Jill Scott

Singer Jill Scott has 2 failed marriages and a slew of failed relationships under her girdle. So it is no surprise that, at age 42, she has given up on marriage or any semblance of a longterm relationship with men.

In an interview with ABC News Radio to promote her new film, With This Ring, Scott explains why she only dates men for 6 months before dumping them and moving on to the next.

Scott said making With This Ring was a painful reminder of her own failed relationships.

"I'm older now so I see a little bit better than I did before. My longest relationships now are about nine months. Actually, now it's grown to six months. There's no need for me to waste my time or anybody else's. I know by then. If you make it over the six month hump, you have done something. I must really like you."

What Ms. Scott doesn't realize is that she is describing the Dopamine phase.

As my loyal readers know, the Dopamine phase is that stage of intense sexual attraction that normally results in procreation.

The brain chemicals responsible for the Dopamine phase reminds us that we are intensely attracted, or we feel a certain "chemistry" toward someone.

But the "chemistry" phase does not last. This is the point when immature adults who were only in the relationship for the thrill or the excitement tend to move on, as Jill Scott is doing.

These brief but intensely exciting relationships are often referred to as "Dopamine relationships".

Ms. SCott also touched on young people's unhealthy obsession with holding their stomachs in, so they appear more attractive to their partners who prefer flat, washboard stomachs.

"You can hold your stomach in for four hours, but you can't hold it in forever. You have to be who you are and you have to genuinely love who you love in order to have a lasting marriage. Getting married is one thing; staying married is something else."

What the Film Taught Cast of With This Ring:

"The movie made us all think about what we're doing. You know, what are we doing? For the married girls, it made them question and decide for certain that they made the right decision on who they married. They thought about it -- not to say they hadn't before -- but we talked about that: why they chose to marry these guys. And for Regina and I, the two single girls, we really thought about what it is that we want."

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    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fyR09SP9qdA&sns=em Afiya says FOH :chase:

      Cause they don't like her longer than 6 months? :shrug: sounds silly :shrug: :kona:

    • KDub

      so they appear more attractive to their partners who prefer flat, washboard stomachs.
      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
      Agane. I aint NEVER had a man ask me for a piece of stomach. Ever. :rofl: Aint nah man kicked me out the bed and he been like: BISH! :mad: Getcho skrech-mars (Plies voice) covered stomach OUTTA HERE. :chase:
      :rofl: What in the fawk is the fascination all of a sudden? Who cares about this ish?

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      She picking that weight back up :blink:

    • https://scontentxfp1/v/t42.1790-2/10883260_10205181477284067_1503867899_n.mp4 MisTaken: So thick :buttshake: she make everybody else in the room so uncomfortable :winky:

      @Lurker did she call in because she alive BEAR LEE :blink: She prolly low on oxygen
      @FUTURE you can’t be that much younger than me talking about help a young’un out. SPED is not that old. Might be regional. He done liked at my pictures and said OH SHE LOOKED OLD AS HAIL IN THE FACE :hahaha: :rofl:

      @MAN your girl on here :warning:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      I honestly don't give a damn bout this shyt here :shrugs:

    • Blanche Devereaux

      Agane. I aint NEVER had a man ask me for a piece of stomach. Ever. :rofl: Aint nah man kicked me out the bed and he been like: BISH! :mad: Getcho skrech-mars (Plies voice) covered stomach OUTTA HERE. :chase:
      :rofl: What in the fawk is the fascination all of a sudden? Who cares about this ish?
      ................................

      EVER! hell mine likes mine...kisses em and alladat. I got them chits birthing babies. Thats a beautiful thang :yes:

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybcNSoh8vI4 VDot

      I think the stomach comment was a metaphor. Basically you're representative (which tends to show up in the beginning) won't be along for the long haul. Eventually who you truly are will come to light.

    • SummerBaby

      That's weird :shrug:

    • Hair Lova Formerly Known As Dark Ceaser

      What in the fawk is the fascination all of a sudden? Who cares about this ish?
      ________

      Her surgery ain't work the way she wanted it too,, so now she's all fawk flat stomachs.

    • FuturedocDonte

      Ima have to DVR That movie though. I would :hump: Jill Scott and Eve with her sessyself :love:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cqjT_YqmNas Long Time Lurker

      @Lurker did she call in because she alive BEAR LEE :blink: She prolly low on oxygen
      _________________________

      She good. :yes:

      Just got the "You coming home for lunch?" text...... :biggrin:

    • https://scontentxfp1/v/t42.1790-2/10883260_10205181477284067_1503867899_n.mp4 MisTaken: So thick :buttshake: she make everybody else in the room so uncomfortable :winky:

      Oh Jenie I see Doc said you got your picture on twitter with your doorter :eek: I bet ya’ll cute. :rofl:
      Yea Jill she is one of those women to me that are like Tyrese… they don’t need to talk. You have so much hope for them and then they let you down. I do think this will be a good movie. Let me go put in on my dvr now :cell:

    • https://www.facebook.com/lists/10150387562179388#!/video.php?v=347882248719363 User Friendly

      ppl need to stop being so hung up on this skinny stuff. you can be skinny and fine OR fat and fine. some dudes prefer a lil jelly belly :shrugs:

      everybody aint meant to be skinny. Jill dam sure aint. if a dude messed up with Jill its not because of her gut because clearly he knew she was big bone-ded to begin with.

    • SummerBaby

      @Lurker
      You got any brothers? I'm asking for a friend :tea:

    • KDub

      I think the stomach comment was a metaphor. Basically you’re representative (which tends to show up in the beginning) won’t be along for the long haul. Eventually who you truly are will come to light.
      ^^^^^^^^^^^^
      Right. But I aint sucking in EVER. You will LIKE it from the jump. Who I am right now at dinner on first date, straight SMASHING :pizza: Cause I aint no salad only eating chick...Is who the fawk Imma be when we is naked and you crine like a bish. The end.

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      VDot says:

      I think the stomach comment was a metaphor. Basically you’re representative (which tends to show up in the beginning) won’t be along for the long haul. Eventually who you truly are will come to light.
      _________________________

      oh ok. well that makes much more sense.

      aint nobody with eyes thought Jill had a flat anything.

    • luVn_liFe…

      I guess... :think:
      May as well try em out for a little then throw back in the pond if you don't like :shrug:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cqjT_YqmNas Long Time Lurker

      SummerBaby says:

      @Lurker
      You got any brothers? I’m asking for a friend :tea:
      _________________________________

      Yeah, but he 7. :shrug: He is rather :thinks: mature looking, though.

    • KDub

      Yeah, but he 7. :shrug: He is rather :thinks: mature looking, though.
      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
      Awe. :love:

    • Time to Waste

      Agane. I aint NEVER had a man ask me for a piece of stomach. Ever. :rofl:
      ---------------------
      :rofl:
      Mine meet me this way; when I say diet he be :bite: Why I love you; you perfect for me :grill:
      Thanks babe; I ain't going nowhere!

    • SummerBaby

      Yeah, but he 7. :shrug: He is rather :thinks: mature looking, though.
      ---------------
      :dead: :crying1:

    • Time to Waste

      Yeah, but he 7. :shrug: He is rather :thinks: mature looking, though.
      ------------------
      Stop talking bout that baby :rofl:
      He on his Benjamin Button !

    • luVn_liFe…

      ppl need to stop being so hung up on this skinny stuff. you can be skinny and fine OR fat and fine.
      ~~~
      Right.
      Also skinny and miserable or FAT and Miserable.

      folks need to stop being so superficial :tea:

    • MissHarlem

      I bet people read this literally and not figuratively in regards to the stomach :coffee:

    • luVn_liFe…

      looks and weight change.... It's like "trouble" it don't last always
      :whistle:

    • Hair Lova Formerly Known As Dark Ceaser

      I had no idea she married twice. I knew once, but twice? Did she marry her son father? Better yet forget all of that, when the hell is she coming out with another bomb album? Let's talk about that Jill

    • KDub

      And I will say...she shoulda came up with a better metaphor. :shrug: This Jill Scott. Why you using your stomach as a metaphor? IJS. Use them bishes who be doing that makeup sorcery on Youtube as an example of who you REALLY are/who you aren't. Bish you a Mama Big Bones. No disrespect.

      Okay...This would be like DerekJ using a metaphor about: You make a man think you got small feets by squeezing them into a WOMENZ size 7.5...but then yall get home and that nigga see you got MENZ size 12. You cant hide your feet forever!

      Just...pick a better metaphor. Thats all. :rofl:

    • luVn_liFe…

      MissHarlem says:I bet people read this literally and not figuratively in regards to the stomach
      ~~~~~~~~~~
      :kiss: STANKKKA I didn't read all of that up top.. what did she say? :lol:
      lay mans terms please.

    • https://www.facebook.com/lists/10150387562179388#!/video.php?v=347882248719363 User Friendly

      Ms. SCott also touched on young people’s unhealthy obsession with holding their stomachs in, so they appear more attractive to their partners who prefer flat, washboard stomachs.
      ________________________

      iono who wrote this--Sandra, her intern, or ABC but this was literal. now Jilly may have been speaking figuratively, but that right there wasn't no metaphor.

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybcNSoh8vI4 VDot

      You got any brothers? I’m asking for a friend :tea:

      *******

      :rofl: :rofl:

      :thinking: I believe Lurker has mentioned a brother in b4 but :eek: He may not be right for your "friend" :eek:

    • MissHarlem

      :yahoo: how are yall on this fine Friday?!! :woot:

    • https://scontentxfp1/v/t42.1790-2/10883260_10205181477284067_1503867899_n.mp4 MisTaken: So thick :buttshake: she make everybody else in the room so uncomfortable :winky:

      Her surgery ain’t work the way she wanted it too,, so now she’s all fawk flat stomachs.
      _____
      FREAKING :dead: You say she want her refund. She waiting at the doctor office eating a sammich with a keg tummy like :waiting:
      I get what she is saying. Be you. A lot of that stuff is fleeting and superficial. I do believe in being healthy. And it’s kinda of ironic cause I just said last night after finding and doing some Malia IG butt and leg exercises :phew: that they key to a flat tummy is in the diet not the crunches…. But I guess I am vain… I already had the flat tummy… had the babies… now I want it back :shrugs: I just hate feeling bloated and swole in the middle.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fyR09SP9qdA&sns=em Afiya says FOH :chase:

      Is who the fawk Imma be when we is naked and you crine like a bish. The end.

      ======
      Don't end there, tell us more :popcorn: (my husband does this from time to time :haha: ) :tea:

    • luVn_liFe…

      ahhh JILL used a stomach metaphor . . WELL.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cqjT_YqmNas Long Time Lurker

      Time to Waste says:

      Yeah, but he 7. :shrug: He is rather :thinks: mature looking, though.
      ——————
      Stop talking bout that baby :rofl:
      He on his Benjamin Button !
      _______________________________

      :rofl: Laughing with my mom about this the other day. She likes to dress him up in bow ties, sweaters, and loafers. :no:

      Told her she needs to dress him down. Lil nigga already look like he got student loans, a mortgage and alimony.

    • Unshakable

      If this perspectuve works for Jill, then so be it. People utilize mechanisms, both defense and coping, respectively to maintain their life balance. To avoid or reduce stress in their life. At least she is upfront about it.

    • SummerBaby

      Just…pick a better metaphor. Thats all.
      ------------
      :rofl: :rofl:

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybcNSoh8vI4 VDot

      UFO - you know you gotta click the links when dealing with Sandra. She puts her own spin on things :hahaha:

    • CaliYoruba

      Better than love, we made delicious
      He me had, had me he
      He had me tongue tied
      I could hear his rhythm in my thoughts

      I was his sharp, his horn section
      His boom and his bip
      And he was my love
      Love rain down on me, on me, down on me

      :headphone:

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybcNSoh8vI4 VDot

      Imma be when we is naked and you crine like a bish.

      *******

      :dead: :rofl:

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals lovezoe

      Taken- You got me hooked on this Love Thy Sister show.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      JUST SANG! :mad:

      :whistle: J.I.LL. SCO.TTTTTTTTT :whistle:

      :thinking: Hmmmmm SHe probably wanted to spell J-E-L-L-O :kona:

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybcNSoh8vI4 VDot

      Lil nigga already look like he got student loans, a mortgage and alimony.

      ************

      :ghost: :rofl: :rofl:

      :waves: HarlemShake

    • Blanche Devereaux

      :rofl: Laughing with my mom about this the other day. She likes to dress him up in bow ties, sweaters, and loafers. :no:
      Told her she needs to dress him down. Lil nigga already look like he got student loans, a mortgage and alimony
      .....................................

      This is my old acting bestfriend and his son :facepalm:

      He dresses that boy up like he belongs in somebody's nursing home. Too damn sharp to be 3 :no:

    • KDub

      And more on some fascination...who CARES if you married, single, its complicated, you a side bish etc. When did it become important enough to spawn movies, books, and numerous deep conversations? America, especially Colored America...got bigger fish to fry. There is a whole, new, younger generation getting shot the hell down b/c of their skin color. Where is Hollywood to make a movie about THAT? I've only seen ONE in recent years. Fruitvale Station.

    • https://www.facebook.com/lists/10150387562179388#!/video.php?v=347882248719363 User Friendly

      Her surgery ain’t work the way she wanted it too,, so now she’s all fawk flat stomachs
      _______________________

      her and Countess Vaughn :smh: and don't eem get Dubb started on Belly Thrice.

    • MissHarlem

      LUVN :kiss: I skimmed but I'm great at context clues basically be happy with yourself. If you old you old if you fat you fat and if you are fabulous be fabulous :lol:

    • Hair Lova Formerly Known As Dark Ceaser

      iono who wrote this–Sandra, her intern, or ABC but this was literal. now Jilly may have been speaking figuratively, but that right there wasn’t no metaphor.
      _____

      :tea:

    • Unshakable

      @Zoe Love,

      Did you lime last night's episode? :popcorn:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      SON I'm just DANDY, like Candy, I feel GOOD WHewwwww about Candy :listen:

      :party:

      :dance:

    • https://www.facebook.com/lists/10150387562179388#!/video.php?v=347882248719363 User Friendly

      side bish etc
      _______________________

      this right here is a movement. a dam political party. they be serious about their side status.

    • FuturedocDonte

      I had no idea she married twice. I knew once, but twice? Did she marry her son father?
      ----
      Had to Google it. She was married once. Divorced in 2007 after 5 years. Never would have known :shrug:

    • luVn_liFe…

      I skimmed but I’m great at context clues
      ~~~~
      :hahaha: I didn't do that much :ashamed: how ya feeling STANKBUGG :happy:

    • luVn_liFe…

      I’m just DANDY, like Candy, I feel GOOD WHewwwww about Candy
      ~~~~
      :danban: :danban1: :danban: :danban1:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      I sugg my lil belly in IN PUBLIC, but in house DON'T NOBODY CARE. DUDES LIKE IT :eek: LOVE IT :eek:

      Now MsPORTERHOUSE hahhhhhhhhhh
      She got remote control girdles :gossip:

    • The Pearl!

      She good. :yes:
      Just got the “You coming home for lunch?” text…… :biggrin:
      ______________
      We're always glad to be of service, sir!

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals lovezoe

      Shake- It was okay. I don't think because you HAVE money means you have to give someone 25K. Family or not. I do believe Bakari needs an educated pretty girl on his arm to rise in the political career. He ain't gone marry her. She wants marriage, yet he doesn't.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      User Friendly says:

      side bish etc
      _______________________

      this right here is a movement. a dam political party. they be serious about their side status.

      That Dragon Christmas meme :ghost:

    • Time to Waste

      :rofl: Laughing with my mom about this the other day. She likes to dress him up in bow ties, sweaters, and loafers. :no:

      Told her she needs to dress him down. Lil nigga already look like he got student loans, a mortgage and alimony.
      ----------------------------
      BOL!!
      :rofl: :crying:

      Poor baby!

    • KDub

      basically be happy with yourself
      ^^^^^^^^^^
      SAY IT.

    • Hair Lova Formerly Known As Dark Ceaser

      And it’s kinda of ironic cause I just said last night after finding and doing some Malia IG butt and leg exercises :phew: that they key to a flat tummy is in the diet not the crunches…. But I guess I am vain… I already had the flat tummy… had the babies… now I want it back :shrugs: I just hate feeling bloated and swole in the middle.
      _____

      You and me both. It ain't gotta be flat, but it can be flatter... I own my vainess (my word, don't come for me) and ion care.

    • Unshakable

      @Dubb,

      You answered your own question. You really think Hollywood care about Colored America? Some coloreds don't even care about Colored America.

      From a business standpoint: Why would a spryte movie producer tell our story when they can tell a story about another spryte that will bank millions? It's not that profitable. Furthermore, it would take many of them out their comfort zone.

      Some are not comfortable with being uncomfortable. JMO

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      luVn_liFe... says:

      I’m just DANDY, like Candy, I feel GOOD WHewwwww about Candy
      ~~~~
      :danban: :danban1: :danban: :danban1:

      :dance:

    • KDub

      don’t eem get Dubb started on Belly Thrice.
      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
      Trader azz BISH. :mad: *spits on the ground*

    • Hair Lova Formerly Known As Dark Ceaser

      :rofl: Laughing with my mom about this the other day. She likes to dress him up in bow ties, sweaters, and loafers. :no:

      Told her she needs to dress him down. Lil nigga already look like he got student loans, a mortgage and alimony.
      —————————-
      Ughhhhh :rofl:

    • Blanche Devereaux

      SON I’m just DANDY, like Candy, I feel GOOD WHewwwww about Candy :listen:
      :party:
      :dance:
      ......................................

      :buttshake:

    • MissHarlem

      DUBB you better :preach: now if we get more of those kind of movies I'm all for it.

      VDOT :kiss:

    • Blanche Devereaux

      You and me both. It ain’t gotta be flat, but it can be flatter… I own my vainess (my word, don’t come for me) and ion care.
      ..................

      I hate that mine is pretty much flat but I hold weight on my sides *gag* Idk how to get rid of it though.

    • KDub

      Some coloreds don’t even care about Colored America.
      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
      THIS! You right. All of it. But this right here.

    • Blanche Devereaux

      Karrueche is in Chris Brown's new video. They need to go get married and go away.

    • https://scontentxfp1/v/t42.1790-2/10883260_10205181477284067_1503867899_n.mp4 MisTaken: So thick :buttshake: she make everybody else in the room so uncomfortable :winky:

      Okay…This would be like DerekJ using a metaphor about: You make a man think you got small feets by squeezing them into a WOMENZ size 7.5…but then yall get home and that nigga see you got MENZ size 12. You cant hide your feet forever!
      _________
      Or like Chris Bosh going on a rant about homosexuals and saying he wish a nucca would try him. I would be like what?? You doing foreplay????? It turn you on?? You role playing?? :waiting: Or he be like having a woman who don’t cook is like have a sex room with no DILL DOE…. Strap on…. You be like :stop: wait a minute….

    • Hair Lova Formerly Known As Dark Ceaser

      Had to Google it. She was married once. Divorced in 2007 after 5 years. Never would have known :shrug:
      ____

      Ok cause I was like :shrug: I knew she married that dude who so sung about on her first cd like damn near every song. Misinforming us and chit.

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals lovezoe

      Some coloreds don’t even care about Colored America.
      ^^^^
      You said a mouth full right there!

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      yall don't want no flat belly :nono: makes your titties look like torpedos :(

    • Vanna is the root of all evil

      I heard Jill Scott was mean anyway.

    • MissHarlem

      SON :2dance: yaaassss :danban:

      I feel like my theme song today is feeling myself. Thinking my heels might be to high though

    • Hair Lova Formerly Known As Dark Ceaser

      User Friendly says:

      yall don’t want no flat belly :nono: makes your titties look like torpedos :(
      _____

      Fine by me. Ion have much tiddays anyways, so anything will help.

    • https://scontentxfp1/v/t42.1790-2/10883260_10205181477284067_1503867899_n.mp4 MisTaken: So thick :buttshake: she make everybody else in the room so uncomfortable :winky:

      Taken- You got me hooked on this Love Thy Sister show
      ___________
      I am going to watch the latest episode because I missed it. I got several DVRs :facepalm:
      Where is Jenie??? I watched MOB wives LAST NIGHT. I am not Team Ang….. she is dead wrong for calling Renee a rat. She knew what she was saying about the girl doing drugs and dna being on the dolla bill. She was saying she would turn state’s evidence on her :lol: but for her to call her rat and say you married one :nono: they real quick to talk about rats but Drita and Renee stay throwing stones and hanging with Natalie who is a rat and in general nasty. Like she walk and look stank and she is a pot stirrer. Steady flopping them gums but won’t buss a grape
      #GRAPESTREET

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      Fine by me. Ion have much tiddays anyways, so anything will help
      ______________________________

      you got a girdle? push them tetas right on up. be dam near under your neck. :tittays:

    • KDub

      Some coloreds don’t even care about Colored America.
      ^^^^
      You said a mouth full right there!
      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
      And did. Cause that whole period of time of: Well XXX yt sprite star got a black son. What THEY got to say about it? :shrug: This one up here in this very damn post, got a platform and a black son TOO. What the hell SHE got to say about it? IJS. :coffee: Not saying she don't care. Who knows WHO cares, and who DOESN'T. But really? Its BLACK starpower and general population out here who aint got ish to say, or as @Unshake JUST said...plain DONT CARE about Colored America.

    • Hair Lova Formerly Known As Dark Ceaser

      you got a girdle? push them tetas right on up. be dam near under your neck. :tittays:
      ______

      :hahaha: I don't want to look like I'm choking on my own tiddays... Lmfaooo

    • https://scontentxfp1/v/t42.1790-2/10883260_10205181477284067_1503867899_n.mp4 MisTaken: So thick :buttshake: she make everybody else in the room so uncomfortable :winky:

      My whole point is you have to feel comfortable for yourself. Confident. I ain’t never going to be college body take. FOH :nono: I don’t want that body. But I don’t want PRECIOUS BODY TAKE :wails: I need to feel comfortable in my own skin and having extra stuff around the middle that collapses ain’t the lick. I can deal with the booty being fat :buttshake: These thangs being on swole :boob: and not quite on fleek no moe :rofl: but I shall not be looking like I am 6 months pregnant all the time :dead: but a little fat is good for ya

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals lovezoe

      I don't think Bakari immature, he just don't want to marry her. Then he treat her like a constituent.

    • Hair Lova Formerly Known As Dark Ceaser

      But I don’t want PRECIOUS BODY TAKE :wails: I need to feel comfortable in my own skin and having extra stuff around the middle that collapses ain’t the lick. I can deal with the booty being fat :buttshake: These thangs being on swole :boob: and not quite on fleek no moe :rofl: but I shall not be looking like I am 6 months pregnant all the time :dead: but a little fat is good for ya
      ______

      :rofl: :rofl: I totally get you. And yes it's all about what you like and feel comfortable with. For some folks they like everything the way it is.... Like Precious, she loves her chit, and I ain't mad at her. I on the other hand wouldn't be happy. Did you get your albolene yet?

    • https://www.facebook.com/lists/10150387562179388#!/video.php?v=347882248719363 User Friendly

      My whole point is you have to feel comfortable for yourself. Confident. I ain’t never going to be college body take. FOH :nono: I don’t want that body. But I don’t want PRECIOUS BODY TAKE :wails:
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      just keep pushing forward :yes: you gonna get there.

    • Vanna is the root of all evil

      Fine by me. Ion have much tiddays anyways, so anything will help
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      you got a girdle? push them tetas right on up. be dam near under your neck. :tittays:

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      I saw a billboard last night in A and they were advertising girdles. Talking bout "get snatched". The weird part was that they arms were big as my thighs. It just seems weird to wanna have a flat tummy and big arms....

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals lovezoe

      nd did. Cause that whole period of time of: Well XXX yt sprite star got a black son. What THEY got to say about it? :shrug: This one up here in this very damn post, got a platform and a black son TOO. What the hell SHE got to say about it? IJS. :coffee: Not saying she don’t care. Who knows WHO cares, and who DOESN’T. But really? Its BLACK starpower and general population out here who aint got ish to say, or as @Unshake JUST said…plain DONT CARE about Colored America

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      Won't even learn je teach their children about other Aftican Anerican pioneers. We teach our kids this, to be proud. Some may not agree, but stop with this "I don't see color". :stop: Cause when you go out the house, all folks see is your blackness.

    • The Pearl!

      :hi: Harlem Shake!

    • https://scontentxfp1/v/t42.1790-2/10883260_10205181477284067_1503867899_n.mp4 MisTaken: So thick :buttshake: she make everybody else in the room so uncomfortable :winky:

      :newpost:

    • KDub

      New post on gays, HIV, desperate women, and lying azz menz. Not my words. But that is the theme.

    • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      Ms. SCott also touched on young people’s unhealthy obsession with holding their stomachs in, so they appear more attractive to their partners who prefer flat, washboard stomachs.
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      iono who wrote this–Sandra, her intern, or ABC but this was literal. now Jilly may have been speaking figuratively, but that right there wasn’t no metaphor.
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      Flat stomachs is all the rage amongst young girls today. My niece and all her friends are dieting so they can achieve the flat stomach that boys -- notice I said "boys" -- prefer. I know a few females who admit they hold their stomachs. Ask somebody. :coffee:

    • https://www.facebook.com/lists/10150387562179388#!/video.php?v=347882248719363 User Friendly

      Ask somebody.
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      oh heyyyy Sandra, hey! :hi:

      :lol: I already have a flat tummy tho :shrugs: that's me in my gravi not sucking it in or wearing any body armor.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      *spits on the ground*

      Good Fellas :love:

      Do ah scene Kdub DO IT DO IT DO IT:bounce: :cheer:

    • She_ShowOut

      Singer Jill Scott has 2 failed marriages and a slew of failed relationships under her girdle.
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      Sandra's :cloud: game is brutal :rofl:

    • Ms Peaches

      I hope that Jill gets back with HBO and continue the #1 Ladies Detective Agency. Precious Ramotswe. :yes: