Jesse Williams

Devastated fans of actor Jesse Williams are still recovering from the news that he filed for a divorce from his wife, Aryn Drake-Lee. Allegedly, the blue eyed Grey's Anatomy star cheated on his wife with co-star Minka Kelly.

But there is debate whether he actually "cheated" on his wife if they were separated for over a year.

Williams seeks joint physical custody of the couple's 2 children, Sadie, 4, and Maceo, 2.

According to blogger theJasmineBrand, who first broke the story, Williams is not denying his wife spousal support.

Drake-Lee, a real estate broker, certainly earns enough money to support herself and her children.

The estranged couple met in 2007 when he worked as a schoolteacher in the New York City public school system. They were wed in 2010.

“She’s been with me through all different facets of my career," Williams told USA Today in 2010. “She’s stuck with me through thick and thick and thin. We know each other in and out.”

  • Yoni7

    Whale technically.......

  • MistaO

    That Minka bad though!

  • goat

    He still married, so yeah he cheated on her. Being single is one if not the only way you can't cheat on somebody.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    I don't know about that... Once you've separated, and live apart, you can do whatever you want to do.

  • Justlooknout

    Best of Luck to all parties involved. Divorce is not easy.

  • Phillybruh

    I have to agree with you, separated is different.

  • AG

    She is definitely pretty for a white woman.

  • goat

    Technically he's still married, so technically he cheated. There is no arguing that.

  • SaltineCrackers

    I don't care about no physical separation, you ain't single until those divorce papers are signed and it's finalized.

  • bemetoo

    I agree Sandra

  • MistaO

    Naw...pretty period! I see beautiful women in all races.. I must say. Nothing like a beautiful woman!!!

  • AG

    Meh.

  • bemetoo

    Well whatever the case Jesse upgraded

  • Thismessismessy

    is this a media smear campaign against his reputation? that is what folks said yesterday on this topic. its only speculation. nothing with Minka who was raised by a bonafide hoe has been verified. she was placed there to distract from his message to the black community. therefore and heretoin its a con-spirah-cee. to bring down another black man. #staywoke my people.

  • interestingconcept1

    Divorce papers not signed. Not single. I really wish folks stop redefining this. These lines aren't blurred...now a person or the couple can decide that they don't want to wait *shrug shoulders, but you are still married.

  • Thismessismessy

    most states its if you are sep./live sep. from one another after a year you are legally sep. no paperwork required.

  • interestingconcept1

    Wait...is the same thing happening to them that happened to TI and Tiny...folks called his wife ugly too. hmmmm...

  • Renee26

    Umm yes; they're not divorced

  • bemetoo

    And so what they are legally separated , so legally they can fawk whoever they want

  • Thismessismessy

    you also have to BE sep and living apart for a year in a lot of states to even initiate a divorce. so no sex for a year until however long it takes to sep out property, child custody, etc? surely some of yall jest.

  • Renee26

    I'm picturing what she looked like before popping out 2 babies....she may not be that bad looking

  • interestingconcept1

    STILL. MARRIED.

  • jazzysmith12

    His beautiful, black wife will still be looking young and beautiful at 50 while cave BECKY will look 80 at 40.loooooooooool

  • bemetoo

    She looks waaaaay better than tiny

  • interestingconcept1

    I don't think she bad looking either way...She doesn't seem to be in to the glam look.

  • bemetoo

    Minka is hot

  • Renee26

    only when using Blog logic LOL

  • Renee26

    I don't see it

  • interestingconcept1

    Awwww...Tiny look really good on Wendy Willams. Poor Tiny. She isn't ugly.

  • Mr. LeBrick James

    Would TI be cheating if he's messing with Bernice Burgos while still married to Tiny? Most people seem to think so... so why is this situation different?

  • Renee26

    Right...she looks like a regular smegular woman which makes me think he is the type to fall for personality over all that extra stuff we do

  • Anunnaki

    Well If he Have given her a divorce decree, already , then he Biblical has put her away and is free to move on. the Courts papers are just to separate the Corporations, not the Actual Humans.

  • Renee26

    This!

  • Tracey Smith

    Yes. You're either married or you're not. If you're separated, you're not divorced, which means.....you're married.

  • NegraGata

    Well that makes him a little suspect because he gave that speech at the BET awards around a year ago. During that speech he praised his wife, and even after that they created the "emoji app" for POC, so I'm confused by this whole situation, BUT - It's Not My Business!!!

  • interestingconcept1

    This is exactly what I thought when I first saw her. That they both were on mission to focus on other things "being woke!", than the glam life.

  • bemetoo

    She did not look really good,, she just looked better than she normally does. And no tiny is not ugly, she just not pretty

  • SaltineCrackers

    There is only so far a relationship can go when you're with a person in the process of a divorce. That's not fair to the other person. People should not start dating until their divorce is final.

  • bemetoo

    And still separated.. There's no rules and morals to abide by

  • Thismessismessy

    for all the folks who have actually gotten married and divorced:
    does your state mandate yall live apart for a year prior to divorce proceedings?
    how long did it take to sort everything out? divorce to become final?
    what you do for sex in the meantime?

  • Kimberly Vontrese

    Psuedo Intellectual. Psuedo Woke. Psuedo Black. Psuedo marriage.

  • interestingconcept1

    See that's the problem...Morals...

  • Yoni7

    Has @AllaroundtheworldSame been in here today?

  • interestingconcept1

    "what you do for sex in the meantime?"...hmm...I don't know how important sex is when you are going through a divorce..I mean I know sex is important, but..don't know if that's a thing???

  • Renee26

    It irritates the hell outta me when these famous guys leave their ride or dies that were with them before they got famous. These dudes get no respect for me for their "upgrades". Just like the women stuck with them through "thick and thin" and stayed during hard times they should stick by these women and raise their families together. If there's no serious issues of distrust or abuse going on they owe these women that respect. Too often women give give give then the men just walk away with zero remorse.

  • Thismessismessy

    divorces can take years dear. do you honestly think hormone producing adults are going to wait years to have sex? when was your divorce final?

  • lovelygamour

    Some people are scaredto be alone so they stay "seperated" and cheat. If you love someone you need time after you move out to heal. People saying "while they seperated" sound like they have to pounce on everyone to get a date! Even if its been 50 years they are still bound. Now if one person is fighting it and its been some yrs then I can understand moving in and all that. But if (s)he dies the spouse gets it all.

  • dontgetblocked

    He's trying to clean up this mess. It's not working. Typical black man. Talk big but can't back it up. A white woman deserves this loser.

  • Jen_no_juice

    Beauty fades. ...

  • cherrypie

    TF! Unmmm yes! If you are still married then yes. Separated does not mean divorce.

  • Tequila Mockingbird

    Separated is still married. Ur not divorced til is official. So if ur "separated" sorry, it's still cheating.

  • Renee26

    She downstairs

  • bemetoo

    So morally its bad to get involved during a separation when said separation has been going on for a year..who are you trying to morally impress ?

  • Yoni7

    Thanks....

  • Rayne

    He's still a married man .??

  • Renee26

    LMAO

  • Renee26

    YW

  • Tequila Mockingbird

    It seems as tho no one fights for marriage anymore. It's sad.

  • Thismessismessy

    because if you are morally trying to impress someone then you could always-you know stay married.

  • Renee26

    I agree

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    “She’s been with me through all different facets of my career,” Williams told USA Today in 2010. “She’s stuck with me through thick and thick and thin. We know each other in and out.”

    But I couldn't resist the "cave demon" flesh.

  • NegraGata

    The same as me saying "I am single" when I'm dating or in a relationship. Until I'm married to someone, I am SINGLE!!! You got to put a ring on it, if you want me to say anything other than single.

  • lovelygamour

    This is my second article about him leaving his wife and it will be my last. So he left. Actors are fickle. If he REALLY was seperated atleast he waited a year. Although, right now, He is still married. So, if he is dating its sad.
    If I was her i would throw those kids at him and live the rest of my life!

  • Tammie Reed

    Separated or not Married is Married and some still believe that even if you get a divorce you are still married lol.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Hey Boo!! What's up?!

  • Renee26

    I bet the women at least try to fight to keep things together when they are put in situations like this...but in the end you can't MAKE someone stay or want you.

  • Jen_no_juice

    All because Amerikkka says the side piece looks better? ???? What if she doesn't cook, clean, can't hold a conversation that wasn't written for her? Then what

  • Yoni7

    I holla'd at you downsturr's.

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    Yes. He cheated. I understand the "grey area" that people may look at in these situations BUT that is why you divorce before getting involved with someone else.
    Too messy.

  • Renee26

    Let's hope he doesn't pull a Luda and request custody so he and his harlot can raise their kids

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Goes to find it.

  • Thismessismessy

    He already denied spousal support. So maybe

  • lovelygamour

    Or atleast fall outta love. Some of these guys still love their ex-wives and keep tabs on them. End up marrying women who look like the ex. Just man up and fix the 1st marriage before it goes south.

  • AG

    Agreed.

  • Thismessismessy

    the gov't considers your ass single.

  • Tequila Mockingbird

    True, but I just meant as in it being a mutual fight. Marriage counseling, therapy or just trying to communicate with your significant other. But I guess it's just easier to file paperwork and walk away.

  • lovelygamour

    The blog got mad at me for writing that. But its true. It doesnt have to be a formal marriage but some sort of contract has to be made. Civil union something.

  • Renee26

    Yes! At least try...I know new money brings added stress but isn't that what " for better or worse" means

  • stav

    It's called common sense, if there is no divorce decree they are married and he is an alleged adulterer! Even if they divorce on any other ground than sexual immorality/adultery , if he sleeps with or marries another , he has still committed adultery

    Luke 16:18
    "Everyone who divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery, and whoever marries a woman divorced from her husband commits adultery".

  • Renee26

    I get you! I does seem that way

  • Vonn

    Melo' s alleged baby momma looks like lala.

  • Thismessismessy

    STAV. get that Bible verse outta here as if everyone subscribes to the SAME GOD. Your God is just that. YOURS. I hate when folks start talking about what the Bible says in re to marriage. Do we even KNOW the religion of these folks? Of ANY folks who are getting a divorce. Kick rocks Stav. And I hope you break your toes doing so.

  • lovelygamour

    Kids belong to both parents. Why should a woman be saddled with raising his kids while the man gets to go to the beach.
    Unless he is with ill women a man can have primary custody of his kids. I see girls struggling while the dad lounging. No one should be having kids with mentally unstable people. She can focus on her business/replacing him and he can raise his kids.

  • MissHarlem

    I'm in the minority as I side with life experiences. For me emotionally when I'm done I'm done. I know on a personal level the struggles sooooo unless you had this particular life experience or product from it stfu don't say shit *Bernie Mac voice*.
    Like I said yesterday who he cums in has nothing to do with the oppression etc at hand. Mofos getting mad because they thought they had a chance to fck. Meanwhile I just want someone who isn't scared to be on the front lines. If you look at past leaders they had skeletons too. Miss me with the misdirect manipulated media outrage that we fall to easily for.

  • interestingconcept1

    Yes, Wait for the divorce. Being married is.. BEING. MARRIED. If the person is divorcing why can't folks wait????

  • interestingconcept1

    THIS!!!!!!

  • stav

    If you live your life otherwise , THAT'S YOU! I listen to the Perfect ALIGHTY , not ignorant , imperfect , man. I hope you break nothing! I'm not ignorant nor spiteful. And no matter what religion they may be, there is but one ALMIGHTY! So that scripture applies whether people want to believe it or not. Good Day!

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    So you think it was just a matter of their season was over? Do you believe in people having reasons and seasons and that soul ties can be confused as soul mates?

  • Jen_no_juice

    Why are folks happy and stating he ugraded? You do realize looks fade. You do realize now their kids are in a "broken" home (and according to blog logic will be gay or criminals). You do realize that technically he's still married. What else does the side piece bring to the table but a pretty face??? I'll wait

  • interestingconcept1

    You have never went without sex? lol...I've been married 17 years..18 in June:).

  • Torae

    People are just so full of it. I believe if you speak a certain way about certain topics then you should uphold certain values. Don't come at people with black this and black that if you're with a white woman and you're divorcing someone that knows you in and out?..I'm biracial and my dad used to be a fake black panther he used to sit say all of this black this black that stuff to my sisters and I and we would just ask him ummm why you like white women? he could never answer that question??? he's 60 and we still have yet to see him with a black woman??? Still talking about black kings and about white folks though lol...

  • Thismessismessy

    I actually am Christian but am inclusive enough to include all. And to recognize that not everyone subscribes to what I believe. Same with the person running around here talking about morals. Not everyone has the same set. I want every narrow minded person to find them some diversity in their freaking life. Good day to you as well.

  • Mr. LeBrick James

    "You do realize that he can wake up tomorrow and want to move back home with his WIFE, right? "
    ====
    That's the biggest thing in my mind, especially if there are kids involved. Having a 3rd person now, creating a new relationship just puts up a barrier to him ever getting back with his wife. That's why I feel like until you make a clean complete break, you should avoid bringing a 3rd person into the picture.

  • stav

    So as a so called Christian you should/would know there is only one Almighty! I didn't knock anyone or any religion. Facts are facts! All I did was present them.

  • nick c

    Dang you called your pops out like that?

  • Thismessismessy

    Facts according to what you PERSONALLY believe. Bye Stav. I said Good day and so did you.

  • TDK

    What's to debate? Married is married.

  • Thismessismessy

    And I clearly said divorced people. Congrats on your marriage. Hope it never breaks up. Hope if it does it doesnt take 2.5 years or longer to settle everything and you feel you have to go without sex bc your paperwork is not final. Bye.

  • nick c

    Happiness, that's what she brings.

  • MzKeriBabee

    You are right!!! its sad... but Karma will come... The grass is only greener because you are watering it................... Relationships take WORK... and continually WATERING... and once that gets hard, people want to look elsewhere...

  • stav

    Yet you keep replying ! As a Christian you believe what is written , as that is! BYE!

  • MissHarlem

    Everyone isn't meant to continue on with you on your journey. Sucks but such is life. I look back at those who is not on my journey and although sad at some grateful to even have that experience. Nothing is forever.

  • nick c

    Court doesnt care about girlfriends anymore.

  • tintin

    hahhahhahah. you doing your dad dirty.. oh man.

  • nick c

    People drag out divorces for years.

  • nick c

    No its not learn to know when it's over.

  • Thismessismessy

    Where do religious zealots work in 2017? Hopefully Stav is not an HR rep in say Michigan talking ish when all the Muslims take off for say Ramadan.

  • Coy little wink

    People are so superficial it's sad...

  • Sorry_Not_Sorry

    FACTS!

  • nick c

    Some states require it but it can be backdated, once your seperated the courts don't care anymore.

  • Tequila Mockingbird

    Yea it is. Your response is just justification to have your cake and eat it too.

  • I want to be free

    Yes my state mandates a year before filing for divorce. We didn't have much to sort out because we didn't have a lot. He told me I can have the house and I said nucca I know because your name isn't on the mortgage. We shared custody and he gave child support. It was only a few months before everything was settled.

  • Sorry_Not_Sorry

    You may think she is hot now but we ALL know how white women age and that is badly!!FACTS

  • Thismessismessy

    How long before you started dating again?

  • Malcom Flex

    THANK YOU FOR SHARING 100%!!!

  • Tammie Reed

    NOT until those papers are signed in my book! But you have to experience something like that to say that Sandra LOL! Love yah though!

  • Malcom Flex

    Jesse gonna get played by the town tramp. Rich black males are dumb AF. Either she'll have his baby for that 18 year check or dump him for a full blood white man.

  • Tammie Reed

    Boom!

  • Coy little wink

    Happiness is an internal state of mind independent of all things external. When u grow up you might learn this if you are lucky....

  • Thismessismessy

    Im in the minority too. I have had this life exp and let me say it sucks balls major like.

  • Mama Dee’s Wig Maker

    Welp...

  • nick c

    Then he can trade up again.

  • http://www.nicolaloves.com/ NicolaLoves

    To be fair, Minka has been with wealthier men and she hasn't tried to "trap" any of them.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    I agree, just wanted to get someone else's take on it.

  • YellowSauce

    I come in peace really but let me ask seriously why does it mean you have to hate others to love yourself ...why can't he love his black heritage AND be attracted to a white women ..why does one have to eliminate the other ... furthermore this man and wife were separated for a year already he did not leave one for the other and HE IS half white ...we can't fight racism with racism ...

  • I want to be free

    Hmmm. I don't know when I started really dating but I had a few friends that I kept company with but no sex was involved. I just needed some adult conversation and someone to go to dinner/drinks/movies.

  • Malcom Flex

    Stop caping! How the F you know what this tramp does behind closed doors? Notice, none of them MARRIED HER?? I hate people like you. Life isn' fair.

  • Malcom Flex

    Her pops is a ashy hotep hypocrite.

  • MissHarlem

    No biggie ?

  • Quitedeliteful

    Well... they have been separated for a year...whose to say that she doesn't have a boo somewhere... Divorce is never easy but either you are going to be together or you are not. One year separation is more than enough time to know whether these two are going to be in a marriage or not. His soon-to-be-ex-wife is not a bad looking woman and her soon-to-be-ex-husband is willing to pay spousal support plus she works. I say have a good cry (if that's what's needed) get dolled up, feel good about yourself and keep it moving...

  • MissHarlem

    People often forget that experiences is the true teacher in life. So you need to live it at times in order to even have the gall to have a definitive opinion

  • nick c

    That's when she was younger and in the spotlight, she probably got the baby fever now.

  • Tammie Reed
  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    Jesse worked in the Philadelphia school system as a afam teacher not NY. I knew I shoulda cracked on his azz when used to see him on the Subway...

  • Thismessismessy

    Minka was born into money. Her dad is Rick Dufay and her grandfather was an actor turned celeb investment banker/stockbroker.
    *Im not caping. Facts are facts. they can be checked at any time.

  • Thismessismessy

    At 36 I can see her trying to pop out a kid.

  • MissHarlem

    Welllll ?

  • Thismessismessy

    You go sista! Kudos to you.

  • Thismessismessy

    She was fukkin Derek Jeter for the longest. If she was trying to Gold dig then he woulda been the perfect one to have an oops on. Hell he mixed too and a lot richer than Jesse. IJS

  • Kat Kat

    I would be highly surprised if he did indeed commit adultery with Minka Kelly. I just don't see it. Just don't

  • NeverSurprised

    "Drake-Lee, a real estate broker, certainly earns enough money to support herself and her children."
    --------------------------------------------------

    HER children? Did she have them by immaculate conception? The correct pronoun is "their", THEIR children. If Malcom X. Williams wants to give interminable speeches on "blackness", then leave his BLACk wife and traipse off into the sunset with the nearest white woman, that's his business. But he does NOT get to take all of his ABC network cash with him. He will pay his fair share of child support and, if legally permissible, his wife will ALSO get spousal support. Let's see how long Minka stays with a BROKE black man.

  • MissHarlem

    Again....wellllll ?

  • Malcom Flex

    Rush to cape for white chicks rush to cape for thugs. Most of yall can't be black women, can't be that stupid to keep caping and protecting those who would not pee if you were on fire.

  • Guest

    Pass the collection plate! Preach!

  • Shajay

    Amen!

  • YellowSauce

    men don't think that way ...commitment is mental to them ( it is to me also the paper means nothing except for legal possession rights ) ..now why has it been a year and no legal action has been taken is beyond me ...except for the fact that maybe he knew the world would go crazy and wanted some time ...apparently Carmelo and LaLa have BEEN separated as well AND TI and Tiny .. I think Bey and Jay were also for 5 minutes

  • Miany

    I am one who has never been physically attracted to a non-black person.. I haven't made it there yet nevertheless.... I aint stressin his personal life. If he can continue to speak out and be heard on behalf of black lives... He's ok in my book.

  • Shanese

    After all those rants on BET and CNN about the misognoir of black women and men because of these whites and their wicked ways he goes to cheat on his wife with Becky? Shut up Jesse, we don't wanna hear nun from you no more

  • YellowSauce

    I was HIGHLY surprised when trump became our president lolololololol but that Sh!t happened anyways lolololololol

  • http://ivyleaguelove.tumblr.com/ Applebootay

    all I know is, his next wife better be black. IJS!

  • http://ivyleaguelove.tumblr.com/ Applebootay

    all I know is, his next wife better be black. IJS!

  • Capricornlady

    Jamie Foxx does that too...smh

  • Mrs.Meenie

    Dude bye...he raised all that ruckus on BET and then left her ass for a white girl just like Kanye said would happen.

  • Coco

    I really hope his wife doesn't read comments anywhere because she's getting dragged, called ugly, unkept, didn't deserve someone so good looking,etc... it makes sad for her.

    The same black men that love Kendrick Lamar humble song are calling ugly, praising that white woman with layers of makeup and extensions

    Nobody is calling her a b!tch, h0e, slut, home wrecker... like they do BW simply dating. Imagine if cheated with Rihanna should be called every name. But now cheating is okay if it's an "upgrade".

  • LibraGirlonly

    So you divorcing your black wife so you can fool around with Minka Kelly? Smdh

  • LibraGirlonly

    He's a Fraud.

  • MistaO

    Oh please,

  • BacktolurkingIgo

    Best wishes to them and their children.

  • LibraGirlonly

    That's not the point here. This nigga a fraud. I hope the white chick suck all of his energy out.

  • LibraGirlonly

    Black people cant be racist but we can be prejudiced.

  • Coco

    Right, while she's raising the kids at home, he's out there hanging out with his lover.

  • Coco

    I actually agree with you. And I hate how black people expect/demand black women to be patient with BM, understand shortcomings, ride or die...

    When he has nothing, it's all love, promising you the world, as you help him when he needs you. But the moment he gets it, he falls out love, he has all these problems with you all of a sudden.

    Sometimes I wonder if those men ever loved those women, or they were just using them and their resources.

  • MissHarlem

    People forget his ass is half white. Totally skips their mind.

  • Dahl

    "Would it help if she was black?"
    "No. It would help if YOU were."
    Literally all I have for this story *shrugs*

  • MissHarlem

    I believe those problems always presented itself and some women hang on because of what he might become. It's a responsibility that both genders must take accountability for.

  • Tish

    Married until divorced. That includes separation! No debate, its still cheating/

    "And when he gets on, he leaves your a@@ for a white girl"-Kanye West

    Not shocked. Hollywood changes people. Ask Harry Belefonte and Sidney Poitier.

  • Clopretty

    Men are so Flip floppy! its either you gone love the woman you marry until death or don't go down that road at all!

  • BorisBlack1

    He'll deal with that when the time comes. Right now he's got a badb!tch. Besides when Mika is 40..... how old will his wife be? Sorry to break the news to you but men with options ain't checking for a 40 or 50+ year old black woman.

  • Miss Thang

    WOWWWWW You have a LOT of learning to do. As long as you need someone to make you happy, you will never be happy. This is why there's a lot of messed up relationships out here. People want someone to make them happy instead of looking for someone to share their love with.

  • BorisBlack1

    Black women really underestimate the importance of looks and being friendly, fit and feminine for men.

  • BorisBlack1

    He'll deal with that when the time comes. Until then he "ain't worried about nothing".

  • Keekz

    Minka Kelly sho gets around

  • A D N

    Depends on what the arrangements are within their marriage and relationship. If I am separated, and he and I agree to see other people until we figure out how to move forward (together or separately) then nope, not cheating. Cheating to me is when one does something secretly to the other.

  • Tammie Reed

    Only when its a lot at state! Let it be two broke folks, done in 30 days LOL!

  • Tammie Reed

    NO, when folks separate they are usually bored and one wants to have their way and test the waters and see what else is out there! Should have did that before they got married! Now they want space to do what they want to do but then some realize its NOTHING out there really and then want to come back! Some beg for forgiveness and get back together while others move on. NO win for anyone!

  • Tammie Reed

    Welp!

  • Tammie Reed

    Bloop!

  • NicoleZee

    Well, it's not really cheating if both people have decided to separate and get divorced. Some divorces can take years from what I hear and who wants to be deprived for that long without companionship and sex if they want it??? People should probably wait until they are completely done with someone before seeing other people and wait until the divorce has been finalized, but most don't wait. Some people are just very territorial like animals. I don't want nobody that does not want me. If we break up, whether it's the next minute, day, year, or whatever, I don't care what you do, just leave me alone!!! Now if he was seeing the new chick while still actively in the marriage, then yes, it is cheating. But it seems like both he and his soon to be ex-wife have moved on and just waiting on the final ruling for the divorce.

  • nick c

    I don't want to be old and alone with ten cats.

  • nick c

    Being old and alone with a bunch of cats is not happiness either.

  • nick c

    You right

  • Coy little wink

    Maybe 10 cats = happiness by same perspective

  • nick c

    A lot of this chatter about still married while seperated has a lot to do with control especially the one that didn't want out of the relationship.

  • Petty White

    I'm late to the game but where has it been verified that they've truly been separated for a year? This seems soooo suspect...I actually am believing she left him because he was smashing Becky from Becklandia.

  • NicoleZee

    He's a fraud like many celebrities. They want us to believe that their shit doesn't stink when it's the worst smell of all. Sad. Just be yourself; no one is perfect, but these self-righteous people need to have several seats!!!

  • NicoleZee

    Absolutely! I recently told the guy I had been seeing that I was done for now and he still thinks we are together and had the nerve to say that my p**** is his. WTF??? Naw nigga, no one owns MY body but ME!!! If I don't want to be with you, I'm out, and if I choose to date another person or even have sex at any point afterwards, then that is MY choice.

  • 4RGSpot

    That's his business and who cares? Tired of the stories these sites post trying to piss sistas off.

  • T Kenny

    werent he and his wife just pictured last month coming out of the airport with the BABIES ? of course , they couldve just been doing the co parent thing but...idk. if thats the case he had no reason to hide his new woman. we all know why he was hiding her lol. chile, who wrote that damn speach?

  • Coy little wink

    ???

  • Thismessismessy

    Ask Harry Belefonte and Sidney Poitier.
    ^^^^^
    Ask them what? Why they marched and protested very loudly and hard for the past 7 decades for American blacks? I said American bc Harry marched for the Africans too and bc Sidney not even from here.

  • Mrs. (Asexual) Elmo

    Oooohhh , so what. Relationships last and some end..

  • jazzysmith12

    i agree 100%, c00ns will be c00ns.I am so against brothus that praise cave Becky and put my beautiful black queens down.They can get nothing but an arz whooping from me!

  • jazzysmith12

    not true,plenty of men check for the beautiful black queens in their 40s

  • Torae

    No shade but Ask someone else who cares...because I don't feel like explaining my experiences to you?

  • MsPam

    Get ready to be disappointed!

  • MsPam

    At least he's open and honest about his BS...well sort of!

  • Chocolate

    Right on- I respect this.

  • Lisa daniels

    I am just mad he took Derek Jeter sloopy infected seconds. Just nasty. Some people you just fck after.

  • Lisa daniels

    I need to ask Kanye for them powerball numbers

  • Lisa daniels
  • Lisa daniels

    ???????????

  • Lisa daniels

    ? well damn

  • Lisa daniels

    Shole do

  • Lisa daniels

    Yeah a real fire crotch she a Jeter girl. She got the herp

  • Pebbles

    Sound as if someone trying to do damage control .. Instagram be on point ( the story was out waaaay before it hit major news work)

    People be dropping jewels all the time .. I be on there like this ???

    Then wait for Sandra to post it !

  • Vixen

    They should say separated pending a divorce cause separated could mean lets get counseling first to see if this marriage can continue. Unless both are in agreement ( which is never the case, one party is always hoping to rekindle....nine times out of ten it's the wife) to see other people during the separation.

  • Maxima

    Well, men will cheat if they have the opportunity. Now, he is on that tv set for hours shooting episodes. Sometimes late hours. People get bored, lonely, tired -- all circumstances for weakness. Slutty demons like Minka Kelly pounce on that shit. Maybe Aryn knows he is just bangin' the ho on set, so she is chillin'. Hey, suckin' dick is WORK.

    But, if there is true heartbreak for Aryn, then it is time to take that boy's money and upgrade. You can be a rocket scientist but he is in a business built on LOOKS. She needs to upgrade that wardrobe, sculpt that body, and get some war paint on. Yeah, she knew him before, but she needed to change with him and be a reflection of his status, no matter how shallow that is.

    Shallow, yes, but it is a matter of knowing your surroundings at all times. This is one of those, hate the game, but follow the rules.

  • Luci Lu

    Anybody separated for over a year is free to date whomever they choose.

  • Coco

    Y'all act like those white women don't get dumped or cheated on. ? ?

    Adriana Lima is divorced, Heidi Klum divorced (multiple times)....

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    You dont know me or what Im capable of so please limit yourself only azzhole...

  • 2brefrank

    But wait! He did that BET speech less than a year ago, right? I thought he was with her then. I'm confused...

  • Shay AgainstallOdds Lowry

    Hoars.

  • YellowSauce

    racism doesn't just apply to black people so why can't we be racist ?

  • YellowSauce

    its not that you don't feel like it ... its that you CAN'T ... lol and you are the one posting your family tree experiences and ALL your fathers business on social media and NOW you don't feel like splaining ... lmfaoooooo

  • Rhyme and Reason

    They. Didn't make it, only black celebrity breakups or divorces have to deal with cheating while still legally married! Couples file when they want to, and finalizing can take years, usually it's been over with one or both parties for some time!

  • Rhyme and Reason

    It's not an upgrade because of looks! Silly! Like in the filn Why Did I Get Married, real talk!

  • goat

    What the paper say? Married. You're having relations with another person while married is cheating. No fcuks given if you're black white or purple.

  • Rhyme and Reason

    Ok, if you say so, but personally, I think mostly black people take this matter so literally or technically, black and white, when life is full of gray! Like I stated divorces can go on for years, and most people do move on, and date while still being legally married! And, I just don't see these kinds of stories run as much with others, IMO!

    Sean Penn was dating Jessica White while going through a dîvorce, there was no backlash, as well as other white celebrities! Technically, you're right, realistically, most people move on during the process!

  • Torae

    You mad or nah? ?

  • Jen_no_juice

    And in Why Did I Get Married it was because of looks silly! He realized she doesn't cook clean, etc. So you've just proven my point thanks

  • MsTrini jemima

    Hes a mixed race man with a white mother. Black women are the ones who have the trapping black men with babies for money game on lock .
    This woman has her own money and been with wealthier men , Maybe you need to get some therapy for your hatred for black men.

  • Shaquita Boom

    Maybe she was his beard?

  • Dowoop

    I wonder if she is even upset that he is dating her?? Everybody wanna have a heart attack about it when she pbly already knows and got her own man somewhere...Like you said she is not a bad looking woman.

  • Dowoop

    Even some women dont have the mentality that when we are separated pending divorce that you need to be committed to them. I sure as hell dont belive that. If we are for sure divorcing then feel free to sling dick wherever you want, that snot my business.

  • Dowoop

    Can you explain why black people cant be racist?

  • Dowoop

    I have read soem of your comments on this thread and i like your train of thought...One of his parents is white...What on earth makes people believe he wont be attracted to a white woman? Is he supposed to hate white people to prove that he cares about the black cause?

  • Quitedeliteful

    If she looked like a cyclops and was broke then I could see her being upset. She's gonna bounce back and be better than ever....

  • Dowoop

    Well said!

  • Dowoop

    So in order to commit adultery, he would have to divorce and marry again is what i got from that bible passage...It sure as hell does not say whoeber sleeps with a married person.

  • Dowoop

    So if i write "Stav is an idiot" - do you believe it now - as a christian.

  • Dowoop

    LMAO...Only thing up for discussion is how we splitting the $300 fee to get it finalized.

  • stav

    This post is at least 3 days old, you're still on it? Read what I said! If anyone divorces on any other grounds but adultery, then I continued. Reading comprehension is imperative!

  • Dowoop

    You should read what i wrote bcause i am commenting on the bible verse, which only refers to marriage ...IDIOT. Comprehension is key, both for the bible verse and what i wrote....AGAIN IDIOT!!!!!!

  • stav

    Don't have time for the learning disabled, if you don't get it you won't ! Many others got it, sorry not sorry you're Dumb!

  • Dowoop

    Clearly you dont get it - bitter much!

  • kdm302

    So he says. Sounds like a ploy to make him seem like less of a d-bag.

  • kdm302

    Enjoy the herpes.

  • kdm302

    I have a bridge I would like to sell you.

  • Luci Lu

    Unless a man has erectile dysfunction that Viagra, Cialis, or Levitra can't cure, there's no way in hell that he's going to abstain from sex for a year; especially when he is separated. It is quite possible that his wife may be dating too. Would that make her a douche bag too?

  • Amanda Bauer

    Except real man like my blk sis in law tarik who focus on being clean, celibate.happy. re-focus and building his 3rd biz not some fantasy music star or wanna be. so it is feasible luci. I m glad aryn is movin on. Minka said she did nt cheat with jesse. jess said, he still love his wife. so who knows.and that he did nt cheat.but wasn't lovely aryn and jess at the incredible BET awards a year or less ago. so it's just odd to me. but either way. i wish aryn well.i m sure she will be fine, smart woman R.E., not only a sales agent but actual broker.

  • Tami Sanchez

    me being blk and hispanic, BLK mother. and p.r.dad, both STILL HAPPILY married 49 yrs, real love and respect trust, communication etc., they have it all. I also hear the wife ARYN or ex spouse was cheating. Has a new man for while, so i do not know.Show me text. and other receipts, then i'll believe it. But,he also saying i did not cheat on Aryn. Bottom line is, there was also rumour of her having another "man."So,i don't know. smh.but life way 2 short for his lovely wife, smart too, for ARYN to be sad/or in a bad relationship.
    -
    Long as he keep disseminating insofar as black power, building my people up + fighting against mainly the inequalities, of my hispanic brown people. Personally? I'm not too shock about this 1 because when the communication line and trust goes out the window, it's better for his lovely astute wife ARYN to not b with him.

  • Tami Sanchez

    lol not sure what it mean but i think i do.

  • Tami Sanchez

    not real men. and they DO exist chica.
    not all men cheat, no need.
    and also as i wrote more above.
    I also hear the wife ARYN or ex spouse was cheating.
    She allegedly for a long time, have had a new man for while,
    so i do not know.Show me text. and other receipts, then i'll believe it. But,he also saying i did not cheat on Aryn. Bottom line is, there was also rumour of her having another "man."So,i don't know. smh.but life way 2 short for his lovely wife, smart too, for ARYN to be sad/or in a bad relationship.

  • Tami Sanchez

    rofklmfao

  • Tami Sanchez

    I also hear the wife ARYN or ex spouse was cheating. Has a new man for while, so i do not know.Show me text. and other receipts, then i'll believe it. But,he also saying i did not cheat on Aryn.

  • Tami Sanchez

    lol

  • Tami Sanchez

    o yea. youre right and lol chica, i write more posts above, but i hear she is having her man now, a new one and they are happy for a minute,so maybe, jus maybe jess did not cheat as rumoured.
    who knows.
    but minka also say,"i did not bust up his marriage/we did not cheat with each other on his wife, or ex spouse."who knows."without receipt or a proof of guilt, i do not believe anything,but i know 1 thing life 2 short to be sad over a dude. move on and live our life best way we can,without any drama...

  • Luci Lu

    "Real man, Being Clean, Happy, Celibate". Yadda, Yadda, blah, blah, blah....When two people want to get together and engage in sexual relations, NOTHING, but and Act of God can stop them.....period.

  • Miss Thang

    For some people, that may be bliss. You can't use your measuring stick to decide if someone is happy or not. I'm going to be old with lots of nieces nephews and loving family members and friends and a very active social life.