My readers keep emailing me about a twit fight that erupted between those two nobodies, Swizz Beatz and his ex-wife Mashonda on the social network site. Twitter really does expose those “celebrities” with poor impulse control and anger management issues. First Chris Brown self destructs on Twitter and now these two lames go at it.
Who cares about a twit fight between a beak nosed parrot and a slut bucket baby mama who’s mad that another chick beat her at her own game? Don’t we have better things to do than worry about these two airing their dirty underwear online?
Don’t they have cell phones? Why not text each other with that mess instead of boring us with it publicly?
Oh wait, if they did that then they wouldn’t be considered attention whores would they?
I feel sorry for people who actually sit on those two morons twitter pages waiting for them to sling mud at each other. I bet Alicia Keys is so proud of her parrot (“oh, look, he can string two sentences together!”).
I wish Mashonda would move on… Like seriously, sweetie. Raise your handsome son and move on. He doesn’t want you anymore. Would she be this anger if it was a regular woman? I think she is pissed because its A. Keyes.
They need to put the mobile devices down and back walk away. Twitter is exposing their childishness.
Sooo, Sandra, how was your weekend??
She needs to take her own advice about putting God first and stop embarrassing herself.
I bet Alicia Keys is so proud of her parrot (“oh, look, he can string two sentences together!”).
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:lolol: Any who i guess Swizz must not know the difference between a separation and divorce …And i agree people need to learn how to keep their business to themselves….And not on twitter
Tank called out his baby momma on twitter 2 weeks ago, now this. Mashonda keeps saying that shes over it YET she keeps on talkin about it. we all know what happened but no need to vent over twitter hun. send him a text next time
In all realness, yes Mashonda needs to get over it but at the same time a seperation IS NOT A DIVORCE and techniccally he is still married. I really lost respect for Alicia Keys and will not be listening to her music any more because I can not listen to a woman telling me to feel empowered and loved when she clearly can not find a man on her own neither could she wait for the ink to dry on the paper for the finalized divorce. I guess she doesn’t watch RHOA to know what Kim goes through like a dumba** with Big Poppa. A. Keys is an official hypocrit and needs to start writing about how to take another woman’s married man instead of finding my own.
Who cares about a twit fight between a beak nosed parrot and a slut bucket baby mama who’s mad that another chick beat her at her own game? Don’t we have better things to do than worry about these two airing their dirty underwear online?
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and yet you still took the time to post this story…
Funny..
As much as I love AK’s singing….Momma always said never run away from a home wrecker because eventually they will run away from you.
As a woman Mashonda needs to let this BS go and raise her child. Everyone knows what happen and what he did. It seems like him and Akeys are happy. So she needs to do the same. Stop trying to make him look bad. Because your the one looking like a ass
lol @ FloridaChick813
I’m not in Mashonda shoes so IDK how she feels but if she still having feelings for Swizz then so be it. Yea I can agree she needs to get over it but how bout she get over it when she is ready to get over it….Swizz and Alicia will get whats coming to them cuz God ain’t gonna bless that mess
Seriously? That Mashonda chick needs to get over it because she’s the one looking silly. She got mad because Swiss said something about A. Keys album coming out? She needs to focus on her child and stop this classless public display of desperation. If you were married when they started dating then that’s your business. Handle that with your divorce lawyers behind closed doors.
PS – People should do a spell check before they decide to use twitter.
Three sides to every story
The Element of Freedom will be copped tomorrow
Still an Akeys STAN!
IT’S ABOUT TIME HE PUT IT OUT THERE-
AGAIN A MAN WHO DECIDED HE NO LONGER WANTED THE RELATIONSHIP AND MOVED THE FUG ON
TIME FOR YOU TO DO THE SAME
YOU MAKE YOURSELF LOOK CRAZY, DERANGED, AND DELUSIONAL HOLDING ON TO A MOFO WHOSE MADE IT CLEAR THAT THEY DON’T WANT TO BE WITH YOU
THE WHO, WHAT, WHEN, & WHY AT THIS POINT DOESN’T MATTER -THE POINT IS THEY DON’T WANT TO BE WITH YOU AND ALL YOU CAN DO IS ACCEPT THAT AND MOVE ON!
AND OF COURSE THE FOAMING DERANGED WIVES ON THIS BLOG WILL ASSUME I’M DEFENDING HIM AND AK-BUT WHAT I’VE COME TO REALIZE IS THAT IF YOU ARE NOT A WEAK WOMAN AND YOU ADVOCATE WOMEN EMPOWERMENT BY TELLING WOMEN TO STAND UP FOR THEMSELVES AND NOT ACCEPT OR TOLERATE TREATMENT THAT A MAN WOULDN’T TOLERAT THEN YOUR A JUMP OFF
JUST ANOTHER PRIME EXAMPLE OF ALL THE MASHONDA’S OF THE WORLD-WHO CHOOSE TO FOCUS ON & LASH OUT @ OTHER WOMEN BECAUSE THEY LACK THE COMMON SENSE TO ADDRESS THEIR OWN ISSUES OF WHY THEY CHOOSE TO FOCUS THEIR ATTENTION, TIME, AND ENERGY ON A MAN WHO CHEATED ON THEM AND DOESN’T WANT TO BE WITH THEM ANYMORE
LOW SELF-ESTEEM WILL DO THAT TO A PERSON-THAT’S TYPICALLY THE RESULT OF TOLERATING A CHEATING MAN/SPOUSE
Dang sandra LOL
While i think this ish makes for good entertainment…they really need to handle their issues behind close doors. All this stuff proves is that mashonda is bitter and hasn’t even begin to make steps to move on with her life. Whether we agree with it or not…he has obviously moved on. She has a child, that should be her focus. Arguin on twitter…smh
This messy triangle deserves no post IMO. We all know the beak nosed nucca is a slimy grimy cheat, the pimpled faced b*tch is a certified home wreaker and Mashonda is an emotional train wreck going on twitter blasting off on husband. He’s moved on obviously. Sh*t I would move on if I were her. I don’t want nobody who don’t want me.
Just like she found that frail of a man, she can find another. Its gotta be hard to go through that kind of break up. But dont twit about it. Grown azz folks acting like children. Shew, even children can have better sense.
AT THE END OF THE DAY AK AND HER MAN DON’T NEED YALL BLESSINGS OR APPROVAL TO BE TOGETHER
SO EXPRESSING YOUR DISAPPOINTMENTS IN HER AND HIS ACTIONS IS MEANINGLESS-IT WOULD PROBABLY BE RELEVANT IF YOU WERE A FAMILY MEMBER OR FRIEND OF THEIRS
I HIGHLY DOUBT THEY ARE CONCERNED ABOUT RANDOM, ANONYMOUS INDIVIDUALS OPINION OF THEM-THAT HAS NO BEARING ON THEIR DAY-TO-DAY LIVES
YOU MAKE YOURSELF LOOK CRAZY, DERANGED, AND DELUSIONAL HOLDING ON TO A MOFO WHOSE MADE IT CLEAR THAT THEY DON’T WANT TO BE WITH YOU
THE WHO, WHAT, WHEN, & WHY AT THIS POINT DOESN’T MATTER -THE POINT IS THEY DON’T WANT TO BE WITH YOU AND ALL YOU CAN DO IS ACCEPT THAT AND MOVE ON!
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couldn’t agree more.
JUST ANOTHER PRIME EXAMPLE OF ALL THE MASHONDA’S OF THE WORLD-WHO CHOOSE TO FOCUS ON & LASH OUT @ OTHER WOMEN BECAUSE THEY LACK THE COMMON SENSE TO ADDRESS THEIR OWN ISSUES OF WHY THEY CHOOSE TO FOCUS THEIR ATTENTION, TIME, AND ENERGY ON A MAN WHO CHEATED ON THEM AND DOESN’T WANT TO BE WITH THEM ANYMORE
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I concur
She over there wrecking her brain about that??!! (Swizz) Nucca please… NEXT!!!
And he don’t even look that he carrying that “good good” Girl Bye!!!
Daisy Says:
Three sides to every story
The Element of Freedom will be copped tomorrow
Still an Akeys STAN!
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Quitta Says:
She over there wrecking her brain about that??!! (Swizz) Nucca please… NEXT!!!
And he don’t even look that he carrying that “good good” Girl Bye!!!
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Mashonda stop giving this lil parrot your power, I know that it still hurts but please and try to move-on obviously he did and he aint worried about you just his son! He will get his just like a-whore will get hers its called karma
I feel sorry for mashonda!
Maybe Mashonda shouldve busted Swizz windows it maynot make her feel better afterwards but it will help to release some tension lol!
I wish Mashonda would move on… Like seriously, sweetie.
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last time i said that when she vented on twitter i was eaten alive on this board. was said that i was bitter, single, another baby momma, on welfare, did not respect marriage vows…
Well at least give her some credit..she did say ” thank GOD we are doing this b4 2010, my new year will not involve this scandal”. Maybe she has been working on self day by day, and has made a pact with herself that she will not carry this mess over into her new year. She just has to pray about it, move on and occupy her time with other things. She will move on and get over it when she’s tired. Some people need to just log off of twitter and take a break.
Some people need to just log off of twitter and take a break.
I’ve posted about this elsewhere..Mashonda is so fcukin stupid that it makes me angry..she has obviously done NOTHING to get a divorce..thus she would actually take this tainted azz nugga back..unbelievable..
Pathetic..when this chick needs to have Laura Wasser, Raoul Felder or Gloria Allred on speed dial and be handlin her business…her DUMBASS is on Twitter?? WTF??
@kwall…you’re straight…it’s just that sometimes it takes some women longer than others to see what’s really in front of them and move on.
Mashonda does sound bitter, childish and angry but some people overlook the fact that she- just like any other woman is hurt. It dosen’t matter what anybody says we all are entitled to our feelings…but she has to learn to empower herself and get herself together and move on.
Usher needs to call Swizz n tell him how to sign those papers
@Kwall
She can be mad-angry-hurt-sad all she wants but it won’t change a thing. He is gone because he wants to be. Find you another man (a better looking one at that) and occupy your time with enjoying your life, doing you, raising your child and letting them see that you have went on about your business and you are not thinking about them.
@kwall
I WAS TOLD THE SAME-BUT AGAIN YOU ALWAYS HAVE TO CONSIDER THE SOURCE
MOST LIKELY AND 9 TIMES OUT OF 10, THE WOMEN WHO ARE CALLING YOU THOSE NAMES CAN “TRULY” IDENTIFY WITH MASHONDA AND THAT IS WHERE THE “REAL” ANGER STEMS FROM-THEIR SITUATION AND THEY ARE MAD CAUSE YOU ARE CALLING THEM OUT ON THEIR WEAKNESS AND INABILITY TO RID THEMSELVES OF A CHEATER OR THE STRENGTH TO MOVE ON AFTER A BREAK-UP
DON’T TAKE IT PERSONAL IT REALLY HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU-MOST PEOPLE SHOOT THE MESSANGER-LOL
@daisy
Have they gotten the divorce yet? lol
@ LMAO @ “Thats My Boo….. for life” Isn’t that what he said (somewhat) in his vows to his wife??
What set her off is him saying the marriage was already over before he got w/A.keys..she just let it be known that it wasn’t true and it’s after the fact..as women we can be petty but damn if you are going to lie about the situation to make yourself look better…they BOTH need to grow up not just her
Daisy Says:
Usher needs to call Swizz n tell him how to sign those papers
Why when I read your comment, the song is playing right now at work. LOL.
“I done damn near lost my mama
I done been through so much drama
I done turned into the man I never thought I’d be.
I’m ready to sign dem papers, papers.”
Anywho, I see A.keyes don’t give a fuk and why should I? Mashonda is just letting it be known that her husband left her for his mistress and she is hurt by it. I see nothing worng with her constant tweets LOL
Swizz Beats should really just sign those papers though, if he is done and “On to the next one in 2010”
I wonder how many women in here would wait for a man to get a divorced if he was till legally married to his wife and three kids and you were “dating him”?
Although Mashonda needs to move on, I think people are forgetting that they were married, they were at the time in love, they were happy. They also have children. So Mashonda will get over it when she gets over it. Some people I bet wouldnt take lightly to you soon to be divorced husband parading his new joint around your kids and the world.. I bet a few of you would not have taken lightly to it at all. I know for damn sure I wouldnt have. And we all know there is sides to this story, and I bet something happened between Swizz not being real and having a clean or some what decent divorce versus him fuckkin A. Keys WAY BEFORE anything was legal. Think about it.
MrzzSmitty Says:
@ LMAO @ “Thats My Boo….. for life” Isn’t that what he said (somewhat) in his vows to his wife??
@ Crislex
I’ve been there before. It didn’t take me no time. Maybe I’m different.
He was parading around wit the new chick as well. I was angry, I wanted to get my vaseline on and Tims and stomp a b*tch and the ex real quick. But you know what, with the help of family and good friends I didn’t make a fool of myself. It was hard. I handled the sh*t wit grace and was over him in no time. Now fool wants me back. Hail to the nawl!!
@Quitta I hate that Papers song FYI it is so annoying to me
People stand before God and pledge their love to somebody everyday and end up divorced Swizz/Mashonda are no different. Sadly divorce happens everyday so no need to act like this is breaking news
@ Quitta
If Mashonda had support and maybe a Fuck’ em dress and heels, I would be partying to celebrate a new life. I would take the kids and send them grammys for a week, and take a break.
i just feel soo bad for her because we all know what it feels like to lose love after years, but I do think the best type of revenge it LOOKING GOOD ENOUGH TO EAT!! Mashonda needs to find her support and get it going.
Crislex Says:
A. Keys is an official hypocrit and needs to start writing about how to take another woman’s married man instead of finding my own.
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Pretty much, Lord knows they’re tons of women who will listen to her for this message from this crater faced lazy eyed hooker.
If Mashonda wants to drag Swizz Beatz through the mud & get dirty in the process, I think she has every right to, maybe this is what she needs to do to get over it and move on; y’all don’t tell her what to do, she’s not mentally impaired, she knows what she’s doing.
WOW Why is Mashonda puttin her business out there like this? He gone Ma. And I know it hurts, I would NEVER say get over it. But nobody needs to know that you’re trying to keep a man that don’t wanna be kept.
Well Mashonda look at it this way, at least you were married, at least you will be entitled to alimony and child support and Im sure half of his shyt….it doesn’t matter how it happened or who it happened with, you will be well compensated for your troubles and given enough financial stability to start a new life with ease. Let them have that shyt gurl….Alicia seems to be suffering from that “he did it to her, but he would never do it to me” syndrome….haven’t we seen situations like this play out before our eyes so many times before…you should know that if she and Swizz did what you described before there was a legal seperation or a filed divorce on paper then all that shyt would come back around for their azzez.
I know she tired of people criticizing her for being brokenhearted, but after so much time some hard feelings are looked upon as unreasonable. Do what makes you feel better amoungst friends and family but please do not expect people to take your side in this matter. We are living in a cruel world.
WOW-AGAIN
IF IT WERE ME WOULD I BE HURT, WOULD I CRY, WOULD I BE ANGRY
YESS!@!
BUT LIKE ANY OTHER PAIN YOU ENCOUNTER IN LIFE-EVENTUALLY I WOULD GET OVER IT BUT MY FOCUS WOULD BE MY OWN SANITY, WELL-BEING, & HEALTH AS WELL AS MY CHILD
I WOULD REFUSE TO GIVE THIS TRIFLING NICCA THE POWER OVER MY LIFE AND HAPPINESS-“BECAUSE” OF THE FACT THAT HE HAD SO LITTLE RESPECT FOR OUR UNION AND HE IS PARADING HIS NEW JAWN AROUND
THAT WOULD GIVE ME THE MOTIVATION TO MOVE ON-CAUSE I WOULDN’T GIVE HIM THE SATISFACTION OF KNOWING HOW MUCH HIS ACTIONS HURT ME
IF YOU CAN’T MOVE ON FOR YOURSELF-DO IT FOR YOUR CHILD(REN)-IF WOMEN CAN SURVIVE THE LOSS OF THEIR HUSBANDS, THEIR CHILDREN, HARDSHIPS ETC. IN LIFE-YOU CAN DAMN SURE GET OVER A CHEATING SPOUSE/LOVER
I’M SICK OF SPINELESS, WHINING WOMEN-WHO ACT LIKE VICTIMS
GUESS WHAT-NOBODY’S HOLDING YOU HOSTAGE OR FORCING YOU TO STAY IN A SITUATION THAT YOU’RE NOT HAPPY IN MOVE THE FUG ON AND STOP BEING SO WEAK-YOUR NOT THE FIRST WOMAN WHOSE HUSBAND CHEATED ON THEM & GOTTEN OVER IT!
But you know what, with the help of family and good friends I didn’t make a fool of myself. It was hard. I handled the sh*t wit grace and was over him in no time. Now fool wants me back. Hail to the nawl!!
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EXACTLY MY POINT-IT’S NEVER BEST TO BE LEAD FOOLISHLY BY YOUR EMOTIONS WE ALL WANT TO ACT ON OUR EMOTIONS-I COULD UNDERSTAND AND SYMPATHIZE WITH WANTING TO BUT ACTUALLY DOING IT IS JUST PLAIN STUPID AND DOESN’T CHANGE A FRIGGIN THING AFTERWARDS WHEN YOU ARE DONE SHOWING YOUR AZZ HE STILL WITH THE NEXT CHIC AND YOU LOOK STUPID
NO MAN IS WORTH ALL OF THAT!
When all is said & done, I do hope Swizz & his hooker get married so Mashonda can really come up… Santa that’s what I want for her for Christmas.
Personally, I see no problem with legally separated people dating. I mean, look how long it’s taking for Swizz and Mashonda to divorce. I think Swizz and Alicia did consider Mashonda by not taking their relationship public in the beginning. Mashonda was the one who put the relationship on blast and added to her own humiliation.
For 2010, Mashonda needs to renew her focus – and it shouldn’t be on Swizz and Alicia.
KIM K-LAST NIGHT WAS CARRYING ON AND DEPRESSED OVER HER BREAK UP WITH REGGIE WHICH IS UNDERSTANDEABLE
BUT SHE WAS SAYING THINGS LIKE I DON’T FEEL BEAUTIFUL, MY WORLD/LIFE IS OVER, ETC.
FINALLY SHE SNAPPED OUT OF IT AND REALIZED SHE HAS SO MUCH GOING FOR HER SELF
BUT C’MON BEATING YOURSELF UP EMOTIONALLY AND MENTALLY IS NOT THE HEALTHY WAY TO HANDLE A BREAK-UP
GRIEVE, BE ANGRY, SAD ETC. BUT ACTING LIKE YOUR LIFE IS OVER IS CRAZY, JUST BECAUSE A MAN LEFT YOU
THAT SHIAT SOUNDS LIKE SOME ABANDONMENT ISSUES OR SOMETHING-HANDLE IT PRIVATELY NOT IN PUBLIC IT JUST DRAGS THE SITUATION ON LONGER AND MAKES YOU LOOK STUPID
@ Kara
I still believe that A. Keys is a lesibian trying to use Swizz as her beard. AND I WOULD LOOOOVE to see how Swizz would really act when them papers are signed cause that means he will be free, single to mingle. Lets see if his behind stick around then!!! I bet NOT! he wont have no obligation to A. Keys once the divorce is finalized and he can have any chick he wants. I really feel awful because I REALLY liked A. Keys but I NEVER RESPECT A WOMAN who sleeps with a married man whether ir be during the marriage or during the divorce process. It aint that serious you can’t wait…chillle PLEASE!!!
@ intense,
While I agree with what you said sometimes most women, especially ones as pretty as Kim, start to think what is wrong with them because a man left. And is he seeing someone who has what they don’t have and why don’t they have those qualities. EVERY woman think these things in several failed relationships until SHE LEARNS to appreciate herself and say F IT, I have too much going on to lose it over a dude. Kim knows she can get it from whomever where ever. But she is in love with Reggie and maybe felt that her looks and personality wasn’t enough for him and didn’t understand why its happening to her. I have been there a few times, but I know I will never go there again.
@ Daisy
Yes. it would be aiight if they didn’t play it so damn much.
AKeys remember your song Karma? I hope you believed those words. God will not be mocked, he guarantee’s you a life of misery for touching a married person.
@ KaraZ
AMEN to that, cause what I hear (and learned on this blog) A. keys is caking. I like some of Her music and all, but I don’t know much about her but what I’ve leanred from these blogs. In the end you reap what you sow though.
@crislex, we are both >< here! Nothing you tell me will make me believe that A.keys is not a LEZBYAN! Which makes her mor eveil, knowing good and well she don’t want any man, much less that idiot, but still destroying his family as it was.
Crislex – If Mashonda had support and maybe a ****’ em dress and heels, I would be partying to celebrate a new life. I would take the kids and send them grammys for a week, and take a break.
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Foe realz! I know I did.
And you know what? It’s the best I’ve ever felt since the breakup.
Intense – EXACTLY MY POINT-IT’S NEVER BEST TO BE LEAD FOOLISHLY BY YOUR EMOTIONS WE ALL WANT TO ACT ON OUR EMOTIONS-I COULD UNDERSTAND AND SYMPATHIZE WITH WANTING TO BUT ACTUALLY DOING IT IS JUST PLAIN STUPID AND DOESN’T CHANGE A FRIGGIN THING AFTERWARDS WHEN YOU ARE DONE SHOWING YOUR AZZ HE STILL WITH THE NEXT CHIC AND YOU LOOK STUPID
NO MAN IS WORTH ALL OF THAT!
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LOL I do not know why it irkes me soo bad about A. Keys, she need to come clean and say she likes to lick the crabby patty.. STOP FAKING ‘LICIA!!!
THAT WOULD GIVE ME THE MOTIVATION TO MOVE ON-CAUSE I WOULDN’T GIVE HIM THE SATISFACTION OF KNOWING HOW MUCH HIS ACTIONS HURT ME
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This I agree with, but everyone one is not as strong as we women would hope to be….some shyt JUST HURTS….she’s hurt, yea she’s bitter, and Im sure she’s humiliated. What woman would continue adding fuel to the flame knowing it only gives the new female credit in some way for taking your husband/boyfriend….A WOMAN IN PAIN. Obviously Mashonda is having a hard time recovering, and who knows she may not have a strong support system, maybe she is handling this the best way she can ALONE. I honestly think that Mashonda is doing the best she can, but when Swizz gets on twitter talking shyt like “yea thats my boo…for life…and when its time to move on, ya move on” Of course its going to stir up that pain all over again, what hurts a woman more than anything is lack of understanding….she still doesn’t understand how Swizz could have an affair, leave her for another woman, and do it with PRIDE…she doesn’t understand why a woman like Alicia would even participate in something like this or even consider a man who would do such a thing attractive, and she doesn’t understand why this is happening to her family….she’s just having a hard time. And honestly I want her to move on as well, because its sad to see her go through that, but at the same time Im not going to act like what she is doing is that ridiculous, and Im not going to act as if I don’t know where she’s coming from, and Im certainly not going to suggest that she get over it on MY TIME, she needs to get over it the best way she can…in whatever amount of time it takes her to do so. WTF i look like telling a female to get over some shyt like that…….thats like me telling Rhianna to get over Chris hitting her azz…EVERYTHING CHRIS DID TO RHIANNA PHYSICALLY can be compared to the emotional PAIN swizz is inflicting on Mashonda right now…I bet yall would never tell that bytch Rhianna to get over getting the shyt slapped outta her??
I CAN RESPECT EVERYONE’S OPINION-BECAUSE EVERYONE MADE VALID POINTS
AND THAT MY FOLKS IS A DISCUSSION!
kwall Says:
last time i said that when she vented on twitter i was eaten alive on this board. was said that i was bitter, single, another baby momma, on welfare, did not respect marriage vows…
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@ Kyrsi
And I bet what makes it worse being that Swizz is in the industry I bet Mashonda has meet A.Keys on a number of occasions and not once thought to have it cross her mind that her soon to be ex husband is parlaying with Keys. Its like aBIG slap in the face. And I also think that previously it was mentioned that Mashonda said she used to listen to Keys!!! Thats an even bigger insult that a woman that you admired at one point is SLEEPING WITH YOUR MAN!!! KEEP YOUR GIRLFRIENDS CLOSE, BUT KEEP THEM LONELY HUNGRY HATIN ASS BISHES CLOSER!!!
Mashonda tweeted to all her female followers to find their souls. She needs to do the same. She dwells in self-pity still to this day, when that phase should’ve passed awhile agao. She’s still in love with him. As for Alicia Keys, love is blind, so she better be careful.
MAN OUR MOTHERS, GRANDMOTHERS, AUNTIES, AND COUSINS, SISTERS, GIRLFRIENDS ETC.
HAVE ENDURED SHIAT WORST THAN THAT-DURING TIMES DIVORCE WASN’T EVEN THOUGHT OF AND GUESS WHAT THEY MADE IT THROUGH
ALTHOUGH I AGREE WITH SOME OF YOUR POINTS-IT’S NEVER WISE FOR A WOMAN TO PUT HER BUSINESS ON FRONT STREET TAKE IT TO THE LORD, YOUR CHURCH FAMILY, PASTOR, YOUR FRIENDS AND FAMILY BUT TO PUT YOUR BUSINESS ON BLAST IN PUBLIC FORUMS ONLY PERMANENTLY LEAVES A RECORD OF YOUR PAIN AND BEHAVIOR FOR YOUR CHILDREN AND WHOMEVER IN THE FUTURE CHOOSES TO SEARCH THE INTERNET AND PULL IT UP
AS WOMEN WE HAVE TO HOLD IT TOGETHER FOR THE SAKE OF OUR CHILDREN AND OUR OWN SANITY-IF WE LOSE IT WHOSE MINDING THE CHILDREN AND TAKING CARE OF THE HOUSEHOLD AS WE THROW MUD ON THE INTERNET-NOT A GOOD LOOK FOR ANY WOMAN
BE HURT, BUT HANDLE YOUR BUSINESS-WEAKNESS ISN’T A VALID EXCUSE FOR IMMATURITY-IT’S CALLED SELF-DISCIPLINE
SHE NEEDS TO PUT AN “H” ON HER CHEST AND HANDLE IT LIKE A WOMAN-SHE WILL EVENTUALLY GET BETTER BUT FIRST SHE NEEDS TO STOP WITH THE PUBLIC FOOLISH BEHAVIOR AND LET GO OF THIS MAN
THAT MOUTH OF HERS IS PROBABLY WHAT LED TO THE BREAK UP OF HER MARRIAGE
” A WISE WOMEN BUILDS UP HER HOME, A FOOLISH WOMAN TEARS IT DOWN” (SOMETHING LIKE THAT)
IF SHE’S THIS LOOSE LIPS NOW-I CAN ONLY IMAGINE HOW MUCH OF HER AND HER HUSBAND SHE KEPT PRIVATE, SHE SEEMS LIKE THE TYPE TO RUN HER MOUTH TO HER GIRLFRIENDS AND FAMILY MEMBERS
Not doing these people today but
@ intense
how do you not know that Swizz was being the adulterer in the relationship? And what if the woman is building her home up and the man is tearing it down? and I recall Swizz coming online and in public with A. Keys before. Granted Mashonda did look foolish a couple of months ago about the situation, but what about Swizz respecting his family, and his ex wife and not saying shyt about his boo until the papers are filed. he has no respect for her or HIS KIDS to be online talking shyt as well. Please Mashonda has a right to be mad being the mother of his children, a soon to be divorcee and a EX LISTENER to A. Keys.
And he was also at the time dating Keys, supposedly helping Mashonda with her “singing career”. I mean what type of damn mixed signals was that. I really think they both need to be off twitter and that Swizz needs to show some decency for his family until the papers are signed. Which should have been signed months ago. Either her or Swizz is procrastinating and If he really feels that he is READY TO MOVE ON then Swizz send Mashonda them damn papers…
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HE’S A LOW-DOWN DOG
NO ARGUMENT HERE-AND IF YOU ASK ME HE IS “SOLELY” TO BLAME FOR THIS ENTIRE SITUATION
BUT THAT’S ALL THE MORE REASON TO MOVE THE FUG ON AND STOP DEVOTING YOUR ATTENTION TO HIM AND HIS OTHER WOMAN-IT’S USELESS
WHAT DOES MASHONDA STAND TO GAIN STEWING OVER IT????
ALL I’M SAYING SHE’S NOT THE FIRST OR THE LAST-I’M NOT SAYING I DON’T SYMPATHIZE WITH HER BUT I’M TELLING HER WHAT M MY MOTHER, GRANDMOTHER WOULD TELL ME
AND THAT IS YOU CAN AND WILL GET OVER THIS AND DON’T GIVE ANYONE SO MUCH POWER OVER YOUR LIFE
IN MY HEAD, I CAN’T RATIONALIZE ANY OTHER RESPONSE THAN TO PICK UP AND MOVE ON-I CAN’T BE BOTHERED WITH THE DETAILS OF HIS LIFE AND HIS MISTRESS FOR WHAT????? AT THIS POINT IT’S IRRELEVANT
AND SHE HAS A BIG MOUTH-IF SHE WOULDN’T HAVE PUT IT OUT THERE MOST OF US WOULD HAVE NEVER KNOWN -THAT AK IS ALLEGEDLY THE REASON HER AND HER HUSBAND SPLIT
Thats an even bigger insult that a woman that you admired at one point is SLEEPING WITH YOUR MAN!!!
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Yea now that has to be a fukked up feeling…SMH. I can’t even imagine…and then having people look at you crazy cuz you throwing cds out in the middle of harlem running ’em over with your Range and shyt….LOL! Having to look up and see billboards plastered all over NY, watch a bytch on tv, or hear songs like “sleeping with a broken heart”……FUKK NO…how the fukk you gone describe what it feels like to sleep with a broken heart, bytch YOU DON’T EVEN KNOW…LMAO!! MAshonda is GOING THRU IT…ya hear me!! Po lil Tink tink.
ALTHOUGH I AGREE WITH SOME OF YOUR POINTS-IT’S NEVER WISE FOR A WOMAN TO PUT HER BUSINESS ON FRONT STREET TAKE IT TO THE LORD, YOUR CHURCH FAMILY, PASTOR, YOUR FRIENDS AND FAMILY BUT TO PUT YOUR BUSINESS ON BLAST IN PUBLIC FORUMS ONLY PERMANENTLY LEAVES A RECORD OF YOUR PAIN AND BEHAVIOR FOR YOUR CHILDREN AND WHOMEVER IN THE FUTURE CHOOSES TO SEARCH THE INTERNET AND PULL IT UP
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This is true as well….and don’t think that I don’t agree with that…I just know that we can’t expect everybody to react the same way as we would to shyt like this….
Some woman just can’t take it. Eventually she will heal, but to say things like “she’s still in love with him” come on, give the gurl more credit than that, OF COURSE SHE STILL loves him….how the hell you fall outta love with someone who left you in it??? wheredeydothatat? NOW I DOUBT THAT SHE IS “IN LOVE” WITH HIM like Alicia…because she’s broken, she’ll never be IN love with a man AGAIN. Love has a whole new meaning for her now…she will never be the same.
I feel bad for Mashonda; although, I’m convinced part of this is just her own self-promotion. But, I’m sure we’ve all known people with a lot less (and less exposure) go at it a lot longer. It’s humiliating enough that your husband has left you for someone else; but, can you imagine??? Toucan Sam was out taking pictures with his ho and saying it was a professional relationship or whatever. Obviously, this cheater is like most other cheaters… he had to lie to his wife to facilitate this relationship with his ho. So, the usual nonsense that goes along with this is bad enough… but, to have to watch it play out on blogs, see his ho on talk shows and awards show (being honored for her humanitarianism, no less!), performing at the World Series… cmon. The chick has a new album coming out and she is everywhere and on everything promoting. That would send any sane person, who is still technically his wife, into a tailspin. I think she’s probably come to grips with the fact their marriage is actually done; but, just engaged in this battle because of the lack of respect he’s showing for his marriage and family. They need to finalize this and end the war.
@ intense
I feel ya on her blasting the information, but thats what AK gets she shouldnt have not become involved with a man with unfinished business and I do not care of Mashonda put her out there. Now people looking at her a lil sideways, whether her record sales tell that or not. Like I just had to curse out a friend of mine yesterday when I said I lost respect for Akeys being a “I cant wait” hoe. But then again my “friend” is a club hoppin hoe whom I do not formly associate myself with because she is always seen around town and sleeps with different dudes which is why I understand her reasoning for getting mad at me about my AK comment, she would have sex with a married man cause she just as trife as AK.
This is true as well….and don’t think that I don’t agree with that…I just know that we can’t expect everybody to react the same way as we would to shyt like this…. Some woman just can’t take it. Eventually she will heal, but to say things like “she’s still in love with him” come on, give the gurl more credit than that, OF COURSE SHE STILL loves him….how the hell you fall outta love with someone who left you in it??? wheredeydothatat? NOW I DOUBT THAT SHE IS “IN LOVE” WITH HIM like Alicia…because she’s broken, she’ll never be IN love with a man AGAIN. Love has a whole new meaning for her now…she will never be the same
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If swiss came back to her tomorrow…she’d take him back
If swiss came back to her tomorrow…she’d take him back
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If she took this dude back if would undoubtedly be in efforts to get back at Alicia…….you as a woman (if you’ve ever been broken hearted that iz) know that we can never look at a man the same after he has done something so foul to us….yea we’ll play along for a while out of spite trying to hurt the other bytch, but we’re not happy there its for all the wrong reasons…certainly NOT for love.
I wonder why they arent divorced yet? maybe there are papers but Mashonda wont sign them??
I think the connection with having children is making it a bit harder.
I’m coming from the perspective of a child who home was “wrecked”.
Mashonda needs to practice some restraint. Swizz need to practice some restraint. The only one that seems to be practcing some restraint is A Keys. She is not on twitter talking about anything but her music.
My father cheated and left our home while married to my mom. He paraded his new woman and her kids around. WE (mom and children) were hurt, I’m sure my mom more than anything. However, I can never recall a time when my mom talked bad about my father to anyone and especially us. She continued to encourage us to love our father and even respect his girlfriend while spending time with him. LOL can’t say that I did my best with that.
Yeah yeah yeah my father was married…then seperated…but never divorced my mom. After awhile, at some point, all parties involved and others know that that marriage is over. 20 years later my father finally gave my mom the divorce she wanted for years since he was getting MARRIED. Him and his wife seem to have a pretty blessed union, my mom gave her approval (they all went to the divorce perceding together) and my father talked to all of his kids (by my mom) for our approval.
At a certain point, you have to decide to move on. When it’s fresh the pain is too much to speak publicly. Handle your business at home surrounded by true friends. even though it may hurt I suggest you put on your make up, put a smile on your face, and if anyone ask you everything is ok….you gonna hurt inside but smile on the outside as if nothing is wrong…time heal all wounds both physical and emotional
This messy triangle deserves no post IMO. We all know the beak nosed nucca is a slimy grimy cheat, the pimpled faced b*tch is a certified home wreaker and Mashonda is an emotional train wreck going on twitter blasting off on husband. He’s moved on obviously. Sh*t I would move on if I were her. I don’t want nobody who don’t want me.
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Quitta you said exactly what I was thinking. It can be hard,
but for the sake of her kids I would think she would take the high road. A. Keys and Swizz will face judgement from a higher source later. The bible is very clear about adultery…so “what goes around, comes around, what goes up must come down.” It’s God’s judgement baby!
They better start
and crislex I agree with you 100%. She not even into guys…who does she think she fooling?
AMEN!!!!!
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*waves* Hey Shauny…..Congrats on you having your baby girl……
Mashonda is still angry at the theft of her husband.
It doesn’t matter what they were going through, what they were about to do. Or how they were feeling about each other.
The bottom line is he had an obligation to finish out the business before moving on. Finish it out: the battle the war, whatever it is..finish it out.
He didn’t do that. Akeys should have been a better person (woman) IMO and waited for him to do just that. It was selfish for her to do anything but wait. “LET NO MAN PUT ASSUNDER”
Hey missy…Thanks!
Handle your business at home surrounded by true friends. even though it may hurt I suggest you put on your make up, put a smile on your face, and if anyone ask you everything is ok….you gonna hurt inside but smile on the outside as if nothing is wrong…time heal all wounds both physical and emotional
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I agree with this as well. All Im saying is we can’t tell Mashonda what to do, we can’t tell Alicia or Swizz to do…see Swizz doesn’t have to endure all of the pain and suffering he has caused, and without hesitation he has a female in his life to help him through this public divorce…who does Mashonda have, her son to cry on everytime she thinks of how much he looks like his father?? Its her life she can deal with that shyt whateva way she wants
@therapist911
So hows your day so far
I am starting to love twitter thanks to Charles, MizzDallas and ATLien.
Anyways, I am on Mashonda’s side on this one.
@Krysi… I understand. Maybe she needs to think of the things she like to do that maybe she couldn’t do when she was with him. Prehaps focus on her hobby or find a new one to cope with the ordeal. I’m not asking her to move on, on my time, but hopefully she will learn to practice some restraint in responding publicly to this situation.
I don’t know what happen so I can’t even speculate. I can’t even specualate why my father left my mom because I was young and don’t know what happen in thier adult life.
My point is redirect that negative energy…don’t embrace it and fuel it.
H-Townmama – Quitta you said exactly what I was thinking. It can be hard, but for the sake of her kids I would think she would take the high road. A. Keys and Swizz will face judgement from a higher source later. The bible is very clear about adultery…so “what goes around, comes around, what goes up must come down.” It’s God’s judgement baby!
They better start
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Exactly. Gotta stay strong for the kids, they are looking at you.
And yes, what goes around comes around. Karma is a b*tch so
they betta look out.
While going through my divorce I received “opinions” from different friends and family of varying degrees and I’ve come to this conclusion… When I hear a person ESPECIALLY a woman say what they would NEVER do… I just smile because UNTIL you are in that position you don’t know exactly how you’d react. My nature is far too reserved to talk about my business let alone put it out… but if Mashonda wants to go Bernadine (Waiting to Exhale) on him… c’est la vie!
The good thing about technology is that we can comfortably sit behind our monitors and bash Mashonda for “putting her business in the street” to that I say STOP reading it and unsubscribe to her twitter. Simple… right?
I agree about the Akeys lyrics. Since she prides herself on writting her own music and it coming form within. Her words are hard to swallow.
As I read lyrics like
Have you ever tried sleeping with a broken heart
Well you can try sleeping in my bed
Lonely, only, nobody ever shut it down like you
You wore the crown, you make my body feel heaven-bound
Why don’t you hold me, need me, I thought you told me
You’d never leave me
All at once…
I had it all
But it doesn’t mean anything
Now that you’re gone
From above,
Seems I had it all
But it doesn’t mean anything
Since you’re gone
AND….
So every time you hold me
Hold me like this is the last time
Every time you kiss me
Kiss me like you’ll never see me again
Every time you touch me
Touch me like this is the last time
Promise that you’ll love me
Love me like you’ll never see me again
Their relation ship may be over, but her hurting may go on forever. She’s just hurting publicly. I really feel sorry for her.
On the flip Swizz is probably broke and nees some paper. He may just be riding on Alicia’s coat tail, enjoying the touring with the new album, the collabo with Jay-Z and overall staying busy. Althought they respect it, I think a lot of men get bored with their wives playing good housewife, good momma, and putting that career on hold for the sake of the family. Sounds stupid, but hell, I’ve done it and I get bored!
Team Mashonda – I hope she gets to feeling better, and know that there are more people for her than against her
Mornay – The good thing about technology is that we can comfortably sit behind our monitors and bash Mashonda for “putting her business in the street” to that I say STOP reading it and unsubscribe to her twitter. Simple… right?
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It is simple, but pple are too nosy to not follow her drama and put in their 2 cents. It’s entertaining to them. A C-list celeb and wife has the same problems as the rest of us. It’s like its unbelievable or something.
THAT BYTCH!!!!
thats a shame Alicia Cook!
comment 99 was directed at the lyrics in 96
Mornay – The good thing about technology is that we can comfortably sit behind our monitors and bash Mashonda for “putting her business in the street” to that I say STOP reading it and unsubscribe to her twitter. Simple… right?
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It is simple, but pple are too nosy to not follow her drama and put in their 2 cents. It’s entertaining to them. A C-list celeb and wife has the same problems as the rest of us. It’s like its unbelievable or something.
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And how many of those same people were trying to hack into their significant other’s email account, hiding in a bush outside the house, calling “the other woman” from a private number. Anyone can speak on it… but the hypocrisy just doesn’t make sense to me. My grandmother would always say… “sweep around your own front door.” :confused:
Her husband and his celebrity jump-off are public figures.
I wouldn’t sit in my pain privately while these heathens get to go out and publically parade their affair for the whole world to see as if it was a blessed union.
Let it be known…this chick stole my husband.
And until AKEYS comes out to explain herself to her fans as to why this was ok to do…..I look upon her with distain! AKeys is a FRAUD!!
why are they even following one another on Twitter? ANd maybe she can use his affair against him in court?
@ggouch
everytime I hear that song, I think of Mashonda just wow! everybody made some valid POV! but however wrong is wrong and right is right! swizz was wrong for leaving his wife for a-hooker! and mashonda have the right to put swizz and a-hooker on blast… I hope in due time that mashonda pain will heal she just need to try to focus on something postive such as her child and her career if thats possible…
I wonder if she (Mashonda) talks crap about swizz beats and A. Keys to their kids. I mean she seems to want to vent out her frustrations and broken heart *que violens* to anyone who would listen. She seems like the type of female (bitter and desperate) that would bad mouth the dad in front of the kids. Hopefully she doesn’t take it out on the kids. I feel sorry for Mashonda, Swizz Beats and A. Keys. Women will always view A. Keys as the face of the harlot who took their man…
@ggouch
a-hooker will never ever explain to anybody why she is sleeping with someone-else husband and the wife is sleeping with a broken-heart! and besides I dont think nobody can justify sleeping with a married man… jmo
Keys won’t even discuss how she feels about Lil Mama hopping up on the stage, so you know she won’t say anything about this. She won’t address her sexuality (lol @ ‘Krabby Patty’ comment Crislex), and you can count on one finger the # of times Keys was seen with Kerry.
I don’t think this has anything to do with privacy and everything to do with Keys being a
, and afraid to confront the truth, cause it will expose her for who she really is.
Women will always view A. Keys as the face of the harlot who took their man…
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what the hell else should we see her azz…..hell she may not have taken her husband, i won’t give Alicia that much credit. How can you take a man that was obviously already gone
It was either her or the next bytch. Now I do see Alicia as a low life for sleeping with a married man, but trust Swizz is the only person to blame in this situation. He’s ah sorry excuse for a man and I hope all that shyt comes back to him 10 folds!
How is being married to a man make you a “slut bucket baby mama”?! Why are WE so coonish?!
I wonder how Mashonda felt when she heard that song by A Keys? It’s like she wrote the sh*t specifically for Mashonda, IMO.
Let it be known…this chick stole my husband.
And until AKEYS comes out to explain herself to her fans as to why this was ok to do…..I look upon her with distain! AKeys is a FRAUD!!
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How did she steal her husband? Or did he willingly leave his wife for whatever reasons and subsequently moved on with A keys?
I just don’t get how this would solve anything!! Other than satisfy some people’s need for gossip and nosiness. As a fan I learned to separate the professional/entertainment from the personal issues. This is nothing new…shit been going on in entertainment industry since the beginning of time
DAYUM @ THOSE LYRICS. i never really listened to the words before. she tryin to tell mashonda something in those lyrics
Awww poor thang! I feel for her cause I know she hurting, but on that same note she need to leave it alone, the man is GONE!!!
I dont think nobody can justify sleeping with a married man… jmo
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Quitta says:
I wonder how Mashonda felt when she heard that song by A Keys?
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she cried.
AT THE END OF THE DAY HER LITTLE RED WAGON TO PULL
NOBODY ON HERE “TRULY” GIVES A DAMN
WHAT SHE IS GOING THROUGH IS JUST THAT-WHAT SHE IS GOING THROUGH
AND IRREGARDLESS OF HOW SHE FEELS ABOUT THEIR RELATIONSHIP-THEY ARE TOGETHER FOR NOW RATHER SHE LIKES IT OR NOT OR TWITTERS ABOUT IT OR NOT
MANY WOMEN SIT ON HERE AND TALK ABOUT PEOPLE CAN’T SAY WHAT THEY WILL OR WON’T DO YADA, YADA, HOW A KEYS IS WRONG AND WOMEN SHOULD STICK TOGETHER AND NOT CHEAT WITH OTHER PEOPLE’S MAN ETC.
BUT AT THE END OF THE DAY THE ONLY FEELINGS PEOPLE REALLY CARE ABOUT IS THEIR OWN FOR THE MOST PART-AINT NOBODY ON HERE LOSING SLEEP OVER THIS SHIAT CAUSE IT DOESN’T PERSONALLY AFFECT THEM PLAIN & SIMPLE
THERE IS MANY A KEYS AND MANY MASHONDA’S-AND THE ONE THING THEY BOTH SEEM TO HAVE IN COMMON IS LOW SELF-ESTEEM
HER MAN WAS WRONG, A KEYS WAS WRONG-HELL THE WORLD AINT FAIR AND INSTEAD OF ENCOURAGING HER TO CUT HER LOSSES AND MOVE ON WE ARE CELEBRATE HER PAIN AND WEAR IT LIKE A BADGE OF HONOR
HELL OF A LOT OF GOOD THAT WOULD DO HER-
I SEE WHY MEN CHEAT ON WOMEN LIKE THIS AND LEAVE THEIR WIVES FOR WOMEN LIKE THIS-CAUSE THEIR ALL FUGGIN STUPID AND WANT TO HOLD ON TO A PIECE OF D$CK INSTEAD OF GROWING A BACK BONE AND CUTTING THIS LOW LIFE LOOSE
IT’S LIKE A FIGHT IN THE PLAYGROUND SAND BOX-MASHONDA HAS A RIGHT TO BE MAD, FIGHT OVER HIM, TELL THE WORLD
AKEYS SHOULD HAVE HIM, HE WAS DONE WITH HIS WIFE, HE HAS A RIGHT TO MOVE ON
GTFOH-IT’S A CHEATING AZZ NO GOOD NEGRO PUHLEEZE!!!
HE’S A LOSER WHY IS ANYONE FIGHTING OVER HIM???? CAUSE SO MANY WOMEN’S SELF-ESTEEM IS DIRECTLY TIED TO THEIR MARRIAGE, RELATIONSHIP, OR WHO THEY FUGGIN
Let he who is without sin cast the first stone…
And that’s all I am gonna say about this…
Quitta says:
I wonder how Mashonda felt when she heard that song by A Keys?
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smh….i can only imagine
“SO MANY WOMEN’S SELF-ESTEEM IS DIRECTLY TIED TO THEIR MARRIAGE, RELATIONSHIP, OR WHO THEY FUGGIN”
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And that’s such a shame
MASHONDA AND SWISS HAS BEEN TOGETHER FOR YEARS, HOW IS IT SOME OF YOU JUST EXPECT HER TO “CHUCK” HER FEELINGS OUT THE WINDOW JUST BECAUSE HE AHAS TAKEN UP WITH SOMEONE ELSE? SWIZZ WAS SNEAKING WITH ALICIA FOR YEARS, AND DENYING IT TO MASHONDA(AS SHE SAYS). DO SOME OF YOU BELIEVE SHE WAS MAKING THIS UP? SWIZZ MADE THIS MESS, I HAVE NO SYMPATHY FOR HIM. I CAN SYMPATHIZE WITH MASHONDA, SHE THOUGHT SHE WAS IN A COMMITTED MARRIAGE, ONLY TO FIND OUT HER SUSPICIONS WERE RIGHT ALL ALONG. SANDRA FOR THE RECORD, THIS IS WHERE THE BOTTOM LINE LIES, SHE ISN’T HIS EX-WIFE, LEGALLY SHE IS STILL HIS WIFE, HE DROPS DEAD TODAY OR TOMMOROW, MASHONDA GETS EVERYTHING! ALICIA GETS MEMEORIES!
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GREAT I’M GLAD THAT HAS BEEN ESTABLISHED AND ALL CLEARED UP
AKEYS IS REALLY HURTING FOR MONEY-LOL NOT
SHE’S ENTITLED TO HER FEELINGS-IT’S THE AIRING THEM ON TWITTER THAT I THINK ISN’T HEALTHY OR WISE
BUT HEY AGAIN “HER LITTLE RED WAGON TO PULL” SHE HAS A RIGHT TO HANDLE IT ANY WAY SHE CHOOSES
HOPEFULLY THE WAY SHE IS HANDLING IT IS SOMETHING HER AND HER CHILD CAN LIVE WITH WITHOUT SHAME 10 YEARS FROM NOW
BUT AT THE END OF THE DAY THE ONLY FEELINGS PEOPLE REALLY CARE ABOUT IS THEIR OWN FOR THE MOST PART-AINT NOBODY ON HERE LOSING SLEEP OVER THIS SHIAT CAUSE IT DOESN’T PERSONALLY AFFECT THEM PLAIN & SIMPLE
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there was a time in my life when I did lose sleep, i may not have made it known publicly but nobody goes through shyt like this without having a breakdown for that reason I relate to Mashonda however she allows herself to react I UNDERSTAND what she is going thru, and regardless of what good it may or may not do for her its my own decision to do so! I don’t have to agree with MFs on here talking bout this gurl is bitter and needs to get over it or trying to justify why its okay for Alicia to sleep with a married man or why its not that big of a deal that Swizz had an affair because MEN CHEAT…or whateva else BS somebody comes up with…..it sounds like you tryna justify some of your own damn actions if ya ask me, because its pretty POINT BLANK PERIOD…Swizz and Alicia were wrong…nobody cares that Swizz felt the need to move on, if he was any kind of man he would have respected his wife/mother of his child’s feelings and handled himself like an adult about the shyt, he failed to do so, SO WHY SHOULD MASHONDA OWE HIM ANY SILENCE??!! ALICIA IS JUST trifling and thats all there is to say about that. Have whatever opinion you want but don’t try to label me something im not just because I don’t agree with your azz…what Mashonda does is her business and I many not be in the same amount of pain she is in right now, but I know how it felt once…and I respect her right to GET IT OUT OF HER SYSTEM.
DUH AGAIN GO BACK AND READ I’VE ALREADY SAID I BLAME HIM FOR ALL OF THIS
I COULD CARE LESS ABOUT AKEYS
IT’S ABOUT HAVING A BACK BONE-NO MY DEAR EVERYBODY DOESN’T HAVE A FUGGIN MENTAL BREAK DOWN OVER D$CK
WHY??????? CAUSE YOU KNOW YOUR WORTH AND YOU ALSO KNOW MEN COME A DIME A DOZEN
THAT DIDN’T STOP MAKING MEN AFTER THIS NICCA
YOU AND I WERE HAVING A MATURE DISCUSSION-UP UNTIL THIS POINT I NEVER SAID SHE DIDN’T HAVE A RIGHT TO BE UPSET OR GRIEVE OR BE ANGRY-I DISAGREE WITH BEING SO PUBLIC ABOUT IT
BUT OF COURSE-BECAUSE MY MIND SET ISN’T I’M NOTHING WITHOUT A MAN I MUST BE SLEEPING OR HAVE SLEPT WITH SOMEBODY’S HUSBAND
WHAT’S THE LOGIC IN THAT CONCLUSION
I’M ENGAGED TO BE MARRIED THIS AUGUST MY DEAR AND AS MUCH AS I LOVE MY SOON TO BE HUSBAND IF HE DID ME LIKE OLE BOY DID MASHONDA I WOULD NIX HIS AZZ AND AS MUCH AS IT WOULD HURT I WOULDN’T GIVE HIM OR ANYONE THE PLEASURE OF KNOWING HOW MUCH IT HURT ME
WHY CAUSE I LOVE ME MORE THAN ANY FUGGIN BODY ELSE-AND MY SANITY, HEALTH AND PEACE OF MIND COME FIRST
A CHEATING AZZ NICCA AND WHOEVER HE’S CHEATING WITH-ISN’T WORTHY MY MOTHERFUGGIN TIME, TEARS, OR ENERGY
HEALING, LOVING, MYSELFE IS-BUT LOW SELF-ESTEEM I’M NOTHING WITHOUT A MAN LITTLE GIRLS WILL NEVER UNDERSTAND THAT
WOMEN MAKE SO MANY ACCOMPLISHMENTS PROFESSIONALLY BUT PERSONALLY THEY’RE STILL AZZ BACKWARDS
I FUG SOMEONE ELSE’S HUSBAND CAUSE I TELL A BIATCH TO DRY HER TEARS AND MOVE THE FUG ON-LOL YEAH THAT MAKES ALOT OF SENSE
DUMB BIATCHES UNITE!
NO MY DEAR EVERYBODY DOESN’T HAVE A FUGGIN MENTAL BREAK DOWN OVER D$CK
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I believe she is having mental breakdown becuz her HUSBAND, not a bf, not a quick f**k, not some sum random but her HUSBAND, father of her child, love of her life, left her high and dry.
Can’t no1 tell any1 how to grieve or when to get over a broken heart. She is human, she has feelings for this man and if she wanna act a fool cuz it makes her feel then so be it. I agree he ain;t worth it but to her it is so let her ass dell on it tell She is ready to move on…
IT’S ABOUT HAVING A BACK BONE-NO MY DEAR EVERYBODY DOESN’T HAVE A FUGGIN MENTAL BREAK DOWN OVER D$CK
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so you never break down and cry over heartbreak….because mental breakdown doesn’t exist in my element sweetie, I was not referring to anything of the kind…but Im glad that you are clear on not having a mental episode over dyck..I however don’t expect to have a MENTAL breakdown over anything hun.
No you and I were having an intelligent conversation about this subject until you said this:
“I SEE WHY MEN CHEAT ON WOMEN LIKE THIS AND LEAVE THEIR WIVES FOR WOMEN LIKE THIS-CAUSE THEIR ALL FUGGIN STUPID AND WANT TO HOLD ON TO A PIECE OF D$CK INSTEAD OF GROWING A BACK BONE AND CUTTING THIS LOW LIFE LOOSER”
where da fukk do you get off accusing any female of these crimes just because the girl is human doesn’t mean she’s a fukking idiot…HUMAN beings aren’t made to be cut throat/or HEARTLESS okay…especially not a fukking woman. She can’t help what happened to her, and she’s probably trying to get thru this shyt the best way she knows how, but answer me this….if something has never happened to you before how the FUKK ARE YOU SUPPOSED TO REACT??!!! Talk shyt about this gurl and call her stupid if she acts like this the second time around.
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AGAIN EVERY WOMAN DOESN’T HANDLE THEIR HUSBAND CHEATING THIS WAY
I DON’T KNOW WHY YOU COON BIATCHES GETTING MAD AT ME LIKE I’M A KEY OR MAD CAUSE I DON’T AGREE WITH HER BEING SO PUBLIC ABOUT HER FEELINGS
SEEMS TO ME THAT MY SENTIMENTS ARE A DOSE OF REALITY THAT YOU ALL ARE FINDING IT HARD TO SWALLOW
BUT THIS MY DEAR IS OLD AGE WISDOM BY GRANDMOTHER, MOTHER, AUNTS, ETC. THAT WAS PASSED ON TO ME FROM GENERATION TO GENERATION
FAULT YOUR OWN PEOPLE’S IF THEY DIDN’T TEACH YOU TO BE STRONG IN SPITE OF OBSTACLES, CHEATING HUSBANDS,DEATH ETC.
AND YES ALL OF THESE WOMEN “ARE” MARRIED!!!!!!! BUT THE WOMEN IN MY FAMILY TEACH US NOT TO LET ANY FUGGIN MAN MAKE A FOOL OF YOU AND NOT TO LET HIS AZZ KNOW YOU CAN AND WILL LIVE WITHOUT HIM IF HIS AZZ FUG UP
I GUESS THAT’S WHY THEY’VE BEEN MARRIED FOR AS LONG AS THEY HAVE
NICCAS KNOW WHO TO CHEAT ON, AND WHAT TYPE OF WOMAN WOULD CONDONE OR TAKE HIM BACK AFTER HE’S CHEATED ON HER
BEING SOMEONE’S WIFE ISN’T A LIFE SENTENCE TO BE A NICCAS DOORMAT
BUT OF COURSE-BECAUSE MY MIND SET ISN’T I’M NOTHING WITHOUT A MAN I MUST BE SLEEPING OR HAVE SLEPT WITH SOMEBODY’S HUSBAND
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The very reason why you pissed me off in your comment is the very reason why you are pissing yourself off now YOU ASSUME TO FUKKING MUCH, just state your fukking opinion and keep your assumptions about people to yourselves cuz frankly you don’t know shyt about me, and I don’t know anything about you, but when you assume stuff about me, or act as if you as speaking in reference to anything about me thats when the discussions between us get personal without reason and the conversation becomes lame….stay on topic!
When I hear another woman, say thing similar to “it ain’t akeys fault that they were having trouble in their marriage” or things like “She (mashaonda) should have held on to her man”….I want to straight up spit!! It is as much Akeys fault as it is this bastard who failed to take his dick with him when he took his vows.
Its’ absoultely her responsibility. She took that position when she wrote lyrics like Cause a man, just ain’t a man,
If he aint’ man enough
To love you when you’re right,
Love you when you’re wrong
Love you when you’re weak,
Love you when you’re strong
You wrote that shyt…Now me, your paying public expects and demands that you stand by your words AKEYS… or I’m going tohave to label you a WHORE
THIS NICCA PLAYED HER FOR THE WORLD TO SEE BUT YET IN STILL HER DUMB AZZ WOULD TAKE HIM BACK IN A HEART BEAT
YES THAT MAKES HER STUPID AND AKEYS JUST AS STUPID
CAUSE THEY BOTH WANT A TRIFING NO GOOD NICCA DESPITE HIS OBVIOUS DISREGARD FOR HIS MARRIAGE
AGAIN IF MASHONDA’S REACTION IS JUST THAT CAUSE EVERY WOMAN DOESN’T RESPOND OR ACT LIKE HER
I DON’T SEE HILLARY CLINTON BLOGGIN ABOUT BILL INFIDELITY-BUT WHAT I DO SEE IS HER HANDLING HER BUSINESS AND LIVING HER LIFE
PERSONALLY, I THINK THEY PUT UP A FRONT THAT THEY ARE STILL TOGETHER FOR THE PUBLIC EYE BUT HILLARY AINT FUGGIN WITH BILL LIKE THAT NO MORE-AND LOOK AT HER SHE’S DOING JUST FINE
CRY ME A RIVER…….
FOLLOW YOUR OWN DAMN ADVICE
SHIAT WAS COOL UNTIL YOU SUGGESTED I WAS TRYING TO JUSTIFY SLEEPING WITH SOMEONE ELSE’S HUSBAND
NO MY DEAR “YOU” ASSUMED FIRST
MY COMMENTS ARE ABOUT AKEYS AND MASHONDA-OBVIOUSLY YOU IDENTIFY WITH THEIR FOOLISHNESS AND DECIDED TO SPEAK ON THEIR BEHALF
I SAY SHE’S DUMB AND AKEYS DUMB AND I STICK BY THAT-ANY WOMAN WHO WANTS A MAN WHO DISRESPECTS THEM AND TREAT THEM LIKE SHIAT FOR THE WHOLE WORLD TO SEE IS A DAMN DUMMY YOU TOO IF THE SHOE FITS WEAR IT!
I DON’T KNOW WHY YOU COON BIATCHES GETTING MAD AT ME LIKE I’M A KEY OR MAD CAUSE I DON’T AGREE WITH HER BEING SO PUBLIC ABOUT HER FEELINGS
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Gurl MuthAH FUKK U aiight? I could give ah fukk less about you or what you agree with…..everytime you stated that she should be exposing her pain publicly i agreed, but your lame azz did the same thing you always do on this bytch, go back and forth tryna convince somebody of something you can’t until you can’t help but act ah azz in efforts to get someones approval, we don’t give a fukk if you think Mashonda is spineless or not, that ain our fukking concern to convince you otherwise we can only tell you why we don’t agree, so don’t waste your time getting frustrated cuz we ain on the same page….??!! Don’t nobody depend on Intense’s opinion to change dey fukking minds bout SHAT!
Get the fukk on with that!
Well why Mashonda gotta be dumb, weak, stupid, a bi*ch, and all that other negative stuff??? Y all the name calling??
BUT THIS MY DEAR IS OLD AGE WISDOM BY GRANDMOTHER, MOTHER, AUNTS, ETC. THAT WAS PASSED ON TO ME FROM GENERATION TO GENERATION
FAULT YOUR OWN PEOPLE’S IF THEY DIDN’T TEACH YOU TO BE STRONG IN SPITE OF OBSTACLES, CHEATING HUSBANDS,DEATH ETC.
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I was raised by my grandmother and I was given this wisdom but Im not going to down talk another female who wasn’t…all grandma taught us to be was COLDHEARTED, thats all the fukk that iz, I never understood why they person in pain had to SHAPE UP and take IT, then pretend like nothing was wrong while the MF who did them wrong gets to parlay in their faces and plot on ways and nasty shyt to do to break their spirits…..even when I did MAN THAT SHYT OUT I was still HURT, behind closed doors I HAD TO ENDURE THAT PAIN ALONE!!! and sometimes I wished that I could let it be known how I felt, but I knew the moment I did, those MFs would have their joy SO I DIDN’t but Im not going to talk shyt about Mashonda cause she DID, so the fukk what if her people didn’t teach her to be HEARTLESS AND COLD like we are huh?? IS THAT A BAD THING OR A GOOD THING…cuz sometimes I DONT KNOW WHICH IS WORSE!
I feel bad for Mashonda, I can understand where she is coming from. Some people just take longer than others to get over situations like this. Alicia needs to be ashamed of herself, I still like her music and I will still support her!
she didn’t take my man!
Hey
Most “good men” don’t have to tell you they’re good men. Their actions speak for themselves. :/
LOL!!! I leave for lunch and come back to find that INTENSE has had her very own “breakdown”… girl in all my years of living I have NEVER encountered a woman as angry as you appear to be. You need to relax… take a valium. I’ve avoided engaging you directly but girl… your use of caps to badger people into understanding your dog eat dog way of thinking has been pure comedy! I hope you just like to antagonize people and don’t really feel this way. If indeed you do… sigh. I think you’re bitter and lack cyber-couth when others don’t prescribe to the foolishness you promote.
You talk real fly but I wonder how much of it is your web persona? Maybe you’re lashing out at others because you don’t have a voice in your relationship, so you roll up in here and say to others what you would love to say in real life OR maybe you really are Rasputia and found your very own Norbit to marry
either way… you are the recipient of my ***SIGH*** of the day. I’ve heard of a concrete rose… but you’re just hard for no reason… sheesh!
SEPERATED is NOT DIVORCED. So Alicia is very much involved with a MARRIED MAN! and Swizz is an adulterer. I see we’ve got ‘sideline ho’ and Mistress support group members on board. Mashonda has every right to be hurt but I agree she needs to take it as a loss but IT IS A PROCESS losing your spouse to infidelity can feel similar to death afterall it killed their marriage.
Some of you on the board can’t seem to seperate the artist from the person. Just because you are a fan of their work doesn’t mean an artist should get a pass on their actions. I love Alicia Keys music (the latest though not at all, coincidence) but her stance on being a strong and positive woman has proven to be a marketing tactic and not one she puts into practice. Mashonda will eventually see the best revenge is living well…..without him. Alicia has a song called Karma she’ll find out all about it. Sign those papers and free yourself Mashonda!
Now Krysi leave Intense alone…Did you know functional illiteracy plagues 40-50% of US adults? I am convinced that Intense simply can’t read.
There is no way to explain how a person can still challenge you when you are supporting their point. Why else does she snaps off the way she does,even when you are in agreement with her.
It is fruitless to go back and forth…you will dumb your SELF down FLUCKIN with this girl
It is fruitless to go back and forth…you will dumb your SELF down FLUCKIN with this girl
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you’re right…cuz thats a fukking fewl right there….SMH mad at me cause I ain cosigning that heartless shyt, I know what grandma said, but i don’t know that everything grandma said was ALWAYS right because all it did was make me hard hearted and now that im older i see that, that is not always the solution…so no, I do not see Mashonda as stupid for saying the way that she feels, I do regret that she said it publicly, but its very painful to endure shyt like that on your own, Intense acting like she been neutered or something
“Don’t they have cell phones? Why not text each other with that mess…?”
–exactly!!
Intense acting like she been neutered or something
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Mike Vick’s fighting dogs were rehabilitated into house pets so there is yet hope for INTENSE… we just need to love the hell out of her until then.
Wow i said so much about this on another site i dont really feel like it but i will n e way. Yes women grieve especially when its their husband, BUT what i dont understand is, WHY ARE WE SUPPOSE TO HATE ALICIA (lets make something clear I have never EVER brought any of her cds and i ahve never been the other woman and dont want to be) Now, as i said on another site I will neVer agree with the term homewrecker UNLESS you’re talking about the husband/wife who cheated. THAT IS THE REAL HOMEWRECKER.
AS I WORTE ON ANOTHER SITE:
Ladies need to really wake up….Seriously, THE OTHER WOMAN AINT THE PROBLEM. Yall think if it wasnt for the other chick your man would have been by your side forever. WRONG!!! If it’s not Jan, it will be Jill. If it’s not Mercedes, it will be Lexus. That’s because it’s not the woman, it’s your man. Why??? Because the home was already broken.
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The “other woman” does not owe you a nothing. She did not commit to you, your man did. She never said she would not do anything to make you feel bad, your man did. She met a man, they vibed well, and now he’s falling in love with her, or atleast thinks he is, just like he fell in love with you way back when. Adultery is wrong and I don’t condone it at all, shes not a homewrekcer Mashinda you just married the wrong man in the first place. Once again, she did not break up your marriage, your husband did.
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Don’t forget that sometimes, that other woman was NEVER the other woman. She’s been around before you, during you, and after you. He just never told you about her. She was really the woman he should have been with all along, but for some reason, it didn’t work. You were just a trial in his life to make him realize what he really wanted.
*that is all
JUST ANOTHER PRIME EXAMPLE OF ALL THE MASHONDA’S OF THE WORLD-WHO CHOOSE TO FOCUS ON & LASH OUT @ OTHER WOMEN BECAUSE THEY LACK THE COMMON SENSE TO ADDRESS THEIR OWN ISSUES OF WHY THEY CHOOSE TO FOCUS THEIR ATTENTION, TIME, AND ENERGY ON A MAN WHO CHEATED ON THEM AND DOESN’T WANT TO BE WITH THEM ANYMORE
LOW SELF-ESTEEM WILL DO THAT TO A PERSON-THAT’S TYPICALLY THE RESULT OF TOLERATING A CHEATING MAN/SPOUSE
I AM a wife, have not been cheated on by my Husband, but I cannot stand a woman who will not just LET GO!!!!!! And women who blame the other woman and NOT the man, just kill me. I really wish that women would be strong and fabulous and get rid of that cheating man. How strong can you be *cough Beyonce cough*, when you stay with a man who will consistently cheat on you. *runs out before the Beyatics (Bey stans) attack*
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Girl, you’d better
With that said I HATE ADULTREY but are we suppose to not forgive and hope someones career or marriage fails.
wow yall calm down
Lawd Jesus, the community is brutal. Some are hypocrites. Carry-on
The “other woman” does not owe you a nothing. She did not commit to you, your man did. She never said she would not do anything to make you feel bad, your man did. She met a man, they vibed well, and now he’s falling in love with her, or atleast thinks he is, just like he fell in love with you way back when. Adultery is wrong and I don’t condone it at all, shes not a homewrekcer Mashinda you just married the wrong man in the first place. Once again, she did not break up your marriage, your husband did.
I could not have said that any better myself. Amen. STOP blaming the woman. She was not at that alter with you. She did not make or take an oath with you. She did not promise to be there through the good and bad and she does not OWE you ANYTHING!!!!! My rant is done.
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I agree with mostly everything Intense said. But yall know her words can be worded ummmmmm how do i say this kinda harmful sometines you know liek the *oh no that bish didnt just say that* kinda words, but i thinks its just her peronality and not intended to offend anyone i dont think.
@ Intense. Dont get to mad Krysi 
we all SR fam.
I also hope Mashonda can move on and heal lfrom this embarrassing chapter in her life. I know it hurts (who wouldn’t be hurt) but she has to be strong. I wish all the luck to her. And Swizz will be committing adu;trey even if he marry someone else in Jesus eyes. We dont know what really went down between them only God knows and he will deal with who ever accordingly.
oh wow
This for example is why you should never trust your man around a single woman. He’s not all that either, she need to move on. It just wasn’t meant to be.
Oh Shyt. I wish I could delete my post, sit back and eat some
cause it’s been some 
up in here today. Ya’ll got me 
Sorry about the three emoticons Sandra, but I thought it was necessary for this post. Damn!
@ Tasha
Its not about not trusting your man around “singe women” if he is truly your man you should be able to trust him around anyone. EVen girl butta ball nekkid. Why??? Because HE made a vow before you and God and He is YOUR husband. I def aint marrying no man i cant trust around ANYONE no matter how gorgeous or big booty Judy she is.
… I don’t even want popcorn.
It’s clear that intense has been burned one too many times by people (not just men) and it’s has soured her view on life and how to handle people. It’s also clear that some others just haven’t learned to ignore what they don’t agree with, especially when it doesn’t make sense in the real world.
Mashonda me and you are > < (I feel you but I’m not there with you). All this lashing out & speaking the truth will fall on deaf ears, people will believe what rhey want to, just concentrate on getting sweet revenge by living well.
@LovelyLady – I understand..I’m just talking about Alicia Keys not single women in general. It’s not the woman fault. I know it’s his. He stepped out on their marriage and gave into temptation. But I do strongly believe that a single woman should respect a married couple relationship, if they’re aware of it. At least remind the dude that he’s married and tell him to holla back when it’s over.
@ Tasha
women should respect marriages. But that will fall on deaf ears girl. Like child molesters, terrorist, rapers and anyone else committing disgraceful acts.
WoW…I commented earlier….came back and its been a cyber WWIII in here. WTH?
If everyone who believes in The Most High could bow their heads please,
Heavenly Father,
I just ask you to bless all of us in here that are commenting or will comment on SR site. Help us to remember that this is just entertainment and not a life or death decision. Lord, take away all anger, bitterness and negative energy from all those who click on these pages. Let this be a place where we can come to gather in fun and agree to disagree with respect for each other as you would want. And last but not least, Let us pray that we that believe in You defend You just as hard if not harder than we do these celebs who as witnessed by this story are usually not worth defending because they do not live their life they way that You instruct us to.I pray for this in Jesus Name,
Amen
Amen
I knew I couldn’t even take the time to read this @ work today! LOL It was sho’nuff a mess up in this piece! My 2cents:
I feel terrible for Mashonda, been there too boo. However just like I stated in that post about that random chic who sent SR that email tryna blast some random dude last week….I have TOO MUCH PRIDE to wild out on twitter for ppl to pull that ish up years later like, “Yeah, gurl that was you!” HOWEVER I have busted some windows ‘n ish my day! :lolol: &
@ the same time! Experience has taught me the best revenge IS IN FACT just to live ur life & make sure u & urs r str8. Karma is a bitch & she has yo back! Believe that!
Krysi J Says:
This I agree with, but everyone one is not as strong as we women would hope to be….some shyt JUST HURTS….she’s hurt, yea she’s bitter, and Im sure she’s humiliated. What woman would continue adding fuel to the flame knowing it only gives the new female credit in some way for taking your husband/boyfriend….A WOMAN IN PAIN. Obviously Mashonda is having a hard time recovering, and who knows she may not have a strong support system, maybe she is handling this the best way she can ALONE. I honestly think that Mashonda is doing the best she can, but when Swizz gets on twitter talking shyt like “yea thats my boo…for life…and when its time to move on, ya move on” Of course its going to stir up that pain all over again, what hurts a woman more than anything is lack of understanding….she still doesn’t understand how Swizz could have an affair, leave her for another woman, and do it with PRIDE…she doesn’t understand why a woman like Alicia would even participate in something like this or even consider a man who would do such a thing attractive, and she doesn’t understand why this is happening to her family….she’s just having a hard time. And honestly I want her to move on as well, because its sad to see her go through that, but at the same time Im not going to act like what she is doing is that ridiculous, and Im not going to act as if I don’t know where she’s coming from, and Im certainly not going to suggest that she get over it on MY TIME, she needs to get over it the best way she can…in whatever amount of time it takes her to do so. WTF i look like telling a female to get over some shyt like that…….thats like me telling Rhianna to get over Chris hitting her azz…EVERYTHING CHRIS DID TO RHIANNA PHYSICALLY can be compared to the emotional PAIN swizz is inflicting on Mashonda right now…I bet yall would never tell that bytch Rhianna to get over getting the shyt slapped outta
her??
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Kimi Says
It would suck to see the other Woman on tv all the time, she has the #1 single in the Country, she hangs out with Oprah and Michelle Obama.
Why do women wait for him to actually leave you for the other woman???
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Exactly that is the ONLY reason MAshonda is acting this way. I fell for her I really do but we all know Swizz cheated before if this was Keyshia down the hall would she be acting a fool, i think not but because its Alicia the star shes acting out. Why not 10 women and one baby ago??