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What is Narcissistic Supply?

Narcissistic Supply is "sustenance drawn by an individual from his or her environment" that is essential to their lack of self-esteem or Ego.

Most adults are adept at entertaining themselves or keeping themselves busy with or without outside influences. But the narcissist is eternally bored because they are empty inside.

The narcissist is the equivalent of an alcoholic. He craves attention like a drunk needs an endless supply of liquor.

In order to attract attention to themselves, the narcissist, who is usually very attractive, molds themselves into a false image that gullible people are attracted to.

To elicit constant interest, he projects to others a confabulated, fictitious version of himself, known as the False Self. The False Self is everything the narcissist is not: omniscient, omnipotent, charming, intelligent, rich, or well-connected (Source).

The narcissist then begins to extract what he or she needs the most from friends and associates: attention, praise, admiration, applause, adulation, fear and respect.

To get what he or she needs, the narcissist seeks out Sources of Supply to provide those elements that he or she can't provide for Self, since he or she is an empty shell devoid of personality, compassion or empathy.

Narcissists internalize "bad" objects, typically their mother or father, from their childhood.

[He] "harbors socially forbidden emotions towards this object: hatred, envy, and other forms of aggression. These feelings reinforce the narcissist's self-image as bad and corrupt. Gradually he develops a dysfunctional sense of self-worth." (Source)

To repress these "bad" feelings, the narcissist suppresses all emotions. Her aggression is channelled into socially legitimate outlets (compulsive shopping, gambling, etc.).

The narcissist knows she is an empty shell with no empathy or compassion for others. So she protects herself by projecting a beautiful False Self, that gullible people are attracted to.

She then turns those people into objects that pose no emotional threat to her.

She substitutes her "lack of a functioning personality on the inside by importing Ego functions and boundaries" from other people, aka Narcissistic Supply from friends and associates.

1. The narcissist is the Trigger for Narcissistic Supply.

2. The Source is the person who provides Narcissistic Supply.

3. Narcissistic Supply is a substitute for the Ego and Personality that the narcissist lacks.

The narcissist carefully selects her friends from a short list of Primary (continuous) Supply and a larger list of Secondary (interrupted) Supply.

Initially, the narcissist makes herself easily available to her Source of Supply. She constantly bombards her Supply with attention in the form of dozens of text messages or phone calls a day.

She then extorts her Supply for sex, money, or compliments, in exchange for her time. Think of the relationship between a gullible rich man and a stripper or an escort.

What are Primary Sources of Supply?

Primary Sources of Supply are people who provide a constant, uninterrupted stream of Ego functions. They include:

  • A spouse
  • Live-in girlfriend or boyfriend
  • Relatives who live at home
  • Children who live at home
  • Roommate(s)
  • Live-in maids
  • The primary source of supply has no easy means of escaping the narcissist's rage or silent treatment.

    What Are Secondary Sources of Supply?

    Secondary sources of supply are those who provide temporary supply on a regular basis. They include:

  • Friends
  • Co-workers
  • Bosses
  • Business partners
  • Colleagues
  • Neighbors
  • Social media followers
  • Concertgoers
  • Fans, fan clubs
  • Entertainers such as Beyonce and JAY-Z go out on tour because they crave Narcissistic Supply that they can't get from each other.

    Social media is a secondary supply source where celebrities go to get a regular stream of supply.

    Secondary sources of supply rarely see the narcissist's worst side -- except when the narcissist can no longer contain his or her rage internally.

    Examples are celebrities such as Bow Wow (pictured below with girlfriend Kiyomi), 50 Cent, Azalea Banks, and Chris Brown -- who regularly vent their rage on social media.

    The ultimate kiss off for a narcissist is the Silent Treatment. When a narcissist is injured by your insistence on being respected as equals, they simply cut you off by blocking you on social media or by deleting their social media accounts (that'll teach you).

    All sources of supply, both primary and secondary, share the same characteristics from the narcissist's point of view: they are gullible, submissive, reasonable (to a fault), intelligent, and physically inferior to the narcissist (you're not as attractive as he or she is).

    Why do narcissists lose interest in sex?

    Sex is one of the things that narcissists put up with to appease their Sources of Supply. Narcissists can do without partner sex because it drains them and prevents them from focusing on Self (masturbation).

    Remember Kanye West said one of the reasons he dumped Amber Rose is because she constantly demanded sex.

    The narcissist perceives intimacy and sex as a threat to his uniqueness... The narcissist resents this commonness. He rebels by striking out at the perceived founts of his frustration and "enslavement". (Source)

    Why do narcissist's devalue their Sources of Supply?

    The narcissist devalues his or her Sources of Supply for the very qualities that made them such sources in the first place: their gullibility, their submissiveness, their (intellectual or physical) inferiority. (Source)

    The moment the Primary or Secondary Supply attempts to exert control over the narcissist, or demands to be treated equally, the narcissist flees to another source of supply, who is always waiting in the wings.

    In Kanye's case, Kim Kardashian was waiting to take Amber's place -- and you can be sure that he has someone waiting to take Kim's place.

    Like the drunkard who hides bottles of liquor throughout the house, the narcissist always has a hidden backup -- a sidepiece or another job waiting. In fact, the married narcissist spends most of her time setting up other sources of supply (a secret boyfriend) to run to when her primary supply runs out.

    If you marry a narcissist, just be aware that you are sharing him or her with someone else.

    The narcissist has endless sources of supply.

    This has been your Medical Minute.

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    • Coy little wink

      Fake selves for this fake world we live in..this afflicts a lot of people...lawd

    • Rico768

      University of sandra.i love it

    • Blaque Mahogany

      I'm an introvert so people drain the hell out of me.

      I really think Bow Wow may be dealing with some emotional issues. He seems like a complete azzhole, but if something were to happen to him, people would have a completely different tone.

    • DaughterOfaQueen

      Long yet interesting write up. Auntie you know Shaddy Shad gone flip his lil wig when his gf reads this post?

    • bemetoo

      me too I enjoy being in my 4 corner walls

    • RealATLPeach36

      I'm an extrovert, but the more and more I see people the more and more I become an introvert. People are fucking weird..

    • Itiswhatitis!

      Slow news day huh?

    • MJF

      I waited all morning to read about narcissists. Sigh. Have a good day yall. Ima actually go work lol

    • jeniefrumdabloc™

      on point excellent write up ... ????? and I'm dead serious

    • CoTToNCaNDie SWeeTAsGolD
    • jeniefrumdabloc™

      A lot... Distance yourself from these types ... This kind of energy spreads ... It makes ya toxic ... Heavy addictions with these kinds... The worst and don't let them be covert sweet Lord .... Straight abusive ... Sadistic on so many levels ...

    • FukkFolks2018

      In Kanye’s case, Kim Kardashian was waiting to take Amber’s place — and you can be sure that he has someone waiting to take Kim’s place.
      ^^^^
      Ricardo

      Continue to Keep your replacement close Kim!

      https://www.glamour.com/story/kim-kardashian-riccardo-tisci-fashion-friendship

    • Ni Ni

      All narcissists here. I see no lies. Sn: i can't spell that word for crap let alone pronounce it without slowing down & making sure i have all the syllables?.

    • Quitedeliteful

      In other words: No worse pain the the arse than a narcissist...

    • Dr. P

      Shad just said yesterday how much he hates bloggers. Specifically Lane Bryant wearing bloggers...Auntie is ok y'all. She don't wear nothing but the finest of couture. Lane Bryant doesn't sell backpacks.

    • MzKeriBabee

      and social media is a narcissist's heaven...……….

    • Tony

      I agree, but why tho? I don’t understand.

    • Ni Ni

      Fellow introvert here? and people indeed drain the life out me too. None of those up top are introverts though...we like to be in the background.

    • WhoKnew

      First, sum body tripping if they still trying to pass Jay-Z's old ass off as 48. This Sly Stone looking muva got to be at least 62. Look at pics of him lately. Bey's grandfather/husband ain't aging well.

      Perfect case of narcissism would be the Carters. I saw a pic on Yahoo the other day of them grinning like they were God-like idols. They were leaving a restaurant and immature diners actually stood up and applauded them as they walked by and their grins went ape shit crazy. Really? This is how this narcissistic shit gets started in their heads. And for 2. This is how shit gets started.

    • Kanyade

      "Entertainers such as Beyonce and JAY-Z go out on tour because"...work is good and it pays the bills? EDIT: Also, the attention.

      Thanks for the education.

    • Music

      I think Beyonce is an introvert. The performing Beyonce is different(reserved)from the off stage Beyonce.

    • PROPHETMAJOR

      What happened to Beyonce's melanin? Asking for myself!

    • WhoKnew

      Clorox.

    • Ni Ni

      I disagree. Beyonce wants people to think that she is shy or reserved as you call it. I know bullcrap when i see it.

    • It’s Real Talk! Period!!

      Replacement? More like he never left! Kim is just the Beard! ????

    • Anunnaki

      Welcome to earth 101,

    • MsVida

      I dated a narcissistic sociopath on and off for years. I loved the hell out of him, he liked me but freely admitted he was fed in the head because he was abandoned at birth and wasn't held. He truly actually hated women. I am actually lucky he never wifed me, I would have said yes and he would have destroyed me, like he has done (and continues to do) to countless other women. If the FBI called me tomorrow and told me he was a serial killer I wouldn't be the least bit surprised.

    • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

      You're saying she has multiple personalities? ?

    • Y’all Jealous Cuz I’m Prudy

      Thank you Sandra for writing this.

      I know people that fit the description of everything you just described. It is physically and mentally draining dealing with them because they constantly need praise and a bunch of attention. They also get very jealous when they see someone else close to them getting the attention they constantly desire.

    • ?Patty Kakes?

      Very enlightening

    • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

      You're welcome, hun. I just want the fans to understand the role they play in the public lives of narcissistic celebrities.

    • Kanyade

      it is definitely a reciprocal EDIT or cyclical process.

    • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

      Read read the post again. It explains how narcissists crave attention, applause and adulation from gullible people.

    • Tawaii

      It’s called lighting!

    • They’re ALL false God’s fools

      Also a lot of people in the entertainment industry actually truthfully love their work and actually enjoy doing it while making $$$$. That makes some people jealous and so they obsess over the celebrities and take cheap jabs at them.

    • iWasteTime

      So we're simultaneously diagnosing Narcissism and feeding it.
      Sounds about right ...

    • Guest©

      Maybe she's an ambivert. As a child l was very shy but now im an ambivert. I'm balanced.

    • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

      I know parents who are jealous of their own children taking attention from them.

    • Blaque Mahogany

      LOL

    • missmiami305

      I like Bey and her music. She is a true entertainer. She is a narcissist and that is why she rarely takes long breaks. She feeds off of her fans who love her due to her fake persona. It is obvious their marriage ia in trouble. The last OTR tour they hired a marriage counselor. Yet, they still did their best to put on a united front. The same can be said now. They are doing too much. Their have been rumors about Bey having a secret boyfriend/friend with benefits. They are doing the samething Jigga did with Bey by talking on the phone and etc. She is calculated and will surely get back at Jigga when the time is right. He knows this. Anyway, keep hope alive Bey.

    • Blaque Mahogany

      People are fucking weird..
      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
      Rofl. I literally just called someone a weirdo the other day. And really meant it.

    • missmiami305

      U nailed it auntie

    • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

      If you follow celebrities on social media, YOU are their Narcissistic Supply.

    • Kanyade

      Do rumors say who the secret boyfriend is?

    • Skin Deep Beauty

      This post is EVERYTHING a lot of FOLLOWERS that choose leaders based on fame and color and not on sincere character, loyalty, humanity and gain will see this become offensive and throw that Ghetto rhetorical word "hater" in the mix when opinions are expressed and idolization is not rendered. When money RULES humanity is lost, material obsession and flamboyancy is commended and is considered wealthy MAINLY IN THE BLACK COMMUNITY... FOH as I could give NOT ONE FUX ABOUT REBUTTAL!

    • missmiami305

      This post is very thorough. You really put your foot in this one lol.

    • missmiami305

      He is the real babydaddy of Chicago.

    • missmiami305

      Fellow empath as well.

    • missmiami305

      #dead

    • Miss Thang

      Bey looka lika a man in this shot... *in my Ms. Swan voice*

    • Y’all Jealous Cuz I’m Prudy

      God knows I can relate to that.

    • missmiami305

      Nah! A lot of blinds for years. I doubt if we know anytime soon. It will prolly be years from now. Bey loves her image too much. She isn't willing to take the risk. Deep inside she is a hurting little girl. But that's mostly my opinion.

    • PROPHETMAJOR

      I concur

    • Kanyade

      Not a rebuttal, but a sincere, "something" to ponder.

      "material obsession and flamboyancy is commended and is considered wealthy"

      I wonder why that is? in the black community, as you posit. Is it because black folk went so long without?

      I have family members that will rent a flashy car for a family reunion and front like it's theirs until someone spots the tag. I have a kin-cousin whose ex spent his car payment on weave and nails.

      I definitely agree with you on "when money RULES" sentiment. I have other family whose lives are so modest you wouldn't know they had money like they actually do. They never felt the need to front or put on. Money and notoriety was not on their life to-do list. They simply wanted to raise good children, do good deeds, thrive, survive and live a happy life. And did. And still do.

      I guess it takes all types, but this write-up on narcissism was very interesting. A lot can be discussed and pulled from. Just wanted to comment on your comment as its got me thinking of other things. :)

    • missmiami305

      I don't follow anyone lol. Social media accounts are so old lol. They will not get me ?. I hang out in the blogs ???.

    • SingleGalCrazyWorld

      I think its Lebron...Bey likes men with status and a high celebrity...I can see her throwing it at Barack too but Michelle would cut her with a dull razor if she even attempted it...

    • Kanyade

      I think on some level all women are hurt little girls. In that there's something that didn't feed the ego, the id, all that psychological jazz, and it comes out later in life or just at some point.

    • SingleGalCrazyWorld

      An ex-associate of mines was like this...she could never let anyone else shine. We went to high school together and she wasn't like that but maybe I didn't know the symptoms. She is the youngest child and got everything she wanted from her momma. Now she is in her mid-thirties on IG talking about how "bad" she is getting praised by fake followers. She got ran out her neighborhood for trying to steal everybody man. I had to curse her out a few years ago because she kept calling at 2:00 AM cause the neighborhood girls were trying to jump her... Chile... Im not gonna lie I was the supplier of attention until she tried to hit on a man I was dating at the time via fb... I blocked her number and kept it moving...she was so desperate for my attention she came to my pt job...

    • WhoKnew

      I was just thinking that she probably has multiple personalities in her head as I was reading some of the comments. I'll bet she talks to herself and has actual out loud conversations with herself to practice for when the camera phones are rolling and the paparazzi is trolling.

    • Honest
    • Kanyade

      Ha! at the dull razor. Ouch! I remember seeing some pics poolside of her and him and 'nem, just chilling.

    • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

      I was a willing supplier myself. I had to work on myself to stop being one.

    • Honest
    • Honest
    • SweetTEE

      I literally just cut my closest friend off because I realized that I was unknowingly in a competition. All of a sudden, she needs validation from outsiders and does the most on social media all day, everyday. I asked my therapist beforehand, and yea, she basically said the same thing.

    • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

      Me too. I prefer hanging out on blogs and websites to social media. I refuse to be a narcissist's supply. Not ta-day. ?

    • Honest
    • She.Is.Not.Ready

      I need to send this to my a-hole father. He is 19 years older than my mom (the long suffering girlfriend) they've been making my life miserable for 31 years now. He retired from a great job in 2005 was given 2 homes and properties so he never had to pay rent or mortgage ever but was able to convince my mom to spend her hard earned money on home repairs, down payments, car notes, property taxes, boat payments, bought several cars. He never shared his earnings because that was 'his money'...but she took care of me and my brother and him.
      Now all of sudden he's broke living on social security and he has found a way to blame her for his downfalls. He won't even put the properties in her name that she paid taxes on all these years...ugh. Moral of my story...Parents don't stay in crappy relationships 'for the kids' that only makes everyone miserable.

    • RICHIE_RICH

      Why is that some people always worried about what the next person is doing? I say worried bout yourself and live ya best life?????

      People are going to do as they please , just as you’re going to do as you please.

      LIVE YA BEST LIFE

    • SweetTEE

      Now I'm a Bey fan, but I can definitely see your point. I won't even lie, I believe she has a dude and is calculating her get back. And if she wasn't so praised, she would fall back but instead she will stay around just so no one will take her shine.

    • SweetTEE

      I felt that in my heart. You perfectly described someone in my life.

    • SweetTEE

      One thing I can say.. she hasn't bleached. she is the same color from the first Destinys Child video

    • RICHIE_RICH

      That’s her natural color!!

    • SweetTEE

      you petty lol

    • RICHIE_RICH

      How can you concur if you’re asking?

    • We Can Do This

      The many degrees of Crazy!

    • SingleGalCrazyWorld

      Its hard when you have to cut someone off but its more healthy for your state of mind smh...I totally understand...

    • jeniefrumdabloc™

      It's a very good write up... This will ruffle some feathers but truth do that.. .... It is what it is.. . It's a demented spirit too. . . Satan controls Narcricisst by the way... It's actually his energy... So most of the ones in the photos are being controlled by this entity ... A lover of self pleasure worldly things.. Physical things... . Which will destroy them because they can't help themselves ... They need others to to pull from... That includes family members .. Children you name it to get praise and it's about to get worse

    • SweetTEE

      yea, I needed to hear that.. thanks

    • RICHIE_RICH

      But aren’t you apart of the issue , by constantly making post about them?????

    • RICHIE_RICH

      So how is it their fault that people choose to do that that?

    • morenYAHdelsur

      I don’t have social media accounts. I come here. I’m supplying you then Sandra! LOL

    • jeniefrumdabloc™

      good for you bew ???

    • jeniefrumdabloc™

      ???

    • morenYAHdelsur

      I think in her early career she was just boo koo tan.

      Some light skin folk feel too light. Some dark skin folk feel too dark ????? Go figure.

    • morenYAHdelsur

      LMAO facts

    • morenYAHdelsur

      “Gullibility” messed me up ??????

    • Torae

      Even the gossip social media accounts are narcissistic. They swear they are spilling tea and demand attention from their followers. I had to stop following anyone that I didn’t know personally because it seems that most people these days are narcissistic.

    • jeniefrumdabloc™

      It's real hard to fake in person ... Easier to pull a Jedi mindtrick and portray a fake image that way ... the one viewing the narcissist remains clueless that their being sucked from .. . SMH... it's easier to disguise yourself ... to go even deeper on a spiritual level. . throat chakra hell all chakras are blocked with these types ... in person a normal person would feel drained by them or lower ... they lower people self esteem by flashing Jedi mindtricks ... which lowers the spirit ... they create envy jealousy and greed ... but you wouldn't know who stirring the pot... because they disguise themselves as Saints in the public ... but to know them personally intimately ... abuse is usually around heavy... they're like robots when their this bad ... portrays empathy but it always comes across as fake false . . Carefullfuly orchestrated to get praise ... hidden agendas always with a narcissist

    • Torae

      I have a narcissistic toxic mother in law and mother. My husband and I had to learn to love our mother’s from afar because their narcissism was affecting our marriage and relationships. I don’t play with narcissists. They won’t get any energy from me...

    • missmiami305

      Kim’s new face looks horrid. I mean she looks plastic. Who wants to walk around looking like a plastic surgery billboard ?. The goal is to look as natural as POSSIBLE if you opt to have work done. Her face is gonna fall apart as she ages lol.

    • missmiami305

      So sad. Glad for you guys.

    • missmiami305

      Bey has a giraffe like neck lol. Very long.

    • missmiami305

      Lol

    • missmiami305

      Yeah! I know she’s wealthy and Jigga might be rich without her assets/accumulated wealth. But, I think she is riding out their prenup so she can do her best to stick it him. This includes having multiple babies. She will never need the money but for some payback is a Bih. He knows it’s coming. Just a matter of time. They are both demented imo. Very dark inside. Have a lot of cleansing do. They have to make things right. Money to charity is good but it will not rid your soul of darkness. Oh well lol

    • Prettybrowneound35

      Narcissists are ugly people as well. I dated one. He was fat and very average looking. I wouldn’t wish him on my worst enemy.

    • missmiami305

      Girl!!!!!!!! The way she looks at him. It’s obvious she wants to hit lol. Bey stole her youth and she let him. U live and learn. Savanah ain’t here for it though.

    • Joy King

      I think anyone who reaches the level of being a superstar is a narcissist. You have to be, to maintain that level of stardom. The ones who aren't true narcissist, fade into obscurity because they're not comfortable with that amount of attention and praise. Unfortunately, social media has made it possible for everyone to reveal just how narcissist they are. It's the devil's playground.

    • missmiami305

      I remember on her first album the song DADDY? Girl, she was saying she wanted her husband to be like her daddy. I can only imagine how crushed she was to find out the truth. Chileeeee smh!

    • teather

      Your comment is well taken. I also think that ppl who CAN reach this level of superstardom are narcissistic to begin with. One has to be to be able to accomplish all of this, esp when YOU are the product.When the product is say MS software or something like that, it's harder to identify with THAT being you. But when the product is you, it's easy to gas up your own head and think it's all about you and has to be in order to maintain.

    • indano

      Triangulation & gaslighting are common techniques used by the narcissist.

    • missmiami305
    • missmiami305

      Lol! I am a Martian ????.

    • Coy little wink

      Hay Jenie...I need to talk to you

    • Ryan

      Good post and it applies to regular folks too, not just celebrities. I'm not on much social media but I have one friend who never comments or likes my posts if it was about something positive going on in my life, or if my post had too many likes. And I had to cut off a couple of people cause everytime we hung out they always made sht about them.

    • A J

      Micheal Obama

    • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

      Also narcissistic rage and narcissistic injury. Both have to be seen to believe. ?

    • missmiami305

      I believe this. I will never forget that video of her in a trance like state at a b-ball game. Prolly psychosis?????

    • missmiami305
    • RICHIE_RICH

      Don’t we all to a degree?

    • missmiami305

      ???????? These comments defending BEY and JAY. Can’t tell me she wasn’t dead behind the eyes.
      https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/35aec7dd6a4ef79b237ee9435bb90803c1d8480d59700fe305e1b35aba9013d3.gif

    • RICHIE_RICH

      Why you say?

    • jeniefrumdabloc™

      Hit me ...

    • teather

      I would almost say too that a preoccupation with narcissism raises a red flag as well. Aren't bloggers narcissistic too? I'm just asking! :)

    • none yubiz

      "...ghetto rhetorical word 'hater' when opinions are expressed and idolization is not rendered....we must be kin...SAY IT AGAIN QUEEN!!

    • Ci Sam

      Cardi posted a screenshot of her bank statement showing she withdrew 548k for the lambos, to prove they aren't leased.

    • Blaque Mahogany

      Are you serious? She is SOOO pressed. I swear I don't understand how she allows people that she doesn't even know to get to her like she does.

    • none yubiz

      Whoever it is...Bey said herself "when he fuck me good I take his ass to Red Lobster..." Oh, yall that was just lyrics...hehehe

    • none yubiz

      Spot on Jenie...also, the narcisist has learned to used the various masks to attain certain goals. They don't feel empathy in the least but they know very well how to fake it based on observances of society, others and/or TV. Their personalities are literally in a sort of a rotating cold storage that they will put on and off depending on the circumstances.

    • none yubiz

      Great post Auntie...You ever hear of Sam Vaknin, a self proclaimed narcissist that has tons of videos on this topic on YT? I used to watch his videos religiously after I gave a bonafide narcisst ex-BF the boot. I was always a pretty intuitive and spiritual person but could not place my finger on my experience at that time. It really helped me to understand what I had encountered.

    • Kimocha

      She could've been day dreaming... That's how most of us look when we day dream.... Or high... Or a combination of both...Ijs (shrugs)

    • Ci Sam
    • Ci Sam

      It's from another blog site so Sandra may delete it

    • none yubiz

      So funny becuz I was just having a convo with my friends about the nicknames they give themselves when they misbehave, get too drunk, etc. Yes, Beyonce def has dissociative identity disorder (the DSM axed multiple personality disorders and uses DID in its place) Hence, she is Beyonce, Sasha Fierce and 'Yonce..to name a few

    • SumthinSweeter

      or.... under the influence. not taking up for her, but I think she just looks stoned off some good good.

    • none yubiz

      IDK about that...we have varying emotional responses and defense mechanisms depending on triggers and environments. If my name is Jenny..I'm not going around calling myself Tina on the weekends when I get drunk...it's strange..

    • SumthinSweeter

      Hmmmm true and not true. Most narcissist tend to eventually self destruct.

    • Jackie Byrd

      You are right Kanyade because I always say I am the 7 year old girl in a 52 year old body who still hurting from childhood.

    • jeniefrumdabloc™

      Identity stealing is what it is . so they tend to copy people a lot .... and claim it to be their own identity ... this is the mask.. they compartmentalize human emotions .... all learned emotions from victims unbeknownst .. a lot of victims don't even realize they snatch identities .... they observe people's sympathy .... and try to mimic the exact same thing .... except their sympathy has a hidden motive behind it ... this is how these types generate human connections ... friends... jobs..... wealth .... what many fail to realize but it become very clear .... this era we're in is the fall of the narcissist..... Since they like the spotlight ... the spotlight will be their downfall of their own doing of course .. You're completely on target https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/c1425c997ed3319b16098cad0d4bebaabde80cd22860d557863b4ff2c949aed9.gif

    • Wayup!

      ??

    • SingleGalCrazyWorld

      Yup..Bey dont want none of Savannah you can tell she dont play when it comes to her man...

    • Passion

      What is wrong with J and what is he looking at? They look like they are in some kind of trans!

    • jeniefrumdabloc™

      I keep telling folks .... that one .. demon shyt and tries to hide it well .... but I see that one crystal clear ..... and it's much darker than what folks could ever imagine about this woman .... she looks pretty don't she.... welp that's the vessel .... but the actual spirit ... my clairvoyant see her/it .... not good and it's glutty.. Nerp! ..... https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/5c070957ea5736a07d313546dedc61c1a47e8ff9d3d2fcc06cf4af8c182660eb.gif

    • jeniefrumdabloc™

      experienced it .... smear campaigns to no ends ... flying monkeys ... character assassination ...... tries to turn the whole world against ya ..... experienced it and conquered .... I help others now .... they are thee worst abusers ...

    • Simone

      Excellent article Sandra Rose!! The pathetic Beyhive are a classic Narcissistic Supply. Notice, Beyoncé does not even have to respond to disses or criticisms about her. The Beyhive always come to the rescue because they pathetically vicariously live through her.

    • What???

      Excellent Post Sandra. Thank you.

    • Kimocha

      WOW! In order to be a celebrity... You can't be worried about what others say all the damn time... And she worries too much about what people say and think about her... She should've just ignored the haters... She is taking it too far by showing bank statements... Just ridiculous... She needs to start ignoring peoples hateful ass comments... She knows people are automatically gonna be envious and jealous of her... She's a mess tho... LOL!

    • Kimocha

      Yea... they lookin high AF to me!

    • Ci Sam

      Yea I don't need to know she got a 5,000 deposit or that she spent 150 at the nail salon. She didn't cover any of her other transactions ??????????

    • RICHIE_RICH

      Lol ?, Jenny I mean Tina

    • dontgetblocked

      I love when they show their azzes on Instagram. It's a train wreck I can't stop looking at.

    • starbright9449

      Lmao

    • Applebum

      I said way too much, lol.

    • Applebum

      I don’t follow any celebs. I will never follow anyone with a “0” following count, like Beyonce. She doesn’t even follow her own mother who’s on IG. To me that says a lot.

    • Bonita

      I approve this Medical Minute! Facts! lol

    • Applebum

      It’s that MK ultra.

    • Rodmilla De Ghent

      This was legendary and so relevant folk dismiss narcissism yet its such a common and prevalent mental illness.

    • ?? Kari ?????????

      Kanye.......and you can be sure that he has someone waiting to take Kim’s place.

      Yep their marriage is really nothing. I believe once the surrogate came into play, her not wanting to carry the kid means a lot.

    • Blaque Mahogany

      Smdh

    • The Shy Cookie

      Aww I forgot about her original nose

    • ???TheRider???

      Screenshotted & saved!

    • ???TheRider???

      Looking just like Blue!

    • Ni Ni

      I think it's a cop out for her being slow. No shy person would be half nekkid & dancing spread eagle all the time.

    • missmiami305

      ??

    • Skin Deep Beauty

      EXACTLY!

    • missmiami305

      Are you serious? So, she is proud AF for purchasing this able bodied fools vehicle that he’ll prolly drive another groupie around in ????. She has real low self-esteem and is hella insecure. That is gonna be her downfall. You don’t answer to everyone that calls you. She needs a new management/pr rep. Like, why does she have so much access to her social media account? Someone else should be handling it. Chile please! Bird logic strikes again.

    • missmiami305

      She so stupid why she leave the last 4digits of her card and the check numbers lol. It’s the principal.

    • missmiami305

      Drugs too! They need drugs just to function sometimes. It seems as though she was on some sort of antidepressant or several. Notice Jigga ain’t give two fuggs though.

    • missmiami305

      That ain’t no dream. The entire video was odd.

    • RICHIE_RICH

      Oh ok gotcha, but Tina Turner was doing the same thing right?

    • jason rite

      You about a crazy Christian c00nz bish! Amazing how they brainwashed our people with Christianity.

    • Fire & Ice

      I saw a picture the other day of Jay calling himself trying to bless Cardi B baby bump. She looked so uncomfortable. Somebody said that he was trying to bless her baby into the illuminati ?

    • Y’all Jealous Cuz I’m Prudy

      Same here!

    • missmiami305

      I remember that. U don't touch someone's bump without asking.

    • missmiami305

      She's not even Christian.

    • Y’all Jealous Cuz I’m Prudy

      I have c?t people like that completely out of my life. They are takers and nothing you do, is ever good enough. They lie, manipulate and fly off the handle when you don't allow them to take advantage of your kindness. And once you c?t them out of your life, they spread the worst rumors about you, to try to get ot hers not to like you. Crazy as hêll.

    • MsVida

      It was never about anyone else but him. I fortunately was more intelligent than he was so my brain knew the deal, my female parts unfortunately didnt feel the same way, but I met someone else who loved me and that all changed.

    • Readytochokemothernatureout

      Omg I said I wish she'd stop responding.

    • MythCalledLove

      When you hv many fans that adore you.There is no other artist that can knock you off your throne. You would hv a sense of power & slowly the naracissm is born.,As far as Jay he rides her wave. W/O Beyonce his career would look totally different. He was born that way. Kanye classic case no question. Kanye probably thinks he is the brother of Jesus. Kim thought she is the same as Beyonce. And found out she is far from it. Kim has low self-esteem. She spends all day in the mirror taking pictures. The way she dresses is for attention. She craves it. In her mind she hasn't got the look and changes until she gets it right.

    • interestingconcept1

      omg, I've never seen this before, maybe this was during the cheating phase...she looks like she is on that numbing stuff.

    • Readytochokemothernatureout

      Kanye' s picture is posted twice and with good reason his ego knows no bounds. Good post!!

    • Fire & Ice

      Yup!

    • Cap

      Kylie Jenner should be named too

    • Strappyheels

      I was in an imaginary relationship with one for 10 years.. It wore me out and damn near killed me spiritually!!

    • Ni Ni

      What's Tina got to do with this?

    • Rodmilla De Ghent

      im sorry to hear that narcissism is no joke , glad you got out

    • Raquelle Dellaghetto

      Agreed to all of this and I'd like to add that her obsession with that blond colour is so outrageous.

    • SumthinSweeter

      So true!

    • Leary (Alearya)

      This same fact is why I left her (Beyonce) in 2003.

    • Cap

      You think it’s a demonic spirit?

    • Cap

      Lebron loves Savannah leave that man out of it. He’s good lol

    • Yen Pettaway

      Well, lookie-lookie! I am standing up applauding this post!

    • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

      They say LeBron leaves home for weeks at a time. That's why Savannah always looks mean and angry at games. He's definitely cheating on her, but she is his baby mama.

    • jeniefrumdabloc™

      ain't happening .. cardi needs to get away from that leech offset he will help ruin her career.. but ugh Jay wouldn't have came near my tummy ... whew shyt ... she probably threw up afterwards ... that man there is toxic as hell.... folks better be careful letting people touch on them... especially that demon man... whew Chile.... the evil in that man... Chile... could be why shyt going sideways for her now... bad juju with Jay z

    • jeniefrumdabloc™

      blocked ignore... You know sleep folks love to project chile .... Blocked

    • SingleGalCrazyWorld

      You can love someone and cheat tho...

    • SweetTEE

      And that's why I'm confused as to if I can even consider myself a "fan". I love her workmanship but I still know that she is a woman just like the rest of us. Her aura has changed, she is bitter and steadily plotting.

    • RICHIE_RICH

      So I was right about Tina? What does Beyoncé stage atire have to do with her everyday life?

    • Cap

      Lol. You can betray someone and still love them? Don’t even talk to me

    • Ni Ni

      What about Tina? A shy or reserved person doesn't dress like Beyonce on or off stage.

    • RICHIE_RICH

      But who ever said she was shy or reserved person. I know Beyoncé didn’t or is it your assumption, she’s shy and reserved?

    • SingleGalCrazyWorld

      Okay...blocked LOL

    • Ni Ni

      Plenty of commenters on this board have stated that they believe beyonce is shy; the person who i initially responded to believed her to be reserved - Did you even read this thread?

    • Decked Out

      we all do. ere daym day. especially folks of COLOR

    • Cap

      ... you’re weird. Go ahead and do that girl

    • Slim Goodie

      WOW! All facts sis.

    • RICHIE_RICH

      Of course I did, but I never said she was !!!

    • Slim Goodie

      RIGHT! I like Beyonce but that woman don't even follow her own mammie. I didn't realize that at first until I got tired of seeing all these photo shots where she is imaged next to herself 5,6,7 times. It was making me dizzy so when I decided to unfollow it was then I saw she followed no one. Like tf..that's weird to me.

    • Music

      I think we all possess different versions of ourselves to a certain extent. Growing up, I was the shyest among my 2 siblings, but loved community theatre, and anything else that involved being on a stage. Its where I came out of my shell. So, when performers say that they're shy off stage but outgoing on stage, I believe it.

    • Music

      Of course, a normal everyday person wouldn't do that. Its a stage name. Its no different than other artists who go by a name that's different from their birth name.

    • Strappyheels

      I do not follow any celebrities on Social Media. I come on here for the comments.

    • Strappyheels

      Me too!

      Thank you, I truly appreciated your kind words.