Facet

Instagram model photographer Suliman Facet Hasan sparked controversy on social media when he vowed to stop taking photos of black women who wear lace front wigs in 2018.

Facet urged black women to embrace their beauty by removing their lace front wigs.

In a Snapchat video on Wednesday, a white female friend told Facet that lace fronts are a "sign of insecurity" and black women should grow their own hair by eating more vegetables and drinking more water.

"I think that [black] women should embrace their natural beauty... and I think lace fronts are a sign of insecurity," the woman told Facet.

"What are they insecure about?" Facet asked.

The woman went on to say that lace front wigs are expensive and that all the money women spend on lace front wigs can be "invested into organic, natural remedies" to grow their own hair.

"Buy some fruit, buy some vegetables, buy some Biotin," said the woman. She went on to say black women "are triggered" by what Facet said because they're so insecure about their hair and they're taking what Facet says as an insult when what he's really saying is "Embrace natural beauty".

This video exemplifies what some white women think about black women who wear lace front wigs: that black women are "insecure" about the texture or length of our hair.

What do you think? Watch the videos below.

 

 

  • Noirluv45

    Really? So this White woman really cares about what we wear on our head? Bogus. Why don't they start with bleaching their hair blond. That's the sign of insecurity.

    P.S. Why do we give a rat's ass about what they think?

  • Noirluv45

    I'm not going to even watch the video.

  • KLo

    I don't give 2 F**** what whites has to say or a BAN. Perhaps, white women wear hair extensions and wigs because they're insecure and should grow their own hair? That being said, a BAN can never tell me how I should look or what I should stop doing . I suggest y'all stop robbing people and get a job (GTFOH)https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/29e0b82b5d7b062b2a1c01020c29d961be6d103e3f57fbcfa432cb92a0d57878.gif .

  • Karen Brady

    No interest in watching video but I will say this - Shut up white woman.

  • Rayne

    Chile please. We wear wigs and weaves to protect our natural hair. Some of us wear it as a vanity thing too, but ion need no white nothing to validate anything about me. Worry about why most of y’all breath stinks, not bathing until the weekend, head lice, hand washing after using the restroom, only using salt and pepper to season chicken and a whole host of crap. Girl please. ?

  • Kanyade

    everybody trying to police black womens’ bodies, hair, skin, teeth, mucus, air, etc. smh.

  • Noirluv45

    Sandra, instead of putting up posts like this, how about a post on Eric Garner's daughter who had a heart attack, and who they are saying is brain dead with no hope of recovery. That's more worthy than this nonsense. JMO.

  • tintin

    i think this honkey should shut up and mind her own business

  • SpillyNillie

    I think that becky should have several seats. Why the hell is she worried about Black women and what the fug they choose to wear atop their heads.

  • Keisha Hannah

    Ok wigs have been worn since the beginning of time what is the big deal.

  • RoniV

    This coming from the same group that kiss dogs in the mouth, risk skin cancer for a little color, add extensions (WEAVE), and inject poisons in their faces just to look normal? No Merit here......Fluck her and him.

  • klwbaby

    She can go and find a rusty nail and twirl on it. She has no idea about the struggle black women go through with our hair.

  • laidbackgal4real

    So who cares about her opinion... we black women do what we want with our hair weaves lacefronts braids natural etc ...we always stay in people mouth damn .. what do she say about white women who have fake body parts and lace fronts because we are not the only ones .. are they insecure as well ..smh she seems thirsty she was ready to jump on the bandwagon with this dude ??

  • laidbackgal4real

    For real tho .. she hatin that’s all ?

  • Angela Winbush

    I get what Becky tryna explain BUT I would prefer hearing this conversation from a positive Black Women's Forum. Becky should INSTEAD stay focused on them white female teachers not FUCKN her son!!!
    Next Callllllllller!!!!

  • shun king

    black teachers doing it also

  • 2telldatruth

    Does that apply to the white women too?

  • shun king

    Triggered lol

  • Breitbart_Savior

    1. Most blondes are not blonde.... spend thousands a year on hair dye.

    2. What about the billions white women spend EACH YEAR on plastic surgery.

    !!3!! Who cares what a fake-blond white woman and a seemingly metro(or homo)sexual think. They're not even in the market for black women so I'm sure black women could not care less.

    But I agree...get rid of them shits! You see what it did to Countess Vaugn

  • BeUtFullSoul

    Sooooo "they" DON'T Wear lace fronts???!!!! ...AND what are "they" INSECURE about when "they" get TANNED?!

  • Soda

    What do they mean "a new trend?" Lace fronts were the trend, natural hair is not new. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/b96d03c80975ec34c3be6a51f7de6bcb0e543e8f29406c450b8895159543718b.gif

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    "What do you think?"
    _________________

    i believe the majority of Us DGAF about her opinion.... she should go troll the Kardashians if she's so worried about women who need to be "growing their own" ...there's not a white woman alive who can make me feel insecure about anything. fugg them hairy lipped, scaly, stankin, INSECURE bitches. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/89e8bff840f7b066dba9a0e9e744eb581aafdea92dc9efeb4f60cc49e5cd7ad9.gif

  • WhatDidIDoNow

    Didn’t watch the video. The statement has truth to it. Be happy with your natural hair my queens

  • countrygal

    First and foremost, a white woman can’t tell me SHAT about MY BLACK AZZ HAIR. Opinions are like buttholes. Everyone has one and they’re all full of shat. Good day

  • Blaque Mahogany

    This is one of the times I'm going to ignore the message (literally not even read it) because of the messenger. Yt women literally have no insight on my culture or our proclivities.

    If you want to post something that a black woman said about weaves and whatnot, I will discuss.

    Until then,do y'all have any New Year's Resolutions?

  • Phillybruh

    Too be fair if this came from a black women she would get dragged aswell. My niece wears one of these things all the way down her back and she has a head full of beautiful hair why she wears it is a mystery and its more than because she can.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!
  • You Could Never

    I said yesterday that black men need to stfu about our hair. Of ALL folks. Imma need them to either ride with us or step tf off. I actually have more of an issue with his ass than Becky. On to her: She done pissed me bc she is ignorant. I ALSO said yesterday that some of us cant grow hair with juices and berries as there are alot of us out here who have medical issues. I have a close friend who is bald in large patches due to medical issue.

    EVERYONE. Shut the fukk up about OUR hair. Im good and mad now.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!
  • You Could Never

    *issue

  • Soda
  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    her granddaddy was prob wearing one when he was tipping down to the slave quarters, tryna look pretty for his fav 'Toby' ...fugg her.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    In that order...

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    believe me when i tell you, they are OBSESSED.

  • Shira Harding-James

    Some white women aren’t?!

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    "only using salt and pepper to season chicken"
    ____________________________
    you kilt my vibe with this mess right here.... don't you see i'm tryna be outraged! https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/bb4264f7d4d7227830d50436ebc02fe52f854ab6633bc6dbb91c04c30c8efcd0.gif

  • 1BlueStar

    My cousin wears lace fronts, sew-ins, you name the faux hair, she got it. Anyway, she has a HEAD FULL of natural hair. She wears the wigs, etc because styling her own hair takes for-ever. Simply put, she's lazy.

  • Phillybruh

    That makes sense

  • ZRoJoTheLezBeyond

    The thing is, white women along with Latinas (women in general) wear wigs and extensions as well in their hair. Does this mean they're insecure? Does this mean they can't wear their own natural hair out either? They act as though black women are the only women in the world who wear wigs. Look at all the Kardashian clan, Kim Z, Dolly Parton, J Lo, I mean I really could go on and on and on but I'm not going to do that. She was ignorant to make that comment.

  • Phillybruh

    No but Black women account for Billions being spent on these things. Not to say the other groups don't spend money but not nearly as much as black women, they teach classes on it.

  • shun king

    -triggered

  • Blaque Mahogany

    sI legit don't even know why y'all are on here explaining yourselves to this bytch. But like someone said below, our men allow these women to think they have the RIGHT to speak on us.

    I refuse to entertain or explain myself to yt people. Seriously.

  • Tbee

    Most women across all nationalities are insecure about something....boobs, butt, hair, skin, etc. Another person's opinion should not make you upset unless deep down you know they're right.

  • 100milesperhour

    Ignore this bish.

  • Noirluv45

    The only problem I have with the money being spent is that it's not going into our community. We are making others wealthy.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    chile who tf IS this dude anyway? "Instagram model photographer" is his claim to fame? dude you not Gordon Parks. you have no problem snapping pics of half-naked young girls, but you draw the line at hair?????????? you sound confused. but it's understandable based on the company you apparently keep. you AND becky can go eat some berries and a ----.

  • Noirluv45

    She might not want to have to deal with her hair everyday. Whatever people do with their hair is their business.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    (and his white friend)

  • ZRoJoTheLezBeyond

    I get that but it never crossed my mind that black women were insecure about their hair because they chose to wear wigs. I always looked at it as a form of changing their hairstyles without damaging their hair or having to cut and color it all the time to different styles.

  • sherri2016

    Lies women do it for style and something diffrent i dont wear fake hair anymore its been about 15 years but never because insecurity its was about style my daughter's have beautiful hair but same its to change up something diffrent

  • Ryan

    First, these are nobodies. Second, this is just trying to throw shade on black women. I know a white vegan woman with hair so thin she looks like the Crypt Keeper. If it don't affect your life then you don't have an excuse to knock it.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!
  • Soda

    Loser.

  • Passion

    White women who wear wigs, get blown up lips, botox and butt injection is secure? Boy bye!

  • Noirluv45

    I believe in free will, and I also believe if people take care of their own yard, they don't have time to worry about someone else's. Maybe it isn't more than "because she can." Why is this such a concern with you or anyone else. People need to quit policing Black women's hair, uteri, and everything else.

  • Noirluv45

    Not only do they have no insight on our culture, they are always trying to hijack it.

  • Noirluv45

    Yep. That's what they do.

  • hottlanta

    She saw the barbershop episode of Coming To America over the Xmas holidays where he wanted a jeri curl. Bless her heart. Water, fruit, berries or biotin don't keep the lice bugs out of her hair and she trying to tell us how to take care of our hair. She talking about length while I am talking about incest repellant. In the words of Jessie Williams, SIT DOWN!!!!!

  • Scromes1212

    Why everybody always so worried about black women's hair? Smh

  • hottlanta

    I remember back in the day going to the black beauty supply store on the weekend was a celebration. They talked to you about a product before you get it and the lines were long. It is like I got up one day and they all disappeared.

  • Phillybruh

    The women in my family have long natural hair, my niece does aswell, which actually looks so much better than the wigs she wears. Its just a mystery as too why she does it when she has healthy long natural hair. So in this instance it seems to be more than because she can. I stay out of her uterus and this for that matter I have never brought to her attention the only person that has is my mother.

  • Noirluv45

    They aren't. It's a ploy. They've been doing this crap since day one.

  • Shannypoo1976

    How about everybody, especially men, keep your opinion to yourself when it comes to women and what they do with their bodies? Choose your mate based on your preference but don't put all women in a general comment and say what they "should or shouldn't " do. So ignorant. So I guess if it's fair to say black women should stop wearing wigs, it should also be fair to say that white women should start wearing their own flat asses and pale skin. Yeah, stay outta that tanning salon and the sun trying to brown, and away from that plastic surgeon trying to get that leg gap and rounded ass.

  • BlahBlahBlah

    Lil light skin mama with da fro was kinda cute tho.

  • Noirluv45

    Gurllll, yes! Ah, the memories! It's so funny because I remember those trips. I loved it! They were more than willing to help and to answer as many questions as possible. In Portland, OR, there was a Black-owned beauty supply store that ended up closing after a larger Asian store opened up across the street. Black folks ran over to the Asian store only to be treated like dog crap. They were very rude, and they still gave their money to those racists. The Black-owned placed closed down. From what I hear, they opened up a second store down the street, but that community has been gentrified. I'm willing to bet Black folks still drive back there to spend their money. Shameful!

  • Noirluv45

    Did she give an answer to your mother when asked? I still say she probably wears wigs because she doesn't want to do her hair. For whatever reason, why is it anyone's business. I just don't understand that, Philly.

  • Phillybruh

    My mother went to great lengths to make sure my nieces mother took the proper care of their hair. Like I said I have never asked but it is puzzling. She seems to still take the same care of a her that my mother taught her. Just why she wears a wig is the part that throws everyone off. I just understand why can't people wonder about it or even dare to question the why?

  • Elevated Soul

    I'm a sistah who rock my natural hair to the fullest but with that said,I know a number of Black women who rock wigs,some straight and some natural wigs that look just as good as my hair,which mean it looks good!

    I don't know why this ivory ratchet is so worried about how Black women choose to wear their hair or even hair they buy and how does that correlate with being insecure....Seems to me,that she is the one whose insecure.

    The black photographer is just as silly but I suspect he's another black gay male,that hate Black women.It wouldn't take much for him to agree with this silly ratchet insecure white woman, with stringy looking dog hair.

    Women of all races are wearing wigs and such.....

  • Noirluv45

    There's nothing wrong with questioning someone. Why don't you ask her?

  • Andrea Williams

    So where did "snowflake" get the idea that if a black woman wears a lace front wig, then she is insecure? She is not qualified to speak on why we do anything. She needs to find her lane and stay in it.

  • Elevated Soul

    Don't forget those weird looking lip jobs they get......

  • Vonn

    I don't need to watch the video to know this CAC is delusional. Lots of non black people wear wigs, extensions, & such. Keep your white asses out of tanning salons & black men's beds with your insecure selves.

  • Deetruth

    They are insecure , you can't say you are proud of your roots then cover them with BECKYS blonde locks ?? Afro American not lacefront from China American .

  • sunni_daze

    Aint no white bitch gonna determine what makes my nubian sisters insecure. She can sit her spoiled mayo ass down

  • RaginB

    A White bitch can’t tell me shit about how black women feel?

  • Julia Lyons

    When white women stop dying their hair blonde, stop wearing false lashes, stop wearing fake blue contact lenses, stop wearing wigs and hair extensions, stop with the boob implants, stop wearing war paint and calling it make-up, stop being extremely sexually promiscuous, stop spreading herpes, stop shooting up heroin and snorting prescription medications, etc etc etc etc etc etc etc etc etc etc....and so on and so forth, THEN I will half-way listen to their advice. Until then...GTFOOMMFF!!!!!???

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    Weave and wig wearers on here are losing their minds lol.

  • Vonn

    I guess her cave sisters are insecure as well. They love wigs & extensions too. What are they when they braid their hair & kim k their bodies??

  • King Cakes

    White women still obsessed lol

  • ALLMINE?

    because black women pay 7 billion yearly for someone elses hair..

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    If a BW said the same thing it would still be a problem to other BW. Let’s be real

  • ??LordHell2TheNaw??

    Another attempt to make us beautiful BLACK QUEENS feel bad about ourselves...nice try...if we rocked towels on our heads we would still do it the best. Ever wonder why the world is so intimidated by the black woman?Do your research and keep rocking whatever you want to ??

  • JennyJazzhands

    It is amazing that so many people are so concerned about what black women are doing with our hair. Every wig/weave wearing woman I know has a head full of beautiful hair they just don't like cutting/dying/frying their hair so use fake hair instead for a different look. The only bald one I know has cancer and just beat 2 treatments of chemo. So...maybe worry about what your own hair is doing?

  • Vonn

    White women are hating on us for same reason they always have...
    We do everything better!!

  • imright

    who gives a fck what this cracker has to say about US ?! fck her ??????

  • JennyJazzhands

    This is funny because now most are wearing our hair natural and people still have something to say. Be honest, if we all grew floor length locs, you'd still find something to be mad about.

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    All the hate in the comments is disgusting. I most def do not defend white women but she has a right to her opinion. And so does he. Keep it classy and keep it moving if you don’t agree.

  • ALLMINE?

    salt and peppered chicken is amazing if u do it right..my aunty in the south makes it like that. i was floored when she told me that was alll she used. LMAO

  • Phillybruh

    If a black women posed the same question there would still be hate in the comments.

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    Exactly. It’s just pure hate.

  • shun king

    yes they are.but if they only knew what these other races say about them when they drinking coffee or in restaurants and see those long weaves..the weave wearer would prolly go on a killing spree

  • shun king

    most wearing there natural? not in hottlanta its weaves down to the derriere

  • Vonn

    I do not buy anything from Asian owned stores, including Indians. I don't buy from any disrespectful owners, but that particular group of folks are the worst.

  • Scromes1212

    What hair any different then makeup?

  • shun king

    black women out hear spending their kids college money on they weaves...

  • hottlanta

    I know this white woman ain't trying to talk to us about our hair when they stole braids from us, put them on Bo Derek in the movie 10 and act like they discovered something big and different for hair. No ma am.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p8TUWilKb6M

  • Dr. P

    If you wear a wig, it's because you have no hair or you're insecure about your hair. If you wear your natural hair, you need a relaxer because it's too "napp-natural". If you wear braids, you're lazy. If you wear your hair relaxed, you want to be anything other than black. If you color your hair, you're trying to look white. STFU! My head, my choice...my choice, my cost...I shaved my hair on one side trying to be Rihanna, took four years to grow back to 14 inches to match the other side. I wore wigs, not beauty supply wigs, custom made wigs that cost $750+ I wish people would find something else to fake care about, like their 118 credit score and cholesterol levels #rollseyes

  • Shannypoo1976

    No, not ever!

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    I just don't understand why they get all up in arms at the mere discussion of weaves and wigs. Like damn, you cant even utter the words without a sister giving you the look of death. Is it really that serious where we can't even have a discussion about it?

  • Noirluv45

    I'm right with you. I don't either. It's insane to me to give business to those who disrespect us. I don't understand.

  • shun king

    throw them weaves in the trash free yourselves my sista throw them away....stop trying to blend in with these Caucasians throw it away throw it away

  • shun king

    they telling you everything because you putting they hair on your head

  • Phillybruh

    I don't even think its about white women at this point.

  • shun king

    them weaves mean they trying to get as far away from Nubian as possible

  • shun king

    but it seem the blacks are killing for the weave and robbing stores for the weave

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    lol

  • AnotherBlackGirl

    If Black women are insecure for wearing lace front weaves. What do you call white women for wearing extensions , wigs and weaves. Because they wear them too. She just want attention.

  • shun king

    hey didn't i tell you dont comment on my post you go worry about high fashion and who got on red bottoms i worry about my community

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    Just let your soul glow!

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    So will there be a non-wearing wig/weave challenge or nah? LOL

  • shelly

    So what about the white woman and Hispanic women wearing weaves?

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    He was agreeing with you shun LOL

  • Hummingbird_225

    Why is the s world so pressed about what we do with our hair??? Do they give the other races grief about the loads of hair dye and extensions they wear? Hell no. LEave us alone please and thank you.

  • Phillybruh

    LOL that would be you, most of the time your misguided anyway!

  • Unhappy American

    GIRL STFU BYE!!!!!! IF I WANNA GO TO THE CLUB BLONDE FOR NEW YEAR'S I WILL THEN BE RIGHT BACK BLACK WHEN THE WORK WEEK BEGINS IT'S ALL IN FUN STOP HATIN WHITE GIRL

  • Knocked Kneed and Pigeon Toed

    I normally wear my natural hair as I have long thick 4a hair. (thank you mom for never giving me a relaxer). My curl pattern is super cute and i love it. But I do on occasion wear wigs. Like on birthdays or if I'm going out. Not all the time but its nice to switch up styles, lengths and colors. I cant do that so much on my natural hair because my natural hair is virgin and has never been chemically processed. I do use heat on it from time to time when i get a silk press. I feel bad for the woman who feel they have to wear weaves or wigs to be accepted. I love to switch up my style and with that comes different hairstyles some of which i will never attempt on my natural hair. Its taken me too damn long to grow my hair out all to damage it for a temporary look. So wigs are a good option for that. I cant get down with the lace front wigs tho and I never have. They never look natural to me!

  • Mystique

    I live in Brooklyn, NY and women there rock all sorts of hairstyles. All black women here are not wearing lacefronts, they are rocking natural hair, weaves, braids, twists, crochet, fades. Gtfoh with this bullish. White woman has some nerve to speak about black women hair when they are the queens of plastic surgery. If we are trying to have a natural movement then the following needs to be thrown away:
    Eyelashes
    Makeup
    Tanning spray
    Surgery
    Wigs
    Color contacts
    Hair dye( most blondes are not blonde)
    Padded butts and bras

    Nothing positive to say about black women. People love to highlight the negative!

  • shun king

    naw that chick flip floppy

  • Chocolate Bliss

    She didn't lie though, and he said it's not about race. In today's time period women of all races are so fake. With the hair nails and eyelashes. When you wore those fake items in the past, you at least tried to make it look real.

  • Anita Henderson

    White people need to mind there own business!

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    It isn't. It's deep seeded hate within the black community about their hair.

  • damnshame

    money being spent not in our community comes in all things we purchase not just hair. shoes cars jewlery clothes sporting tickets events etc.

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    Yes ma'am, I agree. Women of ALL races leaning towards fakeness and falsehood.

  • damnshame

    Its funny how black men will dismiss weaves but acceptable to white n biracial women getting butt implant fake breast fake lips especailly fake azz..just another brother hating on blk women. Is he gon stop taking pictures of Draya Kim and the rest with artifical body parts making them a bad bitch. Beyonce Ciara Niki Minag and the rest wear lace fronts.

  • Alicia.Ashe

    Is he a real photographer!? White women and gay black men have the most to say about black women.

  • Smith Jane

    Of course, because the world would end if the same scenario couldnt be applicable to yt women :rolls eyes: it’s not comparable because yt/Hispanic have similar texture to the EXTENSIONS of their natural hair and because it naturally compliments their features. Whereas black women damage their natural hair to mimic the natural texture of some yt/non-black women IN ADDITION to wigs and weaves that make them look like clowns

  • Alicia.Ashe

    Clown hush

  • Alicia.Ashe

    Clown

  • Well$$Well$$?

    Or they could just like wearing wigs. I've been natural since 2012 so I don't have a dog in this fight but it's just hair. People should be able to wear it any way they want..

  • Smith Jane

    Lol there was a SMALL movement a few years ago. Then they started with the “protective styling” lie to avoid rocking their natural hair

  • Ant Hill

    #FACT

  • Ant Hill

    and people also should be able to tell them how trifling their hair hats are, your point?

  • Well$$Well$$?

    My point is it's not my hair. Idgaf what you do or don't do with it. That is all.

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    This white woman can Only speak on herself, trailer park trash, or what relates to her and her kind. She Is Not a spokeperson for Black women and Never will be. Please stop trying to use unprofessional people to down rate us!!! This is a major fail.

  • Ant Hill

    Do other races of women wear "remy" hair that's not the texture of their actual hair? Stop passing the blame on for the fact that you all are lazy and trifling to the point you can't take care of your own hair.

  • nomika brown

    Preach

  • Mama Dee’s Wig Maker

    Lord...

  • ?Royalty?

    I might get stabbed for this......but I totally agree.

    If you want to wear wigs or weaves, then why not wear them to match our own hair types?

  • Ant Hill

    wigs stink, you all up in the club and in your baby daddys crib where he is smoking weed and black and milds, and/or out in the gym or summer time heat sweating out your scalp, it's stink and disgusting and no Black men are not the blame for it.

  • klwbaby

    Instagram photographer....

  • nomika brown

    I know coming from a race of women that copies pretty much everything to look like someone else

  • Mystique

    If you don’t like black women with wigs/weaves then keep It moving. But I bet you get whiplash when these women with these fake, sillicone, fix a flat, cartoon bodies walk by.
    But to just pick on lace front weaves:wigs is selective outrage. Do it across the board or don’t do it at all!
    Nobody calls out these men who are spending their child support money on weed and the newest Jordan’s.

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    I call them hair hats too! Or hair sweaters. It be 105 degrees in GA and some woman walking with a 10 lb tangled hair sweater on her head beating on her head about to kill herself trying to scratch her scalp. Take that crap off and spared yourself from brain injury ?

  • shun king

    lol funny just yesterday a chick told me she only wears its for protective reasons lol

  • Luvn_it

    Have she or him ever thought about the fact black women wear weave as a choice not by force. Some ppl like to change up their look that's a lot easier to do with a wig than damaging your natural hair. And from what I've heard good for protecting your real hair. So is she going to just stop taking pics of black women who wear wigs/weave or all women who do??

  • Monique B

    EXACTLY!!

  • Knocked Kneed and Pigeon Toed

    I dont agree with "you all" pertaining to all black women but I will agree with the gist of your statement. Ive never had a weave but I do wear wigs from time to time. But speaking as a black woman who 95% of the time wears her own natural never been processed hair. i must say its sad that some black women take better care of their weaves than they do their natural hair. If that's what your getting at, then I must say I definitely agree.

  • Alicia.Ashe

    So a nobody.

  • nomika brown

    What is the concern why is it such an issue about black women and their hair black women should wear there hair any way they want get a life it's a lot more issues that we need to focus on than the state of a black woman's hair

  • klwbaby

    Basically...

  • shun king

    to tell the truth black chicks who wear weaves are the quickest to jump in the bed they really have noting but looks to offer...and more like the black woman spending they CS checks on weaves and jordans Men working themselves to death just to have a place to stay and pay CS

  • Ant Hill

    because you all put on a hair hat and lose the few brain cells you all got, no 1 is concerned they just calling out you hair hats for the fukkery.

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    I’m rolling with you today! Or better yet, you standing in line behind some female with a tangled stinky weave. She playing with it and you praying a lice bug or something don’t fly out of it? Or a weave down to her butt but her edges screaming Kunta Kente "Let us free"?

  • Ant Hill

    No I stay way back from weaves, had a bad experience one time, needed some smelling salts to revive myself from that funky smell. Never again, real hair only in my radius. Like Jay said, you can keep your Bush...and I am saying you can keep that stink azz hair hat too.

  • Judas & GOD

    both of them should shut up .. what about men who wearing wig by choice? welcome to 2018 stupid

  • Judas & GOD

    leave the gays out of this ..thank you

  • Ant Hill

    #snatchawig movement, make it go viral. See a wig snatch it off!

  • Ruth

    So does that mean beyonce is insecure because she wears lacefront. Just another means to tear up the black women

  • Wreckognize Game

    Men please throw away:
    Bigen
    Just for men
    Toupee
    Socks you stuff in your groin
    Larry Blackmon jockstraps
    Too big shoes (bih you wear an 8 not 13)
    Color contacts
    Fake dreads
    Fake iced out jewelry

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    I can literally only wear weaves for 5 days max, then it has to come out. I wasted $400 on a style before (including purchasing the hair) to only take it out because I couldn't reach my scalp. My scalp likes water and air.

  • Knocked Kneed and Pigeon Toed

    I agree 100%

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    Cuz it's still nappy AND black hunny and that ain't da bizness!

  • Ant Hill

    Yes that is what I am getting at, to me it's just laziness, in the 90's in the NYC area a lot of sistas had long pretty hair, now finding some real long hair is next to impossible. It's just laziness and want to front with fake long hair on IG and on social media.

  • Ant Hill

    LMAO

  • Ant Hill

    I don't give a damn either but if the man says he is not taking any more pics of lace front hair hats what is the problem?

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    Love the ad for a $24.90 wig up top Sandy, you a trip!

  • Knocked Kneed and Pigeon Toed

    Isnt she shady LOLOLOLOLOLOL

  • sunni_daze

    No it doesn't. See then grea thing about black hair is all the wonderful things you can do with it , even weaves. Are white women that tan and get fuller lips and fake asses trying to get away from being white.

  • Noirluv45

    You're right. I spoke of hair because that's the topic of the thread.

  • Noirluv45

    They do! They are always up in ours. They say we are less than them, yet they obsess with us, so that tells me they know we are the superior ones. They steal every innovation we had/have.

  • nomika brown

    You the one act like you have some brain cells loose you are taking the time out of your day to concern yourself with the state of a black woman hair nobody said you were the blame for anything first of all and you sound real ignorant right now and who goes back and forth on a social network with someone you don't know get a life focus on something else that really matters

  • Vicki White

    Cialis ...

  • nomika brown

    I see we have self hating black men on this sight it shows the way a black woman wears her hair it's not going to make you feel better about yourself stay positive black men I know it's hard

  • Vicki White

    I'm a fan of weave being a black girls alternative and it protects our natural hair from chemicals I use braids alot but I even like lace fronts bc they look cute. Blk girls have to protect our hair from heat and styling or rlse we won't have any. It's not insecurities but our love of style and hair. She can shut all the way up fr

  • Wreckognize Game

    I forgot about that. Too true

  • damnshame

    there is white people that dread their hair tho...soooo

  • damnshame

    and white women damage their bodies and skin by tanning and getting fake breast and fake azz...so whats your point...

  • Vicki White

    But Ariana grande can rock a weave pony for three consecutive years str8

  • damnshame

    Its also a bunch of faggots in atlanta are you one

  • damnshame

    now thats a dissapointment

  • damnshame

    umm we know what other races thinks about black people as whole...so why does it concerns as what white folks think

  • Vicki White

    Or white girls with they lip injections... Where that movement at?

  • nomika brown

    Agreed maybe they will get the message

  • Cali

    So Black women are now taking hair advice from gay black me and elderly white women? Becky and Sambo could easily address the distorted faces of white women who indulge in plastic faces.

  • Ni Ni

    It ain't none of the white woman's business what we do.

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    No where in this video the women said anything directly to black women. Y’all reaching!

  • freelancepimp .

    While I am not a fan of the lacefront, you still got to know where your lane is. I wouldn't have went no where near that one.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    yeah, but that's a totally different type of "cooking" ....my mom uses salt & pepper in her flour and she makes amazing fried chicken.
    but, if you're working with a chicken breast (which is what i think R was alluding to) you gotta do more, LoL!

  • MsVAllDay

    This is how mf's get they azz beat.

  • MsVAllDay

    First of all, I have to value your opinion for it to even be a fucking factor. If you want to lose business due to somebody's hair choice. Go ahead with your stupid azz. Feel free. There are other photographers that will take pics.

  • Noirluv45

    It sure is. Very disappointing.

  • Floriduhh Evans

    But women of all colors wear extensions, wigs and lace fronts. Why just focus on black women. She’s just projecting her own inferiority complex smh

  • PROPHETMAJOR

    Ain't dude a scam artist? He needs to have several seats!

  • 88

    DEATH TO LACEFRONTS, WIGS, WEAVES & BLONDE HAIR ON BLK WOMEN.

  • Lanegra??

    Thank you! I work at a latin company and all of them have extensions in from time to time. they always drag black women.

  • Angela Winbush

    I SAID....A POSITIVE BLACK WOMEN'S FORUM....DO YOU KNOW WHAT THAT MEANS??? ARE YOU A BLACK WOMAN??? HAVE YOU EVER ATTENDED A BLACK WOMEN'S CONFERENCE??? IF YOU HAVE THEN YOU WOULD UNDERSTAND WHAT I'M SAYING!!!
    NEXT CALLLLLLLER!!!!!!

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    Who are you yelling at?

  • akuakokoblogspotcom

    The producer on LHH Miami trailer told La Negra her Afro wasn’t elegant, now they are saying take off the wigs? I feel like a dog watching tennis.

  • Angela Winbush

    Are you a Black Woman??? If NOT.... THEN THIS CONVERSATION DOES NOT PERTAIN TO YOU!!!
    YOUR FOCUS AS A BLACK MAN SHOULD NOT BE REGARDING A BLACK WOMAN'S HAIR EITHER!!!
    LET BLACK WOMEN DEAL WITH OUR HAIR ON OUR TERMS!!!!
    CAN'T WE HAVE SOMETHING OF OUR OWN??? DAMN!

  • A D N

    Weave/wig wearing by the black female is deeper than this topic. It's more about "why" one chooses weaves/wigs. Who will the black man run to if 5 women stood in front of him and only 1 has straight hair and fair skin? When he chooses the straight hair, fair skinned female, what have the other 4 kinky and coarse hair females with dark skinned learned about the black man, what is takes to get chosen and what is beautiful? Unless someone counteracts that lesson, it is embedded and taught to the next generation. Then there are images shown in the media of beauty, which is a long debated topic. Who has grabbed the towel, placed it on your head and swing it around like it was long and beautiful? Where did you learn that? Who has laughed at a short hair female with dark skin? Why? Who has witness black males praising and admiring the long, straight hair female? There are messages everyday, but many black women are beginning to empower themselves into accepting our natural beauty because we certainly won't get it from the black male in many cases. And if the black man doesn't empower us, the white man surely will...have you seen the commercials lately? So this isn't about what covers our natural hair....it's about covering the messages we were taught.

  • Angela Winbush

    You OBVIOUSLY CAN'T READ...SO MY WORDS ARE TYPED IN CAPITAL LETTERS TO ASSIST YOU DARLING....
    AGAIN...A BLACK WOMAN'S HAIR AIN'T NONE OF BECKY'S BUSINESS!
    NEXT CALLLLLLLLLER!!!!!

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    The only one who can't read is your bald headed mammy... go put some my lye on your head you self-hating wench. Do I need to capitalize my words for you DARLING?

  • 88

    Maybe because when they get extensions yt women wear yt women hair, east Indian wear east Indian hair, chinese women wear chinese women hair but when it comes to the so called Blk women she never wears her own ppl hair WHY? Because we were broken down here in America through slavery and programmed to believe that the other nations and their stringy dog hair is beautiful and It's not. It's time to change that sport your Wool!!!

  • shun king

    when that lady said triggered she talking about you

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    All those white women that wear LACE FRONTS AND SHE TALKING BOUT BLACK WOMEN ESTEEM??? FOH... Tell that ish to the lake front TROLLOPS like the Katrashians Iggy JENNERS etc

  • shun king

    bringing up these weaves is hurting you

  • 88

    Latino are blk

  • 19awesomegrl97

    this is the craziest thang i done herd!

  • Floriduhh Evans

    I personally rock a fro and I see a lot more black women who do also. There are natural hair extensions and wigs and have been for a while. So do white women who wear curly extensions or the extensions with darker hair colors hate themselves too?

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    it's just hair folks... ?

  • 88

    Yes why do you think they sit out in the sun risking skin cancer, why do thet get butt and lip injections? They wanna be you but at least they admit it. I just gave a easy to understand example about the majority of blk women but instead of addressing it the subject is changed. Denial and willie lynch runs deep.

  • yvette46

    Why is this getting so much attention??

  • Tom jones

    Tell this dude to take the d out his booty and the white clit out his mouth he looking for attention dismiss this black tom coon homo

  • Floriduhh Evans

    That’s a lie how many of them have straight hair but get curly extensions ? is that self hatred. White folks been wearing them bright ass hair colors for decades but get labeled as artsy or grunge. Go to Sally’s almost all their extensions are for white and Hispanics. Here in FL we have Hispanic owned beauty supply stores with weaves and wigs for Hispanic women. Every celebrity (Demi Lavato, Selena Gomez, etc), reality star (Teen Mom, Kardashian’s, LHH, etc) wear hair extensions regardless of color or gender (Steve Harvey). STOP trashing black women cause we mastered the art.

  • C Mack

    Like white women don't wear hair extensions and lace fronts.

  • Malcom Flex

    BW stop listening to bitter black male queens who hate yall.
    DEFLECTION. Dissing BW's hair to take the attention off of simp males.

  • Malcom Flex

    Cuz hating on BW is the common sport for simp down low black males takes the attention off of them.

  • Malcom Flex

    It's a wrap the black community is DEAD simps like that prove it. They hate bw, period regardless of hair. Just wanna get close to the one they really love -da white man.

  • Malcom Flex

    DEATH TO SIMPS WHO DON'T RAISE THEIR SONS AND FAIL THEIR COMMUNITY

  • Malcom Flex

    Denial. Instead of trying to school females about their hair go raise your FN sons. Damn jobless simp jailbirds always trying to school bw.

  • 88

    See you hate your own ppl.

  • Cici

    Sis! There’s a whole movemement going on, and have been for YEARS. What is she talking about????

  • Angela Winbush

    Tisk Tisk Tisk...my feelings are soooo Hurt cause you talked bad about me. I'm just gonna go cry my eyes out because some Illiterate JigaBoo talked about my Mammy.
    LMMFAO!!!! CAN YOU READ THAT???

  • Angela Winbush

    Why don't you stay focused on your BLACK MEN issues and leave the BLACK WOMEN ISSUES TO THE LADIES....Unless you've DECIDED to come outta YOUR CLOSET....

  • shun king

    this is an black man issue cause these weaves head have low self esteem and bring that into the house and they also and embarrassment to be seen with...you folks all ways have to get personal why dont you put your pic up and so i can whats on the top of your head

  • Malcom Flex

    Nice try fool you got me mixed up with overreactive women.

  • Malcom Flex

    Hispanic brauds stay laying extension tracks bleaching their skin plastic surgery corsets and booty pads most have an inferiority complex because they wanna be white.

  • Omandesert

    When white women stop getting plastic surgery, they can recommend what other cultures of women should do. Until then, have a seat... because they are the lead fakers. And this uncle Tom ass negro, should be consulting a therapist, not done random Becky for help. A lot of deep rooted issues there.

  • VanillaCaramel2shotsExpresso

    Dolly Parton, Cher....

  • Allihave2say

    So does his rule only apply to black women he photographs, being that he specifically identified black women? The first time I ever heard of weave was on a white woman I worked with 37 years ago. Will he be checking the women's hair for extensions as the whites call them? Will the clients sign affidavits.

    I hope black women all over the world refuse to do business with this man.

  • Allihave2say

    Kim Kardashian, Kylie Jenner...

  • NicoleZee

    From what I've learned, I think it is very expensive to buy hair that looks real, that's why I don't mess with that shit. I style my own hair and do everything else for myself. I hate salons and spas, too unsanitary. As long as my hair continues to grow out of my scalp, I'll just wear my own hair. I've had a relaxer since childhood, I've never colored my hair, and I am content with how I wear it. I could not care less what anyone thinks. However a woman chooses to wear her hair is her choice, I don't see the big deal. I personally do not like how weaves and wigs look, but if a woman chooses to wear them, that's her business, it has nothing to do with me. I don't get why people care so much about hair!

  • Lolly Asher

    The fact that the conversation is going on publicly and neither of them is a black woman makes everything they are saying, at best, irrelevant.

  • Angela Winbush

    Did YOU spend YOUR MONEY on the weaves & lace fronts OF ANY OF THESE BLACK WOMEN THAT WEARS THESE HAIRSTYLES??? THEN YOU HAVE NO LEGITIMATE SAY IN THIS DISCUSSION.
    YOU CANNOT CONTROL ANOTHER PERSON'S CHOICE REGARDING HOW THEY CHOOSE TO WEAR THEIR HAIR.
    THE ONLY PERSON WHOM YOU CAN CONTROL IS YOURSELF IN NOT WEARING WEAVES. SO WHY DON'T YOU MAKE A CONSCIENCE DECISION AND VOW TO YOURSELF TO NEVER WEAR WEAVES AND/OR LACEFRONT WIGS EVER AGAIN...
    AND LEAVE THE ISSUES WITH BLACK WOMEN TO BLACK WOMEN UNLESS YOU DECIDE TO GET YOUR PENIS TURNED INSIDE OUT INTO A VAGINA AND BECOME A TRANSGENDER WOMAN. OTHER THAN THAT HAVE SEVERAL SEATS DARLING!!!!
    STAY WOKE BROTHER OR SISTER....WHICHEVER ROLE YOU CHOSE PLAY BUT ENOUGH WITH YOUR FAKE ASS CARE FOR A BLACK WOMAN'S SELF-ESTEEM BASED ON HOW SOMEONE ELSE CHOOSES TO WEAR THEIR DAMN HAIR!!!

  • stepkem

    Women have many reasons for wearing protective styles menopause changes your hair, blood pressure medication thins your hair.. in order to workout protective styles help maintain your look without damaging your own hair. Everyone who wears weave and wigs have their own reasons for why they do what they do...some people may be extreme for whatever reason... but at the end of the day.. you have to do what works for you and your hair situation..people don’t owe you an explanation for what they do to their hair..stop judging because you don’t know the story or the struggle of the woman under the wig or the weave.

  • shun king

    plenty of these women in my city sell them selves for money to buy weaves. and i can speak on what ever i want to you dont like it block me..the nerve you have to tell my dont speak on something ...and you must got one wrapped around your skull cause you sure have been "triggered" like that white woman said

  • MistaO

    ?Didn't anyone tell them black females don't take kindly to the truth!? You can see that reflected in all these excuse laden comments..

  • MistaO

    Like all the public conversations black females had about Black men over the last 40+ years, right??? ?

  • 88

    Yes the majority of blk women these days are lazy asf so damn lazy they won't even do their daughters hair they rather put a deadly chemical relaxer on it smdh

  • Jussjess25

    That fake gay photographer hates black women. I used to follow him on ig until he said something foul about black women. Im sure he put that trailer trash up to it . Smh just another disgusting narritve that they try and use to make black women feel less than. Dont fall for it ladies ??

  • alex

    Very well said. Don't forget pregnancy and other types of medications. Not to mention, women of all races and ethnic backgrounds go through hair loss at least one point in their life. This is what happens when people look to the media to tell them what is considered beautiful and what is considered ugly.

  • alex

    Many of the conversations by black women about black men relate to how they (black women) are personally impacted by the actions of black men. These two bimbos up top are not impacted one way or another by black women's hair.

  • alex

    White and other non-black people have been wearing fake hair for a loooooong time, but anti-blackness and misognoir dictates that society is to be most critical of black women who wear fake hair. I used to think that people were more critical because many times it was easier to see the fake hair on black women due to texture, then as I got older I began to realize that nope: just good old fashioned black woman hating.

  • alex

    You should see some of the white women in Scandinavia with hair so thin, you can see the tracks they put in to make it look thicker. A head full of obvious tracks. Yikes! Don't believe the hype.

  • alex

    Not to mention that hair bleach is just a natural part of life, because everyone wants to be blond.

  • unknown user

    40 years and they didnt listen to a damn thing, but with the current state of affairs and climate, it’s blatantly clear that they should have. The conversations were never this simplistic and revenge ridden. This here, is some school yard shit.

  • Doink_Ahanahue

    " eating more vegetables and drinking more water"

    Beautiful Black women, for more of you that not, this is a true statement.

  • Angela Winbush

    Listen here Lil Girl....you commenting under my damn post! If you wanna make your weak ass statements about WOMEN'S HAIR STYLES that Don't Take Money OUT OF YOUR pockets NOR PUT MONEY BACK IN YOUR RAGGEDY ASS POCKETS...YOU'RE WASTING YOUR TIME...KEYSTROKES AND ENERGY OVA HERE!!!!
    TAKE YO WEAK ASS COMMENTS ELSEWHERE!!!!
    AGAIN SIS...IF YOU WANNA BE A GIRL YOU NEED TO CALL YO DOCTOR TO OFFICIALLY GO THROUGH THE CHANGE. YOU ACTING LIKE A WOMAN UNDER MY POST AIN'T GONNA HELP YOU!!!
    NEXT CALLLLLLLLLLER!!!!!

  • shun king

    LISTEN HERE GAL I STARTED THIS THREAD YOU STARTED WITH ME AND IF YOU THINK I AM A GIRL WE CAN MEET AT A LOCAL HOTEL OR MY HOUSE AND I WILL SHOW YOU THE DEFINITION OF ALPHA MALE

  • Jay Nation

    The insecurity statement is wrong on so many levels. Some who rock natural have just as many insecurities. Hell, as a matter of fact, we all are insecure about one thing or the next. I can’t believe black women fell into his trap over something simple. Hair, really? Who tf cares how another styles their hair? In his attempt to become relevant ????? he should use his platform to resolve some of the nation’s problems. Our race continues to move backward when hair styles become the issue of the day.

  • Blah Blahhhhh

    BIH please! Men and women of all races rock lace fronts for a variety of reasons. Worry about the early aging and wrinkles that will consume your arse.

  • Angela Winbush

    Well Well NA!!!! See I would take you up on your Dick Offer....but you gotta lil bit too much BITCH in YA FA MY LIKING LIL GIRL!!!
    I LIKE A REAL MAN THAT FOCUSES ON REAL MEN ISSUES NOT ABOUT WHAT HAIR IS IN THE NEXT BITCH HEAD!!!

  • LOVE ALWAYS

    Being he's not the only photographer in the world, who gives a flip. That'll be him losing out on his coins being petty about a freaking wig. Good grief!

  • SGirl

    Genetics play a role in hair growth as well. However, what do call it when you (white women) are laid out on tanning beds trying to get brown????? Ignore the ignorance!!

  • shun king

    ok give me your email and i going to leave them folks heads along...

  • Angela Winbush

    Denise1172004@gmail.com
    Send ME something GOOD NA!!!

  • Allihave2say

    The only members of KUWTK wears wigs except Kris Jenner and Kourtney. It's clear that they were wigs often but it's also clearly ignored. I've read articles where people argue down the fact that they're not wearing wigs when they clearly are.

  • esh

    but doesn;'t she realize that yt women wear lace fronts too. yes it's true. any woman who favors wigs has at least participated in a lace front at some point. saw a yt woman in the shop last month justa questioning the own like crazy about wigs. she purchased a lace front.

  • esh

    but eating veggies and drinking more water does not over take genetics. or damage from relaxers. and were still mimic-ed by all ethnicities, even with our damaged edges.so ha!

  • Goodii2Shoes

    Black men are coming to grips with the fact that other black men wear wigs and squeeze their round asses into mini skirts to confuse their lustful weaknesses.... it's easier to say it's the female wearing weave who is wrong than ADMIT a couple times they found out it was testosterone and testicles under that wig and skirt that pulled him in..,

  • Treveion Harris

    This nigga sister is the WEAVE QUEEN
    She is excellent at what she does. So he's dissing us and her... Pretty lame
    @facethair
    #HYPOCRITICALmuch

  • SDot

    I kind of agree...i hate weave..
    we should be natural...why not?

  • Ant Hill

    Correct, and have them with a weave in kindergarten, the sh*t is just ridiculous