Kim Porter, Sean Combs

Sean Combs is reportedly "too distraught" to give the eulogy for ex-girlfriend Kim Porter, who died suddenly of a cardiac arrest last week at age 47.

Porter is the mother of three of Combs's 5 children. She was found dead in her bed at her Toluca Lake, Calif. mansion on Nov. 15. An autopsy was inconclusive and the coroner is awaiting toxicology results before determining the cause of death.

Porter's body was flown to her hometown of Columbus, Georgia in preparation for her star-studded funeral on Saturday.

Porter will be laid to rest at Evergreen Memorial Park Cemetery on St. Marys Road. She will be interred next to her mother, Sarah Porter, who died of cancer in 2014.

According to PEOPLE, Combs is scheduled to give the eulogy, but sources say he may be too broken up to speak. Singer Faith Evans will perform at the funeral which is closed to the public.

Pastor TD Jakes will officiate the service and give the eulogy.

Kim Porter, Sean Combs

Even though Combs has been seen out and about with his longtime girlfriend Cassie Ventura -- whom Porter despised -- a source tells PEOPLE that Combs is too shaken to give Porter's eulogy.

"This is the most awful, sad and unreal situation for him. It's a nightmare," the source told PEOPLE."He is very much struggling. He isn't sleeping."

The source said Combs had a "very special relationship" with Porter, who lived in Atlanta for many years and sent her sons to private schools in Buckhead, an affluent neighborhood in northern Atlanta.

"He always had a very special relationship with Kim. Despite not being together romantically, he loved Kim. It was really true love and he is hurting badly right now," the source said.

In reality, Porter and Combs had a bitter, love-hate relationship. He used his money and his vast influence to control the women in his life and to stifle their creativity.

Three Brown Girls

When Porter, center, and her best friend, Eboni Elektra, left, formed The Three Brown Girls marketing firm with close friend Nicole Johnson, right, in the mid-2000s, the ladies held their launch party at Combs's Justin's restaurant in Buckhead.

Three Brown Girls

The Three Brown Girls had planned to hold a weekly music industry night at Combs's restaurant, but he shut the event down after just a few months.

Phillana Williams, Kim Porter

Here Kim, right, croons a song to Phillana Williams during the Three Brown Girls' music industry night.

Sarah Chapman

When Combs's other baby mama, Sarah Chapman (pictured), befriended an Atlanta blogger, Combs flew into a rage and threatened her until she broke off her friendship with the blogger.

Porter's 4 children: Quincy Brown, 27, Christian Combs, 20, and 11-year-old twins D'Lila Star and Jessie James will attend their mother's funeral with Combs.

Columbus native Dallas Austin, a Grammy-award winning songwriter and producer who went to high school with Porter, will also be in attendance at her funeral on Saturday.

Photos by Mark Mainz/Getty Images, Sandra Rose/Sandrarose.com

  • WhoKnew

    I'm sure it would be very difficult for him to eulogize her after the way he treated her. The homegoing service will probably be very nice though. I just pray the girls will be okay.

  • Chuck

    Diddy’s other daughter was left off. Seems to be intentional.

  • Marlika

    His grieving is all his guilt.

  • davine puddin

    I hope he just dont want to sit there like grandpuba and make it all about him and his grief. She do have a whole mother and fathers family

  • Soda

    Left off? It mentions that Combs has 5 Kids, then gives the names of Porter's kids.

  • tintin

    I wonder why Kim despised Cassie

  • Joy King

    “This is the most awful, sad and unreal situation for him. It’s a nightmare.” This part I’m sure is true.

    Any of us would feel this way when someone dies so unexpectedly. The rest of this writeup is speculation and unnecessary dragging. Everyone has freedom of choice. Stop putting all the bad that happened in these relationships on Puff. All parties are/were grown. Let Kim RIP. Whatever happened won’t bring their kid’s mother back.

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    Already about his dayum grief! FOH... And I guess his reuniting with Cassie a few days BEFORE her death is suppose to make him look like he is DOING THE RIGHT THING... This POS need to just go AWAY I'm such of him!! ;^z

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    Everyone seemed to have genuinely liked and respected this woman.

  • okiseethisthatdumbshit

    that nicca a distraught ly

  • okiseethisthatdumbshit

    i aint kno dat

  • okiseethisthatdumbshit

    he is a narrcissit errthang is about him and his grief even dis bullsht article

  • what?why

    Drama Queen

  • Chapter29Chick

    Yea he is grieving bec he has self guilt for how he treated her, he broke the same heart that killed her, but im sure menz were checking for her so she was probably like ok just keep sending those checks for these children, moving along boo we cool.

  • FukkFolks2018

    I know at first her funeral was supposed to be public, but now I see it has been changed to being private. Continued prayers for her family, friends and loved ones, especially her children during this difficult time.

  • hi-liter

    When Combs's other baby mama, Sarah Chapman (pictured), befriended an Atlanta blogger, Combs flew into a rage and threatened her until she broke off her friendship with the blogger.
    ___________________________
    Would that ATL blogger be you Sandra?

  • Chaseboogie The Prince

    LOL!!!

  • Bonita

    Because all the while Kim was embracing her as family due to her being a Bad Boy artist, she learned that she was sleeping with her man the whole time. I would despise her and him. But at the same time, that was Kim's karma for sleeping with Diddy behind Misa's (Justin's mom) back, even though her and Misa were friends.

  • KcoolMuziq

    Kim looks different in every pic to me.

  • KB

    Why can’t the story just be about him and how he is dealing with her death? Why bring up all of the other information in regards to the women. Sometimes, we can be our own worst enemy.

  • KB

    Right..

  • KB

    Thank you. I have been saying the same thing. And we don’t know about Kim’s private life, she could have dated someone. She chose to keep some things out of the public eye and do what was best for her children. All of this speculation is so unnecessary.

  • MistaO

    Drugs are bad..

  • Well$$Well$$?

    Inquiring minds want to know? ?

  • Well$$Well$$?

    @SandraRose Diddy didn't want Sarah Chapman to be friends with you? If so that's interesting....

  • supastar

    right!

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    A bunch of low-self esteem Negroes.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    "respected"
    Everyone except Diddy. I'm sure he cared about her a great deal, but couldn't/wouldn't stop cheating! I imagine that he's pretty grief stricken, but wonder how much of that could be regret.
    Like most of us, he probably never imagined in 1 million years that their story would end this way.

    I send my deepest condolences to her children and family...especially her young girls.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Very true, but I hope it may serve as a message that we each should treat our relationships/partners with as much kindness as possible. We just don't know what day will be the last day.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    I can certainly understand him not being able to do it. This may be a task he wants to pass off to someone else. Perhaps he can express his thoughts in writing inside the program. I don't think anyone would mind if he takes a backseat and allows her to have all the attention.

  • Renee26

    He didn't want his business all over the blog

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Close friends and family instead of strangers, gawkers and photographers would probably be best for the kids now. You know how things can get outta hand when a bunch of us get together.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    I hope it's both Thoughtful and Tasteful! Classy and not a spectacle.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    He will give the eulogy. Even in death he won't let one of his women get more attention than him.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    He will give the eulogy. Even in death he won't let one of his women get more attention than him.

  • Enoughsaid2020

    Hopefully he gets therapy, because grieving is a challenge.

  • Simone

    He's not doing the eulogy because he didn't, doesn't and never will love her. He never made her anything more than a glorified baby mother (like all the others) because he doesn't respect or love her. He won't do the eulogy because family and friends will see through his fake performance. He loved the one woman who never loved him: Jennifer Lopez. He only dates Cassie cause she looks like a younger J-Lo.

  • WhoKnew

    I agree. Drugs can be a person's worst enemy. But do you say that because you've heard that was the cause of her death?

  • WhoKnew

    Right.

  • E-VannaRootsAllEvil

    Got that right

  • Patricia

    awwww poor him...

  • Patricia

    say it!

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Sean is gonna be like James Brown singing "Please, please...don't go" You remember when they put the cape on James and he gets up and throws it off?

    Seriously, I hope this woman's Homegoing is dignified and Not a show.

  • the guest

    While many people are impressed with Diddy's financial care of Kim in life, I felt it necessary and fair to her memory to express that he used money to control his children's mothers and actually preferred them under his heel. Kim was financially privileged but she was emotionally abused and I believe functionally brokenhearted.

    Misa was the only one to move on from him.

  • tintin

    oh so Kim was a homewrecker too???
    ok didn't know that.

  • the guest

    I know. He is something else.

  • the guest

    Exactly.

    Why is he doing the Eulogy? Why not a relative or schoolteacher that knew her as child and growing up? Why not one of her many dear friends? He was not her husband. I'm serious, was he selected to do the eulogy because he's famous and paying for the funeral?

  • VanillaCaramel2shotsExpresso

    I know that people may wonder why Aunt Sandy says some of the things she does in this post , truth is many of us thought it! Truth is Kim said herself she left him when he was out of town and took everything with her she wanted . She knew he would have tried to stop her . She was still friends with Eboni and her will still great friends and it looks like they were still doing business together according to Eboni’s Twitter feed. I don’t think Puff would ever let any of the children reach his level of success. It’s seems like a form of control. The woman may feel like she is control but , with him I don’t think so.

  • the guest

    Speak!!!!

  • VanillaCaramel2shotsExpresso

    Selected himself....

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    I think Diddy's feeling that gult, because he knows he didnt treat Kim Porter like she deserved. That's a tough lesson for him. Better to treat people right when they're here, so you wont be filled will guilt and regret when they're gone.

  • the guest

    Ms. Sandra, Years ago her former nanny spoke publicly of Kim Porter's drug use. She denied it, said the nanny was lying. I only bring this up not as gossip and certainly not to disparage a true lady and loving mother.

    I think she self medicated to manage the loneliness and isolation she lived with from devoting herself to man who took care of her but never devoted himself to her.

  • dontgetblocked

    Everyone loves and respects the dead. She had some skeletons in her closet like how she landed Diddy in the first place.

  • the guest

    I hope Diddy didn't make promises to Kim when he and Cassie recently broke up just to turn around and go back to Cassie. I believe Diddy always accessed Kim because she was weak for him. That level of emotional toying could destroy a woman.

  • dontgetblocked

    I think we're getting carried away. Why would she have a public funeral? She's not Aretha Franklin. She's a baby mama of a celebrity. It is what it is! I feel for her family but people die everyday. She lived the life she chose...money and fame by association. I believe she was abused by Diddy, but she had the resources to remove herself from the situation. I hope she rests in peace, but I'm more concerned about the women who are still in abusive situations and have no help. They have to leave everything and go to a shelter to escape. Let's concentrate on those we can still help.

  • Stl_heat

    Right! Wasnt tripping off her when she was alive now he all broken up ?. Thats why you should treat people accordingly daily so if the forsaken does happen your heart is good.

  • RealATLPeach36

    He always had a very special relationship with Kim. Despite not being together romantically, he loved Kim. It was true love, and he is hurting badly right now," the source said

    *********************************************************************

    He did not love her in CONTROLLED her like he CONTRL Sarah. He lets no one be happy, and the only way you can be happy is to have your cash, that's why Jennifer got the hell on and did not look back and as PUNK ASS LITERALLY.

  • RealATLPeach36

    Jlo was able to move on. You have to have your own money. He will never date a woman or man that match his fly, because he cannot control them.

  • RealATLPeach36

    He's paying and he has to dictate....

  • RealATLPeach36

    Yes, I quielty think or wonder if she died of a broken heart and drug overdose. I think that we will never know until one of those kids speak out...shit I'll be to old to give a damn by then LOL

  • RealATLPeach36

    I wonder what is taken so long for his Karma. Diddy is a Dirty DIRTY negro

  • Reina1718

    Puffy isnt the only one who lost her. Forget his suffering! She has children & another childs father.

  • RealATLPeach36

    it was Sandy, back in the day Sandy post Sarah every samn day it seem like....

  • Reina1718

    & even they left his Narcissit a$$

  • Reina1718

    Please he’s been posting jokes

  • Reina1718

    Exactly! He wants all the shine & all the sympathy...all i hear is poor puffy & no one mentioning her children who were always with her! She died knowing cassie was pregnant & was about to join this “blended” family.

  • Bashi22

    Such a sad ? story Kim Porter died leaving her children behind.

  • Reina1718

    Diddy is goin to make a song out of this or show just to be seen again in a good light

  • Bashi22

    Why TD Jake the commercial pastor need to eulogized. No one in Kim family or close family friends cannot do it. Please don’t come at me about TD Jakes because your community is still in shambles while he and his children living flourishing life style having baby out of wedlock (like Mary in the bible). Wearing designer labels and having stylists ect.

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    I DESPISE TD Fakes... I DESPISE CREFLO DOLLAR...I Could give not one fawk about these WHITE pastors.. Im taliking about about the black ones right now.. SOOOO PLEASE spare me "the white people do it to commentary"

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    CHILE PUFF IS A THE PROBLEM!!! BYE!!! I 'ont care WHAT YOU YOU SAY!

  • Ryan

    Guilty conscience.

  • DaughterOfaQueen

    Heeey Sandra, were you the blogger in question?

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    And beleive BEYONCE will end up dead before she could EVER leave Jay! and YES I bought her up and even tho she has her own money...the money is her depression! Some of yall will ge this and some of yall will still chase the money!

  • Bashi22

    Exactly the need to give money for entrepreneurs in the community. Stop ? this book ? selling about the same thing over and over again

  • Diane

    "He used his money and his vast influence to control the women in his life and to stifle their creativity" but yet Jennifer Lopez said that she learned everything about the business from him. Hmm

  • hi-liter

    I figured so.

  • Bonita

    Yep.

  • Bonita

    lol

  • Bonita

    "Why is he doing the Eulogy?"
    The one who pays everybody's bills is the one who calls all the shots when it comes to Diddy. He's running that show like he was her mama and daddy. Aint nobody gettin a say so.

  • Bonita

    Yeah, there is a resemblance there. I never noticed that until u brought it up.

  • bemetoo

    I said the same thing

  • Bonita

    Yeah right! Diddy threatened Jackie Long after he caught wind of his friendship with Kim. You never saw pics with her hanging out with Jackie anymore after that.

  • Nina Ross

    Auntie is it true Sarah Chapman was Tupac’s girl back in the early 90’s??

  • leapyearpisces

    I AGREE!!! Where in the HELL have you been? LOL
    While, I, like most of us, seek fianacial freedom, how much money does one need to aquire where you are FREE, opposed to no longer free, and are a slave to the money???? Many people get mad with with me, and have called me ignorant (and I am ANYTHING BUT ignorant ), when I say miss me with that generational wealth crap. I've realized that generational wealth spill is crap people tell themselves to rationalize being greedy, and to rationalize doing whatever it takes to become rich or wealthy. The way I look at it, if I make it where my great grands are can be trust fund babies, if they choose, (which would be yuck!, if they didn't want anything else for themselves ), then the rest of my lineage is on their MUTHAFUGGIN OWN!!!! SORRY NOT SORRY!!! How much money does one need? ESPECIALLY if you are not going to be a philanthropist, and REALLY make a difference. I have been blessed with a great career, with a great job, but my boss is not the nicest. Period, but when the whole billion dollar lottery thing happened, people looked at me like I was crazy when I said, I would rather deal with my mean ass boss than to win. The thought of suddenly being in possession of that amount of money without earning (or earning it) makes me nauseous on the stomach, and some people dont get it. Do I want to be poor scrambling???? He'll no. Do I want to and WILL be a multimillionaire one day???? Hell yes!!!! But what I am saying, is that I DO NOT WANT, NOR DO I DESIRE more money than I can EFFECTIVELY, and productively manage. People don't understand, being rich and wealthy are full-time jobs within themselves, and it cause to miss out on ALL THE THINGS in life, which caused you to want to be rich or wealthy in the first place!

  • cleopatra04

    Too distraught to give the eulogy and can't sleep yet does not have the sense to stay out of the public eye with Cassie so that we can halfway believe that he's all torn up over Kim's death. Who is this source stating how distraught he is, his publicist? People are not stupid and most do not believe that their relationship was all peaches and cream. What you allow to happen to you in your youth would never happen once you reach grown woman status. Only your dog will love you unconditionally. People don't forget when you mistreat them. I find it very hard to believe that Kim had this loving relationship with that man. I hope she's resting peacefully because the stench from the smell of rats would probably gag her.

  • dru and neil

    When was that said? Was she not in the business and famous in her own right prior to their relationship? I wonder why she would say something like that.

  • Ni Ni

    You would think they would get a pastor who actually knew her to do the eulogy instead of getting a celebrity pastor. Then again, i guess it could be possible she had a relationship with T.D. Jakes.
    Sean just needs to sit on down in the pew and mourn like everyone else. Let her family handle the ceremony.

  • dru and neil

    Not only should he NOT do the eulogy, he shouldn’t even be in the obituary program because they are not related! My parents were married for a total of 27 years, but divorced. Because of that, my father was nowhere in the program because it doesn’t work like that. He’s no longer a relative! No matter how long they were together, they were no longer bound by marriage therefore he was not mentioned.

  • dru and neil

    I agree, and I don’t feel sorry for him.

  • NaeNay

    He getting on my nerves.

    He needs to go sit down somewhere and stay out the spotlight. Stop posting on social media and grieve privately with the kids.

  • TheWildChild

    Yeah ? like when he took her out for a yacht ride and the guilt of returning Kim with a broken nose, just some time before the death of their dear friend, Shakir Stewart.

  • Faithz

    Preach, and I say Preach!!!!

  • Faithz

    Could not have stated it better, thank you!!

  • Faithz

    Nothing but the truth, and nothing but the truth.

  • Faithz

    Like somebody else said he need to sit his as down, and support the Children, because Kim has did it their entire lifer, while their Famous, Rich dad Now he can see after the children, while Kim rest, and relax for Eternity!!!!
    PS
    Deep down I feel Kim Porter died with a broken heart.

  • Faithz

    This is so true!

  • Faithz

    Cassie In Movie..
    The Perfect Match...
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kEncP7eDflo

  • Crazy tee

    I’m still trying to figure out how a “healthy” woman die of pneumonia...two weeks of symptoms and not getting better...?....I can promise you that cause of death is going to disappear never to be heard of again...

  • http://www.missjhaneuniverse.com Monday

    Jennifer saw the danger and she just left him for Tommy Mottolla whom she had fewd with Mariah Carey.

  • the guest

    That’s what I’ve been asking. No childhood friend? No close friend? Schoolteacher? Aunt? Uncle? Why Diddy? He was not her husband.

  • http://www.missjhaneuniverse.com Monday

    I wonder if Misa Hylton will also be present in front with Diddy. If I were Cassie per respect I would stay away from the funeral.

    I know it is ages ago but I have a weird feeling Khloe Kardashian might be present there.. I still wonder what was the criptic message of the pic she took with Diddy and Cassie saying "I will never tell" meant. She also poste a pic of Diddy spooning Montana...

    R.I.P to Kim, I do not know her but I hope she will get her peaceful funeral.

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    Chile misa and lil Kim are with the two boys Quincy and Christian posting and smiling and stuff on IG. It’s just all weird to me I expect this type of behavior from puffy but from the others I’m just perplexed ?

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    But he carrying on like he was and like they were in a current relationship! The pictures he had up at that memorial mostly were of him and her I questioned why he even had pictures of him and her up maybe one family pic with him her and the kids but he had pics up like they were together.

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    ?? I was going to post that but I had a feeling someone already did so I continued to scroll down and look at god! I was already posted

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    YOu like he did with the tribute song with faith to Biggie ?umm hmm

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    Too late they got td jakes on board faith sanging this finna be a show show

  • Jussjess25

    Yea, usually pneumonia is the sickeness that follows something.

  • Jussjess25

    Its called stages of grieve. Utter sadness, crying and others emotions are not the first to present itself. Sometimes denial happens first

  • leapyearpisces

    Jennifer and Puff are the same....why you think he STILL yearns for her until this day???? So to try to exonerate him as the low vibrating piece of crapaper that he us by using her as a an arguement does not make sense, because those two are the same. This last relationship I was in, has taught me that METAPHORICALLY, maybe some of us are rabbits while others are snakes, and I'm actually going to sat that one is not better than the other, but no matter how sweet and charming the snake may seem, rabbits need to recognize it's still a snake, that does snake shat!!!! Same with the snake!!!! No matter how edgy, different intriguing that rabbit may seem, it's still a little ole soft, cuddly rabbit that you will soon TIRE of its softness, ando kindness. Jennifer Lopez learned, THRIVED, and then dipped, because she was learning from her FELLOW species....I'm sure there are a couple of things a copperhead snake can teach a rattlesnake, and vice-versa. I doubt there is very much a grizzley bear can learn from a jellyfish, and vice-versa?

  • Y’all Jealous Cuz I’m Prudy

    Her "tell all" book was about to come out. That's all I'm honing to say about that.

  • Y’all Jealous Cuz I’m Prudy

    You're first sentence says it all honey. The rest is confirmation of the truth. I believe she was about to spill all the h0t beans about his double lifestyle. They were cordial for the kids but I think he broke her heart one too many times, for her to truly still love him. A woman scorned will fvck your life up with the truth. He knew that.

  • EyeEmJai

    I am not understanding why some people disbelieve seemingly "healthy" people don't or won't die from having pneumonia. It can be fatal, especially if it isn't treated properly.

    According to the previous posts, she was being treated with vitamins and saline (I believe) only. Neither are ANTIBIOTICS to treat pneumonia. Also, having the house medical doctor give vitamins suggest to me that, possibly, she had low Vitamin C, which will increase one's chances in getting pneumonia. Being unaware that you have low Vitamin levels, such as Vitamin C, may not reflect an appearance of being unhealthy. Similarly, we don't know if she had prior respiratory conditions such as asthma; was a smoker or exposed to second-hand smoking heavily; was an alcoholic; and/or suffered from malnutrition (which can cause Vitamin C, among others, deficiency). That's why it is imperative for everyone to monitor their health via laboratory examinations bi-annually, whether you feel/look healthy or not. Before I am questioned, I am speaking from experienced. About two years ago, I changed my diet, not intentionally, but I had a lot going on with college, selling my home, moving, etc. During my six-month check up in 2016, I learned that I had an iron and vitamin D deficiencies. I looked and felt healthy. Now, I don't think my vitamin D deficiency was caused by my diet change; I wasn't receiving enough sunlight during the fall and winter months. However, I began taking my supplements quickly and everything is fine currently. I believe if I didn't receive labs every six months or annually, then I would've became another seemingly healthy person who is ill. Everything doesn't produce a sign or symptom immediately.

  • Y’all Jealous Cuz I’m Prudy

    Puff didn't even love her enough to marry her. At least Al B Sure married her. It might didn't last but at least he thought enough of her to marry her. Puff still talking about "finding himself" when the truth is, hes trying to find the next man's glory hole. Let's just keep it real. No woman will be enough because he love being a bottom more than being any woman's husband.

  • Y’all Jealous Cuz I’m Prudy

    ?

  • Y’all Jealous Cuz I’m Prudy

    I'm in complete agreement with your statement.

  • Y’all Jealous Cuz I’m Prudy

    Most folks too full of themselves to understand this. I don't want fake folks who spread false rumors about me, never supported me, sabatoged things behind my back and mistreated me in this life, at my funeral. Keep that same energy and keep it moving.

  • EyeEmJai

    I think so. I saw numerous of photos.

  • Y’all Jealous Cuz I’m Prudy

    Yep! Smh.

  • Y’all Jealous Cuz I’m Prudy

    He's a diva to the core. He just needs to come out of the closet. Everybody already knows except his kids.

  • Truth Or Die

    People are ASSUMING she died of pneumonia even though there has up to this point been no medical test results confirming this.

  • Y’all Jealous Cuz I’m Prudy

    I feel so bad for laughing at the image of him and those teef and beedie eyes, kneeling down and then jumping up throwing the cape off. Whew chile! A loose b?tt, wealthy, diva just getting the shine, that he always desired. Even at Kim's funeral ? tuh!

  • Rhyme and Reason

    I believe it was the danger, her career, and creating unnecessary liabilities, and then his refusal of MARRIAGE!

    I believe she would have married him, she said they wanted different things, had a different value system like marriage, then kids, ok. He is very controlling. Of course, the shoot-out played a role.

    Now she's with A-Rod and soaking him up like a sponge, Jennifer is definitely an opportunist, not a bad thing either!

  • dontgetblocked

    Thanks. Health care is top priority. I learned the hard way. Most people of color are Vitamin D deficient and it causes major health issues. If you're sluggish and it's hard to move, you probably need Vitamin D.

  • Rhyme and Reason

    He used her, until there was nothing, until her life ended, and nobody's buying it as this soulmate infinity love, but just another selfish, self-centered ego-driven black man!

  • leapyearpisces

    I gave birth to my twins in April 2002. It was a GRUELING pregnancy, and out of the 8 months I was pregnant with them, I was only out of the hospital for my 5th and 6th months, and I was tested for EVERYTHING, all the time during the 8 mos. Once I had them, all my levels, and overall health returned to normal. I reurned to being the "ox" I once was except for a little tickle in my throat, which didn't cause any concern because I was a bitchin' smoker of Newport's before, (and a little after) I got pregnant. By the end of the summer, (August), I was going to bed sucking on Halls, and SOMETIMES choking on them (I scared my mom a couple of times), but I was a new MARRIED, yet single mother of twins, I mean my time with in doctors office was spent with them. Plus, what's a little cough (plus, I had started back smoking). This all came to a head one afternoon at work in December in 2002, I started having a coughing fit so bad, that I got lighthead that my managers told me I cold either leave work 3 ways - with one of them taking me to the hospital, on the ambulance, or I could drive myself to the hospital...I chose the latter...long story short....got there, they dI'd xrays, mri's, and cat scans on my lungs. Come to find out, per the doctor, I has basically had /contacted pneumonia from the time they opened me up for my c-section to give birth twould the twins , and had been LITERSELY walking around with pneumonia since then. So I had walking pneumonia for 8 mos. He said another week, and I probably would have died IN MY SLEEP, or whenever my body would have been in a sustained period of rest. He estimated I'd I hadn't came in when I did, I would have probably passed EXACTLY on Christmas.
    Shortly after graduating unc-charlotte, I briefly worked at a pawn shop with this chick who mom had died, and she said one day her mom came hold from work that night, made her nightly tea, and went to bed, the chick, said she went to tell her mom goodbye the next morning, and she was dead. Come to find our get mom had walking pneumonia for about 2.5 years. Her mom was also a smoker. It's NOT that uncommon. Especially, with the smoking population, who pits the cough off as being a smoker''s cough.

  • Rhyme and Reason

    My heart goes out to her children and loved ones, I can only imagine how much this hurts!

    Diddy is suffering and PAYING!

    He broke Kim's heart into a million pieces, so many times!

    It's not surprising she would die of cardiac arrest. The 4th Chakra has to be protected, this is from a metaphysical point of view. I've followed Caroline Myss - The Anatomy of the Spirit.

    I fully understand pneumonia, the flu, asthma, heart disease, so I get how any of those complications could turn fatal!

    The stress she accepted from him for an ultra-lux lifestyle and to have him, even as a side-chick is sad, and he has to live with it!

  • Chapter29Chick

    He prolly was still hitting that b4 she passed

  • Sha

    He is her family, you saw how they lived.

  • Chapter29Chick

    Not me, i feel like she knew diddy was a hoeman, she got her piece of the pie and was A ok hunty, she knows the game that men play and she played along 2 her own benefit, kudos 2 her gangstah azzz, RIP...

  • SG

    That is scary! The only sign was a tickle in your throat??

  • Rhyme and Reason

    80,000 people died from the flu season last year. The flu can easily morph into pneumonia. I was at the ER twice with my mom this past winter for the Flu, and the ER waiting room was a sight to behold.

    The CDC Black Researcher, who came up missing, and later found dead, after speaking about the flu vaccine causing the virus to be so deadly was quite suspect!

    We don't know, if she already had respiratory problems (like asthma or bronchitis), undetected heart disease, or just didn't get to the hospital, or received proper treatment?

    Did she get chest x-rays, breathing test, oxygen treatments, antiviral medications, fluid drained, the kind of care you receive in the ER or with hospitalization from her home? Did she refuse care or hospitalization?

  • Tony

    RIP!! But I’m curious as to why everyone is reporting her age as 47!? Her birthday is next month tho...

  • leapyearpisces

    My mama always say, GIVE ME MY FLOWERS while I am alive.

  • leapyearpisces

    It's called FINANCIAL abuse. It's a REAL thing.

  • leapyearpisces

    LOL. I know you are being sarcastic....LOL.

  • leapyearpisces

    It started as a tickle , but it progressed over time, but I thought it was because I started back smoking etc..by the time I went to the ER, they put me on 2 rounds of Z paks, and though I felt better after the first pill, the cough still lingered, but gradually went a way after a while....I realize why ALL cold /cough medicines say if your cough persist more than 2 weeks....TAKE YOUR ASS TO THE DOCTOR!!!!

  • Lorenzo Chaps

    He shouldn't do the eulogy anyways. Sit down somewhere. That chick wasted her best years on Puffy. I think Kim allow things to go to far, so she was stuck relying on him financially. So what's left to do? Have kids. Kim Porter, albeit sweet, beautiful, and a stranger to no one, was a kept woman.

    Maybe Puff feels he knows her so well that he should eulogize her. Nah player, have a seat.

  • Lorenzo Chaps

    Yeah, puff's wealthy and know powerful people. You will never know anything else about Kim's death.

  • Lorenzo Chaps

    I did wonder if she od'd on something the minute I read online she passed. Yes, initially I was shocked because she's only 46, but immediately the pneumonia stories started.

  • Eileen

    Money talks..

  • Malcom Flex

    Does he ever tell the truth about anything? Doesn't seem so.

  • Mrs. Joyce

    My mom says the same thing their relationship is evil, as per my mom ofcourse.

  • Lady_Elle

    An assumption I think.

  • Cathy Fara

    ????

  • Cathy Fara

    What???????

  • Cathy Fara

    Whoa!!! Cassie pregnant??? I thought it was a rumor!

  • Mrs. Joyce

    I get your point, however, some situations are different. When my husband passed we were separated, but I paid for everything as did my church so I had all the say so/

  • Harley

    Janelle Monae said Kim was integral in her having a career because of the events she held at Justin’s!

  • Harley

    Everyone grieves in different ways. Some people go months without crying them bam can’t stop. It’s a process. Everyone heals and grieves in their own way. Plus they have all the right to smile and look for happy experiences in life at this point especially seeing life is so precious

  • Harley

    Why does he have to stay away from his girlfriend of over 9 years? You can have love for the parent of your children and someone who you still call a friend and be in another relationship. Soul ties are strong. Doesn’t mean your meant to be in a relationship. She allowed him to treat her that way. She went thru the same shit with Al B! Went back to puffy after the jlo so it takes two! But he was with Cassie and has a right to surround himself with his friends to grieve

  • Harley

    Jennifer is an opportunist and culture vulture

  • Michelle

    I’m sure the last thing Quincy wants to do is plan his mother’s funeral. He’s only 20 years old. What 20years old can plan a funeral for their mother esp one as difficult and public as this one. He has a younger brother and 2 sisters he needs to look after

  • Michelle

    Kim was on many vacations with Cassie. Didn’t look like they despised each other to me. Looked more like kissing cousins

  • Coffee1st

    I thought i was crazy...cuz i wouldn't want to be in possession of that much money either. I would be terrified and nervous. I thought maybe it was a poverty mentality initially but i upped my understanding and realized that's not the case at all.

  • Maxima

    do you think it could have been AIDS? Was she still intimate with Diddy?

  • Maxima

    He is not the next of kin. I don't know why he is being treated as the "widower". Puff thinks everyone has a ghetto lifestyle. Most are appalled by his 3 baby mamas and never married status. And JLo is a survivor, she saw that for all his intelligence, he was still too street for her clutching and climbing azz. Ben Affleck let her know her social status. Remember, 25 years ago, Diddy was responsible for selling tickets to a rap event and people died in the push to get inside where the event never happened. This man is too comfortable with death for me. Anyone who gets near him should expect a negative outcome.

  • Harley

    Thank you! Misa said in an interview years back that Kim and Sarah were all sleeping with puff for over 15 years and knew about each other. She was ok with his lifestyle and accepted it. They both chose that life.

  • YouWontSayItButIWill

    Diddy loved Kim...as about as much as she loved herself. Kim got the treatment that she allowed. Nothing more....nothing less. She should have took her child support checks and just moved on. She was comfortable being what she was......a baby mama amongst others...and a side chick that he could always hit.

  • Harley

    JLO is an opportunist point blank. She took advantage and when there was no more to take she bounced... and she’s a culture vulture

  • leapyearpisces

    She surely is, and she didn't lie, she learned it from him. He is a vulture to his own culture.

  • Joy King

    Where do some of you come up with this stuff. Puff never refused to marry JLo. He actually proposed and SHE declined. Can we move on because most of you obviously don’t know the real story about any of them and all this speculation is honestly doing the tragedy of Kim’s unfortunate death a disservice.

  • leapyearpisces

    Nope. Being rich or wealthy is a huge responsibility, and comes with a lot of ish. I am too free of a person to have to constantly be in fear that I can't go this place or that place, without body guards or I gotta worry about my kids safety...I don't have time for that because I am sorry, but there are certain things you can ONLY get from like the dollar tree, or big lots, or aldi's, etc. no matter how RICH you are, so my rich ass gonna need to be able to dip in out of these places as I please without a team of security.

  • Maxima

    I don't disagree. But an opportunist and a survivor are two different animals. A survivor knows when to bounce and after that nightclub shooting she was gone. JLo is many things, none of them particularly appealing.

  • the guest

    I have an eerie feeling that this woman was emotionally distraught, depressed for weeks, and that morning waited for her babies to be taken to school, then took her life. I just have this eerie feeling she died from anguish over Diddy.

  • the guest

    I just read your comment after I posted again up top. I agree with you. I have an eerie feeling she didn't have pneumonia for that last few weeks, she was hurt and depressed for the last few weeks and took her life. When Diddy and Cassie recently broke up I bet Diddy made promises to Kim only to break his promises and go back to Cassie. Kim Porter lived in secret anguish over that man. She despised Cassie but she needed to muster the strength in life to despise him. She was completely weak for him and had no fight left. That's what happened. No matter how he uses his wealth and power to fix records, I know that healthy 47 year old woman devoted mom loved by so many died from anguish and grief.

  • the guest

    I wish she was that tough, poor thing was actually in deep love with him.

  • the guest

    She was desperate. Al B. Sure at the height of his wealth and fame completely abandoned her and baby Quincy. She was young and scared. Diddy cheated on Misa to court Kim's vulnerability, weakness, and desperation. Kim's been dependent on him ever since.

  • the guest

    Amen. God bless you.

  • the guest

    YES!!!!

  • pecancandy

    He is about 27, that is her oldest child. Her 2nd child is about 20.

  • Faithz

    Both Men , and Women need to learn that if you don't stand
    for something , You will fall for anything. My thing is how can you tell three women that you love them sleep with them, have babies with them, and treat them anyway you want to , and they say, and do nothing about it? Ain't no love real are good like that. But of course there are many weak women , who just want to be the bed W@@ch, and baby Mama nothing more , and nothing less.
    I wonder if Cassie is going to be on Diddy arm at the Home Going Service for Kim Porter.

  • Faithz

    From Kim, To Diddy...
    Those Who Love Me - Unknown
    When I am gone, release me, let me go.
    I have so many things to see and do.
    You mustn't tie yourself to me with tears,
    Be happy that we had so many years.

    I gave you my love, you can only guess
    How much you gave to me in happiness.
    I thank you for the love you have shown
    But now it's time I travel on alone.

    So grieve awhile for me, if grieve you must
    Then let your grief be comforted by trust.
    It's only for a little while that we must part,
    So bless the memories within your heart.

    I won't be far away, for life goes on.
    So if you need me, call and I will come.
    Though you can't see or touch me, I'll be near.
    And if you listen with your heart you'll hear

    All of my love around you soft and dear.
    And then, when you must come this way alone
    I'll greet you with a smile and
    "Welcome Home."
    RIP KIM PORTER.....

  • Faithz

    Yea this is true to a degree, but her children are young, especially her twins, and often times Fate has a way of leaking those things that people tries the hardest to hide under the radar. Less hope the truth leaks out....
    In my mind her children will always want the truth to why their mama left so soon....

  • Faithz

    And often times People like Kim they just die
    because of many different things..

  • Faithz

    Pneumonia, and flu like systems has Killed so many people.

  • Faithz

    Yea , and i hope it isn't stolen, and destroyed , buried to never see the light of day.

  • Faithz

    He been on my nerves, can't stand his fish mouth looking as.

  • EMILY POST

    Everybody has an opinion but actions speaks so much louder than words. Her close friends and family know what time it was so all the speculation is just that speculation and meaningless opinions.

  • Faithz

    Yes she did, she no doubt died along, and felt she wasn't Loved , by the man she gave babies to , and slept with when ever he needed comfort, all the while he climbing many trees those that we heard, about, and saw, and those he slept with under the secretive Claus, I wouldn't be surprised if some ghey man don't rise up that we never heard about to claim his love for cat fish mouth Diddy.

  • Rhyme and Reason

    First of all, this is a gossip blog with a comment section, and these posts create pageviews, and a part of being a public figure! So people are going to speculate and surmise!

    Secondly, he was engaged to Kim, appeared on Oprah with Kim as his fiancé, so he could have proposed, if so, then you are correct, but I read What I read.

    This blog isn’t The Economist, one of the places I go to for hard news!

  • Faithz

    I feel you on that, But perhaps she was not strong enough to stand up to Diddy's mess, and was just weak in a way that allowed his as to do as he pleased, as clearly he did, now he's claiming to be all broken up, and sad, he need to sit his cat fish mouth looking rich as down , and get ready to take full responsibility of raising his children without her to
    support him. She has done her part, and went on home to Glory, and is watching his trifling as from above, and she's her , children, and Family angel, not Diddy's rich self centered as.

  • Faithz

    I hope those twins grows up strong enough to not let nobody play them like their dad played their mamma!!

  • Roxie Moxie

    He ain't distraught cuz he feels bad....that's what you call guilt. This is Hollywood. An otherwise healthy 47 year old just dies? I get pneumonia is a real ailment to a degree but come on. Wasn't she about to write a book where she was going to tell something about Diddy's sexual preferences? At least, that's what I heard. Could be why he had a hand in her early demise.

  • Bob Dilla

    ?

  • Bob Dilla

    That did cross my mind...

  • Y’all Jealous Cuz I’m Prudy

    Or altered to the point where the truth is never revealed.

  • Y’all Jealous Cuz I’m Prudy

    Yes!! People trip me out, with only having a bunch of negative things to say about you when you're living but want to all of the sudden remember all the positive things about you when you're dead. ITS TOO LATE!

  • Faithz

    Exactly, bless her heart, she will be remembered as a only a baby mama or Eternity, regardless to how Diddy says things.

  • Faithz

    He's wanting to try, and get the last say, because he knows deep in his inner most thoughts that at the end of the day, Kim was treated just like the other baby mamas.

  • Faithz

    Is Cassie going to the Funeral?

  • Faithz

    That's what they are saying, and something is off about this but time will tell us the truth about it all, I trust.

  • KB

    If that is the case than she should have handled it. If a person feels like he/she has power and control over you then they will use it. I was always taught to not be financially dependent on anyone. When a person has a hold on you they will use it and keep you unhappy while they are still living their life.

  • Faithz

    Diddy act like a control frea k.

  • ClaireHuxtable
  • dru and neil

    You had the day because you were his legal spouse correct?

  • speakinmymind

    People die from the flu and pneumonia more often than is publicized.

  • joel adams

    She look like a rich meth addict.

  • Anonymouse

    He's not a baby. Why shouldn't he plan his mother's funeral?

    Please stop infantilizing men.

  • Sunshine ///

    So, are you mad JLo did what the others couldn't do? To me that made her the only smart one. Are you more angry because she isn't black. I'm ? for JLo because she used him before it ruined her career. She was the only smart woman. No babies, no drama.

  • Sunshine ///

    Their stupid

  • Fire & Ice

    Of course he shut down those events at Justin's. An ego maniac and control freak, will never allow true financial independence. Money is how he controls people. I saw tmz has pics of her casket, and photos of them leaving the wake.

  • Bee jaay Cee

    Comfortable with death? He's a Scorpio. A sign associated with death and reproduction.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    All this makes me wonder out of those 1200-1500 "mourners", how many actually knew her...or the family? How many came to see Diddy and maybe steal away a few minutes to talk business? How many came to see a gold casket? How many wanted something exciting to do for an otherwise boring day in Columbus?
    Weddings and funerals seem to bring out the strange and unusual. I hope her children won't be negatively impacted by what they may see.

  • Y’all Jealous Cuz I’m Prudy

    ???????????????????????? Good LAWD!!!

  • Bee jaay Cee

    Know someone with sarcoidosis like Bernie Mac had. People said he found out about cloning......he was Steve Harvey's sacrifice......They give you Prednisone to treat sarcoid. It lowers your immune system, and sarcoid is already an autoimmune disease. His cause of death was from pneumonia. The doctor told my friend..if she ever gets a cold. come to emergency right away because it can turn into pneumonia . Before she was diagnosed, we had a mutual friend, a popular teacher who died of sarcoidosis. Imagine her horror when she found out she had the same disease. That was over 20 years. My friend is still alive because she refused to take Prednisone. She went holistic and she is still here.

  • Lorenzo Chaps

    Quincy's 27. Christian's 20 (the one who looks just like Puff).

  • Fire & Ice

    Well stated.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Thanks 4 the heads up on the pictures. I saw pix of her boys, but none of the girls. I wonder if they attended or if the family thought it might be too much for them?

  • Fire & Ice

    I didn't see pics of the girls either. most likely they attended, but were hidden from the paparazzi.

  • Harley

    Why would I be mad? I’m just pointing out the obvious. She didn’t use me so I could care less

  • Sunshine ///

    Understandable but it's irritating that we accuse her of using him to get ahead when he hasn't actually shown he gives a damn about women. He uses them, uses his money to use them and they allowed it. She was the only smart woman out the bunch.

  • Y’all Jealous Cuz I’m Prudy

    Quincy broke down trying to do her eulogy. Al B Sure and Puff ran up there to support him. Her babies are going to need a heap of support for a long time. ???????

  • Y’all Jealous Cuz I’m Prudy

    Couldn't have said it better myself.

  • Harley

    It’s not just him. She has shown that she will use many people for an opportunity. I’m not saying Diddy is an angel but I’m just speaking of her character. She’s also a culture vulture. She’s never spoke out on issues pertaining to people of color but made lots of money off of them starting with her dancing career on in living color

  • Sunshine ///

    ***violin is playing cry me a river***
    In a male dominated industry women do what they have to do. I'm not mad at her. She used them like they used her.

  • MythCalledLove

    This here shook him. He knew he loved that woman. But took for granted. It's all good until that person is gone. People thought Kim was this lovesick puppy. I think they knew they were better off apart than together. I think Kim just wanted to live HER life w/o the constant media attention. I liked how she carried herself. None of that Instagram madness. The flowers were beautiful just like her.

  • MythCalledLove

    I'm glad you said that. We believe if the doctor said I need it the men I need it. Working behind the scenes you see all the dusty dirty stuff in the medical field. I am my own advocate. The doc works for you (insurance etc) Everyone is on the drug of the season etc. I always ask what medication used to treat me. And many times nothing. I have stage 3 COD. My creatinine levels The meds didn't help. Decided to try the natural route supplements and numbers dropped. BP was great. The meds I was on cost 1,045 for 30 capsules. I hv insurance but what about those that don't.

  • MythCalledLove

    Celebs for Diddy. Sign of respect Sorry to say but some just wanna be seen

  • Harley

    Yeah ok again like you said she used them she’s an opportunist!

  • Jersey Girl

    Sacrifice..period

  • Jersey Girl

    She did tho...you may need to read a little more into it... keep in mind this is diddy we are talking about. The one that ripped a patch of hair from cassie's hair which birthed the one shaved side hairstyle

  • Roxie Moxie

    Totally agree. Damn. How can these muhf*'ckas sleep at night and look in the mirror at themselves?

  • Jersey Girl

    He is 27...

  • Roxie Moxie

    Wtf? What?? I missed that sh*t. Why did he rip her hair out? Jealous rage?? Do tell.

  • Jersey Girl

    Numerology significance... sacrifices are esoteric heavy

  • Jersey Girl

    Everyone around this man mysteriously dies..I would be afraid of having him in my life.. double edged sword of his fame and fortune..?

  • ClaireHuxtable

    I even saw Nene Leakes. Wonder what her connection was l0l?

  • Oya Shango

    The deep state gov might cover this up, but there is a very real possibility that Kim's pneumonia could have been exacerbated by all of the chemical spraying (Chemtrails) and later nuclear waste dispersions in the air, as a result of those fires in Calif. She lived in Toluca Lake, whose air was heavily contaminated with those toxic poisons. https://patch.com/california/northhollywood/wildfire-smoke-still-plagues-north-hollywood-toluca-lake

  • dontgetblocked

    Prednisone is very dangerous. Always ask for an alternative if possible. It will mess you up.

  • Jersey Girl

    They don’t...unfortunately

  • dontgetblocked

    Quincy is a 27 year old man. He should be the head of his mother's funeral. Diddy is a baby daddy and an ex-boyfriend. It is what it is! Her children represent her legacy not that b#stard Diddy.

  • dontgetblocked

    He should breakdown. It's his mother. But he needed to be there. Bless his heart!

  • Jersey Girl

    It was all over the news/blogs when cops were called to her parents house..she tried to break up with him and the narcissistic ego couldn’t take that..jealous rage as you indicated.. and pulled a patch out?

  • Y’all Jealous Cuz I’m Prudy

    Girl my eyes started watering. I know they are beyond heartbroken.

  • Isaidit

    I wanna know why p sh*ty face was all through the obictuary like he was her husband. This turd makes everything about him ?

  • And then there is that!

    He's taking care of her in death like he did in life and I'm sure in this difficult time her kids are grateful their dad is there to take the load off of them. Yall trying to put their kids in a position they may not even want! Let them live.

  • Reenaface

    Celebs don't look at mirrors some of them are scared to look in them and don't even have them inside their homes. i.e Adele, Lady Gaga( was rumored to be scared to sleep alone and had to have one of her assistants sleep next to her).

  • Reenaface

    Yep. Murder by the numbers song by the group The Police.

  • CaliGONECRAZY

    Reading is fundamental and Comprehension is key!

  • Kimocha

    "He used his money and his vast influence to control the women in his life and to stifle their creativity."
    --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
    This is so true about Diddy... He has never allowed Cassie to have a successful career in singing... Why has she been out as a singer since 2006 but only has one damn album??... Now he wants her to be his children's full time step-mother as a career... and she's dumb enough to do it too!... Smdh!

  • Greatgrape37

    *they're

  • dontgetblocked

    He has not been with her for ten years. He never married her. Why would a baby daddy be in charge of the funeral? That's for her relatives and children to handle, especially since she has a 27 year old grown son. This is not about Diddy. It's about Kim and the children for once. Furthermore, he is NOT Quincy's father.

  • And then there is that!

    That still doesn't take away from the fact Diddy has taken care of her since she entered his life. Why would that stop in death. You don't know her son may not want the stress of planning his mon funeral that was healthy one day and gone the next. Ya'll want to tell people how to live their life they you have inside knowledge. This could have been Quincy wishes. Hell it could have been Kim wishes. You know people actually do talk about their final wishes while they are alive. My kids nor my mom have any say in my passing. So hey!

  • kekeb

    Wow. Thank you for sharing your medical situation

  • currvalicious

    That ATL connection.

  • currvalicious

    Lordt….

  • Crazy tee

    We’ll never know....Only time will tell...Thanks for the information

  • currvalicious

    Yes she is. That club shooting & being locked to a precinct bench for 24 hrs was enough for her. She liked everything until shyt got real. He left Kim for Lopez. Actually he started seeing Lopez while living w/Kim & their kids together.

  • currvalicious

    Lord, please let them know!!! I've been seemingly healthy all my life, before I became I'll last year. Long story short, anemia due to heavy cycles. I began to have side affects; palpitations, feeling faint, weak, etc...they couldn't find anything wrong. Finally, a doctor related it to my low blood levels. I was a point away from needing a blood transfusion!! Life comes at you very quickly. My tthing is, Why wouldn't she be on antibiotics? Why wasn't she ina hospital? Being treated w/vitamins & saline drip (whatever that is) seems so blase', while dealin w/ a serious respiratory ailment.

  • currvalicious

    Your story shook me to my core! Omg..that is unbelievable & scary at the same time. It appears as if this pneumonia can be a silent killer. It masks itself as if it's just some minor cold or something. No alarming symptoms.

  • currvalicious

    Upon your diagnosis, were you admitted into the hospital? How did they treat you?

  • currvalicious

    All of what you stated. Why would a reasonably intelligent person, not do their due diligence regarding their health. Especially battling something such as pnuemonia, which at the very least requires a trip to the ER & or hospital stay. Antibiotics, all that. What is vitamins & a saline drip going to do?.

  • currvalicious

    Those kids shouldv been sheltered w/by Kim's family. Not being baby sat by some washed up 90's has been. I've never seen lil Kim around Ms.Porter much.

  • currvalicious

    I wouldn't be surprised. Especially after he & Cassie broke up. Well he knew she was I'll, he should've encouraged her to go to the doctor. A real doctor. Not those typical Hollywood house call docs.

  • leapyearpisces

    Hi. They gave me 2 ROUNDS of Z-paks. I could tell a difference from the time I took my first pill, but the cough DID linger for a couple of weeks. My point in sharing my story is to make a point that there are signs, but most of us ignore them, but ignoring symptoms, and self-diagnosis can lead to our deaths, case and point, there was no reason for Kim Porter to be on some fugging saline and vitamin drip -she didn't have a hanger, chick had PNEUMONIA. So, I just want folks to recognize to nor play with the whole respiratory thing, it will TAKE YOU OUT swiftly without you even seeing it coming, Like Kim Porter. I don't believe for ONE second, if that chick new what her REAL state of health was, she NO DOUBT would have taken care of it. What MOTHER wants to die on their kids?????

  • http://crimsonhairextensions.bigcartel.com/ http://crimsonhairextensions.b

    Diddy is Cassie’s “handler” he likely sacrificed Kim

  • Harley

    I thought this as well. The air quality was horrible!!

  • Harley

    She had the nerve to go live and post the fireworks show

  • Dollface

    Sarah is a industry tool that’s been passed around with different men in puffys circle. She was puffys friend chick first. That guy went to jail and she started f-big puff behind Kim’s back as they were supposed to be friend. Kim was only her friend because she was puffys bff girl. Sarah been a industry wh0re. That’s why puff never parades her to the public and she has to sit in the backseat, because everybody knows she ain’t sh!t. I will hush for now.

  • Bonita

    I agree.

  • Epic Bunny

    To bad... how you live is generally how you die...

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Urgh! See and be seen...

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Does somebody who's distraught give a eulogy for over 18 minutes?

  • Faithz

    For Real?

  • Guess Who

    When Combs's other baby mama, Sarah Chapman (pictured), befriended an Atlanta blogger, Combs flew into a rage and threatened her until she broke off her friendship with the blogger.

    Why did you add that? What does this have to do with Puffy being "too distraught" to perform the eulogy? Did it hurt your feelings or were you genuinely concerned for Sarah's well being after being threatened?

  • http://www.missjhaneuniverse.com Monday

    She said that to save face. Before A-Rod there was alcoholic Ben Afflect (who is known to be controlling as well) and Marc Anthony (same as Diddy except he marries the women)...

    Jennifer didn't had to testify the night of the shooting.. The only witness who don't testify??!! That is when she ran into Tommy for a while, he helped her. Released her "On the 6" rest isPR damage control. She wanted Diddy but his surrounding then was deadly. Folks either died or ended up in jail... Then again, theses things still happen today.......

  • YouWontSayItButIWill

    How did Kim move on exactly because she was always with him somewhere on vacation. Moving on...is moving on. Let him be a father to your children and move on..not constantly be with him...going on vacations with him etc.... I didn't know that he snatched out Cassie's hair tho....lol.

  • Rhyme and Reason

    I agree! She's been VERY unlucky in the romance department, in spite of tremendous career success and wealth! A-Rod seems to be the best chance she's EVER had at having a loving and healthy relationship, hopefully, for both of them, based on his past tabloid coverage!

    These celebrities are no different than everyday people trying to get or stay coupled up! Relationships aren't easy. JLO seems to be in love with love. Her manager Bennie Medina spoke publicly about her choices, or jumping in so quickly!

    The funny thing is, she's not dragged for her failed relationships like Halle Berry!

  • Rhyme and Reason

    I think celebrities tend not to go to the ER or want to be hospitalized like everyday people, while it seems many of them die in their homes, isolated.

    She obviously needed more, and still may not have recovered, pneumonia ain't no joke, but at least, that wouldn't be questioned. I google anything medical.

    The wealth, talking about Diddy's money make these celebrities (even by association) think they're super humans, or somehow go exempt! Bullets, racist cops, and illness doesn't know your income bracket!

  • Lola

    For shame!! Have some respect

  • datATLboi

    Well I don't know her for her works that well but from what I hear and see she was truly a beautiful soul who touched thousands of people she came across with a simple conversation. It's possible that people were truly compelled to come. Those type of people usually are gone too soon. I mourn my grandfather/bishop every day. Wasn't surprised when the same amount showed up to his funeral. RIP KIM

  • ClaireHuxtable

    We are blessed to have a shining light in our lives if only for a little while.

  • Reina1718

    Please she dont want leaked pics of her baby bump

  • Reina1718

    Look at all her pics how she hides or photo shops...

  • Reina1718

    And still using her after death like he the only one who lost someone. Her kids lost a mom...he had a child when Kim had her twins he always cheated, always ran around with cassie & u NEVER heard of kim moving on. & now he wants to make it all about him grieving a good woman smh...watch cassie have a baby & its his blessing from “above”

  • Reina1718

    Exactly!

  • the guest

    I just now read this. Her passing is sad on so many levels. And Puffy knows he was wrong and he’s overcompensating his guilty feelings. I just will never undetstand why he couldn’t give that kind and loving sister his name.

  • Faithz

    He's a Dogg, plain , and simple.

  • Rhyme and Reason

    Yes, his money and position made him believe he could, and he hand picked women who would go alone with his complete domination.

    Karma is real, and losing Kim, a crutch, one of his single most important life lines is gone, and he has to cope with it, and it won’t be easy because deep down inside he knows the truth (he used her and she deserved much more), we all do!

    Cassie better move on, marriage or not! Diddy isn’t that much better than R. Kelly or Future, IMO! He certainly takes good care of his kids, but what are his girls learning, modeling?

  • http://www.missjhaneuniverse.com Monday

    Soooo trueeee

    Halle Berry suffers from the "black woman syndrome" where she doesn't hope for love anymore. JLo just goes to the next.. At 70 she will probably will still look for love. Just like Elizabeth Taylor...

  • Rhyme and Reason

    I'm sure Halle is still hoping, looking, what she might say publicly, and what she does privately is another thing, I'm sure! Both ladies are Leos, and they love to stay booed up, from my experience!

    No diss to Leos, my favorite people!