A reader emailed to express her disgust at singer Jennifer Hudson for allowing her sister to appear on Oprah's Next Chapter. The segment of Oprah's Next Chapter was taped at Jennifer's home, and will air on Sept. 9.

The reader criticized everything about Julia Hudson -- from her quick weave and morbid obesity to her casual attire. Everyone grieves differently. Maybe Julia has not completed the grieving process for her son, and maybe she wanted to appear on camera as herself (a grieving mom) rather than a fake, Hollywood image of herself?

Hey Auntie,

I heard that J Hud is doing a new interview with Oprah. I have seen the pictures of her sister Julia during the interview and it was not kosher. J Hud is all glam up and her sister have a quick weave, cut off shorts and a t-shirt on. What's wrong with this picture? Is there a disconnect between the two ladies? I always wondered why J Hud didn't introduce her sister to weight watchers but did it with her cousins. If anyone knows whats going on I know you would. So please find out and update us...

btw, I was rolling on V103 facebook page when I seen readers quoting your blog as evidence on the Raymond vs Raymond trial. Homegirl swear she got a good source then said you lol..

Love ya,
Monique

Update: Monique wants you to know...

Sandra,

I was not going in on Julia. I was referring to the comments on the blog I was reading. I didnt say anything about her being morbidly obese or nothing else. I was only asking to get the deets from reading the other blog. I have read over the time that she has offered help to others and never her sister. So please do not put words in my mouth. I was asking was there some sort of beef that we didn't know about but all the other blogs were saying. I came to you because I felt that you would be able to clear the record. I did not come to you to say I was going in on her sister. Personally, I am a big girl too and I would NEVER degrade another obese person ever. People can't help if they are overweight. I struggle with my weight everyday and I am sure she does too. So please do not imply I was degrading her because I wasn't.

Thank you very much... Please post

Monique

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    • luVn_liFe…

      :tea:

    • MZ_CARAM3L74

      She actually has gained more weight since the death of her son...so sad

    • NaijaGal

      ummmmmm although I'm certain Julia has a mental deficiency she's still an adult and Jennifer cannot force her sister into anything

    • Lady_L

      wow...something about J-Hud irks the heck outta me...

    • Trendsetter

      Lady_L says:

      wow…something about J-Hud irks the heck outta me…

      ____________________

      me too

    • Lady_L

      BTW, I am still not 100% convinced that Jennifer lost all that weight with Weight Watchers alone....

    • Such A F’n Lady

      I too was angry when I saw Jennifer all dolled up and her sister looking like she just came from the watermelon eating portion of the family reunion. I didn't get mad at Jennifer though, I was mad at her sister. She has to know better. She just has to, unless she's as slow as she looks. :coffee:

    • Gigi26

      The glam squad that Jenny girl pays for is for HER and probably not her sister :tea:

      In any event...I think fatness runs in their family..prior to Jenny losing the weight, her mom and brother were both big. :shrugs:

    • yallcrazy

      Oh I see Jhud cleaned up :coffee:

    • NaijaGal

      Jennifer was not that big when she first came on the scene through American Idol so I don't get this whole 'she had surgery' mess...but anyway Julia irks me...to the core (shoutout to Mimi)

    • Such A F’n Lady

      I just wish Jennifer would stop wearing those wigs that look like they weigh more than she does now.

    • luVn_liFe…

      Who is Monique to say what someone should be dressed Like :mad:
      Just because you dont like/agree/think its okay,Julia apparently is fine with it.She's not a celebrity,Nor is she in the public eye.she dresses as she sees fit,what makes her comfortable AND Furthermore this lady maybe feeling some Kinda way still!

    • Bad Influence

      clearly its not A NEWWWWWWW DAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY for Julia's big ass...and that 27 peice :ghost:

      ummm i know shes been trhu alot but eating ur feelings is s'posed 2 stop in college... :no:

    • QueenSJ

      If they're on Oprah's show, I'm pretty sure she had the option of going to makeup/wardrobe. And depending on her state of mind, the way she presents herself could be a lost cause.

      This is out of Jennifer's hands really. :shrug:

    • Bibi

      :cosign: 3 & 6 :tea:

    • yallcrazy

      :dead: @eating your feelings

      :hug: Hey Ho'boygurrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

    • Gigi26

      Julia seem like she is just ratchet to the core. But that's totally fine..just don't take her anywhere fancy cuz she will embarass the shyt out of you. Will order a burger and fries at a french restaurant and will see nothing wrong with it...that type :no:

    • luVn_liFe…

      QueenSJ says:
      If they’re on Oprah’s show, I’m pretty sure she had the option of going to makeup/wardrobe. And depending on her state of mind, the way she presents herself could be a lost cause.
      This is out of Jennifer’s hands really

      ^ ^^ ^^ ^
      :cosign:

    • http://youtube.com/watch?v=ntMXXpTATJo I Go There

      Damn cant lose weight or be big.... :coffee:

    • Bad Influence

      and just because i hate typing a long ass comment only to click submit and see :newpost:

      that means aint nobody finna read my shyt so..REPOST:

      Bad Influence says:

      @Ty Ty babyyyy :hug;

      am i the only one who thinks Rashytty wants to put it on Memphitz and make him wan murrrrr’reeee her?? with her old azz legs to the moon? i know im not the only one one..

      she dnt care about CandyMan…she took his balls and made ghetto earrings out of em…i saw that shyt on instagram.. that man was str8 up humiliated on national tv and u foaming at the mouth over the next no neck btchs husband…granny if u dnt get off the mic and get cho’ retirement life!

      and i wasnt here 4 the LHHATL post so lemme lone and discuss this shyt with me :mad:

    • Bad Influence

      Ho'boygahhhhh :hug:

      Gigi'licious! :kiss:

    • NaijaGal

      :dead: @get cho retirement life :wail: *I hate that I luv you so*

    • http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendID=72503781 yanibunny02

      im jus mad this bish looks like shes going to a cookout afterwards interviewing with Oprah.. :no:

    • luVn_liFe…

      @ Bad;
      :dead:

    • INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST

      THERE SHOULD BE A LIMIT, JMO-DON'T SHOOT

      BUT THIS WOMAN LOSSED HER SON, WHO IN THE HELL KNOWS HOW THEY WOULD LOOK, FEEL OR DEAL WITH THAT

      SHE GETS A PASS, WE ALL HAVE SOMEONE IN OUR FAMILY WHOSE A LITTLE GHETTO,AT LEAST LIKE SANDRA SAID SHE'S BEING HER, TRUTH BE TOLD JENNIFER IS PROBABLY NOT A FAR STRETCH FROM HER SISTER, LIKE SOME WOULD LIKE TO BELIEVE

    • Native New Yorker

      She will probably never get over what happened. If she had issues before I'm sure the tragedy only made it worse. Ppl need to get over things in their own time their own way. I'm sure she's aware of how she looks but might not be mentally prepared to do anything about it and maybe she isn't ready to ask for help. Jhud moved on n got a man n had a baby. This lady lost her mother brother n child bcuz of a man she chose. I'm sure the guilt alone is hard enough to deal with. As long as she isn't hurting herself or anyone else I say leave her be and let her find herself again n try to move on as best she can

    • luVn_liFe…

      On the real Though :nino: Julia needs to lose some weight and Jhud needs to encourage her or Her sister wont be around to Much Longer

    • http://twitter.com/#!/Birdshu Bird

      Jennifer is not respobsible for her sister's appearance. She probably did say, "You wearing that?" What more can you do? Maybe Jen should have dressed more casually so Julia wouldn't have looked so out of place. And Jen dang sure can't make her lose weight. Julia is her own super special (ed) person.

    • NaijaGal

      Mimi said because she and Stevie have a child she can't say 'never' about getting back with him...so is this the mentality of folks who have kids...doesn't this pertain to the 4 previous women before her? Does the dip back happen all the time in these situations?

    • luVn_liFe…

      Maybe Jen should have dressed more casually so Julia wouldn’t have looked so out of place . . . .
      ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ I like that thought BIRD

    • yallcrazy

      Well, at least her hair and makeup is done #positivepost

    • luVn_liFe…

      Native New yorker :hug: you Feeling Okay?

    • Smokie

      I mean damn, who cares what the woman looks like? She could spend 24 hours getting dressed and she'd still be...Julia.

    • jazi65

      Julia apparently is comfortable in her skin & doesn't give a dam what the reader or anyone else thinks...good for her.

    • Native New Yorker

      @bad that's y she was so mad at kmichelle for telling the truth. Why didn't she stand up to deb like that? She bucked cuz she knew security would step in n save her.

    • yallcrazy

      NaijaGal says:

      Mimi said because she and Stevie have a child she can’t say ‘never’ about getting back with him…so is this the mentality of folks who have kids…doesn’t this pertain to the 4 previous women before her? Does the dip back happen all the time in these situations?

      So many questions Naija :lol:
      :chickenhead: bird brain thinking

      Just like the folks that cry that the daddy doesn't spend quality time with their child, when all along dude got like 10-15 kids. Ummm, why or how did you think this was possible :huh:

    • free

      that view is lovely :coffee:

    • Native New Yorker

      Hi luvn :hug: I'm OK :smile:

    • yallcrazy

      Maybe if ole boy has a new baby mimi will open her eyes and stop choosing to play her role :shrug: But IONO ijs :tea:

    • NaijaGal

      Rasheeda probably thought this show would make her a lot of money...she wasn't prepared for reality to come so hard and fast

    • Such A F’n Lady

      NaijaGal says:

      Mimi said because she and Stevie have a child she can’t say ‘never’ about getting back with him…so is this the mentality of folks who have kids…doesn’t this pertain to the 4 previous women before her? Does the dip back happen all the time in these situations?
      ____________________________________

      Mimi is just plain stupid, although by saying she's stupid I feel like I'm :deadhorse: but I will say this, my child's father cheated on me with numerous women. As soon as I found out, I was done and never looked back. Ain't no way in heyul I'm exposing myself to whatever STDs or diseases he's picking up flckin around. :nono: No ma'am. I love myself waaaaaaay too much for that chit.

    • http://youtube.com/watch?v=ntMXXpTATJo I Go There

      Bird says:

      Jennifer is not respobsible for her sister’s appearance. She probably did say, “You wearing that?” What more can you do? Maybe Jen should have dressed more casually so Julia wouldn’t have looked so out of place. And Jen dang sure can’t make her lose weight. Julia is her own super special (ed) person.
      _____________________________
      Or maybe Julia said, " I aint dressing up to sit in your living room to talk to Oprah"

    • Xena68

      NaijaGal says:

      Does the dip back happen all the time in these situations?

      I think most of the time it's true my husband has always said that is the reason why he never dated women with kids

    • luVn_liFe…

      Ok Native NY Just checking you seemed to be feeling some kinda way in that other post :D

    • Ty

      Lawd y didnt they make her put some clothes on :rolleyes: Somebody could have found a dress in the back somewhere

      *scrolls up to read*

    • yallcrazy

      Free, it's really nice. I got a friend who lives in that building.

    • Bibi

      NaijaGal says:
      Does the dip back happen all the time in these situations?

      I used to think this was true.. :tea:

    • Bad Influence

      @Native, well Deb looks like she will kill a btch, molest the body then eat the corpse...so a veryyyyyy small part of me understands why Grandma Emcee was btch ass puzzy that day..i mean Deb had dead azz yorkie resting upon her head...btch is real thug out in these streets :lol:

    • http://www.bookofatlantis.tumblr.com Q_ATLANTIS

      @NaijaGal no, Mimi's thinking is NOT the norm. My son's dad and I haven't been together since my pregnancy. Mimi definitely isn't strong and Joseline keep poking at her about that. Mimi will always be in Stevie's backpocket cuz she's so weak-minded IMO. :peace:

    • http://youtube.com/watch?v=ntMXXpTATJo I Go There

      Does the dip back happen all the time in these situations?

      ____________________________

      If so that means Man was right and women let ole baby daddy come back every now and then :coffee:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      :tea:

    • yallcrazy

      I think some folks wise up after being dumb (for so long) but some don't and they remain with the bd's.

    • Iheart

      :offtopic: Karlie is really trying to convince ppl that she is 29 :rofl:

    • Bad Influence

      IGO :boobs:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      I'm lost in the sauce, are there different conversations going on, or are we still on topic :coffee:

    • http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendID=72503781 yanibunny02

      ooohhh yall...i saw on another site where they revealed Karlie Redds daughter goes to Clark University...so she gotta be at least 18.. Sandra..spill tha tea please!! :popcorn:

    • yallcrazy

      *off to lunch*

      Oink Oink
      :pigsfly:

    • Bad Influence

      *slaps Karlie with a medicare part b laminated card*

    • Ty

      @ Hissy...I replied to that...let me go find it hold tight :pc:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Iheart says:

      :offtopic: Karlie is really trying to convince ppl that she is 29
      _______________
      :no:

    • Bibi

      If so that means Man was right and women let ole baby daddy come back every now and then

      Happens all the time..I know a girl who still dips and it's been bout a decade :tea:

    • Ty

      @ Yall bring me back some Diet Green Tea (Lipton)

      Thanks in advance hun :rofl:

    • Bad Influence

      @Ho'boygah bring me something back *steebie j face*

    • luVn_liFe…

      If so that means Man was right and women let ole baby daddy come back every now and then
      ^ ^^ ^^ ^ Nawh This is NOT True,My sons 18,my sona father\I split when jefrey was 2,and NoNe Of that Crap there goes on here,HOMIE Dont Play that he knows i'll :shank: him!

    • KDub

      That is not a quick weave @Loyal Reader Monique!

      Its a 27 piece.

      There ill a difference.

    • Such A F’n Lady

      jeniefrumdabloc says:

      I’m lost in the sauce, are there different conversations going on, or are we still on topic
      ____________________

      Nah, I think people decided to give Julia a pass and went off topic. :coffee:

      She still could've worn capris or something though, not shorts that short. :coffee:

    • Ty

      Ty says:

      @ Hissy

      Yeah Rah has pissed me off this season. I dont think she is into Kirk just what he could do for her. She is too invested in her “friends” marriage IMO.

    • Iheart

      She is or was on some show called scream queens on vh1 and it says that she is 29 :nono: if that ho is prop 29 in fukkin dog years :lol:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Bibi says:

      If so that means Man was right and women let ole baby daddy come back every now and then

      Happens all the time..I know a girl who still dips and it’s been bout a decade
      _________
      I told my child father he would never hit this again, and I meant that ish :tea:

    • MZ_CARAM3L74

      Bad Influence says:

      @Native, well Deb looks like she will kill a btch, molest the body then eat the corpse…so a veryyyyyy small part of me understands why Grandma Emcee was btch ass puzzy that day..i mean Deb had dead azz yorkie resting upon her head…btch is real thug out in these streets
      ***********************************
      :rofl:

    • Iheart

      :chase: His! :boobs:

    • http://youtube.com/watch?v=ntMXXpTATJo I Go There

      Hi His

      :ashamed:

      how are you doing

    • Trendsetter

      :offtopic:

      Finally saw a picture of Karli's 18 year old daughter

    • Iheart

      Damn I meant that that ho is prob 29 in fukkin dog years :lol:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Such A F'n Lady says:

      jeniefrumdabloc says:

      I’m lost in the sauce, are there different conversations going on, or are we still on topic
      ____________________

      Nah, I think people decided to give Julia a pass and went off topic. :coffee:

      She still could’ve worn capris or something though, not shorts that short.
      ___________

      I am going to leave that one alone :tea: she might still be grieving though :tea:

    • http://youtube.com/watch?v=ntMXXpTATJo I Go There

      Yesterday: I forgot my wallet and got caught in the rain

      Today: I broke my phone

      If I split my slacks tomorrow Im going home and gonna take the rest of the fking week off.

    • Ty

      Iheart says:

      Karlie is really trying to convince ppl that she is 29
      __________
      yeah Squared or two the third power :coffee:

    • Such A F’n Lady

      Trendsetter says:

      Finally saw a picture of Karli’s 18 year old daughter
      ______________________________________

      Where? Does she look as old as her mama? :thinks:

    • Iheart

      Ty says:

      Iheart says:

      Karlie is really trying to convince ppl that she is 29
      __________
      yeah Squared or two the third power
      ________

      I vote dog years since she looks like a chiuaua :coffee:

    • http://www.twitter.com/callmemiich PrytiBrownIs

      Bad Influence says:

      @Native, well Deb looks like she will kill a btch, molest the body then eat the corpse…so a veryyyyyy small part of me understands why Grandma Emcee was btch ass puzzy that day..i mean Deb had dead azz yorkie resting upon her head…btch is real thug out in these streets
      ___________________
      AB-SO-LUTE-LEEEEE :dead:

    • INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST

      @Native, well Deb looks like she will kill a btch, molest the body then eat the corpse…so a veryyyyyy small part of me understands why Grandma Emcee was btch ass puzzy that day..i mean Deb had dead azz yorkie resting upon her head…btch is real thug out in these streets

      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

      CRYING REAL TEARS, I SWEAR!!!!

    • Ty

      *to* :cuss:

    • Iheart

      :haha:

    • http://youtube.com/watch?v=ntMXXpTATJo I Go There

      Iheart says:

      She is or was on some show called scream queens on vh1 and it says that she is 29 if that ho is prop 29 in fukkin dog years
      _________________________________

      She was on Scream Queens? I remember that show dont remember her at all.

    • Trendsetter

      Such A F'n Lady says:

      Trendsetter says:

      Finally saw a picture of Karli’s 18 year old daughter
      ______________________________________

      Where? Does she look as old as her mama?
      _________________________________

      Yes...the daughter eyes are just bigger..it's on another site

      b o s s i p

    • Iheart

      Bad Influence says:

      @Native, well Deb looks like she will kill a btch, molest the body then eat the corpse…so a veryyyyyy small part of me understands why Grandma Emcee was btch ass puzzy that day..i mean Deb had dead azz yorkie resting upon her head…btch is real thug out in these streets

      -----------

      Bish whyyyyy!!!!! :crying:

    • http://youtube.com/watch?v=ntMXXpTATJo I Go There

      Pepper would never mock like that :coffee:

    • Bad Influence

      I'm good @ IGO :boobs: you??

      IHEARTTTTT why u parting my hair like that?? :crying:

      u know i love yew!!

    • Bibi

      @Jenie

      I especially believe this if the kid is like 1 or 2...yall be dipping :lol:

      But if u have one older.. :tea:

    • Native New Yorker

      Luvn the good thing about being young is u live n learn

      i mean Deb had dead azz yorkie resting upon her

      head…btch is real thug out in these streets.

      Whyyyyy :ghost:

    • Trendsetter

      I can't stand to look at Julia big azz....she should've known better to wear that damn outfit...I don't care if ur grieving or not...you got better sense than that...wearing that pisses me off...if she didn't want to dress up, ok cool...it's other things she could've wore besides that.

    • http://youtube.com/watch?v=ntMXXpTATJo I Go There

      Bibi says:

      If so that means Man was right and women let ole baby daddy come back every now and then

      Happens all the time..I know a girl who still dips and it’s been bout a decade
      _______________________________

      Thats a lil much right there....

    • http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendID=72503781 yanibunny02

      I Go There says:

      Iheart says:
      She is or was on some show called scream queens on vh1 and it says that she is 29 if that ho is prop 29 in fukkin dog years
      _________________________________
      She was on Scream Queens? I remember that show dont remember her at all.

      ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

      she was on the 2nd season...I remember her..they said she was 27 at the time..that show was about 2yrs ago or so..and she ddnt look anything like no 27 then..she jus need to stop it!!

    • Iheart

      @His, Bish cause yo ain't shyt and Neva will be shyt :rofl:

    • Bad Influence

      i'm gonna get my grub awn :woohoo:

      be back ya'll :buttshake:

    • http://youtube.com/watch?v=ntMXXpTATJo I Go There

      Bad Influence says:

      I’m good @ IGO you??

      _______________________

      Im good.. Thanks for asking

    • Iheart

      yanibunny02 says:

      I Go There says:

      Iheart says:
      She is or was on some show called scream queens on vh1 and it says that she is 29 if that ho is prop 29 in fukkin dog years
      _________________________________
      She was on Scream Queens? I remember that show dont remember her at all.

      ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

      she was on the 2nd season…I remember her..they said she was 27 at the time..that show was about 2yrs ago or so..and she ddnt look anything like no 27 then..she jus need to stop it!!

      ________________

      I saw a screen shot and it said she was 29 then and ion belee that eitha :nono:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7je-DEQgPJk&feature=related ELove

      J-Hud use to be HUGE (This is A FACT...) and Julia is STILL HUGE (Even Bigger Than BEFORE...) But WTF does Julia SIZE have to do with "The Price of Tea in China" Though :think:

      SOME Dudes (NOT Me Though...) LUV THEM Some Obese-Sized Females... TRUST ME Julia is Probably getting MORE DYCK (Or Puzzy) than ALOT of Y'all SR Ladies (No Shade...) :coffee:

    • dancerbee93

      Trendsetter says:

      Lady_L says:

      wow…something about J-Hud irks the heck outta me…

      ____________________

      me too

      -----------------
      me three :coffee:

    • Iheart

      Tony never wore nut huggin slacks :coffee:

    • http://youtube.com/watch?v=ntMXXpTATJo I Go There

      yanibunny02 says:

      I Go There says:

      Iheart says:
      She is or was on some show called scream queens on vh1 and it says that she is 29 if that ho is prop 29 in fukkin dog years
      _________________________________
      She was on Scream Queens? I remember that show dont remember her at all.

      ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

      she was on the 2nd season…I remember her..they said she was 27 at the time..that show was about 2yrs ago or so..and she ddnt look anything like no 27 then..she jus need to stop it!!

      ___________________

      Okay... I saw that first season when that black chic won

    • Native New Yorker

      As soon as nicki's mama decided to.say "I'm not revealing my age or my daughter " she should have realized someone was going to out her just because she's trying so hard to hide it. She's really a pea brained little Dingbat isn't she?

    • Bootcampgirl

      I Go There says:

      Yesterday: I forgot my wallet and got caught in the rain

      Today: I broke my phone

      If I split my slacks tomorrow Im going home and gonna take the rest of the fking week off.
      _______________
      Karma :coffee:

    • http://youtube.com/watch?v=ntMXXpTATJo I Go There

      ELove says:

      J-Hud use to be HUGE (This is A FACT…) and Julia is STILL HUGE (Even Bigger Than BEFORE…) But WTF does Julia SIZE have to do with “The Price of Tea in China” Though

      SOME Dudes (NOT Me Though…) LUV THEM Some Obese-Sized Females… TRUST ME Julia is Probably getting MORE DYCK (Or Puzzy) than ALOT of Y’all SR Ladies (No Shade…)
      _____________________________________________

      My cousin wont even talk to a chic unless she OVER 250lbs

    • Ty

      I dont have a problem with Julia's size but she still doesnt have to look like she just left a yard sale. That outfite is cool for sitting around the house or on your way to the gym :coffee:

    • http://youtube.com/watch?v=ntMXXpTATJo I Go There

      Touche'

      smart mouth heffa

    • Iheart

      My fav song right now :yahoo:
      :whistle:
      Yeahh
      These lips can't wait to taste your skin, Baby noo
      And these eyes, yehh, can't wait to see your grin, ooh ooh baby

      Just let my love
      Just let my love adorn you
      Please baby, yeah
      You gotta know
      You gotta know
      You know that I adore you
      Yeah Baby

      Baby these fist, uh, will always protect ya... Lady
      And this mind ooh will never neglect you, yeah baby
      Ooh baby
      And if they try to break us down
      Don't let that effect us, noo baby
      You just gotta let my love
      Let my love
      Let my love adorn you
      Ahh, le-le-le-let it just adorn you
      You gotta know
      You gotta know
      Know that I adore you
      Just that, baby

      Aahhh ahh, oouhhh
      Let my love adorn you, baby
      Don't you ever
      Don't you let no one tell you different, baby
      Always adore you!
      You gotta know now
      You gotta know na-nah-noooww, yeah
      Ouuuh ouuuh ouhhhh.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KPgpRw9tiuM bnatural

      Ummmmmm....about J-Hud....it looks like a solemn moment. It's a freeze frame in the middle of a conversation about the death of 3 close family members...

      How is she supposed to look? :shrug:

    • KDub

      Does she look as old as her mama?
      ---------------------------------------------------------
      So Evelyn from BBW and Karlie Redd both had kids back in 1984 huh?

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KPgpRw9tiuM bnatural

      Iheart says:

      My fav song right now :yahoo:
      :whistle:
      ----------------

      At work listening to it right now!!!!

    • http://youtube.com/watch?v=ntMXXpTATJo I Go There

      Bootcampgirl says:

      I Go There says:

      Yesterday: I forgot my wallet and got caught in the rain

      Today: I broke my phone

      If I split my slacks tomorrow Im going home and gonna take the rest of the fking week off.
      _______________
      Karma
      ______________

      Perhaps... :coffee:

    • Such A F’n Lady

      Ty says:

      That outfite is cool for sitting around the house or on your way to the gym
      ________________________________

      Who you know work out like that? :huh:

    • Trendsetter

      Will Jennifer reveal that she is a beard for Punk

    • Bibi

      @IGO

      She messed up her last relationship by entertaining her bd...told him they were gonna get back..then changed her mind and lost em both.. :tea:

    • KDub

      And this hoe Karlie was tryna say she was BORN in 1985...and had a kid in 1984.

      Getcho life Karlie.

    • http://youtube.com/watch?v=ntMXXpTATJo I Go There

      Damn I really did like that song

    • Iheart

      :nana:

    • Bootcampgirl

      @Iheart, that is my chit, my latest ringtone....I let that shat ring just to hear the song... :rofl:
      __________________
      :rofl:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7je-DEQgPJk&feature=related ELove

      @Boot (#103) :rofl:

      @I Go
      Maannnn I KNOW DUDES that call themselves "FAT-HO Pimps" and They say THAT SHYT with Great Pride Too :yes:

      @Ty
      Heyyy SHE LQQKS Clean-n-Comfortable and I'm PRETTY SURE Someone of Her Size is All For BEING Comfortable Though (NO?!!?) I Mean J-Hud is The Celebrity (Not Julia...) :coffee:

    • Ty

      Such A F'n Lady says:

      Ty says:

      That outfite is cool for sitting around the house or on your way to the gym
      ________________________________

      Who you know work out like that?
      ___________
      to the gym hun not in the gym :coffee:

    • Native New Yorker

      " she still doesnt have to look like she just left a yard sale."

      :lol:

    • KDub

      If so that means Man was right and women let ole baby daddy come back every now and then

      Happens all the time..I know a girl who still dips and it’s been bout a decade
      ---------------------------------------
      BFF and her baby favah been fuggin for dayum near 20 years and they both married to other peepa now. :no:

    • Iheart

      bnatural says:

      Iheart says:

      My fav song right now

      —————-

      At work listening to it right now!!!!

      ____________

      He be sangin don't he :yes:

    • http://youtube.com/watch?v=ntMXXpTATJo I Go There

      Bibi says:

      @IGO

      She messed up her last relationship by entertaining her bd…told him they were gonna get back..then changed her mind and lost em both..
      _______________________________________________________________

      Entertaning her bd huh?

      My half bro still talks to this chic off and on that had a dude in Jail and told him when he get out they were gonna get back together... And she did Until dude caught her calling my bro... After she got out the hospital they broke up.

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      KDub says:

      And this hoe Karlie was tryna say she was BORN in 1985…and had a kid in 1984.

      Getcho life Karlie.
      _______________

      :rofl: :rofl:

    • http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendID=72503781 yanibunny02

      Iheart says:

      yanibunny02 says:
      I Go There says:
      Iheart says:
      She is or was on some show called scream queens on vh1 and it says that she is 29 if that ho is prop 29 in fukkin dog years
      _________________________________
      She was on Scream Queens? I remember that show dont remember her at all.
      ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
      she was on the 2nd season…I remember her..they said she was 27 at the time..that show was about 2yrs ago or so..and she ddnt look anything like no 27 then..she jus need to stop it!!
      ________________
      I saw a screen shot and it said she was 29 then and ion belee that eitha

      ~~~~~~~~~~

      Ha..thats even worse..she this bish frozen time too huh??? Shes making all of us REAL 29 yr olds look bad.. she need to stay off that meth then if ur 29 looking about 45.. :rofl: **COCAINE IS A HELLUVA DRUG**

    • Bootcampgirl

      I'm 38 and I know good and got damn well Karlie got at least 10 years on me...

    • Trendsetter

      :offtopic:

      Kim Ramsey, 44, feels constantly aroused and the slightest movement can trigger a climax. Trains, driving and even housework start the reaction. But unlike women who yearn for the “Yes, yes!” experience, Kim just thinks “Oh no!” The “busting” leaves her in pain, exhausted and unable to have a normal relationship. She said: “Other women wonder how come — I wonder how to stop mine.”

      Kim was diagnosed with incurable Persistent Genital Arousal Disorder. Doctors blame spinal cysts caused when she fell down stairs ten years ago. Kim, from Hitchin, Herts, but now living in Montclair, New Jersey, US, first had problems after sex with a new boyfriend in 2008. She said: “I had constant climaxes for four days. I thought I was going mad. It also happened with a new partner and I even tried sitting on frozen peas.”

      PEOPLE might joke but this condition is no laughing matter for sufferers. They find it difficult to talk about the problem, fearing people will laugh or think they are a sex maniac.

      Bizarre.

    • YSoSrs HuntyBooBooChile

      Hello again.

      I have nothing nice to say on topic so tell me else y'all talking about. :waiting:

    • Native New Yorker

      Fossil Red *kmichelle voice* I still can't stop laughing at that :lol:

    • KDub

      So nobody gonna say how Julia look like she done got something done to her face? I missed it?

      Cause that lil piece o meat that usta hang down from her throak is gone...

    • Bibi

      @E

      :yes:

    • dancerbee93

      KDub says:

      And this hoe Karlie was tryna say she was BORN in 1985…and had a kid in 1984.

      Getcho life Karlie.

      ----------------------
      She needs to take a basic math class..My 10 yo can help her out :coffee:

    • Ty

      ELove says:

      @Ty
      Heyyy SHE LQQKS Clean-n-Comfortable and I’m PRETTY SURE Someone of Her Size is All For BEING Comfortable Though (NO?!!?) I Mean J-Hud is The Celebrity (Not Julia…)
      ____________
      whatever works for her I guess. I just find it odd that she would pull out her best t shirt for a televised interview :coffee:

    • SamIAMnotHAM

      that would be 1994 if she is eighteen...
      I thought Katt had one biological SON and 7 adopted kids??

    • Iheart

      KDub says:

      And this hoe Karlie was tryna say she was BORN in 1985…and had a kid in 1984.

      Getcho life Karlie.

      __________

      :rofl:

    • http://youtube.com/watch?v=ntMXXpTATJo I Go There

      @I Go
      Maannnn I KNOW DUDES that call themselves “FAT-HO Pimps” and They say THAT SHYT with Great Pride Too
      _________________________________________

      Yep and will Take ole girl out and show her off like she a fking runway model...

    • Iheart

      What am I missing about Katt and Karlie being mentioned together :waiting:

    • Bibi

      @Igo

      Damn :lol:

    • dancerbee93

      Trendsetter says:

      ------------------
      ha!! I just read that chit over there looking at Grandma Karlies grandbaby

    • Such A F’n Lady

      KDub says:

      So nobody gonna say how Julia look like she done got something done to her face? I missed it?

      Cause that lil piece o meat that usta hang down from her throak is gone…
      _________________________________________

      :huh: You can see her throat? :blink:

    • KDub

      Persistent Genital Arousal Disorder
      -------------------------------------
      P-GAD?

      :kona:

    • dancerbee93

      Ty says:

      That outfite is cool for sitting around the house or on your way to the gym

      ------------------------
      Its ok if she was in Jen's kitchen chucking corn and cleaning greens...

    • Bibi

      Trendsetter says:

      Kim Ramsey, 44, feels constantly aroused and the slightest movement can trigger a climax. Trains, driving and even housework start the reaction. But unlike women who yearn for the “Yes, yes!” experience, Kim just thinks “Oh no!” The “busting” leaves her in pain, exhausted and unable to have a normal relationship. She said: “Other women wonder how come — I wonder how to stop mine.”
      Kim was diagnosed with incurable Persistent Genital Arousal Disorder. Doctors blame spinal cysts caused when she fell down stairs ten years ago. Kim, from Hitchin, Herts, but now living in Montclair, New Jersey, US, first had problems after sex with a new boyfriend in 2008. She said: “I had constant climaxes for four days. I thought I was going mad. It also happened with a new partner and I even tried sitting on frozen peas.”
      PEOPLE might joke but this condition is no laughing matter for sufferers. They find it difficult to talk about the problem, fearing people will laugh or think they are a sex maniac.
      Bizarre.
      _____________________________________
      Really??

    • Native New Yorker

      :rofl: :hahaha: @ kdub

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7je-DEQgPJk&feature=related ELove

      @Ty SAID "I just find it odd that she would pull out her best t shirt for a televised interview"

      :rofl: :rofl:

    • dancerbee93

      I Go There says:

      @I Go
      Maannnn I KNOW DUDES that call themselves “FAT-HO Pimps” and They say THAT SHYT with Great Pride Too

      ---------------------
      I have a male cousin that says he flucks with Fat chics cuz they just want you to spend time with them on they couch and spend money on you...Yeah he aint chit either :shrugs:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Trendsetter says:

      :offtopic:

      Kim Ramsey, 44, feels constantly aroused and the slightest movement can trigger a climax. Trains, driving and even housework start the reaction. But unlike women who yearn for the “Yes, yes!” experience, Kim just thinks “Oh no!” The “busting” leaves her in pain, exhausted and unable to have a normal relationship. She said: “Other women wonder how come — I wonder how to stop mine.”

      Kim was diagnosed with incurable Persistent Genital Arousal Disorder. Doctors blame spinal cysts caused when she fell down stairs ten years ago. Kim, from Hitchin, Herts, but now living in Montclair, New Jersey, US, first had problems after sex with a new boyfriend in 2008. She said: “I had constant climaxes for four days. I thought I was going mad. It also happened with a new partner and I even tried sitting on frozen peas.”

      PEOPLE might joke but this condition is no laughing matter for sufferers. They find it difficult to talk about the problem, fearing people will laugh or think they are a sex maniac.

      Bizarre.
      ________________

      Wow :blink: I thought about getting a clitoral hood piercing just to get that sensation, when I work out and walk up and down stairs :thinking:

    • Bibi

      Love is blind yall..ain't it?? :tea:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      :rofl: :hahaha: LMAO!

    • Iheart

      :whistle:
      I don't wanna be loved
      I don't wanna be loved
      I just wanna quickie
      No bite marks, no scratches, and no hickeys
      If you can get with that, mami come get with me
      I don't wanna be loved
      I don't wanna be loved
      I just wanna quick fix
      Up in your mix miss
      Send me your wishlist
      I have you addicted
      So mami come hit this

    • Iheart

      @Jenie, A friend of mine had hers done and she told me she was get hers just from the wind blowing hard :blink:

    • http://youtube.com/watch?v=ntMXXpTATJo I Go There

      dancerbee93 says:

      I Go There says:

      @I Go
      Maannnn I KNOW DUDES that call themselves “FAT-HO Pimps” and They say THAT SHYT with Great Pride Too

      ———————
      I have a male cousin that says he flucks with Fat chics cuz they just want you to spend time with them on they couch and spend money on you…Yeah he aint chit either
      __________________

      I actually think its dudes that just prefer larger women... one of them thangs.

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Iheart says:

      :whistle:
      I don’t wanna be loved
      I don’t wanna be loved
      I just wanna quickie
      No bite marks, no scratches, and no hickeys
      If you can get with that, mami come get with me
      I don’t wanna be loved
      I don’t wanna be loved
      I just wanna quick fix
      Up in your mix miss
      Send me your wishlist
      I have you addicted
      So mami come hit this
      _______________
      I loved his cd

      Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah

      I'm here to catch you when you fall
      I'm here to answer when you call
      In the morning, in the evening
      Baby, even in the afternoon

      I got the strength and the nerve
      Here to protect you and to serve
      In the morning, in the evening
      Baby, even in the afternoon

      I'm your hero, hero
      Your friend, your protector for you
      For you, for you
      I'm your hero, hero
      Your friend, your protector for you
      For you, for you, for you

      I'll be your superman in bed
      Yeah, you heard just what I said
      In the morning, in the evening
      Baby, even in the afternoon

      :whistle: :danban:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7je-DEQgPJk&feature=related ELove

      @dancer
      ONE of my Main Buddies in College had a GF but ALL of HIS Side-Chicks were BIG-GURLS Though... Huge Boobs, Long Hair and VERY Pretty :yes:

      He explained to me The BENEFITS of His Side-Chicks:
      They Can COOK and Alwayz have PLENTY of FOOD Around and THEY Keep Me WARM in The Winter Time Months (YUP...) :coffee:

    • http://youtube.com/watch?v=ntMXXpTATJo I Go There

      Kim Ramsey, 44, feels constantly aroused and the slightest movement can trigger a climax. Trains, driving and even housework start the reaction. But unlike women who yearn for the “Yes, yes!” experience, Kim just thinks “Oh no!” The “busting” leaves her in pain, exhausted and unable to have a normal relationship. She said: “Other women wonder how come — I wonder how to stop mine.”

      Kim was diagnosed with incurable Persistent Genital Arousal Disorder. Doctors blame spinal cysts caused when she fell down stairs ten years ago. Kim, from Hitchin, Herts, but now living in Montclair, New Jersey, US, first had problems after sex with a new boyfriend in 2008. She said: “I had constant climaxes for four days. I thought I was going mad. It also happened with a new partner and I even tried sitting on frozen peas.”

      PEOPLE might joke but this condition is no laughing matter for sufferers. They find it difficult to talk about the problem, fearing people will laugh or think they are a sex maniac.

      Bizarre.

      __________________________________________________

      something like this was on Strange Sex... The women that suffer from it HATE that shiat with a passion.

    • Bibi

      Iheart says:

      @Jenie, A friend of mine had hers done and she told me she was get hers just from the wind blowing hard

      really now.. :tea:

    • NaijaGal

      :popcorn: clyt piercing huh? any dick piercings in the house?

    • dancerbee93

      Bibi says:

      Love is blind yall..ain’t it??

      -----------------
      and deaf :hahaha:

    • YSoSrs HuntyBooBooChile

      @TREND

      I for one would not want that condition. I'd never be able to get anything done if I had to walk around like that. :no:

    • Iheart

      I wanted to get my clyt pierced but hubby said :blink: HAYUL NAWL!! He was scared they would pierce it wrong and I would loose my sensation :lol:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C6mvbNmMcqE DownBottom

      LOgged in JUST to say: Shout out to Ashley! I went to school with her! Didn't know you had your own business! :thumbsup: #entrepreneurflow :biggrin:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7je-DEQgPJk&feature=related ELove

      @jenie (#148)
      Beaded Panties... I Knew this Freaky-Thang that would wear Them and She said THEY Were better than a Vibrator :coffee:

    • NaijaGal

      Bibi says:

      Love is blind yall..ain’t it??
      ==================
      yup until they start to work your nerves

    • Native New Yorker

      Wow :blink: I thought about getting a ****oral hood piercing just to get that sensation, when I work out and walk up and down stairs :thinking:

      ==========================================================

      There's no real difference unless u go commando, same wit nip piercings #helpful :whistling:

    • YSoSrs HuntyBooBooChile

      dancerbee93 says:

      Bibi says:

      Love is blind yall..ain’t it??

      —————–
      and deaf
      _____
      Which explains both Mimi's and Joe's attraction to Stebbie. :coffee:

    • Iheart

      ELove says:

      @jenie (#148)
      Beaded Panties… I Knew this Freaky-Thang that would wear Them and She said THEY Were better than a Vibrator
      _________

      :thinking: I need to find me some of these :yes:

    • Bibi

      The things u read on here.. :pc:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      DB DB DB :cheer: and @Bibi That might be a good investment though :thinking:

    • Iheart

      Native New Yorker says:

      Wow I thought about getting a ****oral hood piercing just to get that sensation, when I work out and walk up and down stairs

      ==========================================================

      There’s no real difference unless u go commando, same wit nip piercings #helpful :whistling:

      __________

      Juss fass as heyul aintcha Native :lol:

    • dancerbee93

      YSoSrs HuntyBooBooChile says:

      dancerbee93 says:

      Bibi says:

      Love is blind yall..ain’t it??

      —————–
      and deaf
      _____
      Which explains both Mimi’s and Joe’s attraction to Stebbie.

      ----------------
      :cosign: and Kirk's deaf tone to Sheeda rapping and talking

    • Native New Yorker

      Iheart says:

      ELove says:

      @jenie (#148)
      Beaded Panties… I Knew this Freaky-Thang that would wear Them and She said THEY Were better than a Vibrator
      _________

      :thinking: I need to find me some of these :yes:

      ====================================
      :cosign:

    • Ty

      DownBottom says:

      LOgged in JUST to say: Shout out to Ashley! I went to school with her! Didn’t know you had your own business! #entrepreneurflow
      ____________
      Where u been :blink:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      ELove says:

      @jenie (#148)
      Beaded Panties… I Knew this Freaky-Thang that would wear Them and She said THEY Were better than a Vibrator
      _________________
      Where can I find these :thinking:

    • KDub

      Which explains both Mimi’s and Joe’s attraction to Stebbie.
      ----------------------------------------------
      Steebie's beefcake is about 12 inches long. I think thats why.

      Bout wide as a...hummmph not that I was LOOKING like that.

      :coffee:

    • Iheart

      @Jenie, Try Adam & Eve dot come. They have everythang :yes: Imma look when I get off

    • NaijaGal

      :newpost: on snow white

    • Iheart

      :newpost:

    • YSoSrs HuntyBooBooChile

      :hi: @DANCER

      FINALLY someone sees my font. :sideeye: to the rest of y'all.

    • Native New Yorker

      Juss fass as heyul aintcha Native :lol:

      =============================

      :ashamed: :yes: lol

    • Bibi

      If yall find em.. feel free to come discuss :tea:

    • Native New Yorker

      Hi yso :hug:

    • Bibi

      Yso

      :hugs: Take it

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Native New Yorker says:

      Wow :blink: I thought about getting a ****oral hood piercing just to get that sensation, when I work out and walk up and down stairs :thinking:

      ==========================================================

      There’s no real difference unless u go commando, same wit nip piercings #helpful :whistling:
      ______________

      The guy told me never to go commando cause eventually u will loose sensation down there, I heard this from several different piercing tattoo artist. They said the best way is the Hood, because the skin is thin there and it's not painful, it not directly piercing the cli& :tea:

    • http://youtube.com/watch?v=ntMXXpTATJo I Go There

      Almost got talked into getting my nipple pierced... dont think that would have been a great ideal

    • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      Monique responded to your comments. She says she was not going in on Julia. She says she's a big girl, too, and she "would NEVER degrade another obese person ever."

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Sandra Rose says:

      Monique responded to your comments. She says she was not going in on Julia. She says she’s a big girl, too, and she “would NEVER degrade another obese person ever.”
      ________________

      :tea: Then why send a email dedicating to the way she looks, if your not going in, meh :thinking:

    • Ty

      @ Sandra...Y couldnt she respond herself? Does she not have a log in :think:

    • NaijaGal

      " People can’t help if they are overweight."
      ==================
      lies

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      NaijaGal says:

      ” People can’t help if they are overweight.”
      ==================
      lies
      ______________

      :hahaha: exactly !

    • Ty

      NaijaGal says:

      ” People can’t help if they are overweight.”
      ==================
      lies
      ___________
      :rofl: yes they can...back away from the damn table

    • anw_rootbeer

      Damn that reader went in on j HUD sis! Maybe her sis is happy being one of us "regulars" now I prob would have fake the funk & tried to be in a dress & heels, but that woman can wear what she wants! Just cause her sis his Jennifer Hudson, should she live different?!

    • http://talkingwithtami.com/blog talkingwithtami

      My older sister hates dressing up and I can see probably that Julia didn't want to either. Not everyone is into getting dolled up. I would have yelled at my sis personally for even thinking of wearing a tee and shorts on an "Oprah" show. :tea:

    • Trendsetter

      YSoSrs HuntyBooBooChile says:

      @TREND

      I for one would not want that condition. I’d never be able to get anything done if I had to walk around like that.
      ________________________________________

      I couldn't imagine being in her shoes...

    • GAGIRL87

      Julia looks a mess point blank period!

    • yallcrazy

      @Tami (first off-keep up the good work)

      I would have yelled at my sis personally for even thinking of wearing a tee and shorts on an “Oprah” show. :tea:

      Yep, that's like wearing flip-flops to the White House.

      Wait, how much yall bet she's got on some flip-flops?! :rofl:

      Yall know she does :lol:
      #aintmyfaultorjensiguess

    • Trendsetter

      talkingwithtami says:

      My older sister hates dressing up and I can see probably that Julia didn’t want to either. Not everyone is into getting dolled up. I would have yelled at my sis personally for even thinking of wearing a tee and shorts on an “Oprah” show
      ___________________________________________________

      :cosign:

    • yallcrazy

      jeniefrumdabloc says:

      Sandra Rose says:

      Monique responded to your comments. She says she was not going in on Julia. She says she’s a big girl, too, and she “would NEVER degrade another obese person ever.”
      ________________

      :tea: Then why send a email dedicating to the way she looks, if your not going in, meh :thinking:

      :thinking: Seems like lil big Monique could've spent her time better, say at the gym :shrug:
      Fukc you care for? (re:"why her sis didn't get her involved in WW)
      She ain't your "Auntie" neither :nana:
      Learn to write properly prior to sending SR an e-mail.
      Ain't nobody put words in your mouth, YOU wrote in and the last sentence of your first letter, gets you a :shotsfired:
      Yall gone learn :tea:

    • Native New Yorker

      @Jenie yes its a hood piercing.....id die wit a straight thru piercing! lol so going commando wont hurt. Theres a slight sensation, but nothing special lol