Stop the Hate: Do Better in 2016

Ummm……Hating on what? Plaits, bumps & no edges? Ya’ll good. #Imaworkinprogress. #cutecouple. #blacklove #souljaboytellem

@AsGoodAsIt. Dubb, I knew the woman who supposedly shot her daughter by “accident” in St.Cloud,Fl was lying. It sounded suspect to me when i first heard the story. Thats why i didn’t comment about it. The case has now been declared a homicide. Smh.

Unbelievable!

What in the trap post hell ?

This isn’t how u are going to leave us in 2015 is it? I think u left out two words in the title “open post” ?

I’m curious to know what “well educated and graduated in the medical field” means in this case ? 16 month degree in medical assisting from Everest ? Or a bachelors in biology ?

But I’m no hater congrats dundra ???

I actually agree because I’m no hater

@Star. She’s not ugly. She just needs a fresh perm & some proactive.

Happy New Year roses. Be safe and stay blessed 🙂

“I graduated studying the medical field&&going to be a doctor real soon”.

**Goes to read my doctor’s bio again**

No one is hating on her. She can’t even formulate a sentence. Why would we hate on that?

Get out of my damn head….RETNA!!!!!

Okay so she said let’s stop the hate and come together, quit the black on black hate, hakuna matata, it takes a village to raise a child/a crew to roll a blunt, etc but then says my pockets stay stacked and I can take care of your whole family??? I’m sorry, but sounds like a bird tryna sound deep

She’s at the clinic making sure everyone has their influenza vaccine.

I’m not hating on her at all. But I do hate how she uses the “abbreviation” of WHEN ???

She’s not ugly, but that is a musty looking pic. Look like they both been laying up in the house all day screwin without a wash in between.

Anywhoo, Happy New Year folks!!! Somebody fixed me a weak azz ?to go and i am not too happy right now ?.

I wanna see everybody successful and I’m gonna listen to my Mommy about if nothing nice to say shaddy up and just scroll. Happy New Year’s Eve.

You right she not ugly her attitude seems to be how she comes off I am so pretty I love haters.

Happy New Years to ALL the roses and to Ms.Rose ! ( & you frozen tundra with your grammatically incorrect self ! Good luck to ya, but you ain’t doctoring ish on me hun bun !)

??? I’m too tipsy for this shyt here ??

And then going to say her pockets stay “pack” when grammatically it should be “packed”. I’m being picky but all my doctors understand subject / verb agreement. Hmmmm. Ok. I’ll take my chances boiling herbs and putting Robitussin on everything.

Oh my they both could use a good bath. Skin that looks like that is not consistently clean. Anyway Happy New Years y’all!!! Be blessed!!

Lol!!!

Educated but atrocious spelling

No idea who she is though so got no reason to hate

Hey ((((waves))))) Happy New Year everyone. I have wine about to get some Chinese food and chill. Stay safe. …..

I hate that she thinks we hating.

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Jesus please be a dictionary and a thesaurus.

A cotton ball saturated with witch hazel twice a day would be sufficient. (Shudders)
Happy New Year to you too.

Bwahahaha!

I don’t hate on what doesn’t affect me. Happy New Year!!!

Do u girl. A sista that’s got it like that don’t have time and could give a flying f*ck if someone’s hate’n or not

I started early with a plan of growth and helping others. Started with my elderly neighbor. Ended with “huh? What did you say?”

I concur…

No, ICDC. LOL!!!

I agree, they look stank in that pic.

In another set of circumstances, she would be very attractive. Looks like she’s lived a tough life. Her forehead, eyes, and lips are beautiful. I don’t see the point of strangers going on her page to put her down.

There must be something wrong with my eyes because I don’t see anything wrong with her, IJS

There’s nothing wrong with her. She just looks…rough. A shirt would help…and a lil makeup. I’m just saying she’s a pretty girl with potential to be a lot prettier.

I think I was agreeing with you. Lol.

Lol.

Happy New Year roses and auntie. Be safe!

So no one is going to comment on her beard? O-kayyyy.

Why a perm? SOME black women like the texture of the hair that grows out of their head smh.

love this post. truth is there is no such thing as pretty or ugly. there are those who know how to put on makeup and those who don’t. there are those willing to buy fake this and that and others who won’t. beauty is subjective. deferring to society’s prescribed notion of beauty gets boring after a while. i wanna see the real ones- the ones who get out there and grind day after day to make it happen. i wanna see the nobodies, they are the beautiful ones.

What kills me is that for the most part anyone that “looks” too dark without 10lbs of contoured makeup, 22 inch yaky or wavy hair weave then other BLACK people have something to say! It’s disturbing to me! I don’t see anything wrong with her it looks like she’s in her home chilling with her man. She’s not ugly or ruff looking. Black people really need to stop hating themselves especially women because those were the ones going in on her. And she’s only defensive because industry on blast put her picture up there and women were being nasty.

Spellcheck, See and Say, Leapfrog and VTECH too shoo. Lol

Lol dead….I agree

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Girl u just a ugly @ss doctorate student lol if thats true with all those typos ? Who let her n their school

Lol. See and say! I haven’t heard about that one in years. I wonder if they are still on the market.

Lol I think so.

I’ve done the same with my neighbor who turns 91 in 2 weeks. She has become my new bff. She left me a thank you card and a Ty My Little Pony bag clip on my door today. I’ll be damned if I wasn’t on my head to get one! She is super cool.

She said she wanted candles for the new year, but they were too expensive! ($1.50/ea) Lol. I had a nice frosted eggnog candle in a jar that I left on her door, and a champagne split (187 ml bottle) for her for NYE. I wish I’d thought to get her a hat and necklace from Party City.

Black folks are quick to throw darts at other Black people when they don’t fit their standard of beauty or perceived intellect. It’s sad, because people will go on a stranger’s IG page and leave nasty, unsolicited comments like we’re not all adults and there isn’t somebody for everybody.

I’m not mad at this sista. I don’t want to trade places with her, because I’m pleased with my life, but she has a man, is making moves professionally and academically, and she is happy. Give her props or don’t comment. It’s that simple.

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!chyle,at my very first look….i thought it was two men????

I have a straight friend, who’s African American, who once refused to date dark complexioned black women. He only dated women who looked like Vanity, Salli Richardson or Vanessa Williams.

Several years ago, he moved to the southwest and fell into a dating slump. Suddenly, all of the Vanitys and Sallis he was used to wining and dining, weren’t interested in him. Why?According to him, they were “only checking for white boys.”

Fast forward to today, he recently admitted that Michelle Obama is beautiful. He even proposed to a gorgeous chocolate woman who turned him down.

When I was a child, my paternal grandmother, who was Caucasian, openly expressed her dislike for African Americans and she really despised anyone who had dark skin. Although she admitted my mother, with her light complexion and green eyes, was “one of the most beautiful women she’d ever seen,” my grandmother didn’t want the family bloodline “tainted with black blood,” even if that black blood was in small doses.

One of my grandmother’s favorite sayings was, “If you’re white… alright! If you’re brown… stick around! If you’re black… get back!”

When I was 4 or 5, my grandmother came to my house with 3 bags of clothes and toys. My mother estimated she spent approximately $500. However, every item in those bags was for me. There wasn’t a single toy or piece of clothing for my younger, DARKER sister. My sister has dark hair, dark brown eyes, caramel colored skin and looks Hispanic. I, on the other hand, have light hair, green eyes, and pale skin.

My mother thanked my grandmother for the gifts, but told her she’d have to keep them at her house or she could take them back to the store. Unbeknownst to me, later that evening, my mom called my grandmother and told her she was no longer welcome in her home.

Over the coming years, with the assistance of my paternal great grandmother, whom I adored, my mother and racist granny, developed a more hospitable relationship, but I was the only child allowed to spend time at my grandmother’s house.

Living in two worlds, black and white, gives you a very unique perspective. I am perplexed by white racists, but I am equally confused by black on black hatred. To me, the girl in Sandra’s photo is beautiful and there is nothing wrong with her hair. As for her questionable writing skills, maybe that’s the way she expresses herself online. Maybe she has a different writing style when she’s in a professional setting.

I think the post is from the guy. Unless the girl just posts him on her page. This is not the best pic of the girl but she’s actually gorgeous to me. Maybe folks were wondering what she’s doing with a guy with horrible grammar.

No hate in 2016? Does this mean the end of SR dot com?

I pray that this young woman isn’t actually in med school, because she writes on the level of a third grader. Anyone who writes so poorly can’t POSSIBLY navigate the complicated coursework of medical school, where so much of the terminology is derived from words that are Latin or Greek in origin. This woman can’t even write a simple ENGLISH sentence.

As black people, I agree that we should strive to EXCEL in 2016. However, we should also understand that WE ARE NOT AN INTELLECTUALLY INFERIOR RACE!!! So why are so many of us willing to settle for intellectual mediocrity, refusing to take the time to learn to WRITE and SPEAK as EDUCATED PROFESSIONALS? Instead of criticizing her appearance, we should all be shocked that she has managed to complete college without having learned to read and write.

My degree is from a top 10 law school. In my youth, I would NEVER have been hired by a reputable law firm if I wrote as if I hadn’t completed grammar school. Today, as president of my own real estate development firm, I couldn’t garner an iota of respect from my employees or my peers if I WROTE AND SPOKE ON A GRADE SCHOOL LEVEL. And THIS young woman, with her inferior language skills, will ONLY be hired if the health care provider’s standards are lowered dramatically. A patient’s life is too valuable to be sacrificed at the altar of Affirmative Action! If we want to progress, we should work JUST AS HARD AS OTHER RACES to be the SMARTEST and the BEST at what we do.

WE ARE NOT AN INTELLECTUALLY INFERIOR RACE!!
(Now criticize me all you want, but I speak the truth and you all know it. Happy New Year, my brothers and sisters.)

Gurl you said a mouth full of the truth with that statement. God bless and happy near year to you too.

Is she really going to be a doctor with that kind of grammar? I think she’s pretty though.

? I believe I have one in the basement if it’s needed ?

Clinical research will take her.

Chile, let me try that again. ? HAPPY NEW YEAR TO YOUUU BTP!

I have a rather formal style of writing, because that’s the way I speak.

Once, I wrote an anonymous review on Yelp. The next day, my sister called me and asked if I was the author. She said, she knew it had to be me, because of the way it was written. ?

What???

when i first started commenting formally i would get responses like- i ain’t reading all that ish. still, others would complain about the level of terms used in my comments. then it was those who would complain about the content when most of those comments referred to newspaper articles written on an 8th grade reading level. it was then that i realized it wasn’t the audience at large at fault, it was myself. when in rome do as the romans. it is proper.

She died yesterday. I’m stunned.

Im not reading all of that lol….

who in the hell is this lady?

Lmao!!! Dr…must me a PhD in #Rachevity ?

Nothin like BlackLove…

Schizophrenia runs on my father’s side of the family. Before she completely lost her mind, my grandmother was a law professor. Her illness forced her to retire.

The photo of this couple in the article is not enviable in the least.

Someone please assure this woman that no one is hating on an unkempt couple with bad skin and inappropriate selfies on IG.

Have times changed so much that this so called “hated on Nubian queen” is not required to be literate, articulate, nor at the very least able to spell in her aspirations to become a doctor.

Perhaps with her “pack pockets” she should not condescend that she could take care of other people’s families because it appears her money would be better spent on dermatologist treatments and hair appointments for herself and her boyfriend.

This is not hate. It is an observation of this obviously delusional and misguided individual. I wasn’t sure if this article was a joke or subversive shade because the woman is completely off base.

Honestly who cares…what happen to keeping some things private I could honestly care less if a person is in love gtfoh

The irony of Sandra Rose writing that title…chile!!! I cannot.

I wish I can find more black women like myelf. I just love life love sci-fi and comic books adventures helping others. I get a lot of invites because Im pretty attractive..but Im always so bored at the events. All people want to do is get dolled up and stand on the wall or be on their phone. Sigh not being funny but I get along with most races other than black women when Im at work. Why is this?! I wasn’t raised this way?

I was gonna say how did they get on the post for news. There are a lot of black women accomplishing and have accomplished doctoral degrees.

Well technically she said she studied the medical field and is GOING to become a Doctor, real soon…soooooo, since she isn’t performing any surgeries, etc. I think we are safe. But Y’ALL do need to stop HATIN’ in 2016. HMPHF!! Happy New Year Everyone!!

Absolutely!!!!

And so will Anatomic Pathology. BYE BISH!!!!!! LMAOOOOO

How is she educated if she doesn’t know how to spell the word “when”