Golden Globes 2013: Jodie Foster Emerges from the Closet

Jodie Foster Golden Globes 2013

Jodie Foster lonely Actress Jodie Foster finally came out of the closet after decades of rumors and denials.

Foster, 50, gave a long, rambling, disjointed speech publicly acknowledging her sexuality, fears, loneliness, children, ex-partner, and the Cecil B. DeMille award she received during Sunday night’s Golden Globes.

Foster gave some insight into the anxiety and apprehension that keeps other gay celebrities, such as Queen Latifah and Tyler Perry, hidden in their closeted sanctums.

“So while I’m here being all confessional, I guess I have a sudden urge to say something that I’ve never really been able to air in public,” she said. “So, a declaration that I’m a little nervous about but maybe not quite as nervous as my publicist right now, huh Jennifer? But I’m just going to put it out there, right? Loud and proud, right? So I’m going to need your support on this.”

Foster continued:

“I am single. Yes I am, I am single. No, I’m kidding — but I mean I’m not really kidding, but I’m kind of kidding. I mean, thank you for the enthusiasm. Can I get a wolf whistle or something? [Audio is silent for seven seconds] … be a big coming-out speech tonight because I already did my coming out about a thousand years ago back in the Stone Age, in those very quaint days when a fragile young girl would open up to trusted friends and family and co-workers and then gradually, proudly to everyone who knew her, to everyone she actually met. But now I’m told, apparently that every celebrity is expected to honor the details of their private life with a press conference, a fragrance and a prime-time reality show.

Foster acknowledged her ex-lover of 20 years, Cydney Bernard (whom she left for a younger woman but that relationship didn’t work out). She called Bernard a “heroic co-parent, my ex-partner in love but righteous soul sister in life, my confessor, ski buddy, consigliere.”

And she spoke tenderly to her 2 sons with Bernard (by artificial insemination):

“You see, Charlie and Kit, sometimes your mom loses it too. I can’t help but get moony, you know. This feels like the end of one era and the beginning of something else. Scary and exciting and now what? Well, I may never be up on this stage again, on any stage for that matter. Change, you gotta love it. I will continue to tell stories, to move people by being moved, the greatest job in the world. It’s just that from now on, I may be holding a different talking stick. And maybe it won’t be as sparkly, maybe it won’t open on 3,000 screens, maybe it will be so quiet and delicate that only dogs can hear it whistle. But it will be my writing on the wall.

Foster also touched on the despair and loneliness that some middle age lesbians (and gay men) experience after decades of pursuing love with others without loving ourselves.

“Jodie Foster was here,” she said, “I still am, and I want to be seen, to be understood deeply and to be not so very lonely.”

Click here to read the full transcript of Jodie Foster’s speech.



 


317 Responses to “Golden Globes 2013: Jodie Foster Emerges from the Closet”

  1. 1
    Bootcampgirl says:

    :applause:

  2. 2
    mrsloveleigh says:

    She came out during a speech a few years ago

  3. 3
    MsB2u says:

    i feel like no one has to explain to anyone what their sexual desires are.

  4. 4
    libra80sbaby says:

    I knew this already. Ever since The Silence of the Lambs :coffee:

  5. 5
  6. 6
    LadieLeo says:

    She came out years back when she thanked her then partner for her support at some award show.

  7. 7
    Betamax82 says:

    You don’t have to confirm your life choices to people :tea:

  8. 8
    Anna says:

    libra80sbaby says:

    I knew this already. Ever since The Silence of the Lambs

    ~~~~~~~~~~
    IKR. This isn’t new news. She does look nice for almost being 50.

  9. 9
    Starr says:

    I thought she came out already :confused:

  10. 10
    Diva says:

    And this is news to whom!!!! Everybody already knew Jody was a carpet muncher :rofl:

  11. 11
    FuturedocDonte says:

    Me and my coworker was talking bout this this morning.

    He said ” all that running from Michael Meyers done turned her out”

    That’s Jamie Lee Curtis dumbazz :hahaha:

  12. 12

    well maybe she’s doing it again because she’s single and ready to mingle??? what a way to throw it out there though. :tea:

  13. 13
    Diva says:

    *disclaimer <———–has nothing against the cmunchers #thatsall

  14. 14
    cougar lover says:

    she 50 and now she just saying something. it seems like the only way to truly be homo is to broadcast it, like some kind of ritual or something.

  15. 15
  16. 16
    Sunkissed404 says:

    I heard the speech…It was very captivating, heroic, confusing, and overwhelming…all at the same time. The apprehension was definitely heard in her voice, after she mentioned her publicist’s name and I’m glad she kept going. The fact that she felt compelled to get tha monkey off of her back, about her sexual orientation, probably made her feel extremely liberated. She’s a BAWSE…. :applause:

  17. 17
    mrsloveleigh says:

    In 2007 she won an award at a Women in Entertainment breakfast and she thanked her beautiful Cydnee then. I found that story in the daily mail

  18. 18
    Pickachu Tran says:

    :offtopic: piggy backing off a convo downstairs

    FAU Professor Thinks Sandy Hook Massacre May Have Been staged.

    Up at Florida Atlantic University, communications professor James Tracy has been regaling students for a decade with his thoughts on 9-11, the Oklahoma City bombing and the Kennedy assassination. He’s basically that uncle who spends all week reading Infowars so he can corner you at Thanksgiving to tell you how the CIA really killed JFK.

    Tracy’s conspiracy theories have gone national this week, though, as he’s tackled the Sandy Hook massacre. The tenured professor wonders whether Adam Lanza’s murder of 26 kids and adults was actually just an elaborately staged exercise by Obama’s government — or really, if it ever happened at all!

    “While it sounds like an outrageous claim, one is left to inquire whether the Sandy Hook shooting ever took place — at least in the way law enforcement authorities and the nation’s news media have described.”
    His basic thesis is that witness reports, early TV news coverage and other sources suggest that multiple shooters were actually arrested for the killing spree, but then police and patsy reporters conspired to pin the whole thing on Lanza.
    So what really happened in Sandy Hook? Tracy wonders if the whole thing wasn’t an elaborately staged event.

    “Was this to a certain degree constructed?” he asks the Sun Sentinel. “Was this a drill?”

    Don’t worry, though, Tracy isn’t saying for sure that all those kids didn’t die, he’s just here to ask questions.

    “Something most likely took place,” he said. Overall, I’m saying the public needs more information to assess what took place. We don’t have that. And when the media and the public don’t have that, various sorts of ideas can arise.”

  19. 19

    FuturedocDonte says:

    Me and my coworker was talking bout this this morning.

    He said ” all that running from Michael Meyers done turned her out”

    That’s Jamie Lee Curtis dumbazz
    ———
    :rofl: maybe just like we all look the same…they all look the same :lol: ;)

  20. 20
    Anna says:

    FuturedocDonte says:

    Me and my coworker was talking bout this this morning.

    He said ” all that running from Michael Meyers done turned her out”

    That’s Jamie Lee Curtis dumbazz :haha:
    ~~~~~~~~~~~
    :rofl:

  21. 21
    Sunkissed404 says:

    A couple of y’all up top feel like a do…I don’t people should feel pressured to even tell people their sexual preference…but in Hollywood..?

  22. 22
    twerkthat says:

    i feel like no one has to explain to anyone what their sexual desires are.

    :cosign: Aint nobody bidness

  23. 23
    Such A F'n Lady says:

    Um…ok. :coffee:

    Mornin’ roses! :waves:

  24. 24

    yassss jodie served up the steaming hot :tea: fresh off the pot didnt she? i aint watch it tho. saw it on GMA this mernin. i know the yt folks wont EEM ready last night :lol:

  25. 25

    Umm I thought she had came out years ago :thinking:

  26. 26
    twerkthat says:

    :waves: Roses

  27. 27
    Sandra Rose says:

    The gays on Twitter are furious that Jodie didn’t cartwheel out of the closet. :coffee:

  28. 28
    Pickachu Tran says:

    Sandra Rose says:

    The gays on Twitter are furious that Jodie didn’t cartwheel out of the closet
    ___________________

    :hahaha:

  29. 29

    I thought she came out when she played in that movie freaky friday :shrugs:

  30. 30
    NaijaGal says:

    I really didn’t and still don’t care….I remember her in Nell though

  31. 31
    Gigi26 says:

    Her speech was weird but deep when she talked about her momma…

    I for one didn’t know she was a fur burger consumer but hey…she ain’t liking and sticking me so I don’t care.

  32. 32

    :rofl: Sandra is a straight up mess.

  33. 33
    Gigi26 says:

    Oooh Clariceeee :lol:

  34. 34
    FuturedocDonte says:

    The gays on Twitter are furious that Jodie didn’t cartwheel out of the closet.
    —–
    I like how she did it nice and elegantly on her own time. Everything don’t have to be some teddy pendergrass/ Eddie Murphy cover story :coffee:

  35. 35
    OutsidetheBox says:

    Wayyy obvi. :eek:

  36. 36
    Just Looking Don't Ask Me NOTHING says:

    Morning All! :hi: :smile:

    Why can’t you you just be gay all to yourself :huh: Jeez I’m sick and tired of folks telling other to come out the closet. Mind your business and worrying about what you got going on in your closet.

  37. 37
    OutsidetheBox says:

    Me and my coworker was talking bout this this morning.

    He said ” all that running from Michael Meyers done turned her out”

    That’s Jamie Lee Curtis dumbazz

    __________________

    :rofl:

  38. 38
    Betamax82 says:

    Sandra how does one cartwheel out of the closet :hahaha:

  39. 39
    Diva says:

    So is my font white to ya’ll this cold Monday morning? :cuss:

  40. 40
    FuturedocDonte says:

    Diva :hug:

  41. 41
    Gigi26 says:

    Man I loved Jodie in the King and I…she was awesome :yes: Or is that someone else… :thinking:

    :hi: Diva

  42. 42
  43. 43
    Just Looking Don't Ask Me NOTHING says:

    Morning All Would inlude you too Diva :hug: and :kiss:

  44. 44
    Diva says:

    :wave: Future :buttshake: You all that matters……………..

  45. 45
    Anna says:

    piggy backing off a convo downstairs

    FAU Professor Thinks Sandy Hook Massacre May Have Been staged.

    Up at Florida Atlantic University, communications professor James Tracy has been regaling students for a decade with his thoughts on 9-11, the Oklahoma City bombing and the Kennedy assassination. He’s basically that uncle who spends all week reading Infowars so he can corner you at Thanksgiving to tell you how the CIA really killed JFK.

    Tracy’s conspiracy theories have gone national this week, though, as he’s tackled the Sandy Hook massacre. The tenured professor wonders whether Adam Lanza’s murder of 26 kids and adults was actually just an elaborately staged exercise by Obama’s government — or really, if it ever happened at all!

    “While it sounds like an outrageous claim, one is left to inquire whether the Sandy Hook shooting ever took place — at least in the way law enforcement authorities and the nation’s news media have described.”
    His basic thesis is that witness reports, early TV news coverage and other sources suggest that multiple shooters were actually arrested for the killing spree, but then police and patsy reporters conspired to pin the whole thing on Lanza.
    So what really happened in Sandy Hook? Tracy wonders if the whole thing wasn’t an elaborately staged event.

    “Was this to a certain degree constructed?” he asks the Sun Sentinel. “Was this a drill?”

    Don’t worry, though, Tracy isn’t saying for sure that all those kids didn’t die, he’s just here to ask questions.

    “Something most likely took place,” he said. Overall, I’m saying the public needs more information to assess what took place. We don’t have that. And when the media and the public don’t have that, various sorts of ideas can arise
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~
    What?

  46. 46
    twerkthat says:

    Diva gurl :happy:

  47. 47
    Diva says:

    :hug: Just Looking
    Jen-ayyyyyyyyyyyy
    Gigi

  48. 48
    Diva says:

    @Twerk…twerk sumthing for meh! :wave:

  49. 49
    FuturedocDonte says:

    Pandora think they slick. They not playing any music, but every 15 minutes play a commercial. I’m not paying $3.99 a month for an upgrade. :nono:

  50. 50
    Breezy says:

    I don’t understand why people have to make an announcement of their sexual preference to the world. Keep that ish to yourself :tea:

  51. 51
    FuturedocDonte says:

    Pandora think they slick. They not playing any music, but every 15 minutes play a commercial. I’m not paying $3.99 a month for an upgrade. :nono:

  52. 52
    Diva says:

    Breezy says:

    I don’t understand why people have to make an announcement of their sexual preference to the world. Keep that ish to yourself

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    :applause:

  53. 53
    OutsidetheBox says:

    Diva :wave: <— heated throw

  54. 54
    cougar lover says:

    FuturedocDonte says:

    Pandora think they slick. They not playing any music, but every 15 minutes play a commercial. I’m not paying $3.99 a month for an upgrade.

    When you play it on your bluray player, it doesn’t play commercials, just a short pause.

  55. 55
    Just Looking Don't Ask Me NOTHING says:

    One of my favorite movies Panic Room :love: and the little girl that grew up to be weird Kristen Stewart….

    and Inside Man :thumbsup:

  56. 56
    Bootcampgirl says:

    For anybody who watched Mob Wives, what did Carla find out about Joe? TIF

  57. 57

    Diva! :2dance:

    Just looking!! :hug: hey hun!

  58. 58
    Diva says:

    OutsidetheBox says:

    Diva <— heated throw

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    Hey OTB…..I'mma be needing that heated throw in a couple of days.

  59. 59
    scorpio says:

    Her speech although difficult to follow at times, was great. I totally understood her when she said she has been in the business for 47 years, and too hold on to some shred of privacy was her right to do so. I loved when she said, we as a society need to return to the days when privacy was cherished, now in the the days of Facebook, and Twitter everyone lives their lives out and open, and we are not a better society because of it. People’s lives have been jacked up by the facebook, twitter age we live in. I only feel sorry that she may have eluded to retiring from film, but when you look at it, she had done just about every role there is, what else is there to do, but possibly go behind the scenes. I think she handled herself, the way others probably should, in today’s social media age.

  60. 60
    OutsidetheBox says:

    They got a whole Snopes page on it @Anna. :(

  61. 61
    Diva says:

    dontyewbemadbew :coffee: says:

    Diva!

    Just looking!! hey hun!

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    Hey Faylaaaaaaaaa :hug:

  62. 62
    Anna says:

    29 jeniefrumdabloc says:

    I thought she came out when she played in that movie freaky friday
    ~~~~~~~~
    I was getting ready to laugh at you. I kept thinking of Jamie Lee Curtis & Lindsay Lohan. Yes, Jodi came out long ago.

  63. 63
    Just Looking Don't Ask Me NOTHING says:

    :hi: donyebebad

  64. 64
    Hershey says:

    Posted In Gay Pride
    Tags: Gay celebrities, Golden Globes 2013, Jodie Foster, Queen Latifah, Tyler Perry

    _________________________________

    :rofl: Tyler Perry when did she sashay out of the closet :rofl:

  65. 65

    u know muhfuggas wont NEVA be satisfied u hear me?

    1st they say black women cant grow hair.
    u show ‘em we CAN grow hair.
    THEN they complain that “we’re posting unrealistic pics” :huh: bish what?? no, errybody cant grow long luxurious hair bc it’s not in errybody’s DNA to do so. BUT that don’t mean that we cant appreciate looking at it. these bishes piss me AWF! :cuss:

  66. 66
    sassyshe says:

    Now Queen and Tyler follow suit. I watched Mr Deeds last night for the first time and that sex scene with Tyler and Gabriel looked so uncomfortable – no passion or anything

  67. 67
    Pickachu Tran says:

    Anna says:

    piggy backing off a convo downstairs

    FAU Professor Thinks Sandy Hook Massacre May Have Been staged.

    Up at Florida Atlantic University, communications professor James Tracy has been regaling students for a decade with his thoughts on 9-11, the Oklahoma City bombing and the Kennedy assassination. He’s basically that uncle who spends all week reading Infowars so he can corner you at Thanksgiving to tell you how the CIA really killed JFK.

    Tracy’s conspiracy theories have gone national this week, though, as he’s tackled the Sandy Hook massacre. The tenured professor wonders whether Adam Lanza’s murder of 26 kids and adults was actually just an elaborately staged exercise by Obama’s government — or really, if it ever happened at all!

    “While it sounds like an outrageous claim, one is left to inquire whether the Sandy Hook shooting ever took place — at least in the way law enforcement authorities and the nation’s news media have described.”
    His basic thesis is that witness reports, early TV news coverage and other sources suggest that multiple shooters were actually arrested for the killing spree, but then police and patsy reporters conspired to pin the whole thing on Lanza.
    So what really happened in Sandy Hook? Tracy wonders if the whole thing wasn’t an elaborately staged event.

    “Was this to a certain degree constructed?” he asks the Sun Sentinel. “Was this a drill?”

    Don’t worry, though, Tracy isn’t saying for sure that all those kids didn’t die, he’s just here to ask questions.

    “Something most likely took place,” he said. Overall, I’m saying the public needs more information to assess what took place. We don’t have that. And when the media and the public don’t have that, various sorts of ideas can arise
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~
    What?

    _______________________

    dude thinks sandy hook was staged by the government and really didnt take place basically, he thinks it was a governmen exercise…

  68. 68

    Dammit I missed Mobwives again and Ounce Upon a time :mad:

  69. 69
    OutsidetheBox says:

    BUT NOW IM TOLD, apparently that every celebrity is expected to honor the details of their private life with a press conference, a fragrance and a prime-time reality show
    ___________________

    Dont blame her. Blame the machine(s).

  70. 70
  71. 71
    FuturedocDonte says:

    Posted In Gay Pride
    Tags: Gay celebrities, Golden Globes 2013, Jodie Foster, Queen Latifah, Tyler Perry

    _________________________________

    Tyler Perry when did she sashay out of the closet
    ———–
    :dead: auntie be stealth shadin folk.

  72. 72
    Buttercup says:

    I’m straight!!! Whew…glad I got that off my chest :rolleyes:

  73. 73
    Diva says:

    :offtopic: LL is 45 years young today!!!! Happy Birthday to the GOAT!

  74. 74
    Who Dat says:

    I’m sorry but Jodie Foster is far from a Queen Latifah or a Tyler Perry. :no: Jodie Foster has been an award winning actress of her craft for dayum near 40 years. She also is smart as shyt. I think I read once long time ago she has the IQ scores of a genius. She went to Yale maybe on scholarship? IDR. Anyway she doesn’t really have to say shyt EVER. I was kinda mad she said anything PERIOD. You holla back at me when Queen or Madea wins an Oscar. And actually Queen has been nominated so take her off the list too AND she was pegged as a possible host to the awards.

  75. 75
    69 says:

    Twyla Perry gone get you, Sandra. Keep it up. You gone be looking crazy with no source of income over some mess you can’t prove. :coffee:

  76. 76

    the awkward fuggin moment when it’s colder OUTside than it is IN. ole menapausin beeyatches! :cuss: :rolleyes:

  77. 77
    INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST says:

    I LIKE ELLEN, SHE OWNS WHO SHE IS WITH NO APOLOGY AND FOR THE MOST PART IT SEEMS TO WORK WELL FOR HER, I WISH OTHERS COULD BE MORE LIKE HER

    I CAN’T STAND ALL THE WHINING, MOANING AND GROANING, BE WHO YOU ARE WITH NO APOLOGIES AND OTHERS WILL ACCEPT YOU, WHEN YOU CAN’T ACCEPT OR HAVE NOT ACCEPTED YOURSELF THEN OF COURSE OTHERS WON’T EITHER

    MAN THE FUG UP AND PUT YOUR BIG GIRL PANTIES ON, YOUR NOT THE FIRST OR THE LAST, NOBODY LIKES A PITY PARTY :coffee:

  78. 78
    NaijaGal says:

    so Memphitz and Toya are shopping a reality show called The Wright Way :yawn:

  79. 79
    OutsidetheBox says:

    “we’re posting unrealistic pics” bish what?? no, errybody cant grow long luxurious hair bc it’s not in errybody’s DNA to do so
    _________________________

    Long is a relative term.. My derm believes that any healthy person can grow to BSL or waist. Healthy is the key…something as slight as iron could be making us bald.

    As for your FB “friends/fans”, you know I routinely wanna chime in. Imma have to do more. :lol:

  80. 80
    Nakeya_j says:

    NaijaGal says:

    so Memphitz and Toya are shopping a reality show called The Wright Way
    ——
    Another show I won’t be watching. And how many shows is he gonna shop? Ugh, BET might pick it up.

  81. 81
    MissHarlem says:

    Who the fck died and left any of yall the gay closet in chief?!! It aint your puss or **** so why should you care if anyone comes out. They dont owe you a damn thing. Just my .02 :coffee:

    In any event coming back to work after a 4 day weekend is for the birds

  82. 82
    twerkthat says:

    Diva says:

    LL is 45 years young today!!!! Happy Birthday to the GOAT!

    And he still got it…body on point :yes:

  83. 83
    OutsidetheBox says:

    The Wright Way
    _______________

    *throat gag*

  84. 84
    Miany says:

    All I gotta say is I like Queen Latifah. Successful woman who is still sweet, loves her momma and has a humble attitude. She is obviously lesbian and I like that she doesn’t feel the need to announce it to the world.

  85. 85
    cougar lover says:

    gay closet in chief :rofl:

  86. 86
    OutsidetheBox says:

    And how many shows is he gonna shop?
    ___________________
    *K. Michelle voice*

    And if he aint got no Hitz, why dont you send his ass home?! Im on one…got damnnit I’m on oneeee. :whistle:

  87. 87
    Bad Influence says:

    :yawn:
    <—-traumatized

  88. 88

    Ain’t nobody checking for those two :nono: Toya and Memphis need to have several seats

  89. 89
    twerkthat says:

    NaijaGal says:

    so Memphitz and Toya are shopping a reality show called The Wright Way

    :wail: WHY :tea:

  90. 90
    INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST says:

    BISH PUHLEEZE, IT’S FUGGIN POST AND IF YALL TOO DAMN SENSITIVE TO HANDLE A COMMENT, LOG THE FUG OFF

    AND THAT RIGHT THERE IS WHAT THE FUG I’M TALKING ABOUT, YALL BE THE MAIN ONES SCREAMING TOLERANCE AND ACCEPTANCE BUT WILL SPAZ THE FUG OUT WHEN SOMEONE HAS AN OPION THAT DIFFERS FROM YOURS _/ _/ HAVE SEVERAL SEATS AND CHILL THE FUG OUT AND GO TAKE SOME AMBIEN OR ZOLOFT

    UNSTABLE ARSE :coffee:

  91. 91
    OutsidetheBox says:

    Harlemmmmm :hahaha: Shuga drawls. :kiss: I dont know why it riles ppl so.. *Bey lost face*

  92. 92
    VDot says:

    Auntie is it safe to log on here from my work computer? This site kept triggering virus alerts and IT took my laptop last week :crying:

  93. 93
    OutsidetheBox says:

    Carmen Sandiego!!! :cheer: :hug: YEAHHHHH BISH!!! Where you beez in the US trap??

  94. 94
    Anna says:

    @Outsidethebox. I read what you posted. Tell that to the ppl who lost loved ones.

  95. 95

    I heard mephitz dropped his little accusations or what not with Kmichelle :tea:

  96. 96
    KayCeiSoul says:

    The gays on Twitter are furious

    *****************************************

    Isn’t this always the case? Those are some angry lil’ dumplin’s aren’t they? :coffee:

    Good Afternoon Fam. :grin:

  97. 97
    Pickachu Tran says:

    Nakeya_j says:

    NaijaGal says:

    so Memphitz and Toya are shopping a reality show called The Wright Way
    ——
    Another show I won’t be watching. And how many shows is he gonna shop? Ugh, BET might pick it up.

    ________________

    what happened to that Real Mistresses of Atlanta show??? :thinking:
    Im surprised EBT or VH1 didnt pick it up…

  98. 98
    OutsidetheBox says:

    Some chit unstable alright. *props desk up* :rofl:

  99. 99
  100. 100
    MissHarlem says:

    OTBBBBB :kiss: me either boo especially when Im randomly commenting :shrug: too tired to care today

  101. 101
    69 says:

    NaijaGal says:

    so Memphitz and Toya are shopping a reality show called The Wright Way
    _____________________
    :whistle:

    I’m not your average chick from the N.O. You know what it hit fo…

    I’m Mrs. Wright now, he ain’t looking no mo.

    :lol:

  102. 102
    twerkthat says:

    I heard mephitz dropped his little accusations or what not with Kmichelle

    hmmmm :thinking: I wonder why is it because she was tellin the truf

  103. 103
    Nakeya_j says:

    jeniefrumdabloc says:

    I heard mephitz dropped his little accusations or what not with Kmichelle

    ——
    I was wondering why nothing else was said about it. SO all that means to me is that he is a woman beater. oh ok.

  104. 104
    MissHarlem says:

    INTENSE my comment wasnt towards you, just randomly commenting :coffee:

  105. 105
    Pickachu Tran says:

    KayCeiSoul says:

    The gays on Twitter are furious

    *****************************************

    Isn’t this always the case? Those are some angry lil’ dumplin’s aren’t they?

    Good Afternoon Fam
    ______________________

    you gettin 7 to 10 inch ding dong up the chocalate hole every night you’d be angry too… azz whistling while you walk will make anyone a bit touchy and sensitive :coffee:

  106. 106
    Bad Influence says:

    @Jackson, i beez in Vegas bew….when i tell you that im still in SHOCK over that road trip :lol:

    it was truly an experience that i will never 4get *sigh*

  107. 107
    MissHarlem says:

    FIANCE I texted your ass :eyeroll: glad yall finally made it safe last night

  108. 108

    I still lost as to why shat just went left :blink: Oh yeah Hell Memphis was lying and Toya just ugh :no:

  109. 109
    Milky says:

    so Memphitz and Toya are shopping a reality show called The Wright Way

    __________________________________
    they must be ready for a divorce.

  110. 110
    OutsidetheBox says:

    Tell that to the ppl who lost loved ones.
    _____________________________________

    Im all for a good conspiracy theory..theyre just rarely good or easily disproved.

    Ppl are saying that one of the dead children isnt dead and was photo’d with president Obama after the shooting :(

    Its the damn dead girl’s sister wearing a dress her sister had been photo’d in…the photo that was released to the media. :smack:

  111. 111

    OTB the damn alopeciad crew be working my damn nerves u hear me? this one pic i posted of a chic’s 3 year BC journey & she had great growth. chic’s was chiming in, that’s impossible & we shouldn’t be lying to folks getting their hopes up. i was was AH-palled u hea me? :shocked:

    some of us are SO lost guhl!

    HIS!!! :waves: <—a dollar for the slot machines
    whassamatta bew??

  112. 112
    OutsidetheBox says:

    KayCeiSoul :wave: <–a lullaby I wrote for you to sing the baby :love:

  113. 113
    MSVALLDAY says:

    Oh ok :blink:

  114. 114
    twerkthat says:

    Pickachu Tran says:

    you gettin 7 to 10 inch ding dong up the chocalate hole every night you’d be angry too… azz whistling while you walk will make anyone a bit touchy and sensitive

    :wail: :hahaha:

  115. 115
    Nakeya_j says:

    All that yadda yadda Toya was talking about K.Michelle….I wonder if she feels real stupid now? hummm…

  116. 116

    dontyewbemadbew :coffee: says:

    OTB the damn alopeciad crew be working my damn nerves u hear me? this one pic i posted of a chic’s 3 year BC journey & she had great growth. chic’s was chiming in, that’s impossible & we shouldn’t be lying to folks getting their hopes up. i was was AH-palled u hea me?
    __________________

    Is this on the fb page :pc:

  117. 117
    Gigi26 says:

    Panic Room and the little girl that grew up to be weird Kristen Stewart….

    and Inside Man
    ———————-
    Two great films…Loved Panic Room :yes:

    Was Inside Man with Denzel or am I thinking of something else?

  118. 118

    jeniefrumdabloc says:

    I heard mephitz dropped his little accusations or what not with Kmichelle

    mhhmm, he aint have no receipts :tea:

  119. 119
    FuturedocDonte says:

    I be confused.

    Somebody stay coming out swinging in here. What I miss :thinking:

  120. 120
    MissHarlem says:

    JENIE :shrug: me either :lol:

  121. 121
    69 says:

    Pickachu Tran says:

    you gettin 7 to 10 inch ding dong up the chocalate hole every night you’d be angry too… azz whistling while you walk will make anyone a bit touchy and sensitive
    _________________
    :ghost:

  122. 122
    MissHarlem says:

    RE: Panic Room Forest Whitaker did is directing thang in that movie

  123. 123
    OutsidetheBox says:

    it was truly an experience that i will never 4get *sigh*

    ___________________

    Exactly what is possed to be! :heart: #TeamFamily

    I enjoyed your pics. Alright now, getting your Lorna Simpson on! :heart:

  124. 124
    NaijaGal says:

    @JENIE – yeah he requested it be dismissed without prejudice :yawn: nigguh didn’t have a case in the first place

  125. 125
    INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST says:

    MIZZ HARLEM

    THAT’S OK, STRIKE MY COMMENT OR JUST FOR THE HELL OF IT POP OFF, I AINT GOT SHIAT TO DO IT’S MONDAY-LET’S START AN E-BEEF ANY HOW, I’M BORED, CRANKY, PMSing, BOUT TO TOSS THIS ZOLOFT BACK WITH SOME :coffee: :rofl:

  126. 126
    OutsidetheBox says:

    they must be ready for a divorce.

    ____________

    :hahaha:

  127. 127

    Nakeya_j says:

    All that yadda yadda Toya was talking about K.Michelle….I wonder if she feels real stupid now? hummm…
    _____________________

    Beesh should have always felt damn stupid vouching for some shat you saw happen, :coffee: that happened before you was even in the picture. Rasheedah too. :nono: They both need to have a seat

  128. 128
    MissHarlem says:

    INTENSE :no: I actually enjoy your font so we will and shall not e beef

  129. 129
    INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST says:

    Somebody stay coming out swinging in here

    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

    NO YOU MEAN WIND MILLING, ALL BLIND AND WILLY NILLY AND SHIAT :rofl:

  130. 130
    Bad Influence says:

    did Kaycei have OUR baby?? :waiting:

    Fayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy :hug:

    Fiance, i texted everyboday back but the service on those roads was so fugged up…i def answered u tho right b4 i headed 2 New Mexico bew :kiss:

  131. 131

    I’m back. :hi:

    @ Fay…Lil mama, the baby, has hair now. I meant to take a pic for you yesterday but didn’t have my phone. That Whip… :clap: :hug:

    @ Shaun….I found them, on Ebay, Adidas 18.99 :yahoo:

    @ PB…So glad you made it safely. I’ve been meaning to check on you but, with being back and forth to the hospital, my mind is all over. Blame my mind, not my heart for not checking. :hug:

  132. 132
    cougar lover says:

    who e-beefin’ for the fugg of it?

  133. 133
    NaijaGal says:

    BAD ‘FLU :hug: so happy to hear you’re safe and soud

  134. 134

    Harlem! :hug:

    @ Diva and anyone I missed…Thanks for all the love and well wishes sent to GMa Dimpz. She had a bad spell between Friday and Saturday but, she a BAWSE, what we really call her, so she’s GREAT now. :yes: :hug:

  135. 135
    OutsidetheBox says:

    3 year BC journey & she had great growth.
    +_________________________

    3 years = the potential to grow and retain ~18 inches. This kinda chit makes me hella sad. @Fay

    Thats why I stick to the crakka forums. They never go thru this. Weightloss too! Every comparison pic a lady posts, bishes (ALWAYS BISHES) be like thats photoshopped. :wtf:

    Just cause your sorry ass couldnt carry your baby and drop weight or rebound after that relationship dont mean I couldnt. :nono: #fukkincrabs

  136. 136
    MissHarlem says:

    FIANCE I never got it :wail: and I sent you a pic :grin:

    MZ :hug: hope all is well

  137. 137
    OutsidetheBox says:

    mhhmm, he aint have no receipts

    ___________________

    :hahaha: EXCELLENT. *high 5s K. Michelle in my head*

  138. 138
    twerkthat says:

    Nakeya_j says:

    All that yadda yadda Toya was talking about K.Michelle….I wonder if she feels real stupid now? hummm…

    Toya knew her husband :whip: on K

    And Toya didn’t want it with K….K woulda shock the table on that arse

  139. 139
    Nakeya_j says:

    jeniefrumdabloc says:

    Nakeya_j says:

    All that yadda yadda Toya was talking about K.Michelle….I wonder if she feels real stupid now? hummm…
    _____________________

    Beesh should have always felt damn stupid vouching for some shat you saw happen, that happened before you was even in the picture. Rasheedah too. They both need to have a seat
    —–
    I don’t understand where Rasheedah came in. And really Rasheedah is just mad because she STILL not signed to a major label and STILL not really moving independent units, however K. Michelle is now signed. It seems to me that K.Michelle’s story was all true. Rasheedah, Toya, Tamar (even thought I like her) and whom ever else was talking all that trash should eat crow right now.

  140. 140
    Gigi26 says:

    Yeah Inside Man was directed by Spike Lee…freaking amaze balls that movie was :yes: :clap:

  141. 141
    Who Dat says:

    you gettin 7 to 10 inch ding dong up the chocalate hole every night you’d be angry too… azz whistling while you walk will make anyone a bit touchy and sensitive
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    Misconduct like HAIL… and I am over here eating fuggin LINDOR fuggin chocolate truffles. :no:

    Fugg u yo :ghost:

  142. 142
    NaijaGal says:

    INTENSE will admit when she’s strong and wrong *flashback to DeAndria* :rofl: :hahaha:

  143. 143
    OutsidetheBox says:

    KITA *teary eyed* i cannot believe you found them on ebay, the most beloved, search-first, place. :love:

    Make sure you search =for the ones you found…again on ebay to insure youre receiveing the lowest price #proud often the seller will have the same thing listed lower.

  144. 144
    Bad Influence says:

    FIANCE! WHAT?? resend that shyt…i didnt get it :waiting:

    Naijaaaaaaaaaaaaaa :hug: :love:

    @Dimpz, oh i know bew :hug: how is she??

  145. 145
    iAmChan says:

    What up family? How the hell are yall?

  146. 146
    Gigi26 says:

    :waves: Bad! Glad to hear you made it to Vegas :yes:

    @OTB: Man a bish been natural for a year and two months and my hair is now shoulder blade length. Key to that growth? Keeping it cornrowed in a weave. I don’t use hella products on the scalp during that time and I just leave it be. If them cactus haired bishes can’t learn then they obviously gotta hate :no: Ole Precious mama looking asses :no:

  147. 147
    KayCeiSoul says:

    Bad Influence says:

    did Kaycei have OUR baby??

    **********************************

    NAW! :mad:

    He’s still IN THERE! Living off the fat of the land!
    Out he goes on the 12th of Feb. though. I plan to sleep outside the hospital the night before.
    Be the first one in anesthesia. :yes:

  148. 148
    MissHarlem says:

    NAIJA first :hug: second which is why I enjoy her font she will spaz but will be on some my bad :lol:

    FIANCE resending now. You will appreciate :grin:

  149. 149

    Dimpz! :hug: that’s FANTASTIC news guhl! THAT just made my day. thank you!!!

    Jenie :tea: guhl hell yeah. a page called “exposing black truth” shared the pic on their page, & hunty i was DONE! :no: <—smh

  150. 150
    Milky says:

    Out he goes on the 12th of Feb. though. I plan to sleep outside the hospital the night before.
    Be the first one in anesthesia.
    ________________________________
    u r so crazy :rofl:

  151. 151
    Diva says:

    twerkthat says:

    Diva says:

    LL is 45 years young today!!!! Happy Birthday to the GOAT!

    And he still got it…body on point

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    Yep and he could get :hump:
    :hug: Hey MzDimpz

  152. 152
    Gigi26 says:

    I want to stage an intervention for Gabby Douglas…Po baby was looking like the spawn of Pam Oliver with that hat hair last night! WHY they did that to her?! :no: :mad:

  153. 153
    KayCeiSoul says:

    OutsidetheBox says:

    KayCeiSoul <–a lullaby I wrote for you to sing the baby

    ***************************

    :hug:

    Brew-ti-fuh! Thank ya!

    I plan to record a lullabye cd for him anyway. Your tune would be welcome! :yes:

  154. 154
    NaijaGal says:

    *runs through the fields to BIG SISTER GORGEOUS ONE* MISSH :hug: you sweet sexy thang you

  155. 155
    Diva says:

    :hug: Bad Fluuuuuuuuuuuuu

  156. 156
    Milky says:

    @fayla
    I am a strong believer in the Whip as I have told u before, I have been using it for about 4 months and I have 3 to 4 inches of growth. All natural hair. I will post before and after pics soon!

  157. 157

    @ Shaun….I sure did double check. :yes: I shop on Ebay a lot but, normally for miscellaneous stuff, never clothes hardly. I did buy a Sean John party dress from there once that I’ve never worn. :ashamed:

    @ PB… :hug: GREAT! As gorgeous as ever. I saw her yesterday, will be going by today after work.

    If my font is a mess going forward, please forgive me, the Bestie gave me coffee this morning. She knows I can’t do caffeine. I’m jittery as hell now. :rofl:

  158. 158
    MissHarlem says:

    FAYLA :nono: not feeling your new name btw #youcare however hey boo :hug:

  159. 159
    Who Dat says:

    INTENSE will admit when she’s strong and wrong *flashback to DeAndria*

    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    ‘Tense was so FUNNY that day. She was like YALL GONNA stop talking about my fave gospel sanger ALL RECKLESS.

    :wail:

  160. 160
    FuturedocDonte says:

    Alright I’ll be back. I gotta do a lil bit of work today. I’m startin to get side eye from folk :peace:

  161. 161
    Diva says:

    @Kaycei :buttshake:

  162. 162
    Diva says:

    :hug: MissHarlem hey babes

  163. 163
    OutsidetheBox says:

    Keeping it cornrowed.
    ____________________

    Yasssss and Gigs! Ive finally gotten enough that I must get at least 15 cornrows or my wigs will be ill and wiggy. :no:

    So happy. Im bout ready to come out the natural closet :lol: Soon as I learn some styling.

  164. 164
    MissHarlem says:

    Whip is also good for wax burns. It gets rid of them in less than 24 hrs :coffee:

  165. 165
    69 says:

    HIS

    I saw your photos on Instagram. What are you doing out West? :waiting:

  166. 166
    Milky says:

    @diva hey my ebew how r u doing today? Okay enough wit da small talk pass me a drank!!! :kiss: :hug:

  167. 167
    NaijaGal says:

    Gigi26 says:

    I want to stage an intervention for Gabby Douglas…Po baby was looking like the spawn of Pam Oliver with that hat hair last night! WHY they did that to her?!
    ========================
    that lime green dress looked so cheap :no: <—smh…her momma need to take the reigns or something cause she 16 going on 43 with that fit

  168. 168

    Thats why I stick to the crakka forums. They never go thru this. Weightloss too! Every comparison pic a lady posts, bishes (ALWAYS BISHES) be like thats photoshopped. :wtf:

    Just cause your sorry ass couldnt carry your baby and drop weight or rebound after that relationship dont mean I couldnt. :nono: #fukkincrabs

    :hahaha: guhl STOP hea?! :lmao:

    i FEEL u tho. i mean u’da thought the chic had hair down to he ASS & it looked to be about 18 inches, right on target at 6 inches per year :rolleyes: these bishes aint gone neva seem to learn & chit! ugh.edu

    KAY! :love: look here, how old is yo son tho? :tea:
    HARLEM! :kiss: hola bew!

  169. 169
    Pickachu Tran says:

    want to stage an intervention for Gabby Douglas…Po baby was looking like the spawn of Pam Oliver with that hat hair last night! WHY they did that to her?!

    _______________________________

    The spawn of pam oliver :rofl: geesus be some virgin malaysian….

  170. 170
    OutsidetheBox says:

    I have been using it for about 4 months and I have 3 to 4 inches of growth.
    _________________

    Yall walk light with all this gloating. *files nails*

    Think of the lurkers. :hehehe: : ha:

  171. 171
    MissHarlem says:

    DIVAAAAAA :hug: got the moscato rose on chill for after work. I just cant do mondays

  172. 172
    Milky says:

    wax burns? :blink:

  173. 173

    I’m gotta get throwback JJ, Poetic Justic braids or some Senegalese twists really soon. It’s time to give this mass of mess on my head a break.

  174. 174
    Just Looking Don't Ask Me NOTHING says:

    I LIKE ELLEN, SHE OWNS WHO SHE IS WITH NO APOLOGY AND FOR THE MOST PART IT SEEMS TO WORK WELL FOR HER, I WISH OTHERS COULD BE MORE LIKE HER

    and

    AND THAT RIGHT THERE IS WHAT THE FUG I’M TALKING ABOUT, YALL BE THE MAIN ONES SCREAMING TOLERANCE AND ACCEPTANCE BUT WILL SPAZ THE FUG OUT WHEN SOMEONE HAS AN OPION THAT DIFFERS FROM YOURS _/ _/ HAVE SEVERAL SEATS AND CHILL THE FUG OUT AND GO TAKE SOME AMBIEN OR ZOLOFT

    UNSTABLE ARSE
    ________________

    ^^^^^^ That made me tear up and :rofl: Whooooo Weee Thanks Intense

    and she perscribed sleeping meds.

  175. 175
    OutsidetheBox says:

    INTENSE will admit when she’s strong and wrong *flashback to DeAndria*

    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    ‘Tense was so FUNNY that day. She was like YALL GONNA stop talking about my fave gospel sanger ALL RECKLESS.

    ________________________________

    Whew. Lawd. That. Day. Was. Remarkable? :lol:

  176. 176
    Diva says:

    Milky says:

    @diva hey my ebew how r u doing today? Okay enough wit da small talk pass me a drank!!!

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    Hey my hunni bunni…I’m doing swell, what we dranking this morning!!!! :kiss:

  177. 177

    MissHarlem says:

    Whip is also good for wax burns. It gets rid of them in less than 24 hrs

    :rofl: wait. what?? Harlem wth kinda freaky sneaky YEW got goins on??

  178. 178
    OutsidetheBox says:

    Whip is also good for wax burns. It gets rid of them in less than 24 hrs
    ____________________

    Pics or it didnt happen™. :tea:

  179. 179

    REDLIPS! :kiss: How you Lady?

  180. 180
    Diva says:

    MissHarlem says:

    DIVAAAAAA got the moscato rose on chill for after work. I just cant do mondays

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    Me either guhl…hate em with a muthafukkin Passion Okay!!!!! :cheers:

  181. 181
    Gigi26 says:

    that lime green dress looked so cheap <—smh…her momma need to take the reigns or something cause she 16 going on 43 with that fit
    ——————————-
    YES that was horrid but the hair was just atrocious. I'd rather have the gel'd snap back than that hat hair! Goodness, looked like one of her g-mama old wigs she stole :no:

    I really wanted to tweet her the name and no of my hair stylist cuz that shyt last night was UNACCEPTABLE.

  182. 182
    Just Looking Don't Ask Me NOTHING says:

    :waves: @ Dimpz Hey Ma

    I’m thinking about a Straight Bang and Currly weave in the back

    Picture it like business in the front and party in the back, what you think? OTB

  183. 183
    OutsidetheBox says:

    these bishes aint gone neva seem to learn & chit! ugh.edu
    ____________

    :hahaha: ugh.edu <—stolen

    Bish can find every Remy on the net and cant find one forum to learn their ass. Trolls. :eyeroll:

  184. 184
    Milky says:

    Yall walk light with all this gloating. *files nails*

    Think of the lurkers. :hehehe: : ha:

    ___________________________
    my hair was severly damaged before I started using so most of that was my hair finally growing back… ION care about no hating azz bishes!! hmpff!

  185. 185

    HARLEM i’m not feeling it either, but imma stick to it till the right one comes to me. i’m open for suggestions tho, whatcha got? :popcorn:

  186. 186
    Gigi26 says:

    The spawn of pam oliver geesus be some virgin malaysian….
    ————————-
    :yes: Hell yea when Pam’s shyt start looking better than that shyt Gabby had…and she half yo age…something must be done! :rofl:

  187. 187
    OutsidetheBox says:

    KITA Bew :lol: Dont have no body braiding all that damn hair just for you to take it down in two weeks. :natural: :rules:

  188. 188
    Diva says:

    Milky says:

    wax burns?

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    LOL, my daughter stuck her finger in a Scentsy burner that had a clear brick in it…she gone ask me why I had it on and no wax in it….it’s clear…hello but she proceeded to stick her finger in it and got a wax burn. I thought I was gone die laughing……these young folks

  189. 189
    KayCeiSoul says:

    Hey Diva! :buttshake:

  190. 190
    OutsidetheBox says:

    Picture it like business in the front and party in the back, what you think? OTB
    _____________________

    :hahaha: Leave me alone Cali!! :hahaha: Did you pick out a ‘do for the wedding?

  191. 191

    Milky says:

    @fayla
    I am a strong believer in the Whip as I have told u before, I have been using it for about 4 months and I have 3 to 4 inches of growth. All natural hair. I will post before and after pics soon!

    :yahoo: i cant wait sugah! :dance:

    thank you!!!

  192. 192
    Diva says:

    :shakebutt: hey TROLLS

  193. 193
    OutsidetheBox says:

    ION care about no hating azz bishes!! hmpff!

    ______________________

    Thats that chit I like. :fistbump:

  194. 194
    MissHarlem says:

    :rofl: all kinds of wax burns and thats all Im saying. I also do my own waxing except my brows

    OTB ooohhhhh I gots pics :rofl:

  195. 195
    Milky says:

    LOL, my daughter stuck her finger in a Scentsy burner that had a clear brick in it…she gone ask me why I had it on and no wax in it….it’s clear…hello but she proceeded to stick her finger in it and got a wax burn. I thought I was gone die laughing……these young folks
    ____________________________________________
    yeah they’re something else. :rofl: you can po me a Skinny Bish. That’s vodka with diet soda. (trying to watch the calories)

  196. 196

    Bish can find every Remy on the net and cant find one forum to learn their ass. Trolls. :eyeroll:

    :hahaha: :preach: i’m tryin to learn the peepa!

    :offtopic:

    who got a sure-fire home remedy for earaches tho??

    it’s a 911 :warning:

  197. 197
    Diva says:

    Ladies, I’m seriously thinking about not getting any more relaxers. I do not want to do the big chop. I don’t wanna wear wigs or weaves. Any suggestions to transition with two textures?

  198. 198
    OutsidetheBox says:

    Diva you sell scentsy? I need two lightbulbs!

    Im mad I cant just go in the Home Depot. :cuss: The ones I get that can actually fit my plugins are too low watt I think. It just BARELY melts the wax. :(

    I stocked up on walmarts waxes after xmas. Burners too. Scentsy still the best tho. That wax on my walls tho. :eek:

  199. 199

    :rofl: @ Shaun…they’ll be up 6weeks to a month. Depends on my rate of growth. I hate raggedy looking braids

  200. 200
    Diva says:

    Milky says:

    LOL, my daughter stuck her finger in a Scentsy burner that had a clear brick in it…she gone ask me why I had it on and no wax in it….it’s clear…hello but she proceeded to stick her finger in it and got a wax burn. I thought I was gone die laughing……these young folks
    ____________________________________________
    yeah they’re something else. you can po me a Skinny Bish. That’s vodka with diet soda. (trying to watch the calories)

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    Oh we doing skinny dranks now!!! :smack: :rofl:

  201. 201
    Milky says:

    goin to lurnch bbl

  202. 202
    Just Looking Don't Ask Me NOTHING says:

    No! I’m picking out style for surgery! Gonna be laid up in hosptial for 5 to 7 days….

  203. 203
    MissHarlem says:

    FAYLA just for the bizness sake anything with whip in it. Bishes cant be in control of your paper boo :yes:

    JUST :hug: hey boo

  204. 204
    GAGIRL87 says:

    I don’t care nothing bout Jodi Foster and her love life :yawn: I’m tired for real! Sandra NEW POST!!!

  205. 205

    I see we still in here :bye: BBL

  206. 206
    Tyler Perry's BRENDEN: Based On The Novel "Push" By Sapphire says:

    @Dontbemad I have a few suggestions…Cl*toriaBeckham…JadaPinkcl*t….Ummmm ChiefQweef…Urrruh 2Chinz…Ummmm

  207. 207

    :offtopic:

    my cuz is SO pretty right? but ERRY damn Godforsaken pic she posts on FB & IG is the fuggin DUCKFACE :chase: WHY cant that chit DIE already dammit?!?!? :cuss:

    she looks so damn stupid. & is too old (in her 20’s) & educated to be looking that damn stupid. chit irks my soul, but we aint close so she’d prolly think “i’m hating” if i said something. :rollseyes:

  208. 208
    Diva says:

    OutsidetheBox says:

    Diva you sell scentsy? I need two lightbulbs!

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    I do not…but the lady I buy from gives me lightbulbs free for life. Contact the person you purchased them from and ask her for lightbulbs. Yep Scentsy is the best eva! Thought about selling…………

  209. 209
    Oprahs Bunion says:

    Gigi26 says:

    that lime green dress looked so cheap <—smh…her momma need to take the reigns or something cause she 16 going on 43 with that fit
    ——————————-
    YES that was horrid but the hair was just atrocious. I'd rather have the gel'd snap back than that hat hair! Goodness, looked like one of her g-mama old wigs she stole

    I really wanted to tweet her the name and no of my hair stylist cuz that shyt last night was UNACCEPTABLE.

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    I saw that… :no: that wig was not the best look.

  210. 210
    KayCeiSoul says:

    Hey Fay! :hug:

    Ewww don’t mention that manchild!! :rofl:

    He just turned 19.

    He ticked me OFF over his b-day weekend! I think I told you he randomly painted the upstairs bathroom Superman blue? And went ALL outside the lines. Funny how he doesn’t do that Ray Charles -ish when he does his OWN art!

    He spent his money on partying all weekend instead of getting the paint and supplies for that bathroom. Since he’s usually my responsible one, I’ma let him slide. I’ma give him another WEEK to come up with that bread. After that it’s :shank: because I can’t fight or do anything else rett-nah.

  211. 211

    LETTER OF PRAYER) DEAR GOD I COME TO YOU TO THANK YOU FOR ALLOWING ME TO SEE WHO MY FRIENDS ARE AND THANKING YOU FOR REMOVING PEOPLE THAT DID NOT HAVE MY FAVOR BUT I ONLY ASK ONE MORE FAVOR DO YOU THINK YOU CAN GET THE ONE THAT EMBARRASSED THERESELF ON FB AND TRYED TO CREATE A PROBLEM FOR TO PLEASE COME GET THEY BED ROOM FURNITURE AND ENTERTAINMENT CENTER AND OTHER THINGS OUT MY DEN THAT ME BEING A FRIEND WAS STORING FOR THEM LORD YOU KNO THEY ONLY HAVE TO MONDAY #THANKYOUGOD

    :hahaha: only on FB!

    this was posted about a chic i know out here. THEN the kneegrow proceeds to posting pics of her coming to get her chit :dead:

  212. 212
    OutsidetheBox says:

    who got a sure-fire home remedy for earaches tho??

    it’s a 911
    ________________________
    *clamps ears shut* Fayyy! I saw your status about this! I think its the weather changes! My left one started feeling like when i was a child. It didnt turn into anything tho but I FELT it all weekend.

    Dont forget to gargle with salt water 4/5 xs a day. Onion in the ear (heated), and of course hot sweet oil. :no: I feels for you bew. Dont wish them chits on my worst enemy.

  213. 213
    Just Looking Don't Ask Me NOTHING says:

    Tyler Perry’s BRENDEN: Based On The Novel “Push” By Sapphire
    ____________
    :hug: We meet again :danban1:

  214. 214
    Oprahs Bunion says:

    :waves: Good Mornin Roses!!!

  215. 215
    OutsidetheBox says:

    Ladies, I’m seriously thinking about not getting any more relaxers. I do not want to do the big chop. I don’t wanna wear wigs or weaves. Any suggestions to transition with two textures?
    _______________

    I did not big chop. My head…Large you see. :eek: But Im a believer in the wig/weave route.

    Do you get your hair styled at a salon? Or self styled? You could rock rollersets, braidouts, updos, and the like until.. whenever.

  216. 216
    Tyler Perry's BRENDEN: Based On The Novel "Push" By Sapphire says:

    LOL @ The Duck face. I don’t understand that either. I think it seems sort of vain to be posting pics, and people know this, so folks do that as a way of saying don’t take this seriously,,,But I do seriously want you to see me in this out fit be fo I take it back to Marshalls for store credit :shrugs:

  217. 217
    Oprahs Bunion says:

    @ Milky – who in da hell is that in your gravi? :hahaha:

  218. 218
    Diva says:

    KayCeiSoul says:

    Hey Fay!

    Ewww don’t mention that manchild!!

    He just turned 19.

    He ticked me OFF over his b-day weekend! I think I told you he randomly painted the upstairs bathroom Superman blue? And went ALL outside the lines. Funny how he doesn’t do that Ray Charles -ish when he does his OWN art!

    He spent his money on partying all weekend instead of getting the paint and supplies for that bathroom. Since he’s usually my responsible one, I’ma let him slide. I’ma give him another WEEK to come up with that bread. After that it’s because I can’t fight or do anything else rett-nah.

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    :stop: guhl you got a 19 year old and you about to have a newborn? Lawd have mercy! :crying:

  219. 219
    INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST says:

    INTENSE will admit when she’s strong and wrong *flashback to DeAndria*

    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    ‘Tense was so FUNNY that day. She was like YALL GONNA stop talking about my fave gospel sanger ALL RECKLESS.

    ________________________________

    Whew. Lawd. That. Day. Was. Remarkable?

    ^^^^^

    SO TRUE :rofl:

  220. 220
    OutsidetheBox says:

    style for surgery
    ________________

    Oh well shoot! Yeah you should get the curly look! If’n you dont fancy it, you in the hospital anyways…im certin youll look better than 90% of the ppl. :)

    And there are always scarves.

  221. 221
    goat76 says:

    I want to come out and let y’all know that I love glazing doughnuts.

    I felt like y’all should know that.

  222. 222

    she was fuggin the dude & he is married. wonder how he explained keeping her furniture to his wife? :tea:

  223. 223
    YOUR NAME HERE! says:

    I have a friend that knows that post in here and she asked me if Whip was real or are we trying to make the lurkers look like fools. She said she is not sure cause yall bishes always talking about licking yourself when you where it. I was crying…should I have let her use mine?….NOPE!

  224. 224
    twerkthat says:

    dontyewbemadbew :coffee: says:

    LETTER OF PRAYER) DEAR GOD I COME TO YOU TO THANK YOU FOR ALLOWING ME TO SEE WHO MY FRIENDS ARE AND THANKING YOU FOR REMOVING PEOPLE THAT DID NOT HAVE MY FAVOR BUT I ONLY ASK ONE MORE FAVOR DO YOU THINK YOU CAN GET THE ONE THAT EMBARRASSED THERESELF ON FB AND TRYED TO CREATE A PROBLEM FOR TO PLEASE COME GET THEY BED ROOM FURNITURE AND ENTERTAINMENT CENTER AND OTHER THINGS OUT MY DEN THAT ME BEING A FRIEND WAS STORING FOR THEM LORD YOU KNO THEY ONLY HAVE TO MONDAY #THANKYOUGOD

    only on FB!

    this was posted about a chic i know out here. THEN the kneegrow proceeds to posting pics of her coming to get her

    :blink: :kona:

  225. 225
    Diva says:

    OutsidetheBox says:

    Ladies, I’m seriously thinking about not getting any more relaxers. I do not want to do the big chop. I don’t wanna wear wigs or weaves. Any suggestions to transition with two textures?
    _______________

    I did not big chop. My head…Large you see. But Im a believer in the wig/weave route.

    Do you get your hair styled at a salon? Or self styled? You could rock rollersets, braidouts, updos, and the like until.. whenever.

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    Styled at the salon….I can do roller sets. My hair is so friggin thick and it takes hours and hours to dry…. Tell me about the braidout though, sounds like I can do that one myself at home.

  226. 226
    MissHarlem says:

    DIVA I been no perm for 16 months and never did the big chop but before that only permed my hair once and if I felt dangerous twice a year. I wash and blow dry and if Im not lazy flat iron which means hardly every

  227. 227
    OutsidetheBox says:

    DUCKFACE
    ________

    Memba my pic? :hahaha: I got 50-11 inbox from friends telling me it wasnt duckface. No chit sherlock. It was a j o k e cause you bishes look like the joker. :lol:

  228. 228

    Fay Fay try some sweet oil for your ear

  229. 229
    MissHarlem says:

    GOAT the kind you eat? :waiting:

  230. 230
    OutsidetheBox says:

    LORD YOU KNO THEY ONLY HAVE TO MONDAY
    ___________________

    :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

  231. 231
    goat76 says:

    MissHarlem says:

    GOAT the kind you eat?
    —————————-
    Both kinds!

  232. 232

    :crying: is that my BRENBEW?? :crying:

    but u can gone on to HAIL for them suggestions tho bew! :hahaha:

    *writes i lubb yew 87 times in the sky*

    wth u bean tho?? :waiting:

  233. 233
    Tyler Perry's BRENDEN: Based On The Novel "Push" By Sapphire says:

    @JLDAMN Good Morning :kiss:

  234. 234
    OutsidetheBox says:

    OBbbbbbb! :wave: <— the naked pic I keep of Anna Nicole. :heart:

  235. 235
    Diva says:

    MissHarlem says:

    DIVA I been no perm for 16 months and never did the big chop but before that only permed my hair once and if I felt dangerous twice a year. I wash and blow dry and if Im not lazy flat iron which means hardly every

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    So how do you style your hair?

  236. 236
    Oprahs Bunion says:

    OutsidetheBox says:

    Ladies, I’m seriously thinking about not getting any more relaxers. I do not want to do the big chop. I don’t wanna wear wigs or weaves. Any suggestions to transition with two textures?
    _______________

    I did not big chop. My head…Large you see. But Im a believer in the wig/weave route.

    Do you get your hair styled at a salon? Or self styled? You could rock rollersets, braidouts, updos, and the like until.. whenever.

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    I had transitioned for 2 years between relaxed and natural. Then Nov 2011, I cut it to my ears. I did the big chop, and it was considered a big chop because of the length of my relaxed hair – few inches above my butt. The big chop isn’t for everyone.

  237. 237
    twerkthat says:

    But I do seriously want you to see me in this out fit be fo I take it back to Marshalls for store credit

    :wail: do ppl stil do this :dead:

  238. 238
    Oprahs Bunion says:

    OutsidetheBox says:

    OBbbbbbb! <— the naked pic I keep of Anna Nicole.

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    OTBBBBBBB!!! :kiss:

  239. 239
    Oprahs Bunion says:

    <——— Anna was GORG!!!

  240. 240

    YOUR NAME HERE! says:

    I have a friend that knows that post in here and she asked me if Whip was real or are we trying to make the lurkers look like fools. She said she is not sure cause yall bishes always talking about licking yourself when you where it. I was crying…should I have let her use mine?….NOPE!

    :hahaha: but i dont get it, u can click on the link & see that it’s real. those lurkers slay me! hey GYP’s friend lurking! :hi:

  241. 241
    Tyler Perry's BRENDEN: Based On The Novel "Push" By Sapphire says:

    LOL….I read earaches as roaches :ashamed: I was straight finna tell you how…A friend….Got rid of his :ashamed:

  242. 242
    FuturedocDonte says:

    :offtopic:
    Discussion we having at work
    If keyshia cole wasn’t famous and she went on American Idol, I mean the old American Idol wit Simon, Paula, and Randy, what do you think their responses would have been to her? :thinking:

  243. 243
    MissHarlem says:

    GOAT my nigg *Denzel voice*

    DIVA I wash and blow dry or get a wash and set. Now my hair has a wavy curl pattern that mistake me for black spanish keeping that until I get braids later on this month

  244. 244
    OutsidetheBox says:

    Yeah sounds like your hair is dense :lol: Rollersets aint for the faint of heart! @Div-er

    Braidouts tho! Exactly how it sounds. You would set your hair with a holding/styling/moisturizing agent and braid or plait it up till dry/set and then unbraid it for a “wavy” look.

    There are also bantu knot outs ect. Youtube is a great resource. Search something like “Transtitioning with no big chop styles” and “long-term stretch styles”

  245. 245
    Oprahs Bunion says:

    MissHarlem says:

    DIVA I been no perm for 16 months and never did the big chop but before that only permed my hair once and if I felt dangerous twice a year. I wash and blow dry and if Im not lazy flat iron which means hardly every
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    How long doe sit take you to blow dry it? I’m discouraged, so I just wash and go wet.

  246. 246
    MissHarlem says:

    FAYLA all of comment 240 now you see what Im saying :waiting:

  247. 247
    Nakeya_j says:

    FuturedocDonte says:

    Discussion we having at work
    If keyshia cole wasn’t famous and she went on American Idol, I mean the old American Idol wit Simon, Paula, and Randy, what do you think their responses would have been to her?

    ——-
    Simon would of told her hell no. I do like her, but I don’t she would of got a yes.

  248. 248

    i’m so damn scared to put stuff in my ear! :ashamed: but the pain will drive me to take action today. this aint no punk!

  249. 249
    Who Dat says:

    We all had to park far as HAIL away today from the building cause they pavin/painting our parking lot. NO NOTICE. Just get here at 730am to tape and signs to park your azz at the top lot.

    The ish is a 10-15 minute walk to the other lot. So we done all chipped in for Jimmy John’s so we aint gotta go out…WHYYYYYY them bishes aint brang our sandwiches yet? We think they azzes got here, seen that ish and figured “FUGG WHATCHU HEARD” and drove OFF :steer: Dude who deliver to this bldg is a brotha too. Bastid

  250. 250
    OutsidetheBox says:

    The big chop isn’t for everyone.
    _________________

    Oh yes you def did a BC! I would say anything over 6 inches is BC. I gradually cut away my relaxed ends over a year. It was easier for me that way.

  251. 251
    MissHarlem says:

    OPRAH :rofl: I got wet most times like today. My hair is very decietful its a lot but not in terms of length which is why I cut it every two months. It will take me from start to finish w/o being lazy close to 3 hours :nono: dont have the patience which is why I cut my hair a lot. THis year I am not cutting though just trimming. Pray for me bc I hate long hair

  252. 252
    Ty says:

    dontyewbemadbew :coffee: says:

    YOUR NAME HERE! says:

    I have a friend that knows that post in here and she asked me if Whip was real or are we trying to make the lurkers look like fools. She said she is not sure cause yall bishes always talking about licking yourself when you where it. I was crying…should I have let her use mine?….NOPE!

    but i dont get it, u can click on the link & see that it’s real. those lurkers slay me! hey GYP’s friend lurking!
    ——————–
    :rofl:

    :wave: All

  253. 253
    MissHarlem says:

    *go

  254. 254
    OutsidetheBox says:

    what do you think their responses would have been to her?
    ____________________

    I like Keyshia Cole. Her ratchet element is kindred to my soul. :thinking:

    With that bias in mind, Id say they would put her thru…prolly make her sing two different types of songs. Her voice is powerful imo tho.

  255. 255
    Diva says:

    Oprahs Bunion says:

    OutsidetheBox says:

    Ladies, I’m seriously thinking about not getting any more relaxers. I do not want to do the big chop. I don’t wanna wear wigs or weaves. Any suggestions to transition with two textures?
    _______________

    I did not big chop. My head…Large you see. But Im a believer in the wig/weave route.

    Do you get your hair styled at a salon? Or self styled? You could rock rollersets, braidouts, updos, and the like until.. whenever.

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    I had transitioned for 2 years between relaxed and natural. Then Nov 2011, I cut it to my ears. I did the big chop, and it was considered a big chop because of the length of my relaxed hair – few inches above my butt. The big chop isn’t for everyone.

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    I’ve gone natural 3 times and did the big chop each time. This time I don’t wanna do it.

  256. 256

    <—Bantu knots. My new best friend. Everything else takes too damned long. :wail:

  257. 257
    MissHarlem says:

    KDUB that nigg aint about to walk all around the world for yall food. Hell he aint even want to come in today

  258. 258
    OutsidetheBox says:

    “FUGG WHATCHU HEARD”
    ___________________

    :wail: :rofl:

  259. 259
    Just Looking Don't Ask Me NOTHING says:

    3 years relaxer free. Get’s blow out every 3 weeks, uses Whip every two weeks. Hair looks FABOLOUS, no drying, no breakage. Pin curls hair at night….

  260. 260
    Gigi26 says:

    I had transitioned for 2 years between relaxed and natural. Then Nov 2011, I cut it to my ears. I did the big chop, and it was considered a big chop because of the length of my relaxed hair – few inches above my butt. The big chop isn’t for everyone.
    ————————–
    I transitioned for 6 months then big chopped Nov of 2011. It was hard for me to maintain two textures. My hair was like maybe 4 inches max. I put it in braids..then once long enough, weaves.

  261. 261
    Oprahs Bunion says:

    OutsidetheBox says:

    The big chop isn’t for everyone.
    _________________

    Oh yes you def did a BC! I would say anything over 6 inches is BC. I gradually cut away my relaxed ends over a year. It was easier for me that way.

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    And I loved my relaxers! I had been relaxing for like 15 years and my hair was extremely healthy. I would only air dry it and flat iron it like 3 times a month. I cut it because I missed my curly texture. Now I want to dye it some crazy color!

  262. 262
    Tyler Perry's BRENDEN: Based On The Novel "Push" By Sapphire says:

    @DntYew I was really busy this Holiday season. The money was good…But yanno…Whatevs…yo homegirl sent me a series of angry emails :ashamed: it started off fine,,,Then the next was like…Were are you…Then we need to talk…Then well fugg you nukka.lmaaaaaaao….Im like yoooo I just been busy :shrugs: Let me fugg around and book a pilot…then what she gone do? :biggrin:

  263. 263
    Just Looking Don't Ask Me NOTHING says:

    @Ty – and that gravie :ghost:

  264. 264
    OutsidetheBox says:

    Pray for me bc I hate long hair
    _______________

    Nooo I beg of you…reconsider…read some liter-ture on the subject.. :lol:

    Im just saying, not even when…you know.. :eek: Youre grabbing that hair like so, winding it around your hand like so..and :huh:

    Come on sonnnn! *Black bro head nod*

  265. 265
    goat76 says:

    OutsidetheBox says:

    “FUGG WHATCHU HEARD”
    ___________________

    :wail: :rofl:

    ———————–
    slayed me also…lol

  266. 266
    OutsidetheBox says:

    Pack her luggage. Duh. *Bey stank face* :lol:

  267. 267
    Tyler Perry's BRENDEN: Based On The Novel "Push" By Sapphire says:

    if memory serves me…Warm olive oil for an ear ache…Not sure tho…Havent had one in yrs…

  268. 268
    FuturedocDonte says:

    OTB while listening to this here keyshia Miesha Cd I have come to the conclusion that…. Keyshias axx can’t sing. This child got 2 notes… A low note and a high note. And u trying to be the next Mary J who??? :nono:

  269. 269
    twerkthat says:

    FuturedocDonte says:

    Discussion we having at work
    If keyshia cole wasn’t famous and she went on American Idol, I mean the old American Idol wit Simon, Paula, and Randy, what do you think their responses would have been to her?

    Simon would have some slich ish to say but he wouldn’t be feelin her..but randy and Paula would like her

    Keyshia new CD though :listen: stay on repeat

  270. 270
    MissHarlem says:

    OTB hmmmm when you put it that way….ITS ON! I mean I do like when I grab hair when they…and then I wind it in my hand and then…. :fistbump:

  271. 271
    Diva says:

    OutsidetheBox says:

    Yeah sounds like your hair is dense Rollersets aint for the faint of heart! @Div-er

    Braidouts tho! Exactly how it sounds. You would set your hair with a holding/styling/moisturizing agent and braid or plait it up till dry/set and then unbraid it for a “wavy” look.

    There are also bantu knot outs ect. Youtube is a great resource. Search something like “Transtitioning with no big chop styles” and “long-term stretch styles”

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    I’mma try this tonight. Can I sit under the hair dryer to speed up the dry time or do I let it dry naturally?

  272. 272
    Just Looking Don't Ask Me NOTHING says:

    @Bren – You gonna get what you asking for, just keep the faith. It’s coming. Just like I prayed that infection you gave me would go away, it took 6 months and not 14 days like the doctor said. But I had faith and not both butt cheeks are clear. :happy:

  273. 273
    goat76 says:

    Heard of Sweet Oil for earaches.

  274. 274
    YOUR NAME HERE! says:

    Yall aint gonna believe this but my drawn in ibraw mama permed my hair when I was three (3) so I was permed up until I was grown.I was scared to go natural cause I felt like my shyt must have been nappy as hell for her to perm it that young but I love my natural hair. I have big chopped 3 times in my life. I now have yarn braids.

  275. 275
    Oprahs Bunion says:

    MissHarlem says:

    OPRAH I got wet most times like today. My hair is very decietful its a lot but not in terms of length which is why I cut it every two months. It will take me from start to finish w/o being lazy close to 3 hours dont have the patience which is why I cut my hair a lot. THis year I am not cutting though just trimming. Pray for me bc I hate long hair
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    I don’t want long curly hair. :no: It takes too much to manage. I haven’t straightened my hair in over 2 years and I tried for NYE. I couldn’t even do a 4th of my head! So we gonna be praying together! :-)

  276. 276
    OutsidetheBox says:

    Goat casue I could just see that ninja face. :hahaha: He prolly went back and was like “Construction/detour..” :shrug: LOL!!!

  277. 277
    Oprahs Bunion says:

    Gigi26 says:

    I had transitioned for 2 years between relaxed and natural. Then Nov 2011, I cut it to my ears. I did the big chop, and it was considered a big chop because of the length of my relaxed hair – few inches above my butt. The big chop isn’t for everyone.
    ————————–
    I transitioned for 6 months then big chopped Nov of 2011. It was hard for me to maintain two textures. My hair was like maybe 4 inches max. I put it in braids..then once long enough, weaves.
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    How do you keep it up now Gigi?

  278. 278
    Who Dat says:

    Kdub aint do a big chop. Its been almost two years. I have been wearing my chit braided or just plain stuffed undaneef a wig…I warsh it, condition it, and repeat weekly. Sometimes co-wash during week. Oil my scalp every other day. Only reason I cut my hair is so it CAN fit unda my wig. Agree that it takes about 3 hours from start to finish to “do it”. I have only worn my hair in all of its Ben Wallace glory MAYBE 15 times in the past 2 years. I get compliments on it when I DO..But I am busy as all HAIL. Sue me. Cause my aunt sure said just on FRIDAY…why go natural if you never wear it out? :shrug:

  279. 279
    goat76 says:

    Oh…didn’t know olive oil and sweet oil was the same shat.

  280. 280
    OutsidetheBox says:

    Keyshias axx can’t sing. This child got 2 notes… A low note and a high note. And u trying to be the next Mary J who???
    _______________________

    Noooo. Say it aint so! Keyshia sing like me (hint.. I can…over a distance..if you in the other room.. :yes )

    I havent heard the new stuff besides like Trust and Believe..butter umm she must be Mary J. Flauge cause Blige :nono:

  281. 281
    Tyler Perry's BRENDEN: Based On The Novel "Push" By Sapphire says:

    @JLDAMN LMAOOOOOO oh how I’ve missed you…..Thank you! I needed some motivation to get off this couch…Now I have it…Just sharted thanx to you :ashamed: Finna hit the shower…Dont be a stranger :-)

  282. 282
    Oprahs Bunion says:

    FuturedocDonte says:

    OTB while listening to this here keyshia Miesha Cd I have come to the conclusion that…. Keyshias axx can’t sing. This child got 2 notes… A low note and a high note. And u trying to be the next Mary J who???
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    She doesn’t have a lot range, but she can still sing to me.

  283. 283
    Ty says:

    There is a big difference between singers and vocalists. Some artist can hold a note and can’t step outta there comfort zone. Keyshia is one of those artist although I think she has raw talent. Mary is the same. I love Keyshia’s first and second cd but she is not a vocalist :coffee:

    :hug: Bren Bren

  284. 284
    Gigi26 says:

    How do you keep it up now Gigi?
    —————————
    When I take out my weaves…I usually do twist bantu knot sets…when my hair was shorter I used to rock the twist outs heavy :yes:…hopefully by summer I can try straightening and do flexi rod sets :yes:

    I have beastly shrinkage but now my hair in its blown out state is longer than my hair was relaxed which is pretty cool.

  285. 285
    OutsidetheBox says:

    Can I sit under the hair dryer to speed up the dry time or do I let it dry naturally?
    ________________________________
    Oh for sure! A lot of naturals are heat nazis (moi)…cause we gots fragile hair but dryers are indirect heat and not nearly as damaging as direct.

    Rock out @Diva. What are you going to use for setting? And if your hair is bone straight, try a roller or curl of some type on your ends so they dont get wispy.

  286. 286
    LadieLeo says:

    When transitioning to natural hair the twist out/braid out can be an option depending on the 2 textures at hand. If the straight hair is too straight it may not crinkle up or even hold the twist to begin with. You would definately want to find something to hold the twist in place like a cream not a gel. Basically you just have to either 2 strand twist your hair or braid it down and sit up under the dryer and once done take it loose and that’s it.

  287. 287
    NaijaGal says:

    And u trying to be the next Mary J who???
    ==========================
    but you think Mary got vocal range??? :eek:

  288. 288
    Oprahs Bunion says:

    Who Dat says:

    Kdub aint do a big chop. Its been almost two years. I have been wearing my chit braided or just plain stuffed undaneef a wig…I warsh it, condition it, and repeat weekly. Sometimes co-wash during week. Oil my scalp every other day. Only reason I cut my hair is so it CAN fit unda my wig. Agree that it takes about 3 hours from start to finish to “do it”. I have only worn my hair in all of its Ben Wallace glory MAYBE 15 times in the past 2 years. I get compliments on it when I DO..But I am busy as all HAIL. Sue me. Cause my aunt sure said just on FRIDAY…why go natural if you never wear it out?

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    K Dubb, so is time a primary factor for you in styling too?

  289. 289
    Just Looking Don't Ask Me NOTHING says:

    @Bren – You got motivation to work or finally get the shot. Either way get up and get up :kiss:

    You know you can always catch me on the other side :yes:

  290. 290
    Diva says:

    <———gravi check with the natural 3 years ago

  291. 291
    LadieLeo says:

    I rarely sit up under a dryer just cause I’m too lazy. I’ll do about 30 minutes under the dryer when its cold out to knock some of the moisture out of it. When twisted it takes my hair at least a day or so to get dry.

  292. 292
    OutsidetheBox says:

    YNG! :yahoo: Your girls still knotty heads too? I sent Ma’am to school today with her hair “out”. It was cute this morning, im sure she look a mess right now.

    My mama was too pressed about it. BUT she held her tongue. Heard her whispering she gone “plait Ma’am hair down tonight damnnit” :hahaha:

  293. 293
  294. 294
    Oprahs Bunion says:

    @ Gigi – Are the flexi rods easy to use yourself?

  295. 295
    OutsidetheBox says:

    Cause my aunt sure said just on FRIDAY…why go natural if you never wear it out?
    _______________________

    @Dubb when you get your ansa, let me know, cause imma use it too. :fistbump:

    I cant be boVered with no hurr!

  296. 296
    FuturedocDonte says:

    And u trying to be the next Mary J who???
    ==========================
    but you think Mary got vocal range???
    ——-
    Mary ain’t no Mariah but she got more than 2 notes. Keyshia voice irritates my war canal

  297. 297
    Diva says:

    I’ve had micros once and that shyt hurt…plus taking it down was :nono: I had my hubby and daughter on my head! :rofl: maybe I should let my daughter do the braids again….hmmmmm

  298. 298
    Diva says:

    My gravi didn’t change yet

  299. 299
    Gigi26 says:

    @OB: yeah they are and I wanna try curlformers too..the ones I got some years back were too short for my hair :lol:

    Flexi rods are way easier than permed rods for sure.

    I mostly weave my hair up though because I get tired of my hair fast and now that its longer, its a more detailed process :yes:

  300. 300

    What we talkin bout?
    I know not this old news with Jodie Foster.
    :coffee:

  301. 301
    OutsidetheBox says:

    When twisted it takes my hair at least a day or so to get dry.
    ____________________________

    I went to bed with wet hair and woke up with it. I feel you.

  302. 302
    KyCakes says:

    <—– Will forever and always have relaxers…I'm not strong enough to go natural and I'm perfectly ok with that… :lol:

  303. 303
    OutsidetheBox says:

    Sandra JUST posted a :newpost:

  304. 304
    goat76 says:

    New Post is up.

  305. 305
    twerkthat says:

    YOUR NAME HERE! says:

    Yall aint gonna believe this but my drawn in ibraw mama permed my hair when I was three (3) so I was permed up until I was grown.I was scared to go natural cause I felt like my shyt must have been nappy as hell for her to perm it that young but I love my natural hair. I have big chopped 3 times in my life. I now have yarn braids.

    3 yrs old :no: too young…my baby is 6 and she talkin bout she want long straight hair..umm not on my watch..no press no perm..her hair is long but we do braids and pony tails round herre

  306. 306
    OutsidetheBox says:

    Nothing wrong with that @KY DO YOU! :yes: I may go back some day. :shrug:

    Maybe not relaxer but I do like the Japenese straightening treatment. :thinking:

  307. 307
    NaijaGal says:

    Mary ain’t no Mariah but she got more than 2 notes
    ===========================
    in 20+ years did she pick up a 3rd note cause Mary been singing in the same voice forever *and Share My World is my ish*

  308. 308
    Diva says:

    LadieLeo says:

    When transitioning to natural hair the twist out/braid out can be an option depending on the 2 textures at hand. If the straight hair is too straight it may not crinkle up or even hold the twist to begin with. You would definately want to find something to hold the twist in place like a cream not a gel. Basically you just have to either 2 strand twist your hair or braid it down and sit up under the dryer and once done take it loose and that’s it.

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    what’s product is good for a braid out (cream)?

  309. 309
    Who Dat says:

    Yep @Oprah. I got and always have HAD bronchitis in re to hair. From sitting in beauty shops for 5 hours to getting the living life burnt out of my ear in my momma kitchen on Sat nights getting it pressed to present day…Aint nobody got time for THAT in re to hair and TIME.

  310. 310
    LadieLeo says:

    @Diva, I have to look at the name of the stuff because I really can’t remember the brand name. It says twist and loc gel but it’s not gel its a green cream and it’s very inexpensive. It’s African something, I will look tonight and let you know tomorrow. I have way to much hair for that Jessie/Carol stuff.

  311. 311
    OutsidetheBox says:

    Organics OO Gel @Leo? :thinking:

  312. 312
    LadieLeo says:

    That’s what it is….Organics. I don’t know where I got African from. I like Organics twist and loc gel and they have a body creme I like too.

  313. 313
    MsChocoTe says:

    For some reason I thought she already was out of the closet.

  314. 314
    OutsidetheBox says:

    :yes: Good stuff. Excellent definition. I think their name has Africa in it tho!

    What kind of body cream they have? :thinking: :pc:

  315. 315
    MsB2u says:

    Why can’t you you just be gay all to yourself :huh: Jeez I’m sick and tired of folks telling other to come out the closet. Mind your business and worrying about what you got going on in your closet.

    :applause:

  316. 316
    LadieLeo says:

    @OTB, it looks exactly like the hair creme same container almost.

  317. 317
    msmello30 says:

    :coffee: why was this necessary again? who cares? you are 50 years old, why did you waste all that time on stage blowing air?!?! :shrugs:

Comments are closed for this post