Mary Harvey became the talk of the blogosphere earlier this week after videos hit the Internet revealing her utter disdain for her ex-husband, comedian and noted author Steve Harvey, who dumped her for his mistress.
As you know, Harvey, 54, eventually married his much younger mistress, the former Marjorie Bridges, who has kept herself busy transforming her image from a home wrecker into a somewhat respectable Atlanta socialite.
What Marjorie should know is how she met Steve will be how she loses him. In the video, the former Mary Shackelford, rambles on about how she met Steve in 1986 when he walked into her place of business and introduced himself.
She goes into great detail about their first meeting as if to convince herself (and you) that it was a storybook romance that was meant to be.
But in reality, you can see from the above pictures what attracted Harvey to Mary in the first place. You don’t even have to know Steve Harvey personally to see that he’s a very superficial man who focuses on visual imagery, such as big breasted women. Men like Harvey (narcissists) require the constant approval of their peers (other superficial men).
Therefore, such a man loves a woman based on the compliments, praise and other positive feedback he gets from his environment.
Once those compliments and praises end, the man turns to a much younger, prettier version of his wife, which in this case is Marjorie.
But I don’t feel sorry for Mary. Any woman who uses her artificial body parts to snag a superficial man is no better than he is. Just know that if you get breast implants to please a man, the bond between you and him will be tenuous at best, and the bond is bound to snap as soon as you get old and that next big breasted woman comes along.
You will eventually end up like Mary Harvey — lonely, insecure and reminiscing on YouTube about love long lost.
