It is well-known that R&B crooner Usher Raymond is a classic example of a man who still struggles with Oedipus Complex. OC focuses on a boy’s desire to sexually control his mother. Most boys who fall in love with their mothers quickly outgrow that juvenile stage and transfer their sexual urgings to girls in their peer group. But Usher’s mother dominated him so completely when he was growing up that he was never able to get past that stage.

According to the NY Post’s gossip machine, Page SIX, Usher’s lover of 2 years, Grace Miguel, the former head of creative development at Island Def Jam, is exerting even more control over Usher than Tameka did.

Usher’s gal pal, Grace Miguel, is now calling all the shots in their relationship, sources tell Page Six.
The 43-year-old former Def Jam executive who acts as the hip-hop artist’s co-manager and stylist is urging her beau to clear out his staff including stylists, choreographers and tour managers and replace them with her people, an insider says.

Usher’s longtime agent, Mark Cheatham of CAA, is the first victim of his much older girlfriend. Cheatham was tight-lipped when we contacted him. “I don’t know anything about it. I’ve been with Usher for a long time,” he told us. “I’ve been on great terms with Usher. Talk to my publicist.”

A CAA publicist never got back to us, but Usher is no longer listed on their client list.
A source close to Cheatham tells us, “Mark is really upset. He’s been with him from the beginning. He thinks Usher will come back, He’s just waiting.”