Cassie Ventura and Sean Combs

Sean "Puffy" Combs was spotted out with his pregnant girlfriend Cassie Ventura after the sudden passing of his ex-girlfriend Kim Porter.

The music mogul looked somber and shaken as he was seen arriving at a specialized movement rehab center this afternoon in Los Angeles with Cassie by his side for support.

Cassie, 32, wore leggings and an oversized sweatshirt to conceal her pregnancy. While Sean, 49, dressed casually in red shorts and a blue hoodie with the words "Do The Right Thing" on the front.

Kim, the mother of three of Sean's 5 children, passed away suddenly in her Toluca Lake, Calif., home sometime Thursday morning. She was reportedly battling the flu for three weeks, which progressed to pneumonia.

Cassie Ventura and Sean Combs

A source tells PEOPLE Sean was "devastated and shocked" at the news of Kim's passing. An autopsy was performed on Friday to determine the cause of death.

Kim was being seen in her home by a private physician who ordered a saline IV drip and "vitamins". She called the doctor on Wednesday to say she wasn't getting any better.

There is talk of a malpractice lawsuit, as family and friends question how a healthy 46-year-old woman died in the prime of her life.

Sean reportedly "broke up" with Cassie last month to silence the rumors that she is carrying his 6th child.

The couple also broke up back in 2016 and 2014. Combs and Cassie first went public with their May-December relationship in 2012. They reportedly met on a music video set while Cassie was still in her teens.

Cassie tells friends she is ready to have a baby before she turns 33, but Sean understandably doesn't want anymore children because he's a middle aged man.

Photos by Vasquez-Max Lopes-CPR / BACKGRID

  • BingBangBoom

    Thats the way love goes....

  • i told you so

    Narcissism at it's best; I guess he will start donating so Karma won't come back on him. R.I.P. Kim

  • Gail

    I'm choosing to believe his girls are in the back seat of that car, because I don't want to believe that he would be so callous as to leave those babies alone for 2 seconds, the day after their mom dies.

  • A D N

    Still a sad story to read about Kim. I'm back loving Al B Sure though. Beautiful words he wrote about their love. I wonder why they didn't work out. Anyone knows?

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    Sean is a such a cad... HE CAN JUST RIDE OFF INTO OBLIVION FOR ALL I CARE AND TAKE CASSIE with him!

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    And he gone MILK THIS TRAGEDY to negate from his faults!

  • A D N

    Typical man to lean on the one who gives them strength and love, yet don't see the value in the woman. Typical woman who will set everything aside to be there for the man during his time of need. Typical situation we saw coming. No surprise here. But hey, we all are typical sometime for the right cause.

  • VanillaCaramel2shotsExpresso

    She added to the denial by posting a picture captioned “hungover”. This implying she had been intoxicated and was feeling the after effects. She didn’t say with what..... I know Kim and Puff ( I will always call him that) were inccredibly close. I don’t think any woman could really take her place in his heart. She said things in anger when she found out he had a baby by Sarah , but she turned her bitterness into beauty. She just became better and better and helped her sons and daughters all became one loving family. Quincy has even been forging a great relationship with his dad Al B Sure. Kim undoubtedly played a role in this. I do believe that Puff really didn’t want to risk losing his friendship with Kim by trying to restart a full on relationship , but I think she is the one who had his heart. Cassie can have his baby and even marry him, but she won’t ever have his whole heart . Even Jennifer Lopez said that Puffy would still go back to Kim during their relationship . That’s why he is devasted, because a piece of his heart and soul is gone .

  • VanillaCaramel2shotsExpresso

    He said he was on a path of destruction, young and dumb. He wasn’t even raising his son. Thank God’s they were doing great before she passed. He acknowledged both him and Puff as his dads. He will need both of them right now....

  • i told you so

    Narcissist don't have a heart; It's money, money, money. Why do you think he is rich?? They are trying this, especially with Trump being one but God is striking back on this humble life which was given to us.

  • VanillaCaramel2shotsExpresso

    I hope and pray Momma Combs can step .... don’t know if Kim has a sister or not .... this is so tragic.

  • Yup, I said it

    Diddy probably will marry Cassie now because people tend to bond during tragedy and loss.

  • Fodderwing

    ...but Sean understandably doesn’t want anymore children because he’s a middle aged man...

    ????

    Ms. Rose with the slowwww burn

  • dontgetblocked

    I feel for the children NOT Diddy. He mistreated this woman. Cheated on her while she was pregnant with their son. Left her for J-Lo. Cheated on her when she took him back and got another woman pregnant. Has three children around the same age due to his cheating ways. Now Cassie's pregnant. To be honest, Kim probably died from a broken heart. Diddy has blood on his hands and he knows it. Somebody had to tell the truth! That man treated that woman like a dog and kept her close with his money. She was an abused woman and Diddy is the abuser. He will suffer the rest of his days for this. His own children may turn against him. Dirty dog!!!

  • R Smith

    But, don't you think she played a part in their relationship too? She had those twins after Sarah Chapman had her daughter and It's been reported they were friends!

  • dontgetblocked

    You don't hurt people you love. He hurt her until her dying day. He's a cheating b-sterrd

  • KcoolMuziq

    This WHOLE situation just pulls at my heart for EVERYONE involved. Its really a wake up call that tomorrow isn't promised to U. This can happen to ANYONE. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/aa4439e0ec12c0034c619601b06ebba5323c6bbca3985c167ce19e8629eceebf.jpg

  • INDUSTRY GURU

    When reports of Prince passing first hit the media, if you remember , it was the same narrative, the Flu, Pneumonia, ....

    In celebrity deaths, the narrative is controlled, before the police or doctors, or autopsy reports, the media is spun....the seed is planted. Every one now knows narrative about Prince and the flu being the culprit was not true.

  • Gail

    Sad, but true. The whole love triangle - no hexagon - with all these baby mamas and daddies is tragic. Those poor kids have probably never seen a healthy relationship; one that wasn't codependent, motivated by jealousy, and controlled by money. Now, here it is a day later, and Diddy is out with Cassie instead of taking care of his babies. Poor Kim isn't even buried yet!

  • dontgetblocked

    She made some poor choices but if you research abused woman, you'll understand. Diddy has been known to be physically, verbally, and emotionally abusive. She stated in the Ebony article that she had to secretly move out of the house with the kids because he wouldn't just let her leave. He held her hostage with his money. It's a power play used on abused woman. I know an abused woman who left her rich husband and ended up working in a retail store at 67 to support herself. It was so sad because she had been a stay at home mom. He had the money and the power.

  • Gail

    'people tend to bond during tragedy'...uh, Cassie couldn't care less.

  • dontgetblocked

    He disgusts me!!

  • Gail

    How about Diddy taking care of his OWN DAM$ KIDS!

  • dontgetblocked

    Biggie part II

  • Coy little wink

    I doubt it!

  • KcoolMuziq

    Well Prince did damage control the week before he passed after his emergency plane landing. He didn't want anyone finding out what was really going on. So he put out that he had the flu.

  • R Smith

    I agree with you to a point, but I've never heard anything negative about him being a "bad" parent. Who knows, the kids could be in the car, they could be with his mother, they could be doing a million things related to taking of arrangements...widen the frame of the photo and who knows what they're doing...

  • A D N

    I see your point. Some people do prey on those they know are hook-able and keeping playing because they know the person is hooked. He had a huge role in the down fall of their relationship, I'm sure he will admit. It's not one-sided, or is it?
    --
    -- When it comes to love or feeling like it's love, the line is so thin. Women tend to confuse love with so many other things lacking such as a need for a father, never seeing a good relationship growing up, mother or older women wrongly guiding them to stay for the wrong reasons, the feeling of just wanting to "win" him back or not give in to the fight for him. There are other reasons such as using the kids and wanting a father around for them all the time, the lifestyle, home stability or even the "God" and "Forgiveness" reason. When you put all that in a pot, stir it with his words and sex, most are hooked for a long time until the need for him transfers to something or someone else. --
    --
    It's so hard to let go of something familiar especially when there are some really good times. Women just seem to accept infidelity as strange as that is. We saw it growing up, saw the fights and arguments, watch them stay for whatever reasons, and later in life become that woman we watched. We've been taught men are dogs, (dogs are lovable) which can be trained. But I learned through my terrier, that some dogs are just not trainable...lol

  • ramosyo

    Well I guess he isn’t mourning that much! This right here is real disrespectful! Smfh. He just can’t be alone huh?

  • Coy little wink

    Reunites is in quotes for a reason. Can we have one post with just facts and no speculation or innuendo?

  • ramosyo

    She spoke about all this in that Essence article I was shocked how calm & collected she was. But she put her kids first & her feelings last.??

  • A D N

    With the responsibilities he has, he can't do that himself. That's an emotional move. He will need help from some strong women surrounding his life. The kids should definitely move into his house, and he should provide a home similar in lifestyle Kim provided for her babies. In other words, he should leave the bachelor lifestyle alone.

  • Victorious82

    Kim lived a fabulous lifestyle. Her and Diddy coparented so well that they didn’t even have courts involved. I have never heard of any of Puff’s BM saying he’s a bad dad or doesn’t support his children. Kim was even quoted in the same article you mentioned saying that Puff was her best friend and that they talked daily. They celebrated holidays as a family and they all seemed to be a happy blended family. He might not have been a good man to her but I don’t think she held any animosity towards him. Sometimes people are better off as friends instead of lovers.

    I know folks wanna blame someone for her untimely death but you can’t blame Puff for this. That’s just wrong.

  • Gail

    True. But, define 'bad' parent. I would start with disrespect for the mom, impregnating 2 people at the same time....I guess it depends on your frame of reference.

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    Well it could have been AIDS she wanted private in home treatment so the truth would not get out.this will send shockwaves if true

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    So what he should stop living because she died?

  • A D N

    So true. I think they got him. I hope there are some strong women around for these kids. I don't know too much about Cassie, or the kids grandmothers or aunts, but wow, some females are needed for that nurturing they need.

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    Puffy might have gave her aids so I can see why people are blaming him

  • Gail

    At least show restraint for, I don't know, 48 HOURS!!!

  • R Smith

    True, and that's why it's in quotes and I think I typed that in reference to someone else's post. However, she knew he impregnated her friend and then she got pregnant. We all have choices!

  • Y’all Jealous Cuz I’m Prudy

    I swear on everything I love, I said the exact same thing yesterday. She died from a broken heart. The only man she really loved was publicly professing his love for J-lo2 (Cassie). I don't think his boys will hold him accountable for treating Kim so badly, but once those twins are older, I got a good feeling that they will. All the money in the world won't stop them from asking him why their mom wasn't good enough and why did he keep leaving her for lighter women. They're very pretty girls , that look like him and their mom, with that pretty chocolate skin. That same skin he never was willing to fully commit to. Kim was the air beneath his wigs. I bet he's just realizing it now, that his true love is no longer around, to take him back in between break ups. He's going to realize that he should have married Kim and Cassie will always be the girlfriend/wife that tries to fill the "love he lost" shoes.

  • A D N

    You are ruthless lol. Cross you once and there's no forgiveness lol. Puffy needed to grow up. He definitely didn't have good parental guidance or examples of stable and a loving committing home. New money and fame...what a combination for a young and wild person, especially in that culture. Hopefully he grew up and slowed down and was there for the kids. Only the kids will be able to provide a report on how good of a parent he is. So, in time, we'll know for sure, because they will say it. Those celebrity kids are very outspoken when mistreated.

  • Gail

    I agree. The problem is the adults make the choices, and kids suffer the consequences.

  • ramosyo

    Not at all... but can she get 6 feet buried first?!!!?

  • Y’all Jealous Cuz I’m Prudy

    He took care of Kim ONLY because she didn't move on with someone else. Misa rolled out and got married and we see he cut her off forever financially. A control freak.

  • R Smith

    Exactly! It's a sad situation for everyone.

  • A D N

    I don't think Puffy was into colorism. He and Kim had a photo shoot where they emphasize the beauty in their skin tone as beautiful, and how they were excited to bring some beautiful brown babies into the world. They loved highlighting their beautiful skin tone.

  • Y’all Jealous Cuz I’m Prudy

    I said the same thing yesterday but she would be a whole plum fool to marry him now. She'll forever be the wife by default.

  • A D N

    What is he doing wrong? Kim wasn't his woman, Cassie was.

  • Kimocha

    Yea I keep thinking of HIV for some reason... Plus I believe Diddy is bi-sexual so it wouldn't be far fetched... but I don't want people coming at me... so please DON'T!... That was just my first thought because how long she been sick and how her immune system was so low and all... Either way it go... I feel very sad for her children and her family and friends.... May she RIP

  • Gail

    His 'responsibility' is to his kids! A real man would walk away from the spotlight to take care of his babies. I venture to guess he can afford the loss of income. .

  • Ni Ni

    I never followed Kim, only knew of her relationship with puffy. However, when cassie and puff's break up leaked a couple weeks ago and people kept bringing her name up, kim was heavy on my mind. Seems like every year, around the holidays, celebs start dying off.

    I hope Puff gets over his life being interrupted, be a man and give those girls the love and attention they need right now. Leave that bachelor life alone at least til the kids become teens.

  • And then there is that!

    Okay so ya'll act like Diddy is out with some random who Kim had no knowlegde of and he is in St.Tropez kicking it. He could be at a scheduled doctor appointment that he had to go too. You all don't know how people mourn and you're projecting your thoughts/feelings onto someone else. Who doesn't go back to a familiar space in such a tragic time. We talking about a decade relationship between these two. This situation has hit me hard. Can't quite put my finger on why but I've been legit mouring and reflection since this was known

  • Bashi22

    She’s going to be stepmother extraordinaire. I never saw Cassie take pictures with Kim girls.

  • E-VannaRootsAllEvil

    Shole did

  • Ni Ni

    He mistreated this woman.
    ________________
    I'm so tired of seeing people post how much he was in love with her. Folks perception of love nowadays is screwed up.

  • R Smith

    Restraint from what?

  • Ni Ni

    So true...

  • Ni Ni

    Exactly!!!

  • Gail

    From being a narcissist, and tending to his own needs instead of his kids'.

  • Victorious82

    Lmao. Folks and their conspiracy theories.

  • A D N

    Walking away from the enormous empire this man built over the last 20+ years to stay home and raise kids is the answer? He can raise his kids 24 hours a day for the rest of their lives, be there for them, love them, parent them, give them the world 10x over, but he will never ever fill the void of Kim. The purpose of him working is beyond just getting money and more money as he publicly promotes. He's built businesses, brands that must go on. He employs people by the 1,000's. He building wealth so that Kim didn't have to struggle while she was here, and his family will never know what's it like to not have money for the light bill. When a love one leaves us, we still have to think what is best in the long run for those who are here. I've seen people loose everything because they couldn't get beyond grief and loss. Whew, I get it because just the thought terrifies me to tears and shakes me to the core. But I really believe Kim's passing is another way Puffy will put things into perspective for the kids lives. It's been one day. The man is shocked, hurt and just confused. He needs prayers, not judgment..

  • RealATLPeach36

    Baby you said everything in 1 paragraph! Yes he broke her heart...Diddy has done a lot of people wrong..Karma is a MF.

  • A D N

    No, he wasn't in love with her. He needed her strength and warmth. But to blame him for her life ending is a whole other level of what's wrong with folks.

  • RealATLPeach36

    I agree color didn’t matter he’s just an Ass as a whole

  • ClaireHuxtable

    "Do the Right Thing". How ironic...

  • Lady_Elle

    I thought Kim did not allow other women to be in the presence of her children.

  • RealATLPeach36

    No Sarah was friends with her and screwed Diddy and got pregnant. Chance was born after the twins by months.

  • Gail

    I get all that...but RIGHT NOW, his kids should be the priority. If APPLE can thrive without Steve Jobs, I'm sure that Diddy's businesses can spare him some time off...what he doesn't have WIFI on his private jets or a home office...prayers up that he 'Does the right thing'.

  • SumthinSweeter

    Damn right malpractice. If she died from Cardiac Arrest then the primary diagnosis was probaly Pneumonia which would have required a chest x-ray to diagnos correctly along with other test. Smh. She should have neverrrrrrrr been at home after a couple of weeks of expiercing flu like symptoms.

  • A D N

    I understand Kim's the children's mother, and now she's gone, so Puffy has to become the custodian parent, but to get so riled up so soon over him being out in public with Cassie is beyond words because no one knows why he's away from the kids.

  • A D N

    He turned to his woman. Cassie is his woman. Not Kim. Kim is the woman who he had kids with, 12 years or so ago. He is relying on the strength of the one he loves. What is so wrong with that?

  • Leah99

    I would have to agree with you. I think she was hurting and has been for years. Heck it seems like she could not date anyone else because Diddy would not have it. I liked Kim way more than Cassie. Cassie was messing around with Diddy while him and Kim were still together after the twins. So I have no respect for her (Cassie) at all.

  • A D N

    Well, I can't deny he needed an older wise man in his life to help navigate through this this we live. I always say, I'm so glad I had other aspirations other than being a celebrity. The judgment...

  • Lady_Elle

    This is why women need other women...
    Perhaps a girlfriend saying... no maam!
    We are taking you to the hospital!
    It breaks my heart that she likely died alone! :-(

  • Eve

    Ay yo, this was witchcraft. Depending who wanted what and who was in control somebody got rid of the extra baggage. There is a spiritual world and its strings get pulled by darness, and if you're not of the light, well adios. Wake up, I am.

  • bella28498 .

    I was thinking the same

  • ShadesofEMPRESS

    Other women aren't always there for each other. But when the woman is a real woman and have that sisterhood personality it is an amazing friend.

  • Eve

    Aint no sickness come on her from nowhere but a hit pot, wake up dummies. Last days will get worse. Have fun with all your ideaologies and prescriptions they CANNOT SAVE YOU. People from the occult know, but they aint telling just laughing, for now. Then they will pay too with they foolish selves. Their children as well.

  • A D N

    So him leaving for a few minutes or even an hour leads you to think the kids are being neglected? I'm trying to show how everyone's conclusion from a photo is interpreted as he's a bad parent because he's away from the kids. Maybe he didn't want the kids to see him break down, and Cassie removed him from their presence. Or maybe he just needed a moment to think outside of the home. Or maybe he needed something to give him the strength to endure the next step of this tragedy. Maybe the kids were sleeping and he used that time to complete something. No one knows. No one.

  • pecancandy

    Dead at hexagon....

  • Lady_Elle

    So true!

  • Unhappy American

    ON GOD I FEEL THIS WAY RIP THOUGH

  • WhoKnew

    Yep. You described it perfectly.

  • Bashi22

    Exactly that’s what I like about Kim shield ? her kids from daddy ladies. Keeps them grounded but one thing Puffy understands none of his babymothers argues ever. I know First babymother is ?

  • Ni Ni

    Ay yo, this was witchcraft.
    ____________________
    Well since you were the one to bring it up... i wholeheartedly agree. This thing happened under weird circumstances. In this case, puff is not the one in side eyeing.

  • WhoKnew

    When you say a "hit pot" do you mean a crack pipe? This is a serious question because I seriously never heard of a hit pot.

  • WhoKnew

    Very true.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Blocked !??hey bew ?

  • WhoKnew

    In the pic above, supposedly he and Cassie were leaving The Movement Performance Institute which according to their website is a clinic dedicated to biomechanical basis of healthy and disordered human motions as well as physical therapy. Physical therapy/shrink? IDK.

  • WhoKnew

    Why can't my question be serious? I really do not know what a hit pot is.

  • Unhappy American

    I hate to feel this way and I liked Kim but I believe in my heart Diddy gave her that package. Him and Cassie broke up weeks ago after 11 years of break babies side chicks & dicks ? WHY? Now this ? Diddy just seems UNDERCOVER IN THE CLOSET TO ME. Now he needs Cassie ??. I think him and Cassie scared thinking omg our secret will be out and it's possible we are NEXT SMH it's NOT FAR FETCHED. REST EASY ?

  • Enoughsaid2020

    They are not mentioning that she traveled to Africa recently, so I'm thinking she caught something, and they are not talking about it. After a week, she should have been in the hosptial. Continued praying for the family. May She Rest in Peace.

  • Coy little wink

    She went Africa in June....

  • Coy little wink

    He broke his leg or something isn't he still in physical therapy

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Who said ya question wasn't serious ? I just blocked that commenter ... das it and spoke ... I don't care what hit pot is that person ... word up ...maybe that person will answer you ...

  • WhoKnew

    Oh, got it. My bad. ?

  • WhoKnew

    He had knee surgery a while back.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    ??

  • R Smith

    Ok...And you get all of that from this picture? Wow!

  • Bonita

    Kim wasn't having that! Now Cassie can finally go on that yearly holiday cruise that she was never allowed to go on at the end of each year, as opposed to sitting home alone posting emotional memes. ?

  • Bonita

    There's been rumors for yeeears that Puff has the monster. He was even guessed as the Blind Item years ago on Crazy Days and Nights as the Black mogul who travels overseas to get his cocktails so that the media won't find out about his diagnosis. And Puff always had a narrow face, so when it started looking bloated and his skin started looking darker, it raised my eyebrows.

  • Nina Ross

    They are not mentioning how she was sued by a nanny for being a druggie...

  • Bashi22

    Yes St. Bart to be exact however I saw one year puffy took the other daughter with them. Cassie sit and wait for New Years which is her time to shine. Last NYE she saw the main attraction along with his sons. I know deep down those kids didn’t like how puffy plays with their mother.

  • Alextra Ballard

    First and foremost let's not forget, Diddy is not Kim's next of kin,her mom Sarah is. (If not deceased) Diddy is her ex. and the father of their churn. That's their connection. I am quite sure with upmost respect Diddy has reached out to Kim's parents/parent and they have probably allowed him to help with her arrangements, Or to do all of her arrangement

  • Nina Ross

    Maybe that’s why she’s gone smh

  • R Smith

    Thanks for the clarification! However, it doesn't matter because the kids are so close in age and they had to know the other was pregnant. Per Diddy, they all knew each other (Misa, Kim & Sarah) - he met them all the same year! We have to take responsibility for our own lives.

  • R Smith

    Stop it with the conspiracy theories!

  • Bonita

    That is something that Puff would never allow to get out to the public.

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    My sentiment EXACTLY!!!! PROBABLY why he and Cassie will never breakup... Cassie can't leave and Shiddy went let her. He's a Granny freaky narcissistic nucca...

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    Neither do I... Folk make "sayings" up everyday... But don't fret...fuggit!

  • Eve

    I'd say to point fingers on who is just not possible. I have witnessed men who dont want things but dont want others to have thungs they dont want. People who are narcissistic think the world revolves around them. They live double lives and want to be creators but turn out to be manipulators. I could speculate the wickedness from him to the young chick down to his mother. Only God knows, but it is a testament what I know about the unseen, not matter rich or poor the unseen world is active and can take who it pleases, sometimes.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    She will be buried in Columbus, GA. next to her mom.

  • WhoKnew

    Her mom is deceased.

  • hottlanta

    They r not also mentioning that elvis presley a druggie is getting the medal of freedom the nations highest honor from dump.

  • Bonita

    Negative. I still have the Essence magazine where Kim was interviewed after her and Puff's break-up. And it clearly states that his other daughter was born 5 months before the twins. Kim found out from a friend that he'd had a child with another woman while she was pregnant. The interview may even be online if you Google it.

  • Alextra Ballard

    Smh at the paparazi following Diddy....inspite of what folks are saying or thinking. I'm wishing Diddy peace,love and strength in the midst of these difficult and trying hours. I also extend my condolences to the Porter family

  • the guest

    Diddy did not permit Kim to move on, date or marry. She devoted her life to him.

  • Alextra Ballard

    It has gotten outta hand

  • Bob Dilla

    ?

  • Bonita

    A fabulous life filled with all the material things in the world don't mean isht if you don't have healthy and happy companionship in your life.

  • dontgetblocked

    I pray not but pneumonia is closely linked to AIDS. Pneumonia is a painful disease. Why was she treated at home and not the hospital? I spent two weeks in the hospital due to pneumonia. Was there a reason why she wanted her privacy? I hope his low down azz didn't giver her the package, but it would explain why she let Diddy walk all over her. Her self-confidence was probably ruined. Diddy is a monster!

  • seun

    It's sad. But she chose to stay.

    Cassie is making the same decision by getting pregnant.

  • DeJeri

    Maybe....just maybe, she was a young healthy woman who fell ill suddenly and tragically passed away. It happens everyday unfortunately. Why all the slander?

  • TMW

    How people know Cassie didn’t just show up at the rehab place because she knew Diddy would be there? But I did peep that slim gold band on her left ring finger in that photo, so I wonder what that is about? Maybe they are married? Who knows???

    I also just tried to google to see if Cassie was ever in a picture with Diddy and his kids. Couldn’t find one. But Kim pops up in a lot of those photos, with him and all his kids, even the kids that are not hers. They were just together on November 2nd, so there is no denying they were close. What’s understood (among the people involved) does not always have to be said. I’m sure everyone is going through it. This is still very sad.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Kim found out about Chance before she got pregnant with the twins. She went to a fertility doctor and got pregnant. That's why her twins were born 5 months after Chance. Do the math.

    I'm the one who broke the story about Kim being pregnant with the twins before PEOPLE or Us Weekly. Kim gave me permission (through a close friend) to post the story.

  • dontgetblocked

    He was a druggie just like Michael and Whitney. Madonna is the only 80s idol who is still going strong despite her wrinkled looks.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    I didn't post the pics, but there are pics of them both getting out of the Maybach.

  • dontgetblocked

    He broke up with Cassie when she got knocked up!

  • Coffee1st

    I'm inclined to, at the very least, consider what you are saying. I always knew witchcraft was real but up until past couple of years, really didn't understand how often it is used in its various forms.
    I'm saddened either way by this....

  • dontgetblocked

    Cassie was his pregnant ex-girlfriend 48 hours ago...now this?

  • TMW

    Good! I’m glad they can put whatever is going on with them aside, and that she is there for him. Death will tend to put things in perspective.

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    Mufuggas be doing the most. All that dayum money and done ran outside ish to do. Smdh

  • KcoolMuziq

    I will DRAG U ALL OVER this thread!

    Prince WAS NOT a DRUGGIE! He was secretly in pain from years of acrobatic dancing,splits and jumping off high rise speakers in heals. He came across the wrong batch that was laced with Fentanyl & ACCIDENTLY killed him.

    Don’t U EVER speak of him that way again!

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    Need to break his dingding!

  • Gail

    I hope you're right. I really do.

  • dontgetblocked

    He is an abusive man who controls women through power and money, especially when they have his children. He has mastered emotional, verbal, and financial control techniques like all abusers.

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    Perhaps this is what she wanted...

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    Never will she be stepmom... NEVER!

  • dontgetblocked

    I agree but I don't think he will marry Cassie. He's a dog in heat. He'll keep a few bottom bishes around like Cassie, but he's always going to test the waters....destroying lives as he has for years. He's a devil!

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    Diddy is bisexual...he's all kind of sexuall... Member him logging his 30+ hours of having sex... Looking all sweaty and worn out and Cassie passing pics of him laying on her chest...

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    Yepper!!!

  • dcruz87

    Y'all been saying Cassie's pregnant since 2008.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    "pneumonia is closely linked to AIDS."

    No it isn't. Pneumonia is caused by a virus or bacteria. The pneumonia that is linked to AIDS - PCP - is caused by a fungus. It is very rare.

  • dontgetblocked

    Neither is my dog. Either you let it go or you deal with it. This is an example to women in her position of what happens when a narcissist sucks the life out of you. RIH!

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    They're will ALWAYS BE INNUENDO AND SPECULATION. AS WELL ASS THEORIES AND CONSPIRACIES! THAT JUST THE WAY IT IS AND FOREVER will BE!!!

  • dcruz87

    Also Sean, as we're calling him now apparently, was the one excitedly saying in several interviews as recent as earlier this year he wants to have more kids indeed (and he even said of course with his girlfriend Cassie after some dumb interviewer asked him I believe it was Charlamagne if memory doesn't fail me) while Cassie mostly shrugs it off even if she says when it's time it'll be great when asked about being a mom in her own interviews. Y'all really LOVE to paint a certain picture to make these people appear miserable, yawn! And I thought you confirmed she was pregnant like almost half a year ago now as well, whatever happened to that "source" sis?! Lmfao y'all truly know NOTHING about these people and always claim to be in the know.

  • Victorious82

    and it was Puff’s responsibility to provide her with that companionship and happiness?

  • dontgetblocked

    Misa also took him to court. I remember he was ordered to pay the highest child support ever in New York history if I'm correct.

  • Brenda Purcell

    Kim#2

  • dontgetblocked

    Talk to Misa. She took him to court for child support and won!

  • Bonita

    I'm willing to bet that Puff was messing around with Cassie while he was with Kim, but tried to deny it and make it seem that it was strictly a business relationship. But Kim knew better than that. Kim probably treated her like family. I believe that's why it took him so long to claim her publically, because he wanted to keep the peace with Kim. There's a reason why Cassie was never allowed to be involved in family functions whenever Kim was present.

  • Ijoyoyo

    IKR. Funny how outsiders can decipher all that from one photo. Y'all have too much time.

  • dontgetblocked

    He's a 50 year old man. He knows what he's done. There's more to this story. For once, he needs to stand strong and be a man for his children.

  • Gail

    Actually, yes. The last thing his girls need is to see a picture of him with their mom's romantic rival the day after she dies. The fact that this picture of the two of them even exists says that he wasn't at all concerned about how it would make those girls feel.

  • Navybeans95

    I knew he was gonna make this move...lol, emotionally unavailable men kill me...now he's gonna milk the sympathy angle for all its worth..how do you remove the cockiness from a man.?.......act like they don't exist...

  • Gail

    Newsflash...it's the 'outsiders' that fund his lifestyle....ruin your image and see how many records you sell lol.

  • Kimocha

    I also think him and French Montana got a thing going on... Every time I see them 2 together Diddy is always all over dude!.... Like it be so uncomfortable to look at!... Even French be looking uncomfortable!...Smdh

  • dontgetblocked

    What in the world! I know he taught Usher how to be a man whore when he was young. You see where that got Usher.

  • TMW

    I think that was confirmed, as far as Cassie being one of Diddy’s side chicks while he was with Kim. I also remember reading an interview with Kim, where she said she liked Cassie and Diddy together and that Cassie was good for him.

    I liked Kim because she always kept it classy, even when Diddy had her and another woman pregnant at the same time. Sometimes in life you find yourself in situations not of your making, but you always have a choice how you handle it.

  • Traci404

    Not sympathy
    Baby sitting services.
    He is NOW the PRIMARY CARE GIVER for
    2 twin daughters and a teenage son

  • Coffee1st

    I don't think there's very much to see here. I'm sure he's there and will continue to be there for his children. We can all speculate what that should mean...but at the end of the day: this woman is gone, a family is grieving and children are without their mother.

  • Elevated Soul

    Why are you talking about dragging somebody you don't even know?

    From what I gather Prince was in pain due to years of wearing high heels,which caused issued with his hip and back. Like many other people,he begin to take prescribe painkillers and became hooked on them as millions of other people have.

    The fact that he became hooked on them and eventually died,does not take away anything from him,so no need to take this so personally.

  • dontgetblocked

    People with AIDS are more susceptible to pneumonia due to their weakened immune system. It can often cause death in AIDS victims. Since I had pneumonia in both lungs as a child, and I have an autoimmune disease (R.A.), I have to get the flu shot and immediately see my doctor if I get sick. There is a high chance of my contracting pneumonia again, and I've been told I probably wouldn't survive this time.

  • Navybeans95

    Baby sitting services....that part..
    ...he's gonna continue to drop the ball in relationships bc women let him, money ain't everything....let me shut up...

  • Elevated Soul

    Okay!!!!.........I have heard it said that "the person who treated the decease the worse,will be the one trying to fall in the casket".

  • dontgetblocked

    You get mad every time I say that. The white lady down the street is a lawyer, and then she had back surgery. Now she's dead from a Fentanyl overdose. It's the same story all over America called the opioid crisis. Like it or not...Prince was a druggie. Stop flight...land...go to ER to bring him back to life. Dead two weeks later from what...Fentanyl.

  • Neva RuthLess

    Christian is 20 he grown.

  • Renee26

    Puffy groomed teenage Cassie huh

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Fungus lives normally in our digestive tract (from the mouth to the colon). Patients who have AIDS have very weak to no immune systems. So the fungus grows rapidly and spreads from the throat to the lungs where it progresses to pneumonia called PCP. Healthy people - even with weakened immune systems - will not catch this type of pneumonia.

  • dontgetblocked

    He always does. I hated admitting the fact that Michael Jackson was a druggie. But when I learned he had hundreds of needle scars all over his body...well that's the sign of a druggie. He was the best performer to ever life but he died a druggie. SMDH!

  • KcoolMuziq

    This person negatively painted Prince in the category of Whitney & Michael. Prince was not a COKE user or addict. He DID NOT HAVE any of that in his autopsy report.

    He died of a ACCIDENTAL OVERDOSE!

  • dontgetblocked

    This will be Biggie part 2. Diddy is just disgusting. Sad because I didn't realize how bad he treated her until she died. He's a monster.

  • Solstice
  • dontgetblocked

    I'm just repeating what everyone else is saying. Cassie is invisible to me. I have no respect or concern for her.

  • KcoolMuziq

    Prince DID NOT know those pills was laced with Fentanyl!

    IT WAS AN ACCIDENTAL OVERDOSE

  • KcoolMuziq

    Prince had NO SCARS on his body!

    He is in NO WAY in comparison to MJ!

    U IDIOT!!

  • dontgetblocked

    Unless it's a suicide, all overdoses are accidental. Both MIchael and Whitney had accidental overdoses.

  • dontgetblocked

    That's good to know.

  • Bonita

    I never read that interview. But her comment about liking Diddy and Cassie together and her believing she was good for him can be interpreted as sarcasm. Because Kim knew he'd fare better with someone young, naive, and gullible, and that she didn't fit the role, which was why she left him. Kim wasn't as sweet as she tried to make people believe. I realized that after this comment she made in that Essence interview back in 2007, "Christian’s got two beautiful sisters [the twins]. He ain’t thinking about that other one, trust me when I tell you. And I don’t play that. That situation is over there, and this is over here and I ain’t got nothing to do with that.” She eventually softened up, but she was no joke.

  • Peace

    He paid 5 million for the home Kim lived in .Of course the girls will continue to live a fairytale life of luxury. He adored his girls. The kids dpent more time at his home than Kim's.

    I just have a completely different theory of Ms. Porter's demise. But out of respect for the family I'll wait

    ? peace

  • Whirl

    Superbug from Africa?

  • KcoolMuziq

    Whitney didn't die of an accidental overdose. She died from drowning in the tub after going into cardiac arrest.

    Mj was injected with propofol without being properly monitored & went into cardiac arrest.

    HE WAS MURDERED!

    Get your info correct before writing false info.

  • dontgetblocked

    Uhm. If your getting your medication through the proper channels...prescription and pharmacy, they wouldn't be laced with Fentanyl. Why would somebody b e dropping off illegally obtained drugs at your house and they just so happen to be laced with Fentanyl? All of this sounds shady and like the move of a drug addict. I pick my medications up at the pharmacy the way law abiding citizens do.

  • dontgetblocked

    Whitney was loaded with drugs. Michael hired a doctor to inject him with propofol. He wanted the drug...needed it he said. . The doctor was incompetent but if he didn't give Mike his fix another doctor would have. Most of us drink tea or pop a non-addictive sleeping pill to sleep not hire someone to give us a surgical drug. WTH! He was a druggie.

  • Whirl

    Exactly what I’m thinking since it fits the timeline and given the coroners haven’t released a cause. I’m wondering if it’s a superbug known to that continent almost exclusively. The thing that confuses me is people are required to get a load of shots before traveling there to prevent that sort of thing. We will see.

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    Some will get violent if you do that

  • dontgetblocked

    No. Not an idiot. Come on. Aren't you a little too old to be calling names. LOL!

  • Whirl

    Oh ok the news media gave me the impression it was more recent. Still, we know there are viruses that can exist in a dormant state.

  • Peace

    Indeed

  • Navybeans95

    U would have to find me first... then I say...Bring It...

  • Whirl

    My thoughts exactly

  • TMW

    I remember reading it. It was shortly after he went “public” with Cassie. It may have been shade - I don’t know. I just think he went back and forth between her and Cassie. All of Diddy’s relationships and kids overlap LOL! There were rumors just a year ago that he had left Cassie and was going back to Kim. Again who knows??? She could have been a lot messier than just being sarcastic, that’s for sure.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    "emotionally unavailable men kill me"
    They'll do just that. They don't want you, but don't want You to want anybody else.

  • Bashi22

    Why lol

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    You speaking the Truth!!!

  • Whirl

    I don’t understand why coroner’s reports are public information rather than being protected under HIPPA. It is a medical record after all.

  • Whirl

    I tend to think it’s not HIV. I remember reading an article a few months back about doctors attempting to have HIV classified as a curable disease. What I got from the article is penalties for having unprotected sex while infected would lighten. My point is people are living a long time with HIV nowadays to the point in which an attempt has been made to reclassify it under WHO (the world health organization). Who knows.

  • MrsSpice1

    I wouldve sent him a sympathy card at that maybe and kept it movin...ya aint usin no more of my time old man...?

  • Jussjess25

    Facts!

  • ClaireHuxtable

    20 is still young and stupid for many young men...especially indulged ones.

  • Meme

    It will be so sad if sweet Kim has paid the ultimate price for Diddys debauchery, not only that but her kids losing their mother, sometimes life can be so unfair....very sad, they say cassy is a sx slave who is brought out for the Illuminat i to use as they want

  • Enoughsaid2020

    Exactly. Also her private doctor was giving her saline solution, which can be bad on your heart. Lots of unanswered questions?

  • Enoughsaid2020

    Just pointing out, what information is coming out. If you visit any other country, make sure you get shots, before, and checked-out coming back. You can catch virus in a hospital, no place is exempt.

  • Allihave2say

    People who are getting treatment in time to keep their T-cells normal, and prevent the progression of HIV to AIDS thus avoiding or limiting opportunistic diseases from ravaging their bodies may be living longer however there are a lot of people who are in denial about having the disease or the need for treatment. There are civil and criminal penalties for knowingly infecting others but if the giver can petition that he/she had no prior diagnosis knowledge than may avoid criminal prosecution.

    I've been watching Paternity Court and Maury Povich as of late. I see that people sleep together on the 1st day they meet, move in together at 2 weeks, and are pregnant after one month. People are throwing caution to the wind. In this scenario it appears that one man has multiple s/x partners while all the women have one common man who is Diddy.

    If there's something obscure or damaging in the autopsy we'll NEVER hear about it.

  • Allihave2say

    Emotional vampires, they hate their own image so much they can't stand to be alone with it so they burden women with their drama. All of these women should have found men who love and cherish them.

    I've always told my now husband, I don't want to be #1 I must be the only one. If I'm your number one then that means there are others after me. No thank you.

  • WhoKnew

    I was headed to the grocery store yesterday to get some additional food to cook for Thanksgiving and it was about sunset and I looked up to the sky because I love to watch the sunset and I saw Kim's face in the sky and she had a happy smile on her face so I believe she's good and that she is in the place God prepared for her.

  • Meme

    Diddy so evil apparently he broke Kims nose years back uggggh

  • WhoKnew

    Yeah, I would have too - pregnant or not. But now Cassie gets to take her seat at the table. Oh, he'll be kinder and gentler this time around in the beginning but then he'll go back to dogging her out like he's done with all the men and women he has dated. IJS.

  • WhoKnew

    Sure did. They were on a yacht. I will never forget that. They went to story number 500 which is "she slipped and fell". Umm hmmm.

  • WhoKnew

    Tell 'em like it is and tell 'em like it ought to be. Sure you're right!

  • WhoKnew

    I've had a few of those and you really have to be strong enough to break free.

  • MsPam

    My question is Diddy’s hands clean in Kim’s death?! He and Cassie break up and Kim’s dead a few weeks later?! Asking for the devil ???????

  • currvalicious

    Damn! He has a mess on his hands. He has the twins to raise. He isn't marrying Cassie anytime soon.

  • currvalicious

    What's a saline drip?! Why couldn't she just go to the hospital & receive the proper care.

  • currvalicious

    Sounds spot on to me. And the outpouring of love & support Ms Porter is unbelievable. She was truly a force that they all loved & respected.

  • Shira Harding-James

    I took a HIPPA class once
    Once the person is dead....that’s it, no longer private. But the family can request certain things to stay private.

  • currvalicious

    Vintage! I remember that. She shade of life.

  • Shira Harding-James

    I’m smiling so hard

  • KcoolMuziq

    LEAVE Usher OUT of this!

    Also it's NEVER been proven in his current scandal he has anything.

  • currvalicious

    Sarah L. porter passed in 2014. So legally her next of kin would be the children. With Quincy being the eldest (27), the ball is in his court. Which would technically mean Diddy's court b/c he raised Quincy. So he'll allow his Dad (Diddy) to handle what needs to be done.

  • currvalicious

    That's same thing I thought. You can't just go traveling to these exotic locations all willy-nilly. I'd think she'd know that as an experienced traveler. This doesn't sound like it had to happen.

  • currvalicious

    What in the world does saline solution have to do w/pneumonia? And why didn't this woman go to the hospital emergency room. Once they ran athe test, & concluded she had pneumonia, she would've been admitted.

  • currvalicious

    What???

  • Shira Harding-James

    Cassie does look a bit pregnant

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    For medical purposes, saline is often used to flush wounds and skin abrasions. ... Saline is also used in I.V. therapy, intravenously supplying extra water to rehydrate patients or supplying the daily water and salt needs ("maintenance" needs) of a patient who is unable to take them by mouth.

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    Groomed her lil fast azz for his personal. In fact she has been bought and paid for. I can see the head lines soon " Cassie Kills Diddy in Desperate Attempt to Escape"...

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    And will go live with his boyfriend

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Sad to have to handle that at age 27. Where is her biological father?

  • Nina Ross

    Cassie... be careful

  • FukkFolks2018

    Wouldn't she have BEEN dead? What is or would be the motive now?

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    Honey children lover their momma.. I'm sure they wish they're parents could have been together. Cassie is like a third wheel. Ever seen ANY PICS OF THOSE KIDS WITH CASSIE??? Kids can't decyoher what going on in adults lives. But at she point a resentment of sort against daddies GIRLFRIEND come to mind.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Whut??

  • disqus_FW7pCIigCY

    A friend would like to know if Cassie did it?

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    This situation has hit a lot of folk HARD... BUT MY QUESTION TO ALL THESE OVERWHELMED MOURNERS: Where were you when she needed you as she suffered for the last "few" weeks thus dying alone???? Folk are something else and hella annoying cause others are trying to piece together the mystery while reflecting on HOW THINGS APPEARED! Most can agree that Kim was private and remained a lady. AND SHE ALSO HAD TO ESCAPE HER CHILDRENS FATHER LIKE A THEIF IN THE NIGHT packing her things and rolling out on him while he was away to avoid his confrontational controlling azz...

  • http://www.nicolaloves.com/ NicolaLoves

    He's going to need someone to raise them girls. I don't think he's up to being a full-time dad. The only way to convince Cassie to stick around and fill in. . .

  • Coy little wink
  • MsPam

    Maybe Kim was the reason they broke up?! U know three is a crowd?! ????? The devil wanted to know.?

  • SemajBeyPhilly

    Cassie does look pregnant but this story made me laugh. Sandra could make some of y’all believe anything. Diddy said he wanted more children on Wendy now all of a sudden he’s a “middle age man who doesn’t want any children”?How u just make up stuff like that?!

  • Solstice

    That’s what I said lol ?…off the chain ?

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Thank you all up & down your comment!!

  • ClaireHuxtable

    You've got to know your worth. You must be pretty valuable if he wants to mess with your mind so bad.

  • Dahl

    *whispers* I thought the same. That and/or drogas...

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    Say what NOW? what the hell for? Dying on the shiiiiter! Homygawd I just can’t with this anymore ?????He just doing stuff to be doing it at this point

  • Dahl

    Didn’t know Cassie was “pregnant”, she’s looking like a middle aged Fillipina granny coming from the gym. The rest of my speculation, I’ll leave below...

  • FukkFolks2018

    Kim been around the whole time. Cassie wasnt used to Kim by now? A whole decade?

  • currvalicious

    With a saline IV drip wtf is that? How can this be? Maybe she was stubborn, refused to go. Didn't want to inconvenience her home life (w/the kids) by being in hospital.

  • SumthinSweeter

    Sadly I believe that too. Smh.

  • Elevated Soul

    Truth....

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    Porter waited until he was out of town, then she packed up everything. She took the twins, the cars, clothes, and furniture.

    “There was no other way,” Porter told Essence in 2007. “You think he would have let me walk out the door?”

    She added: “Puffy’s an action person, not a talk person. So I had to have an action. Telling him, ‘Babe, I’m leaving,’ was not gonna do it.”
    .......................................................................
    I just had to bring this up from the other post because it just dawned on me that she was describing an abusive and controlling man! Often times ppl involved in domestic violence situations their opportunity to leave is when that person is not around then you make a run for it! You know over time after all the bad things ppl said about puffy especially his business dealings I thought he had some how changed I think he just got better at what he does I hope Cassie knows what she is doing by going back Maybe this situation will change him.

  • dcruz87

    I don't think she cares sis. Meanwhile we still talking about her.

  • Lady_Elle

    Something like that crossed my friend's mind.

  • Whirl

    Oh ok thx

  • Whirl

    Makes sense. Electrolytes

  • Fodderwing

    Didn’t Cassie go to Dubai with Puffy a few years ago and come home with her eyebrow cracked open...she blamed it on an ATV crash on a sand dune but it always reeked of a domestic to me...and she still has a scar. ?

    Good info on the broken nose...didn’t hear about that one.

  • Fodderwing

    Bwahahaha!!

  • Fodderwing

    I don’t think saline is considered a true electrolyte tho. It’s used for cleaning wounds and stuff...but sodium chloride (saline) is only a part of a true electrolyte. Electrolytes are comprised of:

    -sodium
    -potassium
    -calcium
    -bicarbonate
    -magnesium
    -chloride
    -phosphate

  • Fodderwing

    And it’s funny...and by funny I mean not funny...bc if they can’t physically kill u they will vampire out every last ounce of ur soul until u are a skeleton of the spiritual and physical human u once were.

  • Whirl

    “Porter’s grandmother, owner of Royal Cafe in Columbus since 1964, spoke to her granddaughter the day before she died. She told me she felt better and that the doctor had been to her house and he gave her an antibiotic, said Lila Mae Star.“ https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.wtvm.com/2018/11/17/family-heartbroken-after-untimely-death-columbus-native-kim-porter/%3foutputType=amp

  • Rhondalousey

    Yeah but her dumb butt is more than willing to take him back under any circumstances. Smh, she is stupid.

  • Luv R

    The real question is why are u comfortable working for the Devil? ?

  • Fodderwing

    ??

  • Navybeans95

    U better know it...that's what us gullible women do...hell, I did it...my dad did it to my mom...we love these type sorry az black men...I know I do...forreal, black mEn...DO BETTER....this doesn't apply to all... they know who they are...

  • Fodderwing

    Man I have always heard static about P being into the D!!!

  • MsPam

    Chile I don’t know????? Maybe Cassie was tired of being a first place loser. Maybe she wants to kill Diddy next. Revenge is a powerful thing.

  • Fodderwing

    She has NOTHING else to sustain herself with. She is owned by him...by proxy of the fact she chose to rely solely upon him instead of creating or continuing her own ventures. He is her only 401k and she’s not dropping that bag. For nann. Eva. Bet.

  • MsPam

    But don’t you think it’s too soon to be parading Cassie around?! Poor woman is not even dust yet.

  • Fodderwing

    Man he didn’t give her due dignity in life...and will give her even less in death.

  • Cocoryder68

    ???

  • Fodderwing

    If Cassie’s pregnant it’s to protect the child from not being a sacrifice. Or Diddy himself. When u mess with Lucifer u have to trade souls to extend ur life.

  • Fodderwing

    Brilliant information! Kudos on the super sleuthing! ?

  • Fodderwing

    I put this below in the thread but I’ll add it here...remember when Cassie came back from a trip to Dubai with Diddy a few years ago with a gash over her eyebrow?? She said she crashed an ATV on a sand dune but it reeked of a domestic. She still has the scar, too.

  • Luv R

    Her death hit me hard also... I cannot stop thinking about her and her children. I'm a bit of an insomniac over it. I feel so bad that she has passed away and I really don't know why...

  • Rhondalousey

    Nope, narcissist never can. Poor kim, she never had a chance. And cassie better not be sitting on the front row at her funeral either. Smh, he is terrible.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Just like the d3vil, they want to destroy you...while nonchalantly looking on.

  • MsPam

    Lightin up, it was joke!

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Sad, but nice to know the children still have family to depend on. Thank you for sharing.

  • Fodderwing

    U got it! The greatest trick the devil evil pulled was convincing the world he didn’t exist.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Go head, Dr. Fodderwing!

  • Keekz

    "men and women..."??????
    ?????

  • Fodderwing

    ?

    ?????

  • Bashi22

    Cassie love lifestyle and status

  • WhoKnew

    It has also been said that he snatched her bald and that is why she started wearing her hair with one side bald and hair on the other said. It started a trend that I don't think she meant to start. She had no choice but to try to make the best situation of her bald head. No amount of money or love will make me stay in an abusive relationship (physical or verbal). Eh Eh. Won't stop. Can't Stop. Not Doing It.

  • WhoKnew

    Trying to hide something most likely...that's why (if true) she had a doctor come to her home rather than go to the hospital.

  • Fodderwing

    Ooohhh weeeee! I have every reason to take this as fact.

    *be careful for what u wish for bc it may just come true*.

    It was allll good til she found out the tax on wishes.

  • DaughterOfaQueen

    Some of y'all get on my nerves...these comments?

  • hottlanta

    She isnt lying it is possible. When i went 2 Dubai i went on those tours in the sand dunes n it is a wild ride like never before. Stop thinking ever scar is azz whupping.

  • Fodderwing

    So true. Here’s to hoping for the best.

  • Bonita

    lol@ "Asking for the devil"

  • Bonita

    Cassie been pregnant every year over the past 11 years, according to the gossip blogs. lol

  • SemajBeyPhilly

    Exactly. Cassie been pregnant since me & u came out?But seriously this is the first time I’ve seen her & she looks pregnant. Or it could be from stress eating since they broke up. Who knows?!

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    Yep I remember also recall her mom calling the police because Diddy took Cassie phone when she was trying to leave him

  • Harley

    First of all some of the comments are a shame! Second of all Cassie is said to be pregnant every other month!! Third of all just because she and Diddy broke up doesn’t mean they aren’t friends. During tragedies things change. They are close and he needs a shoulder to cry on! I’m sire his children are being comforted as well! He and Cassie were together not he and Kim!

    Some people can love and NOT be married! Some men are not marriage material and some women aren’t! Some relationships work out better than some of these marriages do! Let people live and love how they want to! Of course his friend/ex girl/ or whatever she is will be there! They still have love for one another!

  • Harley

    I know

  • CaramelDrop

    ?? Some don’t understand what they have NEVER had.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Was that from "The Usual Suspects"?

  • Pamela

    Sadly a good portion of AA is ignorant and uninformed when it comes to Africa . Most still refer to the continent as a country. Shame on all of these ignorant fools .

  • CaramelDrop

    I bet that was fun! That’s my next trip - I’m excited as hell!!!

  • Pamela

    You sound ignorant. "A superbug known to that continent almost exclusively". JFC. Dummy.

  • WhoKnew

    Just read that Kim's autopsy has been completed but the coroner is deferring stating what the cause of death was until a toxicology test is done. So for now it's as everyone expected "natural causes".

    What was interesting in the article, if true, is that her family apparently lied to investigators and said she did not have a prior history of drug use. Interesting that they would lie about that - if true.

  • Fodderwing

    Yeah. Lollllzzz. Who was Keyser Söze?! Great flick.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    The Best! I had to watch it more than once to catch everything.

  • hottlanta

    Really. When r u leaving. I had a blast. My hotel was in the palms area. Give me your email right quick n l will forward you some pictures n give u some pointers. Best vacation ever. U r gonna have a ball

  • Fodderwing

    Ooh. Post the link! The only stuff I found was that the fam said she lived a healthy lifestyle. And that no medications or drugs were removed from the home after her death. There was one story from 4/12/13 where a former nanny was accusing her of drug use but it was settled out of court the next year. And the nanny was a hotttt mess herself. Her story was extremely far fetched...even for me. ?

  • ImWoke

    If I’m not mistaken Kim took him to court when Christian was young.

  • CaramelDrop

    I haven’t planned anything yet but the eldest graduates this year and I want to take him before he goes off to Cornell. I’m trying to figure out how to send you my email w/o posting for the world to see?
    I need all the pointers I can get!!!

  • Readytochokemothernatureout

    That's sad they found out on social media.

  • Readytochokemothernatureout

    Just prayers for her 4 kids and family and the other 2 kids she was around as well. Just sad no matter the cause.

  • leapyearpisces

    I have purposely kept quiet on this situation until I could find the right words as I grew up with Puffy, Biggie, Faith etc. No, I did not nor do I know any of these people personally. So when I say I grew up with them, I'm not trying to mislead, I am simply saying I as a fan, and a consumer was there when these people were BECOMING who they are today, so Kim Porter was a part of that, but all I am left to say is that while, I, like many have heard the many rumors, I'm not going to indulge in that, because my heart keep's going back to those twin girls, and how they have a sister the EXACT same age, who mom IS STILL ALIVE, who is still here. These girls (yes, I know there is Quincy and Christian but they are grown men, not that their mother''s death hurts any less for them), but these girls will have to look at Chance, and Sara everyday knowing that Sara is still here, and there mother is gone, THAT is what my heart ACHES for, and I pray that this does not isolate them from Chance as I know Kim wouldn't want that. What we all need to remember is that for the twins, ALL their IMMEDIATE maternal women are gone, their mother, their grandmother, and their great grandmother. Since Thursday, I have seen people send their well wishes out to the kids, but in the next sentence, speculating, assuming everything about these children mother death. Stop it. Let it go, because at the end of the day, ONLY GOD and Kim Porter know why he called for her, and she agreed. These girls don't need to see "half-condolences". Say RIP and keep it pushing because it's very FEW of us that are going to be able to relate (even if you lost a parent), because I doubt you lost a parent, but had a sibling the same age who still got their mom, and yours has gone on. I pray for those girls, and I pray even HARDER for their brothers, because THEY, NOT PUFF, will have to be their protection, comfort, and guides. Lord, I SINCERELY pray, look over these children. My mother is 66 years old, and you CAN still tell she was / is a motherless child (her mother died when she was 6). You are not the SAME once you lose your mother. NO MATTER THE AGE. Let's just will our energies to this woman''s kids, and leave it at that, and I mean that outhe of RESPECT. not trying to tell people what to do. XOXO.

  • Y’all Jealous Cuz I’m Prudy

    One thing is for certain, he will NEVER find a sincerely loyal woman like Kim.

  • dontgetblocked

    Exactly what I said earlier. He used money and power to hold her hostage.

  • dontgetblocked

    Uhm! She didn't start that trend.

  • Solstice

    Come thru Fodderwing ?? ?

  • dru and neil

    He wasn’t marrying her any time soon regardless. He’s a pig.

  • dru and neil

    Yeah, he really is an inconsiderate pig for that. It’s in bad taste.

  • dontgetblocked

    These girls will be okay. I grew up without my mother. Many children do. It's painful but we all deal with pain. You can have an abusive mother or a mother who is a drug addict...an overly protective mother...a clueless mother. They will survive and become strong..perhaps stronger than their half sister. Their world hasn't ended. They need time to heal but their lives aren't ruined. In fact, they have more advantages that the average child.

  • leapyearpisces

    Well, I won't argue you, and I will just pray you are right. I am TRULY humbled by this situation. It still does not stop me from being empathetic and wishing you didn't have to grow up without your mother, or that these girls wouldn't have to go without theirs. Just because things in life make srong, doesn't mean it doesn't hurt. Blessings and hugs ALL THE WAY AROUND, for YOU and for Quincy, Christian, Jesse, and D'Lila.

  • dontgetblocked

    I think it's more harmful to think of people as victims. Death is a part of life. God has a plan and their mother is watching over them.

  • Oh Tommie

    Heard the same thing!

  • gail jones

    Absolutely

  • leapyearpisces

    RESPECTFULLY, I think this is where you and I differ, and not to say I am right or that you are wrong. Feeling empathy for others, and acknowledging others pain does not mean you view them as a victim. There is no shame in SINCERELY feeling for others. It doesn't mean you pity them. It simply is saying that I ACKNOWLEDGE your pain, and I wish for your better days. Period! Who can be mad at that? But I understand you are of one viewpoint, and I am of another, and it takes both people who are like each of us to keep the world spinning. Can't have people that are too soft-hearted, NOR too hard-hearted. So, you have a goodnight, my lady....until the next post. :-)

  • Coffee1st

    Sadly, i think that's the trade off...."You'll get the fame and fortune but we take your privacy". In the same breath, I'll say that it seems that these media outlets would have SOME type of respect and consideration. They HAD to know it was way too early to report as it relates to the family finding out the right way.
    Just like the paparrazi follows you in life, it'll follow you in death as well.
    Kinda sick if you ask me.

  • Fodderwing

    Dang. DGB, your revelations are as humbling as they are inspiring. I adore the fact you shared this about yourself. You’re pretty amazing. And an example of real life resilience anyone can benefit from.

  • Fodderwing

    ?

  • Readytochokemothernatureout

    Right

  • Meme

    Maybe she has been? Who knows if she loses or terminates?

  • leapyearpisces

    She''s DEFINITELY a survivor, and a strong lady. No doubt. I will give her that!

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    I'm blocking I ain't
    got time nor am I speaking on this woman .... much love to the cute kids doe <3 https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/c1425c997ed3319b16098cad0d4bebaabde80cd22860d557863b4ff2c949aed9.gif doing thee most .... and folks getting lost in the sauce ..... blocked

  • leapyearpisces

    For my early workers, or late night clubbers like me. Here is the version of forever my lady in which AL was talking about Kim Porter, no lie, I stumbled upon this on about 2 weeks before she passed. If you want to REALLY know how much Al loved Kim Porter, listen to this 10 MINUTE UNEDITED version of Forever My Lady. For real peeps, Leap aint NEVER LED you guys wrong. You all BEST (that includes you AUNTIE), better download this extended, unedited version before the family PULLS it. Don't say Leap didn't warn you, because fugg trying to obtain this rare version for monetary gain, THIS, I PROMISE YOU (and I would not lie to you all), will be the PUREST of emotion you havery EVER felt in a song. Now, a year later when you can't get a hold of this RARE version of Forever My Lady, you CANNOT say it was because nobody put you on, because Leap tried to put you on. I will attach the link ONE MORE 'GIN'.
    https://youtu.be/1CP2rayzcYk

  • LithiumHaitianFlower

    Diddy once punched her so hard and broke her nose. He instructed her to say ‘she fell’ smh. There was very loud whispers that he whooped Cassie with a belt and shaved half her head as a punishment during the era when Cassie had half shaved hair( all from a jealous rage a younger man made Cassie smile at a party)

  • LithiumHaitianFlower

    Why hide the skins wounds, abrasions, or the fact that she was ‘wasting away’ smh?. Hollywood doctors are in humans. At what point does the doctor say ‘woman you need hospital care ASAP with machines and nurses to monitor your organs carshing’. No the doctor just saw money. She could’ve just go to Cedar fancy hospital they all go. Forget if it comes out or get leaked. Her babies would have a chance to still have their mom. It breaks my heart that she suffered such tremendous pain and died alone to protect Puffy. Screw that, what about my girls? That’s what she should’ve been thinking. She was a genuine soul

  • Eve

    Hot pot...typo

  • Solstice

    I’m going try and listen to this! I have always loved that first Jodeci album. When I found out Al B Sure wrote it about her, I kinda got choked up. If my spirit wills it, I will listen. I’m trying to stay in my happy place but not sure if this will help. Thank you lady ????

  • hottlanta

    My enaul is did u get it.

  • Eve

    Strange things happen and people should look at the signs. I don't ever look at people because of their status or notoriety in this world. Every person is human, and soooo many people are or rather be unaware of the truth in this world. God never intended for us to die early in life. People make this up because of their lack of knowledge. This woman died early because the kingdom of darkness had the ability to place a sickness on her. I dont know who she worshipped, but lets say she claimed she was Christian. Her being Christian could not save her. What I'm saying for every person poor or rich, known or not. This world is controlled by the kingdom of darkness, there are many people poor or rich who know this. In knowing this people use darkness to control people and things, sadly it is how people complete evil without prosecution/ justice with out repercussions. This could be an example for some who know when somethings just not right. This is not speculation, this this fact, no healthy person stays sick and dies suddenly. Knowledge of this worlds powers is enlightening and scary for some.

  • leapyearpisces

    Babes, I'm all about GOOD bibes, it will NOT make you sad, but it probably WILL make you cry, because your heart will feel so FULL. Chlie, if any woman can say they have had a man that has loved them, the way K-ci sings this UNEDITED version, they are TRULY blessed. Go ahead and listen. I wouldn't bring something to you that would harm your spirit -that''s not who I am as a person. This joint is beautiful, and RAW.

  • Whirl

    Thx for breaking it down?. My thoughts went directly to how water softener systems work in that there is a chemical exchange of charges. Also brands like Pedialyte for children https://www.target.com/p/pedialyte-oral-electrolyte-solution-unflavored-1l/-/A-14528917?ref=tgt_adv_XS000000&AFID=google_pla_df&fndsrc=tgtao&CPNG=PLA_Baby%2BShopping_Local&adgroup=SC_Baby&LID=700000001170770pgs&network=g&device=m&location=9009153&gclsrc=aw.ds&ds_rl=1242884&ds_rl=1246978&ds_rl=1246978&ref=tgt_adv_XS000000&AFID=google_pla_df&CPNG=PLA_Baby+Shopping_Local&adgroup=SC_Baby&LID=700000001170770pgs&network=g&device=m&location=9009153&gclid=EAIaIQobChMIktPT7JPe3gIVkluGCh37PQdxEAQYASABEgKrZfD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds in which case it serves in a very similar method to what it appears Kim’s treatment consisted of, or Gatorade. Sometimes 2 plus 2 don’t always equal 4. Appreciate you giving context.

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    Yep I heard about that head shaving too just sad

  • KB

    Exactly..

  • KB

    They can’t stop with them. I guess they knew Kim and Puffy personally and knew what they were thinking and doing 24/7. It is sad how some people are speaking on this woman. Most of these comments are speculations with no evidence to support them.

  • Judge Mental Will

    I'll comfort you Sean. Come to daddy..

  • Peace

    This was a tacky move by Cassie. She trying to make this about her. All the mainstream media Fox, cnn online mags talking bout how Diddy hooked up with her a day after Kim's passing .
    This man is clearly hurt. His children are hurting. What a fake move. As a friend or whatever to Diddy she should have kept her distance until the woman was laid to rest . Talk about thirsty.

    Kim was a Hip Hop Legend and Icon with her beauty and grace. Everyone in the Entertainment Industry speaks well of her.
    Cassie will never touch or be that. She like a rat chasing cheese. Talk about culture vulture that's who she is.

    My prayers go out to her children for the loss of their mother during the Holidays. May her spirit guide them 4ever .
    Rest in Paradise Kim.

  • Bonita

    You must want HIV. His name was included in the list of Aetna patients who received letters regarding their HIV prescription which was visible in the envelope mailed out last year. The complete list was on the deep dark web, and included a few other celebrities such as Aretha Franklin, Trina, Chris Brown, and Katt Williams.

  • Faithz

    Cosigns you, she should have laid low, and helped from the side lines.

  • Faithz

    I Cosigns You! And Thanks for the Good Read, I should not say it now,because of what's going on but I have always admired Kim, and could not stand Diddy for playing her the way he did, while parading Cassie, and countless others around for the world to see him smiling, and enjoying life to the fullness. And oh by the way Keep doing your thing enjoyed reading you, and beside that many love it when people like you with "Common Sense" shows up.
    And another thing I agree with you on how people should be more Compassionate ect, but the trolls only think about themselves and the w!cked way they mind don't understand jack connected to real life , ignore the trolls , and keep up the good comments that make a person think, about real life issues.

  • Faithz

    I see no lies!!!!!

  • Faithz

    Thanks for that.

  • Faithz

    Omg , and what is strange is that all these years Kim has never been seen being wined are dined by another man I wonder why? And Cassie hasn't been seen out , and enjoying herself with other mean either. And at the end of the day He hasn't married either one of the trees he's been climbing.

  • Faithz

    That is something that I had heard , and forgotten, Diddy must be proud of himself for holding both women down while he climbed other trees right in front of their faces, and dared them to do anything about it. That has to be their fault for letting him get away with things like this.

  • Faithz

    Oh my.

  • Whirl

    Looks like the report could take up to four weeks https://gbi.georgia.gov/sites/gbi.georgia.gov/files/related_files/site_page/88332299Autopsy%20FAQs.pdf
    I’ve been reading about her on gossip blogs for over ten years. Not to mention music videos of artists like Jodeci and Heavy D. She seemed like quite a lady flowing with grace. Unreal.

  • Faithz

    Diddy need to be investigated. But then again Money , and power is hard to fight.

  • FukkFolks2018

    ALL their IMMEDIATE maternal women are gone, their mother, their grandmother, and their great grandmother.
    ^^^^^
    Their maternal great grandmother, for whom one of the twins is named (Mrs. Lila Mae Star) is actually still with us. She spoke out and someone posted the link below. Good article. I'm still sad for them though.

  • Gloria

    ?? WOW!

  • leapyearpisces

    So the 94 year old is still with us???? Ok, cool. I will GLADLY stand corrected on this one! Imma tr to find the link.

  • Faithz

    I have learned a lot of things about Kim, I did not know as well,,,this is really sad. And my goodness her house is huge, I suppose Diddy made for sure she , and his Children had lots of room....
    Gone To Soon....
    https://globalnews.ca/video/4668746/lapd-investigate-death-of-model-actress-kim-porter

  • Whirl

    One thing I will comment on regarding him is he has always come off as a nuturing father. I remember this as far back when dead beat dads was a big deal. I feel like he helped to change the culture in that regard. And secondly his get out the vote movement “vote or die” is certainly iconoclastic within our culture and set up new models for getting out the vote. He did an excellent job in the midterm.

  • bemetoo

    Bonita you lying??? ? ???

  • Faithz

    Yes he need you right now, Judge because he want be able to control Kim anymore Kim has her wings now, and she will be watching Diddy from the heaven s above. She will be her children and Family Beautiful Angel and Diddy , nor this old mean world can hurt her anymore. And as bad as this old world has gotten Judge Kim wouldn't want to come back to this old cruel world for nothing, Rest Sweet Kim. RIP.

  • Faithz

    BOOOM, How scary!!!!!

  • Faithz

    I cosigns you on that, He did and has always helped with the Children, I will give him that. But I suppose tree jumping as he pleased helped him to take care of his Children, Kim, and still have some fun with Kim, with vacations, and outings as he pleased, along the way. And people like we know often times get along better not being married they can be best friends better without attachments. And I know that he has did a good job of keeping a good relationship with Al B Sure Son, and helping to raise him as his own son, which is admirable. I will give credit where credit is due.

  • Faithz

    I wonder why her and Sure never made it, are has never been seen hanging out together over the years, I suppose I am thinking out aloud. They say he wrote the song for Kim. I am sure Diddy never liked that.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QeVSfu1oSdw

  • Faithz

    Hey Diddy, and all your Players in and outside of
    Entertainment, Toni Says it Best!!!!!
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wpaR3wzTlvo

  • Bonita

    I wish I was.

  • Faithz

    DIDDY Hold your head up, Kim says "She Will Always Love You!!!!
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3JWTaaS7LdU

  • Quiet

    She is pregnant with diddys child. Did you not read this article you are posting on. She knows and has cared for kids like a step mom. The kids need Carrie now. Geez

  • Whirl

    I like your thinking. There are many couples who are not married that have lasted much longer than some married couples. Oprah and Stedman as well as Kurt Russell and Goldie Hawn come to mind. Both couples have publicly stated they would not be together if they had married. I’m ok with people living their truth. If marriage isn’t in the cards it’s not my place to impose views based on any particular belief system. I find it interesting that I never hear folks complaining about the Mormons way of life down in Utah.

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    LMBAO!!! This is not about no o dayum Diddy!!!

  • Judge Mental Will

    People with HIV can live a longer and healthier life than people with CANCER. Please educate yourself. You're an ignorant ho to even bring that up. Dumb trash like you should be killed.

  • Faithz

    I know that he has did good as far , and helping his people, including voting as well. See these Serial *ick swingers are good in one way, but love to tree jump as they please in the other way. They call Women h@ when they do things like that.
    And I know He gives Back , He's just a Player as well but i suppose the women lets him do as he pleases since many women fall victim to men Wallets, and the men "Whacha my call it" in life I know many women who are good women who loves their men at a distance, AND love that their men are players.

  • Whirl

    When he allegedly beat his son’s coach with a dumbbell for shaming him in front of others for being the kid of a rich parent I was like wow. It wasn’t funny but it was funny even though it really isn’t funny. Point is he doesn’t seem to play that when it comes to his kids.

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    I can't with the Diddy is a good father CRAP!! HE SUPPOSE TO BE... HES NOT DOING ANYTHING FOR HIS CHILDREN THAT HES NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR. IF HEC WAS SO GREAT OF A FATHER THEN WHY DIDN'T HE MARRY HIS CHILDREN'S MOTHER AND MAKE A VIRTOUS WOMAN OUT OF HER vs Sashaying his nasty penis all over the world with EVERY SHIM/ MARY AND TOM? FOH... AMAZES ME FOLK THINKING IS SO FAWKED UO THAT BEING A RESPONSIBLE PARENT IS PRAISED.

  • Whirl

    Don’t know his views but everybody isn’t into belief systems like religion which encourages marriage. Is it right for us to impose our belief system on others?

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    SHE HAS NEVER TAKEN CARE OF HIS CHILDREN... SHE PLAYED NO ROLE IN THEIR UPBRINGING..HELL SHE'S ONLY A FEW YEARS OLDER THAN HIS AL SURE SON. BYE

  • Faithz

    Even Marriage isn't always the answer either , and I do understand that.

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    I knew about Trina and Trick Daddy

  • Bonita

    What's with all the homosexual aggression and name calling? And what does the life span have to do with facts that I'm stating? In other words, yo nasty azz doesn't mind catching some isht as long as you can live an extended healthy life. lol But I'm the ignorant one. lol You sound like a gotdamn fool!

  • Faithz

    I love that we can agree to disagree, and still keep it moving as well. You are a "Common Sense" Thinker, and that is what helps to make Blogging fun. Thanks for your Insight, You help to keep my mind Thinking.

  • Whirl

    You bet!

  • Faithz

    ROTFLMFAO, Rat chasing cheese, Hahahahah.

  • Faithz

    Bent over with tears Looool.
    Rat chasing cheese, OMG, LOL.

  • Kimocha

    Wowww!.. I had a feeling about Diddy The Dog!... But these other folks??... WOW!!

  • Faithz

    I know but I have been a little hard on Diddy because of his player ways, that didn't affect my life, but since I have always respected Kim, I supposed I went a little hard on Diddy, trying to give Diddy some praise, just saying.

  • Faithz

    So very true, it has me feeling very sad.

  • Kimocha

    I agree with you 100%... Diddy The DOG is and has been doing what TF he supposed to be doing as a father!... And... So what!... He STILL a arrogant narcissist who is definitely a player/ho!

  • Meme

    Come in Will that's a bit harsh i dont dnow u like that!

  • the guest

    Marriage isn't always religious. People marry to have and raise children in the best possible foundation for stability, security and prosperity. People marry to commit to, care for and nurture each other. Diddy, in my opinion, should have married one of his children's mothers especially since he continued to them except for Misa who wasn't having it.

  • E-VannaRootsAllEvil

    Say what?

  • E-VannaRootsAllEvil

    That explains it then

  • Kimocha

    I remember Misa doing a interview long time ago saying that her and Kim were originally friends until Kim started messing around with Diddy behind her back while Misa and Diddy were still together!... But I'm sure they ended up back friends before Kim's passing since that was so long ago... I assume anyway.

  • Judge Mental Will

    fck u

  • Judge Mental Will

    ??

  • the guest

    Al B Sure literally abandoned Kim and Quincy. She got a job as a receptionist at UIptown to take care of her child. Years later there was forgiveness and Quincy and Kim had a positive friendship Al B who admitted deserting them and being grateful to Diddy for stepping up.

  • Faithz

    Diddy did good by stepping in and being a Dad to Quincy I respect him for that. And I understand that Diddy has made for sure to get them good education, and that too is good!!

  • Faithz

    And coming from a huge family like mine, I know first hand about how dead beat dads can be, and how step dads do better by their step children than their real dads! No beef from me about whats right, and wrong on raising children!!

  • Whirl

    I respect you living your truth. My truth is when Jada Pinkett said she never wanted to get married it resonated with me. My truth is if I say I’m committed and my partner states he’s committed I’m good. If I’m taking care of me I’m okay with him taking care of him. But that’s my truth. I don’t need the social status. I didn’t need a tax right off. I’m good with let me be me without traditions that are fundamentally religion based. Most people in the world aren’t christians. But that’s just my truth.

  • Bonita

    The more you respond, the worse you look. smh

  • FukkFolks2018

    I commented on Kurt and Goldie here the other day. He was on daytime TV last week. I love their story. Still. 35 years. Non married

  • Soda

    Virtuous woman? There are plenty of married women with no high moral standards, so don't act like being married somehow places a woman in a higher class. I doubt that Kim wasted time thinking that Sean gave her everything she wanted except a ring that would make her an honest woman in the eyes of the world.

  • FukkFolks2018

    She still kicking it from what I read. It's the post below says Kim fam found out via social media.

  • FukkFolks2018

    Lord I'm so tired of folks portraying marriage the be all to end all. Wish people would Stop projecting their thoughts and feelings of marriage off on folks. It's akin to pushing your religious beliefs off on others. That's what YOU believe. And it's okay. But why apply it to other folks situation bc that's what YOU would do or believe? It's not okay or fair

  • Lorenzo Chaps

    I'm still amazed at so many people offering condolences to him. First Al B came out saying forever my lady was about Kim, now Dallas Austin wants in on the action. He's claiming Drumline was about he and Kim Porter. Since when sir? Has anyone else every heard this pre-Kim Porter passing? I know what he wasn't quick to tell you; that first abortion Chilli had was about him too.

  • Lorenzo Chaps

    Didn't Al publicly say if anything ever happens to him, Puffy did it?

  • FukkFolks2018

    They grew up together in Columbus. Classmates I do believe. I've read that way before now

  • Readytochokemothernatureout

    Diddys post is sad as well

  • FukkFolks2018
  • Readytochokemothernatureout

    Diddy's post is sad too. My heart just aches for them all. You don't know what you've got til it's gone... https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/d182eb577f39e2e9dc5eec48c38c3256030468a55bc4fe6830f174779d8a7b64.jpg

  • Rhondalousey

    Im sorry to hear that & you are absolutely right.

  • Jussjess25

    Exactly

  • chaisun

    Why bring it up in the first place though. Then you feel a way when he responds differently than you expect him to. As if having HIV is the be all and end all of someone’s life. It’s pretty ignorant.

  • Jussjess25

    Homegirl pulled post from nowhere and tried to apply it to diddy?? im done

  • Solstice

    First time I am saying this but boy I tell you. ????? Monday can’t get here soon enough. I’m looking forward to a new post. ?

  • Jussjess25

    On Al’s unsung documentary, kim made an appearance and said she left al after he had a son with another at the same time she was pregnant with their son. Kim actually went through that twice in her life with both al and diddy

  • Peace

    Omg. Dallas Austin pays tribute to Kim Porter with their prom picture! This is too much. Say Drumline was about him and her. They grew up together in Columbus, GA .Wow! This is so sad yet so very heart warming to see al the love for her. Rest in Paradise Kim. You were loved!

  • Jussjess25

    Facts!

  • A D N

    Wow, she dated some very high profile men. Any word why she didn't marry? Was she not interested in marriage?

  • Faithz

    True.

  • A D N

    I'm glad he spoke on their relationship to all those why felt they understood what they really lived and was unexplainable.

  • KLo

    so sad. wished he had married her. truly sad

  • Faithz

    Thanks for that.

  • Faithz

    Thank you, so much I didn't know.

  • A D N

    Kim was that girl to all of them huh lol. Go head on Kim. She had them all shook. I wonder why they didn't marry them. OHHHH, but then again, they all had a commonality.

  • Neva RuthLess

    Now you know negroes aren’t interested in marriage, commitment, faithfulness and functional family units. Too many black men love having a harem of women and breeding bastards broken homes and generational dysfunction.

  • Faithz

    Different strokes, for different folks.

  • Faithz

    True, and I heard you!!

  • Faithz

    Preach!!!!

  • A D N

    I don't think they were concerned about waiting til marriage until kids come. The females had an equal responsibility to prevent pregnancy.

  • Faithz

    Nothing but the truth, and said so
    Eloquently.

  • Faithz

    Yes what is okay for one couple and person is totally different from another person.

  • Faithz

    I feel that way as well, it just seem like a woman who was good enough to have three children by should have been marrying material.

  • Faithz

    You are right about each of us all being in different stages of mind, as far as love, marriage goes.

  • Faithz

    Babe it's just a music video about Love.

  • Solstice

    I know you’re a jewel ? I just don’t want to cry ? right now.

  • dontgetblocked

    Thank you. I was taught young that when you're knocked down...get back up. Don't ask for special treatment because life gave a you few hard knocks. Work through the challenges and create the life you want to live.

  • dontgetblocked

    I see your point. I guess I get muffled when I see people who have taken the wrong turn in life and they blame past tragedies. You know the drug addicts who blame it on their parents divorcing. I think if you teach children young that everyone deals with tragedies...everyone. This is yours. The wonderful thing about having a parent who has passed is I always asked for my mother's guidance and protection. I believe she helped me more in heaven than she could have on earth.

  • Peace

    Really? Diana Ross had her first child by the founder of Motown(Mogul of that era)then married twice and divorced having a total of 5 kids. All her kids are gifted and talented and so are Kim's.

    They both raised good kids.
    Doesnt matter if she never married, She was a successful model for creame of nature hair products, many others, on magazine covers before social media was a thing.
    This woman lived a full life others could only dream of in her 46 years.
    Rest Kim. God got your kids now.

  • Faithz

    He Will guide Us and
    carry Us through what ever it is.

  • Merkaba morris

    Another Goddess sacrifised by her family members for fame and fortune , when will these negroes learn u have no control over who will be sacrificed ...wake up sheep ...Love and Light

  • Harley

    Same goes for men of ALL races! Please stop making black folks out to be any different. There are black men who are faithful and love and those who don’t. Same as any race or culture

  • Harley

    Some people aren’t meant to be married. My best friend is a man and we are friends! We have whole other relationships but we are soulmates and connected. A soul connections doesn’t mean you have to be married or can’t experience life experiences with people

  • Harley

    Everyone isn’t meant to be married! Geez I’m sick of seeing people ask why they weren’t married. People can be soul mates and have soul ties and not be married!!

  • Harley

    Thank you!

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    Diddy Soiled her..

  • Harley

    How is it tacky to console a friend after a tragedy? They were in a relationship for over 8 years. Why dog her because she wants to be there for her friend and ex during a tragedy. If Cassie has passed I’m positive Kim would have been there for him as well. Everything is not a publicity stunt. You can love someone and not be with them

  • Faithz

    Just hear this.... Kim Writing a Book....
    Kim Porter tells all about the world of hip hop...BUT in pictures with her new book "The Rock N' Roll of Hip Hop". As the previous girlfriend of rap mogul Sean "Diddy" Combs Kim has had a birds eye view of the life and times of some of the worlds biggest hip hop stars. Partnering with her good friend photographer Cheryl Fox the book shares a private collection of never before seen images of some of hip hops finest! Kim recently stopped by the HipHollywood loft to tell us about this new project.

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    I'm sorry but he didn't need to speak. Most saw what it was. Whats NOT KNOWN is your Kimm felt.. I hope she kept a journal..

  • Faithz

    I wonder if this Book Kim is talking about may even be like "Super Head" tell all Just saying, just heard this from someone, about the Book coming out in 2019...
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0hbsxr33EHo

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    EXACTLY.... WHERE WAS ALL THESE FUGGAS WHILE SHE WAS DYING ALONE!

  • Faithz
  • Faithz

    Diddy this is good but I just heard that people are talking behind your back about how thin Kim had gotten, even though she's a model they are saying she was almost too thin. And was Kim going to talk about you dipping diving with men, girls and boys, Omg, Let me stop.

  • Faithz

    One of my Nieces say why didn't you marry her man, shes wanting to punch your eyes out right now Diddy for not marrying her, and she will talk about it in her new book. They are saying Kim house had been broken into her home is there any truth to that Diddy.

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    Obviously not..Hmmm. the family dynamic and the lack of expectation of marriage is what have the BLACK COMMUNITY ALLLLL THE WAY fawkedup. I don't know where your from but where I'm from EVERY CHIC I KNOW WANTED LOVE, MARRIAGE, THEN THE BABY CARRIAGE. But a funny thing happened on the way to the bed, in the corner, while getting bent over getting a quicky!!

  • Faithz

    My Niece says to high five you to high heaven., Where is his commitment, they don't have no standards, Their standards are so low you have to dig millions of feet under the ground, to find standard They know nothing about Commitment , are standard. All they know is getting what you want, and moving on to the next one.

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    The concept of love and Marriage is a beautiful thing. If you are not that fortunate to experience it. Then it's not a wonder why you have such a bleak outlook on it.. BYE!!!

  • Faithz

    My niece is driving , and she see a woman begging for money, but yet her dog is well groomed, this woman is a mess. She said a lady is begging for money, to help pay her rent, and the lady told my Niece do you want to see my bills, and the lady went to pull her bills out, and my Niece told her hell maw I don't want to see your bill, but do you want to see my college bill, cause I ain't giving you jack on your bill, but you can help me with my college bills.

  • Faithz

    She told the lady that she needed to learn about the programs that can help the needy, while she's walking around begging for money, She said the lady looked healthier than a mug, she didn't look like she had ever missed a meal My Niece says with her hair slicked back, wearing a sweater saying she worked at a school.

  • Peace

    Well thank goodness Diddy cleared all that up today with his heartfelt tribute to Kim.

    Cassie been a thirst trap 4ever. No talent culture vulture. All she see in Diddy is dollars or millions.

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    Oh BYE... THATS WHY THIS WORLD IS FAWKED UP NOW AND THERE ARE SO MANY BASTARD BAD ARSE LOST CHILDREN THAT CAN'T IDENTIFY WITH NOR RESPECT WHAT A FAMILY IS... FOH.. Your thinking PROVES MY POINT... GTFOH AND DEBATE THIS WITH THE REST WHO FEEL THE WAY YOU DO..

  • Faithz

    Still talking to my Niece she's in Sams and the lines are to packed everybody , and their mama's are in there , and very long lines, so I asked her what was she looking for, and said Ox Tails I fell out LOL. and told her why not just go to a different store, and she said Auntee I was in a different store last nigh, and this big fat black as heffa had her her hand on the last package, and she was like ciiiiii i just drove this long way and her Paws was on the last package, and they was bad looking, and I looked at them
    either and my Niece said I don't want that package either, they was thin, and something for a vegetarian OMG my niece is a mess.

  • FukkFolks2018

    Ive been married. Set to get married again. If I feel like it. Idgaf if he wants to. If I don't feel like it...we nor I plain won't.

    How many times have you been married? Thought you were single?

  • Readytochokemothernatureout

    Indeed

  • Readytochokemothernatureout

    With his roving eye she didn't want to keep putting up with it so she chose to leave. Beautiful lady and my heart goes out to them.

  • FukkFolks2018

    Not thank you. Were you not just downing on Dewayne Wade bm the other day for NOT getting chose?

    Pick a side sis. This is for all the women who could marry. Maybe not THAT man, but A MAN...could still marry. If SHE wanted to. You said Aja was too much of a whore to do so.

    Pick a side.

  • Readytochokemothernatureout

    Respect her for her choice.

  • FukkFolks2018

    Ive had a kid in wedlock. One out of. Treat them the same. What's your point?

  • FukkFolks2018

    One minute. If you downed on Aja...Dwade baby mama.. don't sit up here and do this now. Like I see who y'all hypocrites are. This the same. Down to two famous baby daddies. Don't change your tune. Or your comments. Ummhmm.

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    I’m thinking AIDS or drug overdose

  • Faithz

    I just heard that Diddy is sick, Lord help us. And did you know Kim was writing a Book, to talk about Hip Hop, Omg the plot thicken.

  • Faithz

    Did you know Kim was writing a book?

  • Bonita

    Why are you inserting yourself in something that doesn't involve you? Didn't nobody request your analysis.

  • Solstice

    Girl I honestly don’t know or think I want to be married. It is a lot of work! I grown accustom to my own isht. If I wanna paint the wall blue I can. If I want to fly somewhere to vacation, I can. If I don’t wanna cook for two nights in a row, I don’t. I’m not really sure I want to convey, confide, confer, confirm, consult or consider somebody else. My son, whose now 20, in college and the baby, my daughter is a Freshman in high school. I am almost an empty Nester and I did have my kids younger. Right now, I feel like OK now I can finally do some of the things that Mommy has wanted to do. I can finally pursue my goals and dreams and aspirations with fewer restrictions. Hell it’s work having a d@mn boyfriend! Chile I love that we can both take our behinds home when we get on each other’s nerves.

  • Readytochokemothernatureout

    No

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    I was wondering how long before someone raised the Masonic conspiracy .

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    FF2018:Lord I'm so tired of folks portraying marriage the be all to end all.

    Then don't have multiple children with multiple men/women?

    Don't deprive children of both parents for your selfish reasons.

    Why is that so difficult?

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    How do you know she was loyal?

  • Isaidit

    Boom ?. This dude ain't doing nothing exceptional. The mothers of these kids are raising them not diddy. This guy writes a check and does photo ops

  • Ryan

    Heard the rumors and not surprised about any of them. Hell Jean Claude looks sick as hell in those Tostitos commercials.Cheeks looking like they're melting.

  • Harley

    Naw that was not me boo! I never said that nor spoke of Aja. You got me confused for someone else

  • Harley

    And he allows it! He chose to be with her. She was trying to make a career for herself as an artist and Diddy has been with her for over 9 years. She’s also a woman of color as well. I have never seen her appropriate the culture or speak I’ll of anyone. She has a right to console her ex boyfriend and friend at that.

  • Harley

    I’m married yet I understand that marriage isn’t for everyone. People divorce everyday B! And people who aren’t married stay together for years! There are many communities that are all the way fukt not just the black community and our problems stem moreso from systematic racism and injustice.

  • Harley

    Some people don’t wanna be married ?????

  • Isaidit

    So glad you're bold enough to speak the truth. The expectations in the black community is so low, it's a crying shame. No everyone is not meant to be married but come on, at least commit to someone other than yourself. Plenty of people aren't married, but are committed to each other, and gave their children a stable home.

  • Neva RuthLess

    Yeah whatever, be in denial if you like.

  • Isaidit

    Thank you! This man ain't nothing but an arrogant, selfish SOB. Five children with three different women, and you couldn't commit to not one???? Only black people will come in here, with their excuses for his behavior. He left all of these women to be single mothers.

  • Neva RuthLess

    Yawns. The black race is literally over. Keep bringing up other races like they arent in order.

  • FukkFolks2018

    You were cosigning against Aja. I understand tho

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    It is reported that she married Al B. Sure for one year. It is on Google.

  • Peace

    Honey child Cassie cant heal this hurt. In his tribute he pours out his heart to the world for Kim to the world. He is devestated that his BLACK QUEEN LOVE OF HIS LIFE HIS BABY IS GONE.
    Its time his team checked him into UCLA medical for observation. He was strolling through Westwod Village steps away from campus hosputal looking exhausted physically and mentally. This is really hard for him.

    Now what about cashmeoutcassie?

  • Coy little wink

    Its not required to marry why does that matter?

  • RealATLPeach36

    Actually you stand correct Chance was born 5 months before. But I think they were friends and Sarah screwed him..I mean everyone has to take responsibility.

  • Peace

    Say what now? Cassie cant heal this hurt .Diddy confessed his unconditional love for Kim today. His Black Queen.

    Its time his team checked him into UCLA medical for observation for stress .He didn't look so good strolling through Westwood Village just blocks away from UCLA medical plaza. He looked exhausted.

    He is really hurting and grieving her transition really hard.
    Kim Porter was his ?

    now what about cashmeoutcassie?

  • Coy little wink

    Its a time and place for everything a lot of folks have no decency period.

  • Faithz

    Me either just heard that today!!

  • Faithz

    You believe that?

  • Soda

    Good comment about your president trump.

  • Soda

    Why would I debate this with the rest who feel the way I do, you shouting imbecile?!

  • Faithz
  • leapyearpisces

    Yes. I understand exactly what you mean. Folks 50/60 years old still using old excuses as to why they ain't shat, and didn't do shat with their lives, and I understand that you are saying that you don't want the twins or Quincy and Christian for that matter, to use their mother's death as an excuse as to not become the best version of themselves. So I get it. I'm just saying let's wrap these kids in love, love, love, and more love for NOW, and I am sure, after the dust has settled, someone in their family will get to whipping them into shape, and start teaching them the appropriate coping skills to progress in a healthy manner , just like somebody clearly did (and they did a great job) for you.

  • Faithz

    Yea i feel Kim will get the last laugh. Diddy had better watch hi his back Kim was truly loved.

  • Faithz

    Exactly right about that.

  • Faithz

    That is something to think about, should be
    personal like all your medical history.

  • Faithz

    Lol are Cassie Killed Diddy because she caught him win yet another man.

  • Faithz

    Wonder how Cassie will feel if next year he is seen partying with another young thing?

  • Faithz

    But you are right about that, and Cassie had better get used to his playing the field, and jumping from tree, to tree.

  • Faithz

    True.

  • Faithz
  • the guest

    Men are pragmatic creatures. Diddy has two little girls to raise full time now. If he is getting back together with Cassie, ts not just love it's also practical for Cassie to be stepmom.

  • Harley

    Who cares if he professed his love for Kim and even if they were soul mates...guess what? They were not together! You can have soul mates and have love for people and not be with them! He may need professional help but guess what he also needs his friends and family by his side. Have you lost someone close to you? If so, you keep your family and friends close during those times. You obviously have some sort of hate for Cassie. You have more of an issue than Kim seem to have. When people mourn they want comfort from those close to them point blank

  • Harley

    No I wasn’t! I was co-signing for gabby!!

  • Harley

    Please the black race is far from over.... you are delusional

  • Harley

    Your delusional boo

  • Harley

    Or he is just being comforted by a friend while mourning. My ex comforted me when my love one passed and we weren’t getting back together. Some people don’t have animosity and stay friends

  • Navybeans95

    Just how Kim must have felt...he's no good...and he will neva change

  • Jussjess25

    I hear you lol. We just clowin

  • Faithz

    Okay I know, and personally i am hoping i wake up one morning , and this is a bad dream.

  • Faithz
  • Peace

    Umm. He adopted her firstborn. Bought her a 5 million dollar home. Lavished her kids with the best. Travel on private jets, vacations on his 75 million dollar hatch.

    Wanna bet who Diidy leaves his Empire/Estate to upon his transition?
    King Christian Combs him and Kim firstborn or

    On-call -cashmmeoutcassie??? ???you need to just chill with the dumb ish.

    This a Black Thang.....you wouldn't understand.

  • FukkFolks2018

    Then don't have multiple children with multiple men/women?

    ^^^^^
    Married folks have kids by different men and women. Wtf are y'all talking about??? So it's okay to have 3 baby daddies as long as you are married to them? Make this make sense. Dwayne Wade up here being praised by having kids with his second wife like kids by his first wife don't count. Diana Ross had kids by 3 different men. Married to 2. Kimora gets dragged but was married numerous times. Like how is ANY of that okay but not being married isnt.

  • FukkFolks2018

    Don't deprive children of both parents for your selfish reasons.
    ^^^^^
    Divorce happens. Y'all being ignorant. I swear y'all are

  • FukkFolks2018

    Y'all a confusing bunch. Marriage marriage marriage. Some d2o that, y'all still drag them. Wtf DO yall want? What are the expectations and why?

  • Mark mcharm

    Black people marry every day but who would marry you ?you already come with built in negativity .

  • Applebum

    I don’t know how she really died and I don’t believe anything that these money hungry celebs puts out. Maybe she was standing in Cassie’s way. As long as she’s alive Diddy wouldn’t/couldn’t marry Cassie. Who the heck knows. They ALL dabbles in witchcrafts. Witches are no longer the stereotypical old and messy looking. They’re young and beautiful too. Maybe just maybe one of their spells went wrong. If she really is pregnant and Kim just died then it’s a form of “rebirth.” The crap that they believe and are into.....These celebs are sickos.

  • the guest

    I think instinctively men are pragmatic. It is natural for him to seek a stepmom to help him raise his young daughters. He is a devoted and involved dad to all his children but Diddy has never had children live with him full time nor raised children full time on his own without dedicated full time custodial custody mother.

    This will be an adjustment for him and I can see either Cassie being with him and being stepmom or Sara Chapman raising the three girls together.

  • Applebum

    Makeup your mind. One minute you’re married (down below) and now you’re “connected” with a friend. ?

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    People believe all kinds of offbeat, conspiratorial stuff. You'd be surprised.

  • Applebum

    I don’t understand how anyone can call someone they have never meet a good father. What are we basing it on? Because we see pictures of them publicly? People can seem cool publicly but behind closed doors they’re monsters. They can hurt you and then spoiled you with gifts. Is that good? It’s not a hidden secret that Diddy is a soulless monster.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    I agree. Thank God for all the single mothers doing their thing raising their kids.... but for a child, having a [good] father in the household every morning when you wake up, and every night when you go to bed, is a really big deal.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    Well said. In practically every other race this kind of behavior is frowned upon. But among us, so many of our people just embrace it and make excuses for it, as if it's cool. Of course, the ones who suffer the most for this kind of reckless and irresponsible behavior is the kids themselves.

  • Applebum

    Even prostitutes want to get married one day. Any females who say that they don’t are not being honest. They probably can’t find one to marry or the man they’re with have not proposed so they tell themselves that marriage is not a big deal. ?

  • chaisun

    ...Because of your public opinion on a public forum. With you inserting yours on someone else that also didn’t ask you or as you’d say “request” your analysis either. ‘Didn’t nobody’ ask for yours either. ?????

  • Dahl

    Al B Sures unsung mentioned that song was about her, Kim was even on that episode to back it up...

  • Malcom Flex

    I got your back. You can tell who's people didn't marry folks with no legal granddads folks who's daddy left them nothing not even insurance I can't with black folks who diss marriage look at our culture, got the nerve to always bring up white folks well, NO culture has the bastard (unmarried) rate we do: 72% percent of black kids are bastard.

    Diddy got money to take care of his kids, yeh but most black male baby daddies not balling out like that, they die the only thing they left their kids is ALONE no legacy money, no insurance.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    I agree with that. And (to basically say the same thing in reverse)... if a woman wasn't somebody I considered wife material, I certainly wouldn't want her to be the mother of my children.

  • the guest

    Interesting.

    Now, this is possible motive.

    Maybe Kim Porter knew too much.

  • the guest

    She absolutely wanted to be married and was disappointed that Diddy did not marry her.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    Well said. Where I'm from, when I was a kid, there wasn't a single girl I ever heard who said "When I grow up I'm cool with having kids by multiple baby daddies, and I don't even care if I get married or not". That just wasn't the mindset.

  • Neva RuthLess

    We want black men and black women to do better and do whats best for black children., which is being in a functional committed marriage which offers emotional, financial, and physical protection. Come on black people why is this so difficult to grasp?

  • Neva RuthLess

    Black people are the least to marry and more likely to divorce our divorce rates are only second to black men married to white women. Facts.

  • FukkFolks2018

    I never wanted to be married. Was bullied and shamed into it. By Christians. Dead honest truth. Talked about it here many times. Turned down 2 dudes pre-marriage and one post marriage.

  • Isaidit

    Couldn't agree more. Yes, this type of dysfunction is found within every race. BUT like you said, it's embraced more by blacks. The excuses that we constantly makes, is why blacks have the highest rate, of single parent household. This way of thinking is so dysfunctional, most think it's normal.

  • FukkFolks2018

    Some marry. And it's still not enough.

  • Isaidit

    Yup! Ain't nothing like a healthy two parent household.

  • Bonita

    It's a gossip site. And my comment was not only gossip related, but informing a commentor on information that most would consider informative given his comment. You on the other hand are simply butting in on some mess that doesn't involve you, nor does it have to do with gossip. Go play comment referee elsewhere.

  • Isaidit

    This ain't about Trump. But guess what???? He was married to all of their mothers. So for all his f uped ways, at least he believes in some kind of family unit.

  • Harley

    Some married couples are more dysfunctional than those that co parent... let people live how they choose and you do you ?????

  • Harley

    She was married to al b sure and he fathered a child at the same time she was pregnant. She had been married before. If she really wanted marriage she would have not had kids before she got a ring but she continued to have them so it’s strange how your speaking for her ?????

  • Harley

    I am connected with my best friend of over 20 years. He is one of my soul mates. They come in many forms... they come as parents, pets, friends. Just because I’m married doesn’t mean I can’t have soul ties with other loving souls. My mind has been made up sorry you can’t grasp the concept tho

  • Harley

    I just think at this moment she is being supportive. He has many women around him that will help with the girls..... Kim had many close friends, he has his mother and yes his other children’s mothers but exes and friends do console one another when tragedy occurs. Also when tragedy occurs situations change. When people lose people all that anger or animosity usually gets let go

  • HotInCleveland

    Exactly! Black folks seem to have been brainwashed about the benefits of marriage. That hoodrat mentality is sickening. Marriage helps build generational wealth and stability.

  • HotInCleveland

    That’s the exception not the rule

  • Harley

    Your point is still invalid. Cassie is there at this moment consoling him. The dumb ish is you assuming who he is leaving his fortune too and how he values people. I am black but I’m also educated and cultured... so I get why you don’t understand the point that I was making .... she is there to console him during a tragedy point blank... have a good day or st least try considering you as immature and hateful toward someone who doesn’t even know you exist ??

  • Harley

    What about her? She’s right by his side consoling him!! That’s what!! ??

  • Solstice

    I posted below that I don’t necessarily want to be married. I’ve been engaged, I broke the engagement. And I am a hell of a catch! I have absolutely no problems meeting quality successful men. ????? I don’t know that I want to make compromises at this point in my life but that doesn’t mean I don’t like companionship. ?

  • Mark mcharm

    Michael jacksons thriller is older than you I see you are 23 I can't take you serious.? you were born in in the late 90's. You are a kid.

  • Harley

    That’s just the truth

  • Alicia.Ashe

    I remember diddy talking about only wanting to get married once to the right person. Don’t seem like Kim was it.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    Sorry, but that sounds like fake news to me. Do you have any evidence or proof of this?

  • Peace

    This is a discussion board. Period. I say what I want. You are angry at others comments.
    Cassie need to run like Lassie. Or whetever she can find a sponsor or a bone.

  • Peace

    She is an attention seeking paid escort.

  • Malcom Flex

    Yes many black people ARE brainwashed AGAINST the benefits of marriage since they don't know anyone married they're used to less income in the family with no legal father used to no legacy used to no legal grandfather, it's a sad story all around.

  • HotInCleveland

    The truth is that the exception is that there are married couples who raise children that are more dysfunctional than those that breed out of wedlock?

  • FukkFolks2018

    She called him a great dad. More than once. Sarah has said it. Dont know about Misa.

  • the guest

    Exactly.

  • Malcom Flex

    Sis you might want to realize they trying to bait you. They pissing on your leg and telling you it's raining. Other cultures LAUGH at us for what we've done to our family structure it's wrecked, obese single mothers, upset sons... look at JEWS and ASIANS they'd kill the males in their culture if they walked away from their families as too many black males are allowed to.

  • PlayGirl

    I did hear that rumor about Aretha Franklin. It wasn't cancer she died from.

  • FukkFolks2018

    That is not what is being preached here. Its marriage is the best thing to do,,,, all the time. That is not the case. A lot of folks get married for the wrong reason. It doesnt work out. But only certain ones get called out for THAT. Everyone else is okay and gets a pass. Fugg Wiz and Amber were MARRIED. Was it a good idea? No. Kim Kardashian been MARRIED. Diana Ross been MARRIED. Kimora been MARRIED. All them folks STILL GET DRAGGED. Like PICK A SIDE. Im sick of yall not getting the point here.

  • FukkFolks2018

    Black people are still getting married. When folks make the best decision to maybe skip it bc they are not up to par and avoid it...its frowned on. When folks get themselves in some MESS trying to abide by ANCIENT "societal norms"...its forgiven. WHY? Why not be honest from the JUMP. Puff has ALWAYS maintained he is a piece of SHAT. Like if someone TELLS you that...what is wrong with it? Yall gonna answer me tonight.

  • HotInCleveland

    Let’s start with Don’t breed with a piece of crap. We have enough dysfunction in the black community.

  • HotInCleveland

    Furthermore, marriage is more than about societal norms. It’s about the legal and financial protections provided by the government.

  • FukkFolks2018

    Marriage helps build generational wealth and stability.
    ^^^^^^^^^^^
    Kim kids not about to be the richest kids on this planet? Marriage or not? Puffy is worth $800 million + dollars. He just tried to buy an NFL team. We wont think that those kids missing out on anything...with their bastard by society norms selves???? Please help me understand. Please make this make sense. If your daddy rich, he out here claiming you...marriage or NOT...ALL kids gonna benefit. My daddy was only moderately okay. ALL of his kids benefited. We had to BY LAW list ALL our KNOWN sibs. Marriage or NAW. All 4 split. Only 2 of us born within a marriage. Me and my sister.

  • FukkFolks2018

    We have already reviewed that here. This can be handled from power of attorney and wills. Gives you the same rights. And hayle. You can claim SPIRITUALLY married and get some of the same stuff. Bc its hard for them to challenge religion. Furthermore (your word not mine)...Some states still out here recognizing common law.

    Lets get it. What else you got???

  • HotInCleveland

    What does Puffy being in the 1% and the exception to the rule have to do with the rest of us? Stop making excuses for hoodrat decisions. Marriage also protects the mother. I get it your dad was a rolling stone and you have some issues.

  • FukkFolks2018

    My dad was married twice. He put his name on the birth certificate of a kid that wasnt even his. It belonged to my mother. If anyone was a rolling stone it was her. SHE moved on first. He was there in the hospital and BEGGED to sign the birth certificate. They were friends since 4. Married at 16/18. Married for 20. Then apart. He was a stepper upper like Puff. Out here taking care of a kid that wasnt even HIS biologically. Lets go. I got time.

  • HotInCleveland

    It’s called limiting liability. Take a family law class and wills and estates class to make points instead of running high off your emotions.

  • FukkFolks2018

    Im not on any emotions and any one here will say I am facts based 98% of the time. Depends on your state btw.

  • HotInCleveland

    You do have time. I don’t. I limit my interactions with the bitter. Hopefully you find some peace apart from that rachetness. Good night!

  • FukkFolks2018

    Taking care of a young black boy sans marriage OR blood...is more important that marrying the mother of 3 bio....when you BEEN committed by...taking care of kid 1? He committed to Kim before they had ANY kids together.

  • FukkFolks2018

    Not the bitter. The woke. I have lived. Not everything is cut and dry in life. Your thinking. Thats it. You are so very focused on what you were taught and not on the exp. of MOST. Families are CHANGING and been changing. You keep being stuck in 1975. Bye

  • Bonita

    You can go on the dark net. Stuff like that is exposed there because it's difficult to trace. Nobody really exposes stuff on the internet anymore. Just be careful on there cause it's not a playground like the internet. It can be dangerous.

  • Malcom Flex

    TELL IT

  • FukkFolks2018

    Gotta be married to ONE forever is the rule of this blog. Hey I DONT FEEL like this. But its MANY here who are saying this. IN THIS THREAD. If it doesnt work out...THAT IS NOT OKAY. I promise I didnt say it. Its many others who are saying this.

  • Neva RuthLess

    Its like this. If you dont want to get married, then dont have children. Marriage is a man made institution designed for the benefit of men women and children. How? Because poor men or men of less means have a equal chance to reproduce in a monogamous societies as opposed to a polygamous society. Women get protection honor and providers. Children get two parent table households, Marriage provides order and structure. you can look at the black community and see us turning our backs on marriage and monogamy has fostered broken homes STDS and dysfunction.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    Sandra, you watching this Jonestown/Jim Jones special? Horrific!

  • FukkFolks2018

    He was a madman

  • FukkFolks2018

    This applies to Kim and Puff how? Puff dad was killed. His dad was married to his mom.

  • Coffee1st

    Kim stayed pretty low key.... These articles and write ups are giving a little more insight into who she was, etc. It doesn't hurt that I pick up inference and context clues pretty well. A picture is forming.
    Man...keep yourselves and your loved ones out of Hollywood and out of the industry. None of it is worth it.

  • FukkFolks2018

    Wait she is 23????? I got a 23 yo. She was born in 1995??? Is this a JOKE?

  • Malcom Flex

    LOL

  • Coffee1st

    Dang it..I forget that! I need to really remember folks chillun is on here too. It sure would explain alot of these comments....on various posts.

  • Malcom Flex

    CURIOUS what does your story have to do with the topic at hand????

  • FukkFolks2018

    Because poor men or men of less means have a equal chance to reproduce in a monogamous societies as opposed to a polygamous society.

    ^^^^^^^^^^
    Our ancestors were polygamous. And still are. There are Men in Africa RIGHT NOW STILL... still with as many families as they can AFFORD. Where is the outrage of that?

  • FukkFolks2018

    I dont think I KNEW THIS.

  • dru and neil

    I really hope there is a post tomorrow about Diddy declaring his undying love for Kim. He posted about how monumental their love was and how they were much more than soul mates...but my question is, if you can be all that to a man and STILL not be able to get him to love honor and respect you as a wife and partner in life, what the hell do men want?

  • dru and neil

    I mean, something ain’t right with him...unless he was waiting on a celestial being to come down from above, I’m not sure what the f*** he was looking for exactly, not after what he just posted about how meant for each other they were...

  • Solstice
  • the guest

    An evil tyrant.

  • the guest

    Exactly.

  • FukkFolks2018

    Before I go to bed. I want someone to explain to me that according to blog logic...if marriage is the foundation of generational wealth, and Puffy mom and dad were married LEGALLY...He not wealthy? He aint go to college on some of the money he got from his dad? To build wealth for his own kids? His mom NEVER remarried. Came from a two parent LEGALLY married household and mom was left as a WIDOW. Street violence folks BEEN getting married AS WELL. Puffy went to college but thats an exception and not the rule and xyz.Thats still not good enough huh? The dag on rules yall come up with are hilarity.

    Ugh.

  • dru and neil

    This mess didn’t move me at all. Super black love my ass.

  • FukkFolks2018

    He said he is a piece of shat and he put them through enough. He has LEGIT said that. Why he cant recognize he aint shat today, tomorrow, OR the next day and actually you KNOW...want to SPARE a lady from his foolery? I would rather you be REAL with me. From what I can tell.... he has been real as HELL with all of em.

  • dru and neil

    This men are selfish attention seeking bastards. If they loved her so much, why couldn’t they respect her? One man (Al) left her to raise a whole human by herself but know she is forever his lady?! He’s got a lot of nerve!

  • dru and neil

    EXACTLY.

  • dru and neil

    To hell with the song, why wasn’t he a dad to their son? Why did another man step into that spot?

  • dru and neil

    They are basing it on money! We don’t know that man’s parenting abilities. After all he’s co-parenting with three women. It takes a village to raise Diddy’s family it seems.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    Im old enough to clearly recall this event, but I only recall it as a news event (that I admittedly 'looked away' from even while returning time and time again to grab the Time mag off my dad's nightstand). What i didn't grasp then was the depth of the personal stories of the survivors. It's breathtaking and heartbreaking! Now I get why I always got a 'real' vibe from Jackie Speier - she has lived (after nearly dying!). God deliver us from self proclaimed 'saviors' ...smh.

  • dru and neil

    You are right everyone isn’t mesnt for marriage, but you make that CLEAR to the person who actually may want that commitment, you make it abundantly clear, that you can’t be faithful, want to play the field for life, and can’t offer them that level of respect.

  • the guest

    I am not in the clique here. I appreciate the blog and forum. I share comments in earnest and respect the comment of others. I don’t disagree for the sake to disagree.

    I’ve said not one thing about anger or animosity. I’ve not said not one thing about Cassie’s motives to get back together with or to comfort Diddy. I do not think it’s not merely coincidence that out of all of his family and friends he is comforted by his most recent ex. This is a man who is always calculating and thinking ahead. His girls will need a stepmother.

    My comment was really not one due reprisal other than it was not made by a clique member. I made an observation that men are pragmatic creatures. “Many women around” is not the same as a committed stepmother and nuclear family.

    Ultimately, Diddy may consider to marry and give his girls what he has never given them, a committed married two parent home especially now that their mother, rock, and foundation has unexpectedly passed away.

  • Neva RuthLess

    The average african american both male and female are leaving poverty, despair, mental illness, dysfunction, pain, anger, and hurt to their children instead of generational wealth due to our ignorant mindset regarding marriage family and commitment. black men and black women come together like rodents and randomly breed with multiple partners. 5 kids living in one roof with a single mother and all the kids have different last names. Black men complaining about child support and their evil baby mommas but wont keep it in their pants and be men of integrity and marry the woman they impregnate and stay committed, devoted, respectful, and honor her as his wife and mother of his children. Idk why i bother black people have been done and its nobodys fault but black men and black womens.

  • FukkFolks2018

    Puff has been clear for years.

    Marriage Wasn’t in the Cards
    In an interview for Essence’s December 2006 issue, Combs shared that he had no plans to marry Porter. “I know she deserves to get married, but I’m just not ready,” he said. “It’s not a reflection on how much I love Kim. It’s that I’m just learning how to be a good boyfriend. When I’m finished with this step, I’ll move on to the next.”

    https://people.com/music/sean-diddy-combs-kim-porter-relationship-timeline/

    https://madamenoire.com/532512/love-contract/

  • Neva RuthLess

    Unfortunately this is a huge disadvantage when it comes to dating black men. Stats show black men are the least likely to commit to marriage and family but are the first to impregnate and run. Sisters need to wake up and explore options.

  • Neva RuthLess

    No. Hes the typical black men who dont believe in marriage and family, instead of being a player into his 60s with a bunch of bastards by multiple women. Then when his peen doesnt stand up and his health begins to fail he will marry some young dumb girl.

  • FukkFolks2018

    What does average have to do with Puffy and Kim? Again NONE of yall mindset has to do with the people at HAND. They are NOT average. NONE of this has to do with THEM. He had generational foundation. Based on what YALL deemed is acceptable. Still not enough

  • Neva RuthLess

    Again, polygamy breeds violent societies because the few wealthy men are hogging all the women, which makes the poor men upset and revolt. Look how violent africa is compared to the monagamy european countries. Look at ho violent black america is compare to white america. Black men and black women dont value monogamy, instead we have casual intimacy create bastards and our community reflect our behavior. Africa would be more stable is monogamy was strictly implemented. Look at the middle east. Dudes strap bombs on themselves because their are no women around for them to marry and they are promised virgins in the after life. Black men and black women need to practice monagamy if we want compete with other nations and save or children and eliminate the threat of STDS.

  • FukkFolks2018

    Where was monagamy taught? Where did that "value" come from? Who did it get passed down to? Where did it derive?

  • Harley

    This has nothing to do with just black men. You find men of all races to be that way. Women and I mean women of all races need to value themselves more! You can’t place blame on a man when a woman is anconsenting adult as well! You are a troll who constantly belittles the black man and the black community! Your points are invalid

  • Harley

    People can be soul mates and not be married. Friends can be soul mates or your parents! It’s a soul connection that doesn’t necessarily have to equate to marriage or even being partners. They were friends who had history and kids and a connection doesn’t mean they were meant for marriage

  • Harley

    There you go again belittling black men!! The typical black man IS married to black women! Your trolling and constantly throwing shade to black men and the black community! Troll

  • Harley

    There were soul mates just not meant to be partners! They just had strong soul ties

  • Harley

    He or she is a troll constantly demeaning black men! Probably a white man on here causing friction! Every post they belittle black men

  • dru and neil

    He doesn’t have a soulmate or perhaps he’s soulmates with himself.

  • Mark mcharm

    I looked at some of her others post and she said she was 23.

  • dru and neil

    Check the stats and come back. That comment was based off factual statistical data.

  • Harley

    Yes there are problematic kids who come from a household with two parents and there are households with married couples that are more dysfunctional than those who are divorced or co parenting

  • Harley

    I’m not in a “clique” on this forum. I literally just came back reading this blog about a week ago and it’s been months since I have been on this blog. He may give his children a two parent household or he may not. Chance is his child and I doubt he is going to get with Sarah so she can have a two parent home. But one things for sure he and Cassie were together over 9 years and I’m sure still connected and yes she’s someone who can console him and that he trusts.

  • Harley

    Oh really have you spoken with him about his relationships?

  • Solstice

    ??

  • Harley

    Naw it wasn’t and I have checked the stats

  • dru and neil

    Harley did you check the stats like I told you to do before you came back?

  • Harley

    I’m sure it was made clear many times! Kim was the reason he and Misa broke up and he left her for JLO when she was pregnant with his child. She went back to him again!! And had the same thing happen! Actions speak louder than words and women have to respect themselves as well

  • Harley

    I’m not angry boo! Not in the least bit...

  • Harley

    This neva ruthless person is a troll who constantly demeans black men

  • Neva RuthLess

    Hush grown people are speaking.

  • Neva RuthLess

    Again he has immense wealth but operates as the average poor african american by creating children with multiple partners, which creates chaos and confusion.

  • Neva RuthLess

    Black men historically are not builders, protectors, or providers. Black men married to white women have the highest divorce rate while black women married to white men have the lowest. Why are 92% of black mens biracial children out of wedlock and 88% on welfare? Its the truth if you in your feelings i suggest you get out of them and face reality head on. Black men are not a good vestment.

  • Neva RuthLess

    Only around 33% of black men are married. Give it up hon i have about 15 minutes left of my shift, im about to log out go home and go to bed. Goodnight.

  • Neva RuthLess

    Mostly europeans and religion such as Christianity because they saw the benefits. Stable homes to raise functional children into adults and again the elimination of STDS that could wipe an entire community or nation out. Do you really think we should reject common sense because it was practiced by white people, or should we continue breeding dysfunction poverty chaos and STDS? Its a simple choice black people.

  • Neva RuthLess

    And black men need to learn how to build buildings, invent medicines, protect, provide and raise their children. We need to start there. Man is the head. Woman is the center.

  • Malcom Flex

    Kim was almost 50 not 47 her eldest, the son is 30, it's not normal for 50 year old females to be that thin.

  • Harley

    Black men ARE doing that!! Maybe you need to come out the slums hun! There are plenty of black successful politicians, doctors, lawyers, scientist, who are married and great fathers! Change your environment!!

  • Harley

    Awww a shift! Working for the man huh? Your stats are invalid and incorrect!

  • dru and neil

    Okay I looked at the articles I’ll start with People. He said that he knows that she deserves marriage but he’s just not ready yet, did he tell the woman he was NEVER going to be ready, before she just got tired of waiting and gave up? But not after having three kids for him, and aging into her late thirties where it is much harder as a woman to date and marry good, quality men. I know people are going to roll up with their anecdotal stories about how they met their five star husband as a black woman in America, with three kids in tow, at age 35, but they would be the exception not the rule.
    The madame Noire arrival irritated me. He compared himself to Goldie Hawk and Kurt Russell who have been in a committed, exclusive relationship for decades, raising their kids and her two children from her first marriage together. How is that the same as him bouncing from Kim Porter to whoever floats his boat, having kids outside the relationship? Goldie and Russell live together as a family in their home although unmarried, clearly they are deeply committed, it just doesn’t seem the same as Puffy and his all his women and kids situation.

  • Harley

    Your stats are WRONG! Throwing around misinformation to prove a point is juvenile. Get out the hood, explore the world and read a book!

  • Harley

    Naw your a troll here to belittle people of color

  • Harley

    Yeah boo been checked them

  • Isaidit

    Sometimes forever doesn't work out, and that's ok. But what's not ok, is this man leaving all of these women, to raise children alone. This is an epedemic in the black community, and most think its normal. Even if he didn't marry, at least commit to giving your kids, a healthy two parent household. plenty of people do it, like Goldie Hawn and Kurt Russell.

  • Harley

    You asked a question about commitment and soul mates and I answered it

  • dru and neil

    Then what the f—- are you disagreeing with folks for if you know the stats?

  • Blak

    I think he is more upset at having to actually be more of a full time parent to the young girls and not just an part time instagram dad...

  • Isaidit

    Facts!!!!

  • Neva RuthLess

    What does age have to do with wisdom? I have more sense than some of the broads on this thread.

  • Neva RuthLess

    Yeah so? Im an adult. Is there a problem?

  • dru and neil

    For some reason people don’t want to believe the facts though. I mean, yes all races have families where the father has left the home, but black families lead the pack, and I’m not sure why that statistical fact is being argued, it’s not an opinion it’s a fact. Doesn’t mean you are anti black men, to state empirical data. Folks need to grow up.

  • Bashi22

    Africa civilize before the evil european

  • Isaidit

    He was a lunatic!!

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Don't play dumb because you know what I meant.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    I am not talking about divorce.

    Try again!!

  • Mark mcharm

    Because at 23 you say silly things like white men are better mates for black women when white males are the most unstable pacified animals on the planet.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Thank you someone gets it.

    It doesn't matter how much money you have you can be classless trash like Puffy and Trump.

    But at least Trump's children will have a legal path to inherit some of his wealth without having to go to court because he married most of his children't mothers.

  • Isaidit

    I'm hearing some crazy stories about Diddy. No doubt besides booty holes, he's into the occult. Head over to Youtube cause it's lit.

  • Neva RuthLess

    Thanks I appreciate it.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    He wants his puzz for free and he found enough women with low self-esteem who would give him the arrangement he wants.

  • Neva RuthLess

    Awww did I hurt your feelings? Oh well. As black people we need to address and remedy the dysfunction that plagues us.

  • dru and neil

    When his peen stops standing (which it probably already has) he’ll be satisfied with his artificial little blue pill induced erection.

  • Neva RuthLess

    Thank you I appreciate you for this. I’m always called a troll this is my account this is my pic. I just like to reach other black people to educate us awake.

  • Neva RuthLess

    Of course I know professional black men exist. I speak as a collective black men are failures when it comes to manhood in a patriarchal world, they don’t measure up.

  • dru and neil

    The typical MARRIED black man is married to a black woman, but how many black men are marrying is the question.

  • Neva RuthLess

    Yes I currently work at JCPenney callcenter. It’s temporary I ship out January 15 for Air Force basic training. I’m so excited.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    You sound like some black man (or black men) hurt you.

  • Neva RuthLess

    Nah I’m just a young black woman tired of the BS.

  • dru and neil

    Good for you and good luck to you!

  • Neva RuthLess

    I can’t deny the violent history of white males. I also won’t deny their high standards of manhood when it comes to protecting and providing for their women and children. They conquered and built the planet for white women to enjoy. Black men just don’t move the same.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    .. or a bitter sista who got hurt real bad by some black man/men.

  • CaramelDrop

    Truth hurts! ??
    I remember having a debate with a older man about the reason AA are in the predicament we’re in. His perspective was: it’s all the woman’s fault because we ultimately make the decision to let a knuckle head get us pregnant. I couldn’t/refused out if my own ignorance to see it that way. Now that I have a bit more discernment and life experiences under my belt. I totally understand.
    These are OUR babies, as women we have to love and cherish our eggs more than we love/lust these niccas! Stop making our kids BASTARDS and not only make these men step up to the plate but get our ISH together too! They don’t want to hear that though.... AA have made dysfunction the “right” thing because so many households are comprised this way.

  • Mark mcharm

    Protecting and providing? It easy to protect when you have a headstart in life. You will learn as you get older either you are going to be in a relationship with a white guy that will show you his true racist colors or you will get around intelligent black men who have it all together.

  • Neva RuthLess

    Here we go with the usual response. That’s false because I don’t allow black men to hurt me. I just sit back and watch what they do to women around me.

  • Neva RuthLess

    Black men love blaming white men and black women for their failures as men. Insert eye roll ?

  • dru and neil

    Besides even if you had been hurt, still doesn’t change the facts. People can get defensive if they want, facts still remain the same.

  • Neva RuthLess

    Yawn more excuses from black men? God are y’all born this pathetic? We need studies to be done. What man blames another man for why he can’t do for his women and children? Black men truly amaze me with their excuses and nonsense.

  • FukkFolks2018

    Grown? you are 23 supposedly.

  • FukkFolks2018

    She is only 23 years old.

  • FukkFolks2018

    table homes to raise functional children into adults and again the elimination of STDS that could wipe an entire community or nation out.
    ^^^^^^^^^^
    Who did HIV start with? Us or gay white men? Listen I can follow some of what you saying. Other parts of it just dont add up baby girl. Period.

  • Mark mcharm

    You need to step your game up as you get older to be honest like i said , it is no ones fault your father was not around. Keep looking at stereotypes while young black men are making power moves with or without your support in the face of pink men.?

  • dru and neil

    Looks that way. Honestly I do feel bad for Kim Porter, seems like she deserved better.

  • pecancandy

    Probably tired of this thread, we have beat it to death or maybe thought it was an open post.

  • Isaidit

    I think he was married at some point to all of them, even Marla Maples. I'm glad that there are people in here calling Diddy out. I'm also happy that people are calling this dysfunction out, that black people think is normal.

  • FukkFolks2018

    Puff children dont have a legal path? If your dad name is on the birth cert you can pursue what you want out of his wealth. If your dad writes you in his will you are good. No court. So Please explain this secret legal path. That Trump kids have that Puff kids dont. Im truly confused by said supposed legal path.

  • Soda

    Lol! Married & cheating...yeah, that's some kind of commitment.

  • FukkFolks2018

    I hate Puff. Done said it many a time. He is a crook and I highly suspect he is a killer. WAY before this. But this mess on marriage is just that. These kids gonna be okay. Their daddy out here claiming them. Claiming one who is not even HIS biologically.

  • FukkFolks2018

    You are not even a quarter of a century old. 23 yo. What can you possibly be tired of? Real talk

  • FukkFolks2018

    Yes. You havent lived. You graduated from high school 5 years ago. Like....this explains a lot.

  • Malcom Flex

    Funny you say this the day she passed I talked about him having to be custodial parent and ignorant stans were riding me like hell acting wacky. Had to repeat 3 times he'd never been custodial parent and now he may have to be. Kim was custodial parent the kids lived with her and visited him.

  • FukkFolks2018

    SOUNDS LIKE SHE MADE A CHOICE. But naw baby. PUFF? WAS CLEAR. it kinda dont get NO clearer than those articles? What I mean. Black women be like show me a sign. Some get a sign. That is STILL not good enough. If he said THIS public like? God knows what he told her privately. This is a sign and clearness. To most of us. We read that and be like yeah that was pretty clear. What more do you need?

  • Malcom Flex

    It's both the man needs to not bareback a chick use a damn condom. The chick needs to have a sponge or take the pill Plus dude wrapping it up.

    If an accident happens take a plan B pill or terminate fact is most blacks are pro-life hate abortion but hate kids, too, funny how that is but the males don't take care of the unplanned for kids (most) leaving the females custodial parent.

  • CaramelDrop

    Wholeheartedly agree! I tell my daughter to be smarter than I was. Treat your eggs like they are each worth a million dollars - most would be cautious who they let touch their money and wouldn’t “trick it off” on any random person. I just think we woman should be more selective and give our babies two loving parents/whole family like they deserve.

  • Harley

    True

  • Harley

    Nah you have issues that you should seek help for. Being tired or broken doesn’t give you the right to belittle and demean a whole race. You are a mirror of who you choose to be with so some internal work needs to be down because you are attracting these people in your life. I pray you can find peace in your life and not place blame on a race of men who have been devalued and underprivileged for centuries

  • Harley

    Good luck with that ???

  • Harley

    Those that feel they are ready for commitment and found their life partner ?????

  • Harley

    Not true! Stop using your experiences as a basis for a whole race! White men as a collective are failures boo! They have raped and ravaged entire nations, created systematic racism and shoot up schools and churches

  • Harley

    Nope never can one hurt my feelings I’m just letting you know that belittling black men ain’t it chief!

  • Harley

    Stats .... boo read your original comment then YOU come back! Your clearly deflecting

  • Harley

    He’s wealthy enough to hire nannies and more! I doubt it

  • Harley

    Black men been doing that! Wow have you taken an African or black studies class ? Maybe read a book! Start with “from slavery to freedom” black men been doing all that! Whether they get credit is another thing!

  • Whirl

    I agree with you. I think we are starting to see a shift in women reclaiming our time rather than solely pouring out everything into having kids early and dedicating our lives to men. Many women are having children much later in life at a point when they are far more grounded. But as someone mentioned below every woman isn’t interested in having to consult with a mate just to paint a house or go on a vacation with friends. My take on it is it’s largely related to belief systems such as religion. Imagine if I imposed an Islamic view on women and demanded they covered their head with a scarf. Do you think almost American women would like having that religious view and imposed upon them? It seems like we need to think about folk’s rights to take up a belief system or not.

  • Readytochokemothernatureout

    Andre Harrell said he chased her for like 3 years to no avail before she let her guard down. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/688c346230fc87f7c6d44d3b135a2610a90856d06338365e1fa54a591d0c7366.jpg

  • Whirl

    I respect successful women such as Shonda Rhines and Mayor Bowser who have decided to rear their children without a man. The children seem to be in a healthy environment. Your truth doesn’t have to be synonymous with the truth of others.

  • Whirl

    His children seem well adapted

  • Whirl

    I thought all his kids have his last name. My understanding is he also adopted Quincy. Feel free to correct me if I’m wrong.

  • Whirl

    Why do you need a marriage certificate to validate your social status? Why can’t we stand on our own self worth and value. When we are doing it right it speaks for itself. Words aren’t needed. Oprah- need I say more?

  • Neva RuthLess

    They are surrounded by dysfunction. Barely any fool blooded siblings just a bunch of half and step siblings. Next.

  • Neva RuthLess

    A name is one thing but what about culture? Men carry the name and women carry the culture. The fact is these children are being raised differently because they have different mothers. That is not a family unit. I will not argue about this.

  • Neva RuthLess

    Lol that is grown boo. You do know in America after 18 you’re an adult? Am I the only American or...?

  • Neva RuthLess

    Black dysfunction and poverty ain’t it chief.

  • Whirl

    I don’t see Mayor Bowser or Shonda Rhimes as “hootrats”. Rather they are women in positions of power who seem to have made the choice to focus on themselves and children. The children seem to be reared in healthy households. That is theirs right. I respect that.

  • Neva RuthLess

    I still see the dysfunction of my people. I’m tired of seeing where black people are headed which is no where.

  • Whirl

    Women can carry names. Anybody can via a court decree. For every example you point to I can point to the everyday lives of the over 50 percent of households with failed marriages.

  • Neva RuthLess

    HIV? Girrrll I’m dropping knowledge and you missing the jewels. Bottom line is monagamy would fix 85% of the Black community. What if at 18 men and women were married virgins and were under a contract to stay married unless violence etc? We would have functional homes again.

  • Cricket404

    I just hope the twins go to college. Why don't many black celebrity kids go to college?

  • Malcom Flex

    Ok and you still fail to mention male responsibility, sis. Men have to get it together. If a male is sticking his raw peen in the vagina that is a PLANNED PREGNANCY he WANTS TO GET HER PREG. What a lot of people don't like to admit is some males get women preg on purpose, not to create a child out of love but to hold her down, halt them, have a connection to her or for her resources. Or just make her suffer cause he's a punk getting a nut.

    Its common for college black girls to get knocked up by their jealous, left behind boyfriends If black males could be honest they'd admit, many knock chicks up on purpose with an evil intent, but black women get the brunt of the birth control and out of wedlock diss.

    Lastly BP need to just stop being hypocrites about pregnancy termination if you can't feed a baby don't make a baby Michael Jackson told ya that 30 years ago

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Sandra this shyt done went left field ......... smh ..... ya'lll have fun arguing bout nothing ..... love on your own kids and let that be that .... this shyt slangging is a waste of energy and will have you upset bout somebody else view point ... block that azz and keep it pushing ..... something is toxic as hell bout this post and I see it ...... be back when there is something lighter because I see the devil is busy .,.... Take care !!!!! Division is always a red flag for demonic activity .... Foh with this..... bad juju in here and folks don't even realize it smh

  • Harley

    It sure isn’t but it isn’t as bad as you make it! Have you looked at other countries?? Black Americans don’t have the poverty and dysfunction as countries like Yemen, Countries in Central America and others....

  • Harley

    Stop trolling! Plenty are college grads! Plenty of white kids arent

  • the guest

    I agreed with you and fully understood. Someone targeted me for making a similar observation. To me it’s common sense, there will be an adjustment for a 50 year old man who has never lived with or taken care of his own children full time. He is dependent on and took for granted the mothers living forever. His freedom to live as a bachelor is based on strong custodial mothers. I also think his getting back with Cassie is predictable as he is weighing his options for a stepmom. His whole world is upside down with two minor children to raise. It will not look good for his public image if a 50 year old man’s mother primarily raises his girls.

  • the guest

    If Puffy did not rescue Kim, her life would have unfolded very differently.

    Al B Sure abandoned Kim and baby Quincy.

    Kim had stopped modeling to work as a receptionist at Uptown Records to take care of herself and her son.

    She began seeing Puffy at Uptown Records behind his girlfriend and first child’s mother’s Misa’s back.

    She eventually replaced Misa as the official girlfriend.

    Puffy never married Kim, but he was also her financial savior and rock so she accepted his seeing other women not marrying her. Women only do that when they are deeply in love and/or have no other option.

  • the guest

    Thank you.

    It’s not right how he treated Kim Porter.

    Taking care of her financially does not cancel out his wrong.

    But it’s better than being wronged and on the street.

  • the guest

    Always on point.

  • the guest

    Exactly.

  • the guest

    I blocked Harley. I thought she was just targeting my comments about Puffy’s irresponsibility.

  • the guest

    ???????????????

  • Faithz

    I agree with you on that.

  • Faithz

    Not a dam thing?

  • Faithz

    Really.

  • Faithz

    Very possible, are was in somebody way
    Are someone wanted to hurt Diddy. We will never know but the possibilities are wide. And none of us know if one of his men friends is out to get him. Back in the day Diddy did many
    People in who was on his Label.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    The problem is that most black women seem to have low self-esteem and thanks to the black culture don't believe they deserve better and they don't hold black men to account.

    It's hilarious to me how black people get blamed for the dysfunction in the black community when we're not the ones breeding everywhere.

  • Faithz

    Many of them sure are sc rewed all the way up, and many of them goes both ways, and it has been said that he was ghey.

  • Faithz
  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    ff2018: Claiming one who is not even HIS biologically.

    No that just proves that Al B Sure is a POS babymaker.

    I am sure his son despises him.

  • Faithz

    Yes , and he was used to going to Kim whenever he wanted for comfort.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fz52ZqjcMzY

  • Faithz

    Tell it, aint' that the truth. This man Clive Davis???
    This ciiiiit is very suspect, and scary as all get out!!!!
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sQESdDbolWQ

  • Faithz

    Marriage isn't the foundation, Love is. ,Many try to respect each other by marrying, but then that does not always work, many affairs last longer just being great friends. But in Diddy case he is a tree jumper, and not true to anybody not even himself. If we look closely Kim, Nor Cassie has been seen on another mans arm he simply played the field on both of them, and it seem they wasn't the wiser.
    But hey i see where you are coming from!!!

  • Faithz

    Tell it Whirl just go on and tell It. And many women are weak, and many are strong.

  • Faithz

    Preach the word.

  • Faithz

    Both is the magic word, and real word.

  • Faithz

    Preach the word, and let the church say amen!!!

  • Sircaput

    Why does the write up start out good but ends up with some crazy type of mess??

  • Well$$Well$$?

    +1. All the way left. I really wish Sandra would do a new post because this one...

  • Well$$Well$$?

    Because they can probably make more money being a celebrity/celebrity's kid than they ever could with a degree.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    And people challenge wills all damn day long.
    How do you know that Puffy even has a will. He could be ignorant like Aretha and fear death so much that he refuses to create a will because it would be admitting that he's mortal.

  • Malcom Flex

    Yeh he's gonna have to man up and do the right thing, be the custodial parent. You're right he's the father it'll be bad for his image if he doesn't raise his girls. He's 50 time to grow up and ditch the party hearty molly poly lifestyle.

  • Malcom Flex

    PLEASE if my grandparents on both side of the family said they they would have never married and we wouldn't have property in the fam now. Love doesn't make a family, law does and law makes it legal.

  • Whirl

    It seems difficult for some to grasp the concept that many women are no longer seeking validation or a social standing via a marriage certificate. Black women are so focused into pouring our time into everyone else that many can’t even name their favorite things anymore yet can tell you the favorite thing of everyone else’s load they are carrying. Get married/Don’t get married just live your truth without giving others permission to project their truth upon any one individual.

  • the guest

    MISA TOLD THE TRUTH YEARS AGO:

    Fashion Stylist Misa Hylton-Brim was a special guest on Cherry Martinez?s BAN Mondays recently and dished the dirt on her new fashion company as well as role reversals in relationships. During the interview (which took place before her son Justin?s Super Sweet 16 this past weekend), Misa also spilled the beans on her relationship with Diddy and his other baby?s mother?s Kim Porter and Sarah Chapman. Check out some of the excerpts:

    Misa on her relationship with Diddy?s other baby?s mothers?Sarah is really sweet but Sarah and Kim don?t get along. I get along with everyone. With both of them. Kim and I go back for years now. We were friends at one point. I was like ?you wanted him, you got him now baby?. So she?s gotta go through all the bs I had to go through back in the day.

    Sarah has been around as long as Kim, alot of people don?t know that. Puffy was cheating on me with both of them. This is over 15-16 years ago so we?ve all been around a long time. They are like my sister-wives. I try to keep everything good and we want Kim to accept Chance but she?s not ready yet???but I accepted Christian.

    On Diddy?s child support
    The money is relative to him. People say ?oh it doesn?t take that much?, you don?t know how much tuition is. You don?t know what the lifestyle is everyday. Our children (Thank God!!!) are able to have different extracurricular activities, they have tutors, they have programs that they are in. They have to have security which is very expensive on a weekly basis. There are alot of things that people don?t take in consideration that this money goes to. We don?t sit and get a check and throw it up in the air and say ?yea what am I going to do with this today?.

    What wasn?t going to happen to me before I went to court, is because I?m not with you or sleeping with you, ?Kim?s son is not going to get more than my son because of that?. That was some b*tchassness. Because if you could come and stay here and pop in and out when you wanted to then it wouldn?t be a problem. So you are not going to put me at a disadvantage because we are really broken up and I?ve moved on.

    On whether she thinks Diddy is bitter over their break up
    Yes, he still is bitter. It?s like can I live. I have love for him and he?s my family and I?m going to always support him and have his back. But, when you can have everything sometimes and you can?t have that one little thing, you are not use to that. That?s so over. I?m not saying he?s actively trying to pursue me but I get a hard time sometime. It?s like what?s the problem, you?d think I?d be the one acting like that. I stay out of your way.

  • Malcom Flex

    Damn! Harsh but true.

  • Malcom Flex

    LOL

  • Malcom Flex

    Naw this thread is ENLIGHTENING! we're talking about a closeted topic: what happens to black out of wedlock minor kids when mama passes on!!

  • Logan Roberts

    You must be new here?

  • Malcom Flex

    Dats called LIP SERVICE. If she was his black queen his black azz would have married her plain and simple.

  • Malcom Flex

    Yup you know Hollywood folks shave a year or 3 off!

  • pecancandy

    Seems like a very complex situation with a lot of moving parts, I hope everyone involved and affected gets what they need and deserve. I don’t think anything is wrong with healthy debate. Happy Monday Rose Garden, I am off for the entire week.

  • Phillybruh

    You sound like your laying up with some white man and he has explained the world to you.

  • Kimocha

    Yea I read this the other day too... I do believe that Kim was ALWAYS there for Diddy The Dog no matter what or who he is with... I believe she STILL could've been sleeping with him until her death too.... She was just that type of woman for him...

  • Keyster29

    I remember that interview! Misa spilt all the tea during that chat?

  • Faithz

    I hear you, marriage is good, but not all marriages work out. I am for marriage, but if not marriage show some dam respect for your baby mama's, that you bump off and on all the time, and tell each of them you love them, when you don't have a %&&*^ clue what Love really is. Love don't always last either. I am for Marriage, and marriage is best in the eyes of God, and family. But something is wrong with the picture if you are always ready to bed hop, but not go the alter with three are more baby mamas and got children by these women.
    PS
    Diddy is a tree jumper, and want to be a player to both women and men that is why he has never said I do, let him explain that to his daughters , and son's. And I too am proud , and happy that Granny, grampa are married!!!

  • Vonn

    I hope you enjoy your time off.

  • iWasteTime

    If Cassie wasn't there I'd side eye it.

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    Is it true that Kim was in the mix of writing a book due out in 2019 and that 2 laptops are now missing?

  • iWasteTime

    lmao

  • oshh16

    As do I

  • guest

    ME TOO.

  • Soda

    Too many flies on the walls here reporting what they "know." There's one who apparently never sleeps, even replies to her own comments.

  • Toppsey Krets

    We keep loosing people to drugs, she needed intensive rehab and therapy, long term. The children will suffer deeply because she never got the help she truly needed.She tried Holistic cleansing ,and natural therapy. The entertainment world is so vain and shallow, every one just ignored it, didnt want to speak on it, just like right now.

    https://www.ibtimes.com/kim-porter-cocaine-use-nanny-dawn-grago-accuses-pdiddys-ex-girlfriend-exposing-daughters-drugs.

    04/11/2013.
    "Kim Porter, an ex-girlfriend of rap mogul P.Diddy, is being accused of using drugs around their twin daughters.

    Porter’s former nanny Dawn Drago worked for her from 2011 to 2012. TMZ obtained a copy of the lawsuit filed by Drago, which also states that twins Jessie and D’ Lilah, who are 6-years-old, were covered in ‘white powder’ once when she drove them to school.

    Jessie and D’Lilah got into "a bag containing the powder, along with clear capsules, filled with another powdery substance in a bag in the back seat."

    Porter later claimed it was medicine when she was confronted by the nanny, who also says that she found cocaine in the house. "

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    Crazy as a bed bug!!! You see his eyes?! How can anyone NOT know he was 'touched' in the head?

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    OK, so just go marry a white man and be happy. You don't need to be downing black men.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    ignant or ignorant...or both?

  • Satin Panther

    I think that Diddy didn't wife up Kim Porter was simply bcuz she was brown skinned and the industry pressured him into having a light skinned woman on his arm which is why he kept Cassie around. Hollywood is making sure all the black men in entertainment end up with white or light skin women. In an interview Dawn said that when they were in the group Dirty Money, Jimmy Iovine and the record label asked Diddy why he didn't have light skin girls in his group and basically called them black and ugly to their damn face. So color I believe had a lot to do with the fact he never ended up with Kim.

  • chaisun

    It’s okay. I’ll stay put. Thanks for the suggestion though. ????

  • Toni Toni Toni

    This ish right here. Woo Chile. ALl the way outta da closet. Get Likka in this Nikka and he is ALL out front street. He had ninjas in their mad nervous sahn. HAHAH!

  • free

    i think he married them all. ivana, marla and melania.

  • Kimocha

    Yea... I also was thinking of drugs because a lot of the pics I've been seeing of her lately looks like she could've been on something... Plus it takes drugs to deal with all of Diddy Dogs arrogance... narcissism... and doggish ways with a smile on your face for years and years... I knew with all that she put up with she had to be on something... Smdh

  • Karen Brady

    Happy Monday and enjoy your holiday break!

  • Isaidit

    I've watched about two or three documentaries on him. Not sure how so many were easily misled.

  • Karen Brady

    :-)

  • free

    lolol wellllll.... she never moved on like misa and sarah. hell, i don't see sarah with no dude either.

  • free

    did al b. abandon quincy or did he go broke like so many others and simply could not provide the same lifestyle?

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    It doesn't matter. Money isn't everything about being a parent/father.
    That's such a shallow definition of parenthood.

  • Cricket404

    It's for the education, not for a job.

  • Cricket404

    Plenty aren't as well.

  • free

    fugggg diddy. kim porter wasn't known for nothing but being a long-suffering baby mama and dragged to the gawds by every blog in existence because of his damn near monthly shenanigans. she died clinging to his damn coat tail. now i have to put half the blame on her because i don't believe he lied to her or led her on so he is not completely at fault for this. she fucked over misa, got fucked over with j-lo, had her time with him with christian, but then in-vitroed them twins KNOWING her time was up because he had moved on with sara. they were yes, they were good friends because he had 3 good reasons to be good friends, but he can stop laying on the BS.

  • FukkFolks2018

    Love cant be had between step and half sibs? Yall a trip

  • FukkFolks2018

    Every single one.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    As women we want so desperately to believe it when a guy[notice I didn't say men] says, "I LOVE YOU".
    It's about time we accepted the fact that guys will lie repeatedly to get s3x. He can look you d3ad in the eyes too!

    If it's s3x you both want then at least be honest about your intentions. No crying when you get pregnant, you get herps and he leaves. It was in the fine print of the contract...in invisible ink.

    Ladies, I think we may have to be more cautious, think hard and then only release our emotions After he has had a chance to earn them.
    He is not in a relationship with you if you don't have a ring and a wedding date set.
    P.S. Keep in mind that I also know a guy who cheated on his wedding day.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    What happened to the maid he got pregnant? Anybody know?

  • FukkFolks2018

    So now he is responsible for another man walking away? Which is more important. A dad walking away or a man stepping up bc another man didnt. Stop making it about anything other than the kid. Y'all so bitter, and yes men can be bitter...yall are consumed by other folks faults vs the joys the second person holds

  • free

    that story came and went; i forgot about that! i think if there was something there, we would have found out but maybe the doorman got paid to STFU.

  • Karen Brady

    lol

  • Karen Brady

    LOL

  • Karen Brady

    LOL :-)

  • Karen Brady

    *HOLLERED!*

  • sjames

    i definitely have soul ties with my 2 best friends. we sooooo connected in so many ways it's unreal. my wife is my soulmate in that she provides the perfect balance to who i am as a person. literally the calm to my raging seas. soul ties comes in many diff forms so i'm glad you mentioned that

  • dru and neil

    I’ve learned over the years, that it really truly is that simple, if a man really wants you he will do what it takes to be with you.

  • dru and neil

    Yes I noticed that...

  • ClaireHuxtable

    $35,000. For Trump, I'd need $350,000 to STFU.
    Wonder if that's considered as taxable income?

  • free

    THAT'S ALL???? trump is so bad overall that nobody cares about an outside baby. plus i guess everybody knows that melania hates him so it's not going to devastate the family.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    I guess he felt that a doorman would be impressed with that much money. That's still chump change if you have Trump by the b@lls.

    L0l! Yeah she really does hate him. Everybody can see it! Probably even Barron. All his kids know their dad is slime, but they love that money.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    And that person is blocked .... toxic ,......

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    yeah, it's a sad turn of events. and i'm not judging his victims for not knowing. i just thought he was particularly easy to 'spot' - not all of them are though, so i get that he was able to fool SOME. i think these cult leaders have taught us that it's ALWAYS a bad idea to take up with anyone who has an obvious god complex.

  • Isaidit

    I think people are much more aware, than they were back then.

  • Faithz

    ???

  • Faithz

    Yes he sure did, and with many of these entertainers, there's somebody who know exactly what is going on.

  • LYRICS

    ????

  • Applebootay

    WOW! I never heard this story...

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!
  • Harley

    But many many do and it’s a choice. MANY successful people did it go to college. Instead of student loans they chose business and home loans and are self sufficient

  • Harley

    And it’s not as rampant as you are making it! Sitting here belittling black men ain’t solving no problems and ain’t it either. You already said you were bitter and jaded

  • Neva RuthLess

    You just refuse to understand. Stop being emotional. This isn’t about love. This about order structure bloodline and legacy, something black people can’t grasp.

  • Neva RuthLess

    That’s not the case at all.

  • Applebootay

    Broke azz ninjas do that too..so?

  • Applebootay

    Exactly! All 5 of us have different fathers except the last two. I'm the 3rd oldest and my Dad(the biological of the last 2) married my mom when she was pregnant with me and we're all stair steps apart so he became All of our Dad. We NEVER ONCE referred to ourselves as half brothers and sisters, never even heard the word used in our household and quite honestly I don't think we thought when we did hear it much later in life that we ever considered ourselves half, we ALL have the same Mother...

  • Applebootay

    Its a narrow minded ideology and let them have that.

  • Isaidit

    Facts!

  • Applebootay

    ALL OF THEE ABOVE.

  • FukkFolks2018

    I have half sibs on both sides. Legally my dad was all of our dad tho. Said this last night. Folks making this hard. Applaud the men who step up. My father in law stepped up too. MIL came with 3 kids. He married her. Had my ex husband and 3 more. He is legally all of their dad and was married to MIL 43 years until she died 2 years ago. Its men out here taking on kids that dont even belong to them. Willingly. Legally. They still getting dragged. This is dumb.

  • Neva RuthLess

    WHICH is why African American culture needs to change.

  • CaramelDrop

    Before I reply, what do you mean by “your truth”? “Your” as in generally, or “your” as in me - specifically? If you’re mentioning:

    Generally- you’re right NO ONES truth is synonymous with others.

    Me Specifically: BS! Have you not heard of “mamas baby, daddy’s maybe”? Doesn’t matter how much blame or child support you put on the man - we woman still have to bear the responsibility of raising the child. Therefore, don’t get caught up if you aren’t willing to take the chance if the father leaving you stuck taking care of his kid. That is THE TRUTH NO MATTER YOUR WALK IN LIFE. You prove my point with your references because these woman chose this responsibility Regardless what the man does or doesn’t do, we Are Synonymous in that particular way because I’m a firm believer in taking care of WHAT IS YOURS, regardless.

  • CaramelDrop

    The reason I didn’t mention the mans responsibility is because at the end of the day, a woman’s only options if the man chooses to be an absentee parent is:
    ? raise the kid in your own
    ? beg/petition the child for child support
    Unfortunately, we can’t MAKE A make be a active parent, especially in a relationship with no commitment. With all due respect Malcom, fucc shifting blame. We women must Step up to the plate and love our womb enough to not let these males make OUR EGGS into a statistic. A nicca can’t make us open our legs - we chose to.
    Not absolving the males at all, just challenging the women to care more about ourselves than a ?
    ?????

  • CaramelDrop

    “Ladies, I think we may have to be more cautious, think hard and then only release our emotions After he has had a chance to earn them. “
    ———————————————————-
    Simple as that!

  • Toppsey Krets

    Its was made quiet and burried really quickly. Remember no one knew Micheal Jackson was abusing all types of medications, even though he had several public incidents, the same with Prince. Having a private doctor with no affilation to any hospital a" celeb doctor" that comes to your home and travels with you helps keep your secrets "SECRET".

  • A D N

    Why are you ready to debate the issue of marriage? Marriage whether you personally agree with it or not is a norm to a commitment. And for your additional information I personally don't believe that marriage is the only form of commitment.

  • A D N

    I certainly understand. I am one of them. Just wondering if that was her position because Puffy publicly voiced his thoughts on marriage.

  • A D N

    I am sure she expressed it many times. He knows.

  • A D N

    That is a mean remark.

  • Coy little wink

    I'm not debating you...just asking. If you really cared enough to research there are reports that she married Al b sure. All the speculation is ridiculous after she is gone...

  • A D N

    Why are people so Offended by the question I asked? Isn't that a normal question?

  • A D N

    True and too many females sign on and get left with the responsibility of rearing children alone.

  • A D N

    Thanks. I was curious about her business lol. Someone else replied she married Al B Sure!

  • bemetoo

    Where you get this ?? from??

  • Lorenzo Chaps

    thanks for the reference.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    That wasn't what I said.

    You're just deflecting and changing the subject.

  • Peace

    Well whom would you suggest she married? Which baby daddy? Or a same sex partner? You dont know enough about her personal life to ask that. Of course you can. This lady is gone. Some women after divorce or a relationship doesnt work out opt to co parent for life. Marriage is not that important as lomg as they are happy.

  • Harley

    She left him after he cheated several times

  • Fodderwing

    NaCL(sodium chloride), in conjunction with Ca (calcium) and K (Potassium), are the neccessary molecules needed for ensuring our cellular structure remains hydrated. If there is too much NaCL, we will become dehydrated. This is bc there is a build up of NaCL molecules which steal electrons from our cells. That causes dehydration. However, if we balance the NaCL with a touch of K (Potassium) and a touch of Ca (Calcium) this ensures that the electron sharing is balanced. It’s too in-depth for me to go into but look up Sodium-Potassium ion channels.

  • Fodderwing

    You know she’s proud of you.

  • parisjok

    when these type of driven professional females adopt kids they spend little time with them because of their work demands

  • parisjok

    he married all

  • Meme

    Huuuh *clutches pearls* i thought we were buddies? But ok then since were there same goes to you !

  • Judge Mental Will

    We are please don't judge me, im sorry. I seriously had a fukced day that day. Traumatized things.. ??

  • A D N

    My question wasn't angled by my opinion on marriage. But your response is. I asked because I was curious if she just wasn't interested in marriage (as I am not also). See how your misinterpretation and offensive nature to the ideal of marriage led to your response? That's why I asked you why is the term or conversation about marriage so offensive to you? I didn't approach the question in a manner of what I thought about marriage one way or another. Besides aren't we on a blog? Isn't this a topic on Kim and Puff and Cassie? That's why I asked about her interest in marriage.

  • Meme

    Its all love bruv ??

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    I saw the news when it happened. I'll never forget the news video footage of the deceased babies. ?

  • dcruz87

    You literally just commented about her but okayy girll

  • Lisa Walker