Report: Fantasia Attempted Suicide

Sandra Rose August 10, 2010

According to a report published on RadarOnline.com, troubled R&B singer Fantasia was rushed to a N. Carolina hosiptal following an attempted suicide, not an accidental overdose.

According to a report filed with the Charlotte-Mecklenburg Police Department, officers responded on Monday evening at 8:43 p.m. to a suicide attempt call at a home on Bevington Place, Charlotte.

Police sources and sources close to the investigation say Barrino was found in the closet of the Glynmoor Lakes neighborhood home and she was taken to Mercy South Hospital at Carolinas Medical Center in Pineville.

Joseph Barrino, Fantasia’s father, told RadarOnline that his daughter was “doing fine.”

Fantasia, who was accused of being a home wrecker by her boyfriend‘s estranged wife, ingested an unknown quantity of medication and suffered “internal injuries” as a result.

Paula Cook, pictured above with one of her children, accused Fantasia of introducing her husband, Antwaun, to a lavish lifestyle that she could not compete with. She also alleged in court papers the existence of illicit recordings of Fantasia and Antwaun having sex. But Cook’s close friends say there are no such tapes.

This latest news follows a pattern of pathological lies and deceit by Fantasia to cover up the glaring truth. In an interview earlier this year, Fantasia denied having a boyfriend or a tattoo of his name — despite the fact that there was existing photographic evidence of both.

Yes, [the rumors] were all really cute to me. I guess it was something about a guy from T-Mobile? Inaccurate. He was hot, but I think I’m looking for my own man. There’s no boo in my life, I’m married to my career. I have no tattoo on my shoulder… As a matter of fact, I’ve never even [met him] before. I think I’d want to be with a guy who’s in the same tax bracket as I am … or higher!

Ebony

The lil boy is cute
kwall

you know what…now i am mad!!! because she tried to bring attention to herself, end her life, or whatever the case may be…whatver this may be about…over a MAN…a married one…when she is a MOTHER first. that is some REAL selfish shat.

i hope everyone is for sweet lil zion for having sucha selfish mother.
SixxTwo

This is getting worse by the minute… They are saying on the news it was Aspirin and Sleeping pills…
Val

OMG

Teeny- come get your sister
jazi65

I feel sorry for the children. The wife didn’t need to stoop to Fantasia’s level when even stevie wonder could see those two were having an affair. She had the upper hand & now possibly blew it with the possible lies & allegations. Both these mothers need Jesus.
http://mobile.twitter.com/iamwonderchick2 LesBinLuv

Can I just say that Antjuan had a gem at home…now he gone sifting through dirt thinking he gon end up with a diamond #suckstobehim

I try to stay out of relationship shat but this is just so wrong on so many levels to me….and this my friends is why I will NEVER marry…and I mean NEVER!!!!!
vwcolourz

this is sad…Fantasia is a mess…she just want to be loved ya’ll…
Val

welp, all I can say is…. phatty rhymes for dimes-
T.Y’z Cha Cha

THIS IS NOT THE NEW POST I WAS WAITING FOR

YOU FEEL BETTER…..ZION NEEDS YOU!
Val

jazi65 says:

I feel sorry for the children. The wife didn’t need to stoop to Fantasia’s level when even stevie wonder could see those two were having an affair. She had the upper hand & now possibly blew it with the possible lies & allegations. Both these mothers need Jesus.

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hopefully lil Zion is not taking notes on moms love life…or if she is, hopefully she’s making a “this is what NOT to do” list.
Ebony

If fantasia tried to attempt suicide, are they going to take her child from her?
Anna

6 LesBinLuv says:

Can I just say that Antjuan had a gem at home…now he gone sifting through dirt thinking he gon end up with a diamond #suckstobehim

I try to stay out of relationship shat but this is just so wrong on so many levels to me….and this my friends is why I will NEVER marry…and I mean NEVER!!!!!
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Marriage is a beautiful thing and not all men cheat.
Eventhough this is the life Fannie has chosen for the past yr. I blame Nancy Grace. She talked about Fannie’s affair on her show last night. It was on from 8-8:40. Fannie was rushed to the hospital at 8:55. Nancy started this media frenzy. Nancy has been know to make ppl kill themselves or OD after being featured on her show.
Val

Hey Auntie… you couldnt find a better picture of fanny?
yellamama

@ jazi65, how on earth is the WIFE “stooping” to any level? This is her husband who Fantasia chose to become involved with. The WIFE handled things legally – filed for divorce and will sure Fantasia for “alienation of affection”. What exactly has the WIFE done wrong in this matter? Fantasi made this bed, told the WIFE to go away, now Fantasia wants to take the coward’s way out. She and the husband both have to own up for their roles in this mess.
militaryspouse1

So let me get this bull ish straight…She was gonna kill herself over dude and leave her CHILD?!?! Im going through some bull now but I would NEVER kill myself and leave my damn kids behind…wow. I hope shes ok but WOW!
Val

Ebony says:

If fantasia tried to attempt suicide, are they going to take her child from her?
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I doubt it.. but we all know its possible.. theyre talking about taking mel gibson’s kid and chit.. its only fair

team savethechildren
kwall

So let me get this bull ish straight…She was gonna kill herself over dude and leave her CHILD?!?! Im going through some bull now but I would NEVER kill myself and leave my damn kids behind…wow. I hope shes ok but WOW!
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girl we are >>>>>>>>>>HERE<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<

a cry for attention is one thing…but mtv is saying she was IN THE CLOSET when she was found! sounds like fanny really mighta been trying to end it. over somebody ELSE husband…i wouldn't leave my kids for my OWN dayum sorry azz estranged husband…let alone somebody elses!

after the wife tried to sue her yesterday…she shoulda sent cook azz back to HIS house…with a note to paula saying "i was just playing…" and carried her azz to a bar someplace…

get well fantasia. get a grip. its gonna be alright. that baby girl NEEDS you….
jazi65

@ jazi65, how on earth is the WIFE “stooping” to any level?

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The wife had the truth on her side. Why throw the sex tape allegation into the mix? Whether it was done out of a wife scorned or for publicity, it was unnecessary.
VIBABY

Bless her stupid heart……
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tKKxPtP6XjQ renegadesince1985

We are people on a blog speculating…we don’t know what’s going on in this woman’s life (besides the relationship). Being in the spotlight can be hard…you hear about celebs cracking under the pressure all the time. Yes the timing would make it seem it was “over antwan” but maybe this was just the straw that broke the camel’s back.
Grownman

If this isn’t a ploy to get Fantasia the much needed publicity she desperately needs, no one is aware of her record release date, then I don’t know what is.
I have a hard time believing that Fantasia is the victim here. She claims she had now prior knowledge of Mr. Cook’s situation at home, yet she went around the world going on vacation with this man, knowing that his wife did everything, but issue an Amber alert , to find this man. Sorry Fantasia, but you knew damn well that your “supposed” boyfriend was not only a dead beat dad, but a womanizer. Unfortunately for you, this joy road caused you a great deal of $$$, because no one is picking up that “Back to me” crap of an album.
T.Y’z Cha Cha

I think at this point she just feels overwhelmed with all of the pressure of the media.

…all this drama over the DACK!

Sandra, shouldnt babies be off limits. He is an innocent party and to young to be pictured.
T.Y’z Cha Cha

renegadesince1985 says:

We are people on a blog speculating…we don’t know what’s going on in this woman’s life (besides the relationship). Being in the spotlight can be hard…you hear about celebs cracking under the pressure all the time. Yes the timing would make it seem it was “over antwan” but maybe this was just the straw that broke the camel’s back.
Grownman

@ANNA,

LMAO @ the Nancy Grace accusations. She give you the stare down and perched lips if she ever read that.
http://mobile.twitter.com/iamwonderchick2 LesBinLuv

@Anna
Thx for the breakdown…wasnt really sure hopw it all went down and all I have to say to that is…

#DamnthatuglyazzNANCYGRACE
yellamama

@ jazi65, how do we know that the wife alledged a sex tape? The only details that I saw confirmed on the news was the transcript of what Fantasia siad when she called the wife last month, “He don’t want you. That’s whay he is here with me, etc…”. Fantasia chose to play, now she has to pay in court – simple.
Wodner what punk Antwaun is doing right about now?
MissGauzzz

@Les… i’m married now, but if something were to happen to my hubby i am DONE!!!! i wouldn’t even remotely consider marrying ANYBODY ever again! my husband is dot dot the END of the line for me!
yellamama

@ Anna, yes, Nancy Grace did go extra hard on Fantasia last night. I watched the show is awe because Nancy only normally discusses missing children, murders, etc..nevr say her spend so much time on adultery…
http://mobile.twitter.com/iamwonderchick2 LesBinLuv

@Gauz
Thank u for feeling me…my friends think I’m crazy but I’d be in jail for umpteen years if I catch a mofo messing with my piece!
MissGauzzz

@Les.. Yep! You don’t know…hard damm time!

Furthermore, it’s easy for folks to say that the wife is wrong for stooping to fantasia’s level etc etc.. however, this dude is/was this woman’s husband! PERIOD! she’s allowed to feel any kind of way she wants to feel. unless you are actually in this position you can’t say what you will or won’t do! i can personally say that if this were my husband i’d be twirling around like my azz was on fire with rage, hurt and disappointment and i wouldn’t give 2 shi.ts what anyone thought about me or my actions!
cedramyers

Sad.
Anna

yellamama says:

@ Anna, yes, Nancy Grace did go extra hard on Fantasia last night. I watched the show is awe because Nancy only normally discusses missing children, murders, etc..nevr say her spend so much time on adultery…
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LOL. I put on my FB wall yesterday. Why is Nancy Grace talking about Fantasia, doesn’t she have some missing kids for us to find.
FYI. I am afraid of Nancy Grace but she is my guilty pleasure.
militaryspouse1

girl we are >>>>>>>>>>HERE<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<

a cry for attention is one thing…but mtv is saying she was IN THE CLOSET when she was found! sounds like fanny really mighta been trying to end it. over somebody ELSE husband…i wouldn't leave my kids for my OWN dayum sorry azz estranged husband…let alone somebody elses!

after the wife tried to sue her yesterday…she shoulda sent cook azz back to HIS house…with a note to paula saying "i was just playing…" and carried her azz to a bar someplace…

get well fantasia. get a grip. its gonna be alright. that baby girl NEEDS you….

Yes we are! Nomatter what she is going through she is a mother first…PERIOD! I pray she gets it together and soon for her and her child
yellamama

@ Anna, Nancy Grace’s show is my gulty pleasure, too. She is like an angry Pomeranian..hehe
Daisy

I am waiting on the update from a friend who knows the wife
shaybytheway

@yellamama

where did you see that transcript?
scorpio

How Horrible! she has a daughter to think about. Poor kid must be scared out of her head right now. Why can’t Fantasia just sing.
militaryspouse1

Hey Daisy
yellamama

@ Shay, one of the legal correspondents held it up on camera during Nancy Grace last night..
scorpio

@MissGauzzz says:

@Les… i’m married now, but if something were to happen to my hubby i am DONE!!!! i wouldn’t even remotely consider marrying ANYBODY ever again! my husband is dot dot the END of the line for me!
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Too many black women think that way. Which is why you can find neighborhoods full of lonely widows. Black Women who never remarry especially if they husbands pass away at young ages.
https://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

Ebony says:

If fantasia tried to attempt suicide, are they going to take her child from her?
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Let’s hope they do. She is not fit to raise a child. She doesn’t need a man or a new album; she needs years of intensive therapy.
T.Y’z Cha Cha

me too Daisy me too
kwall

I am waiting on the update from a friend who knows the wife
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waits with daisy..
https://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

Val says:

Hey Auntie… you couldnt find a better picture of fanny?
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I think that pic fit the circumstances very well, don’t you?
https://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

T.Y’z Cha Cha says:

Sandra, shouldnt babies be off limits. He is an innocent party and to young to be pictured.
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This photo with Cook’s son was posted all over the Internet while Fantasia was galavanting around the country with his daddy. No doubt she saw it, and no doubt she couldn’t care less that she was keeping a man from his child to satisfy her own selfish needs. The fact that she used suicide to gain sympathy for herself (without thinking of her own child) illustrates how pathetic people with personality disorders are. :/
buddapecan

Kwall: You can tell that we are long lost relatives cause you said everything I was thinking!
MissGauzzz

@scorpio… yes there is truth in what you say. i don’t believe the sanctity of marriage exists anymore. relationships period are not respected. my husband is a good dude but he is without a doubt the end of the line for me! folks play too many games with the heart and head! and i can say that i wouldn’t be lonely either! loneliness is a state of mind. before i let ANYBODY take me through a myriad of bullshyt changes, i’ll be by myself for the next 100 years. you cannot put a price on peace of mind. i’m just sayin’…

i feel extremely sorry for fannie’s baby girl. she could possibly be the loser in all this!
T.Y’z Cha Cha

OHHHH SANDRA…BOOOOO. Whatever Sandrita…Your blog, your rules…I just like coming over because the coffee is always hot and the popcorn is alway POPPIN!!
http://myspace.com/mullatos SnootyPooty1

Love yourself first and foremost.. She has a daughter to think about men come a dime a dozen… Its so much easier to tell the truth it takes to much effort to back track and keep track of all your lies I cant stand LIARS…. She was walking around with this man name all on her chest..Still saying she doesnt know him while pictures are floating around on the net with her holding his hand seriously really…….

This is so sad.. I sincerely hope she gets the help she so desperately needs…….
Lovely One

If Fannie felt that bad about cheating with someone else’s hubby, why didn’t she just leave him?! Don’t kill yourself! Fannie needs some self esteem *statement meant in a non-spiteful way*
aqtpie

This is so sad!!!
http://mylifeinthesun782.blogspot.com Ms. Everything

You never know what somebody is going through and we don’t know the full story so why are people still judging.. I’ve said before people will keep talking about the pieces we know on celebs lives and then talk ish if they just up and give up one day smdh

This story is sad and I can’t even talk on it no more. Ebony they won’t take your kids. She may have to go to a hospital if they determine it was more than an emotional spur of the moment thing but unless she put the baby at risk by doing it while she was home in front of her or something they won’t take her
http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#/profile.php?ref=profile&id=1335451522 therapist1911

Do you really think she attempted to commit suicide over a man?

Come on now…we all know her life story. He isn’t the reason necessarily. It’s the media frenzy around it. As strong as people think they are when the world seems as if they have turn their back on you, maybe it became a bit much.

She does need therapy but unfortunately the media will never let her forget this and move on

At the end of the day none of this is worth her life or talent…and ur harsh judgement of her is not making it any better but I guess in your minds it’s okay.

THe same hand people use to lift you up will be the same hand they use to hit you when you down
MissJasmineShanae

Dear Fantasia, I hope he was worth it honey ..! You will most def be in my . NO ONE is worth your pride , dignity or LIFE please get it together if not for yourself or your fans at least for ZION smh .
buddapecan

This really is a shame. I’ve always said that you have to sacrifice something for the price of fame. The money makes you think you’re untouchable and if you don’t have any morals, self esteem or self worth, when the media and fans turn on you…you have a Britney Spears and now Fantasia situation. I really hope she receives the physical and mental help she needs.
Daisy

@therapist Very well said and what up :wave:
aqtpie

Her rep released a statement. Fannie is better than me because I’d take every dime I had out of the bank and burn it before I gave it away!! Her, Zion, Mrs. Cook and her kids are in my prayers!!
http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#/profile.php?ref=profile&id=1335451522 therapist1911

Hey Daisy! thx.
pointhimout

so sad. why was i up this morning watching her videos? it must have been the calm before this dreadful storm. it’s simply not worth it fantasia.
Kaitlyn

Attempted Suicide???:blink:

Tasia was humiliated, ashamed, and embarrassed & didn’t know how to handle the bad press so she “attempted suicide.” IF I am wrong, I do hope that she gets help. But it dosen’t pass the smell test. With that being said, no one is perfect and we all have done things that we are not proud of. I do hope that she gets through this and take this experience as a lesson learned.
Starr

Once again…I hope this isn’t true….

But if it is…..

-She messed with a married man. (My understand is that he n and his wife were not separated, and I can’t believe any woman would believe the bag of ish he was selling. She was just taken his word for it.)
-She denies this relationship…when she n dude were every where. Even saying she didn’t know him
-Wifey lists her in court papers. Press gets a hold of it, and She responds by ALLEGEDLY attempting sucide…leaving her own child parentless. :smh:

Wow….so much going on here.
https://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

Here’s what I think happened. I could be wrong, but I think ole boy realized the jig was up and he was about to lose his wife and kids (or maybe just his kids since he probably didn’t care about her anyway). So he told Fantasia he was out, and she couldn’t take the rejection. So she swallowed just enough pills to make her sick, as a way of getting him to come running back to her. I’m sure she’s done this before.
flsun99

I don’t think this was just about him. Did you all watch the show? That girl was stressed out by her family and her life. I think she just broke under pressure. I’m not saying its right, I just think it’s so much deeper than a man.
Al-Ameera

Her manager has released a statement to TMZ which claims she was completely overwhelmed by the recent lawsuit filed by Antwaun Cook’s wife and all of the media attention surrounding her relationship. Below is the statement:

Fantasia has always been an open book. Honesty, self-respect, and personal responsibility are values she wears proudly.

Fantasia believed Mr. Cook when he told her he was not happy in his marriage and his heart was not in it. She believed him when he told her he and Mrs. Cook separated in the late summer of 2009. She believed Mr. Cook when he told her he lived elsewhere.

He even took her there. One of Mr. Cook’s most redeeming qualities was his complete devotion to his children. Fantasia fell in love with Mr. Cook and believed that he loved her.

Fantasia and Mr. Cook dated on and off for about eleven months. The pressure of the constant media attention was hard on their relationship. Fantasia gave inconsistent interviews about the status of her relationship with Mr. Cook because sometimes they were on and sometimes they were off.

When they were on, they spent most of their time together when she was not traveling with work.
Fantasia read Mrs. Cook’s Complaint against Mr. Cook for the first time yesterday. She knows some of the allegations in Mrs. Cook’s complaint are totally false. There are others she strongly doubts. There is plenty she does not know.

Fantasia is heartbroken and is sorry for any pain she may have caused.

Yesterday, she was totally overwhelmed by the lawsuit and the media attention. Last night, Fantasia was hospitalized. She took an overdose of aspirin and a sleep aid.

Her injuries are not life threatening. She was dehydrated and exhausted at the time. Fantasia is stable now. She will be released from the hospital soon. Fantasia is a fighter and a survivor. This is not the hardest thing Fantasia has endured.

Fantasia will be stronger, smarter, and better for it. Her work has always inspired her and served as a source of strength. Her new album, “Back To Me,” will be released on August 24th.

The lyrics to “I’m Here” say it best:
“I Believe I Have Inside Of Me
Everything That I Need To Live A Bountiful Life
With All The Love Inside Of Me
I’ll Stand As Tall As The Tallest Tree
And I’m Thankful For Each Day That I’m Given
Both The Easy And The Hard Ones I’m Livin’
But Most Of All
Yes, I’m Thankful For Lovin’ Who I Really Am”

Fantasia sends her praise to God and her eternal gratitude to her fans, friends, and family.

God is good.
Anna

@ Al-Ameera. Not being rude but is that statement listing the realease date of her new CD suppose to make me want to go out and buy it? Being she did not kill herself why wouldn’t the release of her CD not happen or was it just a FYI?
dopedillema

i dont believe this guy had any intention of leaving his wife. just enjoying the spoils…the mainstream media chose to depict fantasia in such a negative light. but, angelina jolie can do no wrong. alicia keys never received such negativity from the mainstream media. why fantasia???
https://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

Anna says:

@ Al-Ameera. Not being rude but is that statement listing the realease date of her new CD suppose to make me want to go out and buy it? Being she did not kill herself why wouldn’t the release of her CD not happen or was it just a FYI?
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That’s why I didn’t post that BS. First, it is full of lies, and then he added her album release date at the end to make sure you run out ad buy her album. I’m surprised he didn’t mention the premiere of her reality show next month. It’s just ridiculous how tacky these industry people can be.
Anna

dopedillema says:

i dont believe this guy had any intention of leaving his wife. just enjoying the spoils…the mainstream media chose to depict fantasia in such a negative light. but, angelina jolie can do no wrong. alicia keys never received such negativity from the mainstream media. why fantasia???

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Fantasia got a once in a life time beautiful break w/ American Idol, she chose to take care of grown able bodied ppl. She was uneducated, a teen mom and a black woman who is no LSLH. It was rumore she had a mllion dollar home in foreclosure. Ppl are tired of others getting a break and not knowing what to do with it. She was parading around the world w/another womens husband and acting like she didn’t have a care in the world. Yes her voice is Angelic and it was we the viewers who voted her in. Maybe some are just disappointed. I too don’t think he had any intention of leaving his family, it really is cheaper to keep em and he works at T moble. Not sure how much he mades but two incomes are needed. He used her and she is still young and fell for it. AK gets a pass because of who she is, Swizz gets to piggy back off her fame, talent,and check book. Paying child support for 4 kids is expensive. Maybe it’s a Whitney, Bobby arrangement. Wasn’t Whit paying Bobbbbbbyyyyyy’s child support? LOL.
Al-Ameera

@ Anna, I didn’t write it. I just thought it was an interesting statement so I thought I’d share.
Zephyr1979

The saddest thing to me is that she wasn’t able to rise above it and move on. With all the struggles she had to endure in her life this should have been a breeze for her to deal with. But then again “love” makes you do some strange things and you really can’t swear until in a situation yourself. I hope she is well and takes the time to evaluate her life, who she is now, and where she needs to be. Maybe this was a wake-up call for her.
Anna

Al-Ameera says:

@ Anna, I didn’t write it. I just thought it was an interesting statement so I thought I’d share.

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I know you didn’t write it. I was just asking a question back at you since you posted it.
Anna

Zephyr1979 says:

The saddest thing to me is that she wasn’t able to rise above it and move on. With all the struggles she had to endure in her life this should have been a breeze for her to deal with. But then again “love” makes you do some strange things and you really can’t swear until in a situation yourself. I hope she is well and takes the time to evaluate her life, who she is now, and where she needs to be. Maybe this was a wake-up call for her.
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Everyone has a breaking point, maybe this will be her wake-up call. Not a bad thing, life happens. I just wish she would get grown azz family off her payroll. It has to be a burden to be the bread winner for so many ppl. Is the price of fame worth it? I’ll keep my 9-5 for my privacy for $500 Alex. LOL. I just sold myself for 500.
http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

I am watching to see how Gabrielle Union’s, Alicia Keys’ and Fantasia’s careers are impacted by their involvement with married men.

It is clear their adulterous snake boyfriends’ (and now husband in the case of Miss Swiss Keys) careers have not been negatively impacted thus far, especially Dewayne Wade’s.
intensemocha

I GUESS SOME OF YOU WOULD BE SATISFIED IF OLE GIRL HAD DIED-I GUESS THAT WOULD SERVE HER RIGHT MESSING WITH “SOMEONE’S HUUSSSBAAAAAND”

FANTASIA IS DEAD AZZ WRONG IF THE REPORTS ARE TRUE-OBVIOUSLY THIS WOMAN IS SUFFEREING FROM LOW SELF-ESTEEM AND HOLDS VERY LITTLE VALUE FOR HERSELF TO HOLD HERSELF TO SUCH LOW STANDARDS AND INVOLVE HERSELF WITH A MAN WHOSE NOT SINGLE/NOR AVAILABLE AND ALREADY HAS A WIFE AND FAMILY

BUT WE ALL KNOW THAT NONE OF YOU REALLY CARE ABOUT THIS WOMAN’S WELL-BEING, JUST THAT SHE GETS WHAT “YOU ALL” THINK SHE HAS COMING TO HER SO THAT YOU ALL FEEL VENGEANCE FOR WHATEVER WOMAN WHOSE SLEPT OR STOLEN YOUR MAN

I PRAY SHE GETS THE HELP SHE NEEDS-BECAUSE THERE IS NOT MUCH DIFFERENCE BETWEEN HER AND MANY OF THE WOMAN ON THIS BLOG-A MAN DEFINES MANY OF YOU AND HAVING ONE IS AN ACCOMPLISHMENT THAT YOU HOLD OVER OTHER WOMENS HEADS BECAUSE YOU FEEL SO THREATENED THAT SOMEONE’S GONNA STEAL HIM FROM YA-LOL

A REAL WOMAN HAS NOTHING TO FEAR, IF YOUR MAN LOVES YOU HE AINT GOING NO DAMN WHERE AND HE DAMN SURE WON’T SHAME YOU FOR THE WHOLE WORLD TO SEE FOR A CHICK HE VIEWS AS A SPERM DEPOSITORY-IF HE DOES HE’S A SCROUNDEL AND LOOKS BETTER GONE!!!!!!AND GUESS WHAT YOU CHOSE THE WROND DAMN MAN-TAKE A LOOK IN THE MIRROR AND MAKE BETTER CHOICES-ACCEPT RESPONSIBILITY AND STOP LOOKING FOR SOMEONE TO BLAME-HENCE THE OTHER WOMAN SHE’S JUST A SYMPTOM TO A MUCH BIGGER PROBLEM:)

TOODLES-WEDDING THIS WEEKEND!
Anna

:waving: Hey AM.
73 attorneymom says:

I am watching to see how Gabrielle Union’s, Alicia Keys’ and Fantasia’s careers are impacted by their involvement with married men.

It is clear their adulterous snake boyfriends’ (and now husband in the case of Miss Swiss Keys) careers have not been negatively impacted thus far, especially Dewayne Wade’s.
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Mainstream media does not want anything but to broadcat black marriages/couples in scandles and the out come is much worse than ppl like : Charlie Sheen is a butt whole and will get a divorce. Larry King has been having an affair with his wife’s sister for over 5 yrs. Mel Gibson is a equal oppournity racist. You don’t see them ODing. Fannie was not ready for “fame” and all the hoopla that follows. It’s ok, most of us would not be able to handle what she is going through. Her dad only saw her as a “meal ticket”. A girls firs hero, love, Prince is usually her daddy. As most females we don’t get that, and for your dad to want to revisit because you have $$$ has to be hard, thus making her not care if she took/stole/spent time with someones elses husband.
Anna

Nice to see you pop in “Intense”. Enjoy your wedding day. Congrats. My daughters is next month and I got fitted and purcshaed My Mother Of The Brides Dress” two weeks ago. It was a sacrifice on my part. My daughter lives 1 hr. away and when I got to her house the bridal shop was 20 minutes from her house. “Ouch”. The things we do for love.
Patrice_O

Mr. Cook and his estranged wife will end up with a nice settlement courtesy of Miss Fantasia. Next time she will think twice about messing with a married man.
Zephyr1979

@Anna

In the beginning she may have felt pressured to help them out or perhaps she just has a good heart and wanted to help them when she got famous and had some cash. I think the stress of that may have even contributed to her breakdown. Like I said I hope she is able to rise above all this and focus on her child and her career. She just may realize what her purpose is now.

SN: I use that line from Jeopardy all the time too
http://myspace.com/mullatos SnootyPooty1

Congrats again intense… Enjoy
free

bottom line, fanny’s attorneys got hold of the divorce papers just like the news media and spelled out how much money this dyck was gonna cost her.

what i don’t like about this so called ‘alienation of affection’ is that it reinforces the (erroneous) belief that (1) some random woman can make her husband leave her and (2) transfers the responsibility from the husband to the jumpoff.

unfortunately, when this is all said and done, the wife is gonna take that t-mobile cheating dummy back (cause she wants him to be w/his son) and he’ll be on to the next broad. poor fanny, well, it is what it is.
free

MissGauzzz says: you cannot put a price on peace of mind. i’m just sayin’…

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true. i don’t people ever fully recover from infidelity. they just get back together to “prove” something to other people or themselves.
free

CONGRATS INTENSE AND I HOPE EVERYTHING GOES EXACTLY AS PLANNED AND YOU HAVE YOUR DREAM WEDDING! THEN YOU WILL HAVE JOINED THE “WIFE CLUB” AND CAN SPEAK FROM A WIFE’S PERSPECTIVE!
http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

Nice to see you “INTENSE”…Wishing you all the best on your wedding day this weekend. Marriage can be such a wonderful thing….

Regarding this post, my heart just breaks hearing about this story. And reading the statement Fantasia’s manager prepared was just….Ugh! I’m at a loss for words. I’ll simply pray Fantasia feels better and takes the time out to re-evaluate what’s most important to her- her daughter and her life.
http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

free says:
“what i don’t like about this so called ‘alienation of affection’ is that it reinforces the (erroneous) belief that (1) some random woman can make her husband leave her and (2) transfers the responsibility from the husband to the jumpoff.”
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Pardon my random thoughts….

I’m in agreement with this statement however if one willingly decides to “get their eagle on” with someone you know full well has a spouse, you should be held accountable for that decision or any consequences there after. You gotta pay to play… pay the piper…etc. When you allow yourself to get into situations that aren’t necessarily good for you, backlash from your peers as well as the media are soon to follow especially if you are in the entertainment industry. Unfortunately, that’s the price you pay for fame and fortune.

When it comes to a celebrity’s life, the public shouldn’t have an opinion on who you’re sleeping with or who you’re dating but the fact of the matter is your fans and peers will judge you no matter what you do. Fantasia can give millions of dollars to charity and someone will complain you should’ve given of your time vs. you money or you could have given more money because what you donated wasn’t enough! The hell?Case in point, the Wyclef/Sean Penn beef and the comments made about TI/Tiny and the charity contributions they made. Bottom line, if you’re a celebrity; you’ll be damned if you do, damned if you don’t. People will talk regardless. All I’m saying is DON’T give them something to talk about. And she’s given PLENTY for people to talk about. How can your fans support this?
http://myspace.com/thegameoncw Bird

How on earth did low rent Fantasia wind up with a better PR team than Michael Jackson 2.0 aka Chris Brown? This whole thing is genious. Tasia wanted to brag about her new man hence the tat and public displays of affection. But clearly her team tapped her on the shoulder hence the denials. Now they’re like “you ain’t no damn Alicia Keys, if you want a career you have to address this. You got an album coming out and we want our money b*tch. Here, take a few of these damn pills while we work on this statement blaming it on ole boy.” The statement was EXCELLENT and the fake suicide attempt done cut the homewrecker comments in half. People actually feel sorry for her. Good job Team Tasia. Very good job.
Jessie

@Intense Mocha:

Girl if you type another message in all CAPS, I’m going to scream. Don’t you know simple etiquette? No typing in all caps!!!!
http://myspace.com/thegameoncw Bird

Congrats Intense! I wish you could post a video of the soldier that could tame your militant butt!
http://myspace.com/thegameoncw Bird

Jessie,

You obbviously don’t know Intense. She has been blowing up blogs in all caps for years.
http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

Congrats on your upcoming nuptials. I thought you were married last month. Anyways, I pray that you and your new husband do not cheat on each other. Remember, thou shall not commit adultery.
BROWNSUGAPOET

I know first hand about suicide so I’m sure this was probably just the straw that broke the camel’s back and i wouldn’t wish this on anyone and I agree she needs some serious therapy. I was just in a meeting yesterday about suicide and fortunately in a lot of sleep aids now there’s some type of chemical they put in them to where if you do try to OD it won’t kill you.

Unless any of you have tried to commit suicide you have no idea what emotional pain that person is feeling because it’s a permanent solution to a temporary problem and apparently they feel that’s their only way out and they feel like all their problems would go away and their family wouldn’t have to deal with it when in reality the family is left to pick up the pieces and deal with a lifetime of pain
free

free says:
“what i don’t like about this so called ‘alienation of affection’ is that it reinforces the (erroneous) belief that (1) some random woman can make her husband leave her and (2) transfers the responsibility from the husband to the jumpoff.”
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yvonne79 says: Pardon my random thoughts….

I’m in agreement with this statement however if one willingly decides to “get their eagle on” with someone you know full well has a spouse, you should be held accountable for that decision or any consequences there after.
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yeah but that chick didn’t marry fanny. i see all the time women who blame the female and then get right back with their cheating *ss husband like nothing happened. and they walk around PROUD about it like “i won this battle” and i’m like, what??? then they have another baby, smh.

i just believe that a marriage is between TWO people, not three. fanny doesn’t make decisions in their household. this dude is NOT going to stop; this is probably a joke to him. and the more i think about it, the more i think he did just use fanny’s dumb *ss. it just so happened that fanny got a lil change so the wife is gonna come up but, in everyday life, we as women have got to hold our men accountable. he should be forced to pay half of any judgement on fanny in addition to his child support and alimony cause he’s the one that alienated his family.
MOUTH

I totally agree with Fantasia’s publicist statement at the end that GOD is good, in fact GOD is great, and at the end of the day with all the faith she portrays to have that is whom she should have turned to before sleeping with a married man, and before taking anything in an attempt to take the her life the life that GOD gave her, and most importantly she should have put her child first heck with a man their like water they drift down stream but honey the water is always flowing. GOD BLESS her she is clearly unstable and needs help. GIRL
lakercrazy

BROWNSUGAPOET says:

I know first hand about suicide so I’m sure this was probably just the straw that broke the camel’s back and i wouldn’t wish this on anyone and I agree she needs some serious therapy. I was just in a meeting yesterday about suicide and fortunately in a lot of sleep aids now there’s some type of chemical they put in them to where if you do try to OD it won’t kill you.

Unless any of you have tried to commit suicide you have no idea what emotional pain that person is feeling because it’s a permanent solution to a temporary problem and apparently they feel that’s their only way out and they feel like all their problems would go away and their family wouldn’t have to deal with it when in reality the family is left to pick up the pieces and deal with a lifetime of pain
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some times a part of u thinks that ur fam and friends would be better without you not realizing that you would only end up hurting them
free

Bird says: The statement was EXCELLENT and the fake suicide attempt done cut the homewrecker comments in half. People actually feel sorry for her. Good job Team Tasia. Very good job.

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bird you have to admit that fanny is a few eggs short of a dozen. i don’t believe she actually tried to commit suicide but i do believe she did attempt to sedate herself. like i think anna said, she’s uneducated, her family is not one of those strong types, her decision-making is marginal at best, and her career is on the brink.

being a jumpoff is so common these days that i think it’s the financial issue that she cares about more than publicity. she’s been kicking it with dude forever.
lakercrazy

one thing i hate is a female all up on the other woman what does this woman owe you??? did she marry you?? does she have children with you?? did that women promise you faithfullnss infront of god???? NO so who the hell u need to be talking to is ur dam cheating husband that owes you at least respect the bish dont know u and dont give a fluck a bout u #notostupidbishes
http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

free says:

free says:
“what i don’t like about this so called ‘alienation of affection’ is that it reinforces the (erroneous) belief that (1) some random woman can make her husband leave her and (2) transfers the responsibility from the husband to the jumpoff.”
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yvonne79 says: Pardon my random thoughts….

I’m in agreement with this statement however if one willingly decides to “get their eagle on” with someone you know full well has a spouse, you should be held accountable for that decision or any consequences there after.
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yeah but that chick didn’t marry fanny. i see all the time women who blame the female and then get right back with their cheating *ss husband like nothing happened. and they walk around PROUD about it like “i won this battle” and i’m like, what??? then they have another baby, smh.

i just believe that a marriage is between TWO people, not three. fanny doesn’t make decisions in their household. this dude is NOT going to stop; this is probably a joke to him. and the more i think about it, the more i think he did just use fanny’s dumb *ss. it just so happened that fanny got a lil change so the wife is gonna come up but, in everyday life, we as women have got to hold our men accountable. he should be forced to pay half of any judgement on fanny in addition to his child support and alimony cause he’s the one that alienated his family.
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Maybe my comment wasn’t clear. For the record, I wholeheartedly agree the wife’s business is not with the mistress- it’s with her husband. Her husband is the person who took the vows to love, honor and cherish, etc. What I’m saying is don’t be surprised when the wife tries to get at you or wants to sue you. When you open Pandora’s box, you shouldn’t at all be surprised at what pops out that mofo is all I’m saying.
aqtpie

@IM – Still the same. Anyway I pray all goes well on your beautiful, blessed wedding day and that you’ll have a fun and safe trip to the Bahamas next month!!
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I’m with you Free, more than likely she’d take him back, hell it’s taken an ENTIRE year for her to even file for divorce from that cheating a-hole who obviously didn’t give a damn about her, his marriage or their kids. Married cheaters have morality when it comes to lying? I think not, I have no doubt that the cheating liar told that girl that he and his wife were not together and that he did take her somewhere where he claimed he lived. He even took her all around town as if to say, “See, if my wife and I weren’t separated would I be all in the open like this with you”? That or he really was telling the truth and was really done with his marriage and indeed had left his wife and lived somewhere else. For me, it still doesn’t take away the fact that he was still LEGALLY married though!!
http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#/profile.php?ref=profile&id=1335451522 therapist1911

All these speculations! Its a shame. This is a classic example of some body getting pieces of a story and running with it.
EssenceofU

Wow, wow, wow!!!! The former wive’s of Antwan, Swizz, Dwayne W, Brad P., etc. should stand up and say THANK YOU to the women who now have their former mates! I won’t say took their men, cause you can’t take a grown azz man nowhere, unless he surrenders wholeheartedly! They should all be thankful and look forward to that better place they are going to be in when their hearts stop hurting. I know I am!!!!!!

I am praying for Tasia’s swift recovery of heart and mind for lil’ Zion’s sake. And I WILL be buying her album when it drops! Love her music.
lexdiamonz

Free says:yeah but that chick didn’t marry fanny. i see all the time women who blame the female and then get right back with their cheating *ss husband like nothing happened. and they walk around PROUD about it like “i won this battle” and i’m like, what??? then they have another baby, smh.

i just believe that a marriage is between TWO people, not three. fanny doesn’t make decisions in their household. this dude is NOT going to stop; this is probably a joke to him. and the more i think about it, the more i think he did just use fanny’s dumb *ss. it just so happened that fanny got a lil change so the wife is gonna come up but, in everyday life, we as women have got to hold our men accountable. he should be forced to pay half of any judgement on fanny in addition to his child support and alimony cause he’s the one that alienated his family.

nobody can “wreck” what is already TORE UP like my granny always says u can’t taken nothing that dont wanna be took
Krysi J

OOOOOoooooooooOOooh Sandra……u made Fanny attempt suicide

Fantasia betta get it together, snap outta dat shyt girl…its done now, what it iz everybody likes to use as an excuse…ummm…oh yea, we’re only human.

“Close your legs to married men” -NeNe Leaks
aqtpie

EssenceofU says:
Wow, wow, wow!!!! The former wive’s of Antwan, Swizz, Dwayne W, Brad P., etc. should stand up and say THANK YOU to the women who now have their former mates! I won’t say took their men, cause you can’t take a grown azz man nowhere, unless he surrenders wholeheartedly! They should all be thankful and look forward to that better place they are going to be in when their hearts stop hurting. I know I am!!!!!!
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Krysi J

I’m honestly starting to think, that after a year of this crap…Fantasia has officially been “Kevin Federline-D”. She fell for that shyt….smh

still tryna stay in that country state of mind with all that success….no ma’am.
Ace

Wtf would make a man leave a sexy little gem like that…

Barrino better check her self…those Alienation of Affection laws aint no joke…
MS.G

Okay…u know what…after reading everything yesterday seeing this on the news…i’m mad…i was taking up for this chick and she disappointed me! Fantasia…over a man…in the closet! WTH…but that’s were all the skeletons are! I pray for her daughter…
http://talkingwithtami.com/blog talkingwithtami

#PINKASSNESS at its Finest! Karma is real!
http://mylifeinthesun782.blogspot.com Ms. Everything

I came back in just to read and settle my nerves before I have to go to the hospital and just wanted to say CONGRATS!! To Intense. Marriage is a beautiful thing and I’m sure you two will be blessed with a life of happiness, love and mutual respect. Enjoy your day and everything you said

And @Laker and Brown. Especially Brown, hopefully people will read and understand what you wrote

And I still will defend her cause the entire story is not yet out and either way what she did is between those three and God she did not deserve to have the entire nation go in on her over this. Even if she did lie about the rumors and knowing him, I can’t be mad cause she doesn’t owe my shyt especially when it comes to who she’s doing. That’s her coochie not mine or any of ours so why did she owe any answer to any of us. I’m praying for her though
cheeks8683

I hope its not true what I heard that she got on the phone with the wife telling her she needs to learn how to keep her husbend…I really hope the small pea of a brain of hers kept her from participating in such foolishness…then I remember who we are talking about. Again, she needs new people. I can’t believe that she would get herself involved in all this when she already has 7 mouths to feed, now 8 with cook in the house…smh, smh, sm dang h!!!!
ajonesy

why do people assume that just because the wife is suing fanny that the husband has no repercussions?

its should be a given that wife will be fighting for alimony, child support and custody from the husband.

cmon people.

u support suing any party that was involved.

#teamwifey
ajonesy

*i support
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

God Bless Fannie’s heart but this was so ignorant, neglectful, selfish, and desperate of her-she is not in love with Cook she is in lust and she does not love her daughter cuz that should’ve been the face she was seeing while downing her pills not the effn lawsuit. Fantasia is not even Cook’s type look at the woman he chose to marry…but Fannie didn’t see things like that which is why all this blew up in her face. The outright lies the boldness of carrying on with a married man all the while this mother/wife and her son are left out in the cold. Her toddler’s world turned upside down becuz Tasia wanted a married man- a toddler who could’ve very well spent plenty of afternoons watching his mother cry-I’m not concerned about Tasia pain she has caused a lot of suffering to innocent ppl and was a nasty azz heffa about it also…all the while praising GOD – GOD DON’T LIKE UGLY!
mirsmommy

Fanny, you need to think of your baby girl!!!!! She needs you most of all. I think all of the media coverage, prolly broke her down, and she saw an “easy way out.” I that she gets better, stronger, builds up her self-esteem, and get the help that she needs.

On another note, the wife shoulda put her foot all in her husband’s azz for this sh!t, and left Fanny out of it. But if she was “taunting” this man’s wife and saying the things that she was supposedly saying to her, then the wife shoulda sued her azz. :/
ajonesy

free says:

MissGauzzz says: you cannot put a price on peace of mind. i’m just sayin’…

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true. i don’t people ever fully recover from infidelity. they just get back together to “prove” something to other people or themselves.

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while i’ll agree people ever fully recover from infidelity. they dont always get back together just to prove something.

maybe they had issues, maybe they worked them out and maybe they really loved each other.

not that i condone cheating or anything. i’m just saying. doing anything to prove a point is … well … pointless and never works out in the long run.
Krysi J

Like I said…if you were fukking a celebrity, and you were married carring on all improper-ISH, and shyt….and the celebrity had the nerve to give a statement like this in reference to you:

“Yes, [the rumors] were all really cute to me. I guess it was something about a guy from T-Mobile? Inaccurate. He was hot, but I think I’m looking for my own man. There’s no boo in my life, I’m married to my career. I have no tattoo on my shoulder… As a matter of fact, I’ve never even [met him] before. I think I’d want to be with a guy who’s in the same tax bracket as I am … or higher!”

I’d set up a camcorder in an undisclosed location and tape a sex scene as evidence against her azz too then go right back home and try to use it as an excuse for cheating in the first place, and plot some more shyt against her azz……tax bracket dat bytch!
intensemocha

THANKS & CONGRATS TO EVERYONE

ESPECIALLY BYRD-LOL TOO FUNNY I AM A LITTLE MILITANT AINT I BUT MY BOO HAVE ME PURRRING LIKE A KITTEN-HE LIKES THAT I SPEAK MY MIND WE HAVE PLAYFUL DEBATES ALL THE TIME AT THE END OF THE DAY I’M THE WOMAN AND HE’S THE MAN! I USE MY FEMININE POWERS TO GET MY WAYS-JUST LIKE MY MAMA-MAKE A MAN THINKS HE’S RUNNING SHIAT WHILE YOU PULL ALL THE STRINGS, I LOVE STROKING MY BIG DADDY’S EGO AND IN RETURN HE TREATS ME LIKE A QUEEN

AND LOL IN REGARDS TO NOW I CAN SPEAK FROM A WIFE’S PERSPECTIVE-ALL WIVES DON’T THINK ALIKE, I DAMN SURE AINT GONNA BE NO NICCAS FOOL-BEAT A NICCA AZZ DOWN AND I GUARANTEE YOU THAT JUMP OFF WILL HAUL AZZ

BUT I DIGRESS, THANK GOD I DON’T HAVE THOSE PROBLEMS-BUT NEVER SAY NEVER YOU DON’T KNOW WHAT THE FUTURE HOLDS-THAT’S EXACTLY WHY I DON’T GLORIFY AND PRAISE MAN-ONLY GOD CAUSE HE’S ALWAYS GOING TO BE THERE FOR ME

ATTORNEYMOM MY WEDDING DATE HAS ALWAYS BEEN 8/14/10-B00-BOO
Lemondrop

@ Intense……and why am I excited like Im gonna be sittin up at the weddin? LOL congrats girl. I love to see people come together.
intensemocha

THX LEMONDROP-TO ME IT’S A NORMAL RESPONSE FOR NON-ENVIOUS AND HAPPY PEOPLE TO BE GENUINELY HAPPY FOR OTHERS