Judge Jerri Collins

A heartless judge who jailed a domestic violence victim for refusing to testify against her abuser now admits she was wrong.

Seminole County (Orlando) Judge Jerri Collins was drunk with power when she cruelly jailed a weeping domestic violence victim in July.

Judge Collins charged the woman with contempt of court for failing to show up to testify against her baby daddy.

“Why didn’t you show up to court?” Collins barked at the woman in open court on July 30. The judge added that a jury had been seated and ready to hear the case.

The judge hardened her heart when the sobbing woman told her she was depressed, had high anxiety and was homeless. “I had to sell everything I owned,” the single woman cried.

“You think you’re going to have anxiety now? You haven’t even seen anxiety,” said Judge Collins, who previously sentence the woman’s abuser to 16 days in jail.

“I’m not in a good place right now,” the woman cried.

But the judge was unmoved.

“…and violating a court order did not do anything for you,” said Collins. I hereby find you in contempt of court. I sentence you to three days in the county jail.”

“Judge, I’ll do anything … I have a 1-year-old son, and I’m trying to take care of him by myself. I’m begging you, please, please don’t,” the woman sobbed.

The video of the wailing woman being led out to court in handcuffs went viral when it aired on the evening news in October.

Collins was charged Wednesday by the Judicial Qualifications Commission for violating rules governing how judges conduct themselves on the bench.

Both sides agreed to a public reprimand.




  • Glenda Nichole

    Mean ass, power hungry bitch! I’m glad she was punished!

  • Di Ana

    People are de-sensitized now-a-days.

  • Yoni

    She must have gotten HER eye dotted after this and had a change of heart.

  • LibraGirlonly

    Meeeee too!

  • Monday

    I am glad she is getting punishment.

    Domestic Violence Victims shouldn’t feel like they did something wrong. She wasn’t selfish and was afraid. The court system is not harsh enough on abusers.. A lot are able to keep their job and walk free. This is like torture for a Survivor…

    Karma will take care of that judge

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    Ole funky bish!

  • Miany

    i have not read the article but I been holding shii back about racist azz polk county fl… (seminole is close e fuggin nuff) FUGG EM ALL!! ole nasty racist krakkkkaz dont give a fugg less its one of their own standing across the bench from them.. FUGGG THEM and i hope this bish lose her job.

  • Yoni

    Both sides agreed to a public reprimand.
    __________________________

    I want a public reprimand in the form of compensated REPARATIONS! Fvk you thought?

  • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

    So did Judge Petty Wapner get jail time? I would have given her a few days just to see how it feels..

  • Liz

    They should be allowed to keep their jobs so they can pay some restitution for what they put their victim through. Somebody needs to pay for the therapy and resources needed to make the victim whole and who better than the abuser

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    “You think you’re going to have anxiety now? You haven’t even seen anxiety,” said Judge Collins, who previously sentence the woman’s abuser to 16 days in jail.
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    I just can’t see her saying this to any ole body :no:

  • Miany

    The video of the wailing woman being led out to court in handcuffs went viral when it aired on the evening news in October.

    Collins was charged Wednesday by the Judicial Qualifications Commission for violating rules governing how judges conduct themselves on the bench.
    ^^ Bitch did this in OCTOBER and is now being charged… I am ashamed at this system.

  • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

    They should really consider giving public servers, such as police, teachers, judges, probation officers, etc psychological test to see if they can still handle the job every so often.. Many do become desensitized to humans and treat them with almost a disdain for the very people they are there to serve fairly..smh

  • Miany

    we all pay taxes for victim services… they should fire this nasty heaux before she fuggs someone else’s life up. Can you imagine you are homeless and a bissh tryna force you to go to court?? as if you dont have more pressing matters to tend to? AS if you dont have to make child care arrangements for a 1 year old? As if your homeless butt just got beaucoup cash on hand for gas money…fugg a judge who can not use logic and understand the challenges faced by others…smh

  • THE OLDER SISTAH

    Collins did not feel or admit she was a insensitive bytch until she felt threatened by the Judicial Qualifications Commission. Another person sorry but not really sorry.

  • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

    wow, this really angers me, but more than that my heart breaks for the abuse victim and her baby.
    nothing worse than a hateful yt woman with power, smh

  • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

    we can only hope….
    (if she did, it was probably by one of her own kids)

  • Yoni

    nothing worse than a hateful yt woman with power
    _________________________
    THIS is that shit I don’t like! Can’t stand’em. And THIS is how I feel Hilary will be. Vindictive. Now if she makes it to the democratic ticket, then she has my vote, but until then……….Get it how you live, bitch.

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    Yeah, I feel sad for her 🙁

  • Liz

    I agree I didn’t even comment on the judge because I am surprised it took the video going viral for any action to be taken. Who the hell punishes a victim? She should have been referring her to services to help her out but she was too busy being nasty. I’m just think we need to start getting criminals more involved in righting their wrongs because clearly that poor women was receiving all the help she needed from the court system

  • Yoni

    Or her girlfriend. Why you mad, son?

  • It’s Taurus Season

    Is the lady who went to gel a Becky? I cant see the video.

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    AND this video is public!

  • 3princessesmommy

    That was just “heartless”!!!!!!!!!!! 🙁

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    Yes, yes she is your color.

    OH, not funny right now, OH

  • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

    I worked with one many years ago. she was a high-level LR mgr, but in spite of her position and enviable earnings, even as a young person new to corporate, EYE immediately could tell this bish was yt trash warmed over. funny, she was literally a Florida Krakka, smh.

  • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

    heartless!

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    (whiny voice) Noooo don’t say that…

    I hope she isn’t vindictive 🙁

  • Yoni

    We hope for a better world and clean water for Flint, but…….

  • It’s Taurus Season

    It was one of her own. She was white. Judge just had no fux allocated period I guess.

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    She should’ve given this judge a piece of her mind. A good cursing out! She put her in contempt anyways.

  • It’s Taurus Season

    This lady is an all out savage then. Its rare for them to not side together.

  • Yoni

    And the shit went to her head, didn’t it? That’s why when somebody says “your boss…..”. “Uh no, she’s my supervisor. Nobody’s the BOSS of me.” #wordshavepower

  • It’s Taurus Season

    She was depressed. She was scared. And she was gonna get her ass whooped by her baby daddy later on. No need for extra days.

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    Ummm *whispers* ION think Flint is getting clean (pipe) water anytime soon sis. I read something that said they don’t even have (civil construction) drawings for the layout of the present piping <—– Now this I do not believe, because how is that even possible.

    But anywho, I think they are going to have to split up the city and move folks out, and try to remove and replace the new pipes. BIG MESS.

  • lil goodie

    I agree but the only thing is she said she is living with her parents so she is not homeless (in a literal sense)… she could have went to court but she just wanted to forget about the whole thing and the court was not having it… the judge should be punished but the victim needs to take some responsibility too..

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    Agreed! Somebody get this ho number!

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    True 🙁

  • It’s Taurus Season

    Huge mess. I knew at the time it all came tumbling out it wasnt an easy fix.

  • lil goodie

    Too me..they had to be more to this…..

  • It’s Taurus Season

    Yeah you cant go skipping court. Not even for a traffic ticket. Your ass going to jail. That is an arrestable charge in itself. Failure To Appear.

  • It’s Taurus Season

    The Judge? Hold on

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    Existing piping going INTO the homes need to be replaced too. THIS doesn’t seem fixable… I think they’ll be paying people to move out :thinking:

  • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

    the whole thing seems odd and out of date to me, smh. here in Va. even if the victim drops the charges for whatever reason, the state WILL proceed with prosecuting the abuser. how she could treat another woman that way boggles the mind. you don’t have to relate to everything another person has experienced in order to empathize with people, smh.

  • Put some Respeck on B.Sweet

    You read my mind. We’d both still be locked up.

  • It’s Taurus Season

    (407) 665-4982

  • Put some Respeck on B.Sweet

    Depends what is the baby daddy?

  • SameoleJ

    And whoever had the 1 year old only gave her 2 hours to get back, unless he was in the car and napping, which means she still had a limited amount of time to get out of there.

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    :warning: Insensitive Stmt Coming 5,4,3,2,1

    THEE next time someone says anything about Anxiety, I’mma use this bish’ words

  • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

    oh gosh….

  • SameoleJ

    Oh he was definitely very light on the melanin chart, hence he only served 16 days.

  • Miany

    I agree. She has to live up to her responsibility but this judge was mean and nasty. DV victims flake out regularly, they are known to not have the best self esteem…it is almost normal for them to refuse to press charges/ participate in litigation.

  • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

    chile….

  • Put some Respeck on B.Sweet

    You can always tell the ones that are fresh out of the trailer park with power.

  • It’s Taurus Season

    Might be disconnected by now. But that was the first hit I got back. Judge Judi Collins. Sanford Florida. Which is where Trayvon got killed.

  • lil goodie

    Right..that’s why she was crying and all that..she was just trying to use sympathy to keep from going to jail….

  • Miany

    Yeah, she may not be racist… I just threw her in with the rest of the racist judges. She is nasty tho, she has no sympathy and she is incompetent because we all know dv folk ain’t the most stable, why you sending her to hail for her instability?

  • Yoni

    I watched a townhall meeting on this. THEY WON’T replace the pipes. Why? Because they are on that gentrification shit. You just gave THEIR solution in your reply. “they are going to have to split up the city and move folks out, and try to remove and replace the new pipes”……….soon as they start REBUILDING for a newer, better, WHITER city. :tea:

  • Liz

    But honestly what good does sending her to jail serve? She already in a bad place and struggling

  • Readytochokemothernatureonout

    Poor lady 🙁 shameful it is and I’m glad she was charged. Don’t apologize now.

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    I just called. No answer. I left her a voicemail.

  • lil goodie

    Yes..judge was rude and nasty..but hell what judge isn’t…this judge probally sees these kinds of cases all the time and took her frustration out on this one girl… the judge should be punished..but so should the girl who didn’t show up for court..now you crying and having a 100 excuses of why…. nope..not buying it..

  • starbright9449

    I’m on the fence with this one. Homegirl should have testified. I’m tired of women staying g with abusive men only to have their kids endure that abuse as well. Lock her up for allowing a baby to be in such an environment. Before any of u come at me about ‘battered women have insecurity issues and has had their will power broken down”. They didn’t go into that relationship that way. After the first and second time they stayed and allowed that to continue.

  • It’s Taurus Season

    She broke the law. But I guess. I mean. It was kinda heartless. Down below they saying DV victim, that her ass mighta been crine for sympathy.

    That really is an arrestable offense. FTA-Failure To Appear.

    I see both sides. Judge Judi was having a bad day. IDK.

  • http://yeuphonic.com @yeuphonic

    Yea but judges, police, and hospital personnel are well aware of battered women’s syndrome. That’s why victims don’t have to consent to pressing charges against their domestic partner because the state will. In this case they were able to convict and sentence without her testimony.

  • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

    YES MA’AM!
    there was one who had been a secretary and they pulled strings to make her a ‘specialist’ …lawd, couldn’t tell that hunch-shouldered bish Nuthin! if you coulda seen her stomping around this building with those polyester tumble dry ‘business’ suits and white Minnie mouse pumps, swearing her haircut was a bob, but it was pure pageboy/mushroom shaped, smh. bish kept bragging on her vehicle. later on i found out it was a Rav4.

  • lil goodie

    Says who?? Her…she live with her parents….she does not work because she waiting on child support…. come on now…..i think she may be in s bad place but if life was soooo rough. You pick yourself up and get help..not lay there and make excuses..trust..i have been there

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    Like a TLC given by Pebbles RAV4??

  • It’s Taurus Season

    And she probably really is racist.

    “Collins has been a Seminole County judge for 10 years. She was appointed by then-Gov. Jeb Bush. Before that, she worked as an assistant state
    attorney in Sanford.”

  • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

    you know it did. and she was over conduct & discipline, so you know she was hail on wheels. but karma is the great equalizer. a few years later that arse was DEMOTED. I’m talking bout busted all the way down to what amounted to a ‘floater’

  • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

    that’s the one! LOL!

  • Liz

    Much respect but not everyone is that strong. Dealing with it right now with one my sisters. Her logic is not normal people logic, it’s so warped you can’t really deal with her like a normal person because as far as she is concerned it’s always her fault.

  • It’s Taurus Season

    She interfered in the state’s case of getting the abuser locked up. I see this POV too.

    “Without a victim-witness, prosecutors dropped one charge against the defendant — that he was armed with a knife — and agreed to reduce another. He wound up sentenced to 16 days in jail for battery.

    Prosecutors asked the judge to order the woman to court to explain why she should not be held in contempt for defying the subpoena.”

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    I just hope that they give people enough money to start over, and live better than just decent.

    Those people have been through alot, and this has got to be messing with their mental. Just terrible 🙁

  • Yoni

    YAAAAAAAASSSSSSSSSSS!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Noirluv45

    You do NOT understand the cycle of abuse. Did you know that leaving an abuser can cost a woman her life? It’s not that easy to leave. No, they didn’t go into that way. They were made that way by manipulative men who play mind games. Fear is what many of these women experience. People don’t understand that so they continuously blame the victim. When a woman leaves, she takes her life into her hands as much as if she stays.

  • It’s Taurus Season

    No they werent. See above. They had to drop a very serious charge because she didnt show up.

  • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

    they gonna have to pay for all those babies that now have permanent brain damage, smh.
    this reminds me… I need to find the congressional hearings online because I only caught a few minutes of it, but that committee handed those ‘witnesses’ their arses!
    *goes off to c-span*

  • Yoni

    RIGHT! Move me out…..but move my ass right on UP! To the Eastside. To a deluxe apartment in the sky…..

  • Noirluv45

    Heard Hillary is a royal B for real!!! Very mean woman.

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

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  • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

    I’ve actually had to tell a couple of yt folks to “be careful” because reaping & sowing go hand-in-hand (and yes, it came to pass)
    :celie fangas:

  • stav

    Those judging shall be judged! Just another authority figure abusing their temporary power.

  • MissHarlem

    NEW POST

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    Right! Pay me for my suffering!

    I didn’t get CONSIDERATION! Consideration = I pay X and expect X <–that didn't happen.

    AND got folks STILL paying water bills!!! <–I saw that on Steve Harvey at 4 am the other day. Unbelievable…

  • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

    um, okay, but before I call, is there any ‘penalty’ for “reaching out” to an officer of the court… ‘cross state lines’? LOL!

  • It’s Taurus Season

    IDK. Chile. Its public like hell. I mean…IDK.

  • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

    (prayers for your Sis)

  • Yoni

    I pray there is NEVER a mix-up.

  • YES I SAID IT…

    Most Judges not all are asssholes and they are nasty cold hearted fkers. And this is coming from a person who bestfriend is a judge

  • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

  • Yoni

    Right. How you got me paying for shit………….LITERALLY!

  • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

    LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    Oh my. AND Mistakes always happen. They’re gonna need one hell of a control system in place. Funny but not funny :/

  • Yoni

    She called OUR children “super predators”. She speaks in a very condescending manner to black women as well.

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    I didn’t say one curse word. I gave my honest opinion of her behavior https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/b0b0011a523d0317118dccb102276d52cb528a26b416d19b92952820ec376360.gif

  • Yoni

    “Dats my bestfriend. My bestriend. You betta….”

  • Yoni

    I already KNOW!

  • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today
  • Alicia.Ashe

    This judge is a clown. I hope the victim is doing better.

  • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

    okay…
    (but what’s your paypal, just in case)

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    You’re in med industry, right?

    Personal opinion: Sometimes I think folks have to die IN ORDER for other folks to live later on down the line :shrug:

    So yeah they may mix up some organs for the first year, BUT THEN they’ll figure out a way to not make the same mistakes.

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    (whiny voice) I didn’t even dew nothin though :wail:

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    (whiny voice) I didn’t even dew nothin though :wail:

  • Yoni

    Yes I am. Anatomic Pathology to be exact. Where ALL the removed surgery shit (read: organs, arms, legs, babies, ppl, bullets, moles, etc.) comes to me.

    I hear you, tho’.

  • Yoni

    Yes I am. Anatomic Pathology to be exact. Where ALL the removed surgery shit (read: organs, arms, legs, babies, ppl, bullets, moles, etc.) comes to me.

    I hear you, tho’.

  • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

    dang. talk about coincidence. I’m listening to the Flint water hearings, and the Cmte Chair JUST said he was issuing an subpoena for one of the “invited” witnesses, who thought he could decide not to appear… lawd.

  • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

    dang. talk about coincidence. I’m listening to the Flint water hearings, and the Cmte Chair JUST said he was issuing an subpoena for one of the “invited” witnesses, who thought he could decide not to appear… lawd.

  • YES I SAID IT…

    LMBO!!!!!!! U funny!!!!!

  • YES I SAID IT…

    LMBO!!!!!!! U funny!!!!!

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    This is horrifying.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    This is horrifying.

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    Okay gotcha. Sounds cool!

    BUTT–> Don’t be sending nobody 2 lefts Arms yo!

    https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/bb4264f7d4d7227830d50436ebc02fe52f854ab6633bc6dbb91c04c30c8efcd0.gif

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    Okay gotcha. Sounds cool!

    BUTT–> Don’t be sending nobody 2 lefts Arms yo!

    https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/bb4264f7d4d7227830d50436ebc02fe52f854ab6633bc6dbb91c04c30c8efcd0.gif

  • 1shy112

    That **** dirty rat bitch of a judge should go jump off a **** bridge while chocking on a fat dick and gagging. She is doing it alone going thru…….this is a heartless hoe. I rather have cuss that bitch out royally and told her to send me to jail for that. I hurt feeling with this mouth of mine, bitch would of gave me 30 days. Keep your head up mama I know the struggle 1st hand of that shit. With it being the person who needs to help u at the end of the day makes it so much harder. ?? fdb of a judge….why Sandra why?

  • 1shy112

    That **** dirty rat bitch of a judge should go jump off a **** bridge while chocking on a fat dick and gagging. She is doing it alone going thru…….this is a heartless hoe. I rather have cuss that bitch out royally and told her to send me to jail for that. I hurt feeling with this mouth of mine, bitch would of gave me 30 days. Keep your head up mama I know the struggle 1st hand of that shit. With it being the person who needs to help u at the end of the day makes it so much harder. ?? fdb of a judge….why Sandra why?

  • Bam Bam

    I wish I would have seen your friend up on the bench many times before because most judges I have encountered have been the opposite of your BFF

  • Bam Bam

    I wish I would have seen your friend up on the bench many times before because most judges I have encountered have been the opposite of your BFF

  • Sexy CJ

    Thursday Night…………”TURN IT UP”……@………

  • Sexy CJ

    Thursday Night…………”TURN IT UP”……@………

  • Sexy CJ

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  • Sexy CJ

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  • Bam Bam

    Today is my Fridayyyyy so I’m is ret!!!!1

  • Bam Bam

    Today is my Fridayyyyy so I’m is ret!!!!1

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    Besides any mix ups, why do you think that?

    I found this on Bing’s homepage. Bing has a bunch of articles.

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    Besides any mix ups, why do you think that?

    I found this on Bing’s homepage. Bing has a bunch of articles.

  • YES I SAID IT…

    I bet! I had some bad experiences with Judges when I went for support for family and I tell U it can go good and it can go bad, and it all depends on how the judges day is going and what they are going through can mess U up in court

  • YES I SAID IT…

    I bet! I had some bad experiences with Judges when I went for support for family and I tell U it can go good and it can go bad, and it all depends on how the judges day is going and what they are going through can mess U up in court

  • Sexy CJ

    Enjoy your day………..

  • Sexy CJ

    Enjoy your day………..

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    She shall reap these seeds she’s sown. She’s gonna need mercy one day.

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    She shall reap these seeds she’s sown. She’s gonna need mercy one day.

  • Bam Bam

    You shoooooo said it because there have been times I have been in court. Seeing the judge in a bad mood. Hold up my little church and head to the clerk and be like I need a continuance. They be like is something wrong? I’m like nothing wrong with me but something going on with the judge. Let’s try on a different day before I spend ever in jail because Mrs. Judge didn’t give up no cookies last night!!!!

  • Bam Bam

    You shoooooo said it because there have been times I have been in court. Seeing the judge in a bad mood. Hold up my little church and head to the clerk and be like I need a continuance. They be like is something wrong? I’m like nothing wrong with me but something going on with the judge. Let’s try on a different day before I spend ever in jail because Mrs. Judge didn’t give up no cookies last night!!!!

  • Liz

    Thank you beautiful

  • Amel

    Wow.

  • YES I SAID IT…

    LMBO!!!!!!! Yesss U said it right! I know when my cousin was going to tell and I was their on his behalf before I even got up to speak, the Judge was like I ain’t got all day U all are not about to waste my time so I’m not about to waste anymore time on this case I am sentencing him to 5 years in jail! I was like damm somebody woke up on the wrong side of the bed

  • Mel

    She only sorry cus she got punished for her selfish actions. She didn’t take nothing that woman say into consideration ? Bish

  • Luv Pitties

    I bet she won’t blow off court appearances again

  • Luv Pitties

    I went through this with my ex-husband, I made sure to show up to court for the divorce, restraining order and any thing else I needed to do, he was incarcerated and refused to appear, not sure how he did that but the judge didn’t seem to care.

  • TheRealLee

    That judge needs to take the class on domestic violence and the horrible situation it is from the victim’s perspective.

  • Put some Respeck on B.Sweet

    I put my head down when I read Rav4… I needed a moment of silence.

  • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

    I wish I was lying, smh

  • Full Monty

    And that’s our justice system folks! A bish with power asserting more power!

  • Shay Oway

    She only sorry since the public ripped her a new a s s .

  • Shay Oway

    Actually the victim was selfish and afraid and you know what? The victim had every right to be selfish and afraid. Nothing wrong with being selfish.

  • Shay Oway

    People need to be mad at the prosecutors in the case for wanting the judge to find her in contempt.

  • Keekz

    Right! damn b#tch where is your compassion. The woman is broke, alone, homeless, and has to support a child. Yes, she was wrong for not appear in court, but damn she has extenuating circumstances. Glad her azz is on blast for her behavior.

  • Noirluv45

    Yoni, you’re right. She is condescending and not a nice person. That’s the true HC, not the smiling one we see on TV.

  • starbright9449

    And when she stays she’s in less danger, right? What irks me is after the first blow they get they wanna stay and let that man hit on their kids too. Miss me with that please.

  • Mrs Mary

    I was a victim of domestic violence and it was my first experience like that, he was ten years my senior, established had his own stuff and I moved in with him we had a kid and all hell broke loose. controlling jealous and very very insecure to be such a handsome fella. needless to say I moved out filed restraining order SHOWED up to court and also filed child support. this fool told the judge he wants to still be with me. come to find out he had a prior restraining order against him. so I get where the judge is coming from, too many times these women make it hard for the next woman because had they handled this fool the next woman would’ve to. now I wouldn’t have put her in jail but if these women drop the charges and waste court and tax payer time and money they should be punished in some way. I find that a lot of these women have no self esteem they are uneducated they are silly and dumb and are wiling to take him back time after time instead of leaving the situation. if you want to be a fool do it alone and leave the courts out of it, but when you seek help take it and don’t waste nobody time! I have been picked for jury duty, it’s not fair to have serve on a jury and people not show up or waiting around all day in one room to get picked for a jury… these women either need to keep on getting beat or leave bottom line.i feel sorry for you the first time but if you choose to keep getting beat then that’s on you and then to drop the charges oh hell no!

  • Mrs Mary

    exactly that is what I said and sometimes child support does not come quickly. this girl don’t fool me one bit. she needs to get some self esteem and a job at mcdonalds for now until she can do better. she is making a lot of excuses , maybe this will teach her a thing or two.

  • Mrs Mary

    yes indeed I showed up to and moved on with my life with a new husband and kids three in all and he so bitter about it. keep your hands to yourself your temper and jealousy. see women like her don’t leave or start over because they feel like they can’t do better, they make me sick to my stomach. if you are going to involve the authorities stick to it or just keep getting beat like a dog.

  • ifixstudentloans

    My goodness…this Judge reveals narcissism at its ‘best’….insightless, arrogant, ignorant and self serving……’not’ serving the community…

  • Monday

    The abuser is the most selfish, victim has to think about her safety for once…

  • Monday

    The system can pay for that when the victim complies with the court. They pay for item losts, storage etc, through non-profits organisations like Safe Horizon, No More Org etc… Abusers should go to jail AND pay for the victim but it rarely works that way

  • PhillyLala

    When I called the police on my sons dad the police practically treated me like the criminal. First they were like if you’re not going to press charges or go back to him, don’t bother us, then had me waiting for HOURS in the police station and had major attitude. Smh

  • Noirluv45

    No, and that’s the problem, Starbright. Whether they stay or leave they are in danger. Abuse works this way: It’s gradual. It starts out “innocent” enough. He’ll do his deed and then apologize. That, in turn, will gain her trust because she wants to believe that he’ll never do it again. He’ll be nice and then, Bam! It happens again. Over time, he’ll mentally and emotionally abuse her. Many times, the man is the only bread winner and she has nowhere to go. Oftentimes she’s trapped. You’re right. The kids suffer because of it, and many a woman has lost her life trying to protect her children because she doesn’t want them hurt too. Like I said, she has no resource (many times, he isolates her from friends and family), so there’s no one to count on. If you aren’t willing to understand the cycle of abuse (there’s a lot of documentation proving it), then that’s your business, but I’m telling you, it’s not as easy as “just getting out.”

  • Queen B

    See this is y i said I WILL NOT vote for Hiliary or no other woman to hold a high position. Most women r so power hungry and they let that shît get to their heads smh

  • SpiceGirl

    she sorry because she got caught….bish!

  • Yoni

    She ain’t ready. But again, she might be just as bad as Trump if she DOES make it in.

  • Yoni

    Tell THAT to the OR. LOL

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    The potential for mix ups aren’t horrifying enough?

  • Traceyindamiddle

    THAT JUDGE SHOULD NEVER BE ALLOWED TO SIT ON ANY OTHER DOMESTIC VIOLENCE CASE AGAIN!! SHE MIGHT AS WELL HAVE BEEN THE VICTIMS ASSAILANT AS WELL!!

  • Noirluv45

    That’s true, Yoni.

  • CrazyDayz

    As a DV survivor, I don’t think the judge was wrong in this at all. He has a prior DV case and the “victim” attempted to drop the case. She did not show up because she did not want him to be charged. She claims she is homeless but she lives with her parents. She is making excuses. At the time of my situation, my daughter was only five months old and once her dad laid his hands on me I made sure he went to jail that night, put out a restraining order the following morning so he could be served while in jail and went to women in distress (a service available in Florida) where they helped me get an apartment and provided counseling for everything. I made sure I followed up with my state appointed attorney to go forward with charges and my child’s father was charged with a lesser charge of battery, but he was still charged. I have a daughter and I will not allow her to grow up in that kind of enviorment. She is making excuses to protect a man that abused her instead of protecting her child and I think that is what set the judge off. I have no sympathy for this “victim”.

  • CrazyDayz

    I had the same situation and made sure charges were filed. She lives in Florida, just as I do, and there are many programs that are there to help DV survivors. Even if you’re not employed, they will still get you a place to stay and help you with rent until you get into a job. She didn’t want him getting charged and she is making it harder on herself and her child.

  • mocha brown

    The judge did right!!! And she aint homeless if shec is living with her parents.. Dumb b*tch need to think about her actions!

  • starbright9449

    After the first or second hit she had a chance to leave BEFORE she was mentally and emotionally broken down. I’m sorry but we’re gonna have to agree to disagree hun lol.

  • Noirluv45

    Right, we will agree to disagree. I’ll just say this: Don’t judge someone else’s circumstance lest you walk in their shoes. Have a nice rest of the day.

  • starbright9449

    I have and I walked away the first time.

  • Noirluv45

    That’s wonderful, but that was you. Perhaps your circumstances allowed you to walk.

  • Dexter

    DO NOT COPY “!!”

  • Candance

    She wouldn’t even have been in that situation if she didn’t have a DV case. Its hard to judge these cases. Its great that you can pick up from any situation and move on, but not everyone can and its no fault of theirs… we are not all built FORD tough like you! Sh** is hard for some people.

  • Candance

    She wouldn’t even have been in that situation if she didn’t have a DV case. Its hard to judge these cases. Its great that you can pick up from any situation and move on, but not everyone can and its no fault of theirs… we are not all built FORD tough like you! Sh** is hard for some people.

  • starbright9449

    Lol you’re grasping at straws now girl.

  • Shay Oway

    Nothing wrong with a victim being selfish- a victim should always be selfish and think of themselves.