get the bulletin. No Sandra. No Hune, No Pryn…..what the hell?

    …I been here…creeping… :p

    I just saw that there weren’t any new posts so I decided to actually get some WORK done today! I ain’t done sh*t in the past 2 weeks!

    …besides…I be making folks mad too much (sensitive bloggers) and I saw everyone was having a good laid back time, so I opted out today.

    But watch out tomorrow! I’m backed up and I’ll be back with a vengeance! So that means; toosexy, Crys, goat- PROTECT YA NECK! :o [Insert evil villain laugh here]

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    Mzsuave says:

    lol HunE. Dang, ’bout damm time you commented!

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    Kymystry says:

    @ kwallace … that was the person who got us banned … ain’t that a blip … chile .. so you were out in the tundra with me … it was COLD out there being all exiled … lol

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    iyonah says:

    Oh wow Kym … I didn’t know that you were banned at one point. I can recall seeing you comment on almost every post. NO low blows intended.

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    iyonah says:

    HunE how you doing???

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    HunE916 says:

    I’m good! Had a nice long weekend in San Francisco with my boo boo- Left the stress there and Trying to enjoy this short week.

    Thanks for asking about little ole’ me! :)

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    iyonah says:

    Oh taht sounds nice. How was it there??

    Everyone went and did something … mzsuave was making purchases and meeting almost cute people …lol

    I spent time w/ my family and we ended up actually going to Dorney Park which was fun!

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    mizzdallas says:

    Good morning, SR family! I see I ya’ll were acting bad!!LOL!

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    Krysi J says:

    Where you at Sandra? where is Snooty, Helleva10, Moca, MAJAH, and everybody else? Whats really good?

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    Kymystry says:

    Morn MizzD !! who was ackin bad ? ? ?

    *z*z*z* SHAKING THE MONITOR *z*z*z*

    Wake Up AUntie !!!

    Morning Yall !!

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    LovelyLady says:

    GoodMorning yall, Kym , Dallas, Hun and the rest of the SR Fam I missed yall, had a good weekend

    I guess yall said F8ck it huh? Auntie aint putting up no news we going still comment….damn I was bored as hell @ work yesterday

    Auntie Where Da HEll U @, U Aight

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    Kymystry says:

    Morn LoveyLady …

    Auntie got hemmed up … it musta been the BOMB … lol

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    LovelyLady says:

    ^^^ I know right, I was thinking da same thing

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    kwallace577 says:

    morn fam. if auntie don’t show up soon i am putting a missing persons report out on her. getting your groove back is one thing, but she is taking it too far.

    i worry…

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    Mimi Renee says:

    Good Mornin Kym, Lovely, MizzDallas and all who is here!!!

    Dang I havent been here all weekend and come back today to no new posts…. :(

    Guess I better actually do some work like I did yesterday

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    Mzsuave says:

    Mownin’ my lovely SR cyber fam!:-D

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    kwallace577 says:

    @kym okay now that i know we was in timeout together listening to old skool monica and xscape songs, i gots some questions.

    what happened to the old crew? did they meet the same fate as us?

    mochamommy, snooty, 2thick4u, a few others too that are noticeably missing….

    NOT that i don’t have love for the new fam. i’m just wondering….

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    bk2atl says:

    Hey y’all! I’ve been checking back since yesterday morning and I am CONVINCED that Beyonce and Jay Z have kidnapped Sandra and will be posting a ransom note here soon….just watch!

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    LovelyLady says:

    kwallace577 Says:

    @kym okay now that i know we was in timeout together listening to old skool monica and xscape songs, i gots some questions.

    what happened to the old crew? did they meet the same fate as us?

    mochamommy, snooty, 2thick4u, a few others too that are noticeably missing….

    NOT that i don’t have love for the new fam. i’m just wondering

    Shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh don’t asy nuffin *whispering* I caught 2thick4u on media fake out…

    and snooty and mocha, well I can’t tell u where they @, but Kym know lls

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    Mzsuave says:

    kwallace577 Says:

    NOT that i don’t have love for the new fam. i’m just wondering….


    I was about to say…..*throwing my hands up* what about us?!! lol

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    LovelyLady says:



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    goat76 says:

    Good morning ya’ll……..I ain’t nikcuf wit yall today….at least not too much….

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    kwallace577 says:

    @lovely dang so she got banned for being on fake out? i saw her up there too but she was posting on there long time ago. this is the only place i post though. glad for it if that will get you banished.

    @ awe mzsuave u know i gots nuttin but love for ya baby….

    i been up here 2 years sans the 2.5 months i got banned-ed.

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    Mimi Renee says:

    I have been coming to SR since 2004 when it was a place to look at party pics or different events around ATL. But I recently started posting this year cuz I normally dont like posting on blogs and message boards like that…but it passes the time away at work :)

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    Mzsuave says:

    lol @ Goat….we’ll see….

    I’ve been here almost 2 years… is so addicting, it’s my coffee and donuts in the morning :)

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    iyonah says:

    Good Morning SR family!!!

    Ms. Rose …. where did you go???

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    LovelyLady says:

    kwallace577 Says:

    @lovely dang so she got banned for being on fake out? i saw her up there too but she was posting on there long time ago. this is the only place i post though.
    lol…i don’t think she got banned for dat..well i hope not

    kwallace577 Says:

    glad for it if that will get you banished
    *twisting lips side ways* umm humm u just don’t wanna get BANNED lls.

    kwallace577 Says:

    i been up here 2 years sans the 2.5 months i got banned-ed
    LMAO…I remember when Auntie first started banning people…what u get banned for

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    teecee says:

    wow…… somethings aint right here, i think i have to implore some of my grand mother logic and get down to bidness

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    DivaMama says:

    Good morning all! Where’s Sandra?

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    LovelyLady says:

    DivaMama Says:

    Good morning all! Where’s Sandra?

    Stalking Rhi Rhi and Solange lol

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    iyonah says:

    @ Diva that’s what I am asking … she is really MIA … no updates .. nothing

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    DivaMama says:

    LOL @ previous posts….

    So she could have someone hemmed up somewhere? Hope it’s good!

    How do I get my picture up here? I’ve been on for a while, and never knew how… sad, I know…

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    Kymystry says:

    OK YALL .. i’ve been here 1.5 yrs … banned for 2.5 months ..

    the old crew whereabouts… ahem .. ahem .. i don’t know nothing about birthing no babies… lol

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    LovelyLady says:

    DivaMama Says:

    LOL @ previous posts….

    So she could have someone hemmed up somewhere? Hope it’s good!

    How do I get my picture up here? I’ve been on for a while, and never knew how… sad, I know…


    look at the top of the page (the ending of the post) and click on where it says sign up

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    Destiny says:

    OK, where the f*ck is Sandra?

    I thought she didn’t post yesterday because she was maybe recovering from a fun-filled Labor Day Weekend.

    But I come onto the site today and still no updates?

    Damn.. As much as she can get on my nerves sometimes (LOL), I hope she is alright!

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    LovelyLady says:

    Kym u stupid azz sh*t

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    LovelyLady says:

    Kym is Snooty and dem still ova there with Prysnexx

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    SnootyPooty1 says:

    Good Morning,

    you guys!!!! I have been on here for almost 2yrs…
    LOL at all of these comments.. KYM I need to see you so follow me right now!!!!! LMBO

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    kwallace577 says:

    well i am following the lead of my sista kym. i don’t know nothing about birthing none neither then. and i will not broach the subject anymore. they just ain’t here no more. and i wanna stay here now that i’m back.

    i ain’ GOT NO birthing hips….

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    iyonah says:

    I have been coming to the site for about a year and posting for about 2 months now

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    aprilshowers says:

    Good morning ya’ll!

    Maaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaan, where the fuq is Sandra Rose??? :-| !

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    bk2atl says:

    I live in the ATL, so I’m gonna start posting flyers with her picture on it around my neighborhood tonight cuz something ain’t right y’all. BTW, I have been coming to this site for about 3 years now….before you could post comments, when there as only a “fan mail” section…no articles, and only picture galleries.

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    Kymystry says:

    Snooty .. I’ll see yall when i get home about 11-ish .. lol .. lol

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    DivaMama says:

    One year coming to the site, posting for 2 months…

    I can help with the flyer distribution if you need some assistance…

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    pointhimout says:

    where is Sandra? I feel like I’ve been reading the sunday paper every day now. Does she have back up who can post something? I’ve gotten a lot of work done since returning yesterday. you know that aint right.

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    LADYTEA says:

    gigling at the comments… Sandra is MIA.. I wonder if she’s reading the comments, feeling the love of being missed?

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    iyonah says:

    @ ladytea – that’s an idea .. I hope she is ok .. I sent her an email … no response yet

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    SnootyPooty1 says:

    @Kym… Okay make sure you bring your switch!!!!!!!!!!!!

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    iyonah says:

    Hey Snooty! Where is Bird?

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    Kymystry says:

    DANG … I gotta bring a Switch … lol .. lol

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    Anna says:

    LADYTEA Says:

    gigling at the comments… Sandra is MIA.. I wonder if she’s reading the comments, feeling the love of being missed?
    I hope that is all it is. She is just kicking back patting herself of the back for getting over 200 comments on a post from Friday, today is Wed.

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    Mzsuave says:

    iyonah Says:

    @ ladytea – that’s an idea .. I hope she is ok .. I sent her an email … no response yet

    Me, too. Has she ever just not posted this long before??? She’s a blogger, she’s addicted to her own site, so I’m for certain she’s reading our comments.

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    LovelyLady says:

    Heyyyyyyyyyyyyy Snooty where u been.

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    Kymystry says:

    Auntie … we needs you .. we LUBS you … can we have our fix Please ..

    If you need some chap-stick or carmax after a busy weekend .. I GOTS CHU …


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    MsAmour22 says:

    Hi everybody (:
    Ok. I’ve been waiting patiently & can’t take it any longer. Where is she? I am about to do a people search and call her house. Where are u Sandra?

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    Kymystry says:

    Yall think Auntie found her a lil young’n .. turned her out .. flew to Cali and got Married ? ? ? ?

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    pointhimout says:

    has she and monica and tiny and t.i. and rhianna have a fallen out; it was way too much for one weekend so she’s in hiding?

    Dear Sandra,

    I know things get tough when the world seems to be against you and people who u once thought were your friends show their true colors. Please, please talk to me or my husband.


    Beyonce and Jay-Z

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    MsAmour22 says:

    I got 16 results for Sandra Rose in Georgia, does anybody know her middle initial?

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    pointhimout says:

    P.S.–We forgive you.

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    Kymystry says:

    HAHAHAHAHAHAH @ point .. lol .. lol

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    goat76 says:

    She might be in Jail……1 reason for not updating……
    Them Glazed Doughnuts probably gave her A$$ LockJaw……

    Good morning to all the Beautiful Ladies of

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    Honey2008 says:

    Goodmorning All

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    pointhimout says:

    Has freddyo updated his sight? maybe he knows what’s going on.

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    Kymystry says:

    Good Mornin Goat …

    I’ll catch yall when I gets to the house … maybe Auntie will have something new .. if not .. we’ll keep buggin on this thread … lol

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    Mzsuave says:

    LMAooooooooooooooooooooooooooooO lockjaw

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    SANDRA……..Where are you?
    We need you bad as a heartbeat :)


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    bk2atl says:

    Heeeey Goat! You may be on to something. Last weekend was Black Gay Pride weekend right??? Maybe Sandra parited a lil too hard???

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    goat76 says:

    What’s up Kymy…….What u going Home early 4 (I still ain’t forget about those flower you got yesterday)……

    Mzsuave whats the deal on the West side…..Sandrarose went from blogg site to an Orphanage….

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    goat76 says:

    @bk2atl…….We need to send out an All Points Bulletin(APB)or a Missing Person Report….or call DHR on her a$$ for neglecting her Gotdamn kids!!!!!!!!!!!!

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    iyonah says:

    LOl @ Mom …. that was a good one

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    Mzsuave says:

    Goat…same ****, different toilet over here. I called in sick today so that I can run some errands…but I just can’t seem to get motivated to get my azz up outta this bed…lol

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    starr says:

    sandra where arth though sandra?

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    SnootyPooty1 says:

    @iyonah… Hey lady (waves)

    @KYM … yes bring a big one too…

    @LovelyLady…. I have been around… LOL How are you!!!!!

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    Sharonda says:

    200+?Well it hasn’t been like that since the Trina post we on to something.Sandra where you??

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    Peachiz says:

    Auntie Sandra has alot of explaining to do when she get back to her laptop….

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    shanie says:

    Good Morning Family~

    Hope all is well with ya!!!

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    Peachiz says:

    LOL Girl yes I thought the same thing 200+, Sandra has alot of explaining to do..

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    krbinc says:


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    DivaMama says:

    I’ve had to succumb to the pressure of looking at other blogs while at work today.. I feel like I’m cheating…

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    Mzsuave says:

    lol @ Diva…girl you ain’t the only one, I feel so bad!


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    candycane says:

    Ok waht the hell is going on here. I was ok yesterday, but today damnit I NEED MY FIX! Got me over here twitchin’ checkin every few seconds.

    Hi yall

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    shanie says:

    Yeah I have had to resort to other blogs as well….It’s just not the same. I feel like a crackhead going through withdrawals right now!!!!

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    Kymystry says:

    Ok .. I’m at the crib …

    @ goat…. I am usually off on Wed’s .. and since my company makes you use your PTO for holidays and everything in between .. (i’m saving mine up for my birthday weekend Oct 3rd) .. I went in for half a day .. and the flowers .. ahem .. baby you know you my ONLY cyber boo .. (rubs shoulders.. aww come on baby …. don’t be mad… lol)

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    LovelyLady says:

    @ Shanie I’m right with you lol

    I feel outta place at other blogs.

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    terika83 says:

    Guys what happened to Sandra? No updates?

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    Nina says:

    Sandra – at least leave a comment in here…even if it says “Hey I will update tomorrow”

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    shanie says:


    Sandra has feel off the face of the earth this week. She is somewhere as goat puts it Glazing somebody’s doughnuts.

    Sandra don’t ban me for that I am just keeping it real.

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    goat76 says:

    @kymy……just making sure you wasn’t trying to get your doughnut dunked…….Getting Flowers + Leaving work early = doughnuts getting dunked……..sorry for the misunderstanding

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    terika83 says:

    @ shanie, I see. I checked almost everyday and thought she just had a long weekend like some others thought but today I was like “ok, something is going on”. Lol I didn’t actually think there would be a convo in here about her whereabouts. I just posted and scrolled up afterwards. lol.

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    Kymystry says:

    Where in the blog-O-phere is SandraRose…


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    shanie says:

    What’s crackin wit cha goat?

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    goat76 says:

    @shanie…….nothing much, just chillin and wondering what the hell they did wit Sandra…….I believe she got locked up or beat up…the reason why we can’t get any updates….

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    kitty4shigady says:

    Okay seriously where is sandra??? I hope she is okay.

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    Made4Success says:

    Dang! Crickets and cobwebs, crikets and more cobwebs.

    Da’hayle gon’ on? All those people Sandra banned few weeks ago don’ got together..????

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    shanie says:

    @ goat you stupid for that one. Maybe her and the Concrete Loop girl finally got at each other and they both are in jail…Just kidding again Sandra please don’t ban me! LOL

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    UrbanBeauty says:

    So this is where everybody is! And still no Sandra?!?! Guess I’ll have to actually do some work today too! Something ain’t right. I been on this sight for 3 years now and haven’t seen this happen before. I hope she’s okay….

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    shanie says:

    Dang I got bleeped out I said the pooleternoc gosh.

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    Kymystry says:

    Wow…. singing.. We got it we got it Bad … lol

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    shanie says:

    When we know were through We Click Refresh and we come right back…we got it we got it bad…I feel you Kym LOL

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    goat76 says:

    This feels worst than Celie and Nettie being seperated from each other on the Color Purple…………

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    Mzsuave says:

    hhahahaahahhaha…I’m threw with yall. I think I’m a finally get my butt up and go run some errands. Dueces!!!

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    shanie says:


    see ya lata lady! Have a good one!

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    bk2atl says:

    I think we been bamboozled y’all and Sandra is somewhere reading theses comments…but just in case, I’ma start calling her friends parents to see if they’ve seen her. Soooooo….does anybody have any PERSONAL gossip they want to share from their Labor Day weekend????? At this point I will take any gossip I can get.

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    iyonah says:

    Lol @ bk2atl …. personal gossip …. I am waiting ….

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    goat76 says:

    Yeah bk2atl tell us some of the freaky tihs you did over the weekend….

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    bk2atl says:

    @ Goat…since it’s OUR story, I’ll let you tell it!!!!! LOL

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    sharnell says:

    Okay, I thought I was only one wondering where Sandra was? Maybe she is on holiday, she has been pumping out news at an accelerated speed these days. Hell, I can barely keep up! Anywho, until we speak again my friends.

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    goat76 says:

    @bk2atl……I don’t think you want me to tell it…..It may get like one of those freaky romance novel wit words like “loins” and “glistening” or neva mind, neva mind…I might have to get naked to write that…..don’t want to scare the white people in the office……

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    HunE916 says:

    God Damn! 261+ comments?! And ya’ll wondering where SR is at. Sh*t, she probably somewhere signing up new advertisers for all this traffic she’s getting on her site, for real!

    She’s like, “See, I get hundreds of comments when I don’t even DO sh*t!” :)

    Do ya thing Auntie! I ain’t mad at you!

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    bk2atl says:

    LMAO @ “loins” and “glistening”! Don’t forget to say something about your “throbbing manhood” too.

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    goat76 says:

    @bk2atl……I’ll let you hold onto the “throbbing manhood”…. jus playin….

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    Peachiz says:

    LMAO @ my family
    LOL I don’t care what, how long Auntie sandra take I will “NEVER” go to MTO…”NEVER”

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    Mzsuave says:

    Goat & Bk2atl…yall better behave yall selves!

    Ok….I’m gone for real this time lol

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    bk2atl says:

    Uh huh MsSuave…I’ll see you when you hit “refresh” in 5,4,3,2,1… lol
    @ goat….Boy stop fore I get Cyber pregnant up in here.

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    Mzsuave says:

    lol, ok…I refreshed….lol

    I’M GONE!

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    trish says:

    Sandra………this is so unlike u…… what am i supposed to do now? I guess i have to find something to do and be productive i see…. :(

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    trulyposh says:

    omg, y’all are karazay!

    while i’m concerned about my auntie…i can’t help but to laugh at all of the twist and turns this post has taken since friday.

    krispy kremes and cyber pregnancies? lmbao…please keep the comedy coming, faithful rosebuds….♥

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    shanie says:

    Shoot what else do we have to do? We have to keep ourselves entertained somehow.

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    trulyposh says:

    i’m not mad at y’all…i’m loving it!

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    JustSaying says:

    Ok, I am bad and I am not coming back to this site until next week. I can’t take anymore disappoints on NO NEWS. I guess the**** will be my site of choice until next week. Damn!

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    JustSaying says:

    Oops sorry about the usage of a competitor. But you all know the purple site. Heck, Auntie we have to get our news from some where since you are not feeding us.

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    tiffanikitti says:

    When you go “home” to hang out with Snooty and ‘em, tell PYT to stop acting like her former auntie and unban me. She thought I was SR because I never made a post and banned me.

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    DivaMama says:

    Check in…

    …..still no news….

    I think that I give up for the day!

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    goat76 says:

    Where everybody at………..

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    Amulet says:

    I know you have a good d@mn excuse for this mess.

    I wanted to talk about 50 and Ciara finally admitting they are a couple.

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    DivaMama says:

    @ Amulet,

    I guess I read that they are announcing soon that they are a couple? But I did read that on Media FAKE Out, so I’m not sure how reliable that is.

    Yes, I went on that site (no updates here!)
    Yes, I’m embarrased to say that.

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    starr says:

    Its time to put a amber alert for sandra!!!! like now….!!!

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    goat76 says:

    Call The FBI, GBI, SecretService, U.S. Marshall, WIC, DOG the Bounty Hunter… can’t use him, he don’t like niggas….

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    AlwaysSweet says:


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    Kymystry says:

    I am marinating chicken in some mojo seasoning … then gonna slow roast them and some mashed taters with brocolli for dinna..

    gotta have the food ready when my young-un gets in from football practice.

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    kitty4shigady says:

    DAMN still no sign of sandra??? I am worried now, I have been coming to sandra’s site for like three years but just started posting the last three. Yall know who else is MIA from here WHERE IS 2THICK?

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    kitty4shigady says:

    dang kym that sounds good that is what I am talking about.

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    Mzsuave says:

    Kym, I’m on my way ova with my plate and some foil

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    goat76 says:

    That’s just perfect kymy……You got a job, taking care of the fam, can cook, Glazed Doughnuts…..what more can a man ask for…..

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    goat76 says:

    Mzsuave can u cook????????

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    Amulet says:


    Sometimes MTO is right most of the time. And Ciara does giggle about them being together so you never know. Sometimes he just looks like too much man for her and she can’t handle him but he does seem like the kind of man a woman couldn’t just leave alone.

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    shanie says:

    I heard that Mzsuave….

    @Kym I am coming ova too.

    Goat can you cook?

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    Kymystry says:

    @ goat… you are a BEAST … can make a woman laff .. and the Greatest OF All Time … and you like to Dunk You Crueller Repeately .. what more can a woman ask for …

    and we know you got a J-O-B .. u on the Rose after all .. lol .. lol

    Yall come on ova … I’m yankee with southern DNA my g-momma is country and taught me well … lol

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    DivaMama says:

    Kym, that sounds too good… where do you live again? Don’t feel like cooking tonight…make some for me!

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    shanie says:

    So Neyo got like 700K for R-Kelly acting like a fool on Tour. See I told him NO BITCHASSNESS!!!!

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    shanie says:

    @Kym I got to fly 4 hours to get there but I am sure its worth it.

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    goat76 says:

    @shanie yes I can cook, I just don’t like cooking…..I got to take care of myself….My mom taught me well……
    I really like cooking breakfast, not because its easy, but I like to cook Baby-Boy style……

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    Kymystry says:

    @ Diva … I’m in …ATL ..(Sodom & Gomorrah)…lol

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    bk2atl says:

    Kym, what position does your son play…mine is a wide receiver, wit his lil self. lol He’s good though! His practice runs from about 4:30 until 7:45 EVERYDAMNDAY!!! He had to practice on Labor Day too, and he’s varsity this year so the season runs even longer….AAARGH! He’s so funny b/c he has banned me from his games b/c he doesn’t want to get into a fight with some dude looking at his hot mom! LOL

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    shanie says:

    @ LOL I heard that. Well you need a good woman like your cyber wives to take care of you.

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    bk2atl says:

    What school does he play for…my son is at Grady.

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    DivaMama says:

    @ Kym, well, hell, I’m right here too! Don’t play with the invite, I am feeling so lazy today, especially seeing how I have been spending my energy refreshing this damn page for some blog updates. I think I’m #300! Do I get a prize?

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    DivaMama says:

    @ my #300 comment…Damn, that’s almost as bad as that “first” mess! My bad!!

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    shanie says:

    Now this is a DAMN shame we den blogged over 300 post just off of BS….Sandra you gon get a whoopin leaving us unattended like this.

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    goat76 says:

    @Kymy…….Just freeze mine and FEDEX it to me…….My grandma send frozen chittlins(sp) to her kids all over The U.S……..That’s what u call some First Class tihs(sh1t)

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    shanie says:

    LOL at Goat you are a flicking mess.

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    goat76 says:

    @ DivaMama……My name is Goat76 somepeople call me Goat….I don’t think we’ve met…….

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    dave says:

    Since Sandra not here to report. I thought I might post this about her bff monica.

    Is home girl with child?

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    Mzsuave says:

    goat76 Says:

    @Kymy…….Just freeze mine and FEDEX it to me…….My grandma send frozen chittlins(sp) to her kids all over The U.S……..That’s what u call some First Class tihs(sh1t)

    LLS…that’s some country stuff right there.

    Shanie, you ready? I’m a fly with you. LAX or ONT? Let’s roll…go get us a plate of some good ol’ atl chicken.

    Goat…honestly, I can’t cook, just because I hate to. I always told my mom that I’m marrying a man that will do that for me. She laughs and says good luck with that. But that’s how I was raised…my dad did all the cooking. I like that ****. You cook Baby Boy-style…….so bucket naked? lol I’ll be over tomorrow morning…lol

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    Kymystry says:

    My son is at Parkview he’s 6’5 and a defensive lineman…yesterday a fat as hell kid was holding up the line .. they had to sprint in under 18 seconds .. the other boys were pushin him so they could stop … anywhoo .. i made a joke to his mom this kid is like 5’8 and weighs ova 300lb .. this fat heffa tried to break bad .. WHY did she do that .. the football DADS clowned HER and Her Son .. I was WEAK .. lol

    My lil cousin goes to Grady .. he’s 16.. a tae kwon do champion and in rotc.

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    Kymystry says:

    hahahaha.. i’m glad someone expained what Bay-Boy style is . cuse I’ve NEVER seen that movie .. and don’t want to … lol

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    goat76 says:

    @Mzsuave……It looks like you might have to get u country(civilized)nigga…….

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    LovelyLady says:

    Damnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn yall on 300+ comments, yall goin get fired.

    *grabs popcorn sits back and see what yall been talking bout*

    Yall betta not been talking bout ME lls

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    shanie says:

    @MzSuave I’m ready and LAX sounds good to me. We on the red eye doing a turn around real quick. LOL

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    bk2atl says:

    Girrrrllllll…we got one on our team that needs one of those bras that Jill Scott designed. I mean, I’m like there is NO WAY that can be good for his little heart. I don’t understand how parents let it get to that point. I would be scared my kid would have hart failure on the field. Your little cousin may know my son. He’s 15, but he’s a junior. Small world hunh? lol

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    Amulet says:

    I hate to be the only gossiper maintaining the purpose of this page, but Neyo is coming out of the closet soon.

    Good for him.

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    Kymystry says:

    I wouldn’t doubt it bk2atl.. it IS a small world.

    @ LovelyLady ain’t nobody yappin about you im trying to cook dinna … lol

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    shanie says:

    @Amulet….He is already out of the closet he don’t need to announce that we can tell just by looking at him. Gurl He was at a funeral that I went too a couple of month’s ago looking like a straight fairy….lol he was standing up there (because I guess he thought someone was going to give up their seats because he was Neyo) posing with his hands in his pockets with his hat tilted to the side looking straight GAY!!!! LOL

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    Kymystry says:

    Amult … thi threas has gon in fiddy elbben directions .. thats what Happens when Auntie leaves us unattended ..

    We throw a party .. and invite folk ova and PARTAY !! .. lol

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    kitty4shigady says:

    Damn I want some chili it is cold today. We have to finish the left overs though my ass cooked roast and potatoes and broccli rice, ribs, baked beans, green beans and fries for the holiday and we have to east the rest of that then maybe tonight I will make chili for tomorrow yummy.

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    goat76 says:

    I thought this post was about Obama and his black side……

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    shanie says:

    @ Amulet…what other dude/gurl you know can write these songs for Rhianna and Beyonce and they become #1 singles. He sure wrote take a bow and Irreplaceable. Then he had the nerve to write a response to take a bow…..too damn funny if you ask me.

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    kwallace577 says:

    @goat i once met my grannie half way from raleigh to demopolis,al for some cornish game hens, a pan of dressing, 4 sweet potato pies, a pot of collards, and of course a bucket of chitlins. no lie. half way from dee-mop to raleigh is 5 hours. at the georgia line.

    my momma was sick and requested all of the above….made by her momma. grams cooked all night and called me and my sister at like 4 in da morning and was like come meet me.

    gangsta. they don’t make women like that no more. cook all night and drive all day. at 76.

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    goat76 says:

    Damn kitty…..Where are you for it to be a cold day……and you cooked everything in you kitchen except the dishes and the curtains…….

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    Amulet says:

    I knew I didn’t like Neyo for some reason. He looked like he was holding a secret. I like him, since he is now honest, I can respect that. I guess the sexual addiction, was just homo urges. Cause straight people get satisfied, and chill, then sleep.

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    goat76 says:

    @Kwallace…….Gotdamn!!!!!!!!your grandma knows how to drive……

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    Kymystry says:

    gigglin @ 321+ posts .. this is like the Seinfeld thread .. a thread about nothing .. lol … lol

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    DivaMama says:

    LMAO @ the Ne-Yo comments! I was on some site and they had these pics of him when he was still in ghost-writing mode.. not a good look! He looked sweeter than tea!

    @ goat, pleasure meeting you. I haven’t introduced myself to anyone (newbies like me get shy)

    HI SR FAM!!!

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    kitty4shigady says:

    CDFU at goat I am in kcmo The midwest its cold and rainy as hell today I don’t know what is up with that. I love to cook But I am from the old school so I like to cook enough for at least two days. I told my son the other day that I don’t know why the kids now days act like left overs is a bad thing. All they want to do is go out to eat. did anybody see that clip of the fox news guy clowning solo? He kept calling her beyonce’s lil sister i was cdddfu. I should have called in sick today all this rain

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    DivaMama says:

    @ kitty4shigady,

    Thank Gustav for that! Look for the rain for a few days!!! :(

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    shanie says:

    @DivaMama…Hey Ms Lady Pleasure to meet you. I saw that site with Neyo looking Sweet with a wave cap on. LOL

    @ Amulet~I heard the Flick out of that. When you fall asleep right after then you know it was good.

    @goat~you still silly….you keep a sista laughing

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    goat76 says:

    CDFU…….What school is that??????

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    bk2atl says:

    LMAO @ “you cooked everything in you kitchen except the dishes and the curtains”!

    @shanie & Amulet…I asw a picture of him with a tongue ring (before he was in the spotlight) and he is soooo flamin! I’m not mad, but how can anybody not see that! I don’t know ANY straight dudes that have tongue rings. Would any of y’all date a dude with a tongue ring…I mean I’m sure it has it’s obvious benefits, but to me that just screams G-A-Y.

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    Amulet says:

    All that spinning NeYo was doing. That’s why Usher stoped spinning on his toes. lol

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    karaz says:

    Aunty sandy, did Lynn Jeter kidnap you? Or did that bloated man Angel sit on you? Come on back and post already, you know Solange is preggers and TI and Tiny got hitched over the holiday… Monica was there too And Rihanna was the flowergirl.

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    shanie says:


    Nope I would definitely NOT mess with any MAN or whatever he is choosing to be with a tongue ring. That raises so many questions.

    Anyone seen the movie Cover? I stay asking Dudes do they have a little dust in there eye.

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    Mimi Renee says:

    @ Shanie… yea I just saw that about Neyo on Yahoo a few ago. Time to payup Rrrah!!!!

    (waves) Hi Diva Mama!! It’s okay, I’m kinda a newbie too

    (SCREAMSSS) Sandy Rose, where are you?? this is not FUNNY!!! I know you are watchin us to see how many posts we can make it to. :)

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    Mimi Renee says:

    OMG KARAZ!!!!!!!! thanks for making me almost wake up from boredom at my job!!! LMAOOO @ Or did that bloated man Angel sit on you?

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    kwallace577 says:

    @bk2atl one of my husband running partners from work came to one of our cookouts about 3 months ago with a tongue ring. i had always gotten some gay vibes from dude but that did it for me.

    i think it did it for the rest of the crew too. last week when we all went bowling i was like “where is greg??” and nobody would answer me. i think they have cut him off from the click……

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    Kymystry says:

    I dated a dude who went a got a tounge piercing at my urging .. and when it was all healed. . I taught him how to use it … ahhh good times… good memories….

    hahahahahahah@ Karaz … lol.. Angel-Man … lol .. lol

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    kitty4shigady says:

    Naw I don’t think I could date a man with a tongue ring.

    @divamama I know right it is suppose to rain for the next ten days.

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    bk2atl says:

    I wish we could start a new thread. This one is extremely slow because of all the posts ~looking behind me to see if Sandra heard me tryna cyberjack her blog~

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    shanie says:

    @Kym….LOL you are too funny. Now that’s a different story it was at your urging.

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    goat76 says:

    I think ya’ll might need to worry more about the ones that want to stick it in your booty hole…..dat **** is more suspect than a tongue ring……..Just my thought….Hope I didn’t offend anybody

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    Kymystry says:

    does anyone watch fron G’s to Gents besides me ?

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    Amulet says:

    Why NeYo got to be called a “sensitive thug”? lol
    I guess Thugery is dead now! lol

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    DivaMama says:

    @ goat,

    I had an ex that unceremoniuosly asked me that once… a few years later, I found out that he had a thing for trannies… go figure…

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    shanie says:

    @ KYM Yep I do and I think T-Mac was a little fruity….so glad he went home last night.

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    Amulet says:

    @goat76, It is very suspect. But it’s really starting to be a trend now. Some men try it with women, and I think they turn themselves out.

    @Kymystry, I watch from G’s to Gents. And I do think half of the are bi-sexual. Maybe men been hating each other so long, that now it’s time for loving.

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    bk2atl says:

    Why do you think that goat, just curous b/c I’ve had more than one boyfriend request that. I think besides oral, that’s all some men/woman have in their “freaky” arsenal. They think that’s really getting freaky….I just think it’s really uncomfortable.

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    bk2atl says:

    Amulet…I’ma fight you for typing that last line…you are stoooopid for that one! LMAO

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    Amulet says:

    I can answer your question bk2atl.

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    shanie says:

    @Amulet~ Eww they need to get it together either you are or you not.

    @Goat~I agree with you to an extent. I have always wondered about that. What thrill would they get out of that doing it to a woman? But then again some women like it in the booty. I don’t want nobody in my dook-shoot. I’m cool!

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    Amulet says:

    Sandra is on this page.

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    bk2atl says:

    Amulet…do tell, please.

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    Kymystry says:

    @ bk.. I caouldn’t stant T-jones … his ole fluffy fruity azz .. and Cee .. and I’m FROM Jersey and I want his weasel lookin azz GONE …

    My fav WAS Keshaun now I gotta go with Shotta or Creepa. not a E6 fan …

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    Krysi J says:

    Hey Snooty!! Its me Krysi j…Sandra let me back in the squad, but I see a lot of our soldiers are missing?? Where is everybody, I know Sandra wouldn’t band them?

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    Amulet says:

    Okay everybody, this guy kept asking me to have anal sex. I asked him why. He explained that it was tighter and had a different feel. He said that white women do it all the time and that us black women are slow to catch on to things.

    That’s what he told me. In case you are wondering, I didn’t do it.

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    kitty4shigady says:

    I watch from g’s to gents man that is ny show. Creepa better get is **** together or else he will be gone next week.

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    goat76 says:

    @bk2atl…..I don’t know why….maybe it would be different if the wife asked for it, but only to satisfy her, but other than that I don’t know……..I believe I smoke too much sometimes…..

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    kitty4shigady says:

    yea i like creepa and shotta too cee can kick rocks.

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    shanie says:

    @Kym I agree with you I think I am going to go with Creepa. He’s keeping it hood and real. Being that Shotta is an LA Native that clown got mad game. I do not believe he is homeless and sleeping in his car. Niccahs in LA got too much game.

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    goat76 says:

    The cooch can be made tighter, just can’t be messin wit no amateurs

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    bk2atl says:

    @ goat…AIN’T NO SUCH THANG AS SMOKIN TOO MUCH BRA! And why do smokers always hide they stash (from the other smokers in the house) when they know DAMN well they ain’t gon be able to remember where they put it????!!!!!!!!
    I nearly asked the kids last night if they knew where Momma’s stash was last night! J/K

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    Amulet says:

    Are you saying sometimes coochie ain’t tight enough? How can it be made tighter?

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    shanie says:

    @Goat…it sure can….LOL! You are a man of experience !!!

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    shanie says:

    @Anulet…I need to hit you on a side note and fill you in. We can make our cooch do what we want it to do with a lil practice.

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    goat76 says:

    Kegel’s……ya’ll probably got something on the Grocery store ailse………..I think the cooch has muscles…and a woman knows how to flex her muscles…….

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    Kymystry says:

    Wow … am I the only non-smoker and non-drinker here? ?

    this thread is off the chain .. Is Obama Black enough .. to cookin dinna.. to ne-homo .. to g’s and gents .. looping around to tounge rings and anal sex and smoking … lol

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    Amulet says:

    Even tighter than a ass hole?

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    kitty4shigady says:

    well outside of the excercise how can you make it tight, please share. And I agree about hiding yo stash cause I have done that a couple of times lol aww I am go be mad at shotta of he is running game about being homeless Oh and I could not stand d-boy glad he is gone. What about the fool pretty ricky he was such a dumbass.

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    Kymystry says:

    @ goat.. i’ve been doin klegals since the 80’s boo … wink wink .. why you think i got some flowers and teddy bear ? ?

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    goat76 says:

    bk2atl………I think I might need to cut back…..I smoke a whole blunt without putting it out if I’m smoking by myself…something I usally don’t do….but I ain’t hurting nobody

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    kitty4shigady says:

    okay I was waiting cause I was thinking damn did I miss something outsie of the kegel’s lol

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    shanie says:

    @Amulet Umm Boo I don’t know about that one because my ass hole aint open but Like goat said they have coochie exercises as well as coochir tightener. You ever been to a naughty girl party?

    @ Kym no I don’t smoke andI am an occasional drinker so you do have a patna in here.

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    Amulet says:

    @Kymstry, I don’t smoke, I drink occassionally. We’re proving that conversation is not dead.

    Sandra would be proud of us.

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    SEPTEMBER 3–Meet Kenneth Smith. The Florida man, 29, was arrested yesterday for wearing baggy pants. Smith was busted by Riviera Beach cops for violating a city ordinance governing low-slung trousers (or, legally speaking, “exposure of undergarment in public”). According to a Riviera Beach Police Department affidavit, cops were investigating a report of a man selling drugs from a parked Chevy Impala when they spotted Smith standing beside the vehicle. As Officer B. Jackson noted in the report, Smith’s brown and white plaid shorts “were so low that it exposed his blue and white boxer shorts approximately two inches below his waist.” Smith, who was also charged with disorderly conduct, could be fined up to $150 on the pants charge. In a bid to criminalize a fashion style popularized by urban youth and hip-hop fans, Riviera Beach voters approved the new ordinance earlier this year. While first offenders like Smith only face a monetary hit, if a baggy pants devotee gets nabbed more than once, he/she could face up to 30 days in jail.

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    Kymystry says:

    cool … @ shanie … i can’t partake in the drinkin and smokin jokes … lol

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    goat76 says:

    Kymy I know…..I might have been born at night, but not last night…….

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    AUGUST 28–A Wisconsin man who broke into a number of women’s homes to steal their bras and underwear was charged Tuesday with five counts of felony burglary. According to an affidavit filed in Winnebago Circuit Court, Christopher Sullivan illegally entered the residences and took undergarments and photographs from at least five women. Later he would superimpose the women’s images onto pictures taken from pornographic magazines and mail them to the women along with other creepy pictures that used Barbie dolls as props. Sullivan, 43, told officers from the Oshkosh Police Department that the mailings were “intended to scare his victims.” One of his alleged victims received an envelope with two Polaroids, one with “three Barbie dolls upside down, naked with their heads cut off” and the other with the woman’s head next to a decapitated Barbie and the message “your head will be cut off, skinned, boiled, baked, we will have your skull on our table of sacrifice” written next to the picture. During questioning, Sullivan told police he chose one of his victims, an upstairs neighbor, because “she and her boyfriend were having very loud sex” and that angered him. He admitted choosing another victim because she “caught his attention” while riding a lawnmower in a bikini. He also told police he would classify himself as a “sexual predator,” but his religion prevented him from crossing the line into raping or murdering because that would be a “grave sin.” In a search of his home, police turned up magazines and videos, at least one of which referenced Ted Bundy, as well as three headless Barbie dolls with metal rods through their knees. They also recovered a handwritten “confession” which included an admission that “Recently I sent some threatening letters to; did damage to some property; and stole from some people that made me angry and frustrated.” Sullivan, pictured above in a Winnebago County Sheriff’s Office mug shot, faces more than sixty years in prison if convicted on all of the charges.

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    Amulet says:

    I didn’t say anything about my ass hole being open. lol
    Nothing goes in there.
    But no, I have not been to a naughty girl party.

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    goat76 says:

    Look like we got a substitute

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    kitty4shigady says:

    Omg what the hell is wrong with that fool. Did anybody hear about the lady who put her one month old in the microwave?

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    kitty4shigady says:

    @amulet I have not been to a naughty party either I would love to go to one though.

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    Kymystry says:

    @ Blackbarbie …. guess he’ll go invest in a belt ..

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    AUGUST 15–Meet Jennifer Rosenberg. The Texas woman used her 12-year-old daughter as a designated driver so that she could be chauffeured to a Longview bar to celebrate her 35th birthday. Rosenberg was arrested Wednesday night after her child was pulled over by cops for a traffic violation (the girl told officers she had just dropped her mother off at a bar about two miles from their home). Longview Police Department officers responded to Leon’s Bar and Grill, where they arrested Rosenberg on a child endangerment charge, according to a probable cause affidavit. She was booked into the Gregg County jail, where the below mug shot was taken. It is unclear whether Rosenberg planned on having her daughter ferry her back home after the evening’s merrymaking.

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    Amulet says:

    I don’t give them lost people my attention, but thanks BLACKBARBIE404 for the info :o)

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    Amulet says:

    I thought naughty girl parties get kind of gay. I don’t like nobody’s funky ass on me. lol

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    goat76 says:

    Good day my people……..keep yo doughnuts glazed up…Im out

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    Amulet says:

    Yeah, that did mess up the mood of our flow.
    I might be out too.

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    shanie says:

    @Amulet…Naw they donn’t get Gay at least the ones that are held here in La don’t. They MAY and I mean MAY have a male exotic stripper but basically its just a lady that comes out with different trinkets to show you how to stimulate and satisfy your dude or yourself when he is not available. I don’t no about no GAY naughty girl parties. I don’t think I would attend.

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    kitty4shigady says:

    Well I did not know that I guess that is why I have never been so I iwll pass on those parties.

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    kitty4shigady says:

    @shaine That is the kind of party I am talking about

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    bk2atl says:

    Bye y’all…I had fun “talking” to y’all today! Everybody have a safe evening. Kym and Shanie…I’ll put that one in the air for y’all tonight.

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    shanie says:

    @bk2atl…Alright Lady!

    I am out too you guys have a grat afternoon (for the westcoast folk) and evening (for the East Coast Folk). I’ll chat with yall tomorrow…as always it’s been real!

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    BayArea says:

    Auntie Sandra is watching………

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    Crys says:

    395 – three hundred and NINETY FIFTH!!!

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    candi21 says:

    Im convinced Beyonce sent a hitman.

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    Peachiz says:

    ^^^^^ LOL Beyonce and Ciara set the Hitman :-)
    2Thick is alive and kicking, she just posted on . I asked her where she been @.. I guess she reply tommorrow.

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    Peachiz says:

    Jewel Thieves Target Mayweather and they got a picture.(he looks like DMC from Run DMC, or RedMan, who know, it’s my understanding that “Money” is offering $100,000 reward for 7Million in Jewels, good luck “Money” i doubt anyone will offer any news for that percentage.

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    Peachiz says:

    Usher(I forget what Sandra calls him) is going o Tour soon.

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    Peachiz says:

    400 (WOW) Sandra, I hope you have a doctors note when you come back. Well Today was productive, I was able to look for a great deal on ThanksGiving Weekend Vegas Trip.

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    HunE916 says:

    Sandra knows she needs her ass whooped for this sh*t!

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    aprilshowers says:

    @ candi21 Says:

    Im convinced Beyonce sent a hitman.

    HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!! Good one! :-D

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    miamore73 says:

    @ candi21 Says:

    Im convinced Beyonce sent a hitman.

    Maybe it was ushers and chris b. old women.

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    ckarinwhite says:

    Sandra, you didn’t have to stop speaking to us to feel wanted!…

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    Think she’s just busy at the Republican convention or something?

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    Charles says:

    JESUS!!!!!!!!!!!! A lot of people really miss and love sandra, i didnt even know 300+ people had accounts, wow. We miss you come back =]

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    mimi08 says:

    Um, is Sandra okay? This is too weird…she better have a good excuse for this absence…

    On a serious note, hope she’s okay…

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    ldorisca says:

    I was the first person to respond to this post and hopefully I am the last. Sandra PLEASE COME BACK TO US!! I may not always respond to your posts, but I am 3 mths pregnant and this is not good for my baby :)

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    blkdiamonn says:

    OMG…WHAT THE HELL GOIN ON UP IN HERE!! This is some crazy! It’s like everybody done lost they dayum mind!!! This post is off the hook..ppl done started they own blogs right in here, posting stories and carryin!! WTF?

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    Mika79 says:

    Did Sandra get swept away in the hurricane???? Dern ya’ll are talkative!

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    Amulet says:

    Yo, why you late? huh! huh?

    Just messing wit u. lol

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    daaaaaaaaang yall are funny for real. interesting topics here. Ciara&50 coming out, Neyo equally coming out (Jesus take the wheel!),the piedmont festival (gay, literally), someone is cooking dinner (uhmmm pls share mama!!), guys who wanna do you in the bootey while wearing yo panties and gold plated tounge rings, oh yeah and obama and the hurricane! etc….i think we just bout covered Er topic out there in entertainment. this is it’s own blog…no pics included tho. LOL! my my aint we busy.

    dang yall really love sandra rose right!??

    yeah i can’t lie. guilty addiction.

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    i like the one above who said

    solange is preggers
    tip and tiny got hitched and monica was there with rihanna as the flower girl…AHHAHAAAAAAA! classic good one.

    but you forgot, JZ got lost in the bermuda triangle

    and beyonce uses a voice box…and oh yeah she likes to eat box (lesbian).

    yeah sandra would find a dsl to beg borror or steal for those headlines (her girlfriend must not be very nice to not let sandra bum it for a few days…i’ma need her to UPGRADE yo!)! she needs this vacation anyway yall. talking bad about folks for a living and getting paid for it is way stressing. (you know with all the pending death threats and all…)


    i kid. well, i hope i do. who knows…hell.

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    Amulet says:

    Death Threats? Is it that serious dog?
    Black People, I tell u…

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    i hope it’s not. but folks get mad when folks talk about ya…and you know industry ppl love to have a clean name. i’m just saying.

    not me but sandra better watch her back for Beyonce (as someone said earier about the hitman…LOL!).


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