According to the NY Post, Washington Redskins star Albert Haynesworth is being sued for $10 million by a Brooklyn stripper who got knocked up by him during a chance encounter at the Super Bowl, and now she claims he dumped her.

Silvia Mena, 25, tearfully told a NY Post reporter that she hasn't heard from Haynesworth since late March when she told him she was pregnant with his child.

Mena is naturally suing Haynesworth for $10 million -- 10% of his $100 million contract with the Redskins.

Mena, who is four months pregnant, says her demands for cash to support her newly acquired taste for the finer things in life were refused by Haynesworth. And she says her medical bills related to the unborn child have gone unpaid since she can no longer strip to support herself.

According to court papers, Haynesworth's assistant told Mena to seek help from a NFL physician. But Mena feared the physician might hurt her chances at a big payday by causing her to spontaneously abort her lottery ticket.

If you recall, the Super Bowl in January emptied out the strip clubs in Atlanta and Dallas, as strippers hit the road bound for Miami with dreams of child support checks in their near future.

We now know that at least one of them got lucky.

Source: NYP

  • FloridaChick813

    Sorry boo boo, but until that DNA says 99.9% YOU ARE THE FATHER -- you gets nothing, zilch, nada :nono:

    SN: I secretly hope its NOT his child.

  • LadyLew

    Gots 2 b more careful!

  • TSRBenz

    good for her i guess shes accomplished all her life long goals now

  • Kat

    When will dudes learn??? smh

  • Man, I just don’t care™

    @KAT

    Learn what? To turn down puzzy? Um...yeah. That's not about to happen anytime soon.

  • KK76

    Why such the aversion to wrapping it up? Particularly with a stranger? :shrug:

  • aqtpie

    And she says her medical bills related to the unborn child have gone unpaid since she can no longer strip to support herself.
    _____________________
    :rofl:

  • Zephyr1979

    If she is pregnant with his child she should be happy that is all she got from him. Do ppl stop and think that the person they are about to get in with may have an std or hiv? It can't just be all about the money.

  • meanNsurly

    If you recall, the Super Bowl in January emptied out the strip clubs in Atlanta and Dallas, as strippers hit the road bound for Miami with dreams of child support checks in their near future.
    ------------------
    :dead: @ Sandra.....LMAO

  • pointhimout

    guys are so dumb. they make you side with the chickenheads every time.

  • cheeks8683

    cha-ching....

  • http://createspace.com/3393054 iscream

    @ Florida

    :cosign:

    She probably was preggo's when he hit that & he probably cut her loose because he wore a condom.

    All I can see right now is the scene in Menence 2 society when that girl call Kane telling him she was pregnant.

    "So what you telling me for."

    "Don't go out like Willie Lump, Lump"

    :lol:

  • mirsmommy

    And mofo's wonder why they catch that death package.... :no: Damn, does anybody wear effin condoms anymore????

    Well, that bish is gon be paid bish in a few months, if it is his baby. :shrugs:

  • jlojones2007

    HAHA LMAO SHAWTY IM GON NEED YOU TO WAIT TILL YOU HAVE THE BABY AND FIND OUT WHO THE BABY DADDY IS FIRST TO BE DEMANDING SOME DAMN 10 MILLI

  • Anna

    pointhimout says:

    guys are so dumb. they make you side with the chickenheads every time.

    ~~~~~~~
    As sad as it is I have to agree.

  • FloridaChick813

    Do ppl stop and think that the person they are about to get in with may have an std or hiv?
    ________________

    H3ll No!!!!!! I *side eye* anybody who tries to "hit it" raw... NO GLOVE, NO LOVE!!! Sorry sweetie, my life is too important!

  • FloridaChick813

    :rofl: @ Iscream

  • LaTechGrad02

    Geez, is Kelis her mentor? :chickenhead:

  • FloridaChick813

    mirsmommy says:

    And mofo’s wonder why they catch that death package…. Damn, does anybody wear effin condoms anymore????
    _______________

    :yes: I dam.n sure do!!!!!

  • FloridaChick813

    jlojones2007 says:

    HAHA LMAO SHAWTY IM GON NEED YOU TO WAIT TILL YOU HAVE THE BABY AND FIND OUT WHO THE BABY DADDY IS FIRST TO BE DEMANDING SOME DAMN 10 MILLI
    ___________________

    LMFAOOO!!!!!! Okay!!!!!

  • Al-Ameera

    Man, I just don't care™ says:

    @KAT

    Learn what? To turn down puzzy? Um…yeah. That’s not about to happen anytime soon.
    *************************
    And I guess a condom is too much to ask?

  • Man, I just don’t care™

    Haynesworth should counter sue allegding that the stripper took advantage of a mentally crippled individual.

    **He appears to have down syndrome or something**

    :coffee:

  • VAALLDAY

    These fools will never learn :rolleyes:

  • CivilEngineer

    What's wrong with a condom???

    He shouldn't have been out partying anyway...should've been in DC figuring OUT why the pluck his team is so GARBAGE!

  • LilMissRed

    :think: Im just wondering.. who ELSE is in the running to be the daddy? Surely shes not saying she met this dude.. gave it up RAW AND this was her 1st time ever doing such a thing :nono:

  • Kat

    Man, I just don't care™ says:

    @KAT

    Learn what? To turn down puzzy? Um…yeah. That’s not about to happen anytime soon.

    **********************

    To wear a condom. It's too much isht out here...A-I-D-S, H-I-V...how you just run up in a jump off raw dog??? Crazy!

  • http://facebook.com/BEAUTIFULEVE21 Beautifuleve17

    iscream says:
    All I can see right now is the scene in Menence 2 society when that girl call Kane telling him she was pregnant.

    “So what you telling me for.”

    “Don’t go out like Willie Lump, Lump”

    :lol:
    ----------------------
    :rofl: LOVE THAT MOVIE

  • CivilEngineer

    :lol: @Man...maybe his mom was an alcoholic during her pregnancy

  • Man, I just don’t care™

    @AL-AMERA
    "Learn what? To turn down puzzy? Um…yeah. That’s not about to happen anytime soon.
    *************************
    And I guess a condom is too much to ask?"
    ______________________________________________________________________________

    Sometimes

  • mirsmommy

    Man, I just don't care™ says:

    Haynesworth should counter sue allegding that the stripper took advantage of a mentally crippled individual.

    **He appears to have down syndrome or something**
    ___________________________________________________________

    :rofl: I just choked on a piece of candy. :rofl:

  • http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

    One of these days, these fools will learn. Never trust a big butt and a smile :coffee:

  • FloridaChick813

    Man, I just don't care™ says:

    Haynesworth should counter sue allegding that the stripper took advantage of a mentally crippled individual.

    **He appears to have down syndrome or something**
    ____________________________

    :lol: U aint right!!!!! :lol:

  • Val

    Good Morning SR Family- :hug:

  • FloridaChick813

    Man, I just don't care™ says:

    @AL-AMERA
    “Learn what? To turn down puzzy? Um…yeah. That’s not about to happen anytime soon.
    *************************
    And I guess a condom is too much to ask?”
    ______________________________________________________________________________

    Sometimes
    ________________

    :nono: NO SIR!!!!!

  • http://oneperfectassistant.com ggouch

    It is obvisouly easier to get knocked up by a celebrity than it is to win the Georgia Lottery.... what is she going to get before a paternity test has been done...PRODUCE the BABY CHICK...

  • Cinderella

    Im gonna side with the football player on this one. The Super Bowl took place on Feb. 7th. For her to be 4 months along, that is cutting it close in my opinion. I think she was either already pregnant when they got together.

  • CivilEngineer

    Speaking of the Superbowl...HOW BOUT THEM SAINTS!!! :danban: <---hammertime

  • LadyLew

    Who's to say he didn't wear a condom? They do break from time to time.
    I just think it's stupid for these dudes to just phuck anything offered to them. WHat happened to love and commitment

  • meanNsurly

    Man, I just don't care™ says:

    Haynesworth should counter sue allegding that the stripper took advantage of a mentally crippled individual.

    **He appears to have down syndrome or something**
    ------------------
    I think his name used to be Radio :coffee:

  • Val

    :rofl: @ Civil..... ahhh so true so true

  • Nika405

    Ha Ha (in my Nelson voice) if he hit that raw, he deserves to get got and he better hope the "baby" is the only thing he gets stuck with!

    If he used a condom I'm thinking she was was already knocked up & is trying to pin it on him. :shrug:

  • LadyLew

    :rofl: That last part was a joke. I hit submit instead of the emoticon link! :rofl:

  • CivilEngineer

    People that :hump: randomly without protection end up :sick: ----> :dead:

  • Man, I just don’t care™

    @LADY LEW
    "WHat happened to love and commitment"
    _____________________________________________________________________________

    BOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!

    :no:

  • FloridaChick813

    Cinderella says:

    Im gonna side with the football player on this one. The Super Bowl took place on Feb. 7th. For her to be 4 months along, that is cutting it close in my opinion. I think she was either already pregnant when they got together.

    _________________

    OooOoooOOo Good observation!!!!!!!!! :thumbsup:

  • CivilEngineer

    :rofl: @mean...that's just wrong :rofl:

  • http://oneperfectassistant.com ggouch

    yvonne79 says:
    One of these days, these fools will learn. Never trust a big butt and a smile
    ________________________________________________________________
    They don't have to trust a big butt and a smile!! can we just get these muthafluckers to trust Trojan, Durex, Lifestyles, Beyond Seven, Trustex, inspiral, Kimono, Pleasure Plus!!! put your damn dick and trust in a comdom you RETARD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • FloridaChick813

    CivilEngineer says:

    Speaking of the Superbowl…HOW BOUT THEM SAINTS!!! <—hammertime
    _______________________

    Yessir!!!!! I wont $200 for betting on my Saints!!! I cant WAIT til football season!!!! :cheer:

  • Man, I just don’t care™

    @MEAN
    "Haynesworth should counter sue allegding that the stripper took advantage of a mentally crippled individual.

    **He appears to have down syndrome or something**
    ——————
    I think his name used to be Radio "
    _______________________________________________________________________________

    :rofl:

    Albert "Can't Get Right" Haynesworth... SMH.

  • FloridaChick813

    meanNsurly says:

    Man, I just don’t care™ says:

    Haynesworth should counter sue allegding that the stripper took advantage of a mentally crippled individual.

    **He appears to have down syndrome or something**
    ——————
    I think his name used to be Radio
    ______________

    :rofl: :dead:

  • LadyLew

    MAn, I said it was a joke!
    She got what she was after and he got what he deserved. She done research the contract amount and everything, she knew what she was doing

  • FloridaChick813

    ggouch says:

    yvonne79 says:
    One of these days, these fools will learn. Never trust a big butt and a smile
    ________________________________________________________________
    They don’t have to trust a big butt and a smile!! can we just get these muthafluckers to trust Trojan, Durex, Lifestyles, Beyond Seven, Trustex, inspiral, Kimono, Pleasure Plus!!! put your damn dick and trust in a comdom you RETARD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    _____________________

    :preach:

    SN: I prefer a mofo that wears a Trojan MAGNUM, but thats just me, LOL ;)

  • Man, I just don’t care™

    @CIVIL

    I've been in Louisiana my whole life but Peyton Manning is my favorite football player and has been since his first day in the league. I refer to him as "my son" so I was devastated when he lost in the Super Bowl.

    :sad:

  • SangriaSugar

    :rofl: at this chick!!! $10 million - lets go to Maury for the results!

  • http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

    ggouch says:

    yvonne79 says:
    One of these days, these fools will learn. Never trust a big butt and a smile
    ________________________________________________________________
    They don’t have to trust a big butt and a smile!! can we just get these muthafluckers to trust Trojan, Durex, Lifestyles, Beyond Seven, Trustex, inspiral, Kimono, Pleasure Plus!!! put your damn dick and trust in a comdom you RETARD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    --------
    Beyond Seven, Trustex, Inspiral, Kimono? Who the hell are these companies? Do they have commercials? Honestly, I have never heard of them. I'm only familiar with Trojan, Magnum to be specific. :coffee:

  • meanNsurly

    :cosign: with Sangria!!! She must've cooked him some Chicken Tetrazinni (I know thats spelled wrong) before she got on the pole

  • TruGemini

    OMG... :rolleyes: when are these dumb a.ss niccas gone learn??

  • http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

    @Flo: Get out of my head!!!!!

  • OutsidetheBox

    Or he could just man up and take care of the baby...stripper or not. Like he is so much better than her cause he is in the NFL. He still a slore. :coffee:

  • CivilEngineer

    @Man...well I've been a Saints fan since they were the AINTS and people wore bags to the games soooo I can't sympathize this time. Peyton is great but he can't win them all and the Saints had the better TEAM this go round! :yes:

    @Flo...the only sport I REALLY watch. I only watch the playoffs for b-ball and I'd rather play baseball than watch that snooze fest!!

  • FloridaChick813

    I’m only familiar with Trojan, Magnum to be specific.
    ______________________

    :danban1:

  • Tink Tink

    She lying....she already been pregnant, went to Miami to look for the dumbest looking mufocka out there, buffed his pipe, and gone trying to pin it on his dumbass.

  • OutsidetheBox

    I hate Peyton Manning. ALL Mannings actually...and they hate me. Go Gators. :coffee:

  • FloridaChick813

    yvonne79 says:

    @Flo: Get out of my head!!!!!
    _____________________

    :rofl: I see we're on the same page today!

  • MissGauzzz

    @gg... lawwwddddd girlllll i'm so freakin' :dead:

    They don’t have to trust a big butt and a smile!! can we just get these muthafluckers to trust Trojan, Durex, Lifestyles, Beyond Seven, Trustex, inspiral, Kimono, Pleasure Plus!!! put your damn dick and trust in a comdom you RETARD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • http://oneperfectassistant.com ggouch

    Sales reps from Condom companies need to develop a marking strategy that appeals to celebrites!! OBVIOUSLY they need to hear the messeage of safe sex differently the regular public.

    I don't know slap a louis vuitton brand on it!! Soak it in Ciroc or Crystal... What ever...have Jayz, lil wayne and TI rap about it!!!!!

  • Al-Ameera

    @ Man, thanks for the clarification. I'll keep that in mind

  • CivilEngineer

    :offtopic: kinda...Did anyone know Magnums come in 2 sizes?

  • http://www.747DesignGroup.com ATL_Reese

    Its bigger than just the money.. Just another child being brought into this world without both parents.. Its just amazes me how low some women will go for $$$$. I guess God was right; money is the root of all evil.

  • Tink Tink

    **dumbest looking mufocka out there WITH a fattt wallet

  • FloridaChick813

    @ OTB -

    Completely off topic, but why was I washing dishes last night, jamming my music, singing my little heart out. So my phone rings and its my neighbor saying "if you dont quit all that loud as.s singing, I just walked past your kitchen window and can hear you loud and clear. Sounds good though" :lol:

    You and Leap were the first people to come to mind! LOL

  • OutsidetheBox

    Yes actually 3 sizes @Civil. I remember being slighlty upset when my friend pulled out a "regular".

  • http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

    :whistle:
    Game rules, no cap no cut
    But even Superman couldn't turn you love down
    I slipped up, slipped in
    hey man, what the hell you doin?
    Raw dog is a never
    I know I know better
    Heard her whisper
    don't worry, I'm safe
    didn't matter cuz it's already too late
    I was lost in the sauce, dead wrong
    and I ain't stoppin now
    Parleein in the bush again
    didn't think about what I was puttin in it

    Go on and hit it
    That's what it's made for :whistle:

  • FloridaChick813

    CivilEngineer says:

    @Flo…the only sport I REALLY watch. I only watch the playoffs for b-ball and I’d rather play baseball than watch that snooze fest!!
    ________________________

    We are >>>HERE<<<

  • CivilEngineer

    :rofl: @Flo...sometimes you just LIVE through the song :lol:

  • mirsmommy

    ggouch says:

    It is obvisouly easier to get knocked up by a celebrity than it is to win the Georgia Lottery…. what is she going to get before a paternity test has been done…PRODUCE the BABY CHICK…
    _____________________________________________________________________

    :lol: That bish tryna secure a few months back child support. If she were to file for child support after the baby is born, and if he is indeed the father, won't child support begin then??? But if she files while she is pregnant and he is proven to be the father when the baby is born, won't she be entitled to back child support??? No???

    I don't really know how that all works, but that may be why she filed now. :shrugs:

  • CivilEngineer

    @OTB...I was pissed when I bought the regulars. In my mind saying, "WTF...Magnums are supposed to be big!"

  • OutsidetheBox

    :lolol: @Flo. So you trying to take the lead in The Whispers'???? (our group :rofl: )

    Just like Beyonce! Bishhhhhh!

  • mirsmommy

    LadyLew says:

    Who’s to say he didn’t wear a condom? They do break from time to time.
    I just think it’s stupid for these dudes to just phuck anything offered to them. WHat happened to love and commitment
    __________________________________________________________

    The same thing that happened to REAL hip hop and R&B :shrugs:

  • FloridaChick813

    CivilEngineer says:

    kinda…Did anyone know Magnums come in 2 sizes?
    ______________

    :yes: I believe its "regular" - "large" && "extra large"

  • CivilEngineer

    Oooo that was TMI!! Where's the delete button??!!

  • http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

    @mirsmommy: I was confused about that myself. Child support shouldn't start until paternity has been established. In my opinion, that makes the most sense.

  • http://oneperfectassistant.com ggouch

    OutsidetheBox says: ....... I remember being slighlty upset when my friend pulled out a “regular”.
    ______________________________________________________________________

    :dead:

  • OutsidetheBox

    No delete. It lives on in internet infamy. :coffee:

  • http://createspace.com/3393054 iscream

    :offtopic:

    Since we are on the subject of condoms and STD'S. They say 1 in 4 people have Herpes. How many people post on this site. About 20 to 25 on a day to day basis.

    Things to make you go hummmmm

    I know my status... NEGATIVE so I'm apart of the trio... can you say the same :coffee:

    DISCLAIMER: Not that anyone would be BOLD enough to admit to having Herpes or any STD. I'm just saying that's the stats.

  • Ebony

    Ay dios mio *rolls eyes"

  • Daisy

    My gfriend swears by Inspiral (sp) condoms

  • FloridaChick813

    CivilEngineer says:

    @OTB…I was pissed when I bought the regulars. In my mind saying, “WTF…Magnums are supposed to be big!”
    ____________________________

    ;) OOH MMMMYYYYYYYY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    ((dont shoot me ggouch))

  • http://oneperfectassistant.com ggouch

    CivilEngineer says: @OTB…I was pissed when I bought the regulars. In my mind saying, “WTF…Magnums are supposed to be big!”

    ___________________________________________________________
    Did you just tell the SandraRose World you have a BIG D-I-C-K???? Stop bragging CIVIL!!!

  • FloridaChick813

    OutsidetheBox says:

    @Flo. So you trying to take the lead in The Whispers’???? (our group )

    Just like Beyonce! Bishhhhhh!
    ___________________

    :rofl: DEAD!!!! I didnt realize we were a group. Who's are manager?? Diddy??? Cause we da.mn sure aint gettin no gigs.. LOL!!!

  • http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

    OutsidetheBox says:
    Yes actually 3 sizes @Civil. I remember being slighlty upset when my friend pulled out a “regular”.
    -----------
    Three sizes? Guess all the dudes wants to be able to carry the gold wrapper. I have to let some people know, if the condom is baggy, please refrain from using the gold wrappers. It's too big boo! MMmmmkay? Let's just stick to the Her Pleasure brand ok? :yep:

  • FloridaChick813

    CivilEngineer says:

    Oooo that was TMI!! Where’s the delete button??!!
    ______________________

    No take backs!!!!!!!!! You said it, and gave me a visual... Ohhh Lord!!!!

  • http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

    @iscream: I too know my status! :champ:

  • OutsidetheBox

    I believe that 1 in 4 ppl has herpes but that doesnt mean its genital herpes...cold sores are herpes too.

    There is a blood test now so everyone should know their status. Even if herpes cant kill you, it can make it easier to get everything else.

  • Cinderella

    @ Civil, It's too late now. :rofl: In D.C., the public schools are giving the H.S. students free condoms. The kids are requesting Magnums cuz the regulars are too small.

  • FloridaChick813

    @ Iscream -

    It does make you wander... Not only on SR, but people at the work place, or people you have contact with Everyday. Sh.it is scarey. But im tested everytime I get my "tune up" :cheer:

  • OutsidetheBox

    :dead: @the BIG EGO teens in DC!!!!!

    ??He gotta big EGOOoooo!?

  • crzasallgetout

    "I think his name used to be Radio"
    :rofl: Why did I just picture when Radio was trying to kick the football in the rain!! LOL

  • brucebaner1

    GOOOOOO PHOENIX!!!!! :party:

    If you :hump: with a stripper you should be :ashamed:. If you have sex with a stripper you should :shotsfired: yourself!

  • mirsmommy

    FloridaChick813 says:

    @ Iscream -

    It does make you wander… Not only on SR, but people at the work place, or people you have contact with Everyday. Sh.it is scarey. But im tested everytime I get my “tune up”
    _______________________________________________________________

    :lol: @ tune up. :lol: Same here. :yes:

  • brucebaner1

    (unprotected)

  • CivilEngineer

    ***flashback to EBT commercial***

    WRAP IT UP PEOPLE!!

    @GG...I didn't even realize what I was typing til I read it AFTER I hit send :ashamed:

    @Cinderella...what they feeding them kids?? :lol:

    :whistle: @Flo

  • http://oneperfectassistant.com ggouch

    There are so many strains of HERPES out there....it is not alway transmitted sexually. I think people view herpes in regards to STD's...like weed is to drugs...unless of course you got that OOoooWeeee strain....

  • FloridaChick813

    Cinderella says:

    @ Civil, It’s too late now. In D.C., the public schools are giving the H.S. students free condoms. The kids are requesting Magnums cuz the regulars are too small.
    ____________________

    :rofl:

  • Daisy

    @isc good point ppl need to get tested but I never get caught up in the 1 n 4 or whatever stats but STDs are indeed REAL! I will be tested for everything when I go to the GYN next week. Be safe out here folks :pray:

  • http://twitter.com/Ms_Missy2791 missy

    Glory soon stripping and baby daddy 101 will be a class to take up in College were they will teach the art of tricking and Super head can be the teacher....

    Lesson 1: scoop out the crowd and find a familiar face with money

    Lesson 2: keep a close eye on the drafts of all sports...always go with an athlete who has guaranteed money

    Lesson 3: Learn how to put holes on a condom/Tell the dude your on the pill....

    Lesson 4: You have to be a little slutty/freaky to trick this dude into thinking you are different then all the other groupies

    Lesson 5: Never get greedy always come off as down to Earth..that way he will think he can trust you

    If you follow these rules you will be RICH BISH!!!

  • FloridaChick813

    OutsidetheBox says:

    @the BIG EGO teens in DC!!!!!

    ??He gotta big EGOOoooo!?
    _____________________

    :whistle: She loves my big ...clears throat.. Ego!!!!!

    Hey, that reminds me of that verse on "last call" when Kanye says:

    They say he bougie, he's big headed
    Can you please stop talkin about how my d*Ck head is

  • FloridaChick813

    ggouch says:

    There are so many strains of HERPES out there….it is not alway transmitted sexually. I think people view herpes in regards to STD’s…like weed is to drugs…unless of course you got that OOoooWeeee strain….
    _________________

    :rofl: @ oooOoooWeeee

    There is a song down here and it goes "she got that feel, that ooowwweeee" :whistle:

    Not sure how its related to what you said, but thats what it made me think of :shrug:

  • http://twitter.com/Ms_Missy2791 missy

    Cinderella says:

    @ Civil, It’s too late now. In D.C., the public schools are giving the H.S. students free condoms. The kids are requesting Magnums cuz the regulars are too small.
    __________________________
    :lol:

    That is why all these girls are pregnant/have STD's they know they can't fit no magnum...they probably put a rubber band on the condom to make it fit to size... :coffee:

  • http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

    missy says:
    Lesson 3: Learn how to put holes on a condom/Tell the dude your on the pill….
    -----------------------
    Thankfully my son remains a virgin at the age of 12. We talk about sex all the time. We've had these talks since he could comprehend. Although I preach abstinence, I know it's not realistic. One thing I stress, if you will you're gonna cave in and have sex-bring your own condoms. Never take a condom from the chick. Period! If you forgot yours, call me on my cell and I will bring them to you! My son is an A-B student, plays sports and is fairly attractive if I may say so myself. I refuse to let him get caught up with one these fast tail girls!!!

  • yerkesbabe

    I'm happy for her... hope she clears that ass out! Niccas are stupid, thank God I don't have a son!

  • LadyLew

    Ok Civil! We hear u loud and clear
    I had to put someone up on magnums not too long ago. I don't know what the h3ll he was wearing but I looked down and that monster was SCREAMING to be release. I was like Y u got this lil azz condom on???

  • http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

    LadyLew says:
    Ok Civil! We hear u loud and clear
    I had to put someone up on magnums not too long ago. I don’t know what the h3ll he was wearing but I looked down and that monster was SCREAMING to be release. I was like Y u got this lil azz condom on???
    --------------
    :blink: Snap son!!!

  • OutsidetheBox

    Im glad you take that approach @Yvonne...I get so tired of hearing mothers of sons blame the girl...

    No, you cant control what she does with her body but you can control what he does with his, so why not start there... :shrug:

  • FloridaChick813

    missy says:

    Cinderella says:

    @ Civil, It’s too late now. In D.C., the public schools are giving the H.S. students free condoms. The kids are requesting Magnums cuz the regulars are too small.
    __________________________

    That is why all these girls are pregnant/have STD’s they know they can’t fit no magnum…they probably put a rubber band on the condom to make it fit to size…
    _______________________

    :rofl:

    Or have to hold that bad boy on. One guy I dated had the smallest thing ever!!!!! We only had s3x once, but that condom was loose as h3ll and he had to hold it :rolleyes: NEVER AGAIN!!!! Ooh, and he had the nerve to call himself "Big Ol P" -- BOY STOPPPP!!!!!

  • Anna

    iscream says:

    Since we are on the subject of condoms and STD’S. They say 1 in 4 people have Herpes. How many people post on this site. About 20 to 25 on a day to day basis.

    Things to make you go hummmmm

    I know my status… NEGATIVE so I’m apart of the trio… can you say the same

    DISCLAIMER: Not that anyone would be BOLD enough to admit to having Herpes or any STD. I’m just saying that’s the stats.
    ~~~~~~~~~~
    That's what I don't get, they say 1 in 4. I asked previoulsy where are these infected ppl at. I don't know any. Are they senior citizens, teens?

  • http://www.twitter.com/karazinatl KaraZ

    Why don't these men get reversible vasectomies until they're ready to have children? What a fugging dumbass! Who sleeps with a sex worker without protection?

  • OutsidetheBox

    *shivers* @#112

    In my mind, I like big sticks, but in practice my ass will catch out. I cant take no big D. Thats why I was only slightly upset when my friend pulled out his regular. I guess I'm bug-eyed. :coffee:

  • FloridaChick813

    yvonne79 says:

    missy says:
    Lesson 3: Learn how to put holes on a condom/Tell the dude your on the pill….
    ———————–
    Thankfully my son remains a virgin at the age of 12. We talk about sex all the time. We’ve had these talks since he could comprehend. Although I preach abstinence, I know it’s not realistic. One thing I stress, if you will you’re gonna cave in and have sex-bring your own condoms. Never take a condom from the chick. Period! If you forgot yours, call me on my cell and I will bring them to you! My son is an A-B student, plays sports and is fairly attractive if I may say so myself. I refuse to let him get caught up with one these fast tail girls!!!
    _________________

    Girl you better :preach:

    I have a feeling Im gonna have to have "the talk" sooner rather than later.. My lil man has started slappin females on the booty.. And gets rather excited about it :rolleyes:

    Some folks say you shouldnt give your sons condoms(or daughters birth control) because your "condoning" them being sexual active.. But e'f that, a smart woman is just trying to prevent him becoming teenage parents. I'd rather them be safe, then stupid.

  • chase

    I know for a fact I'm NEGATIVE...I get tested very six months!

    I wish everyone would take care of themselves when it comes to sex.

    My lil cousin is 19 and preggo w/ baby #2 and baby #1 is just turning 1. I was suppose to go to NY to the baby's party this weekend but I am boycotting, I think what she is doing is just stupid in this day and time. I'd understand it more if she had some drive or passion but this fool don't want to go to school or nothing. All she does is complain and acts as if she needs to be riding on the short yellow school bus. I asked her is the baby teething she says IDK, I asked her is he sleeping through the night she says IDK. The lil boy fell and hit his head and this fool laughed. The dad is not even out of high school yet and he comes and goes as he pleases, its just a big mess... She has a job as a cashier but everyday she is complaining how she does not want to go because everyone gets on her nerves. It will be a matter of time b4 she quits just like she did when she got pregnant w/ #1.

  • FloridaChick813

    yerkesbabe says:

    I’m happy for her… hope she clears that ass out! Niccas are stupid, thank God I don’t have a son!
    _______________________

    Honey, I think just the opposite; "Thank God I dont have a daughter" -- Men may be stupid, but obviously these females arent too smart either. Whoever thinks "ooh looky, a NFL football player, i'll be sure to f*ck the sh.it outta him tonight without a condom" sounds pretty stupid to me :shrug:

  • LadyLew

    He's a GROWN AZZ MAN though so it's not a pound 4 pound. He handles it. I just couldn't understand why he didn't have a magnum. I had 1 4 him. He said he just never used 1 b4. I got em on board though.

  • http://twitter.com/Ms_Missy2791 missy

    @Flo- Big lil P isn't that a oxymoron... :rofl:

    @yvonne- I agree don't trust anyone with your destiny have some say in it.....

  • CivilEngineer

    Condoms are more likely to rip if they're too small.

    And to all woman: If a dude insists on wearing a condom that's too big, don't have sex with him. He's lying to himself about his size, who knows what else he'll lie about.

  • http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

    @Chase: Like yourself, I get tested every six months only because the man I've dated in the past was a man whore. I know for a fact that two of the women he messed around with, there wasn't a rubber involved. On top of that, those women were still actively sleeping with their spouses. So, in theory, not only was I sleeping with who I thought was my man, but I was sleeping with the women he was getting it on with and their husbands too! Just the thought of it makes me sick to my stomach. Although all of this was revealed to me four years ago, I still go every six months to get tested for every STD known to man. My matra is trust no one!!!

  • FloridaChick813

    @ Chase -

    Sounds like my friend. 23 years old, 4 kids, 3 baby daddy's, no high school diploma, no job, and no plans on going to school or getting a job, but is mad all the time cause she's broke :rolleyes:

  • Al-Ameera

    KaraZ says:

    Why don’t these men get reversible vasectomies until they’re ready to have children? What a fugging dumbass! Who sleeps with a sex worker without protection?
    **************************
    That would be too responsible and irresponsible at the same time. Can you imagine how much STD’s would increase if a man knew getting a girl pregnant was NOT a possibility? As if an unplanned pregnancy is the worst result of unprotected sex. SMDH

    And another thing, if I hear one more person say, the way they knew the person they had unprotected sex with was disease free is because

    "they looked clean or didn't look like they had anything"

    I'm slapping somebody, matter of fact, I'm slapping everybody. So just a warning if you have dumb friends that say that, please put a muzzle on them or I'm coming thru! Really

  • FloridaChick813

    :lol: @ Missy

    dude was good at :lick: though

    LOL!!!!

  • http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

    CivilEngineer says:

    Condoms are more likely to rip if they’re too small.

    And to all woman: If a dude insists on wearing a condom that’s too big, don’t have sex with him. He’s lying to himself about his size, who knows what else he’ll lie about.
    -----------------
    But why lie about your penis size? Everything you said about your member will be confirmed eventually. Why live in denial? :shrug:

  • http://www.twitter.com/karazinatl KaraZ

    CivilEngineer says:

    And to all woman: If a dude insists on wearing a condom that’s too big, don’t have sex with him. He’s lying to himself about his size, who knows what else he’ll lie about.

    ----------------

    :dead: LAWD TAKE ME NOW, I CAN'T!!!

  • LaTechGrad02

    @Chase, sounds like my dumb azz co-worker, dating a guy with 12 kids by 5 different women. He's still living with one of the mothers and she's having unprotected s ex with him. She came to work and told us that she was pregnant. She already has a 10 year old that her mother is raising and she got knocked up by this guy... :rolleyes: I asked her to kindly leave my office when she came back to tell me that he planned to propose to her in July....

  • Quitta

    LMAO @ Sandra and the comments. These dudes will never learn. When you go messing round with chicks like this and hitting it raw you deserve what's coming to you IMO.

  • chase

    yvonne79 says:

    @Chase: Like yourself, I get tested every six months only because the man I’ve dated in the past was a man whore. I know for a fact that two of the women he messed around with, there wasn’t a rubber involved. On top of that, those women were still actively sleeping with their spouses. So, in theory, not only was I sleeping with who I thought was my man, but I was sleeping with the women he was getting it on with and their husbands too! Just the thought of it makes me sick to my stomach. Although all of this was revealed to me four years ago, I still go every six months to get tested for every STD known to man. My matra is trust no one!!!
    -------------------------

    Exactly I've been with hubby for 16 years and I continue to get tested.

  • FloridaChick813

    yvonne79 says:

    CivilEngineer says:

    Condoms are more likely to rip if they’re too small.

    And to all woman: If a dude insists on wearing a condom that’s too big, don’t have sex with him. He’s lying to himself about his size, who knows what else he’ll lie about.
    —————–
    But why lie about your penis size? Everything you said about your member will be confirmed eventually. Why live in denial?
    ___________________

    Thats kinda like the bodymagic things from yesterday... Why put one on for a date, when you know you gotta go home and take it off??? Eventually he's gonna see the muffin top, so why not just work it the best way you can, without giving the illusion it doesnt exist?? :shrug:

  • chase

    FloridaChick813 says:

    @ Chase -
    Sounds like my friend. 23 years old, 4 kids, 3 baby daddy’s, no high school diploma, no job, and no plans on going to school or getting a job, but is mad all the time cause she’s broke
    ---------------------------
    Its crazy I just don't get it at all...

  • yerkesbabe

    FloridaChick813 says:

    yerkesbabe says:

    I’m happy for her… hope she clears that ass out! Niccas are stupid, thank God I don’t have a son!
    _______________________

    Honey, I think just the opposite; “Thank God I dont have a daughter” — Men may be stupid, but obviously these females arent too smart either. Whoever thinks “ooh looky, a NFL football player, i’ll be sure to f*ck the sh.it outta him tonight without a condom” sounds pretty stupid to me
    ___________________________________________

    Well "honey" I'd much rather be the parent of a daughter who got pregnant by a football/basketball-entertainer etc... than the mother of a son who worked so damn hard to get a $100 million contract to play ball, rap.sing (whatever) and was A$$ enough to sleep with some chick raw and get her kncoked up and or contracted AIDS...

    Seems like a no brainer to me. :rolleyes:

    Again... Thank God for me daughter, MEN are idiots and are so easily caught up in foolishness. :whistle:

  • FloridaChick813

    chase says:

    yvonne79 says:

    @Chase: Like yourself, I get tested every six months only because the man I’ve dated in the past was a man whore. I know for a fact that two of the women he messed around with, there wasn’t a rubber involved. On top of that, those women were still actively sleeping with their spouses. So, in theory, not only was I sleeping with who I thought was my man, but I was sleeping with the women he was getting it on with and their husbands too! Just the thought of it makes me sick to my stomach. Although all of this was revealed to me four years ago, I still go every six months to get tested for every STD known to man. My matra is trust no one!!!
    ————————-

    Exactly I’ve been with hubby for 16 years and I continue to get tested.
    ________________

    Better safe than sorry!!!! Thats my motto :yes:

    HEEEEEEEEYYYYYYYYYY QUIIIIIIITTTTTAAAAA MAE :)

  • chase

    LaTechGrad02 says:

    @Chase, sounds like my dumb azz co-worker, dating a guy with 12 kids by 5 different women. He’s still living with one of the mothers and she’s having unprotected s ex with him. She came to work and told us that she was pregnant. She already has a 10 year old that her mother is raising and she got knocked up by this guy… I asked her to kindly leave my office when she came back to tell me that he planned to propose to her in July….
    ---------------------------
    Wow that is a shame....

  • http://createspace.com/3393054 iscream

    @ Anna

    They are out there trust me. I know of two people with Herpes & two or three others who are HIV +

    One of the girls with Herpes is about to have a baby and got married after the fact. The other girl with Herpes still pulls dudes who have sex with her w no condom. Its scary because even if you are in a committed relationship if your partner isn't you are still at risk. A lot people who get HIV get it from their married spouse. :(

    Any STD that starts with an H has no cure. THINK ABOUT IT

  • http://www.twitter.com/karazinatl KaraZ

    Al-Ameera says:
    **************************
    That would be too responsible and irresponsible at the same time. Can you imagine how much STD’s would increase if a man knew getting a girl pregnant was NOT a possibility? As if an unplanned pregnancy is the worst result of unprotected sex. SMDH
    And another thing, if I hear one more person say, the way they knew the person they had unprotected sex with was disease free is because
    “they looked clean or didn’t look like they had anything”
    I’m slapping somebody, matter of fact, I’m slapping everybody. So just a warning if you have dumb friends that say that, please put a muzzle on them or I’m coming thru! Really

    ----------

    Look the way I see it, everyone is responsible for their own sexual health, but I don't believe in babies being used as bargaining or blackmailing chips. So if a man knows he likese skeezers and prostitutes, make sure you can't have kids with her. If he wants to risk getting
    herpes, syphilis or any other "fun gift" from her too, that's on him.

    LOL @ the muzzle, don't put a muzzle on them around me, I kinda don't mind telling people they're dumb as chit :shrugs: I always tell ladies, if a dude is trying to get physical with you, insist on a full STD workup, gauge his reaction and most of the time you'll know he's not even worth taking your panties off. If he is worth taking your panties off for, then get the full STD workup, because prevention is better than a cure!

  • http://twitter.com/Ms_Missy2791 missy

    @Flo- If a dude can use his tongue that is just as good.. :lol:

  • http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

    LaTechGrad02 says:
    @Chase, sounds like my dumb azz co-worker, dating a guy with 12 kids by 5 different women. He’s still living with one of the mothers and she’s having unprotected s ex with him. She came to work and told us that she was pregnant. She already has a 10 year old that her mother is raising and she got knocked up by this guy… I asked her to kindly leave my office when she came back to tell me that he planned to propose to her in July….
    ----------
    And what exactly does she see in this guy? After paying child support for all these kids, does he even have gas money left? Money to buy a pack of cigarettes? Wow!!!!!

  • FloridaChick813

    Whooooaaaaa, lets not get our panties in a waud. Everyone is titled to their own opinion.

    Anyway, I guess the bish who is swinging around the stripper pole and shaking her as.s is smarter then the millionaire NLF player who wants to f*ck?? :shrug: Who knew??

    BTW, Im not saying there is nothing wrong with females, h3ll I have four god daughters that I love just as much as my own, but the way the world is today, I would just rather have a son.

  • Nika405

    @Iscream. I know my status, if the military didn't do anything else they tested us every year. The 1 in 4 stat comes from the general population. Senior Citzens and Teenagers are the biggest groups of new infections. My little sisters HS has had a syphillis and gential herpes outbreak out of 350+ students spanning 7th-12th 60 are "suspected" of having herpes and 40 are "suspected" of having syphillis. and it's not just an inner city problem, they are having sex parties and threesomes w/friends.

  • FloridaChick813

    missy says:

    @Flo- If a dude can use his tongue that is just as good..
    ______________

    :lol: IDK girl!!! I like to be long stroked when thats over. Thats why I dont think I could ever be gay, cause im never completely satisfied by just :lick:

  • LaTechGrad02

    @yvonne79, I'm still trying to figure that out. She's waiting for her ring

  • chase

    I had an aunt, cousin, and a good friend that all thought they were in monogamous relationships until they were all diagnosed with the monster and died.

    My aunt was with her man for years I guess he cheated or got it from doing heroin IDK all I know is that she got it and in a matter of years she was dead.

    The same thing w/ my cousin she was married with 3 kids and her hubby got it and gave it to her she died and a few months later he died. I remember that mess like it was yesterday.

    My good friend lost her virginity to the wanna be muslim that came out of nowhere, hanging out on my block and mess like that. He was also screwing another women on my block and gave it to her as well. I saw my friend months b4 she was diagnosed and she was so happy to have a boyfriend and she had just gotten her braces taken off. I saw her a few months later in the mall and she was complaining for feeling sick. We offered her a ride home but she said she would stay at work instead and just deal with it. A few weeks later I saw her and when I spoke to her she was so overcome with emotion she could not speak I tried to ask her what was wrong but she just an by me. I got the news about a year later that she died. When I put 2 and 2 together I realized that the last time I saw her must of been the day she got the news she had HIV/AIDS.

    Due to those stories as well as common sense I don't play when it comes to my health.

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    CivilEngineer says:

    Condoms are more likely to rip if they’re too small.

    And to all woman: If a dude insists on wearing a condom that’s too big, don’t have sex with him. He’s lying to himself about his size, who knows what else he’ll lie about.

    *******************************************

    :rofl: Ask any black man what size condom he wears, he will say Trojan Magnum, LOL *waves to Nick Cannon* :D

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    Quitta says:
    When you go messing round with chicks like this and hitting it raw you deserve what’s coming to you IMO.

    *************************************

    You can't blame the men most of the time because these strippers are EXPERTS at seducing men and duping them into hitting it raw. They tell the men all kinds of lies, including "I just got off my period so I can't get pregnant."

  • FloridaChick813

    :rofl: @ Sandra (148)

  • yerkesbabe

    Quitta says:
    When you go messing round with chicks like this and hitting it raw you deserve what’s coming to you IMO.
    _____________________________________________

    :preach: :cosign: [Edited by blog owner. Please limit your use of smilies to 2]

  • NOLA

    Haynesworth should counter sue allegding that the stripper took advantage of a mentally crippled individual.

    **He appears to have down syndrome or something**
    __________________________________________________________________________

    :rofl: ok I just cleaned the juice off my moniter.

  • http://oneperfectassistant.com ggouch

    Here's the unfortunate Family!! We are a community...no...a WORLD that has become comfortable with SEXUAL IGNORANCE..

    n the privacy of their own walls: Individuals knowingly take sexual risks. KNOWINGLY!! It's a bad sign..when your partner....takes offense to you asking them to get tested. Or they question your Sexual habits if you admit that you get tested on regular bases. Women have stopped carrying condoms in their purses. Single woman have stopped keeping their medicine cabinets stocked.....

    We are ok...with sexual ignorance. Bottom-line.

  • LadyLew

    @ggouch :preach:
    I require a print out from the Dr if we tryna go raw in a relationship. U don't have insurance go to the free clinic $78 for all the test! I get tested b4,after, and periodically during a relationship or 1 night stand LOL

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    Damn I can't even feel sorry for him because as a Pro Baller he knows strippers, baby mamas, seduction, deceipt all the other negatives goes along with the territory and for real in this day and age of HIV why would you eff a stripper RAW-I hope it's not his baby

  • Lady_L

    just gonna SMH on this one!

  • AllNYC

    If their damn egos weren't so wrapped up in how many kids they spawn, they'd wise up, have one kid and call it a day. The day after the kid is born, see the doc for a snip.
    Yeah, you still need a condom for diseases but at least you wouldn't be on the hook for umpteen kids!

  • ELove

    I CAN'T speak for this Dude (He LQQKS kinda Special to Me...) But ALL Guys that get THESE Chick-Head TRICKS pregnant aren't alwayz Hitting-IT-Raw... SOME Guys are Foolish Enough to use the CONDOM provided by the Chick-Head TRICK (Being Real Here...)

    A Brutha with Some COMMON-SENSE would abide by THE RULE OF...

    If I'm not carrying A CONDOM WITH ME then I'm NOT F-ing ANYBODY Tonight :wink:

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    ELove says:

    … SOME Guys are Foolish Enough to use the CONDOM provided by the Chick-Head TRICK (Being Real Here…)

    *******************************************

    The special Trojan pinhole condoms :rofl:

  • LadyDumplin

    ELove says:

    … SOME Guys are Foolish Enough to use the CONDOM provided by the Chick-Head TRICK (Being Real Here…)

    *******************************************

    The special Trojan pinhole condoms

    ******************************************
    :dead: Don't people realize AIDS is real????