Fan Mail: ‘Usher is SUPER over Chilli’

Mrs. Tameka Foster-Raymond is one lucky woman. She has an army of fiercely loyal friends ready to jump to her defense and put people in their place when the situation calls for it. Their loyalty to Tameka is admirable, and one can only imagine how well Tameka repays their loyalty.

Even though we may think Tameka is rude and obnoxious – the actions of her friends prove otherwise. I think we all have that one friend who rubs others the wrong way, but who is dear to our hearts – and we would defend in an instant.

So go easy on Tameka and put yourself in her shoes. It can’t be easy being the most hated just because you’re married to a sex symbol.

Date: Fri, 2 May 2008 17:56:37
From: Ugina Dabney
To: Sandra Rose
Subject: Re: Mrs Tameka Raymond

Yes Sandra.. Tameka has MUCH support and love. You have her all wrong about being ANYBODY’S “jump-off” as you state. Usher loves her and they are happy. Chilli is the Jump-off that cheated on Dallas with him and was the fantasy that he NEVER loved. He was young and is SUPER over her and has been since 03′. Be clear.

She’s miserable and confused. Usher’s happy and she’s relishing in the thought of what she lost. Bottom line he was 24 then and is clear now. Sorry haters.

ATL_HONEY

YAWN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
http://FreshFromTheStreetz.blogspot.com Zuley

I’ve never been a fan of Maneka. Lets be clear if she had Usher throw his own mom to the wolves to be his manager then she’s definitely no good for business. Sometimes a mother can sense trouble before their child can. And Maneka is trouble you just watch.
Xsjado

I’ve been so over this, it’s not EVEN funny anymore. Live and let Live, they are grown folks. It’s like trying to pull the rabbit out of the for the millionth time, and the same boring thing happens over and over again.

But…Karma can and will be a bitch.
jamil2008

Chilli is hugely scorned! She did an interview with some magazine and was just pouring her heart out talkin about how they “had so much chemistry” and that she just doesn’t see it with him and Tameka. Whatever! True, chemistry is part of what attracts you to a man but it’s obviously not what KEEPS you with a man. We’ve all met someone that we had great chemistry with or looked good next to, but ultimately, there was no substance to the relationship. Real men value friendship. I think by Tameka being his stylist, he developed what is the unbreakable bond of true friendship. Pretty hair and celebrity status can’t touch that. Sorry Chilli. Pick up the pieces and move on. Congrats Usher and Tameka!
http://www.myspace.com/birdshu Bird

I feel so bad for Usher and Tameka. Not only because they take so much heat, but also because it bothers them so much. Usher is always talking about the haters in interviews. Who does that? The longer they are married the more people will get used to it and get over it. Usher needs to man up and stop worrying about the media. These people dissing his wife are still his fans.
hellava10

“Yes Sandra…………… Sorry haters.”

Yours Truly,
Tameka

She forgot to sign her name.
Lisa

Everyone has moved on. Usher, Chilli, Tameka blah, blah old news. I read the interview with Chili and anyone that knows of Chilli knows that she’s very candid.She reflected on her past relationships, but she has moved on. To speculate that Usher never loved her, is just that-speculation. Taking cheap shots at Chilli is not necessary, just like it’s not necessary for people to take shots at Tameka. Frankly I don’t see what they see/saw in the big headed short little dude, but hey to each its on.
http://xscape2xscape.com crystal

oh please, tameka cheated on her husband with usher , so usher was the jump off. she was acting like she wished usher and chilli well but had an hidden agenda and that agenda was carried out!!!
tdl74767

Well said crystal……Chilli is not thinking about them folks…….since Tameka keeps feeling the need to bring this up again and again shows that she feels threatened by Chilli….Trust me, if Chilli did not break up with Usher, I truly believe they would still be together…….

Tameka….you schemed, lied you got the boy, be happy and move on…..by the way……Ush is NOT a sex symbol…LOL!!
Tiachantal

Tameka go sit down somewhere
Anna

First of all, is that a pic of Mrs. Usher? If so she is more pretty than I thought. Secondly I am so glad that a man can be a “jump off”. Tameka is not ugly to me but I sometimes found that ugly ways make you unattractive to any gender. I never found ugly ways in her. If we remember and look back Usher had more ugly ways then she did. Does she have a police record -yes does she have kids from a previous marriage-yes. Does that make her uncaring and unable to love-NO. Do words hurt- of course they do. Has she gone to jail for child abuse, non payment of support or shop lifting-NO. Is she guilty by association -hell yes. She is guilty and haters love to hate because she is married to a man named Usher. If every woman with more than 1 child believed that they can not marry a man with 0 kids or baby mamma drama stays alone and accepts the so called fate had anything to do with “I am not worthy of a man in my life”. Their fault. Some men you meet or marry do have kids. Some ppl meet marry and accept a “instant family”. I say to Usher and Mrs Usher “you do you and accept a back lash of hate. I could not do my job if I did not have thick skin. Do you know how to clear a room in 15 seconds. I do. If I tell them what I do for a living they run. Not sure it they run for the bar/ (to drink) or are just boed. Sorry got off track. The age thing is not a problem with me the fact that she was married with kids is also not a issue. Demi Moore married Ashton K and maybe because this is a black site and not just a all celeb site ppl forget that love is love and to hate is still to hate or not like someone.
http://www.myspace.com/millyly milly

Did she write this herself…anyway no one really cares,Both Ursh and Tameka need to live their lives and not worry about the “haters” so to speak.
bklynchick

I am so tired of hearing about Maneka and Usher. That is the woman he choose to be his wife. If it is all good then their marriage will last only time will tell. Chilli is a very pretty young lady who needs to find someone that loves her and respect her enough to make them their wife one day. Other than that Usher, Maneka and Chilli need to grow up and move on. For real!!
LAChick

LOL…I mean really….Ush put out the CD and keep it movin’ anything else is tiresome. I suspect the inability to do so is a sign of just how far he has fallen into the mess that is Tameka.
I used to love some Ursh music and I certainly hope in between all the drama of his life he puts out something decent.
Songbird27

That email ain’t from no friends, that email was from Tameka and the fact that she didn’t even have the balls the sign it and reveal who she is says she isn’t as big and bad as she pretends to be. Ol, box-head lookin’ heffa!… Hope she divorces Usher and takes everything he owns… that will teach his butt a lesson… When she gets done with him he probably won’t have but a chair and 1 pair of draws!
free

anna, are you a mortician? i had a chance to date a guy like that but i couldn’t do it!

anyway, that pic of meke-meke looks nice.
Sweet Mango

I don’t care who or “what” Usher married, but there is just something about Tameka that doesn’t seem right.

I guess time will tell
Bubbles

This should go in the NOBODY CARES folder with Mariah and her boy toy.
ELove

I thought that Chilli dumped Mr. Raymond as well…

I’ve said THIS before and I’ll say it again:

Usher’s career as an A-List Music Artist and Entertainer is OVER as long as the current Mrs. Raymond is handling his business affairs… End-of-Story
chat bout

all who have live a day in tameka’s shoes please raise your hands.ppl are chatting away as if they know the lady from somewhere.stop reading the fukrey ppl are writing and passing judgment.i don’t know her,sandra doesn’t know her and, you all don’t either.like XSJADO wrote “live and let live”. makes me wonder whats goin on in ones life that will make them want to tear down another person, better yet a person they’ve met and maybe never will???????????????????????
Kymystry

If I never hear/read about these folk again in life it would be ALRIGHT with me ….

YAWNNN …. STRETCH .. Anywayyyyy
brwnsugga4you

Yes Sandra.. Tameka has MUCH support and love. You have her all wrong about being ANYBODY’S “jump-off” as you state. Usher loves her and they are happy. Chilli is the Jump-off that cheated on Dallas with him and was the fantasy that he NEVER loved. He was young and is SUPER over her and has been since 03?. Be clear.

She’s miserable and confused. Usher’s happy and she’s relishing in the thought of what she lost. Bottom line he was 24 then and is clear now. Sorry haters.

~~~first TAMEKA…we know it’s you. stop hiding behind your d*mn computer under alias. second of all again, if it’s heaven on earth..why keep talking about it…if you all are so happy. if chilli was so 03 why even bring her name up (friend) TAMEKA!!!. one thing about it being married or having a kid…still cant keep a man. obviously ms. chili is a threat STILL to you and your relationship…and to call her a jump-off, and then to say she’s miserable and confused is very immature on your part…MRS. USHER RAYMOND!!! shouldn’t you be taking care of all them d*mn babies instead of being on this blog worrying about what folks are saying…and the pic is a mess, let’s be clear Chili clearly has it over you in the looks dept….ugg!!!
http://www.myspace.com/bettathaniwasb4 2bme

Who’s she trying to convince with that lie? Tameka was in the picture when he WAS with Chilli, that makes her a jumpoff plain and simple..considering Dallas and Chilli’s relationship was more off than on..you can’t really say Chilli cheated on him, even if she did trust he deserved it..Dallas is one foul ass dude when it comes to women..to try and throw negativity at Chilli when no one is talking about her shows how childish and insecure Tameka really is. If this is indeed an email from her “friend” she just did more damage than good
leat

Chilli the jumpoff? You dont GUSH over the jumpoff in public the way Ush was about Chilli!!! Chilli had HIM and HAD HIM GOOD! he was just young and thought he could have his cake and eat it too! He loves CHILLI and im sure he still and always will! i remember his appearance on 106 after the breakup he was So SWEET about it and was referencing her when he said Sorry, and a bunch of other stuff looking dead into the camera We all BELIEVED in ush and Chilli and were hoping for reconcile, but this MESS he got now! Lord I hope its REALLY love! i think them being together lead me to believe in ROOTS!she has a ROOT on him!! LOL!
http://musicisourhigh.blogspot.com musicisourhigh

Both “Jumpoff” and “hater” are overused phrases.
luxe.li.

How long can you have a relationship with a woman and not have a relationship with your mother, esp when you and your mother were close…..i’m just going to sit back and wait and see…
Tiachantal

another one if some1 is so confident in their relationship it would be no need to keep bringing chilli back up and throwing stabs at her
yeah she was a little loose lipped with necole bitchie but she really didnt say anything bad and wished usher happiness…goodness
ReadTheBlog

Hating or not – Tameka is one ugly broad…
http://usherworld sweetface

I DONT CARE ABOUT HOW USHER FANS HATE HIS WIFE I SEE THAT HE LOVE HER AND NOBODY CAN STOP HIM AND HE WILL DO ANYTHING FOR HIS FAMILY AND AS USHER SAID SOME OF HIS FAN WHO HATE HIS FAMILY CAN KISS HIS AZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ AND MOVE ON. SHE FINNLEY LOOK NICE IN THAT PICE . BLACK AND WHITE PIC ARE WAY BETTER THEN COLOR. AND I CAN NOT WEIT TO SEE HIM AND TO BUY HIS CD.
shannon04

Ugina?…I still can’t get over the name…I am so trippin right now.
omina-homina

Chilli isn’t scorned, she’s just using this as an opportunity to promoted her underfunded/independent single “What ever the name of it is”. Because Usher and his wife have been getting a lot of publicity as of late.
omina-homina

And if Tameka ever writes a book about “how to get a good/rich man”, I’m the first one in line to buy that sucka!
mizzdallas

Tameka is a fake period. Just last year she was on the Wendy Williams radio show, about to spilled the tea on Ush and then of a sudden she changes her mind, whatever Tameka need to stop hiding behind the damn email and just keep it REAL!
shannon04

mizzdallas, can you clue me in please??? What was Tameka going to spill the tea about to Wendy?? but then changed her mind? Ok what is really going on?? What could this woman possibly have on Ush to make him fire his mother, wife her, and give her a child? Ush, is this woman holding something over you?
licia

It can’t be easy being the most hated just because you’re married to a sex symbol.
^^ she isn’t hated because she married usher. she’s hated because she has an ugly attitude . you can be the most beautiful person on the outside but still have a stank attitude. that is tameka all the way .

SMH @ the letter. that’s some junior high/high school buffoonery right there. no grown woman that is secure with herself would have her ” friend ” write something like this .
http://www.keminications.com mediakemi

EVERYBODY, PLEASE LEAVE TAMEKA FOSTER ALONE!!!
http://notenoughrealmen.blogspot.com 2thick4u

This picture of her makes her look human!!!

I wish this couple much success!!!!

Usher keep making hot tracks!!!
gemini83

Time and time again, I would get mad because people would say such mean things about Tameka because they “thought” she wasn’t as pretty as Chili. LOOKS DON’T HAVE SH*T TO DO WITH HOW USHER FEELS ABOUT HER OBVIOUSLY. Tameka is not an unattractive woman! Yes, Chili is pretty too, but Usher would still be with her if “looks” was all that he cared about. He obviously loves this woman. And it doesn’t matter what we say or what the media says, we are on the outside looking in! Leave them alone and let black love play out at its finest! Many blessings to the couple and their family!
MOCHAMOMMY

When this begins to affect the price of gas, then I’ll care.

If Tameka makes Usher happy, why should anyone be concerned? they have a healthy baby and a seemingly healthy relationship. We never hear about any domestic problems where police had to be called or about Usher cheating, so apparently Ms. Meka is doin somethin correct
kat

NEXT!
mizzdallas

shannon04 Says:

mizzdallas, can you clue me in please???

Before she was coming onto the Wendy Williams, supposdly she told wendy that she had dirt on Ush and that was the only reason that she could come on the Wendy show, so she came on the show and wendy started asking her questions, like i.e Is Ush in the Swag club(How U Doin) and I guess it got to be too much for Maneka and Wendy was getting really irratated and losing her patience with Maneka so she just told her a** to leave.
browni007

Tameka – Maneka looks really nice in this picture.

Tameka has to deal with her bed; Usher has to lie in it.
http://www.findentertainmentnow.com miesha@FindEntertainmentNow.com

sandra you were the one hating on her sooooooo much. you call everyone a damn jump off who is married to a celeb and wasn’t rich before that. you assume to worse without knowing these chicks. glad u r not being as harsh. AND this friend of Tameka’s needs to chill a lil on Chilli. While she is fiercly defending her friend she needs to know that Chilli has feelings too and by the way is NOT in love with Usher anymore. That interview she did was misread by many. That girl don’t want that boy. She left him…HELLO! And he cheated on her. Damn…
http://www.findentertainmentnow.com miesha@FindEntertainmentNow.com

i say if Usher likes it…i love it. Hell…who are we to decide who a star marries? we don’t see their personal daily lives, they could be very happy. folks all have issues, normal so let them go through their ups and downs like average folks. let ’em be. and let Chilli be too. She’s very cool.
pointhimout

yeah, let all three of them be. i guess chilli and usher will forever be our new jesse and angela, but please, let it go. the fans/public seem to be the only ones still holding on. they’ve all moved on.
ACCORDGIRL35

Usher is an entertainer but his personal life is a separate entity or at least it should be. I have seen a lot of stories where people insinuate that Tameka is not good enough for him. Who are we to make that accusation? Usher is a smart business man where his career is concerned. He is higely successful so why is it that when it comes to relationships he would demand less. He started a relationshio with Tameka and it grew into marriage. We may not agree with his choice but it was his to make. Give them a chance, besides I am a firm believer in the more people try to tear something down the stronger it becomes. I am a fan of many artist in the entertainment field. I buy their cd when it is released and I attend concerts. I even buy the magazines that they are featured in. But no matter how much money I spend this still does not entitle me nor anyone else to question decisions they make when it comes to their personal lives. I
prynsexxx

“I just want to do hoodrat stuff with my friend.”
babysoft15

I just can’t understand why you hate (dislike..whatever you call it) Tameka Raymond so much. I guess it shouldn’t matter to anyone that Usher has married her and had a child with her…I guess that doesn’t convince you that he loves her. Maybe he really does love Chilli..I mean he did marry her and have a child with her…ooh I’m sorry no he didn’t. I truly believe it’s sad that people dislike this woman because she is with Usher…I think it’s great..she is a mother of three, a hard-worker and she doesn’t fit into the stereotypical video girl box. It’s nothing wrong with them being together and honestly…unless she has done something unprovoked to offend one of you…PLEASE GET OVER IT!! You know what is the most ironic thing of all…there was nothing to say about this woman before she started dating Usher…she wasn’t even on the radar!

LET’S STOP THE HATE!!
aqtpie

That’s a nice photo of Tameka.
http://www.myspace.com/bettathaniwasb4 2bme

I’m at a point where I really stopped caring ..I just want the music..I will say I am tired of him pushing Tameka down our throats..if he loves her so be it..he needs to let it go..I also hate silly ish..no one was talking about them but here comes the email..Usher is a victim of his own b.s..if he wants people to leave them alone he should have kept things on lockdown..this backlash is his fault and his alone..next time just shut the hell up and get a fixer to bury your woman’s past..he’s been in the business too long to wear his heart on his sleeve like this..it is what it is
lovejoy1

I don’t see anything wrong with Tameka especially being married to Usher. The man is where he wants to be. So what she got other kids and left her marriage to be with him. Maybe it was worth the move- who knows and who cares. At the end of the day, she is still going to be with Usher and ppl are still going to be talking. I don’t know them personally but congrads anyway on your new baby.. signed Lasonya
estyle4039

I’d like to hear Tameka’s ex husband Ryan Glover’s take on on the matter of his marriage. . .Did Tameka cheat on you (w/Usher)? Is she an opporuntist in the worst way? What was the deal with the welfare fraud arrest? What’s her true age? Is she a deadbeat mom to your children? Inquiring minds what to know.

Side Bar: Usher ain’t the cat’s meow, other than his bank roll, I don’t understand what all the fuss is about! He has that “fat” gene in him (look at his mom, brother, and his “In the Club” video) when he slows down, his chubsta will kick in and she’ll be kicking him to the curb (b/c she loves the limelight and attention), looking for the next showcase. . . LMAO

Side Bar (2): Usher and Tameka needs to stop force feeding their “love/happiness” to the world. The more you express/over expose it, the more likely we are to not going to believe it.
Hotstuff

Super Yawn….

Where was her respect for herself when she was galavanting around town with Usher with another man’s baby in her belly…that right there says you have no respect for yourself, or your unborn baby…

Now who is supposed to show her respect????
My momma always told me ppl treat you how you based on how you treat yourself…
and that’s exactly what Tameka’s getting with her welfare fraudulent ass!!!!!!!

Who said Ho…Pick it up!!!!
Kymystry

prynsexxx Says:

“I just want to do hoodrat stuff with my friend.”

************************************************************ CRACKIN THE HAIL UP !!!!! This really ain’t all that serious ….

SEAN BELL … now THATS serious as a heart attack

NC and Indiana Voting tommorrow in the primary .. Thats serious as a Heart Attack IN a Cancer Paitent !!!
Ya Hear Me !
Songbird27

53Hotstuff Says:

Super Yawn….

Where was her respect for herself when she was galavanting around town with Usher with another man’s baby in her belly…that right there says you have no respect for yourself, or your unborn baby…

Now who is supposed to show her respect????
My momma always told me ppl treat you how you based on how you treat yourself…
and that’s exactly what Tameka’s getting with her welfare fraudulent ass!!!!!!!

Who said Ho…Pick it up!!!!
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rotfl!! true dat!!
http://xscape2xscape.com crystal

check out the throw back pic on my page of the day.

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