Fabiana Perez

A mild mannered woman whose baseball player boyfriend was caught on CCTV video assaulting her in a stadium stairwell says she regrets not pressing charges.

Fabiana Perez, 21, tells Univision she should have pressed charges against Houston Astros prospect Danry Vasquez after he savagely beat her in a stairwell at Whataburger Field in August 2016.

The vicious beating was captured on video and leaked online this week.

Moments after they entered the stairwell, the video shows Vasquez hauling off and violently pimp-slapping Perez. He is seen slapping her and pulling her by her hair down the steps.

Vasquez backhanded Perez so hard that he knocked off her eyeglasses.

At one point Perez is seen cowering in a corner of the stairwell after Vasquez slapped her without warning.

Perez finally got tired of being abused and the couple broke up several months after the beating.

Fabiana Perez Danry Vasquez

She tells Univision she wishes she had the confidence to walk away when her ex-boyfriend hit her the first time.

“When there is a lack of mutual respect, things change, things get out of control,” she said. “That’s why you always have to maintain respect, values [and] communication in a relationship.”

Vasquez, who signed a contract with a $1.2 million signing bonus with the Detroit Tigers at age 16, was arrested after prosecutors viewed the video in 2016. But Perez refused to testify against Vasquez and the charges were dropped.

Vasquez was cut from the Houston Astros feeder team this week when the video surfaced online.

Perez and Vasquez began dating when they were teenagers. The couple dated for 7 years before they split up.

Vasquez is now married to another woman.




  • Karen Brady

    Sit down girl. I’d have kicked him in his nuts right down those stairs. She talking about woulda coulda shoulda.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    he ain’t shyt flat out ! Scum .. I can not… ?

  • Alicia.Ashe

    Girl where yo box cutter, mace, knife at?!? To fukk him all the way up.

  • You Could Never

    I hate how she didn’t press charges either. But I also hate how he paused during the beating, actually left, and she sat there and waited for round 2

  • Readytochokemothernatureout

    I won’t press play because hearing what 4itsRox described she saw, was enough yesterday. I’m glad she walked away eventually from what could of killed her.

  • klwbaby

    How nice of him that after he slapped the piss out of her, he put her glasses back on.

  • rayne215

    Cause she thought they was gonna get married and get that baseball money. he ended up marrying someone else

  • Ni Ni

    I’m glad she got tired of being beat on and got out alive.

  • SweetTEE

    I feel bad for anyone who can get hit like that and not have an immediate reaction to whip ass. That’s why he chose her. Im happy she found some confidence bc this was obviously not the first time (she did not react as if she were surprised), this is the first time someone else saw it.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    OMG, Sandra! i was just about to ask you if you’d already covered this.
    I’m glad she got the hail outta that relationship. I encourage any young lady to move the fugg on from these violent neanderthals. I’m mad all over again ’cause i just finished watching that OJ ‘lost confession’ and you can see that he STILL expressed anger at Nicole, even after she was in her grave!
    Please don’t waste your prime trying to ‘love’ these primates! Get away from them, NOW!

  • SweetTEE

    Really? Now that would be a reason for her to say this now. smh.

  • Ni Ni

    A hot mess, smh. I didn’t watch the video. Im tired of watching these women get knocked out.

  • Tammie Reed

    I swear on everything these men know EXACTLY who to date and target because chile, that ninja would have been head first down those steps and in the hospital….on my kids! I hate a guy thats a woman beater, I don’t care what ticked him off or what she said, there is NO excuse…. BASTARD!

  • BR….

    Whip a** lol I’m thinking more like Shoot to kill a**……

  • Tammie Reed

    ______________________________________________________!!!!!

  • Ni Ni

    That’s why he chose her…bingo.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Nancy, I didn’t cover this story because I saw video of him proposing to her on a beach. I was like fugg this! Then I found out today that he actually proposed to a different woman. I’m glad she got out too.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    he wasn’t being nice… he was trying to help her get herself together because she can’t be looking all tore up if she’s gonna be with HIM in public. it’s all about him.

  • bemetoo

    She’s a dumb bit*h all she left with was a broken bruised body.. I wish a nigga would lay hands on me I would kill him the moment he gets out of jail, because that’s where he’s going

  • SweetTEE

    Yea, if you got it on you. Otherwise, my reaction is to just go ham lol

  • RICHIE_RICH

    Yo this is crazy ?. Weak man! ????

  • Ni Ni

    Even if i had to wait until that bastid was sleep, he would’ve woke up to some hot grease throwed on him followed by a blow to the head with my cast iron skillet.

  • Bonsai

    These men need anger management classes.

  • bemetoo

    She thinking about money

  • bemetoo

    He’s gentleman

  • Tammie Reed

    I couldn’t wait that long, I would have Flucked him up right on them stairs, my patience is short lol! I better not ever see his ass nowhere because on sight he getting cussed out….Bastard! Men used to beat up my mom when I was little, so thats why I have zero tolerance for the foolery!

  • RICHIE_RICH

    I was like da fuk

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    He’s a sociopath. He slapped her then treated her with kindness to confuse her in order to gain power over her so she won’t leave him. I’m glad she got out.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    well, i’m glad you posted it. if it helps even one of your loyal readers to recognize the potential danger signs in their own relationship, hopefully they’ll begin taking action to save themselves and get away from these punks!

  • Fire & Ice

    You’re right…they know who to pick. You can tell she’s use to being hit. Glad she got out alive….SMH

  • Ni Ni

    I hear ya. I’m glad you broke that cycle.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    nail on the head, Sandra! i’ve been there, and you are so right.

  • Rayne

    He’s got a vicious back hand.

  • Tammie Reed

    I watched it a few times, she just buckled like a coward! I was like thats why they date chics like her because we would have tore that damn stairwell up!. Do you hear me!

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    That was just terrible. If that was my daughter or my sister, I’d probably still be in prison now for what I’d end up doing to that dude. I’m surprised her dad/brothers/ or other male relatives didnt step in and handle this.

    Not that I’m encouraging vigilante justice, but that’s how a lot of families end up handling situations like this.

  • Applebum

    This can’t be the first time that he beat her. It starts in private, that’s the only way he’d be this careless publicly. He knocked her glasses off then the mf helped her put on the glasses. ? Omg I’m sorry it’s not funny but I can’t. He needed her to see ? the smack downs.

    I’m so sorry!

  • Rayne

    I woulda pulled my razor so fast. I would’ve cut him too short to shit!

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    Ni Ni goin’ old skool for real, LOL!!!!!!!!!

  • Queen B

    It seems like he was hitting her for fun smh

  • Tammie Reed

    Damn all them shots to the dome and she didnt even get a damn ring out of it, bastard!

  • Karen Brady

    That’s all this is about! Payday chile.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    True. By the time they do it in public, they’ve probably already done it in private a few times.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    girl you not lying though. it does start in private and escalates, quickly.

  • Karen Brady

    You would have Al Green’d that azz?

  • Tammie Reed

    Pop me then pick up and put my glasses back on, ninja you gotta go! Something wrong with him, he should be ashamed but he probably sitting somewhere thinking he did nothing wrong. The woman he married probably side eyeing the hell outta him right about now! She probably getting knocked around too!

  • Ni Ni

    I bet he has jumped on the new wife too.

  • Being bad is way more fun

    Minority men stay away from non minority women and 99% of these problems will disappear. I find it hard to believe that almost all of these sport violence reports seem to be a mix race couple unsually with the guy being the minority ????? No violence should be in any relationship period but just seems odd to me !!!!

  • RICHIE_RICH

    Crazy right? I hollered too when he put them glasses on. Like what da fuk. Please forgive me.

  • Karen Brady

    Preach! I may not win but we will tussle for sure.

  • Applebum

    Right on.

  • Ni Ni

    Lmao, yes ma’am

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!
  • Karen Brady

    !!!!! LMAOO

  • Karen Brady

    Right. I’m sure he beat her a few times a week on the reg.

  • Karen Brady

    THIS

  • Ni Ni

    I think they know im crazy Nancy that’s why aint nobody ever tried me ?.

  • Karen Brady

    Like maybe he used to actually be a pimp before baseball.

  • Karen Brady

    LMAOOOOOOO..

  • Fire & Ice

    Yes I hear you!!!

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    Their names are Perez and Vasquez. I wouldnt consider them an interracial couple. They both identify as Hispanic.

  • Karen Brady

    I swear they can smell the women they can pull this shyt with.

  • Shira Harding-James

    She said that wasn’t the first time he has hit her.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    *deep sigh*

    why Sis? Lol!

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    ROFL!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Shira Harding-James

    Huh?

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    but you a nice, church goin’ woman, LOL!!!!

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    I think a lot of women who are married to rich men probably put up with abuse silently, just because of the lifestyle and the financial security they have. Millionaires dont exactly grow on trees, and they’re probably reluctant to divorce the man and end up with some dude making $60K per year.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    i was just about to scroll up to see if i’d read those names correctly, smh

  • Ni Ni

    The devil rise up in us all every now and again ?.

  • Shira Harding-James

    No it was leaked and then she was interviewed

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    if she’s NOT getting knocked around, it’s because her brothers and/or father have made it CLEAR to dude that he will turn up missing if they see a scratch on her. that’s the only thing these punks understand.

  • Shira Harding-James

    Wow, so after he beats her, he shows her kindness?! True manipulation at its finest “ I beat you, but I love you”. Poor girl probably so confused at 19. Not only does he have anger issues, he’s a downright sociopath!

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    right. that’s why we stay in church, LOL!! (I already know i STILL got a mean-streak, and working in this snakepit does NOT help ’cause every now and then i break them off a lil taste, smh) https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/b029c76378ea5eb0d17be0ae40b316f329298b08b0b47105020d3c5aaea4a82e.gif

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    Thing is, a lot of times the woman will end up saying: “Well it’s partly my fault ’cause I was getting on his nerves… I provoked him… etc. etc. “.
    Just rationalizing & making excuses for violence against themselves. It’s always sad to me when I see that.

  • imright

    if the “victim” doesn’t wana press chargs fck it ????? move on to someone who needs & wants the help ?

  • MissHarlem

    Clearly I still have some progress to be made because I laughed at this comment so ignantly ??

  • Nathan Hastings

    She’s stupid

  • MissHarlem

    They got me straight cackling in here like I don’t know better ??

  • KLo

    WOW! He beat her as*

  • Ni Ni

    Chile, my mama call me nice nasty. I can’t help it, it runs on both sides of my family. I’m mostly quiet, but don’t mess with me lol.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    i wish she had knee-capped that nicca with one of the team bats before she left. catch him coming around the corner and POP that knee one good time…. batter up, bish!!!!!!

  • ?Royalty?

    Lmaoooo???

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    unfortunately, it’s not that simple. a victim isn’t always able to ‘do’ what seems logical to an outside observer. in an abusive relationship, the abuse can be physical AND psychological.

  • ?Royalty?

    Preach

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    you know they cray, LOL!!!!

  • Renee26

    He’s a piece of shiiiiit!! Psycho put her glasses back on gently and started a conversation like nothing happened… Plus she was pregnant…. He beats the new wife too; I’d bet my salary on it. He probably went home after being fired and took it out on the wife and kids.

  • Kemi

    Wish a nicca would… hot grits on dat ass. I hate punk @zz men, he should go fight a real man and see the outcome.

  • Renee26

    Both legs and his dack

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    “all those who know the words of prayer, pray my strenph in the lawd”
    *walks towards the altar singing ‘we fall down’*
    https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/bb4264f7d4d7227830d50436ebc02fe52f854ab6633bc6dbb91c04c30c8efcd0.gif

  • Renee26

    Right…see what you made me do; I said stay in the nose bleed section

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    you said triple cripple?! ROFL!!!!!

  • KISSmyENTIREass

    Karma! He will get hit by a car real soon. His new wife probaly already feeling those punches GET OUT GIRL! Hope the next one press charges…

  • Renee26

    Lmao crying hot tears!!

  • dontgetblocked

    Unfortunately, these Beckys are learning that these black nyggas will beat them too. Look at OJ. They think they’ve really landed something by getting with these no good nyggas. Now they see why we give them the side eye and laugh. You can have him Becky! Him and those fists.

  • V Dubb

    Awww sweetie don’t take anymore shit off of a man. Lorena Bobbitt his ass

  • V Dubb

    Yes indeed. No matter how meek you are. We are “supposedly loud” and they don’t want that but will still beat the mess out of the quiet ones. Too much. They can have em.

  • dontgetblocked

    Hispanic is not a race. He looks black and she looks white.

  • Renee26

    This video probably was brought to the teams attention back then…. Why is he just now being kicked outta baseball??

  • V Dubb

    I was asking where the males in her family were. I mean damn. Or maybe she didn’t tell them. Idk….my brothers cousins would have murked him day 1

  • Renee26

    Ok…7 years at that. Crazy tends to surface in approximately 3 weeks. She ignored the warning signs

  • Renee26

    I’ll take that 60k

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    He learned that from watching male family members as a kid. That’s how Caribbean men beat their women and not leave any bruises.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    Yes I know hispanic is not a race, it’s an ethnic group. Doesnt matter.
    It’s oversimplistic to say “he looks black and she looks white”. Just because somebody is dark skinned hispanic doesnt make them black.
    Google pictures of Danry Vasquez if you want. He is not a black man. And Fabiana Perez aint white either.

  • mona q

    Poor girl! It was hard to watch…I felt so bad for her when he was putting those glasses back on. I was scared he would hurt her worse if he hit her again with those on!

  • Renee26

    He more than likely isolated her from her friends and family… That’s what the typical abuser does

  • jazmine

    Probably kicked her in the neck on they honeymoon

  • Renee26

    She had bruises please believe that … She probably turned purple later on

  • mona q

    Was she pregnant though? I didn’t read anything about her being pregnant.

  • mona q

    They are both CLEARLY of Spanish descent.

  • Sushi

    You are wrong for that one……….I almost spit my beer out, almost…….

  • mona q

    She left with her life and her dignity in tact. She can heal from the bruises and move on with her life…going to jail for killing him …. probably not the wisest choice…to spend the rest of your life in jail for some loser…the best revenge is to live well and be happy regardless of what he put you through. You can’t do that in jail.

  • mona q

    My boyfriend (at the time) made the mistake of hitting me once…he touched everything in the room…by touched everything in the room, I mean I chucked every damn thing in the room at his head…He almost called the cops on ME because I acted SO crazy and became SO violent…never happened again.

  • Knocked Kneed and Pigeon Toed

    He needs to be deported back to his country. We already got enough American coward ass MF’s out here beating women. We dont need no extras. The way he was back handing her was completely out of line. The one man who tried to put his hands on me found out real quick exactly what type of bish I am. She out here being weak flying against walls and this is the very reason these weak ass niccas be feeling superior. SMH shit nah nicca we squaring up and I’m windmilling you to death. Who just stands there and gets the chit slapped out them and doesn’t do nothing. That big ass bag, she had to have something in there. I would have went in that purse and found something to fugg him up wit. Only one of us coming out this staircase alive. I wish someone would TF I look like.

  • Logan Roberts

    Baby, by the time I finished with him, he wouldn’t have never wanted to see a baseball bat again.

  • MsPam

    I’m sure he would be offended if someone said he was black.

  • Ni Ni

    I laughed…I’m sorry.

  • Knocked Kneed and Pigeon Toed

    Listen!!

  • nick c

    You win 100% of the fights you dont get into I avoid dangerous people and places at all costs. If I go down it truly will be a random act of violence.

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    “Mild-mannered woman,” and You know this How!! Yeah, she wished she filed, After he married someone else.

  • angrysolo

    I hear a baseball bat works wonders on knee caps, or hail.. just hit em up misery style!

  • angrysolo

    he won’t shyt on the field so now they’re cutting their loss and saving face…

  • Hummingbird_225

    I was wondering was she pregnant because she looked like it ?

  • klwbaby

    Because now the public has seen it, so the baseball team doesn’t want to look like they support a woman beater, even though they did initially.

  • Knocked Kneed and Pigeon Toed

    OK. i would have went to work with that bat.

  • Karen Brady

    Gotta get my funny on chile.. it’s the weekend!

  • Karen Brady

    Sis! Cuz it’s Friday and these folks have worn me out this week!!

  • Karen Brady

    3 weeks sounds about right… less than a month for sure.

  • bashi

    Omg I wish she would kick him down to stairs. Girl why why why why????

  • nick c

    Dated for 7 years breaks up and marries another girl in six months I seen it so many times. Those dudes have no credibility.

  • bashi

    White girl

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    “”Mild-mannered woman,” and You know this How!!”

    Did you watch the video? I don’t know many women who would put up with that abuse and patiently wait until he hit her some more.

  • SaltineCrackers

    This is typical in Latino/Hispanic relationships. This little girl’s Mother probably asked her what did she do to get hit.

  • ImWoke

    I wish that she would have run when he ran up the stairs and left her there alone. There is no way in He*l that I would have stood there and waited for him to return to beat my a** some more

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Exactly. I know domestic violence is a sensitive subject here in America, but this is common behavior in the islands. That’s why most island women are submissive.

  • https://www.pinterest.com/gvahstyles/ gvah_styles_you

    …..we BOTH have some progress to be made @MissHarlem:disqus …..because I must wonder would this have been a problem IF he would have married her……she did NOT leave him……or his FUNDING after this horrific act …..as Ms Iyanla has stated to MANY, don’t act like the MONEY did not keep you there as well. It often amazes me how women are so easily offended by each other (friends, family etc.) but a MAN can say and do ANYTHING and he is ALWAYS forgiven……we scream that we are no longer children and GROWN but rather than LOVE ourselves MORE than the DREAM that will NEVER be….and JUST walk away…..WE pretend that he “loves us” and he can beat me because…….. kinda like I hate the OTHER woman but like a FOOL lay up in the face of the FOOL who has lied to you from day one, BUT now I can trust him……BECAUSE HE SAID SO, AGAIN. #BAGladies #LOVEyouANDmoveON A relationship is like ANY OTHER investment, some payoff and some will NOT-NEVER invest, if you can’t take the loss. #PERIOD #GIRLPOWERforEVER

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    This is why I described her as “mild mannered”. Island women are submissive.

  • https://www.pinterest.com/gvahstyles/ gvah_styles_you

    #FACT

  • https://www.pinterest.com/gvahstyles/ gvah_styles_you

    …..they do and because they can.

  • Omandesert

    When I was a teenager I was in a relationship with a dude and we would fight. I used to park my car in his mamna’s garage with his car, well one night after a date we had a fight and tore his mamma’s house up. (She was a punk ass bitch. Never liked his mamma.) From the front door to the back door we boxed. Thank god he lived in a bungalow style crib. After the fight he wouldn’t open the garage so I could get my car, nigga tried to hold my shit hostage. so I called my dad and his histerrical mother called his dad. That was it. Both fathers came to the house and put their foot down. His parents were divorced but his dad was there when needed. His dad beat his ass for putting his hands on me and my father told me that was it, never again. no one except him was ever suppose to put his hands on me. Done deal. I never got hit by a man again and my ex went to prison for 20 years for attempted murder. Crazy mother fucker.

  • Holler If Ya Hear Me

    His backhand strong AF. He perfected that ish. F- baseball he needs to look into tennis.

  • xenaD

    Run? She wanted to get that ass whoopin at one time! “Mild mannered” aka a scaredy cat. Glad she left him tho… and I know his new wife is getting slapped around as well ????? lock him tf up

  • ebonics

    Awww hell nah! He would have been dead that night, gotta go to sleep sometime! Id be right there waiting to smash his brain in wit a cast iron pan!

  • Holler If Ya Hear Me

    It’s hard to have sympathy when these woman stay with these men because of status and then refuse to press charges. Why she regretting it now 2 years later? She regrets not pressing charges but not that fact that he continuously went upside her head for 7 years? TUH

  • xenaD

    Definitely the knee caps!! Balls next if he thinks he’s Arnold Schwarzenegger…

  • T3

    Facts!!!!

  • ImWoke

    This is true. With her being so young and in such a long term relationship with him I am confident that she viewed the abuse as a part of her journey to a better financial future.

  • ImWoke

    Not sure if she received it all at once. We only saw what he did in the stairway. I’d bet that it didn’t end there on that particular day.

  • TMW

    This reminds me of that situation with Ray Rice. And if I recall, it didn’t matter that his wife didn’t want to press charges against him. Why did this girl have a choice?

  • SaltineCrackers

    Unfortunately, very common indeed.

  • tintin

    It’s call skin color…black men have to be in the system in the white world although Vasquez is Spanish the girl is white and it’s always whiteys decision to choose. black ppl never have a choice

  • tintin

    She realizes now after the embarrassment of the video Being released. Stfu

  • shun king

    growing up old school down south this is the norm

  • monique

    I hope he can’t get signed with any other team either. Now what will he do?

  • Karen Brady

    Extremely

  • Reenaface

    I’m sorry, but we would’ve been two fighting mofos. I would’ve lit that stairway up trying to connect the bottom of my sneakers with his gentials, followed by his nose. Especially, when he was standing with his back facing the stairs, one swift push knocking him down a flight to the floor would’ve did the trick, followed by some blows to his head. I’m not used to getting hit on, so it is a natural reaction for some to fight back. I’m glad he lost his job, stupid ass bastard!

  • Being bad is way more fun

    In the eyes of stupid Americans Trump and Fox News watchers they are because he is darker than her and she can pass for white so it doesnt matter what there last name is the verdict will still be the same .. Plus this was a blanket statement not really about this article.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    I hope this guy gets blacklisted by every professional team, and never gets to play pro baseball again. Ever.

  • hottlanta

    I saw this yesterday and I noticed how he grabbed her expensive bag because he knew how much she loves that bag and how much she was willing to continually get her azz whupped so she can front in public with that bag as if she really got it going on. That is why my bags are knock off so when he hit me I can take my bag and knock him the fyck out.

  • RICHIE_RICH

    He looks black , where? ?

  • Reenaface

    So not even the Kardashians are spared from an occasional beating from the Mandingo type brothers that they like to flaunt around? (Lol)???? j/k

  • dontgetblocked

    Mine are not knock offs but I’ll still beat his azz with it and anything else I can pick up and hurl.

  • klwbaby

    I think its different because in some states/ jurisdictions, it doesn’t matter if the girl wants to press charges. If the police think abuse has occurred, then they will press charges on him. In other places, if the girl doesn’t want to press charges, then he will be allowed to go on his way. But in those instances, the police might arrest him for disturbing the peace or if he’s drunk, he will get charged with public intoxication.

  • hottlanta

    Naw back in the day he would have gotten some hot grits on his azz southern style. Even the pastor talk about Al Green and hot grits if you cross me.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l9EbuQavc80

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    So why the regrets NOW? IJA! Did a promise not fall through so it’s revenge time?

  • Malcom Flex

    She’s not black so IDGAF!

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    SMR: Vasquez is now married to another woman.

    Only Sandra would think to include this tidbit.

    SMDH!!!

  • hottlanta

    Did you see her mother with them on television looking all friendly and cute. Smiling like she was on top model and when she brought God into it I was done. People kill me bringing God into your mess to make it right.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Ha,ha,ha!!!

    I take it that you grew up with brothers.

  • hottlanta

    The other girl think she is special and won a prize. Pretty soon she is gonna find out she is just another one.

  • hottlanta

    How in the hell you gonna knock my glasses off my face and you worrying about my eyesight and you put the glasses back on so I can see you hit me again. I can’t.

  • hottlanta

    I hear ya.

  • Allihave2say

    Auntie stays on it.

  • Monique B

    No, She looking for her 15 mins of fame.

  • Raquelle Dellaghetto

    She regrets it? He slapped her like a pimp slaps an unruly heaux and he knocked her glasses and bag off of her but I guess it’s cool with her because his money probably paid for it.

  • Raquelle Dellaghetto

    Nah, he paid for that shi t.he wasn’t about to let it sit on the dirty floor.

  • Allihave2say

    I didn’t grow up with brothers but I saw my cheating stepdad beating my mother and used to step between them to defend her. She always fought back. He was handsome and a great stepdad but a horrible husband.

    From that I learned to never be bitten. I dispensed with love pats early in the doing stage so my now husband wouldn’t be confused into believing I like to be hit or it’s ok.

  • Sally Wright McLinn

    Those Latin guys can be vicious.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    I cant believe she didn’t press charges against him. If that was my kid, I’d be driving her down to the police station to press charges.

  • Mrs.Meenie

    Ike must be proud

  • GrapeCrush

    Her name is Fabiana Perez so I don’t think she’s ‘technically’ white ?????

  • Missy

    Tht lady was crazy af??

  • Missy

    He beats the new wife too; I’d bet my salary on it.

    ^^This^^

  • Chaseboogie The Prince

    WOW!!! Seven YEARS??? That’s a lot of smacking around. I’m glad she got out. I hope they don’t have kids together.

  • don juan

    He beat her up he beat her all down the stairs and then put her glasses back on her face. Bastard.

  • Malai

    This is the perfect comment for what that video depicts..it’s heartbreaking

  • Guest

    I would like to know what his reasoning was for beating her that day..

  • Rayne

    Forreal. I keep one on me.

  • Rayne

    Looks like it too.

  • LaksFan

    That guy is a piece of shit.

  • IamAllnatural

    Wtf, I wish a mofo would… I would’ve kicked him so hard down the stairs, then stepped on him & walk away. I will never understand how people allow someone to constantly beat them up. I may not be the best fighter but I refuse to be abused. Whatever I can pick up, that’s my weapon of opportunity.

  • IamAllnatural

    They are very controlling and they mostly want a housewife.

  • the guest

    Agreed.

  • Soon2BWife

    What a gent. He placed her glasses back on after he smacked them off.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    with hot grits FOH

  • V Dubb

    Indeed! Just crazy tho

  • Indies beauty

    Wow. This video brings me back to first grade. Watching my dad beat the crap out of my mom. I never talk about it but I get flashbacks of my dad kicking my mom while she’s in between the screen door and wall. People like him are monsters.

  • Berry Melon

    From what I can see this is probably not the first time he has done that and won’t be the last. Danry Vasquez has moved on with his life and is now married to another woman. He claims he respects, values and loves his wife. Fabiana Perez should have pressed charges, I mean the video just shows him for what he really is. I wonder what she said to make him explode into a rage like that? Anyway good luck to his next wife, she’s gonna need it. Because as soon as she says the wrong thing… BOOM!!! He’ll be beating her ass, but then again she would have been warned in advance. Someone needs to whoop his ass, so he knows what it feels like.

  • Reenaface

    No brothers, I had all sisters… But I did have a few fights with boys in school.

  • Intellectual by Nature!

    Sorry you had to witness that.

  • Yetunde

    I’m so sorry to read this.

  • ArDnAhC45

    So she can see the next slap coming after the first one.

  • ArDnAhC45

    Lol

  • ArDnAhC45

    Mad because he married someone else after she got all the majority of the abuse.

  • SG

    I am so sorry!

  • shun king

    what do you think the males in her family could do to him that he couldn’t also do to them? best thing to do was call the police

  • Sushi

    Same here ,in my bra……Play with it if you want to you will catch some hot steel

  • Holler If Ya Hear Me

    Right

  • Holler If Ya Hear Me

    Could be anything. He didn’t do well in practice, because it’s Tuesday, because Monday night football was cancelled. Because she gave him OJ instead of Apple Juice. Like really…

  • Reenaface

    Soon after kicking his ass, bring the yellow tape. It would’ve been a real Discovery ID situation in that stairway. Bring that Joe dude from the ID channel to come and put together the pieces of just what the fukk took place in that stairwell. The coroner would’ve been working overtime that day finding a torso on the 5th fl, legs on the 3rd fl, arms on the 2nd fl. The family would’ve been instructed to make funeral arrangements. ” It’s gonna be a lot of slow singing and flower bringing”….

  • Chuck

    I have no sympathy for this pathetic bitch. She stayed for the money. Bitches kill me with this low self-esteem shit that they probably inherited from their mothers, grands, aunts, etc. Who the fuck stay in a n abusive relationship? Only women who want to be there. There is too much information in these days to stay with an abuser. There are shelters, foundations, etc. that help people who are being abused. GTFOH with that BS. She had the opportunity to have this cowardly monster arrested, but for selfish reasons, chose not to do it; so fuck her.

  • Chuck

    Sorry to hear about your past. You are not alone. I watched my “dad” beat my mom too, and vowed that I would never become that person. My question has always been why my mom stayed, and allowed us to see that. I never asked her. She is 80 now. I talked to a counselor and it helped. I hope you have and will find peace.

  • mark1984

    she better watch her back, he did all that unprovoked you know he coming for her after he has been fired..
    for the life of me I do not see how in this modern age women stay with men who Ike Turner them

  • mark1984

    unfortunately I grew up watching my mother being violently beaten by my alcoholic father. The color purple and Tina Turner has nothing on the level of violence I saw growing up. and yes it has affected all aspects of my life years later.
    I say this because later I realized why my mom stayed, poor education, lack of money, fear of being homeless, fear of him, fear of going back home. I wish my mom would have had the courage to leave, to go to a shelter, but in some way I think it was for the well being of me as I am successful now.
    I have no sympathy either until I remember the many reasons women do stay. But I cannot help think this is a different time there are more resources to help women get out.

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    Men who abuse women are scum

  • Mia Said so

    Everything you just said

  • Mia Said so

    Sorry Mr. Mark.. but I wish A mother. Fuck#% would ever put there hands on me..

  • Shira Harding-James

    Do you know why she stayed, or why she didn’t leave?

  • Lady_Elle

    She didn’t have to say ANYTHING… he is an abuser.
    Abusers typically find a way to blame their VICTIMS for their crappy behavior.

  • Shira Harding-James

    There isn’t anything more disgusting then to blame someone for getting beat. So she’s the blame for getting beat senseless? I keep reading she stayed for the money, however they were together for 7 years, so she stayed with him back then for the money too? or I read why is she speaking now, because he moved on and was signed? No, because the video leaked and she was interviewed.

  • Lady_Elle

    Well stated!!! I agree!

  • Lady_Elle

    So sorry this young lady went thru such horrific abuse.
    I am glad the ABUSER lost his job!
    Abusers do not just STOP… I wonder how he treats his wife?

  • mark1984

    “you better knock him upside his head and think about heaven later”….

  • Lady_Elle

    So typical of some to blame the VICTIM!

  • Runner

    This is so not funny at all, but it made shamefully chuckle

  • C Mack

    People always talk about what they would have done but the gag is IT’S NOT YOU! Stop giving this girl hell bc she didn’t react the way y’all would have!

    She’s super young and we all know how young ppl can foolishly entertain ppl who mean them no good. HE was wrong and anyone blaming her is an idiot! She’s speaking now because she was asked to!

  • IamAllnatural

    I blame her parents for not raising a strong, confident young woman. She obviously has low self esteem to allow physical & mental abuse.

  • hottlanta

    Wow we share the same story. My dad left because he got tired of disrespecting my mom. Went to live with a woman in the same neighborhood where I had to walk past their house everyday to go to school but he never hit this woman she would have shot his azz. I remember going to the grocery store and saw my dad buying groceries by himself. He never did that for us, mom always went to the store. I learned at a young age that men do different things with different women when they want to. My dad is dead and when he died my mom said she would have taken him back. She WAITED on him to return to her and be her husband. Like you I had to decide to be mad at my mom or my dad. Some women buy into the vows he is your husband for life until he takes the life outtta you. MomHots is 85 and they believed your husband can dishonor you but you have to honor him. If the title of wife comes with an azz whupping I proudly wear the title of being single to my grave.

  • hottlanta

    That’s bullshit I told my Lil Hots if you allow a man to whup your azz/disrespect you don’t blame me for it. She is an adult she is raising herself. You become strong when YOU make the decision to become strong, can’t blame the parents. My babies are in their 40’s and I be dayum if I am gonna wear myself out trying to make them strong. She decided on her definition of love and the kind of relationship she wants, not the parents.

  • hottlanta

    She is caught up in he was my first love and will be my forever love. I have seen super old people who foolishly entertain people who mean them no good. Age has nothing to do with it. He whupped her azz and told her to stand like an obedient child and she did. She had a chance to run down the steps to get away from him but she didn’t. Sounds like a Ike/Tina relationship where they fight/fyck.

  • ArDnAhC45

    It wasn’t, just weird of him putting back on her glasses. He was worrying about her sight more than her face.

  • IamAllnatural

    She is only 21, and you don’t believe her upbringing has an impact on who she is?
    What you told your daughter is probably totally different from what this young woman was told because she would’ve had a different reaction to this situation.

  • RealATLPeach36

    You know what I would’ve agreed with you until I seen a situation like this. This guy is a millionaire attorney right her in Atlanta, he stayed beat his ex-ass, whip her ass! I always said damn…can’t be me. She said well easy for you to say. I told her I’ll kill him or the police will! He left her, with left over scars that will never disappear..

    Sis did not even save money, selling off Chanel and shit! Side note I purchased two ?????

    Anywho his new girl is cool, smart not as pretty but very smart and make her own money, not millionaire, but goooodd. Any ways we all went out, she saw a guy she knew and she was speaking to him and started laughing. Here I’m saying uugghhh he’s about to whip her ass. He went over to her, grab her arm and said something in her ear…

    LORD SHE punch ?? his ass so hard, he was temporarily def. She ask me to take her home ( she rode with him). Me, my date and her left. She was very vocal and sound like Oprah from Color Purple “ I’ll be damn if I’m that girl to get checked and embarrassed or be some NIGGA punching bag…I’m my own damn boss.

    3 months later that started dating again. He asked her to marry him, but before she said yes he had to do:
    1 ) Anger Counseling
    2) Couples counseling

    She’s happy, he’s happy and their new baby is healthy and cute!!!!

    My point is not every relationship is treated the same. I guess it took her to get him straight….. side note I wonder if she’s beating his ass? He’s so submissive to her fucking creepy

  • hottlanta

    His dyck and that expensive purse made an impact on who she is.

  • RealATLPeach36

    I know I giggled I thought he whip her ass again for not keeping those glasses on. Chile everyone is different

  • RealATLPeach36

    I want to k ow why was it brought up again?

  • RealATLPeach36

    Wait but he told her to hush, went through a door, I guess to see if anyone was listening…?

  • Monique B

    KARMA WILL FIND HIM, THE NEXT GIRL WILL KILL HIM!!

  • RealATLPeach36

    He left her whip ass no marriage just left now married to another woman that I guarantee he don’t whip on

  • IamAllnatural

    You can’t compare a 21 year old to someone in their 40s.

  • V Dubb

    Nope not down there..know all about the area. Wtf did police matter if the courts got wind of it and gave his ass probation?

  • hottlanta

    Parents are not responsible for who their adult kids invite in their bed and head. You don’t know if the family told her to leave him alone because he was no good for her. You know how it goes when you say he ain’t no good they never leave. Stop blaming the parents for HER decision to be with this guy. She made the choice to be with him and she has to make a decision to want better for herself and leave. Folks wear themselves out trying to get people out of a toxic relationship and getting played for a fool by the abused victim. You don’t know how much money and time they spent on her and they said enuf is enuf.

  • http://www.pureromance.com LA

    Omg! Im glad she is away from this monster.. I pray his current wife doesn’t go through this abuse. Wow, I watched the video against my better judgement, smh..

  • hottlanta

    I know some 21 year old women that would have shot him and some 40 year old women that would do what she did. Your point is what.

  • C Mack

    Not saying older ppl don’t get caught up in similar situations, but teens and young adults especially find themselves in situations that they look back on later in life wishing they had made different choices

  • http://www.pureromance.com LA

    Some people dont have empathy or reading/comprehension skills..
    I totally agree with your statement.

  • http://www.pureromance.com LA

    So sorry you experienced that as a child and my heart goes out to your mother..

  • http://www.pureromance.com LA

    Wow!

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    Thanks for sharing. Parents everywhere (and I’d say especially fathers) need to instill the mindset in their daughters that this stuff is never OK to put up with from any man… and to let them know there’s a support system available for them to leave an abusive relationship if they need to.

  • Vonn

    It doesn’t matter how many resources are available. A lot of these woman are mentally held hostage. Your brain is the strongest part of your body.

  • ?Patty Kakes?

    I hope his career is ruined. I bet he would never hit a man like that

  • IamAllnatural

    She’s been with him since she was 14, so she was a child when she “invited him into her bed and head.” At that age, my parents were teaching me the value of education & hard work, and not to focus on boys. I was taught how to be independent and confident, and not to take bs from anyone or settle for less.
    I was 23 when my boyfriend body slammed me after I caught him cheating. I got up, dusted myself off, popped him in the mouth with his timberland boot, and then called the police and my family. I talked to him one more time when he apologized 3 months later. If I was raised differently, I probably would’ve stayed with him.
    I thank my parents for making me into the strong black woman that I am today!

  • Tlowe89

    I totally agree. I’ve been in a domestic abuse situation before and it’s more than just physical. A lot of times these young women lack confidence and the wrong guy crosses their path, and he gains mental control over you. You also have to take into account many men tend to be stronger than woman and when your in that situation all you thinking is please just stop, or if it’s really bad , it just please just let me live. You not thinking ohhh let me get this big strong man back, because you feel the beating or hits with get much worse. Your just so very scared. People stay because your scared to leave and you don’t know what to do on your own because you gave someone else so much control over your life you forget how to get that control back

  • hottlanta

    I stand by what I said. You made a choice to leave she made a choice to stay.21 she is an adult not a child.

  • mark1984

    that’s deep. I never heard that before. your brain is the strongest part ……very nice.

  • Vonn

    Yessir, it controls your entire body. ?

  • Karen Brady

    Abuse in any fashion.

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    FACTS

  • Ajavee

    ??

  • the guest

    Amen!

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    At age 16 he signed a baseball contract with a $1.2 million bonus upfront. He’s 24 now. That’s 8 years ago. They were together for 7 years. No one is blaming the victim, but facts are facts. Iyanla even said women will put up with anything for money.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    No she didn’t. A slap does not leave bruises.

  • Bee jaay Cee

    IWANW (I wish a nikka would) Naw. He’s a POS but it takes 2.She can be passive but what did it get her? Also not speaking up can cause the next woman possible…..death.

  • Bee jaay Cee

    Well…free your mind and your ass will follow!

  • Bee jaay Cee

    Yes, but at some point you have to leave. I was in an abusive relationship but I used to fight back. sometimes throwing the first punch, and fought him while I was pregnant. I decided that the sex and my kids wellbeing wasn’t worth it, and I left with 2 kids. He should have been running from me.

  • https://vidozz.com/cyq ????? Kari ?????????

    You would have thought the video was enough to have charges brought against him

  • Vonn

    Lol. Agreed. It’s tough though.

  • 11pink123

    Clearly people are wired differently. I dumped my ex fiancé the day he raised his voice at me and yelled “NO”… there was nothing else to say, as soon as he yelled at me, My eyes bucked wide open and I opened the door and got out of the car. The next day he tried to apologize and I changed my number and ain’t talk to him since.

    So I cannot even understand how you let a man get to this point. Something wrong with this woman and any woman that let a man hit her ever. Something is wrong!!!!

  • Enoughsaid2020

    I learned everyone has a different threshold for pain, but these domestic violence cases, are never good, and usually lead to death, or prison. I’m sure his new wife is brainwashed, and scared to leave. There country is so poor, and if he taking care of these women, they will stay no matter what. Glad he is not in the league, and he will end up in jail, or six feet under. SMH!

  • Kimberly King

    Is she pregnant in this video ?….. Chile… I would have bitten his hand CLEAN the f*ck off. Probably would have bit his face off too. They would have been arresting me because they’d think I was gone off the bath salts. That’s one of my #1 rules: MAN OR WOMAN- KEEP YOUR HANDS TO YOURSELF. PERIOD.

  • Shira Harding-James

    Not every person who lacks confidence is because of how they are raised. We don’t know her background or her story. Low esteem can happen from a mulititude of things, so hopefully it isn’t because of her parents.

  • Roxie Moxie

    See….that would have been the last time he hit me. Since I’ve learned that arsenic cannot be found on a tox report, I’m good. I would wait until he was in an apologetic mood…make him his favorite meal (which would be his last), and that about it. Simple.

  • Ebony Starr

    Especially after losing his job. He’s definitely more abusive!

  • Ebony Starr

    And she should know!

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    This takes time. Be submissive. Talk him in to life insurance on the both of you. Finely ground up glass two meals a day. His aggression will subside in a few weeks. He will need you within a few months. You will get your payout within a year.
    **Allegedly**

  • the guest

    ID Discovery.

  • the guest

    I don’t want to generalize. But Latins especially afro latins seem to socialize their daughters to start dating very young, to get married very young, and that abuse and cheating are worth it for a man to take care of them. This video is not uncommon. I haven’t had many latin friends, but the few latins I knew or observed in high school and college all had relationships like on that video.

  • the guest

    People are also not looking at that the Domestic Violence industry is not always kind and not always supportive of Domestic Violence victims.

    Those organizations have been known to be cold, focused on their grant money, and not concerned whether victims end up homeless with their kids as long the organizations meet their victim quota and secure grants.

    Victims are between a rock and hard place be abused at home or abused by the Domestic Violence system. The courts are no better and excuse slick talking abusers all the time. That’s why abused women stay.

    Domestic Abusers are the best liars in the world and they convince people the victim is lying about being abused or say the victim abused them (because maybe one time they defended themselves), and abusers know if they slander a victim as a “cheater” then everyone from the domestic violence organizations to the courts all will believe the victim deserved abuse.

    I hold families of domestic violence victims accountable and most responsible. It is the families that take gifts and money from the abusers, that go around bragging about the abusers good job or wealth, that refuse to safely shelter the victim and children, and rationalize domestic violence. Some families are angry at the victim for leaving an abuser with money.

    I can almost guarantee the victim in this video had a family with their hand out to the abuser.

  • mark1984

    Well damn. …………put that in my mental rolodex.
    Want autopsy show broken glass?

  • mark1984

    Damn. Im a good guy but yall have me scared to eat

  • mark1984

    Yes. Especially the families like you said. In my case they all new too

  • mark1984

    Knew

  • Roxie Moxie

    You’re right. It’s not me now. But it was some years ago. In my situation, things were MUCH different and there was no “second chance” for him. He learned that lesson real well.
    However, there’s no need to bash her though. I definitely empathize with her because I know how it can be; each relationship is situational and people do things within the confines of that (sometimes not thinking logically) because we run high on emotions. It’s easy to say what she should have done, but I know what I did. ?

  • Roxie Moxie

    Good guys get proper meals. ? ? I’m not saying we get into an argument type-sh*t and we mad so I’ma cook you some BS. Lol I just don’t play that hittin’ on women crap. I can deal with expected and unexpected disagreements and we talk it out like adults…..but once those hands start flying then it’s fair game. You won’t have to worry about any of this though. ?

  • Chaseboogie The Prince

    Once a beater, always a beater. They rarely change. I used to volunteer at a domestic violence shelter, and they would have training and such. And one of the things I remember from that experience is that the beater has about a 1 percent chance of changing. That’s right, just one percent of them ever change. So that means 99 percent of the time the beater doesn’t change their habits. Sometimes it shifts into verbal or emotional abuse, but the control, the need to inflict fear, manipulation, rarely if ever leaves a person. They had a visitor who worked ten years in the field of changing men that were abusers (I know women abuse too, but this program was geared towards men only) and only ONE guy changed in all of those men in TEN YEARS!!!! That is just how hard it is to change an abuser. And again with that one guy, the physical abuse stopped, but verbal continued. Controlling habits continued.

  • Holler If Ya Hear Me

    Pretty much. Hispanics, aasians snd whites always come looking to the black community for sympathy. But if it were Shantikka, they don’t even associate themselves with our plight.

  • OvertheMississippi

    Antifreeze!!! Odorless and tasteless!!

  • Roxie Moxie

    Most of them won’t. More than likely, they have a thing for penises also. *shrugs*

  • Layah Jhene

    Or blow his head off the first time he raise a hand to you.

  • GrapeCrush

    Well damn my niggah wtf r u so salty??

  • XoXo

    I have never understood people that are abusive to other people, and then have the nerve to eat a meal cooked by the person they abused. I’m sorry, but that just leaves me puzzled.

    So…one time, I told my now abusive ex the same thing. The next day, I said “honey, would you like something to eat?” He says “no.” Ok, KOOLAID SMILE! ?

  • XoXo

    It’s not just the hitting, the verbal abuse is just as bad.

  • Shira Harding-James

    Sandra look at your comment section….people are blaming her and calling her a b$&@! Iyanla…really?!

  • Malcom Flex

    Kudos to you. That was the dumb ho test. You failed it! Dumb hos let males yell at them then cuss them then hit them. All tests. Smart women walk away at the first sign of crazy.

  • the guest

    No woman’s safety from violence should ever be bargained by their family or organizations for convenience and profit.

  • KB

    Fight or flight, that’s what everyone says. When you’re in a domestic violence experience, It comes at you hard and you’re confused

    I’m just telling my story.

    It may not even happen w/n a month let alone taking the time to get to know him w/o sex, only seeing him in public and conversing on the phone. F.***, that shoulda could talk because it’s different for each & every one. I am a survivor of that ?. Unless you’ve walked in the same shoes, say what you want…but you really don’t know unless you had the unfortunate experience. To me, it took me back to that mindset as a child being molested. I’ve been through ?, i wasn’t prepared for that mess.

  • Renee26

    Right… The state could have picked up the case…. But money talks

  • Renee26

    In hindsight could you recall the warning signs you missed?? There are always signs of crazy that come out early before years get invested

  • Renee26

    Funny, I was slapped and had bruises and a tooth knocked back from an open hand slap… And I’m brown

  • KB

    Not a damn one with him. However, his family….hell yes, I felt was just off. We always left when they would just start amongst themselves and he was never involved. We never argued, fought it literally came out of nowhere. To this day I’m still talking about it in therapy and it happened in 2012.

  • Sally Wright McLinn

    Just saw that footage. Glad the team dropped him. Let him drive a Uber car.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    I’m sorry that happened to you. The damage inflicted by a backhand slap is lessened by the energy that is transferred. The difference between the open hand slap and closed fist punch is the energy transferred on impact.

    If you notice, Vasquez slapped her and followed through – like a tennis player – which dissipates the energy and inflicts less damage to the blood vessels under the skin, thus no immediate swelling or bruising is seen. It’s a technique that American men have not mastered.

  • Chuck

    Women back in the day didn’t have the resources that are out now. And, back in the day, no one discussed DV; however, it’s a different world (no pun intended) now.
    I am sorry that your mom was abused, and hope you have sought the help that you need.

  • Chuck

    The truth isn’t for everyone; so, I get your question.

  • Chuck

    Sorry for your past.. just don’t allow it to impact your present and future; even if it affected your past. My dad eventually moved on & out of the house, and got a girlfriend that he never abused. So, like you said, men treat women differently. He eventually died, and I purposely missed his funeral. Before death, I believe if he wanted my mom back, she would have taken him back.

  • Chuck

    My comment isn’t intending to blame the victims.. it’s shedding light that there are resources and to get help because it is no longer the 60’s.. help is here for DV victims.

  • Chuck

    She said security. Do the research before commenting.

  • http://ebonynsweet.com Ebony N’ Sweet

    He was beating her because he didn’t want her anymore.. That’s why he never married that woman after 7 yrs ha. He probably didn’t know how to break up and just kept her around lol

  • Indies beauty

    Thank you. My mom is 52 and is very open with us. Ive never asked her why she satyed but she told me countless of times, she stayed because of her kids. At this time, she was in her 20’s, in a new country and unabale to speak the language. My dad had alot of important jobs in politics so she felt as though she needed him.

    My mom left my dad so many times and he would always find us and work his way back into the house. He never abused his kids just my mom which confused us because he was charismatic, and the “fun” parent. i have zero contact with my father but im always searching for answers. My mom tells me now, she was young and dumb and would never let any man disrespect her. She also told me she was never in love with my father recently which is even more confusing.

  • Indies beauty

    Thank you for sharing… Its crazy but i think about my fathers funeral as well. i dont know how i would react. I love him but im so disconnected from him. i wouldnt even know if anything happened to him since i have no contact. I google his name once in awhile to make sure he hasnt passed.

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    finely ground; not broken… if married, cremate with no autopsy; it’s the wife’s choice if homicide is not being investigated… the sickness will seem more like a body shut down; no toxicology problems will show… doesn’t look like homicide unless you acting funny. **Allegedly””

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    I’m a victim of that channel …and Snapped…. I’ve learned all the mistakes not to make.

  • ?Royalty?

    Well, if you’re not slapping anybody for the thrill, you shouldn’t have much cause for worry. ?? Supposedly.?

  • ?Royalty?

    ????????

  • YellowSauce

    he was beating her because he didn’t want her anymore ???? !!! …. There is something called “break up “, ” calling it of ” , ETC … When did removing yourself from a relationship mean beating someone because you couldn’t just say … “Hey listen this isn’t working anymore, lets end this” … Be CAREFUL with what flies out of your mouth ESPECIALLY when you are judging someone … AND you added an lol … Evil IS as Evil does … good luck .. bye now ….

  • Shira Harding-James

    I comment when I feel that I need to…it’s a public blog. Anywho enjoy the rest of your day!

  • mark1984

    Im not

  • mark1984

    ???

  • mark1984

    Honestly i just excepted that I do need help. Im not an abuser but have very poor interpersonal skills. I can date but unable to maintain relationships

  • Sojourner’s Truth

    Just looking at me strange is enough. I am gone.

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    Kk

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    Several times, And. You still can Not tell the mannerism of either person, unless You know the Whole story!!!

  • yvette46

    Your just a sick as he is adding lol.. Hopefully, when someone want to breakup with you they treat you the same way in this video lol..

  • schm0e

    Somebody please do the right thing.

  • http://worldstarhiphop.com/ The Dutchess

    I’ve watched quite a few shows on ID channel antifreeze seems undetectable This woman took out 4 ppl in her family nobody knew what was going on including the police She was putting it in their soda & their organs started shutting down they got sick and died

  • Louisville Is4TheBirds

    Definitely. I agree

  • Louisville Is4TheBirds

    Sounds good. Til u got caught.

  • Roxie Moxie

    It does sound good, doesn’t it? You have to plan it just so. You can’t go off the handle and do it all willy nilly…..whatchu think, I’m stupid. lol I know a few women who may not have had their spouse pushing up daisies, but dude definitely learned their lessons and no one is the wiser. *winks*

  • Roxie Moxie

    LOL @ “strange enough”. Too funny…..

  • nomika brown

    Agreed he was beating her because he did not want her anymore why not break up with her and just walk away that’s no excuse hitting a woman is not acceptable point blank

  • Blue

    I believe the government made antifreeze makers put something in it to change that. Y’all ruthless on this blog though. LOL.

  • SDot

    omg omg i just cried.

  • Simone

    He is crazy as Fuk! Then he tries to put her glasses back on like nothing happen. I could only imagine what he did to her in the privacy of their home. I can never understand why women stay with men who do stuff like that. I would have been calling my homeboys if I could whoop that a@#. No way will I ever let a man beat me and stay with him. Hell to the NAWWWW.

  • Simone

    Yes…LOL!

  • 5000BlinK

    We have to know when its time….

  • garrisonville

    He’d have to die. Period.

  • Just here4 the comments

    OMG… I feel so bad for her. Where is her dad? I hope she has brothers or some cousins.

  • Toni Toni Toni

    LOL.. Ummmm..
    You scare me girl. LOL!

    People better not try to eff u over.

  • Miss Thang

    Oh, it would have been ON if I was that chick. He’s a punk, pure and simple. I might not have won, but he would have got a kick to the balls, SOMETHING.

  • Toni Toni Toni

    LMAO

  • tisha

    I’m glad she spoke out because other sites said they was together I’m glad she had the strength to leave

  • ShWa

    Glad she left him before he killed her.

  • Quitedeliteful

    WOW!!! So he’s gonna pimp-slap her and then help her put her glasses back on?!? She should have sued the 1.2 million dollar signing bonus right off of him…I feel sorry for any woman he get’s with…

  • Quitedeliteful

    I can’t believe how vicious this guy is!!! I’m glad he lost his job… Mean muhfugga needs to be in jail getting it up the bum for this atrocity…

  • Banka

    Well if he ever gets with my daughter you need to feel sorry for him, bcuz I am seeing red just by looking at this vidoe of him hitting someone else daughter… These little punk mofos are out of hand and there is absolutely no reason the state did not pick up this case and press charges. the video is more than enough proof for domestic violence/ assault charges…….

  • Quitedeliteful

    I agree. How in the world does he feel like this is okay???

  • Banka

    No one needs to be told to NOT be a punching bag for someone that’s suppose to love and care for them… Hell if you beat a dog too many times, it will run away at the first chance it gets…

  • Patty Anderson

    You mention Uber as if that is a demeaning occupation. Got news for you hunti….I drive Uber and net $1,100 per week minimum. It’s a decent living and I make my own schedule and take off whenever I feel like it. Not defending homeboy or his actions, but one CAN support a family quite well on Uber coins.

  • http://ebonynsweet.com Ebony N’ Sweet

    I’m happily married, and my wife loves to be slapped lol

  • http://ebonynsweet.com Ebony N’ Sweet

    Eat a dick… I don’t have to be careful about shyt.. Freedom of speech. Bitch!

  • LeGard JoJo

    God got that butt and said remember Fabiana….yeah that part.

  • Trace da Ace

    OMG!!! I would have had his ass locked up so fast!!!! Bastard!!!!! Only a bitch ass man would do something like that!!! She should have kicked him in the balls, then pushed his ass down the stairs….face first!!! Punk ass bastard!!

  • Guess Who

    Damn, he’s an animal

  • IamAllnatural

    Some parents teach their kids to fight back if someone hits them, while other parents want them to tell the authority. Who knows if she didn’t witness a male in her family beating a woman. A person’s character is learned and continues to develop throughout life. I don’t understand why some people on here believe the way you are raised has no influence on the adult you become.

  • Banka

    It does have influence to a point, but sometimes kids grow up and try to be the exact opposite of their parents, especially those that came from a broken home and/or had a bad child hood. Case and point my father was a alcoholic …….I HATE ALCOHOL !!!

  • Renee26

    It can be a long process… Stay strong

  • KB

    Thank you, Renee ??.

  • Dem Moore

    Just heart breaking, I can’t understand why a man would hit any women, especially one he claims to love.

  • Applebootay

    Wait WHET!? Ummmmmm NO, He was beating her because he is an out of control psycho that needs prison time and therapy.

  • Lolly Asher

    So creepy how he picks her sh&t up after each attack. And did he go back and get her food she left behind then knock her down for it?
    Freak has a demented take on chivalry.

  • SEXYMOET

    PO BABY NOW SHE KNOWS THE GRASS AINT GREENIER WHEN IT COMES IN DARK PACKAGING. DAILY BM ALL OVER SPEW HATE ON SISTAS. START EXPOSING THEM AS WOMEN BEATERS, CHILD NEGLECTORS, LAZY SQUATTERS, HATEFUL DOWN LOWS AND THE CHEATERS THAT THEY ARE. ITS PAINFUL TO SEE ALL THE VIDEOS AGAINST BW ON YOUTUBE. NOPE I AM NOT BITTER OVER NO MAN I M JUZ SICK OF THEIR HATE

  • George

    They probably couldn’t get the video into evidence without her cooperation since no one else witnessed the assault firsthand.

  • http://ebonynsweet.com Ebony N’ Sweet

    lol

  • Runner

    Loooool

  • Not a Housewife & Neither RU

    Why are guys like that always in a relationship? Clearly realtionships aren’t your thing. Behavior like this doesn’t change w/o intensive therapy, he’s probably knocking his current wife upside her head now

  • ?Royalty?

    Many women have been in abusive situations where they experienced violence, threats or stalking. Still some woman will often help a man abuse another woman, even tho they have been abused themselves.

    It’s fascinating, really?

  • ?Royalty?

    And Stalkers.