FanMAIL: Another One Bites The Dust

I don't know why I keep getting emails like this one when it should be obvious that I have gay male friends and I love them. I don't have love for cowards who hide in the closet their entire lives and tiptoe out only when it's convenient for them (ie, Ricky Martin).

Sorry, but I'm not apologizing for being real. So let's all say goodbye to Jason and wish him well on his journey to other blogs where, hopefully he will discover that life is full of little disappointments.

Hello, Sandra. I'm a regular reader and have been since about 2007-one question: Do you hate gay men? It appears so. You glorify lesbian relationships but find disgust with any male who even thinks about being with another man. You seem to hold the point of view that gay men are responsible for all the ills confronting Black America. The last time I checked, they were not the ones selling crack, killing and robbing folks, going to jail repeatedly, leaving women with multiple fatherless children...and the AIDS thing. OK, you can't blame gay men for Black women having unsafe sex with NON gay men. Gay men don't like women, remember? Black women are disproportionately affecting the high AIDS rate because of their own actions. Go to any "str8" Black club and you'll see why.

Its bad enough you condemn violence on the one hand-and then glorify convicted gun slinger T.I. and that dreadful Tiny on the other, which can be understood considering you are presumably (at least I hope) being paid handsomely for your deference. But to perpetually degrade gay men is just beyond the pale because gay men are a big part of the reason you are so popular. They love you and you know it. Too bad its a one way street. You stake your claim as an influential music industry insider; if so, then how could you of all people disregard the fact that gay men may make up a larger constituency on your site than just the silly over-opionated women who dominate your posts? You love who you love; why can't you let other people do the same? You're a gifted writer who wastes a lot of time dehumanizing an over-victimized minority. As for me, I wish you well but the virulent homophobia has become too much for me and I'm OUT.

Thanks for helping make the world a safer place for bigots everywhere.

Jason

  • Bri

    I swear, if I see another Trey post I'm gonna choke....literally!! Leave him alone!!... :hurl:

  • Bri

    I swear, if I see another Trey post I'm gonna choke....literally!! Leave him alone!!... :hurl:

  • mirsmommy

    :lol: Good morning all. :coffee:

  • FloridaChick813

    ...Its bad enough you condemn violence on the one hand-and then glorify convicted gun slinger T.I. and that dreadful Tiny on the other...

    :lol:

  • allwrightyden

    He's really trying to look "hard"! Not working he still looks gay! :homoswitch:

  • SangriaSugar

    Good morning fam

  • Kcalvin2002

    .....You’re a gifted writer who wastes a lot of time dehumanizing an over-victimized minority.....

    :yes:

  • ms.truth

    silly over-opionated women who dominate your posts?
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    spell check honeyboo? May be opinionated, far from silly. hmph. :rolleyes:

  • ms.truth

    anywho.... Good morning everyone :coffee:

  • FloridaChick813

    @ Sandra,

    Damn, why does my baby Trey have to be at the top of this post????

    I lubs that man ((fans self))

    ...super, duper, jupiter loooovvveeee... :whistle:

  • FloridaChick813

    :lol: @ Kcalvin

    HEY MS. TRUTH!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • LadyLew

    Trey! I don't care what that is (water, vaseline, babyoil, shyt vegtable oil). I will lick all that off :hump:
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    Jason! First Paragraph ON POINT! Tell'em boy

  • LilMissRed

    too early for this but here goes.. :popcorn:

    Hi all, wishing u ALL a great day!

  • ReadTheBlog

    I have got to have the worlds worse case of gas, ever... Y'all pray for my office mate today :rofl:

  • Jamillah

    Gay black men are obviously not the cause of all the problems within the black community. Gay men who engage in sexual relationships with women, have children, and then decide to come out of the closet are morally bankrupt in more ways than one. Do what you want, but it's not fair to drag the hearts, lives and health of women through the gutter with you. Stay in the closet if you want, but stay there by your damn self.

  • http://oneperfectassistant.com ggouch

    Testing Gravi "Thank you Coporate B"

  • lourie

    Well, Sandra, Jason and I don't see through the same lense. I always thought you hated STRAIGHT men, not gay ones!

  • Buddafly

    IMO.....

    It seems Sandra has a problem with gay men who are in the closet. She wants everyone to come out like she has.

    Good Morning yall!

  • AprilRain

    Wow, I don't know what to say other than :clap:

    Anywhoo, Mornin everyone :coffee:

  • s_johnson07

    This letter makes some great points. But why does everybody hate Tiny? What did she do?

  • FloridaChick813

    Jamillah Says:

    Gay black men are obviously not the cause of all the problems within the black community. Gay men who engage in sexual relationships with women, have children, and then decide to come out of the closet are morally bankrupt in more ways than one. Do what you want, but it’s not fair to drag the hearts, lives and health of women through the gutter with you. Stay in the closet if you want, but stay there by your damn self.
    ______________

    :preach:

  • Karamelkisses76

    I love the V ab thing.

  • ReadTheBlog

    Sandra, you do not want to upset the gays. Look at what happened to Isiah Washington on Grey's Anatomy!
    They will shut you down...

  • speakinmymind

    i hope you've gotten enough hits and comments with this mess to buy that Louis backpack you've been lusting over or paid your rent and car note for April. everyone with any sense knows your motives for posting this type of incendiary gossip...plain and simple, $$$ and the pseudo celebrity status you have here in Atlanta. you are an extremely talented writer Sandra Rose, i'll give you that. everybody's got a gimmick and yours is working to your advantage. kudos to you Sandra Rose - no sarcasm. :coffee:

  • ms.truth

    HEY FLO!!! :waves:

  • http://oneperfectassistant.com ggouch

    Who is not gay these days? I have a girlfriend now who has done a complete 360 from HETERO to GAY..and this is one of those friends that I never would have THUNK IT!! could happen.

    She went to play and stayed! I feel it's my fault..when I peeped the sexual energy between her and my other homegirl who is completely committed to her lesibienism, I was the one that told her..go have the experience and get it out your system..this was less than a year ago...NOW she is SPRUNG!! she says sex is better with a woman, that she doesn't see a difference...I am torn between how I feel, since both of these woman are good friends of mine. I am conerned the former hetero is just having a moment and the minute she meets a dude,she will snap out of it therefore affecting the friendship!!

    I don't know!! OPINIOS PLEASE

  • ReadTheBlog

    S-Johnson, that is a good question. I think the fact that Sandra over-hypes her celebrity is the annoying factor.

  • FloridaChick813

    ReadTheBlog Says:

    Sandra, you do not want to upset the gays. Look at what happened to Isiah Washington on Grey’s Anatomy!
    They will shut you down…
    _____________

    :lol: Okay! I think they out number the "straight" folk anyways!

  • NOLA

    I agree with Sandra on this one. If you are out of the closet and true to yourself then more power to you. It's the ones that play both sides of the court that works on my dang on nerves. I remember once I met this guy who was very intelligent, good looking and seemed to have his self together. We went out twice, both times he was dressed immpeccable in a business casual style. He was a perfect gentle and I enjoyed his company. Imagine my suprise when I went with one of my gay friends to a drag show and saw his monkey ass in the middle of the dance floor with some spandex shorts, a pink tank top and a yellow off shoulder blouse, dancing like Lamar from revenge of the nerds. I will always remember that because, I wondered what would have happened had I not seen him at the club that night.

  • MsGaMama_706

    He is telling nothing but the truth :yes:

    I'm sorry yall but Trey is a little soft to me, not necessarily :gay: but hmmmmm can't quite but my finger on it :shrugs:

  • Cinnamon Kisses

    @ flo.....that song is my shhhh

    :yawn: @ this post

  • aqtpie

    :popcorn:

  • FloridaChick813

    go have the experience and get it out your system..
    ____________

    And this is what we tell each other all the time. H3ll, one of my friends just said this to me :shrug:

  • http://twitter.com/ChaiLife Yadda Yadda

    Well Sandra, the man may be right, you do seem to have issues with gay men :coffee:

    In other new.... Hey everyone!!

  • http://pearlswindow.com Carrington

    Say what you want about dude, but he wrote thee HALE out of that letter! He was very concise in making his points without being disrespectful or ignorant.

    Any objective person can read that letter and hear exactly what he's saying.

    Of course we know SANDRA don't give a damn, but hey, that's what makes us keep coming back, isn't it? lol

  • http://createspace.com/3393054 iscream

    Good Morning

    :offtopic:

    For all interested my book is now available in GA :cheer1: it can be found @ Nubian Bookstore in Morrow GA. :cheer1:

    Sandra if I do a signing will you come out and show your support :D

  • http://twitter.com/ChaiLife Yadda Yadda

    Imagine my suprise when I went with one of my gay friends to a drag show and saw his monkey ass in the middle of the dance floor with some spandex shorts, a pink tank top and a yellow off shoulder blouse, dancing like Lamar from revenge of the nerds

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    this made me laugh so hard I almost chocked :rofl:

  • FloridaChick813

    LOL @ MsGaMama, he's a little soft to me as well. But thats what most singers put off to me. I've never seen a man singer go hard like Jeezy :shrug: that would take away from the seductiveness of his songs if you ask me.

  • http://twitter.com/ChaiLife Yadda Yadda

    Congratulations Iscream :cheer:

    that is HUGE!!!!

  • http://www.twitter.com/karazinatl KaraZ

    Gosh why am I about to sound like a Sandra stan, when I know the chick has issues?

    I have never gotten the sense that Sandra hates gay men... I know she likes to point out men she believes to be gay and hiding their sexuality, but I do not recall any one post where she has blamed them for the ills of black America or talked badly about openly gay men. Maybe Jason was PMSing when he started his tirade or perhaps someone did in fact pee in his cheerios that morning? :shrugs:

    - A silly over-opinionated woman

  • b.renae

    Very nice pic...I'll be at GSU to see him on Friday!

  • FloridaChick813

    @ Cinnamon Kisses -

    Meeee tooo!!!!! I was listening to his album this morning on the way to work :D

  • AprilRain

    @icecream-What is your book about? I know you have probably said before but tell again :)

  • speakinmymind

    trust and believe that the only reason Sandra is harping on this subject is to attract attention to her blog and make money. it's business, not personal.

  • http://www.twitter.com/karazinatl KaraZ

    s_johnson07 Says:
    This letter makes some great points. But why does everybody hate Tiny? What did she do?
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    Well it started with her face... then the kool-aid colored hair, then the e-banging and e-hoo riding on twitter and then it really went to shyt with the OMG girls fcukery.

  • Buddafly

    NOLA Says:

    "saw his monkey ass in the middle of the dance floor with some spandex shorts, a pink tank top and a yellow off shoulder blouse, dancing"

    :rofl: at the mental pic

  • CivilEngineer

    I think Sandy just likes to get folks worked up and what better way then to go after someone's sexuality.

    She's never presented any evidence that backs up her claims about Trey...so why do people get so worked up about it? :shrug:

    It IS uncool to make claims about people when you don't have evidence but this is a blog...if she only reported facts this site wouldn't be nearly as entertaining :yes:

  • FloridaChick813

    @ Iscream -

    Good for you lady!!!!!!!! Your fixing to go international!!!!! LOL :cheer:

  • Anna

    KaraZ Says:

    Gosh why am I about to sound like a Sandra stan, when I know the chick has issues?

    I have never gotten the sense that Sandra hates gay men… I know she likes to point out men she believes to be gay and hiding their sexuality, but I do not recall any one post where she has blamed them for the ills of black America or talked badly about openly gay men. Maybe Jason was PMSing when he started his tirade or perhaps someone did in fact pee in his cheerios that morning?

    - A silly over-opinionated woman
    ~~~~~~~
    I never thought Sandra bashed gay men either. She doesn't like those who are in the closet.
    :lol: @ silly over-opinionated women. Does anyone know who Jason is, a loyal reader, who never commented?

  • Sindy

    LMAO @ BUDDAFLY COMMENTS.

  • ms.truth

    yay!! iscream :partyhat: I'll pick it up whenever I go that far south one day.

  • Cinnamon Kisses

    @ flo... girl I replay that song so much its a shame. :lol:

  • speakinmymind

    @ Civil
    you're my e-brother for a reason!! :cosign:

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    s_johnson07 Says:
    This letter makes some great points. But why does everybody hate Tiny? What did she do?
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    nobody "hates" Tiny and she didn't "do" anything. it's a blog and for most of us, it's just shyts and giggles...nothing personal.

  • danjas

    but if someone isn't ready to come outta the closet isn't that their choice? it's only themselves they have to live with. it's not really up to anyone else to call them out. that's a personal choice. i'm just sayin. what makes this secret any different than keeping any other type of life long secret.

  • CivilEngineer

    @GG....don't blame yourself. She may be going through a phase :shrug: I don't believe in this whole "turned out" crap. People use that as an excuse to act on feelings they've always had...#justsayin

  • FloridaChick813

    it’s a blog and for most of us, it’s just shyts and giggles…nothing personal.
    _______________________

    :preach:

    Just something to make the work day flow a little easier and faster :thumbsup:

  • http://www.twitter.com/karazinatl KaraZ

    Carrington Says:
    Say what you want about dude, but he wrote thee HALE out of that letter! He was very concise in making his points without being disrespectful or ignorant.

    Any objective person can read that letter and hear exactly what he’s saying.

    Of course we know SANDRA don’t give a damn, but hey, that’s what makes us keep coming back, isn’t it? lol

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    JASON - is that you boo? What's enlightened and respectful about painting all the women who comment regularly on Sandra's blog with the same silly and over-opinionated brush?

  • MIZZ.I_REP_ATL

    Get off TREY Plz!!! I'm not a big fan of his, but honestly..I don't believe the young man is gay. Leave him alone.

    &

    LOL @ RTB (Btw, 2 much info, but don't kill any1 over there).

  • CivilEngineer

    Hey @speak...working out today??

  • buddapecan

    STILL don't understand why people take blogs (an online diary; a personal chronological log of thoughts published on a Web page; reflecting the personality of the author) AND the comments people make on blogs so seriously :shrug:

  • CHARBEE1

    :yea: He does have a point on some things.
    :claps:

  • http://www.twitter.com/karazinatl KaraZ

    danjas Says:
    but if someone isn’t ready to come outta the closet isn’t that their choice? it’s only themselves they have to live with. it’s not really up to anyone else to call them out. that’s a personal choice. i’m just sayin. what makes this secret any different than keeping any other type of life long secret.
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    I kinda don't agree, but I see where you're coming from. I have a problem with people hiding who they actually are and not giving people the information they need to make a decision about their dealings with you. I mean a gay man in the closet dating a woman and lying about being straight for me is as bad as a practicing prostitute dating a man pretending she's been celibate for years. The deceit is wrong.

  • CHARBEE1

    Civil you always keep it 100....

  • Buddafly

    @ KaraZ I totally agree.

  • FloridaChick813

    KaraZ Says:

    danjas Says:
    but if someone isn’t ready to come outta the closet isn’t that their choice? it’s only themselves they have to live with. it’s not really up to anyone else to call them out. that’s a personal choice. i’m just sayin. what makes this secret any different than keeping any other type of life long secret.
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    I kinda don’t agree, but I see where you’re coming from. I have a problem with people hiding who they actually are and not giving people the information they need to make a decision about their dealings with you. I mean a gay man in the closet dating a woman and lying about being straight for me is as bad as a practicing prostitute dating a man pretending she’s been celibate for years. The deceit is wrong.
    ________________

    Im with KaraZ -

    This is not a "I eat my boogers" type of secret. This is a secret that can possibly effect other peoples lives. I speak on it cause it happened to me. Now I have a 6 year old with a gay daddy, and we're both standing there like "WHAT THE HELL JUST HAPPEN" :shrug:

    Furthermore, if you wanna be happy in life, you have to be YOU. Whatever that may be. If your gay, be gay. TO EACH HIS OWN!

  • AprilRain

    danjas Says:
    but if someone isn’t ready to come outta the closet isn’t that their choice? it’s only themselves they have to live with. it’s not really up to anyone else to call them out. that’s a personal choice. i’m just sayin. what makes this secret any different than keeping any other type of life long secret.
    ————————————————————–

    I kinda don’t agree, but I see where you’re coming from. I have a problem with people hiding who they actually are and not giving people the information they need to make a decision about their dealings with you. I mean a gay man in the closet dating a woman and lying about being straight for me is as bad as a practicing prostitute dating a man pretending she’s been celibate for years. The deceit is wrong.
    *********************************
    :preach:

  • Jewelry

    Can we say someone just handed someone else their arse on a platter? :rofl:

  • nika405

    Good morning SR fam! :yawn: at this post! If you are no longer going to read a blog why not just leave w/o the letter? That's like when someone annouces the are going to unfollow someone on twitter.....just leave already geesh!

  • FloridaChick813

    Jumping right in @ Civil -

    I ran a 2 miles yesterday and felt great, but today my legs hurt. :yea:

  • http://twitter.com/dckim74 dcwife1622

    @Civil...
    Well said....

    Sandra is very ignorant in assuming everyone on that list is gay.......Until she has the proof she shouldn't be posting dumb ass sh1t

    I won't ever co-sign ignorance!

  • FloridaChick813

    :lol: @ Nika

    Thats how customers do when they get mad at a store.. "Im never coming here again!" :mad:

    :lol:

  • MIZZ.I_REP_ATL

    @iscream...congrats!!!! And whats the title of your book?

  • Krysi J

    "the silly over-opionated women who dominate your posts?"

    you feel better hun.....had to get that off your chest huh...I understand...you take blogging entIRELY to seriously boo boo. You took what? about 30-45 minutes out of your, I assume, very INTERESTING life to send in this rant? and the women of SandraRose are silly? :rofl:

    #hoesitDOWN

  • CivilEngineer

    @CHARBEE...THANKS!!

    @Flo... :claps: I had a test last night so I couldn't make the gym but I'll be at today!!

    Did you try epsom salt? Works wonders for me!

  • Man, I just don’t care™

    Go suck a dyck Jason. :coffee:

  • CivilEngineer

    :rofl: @Krysi...I LOVE SARCASM

    And the women of SR are alright in my book :yes:

    Thanks @dcwife...do you reside in DC? (hope that doesn't sound like a dumb question) It's on my list of places to move after graduation

  • ReadTheBlog

    Well, I'm grinding today. Trying to learn to do for self. See ya'all around SR Fam, and have a nice Wednesday, everyone! :waving:

  • speakinmymind

    @ Civil
    yes, i worked out. i only did about 40 minutes of cardio (bike and cross trainer) but i also did some lunges, leg curls and abs. i didn't have a workout planned out so i just did whatever came to mind.

    and u?

  • SoulWithSass

    *HARD PAUSE* :warning:

    "Over-opinionated?" Seriously? Really? At what point does an opinion become too extra to the point of being "over-opinionated?" I, for one, would just like to know? Wasn't that whole little essay you just wrote one long f**kin "opinion," Jason?

    Or do you think that your "opinion" was within bounds and therefore not passing the extent of "over-opinionation?" Furthermore...the whole "women" noun that followed the "over-opinionated" adjective was unnecessary, untrue, illogical and insulting as any blind man can see that there are persons of the MALE species on this site who are just as vocal as well. But I guess because they're men and you like scholong as well, you don't want to offend them by calling them "over-opinionated." But the fish...f**k how we feel, huh? :lame:

    You know what?

    Bye, Jason. :rolleyes:

  • Cinnamon Kisses

    :rofl:

  • Nthabi

    Good bye, Jason!

    Wait!! Who were you again?

    :coffee:

    PS: Sandra ridicules a CROSS SECTION of both individuals AND groups; seems to me you are overly sensitive and defensive about the "gays"!

    All in all, I'm glad you realized that you needed to get out of the kitchen since you couldn't stand the heat!

    ADIOS AMIGO,

    Goodbye and Good luck!

    :coffee:

  • free

    buddapecan Says: STILL don’t understand why people take blogs (an online diary; a personal chronological log of thoughts published on a Web page; reflecting the personality of the author) AND the comments people make on blogs so seriously

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    me either. i guess SR was really on to something in that gay post. i've seen those people on so many other blogs that i just thought it was a run of the mill post. i guess if it comes out of SR's mouth, it's LEGIT!

  • speakinmymind

    @ Flo
    i got this huge bag of epsom salt from Walmart. in addition to muscle pain/soreness, soaking in salts is a good detoxifier too. our skin is the biggest elimination organ we have and salts pull the toxins out through the skin.

  • http://www.twitter.com/karazinatl KaraZ

    lmao @man but he won't call you silly :rofl:

  • ms.truth

    bye RTB!

  • FloridaChick813

    @ Civil - THANKS! Im goin to check out the gym the ladies suggested yesterday. Im geeked :D

    :rofl: @ Krysi J - NO BITCHASSNESSSS :nono:

  • CivilEngineer

    See comment #73 @speak :lol:

    I hate missing days and reading what yall did makes it worse :(

  • speakinmymind

    @ Man
    you look a little sweet sipping that coffee with your pinky finger stuck out like that!! :lolol:

  • SoulWithSass

    Okay....looked up and read again....just noticed the "silly" before the "over-opinionated women" part.

    I'm going to go drink some wine real quick before I start again.....

    Jason can kiss my ENTIRE a**! (c. Della Reese)

  • Man, I just don’t care™

    @GG
    Who is not gay these days? I have a girlfriend now who has done a complete 360 from HETERO to GAY..and this is one of those friends that I never would have THUNK IT!! could happen.

    She went to play and stayed! I feel it’s my fault..when I peeped the sexual energy between her and my other homegirl who is completely committed to her lesibienism, I was the one that told her..go have the experience and get it out your system..this was less than a year ago…NOW she is SPRUNG!! she says sex is better with a woman, that she doesn’t see a difference…I am torn between how I feel, since both of these woman are good friends of mine. I am conerned the former hetero is just having a moment and the minute she meets a dude,she will snap out of it therefore affecting the friendship!!

    I don’t know!! OPINIOS PLEASE
    ___________________________________________________________________

    I think the curiosity is there in a lot of females. I know you are concerned about the friendship and all but it's really out of your hands. Maybe they will be happy together.

    :shrug:

    Don't press about it and only give "advice" when it is sought. Otherwise wish them the best and keep it pushing.

  • FloridaChick813

    @ Speak - I LOVE the Dr Teals epsom salt. It smells soooo goood :yes:

  • Al-Ameera

    HA! SR stay pissin' people off. And I stay :rofl: @ work. Geez, what would the work day be like with this comedy?

    The funny this is, all the gay men I know LOVE the drama of silly over opinionated women….so shut it up with all that!

    And Ms. Karaz, with your "why people hate Tiny" breakdown...Please report to time out!!!

  • speakinmymind

    @ Civil
    i've been off more than on the past few weeks but i'm determined to get back on track starting this week. i'm just mad that men don't have to deal with cellulite. i've lost weight and built muscle, and now i have cellulite when i didn't have it before! :mad:

  • Nthabi

    ...and just HOW SERIOUSLY do folks take blogs, anyways?!? That right there should be the question!

    If this ish on this blog or ANY OTHER BLOG OUT THERE causes you to lose sleep at night, then you need a HUG...

    ...and a HOBBY!

    :coffee:

  • Al-Ameera

    *thing

  • AWESOME ARSENAL

    this post is gay....lol

  • speakinmymind

    @ Flo
    I'll have to try it. i have plain, lavender and peppermint salts that i soak in depending on how i feel.

  • Daisy

    I did 30 mins on the treadmill and a 30 min dvd w/jillan biggest loser. I have spin claSs today

    Trey :heart:

  • FloridaChick813

    Man, I just don't care™ Says:

    I think the curiosity is there in a lot of females. I know you are concerned about the friendship and all but it’s really out of your hands. Maybe they will be happy together.

    Don’t press about it and only give “advice” when it is sought. Otherwise wish them the best and keep it pushing.
    ______________________________________

    H3ll, in all honesty, Im very curious. And soooooo many females(and good looking females at that) have been pursuing me. Im actually thinking about taking someone up on their offer :yes: But IDK yet :shrug:

  • qtipthecat

    Its bad enough you condemn violence on the one hand-and then glorify convicted gun slinger T.I. and that dreadful Tiny on the other, which can be understood considering you are presumably (at least I hope) being paid handsomely for your deference.
    ************************
    :cosign:
    100 percent

  • gypsyeyes

    I think that this doesn't need any more acknowledgement. She said it, it's her blog and so what. Do you believe everything that someone tells you? Hell Naw. I wish I would get silly and opinionated about this. To each his own.

    ***In other news*** I was so motivated by the post yesterday that I started working out. WATCH OUT NOW!!!

  • Nikki Babie

    CivilEngineer Says:

    @GG….don’t blame yourself. She may be going through a phase I don’t believe in this whole “turned out” crap. People use that as an excuse to act on feelings they’ve always had…#justsayin
    ************************************************************
    I SO agree!!! :yes:

  • http://www.twitter.com/karazinatl KaraZ

    @Al-Ameera, I'm filing an appeal! Why you like putting me in the corner for asking or answering valid questions? >:(

  • CivilEngineer

    SORRY @speak...it's got more to do with the extra water in your body than with how much you work out. Have you googled any info on cellulite to see if there are ways of getting rid of it...I know some women just have it and some don't :shrug:

  • FloridaChick813

    Nthabi Says:

    …and just HOW SERIOUSLY do folks take blogs, anyways?!? That right there should be the question!

    If this ish on this blog or ANY OTHER BLOG OUT THERE causes you to lose sleep at night, then you need a HUG…

    …and a HOBBY!
    ________________

    :preach:

  • ms.truth

    H3ll, in all honesty, Im very curious. And soooooo many females(and good looking females at that) have been pursuing me. Im actually thinking about taking someone up on their offer :yes: But IDK yet :shrug:

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    :blink: FLO! you soooo lost me there :rofl:

  • FloridaChick813

    @ Speak - I love the Lavender! But I just have this thing about sittin in the tub, I always have to take a shower afterwards :shrug:

  • Nthabi

    SR is NOT an elected public official. She is a private citizen OPINING on her own blog!

    She doesn't any one a DAMN thing. And if she feels like condemning violence in one sentence and then condoning it in the next, we then she CAN do that.

    And if you find this hypocritical and/or offensive, you can BOUNCE!

    Oh wait!! That's what you were doing, BOUNCING...

    MY BAD!! CARRY ON!

    :rofl:

    Snark

  • Nthabi

    She doesn't OWE*

    .

  • FloridaChick813

    Hey Daisy ((Waves))

    @ Gypsy - Girl GOOD for you!!! Your celibacy will end soon if you continue to get all sexy on em!! ;)

  • CivilEngineer

    YAY!!! SandraRose is now a healthy living forum too :danban:

    @Daisy...I have spin today too. Hope the seat magically gets wider today(fingers crossed) :lol:

  • FloridaChick813

    KaraZ Says:

    @Al-Ameera, I’m filing an appeal! Why you like putting me in the corner for asking or answering valid questions? >:(
    ___________

    :rofl: @ Im filing an appeal!!!!!!!!

  • gypsyeyes

    Nthabi Says:

    SR is NOT an elected public official. She is a private citizen OPINING on her own blog!

    She doesn’t any one a DAMN thing. And if she feels like condemning violence in one sentence and then condoning it in the next, we then she CAN do that.

    And if you find this hypocritical and/or offensive, you can BOUNCE!

    Oh wait!! That’s what you were doing, BOUNCING…

    MY BAD!! CARRY ON!

    Snark
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    RO- is that you?????
    :rofl:

  • danjas

    I kinda don’t agree, but I see where you’re coming from. I have a problem with people hiding who they actually are and not giving people the information they need to make a decision about their dealings with you. I mean a gay man in the closet dating a woman and lying about being straight for me is as bad as a practicing prostitute dating a man pretending she’s been celibate for years. The deceit is wrong.
    *********************************

    sandra mentioned gay men like ricky martin. that's who i was commenting on. they aren't dating women. downlow is a whole nother issue because they are being deceitful by dating both men and women. that i don't agree with.

  • gypsyeyes

    FloridaChick813 Says:

    Hey Daisy ((Waves))

    @ Gypsy - Girl GOOD for you!!! Your celibacy will end soon if you continue to get all sexy on em!!
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    Already sexy just gonna give em feva for days. I want to be toned and healthy. I don't want to be skinny at all. Hell my sex life got better with the weight and so did the attention.
    ***and don't think I didn't catch what you said up there.

  • kwall

    Bye Jason…

    In other thoughts…I thought of another person who might need to kick open the closet door…Raphael Saadiq …heard the 3T’s on TJMS this morning…how the hail you go from a dude from the Oakland hood named Charlie Ray Wiggins…to a flaming queen with a British accent named Raphael??? BOY STOP!

  • CivilEngineer

    No kwall you can't just come outta left field with these

    "how the hail you go from a dude from the Oakland hood named Charlie Ray Wiggins…to a flaming queen with a British accent named Raphael??? BOY STOP!"

    :rofl:

  • Nikki Babie

    Jamillah Says:

    Gay black men are obviously not the cause of all the problems within the black community. Gay men who engage in sexual relationships with women, have children, and then decide to come out of the closet are morally bankrupt in more ways than one. Do what you want, but it’s not fair to drag the hearts, lives and health of women through the gutter with you. Stay in the closet if you want, but stay there by your damn self.
    ************************************************************Right on!!!!!

  • FloridaChick813

    ms.truth Says:

    H3ll, in all honesty, Im very curious. And soooooo many females(and good looking females at that) have been pursuing me. Im actually thinking about taking someone up on their offer But IDK yet

    ——————

    FLO! you soooo lost me there
    _____________

    :lol: Im a lil lost myself. IDK what to do :shrug:

  • FloridaChick813

    :lol: @ gypsy #dontjudgeme

    And I know thats right!!!! However im a slim little thing, always have been and im assuming I always will be :rolleyes:

  • speakinmymind

    **streaks bukked nekkid thru comments with "FREE KARAZ!" banner**

  • ms.truth

    @Flo, I don't know how to help you on that one! LOL!

    I'm slim too and thought I would always be, but as of lately, weight has been packing on me. I've gained about 20 lbs in a few short months. While I still consider myself slim, I want to stop it before it gets out of hand. I have some big women in my fam, so I'm def not trying to get like them.

  • Man, I just don’t care™

    @FLORIDA CHICK
    "H3ll, in all honesty, Im very curious. And soooooo many females(and good looking females at that) have been pursuing me. Im actually thinking about taking someone up on their offer But IDK yet "
    _________________________________________________________________

    I think you should just try it. Like I said, a lot (if not most) females are at least curious about it and a lot (if not most men) understand this so it isn't a very big "taboo" with us.

    That curiosity is never going to go away and you can always change your mind after the fact.

  • Krysi J

    @Krysi…I LOVE SARCASM

    And the women of SR are alright in my book
    ---------------------------------------------------------

    :grin: thats right e-round

    oh yea and let me add my

    "goodbye, Jason" as well.

    the trending topic in this post is

    #opinionatedsillshytforJASON

    #ThatdreadfulTiny

    #whodafukkisJasonagain

    #ImsogayIwrotealettertoSandraRoseaboutit

    #twosnapsandacircle

  • FloridaChick813

    ms.truth Says:

    @Flo, I don’t know how to help you on that one! LOL!

    I’m slim too and thought I would always be, but as of lately, weight has been packing on me. I’ve gained about 20 lbs in a few short months. While I still consider myself slim, I want to stop it before it gets out of hand. I have some big women in my fam, so I’m def not trying to get like them.
    _______________________

    LOL.. Im 5'5, about 128lbs. After I had my son I was about 160, but thats the most i've ever weighed. No one in my family is really big like that, except on my dads side and thats all men so maybe it wont effect me :shrug:

  • speakinmymind

    Man, I just don't care™ Says:

    @FLORIDA CHICK
    “H3ll, in all honesty, Im very curious. And soooooo many females(and good looking females at that) have been pursuing me. Im actually thinking about taking someone up on their offer But IDK yet ”
    _________________________________________________________________

    I think you should just try it. Like I said, a lot (if not most) females are at least curious about it and a lot (if not most men) understand this so it isn’t a very big “taboo” with us.

    That curiosity is never going to go away and you can always change your mind after the fact.
    -------------------------
    @ Flo
    Man just wants you to do it and come and tell him about it! i see you Man...you ain't slick! :lolol:

  • LLani

    Sandra doesn't hate gay men,she just thinks ALL men are gay!

  • gypsyeyes

    Krysi J Says:

    @Krysi…I LOVE SARCASM

    And the women of SR are alright in my book
    ———————————————————

    thats right e-round

    oh yea and let me add my

    “goodbye, Jason” as well.

    the trending topic in this post is

    #opinionatedsillshytforJASON

    #ThatdreadfulTiny

    #whodafukkisJasonagain

    #ImsogayIwrotealettertoSandraRoseaboutit

    #twosnapsandacircle
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    You don't need to go to the korna, you need to go to the hole with this one. Why must you be so stooppittt???

  • FloridaChick813

    Man, I just don't care™ Says:

    I think you should just try it. Like I said, a lot (if not most) females are at least curious about it and a lot (if not most men) understand this so it isn’t a very big “taboo” with us.

    That curiosity is never going to go away and you can always change your mind after the fact.
    ____________________

    OMG, thats exactly what my friend said. I just dont know if its a "fantasy" or an actual "curiousity" :shrug:

    Is there a diffenrece??

  • Man, I just don’t care™

    @SPEAKIN MY MIND
    "Man just wants you to do it and come and tell him about it! i see you Man…you ain’t slick! "
    __________________________________________________________________

    ROFLMAO. I have NO problems with her telling me about it!!

    Just don't have a problem with women gettin it on!

  • FloridaChick813

    *difference

  • Krysi J

    and at FLO :eek:

    *in my best Uncle Joe, Madea's brother voice*

    "Dooooon't DO IT....Don't do it, that iz STU-PED!"

  • speakinmymind

    **pushes button on phone for paging system**

    speakinmymind: "PAGING KRYSIJ...PAGING KRYSIJ. PLEASE REPORT TO THE DOODOO BROWN COUCH IN THE KORNA IMMEDIATELY!"

    :rofl:

  • FloridaChick813

    :lol: @ Krysi J

  • Man, I just don’t care™

    @FLORIDA CHICK
    "OMG, thats exactly what my friend said. I just dont know if its a “fantasy” or an actual “curiousity”

    Is there a diffenrece??"
    _________________________________________________________________

    I think there's a difference between curiosity and fantasy but let's not get into semantics (I have a bad habit of that).

    Hey, there is nothing wrong with the fantasy/curiosity. I CAN tell you that "regret" is a muthafuggah tho.

    I guess the better question is why HAVEN'T you acted on it since the oppurtunity has been there and you are at least vaguely interested?
    :shrug:

  • FloridaChick813

    Man, I just don’t care™ Says:

    @ Flo
    Man just wants you to do it and come and tell him about it! i see you Man…you ain’t slick!
    __________

    :lol: thats most men do.. They love women on women action.. :rolleyes:

    IDK, two women is better than two men in my opinion.

    #dontjudgeme

  • speakinmymind

    @ Flo
    i wouldn't do it. find some other fantasy to play out with your hubby and call it a day.

  • http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

    :rofl: Krysi is a fool!!!

  • Krysi J

    “how the hail you go from a dude from the Oakland hood named Charlie Ray Wiggins…to a flaming queen with a British accent named Raphael??? BOY STOP!”

    --------------------------------------------------------

    :eek: AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHAhahahahahahaha :rofl: :rofl:

    *catches Speaks with a clotheshanger hook* :rofl: put on some damn FABRICS!!

  • ms.truth

    :rofl: @ Krysi

    I :cosign:

  • FloridaChick813

    Man, I just don't care™ Says:

    @FLORIDA CHICK
    “OMG, thats exactly what my friend said. I just dont know if its a “fantasy” or an actual “curiousity”

    Is there a diffenrece??”
    _________________________________________________________________

    I think there’s a difference between curiosity and fantasy but let’s not get into semantics (I have a bad habit of that).

    Hey, there is nothing wrong with the fantasy/curiosity. I CAN tell you that “regret” is a muthafuggah tho.

    I guess the better question is why HAVEN’T you acted on it since the oppurtunity has been there and you are at least vaguely interested?
    ____________

    Scared. Coward. Pussy Cat.. call me what you want, but you can say A LOT of ish, but when it comes down to it, its like "WHAT THE F*CK AM I DOIN??" Dont get me wrong, I've never had a close "sexual encounter" with a girl. But they come on to me, ask me out, ask me if I'd ever "do" a girl, and if I would to make sure I call them. :rolleyes:

    I think about girls sometimes. But in a three-some kind of thought. Not just me and a chick. IDK, im a scorpio, Im a VERY VERY fr3aky creature. I think about s3x all the time. Play with my toy 3-4 times a day. Im in fear of becomming a nymph :ashamed:

    ((SORRY IF TMI YA'LL))

  • c.mara

    Trey fine tail trying to show off his "D'angelos" but I swear NO MAN HAS EVER done it quite like the D'angelo did it in How Does It Feel vid! Im still pissed at that man for messing up his body now :mad:

  • The Original MsG

    Nthabi Says:

    …and just HOW SERIOUSLY do folks take blogs, anyways?!? That right there should be the question!

    If this ish on this blog or ANY OTHER BLOG OUT THERE causes you to lose sleep at night, then you need a HUG…

    …and a HOBBY!

    ____________________________

    You sure are telling the truth, but you would be surprised how many people think stuff on blogs is the gospel.

  • Krysi J

    That curiosity is never going to go away and you can always change your mind after the fact.

    --------------------------------------------------------

    Is that you Lucifer?

  • FloridaChick813

    @ Speak - I just dont wanna live my life, get all old and ish and then say "i wish I wouldv'e..... done this or that... went here or there..." Ya know??

  • Man, I just don’t care™

    @FLORIDA CHICK
    " thats most men do.. They love women on women action..

    IDK, two women is better than two men in my opinion.

    #dontjudgeme"
    ___________________________________________________________________

    Woman + Woman = Beautiful/Natural :lick:

    Man + Man = Abomination :hurl:

  • Man, I just don’t care™

    @KRYSI

    HEY KRYSI!!!!
    :D

  • FloridaChick813

    Krysi J Says:

    That curiosity is never going to go away and you can always change your mind after the fact.

    ——————————————————–

    Is that you Lucifer?
    _____________

    :rofl: :yes: Yup, thats him, in the flesh

  • gypsyeyes

    The Original MsG Says:

    Nthabi Says:

    …and just HOW SERIOUSLY do folks take blogs, anyways?!? That right there should be the question!

    If this ish on this blog or ANY OTHER BLOG OUT THERE causes you to lose sleep at night, then you need a HUG…

    …and a HOBBY!

    ____________________________

    You sure are telling the truth, but you would be surprised how many people think stuff on blogs is the gospel.
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    We all know of certain ppl that take this shyt way too personal. If you start feeling some kind of way....LOG OFF!!!

  • http://createspace.com/3393054 iscream

    Sorry for the delay guys. But thanks for the love :heart: for the person who asked the book is called

    "I gotta make it to Heaven for going thru Hell"

    You can read more on it by clicking my name.

  • Cinnamon Kisses

    :rofl: @ Krysi

  • The Original MsG

    Krysi J Says:

    That curiosity is never going to go away and you can always change your mind after the fact.

    ——————————————————–

    Is that you Lucifer
    _______________________
    :lol: You are going to get me fired!! Lawd!!

  • Man, I just don’t care™

    @FLORIDA CHICK
    "Scared. Coward. Pussy Cat.. call me what you want, but you can say A LOT of ish, but when it comes down to it, its like “WHAT THE F*CK AM I DOIN??” Dont get me wrong, I’ve never had a close “sexual encounter” with a girl. But they come on to me, ask me out, ask me if I’d ever “do” a girl, and if I would to make sure I call them.

    I think about girls sometimes. But in a three-some kind of thought. Not just me and a chick. IDK, im a scorpio, Im a VERY VERY fr3aky creature. I think about s3x all the time. Play with my toy 3-4 times a day. Im in fear of becomming a nymph

    ((SORRY IF TMI YA’LL))"
    ______________________________________________________________________

    Oh yeah, a lot of women are "bi" (or lesbian) and have no problem even sharing you with your man. They are really brazen about it because there is really no reason for a woman to be "in the closet" because they are pretty much accepted.

    I FULLY support and endorse threesomes and think this should be the route you take to experiment. Your man will thank you, and if you DON'T like the chick, well, you got some dyck right there already. :yea:

    P.S. I'm a SCORPIO TOO! (Nov. 6) I know that 24/7 sexual craving all too well.

  • CivilEngineer

    "I think about girls sometimes. But in a three-some kind of thought. Not just me and a chick. IDK, im a scorpio, Im a VERY VERY fr3aky creature. I think about s3x all the time. Play with my toy 3-4 times a day. Im in fear of becomming a nymph :ashamed: "
    --------------------------------------------------------------

    Ummmmmm Flo I hate to be the one to tell you this but you already are (Ying Yang Twins whisper voice)

  • speakinmymind

    Krysi J Says:
    *catches Speaks with a clotheshanger hook* put on some damn FABRICS!!
    ---------------------------
    **bedazzles clotheshanger and wears it around my neck**

  • Krysi J

    :grin:

    #sillyshyt

  • The Original MsG

    gypsyeyes Says:

    The Original MsG Says:

    Nthabi Says:

    …and just HOW SERIOUSLY do folks take blogs, anyways?!? That right there should be the question!

    If this ish on this blog or ANY OTHER BLOG OUT THERE causes you to lose sleep at night, then you need a HUG…

    …and a HOBBY!

    ____________________________

    You sure are telling the truth, but you would be surprised how many people think stuff on blogs is the gospel.
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    We all know of certain ppl that take this shyt way too personal. If you start feeling some kind of way….LOG OFF!!!
    ___________________________

    For real. And that is why I think many of those celebs get all freaked out about some of the false negative stuff posted because they know its ALOT of fools out there.

  • http://pearlswindow.com Carrington

    The only gay men I have a problem with are the ones who sleep with men AND women and don't reveal to the people they have SEX with that they play for both teams - otherwise, I don't necessarily see it as "dl" I think it's more the fact that what happens in their bedroom is simply not up for discussion.

    If you're a woman and you suck d*ck and don't tell everybody that you suck d*ck, it's not because you're on the DL, it's because you simply find no need in discussing your bedroom antics with a bunch of people who will NEVER be in your bedroom to begin with.

    So, why if a man sucks d*ck, is he REQUIRED to inform everybody, and if he doesn't, he's "hiding who he is"? Hiding, or just assuming that his or her sex life is just as "private" to him or her as how much you make per hour is "private" to you.

  • speakinmymind

    @ Flo
    i just always think of situations like that as a surefire ticket to hellfire and damnation. i'm no holy roller by any means but in my quest to do better and not just talk the talk, some stuff just ain't worth having to think back on and cringe about. i got enough repentin' to do as it is! :lolol:

  • ms.truth

    yall so SILLY :rofl: I had to throw that one it.

  • ms.truth

    in*

  • speakinmymind

    @ Carrington

    you said that! :cosign: :preach:

  • http://pearlswindow.com Carrington

    Oh, and for the record - we should stop blaming black men for staying in the closet when we (Sandrarose included) go out of our way to make gay black men the worst thing you can be in the black community.

    My aunt and uncle are ashamed of my gay cousin because he is VERY fem, but they have a picture of his BROTHER in his prison pose on top of the TV smilin' proudly. WHY is he doing the prison pose? Because that mutha effa is IN prison... for murdering THREE people.

    Meanwhile, the gay cousin has two degrees and don't ask nobody for anything - except for us to love him.

    Look at Sandra's morning wood post, the FIRST ten responses are, "gay". So, how can you expect a man to see that coming from women and then raise his hand to make that announcement about himself?

  • speakinmymind

    @ Flo
    and i'm def not judging cuz the thought has crossed my mind too, but when i thought of all the consequences that would come after that (shouldn't done it, shame, etc.), it just isn't worth it to ME in the long run. and i always feel like anything like that where i'm rehashing it over and over in my head, then it must mean it's not for me.

  • FloridaChick813

    DEAD @ the bedazzled clothes hanger around Speaks neck!!!!!!!

    @ Man, im 11/10 :yea: and im glad someone feels me. Cause sometimes people look at me like >> :blink: When I tell them that!

    @ Civil - Really??? You think sooo????? :ashamed:

    @ Speak - I completely understand all that. Thats another reason I havent done the deed. But at the same time, and please #dontjudgeme, sins are forgiven :lol: and Im only 25 so I can blame it on being "young & dumb" :shrug:

  • speakinmymind

    **adds lights and streamers to Carrington's soapbox**

  • FloridaChick813

    @ Carrington -

    YOU SAID THAT!!!!!!!!! ((your 2nd post))

    People are soooo crucial against gay men, they almost HATE the fact that they are gay, so they try to hide it.

  • FloridaChick813

    ^^^ Critical, not crucial^^^

  • gypsyeyes

    @carrington-is that your blog when you click on your name? What is that little boy doing smoking that cigarette? I'm about to die. Is he just a midget?

  • CivilEngineer

    :lol: @Flo...I don't think being a nympho is a bad thing unless he/she is :hump: everything in sight. From what I've read in your comments that's not you so be PROUD of your freaky side...EMBRACE IT ;)

  • FloridaChick813

    speakinmymind Says:

    @ Flo
    and i’m def not judging cuz the thought has crossed my mind too, but when i thought of all the consequences that would come after that (shouldn’t done it, shame, etc.), it just isn’t worth it to ME in the long run. and i always feel like anything like that where i’m rehashing it over and over in my head, then it must mean it’s not for me.
    _________________

    And your right tooo... If it needs THAT much thought, it must not REALLY be something I wanna do.. Thats like my relationship. My mama always says "if you have to question it and think about it that much, It aint even worth it, let it go" :shrug:

  • speakinmymind

    @ Flo
    i'm not judging you and please don't take it that way. :hug:

  • Man, I just don’t care™

    @SPEAKIN MY MIND
    "...the thought has crossed my mind too..."
    ___________________________________________________________________

    You only live once! Regret is a muthafugga!

  • Cinnamon Kisses

    Shut the door......I LOVE MISS PEARL...@ carrington :heart:

  • FloridaChick813

    @ Civil - Well thank you sir!!! I try to embrace it, but sometimes it over takes my mind :ashamed:

    @ Speak - GIrl I dont think ur judging me, I just keep saying that to make myself not look so bad :lol: But I mean, I appreciate the opinions of you all. Def. makes you rethink and think again about what your about to do!

  • gypsyeyes

    Oh, and for the record - we should stop blaming black men for staying in the closet when we (Sandrarose included) go out of our way to make gay black men the worst thing you can be in the black community.

    My aunt and uncle are ashamed of my gay cousin because he is VERY fem, but they have a picture of his BROTHER in his prison pose on top of the TV smilin’ proudly. WHY is he doing the prison pose? Because that mutha effa is IN prison… for murdering THREE people.

    Meanwhile, the gay cousin has two degrees and don’t ask nobody for anything - except for us to love him.

    Look at Sandra’s morning wood post, the FIRST ten responses are, “gay”. So, how can you expect a man to see that coming from women and then raise his hand to make that announcement about himself?
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    You are so right. I know I love my gays!!! My brother and exhusband are so homophobic that they were passing onto my son. I had to curse them out. Don't you dear force your beliefs on him. What if he was fighting with that himself? I don't want my son hanging himself for the shame of things,not being accepted bby family. We were in the mall(Lenox) and the comment that he made made me knock him in the mouth. I have many gay friends. Hell, that was how he was able to enjoy so many Hawks games, from the tickets that a gay man was giving him. I was really hurt by it. He was 10 at the time but I had to really make him understand how what he said could affect someone. We haven't had that problem since then. He is heterosexual male but if he wasn't I would love him all the same.

  • http://pearlswindow.com Carrington

    @ gypsyeyes: No, not my blog, but I write for them when they throw me a bone.

  • The Original MsG

    kwall Says:

    Bye Jason…

    In other thoughts…I thought of another person who might need to kick open the closet door…Raphael Saadiq …heard the 3T’s on TJMS this morning…how the hail you go from a dude from the Oakland hood named Charlie Ray Wiggins…to a flaming queen with a British accent named Raphael??? BOY STOP!
    ___________________
    KWALL!!! :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

  • Man, I just don’t care™

    **Hmmm... I wonder if FLO and SPEAKIN live close to each other...**

  • Krysi J

    **bedazzles clotheshanger and wears it around my neck**
    --------------------------------------------------------

    *covers up Speaks foolaZZ before Flo gets a look of her bucky Neekid*

    :eek: Flo, don't take the #sillyshyt :grin: I said the wrong way, im just playing around, if thats what you wanna do thats your business.....I account for 1 soul and thats mine babe. Im so glad to be ME!

  • FloridaChick813

    @ Man, :nono: I dont think soo

    @ Krysi, Girl your good! It didnt bother me hun. H3ll, im just a user name on a blog site to ya'll, thats why I dont care sayin ish that I wouldnt normally say in front of my friends ;)

    :lol:

  • http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#/profile.php?ref=profile&id=1335451522 therapist1911

    Ok I agree with Jason on most points. Some things he could have left out.

    I dont like when people try to act holier than thou and then in the same sentence do the samething they are chastising the person about....hypocritical much?

  • KrayZKat

    The only comment I have is that SR readers are the most hilarious on the planet!!! :rofl:

  • ms.truth

    Flo's boyfriend is going to be like Sisqo in that Sleeping in my bed video :rofl:

    Seriously though, have you discussed with your boyfriend?

  • FloridaChick813

    @ ms. truth -

    I told him I would like to have a 3some. See, he's rather (clears throat) large, so unless I've taken my pain meds, he cant really kill the puss the way he wants to. So my fantasy is to have a chick givin me some h3ad and him to just be killin her (hittin it from the back) :rolleyes: Sorry if thats TMI.. But he says :nono:

  • lacountrygirl

    :rofl: @ trending topic "imsogayiwrotesandrarosealetteraboutit"

  • The Original MsG

    Carrington I think you nailed it with the comparsion of the accomplished gay cousin and his brother in prison. Is it amazing how we demonize things. My problem with some gay people is that they want to make er'body gay. That is like a straight person trying to say all gay people are really straight.

  • ms.truth

    @Flo, well I'm going to say no. It sounds like he may be looking at you having a threesome with a female as both of you cheating. And it says A LOT when a man says no to a threesome. you might want to hold onto him!

  • scandalous1

    :cosign: with Jason 100%

    Don't let the ignorance run you away though, its just the opinions of one person. Its not that serious. If you ever been around lesbians you know how they are. Gotta show how big their balls are.

  • http://pearlswindow.com Carrington

    The Original MsG Says:

    Carrington I think you nailed it with the comparsion of the accomplished gay cousin and his brother in prison. Is it amazing how we demonize things. My problem with some gay people is that they want to make er’body gay. That is like a straight person trying to say all gay people are really straight.
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    I know Original,

    It gets my goat that every black man in Hollywood is considered gay - but ONLY within the BLACK community? And I often wonder why gay men always want the "handsome" black men to be on the DL? You've heard rumors about EVERY black man in sports or entertainment, but you ever notice you NEVER hear rumors of Flavor Flav, Chris Rock, Spike Lee, Forrest Whitaker or Bobby Brown being gay?

  • FloridaChick813

    :lol: @ Flo

    He's saying No because he knows im a very emotional person, and if he reacts the wrong way or shows her more attention, I will be ready to :argue: and then pull out my new pink and black 22 and :shotsfired: on they behinds. Well thats what I think atleast. But you could be right ;)

  • free

    ms.truth Says: @Flo, well I’m going to say no. It sounds like he may be looking at you having a threesome with a female as both of you cheating. And it says A LOT when a man says no to a threesome. you might want to hold onto him!

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    i know that's right.

  • http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#/profile.php?ref=profile&id=1335451522 therapist1911

    Aight so I jsut caught up on the comments.

    What I find interesting is the amount of comments "how many people take blogs seriously" or "blogs are not that serious" when someone attacks the character or blogs/bloggers. Then in the next breathe will quote something they read on a blog as TRUTH to support whatever argument/gossip they are having about a topic/celebrity/story.

    can't have it both ways

  • kwall

    @178 and @ civil...Tone! Toni! Tony! Used to be my DAWGS! LOVED them…then about 3-4 months ago on some late nite show re-run HIS azz up there for supposedly sleeping with yt-Brit singer Joss Stone…and they had an excerpt of him claiming in that fake azz accent to “love her”….WHAT?! Him and Joss might go shopping together, or walk barefoot in the park together…but ahhhh NO…

    Charlie Ray…sitchoazz down.

  • The Original MsG

    Carrington Says:

    The Original MsG Says:

    Carrington I think you nailed it with the comparsion of the accomplished gay cousin and his brother in prison. Is it amazing how we demonize things. My problem with some gay people is that they want to make er’body gay. That is like a straight person trying to say all gay people are really straight.
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    I know Original,

    It gets my goat that every black man in Hollywood is considered gay - but ONLY within the BLACK community? And I often wonder why gay men always want the “handsome” black men to be on the DL? You’ve heard rumors about EVERY black man in sports or entertainment, but you ever notice you NEVER hear rumors of Flavor Flav, Chris Rock, Spike Lee, Forrest Whitaker or Bobby Brown being gay?
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    Black folks have a thing for emasculating black men. We have an obsession with sexuality identification period.

    You won't hear about the list you provided being considered gay because they are not your ideal attractive black men.

  • ms.truth

    He’s saying No because he knows im a very emotional person, and if he reacts the wrong way or shows her more attention, I will be ready to :argue: and then pull out my new pink and black 22 and :shotsfired: on they behinds. Well thats what I think atleast. But you could be right ;)

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    If that's the case, you still better hold onto him. Most men could care less. LOL!

  • FloridaChick813

    @ ms truth - Im realing him in hun, and holding on tight! Thats my booskie right there :D

  • intensemocha

    IT'S A BLOG-NO NEED TO GET ALL SENSITIVE

    VALID POINTS-BUT A MUTE ARGUMENT

    HER SITE TO DO AND SAY AS SHE PLEASES

    PARTAKE OR PUSH ON-WAVING GOOD BYE

  • http://www.modelmayhem.com/kimip kimip84

    hey ladies and gents :)

    daaaaang trey!! i looooove the cover...yummy yum yum

  • pointhimout

    daddy's home. my new screen saver. mmm mmm mmmm. usher should've given that song to trey cuz he can't pull it off. sorry. aint nuttin sexy about a divorced father of 2. sorry Ush. TEAM TREY

  • http://www.twitter.com/karazinatl KaraZ

    danjas Says:
    I kinda don’t agree, but I see where you’re coming from. I have a problem with people hiding who they actually are and not giving people the information they need to make a decision about their dealings with you. I mean a gay man in the closet dating a woman and lying about being straight for me is as bad as a practicing prostitute dating a man pretending she’s been celibate for years. The deceit is wrong.
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    sandra mentioned gay men like ricky martin. that’s who i was commenting on. they aren’t dating women. downlow is a whole nother issue because they are being deceitful by dating both men and women. that i don’t agree with.
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    Ricky Martin dated women for years... he made borderline homophobic statements years ago when his sexuality was questioned, maybe we're not calling him DL because he's Latino, but he was as DL as they came.

    Carrington makes good points about us(society) not accepting homosexuals thus making it harder for them to come out and it not being necessary for them to divulge their bedroom habits, I agree. I don't shove my heterosexuality in anyone's face and I don't appreciate anyone shoving their homosexuality or heterosexuality in my face. BUT don't deceive anyone in your attempt to prove your sexuality, it's not fair.

  • http://www.twitter.com/karazinatl KaraZ

    moot... moot
    *not making eye contact*

  • Cinnamon Kisses

    :rofl: @ kwall

  • DownSouthZeta

    Yeah @KaraZ. I was about to type "moot" too, but why bother. If it was mute, would it be in all caps?

  • honeygrahm

    @Flo

    you will probably have those feelings for a while and I would suggest you give in to your desires but once you said your man said no, then I would just leave them at the door. Because you are in a relationship, if you two aren't on the same page, then you will have regrets. You should either have the mutual agreement to do it or if you ever become single. That way the chances of regrets will be less...then you in turn will enjoy it more.

  • qtipthecat

    DownSouthZeta Says:

    Yeah @KaraZ. I was about to type “moot” too, but why bother. If it was mute, would it be in all caps?

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    DEAD!

  • gagirl08

    It is beyond me how anyone finds this kid even remotely attractive. I can see a teenager (maybe) but these grown women going crazy over this fool is nuts. He looks like a damn sewer rat and his hairline is crooked. No thanks.

  • http://pearlswindow.com Carrington

    LMAO @ Gagirl08!

    I thought I was the only one who always looked at this dudes pictures and thought... "why is one of his eyes lower than the other?"

    LMAO!

  • CheBell

    @Jamillah Preach chile!