Tika Sumpter engaged

Actress Tika Sumpter finally got engaged to the father of her newborn daughter. Sumpter gave birth to daughter Ella-Loren in October at age 36.

The Have and Have Nots star said her fiancé -- whose name she is keeping close to her breast -- popped the question on Christmas Day.

Tika confirmed the news during an appearance on daytime talk show The Real when Loni Love noticed her engagement ring, and she described the proposal to the panel.

"He did all of these amazing things. I went on a little hunt in the house. And I was like, 'Oh, he's going to propose'... It was a Peloton (indoor) bike he bought me. I was like, 'Oh, that's cool!'

"And then he had a letter behind Ella and he's like, 'Ella has something to say to you.' And it was just this letter of beauty. And then he proposed. It was just simple and just awesome."

She also said of her relationship: "I've been with my boyfriend for more than a year and a half. Our relationship is not dependent on a ring. I love him to death, and he loves me to death, and that's all that matters to me."

Her fiancé sounds young.

  • MzApple

    She's so pretty, happy for her.

  • Ms.Caramel

    Yes she is pretty. I remember her when she was a little girl making doll commercials.... At least, I think that was her.

  • Seavoo Play

    Look ? at all that gorgeousness up top! Congrats Tika!

    https://media1.giphy.com/media/3oz8xFvfAyWh2egwpi/giphy.gif

  • Ms.Caramel

    oops, No she is not the one I remember.

  • http://olskoolblackflix.com Prof. Taco Juice

    I thought she was the best looking sister in the Sparkle remake. They said he co-star is the BD. Black babies with old school names...a trend, eh?

  • Justlooknout

    Congrats. All the best to the couple, many blessings.

  • A-way29

    May my future wife resemble Mrs. Sumpter or Angela Rye. That's all I have for now.

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    Tika and all that chocolate beauty! Congrats to her!

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    LSA already dragged Tika for settling for a broke ass white man, that once played a gay man on tv.

  • missmiami305

    Congrats to her. Sounds like he put a lot of thought into the proposal. She's a beautiful woman and he did right by her. Wish them the best of luck.

  • missmiami305

    I think she is so beautiful. I just love her complexion.

  • missmiami305

    Lmao!!! I know he's an actor but I'm not familiar with him. Either way they already procreated so hey why not.

  • missmiami305

    Her fiancé sounds young.

    ????THAT PART????

  • Rayne

    Is this the year for the Ella and Bella baby names? Even folks round the way naming their kids those names.

  • MistaO

    There is no way I'd marry a broad who is over the age of 25, just no way. And definitely not one pushing 40...

    Naw too many skeletons, too many different dudes done messed up in her soul ties...

  • cmurdockful

    You are such a hater and bitter. Hardly ever anything positive to say Sandra. Do better, as you are always saying.

  • NephilimsCorruptedOurDNA

    Sellout ass C00n.Some black women just got to have massa to rule over them.

  • http://citygirlzen.blogspot.com/ missarewa

    Congrats to them!

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    So you assume every women over a certain age has had many partners/ soul ties? How the hell did you come to that conclusion? Does the same apply to men? People ASSume some things wrong with me because I'm damn near 30 with no kids. I'm going assume you're an ass hole with no life that trolls SR daily.

  • Sucker Free

    She is so pretty...congrats!!!

    Who is the lucky fella?

  • Sucker Free

    ????

  • Araminta Glissade Chaines

    She's stunning. Congratulations to them

  • Araminta Glissade Chaines

    She's stunning. Congratulations to them

  • Lovely1

    Just pretty. Congratulations!

  • Lovely1

    Just pretty. Congratulations!

  • Oliver Brady

    Oh yes because brothas are tripping over themselves to wife a woman that looks like her? There may not be many, but there are plenty of alabasters who appreciate brown skin? For every Reggie Bush, there's .025 Nick James'. Not a level playing field persay, but we do get to play nonetheless?

  • Oliver Brady

    Oh yes because brothas are tripping over themselves to wife a woman that looks like her? There may not be many, but there are plenty of alabasters who appreciate brown skin? For every Reggie Bush, there's .025 Nick James'. Not a level playing field persay, but we do get to play nonetheless?

  • ShadesofEMPRESS

    Congrats to Tika. She is a beautiful woman.

  • ShadesofEMPRESS

    Congrats to Tika. She is a beautiful woman.

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    The white cop on have and have nots

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    The white cop on have and have nots

  • ShadesofEMPRESS

    Does this even make sense? Smdh some of you people.

  • ShadesofEMPRESS

    Does this even make sense? Smdh some of you people.

  • missmiami305

    THIS?????

  • missmiami305

    THIS?????

  • ShadesofEMPRESS

    I feel you. I don't want any kids either. Why is that so hard for people to accept?

  • ShadesofEMPRESS

    I feel you. I don't want any kids either. Why is that so hard for people to accept?

  • Taylordanes

    She is beautiful and i am happy she is enjoying her career and family...... 36 is a good age for kids and marriage!!!!!

  • Taylordanes

    She is beautiful and i am happy she is enjoying her career and family...... 36 is a good age for kids and marriage!!!!!

  • missmiami305
  • missmiami305
  • Sucker Free

    You sound old

  • Sucker Free

    You sound old

  • Taylordanes

    what a dummy ...... like there are girls in their 20s with more mileage than some 40 year olds..this generation is all about convenience, sex and drugs...sooooo

  • Araminta Glissade Chaines

    Maybe you're attracting what you are

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Lucky guy!!

  • Taylordanes

    he sounds like he loves her and the blog owner cant deal with love or appreciation of a black woman...a woman the same complexion as she

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    I do think know. People assume you're selfish if you don't want children. I only want one kid , that's it. If I never have any I'm good. I'm not about that single parent life so if I can't find a decent man to marry and or have kids with I will remain childless.

  • NephilimsCorruptedOurDNA

    Did you name one black man that wasn't famous.It's a lot of brothers that would wife her.Turn of the media idiot box sometimes and you would know.So go somewhere else with that shit!

  • Zizzle

    I'd wife her foine Black ass.

  • PettyEyezPrime

    I love how people with no ring and are older like to call others out.

    NEW POST

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Add in the fact that she is successful and independent.

    Was once told MY problem was I don't need anybody.

    Um, be happy....if I only need you and that need is supplied..... you gone. I'll stop needing you faster than I stop wanting you. FOH

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    You font as if you know the blog owner.

  • Taylordanes

    wow how sad that people are saying she is "settling" as if love and feelings do not matter..just material....people have their priorities twisted for sure....

    There are a whole bunch of brothers in the industry wifing up broke white women as well..,.

  • PettyEyezPrime

    I need to watch seasons 2-now of HAHN. It moves way to slow for me.

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    Believe it or not a lot of black men were hurt when they found out who her baby daddy is. I'm a woman and I'm disappointed in whom she choose to procreate with. She could've done much much better.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    This shiat went left quick!!

  • Taylordanes

    I font as if I come very often and have for a looonngg time...... Sandra... your posts speak volumes as to your mental state and morals.. you rarely uplift black women if ever.......and you are one...that speaks volumes doll

  • Oliver Brady

    I only named one Black man.lol And don't tell me where to go. This is S*ndra's site. You left a comment, I replied. That's how this works. I ain't going nowhere, brotha...Except into the arms of a white man who will appreciate me?

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Did you get to review the Obamacare Replacement Plan, yet?

  • missmiami305
  • PettyEyezPrime

    Seriously. FINALLY got a ring. She been out here working. I'm sure there were men begging to get at her. She paid them dust. Like bishes with no car talking about the 1 YOU got.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    FUKKING AZZ!!! ???

  • PettyEyezPrime

    ??Where did you come from

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Who pissed in ya corn flakes?

  • PettyEyezPrime

    Who is her bae

  • missmiami305
  • NephilimsCorruptedOurDNA

    I'm on my monthly man cycle.lol hi beautiful black queen

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    What? I'm asking out of concern. And that IS the name he gave it. #IMINNOCENT

  • Low E. TUH!

    YOU IS SMART. PERIOD!

  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017

    I have been told this more than once. I don't need you financially but emotionally, physically does that count for nothing?

  • Oliver Brady

    A lot of Black men wouldn't give her a second look if she wasn't on tv. Much like the Williams sisters. Is what it is. It happens. Both ways. Many Black women wouldn't give Rodman a second look, but would still get disappointed with his choice in partners. Go figure. I'm the pro-est black person here, but a spade is still a muhfvckin spade, always.

  • Oliver Brady

    ?? I had to do it?

  • NephilimsCorruptedOurDNA

    Please take your skanky azz on then.There are plenty of beautiful black queens left.

  • Just saying

    She is a beautiful tone having woman.

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    She isn't keeping his name quiet. He is her co-star on the show.

  • PettyEyezPrime

    I likes me a black man but I'd get swirly if I had to. Love shouldn't have a color and a color shouldn't be the end all be all for love.

  • Oliver Brady

    Therevare? You shook or nah?

  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017

    How old are you? Are you married?

  • NephilimsCorruptedOurDNA

    Imma block your c00n loving massa AZZ.

  • Oliver Brady

    Please do, and I'll return the favor?

  • PettyEyezPrime

    Sandra, do you want to get married?

  • Just saying
  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017

    I love my black men but love happens. I want black babies but they have to be mulatto. Lol

  • PettyEyezPrime

    There are a whole bunch of brothers in the industry wifing up broke white women as well
    *****
    Let em know

  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017

    In regular life there's a bunch of them doing this. Marrying broke down basic ass white women.

  • klwbaby

    And this is coming from someone who only had relationships with his left and right hand...??

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Log off!! And it is NAW!

  • NephilimsCorruptedOurDNA

    Thanks for the hug.Ikma slap the next black woman I see with whitey

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    You gonna to gel....if she don't cut ya azz first!!

  • NephilimsCorruptedOurDNA

    Lol.just tired of Trump and the rest of these racist white mfs

  • Oliver Brady

    If you want babies why come you ain't let the homie rent that womb??

  • Oliver Brady

    He's big mad?

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    She isn't worried about your man. Don't worry about hers. As long as you're both happy, that's what counts.

  • PettyEyezPrime

    You know we're in the age of thots right? Look to your left and see a thot. Now look to your right. They multiply too. But you go head and get you a youngin' who hasn't experienced life that will get bored and curious at 32 and be doing it and doing it and doing wild ??

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Maybe....perhaps!!

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    So this is how you get attention!

  • NephilimsCorruptedOurDNA

    Lol,she betta because that white punk will run

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    And today reminds me why I don't come on after 5PM......see you guys in the AM. SMDH

  • NephilimsCorruptedOurDNA

    Blocked

  • MissHarlem

    I don't understand this line of thinking because in reality black men I know and are around will only be with a black woman. If people are looking at celebrities for an example of how our black men get with they will fail most of the time. However I overstand why people swear black men don't want us.

  • PettyEyezPrime

    I have white men hitting me up when i'm out all the time as well as Italians. Let my Black stalker bae fugg up, TUH!

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    You don't have to announce a block........especially to the person you blocked.

    #HELPFUL

  • Oliver Brady

    Clocked?

  • MissHarlem

    Totally understand your outrage. It's warranted because you are written off as if you don't count

  • Anunnaki

    Don't let the fckry bait you.

  • NephilimsCorruptedOurDNA

    Blocked !

  • ShadesofEMPRESS

    Smdh people have kids and are selfish. I agree with you.

  • MissHarlem

    So silly yet so dumb ??

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    As Oliver Brady said, I am returning the favor.

    Folks love to run from the truth. We know you don't even like women. No openly gay man would ever claim he would slap a woman because of her dating preference, nor would a heterosexual man. Stay in that trapped in that closet for R. Kelly to write another installment about you.

  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017

    I told him he could rent it but he never had the money. If he gets the money I'm ready.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Outrage understood, but calling her a coon, while not knowing her reason is a bit much. I ain't even call Chrisette a sellout coon.......

    Then he threatened to slap one.

  • MissHarlem

    I'm not even giving that energy just the thought. However I love the word cunt and use coon often so I'm not the right one to discuss ?

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    Matthew 7:7-8King James Version (KJV)

    7 Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you:

    8 For every one that asketh receiveth; and he that seeketh findeth; and to him that knocketh it shall be opened.

  • Oliver Brady

    The Black men I know and are around are with Black women, or Black men? as well. Means nothing. Majority of the Black children in my sons class picture look like they come from two differently colored parents. A bunch of Royalty Browns, North West lookin little kids at a predominantly Black school. So it extends far beyond entertainment. Or else my child wouldn't be the darkest in his class. Excluding that lil Mexican boy who looks like he spends lots of time in the sun?

  • Oliver Brady

    I'm going to email him this new development?

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    But why allow it to take so much of your energy. We all vent.....but you ready to slap somebody over something that isn't affecting you in any way. If she with a white man, she didn't want you, so.......NEXT!!

  • MissHarlem

    Ok. Not my reality so can only speak for myself. I'm also a product of a very mixed background. English ain't even my primary language so I guess I have no room to speak because my upbringing was different. No harm no foul shrug

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    I can't take coon, but slapping her cause she with a white man......Duuuude, if she with him, she ain't want you anyway..........NEXT!! ??

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    He wanted the white man. That's the problem. He thought Tika's fiancé is gay in real life because he portrays a character who is married to a woman and has children, but is on the DL on the DL. Let him stay bothered.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    And I was looking for you.....you see the Obamacare Replacement Plan, yet? LORD

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    I beg to differ the black men in my circle would knock me over to get to her. In fact the two women that the men in my immediate circle go Gaga over are Tikas complexion. I understand where you're coming from but I'm not going to lump all black men together with the simps and coons. I personally would like to give birth to a black child. I'm not interested in having kids that look nothing like me.

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    My God she is beautiful.

  • Oliver Brady

    Here y'all go with this kid talk. Where was all this when brenden was trying to procreate? I hope he sees this. Y'all stingy??

  • MissHarlem

    Girl I skimmed that shit and was pissed because it means more paperwork for me. We have a meeting next week about it. Tomorrow morning we have a briefing on the document. So my Friday is already trash.

  • MissHarlem

    LMAO I totally skipped that. I skim and speed read here often. My mind can't take idle shit ? that's where he lost other than that I get it.

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    Did Bren ever get his child? I take it that he did.

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    Mad cause they unhappy in their own house so gotta be all up in somebody else's happy home.

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    Every bit of this. He called her everything but a child of God. I also don't understand where the "she could have done better" comments are coming from. If she is happy with her man, she is happy and people should be happy for her. How does anyone know if he is "broke," "rich" or somewhere in between? Folks are a trip.

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    Well men are suppose to be providers. So I get why they give her side eyes for dating down. I mean if you're going to date a white man at least get a rich one. Not one that makes less then you do and has had sex with dudes on screen for money. WTF! Rich black men that date wife up por white trash get ignored by me. I don't want him and its clear he don't like his reflection.

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    You miserable bitches need to drink bleach and eat a tide pod for dinner.

  • missmiami305

    ??

  • Vonn

    That counts for everything to me. If a man can't provide emotionally & physically, there is no us. Anybody can make money, but every man is not capable of providing emotionally, physically, & spiritually. You have to bring more than money to the table. That's just me.

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    Tell Bren I Said hey! We can make a Lil brown baby together ?. I ain't talking about a #2 either.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Sorry!!

  • Oliver Brady

    Let's see if that's the right addy I emailed. We'll see if he responds?

  • MissHarlem

    Regardless of everything congrats on your new baby and fiance ?

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    Ok! ????

  • Oliver Brady

    Lmao!

  • Smith Jane

    The yt boy isn't much in the looks department - and he broke?! Or at the very least, ain't on her level career wise or financially. Why do successful blacks pick the lowest of the yts? It's like the best crop that our ppl can produce pick the sticky chit out of the bottom of the crakka barrel

  • MissHarlem

    So aggravating. My wake and bake is gonna be fat as hell tomorrow.

  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017

    It's okay. If it didn't matter enough for him to stay around this time then it's okay.

  • Ajavee

    Congratulations ????

  • Taylordanes

    So because he is another race he should be rich? And because he has scenes with men (hes an actor) she should marry someone else....so love? character? loyalty? is out the door?

    There is no such thing as "dating down" we are ALL human and NO ONES soul is greater than another.. To base someone on their wealth and material possesions is so shallow... What happens when they lose everything and age? I would rather connect with my mate on a spiritual level than to lack depth and be worried about money and status....

  • jussaying

    she is so damn pretty good lord.

  • ThisIsWhat40LooksLike

    Yes they do!! And then they need to eat a dryer sheet for dessert with their hateful azz!! Smh

  • Raquelle Dellaghetto

    She is not cute, but her fiancé is gorgeous

  • Lenina Just Lenina

    Damn fr tho? She's beautiful. You're buggin. Damn.

  • Queen B

    Who is the fiancé

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    Isn't Keisha Knight Pullium baby name Ella too??

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    Girrrl, the hate is real right? I think they look great together.

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    The narrative is always the Black male troll of questionable sexual orientation who hates Black women and takes every opportunity to bash us. Then, when a Black woman finds a man who loves and accepts her for who she is, there's a problem. Tika dated Black men before and apparently, they didn't want to commit to her or procreate with her, so she found someone who wants what she wants.

    Meanwhile, you can take many a top of the food chain Black males who marry and/or have children with "other," who openly don't want anything to do with Black women and some who claim to be pro-Black, but their hypocrisy is dismissed and deemed justifiable. Nope.

  • Raquelle Dellaghetto

    His name is Nick James

  • Raquelle Dellaghetto

    Your opinion. I liked her old nose better. Her nose job makes her face look weird.

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    Simmer down. Yes there is such things as dating down, stop acting as if it's a new thing. Would you date a man that didn't have a pot to piss in because he has a nice guy? NO! Yes she could've done a hell of a lot better in choosing a partner. He isn't even on her level, nor is he attractive. She hid him for a long time for a reason, he's a loser! A nobody! I'm not here for the double standards either, black women and men both get it from me for dating out. No way in hell would I date a man that kissed another man acting or not. I'm not down with that gay for pay mess. It's not about money either but why should she settle for someone that has less then she does? Dude isn't even her equal , come on! Black women tend to do that dumb ish a lot for the sake of so called love ( I'm black so I chose to single out black women ) Not all wealthy and or rich people flaunt their money. The ones that do don't have any real money. I said it before and I'll say it again damn it, she could've done a hell of a lot better. She settled and there's no getting around that, she pulled a Rudy.

  • Oliver Brady

    ??

  • Freeriah

    Hater. Tika is beautiful.

  • Freeriah

    Hater. Tika is beautiful.

  • Raquelle Dellaghetto

    What am I hating on if I said her man is gorgeous?

  • Raquelle Dellaghetto

    What am I hating on if I said her man is gorgeous?

  • Freeriah

    You are hating when you said she is not cute. Fucc her fiancé, she's the main attraction!

  • missmiami305

    Sn, are her eyebrows microbladed? They look weird in the pic

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    Tika is stunning. Her skin looks like silk and probably smells like cocoa butter.

  • missmiami305

    Yep! Ella-Grace

  • missmiami305

    Didnt even notice a nose job. Lemme google

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    Lol thanks i thought so.

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    Must be a shortage of names in hollywood. Lol

  • Are we there yet

    Tika Tika Tika. Girl....shewwww. You so gorgeous

  • Antigone Heart

    "It’s not that I don’t love you ‘cause you know that I do (You know I do)
    There’s only one thing I want you to do (Put it on) Put it on paper."

    https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=ox5Q-bYduZw

    Congrats ?.

  • missmiami305

    I feel u. We all have our moments. Vibrate higher???

  • missmiami305

    Np! Yeah it must be a trend

  • missmiami305

    Yes! Not a blemish in sight

  • Solo

    I recently broke up with my guy over this. He thought financial support was everything. Left him in the dust. Relationships are more than just money. I can provide for myself financially. I need someone to come home to and be able to let down my guard. Someone who knows has to provide emotionally, physically and spiritually. I don't understand why it's so hard to find a man like that. And it's even more frustrating that I grew up with 3 brothers who understand this but can find the mirror in society. If I didn't want kids I swear I wouldn't even be dating.

  • digital_femme

    Congratulations to Tika!

  • Vonn

    I feel the same way. Someone that makes you feel understood, safe & secure. Money can't do that.

  • whitty hutton

    Her hairline is fukked up! And I despise these newfangled drawed on eyebrows

  • MercifulLove

    Her fiancé is supposedly her “The Haves and the Have Nots” Co-Star Nick James.

  • i troll it like i see it

    She's gorgeous. Wishing her little family the best, always have loved Tika Sumpter!

  • MistaO

    Oh please..keep lying to yourselves.

  • Solo

    I gave him a chance for the reasons you stated. I only feel secure around my dad and my brothers. He did that but it was just mind blowing how he did not understand emotional connections. Had me thinking he was a narcissist and I was fortunate enough to get out of that unscathed. This fool was talking babies but couldn't show emotion, didn't buy gifts for his son's bday or anyone for that matter. No Christmas gifts, nada. Good luck, it ain't easy out here in these streets!

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    You're an ignorant buffoon that ASSumes that the only women on this entire earth live in America, and they're all the same. You don't have a woman, and with that attitude you'll remain single.

  • Michelle

    Her fiance is so handsome. That's one good looking white boy. I'm sure her little baby is beautiful. I'm so happy she gave her a beautiful, classy, feminine name. I like Tika Sumpter. She carries herself like such a lady. Congrats....

  • Malcom Flex

    New trend: black women knowing how to keep their damn mouths shut about their personal biz. Make moves behind closed doors. Research Wendy Deng!!

  • Malcom Flex

    You're right. All the down low bros diss bw for swirling when they're on their knees behind closed doors getting gagged by massa. I know the deal. trying to pass as a str8 man by bashing bw, idiots.

  • Malcom Flex

    You just exposed yourself as the white man's bedbuck with this comment. Forsenic psychology, you love getting ruled over by massa.

  • Malcom Flex

    Closet case come out, mane. Admit it you love massa.

  • Malcom Flex

    Sis their sexuality isn't questionable or even debatable they're bitter ass closet queen lurking hardcore at threads that have nothing to do with them. Massa in the bed is always on their mind cause they're punks too cowardly to come out as gay men. FN bedbuck ass bitches.

  • Malcom Flex

    Who gives a shit how bm feel when they aren't marrying bw. 73% out of wedlock rates means BM aren't marrying bw. 25% of the few bm marrying are swirl married. She did do better, her fiancee.

  • Malcom Flex

    "The men in your circle" LOL. Look around at the real world, shit is failing bigtime. The MAJORITY of bm aren't marrying bw period. You will end up a single mother and most likely be ok like the other 73%. As, once again, 25% of black males marrying take the money over to becky lupe and ming lee. All the caping and mammying doesn't change acts.

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    I wish they would remove BW from their minds and refrain from mentioning us in their verbal and typewritten discusssions.

  • Malcom Flex

    Another one in denial chick look around 73%black out of wedlock rate. 25% of black males married are swirl married don't believe google that ish. Black males in general have failed bw are unloyal and unprotective. Look around at black communites in GENERAL they're failing, why? No damn daddy married in the home.

  • Malcom Flex

    You will have to unless you're light skin/have money/are super hot/super young/

  • Malcom Flex

    BM don't love you back unless you're light bright or have money better get your swirl on.

  • MissHarlem

    Sorry to hear that. Goodnight

  • Lisa daniels

    Not now. Janet taught them

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    Who gives a shit how you're self hating ass feels! Just because you like to suck neanderthal cave demon dick, doesn't mean all black women would lower themselves to do the same. You have a personal problem with black men , take that shit up with your worthless father. BLACK PEOPLE ARE THE ONLY RACE ON THIS EARTH THAT ENCOURAGES THEIR OWN TO DATE OTHERS. NO ONE ELSE DOES THAT! IT'S SICK , DISGUSTING AND SPEAKS VOLUMES ABOUT OUR CONDITION AS A PEOPLE.

  • SouljaSociety

    I wish her the worst....I wish death, famine, and disease on all Black people who date outside their race.

  • Lisa daniels

    Slim is that you?

  • Lisa daniels

    Bloop

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    African American men marry outside of their race, comparatively, at one of the lowest rates on the planet. On top of that, African American men, currently, today, right now, 88 percent of us are married to Black women. That’s the vast majority of us. So what the hell is up for debate? What’s up for interpretation? Nothing is.”

    When it comes to married brothers with six-figure annual incomes, 83 percent of them tied the knot with a sister, according to Toldson’s census research.

    In fact, 85 percent of black male college graduates wed black women, and 88 percent of married black men – of all education and income levels – have black wives. It’s safe to say that most brothers still prefer black women over other races.

    BYE DIRT BAG!

  • SailOn

    When did media takeout posters start coming to this site. Some of the comments here...lawd.

  • Rhyme and Reason

    You're so right! Great analogy!

  • Rhyme and Reason

    As a society, we have become too engrossed with net worth vs self worth! Maybe character means something to her, kindness, and his ability to love her rose to her standard! If he has nothing, but his current salary, respects her, is a great father, and mate, she has the whole dang cake!

    If Tika is really like she appears from her interviews, she's ALL GOOD! People said the same thing about Zoe Saldano, until many learned her white husband is a very talented and established artist in the art world! He may have less money, but, they're still making it happen!

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Hard as hell ... Who say shyt like that... Hating

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    That shyt is pathetic ... Sad to see folks think that Black men aren't marrying black women ... Shid... Not mines and my father has been married to his best friend my mother for over 55 sum damn yearS... Hell I'm marrying my best friend (Black)... Who is these people ... Let me get to blocking ?

  • Rhyme and Reason

    I only think people marry down when they are mistreated, abused, with serial cheaters, or have to deal with side-chicks and subsequent babies, degraded publicly or in private! You can't determine if this guy is a loser based on his bank account!

    Plus, you don't know his background, maybe he was born rich, inherited a fortune, invested his trust fund, or made good boot strap investments, or just a great guy! What assumptions we make about character based on a some acting credits because that's all we know about him!

    You obviously, haven't been around or personally know rich people, or just believe money makes people somehow automatically better instead of character! And, I love the good life, nice things, but all that glitters ain't gold!

  • VeyoncèSupreme

    Right back at ya ? Says:The Devil. Careful what you for says :Karma.

  • VeyoncèSupreme

    Finnally?! lol early mid or late 30s have always been a perfect age to me to get married or settle down in my opinion. Your 20s should be your selfish still growing learning expanding having fun getting it all out years....and I believe she had her fun living out going after and accomplishing her dreams without the burdens of kids out of wedlock or going through an early divorce or cheating scandals and other bs many young women in they're 20s and some 30s go through or pressured to. More so then a matured woman would from her mid 30s and up. I think at that age a woman is more comfortable in who she is and what she truly wants for her and from her spouse. She's not spoiled or bitter from past bs. So yes u can be ripe and healthy at 36 then a 26yr old. Congrats to her and that fioooone man she is marrying.

  • Trey

    110% sure its a white guy...

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    You don't know me from a can of paint. Why do you assume I think money makes everthing better? Why do you assume I don't know any wealthy people? Explain? You sound stupid and emotional . Why are you all defending this white dude? You all don't know him at all. Y'all going hard for this ugly white man. So I'm the bad guy because I feel she could have done way way better. Oh I get it because he's white it's OK. We all love know if that bum were black you all would have nothing nice to say. Character my ass , try paying a light bill with character BYE! You're slow if you really think a 36 year old woman waited to have a baby because she was waiting for a man with character to come around . Please.

  • free

    it's the white policeman on the have and have nots.... i think they were just fugging and she got pregnant. i get the feeling he didn't really want to claim her but, now that the baby's here, he's coming around.

  • free

    yep, see above.

  • Queen B

    Damn I knew this but sandra talking about he was a secret so it had me wondering ? He aint a secret

  • Cremé De La Cremé

    Right, her man plays on the show with her as the White bi-sexual Police Officer.

  • 13jerimybyrd13

    Yea chill out in your thirties, translation: get the pussy stretched out! Suck some more cock, don't build a foundation with someone in your 20s so in your 30s y'all will appreciate eachother.

    Good logic girl

  • http://yeuphonic.com @yeuphonic

    ?singing my life with your words

  • Renee26

    Good for her...and he's FINE!!!

  • S. Williams

    bc the stats are so high it's safe to assume that people shouldn't be mad over the small percentage that found love outside of his/her ethnic group. why all the uproar over 12%?? let people live

  • the conscious one

    I don't believe in interracial relationships. It serves no benefit to black folks. Miss me with the love is love bs..

  • kimberly

    Yes , yes, her hairline is a mess. She looks a mess with foundation that makes her skin lighter but forgot to touch up the neck.

  • Guess Who

    Why does this broad always rock funeral makeup?

  • Taylordanes

    Agreed! All this ?

  • http://www.Samanthagwrites.com Samantha G.

    What do you mean by finally? Did she mention somewhere that she was holding her breath, waiting to get engaged?

  • Guest who

    Tell the truth shame the devil!! ?

  • thaye

    ???

  • Depths Of My Soul!

    Aww Congrats Beautiful??

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    We need to work on black folks benefitting each other, WAITING!!!

  • Depths Of My Soul!

    I doubt a lot of Black men would over look her.

    She is Beautiful

  • YouWontSayItButIWill

    How about get married first then have a child. Is that a thing of the past now?

  • Emily post

    Well I guess that's a accomplishment getting a man to propose to you after you have his child.?.. congrats on the baby but she's a baby momma . I don't get how that's any different then the majority of African Americans besides her age being kind of old.

  • stanhope

    Another Black actress who marries a come up white man. Protect your coins girl, he'll never be as big a star as you will be. Rutina Wesley knows!

  • stanhope

    And plays a closeted gaf . LOL

  • stanhope

    Bi my a s s...dude is royalty i.e. Queen.

  • BOSS

    Lol

  • SouljaSociety

    Aint no karma to me.... Her Karma for helping create a cycle of Self-Genocide in the Black Race is enough karma for her. I have no hate in my heart, only love for my people... Black Love or Die.... f*ck you if you got a problem.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    No, dear. Marriage was created so children would have stability and know who their siblings and their fathers were.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Thanks for reading, hun.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    And yet, you're here...

  • URNuts

    awww, poor baby ... BAHH WAHHH

  • URNuts

    BAHHHH WAHHHH