Tovanna Holton

This tragic story underscores why your children should not have Internet access.

A nude Snapchat video that drove a teenage girl to kill herself was leaked by her boyfriend, according to published reports.

Levon Holton-Teamer told WFLA she sent her 15-year-old daughter, Tovonna Holton, to her clean up her room Sunday afternoon.

Minutes later, Holton-Teamer sensed something was wrong, and went looking for Tovanna. She found her daughter unresponsive on the bathroom floor with single gunshot wound to the head.

"I go to the bathroom; I couldn’t get in the bathroom. The bathroom light was off so I tried to get in and I looked down and I saw the puddle of blood. I tried to apply the pressure, the pressure to her head. I tried to save her,” Holton-Teamer said Wednesday.

Holton-Teamer said Tovanna had taken the gun from her purse.

She said her daughter was distressed over some pictures of her that were circulating on the Internet.

“Tovonna would say, ‘Mommy, I owe them; I owe them’. I said, ‘What do you mean you owe them?’ I couldn’t understand what was wrong,” Holton-Teamer said.

Hours after Tovanna died, her aunt, Angel Scott, took to Facebook.com to try and find out the source of the photos.

“I just said, ‘If anybody knows anything, what happened? Have you heard of anything? Do you know who these kids are who have the pictures?’ I thought it was just pictures and then the kids started inboxing me,” said Scott. She said she learned it was actually a nude video that was taken of the girl while she was in the shower.

“Everybody was out there talking about her and calling her names and they said it went up on social media, Snapchat," Said Scott. "I’d never heard of that before about 3 something that afternoon,” she said.

A friend told a news weblog that Tovonna’s ex-boyfriend posted the nude video on Twitter after they broke up.

Christian Coyle-Watts said Tovanna and her boyfriend broke up Sunday morning. Hours later, she would be dead.

“Tovonna knew [her friend] posted the video, but Tovonna’s boyfriend posted it, trying to expose her in a derogatory way,” Coyle-Watts said. “He did it just because he knew he could, and it would hurt her feelings.”

The Pasco County School District learned about the online bullying and notified the Pasco County Sheriff’s Office.

By Thursday afternoon, Tovonna’s picture had been shared thousands of times on Twitter.com and Facebook with the hashtag #stopbullying.

“I want them to pay, to feel what we feeling, even if their child is convicted or in trouble they can go visit their child,” Scott said.

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    I thought it was her friend who posted it after a sleepover. Sad. Sick. We got to teach our kids kidness. Our parents did not let us be so cruel.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Well, somebody is about to be charged with distribution of child pornography. Watch...

  • Cinnamon Brown

    I just cant with this generation any more..... I need a straight spiritual intervention.... This is just plain demonic... Im praying for her family...

  • SummerBaby

    This is sad ASF. Beautiful girl. RIP! ?? My heart goes out to the family.

  • MissyJ

    So the friend posted and the boyfriend reposted? I'm lost. RIP and RIP to the kids futures that posted it... Child Pron charges are a biatch.. Don't belee me ask Jared

  • Coco Ouattara

    I'm new here! 1st thing my thoughts and prayers go out to this young girls family. Secondly it's sad when social media is the demise to slot of people. Sad but true...

  • MsSincerity

    To go home and find your baby in a pool of blood, my god bless her.

  • B.Sweet is Savage

    What the heyull is wrong with people? Babygirl it was going to get better. If you had just given it a little more time it would have gotten better.

  • Alicia.Ashe

    Sad. My condolences to the family.

  • SandrasNewFave

    I tell mine, I would not trade places with them for love or money! All these "conveniences" are really ways to get caught up. You couldn't send a nasty pic to a boy unless you had a polaroid camera and a friend willing to snap it. Then you would have to hand it to him. If too many people saw it, follow the chain and get your picture back. DONE.
    Now kids can be fass without leaving the home. Take your kids phone- they use their friends. Move to a new school- the internet follows. Send em to gramma's- she got wifi too. I bout smacked my boy when I sent him to mow the lawn and he standing in one spot texting. GIVE ME THE PHONE AND MOW!!!
    Back in the day you had to have a pervert in the neighborhood, now the are virtually perverted and will send your child a plane ticket! Too much, too much.
    Poor child. RIP baby girl

  • mela.reign77

    This generation is definitely different from when I was growing up. I'm not saying that I didn't do things but they take things way to far. They live for likes. They crave attention whether it being positive or negative just to be noticed. We have to continue to instill the value of life in these kids. Life is about choices and you have to always try to make the right decisions. My prayers are with her family and I pray that they are able to take this tragedy to educate those that she was close with and maybe inspire them to make better choices. And not only that but to give them strength as well. Because I don't care what it is , killing yourself is never the answer. :(

  • Auditor

    Welp you'll never find naked pics of me ANYWHERE cause I don't allow that ish...

  • That’s Interesting

    This gave me chills and made me tear up. So sad. Teenagers can be very cruel and their brains are not fully developed.

  • B.Sweet is Savage

    Taking a naked pic doesn't mean you deserve to be bullied. Kids were mean when I was in school but the internet has grown a bunch of e-thugs and narcissists. Most of the ones bullying her probably have their own twat and mini dack pics posted up somewhere.

  • Rayne

    These are some stupid ass kids. Y'all pray for em.

  • B.Sweet is Savage

    A change in parenting breed these demons. If more parents were parents and not friends with their children some of this could change.

  • MotherOfDragons, GetOffMyENuts

    This poor young woman. When you are at that age you don't always realize that this too shall pass... She applied a permanent solution to a temporary problem. My heart goes out to her loved ones.

  • Brook York

    How very sad...smh.

  • MotherOfDragons, GetOffMyENuts

    Some of these kids behave like savages now. It's disturbing.

  • SpillyNillie

    This is so sad. Heartbreaking. This poor child couldn't take these ingnant ass kids bullying her. Poor thing couldn't realize it was only temporary. That's why I'm trying to teach my son to have a "fuk u" attitude when it comes to bullying. This generation...Lord, help.

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe
  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    We have to show our kids grace. Leave an open door for them. Let them know when you graduate you never have to see those mofos again.

  • Da Puppet Mistress

    A whole entire conversation was had at Dub11 graduation today. Topic? Bullying. Whole segment on it. I'm talking ON the program.

    This is why.

    God bless this baby girl soul.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    I wonder what Tovanna meant by she owed them?

  • MotherOfDragons, GetOffMyENuts

    I do too, there is clearly more to the story. We will probably never know.

  • Da Puppet Mistress

    This part got me too. Anyone?

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    Maybe they wanted her to do something and she didn't?

  • SpillyNillie

    Can't say for certain, but maybe she felt that they would be remorseful or felt bad if she committed suicide because of them. Some suicides occur to "get back" at others...

  • MotherOfDragons, GetOffMyENuts

    Those kids better be facing the legal ramifications of their actions. I do not understand how these young people are so evil and lacking in empathy and human decency.

  • Da Puppet Mistress

    And it's not just parenting. A lot are born like this. I'm convinced

  • MotherOfDragons, GetOffMyENuts

    It's necessary. I said it below, there are some savage feral young sociopaths and psychopaths out here.

  • MotherOfDragons, GetOffMyENuts

    I agree.

  • Auditor

    Nope sure doesn't but you can prevent it by not doing it period. Especially as a child...

  • MotherOfDragons, GetOffMyENuts

    True. I never got the appeal of sending nudes anyway. I've never even sent my husband a full on naked pic. If you want to see it ALL you can see it in person. If you never see it in person you will NEVER see it period.

  • MotherOfDragons, GetOffMyENuts

    It seems like it could definitely be that "they" were attempting some kind of blackmail with the video.

  • Auditor

    Agreed I might send a body part but never my full on body.

  • Da Puppet Mistress

    Friends of me an ex husband. Their youngest daughter. Something wrong with her man. Evil. She got mad at one of her friends and pushed the girl into traffic at food truck festival downtown last year. No one was hurt thank God. 9th grade. Ex husband still lived here at time was like that's why I told you stop asking her to babysit. Something off with her.

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    Sad. It's hard to teach kids to have tough skin and it makes no sense that we even have to think it's an option/solution to bullying. Unfortunately, bullying will always exist and I can only pray I'm teaching my daughter the right tools to deal with if it ever comes up. Hell, there are thorn bullies on this blog; most of us are just grown and can see the ignorance in through the keyboard. It's much harder for children; they are still finding who they are and where they belong in this world. :-(

  • Da Puppet Mistress

    She was in shower and her friends filmed her. This girl didn't pose for or take any pics.

  • Taylordanes

    yes who birthed these heathens!!!!!!!!!

  • Noirluv45

    Agreed. Reading, this story is so sad. I was bullied, but the difference between then and now is social media. It can be used for good and evil.

  • Taylordanes

    This is so sad. RIP baby girl. So sad that the embarrassment cost her her life. We used to get teased and bullied as kids but I guess we had thicker skin back in my day.... we also didnt have social media......

    Sidenote.....

    Is the mom a cop? why she have a gun in her purse that a child could get to?

  • MotherOfDragons, GetOffMyENuts

    The fact that someone would even think to film that, good grief. These demons need to be in jail, at least for a little while. Harsh, yes, but this stuff these kids do now is not ok. They need to start facing serious consequences.

  • Noirluv45

    That's what I was thinking.

  • CaramelDrop

    RIP baby girl?

    People are becoming voyeurs younger and younger.... I feared my parents expert use of the extension cord when it came to boys, sex, and such....hated it then, thankful now.

    Hell, once I think about it I didn't take my shirt of in front of a male until well after my first child....

  • SG

    Lord have mercy.....I can't imagine this woman's pain. Especially behind some bull $#it.

  • Da Puppet Mistress

    “They say her friends recorded her in the tub while she was naked and then posted it on Snapchat,” Stefonique Collier, Tovonna’s niece, told The Daily Beast.
    After Tovonna’s friend posted the shower recording on Snapchat, people began taking screenshots and sharing them, friend Zoe Vereen said.
    Collier said she saw Tovonna, who just turned 15, at the beach last week.
    They were “calling her names,” Vereen told The Daily Beast.

  • MotherOfDragons, GetOffMyENuts

    That is scary. She might end up on the ID channel if they don't get her some help.

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    That is scary as hell. She is a news story waiting to happen.

  • VM

    Maybe a get back as far as revenge because she wanted them to feel her pain. Maybe betrayal by those she trusted, this really hurt her deeply and it's no telling how cruel the comments were. Wow, this is so sad, the advances of technology are ruining lives.

  • SpillyNillie

    What I said. I talk to my son CONSTANTLY about bullying. Lord knows I try my best to convince him that he is a fearless LEADER; never a follower and to always do what's RIGHT. My son is smart, sensitive, and shy. Ripe for the picking...nothing like I was when I was a kid. Got sent home in the 4th grade for calling a boy mama a bitch because he called me one. Chile....I ain't no where in my son. LOL!

  • Noirluv45

    Instead of throwing out condoms to kids (I know they are necessary), throw out lessons on morals, things that will build their character, and such. I think the media and the "pack mentality" play a huge role in how many of these millennials act. I'm not fully blaming the media. There are a lot of reasons, including parental failure, as to why these kids have gone off the deep end.

    My heartfelt sorrow and condolences go out to this young lady's family.

  • B.Sweet is Savage

    New rules say don't hit your child but if mine where to do something like this...

  • Da Puppet Mistress

    She always seemed normal to me. Comes to find out from Dub21 and ex hubby that girl got deep issues. Talked to Dub21 about it she said the girl Facebook was so strange she had to unfriend her. Said something about killing the dog.

  • Lisa daniels

    Boyfriend and home girl need their asses beat.

  • Shira Harding-James

    15 is too young to have girl friends and boy friends anyway. Teenagers lack the maturity to process emotions and situations properly....notice the impulse of the boyfriend to post the video, instead of just moving on with life.

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    I hope every kid who took this video and/or distributes it gets hit with child p0rnography charges. Mean bastards.

  • VM

    Interesting point sheds light on the manipulation factor with our youth.

  • SLucky

    This is such a sad and tragic story that did not have to happen. Parents, we have to be more open and honest with our children which includes letting them know just how stupid it is to allow someone to take naked pics of you or you sharing nude pics. This young girl should not have lost her life.

  • SpillyNillie

    Not a real life Bad Seed!!!

  • Lisa daniels

    This is like the second story that I read here about some fool posting another nudes and they either kill themselves or person who posted the nudes. Stop posting nudes, scratch that stop taking nudes.

  • MotherOfDragons, GetOffMyENuts

    It's stressful and frightening raising kids, and things like this are one of the reasons. This is a serious concern amongst so many parents, that their child will be bullied or picked on. My oldest just went through a situation where this girl was verbally baiting her and in one instance purposely bumped in to her trying to start something. She handled the situation and the girl now leaves her alone but has moved on to pulling her very timid best friend's hair and other things. Her friend won't tell her parents and doesn't want to tell any school administrators because she doesn't want to make a big deal out of it...but it bothers her and she does nothing to defend herself.

  • Lisa daniels

    She should whupped her ass. Mommy will bail you out of juvie.

  • Da Puppet Mistress

    Exactly. A damn female one. I asked ex was he kidding. The parents were damn THERE. Our food truck rodeo is huge. Took her down there with a friend. Girl had been talking about her. She waits til they walking back to car and was like talk shit now hoe. Pushed her. The friends of ours were walking a small distance behind. Saw their daughter do that crap. When asked basically said she did it bc she could. No remorse

  • Da Puppet Mistress

    She plays it off well.

  • product of 79

    1.R.I.H baby gurl ?
    2. Parents need to talk to their kids
    3. Take phones check 'em see 1st hand what's goin on
    4. We need the VILLAGE to do there part, listen watch and TELL
    #STOPBULLYING

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    I don't understand this generation of overly sensitive, attention hungry children. She didn't have to kill herself the embarrassment would've subsided and everyone would've forgotten about it. What happened to shooting a fair one? Man listen I would've beat the melanin out of that stupid girl and that dusty little boy. I don't condone suicide at all I don't care what's going on unless you're seriously mentally ill and you're hearing voices. There's no reason to kill yourself, as someone who has and still deals with depression I get it I've been there. I thought about it but I'd never allow myself to go through with it .

  • Lisa daniels

    When I graduate, I became a ?. I spoke to no one and if I saw you on the street, I pretended not to know you. Looking like Mariah Carey, I don't know her.

  • luVn_liFe…

    Tragic and senseless.

  • MsSincerity

    It's not just the teenagers that lacks maturity and doesn't know how to handle situations properly. The adults are just as bad. Adults do all kinds of vicious things to get back at their exes. There's even a site called "revenge p - 0 - r - n".

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    You know I watch enough Criminal Minds to know that animal killing can be an early sign of evil behavior later. If you hear she started setting fires, run!

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    Sandra, I beseech you. Please don't leave us in this post with this poor baby all night. Just hurting my heart.?

  • Da Puppet Mistress

    Someone asked do dogs bleed at same rate as humans. Their dog had gotten hit by a car. But was hardly bleeding. Dub21 clicked the conversation bc she is friends with the older sibs, said the girl made some comment about IDK, let me go stab our dog and see. Her sibs were like whoa that ain't funny. Ole girl replied: I thought it was. Dub21 meanwhile on other side like ummm "delete delete delete "???

  • VM

    But the chromosomes has to come from somewhere right, do you think the trait is passed down genetically?

  • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

    Damn. A young life blotted out and for what??!! RIP young one, smh.

  • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

    LUVIE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    we was just talking about you yesterday!
    *makidada*

  • AnonymousRose

    Glad back in my days we had beepers. This chyt out here is crazy. Dam sham this young lady gone, whats with everything need a dam photo, camera. I was on face book years ago, and only posted 3 pictures of me. U go to my page looking for pictures, u gonna see trees, animals, and meme...

  • Tequila Mockingbird

    I agree. She didn't have to commit suicide. In a world as this, the one we now live in sadly, this is what kids are doing posing nude and sending nudes. As parents we need to monitor this and guide their choices and let them know that they should never have to feel pressured into doing things they dont want or feel comfortable doing! Kids may be more overly sensitive now but parents need to talk with their kids and tell them it shouldn't matter what other people think of them but on the flip side we also need to teach our kids that bullying IS NOT OK EITHER!

  • hotntot95

    Ikr...it's tragic...I guess I'm too old but I don't understand to kill yaself over pics...I would be kinda embarrassed but I would own it and push on...

  • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

    Mr's youngest when through that a couple of years ago (she was about 12 then). she's real nerdy and sorta quiet but not unfriendly. some kids started picking with her and calling her names, real names like "bitch" ...she finally broke down and told her mom; her mom told Mr., and he strapped on his boots, picked up the mom, and they went to the principal. I told him to tell the principal that if the school couldn't handle it, the police would. I also printed out the school board's 'no bullying policy' with the forms to submit. after their meeting with the principal, the girls tried to apologize to baby girl, and we've had no further problems out of them or anyone else at her school.

  • luVn_liFe…

    HEY hunn... <_<
    whetCHUwassayin????

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    Are you my twin? I was crazy in elementary school. I was whopping ass and taking no prisoners.

  • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

    "People are becoming voyeurs younger and younger"
    >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
    AND becoming exhibitionists, smh

  • Tequila Mockingbird

    I'm 27 y/o 5 ft. tall and about 100 lbs. My mom moved us from Chicago to small town Iowa when I was 10. After moving I was bullied tremendously for my height (I was always smaller than other kids) bullied because I'm Latina in what was a predominantly all white town. And as a child I felt like things they said were true. I felt like I always had to do things to get approval from others so I could "fit in" but as I got older (high school and now) I learned to realize they dont matter, what they all told me doesn't matter. I shouldn't care about what people think of me. Nobody is charge of my life BUT ME. It's sad that the only solution this child sought was suicide. After all my experiences I never let my thoughts of myself (at that time) and other ppl drive me to suicide. Because again, NOBODY HAS CONTROL OF MY LIFE BUT ME! Sorry for the novel, just thought I'd share...

  • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

    you said you was RUFF!! Lol!!!

  • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

    right. with social media, the damage is immediate (and everlasting once it hits the web)

  • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

    you are not even exaggerating!

  • luVn_liFe…

    I've always taught my son what other people say About YEW is NOT ur business . . . boy he lives by it.

  • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

    girl, this!!!!!
    my sister be steady talking bout I seen this one and that one. I be like well I saw one or two, but they didn't see me and kept it moving!

  • MotherOfDragons, GetOffMyENuts

    I put my girls in martial arts when they were 4. They both did 6 years of it. My now 4 year old son starts jiu jitsu soon. I believe that knowing that if it comes down to a fight you really know how to defend yourself helps with self confidence. My girls aren't the type to look for or start fights but they both know they can defend themselves. In my oldest daughter's case having that training was part of the reason why she took the initiative to handle her situation with a bully. She said she didn't want to fight the girl but she was going to let her know she wasn't some punk that could be picked on and wasn't afraid to defend herself. Put your son is some kind of class that will enable him to have self defense skills. Karate, jiu jitsu, taekwondo, krav maga, boxing, wrestling, something. You have to prepare your sweet child to deal with potential animals.

  • Tequila Mockingbird

    But as parents we need to monitor what our kids are doing on these sites and on their phones. Honestly, why do young kids need Iphones and phones with all these fancy features anyway? They should need to be in contact with their parents...

  • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

    another one of my fav old movies!

  • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

    awww hell naw... (don't be leaving 'our' baby alone with her)

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    She has siblings too? I would not be alone in a room with her. I would see her only when the whole family is there. I know a little girl. The daughter of a friend of a friend. Anyway, she has such bad anger issues and has had them since she was a little girl. She's about 13-14 now. The friend that I know says she won't let her come over to her house unless her husband is home also. I understand her mom had/has a bad temper since she was a child too so this little girl got it honestly.

  • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

    oh God! that's how it starts!

  • Felicia Kelley

    Hence...... Difference is she's not you, and she's a teenager!!

    Damn where is your empathy?

    And we really wonder what is wrong with these kids!!

    Honestly I wonder where has our humanity as Blackwomen has gone!!

    Always easier to say WHAT you would do when obviously it is not you!!

    I just do not understand your comment at all. Actually, your not the only one. Yours just kinda hit more of a nerve than the other ones.

    Not trying to start an argument.

  • Taylordanes

    I feel like this was something that pushed her over the edge ..maybe there was more going on and this was the final straw..still wanna know why moms had a gun in her pocket and her daughter was able to get to it.

  • MotherOfDragons, GetOffMyENuts

    I mean, look at the Kylie Jenners of the world. I go on Dragon14's IG and look at the kinds of pics these kids post...it is crazy. I'm always like "where are their parents?"

  • Tequila Mockingbird

    So true. It's not. Granted, with everyone putting their business out there on social media it's hard for ppl to stay out of other's business. But, people should go back to being private and stay out of other ppls business as well

  • Taylordanes

    she didnt pose she was filmed in the shower unknowingly

  • VM

    You hit it right on the button. I have a 10 y/o nephew who broke his mother's dog legs and then killed the dog (not all at the same time). Flash forward his recent activity, he burned down her apartment, three units burned to the ground. The police asked why, he denied it and then eventually he said because he was bored. We have a aunt that lived over there who lost her unit, and she said he was saying he wanted to kill his mom. My middle sister has primary custody of him, but he was allowed to have unsupervised visits with his mom (oldest sister). Something is seriously wrong with him, he has ADHD but he knows right from wrong. My sister also said when she would wake up in the middle of the night, he would be peeking in her room, like he was plotting his next move. Creepy. We all agreed and my sister relinquished custody. My grandmother always said you have to watch him, he's evil, and he had that look in his eyes.

  • Noirluv45

    Yes, Nancy, it sure is! It's a whole other beast.

  • Lovelove

    I'm lost too....completely lost. And within a day or so she was that distraught to kill herself? Impulsive move.

  • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

    You have to prepare your sweet child to deal with potential animals.
    bottom line!
    bottom line!

  • MotherOfDragons, GetOffMyENuts

    Well...we talked about it and discussed our plan of action. On the day she chose to handle that little so and so I emailed the principal and both assistant principals. So after she may or may not have told the girl if she bothered her one more time she would break a body part in self defense and knew how to do it, just try her if she thinks she doesn't, the administrators also stepped in and had a discussion with the girl. I felt we executed the entire scenario rather intelligently. She's bothering her bestie now though so the little wretch clearly has personal issues. I keep telling Dragon14 that as much as she wants to speak up for her friend she ALSO has to make sure her friend speaks up for herself as well.

  • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

    probably in the other room on Ashley Madison, grindr, and backspin, or backpage... door, whatever, smh

  • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

    well done hun! (I just wish her friend would talk to HER parents so they can talk to the principal(s). clearly that little bully still responds to pushback, but if she does nothing, it's only going to escalate, smh)

  • iWasteTime

    I feel that.
    Where have you BEAN !!!??

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Damn that's fawked up Jeez

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Hey Luvyn <3

  • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

    um, well... um, really it was DTTS and Butter... see what had happened was, Butter was saying her new gig wasn't all she was hoping it would be and she might consider taking a break. then DTTS tells Butter that she not really a worker bee anyway... so then I MAY have said that DTTS was confusing Butter with LuV... well, you get the point... we was just basically saying we missededed you....

  • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

    that's awesome!

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    I fuggin despise bullies ... on my life yo !!!!! Ugh ... glad you were wise enough ... unfortunately now kids are even more sensitive these days .... sad

  • MotherOfDragons, GetOffMyENuts

    Especially since they are heading to high school in August. She's hoping the girl will just leave her alone and lose interest, she'll get lost in the crowd. I don't get why a lot of her friends do not talk to their parents about things. It's odd to me because not only won't Dragon14 ever shut up, they ALL talk to me when they're around. I'll tell them I don't care about all their trivial young angst and they STILL keep talking ?

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    Mannnn

    RIP

    Have talks with the kids yall. I'm gonna use this story to start another convo tonight...

  • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

    LMAO @ Dragon14 won't ever shut up! they all keep talking to you because even though you protest, you're still present, available, and listening. you're 'that' mom.

  • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

    yeah, I may have to send this post to Mr. (not the comments though... can't have him blowing up my spot, LOL!!!)

  • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

    ...

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    WATT?!?! ????

    Funny because Butter told me I called her out but I was just commenting on her post. Lmao

  • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

    welp, let me get on out of here... hug your kids (and check their social media accounts, lol)

  • Lisa daniels

    I couldn't wait to graduate form high school. In my senior year , I would fake been sick to keep from kicking folks asses. Then when I graduated, a month later my number changed. I stop answer my email and I was already living in the next county over . https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/2eb4eda307dc9cab364d16dc30da284f0973ee1ccbb84672dc44a2c17fd66af2.jpg

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    Right.
    Please :facepalm:

    You'd have tew Dew thee name change pic swap etc ?

  • LibraGirlonly

    This is more than tragic. I don't understand how someone could think it was ok to do this to anyone and a child at that. RIP young lady. ??????

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    Kids today have no backbone! I don't know if its the food, their parents etc. But there is something wrong with this generation. No one whats to admit it or take the blame for it but kids today are sick in the head. I have empathy , but like I said before I don't condone suicide. You're right she isn't me, I'd never shoot myself over some non sense. I was once a teenager myself , I didnt come out the womb fully grown smart ass. I've been embarrassed more times than I can count but I never thought about offing myself because of it. What does this have to do with black women? Who mentioned black women? My Bff ex committed suicide , he got no empathy or sympathy from me. In fact I wanted to curse his ass out for being so selfish. Even In the end he was only thinking about himself. Committing suicide is selfish, and pointless. Unless your hearing voices in your head and or you're seriously mentally ill and you can't help it I'll never understand how and why anyone would want to end their life.

  • Da Puppet Mistress

    2 older sibs around Dub21 age. They all came up together. I was like the girl need counseling maybe. Ex husband was like she IN damn some already!

  • Da Puppet Mistress

    Could truly be

  • 2tusweetz

    Sad she took her own life, but as a parent I have questions!, How you send your teenager to clean their room, get a strange feeling and go upstairs to find them in the dark laying in a pool of blood from a self inflicted gun shot wound.... Did the gun have a silencer? and was the laying down so you could not hear her when she fell??

  • Da Puppet Mistress

    Quite a few victim blamers here this evening. Even When I put the education up from the link Sandra provided. This girl did not willing take or send any pictures or videos of herself nude. She didn't put herself in a position to be photographed. Her ass was in the shower at a sleepover. Cant even wash your ass? Well damn.

  • Auditor

    Maybe she had the music up loud...I know my gun doesn't make much noise...it's a smaller gun though...

  • Well.well$well

    This post made my heart sad. Kids can be so cruel. I wish she had talked to someone who couldve told her it would get better. Trouble doesn't last always. Smdh. R.I.P

  • bemetoo

    i dont get it parents please talk to ur kids if they are hot enough to flim themselves butt booty ass naked in the shower than they should be strong enough to endure the ridicule from their peers.. parents let your kids no that everyobody makes mistakes its not the end of the world love yourself and always remeber mommy daddy brother sister aunt uncles and cousin love you with all your flaws

  • Auditor

    Crack baby generation....

  • hotntot95

    Yeah had to be a lot goins on, Gurl I wouda got that pic on a T-shirt and rocked on, bullies can't bully if u don't let them...as for the gun, protection is smart but we have to mindful of the babies...

  • Queen B

    Wow!! This is so sad ? I wonder how they got da video was it with or without her consent ?

  • Da Puppet Mistress

    God bless yall. I'm so sorry

  • http://Copblock.org aDingoDrankMyBabies

    Even if she did put it out and later became depressed...Not cool to blame the victim. Young girl. Emotions on 100. We need to talk to our kids about this, we need to talk to our kids about that,,,that's all great I guess, but we also need to address mental health issues. Last month was mental health awareness month...I know, that's just more blah blah,,,Bottom line, I agree about victim blaming...

  • Auditor

    The child is 15 years old...she's not 3...can't blame the mother for that one. If it wasn't the mother's gun it would have been someone else's. Depending on where you live it's legal to carry a concealed weapon.

  • Da Puppet Mistress

    Awful. Especially kids.

  • Auditor

    Lol I ghosted senior year. I graduated early and was like f all y'all. Y'all ain't gone be ish anyway (and they ain't). Kept to my damn self the half year I had to do. Didn't even say hi or bye to anyone at my graduation. Folks was wiggin...

  • http://www.sandrarose.com Django the God

    What?

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    Oh, my word. That is real life scary. I know it was a tough decision, but I'm glad you all made the decision for your sis to relinquish custody. For her safety and the safety of anyone else in her home. All y'all can do is join hands as a family and pray.

  • Auditor

    DEAD...oh so true...

  • Ceezus

    And parents LOCK UP UR GUNS!!

  • Tequila Mockingbird

    Who's taking a phone into the bathroom while someone is showering? That's disturbing...And did she let this person in the bathroom with her? You said this was at a sleepover...Crazy.

  • Auditor

    Molestation? It manifests itself in different ways...

  • SummerBaby

    I just came back in here & some of these comments ???

  • Ceezus

    The "strange" feeling was the gun shot. I can see if she said hours later. Either way, tragic.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Nancy <3 Hey bewskie..... what ya up to?

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Damn .... sick of folks

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    I don't tell anybody I come on this site.?? This is my playground during the day, I don't want anybody messing that up. Make me have to act right and stuff.

  • Finding Forever…

    "...I tried to apply the pressure, the pressure to her head. I tried to save her,”
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    Somethings a parent(s) should NEVER have to endure. Prayers to the family & I hope they find comfort in the Lord while healing. Such a pretty young girl & SHAME on him for causing this kind of pain by posting due to a breakup...a breakup my dude? A breakup...DAMN.

  • Tequila Mockingbird

    N they say women are emotinal :/

  • starbright9449

    This is why you don't send nude pics to anyone. You may think you'll be with someone forever but that's not the case. At 14 when my ex was asking me for nudes I had the common sense not to send any. There's just some things you don't do. Punish those bastards who sent her pics around but they can't be held accountable for her suicide.

    She knew right from wrong and she pulled the trigger. Don't give me that "they made her" excuse. Can I go and rob a bank and say I was driven into depression by poverty and being teased cause I'm poor? No? I can't say I was suicidal and mentally unstable due to my circumstances? No? They'll still throw my azz in jail you say?

  • ArDnAhC45

    Maybe they were trying to blackmail her for money before they posted the video. She didn't pay up so they posted the pictures. That's probably what she meant by she "owed them."

  • http://disqus.com/ yoliewinecorporation

    Sad sad! Smh RIP! That so Call Friend Wasn't A Friend. And IMO That Punk Jerk A&& boy Definitely wasn't True BF. Real young men wouldn't treat a ex like that after they have broken up. Social Media have Corrupt Young people now days pathetic

  • Lisa daniels

    Sound just like me. I realized in junior year that one of my best friend was a ?. So I made sure to lose her number. I got tired of the other girls confronting me about her being all up on their boyfriends. I tried to talk to her about it about but she just wanted to be a ?. I was like go cluck over there. I was very private about mine. I hated people knowing my business so I used to test who was watching and listening by saying and writing random things and just so happens all the people who didn't like me or wasn't my friend knew my business. That's why I ghosted on all of them.

  • VM

    Thank you for your kind words. I'm so serious, we tried and tried, nothing was helpful not even the psychiatrist and social worker. My granny didn't play about mannerisms, so we instill this into our future generations. I've come to the conclusion, you can go out of your way to raise a child, but in the end they are going to do whatever the heck they want to do. She has four kids, her youngest are 3 and 6. I've always told him I would hurt him badly if he did something to the youngest two because they are vulnerable. I felt like that man in Detroit who took his son out back, shot and killed him after he found him molesting his little sister. I struggled with that because kids are innocent, don't try to manipulate them. Lord forgive me, I'm just being honest.

  • GuestSTAR

    Poor kid, but she could've lied and said those pics were photo-shopped, 'that wasn't my body in them pics'. It's equivalent to saying your Twitter account was hacked.

  • VM

    Thank you.

  • 1shy112

    Jealousy and envy are the worst traits and today it's worst than ever. This is just beyond sad, a sleepover. Revenge is mine saith the lord. This battle is not not yours.... Rip darling angel ????

  • Luvbug

    People are lowdown and heartless!!!!smh another parent who sacrificed so much to give their child a better life has lost their baby due to ignorant thugs I pray her mom can have daily peace because this has got to be the hardest test to the human will after finding your baby dead....

  • Readytochokemothernatureonout

    Prayers for her family I can't fathom her Mother's pain....

  • MystyBlu

    ?????? up for this poor child and her family. So sad and ridiculous that people are victim blaming this beautiful young lady for her own bullying instead of blaming the kids that did it. Maybe you were never bullied as a child/teen but in the moment you don't think it will get any better and the harassment is soooo concentrated while your story is the biggest gossip. Some kids are built to handle it and move on after, but most aren't because their brains aren't fully developed yet.
    You can't judge them either way. The only thing I wish is that she would've reached out to her mom or a trusted friend to make her feel better. May she rest in peace and may all those who bullied her understand the consequences of their actions and do better! They may just be charged with distribution of child pornography and face even greater consequences. Sad all around. Teach you kids to be leaders and have compassion for others. May have made a difference if one other student had reached out to this young lady and let her know she wasn't alone.

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    yes, and either way, she is a child. ... didn't even get the opportunity to learn from her mistakes and figure out how to make choices regarding how to deal with the type of asssssholes she was dealing with. :-(

  • Canary Red™

    They were just jealous baby girl! You (were) a BAD Mama Jama, yes you was! It would have worked in your favor, wish you knew that! But bless you fragile heart, you just didn't know it. Rest easy beautiful!

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    There was something said on Criminal Minds I have never forgotten: genetics loads the gun, his psychology aims it, and his environment pulls the trigger.

  • Finding Forever…

    I've seen SOME. They will get in THOSE feelings...quick, fast & in a damn hurry. Just sad that she had to be a victim of it. Think I saw your comment on being bullied (down yonder--sounds so OLD, LOL) & GLAD you were able to come out on other side. Some people aren't as fortunate, sadly.

  • Mrs. (Asexual) Elmo

    Beautiful, young lady.

  • VM

    I went there to target my emotions I was feeling at the time. He was in foster care for about two years before my sister got custody of him. We always maintained contact with him while he was in foster care, but he was younger then like age 3. His behavior was all over the place, he was telling girls at the school to bleep his bleep. I'm not sure where that came from because me or my middle sister behaviors didn't call for any of that. As he got older his offenses got more aggressive and lethal. You understand be where I'm coming from now?

  • VM

    I went there to target my emotions I was feeling at the time. He was in foster care for about two years before my sister got custody of him. We always maintained contact with him while he was in foster care, but he was younger then like age 3. His behavior was all over the place, he was telling girls at the school to bleep his bleep. I'm not sure where that came from because me or my middle sister behaviors didn't call for any of that. As he got older his offenses got more aggressive and lethal. You understand be where I'm coming from now?

  • That’s Interesting

    I'm sure jealously played some part because yes she was very beautiful. Whoever put out that video is going to face legal and spiritual consequences. God don't play!

  • That’s Interesting

    I'm sure jealously played some part because yes she was very beautiful. Whoever put out that video is going to face legal and spiritual consequences. God don't play!

  • Readytochokemothernatureonout

    Friend is used loosely as friends would never do no shyt like that smdh

  • Readytochokemothernatureonout

    Friend is used loosely as friends would never do no shyt like that smdh

  • Chandra Duval

    Possession of child pornography needs to be the charge for the misguided youths who posted this RIP to the beautiful young lady prayers for the family let this be a lesson learned!!

  • Chandra Duval

    Possession of child pornography needs to be the charge for the misguided youths who posted this RIP to the beautiful young lady prayers for the family let this be a lesson learned!!

  • Raquelle Dellaghetto

    Some ppl don't think logically, therefore, don't give then an excuse to use things to their advantage. Is it so hard to keep your nekkid self to YOURSELF? Especially at 15? What 15 year old boy is going to keep that shi t to himself anyways? Smh..

  • VM

    That's very powerful, I never thought about it like that. I'm not sure what triggered him, because me and my sister are not about that lifestyle. I use to talk to him one and one too see if that would help, we did the rewards, I use to go up to the school and sit in classroom because the teacher couldn't handle him, he got kicked out of the summer enrichment programs. The school use to hate to see him coming. It was like nothing fazed him, if no one is watching he's a loose cannon.

  • Canary Red™

    I just read an article were he was on Twitter talking about - "this no ones fault, let my angel rest in peace. She had problems y'all didn't know about" NegroE, you sir, are a SOCIOPATH!

    http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2016/06/09/leak-of-nude-snapchat-drove-teen-girl-to-suicide.html

  • Canary Red™

    HE SURE DONT! Not about His children (babies)!

  • Canary Red™

    Cruel!!!! Perfect word. They are filled with so much haters, it should be against the law for haters to breed haters!

  • VM

    I agree. I am livid, I replied but it's not showing. Let me see if I can recapture what I said. I said that because of the emotions I was feeling at the time. He was in foster care before my middle sister got custody of him. We always maintained contact with him but he was much younger then like age 3. As he got older his offenses got more extreme and lethal. He was telling girls at the school to bleep his bleep. Our behaviors didn't call for any of that, I'm not where he got that from.

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    It's good that you all seem united as a family both to try and help your nephew and to keep the rest of the family safe. God bless you all.

  • harley_quinn2.0

    Such a beautiful girl... This is just awful. I really hope they go after that boy. Praying for her family.

  • harley_quinn2.0

    Oh my goodness ?....Now they azz really need to go down for this ?

  • Meme

    Teach your kids to trust no one not even "best friends" boyfriend/girlfriend and by the by how did this child get such easy access to a gun? I'm from the UK so this is so alien to me

  • Tequila Mockingbird

    How is this unknowingly? Im jus trying to understand how someone doesn't someone is in the bathroom filming them...?

  • Tequila Mockingbird

    But if we teach our kids to fight back the bullies we look like bad parents...:/

  • Tequila Mockingbird

    Serial killers always start with killing the dog :/

  • http://totallifechanges.com/PurTEA VanillaCaramel2shotsExpresso

    So sad.... With songs so explicit like it going Down in the DM's , kids just feel sexting , posting nude photos , scantily clad pics etc are ok. They even see their moms due it so we are just oversexualized..... Sad she couldn't share it with her Mom and just grabbed the gun.

  • Tequila Mockingbird

    Kids think High School IS LIFE and it's not, its only temporary!

  • Tequila Mockingbird

    Kids think High School IS LIFE and it's not, its only temporary!

  • Auditor

    Yup not saying ALL children in foster care are molested...but most are. My grandmother raised foster children that were around my age growing up and I heard all their stories. I feel for your nephew...sometimes it takes time to get through. All the foster kids my grandmother had spoke highly of her and that was the most love/stable environment each one of them ever had.

  • Auditor

    Yup not saying ALL children in foster care are molested...but most are. My grandmother raised foster children that were around my age growing up and I heard all their stories. I feel for your nephew...sometimes it takes time to get through. All the foster kids my grandmother had spoke highly of her and that was the most love/stable environment each one of them ever had.

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    Read heffa. She didn't post the pic. You so ignorant. Dumb heffa. I wish I could out hands on you.

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    Girl. Folks won't even read a link yet judging that baby. A mama sw her child like that, but let's victim Blame. Sick.

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    Kids need to be kids and do kid ish!

    That's all I'm gonna say. I feel bad for this parent but mad too.

  • Auditor

    If you're white you can...

  • Nataliegaye

    Such a sad situation. She was my friends daughters good friend and she is devistated. I wish these kids could experience life without social media so they reall could discover thier full potential without so much judgement

  • ShadesofEMPRESS

    These women and men who make and raise these demons are pathetic. I can't stand these bully youngins today. This is one reason I don't want any children because I would be an over protective stuck up ass mom.

  • ShadesofEMPRESS

    I agree.

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    Please send our love.
    I completely agree about the social media

  • lovelygamour

    Some parents encourage their children to be popular on social media. I hate that. You dont post other people. If you not worthy then dont use anyone else. All these hidden cameras. They want to be noticed but not exposed.
    The girl probably thought her friend erased the video. I wouldve checked her that night. Nobody gets shine off me but me. People will sell you cheap.

  • ShadesofEMPRESS

    I have no social media and I think I will keep it that way and just build a LinkedIn.

  • Karma WhO

    These kids dont have no respect for each other or themselves. Kids need to learn how to be kids..stop doin adult shyt when u cant handle adult situations. .Young n gone too soon

  • Nataliegaye

    They may be arrested...Distibution of child nudes and porn are a felony I believe

  • Slim Goodie

    WHAT A PUNK!

  • Slim Goodie

    YASSSSS

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    The only details I have seen are the ones here that says she was in the shower. It didn't say in what form.

    I had pictures taken of me as a teen in the bathroom as I shampooed my hair. I never knew until it was presented in court as me being a loose teen. I was too ashamed to speak up for myself or tell anyone I was doing my hair.

    Tread lightly...please.

  • Slim Goodie

    and goodie for their a$$e$!!!

  • Jusstlookn

    Kids...They get it from the Adults around them.

  • yallcrazy

    These kids are so heartless. I know her momma gone crazy.

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    Actually...you can.

    Comprehension is key.

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    Chile...?

  • Jusstlookn

    “I want them to pay, to feel what we feeling, even if their child is convicted or in trouble they can go visit their child,” Scott said

    ==================

    Unfortunately, this WILL NOT ever happen, no will feel their lose and pain.

    May this young lady be at peace.

    God Bless her family and hope they find peace, each other and help other teens, and families In Jesus Name I pray

    Good Night

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    Sometimes ?
    But yeah I agree 90%

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    I'm getting really heated over here...for real.

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    Com'mon. Tell'em babe.

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    It happens all the time. Trust.

  • AnonymousRose

    I feel u, I don't have any small, junior, nor teens , but I have a Granbaby. I pray for her daily, its so bad now, it getting worse. I can't even think of one single person when I was that age, that killed themselves,. Carried a gun, was violent as I see now. Hell I guess I'm getting old..

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    Ultimately, everyone doesn't handle and process situations in the same manner, if they process them at all. I just tried to explain this to someone else who took a stance of depression as a weakness. Glad you survived it. She didn't.

  • scentsychick30

    Rip to her so sad,this generation is cruel. Hopefully these kids will think about the consequences of their actions. All this stuff on child pron for sexting you would think they would know better. For the mother I know that's a hard pill to swallow your baby killed herself with what was most likely a family members or her gun.?

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    There a places that do charge the kids...even the ones who voluntarily took their own pic and sent it.

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    Against the law in my neck of the woods.

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    Backspin? Backdoor?

  • Kaci143

    My daughter and her were friends. Met at and hung out at church. Tovonna was there for MY daughter when she was struggling... She really admired her. My daughter didn't tell me right away because she didn't believe it. Said she didnt want to say it out loud. But her first words were as she stood there shaking- "She had everything mommy. She was smart and good in sports. Good family. Lots of friends. Mommy I just don't understand." Now these 'children' have left an entire communiy devastated and so very confused. So many lives ruined. And for what? 5min or a couple of days worth of instant gratification?! Disgusting. Heartbreaking.

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    I hope that happens in this case. They need to learn a lesson.

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    ...and there it begins, animal torture.

  • Loyal Lifestyle

    That's a lie. Grown ups can be worse. Spreading rumors that are not true, just because they don't like the person. If they don't like you, they don't want other people to like you. Child bullies grow into adult bullies, until they meet their match. They're just like these teens. Liars, manipulators and have to group together with other weak individuals to seem strong. RIP to this young lady. PEOPLE are cruel and most do it just for a laugh. Her boyfriend should be charged with premeditated m?rder. Why post something that he knew would humiliate her, unless he wanted her to commit suicide or to ruin her reputation completely? He couldn't have her, so he didn't want anyone else to have her, which is emtionally and mental abuse. His mother can visit him in prison and see his face and hear his voice. Her mother can not. Yes, he should do time. That was abusive, cruel, mean, psychotic and deliberate. He knew exactly what he was doing and he got exactly what he wanted. He just didn't bet on it blowing up in his face. My heart goes out to her parents. That must have been devastating for them and their daughter. So heartbreaking.

  • Loyal Lifestyle

    That's a lie. Grown ups can be worse. Spreading rumors that are not true, just because they don't like the person. If they don't like you, they don't want other people to like you. Child bullies grow into adult bullies, until they meet their match. They're just like these teens. Liars, manipulators and have to group together with other weak individuals to seem strong. RIP to this young lady. PEOPLE are cruel and most do it just for a laugh. Her boyfriend should be charged with premeditated m?rder. Why post something that he knew would humiliate her, unless he wanted her to commit suicide or to ruin her reputation completely? He couldn't have her, so he didn't want anyone else to have her, which is emtionally and mental abuse. His mother can visit him in prison and see his face and hear his voice. Her mother can not. Yes, he should do time. That was abusive, cruel, mean, psychotic and deliberate. He knew exactly what he was doing and he got exactly what he wanted. He just didn't bet on it blowing up in his face. My heart goes out to her parents. That must have been devastating for them and their daughter. So heartbreaking.

  • Jusstlookn

    childrens frontal lobes aren't formed at that age and most aren't equipped to lie that well.

  • Jusstlookn

    childrens frontal lobes aren't formed at that age and most aren't equipped to lie that well.

  • Loyal Lifestyle

    Heathens. That's why their kids think it's normal, funny behavior. Smdh.

  • Loyal Lifestyle

    Heathens. That's why their kids think it's normal, funny behavior. Smdh.

  • Karma WhO

    Its called staying in a CHILDS place. .heard n seen adults do stuff all my childhood that dont mean go out here n be a grown ass

  • Karma WhO

    Its called staying in a CHILDS place. .heard n seen adults do stuff all my childhood that dont mean go out here n be a grown ass

  • MookieFly

    Thank the Lord some people can come thru with the whole truth and nothing else! I really feel bad that this young woman was affected by someone else's actions outside her own. I pray her family can begin the healing process. I can't imagine the devastation.

  • Loyal Lifestyle

    This young girl see how grown women are called "sl?ts", "höes" and everything but a child of God because of decisions made from their teenage years. She probably thought her life was over and felt she had no reason to live. We live in a time where abusers and bullies are supported and made to feel justified in their behavior. It's wrong and pathetic and should be ashamed for supporting men/women, boys/girls who abuse/bully/humilation people in any form. Poor baby. She didn't see a light at the end of her dark tunnel. The people who did this to her, should definitely get time.

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    Prayers for your daughter's healing and yours to hold her up during her grieving.

  • Loyal Lifestyle

    The sad part of what you just said is being called a "savage" is a compliment to them now.

  • Loyal Lifestyle

    That's what I'm saying. Some people stick around you to plot your downfall. Jealousy and Envy is REAL.

  • Kaci143

    I've had my own experiences with children I'd consider a little 'off'... and I also believe that they are born that way. Particularly when you notice oddities at a very young age... :-O

  • Loyal Lifestyle

    And adults.

  • Jusstlookn

    My momma called me about this earlier, I'm trying to figure out why people don't understand why children are so mean? Adults are MEAN, at work, church, school and television. Adults don't equals parents either.
    People are always plotting against each other. Faux friends, heck sometimes even family. People don't like to see you get ahead and world is filled with Jealousy and Hate. My heart really goes out to family and friends; not sure what the person posting can be charged with; best case scenario they go to jail, but this young lady is dead forever. NO justice will bring her back or heal the pain. Just Horrible, it hurts my soul.

  • hottlanta

    I don't have Facebook, Twitter, Snapchat or none of this stuff. If I was married I would tell my husband I am not taking any nude pictures. This baby was jus 13 years old and in a serious relationship to call him her boyfriend. The picture being leaked just hurt my heart. I hope they find justice for her.

  • hottlanta

    My friend send me that mess with R Kelly and I cursed her out to no end. I click on it for a second and I was like hell to the naw I am not looking at child porn.

  • Nina Ross

    Child porn perhaps...

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    Please forgive the sheer ignorance of the heartless, unempathetic, self-righteous pond scum floundering around this post.

    There are those who genuinely care here.

  • Nina Ross

    I like that...90%

  • morenYAHdelsur

    Damn. That's cold man. I can't believe kids these days take it to either extreme. RIP youngin.

  • Raquelle Dellaghetto

    Apparently she was aware she was being recorded and the video was supposed to be used like a "#goals/body confidence video", but instead the boyfriend got a hold of it and posted it. Who knows what the full story is and there may be more to it. It's not going to matter though if she was a nude selfie addict, the fact is she chose to kill herself because of the actions of her friends. And no, I won't tread lightly. Whomever wants to be offended, can be offended. Your story has nothing to do with this story, but if you want to make it about you, *shrug*.

  • morenYAHdelsur

    Lawd I can only imagine how she's feeling.

  • morenYAHdelsur

    I knooow I just wish she felt comfortable enough to talk to her mom. Poor thing, suffered in silence.

  • Nina Ross

    Prayers

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    I'm not making it about me. Just sharing like you and others have done here before.

    Just as you stated no one knows the full story. I mentioned tread lightly (take it easy) for just that reason. You mentioned is it so hard to keep your nekkid self to yourself, especially @ 15.

  • Lisa daniels

    It's a felony, but I think good asses whupping is in order.

  • Shira Harding-James

    You are so right!!

  • Da Puppet Mistress

    I'm so sorry. I'm heartbroken. For yall. Some of the ones here who are victim blaming, probably are not parents, and have not been exposed to a suicidal teen. I have spoken on it here many times. My sister was suicidal from 12 until well into her 20s. Different reasons. Bullying being one. Everyone has a story and journey and shouldn't judge. God bless the family and FRIENDS she left behind

  • Realtalk

    And she got the gun from her mother's purse. Let that sink in.

  • Rarechild93

    Kids were just as cruel when I was little. They just didnt have access to the web. Them ninjas used poloroid camaras.....

  • LeBrick James

    15 year old girls letting their "boyfriends" take naked pictures of them. wow.

    Kids are just growing up too fast nowadays.

  • LeBrick James

    That "boyfriend" better watch his back. It wouldnt surprise me if somebody from that girl's family comes after him, to do him some serious harm.
    Not that I'd condone that, but I certainly understand.

  • Naptastical

    True but unfortunately teenagers tend to be impulsive.

  • Naptastical

    That's not what happened. Her "friend" took a video of her in the shower and her ex boyfriend got a hold of it and posted it on Twitter. Reading is essential.

  • LeBrick James

    Yup. My bad.
    Read that wrong.

  • Readytochokemothernatureonout

    Amen

  • Readytochokemothernatureonout

    Prayers

  • http://totallifechanges.com/PurTEA VanillaCaramel2shotsExpresso

    i was trying to figure out what would make my friend want to video me in the shower? In some states it's illegal to possess pics of anyone underage ... Even if you are underage. I wonder if charges will brought against the friend or the ex?

  • Naptastical

    I truly hope so. What a tragedy. With friends like that...

  • VM

    I totally understand where you're coming from, its so sad but it's the truth. I commend your grandmother for raising those kids with tender, love and care. Sometimes that really makes a difference in the kids lives, just to know that someone genuinely cares about them. He's the only kid the foster parent has at the moment, we tried to brief on her everything.

  • VM

    Thank you so much. We have our blemishes and it can go from zero to a hundred at a family gathering. Lol.

  • Soon2BWife

    Here we go with the news stories that don't make sense lots of holes and poorly written, so who posted the pics? Also, the mom didn't hear a gunshot she just sensed something, huh? And parents need to be aware of what their kids are doing and using on the internet. Allowing them to be on the internet without monitoring them is like dropping them off in the middle of a grimmey, junky and pervert infested slum and driving away. Pick up their phone from time to check.....it's the parent's phone that they pay for so forget that I don't want to infringe on their privacy.

  • Jusstlookn

    In this case the child that took the photo/vid. Exhibited deviant behavior, and all children dont behave in such manner that is acceptable. Futhermore, paremts and mentors, lets please uplift these children and teach them tolerence and self esteem. Yes, self esteem can be instilled in children. Tragic

  • Soon2BWife

    Mom better hope her gun is registered and she has a foid card and a conceal carry license or she will get charged too.

  • Cole

    Lmao... because I'm low key nosey but I'm like you uh huh/he'll naw to the child porn....I don't even play like that. I wanted to see R. Kelly just because I'm a fan and if he was in that video doing stuff with a young girl, regardless if she looked "grown", I must bow out and say it was nice knowing ya Kelz....

  • Cole

    Welcome yo!

  • Cole

    Funny you said they live for likes. My sister stopped following someone we know well. She did so because she just grew tired of seeing the dumb, random stuff posted on the girls page. Why did the girl hit her up the next day and say "you and I are cool. I thought we were, so why did you unfollow me??" My sister said oh, I'm sorry I didn't know I needed a reason....lmao. People do live for acceptance. It's a false sense of self and reality. In the real world no one has that many friends.....

  • Cole

    I just after 15 years of marriage and 18 years strong, JUST, sent a nip pic, lol and that took some true soul searching, lmao. Negro won't get the full body until 20 years married and by that time, hell, I may not wanna even see my own body naked, lol, so that's pushing it for the full body nudie.

  • jussaying

    I think that's true in most states now as they've tried to police social media bullying. If you have a photo or video of a nude underage person, you can get placed on the sex offender's list and you're charged with distributing porn.

  • the guest

    I hope the boyfriend and friend are locked under the prison for the rest of their youth and then the rest of their lives. They are evil and dangers to society.

    The victim was a beautiful young girl and her boyfriend was insane with possessiveness and her friend was seething with jealousy. When she broke up with the boyfriend he wanted revenge and her jealous friend was a willing accomplice.

    This victim was clearly much loved and cared for and raised in a loving home by her family. This was not a troubled teen. In fact the opposite. This was a good teen girl innocent enough to feel embarrassment over being s---exually exploited to the point she could not bear the shame. The boyfriend and friend knew this. They would not have done this to a "s--lut" because it would not have had the detrimental impact they desired.

    Sounds like this boy was the victim's first exploration into intimacy and he should suffer in prison for violating her innocence and privacy in the worst way.

    We need to teach good kids that evil is attracted to and targets good. Good kids need to be aware of evil kids so they can steer clear and protect themselves. There is real evil in this world.

  • the guest

    Every single day for the rest of their lives in prison.

  • the guest

    Any form of r--ape or s---exual exploitation can be detrimental to an innocent young person.

  • the guest

    SPEAK!!!!

  • Readytochokemothernatureonout

    Have a beautiful weekend beautiful roses cause I shall away from can I can I can I get this and that from begging little Ju lol.

  • Da Puppet Mistress

    Have a good weekend. Safe travels if you are traveling hun

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    Morning. Hope we get a new post early.

  • Readytochokemothernatureonout

    Thanks Sis ?

  • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

    Jest chillin (Bruh Man voice) lol

  • YES I SAID IT…

    I don't know what to really say about this bcuz all parties including the dead girl are to blame. I'm sorry no 15 year old helll nobody should be taking naked pic's at all if U not ready to suffer or hear the backlash of it. All I know is, I hate that she took her life over someone doing some dumb shiiit! My 13 year old does not have any social media contact bcuz of one of these reasons alone. I do not have any problems with her and I will not so I keep her asss offline. RIP to her though

  • Low E. TUH!

    PER THE LIE TO ME EPISODE I WATCHED THIS MORNING - THE EX BOYFRIEND SHOULD BE CHARGED WITH DEPRAVED HEART MURDER

  • Low E. TUH!

    DITTO. MAWNING

  • brooklyn23

    I agree with most of what you said. How one is when they're a child they grow up to be the same way. However Im up on the fence if her ex or whomever that leaked the video should be prosecuted. I try to put myself in other peoples shoes or say what if that were my child who did something cruel etc. Some if not most of us have done bad things to others and we don't know how it affected them. Fortunately no one has taken their life over it. Yes it was a dick move for him to do that but maybe when he gets older he will look back and regret it (whether she had taken her life or not). Does he deserve to get his ass served to him sure, he should get a nice beat down but Im not sure about the premeditated charge. I really just don't know. How was his character prior to doing something so fcked up. Is he a menace or was he an alright kid that maybe got his feeling hurt and decided to hurt hers. Hurt people find ways to hurt others, especially those they feel are responsible for their hurt.

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    After you READ the article and not the byline, come back and respond. Kthxbi.

  • Shay boogie

    Your comment makes absolutely no sense Bruh. 1) she tried to figure out what was wrong.... Clearly states this fact. We've all been there, even as adults, where we don't want to talk about it at that moment. I'm pretty sure your mom left you alone to calm down and intended to talk to you later and I'm POSITIVE your mother didn't think you would kill yourself when she did so. The child is 15, not 5, she's old enough to know better. The gun being in her purse isn't the issue. The issue is that someone recorded her and leaked it online. Don't diverge from the subject. Smh

  • Shay boogie

    I am pretty positive they are going to bring charges on at least the ex

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    You know you spoil him. LOL! You have a great weekend also.

  • Low E. TUH!

    MOST ADULTS DON'T HAVE TACT...AND THEREFORE CAN'T TEACH THEIR OWN KIDS HOW TO BE KIDS AND HOW BEING A KID IS DIFFERENT FROM BEING AN ADULT

  • TeeTee

    Yeah.. all of this sucks.. I wish she would have talked to her mother. With TeeTee10 - I let her know I am her best friend and we talk about everything. Nothing is to advanced because this wold is headed to hell in a hand basket... if you don't talk with your kids. The other kids will and take advantage of the naiveness

  • Readytochokemothernatureonout

    Yes but he will be with me all summer so I had to run before his Mommy starts work week after next lol. I'll need a straight jacket by August.

  • Readytochokemothernatureonout

    Enjoy your weekend too ?

  • TeeTee

    yes slut shaming people that are not even sluts... the ones who are victims are the ones who are shamed - while hauexs and the real evil woman that Proverbs speak of become the ones praised in society... all of this is very backwards... maybe the children are in a negative mind set that they are now.. but they can be taught and rehabilitated

  • mela.reign77

    So true my dear, I couldn't have said it any better. :)

  • free

    the story is confusing and this version contradicts a previous version. either some things are left out or there are multiple rumors going around. one thing is for sure--the police should be able to find out who actually posted the video and should prosecute them. all kids should be aware of the pornography law by now.

  • free

    i'm skeptical of this based on how the story is unfolding....

  • SpillyNillie

    I tried and the poor child cried. I was like what's the problem?!?!? He said he didn't want to hurt anyone. When I say sweet, sensitive, soft, and caring...but he's a true boy's boy. Loves to be outside, play sports, go swimming, ride 4-wheelers,etc.; he's just not into physical contact. He see's it as violent. My mom said he will grow out of it and I sure hope so cuz I'm signing him up with the quickness!

  • Auditor

    Morning y'all it's FRIDAY
    Get us outta here Sandra...?

  • free

    hopefully both since the video was supposed to be unauthorized. somebody supposedly snuck and videoed her in the shower. that person should be charged as well as everybody who circulated it.

  • SpillyNillie

    Stayed in trouble! My 4th grade teacher said that mouth of yours will either do you some good or get you in trouble...

  • Auditor

    Exactly what I said yesterday...how is this the mother's fault?

  • free

    ahhh, i had a "boyfriend" at 13. we were just kissing though. they're on another level these days. i wouldn't have dreamed of showering in front of anybody in my teens. i guess girl athletes do it but we ain't never use the open showers. someone who maliciously snuck in on this girl and took a whole video--if that's what happened--needs to go to jail.

  • Auditor

    Exactly...nothing has changed...my mother told me stories of her generation...technology just changes.

  • free

    we had some ruthless kids in our neighborhood growing up. we just dealt with adversity better and never had these kind of shenanigans growing up. this shyt is almost akin to rape to me.

  • Auditor

    Sink in for what? The child is 15 not 3. I carry a gun in my purse sometimes and live in a decent neighborhood. I live by the border though. Folks are insane plain and simple.

  • Low E. TUH!

    THAT "FRIEND" WASN'T HER FRIEND...

  • free

    tell us the real story please. was she in a public or private shower and who took the video? this is almost like rape to me and i think there should be some type of invasion law if someone is there recording you naked. this shyt is not funny and more than one person needs to pay.

  • free

    they (the boys) will if they start getting prosecuted.

  • sunni_daze

    This is what happens when "petty" becomes the new cool.

  • free

    i kinda feel like more is going on, which is why i am asking people who know. i know we did stupid shyt growing up but social media makes it permanent and visible to the world. i don't know if somebody tricked her but you can't take your bra and drawls off for nobody. and that fugging bytch azz boyfriend needs to go to jail.

  • free

    yaaas. i have a young daughter and i want to share the video of the girl being snatched in the dollar general right in front of my mother because i want my young child to understand why i tell her to stay close to me at all times. i don't want her to be frightened of the world but maybe that is a good thing in this world we live in.

  • MissyJ

    Actually the gun not being properly stored is an issue. If you are going to own a firearm, do it responsibly. If this was toddler who took his momma gun from her purse and shot himself, we would be asking "why wasn't the gun put away properly?"
    So while that isn't the main concern of the story it is something that can and should be addressed. There is something else to learn from this story besides the anti-bullying.

  • Auditor

    Could go either way...hoping she won't be scared of the world. My mother had me scared to go places by myself. I figure like this if it's meant to happen it will BUT don't go out PUTTING yourself in wrong situations deliberately.

    My mother had me scared to go overseas but I'm for sure going this year. Told her white folks over here killing negras left and right can't be THAT bad anywhere else. She shut up then and told me to do me lol.

  • MissyJ

    Me three.. Because it states it was "body appreciation video" It also states friendS recorded her in the bathroom.. How multiple people recording you in the bathroom and you don't know? The friends MIGHT have put it up without her knowledge but it seems like she took the video willingly.. from what I read..

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    That was scary. That man would not let go. A bullet would have done.

  • Renee26

    Teach your daughters self worth, teach them to have more respect for their bodies and to know that their temple isn't for everybody, and teach them how to recognize game from these nappy headed boys. Teens have no business doing half of the things they do nowadays. The boyfriend/friend had no business in the house to even snap a picture of her while she was showering. If it was a sneak attack some asses should have been whooped and adults involved in deleting those pictures ASAP. Kids have always been bullies so they need parental guidance instilled in them to encourage them to make better choices and value themselves and their reputations.

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    ARE FOLKS READING THE ARTICLE?! YO!! R-E-A-D.

  • Auditor

    He looked like he was on meth with that face

  • free

    i'm reading that she willingly recorded the video.

  • MissyJ

    I read it and I read the linked article. Seems like she knew the video was being taken, which is why folks are commenting the way they are presumably. Whether or not she knew it was initially posted I can't say. But the way snapchat works, you can't upload an existing video. You record directly to snapchat.. sooooo either way it is a shame it ended this way.

  • Shay boogie

    Correct.... If it was a toddler. Not a 15 year old. Since she is probably home alone on occasion, at that age, her mother probably taught her where it was in the event she needed to protect herself..... Not kill herself. That's not the lesson here...... We can agree to disagree.

  • Shay boogie

    You can upload previously recorded vids. There are apps that allow you to in the App Store.

  • Shay boogie

    I lowkey wondered why she wasn't grabbing ish and throwing it at him. Am I the only one thinking I'd be chucking ish and running behind them at the same time?

  • Low E. TUH!

    AMEN TO THIS! LOW4 IS STARTING UP ALREADY...I BRING HER BACK DOWN A FEW PEGS DAILY. MOST KIDS MIMIC OTHER KIDS...WISE KIDS SHOULD LEARN FROM THE MISTAKES OF THOSE BEFORE THEM. FOLLOWING THE CROWD GETS YOU NOWHERE BUT LOST AMONGST THE MADNESS...

  • Low E. TUH!

    NO...THEY AIN'T. LE MF SIGH

  • KenHay

    This is so sad. R.I.P baby girl.

  • Morgan

    From reading the article from the original source, it sounds like she did a "body appreciation" post (not sure what that means, but sadly could have been her attempt to battle bullying-if that makes any sense-think all those Kim K. feaux "love your natural curves," unfiltered photos etc...) and it backfired. The original article implies she knew her friend posted it, and had no problem with it until she and the boyfriend broke up and he began making fun of her and (probably) brought more attention to it. This is just so sad all the way around. I know her mother has to be distraught with all of this and the fact that she used her gun to do it. Friends distraught, friends' parents distraught at the thought of their child participating in something that ended in the death of a barely 15 year old child, teachers, family etc. A whole community has been impacted and unfortunately it will always be difficult to explain how far reaching the implications are behind something like this to teenagers.

  • YES I SAID IT…

    Nope I read what I needed 2 and I still feel the same way, ok now bye!

  • Milani

    NEW POST - NeNe

  • MissyJ

    Her mother taught her the gun is kept in her mother's purse in the event the mother isn't home and she needs to protect herself? Wait whet?! No sweetie.. that makes no sense.
    Had she removed it from a gun safe or a locked drawer you MIGHT have a point... Gun storage safety is taught BEFORE you even learn to fire it.
    Not to mention in Florida a 15 year old cannot handle a loaded weapon. If the mother taught her daughter where her gun was kept and instructed her to use it in the event she wasn't home that in and of itself is illegal. Knowledge is power. We can just agree you don't know what you're talking about.......

  • HoneyyGoodMoneyy_

    this world is so cold.

  • Tammy GILBERT

    slow death for him.young ladies stop it stop i don't know the truth of this did she do this and knew she was being tape Gosh i hope not.cause listen when things fall about they will put that crap up for the world to see here is the perfect example rich folks do it to.ladies guard your bodies please this young lady mind was not strong enough to handle this now look

  • Loyal Lifestyle

    I hear you and yes we all have made some bad decisions I'm our lives but I have heard the kids today speak. They are constantly hyping others up to commit suicide like it's funny. Especially when one of their peers are in a fragile state of mind. I've heard them say things like "man if it's so bad, won't you just kïll yourself." No remorse, no empathy nor sympathy for what others may be going through. Just empty inside. I have taught my son to respect people and those who act like they don't know how to respect him, don't deal with them.

  • Auditor

    You don't know anything until you're in that situation...that adrenaline get to pumping and your mind goes haywire...

  • Kaci143

    Thank you. God bless you!

  • Auditor

    Yea I'm confused on what that is...was she naked? Just sad...

  • Tammy GILBERT

    i can"t look at r kelly or listen to him i don"t give a care how good he can sing he should be singing in jail if you ask me

  • Readytochokemothernatureonout

    Mernin Zoe

  • TeeTee

    it is.. although my grams is 90 she tells me her parents didn't tell her what sess was and that her friends at school told her that is what you do when you go out with a boy and she did it ... nothing changes.. same old stuff -- they must be aware of the dangers and the evil of the people in order to be prepared... hopefully they make better decisions and if evil people like these kids come around - they will be able to handle the situation better - like talking to a parent first

  • TeeTee

    Prays to her family and your community - may God unite you for something greater

  • Readytochokemothernatureonout

    New post on Nene

  • Shay boogie

    Actually sweetie, the only thing I didn't know.... Was the law in Florida. Ok cool. However, I was generalizing the fact she knew where the gun was kept. I knew at age 12, being a latchkey child, where the gun was kept. I also knew my mother carried one on her. However, since you want to be condescending..... We can end this and I'll bid you adieu. ?

  • Shay boogie

    I thought about that as well. That poor lady. And he was sooooooo determined. Smh

  • Kbellaluvvs

    The craziest thing is the kids that go to Wiregrass High School all live in the suburbs. The neighborhood is what we call New Tampa because it was developed about 15 years ago hell Wiregrass High is not even 5 years old. Those kids want to be so tough like the inner city kids in Tampa. Shit is jus sad. They think shit like this is putting them on the map

  • Kbellaluvvs

    Right!! Are you from Tampa?

  • the guest

    Amen.

    This video was not a s---extape rather it was filming of her in the shower. My maternal gut instinct says she wasn't sleeping with this boy so he manipulated her into exhibitionism.

    Nasty manipulative boys do evil mess like that.

    Please teach our daughters to never let boys take pictures or video of them naked or even clothed in suggestive manner.

    Some of the good girls abstaining are falling for stuff like this because they want to please their boyfriend but think its not really having s---ex .

    What this boy did is wrong on so many levels.

  • GuestSTAR

    Yeah, but kids lie.

  • Amel

    Whoever posted it need to be charged with distributing child pornography.

  • free

    the hardest part as a parent is that all of this shyt is going on and you have no fuggin idea!!! i'm learning a lot of lessons on how i will have to deal with my child. sad but it is how it is.

  • JerseyMom

    Why did the Moma have a loaded gun in her purse tho?

    I hope the police checked the hands of everyone in the house for gun powder residue.

    How does someone unknowingly record you in the shower with their cell phone?

    Whoever uploaded the video to Snapchat should be charged with a crime.

    However, I have such an uneasiness about this story.

    Too tragic........

  • Justauglyassblackdude

    That same "friend" recorded her taking a shower without her permission too.

  • stanhope

    Mom, gun in accessible purse---bad idea
    Exboyfriend should go to prison for 5 year of sexual violation by Bubba and the crew. That will learn his azz

  • stanhope

    Ladies DO NOT LET SOME DUDE TAKE NAKED PIC/VIDEOS OF YOU UNLESS you get pics of his needle "richard" first. Photoshop that thing to look like a chitterling and dude won't post your stuff when things go south. Word!

  • the guest

    No, I'm sorry I am not from Tampa. But my heart is broken for this girl's family.

  • Renee26

    Tragic...these youths have few role models in the entertainment industry. everything is over sexualized and too many things marketed to the black community are encouraging the young people to act like ratchets and/or do adult things. So sad

  • Felicia Kelley

    Smdh!!

    We really expect respect and empathy from others but can never find it within ourselves for our own!!

    And the story you just gave me proves my point!!
    Whether it is voices or emotional pain, they're still hurting!! But as usual our short sighted folks only see their own pov. Not your friend's nor this young girl, but yours.

    With a friend like you wth needs an enemy?

    So easy to say what you won't do!! Trust you will be hit with some more shit in life, and your relatives. If something else like this happens in your life(I seriously hope it does not), maybe you can muster up some sympathy for them and way less judgement!! It is very obvious you have been through some things in life, cause kindness does not seem to be in you. Maybe, instead of being so snarky with your unsmart ass you can get you a lil kindness.

    Bless your heart!?

  • Branch Davidian

    See if this happened to me, the opposite would be true. I would be charged with murder because anyone who saw me naked would immediately kill themselves...

  • Liah

    Prayers to her family...So sad...These kids are out of control!

  • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

    interesting... i too was a 4th grade terror, Lol!

  • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

    yeah, somewhere out back! Lol!

  • aworkinprogress

    Just cause they live in the suburbs, don't mean anything. Once they closed down all of the pjs, they gave their mama's Section 8 and they all headed out that way and to Brandon/Riverview area so most are the former inner city kids.

  • http://totallifechanges.com/PurTEA VanillaCaramel2shotsExpresso

    Some pranks seem harmless but have tragic consequences . I can't see how recording anyone in the show would ever turn out good at that age. The ex was being revengeful. Hopefully they can prosecute him on revenge porn and as a sex offender.

  • Real (Miss)???

    Horrible just horrible! Ladies never let a guy take naked pics of you! You never know where they could wind up later...RIP young lady...

  • ?Patty Kakes?

    That lil boy needs the book thrown at him. He deserves everything he get. I hope his mom could feel the pain of losing a child. They shouldn't even waste the tax payers money on him. Paso County get his @ss. I don't feel sorry for him or his family???

  • ?Patty Kakes?

    Thank you. I don't even show my face on internet pics even if I have a sports bra on. The neck is all you get lol

  • Real (Miss)???

    Lol very smart of you, it's just not wise or worth it...

  • Real (Miss)???

    He ain't sh!t for doing that to that girl! I feel bad for her family. I wish her mom didn't have a fully loaded gun in her purse and, her daughter was in the know about that. It's just a horrible could have been avoided situation all the way around. Very very sad.

  • Real (Miss)???

    He ain't sh!t for doing that to that girl! I feel bad for her family. I wish her mom didn't have a fully loaded gun in her purse, and her daughter was in the know about that. It's just a horrible situation that could have been avoided all the way around. Very very sad. I wonder what the charges will be for him...

  • ?Patty Kakes?

    Gurl I know that's right

  • ?Patty Kakes?

    You Betta believe it ain't

  • Vixen

    This is too much. I'm still trying to figure out how in the world yet who in the world secretly video taped her cause I've read conflicting stories. The word friend is being used too loosely now a days. Like I've told my sons you have associates not friends and never trust them or allow them to know personal info or get in your personal space. There's always a reason a person wants to be your "friend", there's always a hidden agenda.

  • MythCalledLove

    Women usually don't commit suicide this way. It just does not make sense to me. I owe them?? Mom just brushes it off tell her go clean her room. Daughter gets gun from mom's purse goes into bathroom shoots herself in the head. Supposedly she was caught w/ friends over texted BF about it saying she f's up everything then kills herself?? Why did mom hv a gun? Why was it easily accessible in her purse? Mom was not home ? Because I'm thinking she would hv heard the GS It's a sad case but it sounds off to me. Anyway I agree parents need to be more vigilant w/ Internet social media. Today these young people post any and everything. Along w/these anti bullying post they need to include teen Internet use/social media.

  • MythCalledLove

    Women usually don't commit suicide this way. It just does not make sense to me. I owe them?? Mom just brushes it off tell her go clean her room. Daughter gets gun from mom's purse goes into bathroom shoots herself in the head. Supposedly she was caught w/ friends over texted BF about it saying she f's up everything then kills herself?? Why did mom hv a gun? Why was it easily accessible in her purse? Mom was not home ? Because I'm thinking she would hv heard the GS It's a sad case but it sounds off to me. Anyway I agree parents need to be more vigilant w/ Internet social media. Today these young people post any and everything. Along w/these anti bullying post they need to include teen Internet use/social media.

  • MythCalledLove

    If you allow kids to keep getting away w/ this it's just as much a disrespect to her memory. When they post and act grown silence and when they do something w/ intent then you hv to face the punishment. We all know damn well these kids hv heard about cases like this. I don't care how hurt he was are we to give him a pass because of age? Hell I even know a plethora of charges the mother could get but losing a child is enough and I don't think the mother had intent to leave the gun in her purse for her daughter to use. Yeah he will hv a record hv to register as a sex offender as well as anyone else involved. Consequences for the choices they made no more looking at them as little innocent kids hell half of them act think and live as if they are grown. If I was her mom I would expect justice if not for the mother then justice for the victim.

  • Real (Miss)???

    It can't lead to anywhere good, sadly...

  • C0rTnEy

    It's a hard lesson to be learned by the parents and children involved. But I don't believe they should go to jail or be tried as adults.

  • SpiceGirl

    Prayers to her family....This bullying crap needs to STOP! Asipity!

  • Soon2BWife

    I'm a female and over 30 so I don't do the whole bruh thing, thanks. I'm not diverging from anything. It is holes in this story. Not saying it is the mother who left details out or that she is to blame. However, the eay it reads leaves the mom looking culpable and her gun shouldn't have been left out like that, period.

  • Shay boogie

    Oh ok maam. It's 4 days later..... It's ok to move on. Goodnight!

  • starbright9449

    Lmaooooooooo. I know she didn't post the pic but she sent it thinking the person would keep it private. Comprehension is key you ignorant hood fool.

  • brooklyn23

    A lot of people walking around with no empathy these days. Young and older alike. I had to kick my ex to the curb ( a while back) because amongst being a savage he had no empathy, a freaking sociopath who would say sorry for the evil shit he did but no emotion or sincerity behind it. And he's far from being a child. People are just heartless

  • Loyal Lifestyle

    I don't blame you. Ain't nobody got time to be raising and deciplining a grown ašš, crazy man. Child please. Then they refuse to go get mental help because they're worried about being properly diagnosed. Some adults will NEVER have a healthy relationship until they do some deep honest self reflecting. If they aren't willing to take responsibility for their actions and the role that they play, in causing confusion in the household, then they aren't worth it. I worked too hard for peace, to deal with someone with a "conflict and confusion" spirit.