Jesse Williams Ordered to Pay $100K in Child and Spousal Support

$100k a month... She's a dime.

Great!! Now hopefully she'll be able to heal and meet someone who cherishes her and her children.

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I’m curious though , I’m all for taking care of your kids with all it entails . However , how can women expect to be taken seriously when child support is so one-sided? Like you’re basically a for-hire-uterus . How is the expectation and insistance on men footing the whole bill going to make gender parity a reality ?

Furthermore , does she think her grown ass kids are going to give her flowers for the pettiness and vindictiveness she sought to inflict on a man who wanted to go his separate way? Being bitter because a man left you is not how you fight sexism and gender inequality . Smh

Aryn is a nice looking lady. She just needs a professional to clean her up if you will.

P doesn't have a face..

Yasssss!!!!!

You know that’s how America like em?

He owes her the world and then some. As I’ve said before, she took care of him when he had -$135 in the bank account.

Good.

For every case where a wife gets paid, there's a hundred others where single moms get paid crumbs to support the children. If child support is one sided its typically in the other direction. Its just that these cases get publicity in the media.

He wanted a becky. Jay Z had a Becky on the side.

Just stay with her, schit!!! $1.2M a year, for now?? No way. Dude making that much money from Grey's? I swear I slept with the wrong people only to still not end up in the entertainment business.

lmfao

He should’ve kept it in his pants...????? I don’t feel sorry 100k out of 500k a month is not a lot to keep your kids and EX wife happy??

Wish my x would give me 2k a month to cover my dam spot , chyt ill be sastified with that,

*Cues up Johnnie Taylor*

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Awww c’mon rayne....let that woman be great in her own skin.??

Bingo!!! Child support is a nightmare for the average woman to collect......especially if buddy is hell bent on not paying it.

Now he dating fine a$$ Taylor Rooks. Taylor can do so much better than this punk a$$ fraudulent negro! I stay away from men who abandon their families.

This

He used his ex wife for her financial stability when he was struggling. As soon he became legitimately famous and wealthy he dumped her to date petite and conventionally pretty women he's attracted to. He owes her every penny of support she can get from him. He learned his lesson, you don't use people.

A lot of very handsome men do this use average to very homely looking women with good jobs to get by until they get put on. They think the women are lucky to have them and will let themselves be used. Good for Aryn, she has a backbone.

A lot of people hiding g behind avatars calling her homely. Probably looking like Rosanne as yall call her unattractive.

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True look at Tristan Thompson. Khloe got played just like first baby mama.

Lmaoooo,that's the first thing came to mind....the late Johnnie Taylor said it: its cheaper to keeper. Rip JT.

is it the angle or hes getting a lil plump ?? ??

Good for her!

I respect that she looks 'average' & not hiding behind foundation, concealer, setting powder, lashes, lipstick & setting spray.
Oan a lacefront.

It's cheapa to keep her.

Good! Marriage ain’t one size fits all... choose wisely. Aryn please move on with your life and best with future endeavors...

This is the reason why Black men don’t want to marry you Gold Digging Black B****es now! Always trying to be spiteful and greedy. Miserable and unhappy. Then when Black men go to men and other races you want to complain. Nobody’s fault but your own!

I don’t think she’s trying to fight sexism or gender inequality. I think she’s just trying to get as much as she can to raise her kids in the lifestyle they’ve become accustomed to. The kids shouldn’t have to suffer because their parents divorced.

Hunny that makes no sense.

Very well said. I'm also sure, her modest appearance played well with the Judge. She doesn't seem like she'll be wasteful with the money.

Omg wtf am I doing with my life

That's not average, many women wear minimal make up and don't get all "gussied up" everytime they leave the house, and still look nice and presentable in public. She just doesn't give a damn at all. There's a difference between understated, simplistic beauty and looking like you got attacked by a chicken.

what that amount of money monthly I would stay single 2 homegirl done made it! fellows cheaper 2 kp her!

Which is why she’ll remain single. And it looks like she wants to be compensated for it too lol

Exactly ??

Not loooking like that she won’t. She looks overweight, unkempt, raggedy, AND she got two kids (baggage). Ain’t nooooooobody bout to play captain save a hoe wit her looking like this

Because he was using his wife. He was gritting his teeth and biding his time and as soon as he "made it" he left. He believed his own hype and played himself.

He could have had hot girls discreetly like all the other married men in Hollywood. But his flagrant public cheating and blindsiding divorce filing shows just how much he couldn't front anymore (no matter the financial risk) like he was attracted to his wife.

Child abandonment and evasion of child support are military ethics violations. Somebody in the military must help you.

He straight up used her.

Point. Blank. Period.

I thought she was already quite formally educated? I don't know much about her, honestly.

UGH. People are so selfish. Children don't ask to be here. I have no respect for people who don't take care of their kids.

Blessings to you.

Some women dont feel the need to even wear minimal makeup to feel presentable. But now if shes going to a business meeting this wuld be inappropriate. But if shes just out running errands y does she need makeup? Either way, Idk her to say she jst doesnt give a damn..she may just be a busy mom who prefers comfort over style & trends.

"fight sexism and gender inequality"

Many of us are, but not every woman is trying to fight sexism and gender inequality, especially many of those who are already rich. They just want their piece of the pie. I don't know about this lady, but that is my take.

She has no style. I'm not trendy either, I don't wear make up everywhere either, but I'm usually presentable in public, and again, let's be REAL, most of us are not trying to maintain a marriage with a rich, successful, attractive actor. You don't have to go above and beyond to look presentable, not at all. Like I said before, look at the singer Corinne Bailey Rae, she's understated, girl next door style, natural hair, natural skin, she's a good example of simple style and beauty. You don't have to do the whole " Instagram, fashinova hoe" thing, to look nice, in fact that's a turn off. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/a463b260af0d1bc0e7f3e3910e2fd6c2c262b6f365639e1d3605baee61dfdd27.jpg

That's alright boo just the fact that admitted that says a a lot about your character? I'm sure you did the best you could.

thats the dumbest ish i have eva heard! but carry on...

This woman is not ugly at all. Her skin is flawless and her hair is full and healthy looking. People are so used to full beat faces that they are repulsed by people walking around looking like the way they were born. Trust and believe that if she "fixed herself up" like my mom would say, she would be stunning. When she is 70 with good skin, her face will thank her lol.

Fcuk Jessie! He is making $500,000 so giving 1/4 for his children's welfare is fair. FOH with his fake "wokeness" *bleech*

THATs what I was about to say those first sgts used to be like oh no this coming straight up outta his check. That’s crazy!

It’s about $50K for spousal support and about $50K for child support.

Congrats to her.

Now I'm a man that loves to see a woman's natural beauty, but I still want her to look like she did more than roll out of bed and leave the house. Take some pride in how you present yourself. I don't know if it;s the pics that are picked of her or if she just refuses to try, but she could be so much more attractive with a tiny bit of effort. Not the "tranny make up" these women want to wear, but just a little effort.

100% agree. Yes there's nothing wrong with a womans natural beauty. She look the same way like she's just worn out.
Nothing wrong with a woman every once in awhile doing her hair and putting on some makeup for your man.
Hell if a woman can ask me and tell me it's time to cut my hair or shave I can tell her it's time for her to put on alittle makeup and look a little decent when she steps out.
IMO.

HA HA HA!!!! GET 'EM GIRL..... these dudes are gonna realize that it is cheaper to keep her.....

All i know is tht more often than not Im Aryn...in public...b/c babyyy when im home w/my man im beyonce??

FACTS. Like you shouldnt want to go outside the house looking like a slob. She loos soo unkempt.

Not true. Jay-Z strayed on Beyonce. Carmello Anthony strayed on La La and the list goes on and on. It has NOTHING to do with looks and looking ROCK SOLID as you say. If a man wants to stray, trust me, LOOKS won't keep in from doing it. I think she looks fine myself. Everybody doesn't want to be caked up with make up all the time. Some women don't even wear it. And anyway, look at him. He's not exactly looking like GQ. It pains me that everybody is ALWAYS focusing on how the woman looks. Not saying that about you, I'm just talking in general. She's just a regular girl who is obviously comfortable in her own skin and I admire that. We need more of that around here.

"Prior to filing for divorce, Williams carried on an extramarital affair with actress Minka Kelly, that drew angry backlash from his Black female admirers. Kelly and Williams have since split up."
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Should have stayed with his wife, and kept his family together.

I agree. I think she's a pretty woman. She's not Miss-America beautiful, but pretty. Clearly Jesse thought she was pretty enough for him when he married her.

Exactly!!

This chick is miserable & cant get over the fact he left her. As long as he’s taking care of his kids physically and financially is all that matter. I can’t stand bitter mothers. Sad to say my mom was one of them. Couldn’t get over the hurt my father cause so I was out in the middle. ? I know he can’t wait until those children come if age. ?????

Let's just say it's about her, not the kids. It's just her personality. Many women with young children comb their hair, and wear more than oversized sweats. It's her perogotive obviously to do as she wishes, and as long as she's collecting over 100K in support from her ex, she can lay at home and stew in her own juices all day if she wants.

Moving on as well. It's really not that deep.

Damn right she is still single!!! Talk about angry!!! I can't blame her though. Take him to the cleaners!!! When he left her for that whyte woman he should have known there was gonna be hell to pay for ever and ever amen!!

LOLLOLLOL!!!!!!!!

She's too angry and bitter to get herself together. When she can finally let the hurt and anger go then she might be able to become more feminine and sweet. Right now she's enraged that he left her to do all the child rearing while he's out here living his best life...

LOLLOLLOL!!!!!!! She is too angry and fixated on making Jesse pay to care about anything else...

Are you sure - because she is not playing with you mens no more. LOLLOLLOL!!!!!!

Yep get all that money that's what he gets for being a lying cheater.

Cheaters never prosper! Her hair texture is EVERYTHING!! Wish my curl pattern was like that!

Yep I know he's sick of her dragging him into court but he can well afford it and she is the primary caretaker for his children that he walked out on...

That's why I have my doubts about this story. There is no way around a court order of child support if you are active duty military, the money is skimmed right off the top of your check, and if you have dependents, and you are collecting additional pay for said dependents, and you are NOT providing for them, you can get in a sh*t load of trouble. Details are being left out.

thank goodness it is only temporary until they go back to court. what is she going to do with all that money? is it going towards mortgage, different insurances, college educations or what?

she dresses very low key and does not spend much money on her looks and clothes and up keep and the kids are so very young that huge amounts of cash after schooling, nannies etc. aren't spent on them so that is interesting.

exact same thing I was saying but he fell in love with her and married her and had babies by her so she must be what he is attracted to. or maybe she loved him much more and he liked her loving him enough where she was supporting the both of them for years before he finally made it big

correct

spousal support is a temporary thing so he will not have to do that nearly as long as the child support. as long as he is making half a million dollars a month she will be getting paid and she is winning. even after he will no longer have to pay spousal she will still be winning as long as he gets that type of bank. but he might have to keep paying spousal but less of it.

yeah but did u forget she has NANNIES and help with all that cash she gets every month. she has it much much much better than 99.9 tenths of moms with two babies. she has plenty of time to do her

but what will she be doing with all of that money is what I want to know. Britney Spears ex is getting 20.000 a month and she is much much much richer than this actor. he is trying to get more money for his two sons. so after reading about this it seems like there are different rules for this situations.

So many people are offended at the mere suggestion that she take off those culock sweats, and comb her hair that it's not even worth it to give an opinion it seems. The thing is you'd be surprised the little things your man is noticing about you. I had a relative tell me that her boss complimented her hair, then got this sad look on his face and said "I wish my wife cared about getting her hair done sometimes." I had a coworker come into work once complaining about how tired he was that his wife feet always stank. I swear sometimes it will be the little things. People are saying she's been through a lot, true, but let's face it, she looked like this before.

Being a mother is a JOB. If you’re a halfway decent mom it’s a lot of work. I have the upmost respect for women who are great moms. If this woman is able to stay at home and be a full time great mom, then God Bless her. More kids need that but unfortunately most can’t afford to. Her ex husband has enough money to make that possible and she should take full advantage.

For one, the two of them were together for many years. A judge factors that in when making a decision regarding spousal and child support. Kevin and Brittany weren’t married that long. I believe their kids are less than 2 years apart. I’m also sure Brittany has her kids with her a lot, where as Aryn will probably have the kids with her the majority of the time. I don’t know all the specifics but I don’t think comparing a brief marriage like the one Brittany had with Kevin is the same as the marriage Aryn and Jesse had.

She deserves it all. She supported him while he was a “starving artist” thats why he married her. Then to turn around and cheat on his family and the women that helped him bring his dreams to fruition. Selfish man.

Oh so Jesse was just some one a million shot at having someone? Because she always looked like this. That’s silly, just like she was married and had children, there is another person out therefor her. She won’t bag her a shallow NBA player, but her looks got her married and with child before. Y’all are harsh, like only well put together women have spouses or as if being fly keeps you from being single.

so very very true BUT when you are getting 100.000 dollars a month like her and even when she was getting 30.000 thousand a month plus other things he was paying as a mom that means she has more than enough to have nannies and other help where her burden is so not as hard as most other moms plus she is NOT working!!!

if this was a perfect world. most black females who have any type of money do NOT end up marrying in their wealth range like Halle, Mary J. Blige, Oprah, etc and the list goes on and on.

Naw she was dressing like this when they were together. This ain’t “mourning” attire lmao this is “everyday-I-just-rolled-out-of-bed-idgaf-attire” ??????

Black ppl always try to take constructive criticism to the highest - most absurd - end of the spectrum. If you criticize a black chick who rocks natural hair - even if the criticism isn’t specifically about her hair - they will take it to the extreme and say you’re a self hater who hates natural hair. Or if you say the chick is homely or just unattractive, then you’re advocate for “tranny makeup”. Just delusional and indignant. Lol my people smh

There are pics of her on the red carpet looking like this. ?

How do you dress in active wear and still be out of shape - with no shape? ?

You’re thinking too hard and projecting your emotions. Aryan looks a mess. Point. Blank. Period. Now that they’re divorced, she can walk around looking like homeless hobo all day while counting her $100k. Single.

Whatever YOU say ? I stated my opinion. The END. I'm not going to continue to go back and forth with anyone.

1) She's not getting a makeover.

2) She is being herself. The same woman he dated, lived off, married, lived off, and procreated with. Not every woman is a made up or beautiful or even stylish type of woman and that is their right.

3) There are men who see beyond looks and sincerely are attracted to women who may not be beautiful, done up, or stylish but Jesse Williams was never one of them.

4) That's the point and real wrong here. He was never attracted to his ex wife to begin with and he knowingly mislead and used her for stability when he was struggling.

5) His ex wife's mistake was lacking self perception. If I looked like her, I wouldn't have given Jesse Williams the time of day and I wouldn't financially supported him.

6) That couple was always on those hot celebrities with ugly mates / significant others / spouses lists, and I'm sure that wasn't the first criticism they received in life. Anyone with common sense could look at the couple and surmise he was using her while he struggled as an actor.

7) Her taking care off and taking a dependent shallow pretty boy seriously shows she lacks self perception and common sense.

She claimed she's been trying to get child support enforced, from her "ex" for years. I think folks assumed that she was talking about an ex husband but perhaps not, because support would have been worked out if she was married to an active duty military member, during the divorce proceedings. If he was causing static somehow, she would have been able to access the base, his workplace, his superiors, as a DoD ID card holder, to report any abandonment issue, even from another state, this stuff can be handled over the phone as well. Military spouses are in a position to stir up a lot of trouble if need be, folks know what they are entitled to.
But she probably isn't a spouse or even his ex girlfriend for that matter, sounds like a fling to me. If she is, then she is clueless as hell, and I hope she reads this so she can help herself.
The woman probably hasn't proved paternity, has no court order or proof that the military member should be paying support because this is one of those cut and dry issues. If you father a child, you're on the hook for child support whether you are with the woman or not, the child is your dependent, and has entitlements such as health care, etc. I know her story tugged at heart strings but somethings being left out big time, sorry. I just spent 20 years in the Air Force, I know PLENTY of men, paying child support. Sometimes they are supporting children from a previous marriage or relationship, sometimes from a damn ONE NIGHT STAND. Either way, they pay.

your statement does not really apply to him like a black man who grew up with a black mom. u have to remember the very first female love of his life was a white woman not a black woman. everyday of his life from infant to teenager and beyond he was loving a white mom unconditionally.

it is not at all a shock or outside the box for him to have attractions to white females that look like the one female that loves him most in this world!!! he is biracial with black and white parents so he 100% gets a pass for being with any white female who also wants to be with him. just sayin

She should get 10 doctorates and change the world on his dime. One day Jesse's gonna look up look up and see his ex wife getting a Nobel prize. In this lifetime, Jesse Williams will learn to value women beyond looks. He literally broke his best friend's heart and their children's family for vanity and approval of others. That' sick, but it's the world we live in.

sorry, still needs some lip gloss at least

Exactly. There are many women (especially many white women) who look worse and have husbands who love and adore them. There is a man for her just as she is.

She just happened to have gotten mislead and married a man who wasn't attracted to her and used her. But after being with a pretty boy, she's probably not attracted to an average looking man.

I hate to bring up colorism but Aryn is biracial with so called "good hair" and still of child bearing age. Very dark skinned African or Caribbean men with colorist views and attraction to thick women would worship and wife her up in a heartbeat.

Men that look like Jesse (and I don't find him particularly cute but he's what's considered conventionally hot), are typically only attracted to their own vain self reflection and image.

Brothas will never learn, do not marry if you are rich.

Exactly. Geesh.

"deranged eyes" ????.

Colorism is always in the air, unfortunately. As is feature-ism, and texture-ism. It is sad that many west African (and descent) men want a woman who is as far away from a general west African look as possible.

They were married before he became an actor. I believe he was a teacher before.