Twitter was all abuzz this weekend with the news that legendary singer Mary J Blige put the smack down on her husband Kendu Isaacs for eyeballing waitresses at her album release party last week.
Page Six gossip column was the first to report the blow up, but MJB’s camp quickly went into damage control denying the slug fest ever occurred (which makes you wonder if they were there to witness the fisticuffs?)
If the punch out really did go down, it’s about time that an industry wife put her foot on her man’s neck and checked his azz in public. Rumors abound about Kendu’s roving eye and the fact that he’s a cheater. Mary J don’t play that! Maybe this will send a warning to other industry husbands to toe the line or get some of what Kendu got. How embarrassing for a man to be b*tch slapped by his wife at an industry party.
So u support her hitting her husband because she is a female but what about if Kendu were abusing her? Anyway, won’t get into CB. I seriously doubt that MJB is that stupid to act up in public.
SANDRA:
it’s about time that an industry wife put her foot on her man’s neck and checked his azz in public
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Double standard much? really? if that was a man doing it, you would say leave him, he crazy and he gonna kill you…not to mention he on the down low…smh Sandra you know how to get a response, you should be a prosecutor…
No ma’am sandra thats not even cool. Mary should get the same shade u threw at chris brown
I like Mary, but she should have kept her hands to herself. Don’t put your hands on folks if you are not willing to accept what comes next…Male or female..
Sandra just hates men…she can tolerate a few. but hates most.
I saw this video the other day. It looks like she slapped and I think it was uncalled for. If he would’ve slapped her everybody would’ve been on his case. I’m not into that double standard, if you don’t want to get hit keep your hands to yourself.
Hey I don’t condone hitting but if he was disrespecting Mary like that, well smack his azz uponeth his face. Yes we’re all human, we’re going to be attracted to others, but if you’re in a relationship, marriage, or whatever, you shouldn’t have a wondering eye, especially not in front of your mate. That’s not cool.
Well something certainly did go down because I saw the video on another site. Although there was not a clear view of the “hit” Mary J for sure exchanged some words with her better half, I’m just sayin….
well….im sure she won’t have to worry about getting harassed like Chris Brown about it…..if she did that at her party for everyone to see, I wonder what goes down behind closed doors.
HOW IN THE HELL IS KHLOE ON THE KARDASHIAN GOING TO CLAIM SHE TOOK A PREGNANCY TEST AND THEN HER PERIOD CAME ON WHILE SHE WAS AT THE RESTAURANT
WHATEVA-IT’S RARE TO GET A FALSE “POSITIVE” ON A PREGNANCY TEST-IT’S MORE COMMON TO GET A FALSE “NEGATIVE” AND ACTUALLY FIND OUT LATER THAT YOU ARE PREGNANT
BUT THE CHANCES OF TAKING A TEST AND IT SAYING YOU ARE PREGNANT ONLY TO LEARN LATER YOU ARE NOT ARE RARE IF NON-EXISTANT AT LEAST I’VE NEVER HEARD OF A CASE OTHER THAN STILL HAVING THE PREGNANCY HORMONE IN YOUR BODY CAUSE FOR WHATEVER REASONS YOU WERE PREGNANT BUT NO LONGER ARE
Quitta Says:
Hey I don’t condone hitting but if he was disrespecting Mary like that, well smack his azz uponeth his face. Yes we’re all human, we’re going to be attracted to others, but if you’re in a relationship, marriage, or whatever, you shouldn’t have a wondering eye, especially not in front of your mate. That’s not cool.
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So if was a chick who was the culprit, the husband can slap his the hail out his wife?
SWEET CHEEKS!!!!!! HOW LONG WERE YOU STUCK IN THE HOUSE?
Hey I don’t condone hitting but if he was disrespecting Mary like that, well smack his azz uponeth his face. Yes we’re all human, we’re going to be attracted to others, but if you’re in a relationship, marriage, or whatever, you shouldn’t have a wondering eye, especially not in front of your mate. That’s not cool.
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yea rhianna was probably feeling like that when she read that text message…..but she slapped the wrong one.
Men and women should keep their hands to themselves. Please learn to express yourself better. Its been said by others (K-Ci & Case )that Mary had a habit of hitting. Abuse is abuse, no good for any party.
Carry on …
Seen the video on another site. The video is so dark I could not tell what happen. I did see Beyonce hide in the background with her drink in her hand. If Mary did hit her husband she is wrong.This was her night to shine not fight. I also read it was her brother that hit her husband only those that was there really know the truth.
MJB, your husband was married to someone else when you first started dating him, why do you think your fate will be different? You think that platinum hair color lined your puzzy? Don’t hit him or get your panties in a bunch because the bad biatch we call karma you put out is now back in your face.
I live in Spencer so I didn’t get out until yesterday! The base was so empty when i got here I almost turned aorund and went back home
Beyonce looks a mess in this video. Her hair looks like the lion from The Wiz.
While MJB did swing on him that was a love tap not a punch or anything to hurt him. Women can be emotional (I’ve never put my hands on a man no matter how angry I was) and sometimes we act on those emotions. People like to bring up what Chris Brown did *side eye Daisy* but Chris BEAT Rhianna not hit her. There is a difference. Both are wrong but they are not the same.
BUT THE CHANCES OF TAKING A TEST AND IT SAYING YOU ARE PREGNANT ONLY TO LEARN LATER YOU ARE NOT ARE RARE IF NON-EXISTANT AT LEAST I’VE NEVER HEARD OF A CASE OTHER THAN STILL HAVING THE PREGNANCY HORMONE IN YOUR BODY CAUSE FOR WHATEVER REASONS YOU WERE PREGNANT BUT NO LONGER ARE
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she’s just irregular…lying azz.
Hmmmmm…..ladies & gents, keep your hands to yourself…
@ Intense
I saw that too. She got her period at the restaurant but didn’t go home to wash her azz? Disgusting. Only for tv purposes.
On topic: I saw the video as well but it didn’t look like a punch to me either. More like she was wrestling with hands.
Glad she walked off, though.
EJLOVE Says:
Quitta Says:
Hey I don’t condone hitting but if he was disrespecting Mary like that, well smack his azz uponeth his face. Yes we’re all human, we’re going to be attracted to others, but if you’re in a relationship, marriage, or whatever, you shouldn’t have a wondering eye, especially not in front of your mate. That’s not cool.
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So if was a chick who was the culprit, the husband can slap his the hail out his wife?
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Hell no. He should check her, but not slap her.
MJB, your husband was married to someone else when you first started dating him, why do you think your fate will be different? You think that platinum hair color lined your puzzy? Don’t hit him or get your panties in a bunch because the bad biatch we call karma you put out is now back in your face.
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that’s that 1995 MJB right there…don’t do it Miss Celie.
Seriously…..
If kendu had knocked the ish outta here for embarassing him in publick….it woulda send a message to industry wives…just wow
Hey I don’t condone hitting but if he was disrespecting Mary like that, well smack his azz uponeth his face. Yes we’re all human, we’re going to be attracted to others, but if you’re in a relationship, marriage, or whatever, you shouldn’t have a wondering eye, especially not in front of your mate. That’s not cool.
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yea rhianna was probably feeling like that when she read that text message…..but she slapped the wrong one.
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Well yes she did. It aint right what happened to her. But I’m jus sayin, he had no right acting a fool like he did so if she slapped him oh well. I hope that’s not how they carry on behind closed doors. But you don’t disrespect your woman like that.
Just because you’re married won’t stop men from looking. It’s not like they have tunnel vision and only notice their wife. They should at least have enough respect for their wife not to do it around them. I noticed my hubby starin at this chick and he didn’t know I’d seen him so I walked up to the chick and asked her to turn around so he could get a better view. She was in shock and he was very embarrassed. He thought I was gonna get in his azz but there was no need to I told him how disrepectful it was for him to damn near be droolin over another chick in front of me and if it happened again then we’d have issues!
Well, as may mom would say keep your hands to yourself..unless you want to get knock out!! I think it was the wrong time and place to be acting a fool about your husband roaming eyes. I still love me some Mary J though.
SEEE I click send and there are the Chris Brown comparisons.
and didn’t Kendu’s daughter get in trouble earlier this year/late last year for punching someone? I need to go look up the quote He and Mary put out.
@intense
Morning, Hope your holiday was good. I didn’t know Khole put it out there that she was preggo’s in the first place. Has she even formed a bond with the kids he already has? Wouldn’t it be best to see what type of father he is to his current kids be something one would want to do before they pushed out a kid of their own. Kids are not like Marriage. There is no divorcing them and making it all disappear forever. They are forever.
@KaraZ
You’re right Kendu was married when they first started dating but it was almost like a Moshonda, Swizz type of thing. He was in the middle of getting a divorce. Lucky for him not from a woman who couldn’t handle him being involved with a celeb. Moshonda needs to take a page out of Kendu’s ex wife book. Even Khole K can learn something about being a step parent from these two.
that’s that 1995 MJB right there…don’t do it Miss Celie.
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NO miss SOFIA…NOOooo!
Can we get our grown woman on and not be fighting in public with our spouses or anyone for that matter? Sandra, you don’t date men so your theory on what is approriate interaction with a man is a moot point.
iscream – People like to bring up what Chris Brown did *side eye Daisy* but Chris BEAT Rhianna not hit her. There is a difference. Both are wrong but they are not the same.
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Yes I agree. There is a difference between the 2 situations here.
You think that platinum hair color lined your puzzy?
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People still have hair there?????
Well yes she did. It aint right what happened to her. But I’m jus sayin, he had no right acting a fool like he did so if she slapped him oh well. I hope that’s not how they carry on behind closed doors. But you don’t disrespect your woman like that.
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is mary dranking again?
her rep is gonna ask that the public repect her privacy in this matter and that all couples have problems yadda yadda yadda while mary and kendu quitely separate and 6 months from now the divorce will be filed
I agree, Krysi J…I believe that’s what happend to CBreezy. I never like that Kantdu or Kendu…let’s just call him DuDu going forward.
I agree, Krysi J…I believe that’s what happend to CBreezy. I never like that Kantdu or Kendu…let’s just call him DuDu going forward.
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just cannot do this here today with yall….DEAD!!!!
Krysi J Says: Mary was the lucky one, because like yall say A WOMAN CAN’T BEAT A MAN, what if this man wasn’t in the mood for that bullshyt on this night and slapped her azz back b4 he knew it…………then Kendu would have been the scum of the fukking earth…..so to make this very clear…MARY was dead azz wrong for putting her hands on this man and she’s lucky that he didn’t whoop her azz!
But I know 1 thing he won’t eyeball again. 
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She’s very lucky he didn’t beat her azz. Shew she’d probably got 5 brothers just waiting.
Mary J =
But I know 1 thing he won’t eyeball again.
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Only JESUS can stop a man from doing that hun
@kwall
Morning. I know you are the master of on line look ups. If you get a chance can you see if you can find the statement that Mary and or DuDu (love that) put out when his daughter went upside someone’s head. I can’t seem to find it and I’m curious to see the contradictions.
@iscream, that’s the truth according to whom. Kendu was living at home when him & MJB first started creeping… The divorce was only filed for after he started datong her for a minute. He was looking for a come up & MJB and her desperate, emotionally disturbed, low sel-esteemed self gave him the financial boost he was looking for.
She really might have thought she was special, having a man leave his family for her & then actually marry her… Now she’s learning an age old lesson most people need to know. How you get your man is how you lose him. She’s just a dummy all around, she better hope she files a pre-nup. If I were his ex-wife, I’d just be laughing my azz off, make a video of it & post it on youtube, calli it karma is my friend.
@ BROWNSUGAPOET just wow at how OKC handled the snow storm! Wasn’t that some mess!!! I was stuck in the house til saturday when I decided to brake free with my sister and head to the hair shop! LOL! I don’t care how bad the weather is, I can’t condone looking a mess! How did u handle the weather?
Krysi J Says:
But I know 1 thing he won’t eyeball again.
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Only JESUS can stop a man from doing that hun
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With the help of Mary punching his eye out.
BROWNSUGAPOET Says:
I noticed my hubby starin at this chick and he didn’t know I’d seen him so I walked up to the chick and asked her to turn around so he could get a better view. She was in shock and he was very embarrassed.
and 
for handling it so well. But i almost died reading that.
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It looked like she slapped him to me. Whether it was hard or soft, she def hit him. IT sad, but there is a double standard when it comes to men and women hitting one another. IT just is. Maybe this had been going on for so long, that this was just the straw that broke the camels back. Maybe she was feeling like she puts up with enough and for him to disrepect her in public-at her album release party- was the just the last straw. There is but so much a person (man or woman) can take, and maybe she had taken enough
Just a thought
I wonder if Queen Wendy will address this situation she already called out mary dating dudu as Alexnder calls him when he was married at the time anyway its always double standards when it comes to woman vs man
@Kara Z
“He was looking for a come up & MJB and her desperate, emotionally disturbed, low sel-esteemed self gave him the financial boost he was looking for.”
Why was he in all her car commercials like he was the star?
@Mizz *waving* heyy good morning
Well, word on the street is that Big Kev goes upside Wendy’s head on the regular. I know that has been a time or two where she reported this on the radio. But she always says it’s mutual combat. Don’t know if you remember her reporting once them fighting in the parking garage and the cops had to be called. I guess abuse goes on more than some of us can ever imagine
here ya go @isc.
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Mary J. Blige spoke with Angie Martinez about her latest single ‘The One’ featuring Drake which uses autotune in which she states she used it for the effect, as well as she talked about the controversial video of hip hop music artist Charles Hamilton getting punched by her step-daughter Briana Latrise.
During the interview, the singer spoke about working with Drake, not being able to handle a dog which she gave up after one year and spoke about her step-children as well.
“How do you deal with…. this is probably a question, sorry Kendu to drag you into this too, but there has been a lot of questions. Your family has been on the internet, your daughter was on the internet,” Angie says as someone in the background says “your daughter Mike Tyson.”
“Have you addressed this? Are you addressing this at all? Does this make you proud or do you feel that she was put in this position?,” asks Angie Martinez.
During the interview, the hip-hop, R&B music singer stated, “I feel really bad, and it doesn’t make me proud for me to see her doing things like that. It’s just stupidity. It makes no sense. But as a parent, you know we love them through, you know and that’s it, you know… I’m not like ‘yeah son, I’m glad my kid is up there… no, I’m an adult, we’re not proud when our children are doing stupidness, ” stated Mary J Blige.
“Why she didn’t put her body into the punch…,” says Kendu in the background (Briana Latrise’s father).
“But, you have to somewhat be proud of that fact that she won’t allow somebody to just fall out disrespect her like that…,” adds Angie Martinez.
“Absolutely… It’s cool off-air you know, defending yourself, equalizing, however… but why is it on the internet? Why? What are you trying to prove, what are you actually trying to say?! It just erks me. Why do it? If you make the bed you gotta deal with the results of it, whether they’re good or bad,” says Mary J Blige.
LL he’s human so I know he’s gonna look cause I look but he best keep that shyt in check when he’s with me cause if not then we got problems
I don’t get how people can defend Mary. I don’t think it’s ever right for a woman to hit a man, just like it isn’t right for a man to hit a woman. If she feels disrespected to the point where she needs to exchange blows then she probably shouldn’t be with him.
mizz i agree about the double standard. smh
She is still keeping it gangsta I see.
I love MARY… always have and always will.
i knew this shat was gonna hit the fan the day that i pointed out that mary was messing with du du while he was married to HIS first wife…and did that make her a homewrecker like folks say akeys is….just a question i asked waaay back on a “mashonda lashes out” post…
@ SWEET CHEEKS
I was stranded in Spencer and since we are the LAST ones to get the roads clear I was miserable! My driveway slopes down so I was stuck fareal I just cut my hair off and rockin a natural so I didnt need to go to the shop but my xmas money was burnin my pockets so I was out ALL day yesterday!
Hummm so it’s almost as if they agreed with what she did.
“Absolutely… It’s cool off-air you know, defending yourself, equalizing, however… but why is it on the internet? Why? What are you trying to prove, what are you actually trying to say?! It just erks me. Why do it? If you make the bed you gotta deal with the results of it, whether they’re good or bad,” says Mary J Blige.
Guess MJB didn’t know the camera’s was rolling THAT night.
MARY’S PIMP HAND STAY STRONG!!!!
Seriously I always thought she was a time bomb waitin to go off because she seems like an emotional person and as much as she talks about her past I didn’t think she was completely healed from it when she got with KemoSabe so that was a recipe for disaster
@ BROWNSUGAPOET. Yeah I figured Spencer would be a mess. Glad u got home safe because on a regular day I get lost out in spencer (my hair salon is there). Some of the street signs are hard to read or they may be missing all together out there. Plus in the night its extra dark. There where soo many snow drifts and iceburgs (piled high snow) out I coulda sworn I was on the titanic lol!
COPY and PASTED from another post.
K Ci on MJB
Vibe: You had to have loved her at one point or another. You guys sang together, did shows together. There had to be something.
K-Ci: There was something. It wasn’t what Mary wanted everybody to think. She wanted the world to think that we were living a fairytale and all of a sudden I ended it. We cared about each other, but I wasn’t in love with here. The feelings were never mutual. We would do shows together and afterwards I wanted to hang out with the guys and party and talk to fans. Mary would go crazy. She would come up to my hotel and bang on the door, screaming and hollering at the top of her lungs until I came out. She would come up to me at parties and disrespect my company. I had to be careful because if she saw me with a woman she would try to start fights and put on a big show. It was crazy.
Singer Case On MJB
Case had this to say, “Me and Mary J. Blige did actually date. We lived together for awhile. A couple of people told me that Mary said I used to beat her up and another girl said it was K-Ci [Hailey of the group Jodeci]. If anything, she was the one throwing **** at me. I still got a scar!”
IF KENDU IS OK WITH MARY PUTTING HER HANDS ON HIM-THEN THERE IS NO REAL ISSUE
THE ONLY REASON-CHRIS BROWN AND RIHANNA SITUATION BECAME AN ISSUE BECAUSE SOMEONE THAT NIGHT WASN’T OK WITH WHAT TOOK PLACE AND TOOK SHIAT TO THE NEXT LEVEL BY INVOLVING THE POLICE AND SEEKING MEDICAL ATTENTION
KENDU-DIDN’T MAKE A PUBLIC OUTCRY NOR DID HE SEEK MEDICAL ATTENTION
WHAT GOES ON IN THEIR RELATIONSHIP IS THEIR BUSINESS-TO ME IT ONLY BECOMES AN ISSUE TO OTHERS WHEN SOMEONE IN THE RELATIONSHIP SAYS IT’S A PROBLEM AND REALLY THAT’S ALL THAT MATTERS
WHAT WE WANT OR WHAT WE TOLERATE IN OUR RELATIONSHIP IS RIGHT FOR US BUT NOT NECESSARILY HOW EVERYONE ELSE WILL HANDLE THEIR RELATIONSHIP
BROWNSUGAPOET-LL he’s human so I know he’s gonna look cause I look but he best keep that shyt in check when he’s with me cause if not then we got problems
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Exactly what I said.
Sweet Cheeks does Stacy do your hair??? Her shop is the only one I know of out there. We are deep in Sencer and it’s only 2 other houses on our street and they’re a little ways down but luckily one has a tractor and he cleared the street for us! Gots to love the cuntray!!!!!!
@ Quitta
As a matter of fact I’m lookin rat now!!!!!
@kwall… MJB is a homewrecker who is reaping the fruits of the seeds she sown. Don’t feel sorry for her in the least bit. She claims to have changed & matured, but getting crows feet & grey hairs are not signs of maturity. She is an emotionally stunted human being, why else would a 40+ year old woman feel the need to first get physical because she’s upset.
She needs Jesus for real, because no man, lyrics or lifestyle can heal her from her obvious brokeness.
BROWNSUGAPOET Says:
@ Quitta
As a matter of fact I’m lookin rat now!!!!!
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:lolol:
LL he’s human so I know he’s gonna look cause I look but he best keep that shyt in check when he’s with me cause if not then we got problems
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glad you know that he’s human….no amount of slapping could stop a man from looking at another woman, its in everyone’s nature to at LEAST look at someone attractive..NOTHING can stop that, not even divorce, or counseling. Maybe he’ll get better at doing it without being caught tho.
Miss info said there wasn’t a waitress involved she was at the party
@quitta so a man can bish slap his wife IF he thinks she is flirting or cheating? I want to see how he would explain that to a judge lol
@ Krysi
That’s when you do the stretch and “I need to pop my neck” so you act like you’re turnin your head to pop you neck and you get another glance! I call it the stretch and pop!
I love MJB!!! I hope MJB didn’t hit that man, because if she did that is so wrong. It is never okay to hit someone and not expect to get hit back. I dont care if you are a female and you think that your taps wont hurt him, it’s not even about that. A man will not let you put your hands on him too many times because if you give someone a inch they will take a mile, and if a woman feels that she can hit her man everytime he steps out of line then she will, and then you will have a CB situation where you get your scull beat in all because you couldn’t tame your emotions.
Don’t dish it out if you can’t take it…and SR condoning women beating their men in public. You are gonna be the cause of alot bruised up women walking around.
WHAT WE WANT OR WHAT WE TOLERATE IN OUR RELATIONSHIP IS RIGHT FOR US BUT NOT NECESSARILY HOW EVERYONE ELSE WILL HANDLE THEIR RELATIONSHIP
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makes sense
That’s when you do the stretch and “I need to pop my neck” so you act like you’re turnin your head to pop you neck and you get another glance! I call it the stretch and pop!
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Kara Z said
She is an emotionally stunted human being, why else would a 40+ year old woman feel the need to first get physical because she’s upset.
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Mary is 38 going on 39….
Daisy Says:
Miss info said there wasn’t a waitress involved she was at the party
@quitta so a man can bish slap his wife IF he thinks she is flirting or cheating? I want to see how he would explain that to a judge lol
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Look it is some double standard going on here. And you know what, I don’t care. I’m sticking to what I say. No one should be laying their hands on anyone period, okay I get that. But if dude is gonna disrespect his woman and eyeing another woman like DuDu did, then slap some sense into his azz. I mean Mary’s standing right there, you gonna do your looking, be discreet with it at least. And no a MAN should not go and bish slap his woman either. She’s a girl. Yes very double standard, but it is what it is.
Isc *sideeye you right back* DV is wrong in any way shape or form and I never had a problem saying what CB did was WRONG I also feel we will NEVER know what did or did not take place n the car that night but clearly he was wrong my theory was always mutal combat gone way to FAR!! Like ppl have said on here a person can only take so much be it man or woman. Violence is still wrong #attheendoftheday also stop acting like even if CB “only slapped her once it would have been ok” NOT he still wld have been wrong and nailed to the cross for hitting a woman period!
Quitta
I hope you never lay your hands on a man cause you got life all twisted. #noshade. Everyone reacts differntly and not every man has the same self control as the next. So if you ever lay your hand upside a man for “looking” i will pray he doesnt knock you back.
Ur tyrna set women back 100’s of years. They mind as well take away our voting rights. We want to be equal ONLY when it applies to us.
My bad iscream, either way she’s still too old t acting out like a 3yr old.
Krysi there’s a chance I didn’t pop it rihgt the first time so I may have to do it again for a little longer!
@ LL
The only time I would lay a hand on a man is if he puts hands on me. I’m not that type of person to get that angry to just put hands on a person. It takes a lot for me to get angry and this is not 1 of them for my situation anyway. But for Mary, she felt disrespected & that’s how she reacted, I’m not mad at her. It’s not like she went old school Mary on his azz, and beat him down, she just slapped him. And that’s what he gets, IMO.
MARY WAS LUCKY
and seeing how dudes get crucified for retaliation, DuDu was lucky too!
KaraZ Says:
My bad iscream, either way she’s still too old t acting out like a 3yr old.
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lol, I got your point and if I wasn’t such a stan I would be pointing out some of the same things so carry on.
@quitta
I hear where you are coming from. While I have never laid my hands on a man. I can for sure see how an emotional woman can. Is it right? That’s up to the person on the receiving end of the slap. I’m sure this isn’t the first time she has done this. He obviously doesn’t mind or who knows maybe he knows that he deserved to be slapped for the disrespect he threw out there. Not sure if he was caught looking at another woman or if it steamed from something involving her family.
In the above quote Kwall printed it clearly shows that he isn’t against a woman slugging a man. “Why she didn’t put her body into the punch…,” says Kendu in the background (Briana Latrise’s father).
She hit him and if he hit her back
then she would have to take it IMO now if she hit him and he beat her till she was black and blue that’s a whole other story. That’s when she needs to call her brother Bruce and her people from Slowbomb PJ’s to Tim Chuck his ass.
Krysi there’s a chance I didn’t pop it rihgt the first time so I may have to do it again for a little longer!
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@ BROWNSUGAPOET…don’t u just love the folk with the random farm equiptment, came in handy for the snow storm. No Roshonda does my hair at Anointed hands, such a sweet lady she is!
But on the Mary J thing, I agree with everyone else…I’ma need my husbend to keep his eyeballs in their sockets, at least at the album release party, dang!!! Really dude!
Quitta Says:
@ LL
The only time I would lay a hand on a man is if he puts hands on me.
. but i feel you cause if someone hit me, man/woman or child yes i said child, im hitting dey azz back.
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O okay…cause girl i want you to be out in the street just smacking niccas around,
typo
*O okay…cause girl i DONT want you to be out in the street just smacking niccas around
Ecclesiastes 3
1 To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven:
2 A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up that which is planted;
3 A time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up;
4 A time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance;
5 A time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together; a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing;
6 A time to get, and a time to lose; a time to keep, and a time to cast away;
7 A time to rend, and a time to sew; a time to keep silence, and a time to speak;
8 A time to love, and a time to hate; a time of war, and a time of peace.
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In a nutshell, there is a time to whip your husband’s azz.
Krysi he probably figures that’s his time to sneek a peak since I’m not payin attn to him! When I see one that’s really really fine I just grab my hubby’s hand and ask for stremf not to drool at that man!
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Sweetcheeks if it’s the shop I’m thinkin of it’s on Spencer Rd and I pass it dang near errday! OKC is small so we probably know each other or some of the same people. If i had my other set of eyes in I might be able to see your pic better
iscream Says:
@quitta
I hear where you are coming from. While I have never laid my hands on a man. I can for sure see how an emotional woman can. Is it right? That’s up to the person on the receiving end of the slap. I’m sure this isn’t the first time she has done this. He obviously doesn’t mind or who knows maybe he knows that he deserved to be slapped for the disrespect he threw out there. Not sure if he was caught looking at another woman or if it steamed from something involving her family.
In the above quote Kwall printed it clearly shows that he isn’t against a woman slugging a man. “Why she didn’t put her body into the punch…,” says Kendu in the background (Briana Latrise’s father).
She hit him and if he hit her back then she would have to take it IMO now if she hit him and he beat her till she was black and blue that’s a whole other story. That’s when she needs to call her brother Bruce and her people from Slowbomb PJ’s to Tim Chuck his ass.
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Yes I agree with everything you said. Woman are very emotional and some would react off of emotion first without thinking of the possible consequences. Doesn’t make it right, but that’s just how the cookie crumbles.
3 A time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up;
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LovelyLady Says:
Quitta Says:
@ LL
The only time I would lay a hand on a man is if he puts hands on me.
No LL, I’m not. Oooohhhh No LL, you’ll hit dah babies? LMAO!!
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O okay…cause girl i want you to be out in the street just smacking niccas around, . but i feel you cause if someone hit me, man/woman or child yes i said child, im hitting dey azz back.
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attorneymom Says:
Ecclesiastes 3
1 To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven:
2 A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up that which is planted;
3 A time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up;
4 A time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance;
5 A time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together; a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing;
6 A time to get, and a time to lose; a time to keep, and a time to cast away;
7 A time to rend, and a time to sew; a time to keep silence, and a time to speak;
8 A time to love, and a time to hate; a time of war, and a time of peace.
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In a nutshell, there is a time to whip your husband’s azz
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NOW I KNOW MS. “I WILL DO A DRIVE BY WITH MY BIBLE” DID NOT JUST SAY THAT.
@ BROWNSUGAPOET yep that’s the shop…if u work at the base i know we know some of the same folk dang near half my church is employed there lol…yep OK is small as a whole errrbody knows at least somebody’s cousin lol!
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Quitta
sure would then send they azz home to they mama. I tell people all the time. “i fight ova people kids okay”
So there is a TIME for a MAN to BEAT a WOMANS AZZ is that what we(some) are saying here??
Krysi I know you knew that verse was in the bible
I am glad cops arrest women for domestic violence as well now
Wow @ some of these comments…Emotional my ass. I’m very emotional but I know not to put my hands on my damn husband…
I mean its not cool to lay hands on anyone but the ref to the verses was too much lol. Sorry that was funny to me. But I can see how people may be offended. Hoe bout nobody lay hands on anyone mmmmkay!!!
Krysi I know you knew that verse was in the bible
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I had no idea
I thought it was just a MOVIE..LOL! Didn’t know what the title was referring to until now. That was a very interesting read AttorneyMom, thanks for bringing that to the forefront.
i mean *how
Sweetcheeks I hope to god it’s not the church I used to go to!!!
dcwife1622 Says:
Wow @ some of these comments…Emotional my ass. I’m very emotional but I know not to put my hands on my damn husband…
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if you have to hit someone to get your point across something is really wrong.
@ dcwife
when I said she was emotional I meant I felt she was emotionally unstable
Guess thats why Mary is singing about Hood Love on her new cd
@Brownsugapoet
I wasn’t talking about your comment…I was talking about the comments that said women are emotional like we can just do stuff based on emotions and get away with it like that’s ok..
@ BROWNSUGAPOET lol awwww lawd hope its not either
Sweetcheeks what yo pastor’s last name iz
@attorneymom Let me see if I can do it right. *blank stare*
LOL
@ BROWNSUGAPOET starts with an R…4 letters
whew ok, not the same one
@ DC wife
I will assume you are talking about me. You spoke on your comment twice and didn’t address who you were in fact addressing. & since
iscream Says:
@quitta
“I hear where you are coming from. While I have never laid my hands on a man. I can for sure see how an emotional woman can. Is it right? That’s up to the person on the receiving end of the slap.”
I never said it was okay. I said I can see how someone can react off of their emotions and go there. Right or Wrong ish happens everyday.
If you have never been taken there 
I’m happy for you but as I said. I can see how a woman being emotional, feeling disrespected can go there.
Yall remember that video when kci was cracked out and did a show and they said he went left and started singin bout Mary and Kendu
@ BROWNSUGAPOET good lol….also, I don’t remember the video u are talking about but I remember the video of kci and mary singing that song together off her first album…something like “we belong togther”, I forget the name of the song but i remember them being wayyyyy into it like they where really going thru. Mary has always been hood. Once she crossed over she started acting all civilized but ooooooh it only took one mis-step for the ghetto to make a guest appearance lol!
Girl he looked a mess and where ever hewas performin at it was supposedly free to get in! This was about 3 yrs ago
I love me some MJB!. But she aint have to hit him!
MaryJ hit her husband, where is Oprah, you mean fat butt Oprah ain’t gonna come on TV for Kendu like she did for Rhianna.
MaryJ is hood and no matter what makeup is done on her she will still be a hood rat.
JAYZ AND BEYONCE WAS THERE, YOU MEAN TO TELL ME JAYZ AIN’T GOT NOTHING TO SAY ABOUT MARY J HITTING HER HUSBAND.
DOUBLE STANDARDS.
MARY SAID HAD NO RIGHT TO PUT CHRIS BROWN’S NAME IN IT, CAUSE SHE HAS A HISTORY OF FIGHTING, REMEMBER “KC” MARYJ.
@ ISC yes I’ve been there but I guess because my husband can bench press 400lbs I’m just not running up on him empty handed. LOL….We’ve been together 16 years and never had a physical altercation..I just never liked whippings even as a child so I keep my hands to my self……..
He may have a CB moment and break my little butt in 2…
Mary is too old for this kind of tom foolery in public. Now, ya’ll know damn well Mary hit Kendu, you can see both head bobbing in the video. No matter how mad you are, you never let a man reduce you to being less than a lady in public. I don’t give a eff what that jigga was doing, you hug him tight, pinch the ish out of him and whisper in his ear that the ish is on when we get home. Mary knows you can not act like this in public without somebody copying a video. Too many people with camera phones, flip camcorders and other techno stuff. Mary can’t preach non-violent and then become a slugger. Now her PR people are trying to do damage control all because she could not keep her hands to herself in public. Violence is violence, whether it’s a slap or a punch, given by a man or woman when the intent is to do bodily harm. Mary does not get a pass on this one.
Kendu, Never did really like him. He pulls her away from her fans and we the ones feedin his azz! We never know what’s really going on behind close doors with them. I don’t condone hitting but o’well, whos perfect. Slapp’em girl, that was yo nite and he disrespect you…..Slapp’em Girl.
Sandra..smh..you’re either AGAINST it or FOR it..u can’t be praising Mary..no matter the severity, she put her hands on him..which was wrong..what if it was him that “barely” touched her? you would be up in arms and callin for his beheading..no one is gonna take u seriously if u co-sign Mary, but hate what Chris did..u just look silly when you contradict yourself..