Black Twitter is still fuming over B. Smith's husband, Dan Gasby, moving his mistress into Smith's home. Before hooking up with Gasby, and moving in on Smith, Lerner dated Black restaurateur Dard Coaxum (pictured).

According to theYBF.com, Lerner, who met Gasby in summer 2017 at a Hamptons bar, may have had a secret rendezvous with Coaxum after Gasby moved her into B. Smith's ultra modern Hamptons home in late 2017.

Lerner broke up with Coaxum after he was convicted of killing a man with one punch.

via theYBF -- Our source tells us Alex left Dard after he was found guilty of a deadly assault and sentenced to 15 months in prison in 2016. In the summer of 2015, Dard got into an altercation with a man named Julio Torres at a New York restaurant. Ish escalated and Dard ended up punching the man so hard he fell and hit his head, suffered permanent brain damage, and eventually died. Dard argued that he acted in self-defense. Alex, who was his girlfriend at the time, was there to see it all go down and even took the stand in his defense.

Smith, 69, was diagnosed with Alzheimer's soon after she began to experience profound memory loss in 2009. Smith is best known for her trendy restaurants, lifestyle books and TV cooking shows.

Alzheimer's is caused by plaques that destroy brain cells over time. As the disease progresses, it causes a slow decline in memory, thinking and reasoning skills.

Gasby, 64, defended his "modern family" in an exclusive Washington Post article. Gasby said Lerner is a "huge help" around the house. He routinely fires back at Smith's fans on social media who criticize him for breaking his marital vows.

"I've been married to a black woman for 26 years. I have a PhD in black love," he told The Washington Post.

Lerner, 53, justified her awkward situation by asserting "this is not a man cheating on his wife."

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"What I admired about him is that he takes care of her," Lerner told The Post. Lerner claims she has her own bedroom in Smith's house, where she stays when she's not visiting her Manhattan apartment.

"If I can be compassionate to her, if I can do anything for her, it makes me feel good," she told The Post. "If it is giving her something to drink, or making her something to eat - she loves to eat - I feel good."

Dana, Gasby's 32-year-old daughter from a previous relationship, says she warns her dad about flaunting his mistress on social media.

"I tell him all the time to be careful what he posts," she said. "I say: 'Look, you're going to make people mad. You either have to be okay with that, or you have to change.'"

Dana said she was "happy" when her father told her he'd found another lover. "I was like, 'Thank God. I'm happy," she told The Post. She said she was glad her father didn't abandon Smith or move her into a nursing facility.

"B. is my mom. She's in this house. She's here every day," said Dana, who also moved in the house to help care for Smith.

  • jazmine

    This is why I don't think marriage is for me.I'm tryna picture my granny moving in her side nig while my grandaddy in there sick. Living off his money in the house he worked hard to build. Does she not have family? Cuz if you that lonely I would need u to just let me go and go ahead on about your business.

  • MzJamaica

    While we get you're human and probably need contact, taking in your mistress and flaunting it is a disgrace. Does B have kids? Where are they? Sir you are truly an a*#!

  • free

    i've been seeing this story all over the place. i just don't care though. she's getting a house in the hamptons, some black dyck, shopping sprees and got to put in a few hours of caregiving, and he's getting some white punany 24/7 while caregiving. i cap for caregivers--whatever gets you through.

  • Chicagowise

    I know her type... black and thirsty.

  • StoneColdLady

    He needs his a** kicked off of his back! His wife probably thinks this lady is her nurse, friend, or something of that nature, but she is in a whole relationship with her husband living in her house. My dad died from this disease and it is horrible. Once he was talking to my mom telling her his wife was sick (which she was at the time) and talking about his children, my mom reply wa, “you know I’m your wife” he said lady you have to leave because he didn’t recognize her even though he did remember he was married

  • Chicagowise

    He is disgusting, but his turn is coming.

  • LYRICS

    This stuff is just unnerving! IDC what anyone thinks or says, this ish should've just been kept away from the public eye b/c no matter how "pretty" Mr. Dan makes all of this ish seem sweet, this ain't right!! IN NO WAY' SHAPE, or FORM! B. has NO CLUE what's really going on and he's justifying this nastiness by saying ish like he wouldn't want anyone else to have to deal with this, and she's (gf) a big help! Helping her die quicker! Lil' rat poisoning here and there in her tea!? IDK man......this isn't right!!

    SN: At least she has a "color type" b/c this new chick Tyga is supposedly dating has two babies.....not mixed.....and she looks like this side chick........ijs

  • free

    yeah, where are they? i heard she has a daughter that's cool with it but then i though i heard there was a child that wasn't cool with it so i'm not sure. if they're not cool with it, they should take her and take care of her.

  • Coy little wink

    Chile...whatever happened to avoiding the appearance of impropriety... https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/04378181cc6698e0efa4c03f14ff79ad4d253da78465f66cf5b2fedb77e207f1.jpg

  • Trace da Ace

    yeah she has a type....wealthy black men.....seems like this chic trolls the restaurant scene...smdh....yeah I bet B.Smith's husband wished he did not let this cat out of the bag.....

  • free

    he seems like he is whipped. gotta be to trust a YT in your house with your ailing wife. plus she feeding B and errthang. that's a tough job so i question her authenticity but it is what it is.

  • Fire & Ice

    Poor B, she has no clue what's going on. I bet they have her thinkingt this chick is a nurse. This sounds like a lifetime movie.

  • Trace da Ace

    I think that once the YT woman saw his actual situation....she dug her heels in....she figures it is only a matter of time for B.Smith....then once she passes, YT woman can move from the guest room to the master and take over....its sad...but yep...its happening. He is whipped...she is plotting...

  • Yoni7

    This stuff is just unnerving!
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    Which is why I won't/can't/haven't followed this story. When a black man "trades".....nothing about him concerns me anymore.

  • free

    now that i read the rest of the story, i don't think B has kids. HIS daughter is ok with what her dad's doing but i thought for sure somebody on B's side had an issue. could be wrong though.

  • Rayne

    They fawking over that woman. That’s a damn shame.

  • Jordan’s Memory

    Oh she waiting for her to die for sure so she can marry him without a pre-nup and once she gets her hands on all his money she will find her another young black man to spend it on.

  • Jefferey Franklin

    How do you know in moment of clarity his wife didn't ask him do that so he could be happy?

  • Ni Ni

    He's not going to change his ways. They are all reaping the benefits of Mrs. Smith- the daughter, mistress, & him. This man had to been the same arrogant SOB when Mrs. Smith met him.

    This situation should serve as a wake up call to those women who have no good men in their homes. If you plan to stay with him, at least get some type of video taped will or something so he wont have you out here looking pitiful in the event you dont know you're in the world.

  • Jefferey Franklin

    He could put his wife in a home and move on with life. He is taking care of her and keeping his oath. Doesn't mean he doesn't deserve the right to be happy himself. People need to mind they own business and stop with this fake outrage over everything.

  • Guest

    It was reported she has no family.

  • Mielle Downey

    All I want to do is smash a bottle over this white homewrecker head.

  • Bonita

    That man goes hard for that saltine like he's been eagerly waiting the entire 26 years of that marriage to finally get him one.

  • http://realitytea.com/ Lady Chatterley’s Lover

    Oh hell no. I would go into an alzheimer's stupor and kick both of their A$$ES. Probably giving her dirty water and cat food to speed up the process. She should have made her own arrangements before getting too incapacitated.

  • Ni Ni

    Did yall hear Sherri shepherd defending the man on Tom Joyner this morning? I mean I'm not surprised at her views, she has a track record of getting rid of babies once they're inconvenient. She kept saying how we dont know that this situation was discussed by Bev & husband beforehand and she might have wanted this.

  • free

    yeah, don't throw me in no damn home and run off with the bish with all my money; lemme be in my bed and in my house.

  • TriniHarlem

    I used to watch her show on tvone a few years back and I enjoyed her creativity. Hard pill to swallow and wow just wow https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/da34f1d45bbfa9bed6e74e0f32bbac44faf3964d74f6436762e0a27015fce02c.gif

  • free

    i agree. we don't know. i find more outrage about the colonizer instead of the focus being on how B is cared for, which is most important.

  • Guest

    The fact that he dating is one thing. Moving her into the house is quite another tho. This disease is tough. I know several people who had it including family members. Sometimes the person will turn on the stove, walk out the house. It is very hard to care for a person with the disease. So while I understand he needs all the help he can get, he could have hired a real nurse to come every day to help him.

  • Jefferey Franklin

    My wife would give me that free will do that because she cares about my happiness. That is an adult and realistic question. You seem just overly biter though so I doubt this make sense to you

  • DaughterOfaQueen

    Same...I use to buy her items at Bed Bath & Beyond.

  • Ni Ni

    But, he put his own business out in the street to be discussed.

  • Jordan’s Memory

    I completely agree. okay you wanna be happy, its hard to take care of a love one who is ill, and you feel you should be able to move on and live your life, I get it, but be private about it. You suppose let that woman feel nothing but love and support from YOU until her last days. There is no reason to be taking pics with that woman and that woman taking pics with ur wife and she damn sure nuff don't need to be living there. A super conflict of interest because you think that woman wants ur wife to be living for another 20 years?... you think she wants to live her life in the Guest room of her lover and his wife? of course not she is only thinking about the end game she has her eyes on the prize, and looking at her ex the new guy is nothing but a Sugar Daddy because he is no way in comparison to the ex he is much younger and more attractive than his old arse! But she knows he is whipped and probably color struck so he is making the game easier for her to play.

  • Cocoa Rose

    LOL. But black men will claim that black women are gold diggers and that is why they don't date us...go figure...

  • TriniHarlem

    If you didn't want public conversation about your personal fckry don't put it out there. Simps.
    And don't insult my fckn intelligence about claiming you have a PhD in black love when at the end of the fckn day you CHOSE a colonizer. Fck outta my face with the mindfck you trying. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/faaff01cacccbd3c947c1cb47d787a6ed2012b761723327e7ae7468e47eb382b.gif

  • Mz_Opinionated

    Alzheimer's Disease is tough. It really is and heartbreaking. His wife will never 100% be his wife again. I don't know if I 100% agree with how he handled this but...let God be his judge.

  • Yardgirl

    Mayne this story makes me feel all types of ways!! I get teary eyed thinking about how this lovely woman who worked so hard to build her brand has been reduced to this. Hot mugga fugging tears right now!!

  • SoulfulLove

    That poor lady (b.smith) probably think that lady is the house keeper

  • Guest

    Exactly, I don't know why all the social media sharing. The narcissism of it all. smh.

  • Society Has Changed

    Ms. B needs to have a “Sundowning” moment that will cause her to slap the piss out this winch! My mom suffers from Alzheimer’s and when she’s going through sundowning, clear the house!!!

  • TriniHarlem

    Damn shame that the end of the day she's disrespected. It's not what you do but how and this ain't it chief.

  • Jefferey Franklin

    Doesn't mean you got the full spectrum though. And despite that hasn't stopped you from going overboard about it either.

  • Yardgirl

    According to Wikipedia: Smith has no children but is stepmother to Gasby's daughter Dana.

    I am guessing the daughter is not going to go against her dad. Sads.

  • Ryan

    He had the audacity to move this manface'd ho into B's own house. Karma will not be kind to him. If he starts getting sick she will take what she can, bounce and use the rest to complete her gender reassignment surgery.

  • Jefferey Franklin

    You are deflecting, even with that however, every black man I know dates black women exclusively. So what are you really talking about. Do you live outside of twitter at all?

  • Yardgirl

    Me too!! I loved that woman like she was fam! So beautiful and gracious!!

  • Guest

    Ms. B is sick and still look younger and better than this woman.

  • Topic Influencer

    So who DIDNT think Susan had a type? BBD and rich. It aint hard

  • Ni Ni

    Stating my opinion on a forum is going overboard, how so?

  • Jefferey Franklin

    No your unnecessary anger and finger pointing is going overboard

  • TriniHarlem

    Sad part is she will walk away with BSmith hard earned money. Just want to punch her in throat and run his ass over

  • A D N

    Home is my sanctuary. It's where I shut out the world and all its evilness. So to bring such behavior in the home is horrible. Yes, we marry for better or worse. And yes, we do not know the agreement within their marriage. But I seriously doubt she would agreed to the totality of what is transpiring in the bedroom next to hers, the funds to support such behavior and etc. This is when children, heirs, are so important. If B Smith was my mother, there is NOOOOO way he would be there in that house with that woman, sleeping under the same roof, period! And to think his mistress, because that's what she is, lacks the self respect and dignity to remove herself from under the roof is amazing. She is not needed! GET A DAMNNN NURSE! And if he feels that overwhelmed, GET HER ANOTHER HUSBAND to do the things he is actively showing he is unfit to do. I mean, who has the disease in the marriage?! Because if it was him, I GUARANTEE, he would not want B Smith, moving a man under the roof...memory in tact or not!

  • Ghost

    I hope she out lives all of them! I don’t like this “arrangement “ at all...smh

  • Disgustd

    Have you ever heard beauty and jewISH woman go together? I mean, for real.

  • Guest

    All of this!

  • Phillybruh

    These are discussions that need to be had with spouses and children. I don't agree with making it public but I don't disagree with him find some kind happiness in this situation. She looks well cared for and from what I read deep in the throws of the disease his wife as he knew her is gone.

  • Topic Influencer

    Not to victim blame here, but when folks find out they are terminally ill, they need to be putting parameters in place to prevent shit like this. I KEEP asking WHERE is B. fam???? Not him, OR HIS daughter. Her sister, nieces and nephews...SOMEONE. This is why dont 1,000 percent subscribe to marriage. I want to leave Dub24 in charge and basically based on our state laws, its easier if I aint legally married.

  • Ghost

    Well.. he’s so open about everything else..why not say this is what B wanted?

  • Candance

    So everyone just wants him to live in misery. Alzheimer's is no joke, he deserves to still live. I think its very beautiful that he is insistent on taking good care of her all of her days. She seems happy and content. Let them be. I promise until people take care of a sick spouse you really dont know what you go through. Its easier to judge then to live it!

  • Blak

    Making B Smith look like a bloody clown at the worse possible time in her life

  • Fire & Ice

    If she did, he or his daughter would have said so. He's gotten a lot of backlash, so he would have gladly stated so.

  • Phillybruh

    But if his memory is not intact what would stop her.

  • January Jones

    B. Smith probably thinks Alex is a live-in nurse

  • jazmine

    So because she sick that means you get to sleep with another woman in the home you shared with her? Would you give your wife the same pass? You get cancer or something and can no longer be the same man you are, can she move her new guy in?

  • A D N

    Her Dignity and self respect, as well as her respect and dignity for him!

  • Topic Influencer

    Its not just her. His page is FULL of supporters. Caring for a loved one with Alz. is hard. We dont know if they had spoken about this and he has his wife blessing. Its their marriage and folks should butt out. Its maddening.

  • Phillybruh

    She probably forgets both them every couple days.

  • TriniHarlem

    Oh I get that at its finest because I see it daily at work. Main reason it burns my grits because at the end of the day it's not hard to act like a decent human being. He had a vow not the family so honor that. When all else fails respect me in your decision.

  • Phillybruh

    I think that is what keeps him from putting her in a home. But she's gone.

  • A D N

    He should judge his own behavior...as well as the mistress.

  • A D N

    Get her another husband. If he's making decisions for her, make that one. He got another woman...get her another man.

  • Disgustd

    And that daughter of his cosigning that crap..When Ms/Mr. Golda Meir cuts her out of the will. We'll see how happy she is then.

  • A D N

    Would you allow your wife to do the same?

  • SpiceGirl

    I say to ALL of this.....Put those "shoes" on....lace them up and run a lap In them.....Then lets talk. They love, I'm like...Meh

  • TriniHarlem

    Lastly it's not about him not being happy because obviously that's important. However it's how you do things. Delivery makes all the difference and that's fundamental.

  • A D N

    I see all the spectrum I need to see...from his words and photos.

  • Phillybruh

    So whose going to sign up too marry someone deep in the throws of this disease. Besides someone who is up too no good.

  • Topic Influencer

    Its maddening and its sad. that you even have to do this to protect yourself.

  • Soda

    Even if B & her husband did agree on this type of arrangement it's tacky of him to flaunt it the way he has, as if everyone else needs to know.

  • Pamela

    This whole situation is very sad and troubling. God bless the true herion Ms B. As for the other players mentioned in this writeup, God is watching.

  • Phillybruh

    He has said they had this discussion prior to the disease getting worse.

  • A D N

    Many men would sign up...many, and at this point, and from what I've seen, the current husband and the next husband are in the same boats as far as ethics. Besides Didn't the mistress so called signed up? Isn't she stating how much of a help she's been...

  • Ni Ni

    I wont go over to his page to attack him. But, i will voice my disdain for it here.

  • Guest

    QTNA.

  • Mz_Opinionated

    I agree. But I assure you. Caring with someone FULL-TIME that has Alzheimer's is difficult. I am not talking out of my ass. I know full well what I am saying. Do I agree with how he is handling it? Nope...But...Hey...What can you do?

  • Topic Influencer

    I aint say nothing. I just read. He has a ton of supporters of this disgusting ass behavior.

  • Jefferey Franklin

    Yes I would because I don't want her to be alone dealing with my decrepit ass. If my mind is not there anymore I am gone, I want her to be happy........

  • TriniHarlem

    Right ?

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    I agree with you but don't you think it's disrespectful for his sidepiece to live under the same roof?

  • Ni Ni

    You still did not explain how I'm going overboard and how im angry?

  • A D N

    Great point! I am leaving my wishes and care in the hands of those I currently see take care of my little needs so if I need them for my big needs...I am in good hands. My cousin and I have already decided we are there for each other...hand written and notarized. Get your paperwork in order is what I say all the time.

  • Topic Influencer
  • Jefferey Franklin

    How do you know she is his mistress though? She was diagnosed 2 years ago. The problem is no one knows the full story and everybody just jumps to conclusion and start coming with all these assumptions. And as stated I would give my wife the same pass. I love her enough to not want her to be alone and to have someone that makes her happy. Don't you want the same for your husband or would you demand him to be alone the rest of his life even though you as he knows you is no longer there? That's mighty selfish of you.

  • A D N

    Or take the shoes off, and give the shoes to someone capable of handling the situation when you feel overwhelmed.

  • TriniHarlem

    Chile it's not hard to see it

  • Topic Influencer

    She would allow you to parade your white woman around to the world and move in the house with yall and help do her care, thus seeing her most intimate BIZ?

    Your wife is a saint. Keep her.

  • Ni Ni

    He's proud to show off what he has on his arm. Like someone said earlier, he probably been waiting all his life for a white woman.

  • Jefferey Franklin

    What constitutes as "flaunting" though, its not like he was like at me b*tches......

  • Candance

    Maybe/ maybe not. Personally IDK if I could have gone that far but if everyone involved is cool with it why not. B Snith is gone.... shes just happy to wake up everyday its all sad.

  • jazmine

    She his mistress because he still married to someone else and she's his girlfriend. I don't demand he be alone, if he can't take me in my sickness he can go thats fine but to live off the fruits of my labor with another woman in my face would be disrespectful.

  • Phillybruh

    The built that brand together.

  • Soda

    You must not have seen his Facebook page, telling people he didn't give af what they thought.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    I guess "Til death do us part" is just some old-fashioned stuff to some folks nowadays.

  • Topic Influencer

    THIS! Imma need my baby to bust up in the house re-arranging furniture and taking NAMES. And if my big sis still on this earth (she is almost 12 years older than me) wheel her auntie in and let her cuss the entire FAWK outta folk. Bc BAY-BEEE nobody can cuss someone out like my sister. She will cuss you out so bad, will make you feel like you dead in the STREET. Not on their watch lol

  • 11pink123

    Well I don’t know how she went from that man in the pic to that super old man.. big difference and not the same type...

    She must be waiting on a check, so she can go back to the younger man or something...

  • Jefferey Franklin

    White woman? That has very little to do with this subject, although I suspect it has everything to do with the fake outrage

    And yes she would want me to be happy as long as I took care of her. She would not want me to put her in a home cause those places are hell holes .......and she would not want me to be alone. I mean my wife is a real woman who genuinely loves me.......she doesn't have to be a saint, but she is a beautiful woman.

  • A D N

    I am currently dealing with it also...with two people. Nope, it's not easy. But there are many ways for us to be a help for the one we love. This isn't it. My dad instilled in me from a little girl to have self respect. When I respect myself, I am respected. This man lacks self respect. From afar, I do not respect him. If it's this bad for him now...at the stage she's in...he's in for a rude awakening because it gets worse...much worse...but you know what I'm talking about.

  • Topic Influencer

    HE DID say that. Posted on social media: This my lady. If yall dont like it come at me bro. Legit.

  • SpiceGirl

    True that!!!

  • Phillybruh

    You should get that done with a lawyer, the courts may not recognize that should an issue arise.

  • Ni Ni

    "Forsaske all others" too.

  • Karen Brady

    Sandra can we get a Duane & Tisha post pleeaasseeeee???

  • A D N

    Well...don't wait until you're really ill. I'm sure in some ways you are decrepit now.

  • Jefferey Franklin

    That's your opinion, but you don't have the full spectrum of the story. You already painted the dude into a devil before any of the facts came out.

  • Jefferey Franklin

    Should he live in shame if he and wife agree with it?

  • Topic Influencer

    Im not gonna lie it has A LOT to do with it. I just dont see too many black older women moving into another sick woman house laying beside her husband at night. Sorry. I just dont. And if they DO...they are whores TOO. The narrative doesnt change.

  • Rainbowbelow

    I know one thing for damn sure is that I would never want to go a nursing home. I have seen people decline so fast once they enter a nursing home.

  • Jefferey Franklin

    The man knows what he likes. Yall painting B as a victim but we are all on the outside looking in. Now If the woman did not give him permission to at least move the woman in then he is dead wrong, but if she actually gave him her permission to do so, then its nobody's else's business and she should be able to post whatever he wants to post freely.

  • Topic Influencer

    LMFAOOOOO. Good one

  • A D N

    The only thought that matter is his...very obvious. Right or wrong...and that's the sad thing about it. He's weak.

  • TriniHarlem

    I will find y'all and wreck shit if all else fails trust that

  • the guest

    Exactly.

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    I’m real skeptical I hate we have to question everything these days but Tisha said Martin sexually harassed her now she claiming her ex was or is abusive towards her and these claims come AFTER he was asking for money from the court. I just can’t!!

  • Ebony Starr

    If he is overwhelmed how is bringing another person into the situation helping? I have been a caretaker to my sick mother, so I have walked in those shoes. Mostly you need a break from the stressful situation. Having Alex there just adds more stress to all of the relationships. We took turns taking care of my mother, who needed 24 hour care, and everyone was burned out. It would make more sense for them to take there relationship outside of the home and to hire help for those times.

  • Yup, I said it

    Dan is old, dry and crusty looking. She surely can't find him sexy.

  • Topic Influencer

    You and Yoni better show up guns ablazing lol. Folks gonna be good and evicted and life made hard by that time tho. Bc bff since we were in 3rd grade aint one to be dealt with EITHER in times of extreme bullshit.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    I think in most states you can appoint anyone you wish as your guardian, and give them power-of-attorney over your finances. By default it would be your spouse if you don't leave other instructions, but I'm pretty sure you could usually appoint whoever you wish to handle your affairs.
    (Of course, most of us don't make such arrangements ahead of time like we should, because it's unpleasant to think about being in that type of situation.)

  • TriniHarlem

    I'm kicking ass and taking names all while introducing myself. Like hi I'm fam y'all don't know it but you will tuhday. I really can't stand people acting like morals don't exist. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/620c7a7e5ccdac0ae485db74b4619644feaf9b9a31f19fe3d27551817dee3a94.gif

  • Yup, I said it

    He could have hired a nurse. Instead he chose to hire his hoe and use it as an excuse to move her in and start his new life. He needs to own it and stop with the pity party.

  • A D N

    Ok. Thanks!

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    Sorry, I don't get that. If the current husband doesn't file for divorce, how could she just "get her another husband"?

  • TriniHarlem

    Y'all better get hip to a living will. I say this every few years here. Stop playing with your life.

  • Topic Influencer

    THIS! The whats so wrong with it ass folks are on my NERVES. I nor ANY OTHER woman is married to your janky ass to be embarrassed in this manner. I dont have a husband currently. But I did. And just the thought of him doing something of this manner got me wanting to call and cuss him smooth OUT lmao.

  • A D N

    Til death do we part. She's not dead...she's ill.

  • MsSapphire9800

    This is one post that is so disrespectful on every level...that I will keep my comment to myself.....

  • Topic Influencer

    YES.

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    Money makes anyone sexy

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    When it comes to White women Black men loose their dam minds.

  • Phillybruh

    If he had a black girlfriend every one would be calling her a saint. This is more about the white women than it is B.Smiths care.

  • jazmine

    He the one that told the story we can only go by what he say

  • A D N

    He should file for divorce and allow the man who will uphold his wife's dignity and deserving of respect to marry her. He arranged everything else...and makes all the other decisions...let him make that one as well. Then we will see where his true intentions lies.

  • Yup, I said it

    Why doesn't he just divorce her and leave. Move on with his life. He won't divorce her because he wants her whole estate and the rights to all her business when she dies. If he divorces her he will only get part of her estate.

  • Karen Brady

    Honey you do not have to tell me... seems to be some some sort of pattern here...

  • Mz_Opinionated

    He's an a$$hole. ? not based off this comment but several others. What he said about going to a lawyer is correct but that what he types please read "with caution".

  • TriniHarlem
  • Yup, I said it

    People arent mad about Dan. Nobody cares about Dan. What s upsetting is the abuse of the sick and helpless. You don't mistreat someone just because you think they dont have sense enough to know they are being mistreated or because they can't fight back. He thinks since her mind is gone that the disrespect doesn't matter. That's what they LPN that was raping that woman in the nursing home thought too.

  • Karen Brady

    Can't lie over here. GUILTY! I still wouldn't call a sister a saint but I am hot over this Becky. Just sayin'. Now on the other hand and while being honest, while I've always admired B. Smith, and I'm sorry about her illness, this sad story is not on my radar..lol.

  • SmartAtheist

    B. might be getting it in with the them of them too sometimes lol. There might be some menage a trois action going on, have y'all ever consider that? Anyway he's taking care of her ain't he? She's still comfortable in her own beautiful home not some managed care old folks home and being taken care of by her family. IMO Just because she became mentally ill doesn't mean he has to give up on enjoying his life, that's not fair.

  • Blue

    The tea will be when he is no longer able to care for himself, B. Smith has passed on ... and the girlfriend moves in a younger boyfriend.

  • Topic Influencer

    See previous comment:

    Im not gonna lie it has A LOT to do with it. I just dont see too many black older women moving into another sick woman house laying beside her husband at night. Sorry. I just dont. And if they DO...they are whores TOO. The narrative doesnt change.

  • A D N

    The husband nor the mistress knows what self-respect is...just self gratification because he is soooooooo overwhelmed and soooooooo alone and need his mistress to live with him because he is soooooooo in need too.

  • Karen Brady

    wooh.. and the cycle just keeps on going huh? Then that boyfrend is gonna knock up a a younger chick and move her and the baby in. Ya'll call me when THAT happens :-)

  • Blue

    lol

  • TriniHarlem

    Her being white is just the cherry on top of the cake. Can't stress this enough it's the lack of decency and that in of itself is grounds enough to be annoyed. You ever go to work and see a patient get taken advantage of all because their sick? I see it daily of all races and creeds and guess what it still gets the same energy from me.

  • A D N

    There is no way peace is in that home...no way. He's a married man! She's his mistress.

  • Soda

    He's probably waiting, living in that apartment she's not currently using. She tells old dude she's going to check on her mail when she really getting young BBD. ?

  • CoTToNCaNDie SWeeTAsGolD

    Well this is interesting. Ain't no damn way he could possibly think this is ok. Does this whyt lady have her own money? What is her occupation? Is he funding her lifestyle with his money or with his wife's money? Why does she have to live with them? Can she not afford her own living accommodations? So many questions with this one right here. I wonder if during B's more lucid moments (if she still even has them) does she say to herself I can't wait to come back and haunt they asses!!!

  • Trace da Ace

    so it is ok for your wife to move her piece into your marital home, playing house and having sex in your marital home....and you are just sitting there, smiling like its ok??? The respectable thing to do would be to wait until she passes...THEN you can move on with your life.....that is out of RESPECT.

  • NeverSurprised

    I know she is just itching to get her greedy hands on the deed to B's multi-million dollar Hamptos home.

  • Blue

    Boom. Exactly

  • The Chosen 1.

    first of all and to begin with, what kind of shiite is that. as for the mistress, she looks run down and beat down. Its not like she is a thoroughbred but instead a loaf of bread. smfh in disbelief.

  • Seldomseen

    Have some respect and keep your side piece on the other side of town. I swear I hope Ms. B comes to herself and goes in their room one night with a bat.

  • free

    "first of all and to begin with,..."
    *********************************************

    you know you gon get told when the sentence start like this lol

  • Phillybruh

    My comments must have impacted you. first I seen you here though...:)

  • Topic Influencer

    And they cant do shit. She can legit be like I aint know what I did. And continue to live out the rest of the life God had planned for her WITHOUT this embarr. MESS.

  • free

    STOP!!!

  • CeCe

    What else is there to know? He told the entire story himself. Not once did he say he and B. discussed this beforehand and they both agreed that if either of them became gravely ill, the other could move in a lover. HE told the story. HE put it out there. He told the world he has a girlfriend. HE told the world the loneliness was too much to bear. HE told the world he can't let the remainder of his life shrivel up and die because his wife is ill. What else is there to know? HE told it all from his mouth!

  • free

    they ain't moving in but they damn sure laying beside him somewhere else.

  • Yup, I said it

    Why doesnt he just leave? He needs to live his life to the fullest and not drag B thru his mess. I'm sure she has family that will gladly take care of her.

  • chaisun

    I’m sure B Smith has had her share of instances with white women and their passive aggressive treatment of us Black women. Every single time I think one is my friend they slip up and tell me how they really feel. She as an older black African American woman that was raised and witnessed a lot of evil transgressions by white people would not be okay with this. We all know white women know how to be a silent gold digger because they’re never put in a light to be as such from the beginning. This is a money grab for her.

  • free

    me either; fugg that.

  • CeCe

    It is insane for you to say people need to mind their own business when HE put his business out there and major news outlets and talk shows are now discussing it. Marriage is between two people not three. What I'd like to know is where is her family. A cousin? Sister? Aunt? Nephew? Niece? Heck a best friend. Someone on her side. Right now this is lopsided with his daughter from a previous marriage and his girlfriend. Everything about it stinks!

  • Society Has Changed

    And sad to say, but her husband is probably the butler. Such as sad disease!

  • Topic Influencer

    Its easier to judge then to live it!
    ^^^^
    My uncle took care of my BEDRIDDEN maternal aunt for 8 years until she passed one year ago in Feb 2018. He would NEVER. And in case he THOUGHT...that is where my mama and the rest of the surviving sibs come in at. And if they werent here (thank God we still have every single last one of them still here, aside from again my aunt) then thats when their 5 kids come in at. And then US. The 19 nieces and nephews. I am grateful we have a support system to allow our loved ones to live the end of their lives in DIGNITY vs this mess BSmith is being subjected to.

  • CeCe

    She didn't! If she did, he would've said so and there would be no backlash.

  • Phillybruh

    And then what happens to the care that she is used too?

  • Michelle Peele

    So his mistress and his daughter lives in the house B. Smith built. Full house, huh? Smh!

  • Jefferey Franklin

    If its consenual which you don't know its not cheating. Calm down and stop putting yourself in this equation. Its not about you. You have your opinion, but you act like the woman is all the way gone. Dementia takes some time to kick in, she was only diagnosed 2 years ago.....it is very likely that she still has her wits about her......at least to let family know if something terrible is going on.......you would think right. But no family has stepped in. Everyone in their circle seems okay with it. Right?

  • Phillybruh

    She's had it for a decade now, but I do agree with your other points.

  • Yup, I said it

    Thats true because that man in NYC that recently won that $298 million started looking like Idris Elba to me.

  • shauna

    Well I don't know about her type but Dard definitely has a type. I've been at parties and such with him and there can be 70 Black women in the room and if he sniffs out one white girl, he will knock every sister down to get to her.

  • Phillybruh

    So there is a dating app for people with terminal illnesses too find love?

  • Trace da Ace

    and you don't know if it was or wasn't consensual.....or if her family is or is not ok with it all...because the only ones speaking on it is him and his daughter.....and I NEVER said it was about me....I was asking you a question as to how would YOU feel if the tables were turned. And I know how dementia works, dear. I have a aunt, grandmother and uncle who has this disease, so I know how it works. And fyi....2 years into dementia.....is enough for it to cause significant damage....stop getting into your feeling because I posed a question to you....this is a blog, dear....we ALL have opinions.

  • Yup, I said it

    Well, in prison he don't have a choice who is piping him down, with his pretty self

  • A D N

    Unsure. But that is a good idea even though you're trying to be sarcastic lol. However, just like the husband found the mistress, he can find B a husband.

  • A D N

    That's really a good idea though. I'm a businesswoman and always looking for good investment ideas. Interesting. You do know you can find anything in this world...if you look for it. People actually look for prisoners to marry.

  • oshh16

    Caregiving is difficult on quite a few levels but this ish here is disgusting ....then to try and justify it. I can't with this dude, B condition was already heartbreaking by itself and then this in her home ?

  • A D N

    lol. His comments are something else. He needs some entertainment, that's all.

  • Nik

    Someone explain this ish to me. So his wife is not dead but he is able to have another woman?

  • A D N

    There is nothing like a person who really has YOUR best interest above their own...nothing!

  • Nik

    LOL! Yes, those words mean moooooove and get out the way!

  • ShWa

    I hope him and his mistress have an eternity of bad luck.

  • Phillybruh

    It may come off that way, but I'm really not. Like I stated earlier I only agree with him finding happiness, not making it public. But she has a disease that affects her memory where would she begin to find a new husband that wouldn't be in it to take advantage of her plight. In a few years she'll be bedridden.

  • SayWhatNow?

    I wish a mother f*cker would! Where is this woman's family? People take shit too far. You have to be one brave, STUPID, SELFISH woman to move in with your boyfriend's WIFE! Let me finish my work, I'm pissed tf off like this is my Mother!

  • A D N

    She's ill...not dead.

  • Phillybruh

    your right.

  • Topic Influencer

    Which is ALL IGAF about. Dont take your ass round that lady house laying up. Damn tramp

  • Yardgirl

    I am so sorry to hear that you have 2 people with this sad disease. I am not afraid of dying but I have to say that the one thing that scares me the most is this disease!! There a a study being done now to identify the early markers but you have to be 65+ to participate. I hope they find if not a cure, early detection. Blessings to you and yours.

  • Coffee1st

    Yes. Yes and yes.
    This is akin to: If you can't do it in front of them, then don't do it at all.
    If he wouldn't do it to a cognitively healthy B., what makes it okay to do it just because she can't comprehend the situation.
    It's just effed up is what it is. Real effed up...don't matter if the fam is okay with it. What matters is this woman's dignity which they are disregarding like a filthy menstrual cloth.

  • Topic Influencer

    In a crazy ass TWIST he only got sentenced to 15 months and only served 8 of that.

  • Coffee1st

    Not necessarily true...not for me anyway.

  • SayWhatNow?

    In sickness and in health! These people are tripping!

  • hottlanta

    I bet some women are scared 2 cough n cancelled all of their doctor appointments bcas if hubby find out u r ? he ready 2 move the bottom woman in. Next time he says what time is your doctors appt l wanna go with u. they gonna say l can go myself dog l am good. He b behind your back taking screen shots of your charts n shyt n b standing right there 2 make sure u take your medicine. U b like why all of a sudden my husband all up in my business about my health. Makes u wanna go ?.

  • hottlanta

    Old bastor talking bout her brain is dead but my dyck is still alive.

  • Topic Influencer

    THIS! Every drop of it

  • Yup, I said it

    I B had kids, especially a son. This would have never happened. Dan the dog would be dead.

  • Yup, I said it

    Its already started. Having to trick off in crusty dack Dan is surely bad karma.

  • Renee26

    Dude in the pic up top looks very gay

  • Myopinion

    But why she can't get a place around the corner somewhere?!? I mean my mom took care of my granny when she had Alzheimer's and it was rough on my mom, we all chipped in but we had to work. God sent her an angel to help take care of my granny when she couldn't so I understand needing someone there for emotional support, but to move that woman in her house is a whole other level of disrespect. I'm confident enough that if my capabilities became limited, I could have that conversation with my husband about having another woman before I'm unable to give my consent. But I be d*%ned if she would be living in my house. He could afford to have a caretaker come in and help her besides this woman. She just need to be his physical and emotional advocate and stay out of that woman's house. It's a way to do everything.

  • Renee26

    He probably welcomed them all

  • Renee26

    Not many sistas will give him the back door action he wants to receive

  • NewNew

    ?

  • NewNew

    I'm side eyeing every last one of you who is defending Dusty Dan. His behavior is wrong on every level and if it were your mother/sister/aunt/best friend you'd be singing a different tune. This ish is disgusting. And to add insult to injury, now black wealth is gonna revert right back to white

    Shame shame shame ?
    Shame shame shame ?

    .

  • Renee26

    People who are mentally incapacitated have no business having sex. They are not aware of what's happening in real time majority of the time so how could they possibly consent to having sex??

  • Renee26

    She can get it from other sources

  • Renee26

    Lies

  • Dontgetdraggedhoe??

    Idgaf that she’s baby powder complected im upset that he has his mistress living in the same house as his sick wife. Get her a trusted caretaker and move in with your heaux but for yall to be prospering in that woman’s home. I oughta beat his and hers @ss!!!!!

  • YellowSauce

    Let this be a lesson folks .... Take care of your business while you are still coherent enough .... People WILL take advantage of you ... even people that you have been married to for 26 years .... I'm SURE their vows didn't include til alzheimer's does them part ... There are some people that treat animals better ... my heart breaks for her and she has no one to legally "help" her ... HE is basically her power of attorney and can do anything to her ... There should be laws for things like this so people like B won't be taken advantage of like this ... there should be a lot of laws .....

  • Renee26

    He grabbed her by the arm and shoved her and punched her in the chest.... A lot of women think those type of actions are ok in a relationship. It's sad to hear but not news worthy reporting at this point.
    The divorce may be getting messy but everything done in the dark eventually come to light so it is what it is.

  • Renee26

    I would bring it up too to avoid paying him money I earned... Whatever works.

  • MsSapphire9800

    A Living Will ends when you die..... Last Will and Testament is what everyone needs it dictates the way that that your assets will be distributed. Her living will more than likely has him as the decision maker for her health...that is why he don't care.

  • Andrea Williams

    Hey NewNew.........How are you on this cold day? Girl, this toad has a lot of nerve. How is he gonna disrespect this woman in her house with his heaux? I had a lot to say about this a few days ago. I see that my anger has not abated. Just because you can do a thing, doesn't mean that you should. And why is snowflake so thirsty to be living in that woman's house. If B. Smith was in her right mind, I bet you wouldn't find the side heaux nowhere in the vicinity of that house. If she has any worthwhile family, they need to come and clean house. I am sure she has enough money to get some outside help. Get him and his side piece up out of there and change the locks.

  • Shawty

    B. Smith probably thinks she's the maid...lol

  • Andrea Williams

    Child........This is some straight up bulls**t right here that shouldn't be allowed to happen.

  • bemetoo

    Or the house whore

  • TransMichelle

    He's WRONG period! It's just something you don't do. B doesn't have children and restricted mental capacity. There's not much she can do about it. It's tacky. He didn't HAVE TO do this.
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  • Chaseboogie The Prince

    For this white woman to sit up in another woman's house with her husband is a new kind of low. She'd determined not to give up or risk losing her meal ticket. No integrity. If it is about helping B. Smith during her illness, hire someone to care for her. Heck, the husband could easily leave the side piece at home and go check on his WIFE and sit with her when the help leaves or breaks. This man has NO REGARD for his wife or their marriage. Probably when she was well and at the top of her game she held all the cards, now he holds them. He probably wants to make sure he inherits everything which is why he ain't leaving nothing to chance when she dies. I find this so disgusting.

  • NewNew

    Good to "see" you AW! Wrote you a whole long as$ response only to erase it by accident. Now i'm too annoyed to type it again. ?

    Main points:
    Dan's whóre knew he was married and still slipped him her number at an event they both attended.

    Dan knew he was married and still chooses to disrespect his wife and vows by shacking up with skeletor.

    Karma is a bich and she makes house calls

  • The Art

    Who forced him to ask for her hand in marriage and vow to honor and respect her in sickness and in health? Folks try to redefine it, but marriage is about selflessness. Somewhere along the line people have begun to believe that they're entitled to endless happiness and satisfying their own desires. That's not what life or marriage is about. However, everyone has free will. He's made his choices and I will not attempt to help him justify them. But karma is the wh0re that he really needs to worry about, because she fcuks everybody!

  • Topic Influencer

    Karma is a bich and she makes house calls
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^
    24 hour house calls at that

  • A D N

    Especially a daughter! A daughter wouldn't allow another woman in her mother's home.

  • Topic Influencer

    Why I said my oldest daughter Dub24 gonna light folks ass ALIVE if this comes to pass for me. WHY are you here in my mama kitchen? Why are you here period? It was an extra toothbrush in the bathroom and I used it to brush the dirt from under my fangernails. I hope it wasnt YOURN. Listen.

  • INDUSTRY GURU

    Alex Lerner had a failed venture in a resturant years ago in NYC. She has always wanted back in, she fancies herself to be Marth Stewart / Paula Deen.

    She used Dard Coaxum who owned a trendy spot in NYC as her way back in, untill he ended up in jail.

    She now has jumped on the opportunity to hijack B.Smiths brand. She sees these brothers easy prey , an opportunity to get back into her passion. B.Smith husband thinks she can breath life into the Brand.Pretty clear here she will steal it from him and leave him high and dry.She has zero shame and no conscious in her pursuit. Like alot of caucasion women who persue wealthy black men, she feels superior and entitled, like a master to the slave.She knows he will worship the ground she walks on, and she will walk right out the door with everything B.Smith has built.

  • A D N

    Her family? What family because real families, blood or not, do not embarrass or degrade a love one like this. As if it's better because her mind goes out sometimes.

  • A D N

    Yes! Thank you for clarifying this and piecing the connection for us...well, those who simply are lost.

  • R Smith

    Nope! You know black women are very critical of each other :o( and would not put up with this from any woman. If he wants a relationship, go for it. I think the majority of women are mad, angry, etc. because they're in her home! Get an apartment!!! And stop posting pictures of B on social media!

  • Luv Pitties

    I don’t trust none of those three. It doesn’t feel right then it isn’t right. I don’t put it past them slowly poisoning this lady. Karma doesn’t sleep Dan.

  • A D N

    I have to agree with you. If anything, they will fool around, but they want their own space to do it.

  • supastar

    Wait.. what?? why we mad?? seriously, i am all confused. please make it simpler for me to understand. is he living with two women and B has Alzheimer?

  • Passion

    He has watched too many episodes of sister wives, seeking sister wives and my five wives!

  • Andrea Williams

    "Karma is a bich and she makes house calls" BEST LINE EVER! And I can't wait for her to ring the doorbell. I would love to be a fly on the wall when it happens. I don't know how many times I have written something or I was in the process of writing something only to lose it. I don't know about you but when it happens lol, It makes me feel like throwing my laptop across the room in frustration. B. Smith can't have family because they might couldn't put the husband out, but the side heaux would be on skates with grease on the wheels!

  • gellie

    Honestly...I would settle for a little discretion. Does he HAVE to flaunt it???!!! That is the part I can't get past. I can deal with him seeking an outlet and companionship while he cares for his wife. But fronting this off as some kind of lifestyle...I can't.

  • gellie

    Honestly...I would settle for a little discretion. Does he HAVE to flaunt it???!!! That is the part I can't get past. I can deal with him seeking an outlet and companionship while he cares for his wife. But fronting this off as some kind of lifestyle...I can't.

  • Nik
  • Nik
  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    OK.
    So, did she AGREE to it BEFORE she sank deeply into dementia?
    some couples do have an understanding. And he is NOT obligated to explain their arrangement.
    "kayne shrug"

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    OK.
    So, did she AGREE to it BEFORE she sank deeply into dementia?
    some couples do have an understanding. And he is NOT obligated to explain their arrangement.
    "kayne shrug"

  • A D N

    No Philly...the current husband finds B another husband. He does everything else. And don't allow anyone tell you what is clearly in front of you. There is no justification in the world to him allowing his mistress to live under the same roof as his wife. It appears everything about this situation is about him and his discomfort. This is the worse side of the vows. In sickness...(his wife is sick, not dead). If he is that weak and need companionship, he should divorce her, find her a mate who will respect her.

  • R Smith

    Yup...say it again!!!

  • Bashi22

    White gal going to let me hush ?........B Smith check your days please. I don’t have faith in husband or the mistress. Mistress want a nice home.

  • onelove

    this is freaky to me.............smdh!

  • Eileen

    The modern family? umh... sounds like the modern moochers

  • Logan Roberts

    Sherri Shepard slow azz & Al Roker ugly azz was defending him.

  • Eileen

    Why did he feel the audacity to flaunt this women in public? Whatever happened to" men were discreet and women didn't kiss and tell"? This is so trifling

  • Omandesert

    This is not how B’s ending should be written. Selfish ass nigga.

  • Phillybruh

    What other source she has no family.

  • Logan Roberts

    Most men have never been shyt period. They don't even want you to move on to another relationship, let alone have another guy in the household. But let the roles would've been reversed.

  • Renee26

    Professionals... Other relatives besides husband and step daughter.... She's not an alien; she has other family

  • NewNew

    Lol @ throwing the laptop. I'm almost ashamed at how annoyed i get when that happens. All that time and effort wasted.

    I don't think women should feel obligated to have children but I imagine that the chances of this ridiculousness happening would have been greatly reduced if she had had one or two. Who's gonna let their mother get played like this? Not I said the fly. ?

  • INDUSTRY GURU

    Lol lol

  • NewNew

    Sherri abandoned her bum husband and the child they agreed to conceive together. I expect nothing less from her. Sadly I was disappointed that S. Epatha Merkerson was defending him as well. Not sure why i expected more from her but I did.

  • NewNew

    Boom when you least expect it. Karma would fluck around and let Dan kick the bucket first like "Bye Bich"

  • Eileen

    I am sad to say it but you hit it dead on the head. I love everybody but I am not a fool there are white women that are very opportunistic when it comes to bm they will strut in and take the best of them because they know the weak brothu will leave everything and everybody he ever knew and give everything he ever worked hard for and will work harder for that ww. As if doing so elevates you in the eyes of the wm?! No honey, truth be told a white man will respect a bm responsible towards the women in his community instead of hi-tailing it out of our community with a ww. What is wrong with our men? Like I have said before and I will say it again this pathology was passed down from slavery when the african kangz and warriors marched onto those slave ships they marched on as defeated warriors, they didn't have a revolution in the cotton fields but they did have a revolution burning down our cities, making babies and leaving the mothers to fiend for themselves and now you have this FOOL who claims to have a PH.D degree in black love....give me a break. This ww is a gold-digger and adultress and heartless heifer. If these two nutcases ment any good they would have kept their relationship on the downlow and not parade it on social media but they don't care. If this white heifer was worth anything a wealthy wm would have snatched her up wedding bells and all before a bm even saw her. Why are our men ( some of them) so freaking weak when it comes to any type of trifiling ww. These two heathens deserve each other. God Bless "B"

  • Connie

    Listen, my daddy remarried and his ex SPRITE wife brung her azz to new wife’s house talking bout she brung her son (my daddy’s grown azz son) to visit. Heffa had the good sense to stay her triflin self in the driveway…cause babyyyy….new wife’s 2 daughters were ready to drag her butt.

  • Yup, I said it

    That washed out skank couldnt pass as a nurse. B probably thinks that Skank is the maid.

  • NewNew

    He is married to B and has been for 20 some-odd years.

    B has been suffering from Alzheimer's for several years

    Dan has a new white girlfriend named Alex. He is still married to B.

    Dan moved Alex into B's home and pretends that she is a caretaker for B. rather than hire a real caretaker.

    Alex and Dan share a bedroom in B's house while B sleeps elsewhere.

    Dan flaunts his relationship with Alex online but can't handle the criticism he has received because of his dusty behavior.

    Alex was once married to a white multimillionaire who has been accused of giving his model girlfriends herpes.

    Alex has dated other successful black men for a come up in the recent past.

    Alex gave Dan her number despite having met B in the past and knowing he was still married.
    Dusty Dan chose to entertain Alex and here we are.

  • Eileen

    you are too much!!!! LOL

  • Eileen

    sick and nasty again! shm

  • Eileen

    sick and nasty...

  • NewNew

    He said they had an understanding but I don't believe that she would be ok with him moving that woman into her house. Whether she agreed or not the optics are horrendous. He made his business public so the public is now in his business.

  • Yup, I said it

    He doesn't have to explain. I,wish he would shut up,and going into hiding with his hoe and leave B out of his mess. He doesn't owe the public an apology and the public doesn't owe him any forgiveness for this unethical and immoral display. So display on you dog.

  • Eileen

    thats how some trifiling ww do it! its all about them they are the most selfish they learned from wm how to get what they want

  • garrisonville

    this skeletor lookin b*tch! if i was B's family; i'd go over there to the house and beat the sh*it outta her. and his raggedy @ss too! he's too old to be carrying on like this.

  • Eileen

    why would you even mention that you are disgusting! I see you are a smart athiest? what about a dumb a-- athiest. "B" is in a bad situation stop trying to fantasize your sick sex on her!

  • Eileen

    I could possibly give him a pass if he wasn"t parading this women in public if he was quietly seeing her and tending to his wife while the other women laid very very low in the background I can understand his needs and desires my father passed away and my mom said it was very difficult because eventhough the person is sick your desires as a human are still there. What he is doing is SHAMEFUL! it is like he wants to shame "B" he does not have to be public with this women!

  • garrisonville

    Exactly right. I swear to God..on site!

  • Yup, I said it

    Dan know he's too old for all this drama. All this social media stress will kill his old crypt keeper azzxzz. Then where will hoe be? If Dan dies before B then he can't pass B's estate down to his trick. She is too old to keep tricking off on black men. She lucky she found one dirt old enough to think she's a catch. There's no trap babies in her future because she's menopausal. Both of them are 2 sad grimy grifters.

  • Eileen

    Thank you!!! He also said he had a PH.D in black love as if being with a black women is so horrifying its like a job you hate but you gots to eat so ya stic wit it for 20 years!.... SMH as if being with his dusty black behind is a prize but i guess he feel like "becky" is the prize

  • Eileen

    ...it should fall off OMG what would becky do

  • Eileen

    Thank You

  • Mrs. S. O.

    Him having another woman is not the issue here. Him moving her in instead of getting a proper caretaker IS. He was going to do his thing anyways bc people have sexual needs. And I'm not sure if Alzheimer's patients should be having sex.

  • Mrs. S. O.

    I'm wondering if he can't afford to take care of both his wife and mistress? It sounds like B. Smith's money isn't as long as some of y'all think it is. That's the only how I can see this making sense. Now if there is enough money floating around and this bastard just moved her in out of spite for some ish that happened years ago.....I don't wish them well.

  • Let them eat cake

    girl bye!

  • INDUSTRY GURU

    Ive met and had numerous conversations with B.Smith years ago when her resturant in DC at Union Station was still open. At the time I worked in Government fresh from undergrad before I moved back out West. Our Agency often had closed door private events at Smiths in DC. She had such pleasant warm and endearing spririt, she was an amazing hostess.

    She always remembered what I loved to eat on her menu and the days I would frequent on my own.My favorite seat was always waiting and empty and when I didnt show she noticed. I always felt catered to, and like a special guest. She was the blue print for the Celebrity Hostess. Man to man I never liked or respected her husband, he was a ruthless dog. There was ways plenty women he was running through he never hid it. When ever he was present there was drama involving local girls and the place was chaos.This brother is a no good charlatan and is showing his true colors.

  • Let them eat cake

    smh

  • 11pink123

    Lol ?

  • 11pink123

    What kind of woman do you surround yourself with?

    Ain’t no woman in her “RIGHT” mind going to be okay with this set up NEVER!!!!!!!!! Maybe prostitutes and they only doing it for the money...

    And that’s what you got here, you got one prostitute and the other woman is not in her right state of mind.....

  • 11pink123

    I can’t imagine... omg..... the day a nigga....try me like this will be his last.

  • Gamer?? Chick
  • hottlanta

    Like l always say if u reallllly wanna know if a man loves u get sick or broke. I bet they were the ideal couple when people saw them in public they had wanted 2 have
    relationship goals 2 want a relationship just like theirs. Like l always say u never know what goes on behind closed doors.

  • StoneColdLady

    She just may BECAUSE she sees an intruder in HER house!

  • Panther Charleston

    What a scummy scumbag! A PhD in narcissism is more like it. He acts like he deserves a reward for being present. She's your wife. You don't take advantage of her condition then act like you're doing her a favor. How delusional do you have to be to think that this is okay? Get out, loser!

  • StoneColdLady

    She doesn’t have the mental capacity to complain and most likely has no clue what is really going on

  • StoneColdLady

    No people want him to have some RESPECT for his WIFE!

  • INDUSTRY GURU

    You said alot there baby girl. I will admit I have known and have met plenty of my brothers out here that have this thing for Caucasian women. Some of them it wasnt untill they acheived success, and a white woman paid them some attention that they suddenly started feeling themselves.

    I have ways been like why, I ways ask , like what happened? Explain to me why you are on this kick now. Some have actually said it, means I made it , I am now a true success.

    Others have said stuff I wont repeat here, but I will say this, there are black women all over the world.So if you strike out with american sistas, look abroad.

    This guy was never any good, he hustled his way into B. Smiths life and she was long suffering.

    All I can say is I try to mentor the brothers around me. I try to build with brothers I meet that I can tell need guidance, I really do try to elevate us black men, to think, act and carry your self
    as a King .I feel your pain though baby girl.

  • Karen Brady

    Your whole comment :-)

  • Karen Brady

    "crypt keeper azzxzz" lollllllllllll

  • Karen Brady

    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Karen Brady

    Karma doesn’t sleep Dan.

  • Karen Brady

    teeee heeeeeeeeeee heeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

  • Candance

    He is by taking care of her!

  • Candance

    Bye!

  • Yup, I said it

    A daughter would scrap with the hoe but a son would have broke Dan's neck and f#cked his hoe while Dan watched.

  • Melanated Goddess??

    I have a question for everyone in here that doesn't see anything wrong with this. Why should B.Smith financially support her husband's live in bitch? Why is her money being used to support someone she has no ties to? How the hell is any of this legal? Ancestors and The most high can y'all please destroy Dan and his cave beast. Dan and his cave beast didn't help B.Smith to make her money so why the hell should she be paying their bills!

  • gail jones

    Ol' dude gettin his SMIZE on fo REAL!

  • Marlika

    The sorry husband and his trailer park trash strike me as the type to have sex in front of her or even in the same bed. I hope her memory comes back and she beats the shit out of both of them.?

  • Nik

    I see having another woman is an issue if he is still married, unless he and his wife had an agreement that if one could no longer perform their duties then the other could step out. I know the not everyone has the same interpretation of vows, but I assume that to be with your spouse in sickness and in health entails faithfulness. But, again, they may have had a different agreement in their marriage. I don't know much about them in terms of their personal happenings so all of this just confounds me.

  • StoneColdLady

    Child...if that’s what you call respect...

  • dontgetblocked

    This story breaks my heart. I see him on Instagram..defending his phuckery.

  • dontgetblocked

    It's just disgusting!

  • dontgetblocked

    A cave bitch will plot until she gets it all.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    She should put them Both out!

  • ClaireHuxtable

    *hand on hip* BAYBEE!
    This woman I know ended up in the hospital and needed a wheelchair to get around...her husband went out and bought a SPORTS car!!

  • ClaireHuxtable

    That was both heartwarming and heartbreaking at the same time.

  • BorgQueen

    I saw this a few weeks ago on Instagram and I lost my mind. B. Smith was the quintessential example of black female excellence and this low down husband of hers is so trifling. He has his daughter and his side whore to take care of B.. He posts on IG pics of B on the floor of her shower after a seizure and no medical professionals around. Damn if you wanted a side piece, be discreet to protect B's legacy. But no he calls his whore the love of his life while B is still alive but not aware. Smh

  • BorgQueen

    If this is true, I am even more upset.

  • BorgQueen

    Exactly. He does not have to have it on display. He could post pics of his side piece but dont identify her as the love of your life with B still alive. Dementia is a rough disease and he is entitled to a life. You dont want to spend your last remaining years being a nurse to your spouse but damn have some dignity and respect for yourself and B and her legacy.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    It really isn't. Sad.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Give the same respect you would appreciate.

  • BorgQueen

    Exactly

  • ClaireHuxtable

    is that why they go to other males?

  • Yup, I said it

    This geriatric negro wouldnt have a life worth living if it wasnt for B and Viagra. Just because his Dr wrote him a script for Viagra and he can used is Medicare card and B's money to pay his medicare part D deductible, he thinks he can run around like a color struck, Future Hendrix, sticking his ancient dingaling wherever he please. I hope he catch something while living his life.

  • hottlanta

    Gurl l just spat out my honey nut cheerios. U know what that means. New cars new trim

  • Rhondalousey

    And marry a white man after its all said and done.

  • Rhondalousey

    Also, does she have kids, sisters, brother....someone that can put this fool on his place. I pray his dikk goes limp all of a sudden, ole dirty bastard.

  • TriniHarlem

    Either way get one or get informed. Thanks for adding to my comment for anyone who reads and needs to know

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Exactly. "In sickness & in health..." meant Nothing to him.

  • A D N

    Not in the families I know. When the wife died and the husband remarry usually within months of his spouse's death, he has to contend with the daughters about bringing a woman in the home. The son usually doesn't like it but is less vocal.

  • hottlanta

    I was looking at my ID channel when the wife had the baby thé husband bought the mistress 2 the hospital with him n took a picture of the mistress holding the baby. Dan is a marriage wake up call 2 a whole lot of women .Each time b ended her show she would say thank u dan. I wonder does each time he finish with his trim does she say thank u dan as well. I bet their friends say they never fought they were always loving toward each other. Those b the main couples that divorce or b very messy.

  • hottlanta

    That is what l always tell women about always trying 2 sound all cute he is my best friend n we see him treating his WIFE like a ROOMMATE.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    I wish B had selected another advocate. He is only thinking of himself. She may be ill, but has some sense of what's going on. It must hurt like h3ll.

  • hottlanta

    She trusted her husband.

  • Andrea Williams

    Girl......If she had some sons or daughters or even nephews, that ninja would be wearing an a** cutting. I have a niece who is named after me. And when I tell you that ninja would have caught a bottle or something to the head....... he would not have known what hit him if he had been mistreating me. Speaking of children, I don't have any and I never wanted them. I had my fill of them when I was forced to babysit my sister's FIVE children. Even in college, I couldn't really do what I wanted to do because I had to get her kids so that she could go to work. Once I broke free, I never looked back. No regrets.

  • Melanated Goddess??

    Are you serious? What version of slavery were you taught? The black kangz as your jaded self calls them didn't march onto the ships defeated. You're acting as if the men ran with their tails between their legs. They fought for their lives. The men were emasculated , killed tortured etc in front of their families. A lot of slaves committed suicide, they didn't go calmly on to the ships. The only thing you got right was black mens obsession with white women stemming from slavery. A lot of issues that plague black people as whole come from post traumatic slave syndrome.

  • Andrea Williams

    Lol, I love this. Thanks

  • Eileen

    Uh nope... they were fighting to the death because the black kings and chieftains sold their own people into slavery ...Yelp I said it! We have had over 400 years to get over it yes I said it. That is why I can safely say it was passed down from one generation of defeated kings to another! At what point do you say enough ? Thurgood Marshall W.E.B Dubois MLK all said enough imagine if all black men got woke married their baby mama's built businesses in their community (please don't mention black Wallstreet we have laws against people who committ hate crimes) bw can't afford to live in the past we have fatherless kids to raise because the bm have pstd out of the community. If bm think they had it rough imagine what bw endured. Bm cannot have a monopoly on the pain of yhe past .bw don't have time too.

  • Melanated Goddess??

    Not all black people are Africans! OKAY! So that narrative about black people selling their own people into slavery is WRONG! They sold neighboring tribes they had no affiliations with, black Jews ( aka the real jews) then you had piece of trash tribal leaders that allowed the demons to take their people in exchange for wine, money and other useless crap! You are loud , angry, bitter, jaded and dead WRONG! Some black people are SHEMITES NOT ALL BLACK PEOPLE ATE HAMITES. I'm sick and tired of you bitter betty's and your misinformation.

    EXTRACT: Ham is known as the father of the Black races but not the Hebrews who are in fact Shemites or of the linage of Shem. Under Exodus 11:7 the Zondervan Compact Bible Dictionary says: “HAM – THE YOUNGEST SON OF NOAH, BORN PROBABLY ABOUT 96 YEARS BEFORE THE FLOOD; AND ONE OF EIGHT PERSONS TO LIVE THROUGH THE FLOOD. HE BECAME THE PROGENITOR OF THE DARK RACES; NOT THE NEGROES, BUT THE EGYPTIANS, ETHIOPIANS, LIBYANS AND CANAANITES” Not the Negroes = Hamites selling Shemites into slavery during the slave trade. Because if Ham is the father of the dark or black people, that makes him the Father of all African and other black peoples.

  • Melanated Goddess??

    Not all black people are Africans! OKAY! So that narrative about black people selling their own people into slavery is WRONG! They sold neighboring tribes they had no affiliations with, black Jews ( aka the real jews) then you had piece of trash tribal leaders that allowed the demons to take their people in exchange for wine, money and other useless crap! You are loud , angry, bitter, jaded and dead WRONG! Some black people are SHEMITES NOT ALL BLACK PEOPLE ATE HAMITES. I'm sick and tired of you bitter betty's and your misinformation.

    EXTRACT: Ham is known as the father of the Black races but not the Hebrews who are in fact Shemites or of the linage of Shem. Under Exodus 11:7 the Zondervan Compact Bible Dictionary says: “HAM – THE YOUNGEST SON OF NOAH, BORN PROBABLY ABOUT 96 YEARS BEFORE THE FLOOD; AND ONE OF EIGHT PERSONS TO LIVE THROUGH THE FLOOD. HE BECAME THE PROGENITOR OF THE DARK RACES; NOT THE NEGROES, BUT THE EGYPTIANS, ETHIOPIANS, LIBYANS AND CANAANITES” Not the Negroes = Hamites selling Shemites into slavery during the slave trade. Because if Ham is the father of the dark or black people, that makes him the Father of all African and other black peoples.

  • Eileen

    Ok so you are one of those black Hebrew black jew blah blah blah I stand by my truth America doesn't have a monopoly on slavery it existed since the fall of man from the garden get over it get therapy get woke stop having babies and no husbands Start building in your community get married .
    Nuff said

  • Eileen

    BTW I sm not bitter I am happy a day free!

  • Dowoop

    Yup because all that niceness is a farce for the public eye and they be fighting like cats and dogs when they are alone.

  • Dowoop

    Her family is no better for allowing this.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Most males can't handle that much power by themselves.
    Gurl, what I have to say about marriage would fill a book!

  • supastar

    OMG!!!! thank you.

  • NewNew

    No prob Supa!

  • The Chosen 1.

    so you say....

  • shay2shaymd

    I don't trust him, his daughter or that skank. All of them are living in that house and off B. They might try to do something to her. Where the hell is B's family? SMH

  • Renee26

    ?

  • Mrs. S. O.

    I agree that spouses should stick together in sickness and in good health. However, Alzheimer's can take years to fully kill off a person. She could live with it for at least another 5-10 years. She's already on year 10 with the disease. Reasonably, we cannot expect any spouse (man nor woman) to stay celibate or masturbate for that many years.

  • Nik

    Celibacy for that long is possible. I've done it, but I may be a ?. I understand your points, though. If the rascal...I mean husband, feels the need to tip out, then like you said he shouldn't be so brazen to move her on the house with them.

  • Candance

    He only has one life. Maybe putting it on the internet was a bad idea ...

  • parisjok

    did u forget he is her HUSBAND and has been for decades. they BOTH handled and worked that business that in their case had HER name and talent mostly out in the for front BUT he left his very very high paying job with great benefits to work the business as a husband and wife team.

    he has been her partner in every sense of the word.

    suppose it was him that had the terrible illness and she was the one that bought her lover home to stay with them while she took care of him around the clock during his waking moments. we simply CAN NOT JUDGE!!!!! he can't win because if he put her in a home like most do he would be looked down upon also.

  • parisjok

    no she has no kids

  • parisjok

    it is not HER money it is THEIR money. they are married and worked that business together with him doing more behind the scenes and her being in the front. Wendy Williams is in the exact same position with her being the out front talent and her husband being 100% in the background getting all of the business and money contracts to where they are BOTH worth millions.

  • Juliette

    All the stories I’ve read says the diagnosis was in 2009.

  • Juliette

    She was diagnosed in 2009. He met this woman in 2017. I question whether she had the capacity to consent to this.

  • Melanated Goddess??

    She was B.Smith prior to marrying that loser. He nor his trash deserve any or her money.

  • Melanated Goddess??

    He doesn't deserve anything! Are you dense! That's not his money! Him nor his bish contributed to B.Smit's wealth. She was well known before she married that idiot! All he did was come along and rode on her coat tails. There weren't even married for that long.

  • parisjok

    does not matter. he is her legal husband and looked at as ONE and that includes their money, investments, real estates, debt., and everything in between. better go ask somebody

  • Melanated Goddess??

    Are you stupid? You do know the first Jews are and still are black people? That is a fact not my opinion. The bible itself points to this. History books point to this. Historians know and have admitted to this. But ignorant garbage like yourself will deny it because SOME of the people that are aware of this are very ignorant and foolish. I'm not one of those people. I did my research and found this information to be true. I'm not like you. I actually research things on my own before I dismiss them. That's what rationally thinking intelligent people do. I don't get all in my feelings and judge people as a monolith. I'm aware that there are agents of destruction out there that tell half truths and lies. To throw people off. But you stay in lying sunday churches praising white jesus and getting the faux gospel ( good news).

  • Melanated Goddess??

    It does matter. Not all states reward cheaters in divorce settlements. In this case he shouldn't get anything for taking advantage of the mentally impaired. What he's doing is a form of elder abuse. Him nor his white trash are entitled to anything but a first class ticket out of B. Smith's life.

  • parisjok

    what are you talking about this is not a divorce situation at all but a marriage that took a horrible turn because one of them took a turn for the worse and the other that is still alright had to make some really difficult decisions that a lot of folks don't agree with BUT a marriage only involves two people not all these outside people with their personal thoughts

  • ca

    what women usually take care of their men even when they have been cheated on or abused...the question is why should he move on unless there is a will stating he can get a girlfriend ..he gets a pass... sometimes men during their midlife crisis make bad decisions just like women however I believed he should placed her in an expensive nursing home with caretakers around the clock and monitor her wellbeing.....I know many individuals sadly who take advantage of love ones when they become ill.Let us call him out....What goes around will come around....she is an opportunist... folk her race honesty would not allow people of color to come and destroy or take what they work hard for so why should we !!!!! this goes to show us stop taking advantage or mistreating your family member ..she probably had trust issues and kept them a distance,,,,, where is her estate lawyer or her will someone needs to take a look at it! I feel changes are being made!!!!!

  • ca

    .he is not that young.....he could die before Mrs. Smith and then what where will his girlfriend go .. my guess stay in the home and cook her something to eat....when they can pay for a chef or a homemaker who is here on a visa and is earning her CNA or nursing degree smh.

  • kissmabooty

    EXACTLY -- In one post her husband wrote that when she speaks its incoherent babble. If that's true then she really doesn't understand anyway. If she doesn't have the mental capacity and doesn't even have a clue what's going on then where's the harm in what he's doing? He's taking care of her (a mentally incapacitated person) AND enjoying his life. I don't see why that's such a crime. SHE'S TOO MENTALLY INCAPACITATED TO EVEN CONSENT TO SEX ANYWAY. GET IT DUMMY'S?

  • John Jordan

    26 years is a little while - not to say I'd do what hes doing. In fact, I wouldn't.

  • Robin Naugler

    Oh yes, we white women are all gold-diggers! Just lump us all in together. Racist, much???

  • chaisun

    Yes. You’ve never given us an ounce of individuality so you can’t go crying now expecting to receive it. If you’re not a gold digger then move along then. It is you people that created racism as a social construct along with the generational perpetuation of it. You people benefit from the structural system that I will never benefit from in the entire world, even when I’m in countries in Africa you’re still living through your demonic privileges. So no I can’t be racist. Good day.

  • Nancy NO

    Yup, you said it!

  • Nancy NO

    Industry Guru, is there anyway to contact you privately. I have some information regarding a court case and I just wonder what are your thoughts, since you seem to have known B in real life?

  • Nancy NO

    And I can certainly see B. Smith being "long suffering" as you described. She didn't marry until she was 40 and he was 38, so I imagine she was probably wanting marriage at that point and Dan seemed like the right guy. She waited a long time to settle down.

  • Nancy NO

    Thank you for sharing this information. We were under the impression that Alex is just a waitress.. This all makes more sense now. She is actually a vegan chef who had a failed restaurant and she badly wants to be like B. Smith, Paula Dean and Martha Steward. DEEP. She is going about it all the wrong way. Thanks for sharing