According to E! Online, troubled musician Kanye West gave the media the silent treatment as he walked the red carpet at the CDFA Fashion Awards yesterday. He told reporters multiple times that he wasn’t answering any questions and he barely made eye contact with the press.
In addition to not speaking to the media since after his album dropped (and flopped), Kanye hasn’t updated his Twitter account in months.
This silent treatment behavior by a narcissist is known as ‘mental murder’ because, in a sense, you are dead to them.
The silent treatment is one of the tools in the narcissist’s sinister arsenal. It is the ultimate rejection. In the narcissist’s arsenal, the silent treatment is a form of mental abuse.
When someone you love deeply gives you the silent treatment, the pain can be especially intense. The narcissist can ignore you for days, weeks, or even years. The narcissist usually ignores you until you apologize to them — even though they were the cause of the conflict in the first place!
This is why the behavior is so abusive because the narcissist knows that no healthy person would apologize for something they didn’t do. In this way they prey on your weakness and break down your defenses.
If you find yourself in a relationship with anyone who gives you the silent treatment for longer than 8 hours, please RUN!
Even if you think they are just upset with you — no one, not even children, will stay angry or hold a grudge for that long. Healthy individuals get over it and move on, or they seek to resolve the conflict.
The best way to deal with a narcissist who attempts to ‘mentally murder’ you by using the silent treatment is to pack your things and LEAVE. Cease all contact with him/her. Don’t try to beat him or her at their own game because you can’t win. Just leave with your dignity and your self esteem intact.
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I had an ex who was a serious narcissist and he displayed ALL the behaviors you post about…
Kanye is getting more and more weird by the millisecond
and those shoes without socks are killing me softly
Y the eff would he walk the carpet if he didnt want to speak to the media?
In other news, he looks cute here
SN: I do not like those shoes!!
CertifiedSexy says:
He just wants some attention!
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I agree
My joint get the silent treatment for weeks on in…and she’s a proven narcissit…you can’t expect me to believe I’m one too….
@Fox
Only if that person was someone close to you (i.e. lives with you) and/or they were attempting to talk to you for the entire duration…
I actually like the shoes…but I liked them better when Nino Brown wore them with a silk, hammer-pants suit!
@Les
There goes that rolled up sleeve Miami vice look that Auntie loves so much
I’d say, the look.. its coming back 
FoxE says:
SN: I do not like those shoes!!
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Fox….Ima let you finish.. but those velvet Chinese moccasins are the best damn shoes of all times…. OF ALL TIME!!! (drops mic)
I hold grudges
@Eb
Lol, I hold grudges too, big time…but if someone is attempting to talk to me or get my attention I will not ignore them…granted, I may still hold the negative sentiment, but ignoring someone is just plain flat out mean and ignorant…
Kanye’s actions are just a result of people taking EVERYTHING this man says and flipping to fit their own stories.
I don’t blame him one bit. Everytime he does and interview or tweets something it becomes national news and is blown out of propotion. The man can’t sneeze without someone saying something negative.
Like momma always said if you can’t say something nice don’t say anything at all
#TeamKanye
those look like velvet chinese slippers…maybe he realizes how much of a
that look is n thats why hes not talkin
I guess his Twitter followers are dead to him
<——– Kanye Shrug
*biting nails*
Is there a website where i can take a quiz to see if I’m a “narcissist”?
I ignore people when they piss me off. I feel like they are not worth my energy of an argument or anything for that matter.
say what you will about Kanye but I am a fan and love his music. Would I still feel the same if I met him and he shaded me
but until then I fux with Ye’
Honey
apparently I’m a narcissist too so welcome to the family
OHoney says:
*biting nails*
Is there a website where i can take a quiz to see if I’m a “narcissist”?
I ignore people when they piss me off. I feel like they are not worth my energy of an argument or anything for that matter.
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I think youre fine..Sandra mentioned that nobody did anything to Kanye.. he’s just mad for no reason and feels the media should “pay”
Maybe Ye is tired of talking to people that will throw his words back in his face regardless of what he says.
For years people been telling Ye to shut up and now that he has, they still got something to say. Good grief!
Who was the blck cop on Miami Vice Crockett or Tubbs?
FeFe
#manandignorant
Tubbs
Mamacita says:
Kanye’s actions are just a result of people taking EVERYTHING this man says and flipping to fit their own stories.
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And honestly, I’d probably do the same thing
I hate his shoes
<— TUBS
Narcissistic Personality Disorder – An individual with this disorder is in love with himself/herself, and has little positive regard for others other than in a superficial manner. They tend to be grandiose in how they present themselves, and tend to demand admiration from others.They believe they are special and deserve special treatment, regardless of the problems this creates for others. They readily take advantage of others, and tend to be quite arrogant. In actuality, they are very sensitive, and tend to not be able to tolerate any criticism or negative feedback. They usually seek treatment because they are frustrated in getting what they want. However, they often do not seek treatment, because they perceive everyone else as causing the problems, not themselves.
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Yall know anybody like that?
YEEZY
Cha, there’s a jetski ride waiting for you over there—>(other post)
“velvet chinese slippers”
Daisy
every time I see Beyaki’s video I think of Riverdancin and can’t keep it together! LOL
Narcissistic Personality Disorder – An individual with this disorder is in love with himself/herself, and has little positive regard for others other than in a superficial manner. They tend to be grandiose in how they present themselves, and tend to demand admiration from others.
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Shatt, he should’ve just thrown on some leggings(stretch pants)…
YallCrazy #31
LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS says:
Daisy
every time I see Beyaki’s video I think of Riverdancin and can’t keep it together! LOL
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beyonce’s run the world video is funny.. but my 2 yr old cracks up everytime she does that hunching part with her shoulders.. he thinks thats the funniest thing ever
Yall still crazy says:
Shatt, he should’ve just thrown on some leggings(stretch pants)…
Kanye is musical genius and like all geniuses, he may be a bit crazy.
Well folks I’m bout to leave so yall have a good one
<<<< rollin out on the jet ski
Eb says:
I hold grudges
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I’m guilty of that too
Narcissistic Personality Disorder – An individual with this disorder is in love with herself, They tend to be grandiose in how they present themselves, and tend to demand admiration from others(it comes naturally though).They believe they are special and deserve special treatment, regardless. In actuality, they are very sensitive(#TeamCancer), and tend to not be able to tolerate negative feedback (cause they like things to be perfect). <<<<<< I edited this definition to describe me…so I guess I'm in the clear
West Coast Chick says:
Narcissistic Personality Disorder – An individual with this disorder is in love with himself/herself, and has little positive regard for others other than in a superficial manner. They tend to be grandiose in how they present themselves, and tend to demand admiration from others.
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Are you a Narcissist? Take Dr. Drew’s test here —> http://www.0eb.com/
Pryti is that you in that gravi? Aloow me to compliment that hair it looks ssssssooooooo healthy.
Are you a Narcissist? Take Dr. Drew’s test here —–> http : // ww w.0 eb .com / (added spaces to avoid moderation)
*Allow
Me too, Cfree!
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*mouth wide open in shock* Would yall look at the narcissistic posting in post # 44!
#ikidikid
Thanks ZOE
Auntie needs to do her Medical Minute on the 10 Personality Disorders… Hmmmp…
o honey…yes ma’am thats me thanks. i did the big chop in Oct and have just let it grow back natural….but the credit is all due to them Dominican’s that keep me right lol
*waiting to see if “she” starts ignoring me*
The ONLY THING matching in that Kanye Pic is the Purple carpet Along With The Effect of Slight Purple from the Slippers He’s wearing
LQQKS At @mrsloveleigh Gravi… B-I-T-C-H-E-S
is he wearing those slippers cuz he misses his mommy? :hugs: awwwwh Kanyeezy.
THANKSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS YALL STILLLLLLLL girl Im soakin wet, your drive pretty rough ya know
Hey FOXY E
WHERE YOU BEEN BOO!
THANKSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS YALL STILLLLLLLL girl Im soakin wet, your drive pretty rough ya know
Hey FOXY E
WHERE YOU BEEN BOO!
Ok Bye peeps gotta go home now
<<<<< not a jet-ski
CHA CHA CHA CHA come esta bella!
@yall you sooo purtyyyyyyyyyyyyy when you ride ur jetski like that
What’s the opposite of a narcissist?
LET’S TALK ABOUT ME!
Despite my undeniable greatness, I’m actually quite humble and modest. It takes quite a bit of practice and determination to not gloat about how perfect I am. You all should bask in my strength of will.
D*mn!!! I just call myself moving on. You know like eff em? Am I a narcissist too?
@Honey, you are one! You were the “she” in Post 54!
#ikidikid
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Cha, you know we’re riding in the manatees with no license and you just gots to be showing off your tatas riding the damn jet ski backwards!
I took the test and scored a 15.I’m average I guess
mrsloveleigh says:
I took the test and scored a 15.I’m average I guess
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i got a 17…what the level to be a narcissist?
If Kanye never speaks another word my world will continue. I feel equally the same about anyone who I deal with on an intimate level – the silent treatment is straight-up foolishness.
Zoe.. I took the test.. it said my score for vanity was high.. i wonder where he got that from, shooot??!!! It aint my fault that Im a chocolate beauty!
PrytiBrownIs says:
mrsloveleigh says:
I took the test and scored a 15.I’m average I guess
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i got a 17…what the level to be a narcissist?
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you must be a virgo… we think alike… mines was 18
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
What’s the opposite of a narcissist?
LET’S TALK ABOUT ME!
Despite my undeniable greatness, I’m actually quite humble and modest. It takes quite a bit of practice and determination to not gloat about how perfect I am. You all should bask in my strength of will.
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And this is why I love Man
I’m a Virgo, so I’m not even gonna take the test.
Errbody Bow Down
#canignorefordecades
FoxE says:
Ok… I gave someone the silent treatment for more than a day.. So i’m a narcissist too?
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No. It means you have narcissistic traits.
Yall still crazy says:
I’m a Virgo, so I’m not even gonna take the test.
Errbody Bow Down
#canignorefordecades
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..its the truth.. we cant help it if we some bad bishes 
LesBinLuv says:
you can’t expect me to believe I’m one too….
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Victims of narcissists often become one themselves. For example, the children of narcissists. It’s a learned behavior. :/
I guess you have to just go by the highs and lows in each catagory. I was low in vanity medium in just about all the others
I keep people on my nignore list.
West Coast Chick says:
Zoe.. I took the test.. it said my score for vanity was high.. i wonder where he got that from, shooot??!!! It aint my fault that Im a chocolate beauty!
YES YOU ARE
Soo true @ West! & Sandra…
I know a family of narcissists. The grandma, the mom, her daughter, and now her grandson.
They hate being called out on their shatt too. That’s when the “ignoring” starts…
West Coast Chick says:
PrytiBrownIs says:
mrsloveleigh says:
I took the test and scored a 15.I’m average I guess
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i got a 17…what the level to be a narcissist?
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you must be a virgo… we think alike… mines was 18
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nope aquarius but people always think imma virgo lol
And I wouldn’t trust any test from Dr. Drew anyway.
welp, It said Im vain, but I really dont like when people continuously compliment me
I do think highly of myself, but hell, if you knew me, you would too 
#imtheshyt
OHoney says:
I ignore people when they piss me off. I feel like they are not worth my energy of an argument or anything for that matter.
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You definitely have narcissistic traits. And, yes, narcissistic traits can progress into full blown narcissism. But usually narcissists aren’t self aware, and they don’t know they are narcissists. I hope that helps?
I am too ashamed to repeat my score; I’m about to retake the test…:pc:
HOTT CHA CHA says:
West Coast Chick says:
Zoe.. I took the test.. it said my score for vanity was high.. i wonder where he got that from, shooot??!!! It aint my fault that Im a chocolate beauty!
YES YOU ARE
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Awe boo.. I love me some Cha Chizzle
Yall still crazy says:
Auntie needs to do her Medical Minute on the 10 Personality Disorders… Hmmmp…
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I would have to write a book.
wow,
well, 5 days, and counting. its a deserved silence 
Goodnight @ FrenchGal
What’s the opposite of a narcissist?
LET’S TALK ABOUT ME!
Despite my undeniable greatness, I’m actually quite humble and modest. It takes quite a bit of practice and determination to not gloat about how perfect I am. You all should bask in my strength of will.
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Ms YaYa those cheeks hanging out the bottom of your gravies shorts
lol
WOW I had a friend who acted exactly like this! This is so crazy b/c you just described her to the T!!!! As a result of this behavior we didn’t speak for over a year and we grew up together. It’s crazy b/c our relationship was ruined we are not even that close anymore.
Sandra Rose says:
Yall still crazy says:
Auntie needs to do her Medical Minute on the 10 Personality Disorders… Hmmmp…
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I would have to write a book.
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No, you wouldn’t Auntie. You could post one a week! You’ve already covered this one.
#behelpfultoyourreaders
Msvallday, you should be happy!!!! When one meets a narcissist you show run in the opposite direction! Consider yorself lucky…
I scored a 5. Is that bad?
@ mrsloveleigh: I thought I would provide a lil eye candy for you guys
@YSO
So Dr. Dew… Ahh I Mean Dr. Drew created that test Huh THEN I KNOW it’s extremely FLAWED, I Mean… He is a Drug Counselor WHOSE Patients GET WORSE or DIES from Their Drug Addiction (Right ?!!?)
Yall still crazy says:
Msvallday, you should be happy!!!! When one meets a narcissist you show run in the opposite direction! Consider yorself lucky…
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I am happy now b/c I realize she has a toxic personality and I really don’t need that kind of drama in my life, but we were so close and we grew up together so it was hard b/c I considered her one of my closest friends. Life goes on had to keep it moving!
YSOLOSOSERIOUS you still lub me ….
I hope so, Im the onliest one that make your locs spark fireworks and shyt! YOU NEED ME 4th of July is coming up 
*ashamed of score face*
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Yso,I think that’s pretty good.
@ yall, I was ashamed of my score too. I took the test again
Google personality tests and I’m sure the Official Psychology yada yada site has a better, more thorough test.
For years people been telling Ye to shut up and now that he has, they still got something to say.~
Pretty much and :consign:
@CHA
Why wouldn’t my stale ass still lub you? Bey will not keep us apart. :hugs:
@ELOVE
Exactly. And then you have to buy his damn book to find out what your score means. Of course.
Ya, I’m not going back there. Hmmp
Atypical says:
For years people been telling Ye to shut up and now that he has, they still got something to say.~
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IDK bout all that you talking Aunt Sandy Mae……
I’m diggin his outfit……Sandy where the jeans come from? shoes? blazer?……
actually that doesn’t matter, I’ll find it for less~~~
Poor Kanye, he hasn’t been the same since his mother passed. I know some of you are probably tired of people giving him excuses for his erratic behavior but I don’t know what it feels like to lose my mother so I won’t judge him. I hope he gets better because he’s really a talented artist, but I can’t support music that worships the dark side.
MSVALLDAY says:
I am happy now b/c I realize she has a toxic personality and I really don’t need that kind of drama in my life, but we were so close and we grew up together so it was hard b/c I considered her one of my closest friends. Life goes on had to keep it moving!
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The reason you both grew apart is because she developed intense romantic feelings toward you, which always causes a problem with narcissists.
DMisses says:
Poor Kanye, he hasn’t been the same since his mother passed.
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Kanye was a narcissist before his mother passed. In fact, she was probably a narcissist, since narcissism is a learned behavior.
I don’t hold conversations with ppl who have a problem with everything I say and do that does not affect them. Why debate personal preferences?
SORRY… but Yeezys outfit looks gay as hayl.
Niggas lookin so emasculated these days. smh
Damn, where the mandingos at??
Kanye better werk bish that cream colored jacket, with the light demin skinny jeans and those bejeweled flats are giving this queens the fever…
typo these queens the fever…
“Mental Murder” wowzer!
Sandra… u never cease to amaze me!
Good observation!
Well now the media can’t put a negative spin on what Kanye says and refer to him as “the outspoken rapper”.
after his album dropped (and flopped), Kanye hasn’t updated his Twitter account in months.
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Matter of fact it went platinum…
You know that album did not flop
So Ms. Sandra, if my hubby and I can go a week without saying ONE WORD to each other, we’re both narccists?
no one is looking for kanye anymore. NEXT