By now you’ve all seen the graphic video of shock jock Wendy Williams‘ hubby “Big” Kevin Hunter tenderizing some hoochie in a video that was emailed to urban bloggers from Wendy’s own email account.

Wendy Williams reportedly had some kind of meltdown yesterday evening – this, according to a few sources close to the situation in New York.

Despite the crescendos of “that’s not him” from people who viewed the tape but don’t even know the man personally – a man’s wife can recognize her hubby’s ass anywhere.

I’m told that Wendy kept her man servant Charlamagne up half the night last night emailing and calling bloggers to narrow down the culprit who sent the emails. Word is Wendy was highly upset and in tears over the video. After all, a diva can only take so much.

Now this is in stark contrast to Wendy’s behavior when the news first broke about her talent booker’s lawsuit against Big Kev earlier this year.

At that time Wendy dropped bombs on the air and made snide remarks about her talent booker. She didn’t seem pressed one way or the other. But yesterday was different.

I hear that Wendy knows it was her talent booker Nicole Spence who sent that filthy tape to all the urban bloggers over the weekend – and Wendy is LIVID!

It seems there are only two people with access to Wendy’s personal email account. Nicole, who still clocks in every morning at WBLS – is one of them.

But why would Nicole who already has a sexual harassment lawsuit filed against Wendy’s husband, resort to this type of sneaky underhanded sh*t using Wendy’s own email account? It could only mean one thing: that she – meaning Nicole – had a relationship with Big Kev and he kicked her to the curb.

You know what they say about a woman scorned… stay tuned for further developments.

Photos: Wireimage/Getty/Nicole Spence