Usher Raymond, Grace Miguel

Usher Raymond is back on the market. The 40-year-old R&B crooner filed for divorce from his wife Grace Miguel after 3 years of marriage.

In a court document obtained by PEOPLE and first reported by The Blast, Usher filed for divorce on Friday in Georgia.

Grace's divorce petition, filed in April, cites "irreconcilable differences."

Usher and Grace announced their separation in March -- after the singer was sued by several people claiming he exposed them to the herpes virus.

"After much thought and consideration, we have mutually decided to separate as a couple. We remain deeply connected, loving friends who will continue supporting each other through the next phases of our lives," the statement read. "The enormous amount of love and respect that we have for each other will only increase as we move forward."

Usher and Grace tied the knot in a secret ceremony in Cuba in 2015. Their union produced no children. Usher has 2 sons with retired celebrity stylist Tameka Glover.

Insiders say the couple is still very much together, and that the divorce was planned to protect Usher's assets in the event that a sympathetic judge or jury believes his accusers and hit him with a large jury award.

PEOPLE reports that Usher and Grace were last spotted together in June -- several months after they announced their split.

The couple also unloaded pricey real estate, including their home in the Los Angeles area over the summer.

View photos of Usher and Grace over the years in the gallery.

Photos by Getty Images, BACKGRID

  • missmiami305

    I’m wondering why she let Usher beat her to the punch lol ?.

  • tintin

    I love that usher likes women his age

  • lovelygamour

    usher shouldve just said, "thanks for caring...but i am going to try" and stayed with the first wife. people didnt like the first wife cause "they said" she had an attitude, her age, and some past incidents. well he had to figure she maybe a scammer but he married her anyway. he put all the blame on the exwife at the end. his love life has been crazy ever since.

    does he really have herpes or is this a smear campaign.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    She is at least 10 years older than he is.

  • TheWildChild

    Maybe Grace should've revitalized with an HRT patch ?. She is approaching that difficult age to be in a relationship with raging hormones.

  • bemetoo

    really usher?? u infected grace and then drop her with the permanent bumpy pussy

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Grace is 49. She will turn 50 in April.

  • Coy little wink

    So they gonna pull a Greg and Nene? Divorce and remarry a year or two later?

    I like Grace more than Usher so I'm gonna hold my mule right here...

  • NorthDeKalb

    Damn, Usher is the new Halle Berry

  • Coy little wink

    Tameka is that you?

  • Coy little wink

    Halle doesn't have herpes hun

  • NorthDeKalb

    I meant love ‘em and leave ‘em.

  • Coy little wink

    ?

  • Vonn
  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    "u infected grace and then drop her with the permanent bumpy pussy"

    *dead, buried and dug up*

  • Nina Ross

    So they must both have it:/

  • NorthDeKalb

    Herpes is very common. It’s also possible that she was never exposed to the virus.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    I thought she filed for divorce earlier in the year. A little after the girl came out and accused him of giving her the STD.

    ????? Oh well. Wonder how much she cares...

  • Coy little wink

    Did u read the write-up?

  • Neva RuthLess

    Fool what? When you sex someone with herpes you have been exposed to it outbreak or not. Y’all swear y’all doctors on here.

  • NorthDeKalb

    To clarify. Just because she’s been exposed doesn’t mean she’s contracted the virus. That’s what I meant. And there’s no need to be rude about it, I mixed my verbiage but you got the damn meaning.

  • bella28498 .

    Usher stop getting married, it’s ok we alllll know you’re gay

  • Coy little wink

    Really now...

  • abby500

    Oooooh come on. He’s not

  • MsPam

    Don’t forget folks thought Tameka was unattractive.

  • abby500

    Tameka, hun. How ya doin’?

  • Cricket404

    Hey Google, what's a HRT patch?

  • NorthDeKalb

    I’d argue all men have whore DNA. Some just manage it better than others.

  • Judi Jupiter

    Puff is the one who turned him out...

  • NorthDeKalb

    Gay? Come on ? I wouldn’t be surprised to find that he’s sort of foo-la-la’ed with a guy at some point; men are horny b@stards. But clearly he’s attracted to women by and large.

  • Evelynna

    Sandra, didn’t Grace file for divorce in April 2018? Why isn’t anyone mentioning that? She also moved back to NY. She clearly dipped way before for he filed.

  • NorthDeKalb

    I’ve heard something similar but I tend to give people the benefit of doubt. Certainly wouldn’t blow my hair back if true.

  • dontgetblocked

    Common. That's a stretch.

  • dontgetblocked

    This man here...I just can't with his burning behind.

  • Neva RuthLess

    Cool ? my bad.

  • imright

    i thought they divorced months ago?

  • Jethro

    Dude can't keep a woman. https://imgur.com/lU0cZBb.gif

  • Jethro
  • Faux Gibbler

    Any minute Usher will be back with Tameka. 321..

  • http://welfareinfo.org angrysolo

    3 is the magic number

  • I Run New York

    I think they "separated" in April and this is the official divorce filing

  • I Run New York

    He has herpes now. Why would she want him?

  • the guest

    Grace is too smart for this but she let herself get and be used by child man Usher in his vendetta against his ex wife Tameka. This is also all about colorism and Usher seeking colorist approval of others.

    Usher likes elder women. When he married a dark skinned elder woman, his fans and the public rejected the idea. So he found a biracial elder woman with light skin color to try to please his public. And that didn’t work because he actually loved his first wife.

    Usher is in love with an elder dark skinned lady. If he was a grown man, he wouldn’t listen to people or his mother and have the strength to be with who he wants.

    So ambitious Grace cheated with Usher on his wife, helped the child man rip his kids from their mother, would escort the child man to his wife’s house to humilate her. All that evil for three years of marriage where child man Usher put 50 year old Grace to work as full time stepmom but refused to give her a surrogate or adopted baby.

    When will women stop letting men use them for vendetta’s against their ex wife. Let men fight their own battles and come to you with pure heart and clean slate.

  • the guest

    He’lol try to win her back. But Tameka is probably content in her life without him.

  • the guest

    Then Puff is a predator prey on young men.

  • the guest

    Best comment yet.

  • the guest

    Grace is a far better person than Usher but she let herself be used by him in his vindictive agendas and at her age and stature she should have known better.

  • Traci404

    This isnt even close to what happened .
    I live in Atlanta, and his first wife was a complete DRAMA QUEEN.
    TAMEKA was no ANGEL she left her husband and kids and tried to force Usher to Marry her. USHER BACKED OUT on a huge extravaganza, only to Marry her 3 months later in a Judges OFFICE

    He is no Angel, he slept with her BRIDESMAID before marying her.

    Usher and Grace worked together for years and were together living in Buckhead before getting married to her.
    The allegations of him having an STD are kept very hush hush. I cant validate this.

    This has nothing to do with color of someones skin.
    This isvall about BEING MESSY in a town where being faithful is extremely difficult.

  • Y me?

    Tameka is that you girl?

  • Meme

    Huh? Nothing to do with her complexion! Tameka was a schemer who locked his mother out and worked on getting her claws into Usher plus she left her husband and kids (as another poster mentioned) his ex wife did not seem like a nice woman at all.

  • Renee26

    Oh well... Grace can now go to the herpes dating site and find her an older man who's more of her speed.

  • Renee26

    You been on this colorism spiel all week. Get it together... There's beauty in a shades

  • Renee26

    Right people didn't like Tameka cause she was a bitch...had nothing to do with her beautiful black skin

  • oshh16

    We should leave colorism behind in 2018. Black is black.

  • Renee26

    Yes, and even though we know it will never go away we can stop bringing attention to it and/or attaching it to every little story.

  • bemetoo

    Yes

  • Faithz

    Usher need to sit his as down someplace.

  • KcoolMuziq
  • Gloria

    I’m sorry.... I feel like this is a major reach. Yes, colorism is an issue and does exist but it does not have anything to do with why him and Tameka divorced ????? Usher has had many dark skin lady friends before. Remember Chilli?

  • Gloria

    Sorry, he likes women

  • the guest

    Look back on the vile colorist disapproval and harassment Tameka endured as Usher’s wife. It’s the main reason their marriage didn’t work. Criticism of her age AND her color.

  • the guest

    Black is not Black. Everyone doesn’t have to be black to respect each other. Humans beings whether black, biracial, mixed race, Asian, Native American, white Latino, Indian, whatever need to respect each other.

  • the guest

    When Usher became serious with Tameka black people on blogs commented against her in the same colorist way they commented against Serena calling Tameka gorilla and monkey and black this and black that. The truth is black people have deep internalized colorism and they DID attack Tameka based on her color.

    Grace had no business escorting Usher to Tameka’s house and interjecting herself in the middle of their relationship struggles and separation. Grace wasn’t even a fiancé she was a side piece turned girlfriend cemementing her clutch on Usher and everyone knows that. Grace has always been Grace.

  • the guest

    Then why didn’t Usher want a baby with Grace or to give her a baby after she helped him take custody of his kids and played stepmom IF it was not for him using her. Grace wanted a baby and leaves the marriage with no baby because Usher never intended to make a family with her.

  • Coy little wink

    ? my work is done

  • TMW

    Yep, after the lawsuits settle. They were seen together after the split was announced. I feel like the divorce has nothing to do with them having issues in their marriage, as much as it is about trying to protect assets while all these people come out the closer (no pun intended) claiming Usher exposed them to herpes.

    Grace was his manager, she knew what he was about, and what he had or doesn’t have, etc. I like them together, and I think they are still together. Usher just tried to make a quick grab with that mess with Zaytoven and that didn’t work out so well. I bet he files bankruptcy next, not because he’s broke, but he wants to protect his assets during the lawsuits.

  • TMW

    Wasn’t Grace in her early to mid 40’s with grown kids when they married? I never saw anything anywhere that said Grace wanted to have children.

  • Renee26

    Because she's old...and SHE may not have wanted a child... and he may not want more children... Some people marry for companionship not to just have a "tradional family"

  • Renee26

    That's unheard of I suppose...

  • TMW

    Tameka is a beautiful woman with an ugly personality and damaged soul.

    I thought most of the dislike toward Tameka had nothing to do with the color of her skin (though I’d heard some of that), but because she was a nasty person and no one liked her? And Usher’s main beef with her was about his mother?

    And because she left behind her 2 sons and husband to marry Usher? And that she was the reason Usher and Chili broke up?

  • bella28498 .

    And men

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    That grey overcoat is HIDEOUS?

    Does Grace have the Herpes too?

  • TMW

    #TeamTameka is in the building y’all! My question is, what does she have to do with Usher’s divorce from his current wife? ??????????

  • Kimberly King

    Chile.... that young pipe ain't nothing nice. Especially when they have money! Anyway, I always liked Tameka Foster. I'd be so annoyed and embarrassed if I were Grace, that I would have stood by my decision to file. There's obviously loads of truth to these STD stories. Such a shame.

  • BaileyBlue17

    He said they remain "deeply connected " so probably.

  • pecancandy

    Lol

  • JENNYJONES1

    AT THIS POINT SHE MIGHT AS WELL STAY WITH HIM IF HE GAVE HER HERPES OR NOT B/C EVERYBODY KNOWS. KINDA LIKE COOKIE STAYING WITH MAGIC JOHNSON AFTER HE CAME OUT ABOUT HIM HAVING HIV. I'M SURE THERE WERE PLENTY OF UNDERCOVER LAWSUITS FOR HIM B4 AND AFTER HE ANNOUNCED HIS STATUS..........JENNY JONES!!!!

  • lovelygamour

    I sensed some fan girl jealousy. They was and still is angry that she stole him from them. Lol.

  • JENNYJONES1

    ACTUALLY SHE WAS MARRIED WITH TEENAGE KIDS WHEN SHE CHEATED ON HER HUSBAND WITH USHER B/C HE DOESN'T WANT YOU IF YOU AREN'T WITH ANOTHER MAN, GF OR WIFE. CHILLI WAS WITH PRODUCER DALLAS AS USHER SMILED IN HIS FACE, WORKED W/ HIM WHILE PLOTTING ON HIS GF, TAMEKA WAS WITH RYAN WHILE USHER WAS SMILING IN HIS FACE, WEARING, PROMOTING HIS RYAN KENNEDY SHIRTS, PLOTTING ON HIS WIFE THEN GRACE WAS MARRIED TO A MUSIC EXEC WHILE USHER WAS SMILING IN HIS FACE, DOING MUSIC BUSINESS WHILE PLOTTING ON HIS WIFE. ALL THE LADIES WERE OLDER AND TAKEN. USHER HAS A THANG FOR OLDER, TAKEN WOMEN. GUESS IT MAKES HIM FEEL LIKE A MAN IF HE CAN TAKE YOU FROM A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP. SMH!!!.......JENNY JONES!!!!

  • morenYAHdelsur

    Tameka is beautiful. When I see her my heart breaks for her ? God bless that woman and her family.

  • TMW

    I don’t know anything about any of them like that. Thst’s their culture that’s how they get down I guess. I was specifically talking about Grace not wanting kids by Usher because Guest was saying Usher didn’t want kids by her.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    When will your book be published, Dr. Wink?

  • JENNYJONES1

    CHILE YES IT DID. HIS FANS TALKED ABOUT TAMEKA TO NOOOO END. HER DARK COMPLEXION, MAN-EKA, SHE'S OLD. THEY GAVE HER HELL. CHILLI WAS A LITTLE DARK BUT 'EXOTIC' LOOKING WITH THE SILKY TEXTURE, BABY HAIR AND COCONUT COMPLEXION PLUS SHE WAS CHILLI FROM TLC WHILE TAMEKA WAS NO DOUBT 100% THE DARK BLACK GIRL; MARRIED, OLDER WITH KIDS NOT WHAT HIS FANS WANTED AFTER CHILLI ESP WHEN THEY WANTED HIM BACK WITH CHILLI. IT'S LIKE THEY FELT TAMEKA WAS KEEPING HIM FROM BEING WITH/ MARRYING CHILLI EVEN AFTER THEY HAD THEIR 1ST CHILD. GUARANTEED IF TAMEKA WAS LIGHTER OR 'EXOTIC' LOOKING EVEN IF SHE WAS MARRIED, OLDER W/ KIDS HE WOULDN'T HAVE GOT DOGGED AND PRESSURED ABOUT HER LEADING HIS WEAK ASS TO DIVORCE HER AND FIND HIM A LIGHTER VERSION OF THE SAME WOMAN TO SATISFY HIS FANS...........JENNY JONES!!!!

  • Catherine Minor

    I was diagnosed of herpes 6 years ago, the doctor said there are no possible cure for the virus. But i never gave up hope of getting cured. i have been living with it taking acyclovir to prevent outbreaks. I have been doing everything possible to get cured, so i never stopped doing research about finding a cure, i came across testimonies of people getting cured by Dr. Okasi herbal medicine. I contacted him through his website: okasiherbalsolution.webs.com, we talked on phone and i discovered he was genuine. I gave it a try and got the medicine from him, took it has he has prescribed and i'm so happy to say i'm completely cured, i went back to my doctor to confirm it. It's so amazing, a thing of joy. Dr Okasi herbs medicine is capable of curing HSV 1&2 completely. contact him today Email: okasiherbalsolution@outlook.com..

  • Catherine Minor

    I was diagnosed of herpes 6 years ago, the doctor said there are no possible cure for the virus. But i never gave up hope of getting cured. i have been living with it taking acyclovir to prevent outbreaks. I have been doing everything possible to get cured, so i never stopped doing research about finding a cure, i came across testimonies of people getting cured by Dr. Okasi herbal medicine. I contacted him through his website: okasiherbalsolution.webs.com, we talked on phone and i discovered he was genuine. I gave it a try and got the medicine from him, took it has he has prescribed and i'm so happy to say i'm completely cured, i went back to my doctor to confirm it. It's so amazing, a thing of joy. Dr Okasi herbs medicine is capable of curing HSV 1&2 completely. contact him today Email: okasiherbalsolution@outlook.com....

  • JENNYJONES1

    ME EITHER AND I DOUBT SHE WANTED ANY MORE KIDS WITH HERS ALMOST OUT OF THE DOOR LEAVING HER THE FREEDOM TO TRAVEL, DO RED CARPETS AND EVENTS WITH USHER..........JENNY JONES!!!!

  • JENNYJONES1

    GRACE LIKE TAMEKA CHEATED ON AND LEFT THEIR HUSBANDS FOR WHAT THEY THOUGHT WAS A PRIZE AND TURNED OUT TO BE SOME EMBARRASSING NIGHTMARE BS............JENNY JONES!!!

  • TheWildChild

    ? yeah, Halle attitude and breath may stink. But Usher never really seemed to experience many women, being in the industry from a child. He is a nice guy but is a little intellectually challenged, I know for sure. ?

  • TheWildChild

    Exactly ? Usher isn't really that bright, not to sound mean or hurtful, he was preyed upon by both women. Tameka is a character with self-esteem issues with a sketchy past. IveI heard Grace is a control freak and a very masculine like demeanor. ?

  • TheWildChild

    LMAO ? reading this in all caps ?

  • MsPam

    I read that there is a confidentiality agreement, what is he hiding?! I’m sure Usher is paying highly for her silence.

  • Thingamajig

    ? I was thinking the same thing!

  • Wyteprivilege

    lolol!!! Exactly!!!!

  • KLo

    Clearly, Usher has some type of STD/Herpes/the package because he wouldn't be fighting so hard to hide it. Chile, if you're a decent women, no man is worth risking your health/life

  • Coy little wink

    Lolol soon!

  • okiseethisthatdumbshit

    what she said!!

  • XoXo

    There is no proof available that she doesn’t have it. There’s is also no confirmation of when he contracted herpes.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    She might have a hard time getting with somebody who is herpes-free, but there are about 50 million Americans who have herpes. She's a very good looking woman, so I'm sure there's many dudes who already have the H who wouldn't mind getting with her.
    Then again, when you're getting your second divorce before age 50, maybe you don't even need to be getting married again.

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    ??

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Mercy!

  • currvalicious

    This.

  • Renee26

    ?

  • WhoKnew

    Ersher got that hot stick. Thank U, next. I'll pass. And MENZ and WOMENZ if you know what's good for you you'll pass too. You don't want to be bumping into nobody.

  • WhoKnew

    Grandma Grace can now find a grandpa.

  • Readytochokemothernatureout

    When they start out wrong they often end wrong.

  • Allihave2say

    The new hit: drip, drip, and pass.
    I never believed that Tameka was the only issue in their marriage. Usher had the money, reputation and team to make him come out smelling like a rose at Tameka's expense.
    Usher=Halle Barry. Two crazy narcissists who abuse their partners then scandalize their names.

  • Allihave2say

    The validity stamp in this situation is the complaint from the male victim has not been thrown out of court but has been green lighted to continue.

  • Lorenzo Chaps

    I wonder if Usher's buying another manse in Atlanta now that he's divorcing Grace. Usher, just stay single. You're financially secure, father of two boys, and still sexy. Date and have fun. But something tells me he doesn't like being alone and has to be in a relationship.

  • Lorenzo Chaps

    Look at you, telling all the old Atlanta tea. Dallas wanted to whoop Usher's behind too. He was hot. I know they're cool now, but there was a time Dallas saw red with Usher and Chilli.

  • Lorenzo Chaps

    Hmmm I know people weren't that fund of Tameka during that entire relationship.

    If anyone cares, Meka's selling her home. I wonder where this heffa moving. Could she and Usher be getting back together?

  • missmiami305

    Lmao @ date and have fun. Shittttt lol

  • Lady” Youngblood

    Usher has a dirty di(k.... Woman be aware.... especially if he just having single fun.... stay away from this clown and ain’t nothing cute about him even more now

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Is it her home to sell? I thought Usher bought that house for her and the kids.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Usher still has a house here in Atlanta. Tameka moved to Los Angeles to be closer to him and the boys.

  • Lorenzo Chaps

    lol dirty d i ck. Poor guy will never live that one down, I swear. Like others have posted, he must be hiding something because he's stalling and using every tactic to keep his records secured.

  • Joy King

    Honestly, I could care less about Usher's personal life. I saw him in concert a few years ago and the man was absolutely amazing. Studio singer he is not. He sang and danced his a$$ off for over 2 hours straight. He also did a solo set playing the drums. Usher is truly talented. I wish him the best.

  • Lolly Asher

    Am I the only one that thinks this is an arrangement that didn't get the benefit (keeping the mess secret) so its a wrap?

  • dblogged

    Has all of that and still can’t find happiness and love

  • Parent

    Personally if I had an incurable std, I would be miserable.

  • Parent

    My heart hurt so bad for her when her son died in that tragic accident.

  • reddfoxxy16

    It's the same as any other incuruable disease...Sickle cell, Diabetes, & some forms of cancer, so what's the difference, really? You still would have 2 live with it...

  • Parent

    No maam the hell it's not!!

    You must be burning..

  • morenYAHdelsur

    Yes! OMGosh just sooo heartbreaking. That’s all I think when I see her ?

  • Stl_heat

    ???????#TRUTH! No body “gives” you cancer, diabetes or sickle cell. I agree with you totally different.

  • Stl_heat

    Someone must have given you Stupidlosis.... shits obviously ? contagious.

  • Parent

    Exactly! She bugging!

  • Parent

    Cuz his penis is on fire

  • Queen B

    Diabetes and cancer is curable....and they are NOT contagious

  • reddfoxxy16

    I was speaking in terms of what the initial poster had stated.. That he/she would be miserable, if he/she had 2 live with an incurable Std...My reply was...You would live with it, just like you would live any other disease that was incurable...I NEVER STATED OR IMPLIED THAT THE DISEASES WERE THE SAME...READING & COMPREHENSION IS KEY DUMMY...

  • reddfoxxy16

    Again...Please read the comment of the poster, I initially responded 2...he/she stated that they would be miserable if they had 2 live with an incurable( Std) disease.... MY response WAS... You would live with it, just like you would live with any other incurable disease...I NEVER STATED THOSE DISEASES WERE ONE IN THE SAME, OR RELATED.. STUPID...

  • reddfoxxy16

    Ma'am....In some cases, cancer & diabetes can be cured, BUT MOST OF THE TIME THEY'RE NOT... CANCER & DIABETES, ARE BOTH DISEASES, THAT MOST PEOPLE HAVE 2 LIVE WITH...Which was my point, in the first place... I NEVER STATED THAT THESE DISEASES WERE THE SAME AS AN INCURABLE STD...I STATED THAT YOU WOULD HAVE 2 LIVE WITH IT, IF IT DID AFFECT YOU IN SOME WAY, OR ANOTHER....WHETHER ITS AN INCURABLE STD DISEASE, OR AN INCURABLE/CURABLE, NON STD DISEASE....

  • reddfoxxy16

    Either way, no one wants an INCURUABLE DISEASE , WHETHER ITS AN STD OR NOT...IM SURE IF YOU WERE DIAGNOSE WITH ONE...WOULD IT MATTER WHAT KIND IT WÀS? OR WOULD IT BE FUNNY?

  • Parent

    I would be miserable at the thought that I couldn't have an intimate and sexual relationship with a person I choose without infecting them with the disease.

  • Parent

    Someone very close to me is living with cancer so believe me I am aware that you still have to live day to day.

  • reddfoxxy16

    Cancer, diabetes, & Sickle cell can be hereditary sweetheart... So technically, it CAN be given 2 you......Again, ... I STATED... WHETHER ITS AN INCURABLE STD TYPE OF DISEASE OR NOT, YOU WOULD STILL HAVE 2 LIVE WITH IT...WHAT IS IT THAT YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND ABOUT THAT??

  • reddfoxxy16

    Smh...ok...

  • Parent

    Girl just stop

  • reddfoxxy16

    Gal, you stop...Your one track mind, & train of thought, is quite disturbing.....Bye?.

  • Parent

    Well if you're disturbed by what i typed on the internet then you need to get a life. What I eat don't make you shit!

    Have a Happy and Healthy New Year!

  • reddfoxxy16

    I wasn't disturbed by what you typed dear, I responded 2 it....If my comment made you feel some sort of way, maybe you need 2 reevaluate YOUR life, & the principles, & priorities in it...It's obvious you haven't lived 2 much of a life, if the worldly things in it, such as SEX, determines your happiness...
    Thanks, I will have a happy & healthy new year, bcus that's the positive energy, I've put out in the atmosphere, not negativity, & misery....You should try that...Peace...

  • Parent

    It's obvious you haven't lived 2 much of a life, if the worldly things in it, such as SEX, determines your happiness...

    Really you get all this from a comment on the internet. Stop! There's a whole world outside the internet dear.

    And of course there are other things in the world but I love sex and I sleep great at night knowing I am not transmitting anything to my partner. I prayer you sleep the same but if you have herpes it's okay too hun. Maybe they will find a cure one day.

  • reddfoxxy16

    If that's what makes you sleep great at night, then you might want 2 sleep with your eyes open... You better be praying that your partner never transmits anything 2 you, bcus it can happen... Also, be very careful, with the condescending & sarcastic verbiage, that you trying 2 use towards me...Remember, what you put out there, has a funny way of coming back around...

  • Faux Gibbler

    $$$$
    Tameka don’t care.

  • Stl_heat

    What about “it’s definitely not the same” dont you understand??? Thats MY opinion. All of which you stated “can” be hereditary but can still be swerved by taking care of yourself. STDs are from being with a nasty unsafe person who may or may not supose to love you. Cancer, diabetes and SC are not from being nasty and unsafe.

  • Iraizehell

    What difference does it make since u think yelling a point is necessary... what is your point?

  • Iraizehell

    LMAO

  • reddfoxxy16

    I already made my point...I wasn't yelling..

  • reddfoxxy16

    O, ok..

  • reddfoxxy16

    Not really.., It's all more complexed/complicated, than it's seems, but we can agree 2 disagree..

  • teather

    He never liked that woman to begin with .She was silly to believe he did. Usher BE TRUE to yourself and BE whoever you are. F(ck everyone who says you must be one thing or the other. You define you and keep it moving. Stop getting married and asking these homely women to be your beard. None of these women look like they have been right for you. Get your mom out of your ear and grow up to be whatever kind of man you want to be. Stop the games.

  • teather

    I love blogs.

  • teather

    Ppl don't read, forget it.

  • Queen B

    I mean if thats the case u might as well compare herpes to a cold virus then. If ppl get diagnosed with diabetes at least they know that they are living with it temporarily with hopes or a plan to reverse it. Living with herpes stops there.....there's no cure or plan to reverse it period. It's nothing that can be done

  • reddfoxxy16

    You're right, smh..I'm glad u get it...LOL...???

  • reddfoxxy16

    Doctors actually do compare herpes 2 a common cold virus, but I'm not going 2 go 2 deep into it...I respect your opinion... The only thing I was trying 2 say was, no matter what disease a person may be living with, no matter whether it's a non curable STD type of disease, or a non curable type of disease, non STD related, they're both diseases, that an individual would have 2 live with...When you really think about it, what DISEASES do they really have a cure for...??

  • Queen B

    They have cures for bacteria diseases. I have herpes zoster (shingles) so I understand what ur saying. And yes cold viruses and herpes are similar which is why I said u should compare those instead of trying to compare diabetes or cancer

  • reddfoxxy16

    I got cha...I was only trying 2 compare diabetes, and cancer, 2 an std type of disease, in the instance, that they were both diseases, that you would have 2 live with, even tho all of these diseases are very different...

  • chris

    Usher is a manwhore