After local club promoter Slimm posted this video on his Twitter page, the media wondered if they were engaged. Vivica’s rep confirmed that Slimm, 27, popped the question to Viv, 46, on December 26, but actually, he has referring to her as his fiancee for months now.
The media has been pretty much ignoring Slimm ever since I introduced him to the world on January 11.
Slimm is a great guy who didn’t deserve to be disrespected and cut out of pictures with his honey. But he didn’t let the media slight bother him.
Anyway, congrats to the happy couple. Don’t forget you read about them being a couple first on Sandrarose.com!
Congratulations Viv…hope this one works out for you!
Gone Viv!
I’m super excited for her!
Woo. Hoo.
(goes off to collect quarters to bounce off Viv’s head when everyone else is throwing rice after the wedding)
Sandra you are not going to say anything about her dressing age appropriate?? SMH>>>>
19yrs age difference?? hummmm….hope it works out..
Congrats!!
Congrats to Viv! I wish them nothing but happiness. Marriage is a beautiful thing!
19 years age gap huh? Well if it worked for her…
*checking pre-k registry for new husband*
Viv got that old, good puss! That nigga is fine…with a hat on.
**waits for Kwall’s letter**
Her wedding banner hanging at the reception should say:
“I gotcho’ azz nah, nigga!” *with a pic of handcuffs and a whip under it*
Why is Vivica dressed like Miss Myra in that episode where she played the hooker at the bus station on Martin, I think?
Sandra- you not going to say anything about that?
Looking like she’ll suck a wee-wee for some tussy, geritol and a box of depends.
nice ice! congrats!
Year of the Cougar

Auntie Viv, Imma need you to get him to sign a prenup, mmkay hun? *kisses*
Lol @ yall comments. Congrats to her.
So she’ll be 50 & he’ll be 30? Yeah OK.
Yeah I don’t like what she is wearing and I opted out of that same look NYE except I had on tights and still wasn’t feeling it
Vivica, Lisa Raye, Demi and a few others should just get pictures of a Venus Fly-Trap tatted on their vaginas, cause I swear….. :confused:
Ya’ll all batshyt crazy up in here… Let Viv live
That nicca aint gon be calling hisself Slimm for too much longer, he gon have names like Stressed, Worn, Weak flucking with Vivica.. No but for real if they have some babies, them babies gonna come out looking old as hail… all they names is gonna be Olivia 
That’s a niiiiiice ring. Go ‘head <– no pun intended
Viv looks a hot mess.
all they names is gonna be Olivia
Y you bring color purple into this 
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Congrats Viv (with your “touched” looking face)
My big sis is engaged now too!!
Al-Ameera says:
So she’ll be 50 & he’ll be 30? Yeah OK.
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When her implants go from being boobs to click-clacks he’ll wake up.
Where do yall see a ring at?
I don’t think there’s anything wrong with what she’s wearing
I wish that she will leave the plastic surgery alone! Other than that I wish them the best.
ummm….i got nothin
Dearest Viv,
I am happy for ya…More important than a dress or wedding registry…you got a fertility doc picked out yet to help your dayum near dried up ovaries drop some eggs? You felt the need to announce on Wendy that you still bleeding erry monf….bet five you have had one on retainer for MONTHS now…
Cannot wait to see which lacefront you break out for that aisle walk…I know that hair gonna be FIYAH…speaking of fiyah…yall might need to skip the candle lighting aspect. Since you are fond of that synthetic and all…that P.Diddy vid where that hoe hair lit up like the 4th of July got ME shook and reconsidering my own hair choices…
Love,
Your Sister in Christ,
Kwall
Come on Sandra…give me the real scoop. Why is he marrying an egg free woman if he has no kids? What’s the deal? Is he gay? Need a mother figure? Slow? Wants to be with a celeb? What’s really going on?
@Choco there is a video up there under the 1st pic
ChaCha says:
No but for real if they have some babies, them babies gonna come out looking old as hail…
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Yep cuz her eggs are already antiques.. If she can even have kids anymore. But with her money she probably do one of those rejuvicooch things to knock the dust off them so they can have one.
Vivica looks HORRIBLE!!
@Peach
Oh I can’t see the vid but what is it of him proposing?
I feel like he has some young tender stashed somewhere….Don’t let them make you no fool, Auntie!!
Sandra why did you not run that photo of her new facial work…the one where she was looking Jocelyn Wildenstein-ish…
Cannot wait to see which lacefront you break out for that aisle walk…I know that hair gonna be FIYAH…speaking of fiyah…yall might need to skip the candle lighting aspect. Since you are fond of that synthetic and all…
can’t…..breath 
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Neither do I Cocoa
..the bish is grown… I wish somebody would tell me how to dress IDAF how old I am or get. Viv aint your usual 46 year old, that bish still wearing midriffs and shyt cus her body is fly and will give some 20 year olds a run for the money!
@ Choco.. hey PRETTY and SEXXI bish… I dont see no rang either
I am so happy for them. They seem to be very happy with one another. Congrats!!!
No but for real if they have some babies, them babies gonna come out looking old as hail… all they names is gonna be Olivia
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Or Benjamin…
As in Buttons…
In my Taraji P. Henson voice….”Bless his heart…he was BORN OLD”
Congrats to them! Met Slimm recently seems like a nice guy! Get it!
Congratz! As long as they are happy that’s all that matters
Why ain’t Slimm tell Viv that she looks like the Bride of Chucky wit her new cheek implants?
(jiggles pockets full of quarters, dips in, grabs three and throws one @WUT for #8, SASO for #12&20 and ChaCha for #21)
I got plenty more where those came from if y’all don’t start behaving.
No @ Choco, he’s just showing the ring.
Congratulations to Viv, I guess. I’m still on the fence after reading that “open letter”.
Hello TINK A LINK
KWALL… bish I just added you to my WILL… you can have all of these chairs I keep falling out of laughing at your azz
*somersaults in to a pool of plastic color balls HEY CANDI boo :wave:
Congrats to them! No exclusive on the ring Miss Sandra? Did Viv get a bigger boob job?
kwall says:
Dearest Viv,
I am happy for ya…More important than a dress or wedding registry…you got a fertility doc picked out yet to help your dayum near dried up ovaries drop some eggs? You felt the need to announce on Wendy that you still bleeding erry monf….bet five you have had one on retainer for MONTHS now…
Cannot wait to see which lacefront you break out for that aisle walk…I know that hair gonna be FIYAH…speaking of fiyah…yall might need to skip the candle lighting aspect. Since you are fond of that synthetic and all…that P.Diddy vid where that hoe hair lit up like the 4th of July got ME shook and reconsidering my own hair choices…
Love,
Your Sister in Christ,
Kwall
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Please bury me wit my “Hello Kitty” boy shorts and my Nintendo DSI.
I…..can’t……stop…….laughing…..at……y’all
(grabs another handful of quarters cause I’m gonna need them in this damn post)
Tiffani at Walgreens… I see the registration post back up…have you registered yet hun? Bet FIVE you gave Redeemed the wrong meds on 12/31… and po Redemption/Redeemed/Carrie momma is in a homeless shelter right NOW in Arkansas cause of your oversight…and she keep telling the folks that Mary Magdalene IS her real name…
Look at whatchu done did Tiffy.
I finally got through with registering for this site. I read the comments everyday. Just wanted to say Good Morning from Philly, PA.
Congrats to Viv and her boo. Don’t know about the babies but she can afford a surrogant.
Bird says:
No exclusive on the ring Miss Sandra?
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Nope. I think like a man: rings are no big deal to me.
What’s up Cha Cha, Bird, Peachpussycat, kwall, Ms. Kitty Pop…..
(takes breath)
Civil, Tink Tink, Smokie….
(scrolls up)
Just hey to everyone!!!
I like Vivica but is she for real?! She wants to have a baby this late in the game is ridiculous…
kwall says:
Tiffani at Walgreens… I see the registration post back up…have you registered yet hun? Bet FIVE you gave Redeemed the wrong meds on 12/31… and po Redemption/Redeemed/Carrie momma is in a homeless shelter right NOW in Arkansas cause of your oversight…and she keep telling the folks that Mary Magdalene IS her real name…
Look at whatchu done did Tiffy.

January 4, 2011 at 11:30 am
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@ Ysolita… OUCH… that was my head
but thanks, you know I need them quarters to wash and shyt
@Cha
I was drunk as chit last nite 
I think I tried that position on your blog last nite and fell
Hey all yall :wave:
That was real southern and country sounding…
@Peach
Thanks boo
Slimm gettin that custom made “top hat” with the braids attached. Nigga goin be lookin casket sharp on that big day.
KWALL…. ALREADY
I was missing you yesterday when Sandra threw that email back up…. Tiffy 
ChaCha says:
Neither do I Cocoa ..the bish is grown… I wish somebody would tell me how to dress IDAF how old I am or get. Viv aint your usual 46 year old, that bish still wearing midriffs and shyt cus her body is fly and will give some 20 year olds a run for the money!
THANK YOU!!!!!!!!
Hey @yvonne and everyone else!! Happy New Year too!
*rolls up in my candy painted el camino with rockstar tint, 983 inch spinning wheels, a trimond encrusted steering wheel, and suicide doors* cha cha jump yo fine azz in her and let’s ride out!
Choco aka Hippie says:
@Cha
I think I tried that position on your blog last nite and fell I was drunk as chit last nite
I tried it………and it was ackward as Hail
Hubby to damn long for that shyt 
man pls see the previous post
Grabs 2 quarters from Yso. One for KWall for that Tiffany post and the other for Man and that top hat comment
He gonna be begging for that casket after Viv gets that
nooseknot tied.@CHA U FORGOT ME DAM IT
@yvonne u tooo bish 
free sample of fabuloso for errbody 
@ALL THE NEWBIES
I think that they compliment each other very well! Congrats!
congrats vivica and slimm.
Congrats Vivica!! I’m happy for her!! : )
My bad Lakes! I thought I spoke to you…. *nipple thump*
Jumps in Candi’s whip with my custom made louis bag made of grey ferret skin and my Fantasia Crystal chandelier earrings with matching bracelet, necklace, belly chain, and anklet. Picks up my 26″ Vivica brand weave and sets it on my lap so it dont get caught in the 105 spokes “What up B” who we riding on and who we gotta pick up next?
You know who I really want to read an interview exclusive from…Viv’s first husband. What happened to that nukka? Where he ill? Where he work? He still living off his divorce settlement money? Why did they not have any kids? Was he paid to sat down and STFU…
You oughta try to find him Sandra…
I actually think they make a handsome couple and I mean their body language looks true chit she CAUGHT ONE!
:wave: YSO!!!
My FABULAKERLOSALAKESHOWOFTAMALESANDNIPPLEFLICKS
lub you!
If She’s TRULY Happy with Dude… WHO AM I to Disapprove
I DO WONDER if there will be a PRE-NUP Though (Real…)
And
at the comments and WHADDUP to EVERYBODY !!!
Go Viv…I am happy for them both. Congrats!
Choco aka Hippie says:
I actually think they make a handsome couple and I mean their body language looks true chit she CAUGHT ONE!
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Yeah but what did HE Catch? He has got to know by now that rickety squeeking sound when they are doing it is not the bed but them arthritis joints viv has grinding together.
I wanna go home!
OMG i finally can comment after reading this site for over a year!!! Hey ya’ll!!!
@WUT
Boo Im a cougar my damnself and hun trust it’s me rocking the bed not the bed rocking me
i’m confused by the ring video….
i’m a cougar too, i’m 23 and he’s 21
(let me have this!)
Choco aka Hippie says:
@WUT
Boo Im a cougar my damnself and hun trust it’s me rocking the bed not the bed rocking me
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There is a difference between a young cougar and OLD Cougar… Old cougars need constant repair after a round with a young buck (check the surgeries Aunt Viv has had.)
I would love to know what he looks like without his hat. Most dudes who wear hats 24/7 look crazy without them. His head must be mad huge under that hat! Sandra do you have a pic of Slimm without his hat?
All I gotta say is, I hope it last.
candibfly says:
i’m a cougar too, i’m 23 and he’s 21 (let me have this!)
Now this time I will let you choose which kona…. go ahead I’ll wait… 23 and 21 
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kwall says:
You know who I really want to read an interview exclusive from…Viv’s first husband. What happened to that nukka? Where he ill? Where he work? He still living off his divorce settlement money? Why did they not have any kids? Was he paid to sat down and STFU…
You oughta try to find him Sandra…
You know that nigga somewhere auditioning for the next season of Celeb Rehab,… I promise you that show be pulling the most Random Celebs ever
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CANDI you know Im gangsta…Im always down for the get down, in fact, stop at the next grocery store so we can get some balogna
*tosses up the Ratstack salute as we drive by Mirs on her Ducati
Hey WUTWUZINDAT!?…thank goodness you took the R Kelly ape down….
precious1 says:
I would love to know what he looks like without his hat. Most dudes who wear hats 24/7 look crazy without them. His head must be mad huge under that hat! Sandra do you have a pic of Slimm without his hat?
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I was thinking it, you typed it.
Hope the second time’s a charm for auntie Viv. She deserves happiness too.
Hey everybody!:newbie:
@WUT
There’s some truth to that
Viv we get it…you have a nice shape for a 46 year old and all…but why not find you a sophisticated businessman your own age…
WHY DONT PEOPLE WANT TO ACT THEIR AGE NOWADAYS…WHAT HAPPENED TO AGING GRACEFULLY?
Hey Choco
I’m not a spring chicken either
AND YES have had my cougar moments.. but reaching aaalllllllllllll the way back 19 years…. to date a man who could be your kid? COME ONNNN!!
Oh and yes :newbie”
i’m a cougar too, i’m 23 and he’s 21 (let me have this!)
too cute!
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@wut, fine i’m 25 *rolls eyes hard*
@cha cha *ja rule voice as i brush off my free ja rule brass knuckles* it’s murdaaaaaa!
i think i missed the bologna thing tho? we makin sammies and sh1t to keep up our energy while we jazmine sullivan his 1983 pinto?
yvonne79 says:
Hey WUTWUZINDAT!?…thank goodness you took the R Kelly ape down….
I have my moments of decency…. Yesterday wasn’t one of them… Who da h3ll know about tomorrow… 
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Hey Candi!
I’m not a spring chicken either AND YES have had my cougar moments.. but reaching aaalllllllllllll the way back 19 years…. to date a man who could be your kid? COME ONNNN!!
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its not gonna be so “sexy” when she’s 60 and he’s 40!! He’s gonna be looking for a him a 20something year old…..and aint no surgeries gonna fix her old behind then….
candibfly says:
@wut, fine i’m 25 *rolls eyes hard*
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Courgartown is still at least 10 years in your future
Gone to lunch yall See yall later
I don’t have any Newbie E-Packets but if you have a question, I’m at your disposal.
@WUT
I got 14 years on my man and been playing with the cubs for the past decade
I can’t say NATHAN HE MUST LOVE IT THO : )
Guhl I can’t even hate on her REAL
@Chiby

@KWALL, I believe sixx nine is a rappin/motivational speaker, still in Atlanta. He’s still part of the night life. I think he’s christopher harvest on FB.
@WUT
But I COULD BE Wrong though 
I THOUGHT Females in their 40’s but LQQK LIKE their in their 50’s were considered Cougars
peach! *does the routine from janet and mj’s scream video*
@point (Comment #118)
THAT Comment regarding 6’9″ along with THAT GRAVI is HILARIOUS !!!
Well hey… everyone seems to be getting engaged. I wonder if they need a good wedding singer? I’ll bring the jubilee!!
@KWALL, I believe sixx nine is a rappin/motivational speaker, still in Atlanta. He’s still part of the night life. I think he’s christopher harvest on FB.
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OHHHH I see a story! I want someone to interview this cat. I know he got some tea to spill! And I LOVE tea!
is chiby a fine male or something? when we gonna get some of those busting thru the registration gates?! *flips over the ny subway system*
*flips over the ny subway system*
you are your flips I won’t ever miss 
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She is simply TOO old for that boy! *shrugs*
I can’t hate on Aunt Viv. Apparently she got thatgood good to have a nicca proposing and chit. I do think she should nix having kids herself and go Angela Bassett style with a surrogate. She too old to be birthing babies.
I’m going to need her to dress her age. You can be older but still sexy without looking like you’re begging for attention. Is she trying to dress down to his age group?
ching a ling… when male gold digging goes right!
He looks like a pimp putting his ho on the stroll. I’m happy for them! DOes he have a lazy eye like Musiq?
Hold on – that is a photoshopped pic – look at the ground and he looks like he is going to jump out at someone.
Sandra, you almost got me!
Well dayum…how did she do that… Da hail wit Supa H.E.A.D books Demi and Vivica need to school me
candibfly says:
*flips over the ny subway system*
@ Candi…who scared off those new hard legs that were in here the other day?
@WCC —–> EXACTLY !!! It IS what it IS (Real…)
@blackwidow
Vivica’s GOOD GOOD is Her Willingness to spend HER MONEY on Him EXCLUSIVELY… When Vivica is gone making that Paper Dude is probably Hitting some Young, Fresh Faced, ALL Natural BODY-Wise Females that are checking for him ALL ALONG
Shaking my head at all the jealous women in this post who want what Vivica has.
Shaking my head at the blogger that thinks any real woman wants that lame azz dude.
Awww Sandy don’t call them jealous
Go head Viv! Good to see she’s getting what she deserves. I wish them the best.
when i see pics of vivica now, I have to remind myself that she was Frankie in Set It Off with Jada and Latifah.
Shaking my head at all the jealous women in this post who want what Vivica has.
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A receeding hairline?
Bad synthetic?
Or jacked the hail up plastic surg?
Be specific Sandra.
@dymond i don’t know but when i find out there will be h3ll to pay!
@ySoSerious
Someone said Slimm head look like Monty Burns with dreads!
@ Candi… bout the balogna.. heard it do damage to a car in the sun or some shyt I think Awesome Arsenal told us one day…
ELOOOOOOOOOOOVE A DUB DUB…… WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN…..
I been missing me some you 
Why you still in yo Awards outfit…. What they do to you?
Sandra Rose says:
Shaking my head at all the jealous women in this post who want what Vivica has.
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How many 27 yr old men can handle a relationship with a (19 yr) older fiance’ that’s more well known than he is? Wasn’t it just 12 months ago or less that Viv had him retract a story that they broke up, who does that?
Shame, Shame, Shame on all the very opinionated people.
What’s wrong with Vivica.
And so what she older than Slimm.
There are some men out there that does not want any children.
Most women wish they had her body. You cannot hate on the body.
And at least she doing it the right way. Come on people we have to do better in 2011..
ya’ll stupid that is all
Kwall… kill yourself….
at Letter to Viv and Tiff..
Did she pay for her own ring?
Lavoris says:
Shame, Shame, Shame on all the very opinionated people.
What’s wrong with Vivica.
And so what she older than Slimm.
There are some men out there that does not want any children.
Most women wish they had her body. You cannot hate on the body.
And at least she doing it the right way. Come on people we have to do better in 2011..
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There are men that don’t want kids, but it’s no secret that Viv wants them “yesterday”. I don’t care how nice Viv looks, her insides are still 47.
Congrats
@Anna
Come on now Kelly Preston just had a baby by Travolta and she is 52….
Viv change since 50 dumped her…I use to like her very much but she didnt have to get her face done she was already Pretty…
@Sweet
I agree I don’t think the surgery enhanced her looks at all!
Her career is officially over! Hoe’s pull all kinds of stunts to stay relevent!
@Elove it may be Viv’s money he is after but we all know there are broke females buying ninjas errday of the week. Let’s hope she is smart enough to secure her ends with a prenup.
Choco aka Hippie says:
@Anna
Come on now Kelly Preston just had a baby by Travolta and she is 52….
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It wasn’t Kelly’s first baby. Not sure what that means, but for me having your first child at 40 is stretching it, let alone at almost 50.
kwall says:
Sandra why did you not run that photo of her new facial work…the one where she was looking Jocelyn Wildenstein-ish…
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I saw that picture. Her face looks the same to me.
Shaking my head at all the jealous women in this post who want what Vivica has.
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So Sandra did not come back to tell us what Viv has that women want?
Where is @Brownsuga at so we can do our list ala “Things LisaRaye will NEVAH Be?”
@Anna
It means if Kelly can do it at 52 Viv may have a chance
Imma kick the list off then…
Things that Viv has that women want:
A waning career.
Things that Viv has that women want:
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Breast implants full of powder Enfamil formula that she gonna try to use to breast feed…
kwall says:
Tiffani at Walgreens… I see the registration post back up…have you registered yet hun? Bet FIVE you gave Redeemed the wrong meds on 12/31… and po Redemption/Redeemed/Carrie momma is in a homeless shelter right NOW in Arkansas cause of your oversight…and she keep telling the folks that Mary Magdalene IS her real name…
Look at whatchu done did Tiffy.
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Dear Miss Kwall you are the reason Im getting the WTF look today at work… keep it comming

Choco aka Hippie says:
@Anna
It means if Kelly can do it at 52 Viv may have a chance
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Do you find it selfish to have a baby at 52?
This is going to be a #Ratchet everything……
@Anna
I’ve haven’t given that thought but I mean imo for me yes but I have two already….
Hey there hun…@168…I need Sandra to be PACIFIC about what this broad got that women want…or Imma burn this post DOWN. You got fiyah insurance Sandra?
Something that Viv got that other women might want….A good set of knee pads.
@ Kwall…………I think she needs some kneepads herself, have you seen her knees in some pics?
@ Kwall…………I think she needs some kneepads herself, have you seen her knees in some pics?
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She always seem like she got ‘em covered in those boots…
Things that Viv got that women might want…thigh high boots at 50. Knowing she need to be at EASY SPIRIT….
Hello All, and HAPPY NEW YEAR! My Momma, God rest her soul, once told me that if you marry a man that’s older than you, you’ll ALWAYS be the ‘younger woman’ to him. That said, there’s a 20 yr difference tween Slim and Viv and allllllll the money in the world ain’t gonna keep her young-looking forever! And to think of having your first child at 46, white women usually do this against-nature crap! I wish her well though, as I do all.
We’re living in some unusual times. Stay prayed up family and remember, before you ask Him for anything, just THANK HIM for everything, even the things you don’t understand. That’s Jesus I’m talking bout, not Slim. Peace.
@Anna
It means if Kelly can do it at 52 Viv may have a chance
I cant imagine having a baby at 52 especially if you have a child already, just my opinion.
*checking pre-k registry for new husband*
CLASSIC
This will last all of 15 minutes. I dont see this as another Ashton and Demi. Pre-nup is right! And get fotocopies to back yourself up, one in the back vault and another with the lawyer. Dude reminds me of Waka Flocka, somethin aint right… just sayin.
HOTT Cha Cha

Heeeyyyy YOU !!!
Just being COMPLETELY Lazy with the Gravi Change… Bey should be in it NOW Though (Real…)
I think it’s absolutely ridiculous. I can’t wait for a bish to walk through the door my age on my sons arm. Man it’s going to be on and cracking. Vivica is starting to look like a parody of herself.
All that said if she’s happy be happy life is to short to worry about what everyone else thinks.
I love the poster that’s looking at Pre-k registries. AIN’T IT THE TRUTH!!
WOW THESE TWO GROWN FOLKS, JUST GOT ENGAGED, AINT HURTIN NOBODY, LAW ABIDING CITIZENS, MINDING THEIR OWN BUSINESS, PROFESSIONALS
GENERATING THIS MUCH HATE?!?! CAN YOU SAY LOSERS-MANY OF U TALKING ABOUT VIV PLASTIC SURGERY AND HER OUTFIT JUST MAD CAUSE U WISH YOU WERE IN HER SHOES & YOUR RESPONSES ARE A DIRECT INDICATION OF YOUR JEALOUSY
LOL-KEEP EM TALKING VIV, OBVIOUSLY THEY AINT GOT NOTHING BETTER TO DO
CONGRATS-ENJOY THAT MAN & FOR EVERYDAY THEY CLAIM YALL WON’T LAST MAY THEY CONTINUE TO LIVE IN MISERY
I
that they do right by each other. I hope they make this marriage work IF they make it to the alter.
Go Viv! She’s the only person that knows what is under that hate. I have yet to see for myself…
Congrats to them