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Former NFL defensive end Ryan Russell wants the world to know he goes both ways. Russell opened up about his bisexual preferences in an ESPN op-ed.

The former Dallas Cowboy was drafted in 2015 after a standout college career at Purdue. He played 2 seasons for Dallas and two for the Tampa Bay Buccaneers before his career was sidelined by injury.

Now recovered from a shoulder injury that caused him to miss all of the 2018 season, Russell hopes to play in the NFL again.

"I want the next team to sign me valuing me for what I do and knowing who I truly am," he told ESPN's Kevin Arnovitz.

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Russell, 27, believes now is the best time to come out as a bisexual man in the NFL. He is aware that Michael Sam, who came out as homosexual amid a whirlwind of media attention in 2014, will never play in the NFL again.

Russell said he came out to friends and family, but he stayed in the closet because of the stigma of being openly homosexual in a major sports locker room.

"I deprived myself the basic privilege of living an open life. That meant I had to be strategic and cautious about meeting guys or getting involved with them during the regular season," he explained. "It also meant that even though I was building important friendships on my team, I couldn't be authentic or honest about who I am or what was going on in my life.

He said he was nearly outed by a nosy, well-known Instagram blogger, who put 2 and 2 together.

"After my first season, a well-known blogger messaged me. He had come across an Instagram story of a man I was dating that included a quick snippet of me in the background. Even though the man and I were never in a post together, the dates, times and similar locations were enough evidence for the blogger to deduce that we were an item."

He said he begged the blogger not to out him.

"If the blogger outed me, I was sure that would kill my career, one that was supporting not just me, but my mother and grandfather. He'd eradicate a childhood dream that was the product of years of work and sacrifice."

Russell said he was shocked by the blogger's response. He said the blogger told him that "he would grant me this favor, but that I should be more careful."

"Let that sink into your brain," Russell said. He added that homosexual athletes "are so invisible in pro sports that a gossip blogger is doing a favor for a bisexual football player by not disclosing that he happens to date men."

"Nobody should need a favor to live honestly. In nobody's worlds should being careful mean not being yourself. The career you choose shouldn't dictate the parts of yourself that you embrace."

When Russell's story broke on Friday, NFL fans were mostly supportive. But there were many critics as well.

"Another bum player who wants to use the agenda to get a job like Michael Sam did," wrote one commenter on Vladtv.com.

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  • WhoKnew

    Sandra "Marrrrcus Green Eggs and Ham" Rose please tell us why in the name of trying to start the Labor Day Weekend off right is this news?

  • Republican Dude

    You played your last game dude! There is always the lingerie league!

  • Sid

    Any who. I already started eating my Hurricane snacks. Dorian come on now and bring ya azz!
    I got thangs to do Naa

  • EMILY POST

    A guy nobody asked about his sexuality is now telling everyone about his sexuality.
    Was chicks trying to date him and he wanted them to back off?
    Did he want to bring his dude to the family nfl picnic? Good for him but who cares. He just made locker room shower time real uncomfortable lol

  • https://nylapoprush.com/home twitch.tv/NylaPop

    All I have to say about this is that I'm glad he's not living on the down low putting women at risk like most bisexual men.

  • MsSapphire9800

    Have A Wonderful Labor Day Weekend....See everyone Tuesday!!! Have Fun And Be Safe....

    https://media2.giphy.com/media/3dbIVvuCPGMZcUIu2a/giphy.gif

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    "I want the next team to sign me valuing me for what I do and knowing who I truly am," he told ESPN's Kevin Arnovitz.
    ______________

    If this were true ..... announcing who you like to smash in your personal life is not necessary .. How you play your sport is ...... you smashing a man or woman should not matter ..... https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/8da4d8422e27bbfc104edfcf9e97b4d2639b1c3ba2774d1e84418218e262a94d.gif I mean wtf .... who folks think they fooling out here ...... A lot of folks taking on this damn victim hood bs and harping on some group or damn cause ..... FOH ......Can ya play da damn sport ?..... can you do that? ..... no one gives a shyt about who you fawking .... at least I don 't !!

  • Curtis

    He has to be a black man to promote the agenda? too bad Obamas aren't in the office to congrats your courage.

  • WhoKnew

    He just made the biggest mistake. How many other "free agent" players made this same desperate move in an attempt to get signed and are now either totally out of the NFL working 9 to 5 or sitting on a bench and haven't played in 3 or 4 years?

    Like you said. Who you are smashing should never come out of your mouth as it pertains to your job or your hope to get signed by a team. Is he like 2 y/o to think that was going to jump start his free agency and every gay owner or player was going to unpack their vaseline and advocate for getting him signed? What an idiot.

  • RICHIE_RICH

    He’s cute! He’s being honest and I respect it ??

  • Sid

    Thanks

  • WhoKnew

    Same to you! Be safe and have fun!

  • Ni Ni

    Any white players coming out the closet too?

  • WhoKnew

    This guy is gay. He is not Bi. I read his statement yesterday and it pictured him with his bae (a white guy) and he said he is very loyal to him, which means he ain't smashing women. When you're painting your nails and smudge the polish and then try to fix it you don't do so by putting nail polish remover on it because that removes some polish and makes it worse. So dude you just put nail polish on your sexuality and removed the "Bi" part of it.

  • Carrington

    Three comments, then I PROMISE I'm going to do these people's work while I'm on their clock since I've been here for 3 hours and 20 minutes and ain't started yet.

    1) Why is it that the ONLY black men who come out of the closet ALWAYS come out of the closet with a white dude on his arm? A black man can NEVER convince them to come out, but a white dude can force them to choose the closet, or them...

    2) Is the fact that successful black, gay men almost always choose a white guy to be successful with an indication that black men who seemingly have it all are of the belief that that "all" isn't complete unless they have a white man, or woman to seal the deal? You will almost NEVER see a black gay CEO, Athlete, physician, self-made millionaire with another black man.

    3) Why is it that the SAME people who come online and speculate about which celebrities and athletes are in the closet... the same ones who say, "I don't have a problem with gay people - just be who you are... why you gotta hide it?"... the same one who say, "I just don't have respect for DL dudes...", the same ones who say, "If you don't think there's anything wrong with it, why are you hiding it?" are almost ALWAYS the ones who have an issue when the same people they've tried to guess and force out of the closet, come out of the closet? Either you want gay people to stop hiding and come out of the closet... or you want to continue to GUESS that Will Smith is a queen because it makes for better conversation.

  • Rayne

    Welp, he’s got the best seat in the house. The locker room ?????

  • Nophace

    Why can't these "bisexual" ppl just admit that they're gay?!?

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    If he's "coming out" in order to take a stand or make a statement, that's one thing. But if he thinks he's going to play in the league again, he's probably being unrealistic. NFL owners prefer low drama. A gay/bisexual player would just bring unneeded attention and drama to any team's locker room right now. I wish this brotha well, but his NFL career is pretty much done.

  • Stan4NoOne
  • Facts and Receipts

    Now recovered from a shoulder injury that caused him to miss all of the 2018 season, Russell hopes to play in the NFL again.
    ^^^^^^^^^^
    Sad to say it gotta be like this, but should have waited to come out til you found a job. Its the way things are sir. I dont like it. I sure dont. But it is what it is.

  • iWasteTime

    I've been on for 4 hrs and gave them 30 damn minutes today ... lol

  • Victorious82

    Right. Dude gay. Don’t stick your toe out the closet. Come all the way out boo.

  • RICHIE_RICH

    5h 22mins ain’t did shit

  • https://nylapoprush.com/home twitch.tv/NylaPop

    Enjoy your weekend!

  • Rent em Spoons ?????????

    It’s 2019 nobody gives a damn about who he goes gone with , keep that shit to yourself. In the NFL no player is above the shield and no coach or teams wants distraction . So if your me a mediocre player, then your talents don’t warrant the media circus of distractions you cause outside the field. This nigga is a marginal / below average / unemployed and is looking for an endorsement and attention.

  • imright

    why does there have to be bells and whistles when someone comes at as Gay ?? like ok ....AND ?!?! ?

  • Wreckognize Game

    I was ticked at Hurricane Barry messed up my whole weekend. I was on a 4 day weekend waiting, bored and eating those fake azz peanut butter crackers and that bih was downgraded to a Storm.

  • REGINAGEORGE

    sic

  • Vonda K

    Another Black man coming out the closet?
    On another note white men are getting even bolder in their pursuit of Black women.

  • finallymadeitn

    At least you are getting paid for doing nothing. I've been thinking about working since 7a and I haven't clocked in yet. ?????

  • Carrington

    Basically, it's Friday and ain't NONE of y'all a$$es working today... is that what I'm getting from this thang here?

  • Carrington

    I think they think that being BISEXUAL is a little more acceptable to society. In other words they expect dudes who have a problem with it to be a little more accepting because they can say, "Oh... you still get p*ssy though..."

  • Rent em Spoons ?????????

    This nigga unemployed and looking for an endorsement or shoe-in from the Alphabet Gang, but unlike Hollywood , they don’t rub sports.

    This is one of the reasons teams are hesitant to resign Kaepernick and why many questioned the timing of his kneeling when he was a 3 rotation option coming off the bench. The extra media and decline in his play doesn’t warrant the chance with a lot of teams. The same with Ray Rice . Rice was an okay RB, but if he was an Top 3 RB , he would have been resigned.

  • Bree

    Does the league care about who you are screwing or how well you can throw or catch the football!? I'm confused. Since when did you coming out of the closet deserve a headline? This world is coming to an end!

  • Bree

    Exactly! I'm sure the NFL is on to the next!

  • TriniHarlem
  • Chocolate

    Once again, a gay person putting their personal business before their paper.

    No job pays u to be u. They pay u to fit the mold of their brand and meet demand.
    And that’s at a damn minimum wage job, so if you are blessed enough with an opportunity to earn in the top 1%, be about your business. I’m positive he hasn’t had a piece of ass or ? yet worth his career.

    Be strategic, gay people!
    Ain’t shit loud and proud about being sassy and broke.

  • https://nylapoprush.com/home twitch.tv/NylaPop

    They been bold lol. I never understood where the "white men don't like black women" myth came from

  • Chocolate

    It’s just that. A planted myth. I wonder when more people will notice what u both have said....

  • PK

    ?????????????

  • Chocolate

    Right. Did he miss the pomp and circumstance u have to go thru in Corp America just being black? So why do they think who you’re screwing is going to be formally accepted?

  • Alextra Ballard

    I guess “coming out the closet” and havin gender reveal parties ???is the new hype??

  • Knocked Kneed and Pigeon Toed

    You aint lying. Two of my homegirls have recently started dating white men. One thinks he black and the other one is white white. I had one approach me a few weeks ago and I told him I was married and he was like so am I. UMMM wayment. I got right tf up. Not today white Satan!!

  • MsSapphire9800
  • Coy little wink

    Lolooo I love this gif!

  • sunni_daze

    Its a wrap on his career, unless he is THAT GOOD!

  • Knocked Kneed and Pigeon Toed

    Where I stay there are a lot of black women with white men. So that myth is in deed a myth. They love black women who are natural too.

  • Chocolate

    I don’t entertain either.
    When someone tells me they’re gay, I skip right past to inquiring about their education, career, and health- the crap that actually matters.
    I do not attend gender reveals- it’s silly and dumb seeing as these people allowed reality TV to tell them this nonsense is even a thing.
    These people act like they’re about to have a rare purple turtle or something. It’s either a girl or boy lol

  • KneeSee

    I never even heard of him before this announcement, and I watch a lot of nfl games and sports shows. He could've kept his sexuality to himself. It has nothing to do with his nonexistent football career. Or does it? Is he trying to be the lgbtq version of Kap? I'll wait, because I think he has a hidden agenda.

  • Vegas1989

    I hope he has a degree in something..,.I highly doubt it if gets back in.

  • Renee26

    Good for him... The DL lifestyle is worse. Live in your truth and let your mates chose if they want to get with you.

    Not sure why it had to be a whole public announcement (considering he's a low profile player) but ok

  • Facts and Receipts

    2) Is the fact that successful black, gay men almost always choose a white guy to be successful with an indication that black men who seemingly have it all are of the belief that that "all" isn't complete unless they have a white man, or woman to seal the deal? You will almost NEVER see a black gay CEO, Athlete, physician, self-made millionaire with another black man.
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

    So...this doesnt happen with straight black athletes et all you listed? Why folks been hollering about he with a Becky then all these years? Its not exclusive to gay black rich men.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Never understood the gender reveal parties either .... just another way to get something out of folks .... no one cares really .... hell just tell me where ya registered .... I ain't got to know da sex etc ..... some shyt I will never get

  • Chocolate

    Love us. Yet u have some black men who haven’t realized the same men who created that statistic of black women being the least desirable, are the same men obsessed with us and passing their wealth to us...meanwhile got some brothers thinking who they no longer want (white women) is a prize, and passing their money into the white community.
    A few intelligent brothers have noticed this but a lot have been bamboozled.

  • Renee26

    Yeah, I guess he can get it up for both sexes...

  • Wreckognize Game

    If he really is a bum player, then he has a better excuse to use on why he was not picked. His ego as a player may be more sensitive than being called bi/gay because he is. ?????

  • Chocolate

    ??

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    Why is this an Announcement? I don't report my bedroom desires. I Don't want to hear yours. That's like constantly telling me where you're going everday. Just do it!!! We just got better things to hear.

  • City girl

    Here in the city it's the opposite. There's a plethora of black guys with white girls. And it's white girls approaching them.

  • Knocked Kneed and Pigeon Toed

    Hopefully his skill set with carry him because this announcement wont. Why TF do people feel the need to come out on social media. Like to your friends and family OK but why anybody else. I just get tired of it. It's almost like they are doing it to appear to be brave but honestly it just seems a little attention whorish to me. Just do you and make that money in the meantime now you bout to get bullied into retiring or getting injured. SMH!!!

  • Coy little wink
  • http://welfareinfo.org angrysolo

    was gonna comment but. BWOP
    i read this and you said it all.
    Happy Friday Roses & Auntie!

  • Renee26

    You lookin for a job?? Stay focused on your search... Ain't nothin but gossip on this here blog

  • disqus_FW7pCIigCY

    EVERYBODY wears a mask in public...wherever you work nobody is being their true authentic self, Racist people act like they like other races and cultures but they don't, some folk are killers, child molesters, pedophiles, living in abusive relationships, some are the abuser, some folk are alcoholics, drug addicts, having affairs ETC ( the world we live in now is SHADY, PETTY, HATEFUL, SELFISH, SCARY, HORRIFIC, RACIST, UNSAFE, UNSTABLE ETC...BUT EVERYBODY put on their mask to save their JOBS)...i don't see why anybody needed to know who HE sleeps with now he's messed up his career..most folk would be unemployed if they took off their mask..HE SHOULD'VE LEFT HIS PRIVATE LIFE PRIVATE GRABBED THAT FOOTBALL AND MADE HIS MONEY FOR HIM, HIS MOTHER AND GRANDFATHER.

  • TheRealTW

    What does a person's sex life have to do with how well they play sports? This should be a nonissue and no one should lose a job over their sexuality. Unless they are into children and teens. Animals if they work around animaks.

  • oshh16

    I tried Fenty beauty's new eyebrow pencil today..super easy to use and looks goodt, not overly done/ artificial looking.

  • Phillybruh

    Because the teams were asking about his personal life, and rather than explain it over and over he just opted to do it this way.

  • Renee26

    He just getting in front of the story before the blogger does

  • Phillybruh

    So if a team ask you about your personal life, which they did in his case what is one to do? Teams were asking him, its not like he's going to get a job or he would have had one by now. But they were asking him about this so either way if he told them face to face or in an interview its a disqualifier in the NFL.

  • dontgetblocked

    Wow! Dumb jock! This is not the way to get a job.

  • TriniHarlem

    I just can't

  • Starburst

    ? agree! Ladies are aware that he's bisexual. One day it's ladies the next day men. At least you know.

  • Chocolate

    I’ve seen that too.
    Black men that date white are like gay people to me, it’s like they make integrating into whitedom a full time job, but skip over the part where they get a piece of the privilege. If u mess with all these white women, u def shouldn’t be without a job, career or successful business, shouldn’t be struggling for years, etc. White folks invented nepetism and career placement where one isn’t qualified.
    Be strategic, Becky loving brothers!
    Then u have the other end of the spectrum where the black men that make it give their wealth back to the white community.
    Which I actually prefer over the brothers just perishing with the trailer trash.

  • deidre martin

    he would grant me this favor, but that I should be more careful."- Wow, its a hard knock life

  • thatonechick_

    Be you!

  • MrsSpice1

    I love how Queen Latifah is soo graceful and classy, we know shes lesbian but never have i ever recall hearing about her broadcasting the bs on some PSA type of drama. She like, look you see me dating women never men so fkn there?...U got ya answer! Why cant some of u mofos be that way?!! Like this new age bs of airing out ya personal life all on social
    Media for likes attention popularity sympathy is outrageous...?

  • the guest

    A man filed an excellent lawsuit against Popeyes for running out of chicken sandwiches. His complaint is well articulated and I think he'll win. Look it up online. It's interesting.

    Basically he claims that Popeyes orchestrated hype and media frenzy has cost people time, money, stress, upset, and inconvenience. And he's absolutely right.

  • gellie

    Because he's a free agent with preseason over and he still hasn't secured a job. Michael Sam deployed a similar strategy. He was a bubble draft prospect and I believe he only came out to heighten his visibility and low key pressure the NFL into drafting him. He got drafted...low. But he didn't make final cuts to the roster and NFL quietly sent him on his way.

  • Coco17

    Maybe he telling before someone else tells it because folks always wanna out your business before you do. Or he could be trying to help others in his same situation. Now he doesn't have to hide it.

  • Chocolate

    Scale it down to a standard Corp America job- I know I’ve been asked questions, both in the interview process and once I’ve been hired at many after work functions (that appear voluntary but u get ousted if u don’t attend).

    I never reveal anything personal to my job.

    We have to be aware of who we are and where we are at, at all times then behave accordingly...so we can even make it to the level of being able to change things.
    I get it’s tiring, but it’s the only way to properly strategize for success in this country.

    He has the right to keep them out of his business and make his journey about his talent, one has to remain focused.

    Is it fair or right? No, but it’s the way it is and not just for being gay.

    Do u not agree?
    And let me know if I misunderstood your reply

  • GAPeach

    Damn, I just noticed how awkward Whitney looked dancing. She looked like she was counting in her head.

  • Starburst

    Me either. I've had Polish, German, Irish, Italian men hit on me. They are bold in approaching Black women at least with me and I'm not easy.

  • MoneyMillz1914

    They won't. He wasn't that good.

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    You just got you a seat on the sideline permanently!! Should've just let the rumors "swirl" and secured you way BACK ON THE FIELD! YOU AINT BI SEXUAL EITHER.. YOU STRAIGHT UP LIKE THE PEEN! BOY BYE! AND TUCK YOUR BUTT CHEEK BACK IN.. THE BOYS IN THE LOCKER ROOM WONT LOOK AT YOU THE SAME EVEN THO YOUR LOOKING AT THEM LICKING YOU LIPS..

  • MoneyMillz1914

    He wasn't that good tho

  • bella28498 .

    IDC if he like ding dongs in his mouth and behind. Its none of my business what he does in a dark alley or abandoned building.

  • bella28498 .

    Thank u for changing the subject....this post is dumb

  • Sid

    ?

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    He's probably had sex with a woman before, and might be open to doing it again. But for sure, most "bisexual" men are really straight-up gay but don't want to say so.

  • Wreckognize Game

    That blogger was invested to not only be looking at pics but checking for the similar locations. I remember watching Kathy Griffin’s tv show and seeing Lance Bass at her dinner table with other gay friends before he came out. I didn’t deduce anything but I guess he could’ve been outed then. They should let these people do them.

  • Starburst

    Lawd! Lol!

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    OT: So Jay z will launch an "Inspire Change" Program and Clothing Line with Meek Mill at the Helm. BYE!

  • EasyBreezy

    You gay.... next.... why all the damn drama?

  • the guest

    Not everyone wears a mask. There's quite a few people who are who they say they are and are an open book. The problem is real and honest people are far outnumbered and usually not as sharp as secretive duplicitous people. But when good people get wise, evil people can't put anything past them.

  • Ne Ba

    Time for a class action lawsuit !

  • EasyBreezy
  • EasyBreezy
  • Lucky8

    Dude pick a side and stick to it. The dirty desperate ones will get with him.

  • Ne Ba

    Colourpop is just as good and very cheap, even though it doesn't look cheap. Its an Anatasia Beverly Hills dupe.

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    Now WE ALL KNOW he like packing fudge and smoking meat blunts! I bet. His jock strap is a mess!

  • EasyBreezy

    He must be white.

  • LoveChild

    Black woman staying loyal to black males like fools as black males love the pink penises and the pink titties.
    His boyfriend is white as usual black males love to swirl I try to catch up with them but they out swirl me.

  • Yup, I said it

    Here the media goes with that,damn agenda again. They are stirring confusion in young peoples mind. Now young people don't even understand platonic friendships. They think if they like you and y'all get along you are supposed to screw.

  • CookieMobster

    ATTENTION ALL MY LOYAL ROSE BUDS... Y'all know it's a long weekend and Auntie Sandra Mae may just dip out on us chilrrens. Be prepared for this... Figure out what shows you gonna watch to pass the time you would usually be strolling (or trolling for some of you) through the garden, prepare your milk cartons and "have you seen this blogger" posters with Aunties face on them, to be putting up on every corner near Lenox mall and corner of these here interwebs. This may be a Lord of the Flys situation so figure out whom you may want your leader to be if we are alone tew long. ? Be blessed everyone and stay safe. The crazies AND the po po will be out all weekend.

  • Yup, I said it

    You better know it. The athletic lockers rooms is a play ground for anybody that like likes menz like myself (I'm female.) All that testosterone and those perfect bodies would be like being in an enchanted forest. Your sexuality is your business but I can see how it could make other men uncomfortable in a locker room setting. They got alot of gay porn with locker room scenes.

  • Phillybruh

    But its not a standard corporate America job, the NFL sells masculinity and it can't sell an openly gay player just yet. But they already knew, which is why teams he was interviewing for would ask him. His injury is not why he's not playing.

  • Vegas1989

    Yes!!!! Happy Friday & have a safe long holiday weekend....I will check Auntie on Wednesday when I return to work..LOL

  • Yup, I said it

    And Jewish most likely

  • Vegas1989

    He better go to store and make his own homemade chicken samich with no HORMONES in it....

  • TheRealTW

    That's fine. Thank you for taking time to respond.

    If he were the greatest player up to now would people treat him the way they treated Sam what's his name?

    My point is a person's sexual orientation has no bearing on work. That is all.

  • deidre martin

    angela and loretta seem to be the only ones with a little whine in em!

  • Floriduhh Evans

    Yup and bet money that blogger is a gay man as well

  • Vonn

    Agreed. I never understood why people always want to be in someone else's business about their sexual orientation or who they're sleeping with in general. Mind your business. I don't talk to my friends about the men that I'm dating and what we're doing together...because it's none of their business. I'm not interested in who they're dating or boning either, like so what. Just live ya life.

  • Carrington

    "... that that all isn't complete unless they have a white man, OR WOMAN to seal the deal..."
    You missed that part, apparently.

  • Chocolate

    Ok, I agree and we’re essentially saying the same thing. What am I missing?
    Is it that u don’t agree that I said he should stfu and chill on that gay shit and get his paper?

  • Yup, I said it

    So he is saying he was victimized by the sport because he had to hide his sexuality but he is also saying he wants another team to pick him up so he can continue to playing in the NFL. I hate this guy.

  • Chocolate

    ?????????
    I’ve dated white guys but they have to be wealthy and useful to my progression. And fine with no 80 yr old looking saggy white ass and they’re only 27. And they can’t have that terrible double chin/turkey neck or be built like a tad pole. And they bet not start with that trump or Zimmerman bullshit, or throw shade at black men.
    I could go on and on, that’s why I rarely swirl in the US.
    Non-American white men can be a go tho.

  • Li-Wright

    I don't care. Football is on its way out as a sport, that's why the NFL is trying to expand it overseas. Now, if the internationals think that the NFL is full of gay men, it won't be successful. The reason football is on the way out is because the attendance is way way down. TV is up, but butts in the seat is down. It's a sport that (white) parents don't want their kids to play anymore, so they're leaving it to the black kids to take the hits.
    Just saying.

  • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

    lol I loved Lord of the Flies!!! Chile this ShoeDazzle sale has me like Pookie today. 6 pair of boots for $90 and free shipping....I think I'm going back in for round 2 *facepalm* everybody has left the office and I'm still at my damn desk. Enjoy your weekend luv https://media2.giphy.com/media/G2Gi6yjoyTfri/giphy.gif

  • LoveChild

    My mentor taught me how to vet men so I am good. I think most black women need a dating coach somebody who is experienced.

    She told me not to do men any favors so I don’t. I don’t date broke males of any race.

    The key is that the man has a legal family connection with his father that’s where the generational wealth is she was right about that.

    Also generally men that have connections with their legal fathers have manners and know how to treat women that’s in general these fatherless males are all the way fucked up. Most black males are fatherless so...I don’t bother because they are too feminine. Or try to get you to go 50-50 loan them money let them use your car etc. etc.

  • Dun Dilly

    yawn

  • Phillybruh

    It wouldn't matter if he was quiet about it NFL teams already knew it and its why he was getting passed over.

  • Overpower Radio

    Shit seems phony.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    Yeah, he got his degree in Sociology, so at least he's got something he can fall back on with that.

  • Overpower Radio

    The movie, Inception.

    Who planted those thoughts in your head that are not your own?

  • Chocolate

    Right. Gay ppl get in their own way

  • Renee26

    Thanks for the tip!! Goes to the site to peek

  • GAPeach

    LOL! Yeah, Lela looks a little rhythmless too, but mannnn Whitney was just walking backwards.

  • Coy little wink

    He ain't the only one. All those men in tights...tackling each other...thick thighs and azz just everywhere ?

  • CookieMobster

    Oh my that seems like something I need to look into!!!

  • EMILY POST

    lol T Nasheed got this man pictured oiled up on the beach with a white dude... ?.... lights out... is it that damn serious? These black dudes in love with white people they throw everything away for their swirly love... Lol Now the white people culturally are different they will dump the person before they dump that $$$.. they not f'ing with their brand at all.

  • finallymadeitn

    No, not looking. I work from home. I have a contract job that I keep thinking about doing today just not in the mood. Plus my staycation started yesterday for my primary job.

  • Nik

    You took the words right out of my mouth.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    *dead*
    *cremated*
    *buried*

  • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

    sign up for VIP for the discount :)

  • Vegas1989

    I need you to come with me for 30 minutes please in room #2301!!! You are in time out for that one...

  • Nik

    Exactly. If the blogger outed him he could have been like, "Yea and so what?" instead of making it a PSA.

  • LoveChild

    Those are cheap shoes will hurt your feet like s muthua. Those shoes have no archsupport and the sizing is off I’m through with Shoe Dazzle. I gave all those shoes to the Goodwill. Pay less is better than shoe dazzle.

  • Nik

    A team can ask about your sexuality? Why is that necessary?

  • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

    I don't have a problem with them at all. I love my Jessica Simpson sandals from them as well. Might be your feet....you can add arch support on your own if needed. Now my red bottoms hurt my damn feet and I've only worn them twice and glad I didn't buy them *cries real tears*

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Sandra starting her Holiday early

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    ???

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    But in men's sports and other macho endeavors sexuality is linked how one is expected to perform.

    That's why when someone doesn't perform well he is referred to some feminine term or another. You catch like a girl or you run like a girl or you're a p***y.

    People have all sorts of prejudges that they may not be aware of which means that if you're a superior running back and the coach is a closet homophone it may mean you don't get as many touches as you would if no one knew your sexual orientation, and I am saying this as the coach may not even be aware of his own bias.

  • CookieMobster
  • Sha

    Hmmmm

  • Sushi

    Child it is 2019, we have always had Gay people in the world and there always will be, the most vocal ones that scream (I hate gays) have a gay complex, they are just trying to deflect from self.... I have a lot of male straight friends, totally platonic I don't want them and they don't want me we have even went to female strip club's together and regular straight clubs, I don't do the gay scene have not since my early 20's . Be you, what someone else eat want make you full.....Live your life...….

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    Ok so there are reports that Lori and diddy are already done some sources are saying it’s because of the age difference and diddy was so controlling it was like dating her father. Other reports say they are taking a step back to reevaluate things. So maybe that explains why he posted a pic of Kim saying he missed her. Chilllllllleeee diddy has reached that point in life were he gone have to settle for what he can get because no woman will want to deal with him he better hope he don’t die old and lonely

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    Exactly.. He could kept that to himself and Jerry the rumors swirl!

  • SaltineCrackers

    ?????

  • MsPam

    New Post

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    He wont win.. I don't care how was worded it is. You have a choice so to where you want to spend your money. Of that's the case I need to sure my local grocery door when they run out of eggs. Ever heard of RAINCHECK!

  • Coy little wink

    Lolololooo!

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    What y’all think about Dallas Austin spilling all this iced tea in that interview?

  • Coy little wink

    Is my boo in there...cause girrrl he got some work to do ?

  • Bree

    Diddy's love for Kim isn't the love a man has for his soulmate. If he loved Kim so much, he would not have moved on from her and dealt with Cassie for 10 years. I know she left him, but he did NOT run behind her. He is probably feeling guilty for not being a better person to her or they had unresolved issues before she passed. Her death was too sudden for the world. She was beautiful, even I had to reevaluate my life. Diddy had love for her presence just like Moses did for Miriam, but they were siblings, not lovers! Diddy's first and only love is probably Jenny from the block!

  • https://nylapoprush.com/home twitch.tv/NylaPop

    Same here

  • https://nylapoprush.com/home twitch.tv/NylaPop

    Exactly

  • Bree

    Chile, I need to be picked up off the floor for this one!

  • https://nylapoprush.com/home twitch.tv/NylaPop

    Girl they love natural black women more than some black men do ijs. But you didn't hear that from me - I ain't tryna get dragged lol

  • https://nylapoprush.com/home twitch.tv/NylaPop

    Where do you live btw?

  • Bree

    What'd he say? Is his interview on YouTube?

  • Nophace

    OT: Am I the only one that looked at that Sinbad pic under this post and questioned why someone in their 60's is walking around with the same haircut as Sloth from the Goonies?!?

  • jeniefrumdabloc™
  • jeniefrumdabloc™
  • Nophace

    He did a Vlad interview (no idea why ppl are still going on his platform) and it's broken up into like 11 parts but here's part one: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=APVDlDmeqJU

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Thanks ..... oh shyt ... you Dallas azz got skeletons tooo chile .... let me watch https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/8a387dfb83ecb61a358c67d2915bd670a147882127d62e6bca24947221efc742.gif

  • Phillybruh

    Gay men are looked at very different than lesbians.

  • Whiplash(lacejagger)

    Disgusting

  • WhoKnew

    There will be a lot of cookouts this weekend as Labor Day signals back to school and the end of summer.

    Everybody be safe this 3 day weekend, have fun and eat some good food, live, love and laugh. And, whatsoever you do make it funky and I don't mean throwing the unseasoned food at the host at the cookout. I mean turn up but be safe and have fun. Sorry, flashbacks from the last cookout I went to and had to leave because the food was that awful.

  • Starburst

    So funny!

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Bout to hit up da liqour store ret now and come back home and put my neck bones on ..... chile !!!!! Enjoy your weekend https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/fa4cd6672d9eb6910080103019dcb139cea20e57c8af53291723464063c42bd1.gif I will get my trees tomorrow shewt .... Have a great weekend!!!!

  • WhoKnew

    You're hilarious! That's what's up. Enjoy your weekend too!

  • Coy little wink

    My work is done ?

  • Carrington

    I'm so shame. My co-workers and I are discussing our ancestry DNA results and comparing notes on our phones. I was showing her the section where your DNA matches pop up and we're just chit chatting with the whole office about it and she's explaining that she never knew that section existed. She says, "I made my daddy do his so that he can find out where he's from but he didn't even show up on my list..."

    Without thinking I said, "Well, that means he ain't your daddy..." and then immediately put my hand over my mouth like, "did I say that out loud?..." she laughed, but the whole room got quiet and she asked to look at mine and says, "Why does yours say your closest DNA match is your mother and my daddy isn't even on mine at all?"

    Ma'am, I shouldn't have brought this ancestry $hit up because you're going to go the whole weekend trying to figure out who this man you've been calling daddy your whole life is. I'm so shame. She's not mad at ME, but I feel like I should apologize again because she keeps trying to call her mom and she keeps sending her to VM - what should I do?

  • abby500

    Hmmmm what are his initials?????

  • leapyearpisces

    That's HORRIBLE. OMG........I want to be mad at you because I hate blurters, HOWEVER, I DO NOT believe in coincidences, so there was a reason, you did what you did, so don't feel bad. You never know, you could be saving her life, because who knows she may go to the doctor months from now and get diagnosed with a terminal illness, but it may be one of those things where a relative can be a match.....on the flip side....maybe her real daddy is a lottery winner or something and unbeknownst to you or anyone she is going through a financial hardship and real daddy may can help her. It WAS A REASON you blurted that. It will reveal itself sooner or later. Don't beat yourself up.

  • Donna Essentia

    so idk if yall saw but Ricky Pears Ross is about to be a grandpa...

  • Coy little wink

    I'm listening...

  • Coy little wink

    He says Monica sucker punched Brandy...also Boys to Men became azzholes after fame. It's on RWS

  • Coy little wink

    Actually I think he was still in Kims life privately he just was public with Cassie...he had several women Cassie was ok with it

  • Elevated Soul

    Anyone who sleeps with the same sex is gay.Bisexual is just a term gays like to use, who can't accept the fact they're gay.

    I will bet you he was hiding the fact that he sleeps with men. I will also bet he wasn't hiding the fact that he was sleeping with women and that's if he even did that.

  • FakeNeanderthal Jesus

    So 99% of these Pookie Ray Rays ghey now!
    Sistas just date another race already.

  • Carrington

    What's VERY interesting is that 10 minutes before that, we were talking about the fact that she found out she has sickle cell trait and can't figure out where it came from. That's how we got on ancestry...

  • FakeNeanderthal Jesus

    No we haven't.Ancient khemet wasn't ghey until years later .And that was a small scale of blacks doing that dumb sh!t.

  • Coy little wink

    Do people show up who arent in their database/haven't been DNA tested??

  • Rayne

    Lawd please don’t let it be initials (H.S.) he’s fine ASF. Still waiting to meet him. I hang with some ppl that know him. He’s my crush lol ??

  • Carrington

    No, they can't show up if they haven't been tested, but if they tested and you're related, they'll show up. I did mine years ago and then bought my mom one last Christmas as a gift and, as soon as her results came in, I got a hit that a new relative popped up and it was her. I mailed mine from Houston and she mailed hers in Chicago. They don't ask any personal questions so, it's pretty accurate.

  • Rayne

    Been here all day walking in kitten heels a big belly and pushing a cart walking and talking.

  • Sushi

    Ok We have been cool in the past so I am going to keep this cute... We have always had GAY people, this is nothing new, rather they gave into it or not.

  • Coy little wink

    Interesting...So was her dad tested? I want to do it but no one I know has been tested...

  • Bree

    Kim was in his life publicly. She seems to have been one of those mothers that stay around after the breakup. We would see her in family photos all the time. I didn't grow up with my biological father in the house, but my mother was rarely around him. Kim didn't move on for some reason that we will never know. I felt sorry for her.

  • Rayne

    Thank gawd and yes!

  • Bridget Gatlin

    Wow, that's deep....People say they are bisexual becz they don't want to accept the fact they are ghey....I never thought that

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Chile I'm back ... just got 2 pack Stella rosa and a shot of Tequillla .... just took that shot by the way and put my food on ...... https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/81ab9b8d3edbde23aa9076988d7b63d2e3e93b388c11cca531336a466bf17b77.gif teehee

  • dru and neil

    Pretty sure most folks aren’t landing rich successful football players, gay or straight.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™
  • Chocolate

    What about before hand?
    Nobody has to know a person is gay.
    He didn’t have to act on being gay or he could’ve been more discrete.
    I’m straight but I’ve been celibate before just to complete my damn masters and keep my scholarships.
    He made this choice and it was dumb as hell.

    Me personally, with a once in a lifetime career on the line with zero gay tolerance and a relatively short shelf life anyway, I would’ve taken my career as far as possible and to a point where being gay wouldn’t matter.

    But sustainably successful men of color have always told me they progressed faster once they weren’t lead by lust.
    And it’s been the same for me, too.

  • Chocolate

    Ikr, he’s not the only one, he’s just the dumb one. Letting the lil white boy play step ford wife and demand everyone know abt him, when it’s likely they won’t even go the distance.
    These people are so damn confused- the best part abt being a man is how they can naturally separate what matters and what doesn’t. But the gay dudes get shit in a blender trying to think like a woman, a shitty one at that smh ?????

  • Rayne

    ? woo wee! You must be a looker yourself ?

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    I agree!

  • Carrington

    Yeah, he was tested. You'd be surprised who you know in the family has been tested. I live in Houston and when I took it, my dad's sister popped up on my match list - and she had taken the test 5 years prior in California. Also, after I took the test, one of my cousins (who the family always said was NOT my uncle's daughter) took the test and immediately popped up on my match list so, there went that family lie and she and her mother were vindicated after 40+ years of people saying her mother was lying and the family saying she wasn't a part of the family.

  • Chapter29Chick

    It could be that she had herpes. Cassie was seen with bumps on her lips b4. Google it. Maybe Lori decided to run 4 the hills because of that. It may be hard to reveal that you have herpes and keep someone interested.

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    Enjoy your weekend Jenie! Sounds like a plan?

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    ????
    Folks STAY creeping!

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    Young or middle aged?

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs
  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    My girl! I LOVE SHOES!

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    Vlad tv said Monica punches brandy in the mouf and boyz to men got uppity when they got fame

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    Vlad tv said Monica punches brandy in the mouf and boyz to men got uppity when they got fame Chile just running his mouf acting like Quincy Jones

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs
  • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

    ? yes

  • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

    Me too chile ????? They keep calling me?

  • Chapter29Chick

    This I why I think these guys coming out could be for attention. Like damn ok u r coming out because of what? We don’t want 2 know u takin it or giving it in the azz.

  • Renee26

    True!!

  • Chapter29Chick

    I’m thinking the same thing. Wat an idiot ?????

  • Renee26

    Aww ok, it's alright to just chill sometimes ?

  • Renee26

    This dude won't get picked up either

  • currvalicious

    And why is this any of our business? No one make announcements to the world that they're heteros. These gays do the most. Who cares whether he came out of the closet, from up under the bed, or out of pantry. No one gives a damn.

  • gellie

    He sure won't. Likes I said, the season's getting ready to start. If there was ANY interest in this guy, he would've been picked up already. This was a last minute desperado swing for the fences.

  • Sean

    Your statement is fact of "Anyone who sleeps with the same sex is gay. Bisexual is just a term gays like to use who can't accept the fact they're gay" is factually inaccurate and unfairly biased.

    Why do some people why try to define other people by boxing them into categories that they may not fit into? The definition of bisexual is someone who is attracted to both genders/sexes. The reason that some people stay in the closet is not necessarily because they are ashamed of themselves but instead because of the unnecessary scrutiny they face when they try to live their truth.

  • currvalicious

    Damn....

  • Sean

    So all black men are gay now and black women should steer clear? Just like all black women are angry black baby mommas right? The stereotypes that we place on each other in the black community are dangerous, yet we wonder why other races don't respect us. We don't even respect each other.

  • currvalicious

    Well he raised her as his own, so she shouldn't worry about something that can't be changed.

  • Bree

    Geesh! Monica was a beast back in the day for absolutely NO reason. Her career has been stalled for years because she's always trying to be down. I love Monica but Miss Thang is too much!

    Boyz II Men should have walked with a little more humility. I'm surprised how we don't celebrate their legacy these days.

    Dallas Austin was one of those guys I thought was gay back in the day. I'm normally not one to judge a book by its cover. But the fact that he is spilling tea is makes me believe he is a punk. I can't stand men who are messy. Have some balls!

  • Bree

    Oh wow! That's unfortunate if she did. I felt sorry for her. Any woman that leaves a man and he doesn't run behind you, let's you know that he doesn't cars for you the way you think. I believe Diddy loved Cassie, he just didn't deserve her.

  • currvalicious

    Damn Carrington. You just really had it going n today uh.

  • Dasright

    I took one and got the surprise of my life too. Went 33 years believing my dad was my biological and he wasn't. It hurt, especially considering I knew my biological dad my whole life, just not as my dad. My mom is too ashamed to go into details.

  • Elevated Soul

    My comment is not about YOUR sexuality,so don't take it personally.

    Let me clarify myself though....If a person OPENLY speak of being BISEXUAL, then that's not who I'm talking about because they are NOT HIDING who they are.

    MY comment is about people like this dude who HID the fact that he sleeps with men. I will bet the women he slept with had no idea he slept with MEN but I will bet the men he slept with,knew he slept with women. They knew they were the SECRET...The women were the COVER to HIDE the fact he preferred men.

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    Yep I too thought he was gay

  • Elevated Soul

    Many bisexual people are often just people in the closet.For instance they will let everyone see them with the opposite sex, but will hide the fact that they sleep with the same sex.A true bisexual isn't hiding anything.

  • Coy little wink

    Lolooo!

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    I did that accidentally during a Christmas party.

    My coworker who has brown eyes said something about both of her parents having blue eyes and I blurted out two blue eyed people can't have a child with brown eyes.

    She started muttering something to herself after I said that and she acted some kind of way toward me from that point on.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    How long were you in time-out?

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Hot mess

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs
  • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

    ??

  • ClaireHuxtable

    W0w...that made me sad, but I'm glad you got clarity.

  • http://realitytea.com Lady Chatterly’s Lover

    Shouldn't you be battening down the hatches in preparation for Dorian?

  • chan chan

    She need to know who her dad is.

  • ShadesofEMPRESS

    Wow he doesn’t look gay

  • http://realitytea.com Lady Chatterly’s Lover

    LOL. When I say the GIF I knew this was you posting like a "hot pepper pudding" as my mom used to say.

  • TheRealTW

    Just because this is the link and the expectation does not make it right.

    PS I am aware of this but I thank you for sharing because we never know what people do or do not know. God bless you.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Big Mouth! j/k I hate secrets and would much rather deal with the facts however they fall out.
    Just continue to be supportive and let her do most of the talking. She'll lead the conversation where she wants it to go based on how much she can handle.
    You shouldn't feel terrible. You were just stating test result information. I wish your friend/co-worker the Best on her journey.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    You are a constant reminder of her pain/secret. Not much you can do about that except continue to be your pleasant self.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    I'll take a Good Dad any day over just a biological one.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    ...Jen...Jen...that's white pepper, not salt!

  • ClaireHuxtable

    "throwing the unseasoned food at the host "
    What kinda garanimals are you hangin out wit? https://media3.giphy.com/media/lavL359qVykE0/giphy.gif

  • ClaireHuxtable
  • LoveChild

    I keep trying to tell them.

    Black women the most baby mamas.
    Black women the least married.
    Black woman cape and coddle black males like it’s a job paying them overtime.

    But check this out. Black males are the least married male

    and black males are the males who swirl the most in America.

    Even in the hood Ray Ray got a Ming Lee or Becky on his arm. While black women talking about nothing but a brother sitting at home raising the black males kids???

  • ClaireHuxtable

    I volunteer to search the malls again. Anybody seen her AMEX? https://media0.giphy.com/media/3ohs83bO7MKV9koZuE/giphy.gif

  • ClaireHuxtable
  • Bree

    Jeezy got a Jeanie Mai

  • LoveChild

    Some statistics are real. The statistics that are real is black women and black male have the rates of being the least married.

    The statistics that are unfortunately real is there is an epidemic of black absentee dads this is real everybody knows it everybody lies about it.

  • LoveChild

    Yup. See. And you know what more power to him.
    I swirl also my man isn’t black??Black women need to get out there and date the rainbow. Take your cues from black males since black males are not loyal to black women so stop being loyal to black males that’s a dead end.
    If I had kept dating black males I would be an abandoned baby mama by now!!

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    ??

  • ClaireHuxtable

    If Popeye chicken sammiches were a life necessity I could see it. Otherwise he decided where to spend and/or waste his time.

  • Sushi

    If that is the case you would be suprised by the men I date..

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    lOLOLOLOL !!!!!

  • Sushi

    True, but I will say most of the men I have dated still like women, and like having sex with women. .Trust me when you know better you do better, I only date men that look straight but only like TS, bottom men because there in still lies confusion. ..

  • Sushi

    True from my experience. .

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    I don't work there any more.

    I moved from there to Florida in 2004.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Yes, ma'am.
    I am and then I heading to stay with friends.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    She prolly still throw darts at your old Employee ID badge.

  • Being bad is way more fun

    I dont know anybody st8 that plays sports that is st8 so why is it so shocking when they come out. Just because you have kids and always seen with women dont make you st8 .. I cant wait for the day when stories like this is not even worth printing !!!!

  • Being bad is way more fun

    What does a gay or bisexual look like .. I can tell you they look just like everybody else so you would never know who does what behind closed doors !!!!

  • Being bad is way more fun

    What race would you suggest women date because hes dating a while men so that means they cant date them either ???

  • leapyearpisces

    LOL!!!

  • leapyearpisces

    See? It was not just happenstance. GOD and the universe were using you as an instrument for something. You were a catalyst for something good / positive.

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    If anybody been around a college football team you would know football is filled with Gays!

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    That how all these black women got aids they think it’s a look

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs
  • Eileen

    sad disgusting pathetic fatherless man-childs.
    Thank you becky and ling-ling for taking these fools off of our hands.

  • ShadesofEMPRESS

    It’s starting to be shocking that’s all

  • ShadesofEMPRESS

    What you mean

  • ShadesofEMPRESS

    ???

  • ShadesofEMPRESS

    Sorry I guess I’m more so fearing dating because so many men are under cover

  • Eileen

    sad pathetic and true.
    This has nothing todo with the white man and racism it has to do with the foolishness of bm being undisciplined irresponsible lustful and stupid.
    Our community will ALWAYS be at the bottom if we must depend on bm to lead provide and protect.
    A bw cannot do the job that God intended for men todo!

  • Eileen

    Why would any sane women sleep with a man that sleeps with men?

  • LoveChild

    We can’t heal as people by lying and denying the fax. The black community protects BM. This blogs comments proves it. Rabid she-males defending thugs since BM are always the victim.

  • LoveChild

    Weak females do. Just to say they have a male SMH.

  • LoveChild

    It’s very true here in Cali!!!

  • Eileen

    When will the insanity end with bm.
    You want a trophy because you are confused and doing you eventhough you are doing an unnatural act!
    Please go back to the closet of privacy like heteros do who dont blab their sexual practices to the world.

  • Being bad is way more fun

    Nothing has changed other than your eyes are more open .. You take the chance no matter who you date .. We all have things in our closet and nobody will ever know unless they are invited in or you get a sneak peak. Cant live your life in fear or you will not end up living at all ..

  • Sushi

    Meaning, I was born a male. never took or am on hormones, also never used my Manhood on a Man or a Woman, also meaning I am a bottom, don't touch (her) She does not like it.... I have always been the receiver. I have a lot of straight looking men that want me to do them (use my Man Hood) ain't going to happen because (She) does not work that way,,,, If you look at my boyfriend for 10 months/ or any of my EX's you will never know they were gay. Talking to him or hanging out with him, all of his friends are straight and have genetic girlfriends, we all hang out together, the only thing you will notice is that I am African American, and he is a Middle Eastern male that hits the gym 3 times a week...

  • Sushi

    No they catch STD'S because they don't practice safe sex, no matter who you are with....

  • Sushi

    Not really, the object of the game is being friends first... We are a society that want instant gratification, we don't take the time to know an individual, learn that individual, we just want to be in a relationship, get married have kids. No... learn who you are dealing with from all aspects of the spectrum......

  • Sushi

    Gays are everywhere what do you mean???

  • Sushi

    Everything Natural, became Unnatural with the FIRST sin....MAKE IT MAKE SINCE....How about YOU stay in the closet.... Your statement about Hetero being in privacy Prove it, go to social media, all you have is "Straight" couples parading their love around.. If I am wrong Please correct me...

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    I Said AIDS gay men get aids from bloody sex and transfer it to women

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    You out there letting random men bust off into your rear it’s no telling what you have contracted

  • abby500

    TB... lol

  • Sushi

    Ok So I will not waist my time explaining how a woman with Aids can give it to a man GOOGLE that..... However I will say this just because you have a Gay man it does not mean they have AIDS..... I am 44 I get tested every year and I don't have AIDS or HIV. WHY because I am selective with who I sleep with, and every man I come across is not worthy of my body, I always use condoms, have not had a condom to break on me yet... In my 8 year relationship he used condoms, all the time ever time, and in the 10 month relationship now, he uses condoms will always use them because I don't know what he does when he is not around me.....I know you are an African, Nigerian, Jamaican or of some different African decent, that have been brainwashed and is closed minded, no harm no foul, but everything you were taught or think you know is far from the truth......Exclaimer when I say African decent no disrespect I mean the traditions and how you were raised are different then Black Americans. But all gay men don't have AIDS...

  • Sushi

    And No GOOGLE is your friend AIDS does not come from bloody sex, It comes from an infected individual having sex and sharing a blood transfer with an uninfected individual. You sound like a 2 year old. Two clean individuals can have sex all day and twice on Sunday for ever and never catch HIV, as long as they are only sleeping with each other…..

  • Coy little wink

    Lolololooo I never went

  • Sushi

    No , again that is your antiquated way of thinking, I am 44 and only been with 7 men, don't try it, I go to the Dr. Every year, and have a clean bill of health, try that on another punk, I'm not the one, I'm gay not desperate....

  • Sushi

    This coming from a man that beat his wife if she steps out of line, don't try me, you got the right one..

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    The cdc says 50% of black gay men will have aids

  • Sushi

    ok,...... And white people say all Black people look alike. The stats could be true, but as long as I go to my physician and he does a thorough check up including blood work, and I remain clean, that does not affect ME.... So every gay man you talk to does not have HIV or AIDS, AND WITH YOUR MENTALITY YOU DON'T EVEN KNOW THE DIFFERENCE, Stop BEATING your WIFE and Educate yourself...….

  • Pamela

    Trump complained to reporters off the record that his fired/resigned PA said mean things about his kids. She said she was closer to Trump than he is to his own kids. Said Trump couldn't pick Tiffany and Barron from a crowd, that's how unfamiliar he is with them. She also spoke about his eating habits
    Boofuckinghoo, pick your girdle up, tighten it and keep it moving you spoiled manchild.

  • anonymouse

    "But sustainably successful men of color have always told me they progressed faster once they weren’t lead by lust.
    And it’s been the same for me, too"

    That's an alien concept to Black men and that's why....never mind. lol

  • Jethro

    I wonder why there's been no Serena/US Open coverage here. ?

    Serena beats Sharapova for 19th time in row

    Serena into round of 16 for 18th straight time

    Oh, she's been winning. Never mind.

  • FakeNeanderthal Jesus

    ,loool,date an alien.Some green mug.That sounds about right .lol

  • FakeNeanderthal Jesus

    deep! Facts indeed!

  • Junkanoo

    He didn't say he was gay he said he is bisexual there really are millions of people who are really bi some land at different end of the spectrum but they kick it with both sexes.

  • Junkanoo

    Good for him bisexual people need to stop pretending to be straight and live in their truth their millions of them out there who actively sleep with both sexes which doesn't make them gay because both sexes arouse them .

  • The Chosen 1.

    Lmfao

  • Logan Roberts

    Congrats.

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    Another Black male who wants someone rampaging around in his rear end SMH

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    Congrats for what? Cause he want another man busting in his rear?

  • MRiGOThim

    but his boy toy is white :(

  • MRiGOThim

    Gays are everywhere, but I think he meant that most of the players are gay or do suspect things especially when we're in the locker rooms or at practice :P

  • MRiGOThim

    lmao me too :P

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    No, it isn't right but you can't change how people feel especially when it's based on fear.

  • 1KimJones

    Nobody gives a damn what 2 consenting adults do behind closed doors!. That's between God and those 2 people. Stop announcing your private business for clout, attention and job opportunities.

  • Keira
  • TheRealTW

    That is truth.

    Try telling that to the Femi-Nazis and the LGBTQIA+ Community...

  • Miss Lady

    Ummkay

  • Sushi

    I have dealt with this African woman beater in the past. He always trying to throw a half ass sly comment. And I'm going to make this backwoods goat eating 3rd world hexane beast ass, explain his dumb ass logic...….

  • Alextra Ballard

    Sometimes yew really can’t go bi looks.

  • Alextra Ballard

    Wut two consenting adults dew ain't nobidy’s bidnez

  • Meme

    Now what on God's green earth makes you believe he's African,evvvvvvvrbody knows he's white, don't put down Africans for his sake makes you look silly! Because you're doing exactly what he wants you to be doing

  • Sushi

    Could be, but I have never seen him, and his dialect speaks African to me, so I called it like I see it....

  • Meme

    Yes just saw a picture of them holding hands walking down the road! The boyfriend is quite a likkle man they where both holding iced frapachinos or whatever drink and looked very happy together!

  • Alextra Ballard

    Wait...stop...who’s a wife beater?

  • Alextra Ballard

    I saw him and his potna on another site...being gay,str8,or bi the man is bilt

  • $92471650

    this gay shyt has to stop.

  • Angela Marsh

    Self hating black folks will never uplift their own. They will never post anything positive about blacks! They only want to post stories that show foolishness. Serena is too great, and her story is positive....that's not entertaining ,unfortunately.

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    That’s why the AIDS rate so high with black women they need to force Aids tests on people

  • hottlanta

    All of these men coming out n open with their gayness. I wanna say thank u. Only company that is gonna b making a killing is depends adult diapers. All that back pounding gonna take a toll on your axx sooner or later.

  • hottlanta

    Exactly. I could never inderstand why people clap when someome says they r gay as if they won a nobel peace prize or something.

  • hottlanta

    I saw that. U better werk serena. I was mad because they suspended her for using performance enhancing drugsn allowed her 2 play again. Serena would have been stripped ftom the history books n banned for life like the way they did that runner.

  • Being bad is way more fun

    What gay shyt are you talking about ?? Is it the fact since gay people have been here for a long time even in Bible gays ?? You just want people to keep quiet about what happens in their bedrooms ?? I promise if hetro people keep all they do quiet then gays will also ..

  • Being bad is way more fun

    So you saying its ok if he is the top ?

  • Being bad is way more fun

    Its done so that others with same feelings will stop feeling depressed and killing themselves and others. If it doesnt have anything to do with you why do you even care or does it have something to do with you hummmm

  • Being bad is way more fun

    Congrats for letting others know they are not alone and somebody that looks like them and play sports have the same feelings they do and its ok !!! I personally dont not know any st8 men that play sports. Just because you dont know whats going on dont mean its not happening right in front of your face !!

  • Being bad is way more fun

    Any sports team not just college football .. The locker room is any gay club USA when its just the team around some dont even wait lol

  • Being bad is way more fun

    Gay men are not having sex with women so how are they giving them AIDS ????

  • Being bad is way more fun

    I promise that is not what the CDC says !!!!!!! Even by your logic there are more white men with AIDS because there are way more white men in the US so where is your anger to the white guy hes dating. He has a better chance of getting AIDS from him than the other way around

  • Being bad is way more fun

    I agree Sushi .. I just dont jump in bed with every dick I meet.. I get to know them not saying that makes it any safer but once you get to know somebody you have a better chance of being safer or at least getting to know their sexual history..

  • Being bad is way more fun

    We could share so many stories lol I really dont date or chill with too many gay men way too much drama. I am masculine and I date and get with the so called st8 men. I am not attracted to fem or women I like men so thats what I will only get with. Being a top or bottom doesnt mean you are more or less masculine its all in what you see in and out the bedroom. I prefer the jock type so if you could see the men I date they would be just like this guy although I do not know him but the sports player type I mean

  • hottlanta

    So now if folks like me who dont care about your sexuality gonna cause 2 to be depressed hide it or kill someone else if l dont clap. Now gay folks r blaming straight folks for their actions. Using straight people as gay people emotional scapegoat. Nobody claps for me bcas l am heterosexual especially gay people. Should l blame gay people for my depression or kill someone for not accepting my lifestyle. Me not clapping will not stop a gay man from getting the d n u know it. I dont care about a straight person sexuality so why should l care about a gay person sexuality.

  • hottlanta

    Wait a minute. The lgtbdgfrfxcxyz community change the term bisexual to the new n improved term pansexual which means u pan out n sex anybody.

  • Being bad is way more fun

    You got what I said all twisted.. I said its not for you st8 people its for the gay kid who thinks hes the only one dealing with this issues with his sexuality from being depressed or harming himself or others. St8 people are everywhere you look movies tv etc but you dont always see a NFL player or other guys that play sports come out so the kid who is dealing with these issues are left to their own imagination.

  • $92471650

    im not wasting my time reading that. I said what I said and I meant it. if you dont like it, go cry yourself a river.

  • $92471650

    These ppl aint Gay, they are molested or raised wrong.

    Every gay person that I have talked with about there past has been molested or one of their parents are gay. Some parents are gay pretending to be straight like Dwayne Wade and Magic Johnson, thats why they sons are gay. They see the real and have duplicated it. And the same thing with Jay Z, his mom gay, thats why he gay. Same thing with Diddy and Jermaine Dupri, they dads are gay. All they doing is duplicating what they see and the duplication continues and yall goofy azzes is supporting it, instead of getting to tbe root of the problem which is child molestation and bad parenting.

  • $92471650

    These ppl aint Gay, they are molested or raised wrong.

    Every gay person that I have talked with about there past has been molested or one of their parents are gay. Some parents are gay pretending to be straight like Dwayne Wade and Magic Johnson, thats why they sons are gay. They see the real and have duplicated it. And the same thing with Jay Z, his mom gay, thats why he gay. Same thing with Diddy and Jermaine Dupri, they dads are gay. All they doing is duplicating what they see and the duplication continues and yall goofy azzes is supporting it, instead of getting to the root of the problem which is child molestation and bad parenting.

  • hottlanta

    I understood everything u said n gay people dont clap for straight people sexuality as if we dont have sexual struggles.

  • Being bad is way more fun

    I have never heard of anybody killing themselves or harming others because they are st8 ???

  • Being bad is way more fun

    Well I guess you met your first person with same sex attractions that have not been molested or have a parent that is gay. I am not sure who you talked too but its not the norm with everybody gay bi trans or what ever the new trend word is out. Gay is nothing more then population control build into the human equation so the world wont be over populated plan and simple. Like most gay people nobody taught us how to be gay because we didnt know what gay was until later in life just like nobody taught anybody how to be st8 its just the way you are. Right time and place anything can happen and usually does as long as the person feels their business wont be put out..

  • Being bad is way more fun

    Well I guess the same company is making a killing with women and their pussy's also with that logic. Every gay man is not having sex 24/7 just like every st8 man isnt either. I would also like to add that not every gay man has full sex either so they may never get anything in their ass or that often. Why are you thinking of the worse case gees !!!!

  • Being bad is way more fun

    This is about race more than sexuality ..

  • hottlanta

    Killing yourself bcas u r gay is a cop out n 2 bring others in the mix of your mess is even worse. Did those 2 lesbians who murdered those innocent brown babies by driving the truck off the cliff had a right to take their lives.

  • $92471650

    I dont know and never met you. Im confident that I can find the root of your gayness, if i dod meet you. Most of tbe gay ppl I talked with started off with that same line, it took some digging to pull out the root and it always leads back to molestation or bad parenting. Magic Johnson and Dwayne Wade sons think they gay on there own too, I doubt they kno their fathea have participated in gay stuff.

    And being Gay is a spirit, it has been transffered to you. You need to get rid of it. Because I have never met a gay person that wasnt suicidal. None of yall are truley happy with the same sex.

    Some religions do oral circumcision on the boys when they are born, meaning the priest suck the babies penis straight out the womb. You dont think yhat can contrubute to gayness? Its a spirit being transffered.

  • hottlanta

    Please women give birth 2 14lb babies as well. The vagina was designed by god 2 have babies n have sex. The penis goes in n a baby comes out. Your anus was only designed by god for bowel movements called waste.

  • $92471650

    dont know and never met you. I can find the root of your gayness. Most the gay ppl I talked with started off with that same line, it took some digging to pull out the truth. Magic Johnson and Dwayne Wade sons think they gay on there own too, I doubt they know their fathers have participated in gay stuff.

    Being Gay is a spirit, thats some religions transfer at birth. Such as oral circumcision, where the priest suck the boys penis straight out the womb. God did not make you gay, something went wrong in your life, you just may not be aware of it.

  • Being bad is way more fun

    Its so nice how you over look all the crazy sexual misdeeds that the st8 people do and find the few things that in the news about gays and talk about how bad it is. You should get upset over the millions of cases of st8 people harming or killing in the news daily and seek the cause of that !!!

  • Being bad is way more fun

    Whats starting to be shocking that you are finding out the men that play sports are gay for the first time .. I think it says more about you then them..

  • Being bad is way more fun

    If we lived in a judgment free world that would be the case but we dont !!!

  • Being bad is way more fun

    Its the same reason black men marry or date white women when they start making money .. No different

  • Sushi

    You are wasting your time, nor have I ever been touched or molested, most of the indignant people on this blog are because, they are stuck in their own peridiam. Don't cast pearls to swine, if you go and look at my profile, I have had this conversation with the majority of them...

  • Being bad is way more fun

    If being gay is a spirit then what is being st8 ? Since there are more people that are st8 and also doing way more sinning I dont see how you can call being st8 any better ??

  • hottlanta

    Dont let me get started on 2 seperate lesbians couples who murdered their own son n to b true to their home status of no pénis in the home cut off the boys penis. There used 2 b a false sensé of parenting security illusion that gay people made better parents than straight people when it is showing time n time again that kids arent safe with anyone straight or gay.

  • Being bad is way more fun

    Not true why is the male g spot the prostate glad is in his ass and cant not be reached by a pussy and can only be reached by being penetrated with a penis so that means the original human designers knew this would be done.. The female g spot is on the outside of the body which a penis can not get to so this means to me that when we were designed we were designed to be sexual beings and meant to enjoy pleasure and not until religion or somebody like you came along with close minds did things change.

  • Being bad is way more fun

    There are more st8 people harming children than gay ones so you need to do way more research on this topic because you are really clueless !!!!

  • Sushi

    Same here. ... I don't hangout with any gay people, I learned in my teens that is a no,no they are to messy. And let me also say don't waist your time and energy with these backwoods thinking posters on here been there tried that, I just learned to call them on their bs when they approach me..

  • hottlanta

    Adults depends diapers on sale on aisle 2.

  • Jethro
  • TJF1306

    Black queens up in arms because he is dating a white boy

  • TJF1306

    in what religion does a priest suck a boys penis at a circumcision? Catholics, Jews? Not happening, stop believing everything you read on the internet. No one touched me ever, my parents were amazing and married for 50+ years. I knew I was gay from very young age. Sounds like your mind is warped from your own religion

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    Ok you said you promise that’s not what the CDC says why don’t you google it

  • Chocolate

    lol!

    But when they do get it, they are fucking amazing ..a black man with self-discipline, self-control, a plan and the drive to carry it out...makes me swoon and can’t be stopped..

    We’ll see more of them sooner than later in the US bc the ones that don’t will continue to perish along with their female equivalent.

  • Undecided

    I think you mean black queers

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    Who cares! Keep it to yourself and if you are out with a man, you owe zero explanations.

  • Jussjess25

    Thank you for letting us know bro! So straight women can stay far far away.

  • $92471650

    Orthodox Jews. I did not learn that off the internet. I learned about if when a priest was arrested for giving babies herpes. Then I asked the Jews that i know and they confirm that it is apart of their religion. Now you can google it on youtube and watch the priest do it yourself if you are still in denial. Its called "Oral Circumcision".

    Now let me tell you what I do know

    1. orthodox Jews suck the babies penis at birth
    2. Spanish people make little boys have sex with donkies
    3. Indians marry off there 9 year olds to growm men.

    and Im sure there is alot of other crap I dont know about. All of this easily accessible by way of the internet. However I learned of it through the students I deal with on a daily basis who tells me the things that go on in there home and then I research it.

    Please dont ever think I would type something I could not prove. ??

  • $92471650

    Evereyone has a spirit. Your spririt has either been sealed by Jesus or you are open to demons. If you want to know if you have a demon operating in you, try to say Jesus is Lord, and is The Son of God. If you cant say both, you have a demon in you. Because Demons cant say that, not even for play, because they will cast themself out of the body they are in and it will be sealed by Jesus and they cant go back in. So if you cant say it, you have a demon in you.

  • Being bad is way more fun

    There is no gay or st8 spirit its just who you are .. Live your life doing what makes you happy and enrich the lives of your friends and family or the ones you come in contact with is the best way to live your life !!! You and your spirits need a drink of something !!!!!!!

  • $92471650

    Evereyone has a spirit. Your spririt has either been sealed by Jesus or you are open to demons. If you want to know if you have a demon operating in you, try to say "Jesus is Lord, and is The Son of God" If you cant say both, you have a demon in you. Because Demons cant say that, not even if they dont mean it, because they began to cast themself out of the body they are in. So if you cant say it, you have a demon in you.
    ----

    To answer the rest of your question, there are many different evil spirits from lust spirits, gay spirits, lying spirits, religious spirits, murderous spirits, promiscuous spirit and many more. Just because you are straight dont mean that you cant be possessed with another evil spirit. All straight ppl ain't sealed with the spirit of Jesus. However this particular article is about murderers, its about being gay, right?

  • $92471650

    Evereyone has a spirit. Your spririt has either been sealed by Jesus or you are open to demons. If you want to know if you have a demon operating in you, try to say "Jesus is Lord, and is The Son of God" If you cant say both, you have a demon in you. Because Demons cant say that, not even if they dont mean it, because they began to cast themself out of the body they are in. So if you cant say it, you have a demon in you.
    ----
    To answer the rest of your question, there are many different evil spirits from lust spirits, gay spirits, lying spirits, religious spirits, murderous spirits, promiscuous spirit and many more. Just because you are straight dont mean that you cant be possessed with another evil spirit. All straight ppl ain't sealed with the spirit of Jesus. However this particular article is not about murderers, its about being gay, right?

  • Being bad is way more fun

    They are not spirits they a human emotions some have better control over them than others but have nothing to do with a spirit.. You are way too religious for you own good.. If you are not gay or bi you do not have the right to speak on how somebody else feels within their body you can just give your opinion. Everybody that is reading this can see you have way too much free time and need to sweep around your own front door and make sure your life is perfect before you start judging others.

  • $92471650
  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    Look at that post below about that boy killed hisself cause he was getting raped by that tranny every night

  • Being bad is way more fun

    Please stop trying to say that because you find one post about somebody being treated badly by somebody gay or bi sexual as the normal.. I can post a ton of post about how st8 people are raping molesting killing and other things everyday. Plus cant see your link and I am sure its not from a mainstream site.

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    It’s on the site that boy was getting raped by a trans named faith

  • Being bad is way more fun

    Really wow did you even read the article ?? You think he would tat the name of his rapist on his face !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    I’m pretty sure he didn’t know what he was getting into he was homeless that trans lured him into the house abused him for months and gave Him the Aids

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    Very few women will have sex with a man knowing he screwing men also

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    That’s few and far between women know gays have a extremely high Aids rate

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    I bet a women will not sleep with a man knowing he screw trans... and most of them trans is running up in the guys who mess with them also

  • Sushi

    None of that has nothing to do with me so I can care less.....

  • FakeNeanderthal Jesus

    the white man bible who was robably gay.

  • FakeNeanderthal Jesus

    it's not part of THE MOST HIGH'S PLAN!

  • Being bad is way more fun

    Please they were both adults so they are fully responsible for what they did .. She may have put her A game on him and he didnt know how to handle all that but he was still an adult. She was not raping him they were in a relationship words from his own mouth. Again you need to read the article and not just look at the title o yeah there is a video to help you in the article ..

  • $92471650

    I wasnt asking you to confirm if spirits exist or not. I know they do. I have seen them operate going from one body to another and have watched them over talk a person in the persons own body. Religious is when you participate in traditional practices, I do not! I dont even go to church. Im telling you things based on the bible and life experiences that I have witnessed or experienced. Take it or leave it. Dont ask me questions that you really dont want the answer to.

  • $92471650

    and you need to go find out if the dr that birth you was Jew or if your dad is hiding in the closet or if one of your mamas boyfriends or any other male fondled you as a child. The one truth you cant deny is the world would end if everyone was only attracted to the same gender. two same sex ppl CANNOT produce another human and Thank God he made it that way.

  • Being bad is way more fun

    I am pretty sure I know more about spirits than you do as I was raised in the church.. You opinion is just that but you should not try to put your beliefs on others. People try to blame the supernatural but its really humans being humans as they have been since the first man walked the earth. Let people live there lives doing what they want to and as I said unless your life is perfect you dont need to be telling other people how they should be living their lives.

  • Being bad is way more fun

    Nobody touched me and Im I know plenty of others that were not touched either that are gay or bi. Its just built into the human gene code again for population control. There have always been gay people and there will always be. They are living in their normal. With your logic that means in order to be st8 a women had to touch all boys and a man had to touch all women in order to make them st8. If you dont think that happened then you should not think this was the case to turn somebody gay. I not saying there are not people who were touched as a child or an adult but your logic is just not logical or scientific. People dont have to pray the sun will come up it will do that until it dies because the order was sat in motion and its doing what it was designed to do.

  • FakeNeanderthal Jesus

    There lies the problem within itself:The Most Hifh isn't a he.
    The Most High created good and evil but The Most High also created free will also.
    All man and women have a choice to choose the right path.It's on them if they go the wrong route.

  • $92471650

    When did I try to put my beliefs on others? This conversation started because you responded to MY post, and asked me questions, not the other way around. You are the one trying to force me NOT to speak, which contradicts, your entire point. I said what I said and I meant it, if you have a problem with that, thats your problem. But this is a public forum, if you dont like what I have to say, ignore it or block me. Its kinda simple?????

  • $92471650

    Im not sure what you are trying to proove to me. But you can explain all that to God on judgement day. However let me make this simple, so that you can stop wasting your time. Being gay is not good, it is from satan. If you dont beleive that, I understand, but dont waste your time trying to make me believe what you believe? If I cared what you think of what I said, I wouldve asked you. This is a public forum, for people to state what they want and I will continue to do that.

  • Being bad is way more fun

    Since there is so much crime molestation killing divorcing kidnapping multi sexual partners etc it seems that being st8 isnt so great either !!!!

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    I guess you never hear of Stockholm’s syndrome.... that boy was getting sexually Abused by that grown man in a dress

  • Being bad is way more fun

    Man please get of the religious BS .. There was no hell or Satan in the Bible until the religion didnt catch on and it was added and yes the original Bible is still around. Most religion is a bunch of nonsense .. Live your life the way you want and let others do the same !!!

  • Being bad is way more fun

    Man please get of the religious BS .. There was no hell or Satan in the Bible until the religion didnt catch on and it was added and yes the original Bible is still around. Most religion is a bunch of nonsense .. Live your life the way you want and let others do the same !!!

  • ShadesofEMPRESS

    How does it say more about me???

  • ShadesofEMPRESS

    You are so right. It was my naive thinking.

  • ShadesofEMPRESS

    Truth

  • ShadesofEMPRESS

    Thank you! This is so true. I have to do better.

  • Being bad is way more fun

    You can always buy some great toys but it just isnt the same as a real person to be with ;-[ .. I have faith in ya !!!!! Life is short so enjoy every moment you can !!

  • Being bad is way more fun

    Your eyes are being opened but others have known this all along. Gay bi men look just like everybody else so there is no way to tell who is doing what behind closed doors. Some may just be doing gay acts because it feels good or they just dont want to deal with the drama of women or them trying to trick them into having a baby and get their money but its really nothing new under the sun this has been going on since the dawn of time ..

  • ShadesofEMPRESS

    Lol thank you