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About 4 years ago, convicted woman beater Chris Brown was interviewed during a live remote by a local radio station. The popular radio jock, who is himself brown skinned, surveyed the room as he and Chris spoke, and then declared live on air, “there sure are a lot of pretty light skin chicks in this room” (I’m paraphrasing). A giggling Chris Brown quickly responded, “YEAH!”
Every Chris Brown fan knows that he has color issues and that he prefers to date only light skinned women. They say that when one impulsively lashes out in anger, they open a window into their true character.
Yesterday, Chris Brown threw open that window giving us a wider insight into his self hatred in a series of tweets attacking the part of me that he despises the most — my skin color.
Laugh if you want to, but you should know that this is how Chris Brown feels about an entire group of people with brown skin — not just one.
If you have beautiful brown skin, you should be offended by his “spook by the door” insults and the message he sends to his young fans that it is OK to disparage and ridicule people with darker skin hue than his.
Update:
Chris Brown deleted his offensive tweets about dark skinned people. He then offered up a lame excuse to explain why it’s OK for him to make disparaging remarks about skin color in the first place:
…because he made a song about brown skinned girls. Can you believe it? What an idiot.
I don’t wish bad luck on simple minded people, but life is only going to get rougher for Mr. Brown because he’s reckless, immature and above all, he’s a moron of epic proportions.
His mother won’t be around forever to help him detour around all the obstacles life puts in his path. He deserves everything that’s coming to him.
Wow, Chris you need more people.
Sandra you are too much…. so you can dish it out but you cant take it??
:\ Come on CB I hope your account was hacked
Ok rereading the jokes they do go w/his cornball of a personality but again, he shouldn’t stoop down he’s been carrying himself pretty well.
I’m afraid Chris and Sandra need more ppl!! (‘Sup @LaTech!)
Chris was indeed rude and all kinds of mean in those tweets, but dare I say, you started it?
And didnt you report that he was getting it in with the dark skinned manager lady?
@Chris, Really? This aint what chu want.
Paging Daisy….
I don’t think he dislikes black people..
I am mad at you Chris brown since you read SR I would think that you would just ignore SR but noooo…You had to go in on her..I mean at least you could have been funny….
I said I am no longer TeamCB…but I will be semi #TEAMCB
Just steeze…
He sounds like one of those funny, but corny, little kids who just won’t shut up.
missmiami says:
Ok rereading the jokes they do go w/his cornball of a personality but again, he shouldn’t stoop down he’s been carrying himself pretty well.
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Agreed, he def. shouldnt stoop down
People fail to realize that they the one who makes things relevant when they acknowledge it.
now sandra.. alllllll the mean & nasty things you have said about chris brown? now he strikes back and he’s racist? are you serious? you can dish it out but you cant take it when it comes back to you. play fair or leave him alone.
Heeeeyyyy Chris,
Since you’re reading, can you tell me if you and Tiny are kin? Maybe on down the line? Because yall have similar noses, especially when you tilt your head backwards and let us see all your sinuses.
Thanks in advance for your answer!
Hey Outside! how’ve you been?
“don’t start none, won’t be none”
But the skin jokes are insensitive and lame. fail!
Jesus be a college application cause CB is going to need it. I hate that CB seems to respond to every post you put up about him. Be the bigger person CB please! The sweetest revenge would have been to make a bomb ass album and you can tell Sandra to kiss your behind. Half the people Sandra post about don’t respond to her. Do better!
Chris you need to stop and just focus on getting your career.
When I use to date, I was personally attracted to dark skinned men but that doesn’t mean I had issues with skin hues.
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Please, Please, Please tell me somebody has jacked his Twitter page!!
Sandra makes skin jokes. I learned the acronym LSLH no other than here.
Good! @La. Your keyboard has been quiet…
Proud of my DARK SKIN!! Sandy, you should be too
OutsidetheBox says:
Sandra makes skin jokes. I learned the acronym LSLH no other than here.
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I thought so.
@CHRIS BROWN
Yeah, this type of chit worked out great for Young Berg! He BLEW UP after goin in about people being dark skinned.
@Ms.kaylamomma- I knew CB was going to say something to SR I bet you he will respond to this post…I think he needs to go to college for real or vacation like Kanye just disappear…”Idle hands are of the devils work”
OMG Chris Brown do you not realize that you are a grown azz man??? I have noticed that MOST light skin guys only date girls the same complexion or lighter than them…while on the other hand MOST darker complexioned men only go for light skin women(just something I’ve been thinking about)…but back on topic comments like this are part of the reason while black kids and othe kids of color grow up feeling ashamed about their colors and feautures!
Chris please stop reading SR you know she hates you, dont fall for this mess… please be the bigger person… still a fan!!!
@Man- I call it the Yung Turd a.k.a bloodbutt(c)tryna affect….
It’s normal to fight back when attacked but why bring skin color into it? Is that really the best you can do CB? I’m gonna grab some
cause I have a feeling Sandra is gonna unleash on this boy LOL.
And I’m not offended by his comments. I’ve heard worse. This just makes him seem immature and lame…atleast come up with some good dark skin jokes JEEEZZ!!
WOW, who would have guessed this post would go up?
Chris please do not respond to people who talk sideways about you. People will ALWAYS have something to say…good bad or ugly just do you!
The only thing that you proved was that you are just as corny as we thought you were and that you or someone in your camp reads SR.
#thatisall
#3 I thought Tina Davis was dark skinned too. Why oh why does he have to tweet? Chris stop tweeting ( I know youre reading this!) the b*tchass tweets are not helping your career boo!
LEAVE CHRIS BROWN ALONE!!
@MISSY
“I call it the Yung Turd a.k.a bloodbutt(c)tryna affect….”
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I don’t think he even needed to respond in the first place. I doubt his target audience are a big part of “Sandra Rose . Com” demographics…
…BUT, I can understand him being mad enough to say something. He could have went in a lot of different directions but this one was the most senseless IMO.
SMH.
Mmm the jokes are corny but I don’t think he’s racist.
;ust a cheap shot
Lol, ok skin color joke is insensitive but so is every post Sandra put up about CB, and as far as him being the bigger person, easier said than done if your career was failing & you’re trying to right your wrongs but ppl won’t let you, you would probably “snap” too, hell if R.Kelly can still make music I see no reason why CB can’t, he is being unfairly handled, hell all rappers have wrap sheets so what are we really saying? It’s ok to molest little girls, buy/sell illegal drugs & weapons as long as u don’t beat a woman….wrong is wrong #stepsoffsoapbox
Christopher,
I’m Team CB but Damn!! Its time for you to man up for real. Just go head and be great on your own. You responding back or trying (and failing) to go in on Sandra didn’t help it just got you another bad post. Therefore, log off Twitter, pick up a book, go take a college class or two, drop a hot ablum and be great. Thank you and good day.
&& Chris Brown definitely needs to do something with his time…my universities deadline for summer registration has not passed maybe he should consider enrolling…he is pathetic at this point…everyone knows only people that have fallen off respond to bloggers post!
hmmm…k then!
anyone, Chris Brown is young and immature. Should we expect anymore of him?
@Civil- I said the same thing…If you gone diss at least be funny..
I meant, anywho*
*in my Mystiakl voice* HERE I GO :lolol:
SR is that a typo on your end shldnt that read Chris Brown doesn’t like YOU
CB had fun w/his cute corny self nothing more/less
He has ignored sandra and other bloggers in the past but didn’t this time. Some folks can’t ignore a fellow poster on a blog who comes at them once so I know yall cldnt take the world hating u like CB has over the past year
Still team CB
Don’t start none won’t be none STATIC
@civil dark men are always gonna be in style lol
allysonm says:
Chris please stop reading SR you know she hates you, dont fall for this mess… please be the bigger person… still a fan!!!
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Is that Keisha Knight on your Gravi or you?
I was on team, “Hate on Chris Brown” when he walloped Rihanna because my belief is that, contrary to what people want to believe, if she had been the one beating on him first, he would have either said that in his original police statement, during his trial, or on at least ONE of those interviews he did post drama.
In my eyes, there is a difference in beating a woman to a bloody pulp because you’re pissed and REACTING to someone beating on you and “losing it” – and with that said, I believe that Chris deserves everything that has happened to him but at this point, it’s time for healing, Sandra Mae!
He can’t be a woman beater for the rest of his life because of something he did when he was a teenager. I think the fact that he’s blackballed, that his album went styrofoam and he can’t do a gig for FREE translates to much money lost and that, along with counseling and community service has taught him a VALUABLE lesson – can we give this brother the benefit of the doubt and say, “He’s appeared to have learned a lesson, and even if he hasn’t the fact that he lost MILLIONS of dollars as a result of that few minutes of ignorance should be a reminder to NEVER hit another woman for the rest of his life!
How are you going to NEVER forgive Chris Brown for doing something as a teen, but you have no problem promoting T.I. who has sold drugs to black men AND women, promote an “event” celebrating Gucci Mane getting out of prison as if he’s coming home from COLLEGE – but you can’t seem to give Chris Brown a break after all of this time?
I believe Chris was DEAD a$$ wrong, but does he get a chance to recover from a mistake he made as a teenager at some point?
Sandra R U SERIOUS! I mean really? ALL the mean and hurtful things you say about him EVERY chance you get?? not only him but all the other people, Bey, Pres Obama etc you talk horrible about on a daily basis? WOW… just WOW.
Chris is a kid you are a grown women. This is just stupid. That’s like me arguing with a 5th grader!
Come on like for real….
OutsidetheBox says:
Sandra makes skin jokes. I learned the acronym LSLH no other than here.
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Good point. Sandra, as someone who is constantly bringing up a person’s skin color when its not relevant to the topic at hand, do you REALLY have room to talk?
“It is better to remain silent and be thought a FOOL, rather than to speak and remove all doubt.”
CB go sitchoazzdown somewhere!
You got it @Daisy. We will go in if somebody says something to us but this 19(?) year old brat needs to be held to higher standards.
/sarcasm
Forget that Sandra is near 40 her dam.n self…
PS: SandraRose knows EXACTLY what she’s doing when she twists his Tweet that was SOLELY about her and makes it appear that it was about dark, black women as a unit – she knows he isn’t talking about black women, but she ALSO knows that some dark women will read what she said and be gullible enough to believe it – Chris is STUPID as hell for engaging. Someone should take his iPhone and shut down his Twitter account.
Besides, what IF dude likes light women? And? Why are black MEN who are attracted to light women suffering from “self hate” but most of the women offended can discriminate against light black men anytime they choose.
It’s effed up to say, “I love light women” but it’s cool as FUKK to say, “the blacker the berry”????
@Missy, I heard that song yesterday that you were talking about on Twitter. The one where it sounds like he is talking about Rhianna. He can’t express his love any other way but through a song. I almost feel sorry for him.
**snaps out of it**
While I don’t agree w/ the route he has taken, I don’t think he has skin color issues or hates dark-skin people. Chris’ twitter outbursts are the work of a 21 year old kid who has yet to mature.
iciaantica says:
OMG Chris Brown do you not realize that you are a grown azz man??? I have noticed that MOST light skin guys only date girls the same complexion or lighter than them…while on the other hand MOST darker complexioned men only go for light skin women
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As a light bright I only wanted dark. My sis is brown skin and she married white.
:ontopic: Chris is still a kid. Can you imagine if social networks were around in the early years of celebs?
TEAM SANDRA
ShoYaRight says:
OutsidetheBox says:
Sandra makes skin jokes. I learned the acronym LSLH no other than here.
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Good point. Sandra, as someone who is constantly bringing up a person’s skin color when its not relevant to the topic at hand, do you REALLY have room to talk?
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Yes, very very good point…I would like to know the answer to this question also??
Sandra I wonder why you put so much effort into Chris is you despise him so. I mean honestly he was bound to say something you have been badgering him for the past 18months if not more-was he rude what he said to you I don’t think so you still to this day call him a womanbeater and that’s not even his name-have you ever heard of the saying “treat people the way you want to be treated”???
You said that Carrington in both of your posts!
lol…sandra is silly so is chris. I bet if they met they would be best friends
@Outside, I’ve been lurking. You guys keep me laughing at work.
Sandra. its a joke. This isnt the “I dont like dark butts” comment that another rapper made. Besides, you go off on anyone you dont like. He is dishing it back out to you.
@OTB thanks and the main ones hollerin he needs to ignore her have been in many e beefs/battles *sideye* CB is 21 now and was having fun. Do I wish he wld have ignored her like he has in the past YES but he didn’t and its not the end of the orld! He is doing his international tour so he is focused on his career as well
Again NOBODY knows what lead up to the events n that car but Chris Rhianna and GOD! CB accepted his responsiblity and paid his debt to society #thatisall
Still team BOTH
@CARRINGTON
“Besides, what IF dude likes light women? And? Why are black MEN who are attracted to light women suffering from “self hate” but most of the women offended can discriminate against light black men anytime they choose.
It’s effed up to say, “I love light women” but it’s cool as FUKK to say, “the blacker the berry”????”
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You know how this chit go. Ever since that infamous “Doll Test” from the Brown vs. the Board of Education case. Just ridiculous.
Chris Brown is still wrong for this and he’s used up that “Well-he-is-young-so-we-really-shouldn’t-blame-him” excuse card.
Ummm wait a minute in the dayz when a father are throws his infant daughter over a bridge in freezing weather and a cop killing a 7 year old looking for a murderer, a 15 yo pimping her 7 year old sister out, a cousin shooting her cousin on Mother’s Day over her outfit-yall mean to tell me CB is the real problem-he and Rihanna got into a altercation while most perhaps not all of us have been there before it is not something that we have re-live over and over everyday so again why does this young man receive so much hate and ridicule- oh becuz Rihanna was killed during their altercation-WTF!
Choco says:
Sandra I wonder why you put so much effort into Chris is you despise him so. I mean honestly he was bound to say something you have been badgering him for the past 18months if not more-was he rude what he said to you I don’t think so you still to this day call him a womanbeater and that’s not even his name-have you ever heard of the saying “treat people the way you want to be treated”???
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@missy…EXACTLY!! Something like you’re so dark you look hairless.
If we were on a plantation, you worked waaaaaaayyyyyy in the back of the field and slept outside.
Something like that….just be creative dammit!!
@Daisy…I know, that’s why I’m not pressed!
Hard to feel sorry for anyone who is so mean to people
Sandra, doesn’t what CB did equate the same hatred you show to LSLH women?! Light, dark, caramel, pecan….we’re all still one race! Whether you dislike light or dark skin you’re still racist to your own peeps! And both set a bad example for the youngsters today! Just my 2 cents!
@Ms.kaylamomma- Like I said on twitter….she put that Caribbean spell on him
…and he can’t deny he’s talking about her because ball player…. *coughs* Matt Kemp (or w/e the heck his name is)
(sandra don’t be offended but if I was CB these are the jokes I would have used)
If no one wants to see me you sure are posting about me…a lot..*coughs* obsessed
I think I need a restraining order on SR because i’m always on her mind
I thought she was a lesbian but I guess my sexiness(i use that loosely) converted her to d!ck….
SEE i didn’t mention anything about color or looks….
CivilEngineer says:
Proud of my DARK SKIN!! Sandy, you should be too
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Proud of mine too and love it on men!
But the million dollar question is, why do people really think they are dissin’ you when they talk about your color but it’s only when you are dark. I never here people making light jokes…is being dark supposed to be a shameful thing?
Come on black people do better. We need to stop giving this color thing so much power.
Hello All, It seems as if everytime CB takes two steps forward he takes one step back. He is a talented young man and should focus on rebuilding his career. I also read the post he was referring to, however the majority of the comments were supporting him. CB is making a comeback that I personnally didn’t think was possible. The award shows are such a bore without his pressence. If you must use twitter, keep it positive.
BTW. I am new here, although I have been lurking for awhile now.
I didn’t know CB followed SR so closely. He has 2 much time on his hands. Shouldn’t he be doing his community service or something?
Sandra, you know how to bring out the worst in folks, don’t you? Chris didn’t beat on anyone in your family and he is trying to rectify the situation with the public and it’s bloggers like you who won’t allow him to move on. I look at people like Charlie Sheen who’ve threatened to kill their wives or have harmed them otherwise get second chance upon second chance. And this guy can’t even get one, WTF.
@Civil
You know I think you are hot but that plantation joke was not funny.
Sandra, maybe he just went at you for obvious reasons. No one on this blog can say that you don’t drag him and hit below the belt regularly. A lot of people still think that attacking skin tone is hitting below the belt and I think this is where he was trying to go with you.
@SANDRA
I love LSLH women without apology by the way.
@LA-They make a good point she doesn’t care unless its someone from ATL….
@Civil-I actually used that plantation joke..
but he could have also said
“You so black,when riding a motorcycle you got a ticket for tinted windows. “
@Choco…just repeating something said to me. I thought it was funny but I have a dark sense of humor
@missy…I agree. Her skin color would’ve been the last thing I commented on
Who pulled out that card @Man?
What should we expect when Sandra is making it her life’s work for him to never work…
I dont take issue with the stuff Sandra says about LS women because I endured a lifetime of jokes and snubs…Ive grown. Has Sandra?
This is Chris’ growth time..and she is stunting it…like somebody obviously did her…
Ummm Chris. You need more PR people! If you had the right handlers, you wouldn’t be doing all this ish no matter who picks on you constantly calling you all kinds of names daily. YOU ARE THE CELEBRITY. You have bigger fish to fry! You need to fire and hire STAT because your current “yes men” are going to tank your career faster than the Titanic. The sad part is that you are TRULY talented. I honestly wanted you to be this generation’s MJ BUT you are way too distracted at this point to morph into timeless, ICONIC status.
GROW THE HELL UP AND GET MORE PEOPLE SO YOU CAN BECOME WHAT SO MANY PEOPLE BELIEVE YOU WERE DESTINED TO BE (if there is still time)!
I see nothing wrong with him only liking LSLH chicks he is entitled to his preference. Also the area of Virginia where he is from there is an abundance of LSLH chicks, so I guess that is what he is use to seeing. If that is what you grew up around then that is sometimes what you enjoy more. I have been to that area of Virginia and hubby and I both took notice to it.
I am so not a fan of CB, but if you can dish it you gotta be able to take it….
This color thing os so overrated and I never experienced anything like this until I became an adult. Thank GOD my family did not talk about this at the dinner table.
ADVICE 2 CB: Just do the Diddy and get ur lawyers on her and then she will write nothing but GOOD things about u
@OUTSIDE THE BOX
“Who pulled out that card @Man?”
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Carrington mentioned it in his post #45.
I don’t understand what the big deal is Sandy. You have bashed this boy from day one. People have preferences and that does not make them racist or have self hate. You seem to only like LSLH women although you are the main one asking why men choose them over darker skinned women.Most of the women that you ‘praise’ are LSLH(c) Sandra Rose.
He is saying what he is saying TO YOU and YOU only. When you pick at a scab it will eventually bleed and Sandy this morning it’s bleeding all over you. Now I’m not saying that I’m team CB but you should expect retaliation.
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
@SANDRA
I love LSLH women without apology by the way.
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You shouldn’t have to apologize for your own preferences. I don’t know why some people get all sensitive about someone’s likes or dislikes.
@Al….yes, many blacks do think we should be ashamed of our dark skin. Hell, my own family (not my parents) criticized me for years for being darker. Even made me stay in the house in the daytime
For some reason some blacks are still stuck on paper bag era thinking…especially in the “yt is right” south.
He has taking care of his community service. I guess everybody can’t multi task
I am loving his new mixed tape
@Civil
Okay maybe it’s just me but I don’t find it funny…
Come on there are a million jokes you can make about a person…no matter
Mmm.
But the million dollar question is, why do people really think they are dissin’ you when they talk about your color but it’s only when you are dark. I never here people making light jokes…is being dark supposed to be a shameful thing?
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That slave mentality still exists. I come from a color-struck family (mostly the elders) and the ish turns me off to no end. They’ve always questioned why I date dark skinned men. I tell them with all honesty, I can’t be with someone who thinks like you all.
Sandra I HAVE NOT agreed with many of the instances of you “piling” on Chris during these past trials he has gone through (or by the way how you pile on the President).
I believe many of the instances were not truely necessary especially considering the fact that he is one of our own and the white media surely didn’t need to be amplified.
HOWEVER, I do agree with you 100 on calling him out on this clear cut attempt to get at you through trying to make a mockery out of your skin color. Hell, I like all of our tones regardless and to see how many Black people STILL suffer from stupidity like this is beyond comprehension.
But then again, they just refocused on a old study that showed how most people identify with white being right and Black being anything but. This is no different, many Blacks have not gained the mental tools to understand how they’ve been brainwashed by the society at large to marginalize Blackness. Sad and pityful. What’s worse is the fact that most of this “conditioning” today is done by other Black people.
Fools, just plain fools who will not learn….
@Carrington,
Chris would NEVER admit to “retaliating” if Rhianna attacked him first (which is not a stretch) because he is a male entertainer and he can’t admit to being attacked by a woman. It makes him look WEAK to the general public. Look what happened to the black dude from Law and Order (I believe) that called the police because his girlfriend jumped him. He was crucified in the media for being a “weak piece of ish”. I have an aunt who is probably beating the hell out of my uncle as I type this because she has been whooping him for years and he refuses to knock her butt out (which has a concensus of support from my family) or file any reports on her. What I would like to see is the pictures of Chris from that night. I’m sure there were bruises. It’s also fallen on deaf ears in many interviews that SHE ATTACKED HIM after he got a text message from another chic to hook up with him.
At any rate, I hope Chris recovers what is left of his career. He is so talented and could be LARGE!
LMAO!!! Sandra, you do drag the hell out of him. Oh well. If he’d spend more time trying to resusitate his DEAD ASS career, he wouldn’t have time to worry about what you say.
Keep it up Chris, give everyone more reasons to continue to drag your sorry ass. #LAME Why not follow in the footsteps of working celebrities and ignore her??
CB does need to mature and understand that he will not be loved by everybody again! Fact is that CB beat the hell out of RiRi! He punched her, knee’d her, kicked her, headbutt her, karate chopped her, and then bit her (that was a punkish move). Who cares what Rihanna did, there are other ways to respond than the way he did. Thats fact. He needs to own up to it instead of making excuses and then the world will be willing to forgive him. If I was CB I wouldn’t even have responded to the foolishness on this site. He is only getting more negative feedback by responding. You don’t see the “burlesque singer” tweeting about SR!
meanNsurly says:
ADVICE 2 CB: Just do the Diddy and get ur lawyers on her and then she will write nothing but GOOD things about u
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…or he could start dating her cougar friend and fashionista style icon blogger (with no blog) Sarah Chapman. I bet he would be a FINE young man then…
Y’all never heard jokes about light skin jokes ….
… wow …..I HAVE
@Al, I agree. I don’t understand why people are so sensitive about color jokes.
As far as these doll studies and mess, who publishes these studies? YT PEOPLE … and how do we really know that these kids are choosing these dolls just because they don’t like the darker skin dolls or think that yt is better than black? When I was younger, I would get more white dolls, but that was only because the white dolls had more choices than black dolls (that’s an entirely different issue), but I didn’t have self-hate issues because of my color and definitely didn’t think that yt was better.
We’ve got to do better!
where i am from, light skin people get made fun of too…they have color issues sometimes as well…with both sets of my grandparents my grandmother is very light and my grandfathers are very dark. the women wanted dark men just like the men wanted light women. if you like it, i love it…
missy says:
Y’all never heard jokes about light skin jokes …. … wow …..I HAVE
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i dont know where they are from but i have heard many a lightbright, glow in the dark joke around here.
missy says:
Y’all never heard jokes about light skin jokes ….
… wow …..I HAVE
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I was shocked at that too.
@ AKA
Yes he would! She would hold him on a higher pedestal than LR!
Dang, I was just defending dude yesterday. He must have a hard time controlling his emotions. Unfortunately he has the color-struck disease which has inflicted a lot of folks. It’s one thing to make fun of someone looks but don’t go in on their color because that offends a lot of people who are that color.
@ATTORNEYMOM…#72
Do you mind if I borrow that for myself one day?
CorporateHoodB-tch says:
@ATTORNEYMOM…#72 Do you mind if I borrow that for myself one day?
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That was so freaking random I thought that I was the only one that paid it any attention.
Now @Surly you know she is above tweeting…
“Girl, you need to get on twitter!” -Solange
“What? Why? Just call me…” -Bey
@MS. TRUTH
“As far as these doll studies and mess, who publishes these studies? ,
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No, the original and most famous study was from blacks in the Brown vs Board of Education case in front of the Supreme Court.
@Civil
I don’t know why people would talk to you like that my goodness my sisters are darker than me my mom is light – light skin dark skin didn’t come up we were all smart not saying your family isn’t but Damn if Mom’z is ls and Dad is ds you will get a combination—BTW love love love dark chocolate skin beautiful and regal to me…
Hey Sandra,
Bos-sip has your picture posted all up on their blog. I would love to see what they look like. Do you have some pictures of them?
i didnt know people had color issues until i got to college and a guy i was dating told me “i usually only date light skin girls” say what fool? in my fam we come in all diff shades and i guess we didn’t make a big deal about it…
**raises hand** I’ve heard light skin jokes before.
Down here I hear, “you’re attractive for a dark-skinned dude”
I’m sure someone has said “you’re attractive for a light-skinned dude” before too
ms.truth says:
missy says:
Y’all never heard jokes about light skin jokes …. … wow …..I HAVE
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I was shocked at that too.
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I agree. Where I’m from, the only ones exempt were the people in the center of the color spectrum (blk ppl). But I’ve heard many white ppl go in on each other because of their shades
I know we’re talking about us, but this issue exists in almost every race and culture.
and I don’t know why people think the color debate is just a black issues… Hispanics do the same thing … a lot of lighter skinned Hispanics are treated better than the darker skinned ones. With white people, the pale white people tend to be the subject of the color jokes, i.e. why they tan! So you’re telling me that just because white people tan to be darker, they think that black people are better than them??
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
@MS. TRUTH
“As far as these doll studies and mess, who publishes these studies? ,YT PEOPLE ”
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No, the original and most famous study was from blacks in the Brown vs Board of Education case in front of the Supreme Court.
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i think Oprah did one on her show many years ago too…
I am a Beautiful Brown Woman and not offended at all by CB. CB is a child with issues. I have always been attracted to light skinned/ high yellow men. I love black men period! When I was a lil tyke Christopher Williams was my Dream Husband!
Interesting. At the end of the day SR wins. CB looks pressed and SR gets mad traffic to her blog……
ms.truth says:
and I don’t know why people think the color debate is just a black issues… Hispanics do the same thing … a lot of lighter skinned Hispanics are treated better than the darker skinned ones. With white people, the pale white people tend to be the subject of the color jokes, i.e. why they tan! So you’re telling me that just because white people tan to be darker, they think that black people are better than them??
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you are so right about the hispanics! a lot of times that color distinguishes class in mexico and in india.
@ohpretty1 & ms.truth
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
@MS. TRUTH
“As far as these doll studies and mess, who publishes these studies? ,YT PEOPLE ”
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No, the original and most famous study was from blacks in the Brown vs Board of Education case in front of the Supreme Court.
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I’m not really familiar with that so I can’t comment on it.
let chris brown be great
@Choco…I think it had more to do with how my grandparents grew up. They knew darker skinned people had it a bit harder.
Then I grew up to be this big, black man…everyone RUN!!
I am shocked too being light-skinned in the Black community (in the South) is just like being a blonde in the yt community.
sandra feels that she can say whatever she wants but no one can say anything about her because if you do you get banned from her site i dont get her it’s ridiculous how someone can talk sh*t but cant handle what comes with it
get out of my head ohpretty! lol.
99% of my kinfolk are light skinned including my mom…but instead of me getting the LSLH…I’the coca-cola shape and lots of reassurance from my mom that I AM BEAUTIFUL REGARDLESS WHETHER MY SKIN IS LIGHT OR DARK.
sandra if you dont have any issues with the way you look why do you always hide behind a camera you go to events and refuse to take pictures
At the end of the Day both Sandra and Chris win-Chris is getting his publicity and well Sandra always had traffic…
I don’t understand what the big deal is Sandy. You have bashed this boy from day one. People have preferences and that does not make them racist or have self hate. You seem to only like LSLH women although you are the main one asking why men choose them over darker skinned women.
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This has only started recently (within last year) I believe she was turned out by a LSLH
i dont know what to make of of his tweets. but i really wish he would go the fu.ck away. the end.
@MS. TRUTH
“No, the original and most famous study was from blacks in the Brown vs Board of Education case in front of the Supreme Court.
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I’m not really familiar with that so I can’t comment on it.”
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Wow, that was probably the second most important legal case in the history of black America.
It is the factor that “turned the tide” against “seperate but equal” and every few years the study is replicated. I think the first one was done in 1954 with Thurgood Marshall.
Wow so another fellow SR poster was in the car that night. The number of ppl that 2 seater car holds never ceases to amaze me. Can’t believe this whole situation is being discussed over a year later SMH
Hey Gyp and AM that was funny :lolol:
I think CB was dissing SR not all dark skinned women
I think we all have prefrences but I don’t think you shld put anybody down n the process IMO
OKAYYYY @ OTB #100! Bey said she aint got time for that shi.t! She got albums to make because she knows the pact she made with the devil is about to expire!
I’m sitting here thinking Chris might be cracking under the pressure. He needs some counseling or something because him going off on people’s color knowing he is already under scrutiny seems strange. People may have light skin jokes (I’m kind of light myself but have African features/hair texture) but light skin is uplifted by the media and among people especially if it’s on a woman and dark skin is seen as the exact opposite so it’s not the same thing. But I hate when people tell color jokes no matter what color someone is.
@Civil
That makes sense especially coming from your grandparents who no doubt probably felt the discrimination back then but boy how times have changed-it’s funny cuz my ex hubby is light skin after him I went dark and never looked back…
if that picture that bossip has is real then i see why you dont take pictures and you shouldnt be allowed to comment on anyones looks
sandra if you dont have any issues with the way you look why do you always hide behind a camera you go to events and refuse to take pictures
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You need to out those b’s on Bos-sip. Their coming at you sideways.
*stifles laughter*
*Sharon (from Obssessed voice)* Dont ‘chu talk about my Bey!
@Man didn’t Anderson Cooper just re do that study and black kids still picked the YT doll as the pretty one even today sadly
DAMMIT…..I cant see the website because its blocked @ my job. Ugh. I wanna see the picture
Sandra, stay off of CB ball sac! u can dish it but u can’t take it bow your acting sensitive!
@daisy I agree when people stay hateful things about you it is only human to respond back…
did yall forget that trey songz went in on sandra too made her a twitter trending topic…
sandra you are an #epicfail
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
Wow, that was probably the second most important legal case in the history of black America.
It is the factor that “turned the tide” against “seperate but equal” and every few years the study is replicated. I think the first one was done in 1954 with Thurgood Marshall.
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If I liked history or politics, I probably would care. But neither floats my boat, so I really don’t care about them.
@ Civil and Ms. Truth, I just don’t get it. Like it’s 2010 and we are still talking about color?!?!
But I can totally relate about the family thing and the Hispanic thing as well. My mom is from Dominican republic and I grew up with my lighter cousin’s calling me blackie and black azz and their mom (who happens to look more on the Indian side with bone straight hair down her back) told me that the reason they nicked named me pretty girl and princess is cuz she wanted me to have high self esteem cuz I was darker than the others….well, I know her intentions were good but I am thinking WTF?!?! I don’t know if that is a compliment or if I should be offended
I never knew I was even considered that dark but I’ll be that…Color has NEVER been my issue.
@Choco…you know what they say about us dark berries
AKAtastrophy1908 says:
@Carrington,
Chris would NEVER admit to “retaliating” if Rhianna attacked him first (which is not a stretch) because he is a male entertainer and he can’t admit to being attacked by a woman.
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This would be a valid point if he hadn’t already ADMITTED to beating her, wouldn’t it? You would rather throw away your career, risk PRISON time, a felonious assault conviction, lose millions of dollars and throw away your career to keep from saying that a woman hit you? That’s a HUGE stretch of the imagination, isn’t it?
He already admitted to HITTING her, is there REALLY more shame in saying, “She hit me, so I beat her a$$” than in, “I’m an a$$hole, so I beat the $hit out of her?” – Chris chose to allow her to say that she NEVER hit him and contrary to popular belief, if she had, seeing where his career was going as a result of those statements coupled with the knowledge that, if she hit him and he hit her BACK it would TOTALLY change people’s perception of the events, him AND his career – he would have taken that opportunity to set the record straight.
So, it’s honor amongst abusers? I’d rather go to jail for beating your a$$ for no reason, than to simply say, she hit me and I lost my gat damn mind!
It NEVER came out that she attacked him, SHE didn’t say it and HE didn’t say it and they both had SEVERAL opportunities to do so. You’re talking about rumors that came out after the fact, but they both gave police statements after it happened, neither said she hit him then, Chris had MONTHS to say it after his initial statement to cops because the trial didn’t happen until WELL after his career was in question, AFTER the trial he went on Larry King – there is no FEASIBLE reason he wouldn’t have said, “she hit me”.
Are you REALLY suggesting that a man would rather be accused of being a vile, spineless woman abuser, than to say, “The b*tch, hit me, I lost my mind and whooped her a$$?” REALLY? On what planet does THAT happen?
WHERE is it more acceptable to simply be a man who abuses women than a man who tagged your a$$ because you got out of hand and tagged gun FIRST? Where?
I think it’s time to move on and give the boy a chance, but if the belief is that he hit her for no reason and HE had an opporunity to clear it up and hasn’t – then that’s his fault, isn’t it?
@MS. TRUTH
“and I don’t know why people think the color debate is just a black issues… Hispanics do the same thing … a lot of lighter skinned Hispanics are treated better than the darker skinned ones. With white people, the pale white people tend to be the subject of the color jokes, i.e. why they tan! So you’re telling me that just because white people tan to be darker, they think that black people are better than them?? ”
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A lot of people PERIOD value lighter skin. Even Asians with their “geisha girls” that put bird chit on their face to lighten the skin and yt people… yes yt people who have for centuries used skin bleaching agents that have been toxic. Queen Elizabeth I is noted for having using a toxic agent to lighten her skin.
yt’s didn’t start to actively get tanned until the latter half of the last century.
I’m so lost with the SR acronyms…..what does “YT” mean? I kno I’m slow but its Wednesday and I’m tired of hurting my brain to figure it out.
@Civil
You don’t even have to elaborate trust im in!
@Mean
Y T whitey
Well I hope he doesn’t discriminate against brown skinned females but if he does o well….brown skinned girls can discriminate against him as well…..its not that serious. However, if you left Chris to his thoughts Sandra you ALONE wouldn’t be subject to his ridicule.
leave people CHURRIN alone Sandra!!
@Al
I agree 2010 slaves have been freed but a lot of folks still have a slaved mentality.
@ Choco…..OH I get it
Dam.n I’m slo…..but I’m not Radio’s level tho!
@Choco…you know what they say about us dark berries
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the sweeter the JUice…
Thats what Tupac told me mmmm hmmm
@Al…it’ll always be a topic for discussion because some people can’t accept differences among people. Which is sad because if we all looked the same life would be boring!
I have a serious question because I’ve heard it so many times and have my own opinion: Do you think Obama would be the president if he had a darker skin complexion?
@MS. TRUTH
“Wow, that was probably the second most important legal case in the history of black America.
It is the factor that “turned the tide” against “seperate but equal” and every few years the study is replicated. I think the first one was done in 1954 with Thurgood Marshall.
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If I liked history or politics, I probably would care. But neither floats my boat, so I really don’t care about them.”
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Oh ok. Well, it didn’t interest me either but I ran across it while reading about something I did enjoy (can’t remember what) and it piqued my curiosity.
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@OTB
you aint pull out the guns did u!
Headed to bos sip
and as far as yt people are concerned, being light skinned or dark skinned doesn’t matter, if you’re black, you’re black. Same thing with black people, we don’t look at yt people and say, “oh, they’re pale.” or “oh, they’re tanned.” NOPE, they still WHITE.
This color issue blows me.
I concur with rjk8! I was like WTH! Ever since she changed her website she has been adding new stuff except for the damn black girl and purse from the Covergirl Ad.
Daisy says:
I think CB was dissing SR not all dark skinned women
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I agree BUT disses tend to focus on imperfections or short comings e.g. your teeth are yellow chipped or crooked, your clothes are wack, your body odor, and those types of things and generally they are things you have control over or fix…..
My issue and not with CB in particular is that being dark is NOT an imperfection and it is how they creator has made you, you have no control over it and cannot change it so…how dare someone try to make you feel bad or treat you less than because of how God made you.
how did this become about race
@civil….I heard a discussion about that on tv, I think it was the view but I am not sure. It was stated that the probably would not be president is he was darker… IDK, his color had nothing to do with why I voted for him, if he was the same person in darker skin I’d still of gave him my vote. Although I am one of those people that does not look into the DS/LS stereotype mess…
ms.truth says:
missy says:
Y’all never heard jokes about light skin jokes …. … wow …..I HAVE
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I was shocked at that too.
How quickly we forget when the shoe is on the other foot. Oreo, Oreo O. 
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hey y’all did my pic change?
hey mean! to answer your question in the other post, I kind of expected you to be more “feminine”. All of the gay guys that I’m friends with are all pretty extra. They don’t wear the tight clothes and everything, but they know they’re fashion, gossip like females, dance, roll their necks, smack their lips, I can say “girl…” to them because I forget I’m talking to a male, etc. If you see them, you’ll know they’re gay.
Hello All. I ain’t gonna preach but this issue of color is so, so old. Why can’t we be more concerned about other black issues? Like black on black crime, HIV/AIDS, obesity, high-school drop out rates, babies having babies, down Low Negroes, high blood pressure. We seem to head every negative list ever compiled yet we are STILL obsessed with the color of our skins. Do we have a choice as to what color we were born in? NO But can we do something about these negative stats? YES.
By the way, I got a letter to the editor published in the Washington Times today which addresses black on black crime in DC. It was “The letter of the day.” Go to Google, type in Hairston and Sutton and Times, it should be the first entry listed. I won’t give up and I’m a copy to the White House. KEEP HOPE ALIVE!
@chase…I don’t think it mattered to most black people, but if he was around my color I think he would be seen as more intimidating to other races. He still was the best candidate for the job…just a thought.
This idiot still hasn’t learned. Down, Down, Down, Silly little boy.
Sandra, When you dish dirt you come up dirty. But, that still does not give this idiot the right to go in on your skin color. His faults can be controlled and he still hasn’t learned how to respect women and control his behavior. He will be getting dropped.
@ Ms. Truth…..LOL thx for FINALLY answering my question. I kid, I kid! Naw I feel ya. I have friends like that also. I do say “girl” sometimes and I’m very quick to say chile too! I believe all gay guys have some sort of feminine ways. But for the most part I’m masculine, dress masculine, and enjoy masculine men!
@Nichelle, I see the pic of you in the black dress holding your phone
As a darker hue woman: Iam offended…not by the immature and lame ass jokes CB…I am more offended that as an (insert air quotes here) ARTIST you few of beauty is disappointingly limited. That’s unfortunant.
Wow Chris! You should be worrying about your album sales, radio play, and being a felon before you try and clown someone.
@ civil….exactly!
VIEW of BEAUTY: oops
Damn Sandra, you throw shade at that boy every chance you get, and get offended when he comes back at you????
And my Husband is high damn yella, and I call his a** Light Bright, Glow Worm, Moon Face, etc., but it’s all in fun.
@Mean, :lolol: The 600+ comments threw me for a loop when I get back on.
Sandra, its time to go hard on Chris…. I want to see one post a day sticking it to this kid, he is not humble only for show.
Ok I saw the “alleged” pic of SR on the other site and all i gotta say is……
Harpo who is dat woeman?
Everybody Hates Chris. Not really, CB, I wish you the best, baby. Don’t you ever again stoop this low. It’s not worth it. Walk with your head up high, and NEVER, EVER let them see you sweat. That’s the best revenge EVER!
As far as the skin color issue, it’s been around since the beginning of time, and it ain’t going away any time soon. We throw around this “preference” nonsense, but come on. We know there are a lot of dark-skinned men who “prefer” light skin because they personally hate their own dark skin. We are naive if we fail to acknowledge that. Over the years, I’ve heard so many black men say they want LSLH, “white/mixed/exotic women because they want their children to come out LSLH. It’s just a fact that there are some dark skinned people who hate themselves and use “preference” as an excuse. Everyone on the planet knows that, so why deny it.
I, personally, could care less who people like/date.
I smell a hypocrite. All the Lslh stereotypes that get pushed by Ms. Rose. Come on! If the lslh chick doesn’t happen to be Tiny they are gold diggers.
On another note, Chris’ mom should’ve told him the best way to get even with someone is to ignore them. You give people too much power when you respond to nonsense.
Also, as previously stated, a lot of people’s “preferences” are based on their brainwashed mentality thinking that the closer to white you are, the more beautiful you are. It’s just too bad we haven’t evolved. When are we going to start celebrating our differences and love ourselves instead of buying into this “self-hating” yes, “self-hating” way of thinking.
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
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A lot of people PERIOD value lighter skin. Even Asians with their “geisha girls” that put bird chit on their face to lighten the skin and yt people… yes yt people who have for centuries used skin bleaching agents that have been toxic. Queen Elizabeth I is noted for having using a toxic agent to lighten her skin.
yt’s didn’t start to actively get tanned until the latter half of the last century.
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That’s so true. All around the world the light is seen as a positive thing and the browner you are the more you’re ridiculed. In the caste system the darker ones are on the bottom. And in Japan women carry umbrellas so they won’t get a tan. Not saying everyone believes this way but it’s a consensus.That’s why it’s different to be made fun of for being light versus being dark though both is wrong. I heard until the 1940’s or so tanning wasn’t popular because it meant you had to work outdoors and thus you were of lower class. Tanning then became popular around the 1950’s or so because it meant you could afford to go on vacation and sit out to tan on purpose.
OOk soooo most of you have said celebrities are human just like us but yet the moment they act like “us” y’all get holier than thou and say they should be the bigger person. Most of you spend your day on her talking bout these celebs and gossip and the moment they respond to a blogger you say they need to be focus on their career. Imagine if you were as focus on your career rather than on SR commenting on them……
CB doesn’t hyave a problem with black people he just doesn’t like u Sandra.
MistaO says:
Sandra I HAVE NOT agreed with many of the instances of you “piling” on Chris during these past trials he has gone through (or by the way how you pile on the President).
I believe many of the instances were not truely necessary especially considering the fact that he is one of our own and the white media surely didn’t need to be amplified.
HOWEVER, I do agree with you 100 on calling him out on this clear cut attempt to get at you through trying to make a mockery out of your skin color. Hell, I like all of our tones regardless and to see how many Black people STILL suffer from stupidity like this is beyond comprehension.
But then again, they just refocused on a old study that showed how most people identify with white being right and Black being anything but. This is no different, many Blacks have not gained the mental tools to understand how they’ve been brainwashed by the society at large to marginalize Blackness. Sad and pityful. What’s worse is the fact that most of this “conditioning” today is done by other Black people.
Fools, just plain fools who will not learn….
You got it, MistaO! I just wish more people would call a spade a spade (no pun intended) and admit it instead of hidding from the truth thinking it’s going to disappear.
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I just want to say that if Chris wanted to go hard on the skin jokes, then he should have gone hard! His first joke is the only funny one. The second jokes makes no sense. How can you say you were almost her daddy but then say Chubacca said her ish is hairy. That would mean her mom’s ish is hairy…not hers you dumbAZZ! I get the third joke, but its wack.
#Funny Fail
#sityowomanbeatingazzdownsomewhereyoufailure
@mizzdallas – I remember when Trey went in on Sandra and made her face a Trending topic… *snickers* ..I thought he was wrong for that…
Chris “beat em down” Br >:(wm- ur career is OVER..
@PINKSGHETTI
“That’s so true. All around the world the light is seen as a positive thing and the browner you are the more you’re ridiculed. In the caste system the darker ones are on the bottom. And in Japan women carry umbrellas so they won’t get a tan. Not saying everyone believes this way but it’s a consensus.That’s why it’s different to be made fun of for being light versus being dark though both is wrong. I heard until the 1940’s or so tanning wasn’t popular because it meant you had to work outdoors and thus you were of lower class. Tanning then became popular around the 1950’s or so because it meant you could afford to go on vacation and sit out to tan on purpose.”
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Yes, and it is particularly true in women. There is a THEORY that women who are “fair” (blondes, LSLH blacks, light eyes, etc) are deemed more attractive because they are considered younger.
This association is made because melanin levels rise as people age.
Again, just a theory but I found it interesting.
attorneymom says: TEAM ATTORNEYMOM
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Dear Diary,
I think that I have become drawn into the ATTENTION SEEKERS MATRIX. It’s very dark and lonely in here. The ghost of brain cells past come and haunt me…they scream over and over (in my spooky voice) …”not here…not her..why did you allow us to die for the sake of pink cowboy hats”…they torment me…I think about cutting my eyes out. I want to drive off a bridge everytime I make the mistake of looking back at this BABYLON of IRRELEVANCY…I want to find my way out….Please help me
I still hear a lot people white and black differinate a light skinned person and a dark skinned person and say “I meant the Black one not the light one”…I always correct them and say both of them Black right?
My family still calls me the Black girl…because the majority of them are light. All the males in family even the 1 or 2 dark ones…proclaim their love for only light skinned, hispanic or white women. They all say they would NEVER date a Black (darkskinned) woman. Then they would look at me and say no offense to you…your’e pretty but that’s just how we feel. It made me feel like I was growing up on a plantation.
:shotsfired:>>>>me<<<<<:shotsfired1:
@ggouch-
I think I just saw the white light a little just now…. 
ggouch
you and
have an urget meeting
ggouch, you are officialy on time out!
@SANDRA…I DONT THINK CHRIS HAS ANYTHING AGAINST DARK-SKINNED PEOPLE..I THINK HE JUST DONT LIKE YOU…YOU CONSTANTLY BASH HIM IN ANY WAY IMAGINABLE AND WHEN HE BASH YOU BACK YOU CANT TAKE…THIS SHOULD BE A LESSON LEARNED..YOU REAP WHAT YOU SOW…BECAUSE CB HAS PREFERENCE YOU GET ALL OFFENDED..HELL I HAVE PREFERENCES…I DONT LIKE SHORT GUYS AM I WRONG BECAUSE I WONT DATE A GUY TALLER THAN ME…NO…I AM ENTITLED TO PICK AND CHOSE WHAT I WANT AND SO DOES CB. PEOPLE GET CAUGHT UP IN THE CELEBRITY LIMELIGHT AND ACT AS IF THEY ARE NOT AS NORMAL AS THE GUY NEXT DOOR…HE MAY HAVE MORE MONEY BUT HE IS STILL HUMAN…LEAVE CB ALONE AND CONTINUE ON WITH BLOGGING WHATEVA ELSE YOU DO.
@gypsyeyes & Carrington Well Said
He is saying what he is saying TO YOU and YOU only. When you pick at a scab it will eventually bleed and Sandy this morning it’s bleeding all over you. Now I’m not saying that I’m team CB but you should expect retaliation.
_____How are you going to NEVER forgive Chris Brown for doing something as a teen, but you have no problem promoting T.I. who has sold drugs to black men AND women, promote an “event” celebrating Gucci Mane getting out of prison as if he’s coming home from COLLEGE – but you can’t seem to give Chris Brown a break after all of this time?______________________________________________________________________
MEANT THAT’S NOT TALLER THAN ME
@ggouch, lol. I just choked on my lunch laughing at that.
ggouch says:
attorneymom says: TEAM ATTORNEYMOM
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Dear Diary,
I think that I have become drawn into the ATTENTION SEEKERS MATRIX. It’s very dark and lonely in here. The ghost of brain cells past come and haunt me…they scream over and over (in my spooky voice) …”not here…not her..why did you allow us to die for the sake of pink cowboy hats”…they torment me…I think about cutting my eyes out. I want to drive off a bridge everytime I make the mistake of looking back at this BABYLON of IRRELEVANCY…I want to find my way out….Please help me
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I didn’t want to die today but here you go o———< Jesus be a fence around this letter.
@ggouch
I WANT YOU TO GO TO THE NEAREST KORNA AND DONT COME OUT UNTIL NEXT WEEK TUESDAY…DONT LOOK BACK JUST GO
FOOLISHNESS
ggouch: I’m dying over here. She will be calling you a cubicle critter in 5 4 3 2…
CivilEngineer says:
@Al…it’ll always be a topic for discussion because some people can’t accept differences among people. Which is sad because if we all looked the same life would be boring!
I have a serious question because I’ve heard it so many times and have my own opinion: Do you think Obama would be the president if he had a darker skin complexion?
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No!
*wipes tears from eyes*
Chris Brown spoke about skin color because he truely felt that way. This is not only directed toward Sandra its directed toward all of his darkskinned fans. If he were not an idiot, color struck or respected women he would be more sensative toward his dark skinned female fans. There is always truth in a joke ask any comidian. He is the death dealer of his own career. Being that he is a celebrity and is surrounded by public scrutiny at this point in his career he should know better. Being he has no respect for women (period) he feels it ok to bash them. This will not be the first or last woman he e-gangstaz or punches in the face. His money will fall short so he wont be able to pay them to stay quiet. Career suicide.. 5,4,3,2,1
A friend the other day said to me: “You are a racist when it comes to light skinned people”….being that I have a handful of lightskinned friends and a fairly decent amount of lightskinned indivisuals in my family….I protested. “NOT ME”…my G-MA was lightskinned…
BUT as I sat and thought: Yep, I may just be a little more put off by light people. It may come from hearing things like “You’re cute to be a darkskinned girl” or from watching light skinned cousins who would come into town and be treated slightly different..as their mothers would scream “GET OUT OF THAT SUN”. WHy didn’t anyone ever tell me to get out the sun. Why didn’t my cousins get “You’re cute to be a light skinned girl”…
I secretly feel a sense of victory, as I attend the family reuions and those same light skinned cousins with their light skin, pink lips and long flowing hair….now look like the pale dead with their thinning hair that they still insist upon wearing down, even though you can see through it to thier scalps…with their cataracts infused eyes…and skin that shows off every single line in their prematurely aged face….
I hug them and say….”DAMN you’ve aged horribly…should have prayed to be darker.”
^^^Funny as hell
gypsyeyes says:
ggouch: I’m dying over here. She will be calling you a cubicle critter in 5 4 3 2…
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ggouch… don’t you already have a space in the
Your only other option is a meeting with Satan in his home of hell. He sent the message that he’s waiting to welcome you with open arms.
Dear Diary,
I think that I have become drawn into the ATTENTION SEEKERS MATRIX. It’s very dark and lonely in here. The ghost of brain cells past come and haunt me…they scream over and over (in my spooky voice) …”not here…not her..why did you allow us to die for the sake of pink cowboy hats”…they torment me…I think about cutting my eyes out. I want to drive off a bridge everytime I make the mistake of looking back at this BABYLON of IRRELEVANCY…I want to find my way out….Please help me
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ROTFLMAO!!!
No…I will not be going into anybodies korna today!! I’ll have that dream again…… ( Grabbing Ms. Truth’s leg) Don’t let them put me away don’t let them put me away!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!! Don’t let them (voice trails off)
I secretly feel a sense of victory, as I attend the family reuions and those same light skinned cousins with their light skin, pink lips and long flowing hair….now look like the pale dead with their thinning hair that they still insist upon wearing down, even though you can see through it to thier scalps…with their cataracts infused eyes…and skin that shows off every single line in their prematurely aged face….
I hug them and say….”DAMN you’ve aged horribly…should have prayed to be darker.”
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@Ggouch
Sandra, you diss CB everytime you get a chance..you only post negative things about him…I haven’t seen any posts about his charity concert for Haiti or about any other positive thing he’s done. I think you deserved it. Now CB…I love you but your jokes were CORNY!!!! I don’t think CB hates dark-skinned women — just Sandra!
Ahh…whoever said that they don’t crack on light-skinned people is a liar…I get called light bright and damn near white…Chiney…Coolie…devil eyes (green eyes) and the list goes on….That’s ok though cause I’m fine as hell and I know it
Hey, If you live in a glass house don’t throw stone. How you feel now?
I secretly feel a sense of victory, as I attend the family reuions and those same light skinned cousins with their light skin, pink lips and long flowing hair….now look like the pale dead with their thinning hair that they still insist upon wearing down, even though you can see through it to thier scalps…with their cataracts infused eyes…and skin that shows off every single line in their prematurely aged face….
I hug them and say….”DAMN you’ve aged horribly…should have prayed to be darker.”
I’m glad I don’t have to worry about that…I’m half Chinese, Half Indian (from India) and Black…..Everybody in my family ages well….People think my Mom is my sister. My grandmother is 76 yrs old and people think she’s 60. When I first started working here one guy thought I was the high school intern….
Deeeeeaaaaad!!!!
*walking around heaven*
I saw-re
but it’s true…. still be my friend ok
SR, you sound kinda HURT!! has someone finally pierced the armor????
scandalous1 says:
Hey, If you live in a glass house don’t throw stone. How you feel now?
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“How do I feel now?” Am I just suppose to understand this statement because your gravi is light skinned? This is why I have issues..
CivilEngineer says: And I’m not offended by his comments. I’ve heard worse. This just makes him seem immature and lame…atleast come up with some good dark skin jokes JEEEZZ!!
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and this is true. if SR if offended by this, think of if she had grown up in the south.
*Reads post*
Sandra, you need more people.
Chris having another little tantrum was bound to happen, SR hounds him every chance she gets. He’s young, immature and RAHT NOW needs to sit down and shaddup.
An-tee-way. Hey SR fam. Haven’t been on here in a long long while. School’s over (for now) so I have time. Whoohoo!
@rene
Is that you in the grav? I’m asking because my definition of LS is different than your pic. Still cute though.I wouldn’t ever guess you were mixed with anything.
I would consider you caramel moreso than light skinned. Ms.warrior from what I can tell is light.
@GG
You consider yourself dark?
My mother could pass for white and I call her “albino chick” ansd mello yellow” and my dad is so black he looks like a can of oil, my other half is also very dark and when he complains about the heat I tell him “you people were used to bein in the heat, mine were house niqqas” so I think all of us have made jokes at one time or another but that doesn’t make us racist. If we have a preference on who we date does that make us racist? I’m more attracted to darker men and have been all my life. I’ve dated light skinned men before but it’s just my preference.
Sandra you constantly referred to this man as “woman beater” but look at the people you uphold and you couldn’t even get a damn invite after all the shine you constantly gave them! Would you refer to T.I. as “Convicted Felon” TI blah blah blah?????
@ Man
Yes, and it is particularly true in women. There is a THEORY that women who are “fair” (blondes, LSLH blacks, light eyes, etc) are deemed more attractive because they are considered younger.
This association is made because melanin levels rise as people age.
Again, just a theory but I found it interesting.
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Never heard of that theory, but it sounds like an excuse to be color struck to me especially against women.
sandra, i have to say now, u do be on cbreezy at least twice a week. same with my beloved trey songz in the past. u be on them so hard, then they come back after all ur shots, just take it.
i wanna see this cat come back and get his career back. awful shame man cuz aint like he was bored and decided to whoop her ass that night. it’s like “chris who” now. not cool.
Brown says:
If we have a preference on who we date does that make us racist?
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I believe racism has to do more with supremacy, power, control, and thinking others are inferior more than anything else, so I wouldn’t call them racist. With that said, personally, I think some people (particularly men) are colorstruck. It’s a condition that has been around since the beginning of time. Being attracted so someone is one thing, but abhoring your skin color and dating someone because you feel they are superior is another. I love black men, but before I met my current man, if I met someone that wasn’t black and he was a great man, am I going to throw him away because he isn’t black? I think preferences can be very limiting. JMO.
ggouch says:
scandalous1 says:
Hey, If you live in a glass house don’t throw stone. How you feel now?
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“How do I feel now?” Am I just suppose to understand this statement because your gravi is light skinned? This is why I have issues..
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IM SURE THAT COMMENT WAS DIRECTED @SANDRA BOO…U KNOW IF YOU WENT TO THE KORNA LIKE INSTRUCTED YOU WOULD HAVE GOTTEN THAT STATEMENT…LOL…NOW TO THE KORNA YOUNG LADY
@Ms.kaylamomma says: thanks I changed it but I can’t see the new one
@ Anna thats keisha
Umm yea. I’m just about tired of Chris Brown. Fine as he may be, he needs to grow up and realize not everyone is gonna love him. Sandra is a blogger and she has a job to do, and even though sometimes her posts may seem cruel or unnecessary, GTHOH if you dont want to be offended. Chris Brown clearly stays on Sandra because as soon as she makes any sort of comment about him, he is ready bussin’ guns on his twitter page. She dont like you! STAY THE HELL OFF OF HER SITE because at the end of the day the free advertising via your twitter page helps her sleep comfortably at night! Quit crying whenever someone says something about you. MAN UP!!!
crzasallgetout
Yep that’s me…You don’t know how happy I am you think I’m caramel
…I get real light in the winter
I’m out by the pool as soon as it’s warm enough so I can get some color…When I lived in Jamaica I was like 2 shades darker than that pic…Sigh..
…people always think i’m mixed with white…I don’t know why…both of my grandfathers were born in China…my grandmother in India (she’s dark though) and my other grandmother is black.
I really can’t believe how this has snowballed so what sticks and stones may break my bones but names will never hurt me and I swear Sandra people who didn’t even know do now…this is getting crazy ppl on Bossip going at it also LORD
@PINKSGHETTI
“Yes, and it is particularly true in women. There is a THEORY that women who are “fair” (blondes, LSLH blacks, light eyes, etc) are deemed more attractive because they are considered younger.
This association is made because melanin levels rise as people age.
Again, just a theory but I found it interesting.
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Never heard of that theory, but it sounds like an excuse to be color struck to me especially against women.”
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Well, I got this from this book about 10-15 yrs ago but it wasn’t about black people and the author was white so I doubt he was even aware about being “color struck.”
He said thing about women, only reverse. You know the ole adage: “tall DARK and handsome.” It’s just a theory from an observation.
Basically men liked “fairer” women and women liked “darker” men, generally speaking.
@Rene
and when she pledged AKA I was floored.
I had a friend that people always assumed she was mixed. She was light skinned with hair past her butt and “good” grade of hair but BOTH of her parents are black. Both set of grandparents as well. I don’t know where she came from though. lol She was maybe the color of Monica’s dad. THe way she acted totally changed the sterotype of the stuck up LSLH theory. Ghetto.
Well, I got this from this book about 10-15 yrs ago but it wasn’t about black people and the author was white so I doubt he was even aware about being “color struck.”
He said thing about women, only reverse. You know the ole adage: “tall DARK and handsome.” It’s just a theory from an observation.
Basically men liked “fairer” women and women liked “darker” men, generally speaking.
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People around the world are color struck and a lot of men of all colors (or ethnicities) go for that same preference so that’s why I think it’s just an excuse to dislike browner women. The author thought that way because he has that prefence and probably just wants to justify with some scientific “reasoning”
My biggest problem with this is it wasn’t funny. Have these children totally lost the artistry of the dozens? But otherwise it’s par for the course for Chris; corny and 12 year-oldish.
Sandra, I know you are not from America, but you gotta know about the dozens. You see it on blogs all day everyday. Nothing is off limits, not even color. I sat in on a dozens session where one participant went in on the white, overweight girlfriend of one of the other participants WHILE SHE WAS THERE. Like you she got emotional talkin about how we know it hurts our feelings. Her crying added to the hilarity and we were cracking up. It’s comedy. It’s supposed to be funny. The problem is Chris lacks creativity in that area and couldn’t put the dark skinned joke together well enough for it to be funny. But I know of many comics who have. Again, color is not off limits and it doesn’t mean that he hates dark skinned people. You done hurt his little 12 year old feelings so he’s lashing out at you.
Beatherdown log off Twitter indefinately. U obviously can’t control ur emotions. I’m pretty sure Sandra is the last thing on Jay’s & Bey’s mind.
There’s this black, local, news reporter on tv. Everyone in town makes fun of how pale she is & think she needs a tan; they call her Michael Jackson.
Well Sandra looks like Chris got tired of you dragging his ass so he put that reverse gear on you. He found your vulnerable spot; you are not comfortable with your dark skin so you trying to turn this into a Chris hate black people war. Damn, as much as you twist the truth about him, call him vile names and throw up those hateful headlines, you should be able to handle a few “hood jokes” on you. He man up for 18 months and took your shit and you can’t handle one day. Chris twitter comments were directed to YOU and only YOU and had nothing to do with any other dark skinned person. I hope everyone is intelligent enough to see past this cow manure that you are spewing.
I don’t have a problem with what he said to YOU as I learned the acronyms LSLH from your blog. If you can’t handle being called darker than pass midnight then you need to stop the skin color jokes yourself. Better yet, call Sammie Sosa and get his left over prescription so you can lighten up and stop your skin color comments. If the only way to get hits is by trying to pitch this skin color war among black people then you need to shut this mother down. Some how I thought your site was beyond the cow sh*t than the sites but apparently, not. Now you are SUS.
funny
I don’t think Chris has a problem with dark skinned people. He just has a problem with SandraRose. Those are old your momma jokes. Sandra Rose started it–Sorry but Chris will only ignore people who are ripping him for so long. Glad to see him taking the bloggers on and standing up for himself. I am sick of all the haters. He just turned 21–leave him alone.
caroline
OMFG this boy has too much time on his hands!
CB…SERIOUSLY! Go read a book, do some xtra community service, anything else but twitter. With every update you type it shows your lack of maturity. Prove her wrong by doing something other than making an azz out of yourself.
In my DMX voice **HERE WE GO AGAIN**
Oh I forgot this:
We may spell words wrong, but isn’t GOD always to be in CAPS?
Well I guess he told you.. 2 snaps and a POINT
Still *sideyeing* any and everybody who can’t ignore one negative comment within a post but wants CB to ignore SR forever, he has ignored SR and other bloggers n the past. He didn’t have a meltdown he was having fun although the jokes were corny
He is in Brazil getting his paper moving on w/his CAREER that folks claim is over every other day
Rene you are light to me when I saw u in person I don’t consider u carmel at all sorry chica
Keep on grinding CB and stack your paper!
lol, yeah the jokes were corny.. but i’ve read SR say worst stuff about him in the past. So just man up, oops and take it… Remember people this site and most blogs are for entertainment purposes, most of it is just someones opinion and most isn’t facts.
Case closed. He’s an idiot…
@atlien, LOL. too funny. he’s not an idiot, just need to work on his stand up routine, or stick to performing (my preference). SR will be ok. thick skin doesn’t just happen over night, it comes with time.
Come on Sandra. You post ugly mess about people every day. Chris was getting back at you for disrespecting him. If you can’t take it, don’t dish it out. When I read his tweets, I didn’t get that he has a problem with darker hue people. I got that he has a problem with you. For goodness sake, every chance you get you call the man a “woman beater”. If you can’t take being made fun of then you need to get out of the game. After all, you come off as hating lighter skinned people. The way you go at Obama, Beyonce, and other lighter hue people, you can be described as a “self hater also. Grow a spine. Put your big girl panties on and deal with it.
CB is not trying to rectify his career…He made dark skin jokes, went off on 2 reporters in the last few weeks, have constant rants on twitter and is dating a stripper….His PR team should be fired and he need to disappear for a while. Not a good look at all for him and I don’t feel sorry for him either.
Take your own advice CB!!!!
LMAO @ you and CB Auntie……LOL!
Y’all acting like two shorties in the playground on recess raggin’ on each other!
Stop it!
The way he treated that radio dj the other week was horrible. Chris Brown, you are sad!
LAWD HAM MERCY!
I have a nephew CB age. When him and his friends get together they play the dozens and they are laughing hysterically. I listen in to hear what is so funny, WTF??? They go HARD on each other, light, dark, tall, short, fat, skinny, it doesn’t matter. They are kids and I am grown, we don’t find the same things funny. Chris is a kids and as a grown woman when you talk ish about him daily expect him to respond like a kid. Also, if he likes light women that is fine, would it be an issue if he liked dark women?
Sandra,
You are like my morning coffee, I gotta have you. Girl, you truly keep me entertained.
the only person he was coming for was YOU not dark skinned people. do you know how old those jokes are? those jokes were snapped on by blacks in the playground in the 80s towards other blacks. they are called snaps (old school) and its all for fun back in the 80s. all the BS you talk about on here regarding CB and the minute he finally comes at you its big news. what did you eventually expect? I wouldnt be lying down for the BS either. Everyone knows that THESE JOKES WERE ONLY DIRECTED TOWARDS YOU AND NOT DARK SKINNED WOMEN. STOP ITS OVER. i cant believe a grown woman and young boy are coming at eachother on twitter and a blog. and then you turn around and talk about twitter?
Sandra you know damn well the jokes were directed to you and you only! If any1 feels he is a ‘racist’ then ur just as sad as Sandra.
Actually Sandra he couldve really went in on you like Trey Songz did so you should consider his rant as just that >> A RANT!
next!
SANDRA STOP BEING SO SENSITIVE. Chris Brown is not racist. He just doesnt like YOU. lol. im not trying to be mean but dang you really are trying to stretch this out to have people jump all over chris brown when those tweets were 4 u
So, Sandra, did you finally calm down? Here’s something you should remember: “You reap what you sow”. You have sown “disrespect, rumors, lies, and so much more. You should expect to harvest of the same thing you sowed so don’t get mad when people like CB make fun of you cause honey….you ain’t nowhere near pretty!
I hate this “brown skin girl” defense. Shit, he probably thinks Rihanna qualifies as “brown skin.” She’s like a tanned Irish chick.
Sandra I recall you saying that light skin people carry baggage. You are always singling “LSLH” people out. So are you able to make this type of assessment? I certainly don’t think so.
Chris Brown needs help!!! He is soooo lame and his career is down the drain! Brown skin chicks are just as attractive as light skinned chicks. We must embrace our own skin and unique hair texture before anyone else will. Kinky does not equal unattractive. What he needs to do is get a fuc**ng life and begin a new career.
CB doesn’t hate dark skin ppl..he just hates YOU, SR!
..you constantly talk ish bout this kid, and it comes off very pathetic and obsessive..stop tryna play the victim role!