Last week convicted killer Cyntoia Brown was released from a Tennessee prison on Aug. 7, after Governor Bill Haslam commuted her life sentence in January. Brown was a 16-year-old runaway when she fatally shot real estate agent John Allen, 43, in the back of the head while he slept in 2002. She was sentenced to life in prison in 2004.

Eyebrows were raised when it was reported that Cyntoia was picked up from prison by her new husband, Christian rapper Jamie "J" Long, formerly of the group Next.

Jamie reportedly married Cyntoia while she was still in prison. The date of the nuptials are unknown. Cyntoia is transitioning from prison to married life - which can't be easy for her. Especially since Jamie's ex-wife, Total singer Pam Long has nothing nice to say about him.

On Sunday Pamela warned Cyntoia about giving her heart to Jamie. She told The Neighborhood Talk that she believes Jamie is an opportunist who only wants Cyntoia’s money.

Pam might have a point. Jamie didn't waste any time marrying Cyntoia. He didn't even wait until the prison gates clanged shut behind her.

Cyntoia left prison with a six-figure Netflix deal and a lucrative book deal to write her memoirs. Jamie will now share in any profits Cyntoia might make.

Pam, who was in a long-term relationship with one of the members of another girl group, changed her sexual lifestyle for Jamie. She was known as the butch member of the R&B group Total (with Kima Dyson and Keisha Epps).

Pam says she married Jamie in 2013 and their divorce was finalized in February. She also said he was unfaithful to her throughout their marriage.

According to Pam, he wined and dined her, then left her penniless and heartbroken. And he will do the same thing to Cyntoia, who is in a fragile emotional state.

"This man is diabolical and he is such a manipulator. The way this man pursued this woman is the way he did me," she said.

"He came and found me using the same card, 'He was a Christian artist,'" said Pamela.

Jamie had better watch his back and sleep with both eyes open.
 

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TNHT Intern: @yesthatsdee _____________________________________________ #Neighbors we previously reported that Cyntoia Brown was released from prison and recently married Jaime Long, who is the ex-husband of Pamela Long from the singing group “Total.” _____________________________________________ Well, Pamela says she is ready to speak her truth and provided us some exclusive details regarding her marriage to Jaime. _____________________________________________ In a statement provided to The Neighborhood Talk, Pamela says that she married Jamie in 2013 and their divorce was recently finalized in February. She also states that he was unfaithful throughout their marriage and expressed her concerns for Cyntoia going forward. _____________________________________________ “This man is diabolical and he is such a manipulator. The way this man pursued this woman is the way he did me. He came and found me using the same card, “He was a Christian artist,” said Pamela. _____________________________________________ “May the Lord God protect her and her money. It’s about who she is in the public eye and what she has. By her having this face in the media it helps him to have a chance to be around what he deems as the elites,” she exclaimed. _____________________________________________ “Mr. Long may be able to hide behind his handsome looks of being a good man, but God knows the heart and exposure is coming.” _____________________________________________Pamela claims that Mr. Long will do anything in his power to gain fame and fortune. She also wants the world to know that in no way is she bitter, because she’s better. She wishes them the best.

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  • Dollface

    How could Cyntoia be so f-ing stupid. Dumb Azz B just couldn't wait it out. HOW COULD YOU BE SO STUPID!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • KarmaBackAround

    Wowwwwww.... she aint gonna do nothin but kill his ass! He better watch his back ?

  • Fire & Ice

    I heard about this yesterday. Hmmm I hope Cyntoia doesn't get victimized again. Ugghhh there are so many opportunist out here smh.

  • KarmaBackAround

    She doesnt know any better.. not a ounce of sense.

  • Starburst

    She should have enjoyed her freedom a bit as a fresh out of the prison box lady. So fast, and wrong move. Even if he were a priest she should take her time to adjust to hew new life. Why?

  • Gamer?? Chick
  • Curtis

    Why do people say they were born gay? This woman was lesbian and later married a man for years. As for Cyntonia, I don't believe murderers can be rehabilitated, once they taste blood, they are hooked. She will kill again.

  • Parent

    I would never bad mouth my ex. He's not my problem. Ole girl gon learn what she need to.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Pamela Long is looking like Patrick Long.

    I question the character and intelligence quotient of anyone that marries someone incarcerated. Particularly when their only interactions with person occurred after they were incarcerated.

  • iWasteTime

    Pam couldn't have warned her in private?! Took a ride to the prison or wrote her a letter?!
    What money is he looking to get, she has none at the moment

    Can we get an update when we find out who he really is? There was never a member in the R & B group Next named Jamie Long

  • tintin

    I always assumed she was Gay however did she actually say it.
    And sandra you wrong for "changed her sexual lifestyle for Jamie."

  • Dollface

    Dumb B just got herself out of some BS just to get herself in some new BS. She is a complete f-ing IDIOT

  • Blaque Mahogany

    ???????

  • Curtis

    Exactly. And she will claim post traumatic disorder and be set free. She's a serial killer in making. Laws don't protect men anymore.

  • Coy little wink

    As cute as he is I knew a heartbreaker story was coming ?

  • CardiB’sAbs

    “Diabolical and manipulative” Cyntonia and this guy sound like a match made in hell. Two peas in a pod. Let them gallivant into the sunset. ?NEXT

  • Dollface

    Auntie, I can't @ you. It says people in this conversation. If you haven't commented - it won't let me @ you.

    Anyway - I feel really white washed with this new site. Can we give the background some color. See example below. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/0992499ed57622c629d46dc458f6a0a6faa83e6e1e7f3174c26a5c352fe0d7dc.jpg

  • Tinytoon
  • Parent

    Pam is slim fit. I like her style.

  • Curtis

    I read somewhere else he was in a group called pretty Ricky. Some confusion here.

  • imright

    when in the hell was he in Next ? ?

  • Wreckognize Game

    If Cyntoia was groomed into being a sex worker as a young girl then her being with this guy and possibly giving up her money isn’t new to her. Who taught her better??????

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Chile wait ... I thought Pam liked women ... how da hell was she married to that guy and how da hell did the ex end up with Cyntonia woke up and read this shyt looking crazy .... https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/c4d9640b7fe65e44b3d912396a48bd52c6dee54b4e0593086078a7358af94028.gif

  • Wreckognize Game

    Which Next? Maybe it was I got Next. ?

  • Jay

    Christian rapper Jamie “J” Long, formerly of the group Next
    ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
    I thought it was Pretty Ricky he use to be a member of

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    This marriage just seemed very rushed to me. If a person is willing to marry you while you're in prison, they should be willing to wait for you to get out of prison and then wait a while before marrying you.
    And I'm pretty sure she dint make him sign a prenup either. I wish them the best, but I can see this ending real badly. This situation just has 'heartbreak' written all over it.

  • Wreckognize Game

    He got Game?
    Call him Jesus Shuttlesworth..

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    'sChile ..... https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/cb784b50c1e075c0c7f39f709a7c7b60b07da1a49ba86d27d24d134f70687920.gif hell I thought Pam liked women back in da 90's when did she get with a man .... and as for the ex .. how he link up with Cyntonia ..... small damn world what theee heyul

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    I remember Pretty Ricky, and I see J Long even had a song called Personal Freak. I was like... since when did he become a Christian artist? I guess he's come a long way then. #nohate

  • Wreckognize Game

    ?????

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Hot azz mess!!!!

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    He did a song/video inspired by Cyntoia's story. I'm assuming they probably bonded over that.
    http://www.hallels.com/articles/18467/20171108/j-longs-short-film-video-evolved-inspired-by-the-story-of-cyntoia-brown.htm

  • iWasteTime

    Never! I know who sang Butta Love and he ain't it

  • jeniefrumdabloc™
  • Coy little wink

    Auntie wildin ?

  • Bushbabe

    Well the last man that crossed her ended up meeting his maker so I think Long needs think long and hard before he does something to end up six feet under.

  • Ryan

    I remember Pam - even back in the day noticed her neck was wider than a linebacker. Beyond my understanding why she'd try to go straight.

  • Coy little wink

    Annullment in 5...4...3...2..

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Chile ..... https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/869cb96a7a857f7b18d28f54040933ca96eb76fa8ce1307a5d4d7ea755ad5124.gif it's some weird shyt going on out here ...... I ain't trusting this ... seems suspect

  • 11pink123

    yeah this is a slap in the face to everyone that helped her. thats crazy.

  • Tinytoon

    I have more questions than answers:

    1. How did they meet?
    2. Why the rush to get married?
    3. Is she/he that desperate for marriage?

  • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

    Pam, who was in a long-term relationship with one of the members of another girl group, changed her sexual lifestyle for Jamie.
    _________
    who chile? Pour the tea!!
    https://media2.giphy.com/media/QZmkTXEfv85vmWHwCU/giphy.gif

  • datjerk

    I thought that was a pic of Jermaine Jackson at first

  • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

    He found her chasing that Netflix money chile

  • Kimberly King

    I shole thought she was gay for the longest. See Pam ! It ain't always green on the other side. Go ahead and go back to what you *REALLY* prefer.

  • Nita Pie

    This through me for a whole Loopy loop because I thought she was a lesbian.

  • SemajBeyPhilly

    Crazy part about is there’s not ONE SINGLE person who can convince Cyntoia otherwise. That’s a heartbreak she’s going to have endure to realize the lesson in that situation. Damn.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    I read somewhere that she had fetal alcohol syndrome and as a result she has some developmental issues.

  • datjerk

    You mean the man who was raping and beating and pimping her out? You reduced it to simply crossing her? Cool.

  • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

    Next?!?! He looks like younger Memphis Bleek from the side of the neck. I have so many questions chile

  • Coy little wink

    So they could sex without sin...i mean have conjugal relations ?

  • Yup, I said it

    This whole situation is unfortunate. Its all about pepole chasing after those 7 deadly sins. Oh well, get ready for some new characters because John Allen's family, chirrens, 2nd cousins twice removed, debt collectors and everybody else is gonna go after Cyntoia Netflix money in civil suit.

  • Bushbabe

    She did not kill her pimp you dummy she killed the trick who crossed her. Please do more research before @ing me ad get a damn clue.

  • Marlika

    How do you allow someone to leave you penniless.? ??????

    Cynthia gets whatever comes her way. She killed a man while he was sleep and robbed him. She should still be in prison!! She didn’t kill in self defense???????

  • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty
  • datjerk

    She was actually sold to dude stupid

  • Tinytoon

    Oh, so she's holier than thou now? Lol.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    Well, he's a Christian artist, so...

  • Tinytoon

    He prayed to God and he sent a prison babe. ?

  • Bushbabe

    You are so dumb, she ran away from home after she lied on her adopted father and said he molested her. She ran away with Kut Throat her pimp. She met the guy she killed while out on the stroll. Do more research and stop coming back me with your jumbled mis information. your just slow.

  • Dee

    ?????????!!

  • Dee

    ???????

  • jeniefrumdabloc™
  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    She's got the Netflix documentary money... and she'll probably make more money doing a reality show, and also from a book deal, speaking appearance fees, etc. If there's no prenup, basically he's in position to get half of all that.
    Poor thing. She's been in prison since she was 16 so she's been really sheltered from the real world, and didn't know much about the dangers & potential vultures to watch out for.

  • WhoKnew

    " I can see this ending real badly. This situation just has 'heartbreak' written all over it."
    ______________________________________________________________

    I agree this will not end well. I was rooting for Cyntoia's life do over but now that these details are coming out it's unfortunate that this will probably not end well and may see her back in prison.

  • Kimocha

    Dayum!... I remember when Pam married him and it wasn't that long ago either!... I was so shocked by it and thought it would last BUT guess not!... If he think he's gonna play this girl Cyntoia, he better think again!!... For real!!... Meanwhile Keisha and Omar's marriage seems to be going STRONG for ab 15yrs now and they make such a cute couple!

  • WhoKnew

    I agree. She needs to anul this sham marriage immediately.

  • Bushbabe

    According to court documents, Brown threatened a jail nurse prior to her trial, stating "I shot that man in the back of the head one time, bitch, I’m gonna shoot you in the back of the head three times. I’d love to hear your blood splatter on the wall.” A recording of a phone call she made to her adopted mother while in jail was also presented as further evidence against Brown, in the conversation she stated of the victim "I executed him". Further still, a fellow inmate testified that Brown had confessed to killing Allen "just to see how it felt to kill somebody.

  • Bushbabe

    Like I said before Long better think long and hard before he crosses the sociopath. Please stop @ing me with your foolishness. I am not a bleeding heart liberal. She killed a man in cold blood.

  • Renee26

    She will have to learn the hard way... I'm sure she's not taking anybody's advice

    And WHEN was in in the group Next??? Not in the early 90's when they actually had hits

  • Renee26

    ? you can truly relate huh??

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    This may be another abuser Stockholm syndrome .... not good

  • Renee26

    Prenup for her anticipated coins ?

  • Renee26

    Some prisons still don't allow em

  • Renee26

    He better be careful... She may shoot him for playing with her emotions

  • WhoKnew

    Agreed.

  • Coy little wink

    Well he is a Christian...not sure about her

  • Ni Ni

    Pam, who was in a long-term relationship with one of the members of another girl group
    ____________________
    Oh??? Tell me more...

  • Bushbabe

    Are you for real? She was in prison with hardened criminals. I think she is well aware of what goes on with scammers.

  • Coy little wink

    Lol...true.

    Remember Tupac married that random chick when he was locked up...

  • Ni Ni

    Yep she will have to learn on her own.

  • KneeSee

    She wishes them the best.
    ____________
    No she doesn't. ?

  • Ghost

    When I read the report that she was married I smh! She was on too much limbo to have marriage on her mind! And it was so secretive! I hope everything works out but we’ll see!

    I smell fame and money grab all over this!

  • Allergic2dumbstuff

    Please stop reading my mind.? When I saw the first pic I honestly thought this was a tbt of either Jermaine Jackson or Miss J. But I literally said "Weeee doggie" when I saw that 2nd pic.fr fr Didn't realize Pam was THAT hard.?

  • Meme

    Hmmmm he's probably one of those "drop it low for Jesus Christians"

    (Love that song by the way lol)

  • Kimocha

    Lmaoooo!!... Probably is chile, LOL!!!
    https://media1.giphy.com/media/w118Ls61COi2c/giphy.gif

  • KarmaBackAround

    Like, if a man caused u to be n this situation, take a break! Like focus on u n ur blessings but nahhhh...wench aint learned yet smh

  • KarmaBackAround

    I agree! Absolutely...i bet that man she killed family is absolutely disgusted that she is out!

  • SoulfulLove
  • Pamela

    ?????

  • WhoKnew

    I think ole boy is manipulative like his Ex said he is. I believe he saw Cyntoia as an easy money grab and the rest has gone according to his plan seemingly.

  • Kimberly King

    Shole TF can ! I love me some women ! But not enough to commit to serious relationships and marriage. I prefer men but love women. If that makes any sense at all. My fiancé knows I've been with women before, but he doesn't know how deep my love goes. Lol I don't want him thinking since I like women so much that I'm open to threesomes. Ain't nobody riding on my husband but me ! I'll share lots of things, but my husband will never be one of them.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    The ex wife sounds bitter to me. Even if what she's saying is true, I don't see the point of trashing this man in public like this.
    Whatever issues they had in their marriage, the man has moved on with his life... and so should she.

  • SJ

    Generally, those with untreated trauma stemming from years of physical/emotional abuse don't the best decision-making skills. Facts.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Chile .... lmao!!!

  • Seldomseen

    Oh boy better sleep with one eye ? open if he is planning any funny stuff. Did he check sis’ rap sheet.

  • Allergic2dumbstuff

    Ms Sandra may have made a "rare" mistake on that one, I read somewhere he was in Pretty Ricky.Checked both Wikipedia and Google to confirm. Came up bupkis. Fella might be pulling a Brandon Barnes if he did actually say he was in either of these groups. ?????

  • Ghetto Real Name

    Pretty Ricky. Not RL nem.

    Ive learned ex wives/gf's have zero reason to lie on you. Most of what they say is the god knows damn it truth. Up to you if you listen. But 9 times outta 10 its like she shole tried to tell me.

    Ive also learned men will change for WHO they wanna change for.

    Take it all with a grain of salt.

    I also said Cyntoia needs to protect her coinage and needs a post nup toute de suite.

    Good day

  • Nina Ross

    Well I mean... he married a murderer????

  • Guest

    I almost swallowed my plum seed. Damn! lol!

  • Bushbabe

    You are a simp , a bird brain and would not survive out in these streets for a minute I feel more sorry for you than Cyntoyia. At least she has her

  • currvalicious

    Fr, fr....lmao

  • Tee Tee

    Looks like Cyntoia got away from one pimp for 15 years just to run into the arms of another. Not judging her this is HER life to live she ain't 16 years old anymore she is a grown a$$ woman. https://media3.giphy.com/media/4GIvR6cmYs8jC/giphy.gif

  • Alextra Ballard

    Chiiile she was on that Cardi B shidt... Cardi B was drug’n and rob’n folks...Cyntoia robbed and kilt a man in cold blood

  • Nina Ross

    He definitely picked the right one?

  • disqus_TrCUDzOzuG

    He was a part of Pretty Ricky during the time when Pleasure P went solo. At least that's what I've read everywhere but here.

  • Bushbabe

    Pam is a bitter Betty and needs to get that hate out her heart and move on. Mrs. Brown -Long is going to be very successful in the future and husband Mr. Long will be six feet under when he crosses her. This is not your everyday chick, this is a hardened criminal who has done time with the best mentors.Under the tutelage of career criminals she will be able to master the cesspool called Hollywood that is the devils commode. She has already been treated like most child celebrities so she will be fine navigating it under the wing of super hoe Kim Kardashian.

  • Bushbabe

    How did you come to this conclusion?+She wasn't running from the first pimp she just happened to get caught after she shot and robbed her trick. She ran back to Kut Throat her pimp after the robbery?

  • Dontgetdraggedhoe??

    Theres usually a lot of things wrong with people who date/marry inmates.

  • Bushbabe

    Ya think?

  • ShadesofEMPRESS

    He’s sick. Who wants an inmate????

  • Bushbabe

    Have you people lost your mind? He married an ex- murderer I think he should be worried about waking up the next morning because if he touches her coin he will be six feet under. Please realistic.

  • Bushbabe

    This inmate has a book deal and Netflix so I think she is one of those rare gems. Love is blind but money will enhance the experience.

  • StoneColdLady

    I feel like it’s Bossip

  • KcoolMuziq

    This is a GREAT way for Pam to make a comeback! She was always the best singer & had the most charisma in TOTAL(whom my favorite song by them is 'Kissing You' unfortunately produced by someone I will NEVER support again)

  • KcoolMuziq

    U can't help who U fall in love with. Inmates are people that need love to.

  • Rent em Spoons ?????????

    That woman ain’t been out more than 2 days and trying to tie knot after all the ups and downs with previous men . Anyone with a mind can see that she ain’t fully stable and doing too much .

  • Rent em Spoons ?????????

    Keyword she ain’t say people , she said “ inmates “ meaning present tense.
    Once you leave jail you’re no longer an inmate . If you date a person who happens to go to jail then it doesn’t apply to you either, because shit happens .

    This is for people who choose to freshly date an inmate in the present.
    With all the free people in the world, if you seriously have no better option other than that option then there is something unstable with you.

  • KcoolMuziq
  • Rent em Spoons ?????????

    Do you know any successful relationships where someone started dated an inmate and went on to a functioning stable long term marriage or relationship?

  • Ghetto Real Name

    Sir, person, ma'am...MOVE AROUND.

    This girl went to PRISON at SIXTEEN years old. She was raised in a prison. She knows nothing about matters of love, marriage, relationships, or lying ass men. If ANYONE is the vunerable party its HER. Not him.

    Fukk niggas get money.

  • Yup, I said it

    Cyntoia reminds me alot if Amanda Knox. They both have the same sociopathic spirit. They feel no responsibility in the actions that led to someones death. That Netflix money is blood money. I guarantee its cursed.

  • Dontgetdraggedhoe??

    Your funeral

  • Soon2BWife

    I sure wish Oprah or Tyler would have gotten to her first. This is not good. The cycle will continue. She needs therapy and to be able to grow and mature as a woman living in the real world with a strong healthy support system around her.

  • Rent em Spoons ?????????

    in Your rebuttal you said you can’t help who you fall in love with. You’re right , people fall in love with abusive , Psychopath’s everyday.

    But jut because you fall in love with someone , doesn’t mean y’all are meant for each other. My ex girl stabbed me several times and had a bipolar disorder . I love her , but she ain’t for me either , IJS

    The two are
    Not mutually exclusive. You can fall in love an abusive person and they can also not be for you . Both can be true.

  • Dreamer

    A rare mistake? Aunt-tea stay posting incorrect information ???

  • Dreamer

    ???

  • MsPam

    Exactly

  • Rent em Spoons ?????????

    Lol ,
    Love the slight sarcasm , but also if your logic and rhetoric was true , you mean to tell me that her best option is a washed up rapper / Pretty Ricky reject ? That’s a rhetorical question.

  • Rent em Spoons ?????????

    said it once and will say it again . Not saying she ain’t have a Rough life but she had the aptitude to play sick and sleep then shot her trick in the back of the head that was paying her then robbed him , but didn’t shoot the pimp that supposedly raped and forced her into the lifestyle ?

  • Vegas1989

    You are wrong for bringing up that song. I almost choked last week when I saw that video.....LOL

  • Yetunde

    I thought he was a member of Pretty Ricky, not Next.
    Anyway, this is sad that he would take advantage of a woman in this position. It’s a bit too soon for her to think about marriage at this point, she needs to adjust to the real world again.
    I really hope he has changed his ways, or that she is able to see the light before it’s too late.

  • Yetunde

    That song was produced by Raphael Saadiq, what has he done?

  • Yetunde

    Yes, I agree.

  • dontgetblocked

    We can throw stones at thieves, rapists, and murderers.

  • dontgetblocked

    This is true!

  • dontgetblocked

    Have you read her true story? She is a street savvy prostitute. Who was loved and adopted by a family friend. SHE ran away from home multiple times, choosing drugs, alcohol and men over being a normal teenager. SHE chose to shoot and rob her victim. SHE is NOT the face of human trafficking. She is a manipulative whore who will be back behind bars within six months. Guaranteed!

  • Rhyme and Reason

    Well, the ex-wife had a lot to say, time will tell. The good thing is that if there’s nothing to worry about, they’re both be fine! She has a lot to deal with, all at onetime!

    Her handlers will keep an eye on her, after the hoopla dies down, what’s real will be left standing!

    Karma is real, so both of the newly weds, should watch their backs!

    And, the word “diabolical” should resonate for both for different and similar reasons!

  • dontgetblocked

    I told you she was a MESS! Study her case. She is a street savvy prostitute. Who was loved and adopted by a family friend. SHE ran away from home multiple times, choosing drugs, alcohol and men over being a normal teenager. SHE chose to shoot and rob her victim. SHE is NOT the face of human trafficking. She is a manipulative whore who will be back behind bars within six months! This man and his side chicks may or may not still be breathing. We know what happens when she gets angry. A bullet to the back of the head while you sleep!

  • dontgetblocked

    Yes. She conspired with him to rob the guy. If I'm correct they may have gone back to the house.

  • Renee26

    I don't want him thinking since I like women so much that I'm open to threesomes. Ain't nobody riding on my husband but me ! I'll share lots of things, but my husband will never be one of them

    IKTR!!! High 5

  • Bonita

    This is so not good. Having a father who was incarcerated for yeeears, I know from experience that they are released into society at the same age mentally that they were when they went in. I don't care how many books they've read, how many degrees they've obtained, or how old they are when they get out. Time stops for them once they get in that cage and it restarts for them once they are released back into society. This is now a 33 year old woman in age, with the maturity level of a 16 year old child, who's expected to function in society as a mentally matured adult. Good luck with that Jaime. That karma is about to be a mickey fickey for you, nicca.

  • dontgetblocked

    Your post makes me feel dirty. Keep your freakiness to yourself. I'm not old enough to read this.

  • Renee26

    Lordt... I had no idea he was ever married. Did they get it annulled?

    People in jail got too much time on their hands. Once they get released they typically change their "committed" tune ?

  • dontgetblocked

    Heck. She is a hardened criminal.

  • Kimberly King

    *sighs* Oh darling. The Queen can't make you feel something that you naturally are! I'd devour some sweet pussy right now if I didn't have an event to attend with my fiancé. Skedaddle !

  • Coy little wink

    Yep...it was annulled

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    I think if they get divorced in a year or two you know she'll be the first one on social media talking 'bout: "See, I told you so!"

  • EMILY POST

    16 year olds hoeing is Pimp culture ...... which the entertainment industry promotes all day... who do they think Pimps are putting on the street???? Decades promoting pimp culture.. shocked at the result ??? ?????
    A six figure Netflix deal for shooting someone in the head as they slept....wow Hollywood is Trash!

  • Meme

    I have a confession I actually went looking for the full version on the YouTube and listened a couple of times (please Lord forgive me) lol

  • Sushi

    I do, he has been out for 18 years they have 2 sons a nice house 2 cars and he drives truck long distance to support his family.

  • Sushi

    So I have a question? Do you think people can change? Or do you think that once you are who you are there is no changing, or growing?

  • Renee Bee

    Uhuh..uhuh...agreed.
    Oooh...that last part.
    https://media1.giphy.com/media/sBl8Fowq0ErFC/giphy.gif

  • Ms. Cree

    First of all. I thought she wasn't even interested in men. No hate or judge, just never got those vibes from her. Second, He is a predator. Baby girl can't even realize that. How much could he possibly know anything about her honestly? Unless he knew her before its not genuine. SMH. So sad

  • CookieMobster

    Total help me SAAAANG!!!! ????

  • Renee Bee

    One of my guilty pleasures is watching "Love After Lockup". I guess that Nexflix moolah is for a Reality Docuseries on Cyn and her new hubby.

    Also I am hooked. I say hooked on all the 90 Day Fiancé and all its many spinoffs. https://media0.giphy.com/media/Pq31kHa0MDWuc/giphy.gif

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    ???

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    ????

  • Renee Bee

    What about me...
    What about you...
    What about us...
    What we gonna dooooooo...???

  • CardiB’sAbs

    Pam’s body is banging.

  • Bree

    I remember Pam from the group Total. And I'm a believer in: Warning comes before destruction! However, Cyntoia may NOT be the one that needs the warning. Jaime Long may need the warning. Cyntoia killed a man while he was sleeping. I'm sure Jaime is aware of that. But I do believe birds of a feather flock together. I would be NOWHERE near her!

  • Vonda K

    Say that!
    Amanda Knox is a sociopath for real. Her eyes are ?.
    I know people In the field of education who know Amanda and her family and they will tell she is a nut cas as is her whole family.

  • Logan Roberts

    Pam you did your part by warning her, now move on & watch how it plays out. Cyntoia might be his karma.

  • Kimberly King

    ???

  • Yup, I said it

    Amanda Knox started a go fund me to pay for her Intergalactic wedding. When people started asking her to donate to the foundation of her murdered roomate, Amanda got pissy because they were trying to ruin HER moment. Merideth never got to have a wedding. She was killed by that psycho.

  • HelloToni

    I know few actually. It's not as rare as you think. Yes they can be dysfunctional but so can relationship on the outside.

  • Vonda K

    Amanda Knox is a true sociopath.
    I read about her go fund me wedding. Who the hell does that!
    There’s rumors she prostitutes herself out to men who have fetish for lady killers?

  • Vonda K

    This union will be an episode of ID network or Tv One-For My Man!

  • Solstice

    Aww Kissing you was my fave too!

  • Solstice

    LMMFAO!!! Log out!!! ?????

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    Who's Amanda Knox?

  • the guest

    Cyntoia basically found a new pimp. A man to charm and manipulate her and take a piece of everything she makes. I’m sure she married him without a prenup and shame on her counselors and handlers that let that happen.

    Legally, he is already entitled to half of everything she has. He married her in prison so he can claim he supported her and all her deals are marital assets. He will impregnate her right away and she will pay him child support.

    She’s never even experienced a normal day to day life, having her own apartment, managing her own finances. I thought her supporters would have her in one of those programs with counseling and deprogramming for former prostitutes.

    She’s obviously has a prostitute’s mentality of being controlled and owned. He didn’t even give her a year to be her own person and properly court her then propose.

  • Yup, I said it

    When shes tired of him she can just shoot him in his sleep too and claim she was being victimed. Once you find an MO that works, stick with it.

  • Bushbabe

    This is why they say " You can't turn a how into a housewife " and "Men don't change they just get better at being a fuckboi". Sorry but not sorry. I am a realist and realistically this is like watching a car crash. This man is an opportunist and this woman is broken. But if I'm wrong then I digress.

  • MythCalledLove

    All that after you kill someone WOW

  • Alextra Ballard

    Yes Ma’am

  • Yup, I said it

    Andrea is a fool. She's not even dictmatized. You can tell that's you her normal behavior.

  • Bushbabe

    I can't breathe but this is so true. A dark cloud is hanging over this unholy union.

  • Alextra Ballard

    I agree tew a point...sometimes the person whom yew fall in love with ain’t always the one yew marry

  • Yup, I said it

    I pray that she doesn't hurt anyone else. If she does then her rabid, obsessed supporters who got her released will have blood on their hands.

  • Bushbabe

    The biggest pimps in the industry are white men. One of them just died and the others have been called out. While pookie deem was pimping for Nickels and dimes the white men in Hollywood where big pimping men women children and the elderly. Just Damn. Cyntyoia will fit right in in Hollywood and Long has been chosen to be her pimp handler. The truth is stranger than fiction.

  • Bushbabe

    This just didn't happen and Long was chosen to be her industry handler and show her the ropes Total chic knows this and is trying to expose it indirectly. Hollywood is a cesspool and her background in the sex trafficking industry has seasoned her for what's to come. The casting couch is not a Mythical thing and if you don't believe me ask Paul Mooney. Hollywood is full of predators and hypocrites. If she doesn't end up on drugs or back in jail it will be a stretch.

  • RealATLPeach36

    Hummm I thought she was gay?

  • Yup, I said it

    Amanda Knox is the American Student studying in Italy who was accused of killing her roomate in a weird sexual situatuion. Amanda was doing pure cartwheels and making out with her boyfriend as the police removed the dead roommates body from apartment. She lied on an African Bar owner to pin the murder on him. She let her boyfriend at the time get locked up for the crime and she put her PWT family in financial ruins paying for her defense. Now she want everybody to fund her lavish wedding to the man of her dreams. Oh, the people,who donate arent invited but they will recieve a book of her poetry.

  • disqus_FW7pCIigCY

    Well the difference between Cyntonia and Pam is .....Cyntonia KILLED the LAST MAN that hurt her....so DUDE BETTER SLEEP WITH ONE EYE OPEN AND BE ON HIS BEST BEHAVIOR!

  • the guest

    I can’t stand how Michael is a hoodrat sociopath and used Sarah just to have mixed kids. Now he’s done using her womb, he onto to Megan. But Megan will get the worst of him. A felon boyfriend with two child support orders and they’ll end up living with Megan’s father and Megan the only one with a job. It’s painful to watch this loser bring complete chaos to the lives of women he’s using to get by. Used the white girl for her womb and use the spoiled middle class black girl to take care of him.

  • the guest

    This is tragic,

  • TheWildChild

    Pam body is tight and is still a beast when she owns the stage. ? As for that Ex washed up J-Long, he's a clout chaser and something tells me this union will not end well.

  • LP

    I did too! Is that what she meant by “changing her sexual lifestyle”?

  • Kimberly King

    I sure would love to know who was her lover. Lol

  • ShadesofEMPRESS

    Whew chile this is truth.

  • the guest

    I forgot the Kardashians are her friends. I wonder if Kris or Kim fixed her up with the husband.

  • SG

    Wait. What?? Never knew Pam was married to a man.

    I love Total ??

  • Rent em Spoons ?????????

    Again, my question was not pertaining to someone who got with them before or after incarceration, because shit happens . I’m speaking for those who chose to develop a a new relationship , basically only knowing and finding them as an inmate , not a relationship before incarceration or a new one after release.

  • SG

    I loosely followed her story. I didn’t know she is now 33 but you are absolutely right.

  • J2PC

    I was thinking what Pam is saying all along. He saw her $$$ potential with books & movies. Poor thing was ripe for the taking being released from prison & being lost to the game for years.

    She'll wake up in no time, especially with Kim & RiRi in her ear to school her provided that they can get her off to the side. I'm sure they know what's up. She should have been with her family instead of this. smh

  • J2PC

    I was thinking what Pam is saying all along. He saw her $$$ potential with books & movies. Poor thing was ripe for the taking being released from prison & being lost to the game for years.

    She'll wake up in no time, especially with Kim & RiRi in her ear to school her provided that they can get her off to the side. I'm sure they know what's up. She should have been with her family instead of this. smh

  • Renee Bee

    I believe Andrea just wants to live in a fantasy world where thirsty heifers thrive. ?
    Lamar is just Lamar. Smh. ?

  • Renee Bee

    I believe Andrea just wants to live in a fantasy world where thirsty heifers thrive. ?
    Lamar is just Lamar. Smh. ?

  • the guest

    Kut Throat. I can’t. Can you imagine the cast of characters that were in her life? Her book and movie are going to be insane. Every mixed race and Latin actress in Hollywood will be killing themselves to play her.

    I swear the perverts and vouyers in the justice system and Hollywood released her just for all the seedy and raunchy aspects of her life to get in a book and the big screen.

    And she’s going to play them all the way to the bank.

  • the guest

    Kut Throat. I can’t. Can you imagine the cast of characters that were in her life? Her book and movie are going to be insane. Every mixed race and Latin actress in Hollywood will be killing themselves to play her.

    I swear the perverts and vouyers in the justice system and Hollywood released her just for all the seedy and raunchy aspects of her life to get in a book and the big screen.

    And she’s going to play them all the way to the bank.

  • J2PC

    Like most prisoners being violated & raped in that environment, she too learned how to mentally survive and get along to save her own life or make it easier. Now, it's onto him.

    Will he be the provider or will she be expected to use her funds to provide? Only time will tell what this is all about. I hope her family & others will school her.

  • J2PC

    Like most prisoners being violated & raped in that environment, she too learned how to mentally survive and get along to save her own life or make it easier. Now, it's onto him.

    Will he be the provider or will she be expected to use her funds to provide? Only time will tell what this is all about. I hope her family & others will school her.

  • Renee Bee

    He seems so slow. How in the world did he get ANY woman in the first place?
    And which jail beautician dude did his braids so neat when he first got out if jail?

  • Renee Bee

    He seems so slow. How in the world did he get ANY woman in the first place?
    And which jail beautician dude did his braids so neat when he first got out if jail?

  • the guest

    You always bring the truth. Always. I believe Pam and I believe she is very sincere about warning Cyntoia.

  • the guest

    You always bring the truth. Always. I believe Pam and I believe she is very sincere about warning Cyntoia.

  • the guest

    EXACTLY.

  • the guest

    EXACTLY.

  • 1KimJones

    Sadly, Cyntoia will most likely not heed the warning. When has a woman ever heeded the warning an ex wife/girlfriend has given Her? Cyntoia probably thinks Pam is "jealous" and wants him back or whatever. She needs to properly heal and assimilate back into society. I feel really bad for her, she is vulnerable, and reportedly suffers from fetal alcohol syndrome. Only a snake would marry a woman in that state.

  • 1KimJones

    Sadly, Cyntoia will most likely not heed the warning. When has a woman ever heeded the warning an ex wife/girlfriend has given Her? Cyntoia probably thinks Pam is "jealous" and wants him back or whatever. She needs to properly heal and assimilate back into society. I feel really bad for her, she is vulnerable, and reportedly suffers from fetal alcohol syndrome. Only a snake would marry a woman in that state.

  • morenYAHdelsur

    Maaan poor Lamar! She gives him the utter blues ??

  • morenYAHdelsur

    Maaan poor Lamar! She gives him the utter blues ??

  • morenYAHdelsur

    Andrea is definitely living the surreal life. Nothing she says or does makes sense.

  • morenYAHdelsur

    Andrea is definitely living the surreal life. Nothing she says or does makes sense.

  • Chhzz

    Don't hate. You did not want him you wanted a woman. He yo ex. Mind your business

  • Sushi

    My answer was pertaining to a female friend of mine who started dating someone that was in the middle of his bid...

  • RealATLPeach36

    Now I’m talking that Total chic

  • RealATLPeach36

    Now I’m talking about that Total chic...

  • RealATLPeach36

    I get people can change...but really what was the change? Marrying a man but putting in a strap?

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    LOL

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Or he may be Cyntoia's karma.

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    EX HUSBAND??? Thought she liked to munch on carpets????. Chile https://media2.giphy.com/media/4QEPo2KPQnsrl8EbgV/giphy.gif

  • BingBangBoom

    I love Next

  • Renee Bee

    Lol.

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs
  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    Right! The prisoner may like to bump pocketbooks too but that aint what weez discussing heres.. Homie needs to pay attention ???

  • Leigh Burton

    He is the one who should be worried! She murdered an innocent man! The only reason why she is free today is because she was only 16 when she did it!

  • Allergic2dumbstuff

    Oh my goodness! *Shenaenae's voice* Where did you find that gif? ???

  • BingBangBoom

    I thought that was MC Lyte in that group pic

  • chan chan

    Now she’s being labeled as a convicted killer ? now that she’s married and not a lonely miserable lesbo.

  • Harley

    Guess they are a good match then. Both manipulative

  • JazzyBossyJen

    Knew it would be some drama filled madness soon as those gates opened for her....

  • Chocolate

    They should’ve kept her.
    We need prison reform but not for sociopaths like her.
    I hate that as black people, we end up scrambling for justice so bad that when we get it, we consider it a win even when it’s for the undesirables in our community (OJ, R Kelly, etc)
    That is not black excellence.
    Excellence means we hv to be selective and everybody can’t come!

  • Chocolate

    Me too. All that time she has had to think, all the rehabilitation she has gone thru, yet she is still making monumentally impulsive choices.
    She will be the reason a more deserving person doesn’t get clemency.

  • Alextra Ballard

    Sooo he’s a manipulator and he’s diabolical? Pam really needs to mind her own bidnez. She was once married tew this “manipulative,diabolical man”......she sounds scorn...if Jamie ain shidt,she’ll find out sooner or lata. Jamie,Cyntoia nor Cyntoia’s money should be a concern of Pam. Not tew many wimmen takes advice from their potnas ex’s

  • Coco

    I wonder if they’ll tell the real version of event or they’ll victimize her.

  • Coco

    The man she killed didn’t hurt her.

  • Yup, I said it

    Victim all the way. I sympathize, with anyone that had a rough life but the man she shot wasn't her pimp. I would have more sympathy if she shot her abuser pimp. She told the man she shot she was 19 yrs old. In some state prostitution is legal. She shouldn't have taken his life. 16 yr olds are out here shooting people all the time and we don't turn them into victims just because they had a hard life and decided to do a drive by.

  • Sonya Jackson

    Her mom and gmom has major issues! Check it out

  • Coy little wink

    He's full of himself. Saw him in a restaurant he wouldn't even say hello ?

  • 6ue$$imh8n

    Sounds bad but, I can't wait for a new episode. I'm tired of the re runs.

  • 6ue$$imh8n

    EXACTLY!! I'm like how did they even meet smfh.

  • the guest

    I supported her release. But I thought she needed to be not only on parole but ordered to a halfway house and court ordered counseling for trafficking victims.

    If being a trafficking victim was the basis of her appeal, then a human trafficking recovery program should be the basis of her release.

  • Chocolate

    So glad to see someone else sees that sociopath for what she is and u are so right about her supporters. Weirdos!
    This release was beyond socially irresponsible

  • http://www.mylifeinlame.com/?m=1 Kimberly

    Wait, who did Pam date from another girl group?? Somebody help me out.

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    Type Robert Blackmon in the gif search field

  • SpiceGirl
  • Jazzy

    Do you know her story?

  • RespectSelf

    Wow.... I hope everything works out for her.

  • Braxton P. Hartnabrig

    And light skin privilege

  • Karen Brady

    Well Pam the Man I say let them have each other. I wouldn't leave my purse around him and I wouldn't take a nap around her. BLOOP.

  • Karen Brady

    Chuckles

  • Karen Brady

    Leigh! Thank you!

  • Karen Brady

    "Ive learned ex wives/gf's have zero reason to lie on you. Most of what they say is the god knows damn it truth. Up to you if you listen. But 9 times outta 10 its like she shole tried to tell me." #FACTS

  • The REAL Cheese eggs

    Innocent? Wasn't he having sex with a underage sex trafficking victim? I feel sorry for the man's family, but innocent? Not hardly.

  • Not a Housewife & Neither RU

    Love the new site!

  • MrsSpice1

    Sooo a OLD PERVERTED nasty man soliciting s3x from a troubled teenager is innocent?!? Smfh. Sympathy for a fkn pedophile/rapist what a world?!!! If most of these old perverts got crucified in trying to go after young girls especially those on the street runaways their would be less of them roaming around searching for victims like her...and they should all have their balls snipped tf off!! That men probably would’ve ended up killing her u dont know that bs..and good for her for not finding out that way like many other missing young girls from the streets!!

  • Raquel

    What's wrong with looking out? If I knew you and knew the man you were about to marry is scum..I'ma put you up on game so you know how to deal with him if you so choose to do so. Just a sista looking out!

  • Raquel

    Do black people even know the difference between "hating" on someone and someone looking out?

  • EMILY POST

    Rewarding bad behavior. Lying Murdering robbing prostitution all kind of goes hand in hand.

  • EMILY POST

    We are talking about low level with this one right here. They are all dirtbags the black ones, white ones, asian ones. Pimp culture does it at the expense of children.
    When black males talk about it they are referring to dehumanizing children runaways, low self esteem girls from broken homes, sexually abused. It was always so savage how certain blacks thought prostitution was cute in the entertainment industry. I guess they do whatever use any angle to try to fit in.

  • blue skies

    WHAT!

  • DaughterOfaQueen

    Sandra, I’m loving this new look!!

  • Facts and Receipts

    She is a street savvy prostitute.
    ^^^^^^^^
    Who still knows nothing about love, marriage, relationships, or lying ass men.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Thanks hun!

  • jayhawkpride

    I agree. She should still be in prison.

  • Nunya Business

    Maybe she is scorned and is taking that scorn and trying to make sure Cyntonia doesn't wind up feeling the same way ?????.

  • Chocolate

    I wouldn’t comment if I didn’t.
    Feel free to add something valuable or move around.

  • Guess Who

    GOOD grief, Pam looks like a dude in drag!

  • Chocolate

    That makes a lot more sense than just releasing her.
    She is severely damaged and violent from several angles, I just don’t see anything redeemable about her to society or herself... and God help her children if she starts having them.
    The part that gets me is that she took that dead man’s car and went to the pimp instead of the police for help. She was free at that point, and plenty of others but she chose to return. If he had that much of a hold of her that she didn’t feel free even when she was, then she is screwed up beyond repair anyway.
    She is a sociopath, and I think a lot of people aren’t willing to accept that there are some evil, demented teens out here. I get why, to an extent but I had shitty parents and a horrible childhood, too as many of us have. When the gross old men approached me, I said no and went to school and work instead. I falsified documents to change my age so I can get an apt. and finance a car.
    But my peers, many like her, chose to be violent whores that just won’t do right no matter how many times right smacks them in the face.
    Plus she is slow. This won’t end well.

  • Chocolate

    Agreed. Jail really screws a lot of people up. I went through 10 yrs with a cousin..he did all that rehabilitation, too. But once released, all his previous issues were amplified along with new ones due to his absence from society.
    He is ungrateful that from age 13-23, I sent him $50/mo and saved $50/MO for him to have at his release, he keeps saying that wasn’t ? and he needed more. It doesn’t compute to him that a) I was a kid b) his own mama didn’t send him anything c) I didn’t have to do it.

    Even tho the broke bastard hasn’t earned $50 on his own since, he still would bring this up and be sarcastic about it. I finally cut him off. I despise jailbirds. They put you through so much dealing with their bad decisions then act entitled.

  • Lorenzo Chaps

    I was surprised when it was reported that Pam married a man. She's more of a dude than he is.

  • EyeEmJai

    J. Long was one-fourth member of boy R&B group Pretty Ricky, not Next.

    Pam, your ex will probably get his karma and married her erroneously lol. The Son of Sam law can be used.

    As far as Cyntoia, I see she hadn't grown mentally in disallowing manipulative men in her space. I don't see this ending well.

  • Bonita

    Yeah, it's sad. They tend to live in the past.

  • Nanasmom

    He is not from the group Next. Do some research before you put stories out. How hard is that.

  • Disgustd

    I'll take "undesirables" like her any day. At least she's not in Congress covering for the real undesirables who negatively impact billions globally or in the white people's house with her finger on the button. This chick is an unfortunate product of her environment and circumstances. Ultimately, she has hurt herself more than anyone else. And for the trick that got murked. If he hadn't been soliciting sex from children, his a$$ would still be among the living. No sympathy.

  • Chocolate

    I hear you for sure on the unrelated political aspect of your comment- but time will tell you more and broaden your perspective on the gravity of this.
    Or, maybe it won’t since I get that
    It’s hard to analyze a circumstance and it’s pathology when we are so bombarded with events..it’s human nature to start measuring and diminishing “this” against “that” when both need reform to make a difference.

  • the guest

    I’m sorry your kindness wasn’t appreciated. He will see that not too many people in life will commit 10 years of their own stability to supporting another person. You are a saint. Blessings your way.

  • Chocolate

    I appreciate that..as u can see by my long vent, I’m still a bit bothered by it so thanks for the kind words and many blessings to u and yours, too!

  • EatTheCakeAnnaMae

    No, it seems we do not. That's why so many people hold off on warning others, because as soon as you tell them, and it doesn't align with what they're seeing, it's deemed as "hate".

  • DC Ren’ee

    Welp Sad but someone was going to get her/should have came home to a good faith base church to get ready for this Wicked World...?? for her...

  • DC Ren’ee

    Welp Sad but someone was going to get her/should have came home to a good faith base church to get ready for this Wicked World...?? for her...