Is this too much information? Jada Pinkett Smith says she was only 9 years old when her grandmother taught her how to pleasure herself.

Jada, 46, shared her personal story of self-gratification on Monday's episode of her Facebook series Red Table Talk.

Jada Pinkett-Smith

“My grandmother taught me about self-pleasuring because she wanted me to know that that pleasure was from me,” she told her mother, Adrienne Banfield-Jones, and daughter, Willow Smith. "She didn't want me to fall into the hands of a man -- and if he gave me pleasure, to think that that was him. And she taught me at 9!”
 
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The mother of 2 said she still “struggled in my own sexuality” even though she had a good teacher in her grandma.

“I’ve had a lot of experience with sex toys. I think by your age, I gave myself multiples first. Multiple orgasms,” she told Willow’s friend Telana Lynum, 21. “I was really into it at one point, just because I was in an exploration state and I was abstaining from men.

“I actually think I went through kind of an addiction, too, with it. And then one day, I was just like, ‘Enough. You’re having five orgasms a day.’ You get addicted ‘cause you can create so much pleasure. You just constantly want it."

Jada wore her natural hair pinned up rather than wear a lacefront wig or a scarf to conceal her recent hair loss.

 

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    isn't this an old story? (and TMI....) LOL!

  • Quagsire!

    This post is wrong on sooooo many levels?
    Grandma?!
    Teaching self pleasure skills?!?!
    At the age of 9?!?
    Oh my DAYUM!!!

  • SweetTEE

    yea.. I can dig the point she was trying to make since I basically had the same mindset at 15... but 9 is a bit early for that type of self discovery. I was not thinking bout sex at 9.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    i guess she had finished her homework and done all her chores... next on the list was a bedtime story? https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/5a16feb7886870b58e876a7ffc6b264e7419e743bb55ec579123b82d4a427799.gif

  • Anunnaki

    Lmaoo

  • PhillyFacts

    Granny should’ve been in jail for “corrupting the morals of a minor”... tf

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    girl! and i'm thinking me and my gran were tight, i'm even named after her. but this right here? this was not part of our bonding experience. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/9eb2b76e506e38d5072dd1cf3ad262774eb5ffcb7856de93eefa3205f33fbcb1.gif

  • Holler If Ya Hear Me

    Why does this need to be shared with the world? Why is ones sexuality do important in day to day conversations?

  • Coy little wink

    Is she going to share what and why she did that to her face...I mean that's all I really wanna know at this point

  • Kemi

    And she’s sharing this with the world telling 9 years old girls, to be sexually curious? What is the logic behind sharing this? Some things need to be kept to self!

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    Reel it in Jada

  • KcoolMuziq

    #TEAMJADA

    I LOVE this family they're my heroes. I don't see anything wrong with them being honest and open about their sexuality. People are just to uptight and put too much emphasis on sexuality. It's really not that serious..

  • hi-liter

    Your grandma was a pedophile Jada....sorry.

  • BadAss Will

    shut up ??

  • hi-liter

    I read years ago that all kids touch themselves when they are around a certain age, shat I remember doing it. It’s not something that is taught or should be taught by someone. I’m just thinking... Shid, what if she had said her granddaddy taught her....just weird.

  • BadAss Will

    Really Jada? Grandma she could've learn by hunching her cousins like the rest of us.. WHAT THE FUK IS WRONG WITH THIS FAMILY THO? I'm starting to believe they making shit up for a Netflix deal.

  • i troll it like i see it

    I haven't watched her web series but between this and her daughter admitting to cutting, I'd say this may be a little too personal. Do they not discuss what they are talking about prior to the show?

  • therealashland

    Jada I love you. I really do but sis you talk to damn much i need you to just hush and look pretty

  • MistaO

    .???

  • Tena

    Jada please stop talking. She is saying way too much.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    She could have totally kept that to herself. There's nobody in this world who really needed to hear that.

    Clearly this woman just has no filter. ??

  • Logan Roberts

    Those poor children. Jada & Will are some sick individuals, they fit right in with Hollywood ??.

  • Logan Roberts

    Trying to be so hip & provocative

  • teather

    I think ppl are missing the point. She did the show to be shocking. So, this among many other things will be discussed in order for us to stop and read and comment and maybe watch next time to see what else she may say. Today, shock value is what ppl are craving as well as attention. This satisfied both that will garner attention, future business. If we stop watching and being shocked, she'll stop too. The story is a family thing. I can't discuss family stuff. My family may do sh*t you all find offensive too. Who knows? 9 is really young, but we know girls get preggo at 10/11 sometimes, so . . .

  • SumthinSweeter

    Why do people feel the need to reveal E V E R Y T H I N G? My gawd!

  • SumthinSweeter

    Ha!

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    I cant imagine myself having a son that age and my father, his grandfather, teaching my 9 year old son about pleasuring himself. I'm pretty sure I would think he's a pervert for that, and I'd probably feel like punching him in the mouth.
    But since this is grandma, it's cool? No, it's not. ?

  • Soda
  • leapyearpisces

    I hate to say it but, I am going to go out on a limb here and say I guess the rumors of her and Will no longer REALLY being together are true. This SCREAMS, I want attention. He out jet-setting traipsing across the world with a "family friend", and you somewhere at a red table trying to hash out "nobody knew" has been beef" with resting bish face Gabby U., and talking about your nassy-ass grandmammy showing you how to tickle the lil' man in the boat, and funding August Alsinia's transition - yeah they are NOT together anymore

  • Coffee1st

    At 9 years old, i would have been MORTIFIED if anyone, especially Granny, woulda come to me talkin bout some "pleasuring myself".
    My mind woulda nevah got back right.

  • Soda

    Tomorrow she'll correct herself and say she meant to say she was 19. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/ee678eb85c9d2c288d21cd7aba358819e18bb069fd7bfa2229b541a7e289cdb1.jpg

  • Coffee1st

    But since this is grandma, it's cool?

    no, its actually worse....in the creepiest most disturbing way possible.

  • pecancandy

    I am only here for the comments!

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!
  • Ghost

    Way too much info! She needs a movie gig to keep her busier....too much time on her hands....

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    I wondered how a man would feel if this scenario was male-to-male.... i just can't see it being a grandparent's priority, smh

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    i too thought it was a lil creepy....

  • dontgetblocked

    And this is why I don't watch her show.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!
  • Ni Ni

    You don't tell every got darn thing that done happened in your life. Some things you sposed to take to the grave. How is this information benefical to anyone? This bish crazy. No wonder them kids out there in left field.

  • Wyteprivilege

    But didn’t they let Jaden move out when he was 11? Not surprising.

  • Go Head With That

    Say less...please!

  • Reenaface

    Go away Jada!??????????

  • MookieFly

    Yea...this definitely a no no. Without watching it, I'm going to keep my fingers crossed that Grandma gave her a "my pussy and me" type of book and this was not a hands on presentation.

  • MsPam

    Jada do you have dignity?! Did grandma molest Jada?! I know Will has stop playing attention to you but can you take up a damn hobby?!

  • ?Patty Kakes?

    It's just weird to even sit and talk sex with my grandmother LoL

  • stav

    Hollyweird, the Jada of long ago has been gone. This is the type of crap that satanic Hollywood wants people to think is normal, she and her grandmother = disgusting!

  • MsPam

    Hunching cousins?! Really?! You and Jada need a damn therapist!!!?

  • BadAss Will

    You know damn well kids experiment lol not with grandma tho

  • MsPam

    If they are your hero’s, you need to do what MJ said to do, Man in the Mirror!

  • BadAss Will

    stop putting thoughts in our head ??

  • Victor Nathan

    is that all she could offer....empty brains always have only sex to offer

  • Thingamajig

    Why was that white girl at the table? Is Willow a virgin? Having a conversation about sex is not awkward, but this red table talk was weird. Is it me? Maybe it’s me.

  • Brandy Knox

    Right lol

  • Notatall

    And these are the folks yall look up to......smh

  • LithiumHaitianFlower

    August is transitioning ??! Jada been a weirdo

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    This is a perfect example of narcissistic celebrities who will do and say anything to stay relevant.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    The white girl is Willow's friend.

  • Alextra Ballard

    Lort this to murch!!! So granny taught you how to play with Yosef? Grandmaw is nasty as hell. That is something I would have taken to my grave.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Chile ... ?? WTF

  • Love Lisa

    Yikes?????

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Jesus...

    The more they (her and her kids) talk, the stranger and more dysfunctional they sound. I really wonder what those kids have been exposed to. I haven't seen her show, but I understand Willow announced on the show that she used to cut herself. Jada didn't even know. How self-absorbed and neglectful do you have to be as a parent, not to notice that your pre-teen/teen is cutting themself? Hell, my mom knew when I had a new pimple and I'm a whole adult.

  • Thingamajig

    The friend didn’t need to be there. I was so confused when Jada said she didn’t want Willow “out here in these streets”. What streets is Jada talking about? How is Bel Air considered the “streets”?

  • Blaque Mahogany

    LOL!

  • Alextra Ballard

    What a weird bunch! It's hereditary.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    ROFL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • FukkFolks2018

    "family friend"
    ^^^^
    You can say his name. I will.

    Duane.

  • FukkFolks2018

    Whomever approved this shit I want them to unapprove it

  • E-VannaRootsAllEvil

    Goodnight

  • MRiGOThim

    Wayment.......9???? O_o

  • Tlowe89

    Who is teaching 9 yr olds anything about sex. They need to be teaching them how to freaking spell and do math... and wash they darn clothes.

  • leapyearpisces

    Nah, babes....not Duane. THIS time (LOL), but some chick. Let me see if I can find a pic. It was TONS of them posted somewhere.

  • the guest

    A bit much. I agree. Not for the world.

  • justlooking

    9...I was learning how to wash my hindpots thoroughly.

    Like how did her grandmother show her this.

  • leapyearpisces

    LOL. I was being facetious. Since he looks like a female these days.

  • the guest

    I think August Alsina gave up a part of his soul for fame. Something about him, I feel bad for him.

  • the guest

    I think if she would remove the cheek implants she'd look like her natural beautiful self again. Why do people into plastic surgery always get the cheek implants that make them look like a cat? Do any of these people realize cheek implants look odd?

  • leapyearpisces

    Something went WAY WRONG, didnt? I feel bad also because it's clear he is lost spiritually, and somebody did something to that boy, but I feel he does have some type of mental problem as well.

  • FukkFolks2018

    Oop!!!! Post em!

  • Readytochokemothernatureout

    Tee emm and eye and speaking of eye I wish she'd leave her half frozen face alone.

  • Raquelle Dellaghetto

    No joke, Grandma might have been a pedophile. I've never heard of this kind of shi t before ?

  • Kayke

    They are sexually curious already.

  • leapyearpisces
  • leapyearpisces

    In other news, mona satan young really got these negroes our here in FULL WESTERN garb....complete with Dickey's, cowboy boots, hats, and scarves.....EVEN THE MEN!!!!!!!!!! BWAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHH........

  • Cii Cii Treasure

    She doesn’t need to shut up if anything grandma shouldn’t have done that and there’s no telling what happened in Grandma’s life that made her think this was a good idea... jada talking about it is healing for her. She is addressing good and evil here. Keep soul searching Jada all the way to Heaven (Paradise) Amen.

  • leapyearpisces

    This is why I take my beauty cues from the Asians -specifically the Koreans, who have PERFECTED skincare (look up glass skin). They have an AMAZING skincare industry. I say all that to say, they are very against cheek implants, because they prefer the full-cheek round look, because it makes you look young (and it does) opposed to the sculpted "model" look.

  • leapyearpisces

    LMAAAAAOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!! You saying they need to UNSIGN it. LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL!!!. Remove ALL approval signatures. LOL.

  • Solstice
  • leapyearpisces

    I am dying up in here. LOLOLOLOL.

  • leapyearpisces

    I hate all of yall...I'm logging off....I cant...LOL.

  • leapyearpisces

    This IS her hobby, and she is FAILING MISERABLY at it.....LOL. At this point, she needs to go back to hopping up and down on Mark Anthony. She is bored and BOUT to have the FEDS knocking at granny''s door.

  • FukkFolks2018

    Every last one of them.

  • hottlanta

    Someone needs to take that dayum red table and burn it. I guess she finally confess that she was Will's sidepiece during his first marriage. got hair loss and now fingering herself at 9 years old. Can't take it no mo. I still remember when your daughter had to read during a BET event and couldn't even read. You can't find it on the internet but yet you brag about fingering yourself.

  • Solstice

    I was not ready for this pic ???????!! At all. Let me just go to bed ? I can’t with the roses ? today. I’ll try harder tomorrow… https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/4a7ca6e8539e3dc6c52cf6750c1594d56d173eede99a0fbc1a01d413624b47c6.gif

  • Solstice

    Right!! I’m going to bed LMAO ?

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Y'all, we are so fortunate to witness history in just a few minutes. Just a few months ago, we were worried about nuclear missiles destroying California. And now we are moments away from world peace.

    I'm tearing up. ?

  • Solstice

    Lol cute and mute ? you say ?. This was truly TMI for me.?

  • CookieMobster

    Every last bit of ^^^^ THIS^^^^ I know when my baby don't wash behind his ears good or hides his socks beside his bed. How would you NOT know your baby is cutting herself?

  • hottlanta

    You must have one of them summit coins and a cup. Just read Dump financial advisor Kudlow just had a heart attack defending those tariffs over the weekend. Dump gonna be real pissed at him from taking the attention off him. You funny but I love my Brits anyway.

  • Kemi

    Agreed. This type of information about sexual curiosity and functions of the body/sexual parts, should come primarily from their parents, and not from an unreliable source. I believe, sex education at home ( i. e., in a healthy home environment) is very vital and does not jeopardize a child’s innocence.

  • 2telldatruth

    I wonder if Jada is dying,

  • blue skies

    I'm speechless...

  • Solstice
  • Hater

    aint this the truth!

  • Solstice

    LOG OFF!! ??? I’m crine!!

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    *faints* ....and I mean, falls the fugg out, COMPLETELY ????!

  • Hater

    this!

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    We don't want to know Sis ?

  • Hater

    „lil man in the boat“ lmao

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    ????

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    You think she has cancer?

  • Hater

    right on the money tho.....

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    ???

  • I Run New York

    When keeping it real goes wrong. TMI

  • KcoolMuziq

    Willow(whom Prince was interested in working with) is growing into a VERY beautiful woman.She looks like her father with braids and has Jada's beautiful hazel eyes..

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    Quick fast and in a hurry!!! I understand being open but this is waaaaaay out in the open and border line ? dare I say walking a thin line of molestation mainly because how did grandma “show” her or teach her at 9 how to pleasure herself? Was there a demonstration? A picture book? I’m confused never would I as a mother or grandmother think to speak to my child or grandchild about pleasuring themselves because they are 9 why is sex on their mind? I understand the birds and the bees talk but that was some next level grown up stuff there. Then to have this conversation with your child and her friend present ????? Since she being so open about sex will she address the swinging rumors? And how ppl say she is into women and will is into men and they are both ok with having a lifetime bearding contract? Since we being open

  • Shira Harding-James

    Sounds pedophile suspect to me.
    When I talk to my daughter about sex it’s for educational purposes so she knows exactly what it is....not for pleasure!

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    That’s entire PART!! There is an agenda to morally currupt kids these days and make this sex stuff ok so grown folks can lay with the babies!! These folks ain’t slick one bit!

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    This is a old nassy READ!! ?? not tickle the man in the boat ????

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    Because they are told high cheekbones are all the rave and they would look so Much better and will get soooooo many jobs. All lies!

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    Or wash their tail properly!! Some 9 years ain’t even wiping right! Or washing their hands before meals and after using the restroom. Priorities all messed up

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    Where’s the white out ! ?

  • Kemi

    Thank you!!!!!!This is what hollyweird is trying to turn the world into. I’m so glad somebody else understood this!! Definitely, there’s an agenda. That interview was too explicit, not to catch on to what’s going on!!

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    LIke your gif was any better I’m over here in tears!

  • BingBangBoom

    Example of how u can have all the money in the world and still be bored with life.

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    Can we get brands on the main line or at the red table I got a lot of questions!!

  • KcoolMuziq

    The Smiths are the most honest celebrities in the entertainment industry.They set an example of telling THE TRUTH.

  • Darkandlovely617?

    Said the ringleader ?

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    Jada gave you part of that money Tyrese was supposed to get, didn't she?

  • leapyearpisces

    If I was Jigsaw, I would sue the hell outta Jada and the rest of these hoes for copyright infringement. LOL.

  • leapyearpisces

    LMAO!!!! Or cross out with your initials and date (CGMP)...LOLOLOLOLOLOL

  • leapyearpisces

    Lies.....LOLOLOLOLOL. You sound like my friends at work. LOL.

  • Jussjess25

    Okay, so now this women has reduced her whole show to making up lies for shock value ?. The sense of desperation is sickening. ???. Screaming @ recent hairloss sandy ??

  • Jussjess25

    Thank you!

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    They do have them jigsaw cheeks ???

  • Jussjess25

    That part!

  • Stab u in neck

    and the media image as a black woman is nothing more than a sex object continues

  • TMW

    He may be “making peace” with North Korea, but he just effed relationships with 6 other countries - he absolutely made history this weekend acting like a toddler. Can’t see what kind of tantrum is next.

  • TMW

    I laughed so hard at summit coins and a cup. I couldn’t help myself. ?

  • Dowoop

    ???

  • KB

    She said he grandma taught her about self pleasure. So that doesn't necessarily mean she showed her. While I completely agree with it being 100% something I wouldn't discuss with my 9 year old grandchild. I have actually been considering having this talk with my 15 year old daughter. I was masturbating at 12 to 13. And as another person commented kids explore and mess around, doesn't make it a good scenario but it happens!

  • SummerBaby

    Jada needs to stop talking.

  • KB

    It's not like she just randomly tweeted this information. While I dont agree with teaching a 9 yr old about self pleasure. This conversation was otherwise intelligent & Jada is simply using her red table format as a way to approach topics that many if us myself included, can feel uncomfortable discussing. If you have watched this or any of the other episodes its a nice forum in which she manages to have these talks. Thanks

  • Claudia

    She does really good topics,but then she goes completely off the rails. Whose granny is talking about this with their nine year old, I was in the kitchen helping make cornbread, I thought was exciting, never sex. That's just disgusting. The Smiths go to the weirdest places. Ugh

  • KB

    Yes it's TMI. But of course leave it to Sandra to spin it, and make it more than it really was. If you take the time to watch the eposide....which I did.

  • Claudia

    At some point it's too much, nobody should be telling a nine year old child about self pleasure(sexual)

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    I watched, too.

  • Claudia

    You betta preach! Perverts in this world, it's disgusting. The Smiths are so strange, and their babies......

  • Claudia

    Lol I think Jada would do anything for Hollyweird, the career she thought she would have with Will didn't come to pass, and Lord only knows what else she has tried just to get her name out there. Trey so normal ?

  • Dainese

    I taught myself at age 7.
    *shrug

  • FukkFolks2018

    Girl. You know I'm in clinical research and CGMP made me scream. Gn.

  • Claudia

    I respect your feelings of peace, but honestly it's a false sense of peace. Trump is upsetting the order of these politics there's a reason,we may never know it that it's been this way. Washington is full of criminals, and they get rich and we go to jail for the same things, he needs to tread lightly, there has been 2 other presidents that really wanted to change things. I don't care for Trump but I pray for his safety he's in over his head.

  • Tlowe89

    & put on deodorant because those arms start lightening up around that time

  • justlooking

    I just dont get it t. Lip quiver

  • Dun Dilly

    SELECTIVE sexual TRUTHS I see....No mention of the lesbian lifestyle for years...interesting

  • abby500

    Jada needs to stfu. She has always been uber annoying and extra. Always. Regardless of how dumb and moronic her shït sounds.

  • Solstice

    ??

  • leapyearpisces

    LMAO!!!!

  • Solstice
  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    That's exactly what that shyt is... Chile ... Jada azz can miss me with this shyt here and her perversions FOH ... Gross

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Don't we bring you peace Sandra Mae ???

  • Wayup!

    ??????????
    These pics..?????

  • free

    jada, stop selling your grandma out for a dollar.

  • free

    i guess it's her grandma's fault for telling her how to make that kitty fat so she f*cked with the girls before the boys.

  • RAE23

    Exactly!!!!!!!!!!! Let's be honest about sexual curiosity people. I do think there needs to be more discussion about it among children. Grandma teaching Jada about self pleasure may be a bit much but children definitely need to be taught about what comes as natural feelings at a very young age that exist in us all as we are born to procreate. IJS Best believe a lot of children are experiencing some form of sexuality at very young ages with other children and the horrible pedophiles!

  • RAE23

    When she shared about losing herself, I thought that must have been when she made the choice to have whatever procedure distorted her beautiful face. She was a beautiful lady but now...not so much.

  • Faithz

    Exactly Jada need to stfu.

  • Faithz

    I see no Lies, good read!!

  • 2telldatruth

    Maybe so...

  • SpillyNillie

    She said her grandmother "taught" her about sexual gratification at 9! Was this via a verbal discussion or did your grandmother touch you inappropriately? Did she show you a diagram in a book or did she use herself as a model? So many questions.

    How do you teach a child about sexual gratification at 9?!?!?!?!??!!!! Especially a girl!

    Jada and Gabrielle have a lot in common I see...not knowing when to STFU 4EVA!

    UGH!!!

  • sunni_daze

    Some conversation can wait until 25. Or not be had at all.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Society discourages females from procreating until we are in our 20s or 30s. But females are ready to procreate by age 11 or 12.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Sometimes...

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Bye ... Sandra ... You know you love us...

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    I do. ?

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    ???

  • BeUtFullSoul

    TOO MUCH!!! #INAPPROPRIATE JADA!

  • January Jones

    I can appreciate a raw and honest conversation however this was a little much LOL

  • HoneyyGoodMoneyy_
  • SingleGalCrazyWorld
  • Bashi22

    You are correct it's funny to me that hes oversea all the time making video for instagram also he love to visit Colombia too. Is Heidy De La Rosa from Colombia???. Something is strange abou these people relationship. Shes trying too hard these days

  • Connie

    How self-absorbed and neglectful do you have to be as a parent, not to notice that your pre-teen/teen is cutting themself?
    --------------------
    Real talk. I was flabbergasted when I watched it!

  • DaughterOfaQueen

    Ugh

  • DaughterOfaQueen

    I had 2 old skool grannies from Georgia, you bet not get caught "playing wit yo self" ?

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    Pits Be Lit to high heavens baby ! Get the Tussy

  • Kanyade

    *clutches chest*

    Not. the. Tussy.

    *dying here* lol

  • Kanyade

    "my pussy and me" type of book

    -----
    *hollering*

  • freelancepimp .

    I read this years ago in a GQ article figured she was a little batty ever since. I am sure there is some truth to those old rumors that her and Will were having problems, of course every marriage does, but I figured he stayed around because left up to her those kids would be even more nutty. I get is she's pretty her mom's pretty but she's wierd when it comes to kids. Glad Will and her worked it out cause I am sure it was for the kids.

  • Quitedeliteful

    LOLLOLLOLLOL!!!!!!!!!!

  • Quitedeliteful

    Damn!!! Jada is really doing the most to make her internet show a viral sensation!!!! Still, I remember when I was in high school my classmate confided in me that her mother taught her how to make love to a woman when she was eight!!! I didn't know what she was talking about and wanted her to explain. She didn't say another word but I never forgot that conversation. I don't even know if she remembers it....

  • Roxie Moxie

    Notice how most (if not all) of celebrities are in some way "sexually abused" or have been molested at some point in their lives. This makes it easier to control them because some of them tend to "split personalities' in order to deal with these issues. There is a method to Hollywood's madness. In turn, these people are sexually promiscuous and delve into things unnatural. We see drug abuse, suicides, lashing out, etc. and not knowing that these people are dealing with other issues unseen to the naked eye.

    This though, is WAY too much info. In my mind, your grandmother sexually abused you.

  • Quitedeliteful

    ..not knowing when to STFU 4EVA!
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    So true!!!!!!!!

  • Holler If Ya Hear Me

    My 9 year old son just learning how to wash his butt and lotion up properly ?????

  • Hill Candy

    Why did the world need to know this?

  • Ang

    I can't with this family and their oversharing. I stopped the video a few minutes in. Did they say where her mother was and how her mother felt about this? Sounds like grandma may have overstepped her boundaries in deciding what was appropriate for a child that wasn't hers. This creates and a lot questions...

    Jada was good on Gotham. I wish they would ressurrect Fish Mooney again so she could go back to that.

  • Quitedeliteful

    Maybe this is more common than we think -- I had a friend who had a granddaughter not yet in high school. She always told her that it was important to know how to cook for a man. According to her granddaughter she also used a banana to demonstrate how to pleasure a man! Of course, the granddaughter was disgusted at the time but the grandmother was an 'old ho' and she made one out of her granddaughter as well. I got the grandaughter a job where I worked and she ended up screwing all of the maintenance men!!! I was so friggin embarrassed...

  • Ang

    Yes, that was too much. I dont want to blame parents for not knowing everything but I wonder how many signs they missed before she got to the point of cutting herself.

    Willow said she shaved her head to get her parents attention so they would get how stressed out and miserable she was when they had her performing everywhere during those "Whip My Hair" days. She was only around 9 or 10 then. When your child has to go to those extremes to tell you she just wants to be a kid that should be a major red flag. That should have made them do a complete 180. They should have taken her completely away from show business, raised her away from the limelight and spent quality time with her. But, clearly it only got worse. Willow has been saying stuff for a long time that makes me worried about her emotional well being. It's sad her parents didn't take her emotional state more seriously.

  • Karmen

    Making cornbread & cutting up the onions, shelling peas, shucking corn, picking tomatoes and cucumbers out of the garden. Making pancakes & homemade syrup all day long. Learning about God!!

  • Roxie Moxie

    Why aren't these "grandmas" teaching these young girls REAL sh*t? Why are you teaching them "hoe sh*t" so young? A young girl does NOT need to know how to pleasure herself. What these grandmas need to do is teach them how to properly take care of themselves while they are on their menses. OR....teach them how to properly clean "down there". Something else! Jeez!! What does a young girl need to know about how to pleasure a man OR herself at these ages???? My gosh. With so many predators running around, teaching a young girl and getting them open early only leads to bad business.

  • Roxie Moxie

    I dunno. I'm skeptical. How many times has N. Korea promised the SAME thing and then reniged? *shrugs* I don't trust it.

    So, we're telling them to get rid of Nukes but we keep ours?

  • Roxie Moxie

    I don't trust Donald Dump. At. All. The world might be bamboozled but I am surely not. What a huge "show" this was! Almost as annoying as the Royal wedding.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    That's fine with me. Keeps him distracted while Robert Mueller and his team keep working on the Russia investigation.

  • Roxie Moxie

    I wonder if she taught Willow the same? Could be why she started cutting herself and acts all weirded out. Who knows what these folks are capable of. smh

  • http://www.beautyisland.org BeautyIsland.org

    Honestly I know I woulda cried scared sad tears if either one of my Granny's tried to teach this... at 9..

  • Roxie Moxie

    Right! No wonder they are swingers! You so sexually open that it doesn't matter who, what, where, and why! I heard that she lets Will take it up the bum while she licks the cat. They all nasty. Just a hoeish ass family. smh

    They have forever perverted those kids and hopefully not (but probably inevitable) that one of them will end up on hard drugs.

  • Roxie Moxie

    LMAO!!!!! Right!

  • Roxie Moxie

    Bwhahahahahaha!!!! I remember Rickey Smiley doing a skit about Tussy.....talmbout "you have it all under your nails when you go to school". LOL

  • Roxie Moxie

    Then then need to tell the "truth" about the Satanic Hollywood that they are a part of and what Scientology really do. They are truthful to the extent of a benefit. That's it.

  • Roxie Moxie

    STFU!!!!! lol I'm over here thinking "who would write this" then Dr. Suess came to mind. lol

  • Kayke

    Exactly! Because of the reason you listed is why I don't think it's a bit much. I think females especially should know the power lies in them not from a man.....(I believe this is why many females don't have orgasm because they view it as a thing HE makes happen) we can't ignore what 9 yr olds are feeling and it's best to give the knowledge of self pleasure because the alternative is seeking it elsewhere. Some of these young girls are getting pleasure in closets and stairways from little boys and grown men, getting negative labels.....starting a whole other set of emotional issues. I like the openness that grandma allowed, allowing Jada to keep her power.

  • Trace da Ace

    Yeah....Jada...you are telling to much sis....some shit needs to stay in that vault in your head...foreva!!!! I understand trying to be open and honest or whateva....but this....naw.....I cant..

  • Miss Thang

    TMI.. I don't even want to know my mother ever had sex. She still a virgin. IDC that she gave birth to me and my brother. She ain't never had sex :(

  • YES I SAID IT…

    This is so sick and wrong to even think or hear about a 9 year old pleasuring themselves! LIke what kind of fre*k or sick minded grandmother are u to think this was ok??? No one in their right mind should confuse or rob a child of their innocence. 9 years old is too soon to be touching yourself or to be s8xual aroused, it's just not normal... Let kids be kids and stop allowing them to grow up so fast!

  • YES I SAID IT…

    Exactly, we did not need to know this at all! I swear some people are not dealing with a full deck!!! My grandmother taught me to not let no one touch me or see my stuff yet along how to do it myself, Jada and her family is just sick and weird!!!

  • BadAss Will

    I wonder was her grandpa watching? This is sick...

  • Tlowe89

    Lmao yes... they just walk by n u just be like wait a min wtf. You be running with them to the bathroom to get that deodorant and lift they arm up in realize all that hair done came in n be like wtf are you a chachia pet when did this happen... overnight.

    So who got the time to be like why yo drawls bustin, yo breath bustin, and yo arms bustin, let me tell you about masterbation

  • Kita Williams

    at 6 my mom gave me the sex talk, taught me about rape and molestation, and how babies are made. with all these kids being raped but elders are telling them it's hide and seek or tickling or wrestling parents need to be having these conversations. just bc it's uncomfortable doesn't mean it isn't necessary. this is why so many adults question why kids never tell on the ones abusing them. if you never told them what sex was, what's good and bad about it, how are they to know uncle or auntie or my momma/daddy friend playing "tickle" is wrong?

  • RealATLPeach36

    I swear she's just trying to out do Grabby with the ass licking comments....I know what you''re doing. FYI your granny is standing up in her grave forget rolling around. Next to her is Hosea Williams (standing in his grave).

    I will not believe this. NOPE she is lying. Your granny was not with the new GLAMMA shit

  • Rodmilla De Ghent

    She so desperate these days

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    Ok

  • brillant smith

    Lord if Grandma G would've showed me that I would've just died!

  • Marlika

    Gurl!! ? TMI

  • Claudia

    I don't trust him at all, but he's in dangerous territory. They don't do anything by coincidence, these feels like the calm b4 the storm???

  • YouWontSayItButIWill

    This explains why Jaden and Willow are lost....and why Willow was laid up with a grown man as a child.

  • Karen Brady

    My parents would have put grandma out da house.

  • Karen Brady

    I swear she's just trying to out do Grabby with the ass licking comments....I know what you''re doing. This was my first and only thought about this foolishness.

  • Tlowe89

    I’ve had the sex talk when I was 9 with my aunt (gaurdian) and it was nothing like self pleasure.... it was 2 ppl love each other and they are adults that’s how they express their love. It was a very pg conversation and not super detailed because I was 9

  • Applebootay

    See, I'm looking at it from my conspiracy lens.....I don't think she told the whole story...Like ....WHAT WERE YOU CAUGHT DOING THAT YOUR GRANDMOTHER HAD TO TEACH YOU THAT? I will only believe this if she told the whole truth and nothing but the truth....ain't no telling what was going on....for her Granny to do that....first thing comes to mind is she was in a "kissing cousins" situation or caught with her pants down or something that I her grandmother had to resort to this.....BIH BYE!

  • Ang

    I can't believe they live in that gigantic house and they still let their kids move out as teens. The whole house can't even be seen in that shot. They could have just given each kid a wing or a couple of rooms to themselves. I think they were way too relaxed as parents. Jada's mom seems more grounded. I wonder how Jada got so far out there.

  • datjerk

    Whoa.

  • Tay Gee

    I don't see the problem here and I hate that out of the whole video that's the headline you went with. Everyone has a different method in raising their children, so I try not to criticize.

    I know plenty people that I grew up with that smoked weed with their parents when they were in high school and I thought it was strange. I know folks who's parents let them take swigs of beer as a kid, etc. Not everyone has traditional methods and everyone doesn't treat their kids like property.

    Kudos to Jada for the Red Table Talk!! I find it both enlightening and meaningful conversation. :)

  • Dun Dilly

    LMAO

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Now she's saying she was addicted to masturbating at age 17.

  • Coffee1st

    It happens......even to those of us who put in 110%.
    I see what you are saying, but i speak from experience and my life revolves around my children....BELIEVE me, the guilt is Herculean and unrelenting.

  • Munchosgirl

    Wasn't taught to masturbate but I did get my menstrual cycle at that age...children develop at different ages....

  • Munchosgirl

    If you didn't watch it, sh touched on th at as well. She said Jaden wasn't allowed to spend the night at no one's house for fear of him being molested. Basically boys are at risk just as girls are.

  • Munchosgirl

    Well Jada isn't the first or the last parent to not know if their children are doing certain things. Children hide things from parents every day.

  • Munchosgirl

    Will did an interview after she shaved her head. He said that she had just performed when she told him she wanted to go home....he didn't "listen" to what she was really saying. The next morning she had shaved her head...he "heard" her then. He went on to say that "WE" have to listen to our children when they are talking to us.

  • Ang

    Willow talked about this recently. It shouldn't get to the point where kids have to do something to their body in order for parents to listen to them. But, how well did Will and Jada really listen to Willow if she was still in Hollywood and not getting a traditional life? It was just a few months ago where she was saying that she can't take the pressure of being in the public eye but here she is on her mother's show. They don't need money. Jada could have these heart to hearts with Willow in their living room.

  • Munchosgirl

    Everything you just said....Jada said it during the show. Whereas her Grandmother taught her certain things, she was the complete opposite with her mother. Kinda of crazy, but I guess the don't have sex and being strict with Jada's mom, her Grandmother decided to do the opposite with Jada.

  • Nicol B

    Maybe I'm just too old to care about what she is talking about. It just sounds like a thirsty move. That's personal, not even making a judgement.

  • Nicol B

    sickness!!!

  • Nicol B

    THURST!

  • Nicol B

    I couldn't agree more!

  • BRuhman_Vista

    Two words. Child Abuse

  • Kayke

    Grandma just paid attention to each person. Not all children have the same personality so the "one size fits all" technique to parenting usual won't work. I just know that it is important for females to hear and learn about their bodies.... Too many women have to learn as they go and it's a disservice us.

  • leapyearpisces

    She's from the DR, but interesting enough, she has stated (I believe on her IG), that Columbia is one of her FAVORITE places. Hmmmmm.....in-ter-rest-ting.

  • leapyearpisces

    My mother still calls vaginas "down there". LOLOLOLOLOLOL.

  • Disgustd

    True. Mk-ULTRA'd. And you are right, if they are suffering from ptsd and haven't dealt with it, then it does make it easier to control them with sex & drugs. I think it's rare that someone emotionally and psychologically healthy can actually function in hollyweird. And plus, it's just a big plantation when it comes to black people. A specialized plantation, but a plantation nonetheless.

  • Bashi22

    Yes interesting they might be on the low getting it in. Lol

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Never said that she was the only, first or last. But if your child has significantly changed their physical appearance (shaved their head), started self-harming (physically hurting themselves), and has withdrawn and you are completely unaware, you are failing as a parent. Period. It may not be popular to tell parents that, but it's true. Because as a parent and guardian, it is your job to (at a minimum) maintain their health and well being. That is literally your only job. Taking comfort in the fact that you are amongst several thousand other neglectful parents does not negate the fact that you have failed your child.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    North Korea was under a different leadership then. Kim's father and grandfather were in power when those promises were reneged.

  • Munchosgirl

    So basically you are saying you didn't comprehend what I said. So with your logic, parents who children suffer in silence and hide who they really are and what they are feeling, are failing their children, ok...Good Bye.

  • Applebootay

    See....

  • Roxie Moxie

    Do you think that same mindset is still there though? Who knows what anyone could be saying in Kim's ear as Trump is saying something different in the other.

    This all seems to be orchestrated just perfectly. Too perfect if you ask me. Stragetically planned. We'll see though. Words are better taken to heart when theres action behind it.

    *and I see I spelled reneged wrong. Lol

  • Blaque Mahogany

    If your logic, given the clear examples I provided, lead you to that sweeping generalization then so be it. I said what I said. And I meant what I said.

  • Roxie Moxie

    So, you don't think that same mindset has been passed down? While Trump is putting something in one ear, whose to say his priors aren't putting something in the other? Actions speak louder than words and at this point all we can do is wait and see. Words mean nothing if there isn't any real action behind them. I'm skeptical because it just seems too strategically planned and too perfect. Rarely is anything done for just "the good of the people". There's always some other benefit unbeknownst to the public.

    Time will tell though.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Yes, actions speak louder than words. Did you see the North Koreans blew up another one of their nuclear testing facilities this week?