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First, the email from loyal reader Shalonda:
Hey Sandra,
I had to get out of my bed and log on for this…I am watching Gotti’s Way and his wife is on Gayle King’s show. Irv and some of his staff are listening at Murder Inc and the female has the nerve to say “If I was getting what she’s getting, I’d be good”.. IS SHE SERIOUS..? Is this what we do.? I am not going to believe that we as married women (which I am not) will just sit back and allow our husbands to cheat, pay the bills and you would be OK with this… I know you have an opinion on this.. I would love to see what everyone will say on this topic..
Shalonda
Now, here is my response to Shalonda’s question… “is this what we do?”
I have no personal experience with being married, but it would seem to me that black women in the distant past had no problem ‘settling’ for their men because their roles were clearly defined — back then.
Decades ago — before the women’s lib movement (which was organized by lesbians, by the way) — the black woman knew her place was to be homemaker, nurturer and caregiver to their children.
The husband’s role was to bring home the bread, so to speak.
Most black men today would rather spend their bread on gear, rims and other shiny things to attract other women (or other men as the case may be in Atlanta).
Therefore, if a man shows you by his words and actions that he LOVES you enough to provide for you and pay your bills, that says a lot about him as a man.
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She definitely has an attitude problem based on this video. I don’t see why he keeps going back to her. She doesn’t deserve a real man in her life because she’s not a real woman. If she respected herself she wouldn’t disrespect herself or her man.
