Jesse Williams' ex-wife, Aryn Drake-Lee, scored a major victory in their messy divorce battle. A judge agreed with Drake-Lee that $33,000 a month isn't enough to maintain the luxury lifestyle she'd grown accustomed to when she was a happily married woman.

The judge ordered the 'Grey's Anatomy' star to cough up $100,000 a month in child and spousal support to Drake-Lee.

The judge cited Williams’ “extraordinarily high” monthly salary of $521,000 in the decision to increase Drake-Lee's support.

The 36-year-old actor was previously ordered to pay Drake-Lee $160,000 for her legal fees.

Williams filed for divorce from Drake-Lee in April 2017 after 5 years of marriage.

Prior to filing for divorce, Williams carried on an extramarital affair with actress Minka Kelly, that drew angry backlash from his Black female admirers. Kelly and Williams have since split up.

Williams and Drake-Lee share two children together: son Maceo and daughter Sadie. She is still single.

Photos by Terma,SL / BACKGRID

  • Django the God

    $100k a month... She's a dime.

  • Branch Davidian

    Ooof...she is hard to look at. When you raw dog a raw dog...you gots ta pay!!!

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    Great!! Now hopefully she'll be able to heal and meet someone who cherishes her and her children.

  • MISSMEWITDATBULL

    LMAO

  • Fire & Ice

    ???

  • MISSMEWITDATBULL

    SMH. They look like siblings. Same as Steph and Ayesha.

  • AmericanDream

    I’m curious though , I’m all for taking care of your kids with all it entails . However , how can women expect to be taken seriously when child support is so one-sided? Like you’re basically a for-hire-uterus . How is the expectation and insistance on men footing the whole bill going to make gender parity a reality ?

    Furthermore , does she think her grown ass kids are going to give her flowers for the pettiness and vindictiveness she sought to inflict on a man who wanted to go his separate way? Being bitter because a man left you is not how you fight sexism and gender inequality . Smh

  • Fire & Ice

    Looks like she's slimmed down some. I know a lot of people think she's not attractive, but I think she is in her own way. I guess if she was wearing the whole makeup counter, and an entire horse on her head, it would be different.

  • Rayne

    Aryn is a nice looking lady. She just needs a professional to clean her up if you will.

  • Fire & Ice

    I get what your saying....but I think she financially took care of him for a long time, while he pursued acting.

  • KcoolMuziq

    P doesn't have a face..

  • Logan Roberts

    Ok baby girl now you have the money, please go get a makeover asap & stunt on his devil eyes ass. ???

  • therealkym

    Yasssss!!!!!

  • RaginB

    That’s what his dirty ass get...

  • RaginB

    You know that’s how America like em?

  • Hmmm~?

    Um! $500k a MONTH?? Wayment Jesse cmere!!! Lemme holla at ya real quick!!! ??

  • Wyteprivilege

    He owes her the world and then some. As I’ve said before, she took care of him when he had -$135 in the bank account.

  • Rico768

    Cheaper to keep her.
    All the scorned women clapping for joy

    Im put everything in my momma name and have her give me a little allowance. Lol.

  • Yui

    Good.

  • Ghost

    She’s probably been in the ‘dumps’ for a minute! Yes a professional clean would do wonders physically, mentally and emotionally.

  • I Run New York

    For every case where a wife gets paid, there's a hundred others where single moms get paid crumbs to support the children. If child support is one sided its typically in the other direction. Its just that these cases get publicity in the media.

  • I Run New York

    He got on and left that ass for a white girl.

  • I Run New York

    He wanted a becky. Jay Z had a Becky on the side.

  • Victorious82

    He ain’t been cute since he left his wife for that yt woman. ?

  • Lorenzo Chaps

    Just stay with her, schit!!! $1.2M a year, for now?? No way. Dude making that much money from Grey's? I swear I slept with the wrong people only to still not end up in the entertainment business.

  • the chosen one

    now they aren't together. turned around and bit him in the A$$.

  • the chosen one

    lmfao

  • LithiumHaitianFlower

    Half a mil a month. His bromojj is a hit

  • Torae

    He should’ve kept it in his pants...????? I don’t feel sorry 100k out of 500k a month is not a lot to keep your kids and EX wife happy??

  • Dun Dilly

    His lawyers are the worst.

  • Anunnaki

    Wish my x would give me 2k a month to cover my dam spot , chyt ill be sastified with that,

  • I Run New York

    Yeah people claiming child support is one sided when they see a millionaire pay up are oblivious to the reality of women like yourself.

  • Readytochokemothernatureout

    *Cues up Johnnie Taylor*

  • Fire & Ice

    Seems that way right?!?!

  • Stan4NoOne

    ??????

  • Coffee1st

    yeah, mine did too. BUT I PROMISE YOU BOO BOO....he will get NO ease or peace. My ex is a lonely regret ridden man who longs for a relationship with our now grown son. He has twin grandsons who wouldn’t know him from Adam, but “Papa” is exclusively reserved for the man who raised my son from 3 yo.

  • Coffee1st

    Awww c’mon rayne....let that woman be great in her own skin.??

  • Fire & Ice

    IKR!!! I had no idea he was pulling in over 500k a month. Lawwwd why wasn't social media available in my twenties....I would have snagged one of these ninjas LOL. JK...I couldn't imagine being with someone famous. The bullshit and constant public critique, is too much. I only want my bag ??.

  • Fire & Ice

    Bingo!!! Child support is a nightmare for the average woman to collect......especially if buddy is hell bent on not paying it.

  • Ni Ni

    She is still single.
    ______________
    Now Sandra Mae Rose??

  • Neva RuthLess

    Now he dating fine a$$ Taylor Rooks. Taylor can do so much better than this punk a$$ fraudulent negro! I stay away from men who abandon their families.

  • BingBangBoom

    Good for her! Congrats girl get him where it really hurts

  • FukkFolks2018

    This

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Well, she is.

  • the guest

    He used his ex wife for her financial stability when he was struggling. As soon he became legitimately famous and wealthy he dumped her to date petite and conventionally pretty women he's attracted to. He owes her every penny of support she can get from him. He learned his lesson, you don't use people.

    A lot of very handsome men do this use average to very homely looking women with good jobs to get by until they get put on. They think the women are lucky to have them and will let themselves be used. Good for Aryn, she has a backbone.

  • AG

    It is what it is.

  • Phillybruh

    A lot of people hiding g behind avatars calling her homely. Probably looking like Rosanne as yall call her unattractive.

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    HAve you should contacted his superiors in the military? They usually don’t play that that child support usually comes off the top!!

  • ?Patty Kakes?

    ???

  • ?Patty Kakes?

    Lol she say "swervin" ????? they seem to put more time in divorcing a person then trying to make it right smh

  • I Run New York

    True look at Tristan Thompson. Khloe got played just like first baby mama.

  • Phillybruh

    Sorry your having a tough time but the military usually doesn't play with that. They will take it out their disability check if they have to.

  • Alextra Ballard

    Lmaoooo,that's the first thing came to mind....the late Johnnie Taylor said it: its cheaper to keeper. Rip JT.

  • imright

    mmmhhhmmmm ? and she gets that amount for how long ?! til the kids graduate ??

  • imright

    is it the angle or hes getting a lil plump ?? ??

  • Dystaney Kimble

    Some people are just in situations they can't afford to get out of me . I'd rather know someone wanted to be with me then that have no other choice . Let her have the money ... both of them will eventually realize that it's better this way .

  • joel adams

    Good for her!

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    These women got to stop volunteering to be used by these types of men, because he is cute. Then maybe these men won't think they are better.

  • Missy

    I respect that she looks 'average' & not hiding behind foundation, concealer, setting powder, lashes, lipstick & setting spray.
    Oan a lacefront.

  • Malai

    Go sit yo petty ass down somewhere ??? But all jokes aside, I still think she’s beautiful.. she’s in her own lane not doing what the rest of these women are out here doing...she have the means to but chooses not to.. that makes her special..

  • Sally Wright McLinn

    It's cheapa to keep her.

  • Sally Wright McLinn

    $100K is ridiculous. That's millionaire money, living like a millionaire.

  • Kemi

    Good! Marriage ain’t one size fits all... choose wisely. Aryn please move on with your life and best with future endeavors...

  • Louisville Is4TheBirds

    Here, let me trap her real quick...

  • ??EEMA ?????????

    This is the reason why Black men don’t want to marry you Gold Digging Black B****es now! Always trying to be spiteful and greedy. Miserable and unhappy. Then when Black men go to men and other races you want to complain. Nobody’s fault but your own!

  • Miss Thang

    I think she has very nice skin, hair, and figure. I’d love to see her all made up.

  • Miss Thang

    I don’t think she’s trying to fight sexism or gender inequality. I think she’s just trying to get as much as she can to raise her kids in the lifestyle they’ve become accustomed to. The kids shouldn’t have to suffer because their parents divorced.

  • Miss Thang

    Yeah cuz black women are the only ones getting child support ? fool

  • ??EEMA ?????????

    Hunny that makes no sense.

  • Django the God

    10/10

  • Joy King

    Very well said. I'm also sure, her modest appearance played well with the Judge. She doesn't seem like she'll be wasteful with the money.

  • CocoBabe88

    Who was her lawyer?

  • Ruth

    Omg wtf am I doing with my life

  • dru and neil

    I see Aryn still not giving a rats ass about her appearance..

  • dru and neil

    That's not average, many women wear minimal make up and don't get all "gussied up" everytime they leave the house, and still look nice and presentable in public. She just doesn't give a damn at all. There's a difference between understated, simplistic beauty and looking like you got attacked by a chicken.

  • dru and neil

    Let's be real, that woman doesn't give a damn, at all. Not saying that's why her man strayed, men cheat on well kept, beautiful women too, but sex appeal matters.

  • blue skies

    what that amount of money monthly I would stay single 2 homegirl done made it! fellows cheaper 2 kp her!

  • CaniLive?

    You’re a real macadamia.

  • cusp_23

    Which is why she’ll remain single. And it looks like she wants to be compensated for it too lol

  • cusp_23

    Lmao

  • cusp_23

    Exactly ??

  • cusp_23

    That was her choice. Just because he decided to leave doesn’t mean she’s entitled to a repayment in whatever investment she made towards his career. It is vindictive and it is petty. This stopped being about the kids and child support a long time ago. She’s acting like a typical scorned black woman. And these photos of her looking overweight, dingy, and raggedy ain’t doing her any favors.

  • cusp_23

    Not loooking like that she won’t. She looks overweight, unkempt, raggedy, AND she got two kids (baggage). Ain’t nooooooobody bout to play captain save a hoe wit her looking like this

  • the guest

    And now more than ever she needs to be very cautious and protect herself from mercenary men.

    A man must have triple her monthly income, court her the old fashioned way for at least five years before marriage or cohabitation, and absolutely should NOT be a pretty boy.

  • the guest

    Because he was using his wife. He was gritting his teeth and biding his time and as soon as he "made it" he left. He believed his own hype and played himself.

    He could have had hot girls discreetly like all the other married men in Hollywood. But his flagrant public cheating and blindsiding divorce filing shows just how much he couldn't front anymore (no matter the financial risk) like he was attracted to his wife.

  • the guest

    He forgot that his being married to his wife gave him the image of being a very handsome man of good character who looked at the heart of a woman and beyond looks. Although people criticized, his being married to his wife made him attractive to his fan base.

    He thought the BET speech gave him enough credibility to chase a white woman behind his wife's back and leave his family. He thought wrong.

    He bought his own hype and played himself.

  • the guest

    Child abandonment and evasion of child support are military ethics violations. Somebody in the military must help you.

  • the guest

    So you would anticipate being unfaithful and make your mother an accomplice to shortchanging your wife and children?

  • the guest

    He straight up used her.

  • the guest

    Everyone doesn't have to be good looking or pretty. She is not a good looking woman. And not because she's "natural". Her curly natural hair is actually her best physical attribute.

    If she was a good looking woman (especially along with her successful career) she wouldn't have been taking care of a broke pretty boy actor with $135 in the bank.

    But her strengths are not her looks. She should focus on her mind and obtain many doctorates on Jesse's dime. She will attract men with a shared intellect and deeper mutual mental attraction.

  • the guest

    Point. Blank. Period.

  • lovelygamour

    He shouldve never started dating until they got fully divorced. Its on him. Plus, he used his marriage to futhur his career. No one wouldve took him serious if he was married a trollop first.

  • Cannelle

    I thought she was already quite formally educated? I don't know much about her, honestly.

  • Cannelle

    She just needs to clean up some, and I think she would be good. Maybe this photo is one of those that captures stars (or star adjacent) in public when they aren't prepared. I've seen those kind of photos of other stars and they look much worse than her (thinking many white female actresses).

  • Cannelle

    UGH. People are so selfish. Children don't ask to be here. I have no respect for people who don't take care of their kids.

    Blessings to you.

  • Cannelle

    I personally didn't think that he was cute before, with his deranged eyes. Half of my family members have eyes like him, but he looks possessed. Ew.

  • Missy

    Some women dont feel the need to even wear minimal makeup to feel presentable. But now if shes going to a business meeting this wuld be inappropriate. But if shes just out running errands y does she need makeup? Either way, Idk her to say she jst doesnt give a damn..she may just be a busy mom who prefers comfort over style & trends.

  • dru and neil

    I mean you can look like that and find a man, but he will not be rich, famous, and good looking. We know that she met Jesse when he was up and coming, but let's face the FACTS, when an attractive man becomes rich and successful, his options open up. They would need to be ROCK SOLID for him to not stray with his wife at home looking like she doesn't even bathe.

  • Cannelle

    "fight sexism and gender inequality"

    Many of us are, but not every woman is trying to fight sexism and gender inequality, especially many of those who are already rich. They just want their piece of the pie. I don't know about this lady, but that is my take.

  • Cannelle

    People in the comments are talking about her, but he too is looking a bit rough around the edges. Goodness.

  • dru and neil

    She has no style. I'm not trendy either, I don't wear make up everywhere either, but I'm usually presentable in public, and again, let's be REAL, most of us are not trying to maintain a marriage with a rich, successful, attractive actor. You don't have to go above and beyond to look presentable, not at all. Like I said before, look at the singer Corinne Bailey Rae, she's understated, girl next door style, natural hair, natural skin, she's a good example of simple style and beauty. You don't have to do the whole " Instagram, fashinova hoe" thing, to look nice, in fact that's a turn off. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/a463b260af0d1bc0e7f3e3910e2fd6c2c262b6f365639e1d3605baee61dfdd27.jpg

  • Kimberly

    Other sites are reporting he only has to pay her a little over 50k not 100,000

  • ?Patty Kakes?

    That's alright boo just the fact that admitted that says a a lot about your character? I'm sure you did the best you could.

  • Miss Thang

    If she cared, she would’ve made a change by now. She just wants to be a mom. She doesn’t want to be in the spotlight. That is refreshing to me.

  • HIS4EVA

    thats the dumbest ish i have eva heard! but carry on...

  • Lee

    Normally I don't agree with the whole "life I've been accustomed to" bull shit. His priority is supporting those kids not her. If he wants his kids to live the luxury life that he lives and that's fine but he doesn't have to help her live that life.

    But also if the rumors are true and he did step out on his marriage with another woman and divorce his wife after the fact. Then dammit he deserves it. So pay the women. And that's probably exactly what the judge was thinking.

  • Yardgirl

    This woman is not ugly at all. Her skin is flawless and her hair is full and healthy looking. People are so used to full beat faces that they are repulsed by people walking around looking like the way they were born. Trust and believe that if she "fixed herself up" like my mom would say, she would be stunning. When she is 70 with good skin, her face will thank her lol.

    Fcuk Jessie! He is making $500,000 so giving 1/4 for his children's welfare is fair. FOH with his fake "wokeness" *bleech*

  • freelancepimp .

    Ugh she looks better now that she slimmed down some. And she don't have to wear the whole makeup counter just to look like she cares about her general appearence.

    Also ladies, AND men, don't wait till your partner leave for your ass to finally start caring about your self including your appearence and over all health.

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    THATs what I was about to say those first sgts used to be like oh no this coming straight up outta his check. That’s crazy!

  • Miss Thang

    Made just as much sense as your comment.

  • Miss Thang

    It’s about $50K for spousal support and about $50K for child support.

  • Miss Thang

    Yeah I just noticed that. They are equally yoked in that regard.

  • Doink_Ahanahue

    Congrats to her.

    Now I'm a man that loves to see a woman's natural beauty, but I still want her to look like she did more than roll out of bed and leave the house. Take some pride in how you present yourself. I don't know if it;s the pics that are picked of her or if she just refuses to try, but she could be so much more attractive with a tiny bit of effort. Not the "tranny make up" these women want to wear, but just a little effort.

  • Kanyade

    monthly salary of $521,000
    ------
    if only...

  • Lee

    100% agree. Yes there's nothing wrong with a womans natural beauty. She look the same way like she's just worn out.
    Nothing wrong with a woman every once in awhile doing her hair and putting on some makeup for your man.
    Hell if a woman can ask me and tell me it's time to cut my hair or shave I can tell her it's time for her to put on alittle makeup and look a little decent when she steps out.
    IMO.

  • Doink_Ahanahue

    Right, but when you take pride in your own appearance, no one has to tell you.

  • Trace da Ace

    HA HA HA!!!! GET 'EM GIRL..... these dudes are gonna realize that it is cheaper to keep her.....

  • Yardgirl

    I agree with you and maybe she does makeup "every once in a while" However THOSE looks are never show so we do not have the balance to see what she looks like "made up" The shots always seem like she is out running around doing errands and most normal moms do not put on make up for that. I know I don't.

  • Missy

    All i know is tht more often than not Im Aryn...in public...b/c babyyy when im home w/my man im beyonce??

  • Alexis Carson

    I agree. I am all for being natural as well. But yes look like you care. And im sorry but TO ME.. I repeat TO ME. She is just not attractive.I have seen her With or without makeup and she is just not cute to me. Very sloppy. Do better dear. And how about GO FIND A JOB. And stop living off of child support.

  • Alexis Carson

    FACTS. Like you shouldnt want to go outside the house looking like a slob. She loos soo unkempt.

  • Rayne

    Me too. She’s just going through it. Been there.

  • S. D. White

    Not true. Jay-Z strayed on Beyonce. Carmello Anthony strayed on La La and the list goes on and on. It has NOTHING to do with looks and looking ROCK SOLID as you say. If a man wants to stray, trust me, LOOKS won't keep in from doing it. I think she looks fine myself. Everybody doesn't want to be caked up with make up all the time. Some women don't even wear it. And anyway, look at him. He's not exactly looking like GQ. It pains me that everybody is ALWAYS focusing on how the woman looks. Not saying that about you, I'm just talking in general. She's just a regular girl who is obviously comfortable in her own skin and I admire that. We need more of that around here.

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    I hate how people leave their day one just because their options change. *looking at you Kevin Hart*.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    "Prior to filing for divorce, Williams carried on an extramarital affair with actress Minka Kelly, that drew angry backlash from his Black female admirers. Kelly and Williams have since split up."
    ............................

    Should have stayed with his wife, and kept his family together.

  • ?Patty Kakes?

    Thats "Big Facts"

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    I agree. I think she's a pretty woman. She's not Miss-America beautiful, but pretty. Clearly Jesse thought she was pretty enough for him when he married her.

  • BadAss Will

    Yes! ??I'm team wife! Pay boy! We want it all! Live your life with your homewreker thots. ?? I'm so mad you'll think he cheated on me lol

  • Yardgirl

    Exactly!!

  • Phillybruh

    She's got two babies under five.

  • Marlika

    This chick is miserable & cant get over the fact he left her. As long as he’s taking care of his kids physically and financially is all that matter. I can’t stand bitter mothers. Sad to say my mom was one of them. Couldn’t get over the hurt my father cause so I was out in the middle. ? I know he can’t wait until those children come if age. ?????

  • dru and neil

    I didnt say she needed to "look" rock solid. I meant their relationship needed to be rock solid, and I'm not sure how that was misunderstood. I've already stated in other comments that men still stray even when they have beautiful, well kept wives,and already stated that women do not need to be "caked up" to look nice, so I'm moving on. I'll refer you to my previous comments.

  • dru and neil

    Let's just say it's about her, not the kids. It's just her personality. Many women with young children comb their hair, and wear more than oversized sweats. It's her perogotive obviously to do as she wishes, and as long as she's collecting over 100K in support from her ex, she can lay at home and stew in her own juices all day if she wants.

  • dru and neil

    Looking nice doesn't mean you want to be in the spotlight.

  • S. D. White

    Moving on as well. It's really not that deep.

  • dru and neil

    That's what I said and people are not having it. You can look natural and presentable at the same time. I don't like heavy make up either, I've made that clear in several comments but people are choosing to take my remarks out of context. You do not have to walk around with ANY make up, to look "nice" but this woman looks like she doesn't give a damn at all!

  • Quitedeliteful

    Damn right she is still single!!! Talk about angry!!! I can't blame her though. Take him to the cleaners!!! When he left her for that whyte woman he should have known there was gonna be hell to pay for ever and ever amen!!

  • Quitedeliteful

    LOLLOLLOL!!!!! Yasss! He Has Got To Pay!!!

  • Quitedeliteful

    LOLLOLLOL!!!!!!!!

  • dru and neil

    I understand, I just ran to the store, I put on a pair of dark jeans, I casual top and sandals. No make up, hair pulled back. Clearly people can see I didn't just roll out of bed, but minimal effort was also put into my public appearance, because I care. For some reason, people are assuming looking like you give a damn, equates to full face of make up, DVF dress, 5" heels everyday SMH. I think people know what's up and are acting like they don't.

  • Quitedeliteful

    She's too angry and bitter to get herself together. When she can finally let the hurt and anger go then she might be able to become more feminine and sweet. Right now she's enraged that he left her to do all the child rearing while he's out here living his best life...

  • Quitedeliteful

    Yep. He's looking just as stressed as she is...

  • Quitedeliteful

    LOLLOLLOL!!!!!!! She is too angry and fixated on making Jesse pay to care about anything else...

  • Quitedeliteful

    Beema!!! Put the yak down!!! You are making zero sense...

  • Quitedeliteful

    Are you sure - because she is not playing with you mens no more. LOLLOLLOL!!!!!!

  • dru and neil

    Well mission accomplished! Because he's out 100K a month. To be fair he is making more than enough money to live in the lap of luxury too, but to us regular folk, that's a sh*tload of money to pull in monthly. I've read a few comments saying she's owed the cash because he used her to come up, I have to agree with that. Plus she's the mother of his children. If this is the price of freedom so be it.

  • ShWa

    Yep get all that money that's what he gets for being a lying cheater.

  • ShWa

    Yes just leave u like yesterday's trash, but I hope she heals and moves on with her life and with his money the lying cheat.

  • Knocked Kneed and Pigeon Toed

    Cheaters never prosper! Her hair texture is EVERYTHING!! Wish my curl pattern was like that!

  • K Edwards

    Let me ask you a question...You seem to be going back and forth with many people for commenting about her looks and being comfortable. But...maybe she is comfortable and you know every look isn't for everybody. Maybe go through what she is going through and then comment on her looks. I think that is the silliest thing in the world to be laser focused on. I don't know your age and or what you look like but the way your are commenting makes me believe your self-worth is tied up in the way you look instead of your hear and the way you behave.

  • Quitedeliteful

    Yep I know he's sick of her dragging him into court but he can well afford it and she is the primary caretaker for his children that he walked out on...

  • dru and neil

    Maybe this is a number she can live with. I mean it has to end at some point so they can both just coparent amicably.

  • dru and neil

    That's why I have my doubts about this story. There is no way around a court order of child support if you are active duty military, the money is skimmed right off the top of your check, and if you have dependents, and you are collecting additional pay for said dependents, and you are NOT providing for them, you can get in a sh*t load of trouble. Details are being left out.

  • Quitedeliteful

    Let's hope it ends soon because every time she thinks about him she gets angry and runs to court to hit those pockets...

  • parisjok

    thank goodness it is only temporary until they go back to court. what is she going to do with all that money? is it going towards mortgage, different insurances, college educations or what?

    she dresses very low key and does not spend much money on her looks and clothes and up keep and the kids are so very young that huge amounts of cash after schooling, nannies etc. aren't spent on them so that is interesting.

  • parisjok

    not really because that is just to long of a time since they are mere babies

  • parisjok

    exact same thing I was saying but he fell in love with her and married her and had babies by her so she must be what he is attracted to. or maybe she loved him much more and he liked her loving him enough where she was supporting the both of them for years before he finally made it big

  • parisjok

    u are so right about everything u said

  • parisjok

    correct

  • parisjok

    its taking a toll on him also

  • parisjok

    spousal support is a temporary thing so he will not have to do that nearly as long as the child support. as long as he is making half a million dollars a month she will be getting paid and she is winning. even after he will no longer have to pay spousal she will still be winning as long as he gets that type of bank. but he might have to keep paying spousal but less of it.

  • parisjok

    so funny but every women needs at least some lip gloss and just a little cheek color. she would look so much better

  • parisjok

    yeah but did u forget she has NANNIES and help with all that cash she gets every month. she has it much much much better than 99.9 tenths of moms with two babies. she has plenty of time to do her

  • Yardgirl

    Thanks!

  • parisjok

    but what will she be doing with all of that money is what I want to know. Britney Spears ex is getting 20.000 a month and she is much much much richer than this actor. he is trying to get more money for his two sons. so after reading about this it seems like there are different rules for this situations.

  • dru and neil

    I'm sorry, I responded arrogantly before and that's not nice, so I can answer your questions if you really like. I like to interact with people on the blog, harmoniously. You asked me to "go through what she want through" and see how I feel? She looked like this before the divorce. You said I basically am going back and forth with folks over her appearance? Many people are misinterpreting what I said (either on purpose, or maybe it really is going over their heads), I am mearly correcting them and reiterating myself. You implied that I base a woman's worth (as well as my own) solely her appearance, not true. I don't know this woman, I'm only going off the news reports and the way she presents herself. Not once have I called her ugly or unattractive, called her a bad person or bad mom, all I said, is that she looks like she couldn't care less about her outward appearance. People are drawing their own conclusions. But if you actually read my comments (since I know you saw them) you would totally understand what I mean. Is that better for you?

  • dru and neil

    So many people are offended at the mere suggestion that she take off those culock sweats, and comb her hair that it's not even worth it to give an opinion it seems. The thing is you'd be surprised the little things your man is noticing about you. I had a relative tell me that her boss complimented her hair, then got this sad look on his face and said "I wish my wife cared about getting her hair done sometimes." I had a coworker come into work once complaining about how tired he was that his wife feet always stank. I swear sometimes it will be the little things. People are saying she's been through a lot, true, but let's face it, she looked like this before.

  • K Edwards

    God Bless you hun...That was sarcasm through and through. It's all good on my end. All I ask is that in life. Always reflect inwards...taste your words before you spit them out. Always remember before you speak...Is it kind? Is it necessary? Or is it important?

  • Joy King

    Being a mother is a JOB. If you’re a halfway decent mom it’s a lot of work. I have the upmost respect for women who are great moms. If this woman is able to stay at home and be a full time great mom, then God Bless her. More kids need that but unfortunately most can’t afford to. Her ex husband has enough money to make that possible and she should take full advantage.

  • dru and neil

    I promise you it was not sarcasm! I actually wanted to clear it up! Promise. You know it does get snarky in here, I do not aim to offend. If anyone was personally offended, by my comment on Aryn's chosen look, that was not my intention. I assume nobody can get personally offended by a strangers opinion but I could be wrong.

  • Joy King

    For one, the two of them were together for many years. A judge factors that in when making a decision regarding spousal and child support. Kevin and Brittany weren’t married that long. I believe their kids are less than 2 years apart. I’m also sure Brittany has her kids with her a lot, where as Aryn will probably have the kids with her the majority of the time. I don’t know all the specifics but I don’t think comparing a brief marriage like the one Brittany had with Kevin is the same as the marriage Aryn and Jesse had.

  • Miss Thang

    True. I just don’t think she looks particularly bad. She doesn’t wear make up. She grooms her hair and nails. She dresses in active wear.

  • Kayke

    She deserves it all. She supported him while he was a “starving artist” thats why he married her. Then to turn around and cheat on his family and the women that helped him bring his dreams to fruition. Selfish man.

  • Kayke

    She’s upset right now and mourning. Some women go through this dressed to a tee and put together but damaged as hell and pretending they’re alright. Let her do her.....plus she has more than looks to offer.

  • Kayke

    Oh so Jesse was just some one a million shot at having someone? Because she always looked like this. That’s silly, just like she was married and had children, there is another person out therefor her. She won’t bag her a shallow NBA player, but her looks got her married and with child before. Y’all are harsh, like only well put together women have spouses or as if being fly keeps you from being single.

  • Kayke

    Lmao! I can name you a plethora of yt women and “other” who are collecting from their ex black husbands. You’re a fool.

  • parisjok

    so very very true BUT when you are getting 100.000 dollars a month like her and even when she was getting 30.000 thousand a month plus other things he was paying as a mom that means she has more than enough to have nannies and other help where her burden is so not as hard as most other moms plus she is NOT working!!!

  • parisjok

    don't agree at all because this couple were only married for five years and Britney was married for at least three years or a little more while having two babies back to back. there was not that much difference in the years both were married.

    maybe she paid less because she is also paying for everything else her sons need and he is not paying anything.

  • parisjok

    if this was a perfect world. most black females who have any type of money do NOT end up marrying in their wealth range like Halle, Mary J. Blige, Oprah, etc and the list goes on and on.

  • cusp_23

    Her “looks” ain’t get her shit ?. She was a comeup. Pure and simple. Jesse was an extenuating circumstance. So, yes, to answer your question... as silly as it sounds, it’s truth. ?????

  • cusp_23

    Naw she was dressing like this when they were together. This ain’t “mourning” attire lmao this is “everyday-I-just-rolled-out-of-bed-idgaf-attire” ??????

  • cusp_23

    Some dudes marry and breed with chicks because it’s the right thing to do, or because it’s good for their image/career. It’s not always about an “attraction”. That’s why Aryan and Kevin Harts ex look so homely. Women try to fight the hard truth; men are visual and like their women to look SEXY & desirable. Ladies, when you fail to deliver, this is the end result. ?????

  • cusp_23

    Black ppl always try to take constructive criticism to the highest - most absurd - end of the spectrum. If you criticize a black chick who rocks natural hair - even if the criticism isn’t specifically about her hair - they will take it to the extreme and say you’re a self hater who hates natural hair. Or if you say the chick is homely or just unattractive, then you’re advocate for “tranny makeup”. Just delusional and indignant. Lol my people smh

  • cusp_23

    Yes. She needs a gym. Fitness routine. Access to healthier food options. A stylist. A makeup artist. And a good cot damn mirror. Shit, I would have personally invested in all the above if I had a millionaire husband. She really thought her loyalty or “financial investment” (when he ain’t have shit) was enough to keep a man like Jesse?! While she looking like that?! Cmon man. This outcome was inevitable.

  • cusp_23

    There are pics of her on the red carpet looking like this. ?

  • cusp_23

    “Pretty” is a stretch. She is “decent” at best. And even that is a stretch. She looks like she’s pushing 50. Not good for a black chick.

  • cusp_23

    How do you dress in active wear and still be out of shape - with no shape? ?

  • cusp_23

    Lol exactly

  • cusp_23

    You’re thinking too hard and projecting your emotions. Aryan looks a mess. Point. Blank. Period. Now that they’re divorced, she can walk around looking like homeless hobo all day while counting her $100k. Single.

  • Miss Thang

    I think she has a cute shape.

  • K Edwards

    Whatever YOU say ? I stated my opinion. The END. I'm not going to continue to go back and forth with anyone.

  • the guest

    I always thought child abandonment and evasion of child support were very serious military ethics violations. If a member of the military is a military deserter, dishonorably discharged, and can't be located that would be a hopeless scenario.

    But an active duty deployed member of the military whereabouts are known, traceable, and made accountable. I don'y know every situation. But I never heard of the military knowingly on record ignoring a report of child abandonment and child support evasion.

    If the military is permitting an active member's child to be financially neglected, then going to the media would correct any oversight and misunderstanding in a heartbeat.

  • the guest

    1) She's not getting a makeover.

    2) She is being herself. The same woman he dated, lived off, married, lived off, and procreated with. Not every woman is a made up or beautiful or even stylish type of woman and that is their right.

    3) There are men who see beyond looks and sincerely are attracted to women who may not be beautiful, done up, or stylish but Jesse Williams was never one of them.

    4) That's the point and real wrong here. He was never attracted to his ex wife to begin with and he knowingly mislead and used her for stability when he was struggling.

    5) His ex wife's mistake was lacking self perception. If I looked like her, I wouldn't have given Jesse Williams the time of day and I wouldn't financially supported him.

    6) That couple was always on those hot celebrities with ugly mates / significant others / spouses lists, and I'm sure that wasn't the first criticism they received in life. Anyone with common sense could look at the couple and surmise he was using her while he struggled as an actor.

    7) Her taking care off and taking a dependent shallow pretty boy seriously shows she lacks self perception and common sense.

  • Yardgirl

    Can you post it?

  • dru and neil

    She claimed she's been trying to get child support enforced, from her "ex" for years. I think folks assumed that she was talking about an ex husband but perhaps not, because support would have been worked out if she was married to an active duty military member, during the divorce proceedings. If he was causing static somehow, she would have been able to access the base, his workplace, his superiors, as a DoD ID card holder, to report any abandonment issue, even from another state, this stuff can be handled over the phone as well. Military spouses are in a position to stir up a lot of trouble if need be, folks know what they are entitled to.
    But she probably isn't a spouse or even his ex girlfriend for that matter, sounds like a fling to me. If she is, then she is clueless as hell, and I hope she reads this so she can help herself.
    The woman probably hasn't proved paternity, has no court order or proof that the military member should be paying support because this is one of those cut and dry issues. If you father a child, you're on the hook for child support whether you are with the woman or not, the child is your dependent, and has entitlements such as health care, etc. I know her story tugged at heart strings but somethings being left out big time, sorry. I just spent 20 years in the Air Force, I know PLENTY of men, paying child support. Sometimes they are supporting children from a previous marriage or relationship, sometimes from a damn ONE NIGHT STAND. Either way, they pay.

  • Doink_Ahanahue

    I agree. It wasn't a dig at her. Sometimes when we put effort into our appearance it helps us feel a little better overall. I understand what you're saying though

  • parisjok

    your statement does not really apply to him like a black man who grew up with a black mom. u have to remember the very first female love of his life was a white woman not a black woman. everyday of his life from infant to teenager and beyond he was loving a white mom unconditionally.

    it is not at all a shock or outside the box for him to have attractions to white females that look like the one female that loves him most in this world!!! he is biracial with black and white parents so he 100% gets a pass for being with any white female who also wants to be with him. just sayin

  • parisjok

    again, his mom is a white female. what is so wrong or strange for him to be with someone that looks like his own mom a white female? he did not grow up with a black mom loving him. he grew up with a white mom loving him.

    he gets a pass for desiring to be with someone who looks just like the first female he laid his eyes on after coming into this world an loved him unconditionally.

  • the guest

    She should get 10 doctorates and change the world on his dime. One day Jesse's gonna look up look up and see his ex wife getting a Nobel prize. In this lifetime, Jesse Williams will learn to value women beyond looks. He literally broke his best friend's heart and their children's family for vanity and approval of others. That' sick, but it's the world we live in.

  • parisjok

    well I must say u do have a valid point

  • parisjok

    sorry, still needs some lip gloss at least

  • parisjok

    so sorry for u. thought u would 100% be getting paid easily

  • the guest

    Exactly. There are many women (especially many white women) who look worse and have husbands who love and adore them. There is a man for her just as she is.

    She just happened to have gotten mislead and married a man who wasn't attracted to her and used her. But after being with a pretty boy, she's probably not attracted to an average looking man.

    I hate to bring up colorism but Aryn is biracial with so called "good hair" and still of child bearing age. Very dark skinned African or Caribbean men with colorist views and attraction to thick women would worship and wife her up in a heartbeat.

    Men that look like Jesse (and I don't find him particularly cute but he's what's considered conventionally hot), are typically only attracted to their own vain self reflection and image.

  • the guest

    The judge could see right through Jesse. Clear as day he used this woman and it's not right. The judged righted it though. Can't heal her heart but gave her justice.

  • Ant Hill

    Brothas will never learn, do not marry if you are rich.

  • Ant Hill

    did your silly rabbit azz feel that way when Mary J. had to cut that check?

  • Lorenzo Chaps

    Exactly. Geesh.

  • Fire & Ice

    OMG yes!!!! If this woman headed to the carribean, those color struck negros would snatch her up. Plus she has "good hair".

  • Fire & Ice

    "deranged eyes" ????.

  • Fire & Ice

    Agreed! A lot of women will fool themselves into believing, that a certain type of man is into them. I see mismatched couples all the time on social media. I'm like come on sis you really falling for the okie doke.

  • Cannelle

    Colorism is always in the air, unfortunately. As is feature-ism, and texture-ism. It is sad that many west African (and descent) men want a woman who is as far away from a general west African look as possible.

  • Cannelle

    I agree with you generally, except the doctorate part. I have one, and it was more than I needed, honestly. I'm kind of on her side, though. I think that he is a loser.

  • marshefen

    They were married before he became an actor. I believe he was a teacher before.

  • Cynthia Wiggins

    I agree.......Every time she is photographed she looks the same (tired). Mourning? He isn't dead. He just doesn't want to be with her. At least she is rich. There are women everyday being left with nothing. She needs to get it together and take her money and education and live her best life.