Shekinah Anderson

Shekinah Anderson, who is Tameka "Tiny" Cottle's on again, off again bestie, was violently attacked by a man she was apparently seeing.

Shekinah posted then deleted the above pic showing her battered face in the aftermath of the violence.

My heart goes out to Shekinah. She's a good woman at heart. She doesn't deserve the ridicule that resulted after she posted this pic.

A few heartless social media users accused Shekinah of attention seeking. So Shekinah deleted her entire page. At the time of the deletion, Shekinah boasted over 2.4 million followers.

As another Instgram.com user said, social media is "a blessing and a curse" for people who suffer emotional and physical trauma and seek external validation from others.





Spotted first on @Fameolousent.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    SMR: My heart goes out to Shekinah. She’s a good woman at heart. She doesn’t deserve the ridicule that resulted after she posted this pic.

    Yes she does.

    People need to stop living their lives on social media.

    She should have been at a police station filling out a report and taking out a restraining order against the abuser.

    Then trot on down to the gun shop.

    But that's just my opinion.

  • sunni_daze

    Hope she sent that post to the police. I can't stand no bitchass man, quick to fight a woman but run from.

  • Mama Dee’s Wig Maker

    I saw this last night. I hope she called the police on his ass.

  • Bella Boss

    she probably didn't. too busy posting on social media. smh

  • Mrs.Meenie

    They told her to stay away from Floyd Mayweather and she didn't listen...Hope she filed a police report.

  • Mr. LeBrick James

    Instead of putting it on social media, shouldnt be going to the police first?

  • klwbaby

    I'm sure she is a good person but I don't understand this need to post things before going to a hospital or calling the police.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Was a victim of domestic violence, and I will say.....stop the bs!! No one deserves to be beaten by anyone, but why do people need to run to social media with it.

    Fact is, social media can and will only make it worse, as folks are going to weigh in with their opinion and it may not be favorable, so why put yourself in the position to be made to feel worse than you already feel?

    Is it true that this wasn't her man and a random dude? Then this is NOT domestic abuse it was an assault......not saying one is better than the other, but they are not the same thing.

    And why all those dumbazzed hashtags!!
    #shekinah #domesticviolence #victim #prayers #gethelp #authories #tiny #bestfriend #vh1 #familyhustle #atlanta #socialmedia #cryforhelp #default #outcry #batteredwoman #emotional #physical #damage #hairstylist #jewel

  • Guess Who

    Uh..it was for attention.

    Look yall...in this day and age social media has made the most obscure d-list relevant. Folks post fights, fuking, twerking, filtered duck lip pics, folks DYING instead of calling for help, THEM dying and of course, "tragic" things that happen to them. Why the fuk would she release this to random mufukas she doesn't know? She needed to release this solely to the cops, not "followers" for "hearts" and "likes" and sympathetic, esteem boosting, cheer up comments.

    Newflash, THE MAJORITY OF FOLLOWERS ARE NOT YOUR FAMILY OR FRIENDS. THEY ARE RANDOM FOLKS ONLINE WHO YOU DON'T KNOW FROM A CAN OF PAINT.....so wtf would be a reason for this big country heffa to blast that to THEM?

    ATTENTION. IDGAF what the sympathizers are saying...whenever you get through...this did NOT need to be posted for her "FOLLOWERS" to see for any logical reason other than she wanted attention and coddling comments. foh

  • SG

    Everything is not for public consumption. I hope she called the police prior to posting this pic.

  • Rachel

    Bless her heart but social media shouldn't be the first place you turn to unless you out the person so they can get arrested. How old is shekinah? She looks old.

  • jazzysmith12

    See what women need to do is start cooking grits when a nicca starts talking noise,then hold the pan in front of you talking sh!!t back.I betcha he will think twice about beating you.

  • SG

    I'm thinking she's close in age to Tiny.

  • Guess Who

    THANK YOU

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Off Topic:
    Aaron's camp shuts down rumors suggesting the prison pal was more than a friend...

    Attorney Jose Baez tells TMZ,
    "Rumors of letters to a gay lover, in or out of prison, are false. These are malicious leaks used to tarnish somebody who is dead."

  • Thismessismessy

    What the hell is wrong with folks? I dont think I would have posted this. But thats just ME. Social media is bad. But dont villify folks for THEIR choices. She was absolutely dragged (again) for NO REASON other than HER choice to post this. Mental and verbal abuse sometimes is WORSE than physical. And from strangers. Smdh. Im so sorry this happened to this sista no matter who laid hands. Get well soon Shekinah. Lord have mercy

  • Guess Who

    When folks blast all their bidness online, they need to be prepared for ALL comments and opinions.

    For the life of me I don't get why folks can't keep ANYTHING to themselves anymore about their personal business. It makes you desensitized to situations that are valid because...well...YOU USE TO SEEING ALL BUSINESS POSTED!

  • jazzysmith12

    post their death and killing others on social media also--generation x--the worst generation of them all!!!

  • 1shy112

    Posting something like this would seem embarrassing, to let people know this has happened to me publicly. I think she was bringing awareness. Most women won't post there battered body. Stays a secret until she leaves or something severe had happened behind closed doors.

  • Yardgirl

    Exactly!!!

  • BacktolurkingIgo

    No one deserves that except those whom dish it out bless her and heal her.

  • Guess Who

    Yes, and keep it off social media so they will stand a chance of NOT getting caught.

  • jazzysmith12

    exactly

  • Guess Who

    THANK YOU

  • MzApple

    Praying for her, but my first thought was i hope she called the police first before posting this. Or someone close to her should call the authorities

  • Thismessismessy

    Posting killings/deaths are a different animal that talking about something personal that happened to you. That needs to NEVER happen. Im very angry people dragged her for no reason. She is suffering enough

  • BacktolurkingIgo

    Being a homicidal maniac isn't exactly glowing, tarnish huh lol.

  • Guess Who

    100% co sign!

  • Guess Who

    Exactly. You're thinking with a sound mind!

  • AcutallyReally

    I prefer bullets personally. No man, besides my father, will ever lay paws on me.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    One word.....acquittal. Don't start the mess. Bottom line is there are so many INNOCENT people in jail, so who can be really sure, especially since the motive was destroyed.

  • jazzysmith12

    It's a horrible world we live in.I would like to share with you women: Every man I ever knew always seem to think that beating a woman(black woman) is the best solution to control her, and if you don't then you are a weak man--a p!!ssy arz nicca as they will call you.
    "She tried me"
    "Bruh did you hit her". "You see that's you problem my woman know not to come at me foul".

    This is the usual conversation I hear from men throughout my life.

  • jazzysmith12

    lol, yeah them bullets will work

  • BacktolurkingIgo

    I agree with that too many innocent folks in jail, the word tarnish made me chuckle tho

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    I believe they used it, as it seems they are grasping at a new motive and if he was in fact innocent, it could tarnish him, especially since his child would read about this one day. But I understand

  • Guess Who

    That's terrible :(

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    I agree.

  • Blak

    A man bet you so bad instead of quietly going to the police to handle your business and protect the public you go on Instagram?? da fuc outta here. I refuse to take this seriously

  • BacktolurkingIgo

    I agree with that too because it's not proven and they are all on it.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Some people believe that being gay is worse than being a murderer.

  • T Kenny

    is it the same man she made the videos on instagram with about him asking her to put the pills in her..... nevermind.

  • Wakando Shamar Taylor

    nigga but some bass in yo voice!

  • Mr. LeBrick James

    There are people out there who'll just keep riding hard for this killer for some reason.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    That is a horrible way to live.

    One thing I learned throughout my life and dealing with verbally/physically/emotionally people....what was I doing to attract them and what did I do to have them believe their behavior was acceptable?

    Not saying you are responsible for someone's actions, but we are responsible for what we allow another to do to us. I have to do one of the hardest things in life- evaluate myself and admit my issues to myself. Self evaluation and owning your issues is painful, but so necessary. It was the thing that I think saved my life.

  • Coy little wink

    I saw this posted on shade room IG and wondered why she posted it myself...its not something I would do most def. Because when u put yourself on social media u gotta take the bitter with the sweet....

  • BacktolurkingIgo

    Because some folk shun them

  • NeverSurprised

    I will never, in my life, understand why people feel the need to tell the ENTIRE WORLD every aspect of their lives. It just seems completely bizarre to me. Why tell anyone other than 1) the police; and 2) friends and family who know and love you? Why tell COMPLETE STRANGERS that some man in your life bashed your face in? Then you get upset when some of these COMPLETE STRANGERS don't sympathize with you? Sorry, but I don't get it.

  • Thismessismessy

    How do we know she did not call the police first before she posted this? How do we know her good good gf or her sister or her mama or her cousin is not on their way to pick her up to seek medical help when she posted this?

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    The same could be said for:
    Khalief Browder's mother - 3 years with no trial only 16 when arrested
    Nick Yarris' family - 22 years
    Anthony Ray Hinton's family- 30 years

    And many more people who were proven innocent after being arrested, locked up and even sentenced to death row

  • BacktolurkingIgo

    It's not riding about the letter and gay rumors because it's not proven now with Odin he did everything but log in on Facebook.

  • Mr. LeBrick James

    33, I think.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    I read somewhere that Hernandez gave away his possessions to other prisoners before he allegedly committed suicide?

    Wouldn't that have been a sign of potential suicide since the only other reason to give away your possessions would be if you were leaving prison?

  • Genia

    she pulled this statement back....to say "A" man...not "HER" man beat her up. However reading the original statement, and how we believe Shekanah to be a none-shit taking person, I believe if it were a stranger...she would have come across angry and not broken.....none the less, my heart is with her and may God see her through what ever this is and may whomever is responsible be held appropriately accountable.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    We do know she was assaulted, but it also says it was a random guy. No one should be assaulted or abused, but when you go on social media- you run the risk of being assaulted all over again (verbally).

    My main issue was the friend's hashtags that seemed like a promotion for the show. What does: #tiny #bestfriend #vh1 #familyhustle have to do with it?

  • Sexy CJ

    Shekinah posted then deleted the above pic showing her battered face in the aftermath of the violence..............

    https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/e584b6c19cbb4c8d110fd43dd82ccb0b45921b0cfdc2a43c0d2d163e4b905be3.jpg

  • datATLboi

    If I said it once, I said it a thousand times......When you tell the police you looking for help but when you POST ON SOCIAL MEDIA you looking for ATTENTION

  • BacktolurkingIgo

    Maybe it was her way of documenting. Shock can make you respond in many different ways. Who knows, I wish her well tho...

  • Sexy CJ
  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    I hope she is ok and went to the authorities first. I have been a victim of domestic violence to the point that I was scalded. No man has a right to put his hands on any female regardless of what she says or does. Now the part about going to social media for validation sickens me. Simply because this is the day and age of thirst sympathy and it distracts from the issue at hand and makes the victim a caricature.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Some people give away all their things that are in prison, as they don't want to take any of it with them. I know a guy who got out and when he left, he left all his prison possessions. Said it was a life he was leaving behind and he wanted no reminders or parts of it in his new life and freedom.

  • jazzysmith12

    well I glad you recognize your error and corrected it.I'm glad you are still here to talk about it.Some women don't get that chance.It seems like we black men are becoming more controlling.
    I don't understand it.Maybe we been around these Neanderthals too long.The evil American culture has had an bad effect on our psychic.

  • Guess Who

    Very well stated.

    I think we as women (well people for that matter) have all at one point suffered from some form of abuse at one point in our lives. You get through something, learn from it and get stronger. If you have children, you teach them. Turn a tragic situation into something resourceful. What you don't do is THE MINUTE you get two pieced, you post a close up of your tear stained face with a caption of what went down.

    I don't get the logic. Is that somewhat cathartic to folks who crave attention and acceptance?

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    I know a few women who I wish had and would take a moment to really look into themselves and see how they are falling into the same pattern over and over again. Many women never get a chance to learn that they are the master of their destiny and it is sad. Many men (and some women) are so broken and corrupt that they don't know any other way than hurting people and yes the American culture plays a huge part.

  • Mr. LeBrick James

    If she doesn't have a gun yet, she should probably get one. If a dude knows that she has a loaded gun in the house, that will probably make a ninja think twice about hitting any woman.

  • jazzysmith12

    Exactly.Just because he beats you doesn't mean he loves you.He wants to have his cake and eat it to.A man that truly loves a woman wouldn't ever think of beating her,but he will think of ways of improving their relationship.

  • Thismessismessy

    exactly!

  • Tammie Reed

    I've been around her a few times, this is so sad. I will say this though! I'm not sure as to if this story is true or not but it reminds me of a friend that I used to work with at a salon back in the day. She was very mean with a sharp tongue and would curse you out in a heart beat! She kept up drama and would get in fights with the other girls all the time. Little did we know, when she would go home, she would get beat by her fiancé!

    She had 2 kids and one day she almost died because he beat her unconscious and their 13 yr old son and their 6 mo old baby. Then he sat the house on fire and fled! Left them all for dead but they survived! It made the news and they found him a few days later, he is in jail till this day! He always had CRAZY eyes to me, I didn't like him at all.

    We never knew she was a victim of domestic violence but she would come to work with bruises but we thought it was from her getting in fights with the other girls in the salon. We were all in shock to find out it was her dude! You just never know what someone is going through but I just find it funny that she was so tough at work but she didn't direct that energy to the guy that was beating her at home, so strange! If you follow Shekinah she is always poppin off too, hmm? But maybe she was really scared if this guy but why not file a restraining order like she did on that girl that was bother her? Just a thought.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    1. I don't believe it was a random man. She wouldn't have deleted the pic if that was the case. #DamageControl

    2. If this is the same dude that she has been with for some time-- this is what they do. Doesn't make it right, but there is a video of her being the aggressor and them tussling around on the floor.

    3. There is a serious problem with the way black men and black women interact with each other. I just watched the clip of Tiny and TI discussing whether she can take her child with her when she starts working. Very telling. Very.

    Note: #3 specifically deals with AA's because that is all I care about. Idc about yt men disrespecting and beating the hell out of yt women. #NotMyProblem

  • jazmine

    Omg gen X is THE worst just awful

  • jazzysmith12

    yelp they are.That's why Christ said it would be the final generation

  • countrygal

    Like I always say, if you are hurt or crying and you have time to snap a pic it must not be that serious. Guess it's just me.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    But he wasn't getting out. He was in there for life. So yeah, him waking up one day and giving all of his ish away is very suspicious. Don't know if the administration would be aware of something like that.

  • Lolalao

    Or that she's good with that knife play.

  • Soda

    You keep saying that the motive for Hernandez killing Lloyd was destroyed. How? Is it possible that he killed him for more than one reason: that Lloyd knew he killed the 2 men and that he threatened to reveal that Hernandez was bisexual? Just because he was acquitted doesn't mean he didn't commit the crime.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    He was in appeal mode, so we don't know if he was there for life or not. We wouldn't know until the appeal was over.

    He may have thought since the other case was over and he was acquitted, he was going home eventually.

    There are so many scenarios.

  • jazzysmith12

    Women:don't date or sleep with a broke arz niccas. These kinds are the worst.If he works at subway his mindset would more than likely result to a violent state of control in order to keep you from leaving him.
    These dudes don't understand that a woman wants someone who she can build with.How can a woman build with you working at subway for 10 years.She is not to be controlled.

  • Dr. P

    She went to the authorities on Tiny's other friend, hopefully she does the same on this fool

  • countrygal

    Interesting story. Love is truly blind. Women will stay with an abusive man because "he must love me if he gets that upset." It's a shame. Lord help her get out if it is someone she's seeing

  • Anunnaki

    I remember My sister her x to beat her so bad, he beat her with a bat, she kind hi-liter yellow, she was blue and purple when she made it home, By grace. ...

    Yea He DEAD NOW, .....sips Green Tea

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    When did they submit the second reason?
    And just because he was charged doesn't mean he committed the crime, as we have many instances of indictments, etc on innocent people.

  • jazzysmith12

    wow

  • Anunnaki

    True Story. He fcked my sister UP

  • Layah Jhene

    Pretty Much!!! I'll toss them hot grits or oil on your ass when you laying down not paying attention and have my gun in hand once you jump yo tail up.

  • Anunnaki

    I do too, this is awful

  • Scromes1212

    A man with ambition and money will do you just as bad as a broke man.

  • hottlanta

    She should call the police/her friends/family instead of putting it online. We see women who do this, we feel sorry for them and they take the man back and we all look like boo boo the fool. We don't need to know everything.

  • Soda

    Try looking at this from Lloyd's side, the victim (one of them).

  • Anunnaki

    YESssssss, But I still understand where @jazzy is coming from too

  • MissHarlem

    Seen this yesterday and was type sad for her because awhile back there was a video posted of her and her dude arguing and it was violent without hitting. Right there I was like uh uh boo bounce on him. What I also don't like is because she's seen as loud or ghetto she deserved this ?. Dumbest shit to say or believe. Girl gather yourself and your esteem and know your worth. Can't get what you deserve if you still hanging on to garbage. I love that she's herself and don't care what anyone thinks. Hopefully that transfers to her transition.

  • Anunnaki

    I don't understand why some folks want the world to know their Everyday LIFE. they put everything on Social Media. sometimes you gotta wonder you need attention or What....***shrugs****

  • Rayne

    That's so messed up. I look for those signs in a man tho and if they are there and I witness him being rough with kids, family members or myself I'm out of there.

  • jazzysmith12

    I agree 100%.But most black men don't have a lot of money.

  • jazzysmith12

    well, i'm glad she's ok.

  • A D N

    A man's insecurity of his woman leaving him or he feeling inadequate as a man, or even watching violence growing up leads to domestic violence, or guess what...provoking as well. Yes, screaming in a man's face or slapping him, or even punching him will cause him to react.

  • Tammie Reed

    That's my moms mentality and a lot of women from back in the day, even back when my grandma was alive... Sad!

  • Jen_no_juice

    Why didn't she post his pic and tell her story to expose him? Prayers for her situation tho

  • hottlanta

    An abuser is a smooth operator. Ever heard anyone say I never knew he was like that. How many times when it get so bad that the whole neighborhood is on television saying he always seemed like a nice person, real FRIENDLY to everyone. They never raised their voice and was always very helpful. People are actors my dear they deserve Oscars for their performances.

  • Scromes1212

    A broke ni99a will love a women's dirty draws. If your woman is solid she will help you turn that subway job into your own subway.

  • A D N

    White men will beat a white woman's behind!!! Real quick. They just don't report it or it isn't publicized. And guess what...so will rich men of any race or ethnicity. Just informing you that this is a problem unlimited to one group or social class.

  • YellowSauce

    actually a pic only takes a few seconds and get out quicker than calling 911 ... she is also a public figure so this is what they do .. you and i would not do that but its normal to them ... looks pretty serious to me

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    I think so. The attention seeking is because of the lack of sympathy at home, work, friends or family. We all need someone to listen to us or someone to gripe to about the hassles of life. If someone is feeling ignored it leads to self-destructive behaviors sometimes. The best thing for a person who is feeling ignored is to go to a therapist or even a therapy group. It helps alot when you know there is someone who is willing to listen to you wholeheartedly.

  • jazzysmith12

    I agree but I'm only talking about black men.

  • A D N

    Why don't an abused mate leave? Why do they stay? Confusion of Love, low self esteem, lack of finances, fear, isolated?

  • A D N

    Ok. Are you around black men with jobs and money? I'm curious.

  • jazzysmith12

    True ,but that's not always the case.He has to have drive and motivation to want to do better.
    Not all women want a dude that works at subway though.Only a small percentage.

  • Mr. LeBrick James

    The dude almost always apologizes profusely after the first time (even with tears), and it seems most women will get all soft-hearted and forgive him.
    But that just opens the door for him to do it a second and third time, etc. And then you have a vicious cycle that's hard to get out of.

  • Doink_Ahanahue

    1) I hope she thought to call authorities and press charges BEFORE thinking to post to SM
    2) Why post to SM, most "followers" of celebrities are just looking for an opportunity to be negative.
    3) I hope she LEAVES and gets help

  • MookieFly

    Or downlow and need to keep the family image. Conflicted emotions got them always ready to pop off on somebody

  • jazzysmith12

    But those men are in the few percentile. Most black men aren't rich.I'm talking about a majority because our beautiful black queens don't need to be getting beat up or dead by a nicca!!

  • Doink_Ahanahue

    Though, as a man, I can never condone putting your hands on a woman this statement is SO TRUE! "provoking as well. Yes, screaming in a man's face or slapping him, or even punching him will cause him to react."
    Men AND Women need to remember that you can't go provoking or inciting violence (not saying she did) by action or words. When you attack physically or even emotionally things that are of utmost importance to the other person, it can cause them to lose it.

  • Scromes1212

    We all start somewhere. Why not focus on making him better instead of bringing him down while he on his journey. Obama was at community meetings with cheap suits and hard bottoms. Who would have thought 15 years later he would be president. JS

  • A D N

    Can a woman cause a man to become violent? Or is it learned behavior from watching parents resolve conflict? I'm curious.

  • Scromes1212

    Again, queens need to focus on building that man up not tearing him down.

  • Scromes1212

    Verbal abuse seems to only matter if your a female.

  • jazzysmith12

    Note:I said working a subway for 10 years.I didn't say working at subway for 2 or 3 years.If you working a subway for 10 years as a MAN, you need to reevaluate your life goals.

  • Mr. LeBrick James

    I'm no expert, but I don't think a woman can cause a man to become violent. My guess is, either that violent nature is in you or it isn't.

  • Scromes1212

    She absolutly can.

  • A D N

    I agree, as a woman. There should be a new message designated to domestic violence. No one should experience verbal abuse, physical abuse or mental abuse! Period! I absolutely hate to see a man emasculated by a woman. I watched my aunts literally tear good men down, as if he had to be Superman to survive the things put through.

  • Doink_Ahanahue

    Yet, from what I see it seems to much more often come from the woman.

    People need to work on controlling emotions and working toward solutions. Bullying happens in marriage and relationships as much or more than in schools. By naming it "pettiness" it has been reduced to being acceptable... SMH

  • jazzysmith12

    I'm around both.Most men only think about controlling a woman or how much they have to put out "money for bill" to keep her happy,but most want admit it.It's a sad world we live in Amerikkka.

  • Scromes1212

    That's the way our people think smh how long you think it takes to save your money up and build your credit so you can get your own subway? 4 years? That's pipe dreams. 10 to 20 years is a realistic goal if you want to be self employed.

  • A D N

    I am advocating a new message. I have to agree that women, especially the last two generations, have become so abusive verbally and physically. I am assuming because gender roles have switched which empowered a female to "run" things, and the frustration of being the one or only one in charged.

  • A D N

    Maybe he's happy at Subway lol. Maybe he loves his job of making people happy with the sandwiches he makes lol.

  • jazzysmith12

    you come out the womb with good credit unless a Shanequia got the lights turned on in your name when you was 12.You don't USE YOUR MONEY--never use your own money to start a business.You put your money or property up as collateral.The bank will give you the business loan

  • Genia

    My son had been dating a young lady for sometime now. Now, due to a bad experience with a college girlfriend, i had made a decision, good, bad or indifferent, i was not going to become invested in any girl my son dated. Which meant i was not going to offer any opinion. My daughter did not like this girl, a few family members didn't care for her, my son's close circle of friends, whom he had grown up with and gone to college with did not like her. I kept my mouth shut. When they moved in together, I kept my mouth shut. When he began making statements about breaking up with her i kept my mouth shut. This past Easter my son and daughter came down to ATL to visit. There first night, siting around the table, though i was kinda of glad i had my kids to myself, i asked why the young lady had not come to ATL with them. My son, says i'll tell you later. I have something i have to tell you. He seemed really serious when he said it, so i didn't pry. I decided i would wait for him to share it. Later on when i was alone with my daughter, i asked her, what was up, to which she replied, "He will need to tell you himself mom, because it's pretty serious"....so i wait it out. The next day we are enjoying dinner, sitting around the dinning room table laughing and joking...and we come to the topic of the young lady....my son then begans to share that the situation with the girl has come to an end...and that he is moving out when he returns home...he then shares that their fights were very volatile and they in fact had become the spectacle couple in the neighborhood, due to the ruckus their arguments would cause. He said there were multiple nights he had to wake his closest friend out of bed, to come get him. That the running joke within his circle, was he was a domestic violence victim. He said one of his friends pulled him to the side and asked him if he was holding on because he needed a place to stay and offered him a room. He said he had to take his work laptop to be repaired on more than one occasion because she had tossed it off their balcony, and it was becoming a thing.....He said their arguments could last for hours.....because this young woman had no line that she would not cross. He said the final straw, One day they had been arguing for hours...he said he finally just shut up and stopped participating in the argument....he said he just sat down on the couch and picked up is game controller to tune her out....he said this only pissed her off more....he said he was going to leave...but by this time it was 3am, he had a few more hours before work and that the effort to leave was too much...so he decided he would just not come home from work, but for the moment he would just stay there......he said she then went to the work laptop...and held it above her head saying to him...If you don't talk to me or if you don't leave this laptop is leaving out this window...He said he told her to not do that...he told her he didn't want to talk anymore and that he was not going to leave at that moment, but that he would take soem of his things with him to work and leave for a couple of days...the young lady threw the laptop off the balcony which is now the fourth time....My son in this moment, paused in his story...he could not look at me....he began to get emotional....in my heart i knew what he was going to say, and my heart began to pound. He said, Mom, i am so sorry, but i blacked out....he said it was out of body, he said he could not stop himself, and it was like looking at someone else....i'll spare you the details...but he said when he came to himself, he was in the bathroom on the floor crying. He said he stayed in that bathroom, and waited for what he anticipated to believe would be police officers coming to arrest him. He said every sound, would make him pause, because he just knew he would be arrested and it would not matter about the story, because she's a girl.....i say this to say, (and not to imply that it's the case her), but women have to be taught to not push a man to his limits...we can't teach our boys to not fight girls and not teach our girls to not fight our boys...this is a horrific double standard.....as a mother of a son, it horrifies me. Am i to be a mother of an abuser, a mother of an abused man, a mother of an inmate or a mother of a murdered son?

  • V Dubb

    Turn his ass in and get some counseling boo. I hate this for anyone. #pleasedontstay

  • V Dubb

    All of that and more

  • V Dubb

    Yes indeed

  • jazzysmith12

    All you need is good credit and a stable source of income for 3 to 4 years.The government has all types of small business programs for minorities and first time business owners.
    MOST young men mess up in their 20s chasing women.Women cost money to date.I advise all young men if you want to own a Krispy Kream or a Dunkin doughnuts--they seem to be recession proof--then you need to stay away from women in your 20s.
    Yes it's hard but when you are 35 and a millionaire you will be thinking yourself.No expensive cars and shoes either.

  • Scromes1212

    Where you get that lol from some book? You can use your money for whatever you want. If we wait on banks to give us money we don't have a chance. Before banks white folks pooled there money and created America. They love to make us slaves to institutions lol but I get your point.

  • Peter Piper ATL

    Sandra, that's very sweet of you to have Shekinah's back. But if my significant other were to clunk me upside the hide, I think Instagram would be the last place I'd seek refuge.

    What did she think was gonna happen lol? OF COURSE they were gonna clown her. Chile, here you are sitting your big ass up on a computer when you NEED to be trying to locate an ice pack and 911.

  • jazzysmith12

    But why would you use your own money when you can use the bank's money.Most small businesses fail in the first year.If you use your own money and your business fail--that money is gone bye bye.If you use the banks money and fail you only have to pay the loan back or file for bankruptcy.

  • Mr. LeBrick James

    Not really. A man making solid money with a decent career doesn't want to jeopardize that by getting in trouble with law. A broke, hood negro with nothing going on has nothing to lose, so his mindset is totally different.

  • jazzysmith12

    lol,life goals, work a subway for 10 to 20 years--really.What can your possibly leave your kids when you die--a subway sandwich.

  • jazzysmith12

    We as black people need to start thinking about leaving our kids wealth behind so they won't have to work for these cave Neanderthal devils

  • Mmm…Okay

    I cannot speak to every relationship that is volatile but I can say when I was younger I had a relationship where I was the aggressor. I pushed and pushed, nagged and argued until he beat the sh*t out of me. I don't know why I did it, why I didn't shut up and it's not to say I deserved what I got but I damn sure knew why I got it. That was a wake up call for me, I got help for my family issues
    and counseling for my anger issues. Again, every situation is different, I am not saying who is right or wrong I just know for me I was dead ass wrong.

  • NicoleZee

    I went through this many years ago and survived. I hope Shekinah has his sorry ass locked all the way up. She should have shot him! I ABSOLUTELY HATE SOCIAL MEDIA! Social media should be reserved for people promoting businesses and products, otherwise it's senseless. I am much happier now that I don't have any pages like Facebook or Twitter. I couldn't deal with the phony and nosy people. People need to get off the computer and get a hobby, trust me, it works!!! I never really watched Tiny's show, but Shekinah seems like such a sweet lady in interviews. All the best to her.

  • A rock in a weary land

    So go to social media then delete it then get on radio talking about it. WHEN DO WE HEAR HE HAS BEEN ARRESTED? ...OR YOUR UNCLE WENT OVER AND HANDLED IT?!? We are in2017! So many opportunities for EVERYTHING! Hope you get the self esteem needed to live safely.

  • jazzysmith12

    I agree with you 100% but there should also be a cutoff limit.If he still working a subway after 5 years,than he's probably going to be there another 5.You women need to get in you men's business and evaluate his progress.Men slack off. Keep him focus.A nicca shouldn't be playing the xbox 5 hours a day.

  • i troll it like i see it

    Did she call the police and get the restraining order like she did with Sabrina? This is someone who actually did put their hands in her so it's time to take it very serious not get on social media. Where are the authorities.

  • NicoleZee

    Most victims of abuse try to hide the abuse initially anyway. I just hopes she has him arrested and gets some therapy after this mess. I'm not a fan of social media, it's a negative environment of people that need to get a life and a hobby. Now you have people blaming her for what HE did!!! It's sickening. I just want women to be stronger and leave these sorry gutter trash sewer trash dudes alone. Just BE BY YOURSELF if you can't find anyone decent. You'll appreciate that decision later when you have inner peace.

  • jazzysmith12

    Exactly.think you and SOME black women need to get out of this mindset:a broke thug nicca will treat me right. If he really loves you, than he will try to better himself in order to build a strong foundation with you.

  • Canary Red™

    Lord Jesus bless ur heart and ur sons heart as well. Praying for him.
    I feel you sis, one of my concerns is not my sons but women who like to put their hands on men and push them to a breaking point. So scary. I'm not for a man putting his hands on a woman by any means but there are women out here who like to fight, stab, destroy their clothes etc...I plead the blood my boys don't run into those types and I plead they don't provoke each other. Scary!!!!

  • Scromes1212

    I'm a man but I get your point.

  • LibraGirlonly

    NOone can cause you to be violent but yourself. You have to have self control.

  • http://www.mylifeinlame.com/?m=1 Kimberly

    Somebody commented under the pic and said "fight back sis!" I hollered! ???

  • NicoleZee

    Good advice Jazzy, but wealthy men beat women too. Domestic violence is still a stigma today, just like HIV, unemployment, etc. But yes, I agree with the broke ass dude thing. I think a lot of women feel sorry for certain dudes, so they may try to help or keep them around in some way. It's just sad. I've just learned to say no. I've helped so many people out in the past and get little to nothing in return but grief. And these sorry ass grown men need to just stay sorry in the gutter instead of using women for sex and money. Disgusting. But people do what we allow. I'm just sick of sorry dudes. No way in hell will I allow my son to become a loser, user, and abuser!

  • Scromes1212

    I disagree brother. It all stems from your childhood and your environment. In my humble opinion.

  • hottlanta

    Just like Vanzant had to tell Neffi, you supposed to be coming for help and you on Facebook thanking your glam squad. Had to get on the internet.

  • Doink_Ahanahue

    True, so many women (and men) have mommy or daddy issues they have never worked through and it comes out in their adult lives by the men or women they seek, how they act in those relationships and what they accept (read: settle for) in them as well.

  • Scromes1212

    Because the bank doesn't give us loans lol it's simple. And it's facts.

  • Passion

    Yep, my friend is High ranking in the army and her ex has a good position at a cell company. He was the sweetest man always respectful and loving. He became absolutely crazy and they fought, one night she wouldn't have sex with him and he pulled a gun on her.
    She ran out the house and came to my place and he followed her. After that I could no longer deal with it because I didn't want to get hurt in the process. My place was like the "heartbreak hotel" for her. Months later they bought another house together! I was confused why she went into more debt with this abusive man! That was her second abusive marriage.

  • NicoleZee

    My son's father is Mexican and he used to tell me that he doesn't understand why anyone would date a Black guy since most of them are broke. He was the type who has been working and making money since childhood. Hell, he cursed me out when he found out the type of sorry broke dudes that I had been with in the past! Turns, out he was just as sorry (liar, cheater, manipulator, deadbeat dad), he just has a job and is able to provide for his lady, doesn't make him better than anyone.

  • hottlanta

    What is he doing to build himself up. It is not our job to make someone feel good about themselves. I will show him that I appreciate him but to have to go on and on 24/7 I am tired. Can't enjoy the relationship because I am down trying to build him up. Birds kick their chicks out of the nest so that they will learn to fly on their own. If human is suppose to be the better species brotha gotta do things on his own. You do all of that to make him feel so good about himself then he thinks he is betta than you and leave you for someone else.

  • jazzysmith12

    Exactly and then these niccas have the audacity to cheat on you when you have helped him come up.

  • hottlanta

    Some people like to fight and have makeup sex. To them that is passionate to say "I'm sorry baby (kiss kiss), I won't do it anymore.

  • jazzysmith12

    oh ok sorry dude

  • NicoleZee

    Um no. People need to build themselves up. Not trying to make this a race thing, but I have never been with a White guy, for example, that needed motivation from me or anything really. But I see that a lot with Black men where they seek validation from a woman and I don't get it. I don't need someone to tell me I'm beautiful everyday or to motivate me because I know who I am and know how to give myself a push when needed. I guess some people are just different as far as what they need from someone.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Let us look at it from all sides and attempt to get the entire picture.

  • Genia

    Thank you. My heart broke not just for my son,but for the young woman as well. I hope both sides learned a lesson. I pray that no one holds on to the trauma of this experience. We are lucky she didn't press charges. Because there is no part of his story the law would have seen as justifiable. Society wouldn't have seen it as justifiable. he is the man and she is the woman...and we don't tend to see Woman as the abusers in these cases. I am grateful they are going separate ways...

  • Genia

    wow. thank you for your truth. How honest of you.

  • NicoleZee

    Very true. We are all very flawed and will continue to make mistakes until we leave this Earth, or at least I know I will. I will always be a work in progress. I just try to remember that we are all human, no one better than the next. People have so many secrets and yet they work overtime trying to get the world to believe that they are perfect. Very sad. Perfection is boring anyway.

  • hottlanta

    You gotta be kidding How many times have I seen/have been with brothers who ride around in their fancy clothes/cars, fancy jobs and you get to their home and they sleeping on the floor with a futon cushion has no money in the bank because he is tooo busy fronting. Whereas you met the dude who works at Subway drive a nice car, has a nice house full of furniture, travels the world has money in the bank because he ain't trying to impress no one. I can build with the Subway guy. I ain't rich but I live betta than a lot of people who makes more money than I do. My income doesn't determine my lifestyle.

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    I almost lol at my desk just now folks don't give a damn about what you going through these days I tell ya ?

  • NicoleZee

    If there are any genuine good men left, then they must be on other planets!! I certainly have never met one. What is going on with the world??? I guess people have to settle for what they can find eventually, if they can't find a better person Sad. Just sad.

  • Ryan

    That's sad. But the first thing she should've done was call the cops, not go on social media looking for attention. He could be out on the streets beating someone else right now.

  • Canary Red™

    Yes??...sounds like he has a understanding and compassionate mother - he will be just fine. The situation worked out for both parties, they both learned lessons. Sometimes events like these are isolated and do not happen again. ??

  • Kimberly Vontrese

    # Black Kangz

  • Youshockedme

    No sympathy from me...if the first thing you do is get on social media then you aren't hurt physically your ego is just bruised ....people really out here getting beat to a pulp and they are dying so I'm not for these social media games

  • jazzysmith12

    True.The absentee of good fathers have caused a lot of this.A good father can teach a boy how to have morals and values ,and how to treat a woman the right way.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    It isn't logical to me, to think that someone gave their belongings away because one day, in the future they would have an appeal that might work in their favor. That would be a sign to me.

  • jazzysmith12

    But you won't be traveling too far on a Subway salary. lol
    Probably to The Aquarium and back.

  • NicoleZee

    I think I've had enough of Iyanla. She often tears people down to try and build them up. Doesn't work that way. And she has not done the academic and field work to really know what she is talking about. At least Dr. Phil went to school for this. I also have a psychology degree. If Iyanla had talked to me the way she talked to Neffe, I would have showed her that I was right about hood like she said Neffe was and put her ass in the trauma unit at Grady. Sickening. If you pay attention to her mannerisms, she has an attitude and she treats women much worse than she treats the men that come on her show. She was trying to coddle Shelby, Neffe's husband, but didn't do the same with Neffe. Neffe is a good one, call me out of my name to my face one good time, I'll be serving life in prison if the person doesn't survive my wrath! FOH!

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    Smh I really don't know what to say!!! I wonder if this is that same guy that released that video of her acting crazy and eating like she ain't ate in five years looking big and bloated and her admitting she pops pills? People went in on her because they said how she posting pics were she look small promoting flat tummy tea but in that video she was big as a house shortly after that video she went and had lipo done ? These folks are clowns and they play themselves if only they knew to just sit down

  • Justlooknout

    He looks gay.

    Ladies leave them men alone, if that got nothing for you but a good dyck and side of knuckle. LEAVE THEM FUGG ALONE.

    Women out here getting pimped by low life.

    Hope she gets her self together, prayers and hugs to her.

  • jazzysmith12

    However, I do agree with you.I think that black women need to start holding their man accountable for his career goals.Most men will go to work come home and do him--what he wants to do.It's about sacrifice.

    If you sisters keep letting these brothers get away with it,then they will.
    Hold them to a higher standard--"get yo arz off the xbox and go study"

  • Justlooknout

    Morning Doll, Which is why the FDA has or that powers that be said STOP peddling that mess unless you telling folks you got paid and how much.

    But all of that don't matter if he beating her. : (

  • NicoleZee

    And just to add, Most of these TV advice people are frauds. Ain't no way in hell a REAL AND LICENSED AND ACTIVELY PRACTICING therapist would ever talk to a client that way. Their license would be revoked. Iyanla is just a life coach and pretends to help people for fame and exposure. Anyone that needs psychological or psychiatric treatment needs to seek help from a qualified and licensed professional. They have to uphold an ethical standard of doing no harm when they help people and you never speak to a client the way Iyanla does, which is why she is NOT a therapist.

  • hottlanta

    Please Dr. Phil is a cad. He talks a lot of smack because he knows he has security in the back. Vanzant is right Neffie loves drama. Her husband when he met her never said she had to do anything and she didn't. She feel in love with what he did for her like we do. But something inside of her should click I need to do the same for him. Then they lose their home because of her drama. But when a man says he rather die than come home to you. that is a lot right there.

  • jazzysmith12

    True.The absence of the father in the household has caused this.I have seen multiple times where the mom will let their sons get away with murder--smoking pot in high school,having s!x in high school.
    I think black women are too soft on their sons but hard on their girls.They need to be hard on both.

  • jazzysmith12

    If you have collateral--that money you saved up--they will give you the loan as long as your credit is clean.

  • hottlanta

    They do refer them to those same services, especially Debra Thomas which episode broke my heart but some choose not to go.

  • NicoleZee

    I know Dr. Phil isn't right about everything, but I like that he went and did the work to get the degree. I just prefer real and educated therapists, not phony ones.

  • 2brefrank

    Case and point why I don't have Social Media accounts. Folks are ruthless and some people are too vulnerable to the net...releasing all their personal business..Nevertheless, i pray she's okay.

  • Shira Harding-James

    She will be back!!

  • Renee26

    DV is never ok whether it's a male or female doing the abusing....I'm a survivor of DV and when I got beat up I was embarrassed and didn't want to be seen by anybody; hell I barely could stand to look in the mirror. I understand that not all people handle issues the same but I truly think that people who post pics laid up in the hospital or of them crying etc. are attention seeking. Some people like drama and post stuff like this for likes and fake support from their social media friends...it doesn't change the fact that something happened. I hope she gets the help she needs and learns to avoid the type of guys who think this is normal.

  • hottlanta

    This clerical worker travels take her farther than the VP of my department and they always get pissed when I come back from vacation. Don't hate me because I go to Madrid an take a train ride to Barcelona in a week and you always go to Myrtle Beach. When I first started my job and I say I am going on vacation it was a laughing joke like she ain't really going she is talking smack. Then when I got back to work they wanted to see pictures because they were trying to determine that I was the lowest paid person in the department and I couldn't possibly have a passport going overseas. I shown them the pictures and the laughter stopped. Then they wanna know who paid for my vacation. Like I said my income doesn't determine my lifestyle. They don't laugh no more.

  • Renee26

    I was glad Neffe didn't react the way you just described...because that would mean she didn't really want to change her ways. Iyanla was wrong though....I didn't like how she was treating Shelby like he was a baby and putting his head in her bosoms "comforting" him. It did come off on an attack....but at the same time Neffe needs to be attacked for dogging out that "good" dude.

  • shun king

    I got a friend that used to deal with her that chick can get real rude

  • Renee26

    when a man says he rather die than come home to you. that is a lot right there.

    Whooo ain't it though...but Neffe just turned her head like what he said was minor

  • Renee26

    I bet money she did....but lost because a man is typically stronger than a female

  • Renee26

    Sabrina?? Care to indulge me...I'm in the dark

  • Shira Harding-James

    I'm sorry that this has happened to her, I really am, however if your first thought was to jump on social media with this, then you have more issues then just domestic violence. After you report it and he's persecuted and you begin to heal become a spokesperson for domestic abuse in your community. Start a foundation or some type of charity that combats domestic violence. Social media sometimes is the worse outlet for those seeking attention, with addictive personalities, lack of impulse, and the obsessive need to post.

  • jazzysmith12

    I agree but you don't make 10 bucks an hour either.If you save up,you can go to China and back.

  • Renee26

    Thanks for sharing...I'm sorry your son had to go through that. I think we must constantly remind people that it's ok to walk away and leave at the FIRST sign of crazy. Too often we ignore warning signs and then it turns into something dramatic when we get fed up. Hopefully next time your son will realize a girl is no good for him when NONE of his inner circle accept her.

  • Quitedeliteful

    leave them men alone, if thay got nothing for you but a good dyck and side of knuckle
    ============================= Now this is tha TRUTH - and you right about him seeming a little sweet...

  • Renee26

    More men need to call the police when a woman crosses that line...and the next step is to leave her azz..that's the only reaction there should be (only in a perfect world)

  • Quitedeliteful

    LOLLOLLOLOLOL!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Rayne

    I'm glad I was knowledgeable enough back then to know this.

  • hotntot95

    Terrible news. ..But social media is no place for this.

  • Quitedeliteful

    I don't know what's wrong but something surely isn't right. She says this man whooped her but has time to post it on social media?!?!? If this is true I hope she gets a restraining order and then takes sometime out for herself just to reflect and heal. Although maybe she feels that posting her business and her busted face on social media is healing...

  • A D N

    I agree. That's a new way to reacting but the best. Men don't want to seem like they aren't in control of their woman and neef another person to resolve a conflict. He's going to have to learn to protect himself too.

  • MistaO

    Tired of all you hos, male and female on stoopid social media...idiots!

  • Taylordanes

    agreed she is not qualified in any sense...

  • Taylordanes

    THIS ... which is why I have issue with this new wave of life coaches that have no formal education,,..... or any for that matter

  • MistaO

    Most of yall pick halfway gay dudes anyways, because you know that no real man would sit for the bs most of yall bring...js

  • reggie moore

    Dude on the video spoke some true sh!t.but then he ruined it by calling her she ki nah!

  • Ms. Cree

    She is soooooo talented, but a product of her environment. She glorifies ratchet shit. I pray she learns to love herself more then this fake fame she is getting and fake love she is receiving from people. She is on a road to destruction and I wish she had real friends to put her ass in check and throw her in rehab

  • NicoleZee

    Good dude??? Naw. Ain't no man that says he loves me go have me and my children living in a hotel, on somebody's couch, or in the street no matter the reason. It's probably a good thing that those two are getting divorced. Neffe needs to focus on herself and raising her army of kids, and dealing with her past traumas, and Shelby needs to do the same. Maybe these two were addicted to each other or what Dr. Drew calls a love addiction. And years ago, I heard a lot of people say that he was a sorry dude anyway. But they picked each other. It takes years to unravel who someone really is. I'm wondering where Keyshia Cole stands in all of this and if she offered to help them until they could find another place. I just hate to see kids in a bad living situation or going without. It's just sad because they are innocent kids that get mixed up in unnecessary drama.

  • Taylordanes

    praying for you and your family.... I can only hope people will eventually be mature enough to know when to stop and walk away from one another....

  • NicoleZee

    I've heard people say that she acts too "hood" or whatever they define that as and I don't think T.I. cares for her either. Although T.I. shouldn't throw stones at anybody, especially when he is from the streets as well. As Dr. Phil says, you can put lipstick on a pig, but it's still a pig; I'm referring to T.I., not Shekinah. She seems sweet, but I haven't followed her like many people. I just know that she is Tiny's bestie and she was on their show.

  • NicoleZee

    Exactly. Women will make a fool out of themselves for some good dick. I know we all have needs, but if that's all a man can give you and he doesn't give two shits about you, then you are basically a free hooker. Been there, done that countless times; it got me nowhere and I was still broke and looking stupid afterwards!!! But yet we judge hookers??? WTF??? I don't condone what they do, but at least they get compensated for it and can keep the damn lights on!

  • We Can Do This

    Right. At least not an alpha male.

  • NicoleZee

    She's disgusting inside and out. She seems to have an attitude towards Black women, but yet she is Black and a woman. I don't get these types of people. You hate yourself so you mistreat your own race and/or gender?? What kind of mess is that??? I just wasn't raised that way. I don't understand why women treat each other so horribly. It's sad to watch. We never support each other, just constant hate and jealousy over nonsense. If one woman can be great and look great, then we all can. Men will continue to dominate until we learn to support each other and stick together. Self-hate and mental illness is ruling the world right now. Just sad.

  • Ms. Cree

    Yes she is all about the streets and reppin' her hood. At one point her talents and ambition out shined that hood ish.... Now not so much. She needs Jesus & Rehab ASAP! Get all them folks from round her that leechin' from when she had a reality show. Now that ish ain't sweet in the Harris Palace, she can no longer lean on Tiny for financial direction and stability. I pray she get it together soon cause she is very talented. I think she is depressed and clouded by all those pills and potions she consumes.

  • Taylordanes

    All of this! I never watch her... I would rather read books and meditate on my own than take these quacks advice....yeah her attitude alone... no sympathy just blame..... I come from a family of doctors and psychologist so I can just see many things arent right,,,

  • Justlooknout

    iono judge hookers It's hard in dem streets. ask Bren

    But yes to everything else you said.

  • i troll it like i see it

    Was that not the girl's name who was threatening her on Instagram and forced her to get a restraining order? I may be wrong on her name..

  • hottlanta

    Neffie is grown it is not Keisha's problem. People kill me with that mess looking for the one with the most money to help people ot. I never looked for nobody but me to take care of me and my kids. They lost their home because Neffi was ratchet, got into a fight and folks told them to leave. Keisha helped them as long as she could, Now it is time for grown folks to take care of themselves.

  • ??Tommys_Female_Doppelganger??

    Cotdamn! He put them paws and them claws on her.. Why would she even post this?? She needs a new man in her life and to let that piece of shat go ASAP!!

  • KLo

    sad. have that n**** arrested

  • Genia

    YES, first sign of Crazy...but i wonder if men often see the first signs of CRAZY as CUTE, specifically in the beginning. And yes, there were warning signs for this girl. My daughter picked up on it immediately and distanced herself. People just said, oh that's just symone being protective of her older brother...My uncle picked up on it too, and they said he was just old and didn't understand young people...His friends saw the signs...and it's like my son wanted to prove them wrong....in the end...they had her pegged. She was an only child and came from a privileged family, she was use to having her way.

  • BrownSuga

    I hope she report the abuse to authorities and stay away from the losers

  • StoneColdLady

    Jeffery has called and been called worse! Why did she take offense THIS time more than likely because it was from someone who she knows isn't "hood" sometimes you NEED the hard truth and that is what she needed at the time; now I may have to come back and rub you down NIT you need this truth from someone who isn't afraid to tell you. Degrees or mot

  • Desiree Edwards

    we need pookie and ray ray to come and put in some work....

  • hottlanta

    Yep some of us need the hard truth.

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    Yea but on that video he said she was hitting him and going off on him about his phone this was a few months back tho. I don't condone hitting folks men or women but if you hit me I'm gone hit you back and if I hit you man or woman I expect you gone hit my ass back I just better brace myself, bob and weave or ruunnnnnn if I know I can't win ?

  • NicoleZee

    I get what you're saying and you are absolutely right. However, I only wondered about Keyshia because there are kids involved. I could never mistreat a child because they have questionable or dumb parents. I see people in really bad situations with kids and I feel sorry for the kids involved because they didn't ask to be here. My life isn't perfect either. If something were to happen to me, I would like to hope that someone would look after my baby son and not take things out on him or punish him for whatever is going on with me.

  • NicoleZee

    I'm not in that lifestyle, it is very dangerous, But if a woman is going to sleep around and lay on her back with a sorry dude, at least get something out of it! Geeeesh! I wish I would have told myself that early on, my net worth would be a lot higher! LOL! I'm making jokes, but it really is not funny for people to keep damaging their lives with a fool. BE BY YOURSELF is what I tell people. Take yourself out, take a trip across the world alone or anywhere for that matter, and get to know you. If it's meant for you to be with the right person, they will find you. But when you constantly look and become desperate, nothing good can come from that. And furthermore......all of these so called hookers need to go to business school and just open up their own business for goodness sakes! They know how to sell, they just need to find an actual product and not a body part!!!

  • lovelygamour

    What is up with all this "exposing" for no reason. When people say, "i'm just exposing" that lets me know they have nothing of value. Someone texts you they like you - person gets into arguement with someone else 8 months later- first person post text messages and makes up bs about exposing. Everyone get real. If she wants to post the photos she can but as a society we think the internet is our friend. Its not. If I had an instagram I wouldve asked "what you do?" thats not what anyone needs.
    Quit exposing.
    Cant go to a club without sad people videotapping everyone hoping to go viral. Sad.

  • lovelygamour

    On second though maybe her posting it was her way of documenting it and not going to the cops. Like just incase I showed everyone but im not going to take it father.

  • jessica

    People put way too much of their lives on social media. I hate this happened to her but why post this? Unless I planned to be the face of domestic violence the public doesn't need to know what's going on.

  • Michelle

    And this online because?.....

  • Nala Shakur

    Or jus call the police n file a report OR get ur uncle, cousins, brothers, male friends on the line...not sure why u asking for prayers...or post the pic of the bum tht put hands on u if ur intension was to expose it... jus my opinion

  • http://www.teesandcases.com/ Rick [Tees and Cases]

    I tell ya... Just put yourself out there for the pile on.

    What was she expecting to be done by posting this online?

  • http://ivyleaguelove.tumblr.com/ Applebootay

    Saying it was for attention is not necessarily a bad thing and YES that's exactly what social media is for...To bring awareness .....attention to whatever it is you want people to see, hear, or know... . it doesn't have to be negative...people post fights and BS, etc..all day long...and.not too long ago SR posted the pic of that girl that got beat up for sleeping around with people's boyfriends and no one said she was doing it for attention. WE don't know if she didn't follow all the necessary steps to bring justice to her accused...

  • JerseyMom

    All I want to know is whether or not she has pressed charges against the perpetrator and has he been arrested?

  • Keekz

    NOTE TO ALL: Most if not all of your followers dont give a damn about you! Hell w/posting on social media. Call your daddy, uncles, and cousins to woop his azz. Girl bye

  • Psychic Lulu

    Not condoning this at all but I tell these young girls all the time. Keep your hands to yourself. A man can only take so much. Put your hands on him and catch him off guard and wind up sitting in a corner like a church mouse.

  • Psychic Lulu

    No because it was self defense and she loves him. Smh.

  • Jussjess25

    Hello

  • Luci Lu

    Nobody "deserves" to be physically abused.....period.

  • Libralovejustice

    Smh get outttt