Recently, former Xscape lead singer Tameka “Tiny” Cottle told me that Sandrarose.com is the only blog she reads on a regular basis. I felt a sense of pride because I know that there are so many other blogs she could be spending her time on.
In this video clip, Tiny sits down with T-Marie of Hotlanta Buzz blog to discuss her work with her Alzheimer’s foundation, a new perfume line, her relationship with her man T.I., and her upcoming book on relationships and how to love a black man.
She also addressed your comments.
If you recall, when I posted pics from Tiny’s daughter Zonnique’s birthday party last weekend, I referred to T.I. as Zonnique’s stepfather, and you guys went in.
Tiny asserts that T.I. is Zonnique’s father even though her dad Zeboe is very much a part of Neek’s life. “It is what it is. That is his daughter,” said Tiny with authority (and looking straight into the camera in case you read lips).
Zonnique with her dad Zeboe and her half brother and sister [thanks Crystal of Xscapesightings.com]
Source: Hotlanta Buzz Inc.
Uh-oh!
lol @ Relationship advice…Well she speaking on the threesomes
will*
Transcript please! Can’t see the video.
At least her real dad is a part of her life, and i’m sure both men respect each other. So it’s a positive thing.
Heyyyy yall. I missed u guys.
just cuz Babe says something doesn’t make it the gospel. Until they are married, TI is not her ‘step’father. Right now, he may be a father ‘figure’ but nowhere in scripture or man’s law is a man considered a stepfather with no marriage. be a quiet fool, Babe…don’t open your mouth and remove all doubt!
Ahhhhh,look at the lil baby
Glad to see Tiny has a lot of things lined up. She’s doing it! As far as her writing a book on relationships, this so called “guide on how to love a black man”….uhhhhhhh, yeah, I’m gonna pass 
If loving a Black man means having multiple babies by him w/o being married while he calls you on national t.v. his “situation”, I’ll pass on Tiny’s book.
Why is this relavent. Who is her daughters father is not really why people go in on her. So the book will be about how to love a black man. Is threesomes how we have to love a black man? How to pick out strippers for your threesomes? Or maybe how to dumb ourselves up and talk like we have never been freed?.. The latest in lip injections?
“It is what it is. That is his daughter,” said Tiny
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So while Zeboe is her “biological” father, T.I. is her “financial” father. Cause im sure T.I. is the one who paid for all the festivities!
Anywho, I cant see the video from work so OH WELL!!!
Tiny and books is the same sentence is just ridiculous.
I hope she doesn’t write how she talks.
“in”
BrownSuga will be in here with her best Tiny impersanation in 5….4….3…..2….1…..
Crystal from Xscapesightings huh,,,,, I do believe this would be the same Crystal that came at me one time on here a while back for SMO on Tiny…. ok, thats cool, now I see whats up, anyway, didn’t Toya just write a book?
i knew it was only a matter of time before she addressed the comments…I don’t understand why celebs address when people go in on them. Waste of time in my opinion. People are still going to say what they feel.
Dont you have to know how to talk and read before you can write a book?
And who is going to be her translator?
Thats the million dollar question…
where’s KrysiJ to “transcribe” this…this… :lolol: somebody define what this is plz.
speakinmymind Says:
just cuz Babe says something doesn’t make it the gospel. Until they are married, TI is not her ’step’father. Right now, he may be a father ‘figure’ but nowhere in scripture or man’s law is a man considered a stepfather with no marriage. be a quiet fool, Babe…don’t open your mouth and remove all doubt!
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For those who can’t see the video, you aren’t missing much at all…..
Er, we know how to love a black man. How about a book on how to get one to marry you… oops. Nevermind.
Maybe they can get Toya to translate.
You really going hard with these April Fools post today, because THAT’s what all this has to be, first Drake and Nicki are hip hop royalty now Tiny is going to write a book about how to love a black man…Ah-ha..okay…what’s up? SHUT UP!
i’m sorry but somebody has to say it…don’t she twist her mouth up to the left like the right side is paralyzed when she talks? stroke mouth like Lamar Odom?
23Reese Says:
Er, we know how to love a black man. How about a book on how to get one to marry you… oops. Nevermind.
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POW!!!
I know yall are gonna clown! If my baby TI is down for Tiny then she is aight w/me
Didn’t watch the video but did she really say she was writing or book or was that Sandra being messy
Reese Says:
Er, we know how to love a black man. How about a book on how to get one to marry you… oops. Nevermind.
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@AprilRain Says:
Crystal from Xscapesightings huh,,,,, I do believe this would be the same Crystal that came at me one time on here a while back for SMO on Tiny…. ok, thats cool, now I see whats up, anyway, didn’t Toya just write a book?
Yes that would be me and i don’t believe i came at you in no kind of way.
April Fools! I’m not falling for this Sandra! :lolol: Tiny giving advice….IN A BOOK?!
Ya’ll are all busted!! LOL! Tiny know about ya’ll calling her bacon. and about the squueeakk
I think Tiny rocks! In the minority as always though…
Question: if she were married to Tip would the 3somes be okay then? I mean if this woman has a healthy appetite for women and her and her man agree, why not? Its not for everybody but neither are horizontal stripes
I understand her feelings on her daughter. My mother was with my step-father for a long time before she married him. When they finally got married, had a huge wedding…I was like “why we spending money on this?” LOL
but @Tiny, I dont think there is a formula. I think you love anybody else by loving yourself completely…first. but like I said, always in the minority…
this shyt right here…
leapyearpisces Says:
i’m gonna have gas from laughing so hard while i’m trying to eat! 
You really going hard with these April Fools post today, because THAT’s what all this has to be, first Drake and Nicki are hip hop royalty now Tiny is going to write a book about how to love a black man
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DEAD!!
leapyearpisces Says:
You really going hard with these April Fools post today, because THAT’s what all this has to be, first Drake and Nicki are hip hop royalty now Tiny is going to write a book about how to love a black man…Ah-ha..okay…what’s up? SHUT UP!
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Yes, this must be a joke.
OMG she has AWFUL grammar! IHOPE SHE READS THIS!!!! She needs a speech coach to help her articulate better and pronounce the words better IT WAS A MESS.
speakinmymind Says:
i’m sorry but somebody has to say it…don’t she twist her mouth up to the left like the right side is paralyzed when she talks? stroke mouth like Lamar Odom?
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I believed as long as T.I loves and supported this child he is her step father. Many men that take on the role as care giver and provider for single mothers and they accept the responsibility of parenting. Zonnique has been around since the beginning of the relationship she is a child. Bash Tiny all you want but don’t crush the little girl by saying TI is not her stepfather because mamma does not have a ring or his last name. Honestly in the end Zonnique’s last name will not change. I am sure when its time for Zoe to get her first car TI will do nothing but the best for her. If he didn’t love her she wouldn’t matter thats why none of us get a check from him.
@Ms.kaylamomma ….. tiny says:
-there will be suprises from her and toya on the next season of the show
-She is keeping the details of the wedding hush- hush
-she is singing background on one of T.I. songs, they might do something else together.
-she is thinking of doing a nail polish line
-she is thinking about writing a book (other people gave her suggestions on what she should write about)
-maybe doing a his/her perfume/cologne line with T.I
-T.I is her daughters father and that her biological dad is a part of her life
-T.I shows his love for her and it is very evident
MzAkatude Says:
OMG she has AWFUL grammar! IHOPE SHE READS THIS!!!! She needs a speech coach to help her articulate better and pronounce the words better IT WAS A MESS.
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igg-zackly!! and i get tired of people always blaming poor grammar and diction on being Southern cuz that is not that case.
“it take a lot ta luv a blac mane, it take a skrong woman to know how ta stan by his side an to undastan da thangs dat he go tru evra day”
I kno dat Tip luv me, I know dat he wanna marry me……one day…when eva he feel ready….. and wen dat dat come I’m gon be rat der waitin”
“I do what it take to make my mane happy and who eva dont like it den so what, i aint married to ya’ll oh wait i aint married to him yet but i will be…one day”
Nope this isnt an April’s Fools Joke! I wish it was, Bacon is gonna write a book and again I asked the question how can you write a book if you dont know how to read? case in point “ebiment” aka “evident”…. #thatisall
Question: if she were married to Tip would the 3somes be okay then? I mean if this woman has a healthy appetite for women and her and her man agree, why not? Its not for everybody but neither are horizontal stripes
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Hey Outside!!! I personally have nothing against Tiny. I think she’s ugly, but she can def. fix herself up at times. ((just my opinion)) Also, I dont judge about her “healthy appetite” for women or the threesomes. H3ll, im tryin to find a way to sneak one up on my sweetie
So dont y’all think maybe she cant help the way she speaks?
My son has speech issues so I’m a little sensitive on this…I’m also from the south and I know that some of that is Southern drawl.
Thank you Shannon!
This statement right here: “-she is singing background on one of T.I. songs…” is this
then 
BROWNSUGAPOET Says:
“it take a lot ta luv a blac mane, it take a skrong woman to know how ta stan by his side an to undastan da thangs dat he go tru evra day”
I kno dat Tip luv me, I know dat he wanna marry me……one day…when eva he feel ready….. and wen dat dat come I’m gon be rat der waitin”
“I do what it take to make my mane happy and who eva dont like it den so what, i aint married to ya’ll oh wait i aint married to him yet but i will be…one day”
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Sweet minty Jeesah!! (i stole that from another blog)
**speakinmymind’s soul floats away**
Dead dead dead @ Brown Suga’s rendition of Tiny Speak.
Speak, VI, and Anna,
Okay, I am glad to know that I am not the only thinking this is April Fools tomfoolery… Don’t get me wrong, I like Tiny, I think she has a sweet spirit and I am the type of person that can get along with anyone that has a geniune good spirit, but I mean really…stay in her lane…that’s all…if she want to write a book on how to be a sucessful songwriter or singer fine…but Tiny writing a book on how to love a black man is the equivalent of DL Hugley writing a book telling peope how to be funny…
:ROFL:
@ Candi Apple –
I hear ya! My boyfriend calls my son his step son all the time. We’re not married and dont even have plans to get married. H3ll, my son dont even like his as.s. But yet and still, he bends over backwards for him like it were his own son.
Sup @Flo… and make sure you pay my kid’s prepaid fund cause you killed me with this…
“H3ll, my son dont even like his as.s…”
lol I don’t watch the show, becuase well, if I’m going to loose brain cells I’d rather smoke, but my friend said Tiny said her dad had “alltimers”.
BROWNSUGAPOET Says:
“it take a lot ta luv a blac mane, it take a skrong woman to know how ta stan by his side an to undastan da thangs dat he go tru evra day”
I kno dat Tip luv me, I know dat he wanna marry me……one day…when eva he feel ready….. and wen dat dat come I’m gon be rat der waitin”
“I do what it take to make my mane happy and who eva dont like it den so what, i aint married to ya’ll oh wait i aint married to him yet but i will be…one day”
************************************************************HOMEGOING SERVICES FOR LEAPYEARPISCES OR AS SOME OF YOU CALLED HER LEAPY EAR PISCES
Sunrise: February 29, 1976
Sunset: April 01, 2010 @ 1:05pm EST
I like Tiny and don’t take every opportunity to drag her BUT I just want to know this….is TI her “father” for financial reasons and has it like then when Zeboe does OR is he there for her physically, emotionally, AND financially while Zeboe isn’t?
Dude looks like he’s in her life and while he can’t compete with TI’s money, that shouldn’t make him any less of a father. I’m sure if he had TI’s money then he could give her great parties as well. If her answer is based on money only then she doesn’t know what the definition of a father is.
Also, like I said I do like Tiny but from what I’ve seen/read about her and TI’s relationship, I don’t think she’s in a position to give advice about her “situation”
OutsidetheBox Says:
So dont y’all think maybe she cant help the way she speaks?
My son has speech issues so I’m a little sensitive on this…I’m also from the south and I know that some of that is Southern drawl.
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Awwww, my baby is still “learning to use his tongue” as well. Thats what his teacher says anyways
But girl, you know that southern twang all too well 
I think Tiny is a cool chick…Being from the country, yes, COUNTRY, I’ve heard a lot of people talk worse than she does, BUT that doesn’t stop me from tripping out on how she talks. If you put yourself out there in the spotlight, you should expect to be loved by some, dragged by others…comes with your “job” as being a celeb.
Wishing Tiny &
TI much love and success… h3ll it is what it is.. HE’s with HER for a reason.. shes with him for a reason.. dare it be 
I cant really knock her for saying TI’s her daughters dad.. I heard along time ago.. u can have 100 fathers, but 1 daddy.. the one who takes care of u.. thats who u consider daddy…. maybe they feel the same
ps… I seriously doubt I’d read Tinys book tho- thats just REAL TALK
@BROWN Pack your shyt and go straight to hell
LMFAO @ BrownSuga –
I saw that one coming a mile a way
@flo u want to have a 3some and u have to convince your boyfriend or am I missing something :confused:
@OTB I don’t have a problem w/tiny either but I think folks are just kidding n cracking jokes
Ms. Truth but when you know you are gonna be in the public eye you know good and damn well you need to work on your speech! Hell when I knew I was gonna be doin briefings I asked my sposs to send me to a speech class and I”ve always used correct grammar!
Reese Says:
lol I don’t watch the show, becuase well, if I’m going to loose brain cells I’d rather smoke, but my friend said Tiny said her dad had “alltimers”.
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now you KNOW that’s what a lot of people say
It doesn’t matter if T.I. and Tiny are married or not, he has been in her daughter’s life a very long and I’m sure he treats as he would his own. Some people don’t even KNOW who their father is much less have a relationship with them. He can very well even be called her father for the fact that he plays a role in her everyday life and provides for her. So she has two men willing to step up to the plate and make sure she is well taken care of and that’s a whole lot more than many can say.
I am in TEARS over this. Like I said on another blog, Tiny writing a book on relationships is to Precious writing a book on weight loss.
i THINK THAT TINY SHOULD DO ALL SHE WANTS
KRYSSAAYYYYY, PAGING KRYYSAAAYYY TO SING “TROUBLES OF THIS WORLD” A LA MAHALIA JACKSON AT LEAP’S FUNERAL
Reese Says:
lol I don’t watch the show, becuase well, if I’m going to loose brain cells I’d rather smoke, but my friend said Tiny said her dad had “alltimers”.
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yes she did and that ain’t got a dam.n thing to do with being Southern. i was raised in the South and don’t talk like that because my parents wouldn’t tolerate it. yes, a Southern drawl is evident when she squeaks – i meant “speaks” – but she needs to take a few English and speech classes so she has a better command of phonics and using the proper tense of a word.
crystal404 Says:
@AprilRain Says:
Crystal from Xscapesightings huh,,,,, I do believe this would be the same Crystal that came at me one time on here a while back for SMO on Tiny…. ok, thats cool, now I see whats up, anyway, didn’t Toya just write a book?
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Yes that would be me and i don’t believe i came at you in no kind of way.
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Really? You don’t think??? It’s all good, you stan for her and I stan for Tip. And I’m gonna keep SMO.
ms.truth Says:
Reese Says:
lol I don’t watch the show, becuase well, if I’m going to loose brain cells I’d rather smoke, but my friend said Tiny said her dad had “alltimers”.
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now you KNOW that’s what a lot of people say
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Hmmmm, I say “old timers”
now you KNOW that’s what a lot of people say
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lol I know! But isn’t she active in the Alzheimers org? She should know better!
Flo you may need to take that as a sign, you know kids pick up on stuff that adults tend to miss
goin to lunch yall, be back in an hr
FloridaChick813 Says:
@ Candi Apple –
I hear ya! My boyfriend calls my son his step son all the time. We’re not married and dont even have plans to get married. H3ll, my son dont even like his as.s. But yet and still, he bends over backwards for him like it were his own son.
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LMFAO…ain’t that the truth.. When my mother dated her dudes would refer to me as their step daughter, I guess out of respect to me and her. Funny thing is I did not like any of the dudes she brought around me except for one.
Ms. Truth but when you know you are gonna be in the public eye you know good and damn well you need to work on your speech! Hell when I knew I was gonna be doin briefings I asked my sposs to send me to a speech class and I”ve always used correct grammar!
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@ Daisy –
I asked him about it and he said
I know its just cause he dont want any problems though. Cause if he shows her more attention than me, or reacts to her more, ALL HELL WILL BREAK LOSE 
Daisy Says:
we have people in our family who we can barely understand when they talk cuz their grammar is so poor and we drag they @$$es too. if i want to be serious, i’ll go to huffpost or cnn
@OTB I don’t have a problem w/tiny either but I think folks are just kidding n cracking jokes
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igg-zackly! why is it only shyts and giggles if it’s a subject er’body isn’t sensitive about?
BROWNSUGAPOET Says:
“it take a lot ta luv a blac mane, it take a skrong woman to know how ta stan by his side an to undastan da thangs dat he go tru evra day”
I kno dat Tip luv me, I know dat he wanna marry me……one day…when eva he feel ready….. and wen dat dat come I’m gon be rat der waitin”
“I do what it take to make my mane happy and who eva dont like it den so what, i aint married to ya’ll oh wait i aint married to him yet but i will be…one day”
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You ain’t right for this. I can now die and go to heaven!!! I needed this today.
i’ve been mia for so long! but, i like tiny and tip so i’m glad to see that they are indeed getting married. i can’t wait until they do.
BROWNSUGAPOET Says:
Flo you may need to take that as a sign, you know kids pick up on stuff that adults tend to miss
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Your right!!!
But girl he just dont like nobody. He dont like his dads new mate either. He says he wants mommy and daddy to be together. And I never had another man around my son, besides his dad, so I think its new for him. He’s gotta get used to sharing mommy with someone else. And that was my bed buddy before the sweetie moved in, so I just think its jealousy
But I def. have my ears and eyes open at all times!!!
He’s your only one right @Flo?
He sounds like he is protective. :lolol: They get like that. Even if BF wasnt there, its a good idea for your son to sleep in his own bed most nights anyway. It took me a while to get my daughter outta that mess. I miss her sometimes but its for the good! LOL Separation anxiety and such…book shi.t LOL
FloridaChick813 Says:
BROWNSUGAPOET Says:
Flo you may need to take that as a sign, you know kids pick up on stuff that adults tend to miss
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Your right!!!
But girl he just dont like nobody. He dont like his dads new mate either. He says he wants mommy and daddy to be together. And I never had another man around my son, besides his dad, so I think its new for him. He’s gotta get used to sharing mommy with someone else. And that was my bed buddy before the sweetie moved in, so I just think its jealousy
But I def. have my ears and eyes open at all times!!!
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I went through that as a child too. My mother knew not to bring a man around me because I would give him HELL!! I wanted my parents to be together too.
I hate I did it now, because she’s getting on my nerves cause she don’t have a man.
chase Says:
FloridaChick813 Says:
@ Candi Apple –
I hear ya! My boyfriend calls my son his step son all the time. We’re not married and dont even have plans to get married. H3ll, my son dont even like his as.s. But yet and still, he bends over backwards for him like it were his own son.
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LMFAO…ain’t that the truth.. When my mother dated her dudes would refer to me as their step daughter, I guess out of respect to me and her. Funny thing is I did not like any of the dudes she brought around me except for one.
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I think its nice to know Zonnique know only TI as her step father. It’s also nice to know that her father is active in her live as well.
My mom stayed single and never brought anyone around. But, she always told me that if she met the right dude we would have meet the family.
All the Feb babies getting ready to dress in black.
I think that Tiny should just do her! Who cares what we think I mean at the end of the day she is the one he goes home to. I mean if he didn’t want her he wouldn’t be with her. As far as THEIR daughter(yes I said their)he has been there for over 8 yrs he is her dad or atleast a father figure to her. I think Tiny has put in her time I mean Im sure her cash paid for some studio time back in the day. Basically she has invested alot in TI. Tiny Keep doing ya Thang girl. I love TIP *side eye*
You’re so brave @ Flo rida. I always wondered what the other chic in a 3some would be doing because I wouldn’t allow my dealer to fluck her. I would get jealous. And dare the bytch to make a noise while he flucking her, it would be
and y’all would see me on the news. 
Anyway- IMO, why go out and state that she invisions a fairy tale wedding…..Then all of a sudden when people wanna know the wedding date she comes out saying, it aint nobodys buisness and this and that..Thats the kinda shyt that makes me wonder about this chick…. Very fishy indeed.
I know a few people who participated in 3somes. They all single now
I’m sorry…I didn’t even read anything past the first line and had to comment immediately. WHEN was Tiny the LEAD singer for Xscape? The chubby one and Kandi did all the singing. I just always thought she was the less than cute light skinned girl in the group to help with harmonizing or something.
Anyway, I’m gone back to read this post lol
@ Flo: Honey my man calls my kids the “Are We There Yet Kids”….like they play with him but when they tired of him they immediately voice the need for him to go home!!! LMAO…he always jokes that he feels like their “playtime jumpoff” cuz they quick to dismiss him!!! I think all kids express a desire for their Mommy and Daddy to be together…its just in them. And to everyone who thinks southerners have such awful English, that is untrue. Some people shift in and out of it (like me)….and some of it comes from being raised by people who dont speak proper English. Its hilarious, especially when i hear my uncle answer the phone by saying: Yel-low
@e-Fam…It can be sh.its and giggles…I do it with the best of them. We all know that. I ask questions so I can understand and because I just like to know..
Don’t take me saying I’m “sensitive” about an issue to mean that I can’t discuss the issue and laugh and kick the bo-bo, ‘cause I can, do, and will…but I’ve seen people commit suicide cause of “shi.ts and giggles“ and if I can protect an’one of Team Family from any of the ill effects of “shi.ts and giggles” by asking questions, imma do that… I always mix business with pleasure. I get more done that way.
Feel me, I am genuinely interested in people. Mostly women and children, but people, fa’sho. I like to ask questions, I like to learn, I like to know, I like to prepare. I’m nosey as h3ll.
Smart people ask lots of questions…I’m also very good at them stupid as.s game shows like Cash Cab and Millionaire. Why? Cause I’m always asking questions.
Let me be great.
Wish them the best! I like T.I. before the gun charges and after he started his community service with that MTV show. Hopefully they will work out and turn that “situation” to an marriage “arrangement”.
“Yel-low”
I just think some people would never like a person, proper English or not, and they should just say that.
If TIP has been there for 8 years, did he have Deja with a jumpoff while he was with Tiny?
Candi Apple Says:
I know a few people who participated in 3somes. They all single now
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I believe that.
@OTB!! girl I know you not from the Valley
lol, FORT VALLEY!!
@OTB I hope u feel betta now that u got that off your chest
I like Tiny too…..she seems to be coo peeps……she may not be the best lookin chick BUT TIP loves her soooooo that’s all that matters. (I think she is cute becuz I’ve seen waaaaaaay worse.) Annnnnnnnd dead @ Brown
BROWNSUGAPOET Says:
“it take a lot ta luv a blac mane, it take a skrong woman to know how ta stan by his side an to undastan da thangs dat he go tru evra day”
I kno dat Tip luv me, I know dat he wanna marry me……one day…when eva he feel ready….. and wen dat dat come I’m gon be rat der waitin”
“I do what it take to make my mane happy and who eva dont like it den so what, i aint married to ya’ll oh wait i aint married to him yet but i will be…one day”
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LORD JESUS
I choked on my tea! 
@ OTB
i guess i can let you be great! **shuffles feet**
Well, her mama shole know how to love a Black man. That’s who should write a book on the subject.
@OTB: You right…some people will use a southerner’s “language” to say that we are unintelligent. It has nothing to do with that…i’m from a small town near Charleston,SC and Beaufort, SC. If yall have never been there the people sound like they’re from the islands…and it has nothing to do with how smart they are. I despise the intellect vs. dialect argument
lol I don’t think anybody here has anything against Tiny…I agree she seems like a cool person, I just poke fun because I literally need a translator to understand her. I’m not from the south but my people are. Even though they speak with a drawl, they were all educators so its not unintelligible like Tiny.
I’ve lived in Atlanta since 1994. I can honestly say I’ve observed a difference in dialect when you are born and raised in Atlanta vs. being from the South in general. One isn’t better than the other; just different
So she only reads your blog but did the interview for someone else blog?
Are you going to post pictures of TI’s new teeth. Why did he do that to himself? A thug with Veneers (sp) is that how they do it now?
And since TI is her daughter father. Is she the mother to his other children? Or does it only work in the form of who’s signing the check?
If they broke up tomorrow would he pay child support for Zonique? I rest my case….
Well, her mama shole know how to love a Black man. That’s who should write a book on the subject.
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*runs and jumps in casket, reaches up to close door*
lol I’m so done with yall.
@ ohso
my grandmother used to add an “mmm” to her “Yellow” so it sounded like “Mmmyellow”. me and my older sister used to laugh our @$$es off er’time she answered the phone.
Hey fam!!
Not interested in the post….
@ohso: My children’s father’s people are from Charleston, SC and they all sound geechi (is that how you spell it). Everyone thinks they’re from the islands…..lol
Candi Apple Says:
chase Says:
FloridaChick813 Says:
@ Candi Apple –
I hear ya! My boyfriend calls my son his step son all the time. We’re not married and dont even have plans to get married. H3ll, my son dont even like his as.s. But yet and still, he bends over backwards for him like it were his own son.
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LMFAO…ain’t that the truth.. When my mother dated her dudes would refer to me as their step daughter, I guess out of respect to me and her. Funny thing is I did not like any of the dudes she brought around me except for one.
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Momma got around.
I think its nice to know Zonnique know only TI as her step father. It’s also nice to know that her father is active in her live as well.
My mom stayed single and never brought anyone around. But, she always told me that if she met the right dude we would have meet the family.
All the Feb babies getting ready to dress in black.
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LOL yeah she was a fast one to say the least. She had me at 15 and it was on and popping from there w/ her.
speakinmymind Says:
igg-zackly!! and i get tired of people always blaming poor grammar and diction on being Southern cuz that is not that case.
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@Ms., I went to college at FVSU…my people are actually from Reynolds…lil worse (COUNTRY!!!) than ole Fort Valley LOL
@Daisy. I aint studying y’all! LOL I just wanted to clear it out cause y’all know I got kids and it takes a village. Y’all can help me. Specially you heifers with no chirren. Dont be like that! I’m gonna be asking questions so research up!
*grabs Speak’s hands and does the Cupid Shuffle*
“And since TI is her daughter father. Is she the mother to his other children? Or does it only work in the form of who’s signing the check?”
Now we asking tough questions!!! ROFL!!!
@speak: STOP IT…lol…that and the humming grandma i had. Mine was no dummy so i know her english skills had nothing to do with her intelligence. Man one time we prank called her and did the old “is your refrigerator running” bit…and she was like “Hell yeah and it just ran out the gotdamn back door” i laughed sooooo much
@Kimmy…I’m from Louisiana!!
Except people (black) tell me I sound like a yt man. And I turn around and say “I did realize yt people only speak proper English” and then I start speaking in slave lingo
IMO I think tiny’s dialect has nothing to do with being raised in the south but everything to do with missing english and language arts classes in school. Although I may be wrong since i am not from the south.
I don’t know iscream, but he might have to stop leasing one of those cars to pay shild support for all those kids.
I finally started reading your book last night. So far so good, but I am only in to the first chapter. I was sleepy.
<—going be answering the phone all day: “MmmYellow?”
Call me!
Hello All, Lord have mercy, ya’ll cracking me up today! I’m getting a full dose of the SandraRose family humor:
Brownsugarpoet: you straight out wrong but funny as hell. (Tiny, take heed, girl, take heed!)
Who wants dating advice from TI’s baby momma: […] That was genius, I’ll have to use this one!
Keep it coming family, keep it coming. Laughter will ALWAYS be the best medicine and after all, this board can’t do any real damage, we just speaking our minds. Peaceeeeeeeeeeeeeeee.
when i was growing up, the friends i had with single mothers always called the guy in their mother’s life “my mother’s boyfriend”. maybe it’s just when/where i grew up but no one i knew ever called a guy their “stepfather” who wasn’t married to their mother.
i never said anything about the man not loving the woman’s child deeply, who takes care of the child, etc. my statement was based on pure legality and my knowledge of scripture. now i’m sure someone will search hi and low to find a Biblical reference to “step” parents but if you re-read what I just wrote, i clearly state ‘my knowledge’. and i will readily admit i don’t know EVERYTHING.
**gets off soapbox**
@Yvonne: yeah my roommates/bffs in college were from Charleston. One spoke perfect English and the other was a “geechie girl”. I aint gonna lie to ya…them boys with that swag and that geechie talk will get u caught up!!! Every time i hear em talk
What part of Louisiana are you from? I am from North Louisiana…Bossier City (Shreveport area).
I think it’s one of those classic cases(and I could be wrong)if Tiny spoke or came across more articulate than she is, folks would still drag her. Same scenario with own my family! If I speak properly, I’m called bourgeoise or clowned for sounding like a “white girl”. If I bust out the slang, I’m told I don’t sound hood enough..
You just can’t catch a break. But it’s all good. Just keep being yourself is all I can say…..
@ Ohso,
So you are in the area of where the geechi [Gullah] peeps are?
In NC towards the coast we have what are call “hightiders” and they talk with English accents and dialect.
@ ohso
yall sound a lot like me and my sister. i miss my grandmother so much the older i get. she never told us she loved us but she took such great care of us that i always knew that was her way of showing her love.
lemme stop fo’ i get teary eyed!
Tiny cannot teach a damn woman or man or animal how to love a black man! That is all
@leap
In fact my kids’ father is from Beaufort but was raised in California. Now his extended family are some true geechies also. Everything they cook got seafood in it! I used to be rolling cuz at Thanksgiving they would make dressing with shrimp and crabmeat :surprised: BTW i never heard of “hightiders” but now you make me wanna come visit just to hear them talk….I love their accent also…but not enough to make me wanna 
So she only reads your blog but did the interview for someone else blog?
Are you going to post pictures of TI’s new teeth. Why did he do that to himself? A thug with Veneers (sp) is that how they do it now?
And since TI is her daughter father. Is she the mother to his other children? Or does it only work in the form of who’s signing the check?
If they broke up tomorrow would he pay child support for Zonique? I rest my case….
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She is not their mother but she is their step mom. Who feeds them when they visit the home. I’ve seen a few shows or interviews where the children are in the home. I am sure Tiny does things for the children as well.
IF they broke up tomorrow that is a hypathetical statement because they have not broken up. She could not take TI to court for child support for Zonique even if they were married. Step-Father not father her father is active he is the one that should pay child support not TI. He is stepping in to assist Tiny. He is not her father but her step father. Whats so hard to get.
This is my opinion and ONLY my opinion, I think sometimes people use the excuse of talking country for improper grammar…being country has nothing to do with splitting verbs, pronouncing and ennuciating words incorrectly…it has nothing to do with using double negatives or calling a refrigerator a “frigerator” or “frigidaire” [one of my mom’s favorites, now there are little idiosyncricies within that each areas have..like where I am from we call the Lance brand orange peanut butter crackers “Nabs” and whenever I mention Nabs to someone not from the South, they are like what are you talking about? The same thing with “case quarter” whenever I ask a coworker that is not from the south, do they have a “case quarter” they look at me like I am crazy..LOL
My sis-inlaw hubby is from nawlins….and I swear im always askin huh…..wad u say???
@Speak: Chile i feel ya. My grandma was the same way. Not very affectionate but its all in what you do…not what u say. And she DID a lot. now i’m getting all
@Leap…I dated a “Hoi Toider” (hightider) in college! Yes ma’am…
:hump”
Thanks for the good memories!
I co-sign… geechie will make you drop them drawls sometimes, but that proper a.ss English while a be-a-u-ti-ful man blows out your back?…IM IN!!!
@LEAPYEAR: I thought I was the only person said “case quarter”….
Ya’ll my daddy is from Walnut, yes I said Walnut, Mississippi and he straight up answers his phone “MmmYellow”
and he wears cutoff wranglers with lil slits cut all around the botttom of the leg!
I on the other hand was blessed with a phone bone voice! POW!
I think step-father is a legal term, as used with legally married. But if she wants to call him her dad, she can do that. Better than calling him my mothers situation.
Ohso, cool…a few of my relatives are geechi…
my kids are half guyanese, therefore there grandmother and relatives on their dad side talk good english, but they still talk patois [pah twah]..at any rate, my son was singing thriller the other day, and he stopped in the middle of it to show me, mom and dad and I how his other grandad sings it…so he started singing “Trillah, Trillah, Trillah, night… :lolol:
Just because I speak with a stutter doesn’t mean I think with one. My favorate line
OTB,
Say word! I haven’t ever ran across one for myself, but the job my dad has, he has traveled all over NC, and he would always come back home talking about how it was so neat to hear them talk.
Yvonne,
Hun, I think you and I and a handful of people are the only ones who STILL say case quarter….LOL….some of the younger Southerners look at me like I am crazy now…LOL
leapyearpisces Says:
Ohso, cool…a few of my relatives are geechi…
but kinda on topic..this will make y’all laugh..
my kids are half guyanese, therefore there grandmother and relatives on their dad side talk good english, but they still talk patois [pah twah]..at any rate, my son was singing thriller the other day, and he stopped in the middle of it to show me, mom and dad and I how his other grandad sings it…so he started singing “Trillah, Trillah, Trillah, night…
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LOL too funny..
Whats a case quarter? Sorry, I grew up in Brooklyn and San Jose California. My daughters dad is from Texas City, Texas and he calls sneakers= tennis. Walmart and Kmart is Walmark and Kmark, Dobermans are Dovermans. Bathing Suits are Babing suits and a Rotwieller is a Rockwilder.
What was I thinking back then?
That’s cute @ leap….
This girl I used to work with spoke patois…..she was a very pretty girl too. Bet your kids are beautiful.
He stepped in and the courts did not have to force him to provide. umm
Qtip,
A case quarter is just another word for a quarter, when you say case quarter that lets people know you mean an acutal quarter and not just change that adds up to twenty five cents if that makes sense…
another one in the area where I grew up is that we call what most people call skullies that people where on their heads, we call them toboggins…
I say case quarter also. “Do you have a case quarter for two dimes & a nickle?”
I just think calling T.I her father takes some of the credit away from her biological father…i could see if he wasn’t doing anything for the girl but he is a very active figure in her life.
OK…T.I is ya boo and all but he is NOT her step father and damn sure aint her FATHER…he’s just ya boo/babydaddy/liveinboyfriend/fukbuddy/supportsystem….i could go on for DAYZ
@AprilRain Says:
Crystal from Xscapesightings huh,,,,, I do believe this would be the same Crystal that came at me one time on here a while back for SMO on Tiny…. ok, thats cool, now I see whats up, anyway, didn’t Toya just write a book?
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Yes that would be me and i don’t believe i came at you in no kind of way.
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Really? You don’t think??? It’s all good, you stan for her and I stan for Tip. And I’m gonna keep SMO.
Yes keep SMO yes and I will do the same, because at the end of the day Tiny is with Tip no matter what things are said about her. Hate her or not. You take care!!
“Just because I speak with a stutter doesn’t mean I think with one.” @Candi-Apple
THAT IS GOING TO GO OVER SO WELL WITH MY SON WHO STUTTERS. Thank you!!!!
LOL @ Case quarta…so erybody dont say that :surprised:
“Trillah, Trillah, Trillah, night…” *does the zombie walk*
Dang…yall got me all sad over here now. My grandma used to answer the phone, “umm…hmm” and my grandpa answers “yel-low” too. LOL!! I’d do anything to hear her answer the phone with “umm…hmm” again. *tear*
I like Tiny and I semi-like TI (I liked him better pre gun charges/reading this site) but I don’t like Tiny & TI together. I know I’m in the minority (or the only one) but I think she is allowing him to take over her life, I think he’s emotionally abusive (which is sometimes worse than physically) I think he cheats on her, disrespects her publicly (calling her a situation) and I think she could be and do so much better. And yes he spends a lot but many abusers and serial cheaters spend a lot in order to make themselves feel better and get the woman to forgive and so what if he comes home to her. Hell a drunk will always find his way home but that don’t make him a good man. I think he comes home because no other woman is gonna give him threesomes, license to cheat and allow him to dictate how she lives HER life. If he was gonna marry her he would’ve done it already. If it takes 8 years to get a man to marry you he didn’t want to marry you in the first place. She looked so much happier while he was locked up.
And as far as the father thing, to me that’s a slap in the face to her daughters real father. If he is in her life doing as he should no other man should be able to hold that title. Yes TI has more money and can buy her anything and yes he’s been in her life for a long time but that means he’s a FATHER FIGURE or call him a step father but don’t say he is her father because that makes it look as if her own father doesn’t matter. Ill be damned if my ex has my kids calling somebody else mom or refers to some chick as their mother while I’m still alive.
And her speech… don’t blame it on the south my family is from the South and while they have a thick accent, and use some slang I don’t get they can still speak proper English. Everyone should be able to speak to their friends/fam and still be able to speak properly in a classroom, boardroom hell even courtroom properly regardless of an accent.
Sorry y’all I’m still not feeling myself, I’m really down these last couple days
case quarter….I say that and I’m from NY…
@OTB…I grew up in a county near there, but don’t think I’ve heard of Reyonalds. We used to joke about Peach Co. High having cotton fields behinds its football field.
@ qtip
i hate when i’m walking my dog and somebody asks me, “is that Rockwilder?”. it takes all i got to keep my composure and not buss out laughing. oh gawd, yall are ackin’ up for real today.
Squeeze cups
freeze cups
ice cups
Push ups
What do you call ’em in your part of the US?
crystal404 Says:
@AprilRain Says:
Crystal from Xscapesightings huh,,,,, I do believe this would be the same Crystal that came at me one time on here a while back for SMO on Tiny…. ok, thats cool, now I see whats up, anyway, didn’t Toya just write a book?
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Yes that would be me and i don’t believe i came at you in no kind of way.
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Really? You don’t think??? It’s all good, you stan for her and I stan for Tip. And I’m gonna keep SMO.
Yes keep SMO yes and I will do the same, because at the end of the day Tiny is with Tip no matter what things are said about her. Hate her or not. You take care!!
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Lets not get it twisted….I never said I hated her, damn, I don’t hate anybody..Understand.. Hate is a very powerful word. I said.. Let me break it down for you. I don’t get where she is coming from half the damn time and shyt she does and say’s is straight up dumb… ok….. You take care boo boo..
what gets me about the 8 yrs is that they haven’t been livin together 8 yrs because weren’t they separated when and TI released a statement that they werent together right before Tiny had that miscarriage???? And I’m sorry but to me situation = baby mama who i really don’t wanna be with but i am for now
@ OTB
i stuttered something terrible when i was a kid. i could barely talk and would rather die than stand and read aloud in class. oh, the memories
anyhoo, i eventually grew out of it for the most part. my dad stuttered, as well, and he told me to take a deep breath when i felt a stutter coming on, and to pronounce the word as i exhaled. that helped tremendously and now i rarely stutter at all. if i do feel like i’m going to stutter, i just inhale and say the word i’m stuck on as i exhale, then continue on. nobody even notices. my hubby didn’t even know i stuttered until i told him.
now my two ol’ knucklehead sisters still drag me to this day about times when we were kids and i got “stuck”. heffas!!
@Ms. Everything. You make some valid points … I told Tiny I thought she couldnt love a Black man until she loved her self…
“And yes he spends a lot but many abusers and serial cheaters spend a lot in order to make themselves feel better and get the woman to forgive and so what if he comes home to her.” They (the cheater) also spend so that the “outside chicks” can see what you got…that makes them want to be in your spot.
@Ms.Truth, peach County is no joke. I cried for a week when i realized I came to a school with no bus system and no major grocer. You know how hard it is to find Cumin in Peach County? LMAO
@MS EVERYTHING: Sorry to hear you’re feeling down. I’m not sure what’s going on in your world. Whatever it is, know that this too shall pass. Also, make sure you remain positive at all times. Your attitude, what you speak and think will determine how quickly you push thru
Is the family of the LATE Dr.Suess aware that Tiny will be plagerizing One Fish, Two Fish, Red Fish, Blue Fish.
One fish, Two fish, Red fish, Blue fish,
Black fish, Blue fish, Old fish, New fish.
This one I just bought a littlecar.
This one FLUCKS like a star.
Say! What a lot of fish there are.
Yes. Some are red, and some are blue.
Some are old and some are new.
Some are sad, cause TIP can’t marry you
And some are very, very bad.
Why are they sad and glad and bad?
I do not know, go ask your dad.
@ OTB
well, to me a push-up is the orange-flavored thingey in the blue cover with the red and yellow dots on it (i think that’s how it looked).
a freeze cup is Kool-Aid or any kinda juice frozen in a cup.
i never heard of ice cups or squeeze cups.
I have not watched the video yet….wasn’t going to watch it. BUT from all of the comments about threesomes, TI calling her ” the situation “, step-dad, financial dad, biological dad, etc~etc. Think I better watch it and see what I think! BE BACK IN A JIFFY
@ggouch-
You got down with that one!!!!!!
@OTB … all of that= popsicle
anything frozen with a sweet flavor=popsicle…
@Brown… I don’t see him ever marrying her, but that’s just my opinion. I pray he do.
ggouch Says:
Is the family of the LATE Dr.Suess aware that Tiny will be plagerizing One Fish, Two Fish, Red Fish, Blue Fish.
One fish, Two fish, Red fish, Blue fish,
Black fish, Blue fish, Old fish, New fish.
This one I just bought a littlecar.
This one FLUCKS like a star.
Say! What a lot of fish there are.
Yes. Some are red, and some are blue.
Some are old and some are new.
Some are sad, cause TIP can’t marry you
And some are very, very bad.
Why are they sad and glad and bad?
I do not know, go ask your dad.
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i damn near peed myself!
I love freeze cups, I always have a cup of kool-aid in the freezer. H3ll, I mix up all kinds of concockstions (sp)..
And never heard of ice cups or squeeze cups before either
When I lived in Jacksonville, FL briefly the candy lady up the street called the freeze cups julups
@ Ms.Everything
i know it sounds so cliche, but this too shall pass. whatever is going on, just know that you’re going “through” it and there is always an end to whatever the upsetting/uncomfortable situation may be. the only never-ending constant is God’s love for us all and that will give you the strength to go “through” anything life throws your way.
@Ms. Everything…praying that your spirits will be uplifted!
FloridaChick813 Says:
I love freeze cups, I always have a cup of kool-aid in the freezer. H3ll, I mix up all kinds of con****stions (sp)..
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i’m not sure what the heck you spelled just now but i have my suspicions…especially knowing your’re a closet nympho :lolol: it’s spelled “concoctions”
I am from southern Louisiana as well, and the people in the “A” actually say that I talk white. That is until I get aggravated about something then all sorts of broken english seeps out…
Oh yeah and “julups”…That is Jville lingo.
We call them squeeze cups…they put ’em in that lil’ plastic cup and you gotta squeeze it to get to it
Great name LOL
And I love Push-ups, with that sherbert? I couldnt wait to buy one on Fridays in school! It was between that and them generic as.s Orange Creamscicle pops they give you at the school…. THE BOMB!!! :yea:
@scandalous
That the only way these YTs ‘rpound here can catch me slipping! I get mad and frustrated with their day late dollar short as.sses and flip to Ebonics.
Everybody know a bi-lingual Latina that’ll go off on yo’ as.s in SPANGLISH… LOL I do it in BLENGLISH.
Tiny’s writing is preposterous! Tiny even reading a book is absurd. Her grammar and diction is horrible! If this is true trust the GHOSTWRITER will be in essence writing the book……
@ Outside – Now that you broke it down about the squeeze cup , that does make since
But they are called Freeze cups down here in Tampa!
And I love the sherbert push pops. I think I remember the Flinestones on the wrapper though
Thats cause you a jitty-bug. Them polka dot wrappers is throwback LOL
Speak, coconut rum, pineapple juice and sprite
OutsidetheBox Says-Everybody know a bi-lingual Latina that’ll go off on yo’ as.s in SPANGLISH… LOL I do it in BLENGLISH.
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Thats me right now, except, every other word is a bad word in spanish,,,smdh,,,trying to keep cool cuz of Holy Thursday.
or have you had that watermelon cheyy koolaide, man that ish is GREAT!
now yall know black people don’t say strawberry…grape koolaid…black people say, red and purple koolaid.
OutsidetheBox Says:
Thats cause you a jitty-bug. Them polka dot wrappers is throwback LOL
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:lolol:
Two favorites: Watermelon cherry and that BLUE.RASPBERRY. LEMONADE.
I was fucki.ng a dude ’bout 6 years ago and fool see me and still ask bout that Kool-aide…
LOL
Is that what it is?? LOL
:lolol: at “red and purple koolaid”
*fu.cking
sorry Auntie. LOL
*yelling to the kids*: What kind of kool-aid y’all want?
Them: Purple!
LOL
I LUB watermelon cherry
My BFF always comes over with her red solo cup and helps herself to a cup of kool-aid
In my Monique voice from Welcome Home Roscoe Jenkins
…Its the best in the county boo..
that’s supposed to be cherry
OK Sandra, I am convinced that you be trying to throw shade on the low. I think you purposely post stuff about Tiny that you know will make people go in on her. I see you!
Anyway I like Tiny’s spirit. She seems genuine but can’t imagine her writing a book
@ MSEVERYTHING – your post put it all out there and was honest and very true !!!! I watched a little bit of the Tiny and Toya show and I do think she gave her singing for TI – why? I do think he tells her what to to/not do and I think he thinks he can do that because he supports her and her kid/their kids together! I DEFINITELY AGREE WITH YOUR ENTIRE POST
!!!
*cracks knuckles*
So what? A Kool-aid stir off? *readies “special” stirring spoon*
Oh wait…let me chill. We in different counties
LOL
so yall are mixing these kool-aides right? LOL, cause I haven’t seen these in the store…my fav. mix is tropical punch and strawberry though
@ Outside
You aint sayin nothing boo.. I got my pitcher, packet of kool aid, sugar and spoon..
@ ms truth –
I love Tropical Punch in the blue packet
…specially like a slushi…
Bish see you playing. Me and the Candy Lady be going thru it at the ‘hodd’s Food Lion!
Bish wanna snatch all the packets when they 10/$1. She looking at me all *side eye* cause I’m reaching over her trying to get some FOR SHE GET THEM ALL…the heffa had the nerve to ask if I was a Candy Lady…
No bish, they just thirsty and its 5 of they as.ses. Bag’back!
I’m telling you: Its hard out here for a mama.
It is my opinion that Tiny shouldn’t be writing a book about loving a black man. If half the rumors are true, she seems to need a lot of help from other women when it comes to loving her man.
As far as Tameka and TI:
Tameka reminds me of one of those little Troll dolls…the shape of her mouth and lips brings the troll doll image with the wild red/purple/blue hair to mind every time I see her *LOL*. Tameka is not very attractive to me but she can sing! TI is not my type either, even with his $10,000 teeth *BIG GRIN* !!!
If they want to get married, fine…no matter how long it takes!
If she wants to let Zonnique call TI her father, fine….
TI has been there for Zonnique!
BUT I would rather she write a book then try to act in a movie
!!!! Tameka’s speech is mad-crazy! Her squeaky voice irritates the hell out of me and her ‘country slang’ just makes it worst! I could not imagine watching a 2-hour movie with her in it as an actress!
*’hood’s
@ms. No ma’am. You must got some “Fresh markets and “Publix’s” round you way…you cant get the good stuff in the YT stores….no you gonna need a Winn-Dixie or a Piggly Wiggly.
The Piggly Wiggly prolly got Mango. They ALWAYS sell the Mango and Pina-Pine. in Hispanic areas.
What? Shi.t I like Kool-aid.
@Flo…me too, I can mix anything up with tropical punch. The first time I had it, it fooled me though. I was expecting it to be blue since it was in a blue packet…came out red, I was like, this aint right.
BY THE WAY – I NEVER heard Tameka say that she and TI enjoy three-somes :confused: !!!! So do they enjoy three-somes with other females and/or males? Whatever floats their boat and makes them happy in the bedroom is great for them
Hmmmm……..Maybe the information about the three-somes that she indulges in with TI was in another interview….
:lolol: @ Outside – I love that Mango!! I like all the tropical flavors. And I go to the Sweetbay to find the good ones
@ ms truth – fooled me too. But speaking of good blue kool aid, the Blue Raspberry is YUMMY!
BY THE WAY – I NEVER heard Tameka say that she and TI enjoy three-somes :confused: !!!! So do they enjoy three-somes with other females and/or males? Whatever floats their boat and makes them happy in the bedroom is great for them :exclaim:
Hmmmm……..Maybe the information about the three-somes that she indulges in with TI was in another interview…:idea:
Ok, so she wants to write a book…Fine!!!! LOL, hope it comes in english translation. But that fact that shes writing about relationships and how to love a black man. Um……..I’ll pass. Leave that one on the shelf.
@OTB
Sandy Springs…all I got is Kroger, Publix, Fresh Market and Whole Foods. I can’t even get an IGA. I was wondering where all the flavors were at, I was thinking, “kool-aide been slipping lately”…I’ve got to move. I miss being able to get $4.99 wings, fries and a drink without having to drive at least 15 miles. 
@Flo…I need to try that. Lately I’ve just been buying the big thing of kool-aide from Sam’s…all it needs is water, lol. Our kool-aide use about half a bag of sugar, always buying sugar.
Do it Tiny!! I think it’s great that Zonnique has two fathers in her life that love her!!!
Sandy Springs?!?! As in SANDY SPRINGS, GA?!?!
#WHATTHEFLOCKA?
No wonder you aint got nothing but the red and purple kinds. SMH. You’ve been deprived. I used to live off’a Abernathy.
@Kimmy if you’re still around…I’m from Baton Rouge (capital city). Sorry for the delay, I got my ears trimmed
Al-Ameera Says:
OK Sandra, I am convinced that you be trying to throw shade on the low. I think you purposely post stuff about Tiny that you know will make people go in on her. I see you!
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That must be it. I know if any of my friends went around posting shyt on my life (especially) on a blog that is known to clown on me, I would take them right off my payroll.. Friends don’t let friends post…
:lolol: @ ms truth – Im always buying sugar and oil, my babe knows he loves too much fried food
AprilRain Says:
crystal404 Says:
@AprilRain Says:
Crystal from Xscapesightings huh,,,,, I do believe this would be the same Crystal that came at me one time on here a while back for SMO on Tiny…. ok, thats cool, now I see whats up, anyway, didn’t Toya just write a book?
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Yes that would be me and i don’t believe i came at you in no kind of way.
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Really? You don’t think??? It’s all good, you stan for her and I stan for Tip. And I’m gonna keep SMO.
Yes keep SMO yes and I will do the same, because at the end of the day Tiny is with Tip no matter what things are said about her. Hate her or not. You take care!!
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Lets not get it twisted….I never said I hated her, damn, I don’t hate anybody..Understand.. Hate is a very powerful word. I said.. Let me break it down for you. I don’t get where she is coming from half the damn time and shyt she does and say’s is straight up dumb… ok….. You take care boo boo..
Okay yeah it’s April fools day for real and you need to shit your ass down some where, let me break it down for YOU!! i was not saying you were “hating on her” I was just saying in general,. You have your opinion and i have mines i don’t have to agree with you and vise versa and all I AM SAYING is after all the comments and everything that is said about Tameka at the end of the day hate her or love her (which some do) she is with her man!! You see you must think that i am some random poster that just came on when open registeration opening and closing like people welfare cases. You most got me fvcked up with some body else, because if i really wanted to “come”
@ you like you stated in your post i would have rained all over your fvucing parade.
@OTB…yes! I’ve been deprived for long enough, lol. I need an in between place though, I can’t deal with too many of us.
@Flo, oil is so high these days. I only do canola oil.
*vice*
@ OTB
i live near the old Mechanicsville. you wouldn’t even recognize it since the teardown/rebuild they’ve done over there.
@ ms.truth
i had $3.99/3pc whiting and fries for dinner last night.
i loves the hood!!
Scoot over @ Florida, I’ve been coming back and forth since this shyt started.
@ crystal404
i’m not tryna get into your quarrel with AprilRain, but what does being a new or regular commenter have to do with the ensuing e-fight?
#jusaskingnotjoiningtheefight
:lolol:
Flo and mskaylamomma,
pass the popcorn and OTB mix up some koolaid! :lolol:
this is like watching Friday Night Fights!!
I like to mix Grape Koolaide with Lemonade Koolaide and Sprite. Freeze some pineapple chunks and put them in there. MMMMMM!
@speak
and don’t that fish be the best??
pass the popcorn on my way too
Well then… Two snaps and a circle at you Crystal!
**not joining, just instigating**
@ qtip – the sprite just sets it off
This entire post breeds nothing but disgusting and hate filled rhetoric…Shame, shame…
AprilRain Says:
que coman verga a toda madre…
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translate please cuz u kno i don’t know what the heck all that means!
*munches popcorn*
Blue or red y’all? Or I could ‘nosh up summa that skrawberry with a pack of lemonade. Erybody like that…!
@Speak…I used to hang ova in Mechanicsville. I was.scared.sh.it.less.back.then. but you couldnt tell me I was a “lame” hanging out with Weasel and Moon ‘nem! Good old days. I bet I wouldnt recognize it. Somebody tried to tell me that about Bankhead and I *side eye’d* their ass LOL
aight yall. i’m heading out. i’ll prolly peek in later this evening since i’m off tomorrow.
@OTB good point and then when the other chick becomes the main chick she realizes she was better off as the side piece
@Yvonne, Speak and Ms. Truth, thanks. I’m trying my hardest to stay positive but the dr gave me more bad news yesterday just as I was starting to feel better about things and its just has me a bit shook up so I’m trying my hardest not to think about it (hence all the comments) and just praying God gives me strength to pull myself back up. I’ll be alright
@Stormy, thanks for agreeing with me and I’ve sacrificed my life (but not my career) for a man before and when all was said and done I regretted all the opportunites I passed by just so I could be with a man. And OTB said it best how can you teach anyone how to love a man when you don’t love yourself
I don’t know her personally but she seems better than what she is settling for
And last thing (I think lol) @ OTB I still stutter but only when I’m mad or nervous. The worse thing in the world is trying to cuss somebody out and stuttering through it. Next time I’m gonna try that breathing trick
bye speak!
@speak-lol, i’ll get banned…
WAIT A MINUTE! WAIT A MINUTE! @SNAPPLE Brand and @MISTIC Brand drinks…
IMMA LET Y’ALL FINISH BUT BLACK FOLKS BEEN MAKING “MIXED DRANKS” FOREVER….FOREVER!!!!
*walks off like ‘Ye did*
Bye Speak! (waves)
@ms.everything…remember God has the final say so, not a doctor. God can heal what a doctor think is impossible. And whatever happens, it’s in His will.
LOLOLOLOLOL. I haven’t read one comment. All i saw was tiny offering advice on how to love a black man, and 230+ posts. gotta be entertaining.
@ speak – No you wont
Do it like this…
F&#K YOU, YOU C$M BUCKET B#$@H
Mines is not a word….
*Scooby-Doo voice* Ru-roh!
Half the ish I type aint words and I majored in English and minored in ….
education!
LOL
@ FLO
Sprite and Vodka, Mami.
:lolol:
And Im not calling nobody in here a c*m bucket b*tch, but i was just using that as an example.. Thanks!!!
@ qtip – I never had vodka and sprite, is it good?
I can’t,,,It’s Holy Thursday and I feel bad enough as it is….I’m logging out, bye bye.
Yes @ Civil, I am still around. I’ll be traveling to Baton Rouge quite a bit once my boyfriend relocates there next month.
It’s always nice to meet a fellow Louisianian!!!
Back in the game, another tooth busted out a school…had to make another dentist run, last month was my daughter, today my son….teeth keep getting knocked out at school on the playground
@ qtip – I never had vodka and sprite, is it good? yes it is.
I like Vodka and sprite with a splash of cranberry also.
See ya’ April. Take this stuff with a grain of salt. Have a Happy Easter.
awwwwwwwh TEAM TINY. So it’s been suggested she write a book, ok. the his/hers idea is hot, so when yall hear somebody else with it, you know where they stole the idea. I love creativity and big ideas, so good for her.
if she does a book, she should title it ‘how I love MY BLACK MAN.’ That’ll take away from anybody tryna come down on her. I dont get that she’s tryna be an authority on the topic. so if she writes one, it should be written from that perspective. steve harvey got a book, why can’t she?
TEAM TINY
@ Leap –
OOH MY GOODNESS!!!!! Why are the childrens teeth being knocked out??? ATLEAST THEY ARE BABY TEETH THOUGH??? RIGHT???
FloridaChick813 Says:
And Im not calling nobody in here a c*m bucket b*tch, but i was just using that as an example.. Thanks!!!
@ outside, What did you decide to do instead?? I’ve always wanted to be a teacher, I just dont have any patience
@ qtip – I never had vodka and sprite, is it good?
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I wanted to be a teacher to, but when I told my family they all gave me the side eye. When I told my friends they laughed so hard, I guess that means I don’t do well w/ kids. So I went into business/HR…
I work in the medical field. Orthopaedics to be exact…no patience either (for younger kids), so I figured I’ve got time to do the Professor thing…thats always the goal: University level teaching….if this Styling thing doesnt work out.
do I sense a long distance relationship in here? fast forward 3 months……………how are things now, my love?
speakinmymind Says:@ crystal404
i’m not tryna get into your quarrel with AprilRain, but what does being a new or regular commenter have to do with the ensuing e-fight?
#jusaskingnotjoiningtheefight
i don’t have beef with April, she may with herself, I don’t E-fight i just str8t punch a bitch out. this issue is dead, i only addressed her comment. I said what was on my mind and she said what was on hers. So all that hot $hit she saying is only entertaining me because she took what i said out of content. Stra8t jacket! moving on to other things.
que coman verga a toda madre…
I know it involves s…ucking something.
I am only half PR but my dad just provided sper.m and moved on so I only know what I learned in my hood.
“I wanted to be a teacher to, but when I told my family they all gave me the side eye. When I told my friends they laughed so hard, I guess that means I don’t do well w/ kids. So I went into business/HR…”
Well least they told you! Some ppl spend they whole life thinking they can do something..i.e., the American idol crowd…LOL
BROWNSUGAPOET Says:
“it take a lot ta luv a blac mane, it take a skrong woman to know how ta stan by his side an to undastan da thangs dat he go tru evra day”
I kno dat Tip luv me, I know dat he wanna marry me……one day…when eva he feel ready….. and wen dat dat come I’m gon be rat der waitin”
“I do what it take to make my mane happy and who eva dont like it den so what, i aint married to ya’ll oh wait i aint married to him yet but i will be…one day”
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HAW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH!!!!
I’m not trying to get involved, but it kinda sounded like an E-fight to me. I’m just sayin….
QTIP,
FYI
vodka with a DIET sprite is a version of the drink called a “skinny bitch”…
I however, make my skinny bytches with flavored carbonated water and mix with the different burnetts flavored vodkas…YUMMY and they are low caloric!!
@ Ms. Truth you’re right and I know God does everything in His own time but this one right here has me lost. Im staying in prayer though but I’ve started to dread going to the dr. Each time the news gets worse and she finally sat me down yesterday and told me that my miracle isn’t gonna happen and that I need to face reality and prepare myself to live with the cards I was dealt. I’m not dying but it still isn’t easy
BROWNSUGAPOET was right on point with that translation. My Commander thought I was nuts in hear LOL all by myself.
Who is up in here E-Beefing over Freeze Pops and Kool-aid cup recipes! Now that is just some plain ole FLUCKERY!!!!
oops I mean “here”
I do that too leapyearprincess. I like the blueberry Stoli vodka with diet sprite. And at Christmas they have the Cranberry Sierra Mist. Its really good with Vodka. I think a lot of stuff tastes good with vodka. Maybe I just like vodka. I will try to drink it straight when I go home tonite. I could use a good drink.
pointhimout Says:
do I sense a long distance relationship in here? fast forward 3 months……………how are things now, my love?
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@ Point were you referencing my long-distance relationship? If so, yes he is actually moving closer. He is currently living in Iowa, but will be moving to Baton Rouge for awhile to take care of some things with his family before moving to Dallas where I currently live now. Hopefully in 3 months everything will be better than they are now and right now everything is great. We are talking marriage.
Ms.Everything Says:
Each time the news gets worse and she finally sat me down yesterday and told me that my miracle isn’t gonna happen and that I need to face reality and prepare myself to live with the cards I was dealt. I’m not dying but it still isn’t easy
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The devil is a liar…she doesn’t know what God has in store for you. I’ve never been in your situation, and I know it’s easier said than done, but keep your faith.
Don’t let a doctor–mere human–tell you what’s going to happen and what’s not. If it’s in God’s will, it WILL happen, regardless of what the doctor says.
Matthew 21:21
And Jesus answered and said to them, “Truly I say to you, if you have faith and do not doubt, you will not only do what was done to the fig tree, but even if you say to this mountain, ‘Be taken up and cast into the sea,’ it will happen.
@Leap…wassup with a recipe? I’m trying to “drink”
Its acquired, I think. I feel like such a sucka when I’m sipping on my cold Sprite around peeps w/ Ro-zay and Henn LOL
ggouch Says:
Who is up in here E-Beefing over Freeze Pops and Kool-aid cup recipes! Now that is just some plain ole FLUCKERY!!!!
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@Kimmy…Congrats!
@ms.truth thanks. All I know is I better have a ring this year!!!
I think Usher’s CD is really good. But, I am kind of partial…being that I have a major crush on him.
Ewww I can not do the Henn. I can’t drink Tequila either, even if it is Patron. It all smells like vomit, therefore I can’t drink it. Vodka is smooth though and I also like Gin. Rum is good also,but I do get hangovers from it. Never from Vodka though.
@265 (gasp) weddings=cake. me likey cake. and trey songz. congrats.
I haven’t heard Usher yet. I did not like the last one so I am debating getting it. Monica is good but like everyone else said, its too short. Listening to Slick Rick right now though in my office. Hey Young World
@Kimmy…I know that feeling! It’s worth the wait though.
I thought that was Usher in your gravatar, he kind of favors Dennis Haysbert (All state commercials) though.
@ qtipthecat…..I can’t do dark liqa either. I LUUUUBS me some patron and vodka. I had three patrons on my bday
I was feeling niiiiiiiice 
@ Point thanks..:smile:
Well, if…no WHEN (I got to claim IT
) we get married I will invite you so that you can get some cake!!
@qtipcat…what was Usher’s last album? seems like i remember him releasing something, but I can’t quite put my finger on it.
Says how bad it must have been compared to Confessions.
**popping back in** @ ms.everything, don’t give into the devil. Miracles happen everyday. You already sound defeated and that’s what the devil wants you to believe. Now if Jesus can rise again surely you can have faith and believe this diagnosis is not you and you WILL recover. Don’t give the devil any air time.
<—that’s for Satan because God is already working through you. And He’s not going to give up on you even though it sounds like you’ve given up on Him 
Last time I had Patron, I got on the floor of the club and tried to do the catapilar dance. Not a good look in my skirt by the way. I pretty much threw up a lot after that and I no longer drink Patron.
ms.truth Says:
Ms.Everything Says:
Each time the news gets worse and she finally sat me down yesterday and told me that my miracle isn’t gonna happen and that I need to face reality and prepare myself to live with the cards I was dealt. I’m not dying but it still isn’t easy
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The devil is a liar…she doesn’t know what God has in store for you. I’ve never been in your situation, and I know it’s easier said than done, but keep your faith.
Don’t let a doctor–mere human–tell you what’s going to happen and what’s not. If it’s in God’s will, it WILL happen, regardless of what the doctor says.
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There are so many medical ways to have a biological child.
@ms.truth – I love Dennis Haysbert too!! He is so handsome!!
@qtipthecat – Although I have a crush on Usher…this new CD is definitely much better than the last. I liked the last CD, but even I knew it wasn’t his best work.
Dear Tiny, can you please ask TIP if I can be the next NewNew in ATL Part2? Please and thank you! I never said anything bad about you except it’s PA-JAM-A not PA-CHAM-A. I
TIP.
I don’t remember the name because my daughter just put the songs on my IPOD for me, but I didn’t like anything on it. It had “Moving Mountains” on it I think. I haven’t really liked much since “You don’t have to call”. That was and still is my fav Usher song.
@QTIP: NO HENNY??? OMG i absolutely love Henny. Henny and apple juice…around 3-4 cups…and then a lot of
comes later! LAWD HAMMERCY…got me feeling like i can go all night…be doing marathons in that bed. Thats why i can only drink it when the kids are out of town i.e. this weekend :yea:
LOL @ PA-CHAM-A
well tiny, don’t get mad at me, cuz you know i’m TEAM TINY all the way. big ups ti TIP for the new teeth. but can i ask you something else? why does tip look like fire marshall bob from in livin color with the new teeth?
let me show you somethin… uh uh stop. tip you smilin too wide on that other site, homie.
The name of Usher’s last CD was “Here I Stand”. No, it really was not that good. Out of the entire CD, I only liked 2 songs…but I was not crazy about those two.
sounds like a plan ohso…my boo is deployed and I deploy before he comes back so who knows when that will happen again. Ive been celebate for quite some time now.
Ms Truth you just made me break out my bible and read the whole passage. My family and friends have been trying to pull me out this mood for two days, and a person I don’t even know just pointed me in the right direction. Thank you
And Anna you just jumped in with part of my problem without knowing. God will work everywhere even on a gossip blog around strangers. She told me yesterday I can’t have anymore kids. And I have children, I have 4 but that news still hurt like I would’ve never imagined. That I’m not even 30, crippled and can’t have anymore babies if I wanted to all because I chose the wrong man
Thank you guys :hugs:
pointhimout Says:
why does tip look like fire marshall bob from in livin color with the new teeth?
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April 1st, 2010 at 4:54 pm
Deeeeeeeeeead @ MKM
@qtip: sorry boo. I know kinda how that is cuz i have a sister thats married and both of them are in the military. Hard times…but i promise if you drink it with apple juice it takes the bite out of it…but start off with only 2 cups….then play “Marathon” by Floetry & Raheem Devaughn…girl that song makes me wanna….well lemme go!!! BYE YALL!!!!
Fire Marshall….Living Color. I couldn’t put my finger on it why he looked so different. That is it.
Somehow I missed your comment @Ms. Kaylamomma but you’re right, I did lose my faith for a minute. This has been a long long long fight and I’m tired but He has a way of working things out and see my last comment cause this was truly proof of what God can do. Thanks
OTB,
Really there is not a recipe’ per se’:-)… I do reccommend Burnetts vodka though because they have like a million different flavors, just choose your flavor of vodka and your favorite carbonated water flavor and start by mixing two parts of the vodka to the carbonated water..you can always add lemon juice instead of sour mix, if the drink is too sweet…just play around with the different flavors to you find one that suits your taste…
@Ms.Everything..no thank you! that just showed me how powerful God really is. I read that passage the other day, and as I was reading it, I thought, “this scripture is going to help someone one day, remember it.” And when you posted your comment, I knew immediately that you were that someone that it was meant to help and that that was why I was meant to remember it.
My God! He makes no mistakes. He works even through blogs.
I like Tiny…she’s down to earth, and she AIN’T HOLLYWOOD. I think that Ti loves her and that’s all that matters.. My children have their dad and their stepdad in their life and we won’t marry until June 5. He is their step dad and he loves and supports like so..And their dad is still in their lives…. Some of yall just make me Sick…have so much to say..not gossip….just a lot of judgemental stuff go on on here.
Ms.Everything Says:
Ms Truth you just made me break out my bible and read the whole passage. My family and friends have been trying to pull me out this mood for two days, and a person I don’t even know just pointed me in the right direction. Thank you
And Anna you just jumped in with part of my problem without knowing. God will work everywhere even on a gossip blog around strangers. She told me yesterday I can’t have anymore kids. And I have children, I have 4 but that news still hurt like I would’ve never imagined. That I’m not even 30, crippled and can’t have anymore babies if I wanted to all because I chose the wrong man
Thank you guys :hugs:
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I’am sorry, I didn’t want to ask all the details. Sharing your story will also help others to stay away from the wrong man. They know who they are. I do hear many stories of women with little female reproductive parts and it just marvels me what todays technology can do.
@ Ms.Everything
as a cancer survivor who stopped chemotherapy and stepped out on the faith of holistic/alternative medicine, let me testify that God always has the final say so. Doctors are here to ‘diagnose and treat’ disease. Back in the day, doctors also researched and developed cures but now it’s all about the money (hence, no cures for anything), which is why I always seek out an alternative or holistic treatment for anything that ails me.
Whatever your condition, research alternative treatments/cures. holistic medicine focuses on “healing” the mind, body and spirit. traditional medicine focuses on treating symptoms with drugs and surgery. i’m not downing the medical field because they do serve a purpose in diagnosing but where they fail is in getting to the root cause of disease instead of just treating symptoms. i know this is a lot to read but please research holistic/alternative treatments for your condition and have faith that you are already healed.
the devil had me thinking i was going to die if i stopped chemotherapy but i’m still here. i have to remind myself of that from time to time when i hear that our chances of having children are around 10% and in vitro is out of our budget right now. my flesh is weak and i get down/depressed sometimes, but my spirit is strong and i may not be able to see how it’s all going to work out, but my faith tells me that it will…and it will work out for my good cuz God made me special like that!
keep ya head up, keep praying and believing cuz no man can decide your fate…that’s God’s job. Let Him handle it.
**said as i look at myself in the mirror**
**hands toosexy a bucket to throw up in since she’s sick**
:lolol: :lolol:
Thats why they call it a BLOG! Because we are free thinkers and can say what we want. I could care less if they are married or not. It still does not change the fact that TINY speaks like a runaway slave. Why? It’s 2010 and there is no excuse for that. Buy a dang book, read it! If “Your baby can read”, there is still hope. I am hoping she takes the course before she tries to write a book.
speakinmymind Says:
**hands toosexy a bucket to throw up in since she’s sick**
:lolol: :lolol:
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:lolol:
Ms. Truth He really is a powerful God. I’m gonna remember this for the next time someone tries to say He doesn’t exist. I have trouble memorizing verses I can usually remember the book but cant recall the verse when I need it so I write them out on index cards to keep in my wallet and I just put that verse in there so I have it the next time I’m feeling down
Anna, no I mean I’ve shared portions on here about the abuse and the cheating but one of our last fights he threw me into something and damaged my spine. I went to the dr and said my back hurt without giving all the details and was told it was a mild strain, given muscle relaxers and sent home. I had back pain on and off for almost two years and ended up in the hospital and when they did an MRI they found scoliosis, several busted discs, and severe nerve compression. So for over a year I’ve been in excruciating pain, in and out of the hospital, I’ve lost my job because of it and am still a single mother to 4 great kids. 3 weeks ago I went to the hospital and almost died because I had a bad reaction to the medicines I was on, they damaged my nervous system and I later found out the combination of the medicines plus the weakness of my body could have caused me to have a heart attack or stroke and my body had gone into shock. And then yesterday I got this news
@Speak, wow is all I can say. God has truly blessed you. I’ve looked into alternatives but the only thing that’s really stood out as possibly helpful would be accupuncture which would provide short term pain relief
I just looked at the trailer for the movie “Marmaduke”. It looks cute. I gotta take my baby to see that. The dog looks just like my Great Dane.
Ms.Everything, I’m SO sorry to hear about your problems. It’s weird because I have the EXACT same thing going on with my back, but it came from a car accident.
I just pray you get a breakthrough soon! I know it must be tough. Do you live in Atlanta?
Ms. Everything, I will pray for you, I can list miracle after miracle that I have personally witnessed, in the end GOD can do anything that is impossible for man (doctors) to do.
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Tiny if you are reading this, you have to remember that as a celeb you have “probably unintentionally” put yourself our there for all types of criticism, it is what it is. Good luck to you and your family and remember, I read this in a CB post, there is only one person who is the ultimate judge!!!
@ ms.truth and Ms.Everything
have you guys researched reiki and other Traditional Chinese alternatives. i don’t know a lot about Traditional Chinese medicine but i have had reiki sessions and felt totally rejuvenated afterwards.
at any rate, as aqtpie stated, God can make the impossible possible. yall are in my prayers.
@ Ms. Truth, I’m sorry to hear that I wouldn’t wish this on anyone. Ill be praying for you as well. This is too much of a coincidence but I’m so happy I decided to comment on this post today. What kind of treatments have they done for you? In my case they tried steroid injections and blocks which didn’t work, physical therapy which worsened the problem in the beginning and now works for temporary relief but they said my back is to weak to risk operating. I’m in California
Thank you @ aqtpie
Thanks @ Speak. Im gonna google it and see what I can learn
@Ms. Everything…I’m doing light physical therapy and some type of e-stem treatment right now. As you said, it’s only temp relief and pt seems to make it worse…
Thanks Speak. I’m going to look into that. Btw speak, you have a VERY powerful testimony. I hope you share it with others often. It’s such an uplifting story!
Zonnique looks like a Nicki Minaj in training:-(