If you are a regular reader then you know that I have a no holds barred level of utter disrespect for Usher's ex-wife, Tameka Foster. Some of you will never know the real Tameka because she's really good at hiding her dark side behind a mask of deceit and lies. But if you really want to know the woman behind the mask, all you have to do to cross her is tell her the truth about herself.

The real Tameka surfaced on her Twitter page yesterday when she posted a series of tweets attacking her ex-husband Usher's current mother substitute, former Def Jam Records exec Grace Manuel.

Coincidentally, I saw Tameka looking lost and lonely outside Saks in Phipps Plaza yesterday. Actually, my lunch companion, fashion blogger/socialite Sarah Chapman spotted her first. Tameka is so pathetic. She will never get over her obsession with Usher. Poor Usher had to sneak Grace into Dallas for All Star weekend because he knows Tameka is stalking them.

Here's the interesting part: According to Tameka's former associate, Usher is still tapping Tameka's back. Hard to believe, isn't it? And then there's this:

Usher and Tameka were recently spotted shopping together at the standalone Ralph Lauren boutique across from Louis Vuitton at Lenox Square mall. The sales rep asked me if I was sure Usher and Tameka are really separated. She said they sure didn't act like it.

  • s_johnson07

    Well I read something about her having an imposter with the exact name. But if this was the "real" her, tweeting those comments was one dumb ass move on her part.

  • http://twitter.com/mrs_truth ms.truth

    I think she needs a therapist...she clearly needs someone to talk to besides Mr. Twitter.

  • http://twitter.com/eastpointvet eastpointvet

    wow she went in and usher tweets once and a blue moon

  • http://twitter.com/mrs_truth ms.truth

    and who is she to say that someone is never pretty?? :rolleyes:

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  • Krysi J

    Oh Tameaka chile......u just love looking the fewl don't you...SMH, #1 rule don't acknowledge the new bytch EVER! I hate when females do this.....I can understand you're upset, but just like when Mashonda tripped out on Alicia regardless of whatever truth was in what she spoke of, Mashonda still looked like the weaker individual.

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  • http://www.twitter.com/karazinatl KaraZ

    I don't think these are Tameka's actual tweets, can someone who actually follows her confirm if they saw this fcukery on her timeline?

  • DivaPT

    how is she supposed to get over usher when hes still going over there to f*ck her how come its not they cant get over each other he has a part in whats going on to maybe he needs to stop frontin like he dont like her or seriously leave her alone

  • SoulWithSass

    {Gucci Voice}: "well DAMN!"

    You know what- I ain't even mad at Tameka- sometimes you just got to let it all out. You're human. Do you, girl. Some females get real uppity like they have NEVER tripped out on an idiot because folks tried to get too "invested" in something they had no clue about.

    Be real with yourselves, folks.

  • ReadTheBlog

    Well it made no sense to me. She sounds like she is having a psychotic episode - maybe she's suffering from a late onset of PPD? She should try to get some help.

  • DivaPT

    anyways shes gonna say her twitter was hacked so get over it

  • pyt305

    lmao temeka needs help for real...and she had the nerve to say Grace is never pretty when she looks like that f**k that shit?! Sandra y do you hate Temeka?

  • Daisy

    I follow Meka on twitter and I didnt see these tweets she said she had some imposters or something :shrug: She did make a joke about Grace one day that had me :lolol:

  • tampa813

    Another case of somebody who should not be on twitter w/o adult supervision.

  • Daisy

    Forgot to add I do think Meka is prettier than Grace based on the few pics I have seen of Grace maybe I need to see more.

  • http://facebook.com/Bobbi83 Bobbi

    I follow her and I dont remembe these tweets either!

  • DivaPT

    and since when a dude cares if a girl is pretty tameka have u looked in the mirror i be grace has a big ass though

  • Anna

    ms.truth Says:

    and who is she to say that someone is never pretty??
    I think that Tameka is pretty, it's her attitude and immaturity that make her unattractive.

  • diorsmommy

    I follow Tameka on Twitter and she didnt make these tweets. There is a fake page with the same twitter name (there's a zero instead of an O) and profile pic that tweeted that stuff.

  • Krysi J

    Been here, been real.

    Some females just catch on fast, and move on quickly. There is nothing wrong with taking shyt for what it iz, facing reality and not making a fool of yourself in the process....I mean really what good is telling a niccah how much you still love him and how much you can't stand the new bytch he with??


  • mstayindc

    I agree with Krysi. Yes we are human and have emotions and blah blah blah but I truly believe in never letting them see you sweat! Save all that anger for ur girlfriends or ur mama or Jesus or somebody!

  • Candi Apple

    I think Tameka is cuter than Grace and Sarah (sorry had to put that out there).
    Of course Usher is still banging her back out they have 2 kids together. She probably uses a d-do on him anyway.

  • cinnamonkisses97

    Krysi J,

    AMEN !!!!!, I would never a give a bytch attention like that make one , insecure and like I'm worried !!!!!

  • http://www.twitter.com/karazinatl KaraZ

    thanks Daisy & diorsmommy. It's not verified that she didn't show her azz online. SandraRose, NEXT!

  • diorsmommy

    Can someone please tell me how to change my profile pic from this crying baby.....I would greatly appreciate it! :smile:

  • Cinderella

    Those tweets were by an imposter. They opened a fake account using Tameka's name. Once she got word of it, the page was shut down.

  • cinnamonkisses97

    I meant ,it makes me look insecure and like I’m worried !!!!!

  • Krysi J

    There is nothing wrong with being human, but just do it amongst real friends who will understand not TWITTER.com

  • diorsmommy

    KaraZ Says:

    thanks Daisy & diorsmommy. It’s not verified that she didn’t show her azz online. SandraRose, NEXT!

    No prob! She very rarely makes references to Grace in her tweets and if she does its subliminal.

  • Danielle84

    Poor Tameka! I feel so bad for her smh!

  • MsKnowIT

    Are you all THAT gullible???!!!.... I don't even follow Tameka on Twitter and I can tell she would never say that.

    Imposter's need to quit!

  • http://twitter.com/mrs_truth ms.truth

    there is nothing wrong with spazzing out, but when you know people have you under a microscope already, don't take to a public forum and make yourself look like a fool...

    and as far as Tameka being cute, she's cute on certain days...there is just something very weird going on with her chin.

  • Ms.kaylamomma

    diorsmommy Says:

    Can someone please tell me how to change my profile pic from this crying baby…..I would greatly appreciate it!

    You have to register with Gravatar (.) com using the same email you used for Sandra Rose. And follow the directions within. :welcome:

  • Ms.kaylamomma

    Tameka needs to lay down and take a nap, if this is true. Don't let the other woman know you are thinking about her especially on Twitter where everyone is trying to figure you out. Raise your kids and work on your (non)foundation for girls. :shrugs:

  • SoulWithSass


    I agree. I think Tameka is pretty as well. I've only seen a pic or two of her on her "off-days" so I'm riding with she's pretty. Especially when I see her on televeision, she always look clean and well put-together.

    Plus her skin-tone is absolutely gorgeous....

  • diorsmommy

    @mskaylamomma great! thanks for the info!! :smile:

  • Cinnamon Kisses

    Krysi we are >>>>>>here<<<<<< don't acknowledge her azz. I don't think Tameka is ugly but some of the shyt she does and says is ugly.

  • ShoYaRight

    Everyone knows Sandra has it out for Tameka and posted this as if it's truth when she knew that it wasn't.


  • Cinderella

    I never thought Tameka was unattractive looking. If anything she looks like a regular(not in a bad way) Black woman.

  • SoulWithSass

    Also- it may not be "appropiate" to do it in a public forum but I'm positive that almost everybody in this post has done it at LEAST once or twice before.

    Maybe you figured out EVENTUALLY that you should never let them see you sweat, but I'm sure you've had an outburst once or twice before that may have been outside of just your "girlfriends."

    I get annoyed when people trip on what celebrities do like:

    1) they've NEVER EVER done it before EVER in their ENTIRE life;

    2) Celebrities are demi-Gods simply because they're being blogged about everyday.

    Tameka eats, sleeps, sh*ts and cries just like the rest of us. I don't think we should expect her to hold herself to any higher standard than we would expect anybody around us normally to.

    But that's just my .15.

  • Sexylenalove

    I don't know how a girl can leave Saks of all places looking sad and lonely. I saw her a couple of months back in Saks and she looked absolutely fabulous. Those are not her tweets.


    RT @ThaEntertainer: @tamekaraymond why MTO tryin to put u on blast? (Whatever, I dont like Grace but I never tweeted that stuff..its cool!)


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    So Sandra I think someone is owed an apology.

    And the sad part of it all is more than one blog site picked up this story. Doesn't anyone confirm anything anymore. :shrug:



  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    Perhaps if people stop f***ing with her, then she would not have to show her azz on Twitter.

  • Krysi J

    Maybe you figured out EVENTUALLY that you should never let them see you sweat, but I’m sure you’ve had an outburst once or twice before that may have been outside of just your “girlfriends.”

    I understood what you meant the first time, but some females were brought up like that....being raised by grandmothers who are much wiser will save you some emotional embarassment. I was very young when I got caught up in the first and only situation that took me to this place.....believe it or not, none of my friends understood how I was feeling, all they talked about amoungst each other was how stupid "I" was for taking a cheater back and so on....I didn't have many people to talk to about it. If I ever mentioned the girl I would have hell to pay...some of them even found it funny to throw the shyt in my face. Needless to say, I caught on quickly and faced my reality...and its the only way I found strength to move on. Women don't like to admit that FEELINGS are what causes them to trip out over a dude who seems to careless...why should you look lame for holding on to a niggah that don't want you?? Why should you give the next bytch he bangs any credit for ruining a relationship that obviously the niccah didn't want. If a man loves a woman as much as she loves him, its not easy for him to move on either, but women don't like to face that fact...they'd rather think the man will return (for more than sex) and somehow "realize" out of thin air that they're all they ever needed......WRONG. The truth is you knew he wasn't about shyt when you got with him, so don't expect otherwise and drag it out FOOLISHLY....simply move on to a better man when you're ready. :coffee: Life too fuking short for all this damn time wasting for real.

  • ReadTheBlog

    ATTYMOM, that's never going to happen - It's the Yin and Yang of it all. Good suggestion, tho!

  • ReadTheBlog


    I see the Brandy and Ray-Jay banner is up

  • http://oneperfectassistant.com ggouch

    MekaMEkaMekaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! This is so unlady like!! :nono: Don't do it boo boo

  • Ms.kaylamomma

    I'm seeing more and more on the news that these celebrities are cheatin and leaving their wives. Why is it news? This happens everyday. Now is it just me or did this "Breaking" News start right after Tiger's fiasco? Now it's Tiki and his wife and I had to ask myself "who is Tiki and why is this breaking news?"

  • SoulWithSass


    I agree. But my issue is that people seem to be tripping on Tameka like they've NEVER EVER DONE it before. I don't agree that she should trip out over the situation like that, but I DO understand it and why she's probably doing it.

    I'm guilty of "losing it" (just like Tameka did) twice in the past with my 1st real boyfriend so I can definitely understand the feeling. And I imagine that it's amplified because it's more than just her "boyfriend", it's her once "HUSBAND" whom she has two kids with and still has to see regularly for the sake of her kids. So I'm thinking it hurts even more when you can't just drop them and move on like one would a boyfriend or even a deadbeat baby father, but you still have to see this person all the time.

    And even though this story has not been true, if it were, this is the 1st time I've heard of Tameka having an outburst like this in public since the divorce started. So I do agree that she shouldn't let it get to her, but I wish folks would cut her some slack-her situation is probably 10x more worse than anything we'll ever endure in a similar situation because she IS under a spotlight.

  • starr2910

    well since these tweets seem to be fake,i won't comment on it..but since when was sarah chapman a socialite?

  • http://twitter.com/mrs_truth ms.truth

    @Soul...I really could care less what's going on in these "celebs" lives. Besides, I don't even consider Tameka to be a "celeb". I just do this to help pass time. If this had been Mary down the street's twitter, I would have said the same thing...

    I'm not really a twitter girl, more like Facebook, and I get so sick of seeing statuses like, "I'm beat that b**** a$$ when I see her cause she fu&ked my babydaddy." or "I don't even know why this hoe trying to act like she all that, she know she just a slutbucket" or "I just finished my business with that hoe's man, I wonder how she feel about that."

    In general, people are just stupid when it comes to social networks and don't know how to conduct themselves. People go off of impulse and then regret it later on.

  • http://createspace.com/3393054 iscream


    While I kindve get where you are going. Tameeka is a 40 something year old mother. At some point in your life you have to grow up and know that for every action there will be a reaction.

    She has already used up all of her goody points for public outburst. They are divorced now so if Usher decides to mess with Wanda 'I'm ret to go' that really is none of her business... same way if she decided to mess with Handiman that is none of his business.

    But, it wasn't her page so I'm sure she knows all of this already. :shrugs:

  • http://twitter.com/mrs_truth ms.truth

    @MKS...real journalism is bs these days...luckily I was taught by a hardcore journalists that still believed that journalists should NEVER express their political preferences and sensational news, i.e. celeb news, should NEVER be the headline story. Now you have former models anchoring the news just because of their looks and journalism standards are thrown out the window.


    Have a seat Ta-man-ika

  • Anna

    Ms.kaylamomma Says:

    I’m seeing more and more on the news that these celebrities are cheatin and leaving their wives. Why is it news? This happens everyday. Now is it just me or did this “Breaking” News start right after Tiger’s fiasco? Now it’s Tiki and his wife and I had to ask myself “who is Tiki and why is this breaking news?”
    This breaking news crap started a few yrs ago. I was watching CNN and it scrolled at the bottom of the tv that Brittney Spears filed for divorce. Who'd a thunk Kevin was the better parent. :lol: Since then instead of scrolling they really do interupt the news to tell us who got caught cheating. I can't even watch my local news w/out them having celeb news. I just want my local news.

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  • gypsyeyes

    I don't think that is her but if it is who cares. Everyone has a breaking point.

  • http://hok.com ATL_Reese

    I love how Sandra uses this pic every time she mentions Tameka.. Its phucking hilarious!! :rofl:

  • Krysi J

    I agree. But my issue is that people seem to be tripping on Tameka like they’ve NEVER EVER DONE it before.

    Well I mean....I have NEVER done any public ranting...I couldn't bare looking like a fool on that scale boo...I was embarassed enough looking like a fool amoungst people I felt were my REAL friends. That was enough to turn me off emotionally to all that shyt....facing shyt alone has that effect on people....so Naw sorry, i NEVER did that.

    I will say this though, now that I see people going thru the same shyt publicly Im glad that I learned my lesson early cuz the people who thought I was SO stupid know a little about how I felt but on a WAY bigger scale...the difference is I know how to handle shyt like that...and they DON'T....Tameaka is an example of "DON'T" this is NOT her first marriage...and she was a celebrity stylist then, so Its not that much of a difference. I sympathize with what she is feeling, but I have no words for the stupidity...and thats weather these tweets are true or not, she has done enough in the past for me to say that.

  • free

    fashion blogger/socialite/ :chickenhead: Sarah Chapman spotted her first.



  • pointhimout

    Sandra, you're the only person I know who ALWAYS see somebody when you're out and about. Maybe when I'm in Lenox/Phipps area I dont pay them any attention, local or national celebrity.

  • http://twitter.com/mrs_truth ms.truth

    @point...I hardly ever go to Lenox because I always see "celebs" and people be acting a fool. Phipps is a little better on people not going crazy because they see someone.

  • militaryspouse1

    I follow Tameka and I also never saw these tweets. But as others pointed out,she has an imposter.

  • pointhimout

    You have to know Usher, Janet, or whatever big celebrity does not sit in front of twitter all day. THe ones that do aren't as big as they thought they were. I dont have the time to twit and FB all day and I just work a regular ass job. So it's no surprise that he doesn't respond to tweets or followers.

    I've been obsessed over someone before too. It's not until you finally let that go you can say 'what the hell was i thinking.' I think for Tameka it's the pain of no longer having that access to the Ush like before. That hurts and is a tough pill to swallow knowing when you call, it goes to voice mail. the nanny or someone has to call for him to take it cuz it could be about the boys. I have no suggestion on how she can move on, other than MOVE ON.

    Her existence in entertainment is because of him. I'm not sure what her relevance was before or if it was all that great. I'd be glad when she's over him and his name doesn't come from her mouth or keyboard any longer. Tameka, you need to let it go.

  • pointhimout

    65, really? I'm like you then. I'd have to go elsewhere. It's almost like people go there to see or be seen. Nah, if I'm out macy's, I'm tryna pick up what I need and bounce. No time for gawking and playing up to some celebrity's ego.

  • http://youtube.com yesindeedio

    she definitely needs therapy because she clearly struggles with the color of her skin and for Usher to get with someone who is significantly lighter-skinned than she is, it makes her ill. Is there are 5150 hold that she can be put on?

    Someone needs to get her off twitter because she continues to embarrass herself.

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  • Shauny

    I'll come back and read the rest of the comments but after 50 comments and MORE THAN 1 PERSON saying Tameka DID NOT make those tweets, why is she still being talking about negatively. She DIDN'T tweet the shyt. I follow her and checked her timeline too.

    @Daisy - I remember that subliminal Grace jab. PRICELESS and funny as hell with tact.

    Sandra since when is laying on your back getting pregnant by a man you know is shacking up with someone else and claiming a girlfriend defined as a socialite. Sarah's parents would have to have big bank not the RHOA bank for her to be considered a socialite.

  • Shauny

    case in point of what people are talking about #70. Now this fool came on SR and is going to put on his/her blog talking about Tameka is crazy and saying she posted the tweets EVEN THOUGH SHE DIDN'T.

    MissGrapevine #sitchoassdown

    @69 where do you get that she struggles with the color of her skin? Because he's dating someone lightskinned now? Usher seemes to be an equal opportunity kind of guy from looking at who he's dated/rumored to be dating. The fact that he left her period is what makes her ill, he'll he could've gotten with s girl the skintone of Akon and I don't think she would've felt any different :shrug:

    Is skintone the new card?

  • Anna

    Shauny Says:

    I’ll come back and read the rest of the comments but after 50 comments and MORE THAN 1 PERSON saying Tameka DID NOT make those tweets, why is she still being talking about negatively. She DIDN’T tweet the shyt. I follow her and checked her timeline too
    Some only comment and don't read others.

  • Ms.Everything

    I follow her and never saw these tweets but I did see the ones with the info on the imposter :coffee: and on my phone where I read most tweets it scrolls across so it doesn't matter if someone deletes their tweet from their timeline if I'm looking at my phone

  • glamdiva83

    How can she call some1 ugly when she ugly herself?

  • The Original MsG

    I think it's dead wrong that people give Tameka so much grief. I beleive it's purely because of how she looks- she is not LSLH (which makes most black folks more comfortable even many will NEVER admit it) and even though people say it's her attitude.
    How can it be her attitude for blog participators when probably 95% of us have never met her or had personal interaction with her? If ALL industry folks said this its one thing,but the rest of us?

    Furthermore,I personally do not think this is her. She is usually very decent about what she Tweets in regards to Ursher or anything remotely related to him.

  • Songbird27

    Well, Tameka claims that this person is an imposter but for all we know it could be HER making other accounts just voice just how she feels about Grace Lol! I'd believe it because she DOES NOT like Grace and she said it herself. On the real though...lets be really real... it looks like Usher is playing BOTH of them( Grace and Tameka) While he's still throwing hints at CHILLI in his songs. He doesn't know where he wants to be. NOTE: IF YOU HAVE TO CONSTANTLY FIGHT OVER A MAN, THEN HE DOESN'T BELONG TO EITHER ONE OF YOU, PERIOD.

  • ATLk

    Does Sarah Chapman have a blog? For which site does she blog?

  • http://thecubiclechick.com STLVixen

    Tameka is certifiable. Usher can singlehandedly thank her for ruining his career.

  • Nthabi

    I follow Tameka and she follows me. These are NOT her tweets. It's sad the extent to which some people will go to try to bring a person down. Tameka is way too classy to be tweeting this fcukery!

    That is all.


  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    Nthabi Says:
    I follow Tameka and she follows me. These are NOT her tweets.


    These are Direct messages so you would not have seen them on your timeline unless she directed them to you. So how would you know they are not her tweets? Clearly you don't know Tameka. Those of us who know her know that she is capable of sending these tweets. These are exactly the kinds of messages she would send someone when she's pissed.

  • Taboo01

    Well Superhead said Usher is in to men.So Im lost as to what Tameka would see in him, but hey whatever gets her off.

  • Nina

    I'm late, but what Sandra left off is these are actually Tameka's DM to someone that commented about Grace - so thats why her followers didn't see it. A Twitter timeline does not look like the above.

    I believe it is Tameka...she's trying to cover up.

  • Nina

    Oops - the rest of my sentence was...she's trying to cover up by saying her account was hacked, blah, blah, etc.

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