Police: Carmelo’s baby mama refused to pick him up!

Photo: TMZ.com

As some of you know, Carmelo Anthony is in hot water with his baby mama due to his infidelity. It seems La La has caught Carmelo creeping more than once – with the same chick.

Women don’t mind when their rich and powerful husbands spread it around a little – as long as hubby doesn’t start catching feelings for that other woman. That’s when wifey speed dials the divorce lawyer and yells “HALF!!”

Speaking of lawyers, the other woman has already sent out a bogus cease & desist order threatening a nasty lawsuit if her name is connected to this sordid mess.

According to TMZ.com, when Denver police busted Carmelo for drunk driving early yesterday, his baby mama, La La refused to come and pick him up from the police station! Additionally, certain members of the Denver police squad are under investigation for driving Carmelo home instead of to detox.

Another cop drove Melo’s tight customized $130,000 Benzo to a secured police lot instead of to the impound lot where it surely would have been vandalized.

A police spokesperson says the officer went “above and beyond through a personal relationship” and there wasn’t “anything wrong” with what he did. (Source)

http://www.myspace.com/mzmekpage Tmekio

**YAWN**

Lala is a DUCK if she thinks just because she has a baby with this man she has a RIGHT to UN-CHECK the “infidelity” box.

Carmelo is a MAN and he likes what MOST men like…..AZZ….

…NEXT!..
prynsexxx

Half? Hell I would have his ass like Michael Strahan’s wife did. He would be sleeping on somebody’s couch wishing he was gay just so he could lay in a bed with a pillow.

I don’t blame LaLa for not picking his ass up. I would have left his ass where he was at too. Coming home all late and what not. Don’t nobody want no drunk ass dick!
BLACKBARBIE404

LOL @ prynsexxx
heartbreaker

Is she really pregnant with their second child?
iyonah

supposed to be @ heartbreaker … its good tha she didn’t go to pick him up. These mean are so ridiculous with their cheating. Its just worse when kids are incolved adn you are supposed to be working on being a family.
Krysi – yes the same one

Sandra you keep talking about a jump off like you have PROOF….fill us in, or something. We see what you’re saying but its not making any sense without the whole story….Did Carmelo get drunk because La La found out about a mistress….and it caused him to play a f*cked up a game and get pulled over?? What…? TELL US!
Krysi – yes the same one

and she won’t get HALF until she’s actually married…I’m sure Carmelo will be smart enough to call that off and come out cheaper paying child support NOW.
aqtpie

LOL @prynsexxx, I wouldn’t have picked his a$$ up either.
heartbreaker

@iyonah– I really feel that it’s the woman’s fault for getting caught up and having these damn babies… I mean I’m pretty sure he was cheating before they started multiplying! Babies are cute, but not for long! The thrill is over after a while— a short while, then the reality sets in… She should just thank God that she is able to have nannies help her! Because Carmelo is YOUNG, so I’m pretty sure he looks at his son as a cute accessory. And not as the full responsibility it is!
http://www.myspace.com/bettathaniwasb4 2bme

I wouldn’t have picked his ass up either..tell your secondary h.o to come and get you! These fools are trifling, and I hope she doesn’t think being knocked up again will hurry up the wedding..
cinnamonkisses97

Wow , very interesting. Sandra can you reveal the other woman to us , PLEASSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSE!!!!!!!
heartbreaker

Krysi – yes the same one Says:

Did Carmelo get drunk because La La found out about a mistress….and it caused him to play a f*cked up a game and get pulled over?? What…? TELL US!
Krysi
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That definitely sounds like what happened…lol You need to be on CSI
http://www.myspace.com/mzmekpage Tmekio

heartbreaker Says:

@iyonah– I really feel that it’s the woman’s fault for getting caught up and having these damn babies… I mean I’m pretty sure he was cheating before they started multiplying!
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AMEN SISTAH!!

This is what our Mama’s and Daddy’s was trying to tell us!!

The dayum Chicken NEVER comes before the EGG!!

Marriage FIRST then the BABIES!
Mz_Magnificent1

heartbreaker Says:

@iyonah– I really feel that it’s the woman’s fault for getting caught up and having these damn babies… I mean I’m pretty sure he was cheating before they started multiplying! Babies are cute, but not for long! The thrill is over after a while— a short while, then the reality sets in… She should just thank God that she is able to have nannies help her! Because Carmelo is YOUNG, so I’m pretty sure he looks at his son as a cute accessory. And not as the full responsibility it is!

— Yep pretty much…he is 23. Carmelo got a long way to go…and Lala needs to decide right now is she down for the rollercoaster ride. She needs to look at Tiny for example…is she prepared to stand by her man waiting for him to mature? If not she needs to keep it movin.
brwnsugga4you

she did the right thing…as i said before why was he out at 4am.
heartbreaker

@ Tmekio… Thanks for co-signing!! I’m just sick of it..lol I can’t take it no more! Especially the ones that live together. First of all if you are a dude not using a rubber with someone that you know is not on birth control- then how are you mad and feeling set up and trapped when you become a father. Then for the chicks- how the hell you expect a dude to stay at home with you and the baby when he wasn’t staying home with your annoying a$$ in the first place… Did you really think he was gonna stay home now with ya annoying a$$ plus the fussy, crawling, getting into everything baby? I just don’t get it!! I mean if you’re going to get caught up, finish doing YOU first… so you won’t have to go through the motions with these sorry a$$ dudes! They are only as sorry as you let them be!! My mother always taught me to quit while I’m ahead! I mean even married men change after they have a baby in the house…lol
http://notenoughrealmen.blogspot.com 2thick4u

There has to be more to this story beause this sound like a riddle!!!

I am glad that he didn’t get picked up…he need to think about his actions and realize that he could have killed innocent people!!!

Lala is the least of his worries…the NBA is going to be on his ass like shit on a baby!!!
cupcakes

how old is LaLa????
heartbreaker

Mz_Magnificent1 Says:

is she prepared to stand by her man waiting for him to mature? If not she needs to keep it movin.
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And I really think all of us as women should really think about that…. I just wonder when we are going to get tired of learning the hard way! Will it EVER change??? Can Obama change that…Lol
miamore73

So you screwing someone else’s man and you know it but now you want to play high and mighty with a cease and desist. Give me a break.
brdnbutta

What is up with women thinking that being a baby’s momma entitles them to fidelity? I could be wrong, but didn’t LaLa only become a fiance after she got pregnant? That should be a red flag to any woman. There is an order to things and I believe we all learned it in a children’s nursery rhyme. First comes love, then comes marriage, then comes the baby. You can’t expect any miracles from these men if they marry you so you darn sure shouldn’t expect any when you’re JUST a baby momma.
up_ur_standards

I used 2 crush on him bigtime but after I say that video of him hitting that dude and running I lost ALL respect for him…that was pathetic…
up_ur_standards

pardon the typo *big time and saw*
iyonah

@ heartbreaker & Mz_Magnificent1 – I don’t think its a matter of fault persay. Its just sad that females are encouraged to “hold their men down and be there through thick and thin” and they cheat, lie etc. The point I wanted to make is that its worse (cheating, deceitful behavior, etc.)when kids are involved. I think she had every right to not go get him and if he is cheating and has been then she may want to re evaluate procreating with him in the future. A marriage means what if a person is a cheater? I would hope that he doesn’t think of his son as an accessory … that’s awful if he does. Children are placed here for a reason and whether he marries Lala or not they are living as a family. Even if he cheated prior to the child once the baby was born it should have changed something … usually it does in most cases, but apparently not all.

@ miamore73 – I agree w/ you on the other woman. I guess from her point of view what she is doing with him has nothing to do with the DUI — which is somethign all these celeberties need to do better with and on.

Also … I personally don’t think a ring and a marraige license determine the level of respect or commitment that should be exhibited. Men cheat and lie this is the bottom line, when you are living as a fmaily I feel that your actions need to be different married or not. No one is commenitng on how the police treated him w/ extra care in making sure his car was taken care of or the fact that they made sure he made it home.
iyonah

brdnbutta Says:

What is up with women thinking that being a baby’s momma entitles them to fidelity? I could be wrong, but didn’t LaLa only become a fiance after she got pregnant? That should be a red flag to any woman. There

I thought they were engaged and baby mama or not – I am glad she didn’t go and pick him up. He shouldn’t be drinking and driving anyway which is the bigger issue in the picture.
Bubbles

I would tell him to go call the other woman to come pick his drunk a$$ up at 4am in the morning.

The audacity!
iyonah

**TYPOS**

I was rushing — involved and
Krysi – yes the same one

SANDRA ROSE, get your butt on this POST and comment PLEASE!
Mz_Magnificent1

@ iyonah…babies don’t make men change, if anything all hell really breaks loose after the child is born. I believe that you should marry before having a kid (unfortunately that is not the case in many situations) and lastly women need to wake up period.

If he is doing him…then babies nor marriage is going to change anything. A man has to want it for himself…I mean usually there is some point in a man’s life when he makes the decision to want to settle down. No one can force the issue…and unfortunately Lala is learning the hard way as someone stated in a previous post. She had no business moving into that man’s house and settling down with him before actually settling down (ya’ll feel what I’m saying???).

Its all fun and games for the 1st year or 2 max…but after that the “honeymoon” is over. Instead of rushing love…take time to learn each other and time reveals all. All I’m saying is don’t put yourself into a foolish situation by just thinking with your heart…use your head ladies.
heartbreaker

@ iyonah Says:

Just because she didn’t pick him up doesn’t mean that she is going to leave him or that he is not going to mess with the other women anymore. That was just her way of getting some publicity…lol

It’s not funny, but she bought it on herself. Marriage doesn’t guarantee that he won’t cheat, but leaving him before you get married THEN have the kids give you a better chance of being able to walk away with no strings attached… And who knows, maybe he told her that he wanted to have a child—-but she still knew what she was working with before they made that beautiful baby (He is definitely the cutest!!!)
Mz_Magnificent1

Oh wow…sorry for writing a book guys!!!
Hotstuff

if he were cheating I wouldn’t have picked his ass u either..especially if I knew he was coming from ol’ girl’s crib…And she prolly had lil’ Keyon sp?)with her….Negro please
https://www.sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

cinnamonkisses97 Says:

Wow , very interesting. Sandra can you reveal the other woman to us , PLEASSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSE!!!!!!!

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I’m not trying to get sued. Don’t blame me if you don’t know how to use Google.
heartbreaker

@ Mz_Magnificent1 Says:

Don’t apologize…some of them need it!! Lol
iyonah

Does a ring mean that a relationship is going to be good? NO
Does marriage mean that a man will not cheat? NO

Its to late for the should of could have would have … they already have a child together. If he is a cheater Lala needs to wake up … she can do better all woman can.

I think in some cases children do make men change … for the record I am in no way saying woman should have them to change a man. I think its a natural thing to change once you have a child … at least its what I have seen in many people. The how and when or why you change is to the persons’ sole discretion. Some people really value the gift of life and the responsibility of bearing child and raising a child … some don’t. I don’t think this is a ? of whether or not he is changed – its obvious he hasn’t if he has been cheating all along and continues even though she is w/ child. As a man priorities should be diff when kids are involved …but I guess when you salary is in a certain range this isn’t the truth—thoughts?
Krysi – yes the same one

Really though N*ggaz are fools, they can have a good thing and still not want to settle down. Truthfully the whole order of everything is messed up….before we started willingly giving it up we had no choice we were married off to old aZZ with land and a farm. We were getting married with no problem at the early ages of 12 and up, or getting raped because men couldn’t wait to have sex. Men are the same today, how can we expect them to be any different, the only difference we’re not holding back or being force to marry some wrinkled up geezer with money. Now we’re being put in situations where we have to wait on a man to settle down with us….its like which life would you prefer??? Men do what they want, women do what they want….If we stopped having babies before we got married it would probably put an end to the population on earth, because me would simply employ h*es all over the world for a nut…which is unfortunately the only thing half of them live for.
ldorisca

From what I here he didn’t even get arrested. They say that in Denver they don’t arrest you for a DUI. There are so many different versions of this story.
Krysi – yes the same one

*old aZZ MEN* and *MEN would simply*
http://www.myspace.com/millyly milly

Dang maybe the media got it mixed up..I think he was trying to call his other girl
http://myspace.com/mullatos SnootyPooty1

You know what you are getting yourself into when you date this type of men. So when they cheat dont act surprised.
Krysi – yes the same one

SANDRA!!!! I can’t find any evidence of Carmelo with another CHICK…..drop another clue on me please…if anybody has found an update please fill me IN!
kpakpando

If the ceast and desist order is so bogus Sandra why didn’t you name her?
Maxdan

I wouldn’t either. Denver is kinda cold, even now….who wants to hop in the car and pick up a drunk??!!! No one…
https://www.sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

kpakpando Says:

If the ceast and desist order is so bogus Sandra why didn’t you name her?

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I chose not to name her on the off chance that it might not be bogus
JustSaying

I would have picked him up but it would have cost him. He would have not been in the bed with me and I would not have said two words to him. The things is to act a fool you have to make a move on to keep him and put up with his shit or pack your bags and move on. Why scream and yell and not do anything to correct the problem. To me she has two choices; to shut up and put up with his ass or leave and cut her loses. It doesn’t require and but of putting each other on blast or meaning mean and vandictive. Just do what you are going to do in a peaceful christian manner.
http://www.myspace.com/mzmekpage Tmekio

OK-

NO- marriage doesn’t mean a promise to be FAITHFUL, however, Lala and Carmelo are NOT married. Therefore, he can have as many GIRLFRIENDS as he wants!!

That’s why your suppose to DATE people FIRST before u start “PLAYING HOUSE”…

See this is where folks get FOGGY—Marriage is the PROMISE you make before GOD..

Anybody can be a “Baby Mama” and a ‘Girlfriend’…There can only be ONE WIFE…
free

if lala didn’t have that baby, she would have picked him up. however, the baby is her guaranteed bonus so she doesn’t have to do anything she doesn’t want to now.

i just believe if you have been somebody’s fiance for more than 2 years, you ought to just consider yourself a friend w/benefits. i’m tired of people throwing around the fiance thing like it really means something after being engaged that long.

sandra, i suddenly cannot access your site from my job. i know they didn’t block it. what can be the problem?
pointhimout

stop it i say. La La didn’t know her place before now? BABY MAMA—-WIFE. see the distinction? Luckily for her he has to make the next 17.5 years of HER life easy via child support for the kid.
hellava10

But how long is she going to play hard? Will she do like the rest: accept a nice piece of jewelry, a weekend getaway, hot naked sex and slap him on the hand. She’ll be in the next NBA wifey/jumpoff swimsuit spread next year with the title girlfriend still under her name.
http://elegantdiva.blogspot.com BlackBoricua79

Firstly, I have heard the RUMOR that Melo does his thing on the side…however LaLa & Melo were engaged way before the baby came along(a little google research will show that). Secondly LaLa is way older that Melo by like 6 or 7 years, I’m sure she could have married him a long time ago, but she chose not too, if you remember correctly LaLa was married for a short stint right before she hooked up with Melo, so she probably wasn’t in a rush to re-marry so soon.. & for the record Melo seemed to be on her nut sack in the beginning from what I saw, so I don’t see why people sweating her, he was the one pressed. LaLa has a career, a college DEGREE, and friends in high places…LUDA is like one of her best friends so I think she will be alright with or without the nicca, she don’t seem like the type to go for the B.S. so I’m sure peoples just hating tryna blow this whole thing outta proportion.
NC_NYer

Here’s my two cents:

I don’t want everyone out there thinking there aren’t the same number of trifling WOMEN as there are MEN.

Men can be dogs – yeah, yeah, I’ve heard it. Women can be h.o.e.s. – yeah, yeah, I’ve heard that too.

NOW – knowing that going in, you would THINK people would be smarter – but they aren’t always, are they? In fact, most times, they’re not.
https://www.sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

free Says:

sandra, i suddenly cannot access your site from my job. i know they didn’t block it. what can be the problem?

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I don’t know. It could be spyware or your job did block my site. Did you try scanning your pc for spyware?
http://www.stylish-moms.com Nina

@free & sandra

the same thing happened to me last week…but my job actually did block it and now the site is labeled as “pornography”…its crazy b/c I have to wait until I get home to see whats happened for the day.
London Marie

Damn I never cared for Lala but I dont think she’s with him for money. Having a relationship with an NBA star is bound to end up hurtful. 9 times outta 10 your ass is going to get cheated on. Either deal with it or move on. That’s all I can say.
London Marie

I wouldn’t have picked his drunk ass up at 4am either.
Their baby was probably sound asleep…hell no!
free

Nina Says:

“the same thing happened to me last week…but my job actually did block it and now the site is labeled as “pornography”…its crazy b/c I have to wait until I get home to see whats happened for the day.”

d*mn! i’m going to go holla at one of my boys in i.t.

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