fanMAIL: A Thank You Note

Most of us hear the word Narcissism and we think of a man (or woman) who has an exaggerated sense of self-importance.

That explanation seems benign because we know someone who fits that description. Narcissists are usually well-dressed, handsome, beautiful, charming, funny, and extremely outgoing.

The problem begins when you fall in love with one.

That’s when the sheep’s clothing falls off to reveal the wolf who lurks beneath.

To your friends he is still handsome, charming, funny and outgoing. But to you he is a monster.

The reason I write about narcissists so much is because narcissism is a disease in our community. It has claimed so many lives, and yet there is no cure.

Narcissists seek you out if you have money, power and/or respect.

They also seek you out if you are nice, compassionate, sweet and generous, because these are qualities that they will never possess.

Narcissists eventually see these qualities in you as a weakness. Underneath his or her charming exterior, most narcissists are envious, needy, insecure, depressed, self-centered and extremely selfish.

No matter what you do, they will never see you as their equal. The children of narcissists get the worst of it.

The more you try to please narcissists, the more they will abuse you mentally, and sometimes physically.

A loyal reader who asked to remain anonymous wrote in to share her story with my readers. Through this blog she said she was able to recognize the danger signs of narcissism. She packed her things and left her narcissistic partner before it was too late.

Good Morning Sandra,

I have hesitated several times as to whether to write you or not partly because I don’t wish to expose my name. But if we may keep this email private; I would just like to thank you. It may seem strange that your site actually helped me escape an extremely abusive relationship but I have to thank god for making you the vessel to opening my eyes.

When I first stumbled upon your site I noticed you threw around the word ‘narcissist’ I was familiar with the term but not the full in depth meaning. After some research I knew to qualify my former partner who is also the father of my son as a complete narcissist. All your descriptions and symptoms so to speak match his qualities exactly even the narcissistic stare.

I thank you as I have opened my eyes and put a stop to the abuse when I moved out of the apartment we shared on September 23rd. He has, like a typical narcissist been in a rage ever since and has tried to “destroy” me in every way. However, as of October 12th, I decided it best for my son and I that we no longer communicate with the sick man any longer on any basis.

If it wasn’t for you and your site; I wouldn’t be free and blessed right now. Although I had to give up my car, all my furniture including televisions and other expensive items; I am now happier than ever.

Thank you and god bless:)



The reason I used a pic of Jay Z and Beyonce for this post is because they are both narcissists who feed off each other.

But Jay Z needs Beyonce more for her money, power and respect in order to achieve the power and respect that he now has.

Jay Z will never allow Bey to be greater than him. An example of this is the fact that his book “Decoded” barely mentions Beyonce even though this book is supposed to be about his life.

The reason Beyonce is barely mentioned in the book is because Jay Z (a classic narcissist) knows she would steal all of his thunder, and his small ego just couldn’t tolerate that.



 


  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z_wjBDrUsKo BROWNSUGAPOET

    Bravo to yhe lady for leaving an abusive relationship!

    But didnt sde say keep the email private

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    BROWNSUGAPOET says:

    Bravo to yhe lady for leaving an abusive relationship!

    But didnt sde say keep the email private
    ___________________

    I begged her to allow me to post the email and she agreed as long as I left her name off.

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    *Hugs and blessings* to everyone.

  • http://twitter.com/Southernicity81 LaTechGrad02

    But if we may keep this email private
    _________________________________________________________________________
    Sandra, now you know you’re wrong.

    My prayers are with the writer. Stay strong and good luck. It took guts and courage to leave that situation, be proud of yourself.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z_wjBDrUsKo BROWNSUGAPOET

    Oh ok, well it’s nice to know someone could actuall be helped through this site, especially amongst the sutff that some of your readers post!
    *puts on halo and turns nose up*

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iF9wY0kbQ1w ChaCha

    :yawn: *Hugs and blessings to you to AM :yawn:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YrBy3vXwZ_E Str8Cpt

    :coffee:

    Same ole, same ole…

  • http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

    Thank you for recognizing you weren’t in a healthy relationship and leaving! :clap:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iF9wY0kbQ1w ChaCha

    If it wasn’t for you and your site; I wouldn’t be free and blessed right now. Although I had to give up my car, all my furniture including televisions and other expensive items; I am now happier than ever.

    Thank you and god bless:)

    LOOK AT SANDRA SAVING LIVES VIA SANDRAROSE ONE DAY AT A TIME GTFOHWTBS :rofl: :rofl:

  • FloridaChick813

    Well i’m glad she was strong enough to leave the relationship, good for her!!!

    And I think the pic above of Jay && Beyonce is soooo freakin cute! I love them!

  • candibfly

    or maybe he wants to keep his relationship details between the two parties that matter the most, him and his wife. i’m neither rich nor famous and i wouldn’t divulge more than i thought necessary about my relationship. :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z_wjBDrUsKo BROWNSUGAPOET

    Sandra you should feel very proud you helped someone. Her life could have possibly been saved

  • FloridaChick813

    :rofl: @Cha Cha

    Sandra Rose = Oprah :shrug:

  • candibfly

    like i said on the other post…morning y’all :coffee: <—really water

  • ELove

    @Str8Cpt
    I CONCUR…

    The ONLY interesting thing about this post is @Cha Cha’s GRAVI (FIYAH…) :yes:

  • Destinee

    FloridaChick813 says:
    @Cha Cha

    Sandra Rose = Oprah ________________________________________________________________________

    :rofl:

  • mirsmommy

    I’m glad she had the strength to leave. :yes:

    Good morning yall. :waves:

  • Destinee

    Morning Candi!

  • ySoSerious

    These truly are the end days. :coffee:

  • Redeemed777

    Good for her!

    You know that old serpent uses human emotions to keep humans in bondage.

    More women need to wake up and smell the coffee. Stop making excuses such as these:

    “oh well he is my child’s father, so I must stay with him. ”
    “oh he is really a good person when he’s not mad. ”
    “oh I will be so so lonely without him. ”
    ” oh the Bible says stay with your husband. ” <— I can't stand this excuse!

  • Man, I just don’t care™

    :think:
    u were in an “abusive” relationship and u didn’t know until u read a blog?
    U left and had to leave all of YOUR things including a car?
    U decided that your “partner” couldn’t see his own son because u diagnosed him as a “narcisist” from the information on a GOSSIP blog?

    Um, something tells me the other side of this story is completely different. :yes:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iF9wY0kbQ1w ChaCha

    ELove says: …

    The ONLY interesting thing about this post is @Cha Cha’s GRAVI (FIYAH…)

    *bats eyelashes for like 3 minutes straight without stopping

  • FloridaChick813

    Mirs :waves: Hey booo!!!

  • tintin1979

    wow Sandra, you’re always on Jay and Bey’s a$$, I didn’t even realize that was them. J & B are a great couple and I don’t think Jay is a narcisist.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iF9wY0kbQ1w ChaCha

    Man, I just don’t care™ says:

    u were in an “abusive” relationship and u didn’t know until u read a blog?
    U left and had to leave all of YOUR things including a car?
    U decided that your “partner” couldn’t see his own son because u diagnosed him as a “narcisist” from the information on a GOSSIP blog?

    Um, something tells me the other side of this story is completely different.

    :claps: I see we are on the same page this morning…Whats up Man… believe it or not….you’ve been missed :yes:

  • http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#/profile.php?ref=profile&id=1335451522 therapist1911

    or maye he just wanted that part of his life to stay private…

    It’s sad that you took this person story and somehow related it to Bey and Jay.

    On Topic: Glad she had the strength to leave. How her will to live is stronger than her desire for him. Sometimes we leave physically but emotionally we are still there…moving on is extremely hard to do when you heart tells you to stay.

  • candibfly

    *backflips 87 times in a row in my wet tshirt thanks to cha cha [side eye]* hey destineeeee :cheer:

  • ySoSerious

    And I said I don’t care if Sandra likes to sleep in because, I told, I told her that I like my morning wood in the morning and if she doesn’t start posting first thing in the morning again I’m going to quit SR and what happened to throwback Wednesdays she promised us more throwback Wednesdays but we only got one I don’t like when people don’t keep their promises and if I don’t get a new post I’ll set this place on fire…

  • Destinee

    @Man…good detective work! :cosign: I was thinking the same thing.

  • candibfly

    hey pretty girl @flo :danban:

  • http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#/profile.php?ref=profile&id=1335451522 therapist1911

    LOL well dayum “MAN”…I didn’t even take time to think of that perspective.

    TOOO FUNNNY…sorry it is

  • ELove

    @ysoserious
    “Office Space” is ONE Classic Comedy (Real…) LUV that MOVIE !!! :rofl:

  • mirsmommy

    Heyyyy Flo :waves: How was your trip??? (I know I’m late with that question) :lol:

  • thaspinaltruth

    Sandra getting her Dr.Phil on.

  • Man, I just don’t care™

    Y r people refering to the person who wrote the email as “her” or “she?” No where does the writer specify their gender. They refered to the other person as their “partner.”
    I think this is from a gay dude. (Sandra please confirm)

    Nigga u wasn’t “abused,” u just lost the fight. :shrugs:

  • Ms. Thickness

    MORNING ALL…ROLL CALL

    HEY BROWNIE, CHA-CHA…HEY FRIEND CHECK YOUR EMAIL HUN, FLO HEEZY MY BREEZY, POETIC JUSTICE/ICE CUBE…YAY YAY, MIRS..WHATS GOOD IN THE HOOD, STR8 COLORED PEOPLE TIME, MANACE, TOOSTIE ROLL TO EVERYBODY WAS KNOG FU FIGHTIN…STOP AND BUST THE WORM..JUMPS UP..THROWS HAND IN THE AIR AND SAY HEY CANDI…CUES NEW EDITIONS CANDY GIRL :whistle:

  • http://www.twitter.com/cocoabana Cocoabana

    :yawn: at this post.

    Too early for a roll call but good morning everyone!

  • FloridaChick813

    *still lickin my lips @ Therapist’ gravie*

    Thanks @ Candi ;)

  • thaspinaltruth

    Boston Celtics :cheer:

  • ySoSerious

    Me too ELove. Me too. :thumbsup:

    “You see Bob, it’s not that I’m lazy. It’s that I just don’t care.”

    #DaTruth

  • FloridaChick813

    Nigga u wasn’t “abused,” u just lost the fight.

    ******************

    :rofl: @ Man – Welcome Back!!!

  • Ms. Thickness

    HEY YSO..THE WOMAN WITH ALL THESE CRAZY GRAVI’S…I SEE YOU LOOKIN

    THERAPIST…GOOD MORNING NICE TO SEE YOUR CHEST PRESENT

  • Anna

    Man, I just don’t care™ says:

    u were in an “abusive” relationship and u didn’t know until u read a blog?
    U left and had to leave all of YOUR things including a car?
    U decided that your “partner” couldn’t see his own son because u diagnosed him as a “narcisist” from the information on a GOSSIP blog?

    Um, something tells me the other side of this story is completely different.
    ~~~~~~~
    DITTO.

  • candibfly

    @thickness that is my jam and theme song (along with cameo’s candy) don’t get me to droppin it like it’s hot…well warm since my body hurts…this morning! *two steps* :danban: morning

  • CFREE

    Good for her, get the hail away from anyone that ain’t healthy in your life. Mind, body, and soul. Keep it pushing *fist pump

  • http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

    Some people just love to tease and taunt us :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iF9wY0kbQ1w ChaCha

    I mean come on Flo… I come here to get therapy… LOL Therapy

    Hubby: Why you packin my stuff
    Me: Cus its over, you gotta get out,Im leaving you
    Hubby: What I do?
    Me: Well I was on Sandra Rose the otha day I found out that you got the narcissist and we CAN NO LONGER BE TOGETHER
    Hubby: Who the eff is Sandra Rose and why she in our business
    Me: Just get yo shyt and get out…I dont love you no more
    Hubby: Well tell Sandra Rose to give yo azz a ride to work because Im taking the car, all the furniture including televisions and other expensive items
    Me: Whatever I will be much happier without you, Im not gon pass that narcissist to my son, in fact were gonna go get tested!
    :rofl: :rofl:

  • FloridaChick813

    THICKNESS :waves: WHOOOP WHOOP!!!!!

    Girl Brandi shouldv’e dug IN that a$$!!! Im so disappointed in her :rolleyes:

  • http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

    ELove says:

    @ysoserious
    “Office Space” is ONE Classic Comedy (Real…) LUV that MOVIE !!!
    October 27, 2010 at 10:28 am
    **************
    I agree! It doesn’t help that some of my co-workers act like the characters :yes:

  • FloridaChick813

    :rofl: @ ChaCha

  • ySoSerious

    :dead: @ Cha Cha

    How the hail do you get “the narcissist”?

    Just :dead:

  • teredrews

    U go Auntie-saving lives and chit

  • http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#/profile.php?ref=profile&id=1335451522 therapist1911

    Hey FLO!

    LOL @cha cha convo

  • http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

    ChaCha says:

    I mean come on Flo… I come here to get therapy… LOL Therapy

    Hubby: Why you packin my stuff
    Me: Cus its over, you gotta get out,Im leaving you
    Hubby: What I do?
    Me: Well I was on Sandra Rose the otha day I found out that you got the narcissist and we CAN NO LONGER BE TOGETHER
    Hubby: Who the eff is Sandra Rose and why she in our business
    Me: Just get yo shyt and get out…I dont love you no more
    Hubby: Well tell Sandra Rose to give yo azz a ride to work because Im taking the car, all the furniture including televisions and other expensive items
    Me: Whatever I will be much happier without you, Im not gon pass that narcissist to my son, in fact were gonna go get tested!
    October 27, 2010 at 10:33 am
    *************
    No ma’am…none of that :lol:

  • mirsmommy

    Man, I just don’t care™ says:

    Y r people refering to the person who wrote the email as “her” or “she?” No where does the writer specify their gender. They refered to the other person as their “partner.”
    I think this is from a gay dude. (Sandra please confirm)

    Nigga u wasn’t “abused,” u just lost the fight.
    ____________________________

    :rofl: I hate you. :rofl:

  • http://www.twitter.com/cocoabana Cocoabana

    Me: Well I was on Sandra Rose the otha day I found out that you got the narcissist and we CAN NO LONGER BE TOGETHER

    :dead:

    “The narcissist” sounds like a damn STD.

  • Ms. Thickness

    GIRL I ALMOST JUMPED THRU MY T.V. FLO TO HIT LEA…SHE WAS TALKING SH_T. TALKING ABOUT BRANDI AINT BOUT IT…IM LIKE UM DID YOU NOT SEE THAT GLASS CONTAINER SHE THREW AT YOUR ASS THAT HIT YOU, ALONG WITH THE KNIFE, THE GEORGE FOREMAN GRILL AND SHE PUNCHED HER. THATS WHY LEA WAS TRYING TO GET AT HER SO AFTER A WHILE. BUT HONEY I CANT WAIT TILL NEXT WEEK…YOU SEE LEAH FIGHTING KRISTEN

  • http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#/profile.php?ref=profile&id=1335451522 therapist1911

    So yall saying Sandra is the true Narcassist since she think she changing lives and what not???

  • http://twitter.com/Southernicity81 LaTechGrad02

    @Cha cha, :dead: I just choked on my drink.

  • http://www.twitter.com/cocoabana Cocoabana

    teredrews says:

    U go Auntie-saving lives and chit

    :dead: again at the sarcasm

  • Anna

    Cocoabana says:

    at this post.

    Too early for a roll call but good morning everyone!

    ~~~~~~~~
    Yall do roll call and forget about me each and every time. I may not type a comment, but don’t think I am not reading yours. LOL. Marsha, Marsha, Marsha!

  • ySoSerious

    Hey Greatness. :waves:

    Twisted sense of humor + Google = Gravi issues :yahoo:

    But you know you love me. :kiss:

  • Ms. Thickness

    ANNA WE CANT INCLUDE YOU IN ROLL CALL IF YOU ARE NOT PRESENT HUN..DONT TAKE IT PERSONAL.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z_wjBDrUsKo BROWNSUGAPOET

    I guess Im lost becuase I really dont find the humor in this situation

  • mirsmommy

    @ Cha Cha, here’s your free pass to the :kona:

    :dead: and gone.

  • Ms. Thickness

    @THERAPIST..THAT WILL BE CORRECT FOR $100 ALEX

    CHA-CHA…YOUR MONOLOGUE IS A MESS

  • NunyaBizniz

    “Narcissists are usually well-dressed, handsome, beautiful, charming, funny, and extremely outgoing” Sandra Rose
    ——————

    And Jay Z is a Narcissist? :blink:
    I beg to differ… :coffee:

  • MUNCHOSGIRL

    Decoded is about Jay’s lyrics and the meaning behind some of them. It’s not a biography, Beyonce is his wife and I am sure they have said numerous times, their relationship is something that they want to keep between the both of them.

    While I am happy for anyone to escape an abusive relationship, REALLY, I am.

    ChaCha, there is a kona somewhere waiting for your presence!

  • FloridaChick813

    Thickness, that bish snapped!!!! But I seriously wish she would’ve two pieced Lea’s a$$, and busted that sh.it all up!!! They have went through SOOOOOO MANY bish’s this season. And naw I didnt realize Lea was fighting Kristen next week. I thought those bish’s were BFF :shrug:

  • ySoSerious

    Poor Anna, Anna, Anna. Here’s a special good morning to you.

    :waves: :hugs: :yahoo:

  • ELove

    @cocoa
    Yeah… “The narcissist” —> It’s a MENTAL STD :blink:

    @yvonne
    It’s GREAT Therapy (To Me…) because 99.9% of the YT workers I’ve came in contact with ARE ACTUALLY that Dense & Stoopid AND most of them have Master Degree(s) & MBA(s) :rofl: Their the PERFECT EXAMPLE of Formal Education MEANS Absolutely NOTHING (MF-ing Real…) :yes:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    I’m happy for the author and Sandra site has afforded me opportunities of enlightenment as well….

    I hope all turns out well for her and her child

  • Destinee

    @ Man :rofl: :crying: Stop it!!!! It is too early. I need another cup :coffee

  • candibfly

    i can’t fool with cha cha today. :no: i’m running out of outfits to be buried in. all i got left are my clear boyshorts that say “spank me” on the butt and a neon pink halter.

  • Ms. Thickness

    YESSSSS FLO, THEY GONNA FIGHTIN

  • MissHarlem

    HEYYYY YALL! Damn Im always tardy for party :wail:

  • http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

    @Elove: I couldn’t agree w/you more. Now come n get this love Craig :hug:

  • Anna

    Ms. Thickness says:

    ANNA WE CANT INCLUDE YOU IN ROLL CALL IF YOU ARE NOT PRESENT HUN..DONT TAKE IT PERSONAL.

    ~~~~~~~
    LOL. I could care less.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iF9wY0kbQ1w ChaCha

    candibfly says:
    all i got left are my clear boyshorts that say “spank me” on the butt and a neon pink halter.

    :rofl:

    Seriously this email had to be fabricated to say the least no, Brown?

    pleae see #21.. and *throws lube to FloCita for post #69.. you naughty girl!

  • Man, I just don’t care™

    @EVERYONE

    :kiss: for Candi
    *palms Candi’s azz like LeBron with a basketball*

    just passin thru. Nigga workin harder than T.I.’s lawyer right now.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wbUdwp-yRqk&feature=player_embedded kingstonn

    Aw, I’m glad she had the courage to leave him. :thumbsup:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iF9wY0kbQ1w ChaCha

    hey Ms Anna….Hey Miss Harlem.. :waves:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    *bats eyelashes for like 3 minutes straight without stopping
    __________________
    SMH crazy azz :lol:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iF9wY0kbQ1w ChaCha

    Hey Big Sista Choco :hug:

  • candibfly

    fugg u been my nig?! *looks around* i mean hey boo boo, i missed those gentleman like azz grabs :coffee:

  • FloridaChick813

    :kiss: @Miss

    My sis is throwin me a “surprise” BBQ party thing for my birthday, and thats what she told bishs, “Dont be tardy for the party” :rolleyes: LOL

  • PAHairston

    Hello All. Sandra serious bout this narcy sh!t ain’t she? Hmmmm, I wonder as a child if she ever wished she’d been born a LSLH chick, like Bey. Hell, if she did, she should get over it. How old is Sandra, pushing 50? We shouldn’t go to our graves wishing for something we’ll never, EVER be. Like me, always wanted a round ass but didn’t even get a handful. Who knows, in heaven, I may be carrying round a wagon. LOL Peaceeeeeeeeee.

  • Anna

    ySoSerious says:

    Poor Anna, Anna, Anna. Here’s a special good morning to you.

    ~~~~~~~
    Thanks, I feel special. I’m trying to work and keep up w/this post @ the same time.
    The emailer was in a abusive relationship, not sure why she left. If I have kids I’m kicking you out. LOL. Who is going to leave a vehicle, furniture etc….

  • MissHarlem

    CHA CHA :yahoo: Heyyyyyyyyy

    :dead: working harder than T.I’s lawyer

  • ySoSerious

    @ Man

    Bet you can’t load up the Rush card like LeBron though. Oh, and welcome back and chit I guess. :coffee:

  • jazzyiest

    Morn-ting Fam! :waves:

  • FloridaChick813

    What did I do??? @Cha Cha :ashamed:

    @CHOCO, What in thee hell is going on in that gravie ma’am?? *squints eyes to see*

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    :hugs: @ Cha
    :heart: ROLL CALL

  • candibfly

    @flo save me 3 plates of ribs and brisket from the bbq. i’ll bring my own aluminum foil.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z_wjBDrUsKo BROWNSUGAPOET

    :blink:

  • Ms. Thickness

    HEY CHOCO…WHATS GOING ON WITH YOU

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    @FLO
    And you know I love controversy :lol: I call the pic Me Jane you Kong – x passed out in bed and I planted my foot on him it’s his arm you see and my leg tis all :lol:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iF9wY0kbQ1w ChaCha

    Who knows, in heaven, I may be carrying round a wagon. LOL Peaceeeeeeeeee

    :dead: cue *Dont be Tardy for the Party

    I guess Im off to go do some work…PEESH

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    Shay Shay Shay :lol:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wbUdwp-yRqk&feature=player_embedded kingstonn

    American’s really really like BBQ, I’ve noticed. Is it good or what?

  • FloridaChick813

    I got cha ;) @candi. However you should come. Make sure you wear the glitter boyshorts with the FREE WEEZY baby t-shirt and the skates though!

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    HEY BROWNIE, CHA-CHA…HEY FRIEND CHECK YOUR EMAIL HUN, FLO HEEZY MY BREEZY, POETIC JUSTICE/ICE CUBE…YAY YAY, MIRS..WHATS GOOD IN THE HOOD, STR8 COLORED PEOPLE TIME, MANACE, TOOSTIE ROLL TO EVERYBODY WAS KNOG FU FIGHTIN…STOP AND BUST THE WORM..JUMPS UP..THROWS HAND IN THE AIR AND SAY HEY CANDI…CUES NEW EDITIONS CANDY GIRL
    _______________
    How did you do all that :think: :lol:

  • http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

    PAHairston says:

    …Like me, always wanted a round ass but didn’t even get a handful. Who knows, in heaven, I may be carrying round a wagon. LOL Peaceeeeeeeeee.
    October 27, 2010 at 10:52 am
    ************************
    :lol:

  • candibfly

    umm kingstonn…nvmd i forgot u was a veggie…but its the bomb you hear me?! especially texas bbq *drools and faints*

    and good lort! if i met someone with lebron bank *faints again* i can’t even fathom :blink:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iF9wY0kbQ1w ChaCha

    @fLO YOU WERE Lucky poster 69 :rofl:

    Thickalicious you got mail!

  • FloridaChick813

    :yes: @kingstonn, the bomb diggity!!!!!! And I didnt know you were a veggie??? How do you do it???

    :lol: @Choco, I think I see it now!

  • candibfly

    @flo i will be there, just late (gotta make an entrance). but u know folks be tearin up the bbq soon as it come off the grill.

    i’m gon be wearin my “i hear el debarge” belly shirt, leggings, and some retro jordans. casual and sh1t so i can dance and play dominos.

  • miko

    wow! i wasted 3 minutes of my life reading that dumb azz post!…. NEXT!

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    The emailer was in a abusive relationship, not sure why she left. If I have kids I’m kicking you out. LOL. Who is going to leave a vehicle, furniture etc….
    ___________________
    Come on yall lets be nice this woman was obviously in a dark place and material things probably was not worth her very own life….

  • FloridaChick813

    And you right too!!! @Cha Cha

    #69 – Owwwwww :danban:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    @FLO
    Last nite I was like hmmmm this will keep them guessing :rofl:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wbUdwp-yRqk&feature=player_embedded kingstonn

    @ Candi, It’s ridiculous down here! I swear someone’s bbqing like everyday. :(

    @ Flo, I’ve never really eaten meat and my dad was a Rasta so he wasn’t letting me eat it either. It really makes me limited to what i can eat down here cause i’m in the Meat State. :wail:

  • Ms. Thickness

    @FLO…I TOLD MY BESTIE I WANT A SURPRISE PARTY AND IM GONNA HELP HER PLAN IT..LOL..I TOLD MY FRIENDS AT THE JOB AND THEY SAID BI_TCH IT AINT NO DAMN SURPRISE. I WAS LIKE DONT JUIDGE ME..AND ITS GONNA BE A SURPRISE CAUSE I AM WORKING ON MY SURPRISE ENTRANCE. :lol:

  • MissHarlem

    :hug: HEYYYYY BM

  • http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

    @Choco: It worked because I have my face >>>>>thisclose<<<<<< to my laptop trying to figure it out. After five seconds, I was like phuck it!
    :shrug:

  • jazzyiest

    That being said I’m super glad that this young lady left her abusive man. No one deserves to be treated badly and when a child is involved the best thing to do is to leave.

    However, I feel the word narcissist gets thrown around way to lightly on this blog and in general. My mother swears up and down that I’m a narcissist but she labels me that b/c I’m extremely confident and am willing to tell people how proud of myself I am and how much I love myself. I think I’m a wonderful, beautiful, smart and intelligent female and I exude confidence the way she taught me too. Now she says I’m narcissistic. :rolleyes:

    I say all of that to say that being confident and proud of yourself and happy etc. doesn’t make you narcissistic. Clinical narcissism is defined much differently than the way it seems to be used on this blog and in general conversation.

    To be declared a true narcissist you have to go and see a PROFESSIONAL…meaning a therapist. Again, people use that term too loosely to categorize arrogant, conceited and sometimes even confident people. Truth be told it’s widely known and has been proven that each of us ALL have some narcissistic traits in us. Again, to be declared a true narcissists has to come from a licensed psychologist/therapist.

  • candibfly

    i feel for u kingstonn. we eat bbq for breakfast down there. i don’t know how u do it. unless you just don’t like the smell and taste of meat. i know i can’t contain myself when i get a whiff of some food on the grill.

  • FloridaChick813

    @Candi, in that case, I’m gonna wear my gold cat suit with some all white chucks, a side pony tail (Punky Brewster era) and sum Raybans.

    We can do the dance routine we’ve been practicing with His and them :danban:

  • FloridaChick813

    Where u at @kingstonn

    But good for you! They say meat isnt good for us :shrug: But if seasoned right, IT TASTE SOOO GOOD!!!

  • lexdiamonz

    hey fam!!!! :waving:

  • aqtpie

    *hard side eye* at Sandra for using Jay and Bey’s photo for this post, although I’m happy Sandra’s blog helped someone. This is a cute pic of the “Carters”!! :cheer1:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    CAUSE I AM WORKING ON MY SURPRISE ENTRANCE.
    ___________________________
    :lol: and at Yvonne I know girl it looks suggesting but it really isn’t I didn’t want anyone seeing his face and you can in the larger pic

  • FloridaChick813

    :rofl: @Thickness

    Girl, I was sittin at my sisters house a couple weeks ago and looked at her and said “it sure would be nice if someone threw me a surprise birthday/going away party???” She caught on quick and was like “and who would all come to this surprise birthday/going away party?” :lol:

    We’ve been comparing notes. Its on the 20th @ her house. I’m renting a Moon Walk for the kids so their bad a$$’s will be entertained. I’m also buying some beer and liquor, everything else she is doing.

    I told her when I walk in I’m gonna say >>> :D “OMGGG!!! IM SHOCKED!!! ALL THIS FOR LIL OL’ ME???” :D

    :rofl:

  • CFREE

    I CAN NOT! BELIEVE I MISSED THE BAD GIRLS CLUB LAST NITE! I’m done! SOund like chit really hit the fan!

  • teredrews

    :offtopic:
    Who in GA have heard the commercial of Deal talking bout the “GhettoGrandmother”

    I was :dead: when I heard that chit

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wbUdwp-yRqk&feature=player_embedded kingstonn

    @ Candi, I got sick after I ate a burger from McDonalds. Like really really sick. So after that, I just figured that’s what i got for eating it.

    @ Flo, Texas. :rolleyes:

  • Anna

    Choco says:

    The emailer was in a abusive relationship, not sure why she left. If I have kids I’m kicking you out. LOL. Who is going to leave a vehicle, furniture etc….
    ___________________
    Come on yall lets be nice this woman was obviously in a dark place and material things probably was not worth her very own life….

    ~~~~~~~~
    Ok, you are right, but I’m not leaving my stuff.

  • http://www.facebook.com/evieannie speaknoevil

    JayZ book is about his lyrics…not his life.

  • Ms. Thickness

    CFREE YOU KNOW ITS GONNA COME ON AGAIN TONIGHT

  • ELove

    @yvonne
    Back At Cha Baby :hug:

    @MissHarlem
    Morning Boo & You might want to check Your Email (That’s Wassup…) :coffee:

  • CHARBEE

    CHOCO ……………
    IS THAT WHAT I THINK IT IS????????????????????

  • FloridaChick813

    @kingstonn, probably because your body isnt used to meat. Just outta curiousity, what DO you eat??

  • FloridaChick813

    Hey Speak :waves: Long time no see!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YrBy3vXwZ_E Str8Cpt

    Hey Thickums :)

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YrBy3vXwZ_E Str8Cpt

    <—-late I know

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    :lol: @ Cha and getting tested for narcissist

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    @Charbee
    :rofl: Noooo :lol: OMG I would be in the hospital

  • CFREE

    @JAZZY, I LUV EVERYTHING U JUST SAID! HAIL YES, LUV YOURSELF, BE PROUD, STAND ON THE ROOF TOP AND SHOUT THAT CHIT! :claps:

  • thaspinaltruth

    Sandra are you losing your edge? We need a :newpost: You been leaving us dry lately. Is there a bloggers drought or something?

  • ELove

    @Thickness
    I JUST Noticed the Revised NAME you gave me :blink::lol:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    @Anna
    I can dig it MA but you know if you leave your chit chit has got to be bad! Cuz I couldn’t leave my chit either :lol:

  • FloridaChick813

    Jazzyiest you better :preach: Aint nothing wrong with being confident!

    and :rofl: @Choco

  • CFREE

    THICKNESS, I HOPE SO, Im running behind I missed it trying to watch the housewives that I missed Monday.

  • FloridaChick813

    No DVR @CFree??

  • Anna

    Choco says:

    @Anna
    I can dig it MA but you know if you leave your chit chit has got to be bad! Cuz I couldn’t leave my chit either
    ~~~~~~~~
    LOL. Never thought it wasn’t worth taking. Some do get a whole new start.

  • intensemocha

    AT THE END OF THE DAY WHAT MOSTLY BURNS A HOLE IN “I BUT IN EVERYONE’S BUSINESS” ARSES-IS THE FACT THAT THE PEOPLE THEY TRY TO FORCE THEIR OPINION ON-

    1. MOST LIKELY DON’T KNOW THEY EXIST
    2. DON’T CARE WHAT THEY THINK TO BEGIN WITH
    3. ARE ENTITLED TO LIVE THEIR LIVES AS THEY PLEASE AND DO SO

    LOL-GLAD SHE GOT OUT OF THAT BAD RELATIONSHIP THOUGH

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wbUdwp-yRqk&feature=player_embedded kingstonn

    @ Flo, I didn’t use to eat chicken, but that damn Chick-Fil-A changed that. :lol: So just mostly chicken, and fish & salads & etc.. No red meat or pork. I don’t want to be all bloated like these people down here. All boxed shaped and stuff.

  • CFREE

    teredrews says:

    Who in GA have heard the commercial of Deal talking bout the “GhettoGrandmother”

    I BEEN HEARING THAT CHIT ALL WEEK, I WUD LIKE TO RAM MY FIST DOWN THAT IG’NANT MF-ER’S THROAT!

  • CHARBEE

    Choco says:

    @Charbee
    Noooo OMG I would be in the hospital
    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    **** I WOULD RIDE AND JUST THE TIP WOULD MAKE ME FEEL GOOD. THAT WOULD BE A PRETTY SUCKA DILDO OR ROD…………… :hump:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    **** I WOULD RIDE AND JUST THE TIP WOULD MAKE ME FEEL GOOD. THAT WOULD BE A PRETTY SUCKA DILDO OR ROD……………
    _____________________
    :rofl: and that’s exactly why I didn’t want his face showing bish be in here trying to fight all my e sis :rofl:

  • FloridaChick813

    :lol: @ box shaped! Girl I dont blame you! I’d rather be slim than bad body ANY day! You hear me?!?! LOL!! My BF and lil man LOVE Chick-Fil-A, but I dont eat it too much :shrug:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iF9wY0kbQ1w ChaCha

    Choco says:

    and at Yvonne I know girl it looks suggesting but it really isn’t I didn’t want anyone seeing his face and you can in the larger pic
    CHARBEE says:

    CHOCO ……………
    IS THAT WHAT I THINK IT IS????????????????????

    I SWARE…I KNO YOU SAID ITS NOT BUT MY FOUR EYES ONLY SEE PEEN NEXT TO YOUR LEG STRAIGHT UP PEEN :yes:

  • http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

    CHARBEE says:

    Choco says:

    @Charbee
    Noooo OMG I would be in the hospital
    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    **** I WOULD RIDE AND JUST THE TIP WOULD MAKE ME FEEL GOOD. THAT WOULD BE A PRETTY SUCKA DILDO OR ROD……………
    October 27, 2010 at 11:26 am
    *************************
    :shocked: *Putting my bagel down* Did I miss something???

  • CHARBEE

    And Auntie I think you stretching a lil here.

    Jay don’t need bey to feel confident. That nucca may look like Joe Camel but he has has hella talent and swag.

    Now could we please get a post worth reading?????????????????

  • CFREE

    FloridaChick813 says:

    No DVR @CFree??

    HAIL NAH, NEED TO INVEST IN THAT THO, DA HECK IS WRONG WIT ME! I GET MAD EVERYTIME I SEE SOMETHING I WANT TO WATCH ON OPRAH AND HAFTA STOP BY MOMS TO WATCH HER DVR

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    Some do get a whole new start.
    ______________
    :yes: GOD is GREAT that way : )

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    @Yvonne
    :lol: Charbee is horny so she thought my pic had an apparatus in it when really it’s his arm yall killing me softly today :lol:

  • CHARBEE

    @ Choco
    Giiiiiirrrrrrrllllllllllllll you can’t be having gravis like that up in here!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    I SWARE…I KNO YOU SAID ITS NOT BUT MY FOUR EYES ONLY SEE PEEN NEXT TO YOUR LEG STRAIGHT UP PEEN
    _______________________
    EUREKA! I wanted it to look like that :lol:

  • FloridaChick813

    I thought it was a peen as well, but now I see its an elbow :lol:

  • MissHarlem

    I Know FLO better scroll up and see that I spoke to her azz 80 yrs ago!!
    Carry On :coffee: <—– really Darjeeling tea

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iF9wY0kbQ1w ChaCha

    thickalicka you got mail

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    @Char
    :rofl:

  • FloridaChick813

    :lol: @CFree. I just got one a couple months ago and I dont know how I ever lived without it! A glass of wine and my DVR = :heart:

  • CHARBEE

    Choco says:

    @Yvonne
    Charbee is horny so she thought my pic had an apparatus in it when really it’s his arm yall killing me softly today

    ———————————————–
    You are right I have been on a week drought………….But when it happens imma hurt him realll baaaaad…………

  • FloridaChick813

    Bish I spoke to you first :coffee:

    *slaps Miss on the booty* How you doin sweetie?? You know its hump day, right?? ;)

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iF9wY0kbQ1w ChaCha

    FloridaChick813 says:

    I thought it was a peen as well, but now I see its an elbow

    That is one skinny *cough elbow :ashamed;

    @Choco…what the eff is Eureka?

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U942ZUY7aek OHoney

    I’m sure there’s way more to this story. Glad she got out of it. Hope she don’t go back to it…..
    Good mornign SR family
    Choco, Flo, Cha-Cha, Miss, Yvonne, MsOSoSassy, Kignstonn, STr8, Brown (what’sthe matta mama?),Elove, Thickness :waves:

  • http://twitter.com/jaysreallife jay Bee

    Good post sandra #savinglives HUH!

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    @Char
    Hey boo were here I just got off a 3 week drought effn ex had me looking at him liike he a GOD or something :rofl:

    @Cha
    EUREKA is a form of expression I think Albert Einstein said it!

  • Ms. Thickness

    I DONT SEE NO ELBOW AND I DONE TILTED MY HEAD TO THE LEFT AND RIGHT AND STILL DONT SEE NO ELBOW..FIRST THING I SAID WAS OH MY.

    CHA-CHA CHECK

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    :yahoo: Ohoney!

  • CHARBEE

    TO ALL THE REGULARS:

    HOW DO I GET ON THE BUDDY LIST. ALL THESE DAMN INDIVIDUAL HELLOS UP IN HERE?????????????????

  • KrayZKat

    To the author of the email: Congratulations that you got the strength to get out of such a toxic relationship with your child in tow. I’m sure many others garnered blessings from Sandra’s narcissism threads but were probably afraid to come forward as well. I’m sure someone will be blessed by your letter as well.

    Hopefully you have family and friends that will be much support for you and your child during this time.

    God bless you and your son!

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    I DONT SEE NO ELBOW AND I DONE TILTED MY HEAD TO THE LEFT AND RIGHT AND STILL DONT SEE NO ELBOW
    ____________
    You know damn well I’m too effn territorial to show a pic of my peen :blink: I did just mine didn’t I :lol:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U942ZUY7aek OHoney

    I see the leg Choco….that’s about all I can figure out…

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    @Char
    Your on it now – I say ROLL CALL cuz it is way to many names to name chit almost like 75% of this board is ROLL CALL!

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    @Ohoney
    The elbow is in the air he laying down with his arm over his face cuz the light was in his eyes… the original pic I like the contrast in our complexions he has a really smooth chocolately complexion

  • mirsmommy

    @ Choco, it looka like a peen. :lol:

  • MissHarlem

    @ FLO :ashamed: my fault *passes leather whip* You know I love :hump: day!!!!!!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U942ZUY7aek OHoney

    :think: yes….I think I see it now.

  • teredrews

    @Charbee
    **** I WOULD RIDE AND JUST THE TIP WOULD MAKE ME FEEL GOOD. THAT WOULD BE A PRETTY SUCKA DILDO OR ROD……………

    :blink:and then u need to :kona: for that missy

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U942ZUY7aek OHoney

    Haaaay Mirs, didnt see you in here mama! How u doin?!!

  • Ms. Thickness

    CHILD I STILL DONT SEE IT SO IM JUST GONNA THINK HE HAS A REALLY BIG PEEN THAT I COULD LOOK AT. LOL

  • http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

    @Choco: Thank you for the clarification. Y’all know I’m slow and I hate to miss out on things….

  • http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

    Hey O’HOney :love:

  • CHARBEE

    THANK YA VERY MUCH… :rofl:

  • OutsidetheBox

    :blink:

  • mirsmommy

    OHoney says:

    Haaaay Mirs, didnt see you in here mama! How u doin?!!
    _________________________

    Heyyy OHoney :waves: I’m good, just tired as all hail. How you???

  • FloridaChick813

    :waves: OHoney, Mirs, OTB

    Ladies *tips hat*

  • Ms. Thickness

    HEY HONEY…HOW ARE YOU HUN

  • http://www.modelmayhem.com/kimip kimip84

    good morning everyone :coffee: <——-really a 5 hr energy and some redbull

  • mirsmommy

    Heyyy Flo :waves:

    Did you get a costume for your lil man????

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    it looka like a peen
    ______________
    :yes: :wink:

    @Thick
    :nono: :lol:

    OHoney
    :clap: toldya

    Sandra don’t ban me for emoticon abuse LOL

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U942ZUY7aek OHoney

    I’m good beauties.
    They have me workin like that’s what I came here to do. I been studying as well. I have A&P and this shyt is killin me. :rules: <<<<me and my A&P notes lol

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    Have any of you heard of this new drink out Four Loko the chit is dangerous and can be lethal so do not consume! It’s described as a coffee drink but has liqour in it and the caffeine is a stimulant and the alcohol is a depressant they said you could pass out or but your body in shock or worse DIE

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U942ZUY7aek OHoney

    Good morning KimiP

  • http://www.modelmayhem.com/kimip kimip84

    @choco i know aloooot of dudes that drink four lokos.

  • http://www.modelmayhem.com/kimip kimip84

    heeeeeey honey :)

  • thaspinaltruth

    Nay Nay Nay Nay, Nay Nay Nay Nay, Hey Hey Hey Goodbye. Singing to TI. Starting that prison sentence on Nov 1st. Sandra when are they having his going away party? Why you holding out? I know you know.

  • FloridaChick813

    :yes: @Mirs, he wanted to be a ninja!

  • Tink Tink

    :blink: where the fvck is the gravi patrol…not everyone needs a closeup

  • FloridaChick813

    :waves: Hey Kimi

    :rofl: @Choco, that is NOT a new drink! Four Loko’s put me on my a$$! I like the watermelon one :D

  • ELove

    Heeeyyyy @OHoney @mirs @CHARBEE @OTB (Been MIA…) @kimip84 @choco @FLO @kingtonn @Intense @Anna @Candi @MUNCH (Rarely Comes Out…)

    I ALREADY spoke to everyone else EARLIER … :yes:

    And I’m with-holding My Tender-Kisses from My Boo for Ignoring ME :coffee:

  • ySoSerious

    I see Ms. Rose still playing by leaving us in the same dry azz posts for hours at a time. Milton’s Bic finger is getting migh-ty itchy at this point. :yes:

    (scrolling up to see what y’all talking bout now)

  • mirsmommy

    FloridaChick813 says:

    @Mirs, he wanted to be a ninja!
    _______________________________

    :lol: The youngest loser finally decided on a costume. Now he wants to be Spiderman, and so far, that’s who he wanted to be for the last 3 days. Before it was Screma, then Optimus, then Buzz Lightyear, then the Green Goblin, then Dr. Octopus, etc. :lol:

  • FloridaChick813

    :lol: @thespinaltruth, I remember chanting that to the losers when I used to cheer, LOL!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iF9wY0kbQ1w ChaCha

    Good Morning Ohoney :hug:

    OTB: You know your gravi is a bird :rofl:

    Choco: Eureka ….I see.

    Mirs: RACK STACK SALUTE

    KIMI: ANYBODY EVA TELL YOU YOU FAVOR THANDIE NEWTON

    THICKSTER:CHECK

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    @Kimi
    How do they act off of it that chit was on my local news this morning and there is also this synthetic type :blunt: that is legal to buy it’s sometimes called K2 or X3 it comes in a packet it’s tobacco sprayed with synthetic THC it’s not federally mandated just showed up in convenient stores and can be bought for $15 this one kid was interviewd on the news saying he smoke like 5 K2 Joints a day- do you know it is not illegal our local authorities was on the news about that – DAMN you gotta be on the look out for everthing and I asked my son last nite did he know anyone who does or has he heard of it he said no! But it’s mainly in VA SMFH

  • mirsmommy

    Tink Tink says:

    where the fvck is the gravi patrol…not everyone needs a closeup
    _____________________

    :lol:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U942ZUY7aek OHoney

    Tink….who you talkin bout?

  • FloridaChick813

    :waves: ELove

  • CFREE

    :offtopic:Anybody see the YouTube vid of Willow and Justin Bieber doing the Dougie? that lil dude kinda flyyy :yes:

  • OutsidetheBox

    @yso :rofl: @that damn gravi!

    :waves: @everybody. Hey E! Hey Flo!

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    :kiss: ELOVE

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    :hugs: OTB

  • http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

    OHoney says:
    I’m good beauties.
    They have me workin like that’s what I came here to do. I been studying as well. I have A&P and this shyt is killin me. <<<<me and my A&P notes lol
    October 27, 2010 at 11:50 am
    **************
    I'm just two days into my A&P course and I'm looking at the book like what the hell?!

  • thaspinaltruth

    @Flo

    Me too. But why I always think about Remember The Titans when I hear that song.

  • mirsmommy

    Heyyyy ELove :waves:

  • http://www.twitter.com/cocoabana Cocoabana

    OTB, love that damn gravi of Phoenix aka Selita!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iF9wY0kbQ1w ChaCha

    Tink Tink says:

    where the fvck is the gravi patrol…not everyone needs a closeup

    :yahoo: :yahoo: WHOSE GRAVI IS ILLEGAL RIGHT NOW… GIVE HINTS

  • OutsidetheBox

    :blink: @Cha Cha No I never noticed that :coffee:

    ROFL

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    @FLO
    What does it do though I guess it’s new in this area cuz they were talking about it on the news this morning like we have some reported incidents or alchol poisoning???

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U942ZUY7aek OHoney

    Haaaay OTB
    Yvonne girl I’m like I really don’t care about all these bones…really I don’t!!

  • West Coast Chick

    Sandra is so funny.. Beyonce is much bigger start than jayz.. clearly you know that.. there are people in this world that know of Beyonce and have no clue who jayz is..lol- I do agree that beyonce has “upgraded him”- but thats about it!

  • OutsidetheBox

    Isnt she fly @Cocoa??! I’m going to be a Phoenix for halloween. ‘Ye inspired me. Dont tell Redeemed. :rolleyes:

  • OutsidetheBox

    Ahhhhh thats the one I like! :thumbsup:

    Sipping that tea. :coffee:

  • Ms. Thickness

    HEY PHOENIX..I MEAN OTB

    HEY KIMI

    STR8888888 WHERE ARE YOU I GOT A QUESTIONS I NEED TO ASK YOU

  • Tink Tink

    I dont like to be a villian (whispers “the screamer”)

  • candibfly

    annd i’m back. work is interferring with my social networking :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iF9wY0kbQ1w ChaCha

    @otb ..did you watch the whole mini movie… shyt was alarming :rofl:

    Selita’s role kind of remind me of Le Lu on 5th element..remember that movie?

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iF9wY0kbQ1w ChaCha

    “the screamer” :think:

  • FloridaChick813

    :rofl: @Mirs, they run through ideas dont they?? Girl lil man made a list of what he’s been all his life, asking me if I remember what he was when he was 2??? UMMMM, I HAVE NO IDEA :shrug:

  • http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

    So, y’all mean to tell me this is allllll we get today? One lil ole post? Don’t get me wrong, I am happy this person left their schit-u-ation and stuff….your happiness is most important to me….but dag? Can a sista get some celebrity gossip? A Dd Phil moment? Something…
    anything….

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U942ZUY7aek OHoney

    Haaaay CandiB :dance:

  • Ms. Thickness

    YES…AFTER A WHILE I TURNED..THEM PEOPLE KNOW THEY LOOKED BUSTED AT THAT TABLE…THE PHOENIX LOOKED BETTER THAN ALL THEM AND SHE WAS SUPPOSED BE A CREATURE. DID YA’LL SEE THE DUDE WITH THE COMBED BACK FRO WITH THE GOLDS IN HIS MOUTH. AFTER A WHILE I TURNED

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    @Cha
    Let me help you I believe TINK is referring to my gravi :rolleyes:

  • http://www.twitter.com/cocoabana Cocoabana

    all types of :dead: at the screamer! I ALREADY KNOW WHO HE’S TALKIN BOUT.

  • MissHarlem

    @ MY BOO Ummmm check that email I sent about 30 mins ago. Stop withholding my kiss SMH

  • ySoSerious

    After catching up on the comments, I see it’s already warm enough in here to start a nice little inferno so I think Milton’s gonna put his lighter away next to his Swingline.

    And why am I not surprised that Choco is once again the smoke behind all this fiery peen talk. :lol:

  • candibfly

    @yvonne there’s a new post up but it’s about ciara :yawn: and jaden smith and justin bieber

    *backflips into a pool of chocolate syrup* heyyyy OHoney :danban:

  • http://www.twitter.com/cocoabana Cocoabana

    Cha Cha, fifth element is a CLASSIC!

  • FloridaChick813

    :yes: @CFree, he is a fly kid!

  • thaspinaltruth

    @Tink

    I like Villians, THe Joker, Two Face, Denzel in Traning Day, O’dog from Menace to Society, Lebron James, Kanye, 50 Cent, etc….

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U942ZUY7aek OHoney

    Choco I think you’re what Sandra describes as a “Narcissist” you akways think someone is talkin about you……then again…..maybe you’re right

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    I haven’t even watched Ye’s video there must be something wrong with my attention span

  • candibfly

    *speeds past in jet fueled roller blades* heyyyy cfree :cheer:

  • FloridaChick813

    :lol: @Choco, to me its like downing 2-3 shots of patrone. A bish starts leanin to the left. LOL

  • Ms. Thickness

    COCOA EMAIL ME CAUSE I AM LOST…mizzthickness79 at hotmail

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    Choco I think you’re what Sandra describes as a “Narcissist” you akways think someone is talkin about you……then again…..maybe you’re right
    _______________
    Really now I’m a Narcissist or am I intuitive I’ll take INTUITIVE :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U942ZUY7aek OHoney

    Ok Choco that’s fine…….INTUITIVE it is.

  • Ms. Thickness

    CANDI DO YOU HAVE LIFE INSURANCE HONEY?

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    @FLO
    Patron effs me up but the Four LOKO chit sound like I might walk into a WALL and wonder why I can’t go any further :rofl:

  • FloridaChick813

    Ms. Thickness says:

    CANDI DO YOU HAVE LIFE INSURANCE HONEY?

    ******************

    :rofl:

  • candibfly

    @thickness umm i don’t even know :/ they told me these were safe tho lol

  • Ms. Thickness

    MIRS CHECK YOUR MAIL PLEASE AND THANK YOU.

  • http://www.twitter.com/cocoabana Cocoabana

    Tink, are you talking about intensemocha? You need to stop boy!

  • candibfly

    ok i’m not hip on the latest drinks and whatnot, fugg is four loko? i been hearing about it nonstop *gets a pen and pad*

  • Tink Tink

    Choco not you, 146

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    backflips into a pool of chocolate syrup*
    ________________
    :lol:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    @Tink
    Why didn’t you just say so :lol: and you know I can’t see new gravi’s I still see vampire girl so I still wouldn’t know what pic you talkn bout :cry: but mmm what is that gravi of???

  • Ms. Thickness

    HELLLL NAH…TINK THATS NOT NICE..

    HELL I COULD HAVE BEEN THE SCREAMER CAUSE I TALK IN CAPS AS WELL. HOWEVER, PLEASE KNOW THAT THE SYSTEM I WORK IN (WHEN I DO WORK) REQUIRES ME TO TYPE IN CAPS…SO I LEAVE IT ON SO I DONT HAVE TO GO BACK AND FORTH. YOU KNOW JUMP FROM SCREEN TO SCREEN WHEN I NEED TO PRETEND.

  • ySoSerious

    Damn Cocoa. You just gone set it out like that huh? :lol:

    For the record, if that is who he was talking bout I have to disagree. I think it is a very nice pic. :shrugs:

  • Ms. Thickness

    CANDI I DRINK WHAT I KNOW AND I DONT KNOW THAT ONE…

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    @Candi
    I heard about it on the news today its this coffee liqour drink that has the potential to be deadly… have you heard of K2 that fake weed

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U942ZUY7aek OHoney

    See Choco, not ALL negative things on here are about you. :D

  • Tink Tink

    :ashamed: sorry.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iF9wY0kbQ1w ChaCha

    Cocoabana says:

    Tink, are you talking about intensemocha? You need to stop boy!

    Tink Tink says:

    Choco not you, 146

    THE SCREAMER :danban1: :danban:

  • Ms. Thickness

    HONEY..CHOCO KEEPS HER DEFENSES UP CAUSE SHE KNOW THAT IT SOON WILL. :lol:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    @Tink
    OMG! I just figured it out – Im dumb as fuk cuz screamer should’ve given it away – oh well blame it on the alcohol :lol:

  • Ms. Thickness

    CHA CHA CHECK

  • FloridaChick813

    Its okay @Thickness, comes in a can at your local Mini Mart. Actually taste pretty decent, but i’m not really a drinker, so…… :shrug:

  • OutsidetheBox

    :dead:

    :dead:

    Y’all know dead birds have diseases and chit. just toss me over there. :kona:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    @Thick
    Huh Man girl pls they love coming for CHOC :coffee:

  • http://www.twitter.com/cocoabana Cocoabana

    :shrug: They asked @ Yso.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iF9wY0kbQ1w ChaCha

    @COCOA :hug: HEY BIRTHDAY BFF

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    :rofl: Cha and her dancing

  • candibfly

    @choco someone said it had crack in it :/

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    sorry.
    ___________
    :hugs: :kiss: it’s all better now lol

  • http://www.modelmayhem.com/kimip kimip84

    @tink is it me??? i don’t scream LOL!!!
    @chacha nah thats a new one…i been told i look like so many different people LOL.
    @choco they act a damn fool LOL and they smoke that spice with it. Its that corner store mary jane

  • http://www.twitter.com/cocoabana Cocoabana

    :waves: HEYY CHA CHA LICIOUS!

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    @Candi
    No girl I don’t think so the woman on the news didn’t mention that but she said the caffeine/stimulant and alcohol/depressant is a bad combination for your body – your body could go into shock chit is crazy girl tell me have you heard of K2 that fake weed you can buy out of convenient stores

  • candibfly

    no i haven’t. i’m not hip on the lastest reefer :oops:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    they act a damn fool LOL and they smoke that spice with it. Its that corner store mary jane
    ____________
    :yes: okay this is what I’m talkn bout where you live again if you don’t mind me asking cuz I wonder if it’s in the south- VA is south for me cuz the K2 has not hit MD to my knowledge

  • http://www.modelmayhem.com/kimip kimip84

    i live in TX

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    @Candi
    It’s not real :blunt: chit is synthetic and legal not mandated and can be bought in a convenient store and kids are smoking it and Police can’t do a damn thing about it cuz it’s not illegal but you will get the same affect as weed Im just amazed at the chit they come up with

  • Ms. Thickness

    BRB GOING ON A LUNCH DATE

  • CFREE

    @FLO, HE IS! IM TAKING MY DAUGHTER TO HIS CONCERT IN DEC. AS A XMAS PRESENT, SHE’S GONA LUV IT! :yahoo:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    Are folks at lunch or in a new post I’m inclined to think at lunch :think:

  • ELove

    Ahhhhhhhhhh… Come Over Here Boo (Warm-n-Tingly…) :hug: :kiss:

  • heavn_sent

    @ Cocoa: IS that Osi?????????

  • MissHarlem

    *runs over and sits on my Boo’s lap* :kiss:

  • intensemocha

    Tink Tink says:

    I dont like to be a villian (whispers “the screamer”)

    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

    ALWAYS THE BIATCH WHO HAS NO PIC POSTED TALKING SLICK OUT THE SIDE OF THEY FUGGIN NECK

    HOW BOUT BIATCH **** YOU SIT AND SPIN AND KICK MOTHERFUGGIN ROCKS

    CAUSE I DON’T GIVE A FLYING FUG WHAT YOU THINK-MY HUSBAND LOVES WHAT THE FUG I LOOK LIKE

    AND I’VE ALREADY RECEIVED COMPLIMENTS ON THE PIC FROM SANDRA POSTERS

    DROP DEAH HOE AND POOT BROCCOLI

  • His_Mommy623

    Hey Ya’ll… Good post @SR

  • http://www.twitter.com/cocoabana Cocoabana

    :dead: :rofl:

  • OutsidetheBox

    HOW BOUT BIATCH **** YOU SIT AND SPIN AND KICK MOTHERFUGGIN ROCKS

    Sit and spin fool! :rofl: :rofl: :dead:

  • OutsidetheBox

    DROP DEAH HOE AND POOT BROCCOLI

    :rofl: :rofl:

    I fukking love Intense :rofl:

  • intensemocha

    BEEN REAL EASY JUST DOING ME-NOT FUGGIN WITH NO BODY AND SHIAT

    AND SOME TINK A LINK BIATCH WHO BY THE WAY IS A MOTHERFUGGIN PUNK AZZ BIATCH-TALKING SIDEWAYS

    TRTCK PUHLEEZE-GIVE ME A FUGGIN REASON TO GET KEYBOARD DEEP IN YO AZZ

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    Y the fuk I come in this post while Im eating lunch smdh poot and broccoli :nono:

  • speakinmymind

    can somebody hit me on the right of my head pleazz?!? my right eye is stuck from rolling it so hard when i read this b.s. :blink: :rolleyes:

  • http://www.amazon.com/gotta-make-Heaven-going-thru/product-reviews/1448656729/ref=sr_1_1_cm_cr_acr_t iscream

    MMMM how I wish my mouth was Jay’s and in that first picture. :ido:

    I bet he had a hand full.. he can’t help it. :kiss:

  • http://www.amazon.com/gotta-make-Heaven-going-thru/product-reviews/1448656729/ref=sr_1_1_cm_cr_acr_t iscream

    Mmmmm How I wish my mouth was Jay’s *hand in that first picture. :ido:

    I bet he had a hand full…. He can’t help it. :kiss:

  • Ms. Thickness

    KEYBOARD DEEP.. :rofl: NOW THAT WAS FUNNY

    TINK IS A DUDE INTENSE

  • http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

    Not the keyboard deep! Damn son.. :lol:

  • ySoSerious

    :dead: @ intense

    I think he forgot to ask about you. :wink:

    @ iscream

    I like that emoticon. Is that yours or did Sandra add a new one when I wasn’t looking?

  • Ms. Thickness

    YSO..WE HAVE A NEW ONE GIRL

  • OutsidetheBox

    Dont do it IM :rofl: I am dying over here and I would love for you to go in. But the :pocorn: stale and youre right you got plenty of compliments on your gravi.

    Tink just being a man.

  • http://www.amazon.com/gotta-make-Heaven-going-thru/product-reviews/1448656729/ref=sr_1_1_cm_cr_acr_t iscream

    @Yso

    It belongs to the Rose. :yes:

  • ySoSerious

    :ido:

    :grin:

    #Giddy@NewEmoticons
    #I’mSoSpecialSometimes

  • FreeToSpeakUp

    Redeemed777 says:

    ” oh the Bible says stay with your husband. ” <— I can't stand this excuse!

    ——————–

    Blasphemy at its best! Please read Matthew 5:31-32, Matthew 19: 3-9, Luke 16:18, Romans 7:2-3, 1 Corinthians 7:10-15. Do better Redeemed. :coffee:

    P.S. Ladies please do your own research and take blogs into stride. A lot of information is misleading and comments like this can possibly allow you to make bad decision.

  • Daisy

    :rofl: