Kehlani and Davie

Singer Kehlani says she is "disheartened" by the LGBT community's negative reaction to her pregnancy announcement last month.

In October, the 23-year-old revealed she had a baby on the way with a member of her band, guitarist Javie Young-White, who is bisexual.

Kehlani tells Nylon magazine that many of her LGBT fans accused her of lying about her sexuality to align herself with the LGBT community for financial reasons.
 
READ ALSO: Bi Singer Kehlani Reveals Bisexual Father of Her Unborn Baby
 
"I've gotten everything from, 'I thought she was a lesbian', to, 'She was using queerness to promote her career, then went and betrayed us with a man', to, 'Her baby father is just a sperm donor'," the singer tells Nylon magazine. "I never identified as a lesbian. I’ve always been pansexual. My first mixtape included songs about males, and songs about women."

She added:

"I never woke up and decided to be the 'queer icon' of the century. Having so much attention on me outside my art already gives me enough anxiety. There are people out there in this community fighting for equality in realer ways than making songs about it and performing at events like I am."

Stars like Kehlani are accused of being ghey for pay -- a derogatory term for heterosexuals who pretend to be ghey (or ghey aligned) in order to benefit financially from the ghey community.

These people often use ambiguous, vague or made up terms to describe their sexuality, such as "pansexual" "bicurious" or "trysexual."

Other stars who are accused of being ghey for pay include Janelle Monáe, Tessa Thompson, Lindsay Lohan, Monica Brown, Bow Wow's ex-girlfriend Kiyomi Leslie, and more.

  • Kim’s Original Face

    Monica Brown ? thought she was a frennn of the blog are we talking about the same monica somebody spill the tea

  • SpillyNillie

    Monica???

  • Nik

    She needs to focus on having a healthy baby and being mentally prepared for the responsibility of motherhood versus giving a dayum about public reaction. Pregnancy is supposed to be a beautiful and sacred process, not a spectacle. The only people who need to accept her pregnancy are her and the child's father, not Josephine Public.

  • Well$$Well$$?

    Monica is gay for pay? ?What's the tea? So gay people get mad if someone ssys they're gay but likes the opposite sex too? Is that like being on the DL but in reverse??

  • ohdearme

    Wait didn't this girl date Kyrie Irving and cheat on him? Is this the same chick? Oh Lord I can't keep up.

  • Yardgirl

    All of this!!^^^^

  • Fire & Ice

    Being gay but especially in Hollyweird is in. Just like being "woke" and vegan are now in.

  • Nik

    Hopefully one day being ourselves will be "in".

  • Coy little wink

    Why did she tell the antisocial media in the first place?

  • Fire & Ice

    YES!!!!

  • Phillybruh

    Monica Brown ....doesn't strike me as a gay for pay type of artist? I think she has a large gay fan base but other than that she ain't dyking for check.

  • ohdearme

    Lindsey Lohan was just an addict that would "do" a stick if it meant more pills, booze and coke. Janelle, don't see her faking it.

  • Phillybruh

    I think she just posted a picture and the rest went from there

  • xenaD

    ???????? girl. U r so durn funny

  • Phillybruh

    I don't think she's been a friend for awhile. But I see Sandra is fishing for a response though.

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    That boy prolly gave her the AIDS

  • Renee26

    Why is ghey being typed instead of gay??

  • MsChocolate

    This is all too trifling and confusing.

  • Trace da Ace

    well the way I see it is....its her life, her business..her choice...folks are always gonna have something say....period. So she should just focus on her music and family and leave all that other noise along...

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Isn't her bd bisexual?

  • RaginB

    ?

  • RaginB

    ?

  • Renee26

    I guess they mad cause she even has a BD smh

  • Renee26

    I guess they mad cause she even has a BD smh

  • Solstice

    ???? This!!!!!

  • Solstice

    ???? This!!!!!

  • Phillybruh

    LOL I sure hope you forgave whoever gave it too you!

  • Phillybruh

    LOL I sure hope you forgave whoever gave it too you!

  • Oh Tommie

    Monica Brown?? ? ?

  • Oh Tommie

    Monica Brown?? ? ?

  • Solstice
  • FukkFolks2018

    Girl goodBYE. I cant even listen to "Ring" anymore bc of this crazy mess. Soon as it comes on I'm like I cant believe this broad had traditional sex with a GAY MAN and got knocked. I feel like you are extra silly to be bringing a baby into that confusion. IDGAF (D is for didnt in this case) who you slept with. But now its etched in my mind. BC ONCE AGAIN...YOU PUT IT OUT THERE ON SOCIAL MEDIA. Lord all this foolishness traces right on back to a form of SM. When are they gonna get it?

  • FukkFolks2018

    Lindsay Lohan
    ^^^^^^^
    Imma need her to be gay. Last functional relationship she had was with the female DJ.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    A ball of confusion!!! Smh

  • KLove

    LOL oh yeah...she cheated with PND...even tho PND said he hit it first LOL

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Chile .... you better say it !

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Ummm so I have been hearing people talk about this Ready to Love show. Does anybody watch it?

  • iWasteTime

    The alphabet folk are so confusing.
    They fight and fight and fight to be allowed to love, date, marry or sleep with who they want and not be treated different or judged.
    They turn around and treat someone that identifies with them differently for sleeping with who they want.
    She isn't the first ghey to get pregnant, traditionally and won't be the last.

  • Kim’s Original Face

    Ohhh didnt know that!

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    so, what is the "B" in LGBT? i'm so confused by this "community" rejecting bisexuals because they chose to procreate. is it that the sexual act is okay, but conception is not????? seems a tad hypocritical when you demand to be "accepted" by the world, then turn around and reject your own 'brothers and sisters' ....wtf???????
    anywho, God bless this baby, smh

  • bran

    Who cares. This generation is all over the place anyways.

  • iWasteTime

    Me to sis.
    you said it way better than I did below ... loll

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    A Mouthful!

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!
  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!
  • Coy little wink

    you gotta be like 71...

  • Phillybruh

    Nah I'm guessing fairly young, but got left behind by everyone around them and now they mad and bitter its either the gays fault or the Obamas...lol

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    Hollering!!!!

  • Solstice

    ??????!!!!!! https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/0720cf991265
    281e90e7a7f20521fa8f9deec5c6a2e74bc124d1691a4c57dac5.gif

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    i was thinking you had completed My thought, Lol

  • Coy little wink

    He always sounds old and ignorant like he was born in the 1940s...

  • http://realitytea.com/ Lady Chatterley’s Lover

    Tsk. Tsk. Tsk. Upset because she didn't get a BABY from a JAR but the old fashioned way. Time for God to do a RESET.

  • Phillybruh

    Nah they ain't on Sandra Rose like that...Yahoo or Huffington Post but here...lol

  • Solstice
  • Blaque Mahogany

    They get on my nerves child. They want to dictate EVERYTHING. They are so discriminatory...it's quite ironic.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    If you don't want people commenting on your business keep it to yourself.

  • Indies beauty

    Lol okay so whats the difference between gay and ghey. Also what's the tea on Monica?

  • TriniHarlem
  • Dowoop

    I was just like Monica Monica? Don't you have to lie and say you are gay to be gay for pay?

  • Indies beauty

    I've seen a few episodes. Its decent because its focused on the older crowd dating. Not the usual ratchetness so it's a lil slow for me but its decent.

  • Rayne

    They got so many terms for gay ppl it’s ridiculous. You just regular old gay to me. Whatever ???? tho.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    ghey for pay -- a derogatory term for heterosexuals who pretend to be ghey (or ghey aligned) in order to benefit financially from the ghey community.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    These different pressure groups are all so stupid to me. Same thing with the radical feminists... I remember reading how a lot of feminists were mad at Gloria Steinem for marrying a man, because they saw her getting married as a betrayal of what she was supposed to represent as a feminist. Such nonsense. These dimwits on social media complaining about how other people live their lives. smh

  • Y me?

    Ive never liked kelani. She's always grasping at straws to become relevant. Starting with her alleged suicide attempt. Now this. Just go away no one cares

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    i've seem parts of it. i was initially skeptical because i thought it was a 'flavor of love' reboot. but, from what i've seen, it's a bit more mature and less 'game show-ish' than that. it starts out with a majority female cast who get to select from a number of male cast members (trying to avoid calling them "contestants"). i saw the beginning of the first show and it initially came off as 'these women have it all, looks, money, education, etc., but they have no one to share it with' ...after seeing a few clips on youtube on the show's progression, it becomes apparent that SOME of the women may be a bit difficult to get to know and/or love. same goes for some of the men (arrogant, faux woke, chauvinist, immature,etc.). as with any televised matchmaking production, you have some people who appear to just want to build their resume and get 'put on' ...it didn't hold my attention, but i'll check youtube to see how it ended. *shrug*

  • AListDiva29

    If she wanted a baby so bad why didn't she just get a sperm donor? She seems like a good person, but she's mentally unstable, so I don't think this was thought out clearly or the long term effects were considered.

  • Gloria

    Took the words out of my mouth. If she bisexual, the baby daddy is openly bisexual, and they are in love and procreate, what is the issue? I swear the LGBTQ community always complaining about something!

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!
  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    Yup. Some of them can be just ridiculous. I call those the GayNazis.

  • Gloria

    It seems like she is in an actual relationship with the baby daddy. She says they planned the pregnancy for a while before she conceived ?????

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    Well, sperm donors don't have to pay child support, but baby daddies do.

    I think for some women, that's one big reason.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    But how long? She was JUST in a relationship with her twin sister.

  • MsSapphire9800

    Really this is coming from a community that wants equal rights...but this young can not have a child. Why they are not questioning all these pregnant studs or all these married female gay couples who are having babies (or do they want us to believe all their children are born through IVF). The LGBT community thinks everything evolves around them.

  • Nik

    I ? this.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose
  • tia

    No offense to anyone. However, the LGBT community act like a bunch of gangsta type thugs who operate in a mob like fashion. If you don't align 100% with them they coming for you. Very sad:(

  • FukkFolks2018

    With WHO now?

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Actually, Lindsay has had several dysfunctional relationships with men after she broke up with the female DJ.

  • Alextra Ballard

    Their entire relationship is Odd,and it won't lass

  • http://theempirefiend.tumblr.com/ Bird

    This isn't her first public relationship with a man though. Didn't she fake a suicide attempt over Kyrie Irving? Why are they acting brand new? All these kids identify as sexually fluid these days. I like it. It shows that the next generation is more open minded and not traumatized by people's sexuality.

  • Guest

    wth?

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    And me personally don't GAF ABOUT THE ALPHABET Gang...I've always consider them A BUNCH OF BULLIES WHO MEAN NOTHING TO ME!

  • Alicia.Ashe

    What’s that uproar about? Wasn’t she with a basketball player and party next door her ex?

  • Dontgetdraggedhoe??

    ??????

  • Blaque Mahogany

    lol. Not her literal sister. The girl looked a LOT like her.

  • imright

    ppl need to stop worrying about who these celebs are fcking. do u like the song ? yes ?! sing dance & shut up??

  • Rere

    Right!!! they act like being straight is a damn crime

  • Knocked Kneed and Pigeon Toed

    Kehlani hun the only people you should be worried about is friends and family. His included. Like fugg what anybody else has to say. The ABC gang has nothing to do with your pregnancy, motives or your happiness. Please carry on.

  • CoTToNCaNDie SWeeTAsGolD

    Does anyone really care though?! I haven't been a fan since she fake tried to kill herself when she got caught up!! *insertkanyeshrug* #next

  • CoTToNCaNDie SWeeTAsGolD

    THIS^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    hahahahahahaha!!!!!

  • Mama Dee’s Wig Maker

    The LGBT community aint no better than the Straight community huh...found that out in college. A few of my homegirls were shunned because of dumbass reasons

  • Mama Dee’s Wig Maker

    Can I send you a virtual hug, cause you have blessed us

  • Mama Dee’s Wig Maker

    Pretty much

  • Logan Roberts

    Let me hush ?

  • BEANTOWN BULLI

    LMBAO!!!

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    Check out the part where it says he is bisexual and go look at the AIDS number for bisexual black men and the women who sleep with them

  • Decked Out

    They Crazy as a MoFo. It's her daym VAGINA ain't it? I'm just wondering out loud. Daym.

  • Quitedeliteful

    LOLLOLLOL!!!!!!!!!!

  • Quitedeliteful

    People need to relax! She could be fuggin Dolly the Sheep but if she wants to have a baby so what?!? Ain't no crime in wanting to be a mother!! smh...

  • Quitedeliteful

    LOLLOLLOL!!!!!!!!

  • Shamwow

    I agree. The LGBTQZAEIOU’s are often sooo judgmental but at the same time sensitive. Smh it’s her undercarriage and she should be able to do what she want to do with it.

  • Quitedeliteful

    The LGBTQZAEIOU’s
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    LOLLOL!!!!!!!!!

  • J2PC

    Parading as ghey for the time being has allowed a number of lost, misguided financially struggling Black folks have peeped that game (ghey for pay) to get College Scholarships, hollywierd or entertainment deals, jobs & all in order to survive the financial struggle.

  • J2PC

    They are controlling. It embarrasses them that an attractive woman slept with a man & got pregnant instead of doing what they do to create a dolly the sheep or adopt a Black to re-program & make them that way to spread the agenda.

  • J2PC

    They were using her to brand their acronym. Maybe they feel a sense of loss & embarrassment as if to be just ghey or same s3x is not good enough.

  • ZRoJoTheLezBeyond
  • Judge Mental Will

    Im gay and petty.. Yes my nickname is petty tendergrass or petty lane. but the gay community activists are pettier than me, damn always mad about something. Have a 1000 seats please!

  • Judge Mental Will

    Im gay and petty.. Yes my nickname is petty tendergrass or petty lane. but the gay community activists are pettier than me, damn always mad about something. Have a 1000 seats please!

  • Judge Mental Will

    Im gay and petty.. Yes my nickname is petty tendergrass or petty lane. but the gay community activists are pettier than me, damn always mad about something. Have a 1000 seats please!

  • Bashi22

    So the baby going to be bisexual from birth.

  • TransMichelle

    These people f%#king anything with an orifice. Disgusting

  • TransMichelle

    Luckily these fools can't reproduce their sexual preference. When a child is born they don't say "oh, you have a plumber, singer, teacher, or bisexual" they tell you have either a boy or a girl.

  • DeJeri

    "PANSEXUAL" i.e. I screw anything?

  • YES I SAID IT…

    That's what it means... SMH what a mess this world has become too

  • Shira Harding-James

    What’s Pansexual?

  • Shira Harding-James

    Nicki Minaj

  • MookieFly

    That's what I was wondering. Like overnight, she dumped her twin sister and got with some guy who looks he could be her brother. Its a triplet affair

  • HoneyyGoodMoneyy_
  • T Willis

    They fawk anything.
    3-somes etc
    No commitment. Just fawk whoever, whenever ?????

  • T Willis

    So she’s obsessed with ppl who look like her? Lol

  • C0rTnEy

    Never heard of Monica Brown but definitely Teyana Taylor

  • ImWoke

    Monica Brown is the singer known as Monica

  • Shamwow

    When I was In college every now and then you would meet a lgbtq etc. white woman on a mission to “educate”. turns out it’s more letters than lgbtq. I don’t remember the rest but She said a whole list of letters. I couldn’t keep up. It was exhausting to hear but I tried to listen to what she had to say. She convinced the instructor to let her show the the genderbread person. Ohh she was invested, imagine if we said no! let’s stay on topic; she would’ve made a bias complaint. Any way She used the computer and loaded the genderbread person. She was excited to explain all of the extra letters and explain gender. While the entire class was visibly overloaded with information. She was a grown woman 34 and in a masters program seriously invested in a gingerbread man character. We weren’t even talking about her community. Completely derailed the class, I love people and I want everyone to be comfortable in their own skin but, Many of the lgbtqidgaf’s complicate their lives being judgmental, extra and determined to make the world accept them when many aren’t as accepting. ( I’m not saying all lgbtq’s are like this, a lot of them are wonderful people, while the same time there are a lot of overly invested aggressive and sometimes mean gay people.

  • C0rTnEy

    I know that much. I just never heard that she was gay

  • the guest

    Lol

  • the guest

    Their relationship is vain and ego and it won't survive the fact that parenting is not always adorable.

  • Being bad is way more fun

    People just want something to fuss and have drama about because their own lives are so boring !!!.. I could care less on a even better day I will even care less more !!!!!

  • Judi Jupiter

    Many of the lgbtqidgaf’s complicate their lives being judgmental.....

    Lmao at this... but I agree

  • Judi Jupiter

    Back in the day that just meant you were a ho...

  • Shira Harding-James

    Oh

  • Chocolate

    Right- like enough already, this is manufactured drama literally from conception this corny broad is a ? with a gay bd girl bye

  • Readytochokemothernatureout

    I had zero reaction, as long as it's not me having a kid bless you and congrats.

  • Jussjess25

    Who the hell cares!!!!!! Like seriously this women went out and got pregnant by a gay man. Doesn't that expiam enough! Sheeah

  • MistaO

    Most females today saying they are gay, aren't. Just ask yourself why most use dildos ect? From what I understand gay men don't care for tits or puzzy...js. and most have babies born through the old fashioned ways...

  • Jussjess25

    Facts

  • Jussjess25

    Freaks of nature

  • YellowSauce

    I chuckled the entire time reading this ESPECIALLY the lgbtqidgaf's .... haaaaaaa ... and I'm kind of jealous I didn't get to hear what metrosexual meant because is that even a sexuality AT ALL ??? Please explain for those of us that missed the "lesson" ... I'm just joking .... lololololol !!!!!!

  • YellowSauce

    lol

  • understandingoverignorance

    This commuity got chit all messed up because being gay doesn't mean they can't procreate for centuries people who were gay or lesbian had children. So these confused dummies need to start using there sexual organs in the right way and have kids and still be who you all are sexually.

  • Shamwow

    I went to look up genderbread person and I believe they cover that too. I’ll post the picture but it’s so exhausting to read sometimes. I’m like please just do something that will make you https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/8536150c6d4044b218280a56d914f0d88f2e64e001bf11ef0762184929e041f8.png happy.

  • ?Patty Kakes?

    He's cute even though he suspect

  • ?Patty Kakes?

    Gurl it is. It's not even worth the fight

  • ImWoke

    Me either.

  • Floriduhh Evans

    Pansexual = men, women, kids, and animals....Hollyweird and their satanic rituals smh

  • YellowSauce

    I'm REALLY laughing out LOUD .... You crack me up :)
    #homework lol

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    Janelle Monae and Monica Brown??

    Messy Boots I tell ya???

  • Malcom Flex

    PS- this braud ain't black.

  • Misslaydj

    Shr has some really nice songs. That's all that matters