I know I’m late on this story but this is the first I’ve heard of it. Who knew Draya Michelle slept with NBA star Gilbert Arenas? Arenas is Laura Govan’s baby daddy, and Laura is Draya’s cast mate on ‘Basketball Wives: LA’.
According to my loyal reader, Gilbert will confirm that he slept with Draya on the Upcoming BBW LA Reunion Show. And here I thought that Draya only dated Chris Brown and Shannon Brown.
A loyal reader writes:
On a few episodes back, I think, or whenever Draya was arguing with the rest of the women about the kid situation, come to find out *that’s not what they were really arguing about*. It was *edited.* Basically Laura was mad with Draya because she *effed Gilbert Arenas*. She did it at the stadium. And also Deshawn Stevenson the same night. She called her out on it. Gilbert is backing this story up. He may be telling it on the reunion show. He’s not denying it. He says he passed her on to his two homies the same day.
Here’s Draya’s apology:
She continues:
Click below to hear the lady on the radio that spilled the beans about the real deal on how draya slept with Gilbert arenas and his team mate Deshawn Stevenson and another unnamed teammate in the same day (fast fwd to mark
1:44 too)
Edited: Here’s another video sent in by loyal reader Sydney S. for those who can’t see the other video at work.
Dang it!
I can’t view it here at work.
Puh-leeze someone re-ap on what was said. Details! Details! Details!
And here I thought that Draya only dated Chris Brown and Shannon Brown.
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So she screwed Monica’s hubby?
Draya gets around…Damn!!
She still a cutie though…
OH SNAP *snickers*
I can’t watch the apology @ work either I hope Draya NOT that loose with the pussy
Who knew Draya Michelle slept with NBA star Gilbert Arenas?
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I did.
These stupid women I swear. I bet she didn’t take an ounce of that anger out on Gilbert, but you think Draya owes you an apology. SMH
Damn Draya! She’s still a better BBQ “wife” than the rest of those chickens!
Well Gilbert don’t claim her so……
Who knew Draya Michelle slept with NBA star Gilbert Arenas?
Stop getting your gossip fixes from other people Sandra :stop: Start reading our comments 
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We all did
When I seen that last week. I kept saying why did she start off apologizing? I JUST got finished watching the most recent episode and I kept wondering WHY Laura just has it out for Draya. I finally realized it was all over the peen…and I bet it ain’t no good peen either.
Silly hoes kill me mad b/c of where THEIR man chose to stick his d!ck!
Draya doesn’t owe that linebacker an apology anyway!!!!!!!!!!
Don’t be sad about it Deuce (Laura)…cause your azz slept with SHAUNIE’S husband and I really still believe that is true.
ohpretty1 says:
These stupid women I swear. I bet she didn’t take an ounce of that anger out on Gilbert, but you think Draya owes you an apology.
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EXACTLY!!!!!!!

I STILL don’t see what they seen in Laura! She looks like she got hit on the right side of her face with a Websters……..the UNABRIDGED version.
Aekelani A.K.A Beyonce’s Surrogate says:
Well Gilbert don’t claim her so……
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I think he said he would’ve dated her if she would’ve refused to be passed around but she was with it
And the Hunchback of Norte Dame is SURPRISED Agent Zero stepped out on her…ummm WHY?
and this is why Laura hates her so much.
ohpretty1 says:
These stupid women I swear. I bet she didn’t take an ounce of that anger out on Gilbert, but you think Draya owes you an apology. SMH


Still doenst make her a HOE…for the record none of these dudes was married right
prynsexxx says:
Silly hoes kill me mad b/c of where THEIR man chose to stick his d!ck!
@15
@unabridged. yall are crazy.
chibytex aka the people’s champ says:
And here I thought that Draya only dated Chris Brown and Shannon Brown.
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So she screwed Monica’s hubby?
Draya gets around…Damn!!
She still a cutie though…
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I like her too. People be going in on her about being a hoe/groupie. But, what about the men? You had to know she just got down with your boy at the stadium earlier that day and you had to have seen this bish with Chris Brown or whomever else on the blogs before too. So, if she nasty they arses nasty too!
OK…so Tweetybird IS going like that…I mean, they call her a Sl-ore…I just ddnt want to believe she was rolling like that…SMDH
Laura needs to have a seat with her Gonzo lookin azz and apologize to Shaunie…then mayb she can talk…these chicks trip me out!!!
Women like Laura annoy me. Directing all of the anger at the other woman while you’re posing on the red carpet and cheesing with the dog who slept with her. Draya wasn’t committed to Laura and she doesn’t owe her a thing. If she’s not mad at him, why is she mad at Draya.
prynsexxx says:
I STILL don’t see what they seen in Laura! She looks like she got hit on the right side of her face with a Websters……..the UNABRIDGED version.
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I heard that ‘stroke brain’ is a must try.
thats why laura was trying to eat draya
but why u mad at her be mad at ur babydaddy… silly bytches i tell u.. 
I wish the BBW would do a switcheroo for a couple episodes! I would LOVE to see Ev and Tammi faceoff with Jackie and Laura! My bets on Miami………with the words anyway, LOL!
KDub says:
Don’t be sad about it Deuce (Laura)…cause your azz slept with SHAUNIE’S husband and I really still believe that is true.
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Exactly, and the operative word there is HUSBAND. Areana is just her baby daddy. Always will be.
*Arenas
Still doenst make her a HOE…for the record none of these dudes was married right

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She slept with 3 dudes in one day in a locker room. What should we label her if she is not a hoe
hmmm interesting…
Random: I was watching Pleasure P’s video ‘Under’ the other day and Draya’s in it…
I thought that was common knowledge
Draya is the definition of groupieHoe, she still ismy fave in the show though..
@chacha exacly they are not married and if she a hoe ur man a mo’fukn hoe so u should be mad at him not her.. silly ugly bizznatch
Why is bodyguard Laura mad at Draya. I bet she didn’t get mad at Gilbert at all about the situation. Gilbert silly arse used to tweet about going on dates with other women and I am sure Laura knew about that too. If I was Draya I would have called her out about sleeping with Shaq.
The producers be knowing the dirt ahead of time, that’s why they choose who they choose to be on the show. Wonder why they edited that out. Probably saving that for the reunion or another season.
Hmm, bet the rent was due…. still #teamdraya though lol.
She slept with 3 dudes in one day in a locker room. What should we label her if she is not a hoe
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A team player? jk
So this is why Laura loathes Draya?
But you twit-pic’n & running behind him & moving back in with him AFTER he has continuously humiliated you.
Okay girl.
Draya is the definition of groupieHoe, she still ismy fave in the show though..
She is a professional escort!
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KDub says:
Don’t be sad about it Deuce (Laura)…cause your azz slept with SHAUNIE’S husband and I really still believe that is true.
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I do too…
chibytex aka the people’s champ says:
She is a professional escort!
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Professional hoe.
LaTechGrad02 says:
She slept with 3 dudes in one day in a locker room. What should we label her if she is not a hoe

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A team player? jk
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She slept with 3 dudes in one day in a locker room. What should we label her if she is not a hoe
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A free spirit.
Clean (it WAS a locker room…sure it has showers)
A giver.
A lover.
Talented.
Shawty got talent…cause I only got ONE dude and be tired as FUGG after a session. Kids be asking us why the hail we taking a nap at 2 p.m. on a Sat.
@ Ty true, so true
“He says he passed her on to his two homies the same day.”
She neglected her son to go get a tan…are we really surprised? I’m not…
I wonder how much these women get paid to look like a fool on t.v.?
I don’t watch these bicycle broads but surely they are getting paid millions of dollars to act an ass, no?
Draya laid it low, and spread it wide
So she smashed all the homie’s???? … all in the same night??
DAMN! Draya is HO! 2 maybe 3 dudes in one day?
And Gilbert Arenas ain’t sh*t! But we been knew that! Laura is dumb b*tch!
So what if she did? Thats her business if she wants to spread her legs to 3 men in one night. Draya dont owe an explanation or apology to anyone. Folks need to check their man instead of trying to blame the other woman all the time.
@Ty, once again Im begging you… can you please take that gravi down, you are killin me here
Well Big Bird slept with Shaq and her and Shaunie were cool.
Hoes will always be hoes.. Theres no way around yo!
I’ll have to say that Draya is a hoe, but she doesn’t front for anyone either…and Laura needs to OWN the fact that she’s a badly build linebacker lookin’ bish with a gonzo nose and a mack truck frame who thinks she’s fooling folks into thinking that she didn’t smash out goofy azz sweaty confused lookin’ trickin’ off on hoes all the time Shaq….
lady_cn says:
chibytex aka the people’s champ says:
She is a professional escort!
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Professional hoe.
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he didnt say he paid her, did he?
Fabulous City says:
@Ty, once again Im begging you… can you please take that gravi down, you are killin me here
Fab…u dont like Baby Girl 
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LaTechGrad02 says:
She slept with 3 dudes in one day in a locker room. What should we label her if she is not a hoe
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A team player? jk
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Who is the dude in the pic with Draya because that is not Gilbert Arenas. Furthermore she has the 4 kids with that man not Draya he fukked up not her. That’s why that hoe be giving Draya the side eye because she know that bish is cute. I bet you if she looked like a pro wrestler like Laura do she wouldnt trip as hard. :coffe:
Ms.kaylamomma says:
I wonder how much these women get paid to look like a fool on t.v.?
I don’t watch these bicycle broads but surely they are getting paid millions of dollars to act an ass, no?
October 26, 2011 at 2:21 pm
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I heard 7000/episode or some along those lines. times 6 or 7 and you have a yearly income of 49,000/year max. It doesn’t get more basic than that. SMH
Ty says:
Still doenst make her a HOE…for the record none of these dudes was married right
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She slept with 3 dudes in one day in a locker room. What should we label her if she is not a hoe
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I wouldnt label her anything……im sure some of these same folks that are judging her and calling her all kinds of hoes and sluts has done some hoe chit back in their day…..
Ty says:
Still doenst make her a HOE…for the record none of these dudes was married right
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She slept with 3 dudes in one day in a locker room. What should we label her if she is not a hoe
Please see my response via LAKER in #32…. and 48
Furthermore……….
West Coast Chick says:
he didnt say he paid her, did he?
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No, he didn’t but let’s be real, she did not sleep with him and the homies for free.
She got paid in some shape, form or fashion.
Folks need to check their man instead of trying to blame the other woman all the time
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Yep. Blaming the other woman is what gives your man the green light to do it again. No accountability.
West Coast Chick says:
lady_cn says:
chibytex aka the people’s champ says:
She is a professional escort!
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Professional hoe.
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he didnt say he paid her, did he?
CUS IF SOOOOOOOOOOOOO…. Furthermore….THATS SOME HOE SHYT…THAT WOULD MAKE SAID DRAYA…. ding ding …A HOE
“So what if she did? Thats her business if she wants to spread her legs to 3 men in one night.”
*i only hit submit once?*
Well Draya does have to bills in Philly and LA.
I just posted another video of the same radio show for those of you who are at work.
Creole Kimbo 225 says:
I wouldnt label her anything……im sure some of these same folks that are judging her and calling her all kinds of hoes and sluts has done some hoe chit back in their day…..
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I would have to respectfully disagree. I’m not saying I’m a virgin, but I tell you what I’ve never slept with 3 men in a night. Better yet, I have never slept with 3 men in a year.
My question is how is Draya a hoe? That bish is not married. If she single she can do what the FUKK she want. All we here is GOSSIP about all the niccas she has fukked. Laura, Gloria and Imani all who called they self superior and stayed with they niccas 10+ years and what the hell did that get them? ___/<———I'll have a sit and wait for the responses.
Look at all the hoes defending their soror… Hoes i tell ya what are yall in a union or something Hoes Act 50-11
@ Aekelani: that adorable baby looks like he’s busy reading all these crazy comments
Creole Kimbo 225 says:
So what if she did? Thats her business if she wants to spread her legs to 3 men in one night. Draya dont owe an explanation or apology to anyone. Folks need to check their man instead of trying to blame the other woman all the time.
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Draya dont give a fukk! And I love that about her!!! Who gon check her? LOL!
she’s only a hoe IF she got paid, right?
#definition ofa hoe: exchange money for sex? no?
Mamacita says:
“So what if she did? Thats her business if she wants to spread her legs to 3 men in one night.”
See this is why Amber Cole was giving head at 14. Folks think it’s “ok” to do sh*t like this.
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No I dont think it is ok cause alot of what these little girls do start with no home training or their mamas be teaching the wrong thing. Draya is a grown woman and can account for her actions. And if she feels like she need to do some hoe chit to get ahead in her life then so be it. She can do what it do if that how she feel
@Fabulous WOW! So I make more than them to act like I have some damn sense?! I’ll take it.
Ok Draya is a Hoe who cares. But this Messy Biatch Claudia she’s really the whore. I got the scoop on her Messy azz. She didnt even go to her Friends Funeral (The Girl that suppose to Be Jay Z mistress). They were suppose to be BFF. Uhmmmm She dates Married Men and more Uhmmmmmm
Draya dont owe an explanation or apology to anyone.
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i think she did apologize to laura.. but continue
Ty says:
Stop getting your gossip fixes from other people Sandra Start reading our comments
I knew. I couldn’t remember how I knew though. Must have been from here.
We all did
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So everyone in the world that ventures off and does what they want @ being grown whether it be orgees, threesomes, kissed a guy after a date thursday night and smashed a different guy later that night, orgees… did I say orgees twice
hahaha makes you a hoe …. There I go learning again on SR.. yay me!!
As long they were responsible and protected themselves and/or agreed to it… I dont see what the problem ill?
JAY BEE…. Im not defending her per se but the label…. wayment… SO are you calling me a HOE
I have never ever ever been in none of the compromising positions aforementioned however….
anyways
@JayBee
I’m calling her what she is…that’s some hoe chit if ain’t nothin’ else hoe chit…but them other dried up washed up has-been bishes need to OWN their chit too instead of constantly telling Draya what she needs to do…
Mamacita says:
“So what if she did? Thats her business if she wants to spread her legs to 3 men in one night.”
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Well Amber Cole should have asked for some money. I mean since she acting like a hoe, might as well get paid… j/k
But u cant compare Draya to Amber. Draya is a grown ass woman, free to suck and fukk whomever she wants. Preferably the highest bidder. I mean if you gonna be a hoe, you might as well get paid for it…
I would have to respectfully disagree. I’m not saying I’m a virgin, but I tell you what I’ve never slept with 3 men in a night. Better yet, I have never slept with 3 men in a year.
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Thank you!!! But at least she said SOME.
Just seen the video another bitter old azz broad reporting shit that has nothing to do with her. How about you go get you some dyck and quit worrying about other people puzzy’s that not yours. I mean the girl kept it 100 from the start. I’m a stripper and what, I dated some atheletes and some singers umm ok, what you got next. Then thats when bacon neck Jackie and Mount Fiji Laura when and start playing detective googling muhfukkas.
@chacha
girl aint no point on trying to convince some silly bytches that UR MAN IS THE FUKN PROBLEM NOT THE SINGLE BISH THAT GAVE HIM THAT TWAT… 
@WCC
I thought that was the definition of a prostitute or hooker?
A hoe is short for whore which I thought was a promiscuous loose pussy woman????
lady_cn says:
Creole Kimbo 225 says:
I wouldnt label her anything……im sure some of these same folks that are judging her and calling her all kinds of hoes and sluts has done some hoe chit back in their day…..
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I would have to respectfully disagree. I’m not saying I’m a virgin, but I tell you what I’ve never slept with 3 men in a night. Better yet, I have never slept with 3 men in a year.
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and thats cool too. Im saying that folks need to look in the mirror at their self before being so quick to judge others. I can honestly say that I did some hoe chit in my day (not to draya’s extent), but I wouldnt call her names either. She know what she doing…..or maybe she is just trying to get more famous that Ray J…hell i dont know…..
If she didnt give a fuk, then why did she speak on it in the first place? she didnt know laura @ the time, right? gilberts loyalty lies with laura, not draya’s…right?? She spoke on it b-cuz she felt bad about it.imo..im thinking there is something very troubling with this young girl, who can mindlessly sleep with 3 men in one night,while her child, who NEEDS her more, is somewhere..probably unattended for. The smile doesnt fool me
she’s cute, but a sad case @ the same time.
FeFe says:
@WCC
I thought that was the definition of a prostitute or hooker?
A hoe is short for whore which I thought was a promiscuous loose pussy woman????
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great debate…ima look it up.. brb
Don’t get it twisted, players share wives too, not just girlfriends/groupies etc.
I pulled this out of the dictionary
hoe 5917 up, 1648 down
1. A skank
2. A woman that is too loose in the booty.
3. Woman or man that fuck anything with two legs.
4. A promiscuous person.syn: slut
Don’t marry that hoe, she sucked too many dicks and you know the old saying, you can’t turn a whore into a housewife
chibytex aka the people’s champ says:
Creole Kimbo 225 says:
So what if she did? Thats her business if she wants to spread her legs to 3 men in one night. Draya dont owe an explanation or apology to anyone. Folks need to check their man instead of trying to blame the other woman all the time.
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Draya dont give a fukk! And I love that about her!!! Who gon check her? LOL!
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I know right! And the hoe chit she do in her life wont make a bit of a difference in mine……
Creole Kimbo 225 says:
lady_cn says:
Creole Kimbo 225 says:
I wouldnt label her anything……im sure some of these same folks that are judging her and calling her all kinds of hoes and sluts has done some hoe chit back in their day…..
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I would have to respectfully disagree. I’m not saying I’m a virgin, but I tell you what I’ve never slept with 3 men in a night. Better yet, I have never slept with 3 men in a year.
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and thats cool too. Im saying that folks need to look in the mirror at their self before being so quick to judge others. I can honestly say that I did some hoe chit in my day (not to draya’s extent), but I wouldnt call her names either. She know what she doing…..or maybe she is just trying to get more famous that Ray J…hell i dont know…..
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Ok, she’s not a hoe. She just has hoe tendencies.
Im not calling you a hoe per se.. But cmon nah! you cannot justified this Hoe shit.. Shes a Hoe and aint nothing good coming out being a HOE.. We are so hypocritical in todays world…
Creole Kimbo 225 says:
Ty says:
Still doenst make her a HOE…for the record none of these dudes was married right
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She slept with 3 dudes in one day in a locker room. What should we label her if she is not a hoe
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I wouldnt label her anything……im sure some of these same folks that are judging her and calling her all kinds of hoes and sluts has done some hoe chit back in their day…..
I don’t think I am capable of putting that much work in. Even if I was in the room next to Draya busting down three other players, I still have the right to call her azz out 
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I can’t speak for the next person but I have done my dirt but never on Draya’s level
This dude in the background singing “it aint no fun, if the homies cant have none” and “pass the dutchie the left”
This dude is retarded!!
@WCC
Question??
How about is this was a dude banging 3 chicks in one night? Would he still be a hoe? or would he get hi-5’d like most dudes do already?
@Cha I’m not comparing Amber to Draya but I’m saying that girls like Amber look up to Draya because people tell them “its ok” “you’re grown so you can do whatever you want” “you can screw someone’s man and it’s not your fault” “having sex with 3 men in one night is cool”.
If this was Kim K and she slept with 3 guys in one night what would you call her?
But I guess since Draya is “cute” and “keeps it real” her hoing is ok?
@Creole “And if she feels like she need to do some hoe chit to get ahead in her life then so be it. She can do what it do if that how she feel”
Well if that’s how you feel then so be it but I see it very differently. Doing hoe sh*t to get a head in life is not cool in my book but hey, that’s JMO.
Don’t marry that hoe, she sucked too many dicks and you know the old saying, you can’t turn a whore into a housewife
That’s not true!! Hoes CAN repent and be converted! 
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Oh yeah don’t get me wrong, I like her a lot more than I like the other Basketball Hoes on the show.
and yes, I had my hoe days too…shoot my early twenties I was GETTIN’ IT IN…
Draya is young and needs guidance that is all…and she probably will want to slow it down, ain’t nothing worse than an OLD HOE!
Never understood why females expect the stranger to owe them loyalty and respect…the “other woman” owes you nothing…your man does
I’m not a hoe but lawd some of my good girlfriends are…and the difference is some do it for monetary gain and others are just horny little bunnies. Rich men with nice bodies and “celebrity” can turn out some of the biggest prudes.
Creole Kimbo 225 says:
Question??
How about is this was a dude banging 3 chicks in one night? Would he still be a hoe? or would he get hi-5?d like most dudes do already?
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He’s a hoe as well.
its disgusting how these men can take advantage of these young chicks, knowing their state of mind. Im not hoding gilbert on any high standards, but clearly he’s seen her kind before.. as a rich nigga, shouldnt he do something ..on his end to try and denounce or stop it? ..this is the man that laura is so desparately tryna be with? even after she convinced her sister to leave matt?
these women :rollseyes:
WHAT…For real?
and my definition of hoe chit was sleeping with 3 dudes in one summer…this chick had 3 dicks in one night!
and yes, I had my hoe days too…shoot my early twenties I was GETTIN’ IT IN…
lady_cn says:
Creole Kimbo 225 says:
Question??
How about is this was a dude banging 3 chicks in one night? Would he still be a hoe? or would he get hi-5?d like most dudes do already?
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He’s a hoe as well.
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That is a fine man in your gravi…..I forget his name but he plays football?
chibytex aka the people’s champ says:
This dude in the background singing “it aint no fun, if the homies cant have none” and “pass the dutchie the left”
This dude is retarded!!
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you crazy…
Creole Kimbo 225 says:
Question??
How about is this was a dude banging 3 chicks in one night? Would he still be a hoe? or would he get hi-5?d like most dudes do already?
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He’d still be a hoe too! Hell the dudes who slept with her KNOWING that she JUST had sex with their homeboy are hoes too.
Men who do this chit are hoes to me too…. even Ludacris admitted it on his song ‘Ho’ ….
*wrong haha* lol
Creole Kimbo 225 says:
Question??
How about is this was a dude banging 3 chicks in one night? Would he still be a hoe? or would he get hi-5?d like most dudes do already?
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THIS is why is why I say fukk that chit do what the fukk you wanna do. Cause its ok if a man sleeps with 50/11 women in one night. He’s labeled a player or stud…but if a women does it she’s nasty slut whore.
@Mamacita
The reason I give Kim K. the side-eye is because she be walking around here like she a fukking angel and she done got around more than a car at the Indy 500. I HATE hoes who cant own up the their hoetry. If you’s a hoe own that chit. Dont be acting like you a virgin Mary. I cant stand that.
caligirl says:
That is a fine man in your gravi…..I forget his name but he plays football?
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Darren Sharper with the Saints. That’s my baby…in my mind.
I’m gonna have to log out…I can’t keep up with this conference call talking about software apps, it don’t mesh well with icks and chit….Jeez, I gotta go back to work.
NaijaGal says:
Never understood why females expect the stranger to owe them loyalty and respect…the “other woman” owes you nothing…your man does
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right! I think evelyn put it best.. *YOU ARE A NON MUTHA FUKIN FACTOR, BYTCH!!!
I heard 7000/episode or some along those lines. times 6 or 7…
*counts on fangas* Youve got to be kidding me? ?!?!? Surely its more than that!!! WTF indeed. They cant even get the good BBQ on that salary. Everything must be comped!
#98 was for Chi…not Cha! My bad…
macita says:
He’d still be a hoe too! Hell the dudes who slept with her KNOWING that she JUST had sex with their homeboy are hoes too.
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@OTB
Years ago my bff fcked three dudes in a 24 hour span and I was looking at her like
She had her fun though and is happily married now…it’s all about LEARNING from this stuff, most chicks do this stuff because they are HURTING…
He says he passed her on to his two homies the same day.
^^^
@Man…
WHERE YOU AT Dawg (Ain’t THIS Your New Female-CRUSH…) She definitely has QUALITIES You Admire Too
are just horny little bunnies.
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:stop: talking about me!
@Creole “And if she feels like she need to do some hoe chit to get ahead in her life then so be it. She can do what it do if that how she feel”
Well if that’s how you feel then so be it but I see it very differently. Doing hoe sh*t to get a head in life is not cool in my book but hey, that’s JMO.
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@ MAMACITA
doing hoe shit to get ahead is not cool in my book either, but to each is own right?……who are we to knock her hustle?
I think ‘judging’ and ‘calling it like it is’ gets misconstrued a lot around these parts.
I’m not sure if I read it here are someone where else, but a man has to make up in his mind, heart and soul. THIS IS THE ONLY piece of arse I’m goning to get for the rest of my life. That’s kind of hard, for alot men. Hell that’s hard for alot of women. Not hard for me…I don’t want to die of the package.
Bitch 15145 up, 2984 down
(1) Word used to describe the act of whining excessively.
(2) Person who rides specifically in the middle of a front-seatting only car meant for 2 passengers or less.
(3) Modern-day servant; A person who performs tasks for another, usually degrading in status.
(4) Term used to exclaim hardship.
(1) “Stop bitching Todd!”
(2) “Can I ride bitch?”
(3) “Bring my friend and I some vodka bitch”
(4) *Peron tells story to other cellmate, depicting how they came to be there, cellmate says* “Ain’t that a Bitch!”
She had her fun though and is happily married now…it’s all about LEARNING from this stuff, most chicks do this stuff because they are HURTING…

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Womp! Womp! Cause hoes CAN be turned into housewives!!! It is NOT a myth or an urban legend!!
ohpretty1 says:
I think ‘judging’ and ‘calling it like it is’ gets misconstrued a lot around these parts.
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Wait wait, thats a good ass friend girl! Most of the hoes wouldnt eben say nothing
Be having you thanking your number higher than theirs and chit. 
i wont click or try to watch amber cole, but she’s getting a head start. no mentoring or convincing will stop her from sucking schlung in the parking lot, or playground.
a lot of women do this stuff to get bills paid or whatever. I wasn’t moved at all by draya having this rep, or amber cole letting some guy massage her throat on recess.
FeFe says:
@OTB
you silly girl!
Years ago my bff fcked three dudes in a 24 hour span and I was looking at her like
She had her fun though and is happily married now…it’s all about LEARNING from this stuff, most chicks do this stuff because they are HURTING…
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At your last statement. DING DING DING! Or maybe she was tryna pay a bill or something, I don’t know. The rent was due? Her son’s tuition? Her stamps was late?
I’m not justifying or condoning what she did, but if there was NO other way to provide for my child…I’ll do something strange for a little change!
Some bishes out her giving it up for a smile and a nicca saying she kewte’.
West Coast Chick says:
I had to share this with yall :rof: the definition for bytch
(2) Person who rides specifically in the middle of a front-seatting only car meant for 2 passengers or less.
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Never heard that one…
So I guess if he comes on the reunion Laura is going to think that chit cute like they busting out Draya or something. Not the fact that yo man is pretty much admitting to cheating on yo ill built azz. Instead of roughing up Draya in the steel cage she should threw Gilbert in there and beat the fukk out of him.
:screaming: I love number 3
(3) “Bring my friend and I some vodka bitch”
Crickett says:
I’m not a hoe but lawd some of my good girlfriends are…and the difference is some do it for monetary gain and others are just horny little bunnies. Rich men with nice bodies and “celebrity” can turn out some of the biggest prudes.
you can say that again hi5
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Funny how all pro-hoe start their statement with they are not one of those…
West Coast Chick says:
I had to share this with yall :rof: the definition for bytch
Bitch 15145 up, 2984 down
(1) Word used to describe the act of whining excessively.
(2) Person who rides specifically in the middle of a front-seatting only car meant for 2 passengers or less.
(3) Modern-day servant; A person who performs tasks for another, usually degrading in status.
(4) Term used to exclaim hardship.
(1) “Stop bitching Todd!”
(2) “Can I ride bitch?”
(3) “Bring my friend and I some vodka bitch”
(4) *Peron tells story to other cellmate, depicting how they came to be there, cellmate says* “Ain’t that a Bitch!”
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You crazy too!! LOL
@chiby
Oh I agree hon, like I said I considered my “hoeing” days of when I was
3 dudes within a summer time…*ahhh, those summers*
I’m just one of those chicks who needs to at least get the scent of one man off me before moving on to the next!
That’s kind of hard, for alot men. Hell that’s hard for alot of women.
Shit I’m still struggling. I ran into my old crush at homecoming over the weekend. I never screwed in college. God knows I wanted to. When i saw him this past weekend I was Damn, I need a hall pass for just a day!!
Cause he still FIONE ass hell.
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#confession
(2) Person who rides specifically in the middle of a front-seatting only car meant for 2 passengers or less.
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Never heard that one…


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You never heard of riding bitch. That’s usually the person who has to sit in the middle.
@Cha
:hugs: come back lady! My hoe azz said fck it and stopped
altogether until I met my hubby! 
Never heard that one…
The bitch seat?? Yeah, girl we call that the hoe seat too (the middle)…typically you’d “assign” it to the lil moflucka in your party i.e., “‘Chelle, you GOT the hoe seat…”
LOL
@Chi but who has Kim K been with beside Her first husband, Reggie, Ray J, and Kris who is her husband? How is that getting around? All of her relationships have been long also if I’m not mistaken…
FeFe says:
I’m just one of those chicks who needs to at least get the scent of one man off me before moving on to the next!
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Ummmmm, I didn’t want to seem judgemental, cause I’ve done some dirt. :thinks: :smiles: SHHHHHHHHH
but NEVER multiples in a day.
(2) Person who rides specifically in the middle of a front-seatting only car meant for 2 passengers or less.
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We used to say that all of the time in high school.
“You driving?”
“Naw you.”
“Fine, but I’m not ridin’ bitch when you pick up everyone else.”
@MzTisch
chibytex aka the people’s champ says:
(2) Person who rides specifically in the middle of a front-seatting only car meant for 2 passengers or less.
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Never heard that one…
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You never heard of riding bitch. That’s usually the person who has to sit in the middle.
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We just never called it that.
I learn something new every day.
ill built azz
chocolate divalicious aka CD says:
So I guess if he comes on the reunion Laura is going to think that chit cute like they busting out Draya or something. Not the fact that yo man is pretty much admitting to cheating on yo ill built azz. Instead of roughing up Draya in the steel cage she should threw Gilbert in there and beat the fukk out of him.
@lady_cn
Where The HELL Yous Been… They call that the BYTCH-SEAT !!!
*raises hand*
Never heard of the “bytch” or “hoe” seat in the car before…
Oh and for the record I aint NEVER apologized for sleeping with somebody else boyfriend. For what? Bitch I dont owe you nothing. Tell your man to :stop: calling me and get his ass in check. I wish I would apologize
Draya shouldna said chit to Laura but I’ll apologize to you when you apologize to Shaunie!
Chit the pot calling the kettle black. Get the fuk outta here. Laura had bills too that is probably why she made sure to have collateral.
Mamacita says:
@Chi but who has Kim K been with beside Her first husband, Reggie, Ray J, and Kris who is her husband? How is that getting around? All of her relationships have been long also if I’m not mistaken…
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You forgot Miles Austin. Those were just relationships though. She was rumored to sleep with a few other people, i.e. Kanye West.
MAMACITA
I gotchu!!!
FeFe says:
*raises hand*
Never heard of the “bytch” or “hoe” seat in the car before…
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Good, so it’s not just me.
lady_cn says:
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Darren Sharper with the Saints. That’s my baby…in my mind.
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He use to bust down Gabby “hoe ass” Union. Damn shame she traded him in for D. Wade. That hoe went from suga’ to shyt if you ask me.
O’an yall know the saying ladies…..”If you ain’t got no hoe friends……YOU the hoe.”
@chiby
I knowingly slept with another chick’s man before and I felt like chit afterward….
The thing is that he and I were friends LONG before he got with her (he always had a crush but I kept him in the friend zone)…I was having a really fcked up night and he was too and we
that night…the sick part is that she was cool with our relationship and fully trusted us…that was the first and LAST time I did that, I never wanted it to be done to me…
Mamacita says:
@Chi but who has Kim K been with beside Her first husband, Reggie, Ray J, and Kris who is her husband? How is that getting around? All of her relationships have been long also if I’m not mistaken…
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Come on
Kim let Miles Autin smash
She let her Austrailian bodyguard smash
She was messing around with some scoccer player
Kim has gotten around. And IMO if you done had 4-5 boyfriends in ONE year that you are having sex with. Its no different than what “hoes” are doing. You just putting a label on it and trying to sprinkle sugar on chit….
prynsexxx says:
lady_cn says:
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Darren Sharper with the Saints. That’s my baby…in my mind.
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He use to bust down Gabby “hoe ass” Union. Damn shame she traded him in for D. Wade. That hoe went from suga’ to shyt if you ask me.
O’an yall know the saying ladies…..”If you ain’t got no hoe friends……YOU the hoe.”
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so if this is the case (which given Draya’s background it most likely is), I BLAME GLORIA!!!!!!!! Gloria clearly introduced Draya to the group and then tried to blow her up for being a groupie. the sad part is that they’re ALL groupies parading around as if they have class and REAL MONEY. birds of a feather typically flock together so DON’T HATE THE PLAYER, HATE THE GAME!!!! #TEAMDRAYA
I’m not finna get on Kim K and all the rumored dycks that have ran up in her….who gives a fck!?
Most of my male friends are “hoes” and I definitely be listening to all their groupie stories.
@lady_cn
Don’t FORGET that Soccer Player that LITERALLY Kicked her to THE CURB
But REALLY… Are Y’all COMPARING Levels of HO-ING ?!!?
You’re EITHER A HO, Have Done HO-Things, Have HO-Tendencies or Don’t POSSESS The Capability of BEING A HO
prynsexxx says:
He use to bust down Gabby “hoe ass” Union. Damn shame she traded him in for D. Wade. That hoe went from suga’ to shyt if you ask me.
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She did downgrade though.
If Draya is a hoe then Laura old Garbage Pail Kid face self is a hoe too.
Laura=Pot
Draya=Kettle
No room to talk about nobody….
And you forgot Gabriel Aubrey. Oh wait they friends right?
Kim’s friends: Nick Cannon, Mike Copon, Shengo Deane, Nick Lachey…
ok let me get my nosey ass out her uteri…but I can research her if i’d hit it right?
@ ELOVER maybe you can help me with this… What kinda bitchassness is Gilbert on coming on a show to speak on his dack
Who gives a merry fluck right? Whats that about
Gilbert: Yeah she smashed me and the homies ……….OKAY… but you smashed too whether it was first second or third …THE FLUCK… My HO BURGER HOE AZZ IS CONFUSED
@wcc definitions is fukn


@chacha le go…
Garbage Pail Kid
I loved them dirty smutty mofos.
Get over the fukin labels people; Fukin is just that- fukin.
So if you want to call him your boyfriend for a week. It was still fukin and that is the nature of our being to FUK. I love it!
@FeFe
chopped me if I came home with some chit like that on my body.
Me and ex best friend was bad with messing with niggas with girls. Its easier that way. In and out. Hell my ex best friend got F.B.N. (Fukking Bitch’s Niggas) tatted big as fukk on her leg! She was mad cause I wouldnt get that chit tatted on me. I’m like bish eventually I’m gonna :stop: and grow up. Plus I kept my dirt out the house. My daddy would have
But I used to be vicious back in the day. If I was attracted to you and the feeling was mutual. It was going down.
EB says:
Draya laid it low, and spread it wide
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Is anybody DATING anymore….or do they just fuk
Draya is still a sweetheart in my book……Gilbert is a punk bytch for telling as if it’s something to brag about and pass her along……no respect.
Told my lil one….don’t give it away make them earn it…..he’ll walk away with ur respect……that’s still no guarantee. On second thought I should have sent her to a convent
HOTT Cha Cha
Gil really don’t give TWO-SHYTS about His Baby-Mama (Just THAT Simple…)
Correct me if I’m wrong didnt allegedly Laura sleep with Shaq while he was married to Shaunie?
Knock Knock
Laura answers door
Me:
I would like for you to meet my friend karma bitch. :coffe:
birds of a feather typically flock together so DON’T HATE THE PLAYER, HATE THE GAME!!!! #TEAMDRAYA

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For the record who Draya’s f*ucks is her business. But me personally I’m not gonna “knowingly” share no d*ick… If I meet I guy and he tells me he has a girl and or wife. I will politley excuse myself I’m not saying lie to me BUT there is NO WAY I’m gonna be cool with you having a main chick and I’m the sideline hoe I’m to selfish for that chit :nono:. I say check the bit*ch only if she KNEW about you. And in all honestly both parties need to be checked. If I can’t have all of you then I don’t want none of you that’s the LEO THE LION IN ME
chibytex aka the people’s champ says:
@FeFe
Me and ex best friend was bad with messing with niggas with girls. Its easier that way. In and out. Hell my ex best friend got F.B.N. (Fukking Bitch’s Niggas) tatted big as fukk on her leg! She was mad cause I wouldnt get that chit tatted on me. I’m like bish eventually I’m gonna and grow up
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@ therapist
FeFe says:
I’m not finna get on Kim K and all the rumored dycks that have ran up in her….who gives a fck!?
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I don’t but when your family members call you hoe/slut with a straight face and you break down crying… #believer
Kim K is no better than Draya, Laura, or ANY other girl that be getting dycked down by different dudes, But really who cares what she do and who she fuggin? She just used what she got to get ahead. Her mama just marketed her better…..Mams Kris been pimping since been pimping since been pimping….LOL
grlnva says:
EB says:
Draya laid it low, and spread it wide

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@FeFe
Me and ex best friend was bad with messing with niggas with girls. Its easier that way. In and out. Hell my ex best friend got F.B.N. (Fukking Bitch’s Niggas) tatted big as fukk on her leg! She was mad cause I wouldnt get that chit tatted on me. I’m like bish eventually I’m gonna and grow up. Plus I kept my dirt out the house. My daddy would have chopped me if I came home with some chit like that on my body.
But I used to be vicious back in the day. If I was attracted to you and the feeling was mutual. It was going down.
by chibytex aka the people’s champ on Oct 26, 2011 at 3:10 pm
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what da hell she don’t have respect for herself
chibytex aka the people’s champ says:
Kim has gotten around. And IMO if you done had 4-5 boyfriends in ONE year that you are having sex with. Its no different than what “hoes” are doing. You just putting a label on it and trying to sprinkle sugar on chit
STILL LOST
Sooooooo having 4-5 boyfriends in 356 days makes you a hoe ….STILL LEARNING 
Told my lil one….don’t give it away make them earn it…..he’ll walk away with ur respect……that’s still no guarantee. On second thought I should have sent her to a convent
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@hony well lets get right to it then :hunch:
<<not fukn just a big wet beso
@therapist
Some of y’all hating on Draya. The biotch knows her Talents and her looks are not to be overseen. She is not trying to marriage any dude now. She got bills to pay and if her body is how she can make it then fuk yall for hating on that chit. IT IS HER PUZZY AND YOU WEREN’T EVER CALL TO TAKE NOTES. so why the hate?
marriahe=marry*
It’s not like we live in a perfect world… lets keep it real… lots of regular everyday folks have slept with this cat, that cat, their homeboy’s girl, their girls dude and now days homegirls sleep with each other. Only difference is these folks slept with folks who may or may not have money. Most folks… I would use them term y’all but I know I used to suffer from hit dog syndrome. I could so name folks I know personally who have a business (very profitable) of side chicking from coast to coast. All I know is these girls never lie to the dudes or females… they tell you I am selling my panty pudding… the ball players, rappers, etc know what it is. I feel sorry for none of them.
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She got F.B.N. and 326 right under it…she got the 326 cause those are the numbers that the letters go with.
marriage*
chit I am horny and heated right now and can’t type a fuk chit.
ELove says:
But REALLY… Are Y’all COMPARING Levels of HO-ING ?!!?
You’re EITHER A HO, Have Done HO-Things, Have HO-Tendencies or Don’t POSSESS The Capability of BEING A HO
ohpretty1 says:
FeFe says:
I’m not finna get on Kim K and all the rumored dycks that have ran up in her….who gives a fck!?
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I don’t but when your family members call you hoe/slut with a straight face and you break down crying… #believer
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@CHACHA IM SOO LOST I THINK IM A HOE
WELL MAYBE NOT SOMEBODY TELL ME THE 
Chi…..she stupid. I hope you have disowned her as a friend .
Laker…..mush my Spanish guitar
Ohpretty1 says:
I don’t but when your family members call you hoe/slut with a straight face and you break down crying… #believer
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So true. Kim K and just like Jenna Jamison pretty much they both turned fukkin into a artform/. The only difference Kim K entire family got rich off her snatch.
@THERAPIST AGAIN

@Hony
Oh I’m definitely not hating on Draya….she’s my favorite one on the show and if she wants to hoe around that’s definitely HER business…I just always caution women from becoming OLD HOES….
The WORD Hated/Hating on is so misused these days. So Sad
Draya is doing no different than a girl that likes a guy and fukin give him the puzzy in hopes that she can get her “title of being his gf”. Draya is just making sure she gets a parting gift aka money.
@THERAPIST SO U GON PLAY ME LIKE A GUITAR
NOT REALLY :hunch:
STILL LOST
Sooooooo having 4-5 boyfriends in 356 days makes you a hoe ….STILL LEARNING 
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@Cha
I know females that have different “boyfriends” every other week, And they dont consider themselves hoes cause they have “boyfriends” GTHFOH!! It the same chit IMO. If you switching peens every other week YOU’S A HOE (luda voice)
I didnt have boyfriends I had dips….and it was times where I was ONLY messing with them for months/years at time. So does it make me a whore cause I was screwing a guy that wasnt my “boyfriend” even though he was the only one I was messing with at the time.
But REALLY… Are Y’all COMPARING Levels of HO-ING ?!!?
You’re EITHER A HO, Have Done HO-Things, Have HO-Tendencies or Don’t POSSESS The Capability of BEING A HO
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@Elove, it’s the HO Hierarchy….
I know a few chicks that lay on their back and see dollar signs so I am in support of entrepreneurship.
TeamDraya – does that make her team hoes too? Just saying. Getting passed around and still grinnin’ like you won the lottery is just slutty!!
I would use them term y’all but I know I used to suffer from hit dog syndrome.
Why folks acting like they haven’t and or don’t do the same… lots of folks exchange they california raisin for goods and services… what’s the difference between screwing hoping a ninja like you vs screwing and getting paid for it? Nothing… if u sleep with someone you not married too… you hoeing.
don’t get caught up on titles folks, it is what it is….I admitted to having my hoeing days and I had a whole LOT of fun while doing it…
*whispers*
sometimes I miss it…
U can have on Period stained draws and with a 5th grade education and somebody will be hating on you. Please!!! I wish some people will find a new word And very soon
chibytex aka the people’s champ says:
I didnt have boyfriends I had dips….and it was times where I was ONLY messing with them for months/years at time. So does it make me a whore cause I was screwing a guy that wasnt my “boyfriend” even though he was the only one I was messing with at the time.
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Is this a rhetorical question?
I absolute hate females that sleep with another woman’s man. I’ve never done it and I would hope that the man I’m dating would never do it. I truly believe in Karma and if you think you got away with it … jus wait
GAGIRL87 says:
IM A SAGITARRIUS AND WE STINGY AS FLUCK 
But me personally I’m not gonna “knowingly” share no d*ick… If I meet I guy and he tells me he has a girl and or wife. I will politley excuse myself I’m not saying lie to me BUT there is NO WAY I’m gonna be cool with you having a main chick and I’m the sideline hoe I’m to selfish for that chit . I say check the bit*ch only if she KNEW about you. And in all honestly both parties need to be checked. If I can’t have all of you then I don’t want none of you that’s the LEO THE LION IN ME
@OTB
OutsidetheBox says:
I heard 7000/episode or some along those lines. times 6 or 7…
*counts on fangas* Youve got to be kidding me? ?!?!? Surely its more than that!!! WTF indeed. They cant even get the good BBQ on that salary. Everything must be comped!
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That’s the typical range for 1st year reality shows. If it’s a hit they may be able to get more. I’ve read the RHOA only got $4,000 an episode the 1st season.
Chit “my days” opened doors
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therapist1911 says:
Chi…..she stupid. I hope you have disowned her as a friend .
the entire time. But after that I distance myself. She told my cousin that I had “changed” since I went off to college and that I thought I was better. Its like yeah bish I grew the fukk up and you still in Dallas messing with these ole rooty pooty ass niggas. I aint gonna be able to do it. 
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I said EX best friend. I think she really did become a WHORE cause the last time we chilled was in like 02′ and she had some many dudes coming over for short periods of time. I just stayed in the front and smoked
Dawn Sheen says:
Why folks acting like they haven’t and or don’t do the same… lots of folks exchange they california raisin for goods and services… what’s the difference between screwing hoping a ninja like you vs screwing and getting paid for it? Nothing… if u sleep with someone you not married too… you hoeing.
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Really??
sweetdiva says:
U can have on Period stained draws and with a 5th grade education and somebody will be hating on you. Please!!! I wish some people will find a new word And very soon

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sweetdiva says:
U can have on Period stained draws and with a 5th grade education and somebody will be hating on you. Please!!! I wish some people will find a new word And very soon
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Some are so nuts here
I still love all y’all personalities tho.
JMO says:
I absolute hate females that sleep with another woman’s man. I’ve never done it and I would hope that the man I’m dating would never do it. I truly believe in Karma and if you think you got away with it … jus wait
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FeFe says:
don’t get caught up on titles folks, it is what it is….I admitted to having my hoeing days and I had a whole LOT of fun while doing it…
*whispers*
sometimes I miss it…
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I feel the same way. Those were the days huh?
what’s the difference between screwing hoping a ninja like you vs screwing and getting paid for it? Nothing… if u sleep with someone you not married too… you hoeing.
That’s my point! It aint NO difference. Chit at least PAID hoes got something to show for other than a loose beat-up twat. Hell I shoulda been smarter in my hoe days…
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Many people “hate on” others for simple dumb chit so why can’t someone hate on someone with a 5th grade education? maybe the other person got none.
sweetdiva says:
U can have on Period stained draws and with a 5th grade education and somebody will be hating on you. Please!!! I wish some people will find a new word And very soon
lol
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chibytex aka the people’s champ says:
STILL LOST Sooooooo having 4-5 boyfriends in 356 days makes you a hoe ….STILL LEARNING
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@Cha
I know females that have different “boyfriends” every other week, And they dont consider themselves hoes cause they have “boyfriends” GTHFOH!! It the same chit IMO. If you switching peens every other week YOU’S A HOE (luda voice)
Well I cant understand every other week but that aint the way you put it at first which is why your friend in the e world Cha Cha was confuzzled… can you hold me later
*Sagittarius
TWIN SISSSSSS THAT I WAS SEPERATED AT BIRF FROM EVEN THOUGH WE YEARS APART….HEYYYYY LOVE 
@Creole
CHA Deuce says:
GAGIRL87 says:
IM A SAGITARRIUS AND WE STINGY AS FLUCK 
But me personally I’m not gonna “knowingly” share no d*ick… If I meet I guy and he tells me he has a girl and or wife. I will politley excuse myself I’m not saying lie to me BUT there is NO WAY I’m gonna be cool with you having a main chick and I’m the sideline hoe I’m to selfish for that chit . I say check the bit*ch only if she KNEW about you. And in all honestly both parties need to be checked. If I can’t have all of you then I don’t want none of you that’s the LEO THE LION IN ME
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lady_cn says:
JMO says:
I absolute hate females that sleep with another woman’s man. I’ve never done it and I would hope that the man I’m dating would never do it. I truly believe in Karma and if you think you got away with it … jus wait
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Well then here comes the conversation of is cheating worth breaking up your family for. IF my hubby is cheating, and I never find out I can live with that. IF he’s cheating and I do find out and he aint taking away from MY household I may be able to live with that. But IF he cheating and he giving that bish MY money then we got a problem Houston!!
I dont put to much value on sex, but where a man spends his money is where his heart is IMO!!!
JMO says:
I absolute hate females that sleep with another woman’s man. I’ve never done it and I would hope that the man I’m dating would never do it. I truly believe in Karma and if you think you got away with it … jus wait
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I agree. I felt the same way about a coworker who was knowingly dating a married man. She bragged about the fact that they were kicking it under his wife’s nose since his wife worked in the same building just two floors up. To each their own I guess. Sigh…..
@FeFe
I dont wanna go back to those days…But I do be wanting hall passes sometimes!!
chibytex aka the people’s champ says:
Well then here comes the conversation of is cheating worth breaking up your family for. IF my hubby is cheating, and I never find out I can live with that. IF he’s cheating and I do find out and he aint taking away from MY household I may be able to live with that. But IF he cheating and he giving that bish MY money then we got a problem Houston!!
I dont put to much value on sex, but where a man spends his money is where his heart is IMO!!!
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I agree with you on this but for different reasons.
Some of these comments
I just can’t…
And we wonder why our Kids are the way they are…
I agree. I felt the same way about a coworker who was knowingly dating a married man. She bragged about the fact that they were kicking it under his wife’s nose since his wife worked in the same building just two floors up. To each their own I guess. Sigh…..
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Messing with a MARRIED man is different. I aint do that chit. If a dude he was married, I wasnt going there. Cause I aint messing with the Lord like that. But if you told me you just had a girlfriend…then chit….that’s here problem!
LaTechGrad02 says:
I agree. I felt the same way about a coworker who was knowingly dating a married man. She bragged about the fact that they were kicking it under his wife’s nose since his wife worked in the same building just two floors up. To each their own I guess. Sigh…..
I would have had to distance myself from that tramp! Now that is messy as fluck…
@chibytex
If I could have a hall pass ion think I’d know what ta dew wit myself!
But I always think about they fact that we gotta have a fair exchange, so hubby would have to have a hall pass too…
Why folks acting like they haven’t and or don’t do the same…
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Believe it or not, there are those who haven’t. Not knocking anyone but these are sad times when your non-hoeness is being questioned.
Either way, all of this hoe talk will have me watching Della Reese this evening. “All my hoes honest”
Mamacita says:
Some of these comments I just can’t…
And we wonder why our Kids are the way they are…
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chibytex aka the people’s champ says:
lady_cn says:
JMO says:
I absolute hate females that sleep with another woman’s man. I’ve never done it and I would hope that the man I’m dating would never do it. I truly believe in Karma and if you think you got away with it … jus wait
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Well then here comes the conversation of is cheating worth breaking up your family for. IF my hubby is cheating, and I never find out I can live with that. IF he’s cheating and I do find out and he aint taking away from MY household I may be able to live with that. But IF he cheating and he giving that bish MY money then we got a problem Houston!!
I dont put to much value on sex, but where a man spends his money is where his heart is IMO!!!
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@ JMO I’ve ALWAYS being wife and or gf I’m not playing SECOND to not nary bish :nono:. I’m the bish if you see him out with me and try to confront him. YOU gone be the one leaving with your feelings hurt getting cussed the f*uck out by him NOT me j/k
people say they hate that Monica song sideline hoe song but she telling the truth and I LOVE IT…
When you called his phone, did he pick it up?
No, ’cause we was making love.
Did you meet his moms, have you met his kids? No, oh, did you know my kid was his?
No, oh.
Get your shit together you’re making a fool of yourself,
it don’t matter if he spends the night, his home is somewhere else
Ain’t you tired of being on the side line, tired of getting yours after I get mine baby?
second place don’t get a prize when you gone realize
you’re wasting your time baby
Ain’t you’re tired of him getting, hitting real quick, then rolling and
Ain’t you’re tired of when you need a little change and he lies about what he holding?
Ain’t you’re tired of spending all the holidays alone, tired of being his little sideline ho?
Do he take you out, do he foot your bills, no oh, ’cause I know what his balance is
have you been to his church,
do he ask you to pray, no oh ’cause Sunday’s Family day
LaTechGrad02 says:
JMO says:
I absolute hate females that sleep with another woman’s man. I’ve never done it and I would hope that the man I’m dating would never do it. I truly believe in Karma and if you think you got away with it … jus wait
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I agree. I felt the same way about a coworker who was knowingly dating a married man. She bragged about the fact that they were kicking it under his wife’s nose since his wife worked in the same building just two floors up. To each their own I guess. Sigh…..
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and thats even worse geeez … Married or dating … cheating is cheating
Me and the boys were watching Gremlins last night, and I told them if they don’t do their schoolwork and homework (cuz they’re lazy as hell), that they would end up turning into Gremlins.
Now they’re saying they wanna practice their math and writing. #sneakylaugh
#carryon
Well ladies it was nice chatting with ya. back to work!
Sideline Ho is just as dumb as that Mokensteff song, but that’s my opinion. Women are so accepting of disrespect at times, but let the tables be turned, your man would straight Vandersloot your arse along with the kids.
GAGIRL87 says:
@ JMO I’ve ALWAYS being wife and or gf I’m not playing SECOND to not nary bish
. I’m the bish if you see him out with me and try to confront him. YOU gone be the one leaving with your feelings hurt getting cussed the f*uck out by him NOT me j/k 
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Unpredictable says:
Me and the boys were watching Gremlins last night, and I told them if they don’t do their schoolwork and homework (cuz they’re lazy as hell), that they would end up turning into Gremlins.
Now they’re saying they wanna practice their math and writing. #sneakylaugh
#carryon
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ohpretty1 says:
Why folks acting like they haven’t and or don’t do the same…
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Believe it or not, there are those who haven’t. Not knocking anyone but these are sad times when your non-hoeness is being questioned.
Either way, all of this hoe talk will have me watching Della Reese this evening. “All my hoes honest”<<<<<<<<<<<<<——funny!!!! I was hoping you'd say Quick shot off ur pinky toe
She needs to be mad at her dude not Draya
Im sure he didnt even say sorry just gave Laura a 2 piece and a biscuit and kept it moving….
I still like Draya though she should teach a pole dancing class
Either way, all of this hoe talk will have me watching Della Reese this evening. “All my hoes honest”
I used to be honest.
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Already!!!
I never gave a chit about society’s standards and what folks thought about me and I always felt like if boys could do it why cant I. I did what made me feel good and I dont regret it.
The ONLY thing I regret now is not screwing my homeboy that I had a crush on back in college. Seeing him this past weekend made me wanna
cause now every time I see him I be like I should have done it. But NOOOOOO I was trying to be respectable (fukk that chit
) and keep him as my friend. 

Now I’ll never know!
*passes u some cream*
GAGIRL87 says:
people say they hate that Monica song sideline hoe song but she telling the truth and I LOVE IT…
Sideline Hoe
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that song is pure foolishness.
@ohpretty1
Maaannnnn THE WAY Della talks about HER HOs is Just HILARIOUS !!!
And I’ve met Females DURING MY Man-Whore Dayz that didn’t POSSESS The Capability of BEING A HO (Plenty of Them !!!) And just BEING Real Here… ALL of Them had Man/BF/Husband Problems JUST LIKE Everybody Else
ARE WE STILL TALKN ABOUT HOE RANKING..
ohpretty1 says:
Sideline Ho is just as dumb as that Mokensteff song, but that’s my opinion. Women are so accepting of disrespect at times, but let the tables be turned, your man would straight Vandersloot your arse along with the kids.
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I agree let’s just say I don’t know my dude is cheating but YOU DO, you agree to be his sidechick everything that Monica said in that song is gonna happen. Nine times outta ten YOU gonna be the one getting chitted on. Most dudes take care home first. I just couldn’t knowingly be in a siuation like that.
ohpretty1 says:
Sideline Ho is just as dumb as that Mokensteff song, but that’s my opinion. Women are so accepting of disrespect at times, but let the tables be turned, your man would straight Vandersloot your arse along with the kids.
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I agree, people should require and accept more… even in my age I am learning the same lesson… I’d rather live in the corner of an attic than turn a blind eye… took me a WHILE but I is learning
@ FeFe… Can you be a dahl and pass the sugar?
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Put it like this…I come from a family where the men where more than likely cheating on their wives. My grandfather cheated on my grandmother.
But they came home every night. LOVED their WIVES! Where good fathers to their children and where good providers. At the end of the day that’s what I want outta my husband. Why should I divorce him if she slipped up and fukk a hoe at a club. That bish is not taking everything I have built. I’ll be RINGING the Alarm Beyonce style!
OHoney says:
GAGIRL87 says:
people say they hate that Monica song sideline hoe song but she telling the truth and I LOVE IT…
Sideline Hoe
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that song is pure foolishness.
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@ O Honey that’s your opinion and I respect it. I’m grown ova here and my opinion is I LIKE the song
*passes MzDimpz some Stevia (ion do sugar)*
Everything is starting to make since.
I should probably exit now
@Dimpz @Unpre TTYL
What’s Stevia?
And I’ve met Females DURING MY Man-Whore Dayz that didn’t POSSESS The Capability of BEING A HO (Plenty of Them !!!) And just BEING Real Here… ALL of Them had Man/BF/Husband Problems JUST LIKE Everybody Else

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Just cause you aint no hoe doesnt make your man not one!!!
Yall hoes done made Honey leave!

@177 no man, most seem to be just phuckin, no dating involved.
*5 tsps* And honey, no sugar please.
OHoney says:
GAGIRL87 says:
people say they hate that Monica song sideline hoe song but she telling the truth and I LOVE IT…
Sideline Hoe
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that song is pure foolishness.
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I heard the person who may or may not sing that song all amped up talking about it… you could here the personal experience she may or may not have been implying the song was written off her personal experiences… I mean its dumb to think you are one upping your boyfriend’s mistress if you know and you stay you ain’t one upping nobody…
MzDimplez1123 says:
Yall hoes done made Honey leave!

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Sorry! I’m just keeping it 100.
@chiby
You and I are polar opposites on that…if hubby cheats on me, I’m ready to bounce (money or no money)…I may give him another chance if he apologizes and truly means it and makes a conscious effort to do better, but it’s gonna take ALOT for me to stop thinking about the fact that he slid up in anotha bytch…and let’s not talk about how unfair the whole situation is because I didn’t get to get no side dyck either? GTFOOH…
Da Fluck?????
Ummmmm, yea, oooooookay.
and
and a ___/ <—leather recliner #comfy
#teamBeyonce
Dawn Sheen says:
OHoney says:
GAGIRL87 says:
people say they hate that Monica song sideline hoe song but she telling the truth and I LOVE IT…
Sideline Hoe
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that song is pure foolishness.
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I heard the person who may or may not sing that song all amped up talking about it… you could here the personal experience she may or may not have been implying the song was written off her personal experiences… I mean its dumb to think you are one upping your boyfriend’s mistress if you know and you stay you ain’t one upping nobody…
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True my motto is know your worth BUT I still like the song though
Like I always tell my daughter when you get older three things a man should always be ready to do for you
1. Change your last name
2. Change your address i.e., UPGRADE
3. Change your view on man in a POSITIVE way
@Dimpz
It’s a natural sweetener, it’s extract that comes from a plant and it has 0 calories
I only watched this show once, and don’t know why a stripper/jumpoff/ho would be ashamed of being known as such with other stippers/jumpoffs/hoes.
These women, for me, are neither entertaining nor attractive. I have a brain and have never hung out with desperate, thirsty chicks like this.
This is a very trifling show. Very low and trifling.
I mean its dumb to think you are one upping your boyfriend’s mistress if you know and you stay you ain’t one upping nobody…
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I disagree but I understand your rationale…I think the song is stupid…but Monica is making a valid point. And having been on both sides of the spectrum the problem becomes when the hoes be falling in love with the dudes. Cause the dude aint leaving his girl/wife for you. So yes them holidays you gonna be alone. You will be going to church alone. You dont have access to that credit card…
As ghetto as the song is, its very true!
chibytex aka the people’s champ says:
I mean its dumb to think you are one upping your boyfriend’s mistress if you know and you stay you ain’t one upping nobody…
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I disagree but I understand your rationale…I think the song is stupid…but Monica is making a valid point. And having been on both sides of the spectrum the problem becomes when the hoes be falling in love with the dudes. Cause the dude aint leaving his girl/wife for you. So yes them holidays you gonna be alone. You will be going to church alone. You dont have access to that credit card…
As ghetto as the song is, its very true!
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disclaimer…. I ain’t said nothing bout said name you mentioned…. Whoever wrote the song and or sang it, I am unaware.
Cause the dude aint leaving his girl/wife for you. So yes them holidays you gonna be alone. You will be going to church alone. You dont have access to that credit card…
As ghetto as the song is, its very true!
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That’s what I meant by it, the song has some TRUTH in it
chibytex aka the people’s champ says:
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Put it like this…I come from a family where the men where more than likely cheating on their wives. My grandfather cheated on my grandmother.
But they came home every night. LOVED their WIVES! Where good fathers to their children and where good providers. At the end of the day that’s what I want outta my husband. Why should I divorce him if she slipped up and fukk a hoe at a club. That bish is not taking everything I have built. I’ll be RINGING the Alarm Beyonce style!
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Im sure whatever you “built” doesn’t trump your self worth. You can always rebuild with someone that’s deserving instead of trying to salvage something with a sorry azz man.
Monica making songs like that to give the sideline ho a anthem but I guran damn tee she found out that young Shannon Brown got a sideline hoe and that bytch gone be saying DONT GET MAD GET EVERYTHING.
Bottom line ladies “KNOW YOUR WORTH”
I agree with Mamacita. It appears that we give “hoe” passes just b/c they look cute.
On a different note, I bet Shaunie knew about this the whole time. Homegirl knows how to dish out some karma
and let’s not talk about how unfair the whole situation is because I didn’t get to get no side dyck either? GTFOOH…
and he’ll never know!
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That would be the only part that would piss me off. Cause I done pass up plenty of chances to get my swerve on, but I didnt cause I respect my marriage. But chit pay back is a bish….
Divorce is really not an option for me. Unless this hoe becomes a mistress. Like you spending serious time and money on her. Meaning you putting this bish before your family. I got a problem with that chit.
I won’t speak for everyone else, but I think folks say the song is retarded because you shouldn’t even waste time talking to or speaking about the potential other chick…she should be so much of a non muthafckin factor that the ONLY person you should be focused on is the man who is doing the dirt… but maybe that’s just me…
!*LaKErCHiC@*! says:
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co-mutha fuggin sign
@chi
But they came home every night. LOVED their WIVES! Where good fathers to their children and where good providers.
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Times have changed. Now the ninja got both women payin him. he don’t work and the main chick paying the bills at the house. Then he goes and cheats and the jump off pay for the hotel room.
Back in the day a wife was a wife and a mistress was a mistress. And men took care of home first. The mistress knew she was a mistress and there was SOME SHAME IN THAT. Even mistresses had some standards rarely did she mess with somebody who couldn’t take care of home and have enough to take care of her too cause she knew she was taking second place. A broke married man had to use a straight prostitute if he wanted some strange. My grandfather was a player too. Not saying it was right but things were done different back then.
@FeFe (Comment #276)
There are DUDES who FEEL the same way YOU DO Baby (Real !!!) ME Being ONE of THEM… It’s JUST Total BETRAYAL-n-DISRESPECT especially If Y’all done sat down and SET The Boundaries of Your Marriage (WORD)
I Mean, I could be out there F-ing ALL Kinds of Females but I Keeps My Dyck for YOU (And YOU Only) but YOU choose to Give Your PUZZY to another MFer that AIN’T MARRIED TO YOU or LIVE WITH YOU…
TRICK GTFOH Before I Get MY GUN and KILL YO AZZ !!!
#friendsoftheblogChi!dammn
RONNIE HOE QUOTES :
“Look, Im not trying to turn you out… Im just trying to turn you on to some game”
“Make the money …Dont let it make you”
“She probably dont even make enough to buy herself a Honda Civic”
“Now lets go HOE ….
what, thats what they gon be calling you so you might as well get used to it….. NOW LETS GO…. HOE!”
Im sure whatever you “built” doesn’t trump your self worth. You can always rebuild with someone that’s deserving instead of trying to salvage something with a sorry azz man.
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I feel like now I’m being judged because cheating in NOT my bottom line. That doesnt mean I dont have one. Cheating just aint it. He will not put his hands on me. You will not disrepect me. You will NOT talk to me crazy or call me out my name. THOSE are my bottom lines.
Chit I love my hubby but I aint gonna lie sometimes I do wanna “see” other people. Doesnt mean I want to be with another person or get divorced. I’m human. Its natural. Certain folks just wont admit that chit!
chibytex aka the people’s champ says:
and let’s not talk about how unfair the whole situation is because I didn’t get to get no side dyck either? GTFOOH…
and he’ll never know!
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That would be the only part that would piss me off. Cause I done pass up plenty of chances to get my swerve on, but I didnt cause I respect my marriage. But chit pay back is a bish….
Divorce is really not an option for me. Unless this hoe becomes a mistress. Like you spending serious time and money on her. Meaning you putting this bish before your family. I got a problem with that chit.
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I think the problem is that you focus waaay to much on money. What about love, honesty, etc.? I don’t think you’ve mentioned that yet. Forget that huh, as long as he paying those bills and coming home yall good??
OutsidetheBox says:
@Dawn
#friendsoftheblogChi!dammn
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Let me find out my hubby around this bytch giving out dick sessions to someone other than myself and you’ll be hearing about me in my government name. I tell people all the time I looks real good in orange you fukk we my babies, hubby or my money and bytch you will be looking up at the church ceiling.
@ELove
I Mean, I could be out there F-ing ALL Kinds of Females but I Keeps My Dyck for YOU (And YOU Only) but YOU choose to Give Your PUZZY to another MFer that AIN’T MARRIED TO YOU or LIVE WITH YOU…
TRICK GTFOH Before I Get MY GUN and KILL YO AZZ !!!
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Sorry for all the emoticons Sandra, I had to use them to emphasize how much I agree with my Elova!
I aint never been one to stick around…though I HAVE tried. In the end, I just do not trust that person anymore.
One thing about it 2 things for sure, there is always somebody else for you.
chibytex aka the people’s champ says:
Im sure whatever you “built” doesn’t trump your self worth. You can always rebuild with someone that’s deserving instead of trying to salvage something with a sorry azz man.
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I feel like now I’m being judged because cheating in NOT my bottom line. That doesnt mean I dont have one. Cheating just aint it. He will not put his hands on me. You will not disrepect me. You will NOT talk to me crazy or call me out my name. THOSE are my bottom lines.
Chit I love my hubby but I aint gonna lie sometimes I do wanna “see” other people. Doesnt mean I want to be with another person or get divorced. I’m human. Its natural. Certain folks just wont admit that chit!
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No I’m not judging however in my personal opinion, its not ok to accept a man, or anybody, of their cheating ways because of his financial input. I don’t think you should divorce right away because Im all for making a marriage work but if it continues, I would be done. My love, commitment and vows would be worth more than my mortgage.
Times have changed. Now the ninja got both women payin him. he don’t work and the main chick paying the bills at the house. Then he goes and cheats and the jump off pay for the hotel room.
Back in the day a wife was a wife and a mistress was a mistress. And men took care of home first. The mistress knew she was a mistress and there was SOME SHAME IN THAT. Even mistresses had some standards rarely did she mess with somebody who couldn’t take care of home and have enough to take care of her too cause she knew she was taking second place. A broke married man had to use a straight prostitute if he wanted some strange. My grandfather was a player too. Not saying it was right but things were done different back then.
This is the kinda men I’m talking about. Hell my granny didnt give a chit about that other broad. She knew my grandpa was messing with that woman, but he never took a crumb of bread outta my grandma or his kids mouth. They would have been married over 60 years if both of them were still living. I got aunts and uncles that have been thru hell and high water in their relationship, but they stuck it out and most of them are going on over 20 plus years of marriage.
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chocolate divalicious aka CD says:
Let me find out my hubby around this bytch giving out dick sessions to someone other than myself and you’ll be hearing about me in my government name. I tell people all the time I looks real good in orange you fukk we my babies, hubby or my money and bytch you will be looking up at the church ceiling.
AMEN
<—lemme get some whipped cream and caramel
JMO says:
No I’m not judging however in my personal opinion, its not ok to accept a man, or anybody, of their cheating ways because of his financial input. I don’t think you should divorce right away because Im all for making a marriage work but if it continues, I would be done. My love, commitment and vows would be worth more than my mortgage.
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All together now let the church say AMEN
EXACTLY how I feel…I took vows with ur azz, and chit I think about other dicks I could be enjoying THOROUGHLY…
Sounds like you got somebody on the brain right now!!
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@dats (Comment #294)

My question was always this for the elders and even people nowadays who put up with this chit:
How on earth do you lie down in bed with, get wet for (or hard for), and get turned on by a man (or woman) who you KNOW is openly sleeping with someone else on the side? (and I’m talking strictly about marriages and/or long term monogamous relationships)
My entire MOOD will be thrown off permanently… I TRULY would like to know how folks do this….
I think the problem is that you focus waaay to much on money. What about love, honesty, etc.?
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You know why cause you cant eat that chit. You can wear that chit. And love dont pay no bills. You can have all that love and honesty you want and be sitting outside sleeping in your car. I’m sure you’ve seen homeless couples together. I’m sure they got all the love and honesty in the world, but they are outside…
Love and honesty is great! I’m all for it. But I gotta child that needs things and love and honesty aint gonna give it to her…
*snapping in the air like Ronnie*
Now who gonna be Tricks??????????????????????
@chiby
Don’t judge me…
How on earth do you lie down in bed with, get wet for (or hard for), and get turned on by a man (or woman) who you KNOW is openly sleeping with someone else on the side? (and I’m talking strictly about marriages and/or long term monogamous relationships)
My entire MOOD will be thrown off permanently… I TRULY would like to know how folks do this….
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Ion know, to my knowledge I’ve never been cheated on…
@ Chi
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Well my granny did give a chit from what i’ve been told. But when she found out they had been married over 20yrs…in all that time she hadn’t never worked. where she gonna go? From what I’ve heard it was the 70s and women just couldn’t go out and get a job…and i guess when she thought about it in all that time she ain’t been short of nuthin cause he took care of home and was still paying the jump offs rent.. so I guess she made a calculation and stayed. shid that was smart what else was she gonna do?
ChaCha
your gravi
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@datsmdubya2u
#294 That’s real talk, and a whole nother era, men took care of home and the mistress…and did it well!!
J/S
FeFe says:
My question was always this for the elders and even people nowadays who put up with this chit:
How on earth do you lie down in bed with, get wet for (or hard for), and get turned on by a man (or woman) who you KNOW is openly sleeping with someone else on the side? (and I’m talking strictly about marriages and/or long term monogamous relationships)
My entire MOOD will be thrown off permanently… I TRULY would like to know how folks do this….
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FEFE: For SOME people the CHASE never gets old. For SOME PEOPLE as long as they are part of THE GAME—be it old, wet & stankay—-in their minds, THEY are STILL part of the game.
It’s too many justifications that I can’t seem to wrap my head around..
@chiby
re-read:
who you KNOW is openly sleeping with someone else on the side?
@ Fe FE
My entire MOOD will be thrown off permanently… I TRULY would like to know how folks do this
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some didn’t continue to have sex. but they stayed together anyway cause that’s what people did back then.
FeFe says:
My question was always this for the elders and even people nowadays who put up with this chit:
How on earth do you lie down in bed with, get wet for (or hard for), and get turned on by a man (or woman) who you KNOW is openly sleeping with someone else on the side? (and I’m talking strictly about marriages and/or long term monogamous relationships)
My entire MOOD will be thrown off permanently… I TRULY would like to know how folks do this….
I would like to know that too because I totally feel where your coming from… When I saw some of the slores and crack heads my ex was sleeping with I cringed and was sick to my stomach. To me he was a walking STD… I stayed with him yes but after each time he cheated I would not view him the same anymore, he turned me off more and more with the sight of him..it would get to the point where I would force myself to be him physically as well as mentally there when the
was takin place all I would envision was him with the mc nastys
Glad thats a pass life
It was hard to leave and I thank GOD I never contracted nuthin 
chibytex aka the people’s champ says:
I think the problem is that you focus waaay to much on money. What about love, honesty, etc.?
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You know why cause you cant eat that chit. You can wear that chit. And love dont pay no bills. You can have all that love and honesty you want and be sitting outside sleeping in your car. I’m sure you’ve seen homeless couples together. I’m sure they got all the love and honesty in the world, but they are outside…
Love and honesty is great! I’m all for it. But I gotta child that needs things and love and honesty aint gonna give it to her…
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I semi- get what youre tryin to say but I guess we’ll just have to disagree on this one
@Dats
It aint even about the money. People give up on marriage too easily these days. It’s easy to walk about. But in the bible for better or for worst…and I meant that! But I will not get my ass beat or get talked to like I’m a bish of the street. I aint putting up with that.
@dats
That answers my question…
we’d have to become ROOMMATES then …because I could NOT continue to fck somebody who I KNOW is giving it to the next bish…but that’s just me…
chibytex aka the people’s champ says:
@Dats

It aint even about the money. People give up on marriage too easily these days. It’s easy to walk about. But in the bible for better or for worst…and I meant that! But I will not get my ass beat or get talked to like I’m a bish of the street. I aint putting up with that.
datsmdubya2u says:
@ Chi
This is the kinda men I’m talking about. Hell my granny didnt give a chit about that other broad
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Well my granny did give a chit from what i’ve been told. But when she found out they had been married over 20yrs…in all that time she hadn’t never worked. where she gonna go? From what I’ve heard it was the 70s and women just couldn’t go out and get a job…and i guess when she thought about it in all that time she ain’t been short of nuthin cause he took care of home and was still paying the jump offs rent.. so I guess she made a calculation and stayed. shid that was smart what else was she gonna do?
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Women in America have been working in droves since the 1940s.
In the Seventies work for women was made GLAMOROUS.
I don’t know what happened to your female relative, but perhaps she just gave up on herself.
@ JMO
No I’m not judging however in my personal opinion, its not ok to accept a man, or anybody, of their cheating ways because of his financial input.
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Well me and chi are talking about back in the day. Women didn’t have so many options it was harder for a woman with kids to just leave and go off and get a job. And being on welfare was more shameful than having a cheating hubby. so they stayed. the men were different too their sense of honor would not let them do less for their wives than they did for their jump offs. and if they couldn’t do both that mistress was not staying around hell women had good sense then. If they were gonna be the side ho they was trying to get something out of it besides a beat up puzzy.
The problem with some women is they feel like that pussy is made of gold or something. I actually had a friend who’s boyfriend broke up with her got with somebody else but still came around for dyck sessions with her. She would actually call me up like yeah I rode that nicca all night long I betta you she cant ride that dyck like me. I’m sitting there thinking to myself like yeah fool you really showed her.
Mind you he back at home with his woman, paying her bills and taking care of her kids but all you can think about is being a jockey while riding dyck. Needless to say I had to distance myself from that foolery.
OutsidetheBox says:
Now who gonna be Tricks??????????????????????
We need an old bish for that role

FeFe says:
My question was always this for the elders and even people nowadays who put up with this chit:
How on earth do you lie down in bed with, get wet for (or hard for), and get turned on by a man (or woman) who you KNOW is openly sleeping with someone else on the side? (and I’m talking strictly about marriages and/or long term monogamous relationships)
My entire MOOD will be thrown off permanently… I TRULY would like to know how folks do this….
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Thats’ what I meant by knowingly sharing the dick that chit is just NASTY you just NOT gone tell me you f*ucking me and your main chick just NO morals
@chiby
re-read:
who you KNOW is openly sleeping with someone else on the side?
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My hubby’s best friend. His wife knows. I talked to her the other day and she said she dont give a fukk. Let them suck his dick. Let them wear them hoes pussy out. She is the one getting them military benefits not them.
Everybody’s relationship is different. I dont really knock people and their reasons for staying in a relationship. I got friends that get their asses beat by their hubbies/boyfriend….I dont understand it but who am I to judge.
I’m just wondering where no dude is leaving his wife/girlfriend has come from. There has been PLENTY of men who left home for their side bish!
@Cha
IKR!
I understand how some women just really love their husbands and will put up with a little bit, but I don’t see how you can get turned on by someone that you are supposed to TRUST and you know they are fcking other chicks….alot of women don’t get mad, they just get even (which might be me if it ever came to that), but I hear about some women who just keep taking that chit and still remaining good docile submissive wives….
chocolate divalicious aka CD says:
The problem with some women is they feel like that pussy is made of gold or something. I actually had a friend who’s boyfriend broke up with her got with somebody else but still came around for dyck sessions with her. She would actually call me up like yeah I rode that nicca all night long I betta you she cant ride that dyck like me. I’m sitting there thinking to myself like yeah fool you really showed her. Mind you he back at home with his woman, paying her bills and taking care of her kids but all you can think about is being a jockey while riding dyck. Needless to say I had to distance myself from that foolery.
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@ Tatted MAJORITY of the time it doesn’t happen like that…
ocolate divalicious aka CD says:
The problem with some women is they feel like that pussy is made of gold or something.
Lawd Jesus!! I cant deal….
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Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven says:
I’m just wondering where no dude is leaving his wife/girlfriend has come from. There has been PLENTY of men who left home for their side bish!
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:cosing: I have an uncle who did that chit with a straight face…and all my cousins are STILL bitter with him for the way he left his family…some niggas just don’t give a fck!
@ MrsMommy
Women in America have been working in droves since the 1940s.
In the Seventies work for women was made GLAMOROUS.
I don’t know what happened to your female relative, but perhaps she just gave up on herself.
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In the 40s a lot of women worked due to the war.. the men came home and the women were sent back home.
In the 50s 60s women stayed home more.
My grandmother was already in her late 40s or early 50s (I think).
She wasn’t trying to start no career just cause my granddaddy cheated.
And options for black women were even more limited than for white women in the workplace. It was not easy for a white women to go out and get a career after being a housewife for 20 or more years. So it was doubly hard for a black women. read up on the 70s it was not picnic. It was easier for younger women like my mother. but not for older women like my grandmother.
@ GAGirl – BUT IT DOES HAPPEN is my point! And besides, it shouldn’t be HIM leaving for the sidepiece. It should be THE WIFE leaving BECAUSE of the sidepiece!
#IMO
Shoot, didn’t the Braxton daddy do that chit too???…just rolled the fck on out!
He laid it low and spread it wide!
chocolate divalicious aka CD says:
The problem with some women is they feel like that pussy is made of gold or something. I actually had a friend who’s boyfriend broke up with her got with somebody else but still came around for dyck sessions with her. She would actually call me up like yeah I rode that nicca all night long I betta you she cant ride that dyck like me. I’m sitting there thinking to myself like yeah fool you really showed her.
Mind you he back at home with his woman, paying her bills and taking care of her kids but all you can think about is being a jockey while riding dyck. Needless to say I had to distance myself from that foolery.
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women don’t get mad, they just get even (which might be me if it ever came to that), but I hear about some women who just keep taking that chit and still remaining good docile submissive wives….
My hubby get real nervous when I talk about going to Houston cause he already know, if you fukk up I gots PLENTY of peen down there waiting….

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chibytex aka the people’s champ says:
My hubby’s best friend. His wife knows. I talked to her the other day and she said she dont give a fukk. Let them suck his dick. Let them wear them hoes pussy out. She is the one getting them military benefits not them.
Does she have low self esteem?
Does she ever smile?
Is she on medication?
Is she depressed?
Does she cry alot?
Does she have low self esteem?
Are there kids involved?
Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven says:
I’m just wondering where no dude is leaving his wife/girlfriend has come from. There has been PLENTY of men who left home for their side bish!
See: JLO – Ol Boy
Alicia – Ol Bioy
Fantasia- Ol Boy
LeeAnn Rhimes – Ol Boy
Tori Spelling – Ol Boy ……ect ect
Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven says:
@ GAGirl – BUT IT DOES HAPPEN is my point! And besides, it shouldn’t be HIM leaving for the sidepiece. It should be THE WIFE leaving BECAUSE of the sidepiece!
#IMO
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Back to my motto know your worth so I agree with the latter of your statement…
@ Fe – IT HAPPENS ALL THE TIME! Maybe some are not aware, but half of the time, they are not leaving their home because alot of men have the veiw point that it’s cheaper to keep her! Aint’ no cot dayum way SOME men will be able to leave home, pay child support, alimony, etc. and still keep that side bish laced the way she is use to!
Whoooo sahhhh, :/
FeFe says:
Shoot, didn’t the Braxton daddy do that chit too???…just rolled the fck on out!
He laid it low and spread it wide!
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Hmmmm, you betta tell somebody!
chibytex aka the people’s champ says:
@chiby
re-read:
who you KNOW is openly sleeping with someone else on the side?
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My hubby’s best friend. His wife knows. I talked to her the other day and she said she dont give a fukk. Let them suck his dick. Let them wear them hoes pussy out. She is the one getting them military benefits not them.
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Is her name Alicia Keys??
… Oh nevamind, he swizz isnt in the military
An why when Fantasia and Twaun got together Fanny was a ho, but when Draya inhale a dozen d*cks in a day it’s the dudes fault?
FeFe says:
:cosing: I have an uncle who did that chit with a straight face…and all my cousins are STILL bitter with him for the way he left his family…some niggas just don’t give a fck!
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My son’s dad tried that chit. Left me and his son for a lady that was using him for his money. Once child support started taking the majority of his money, she left and he came crawling back.
Fool me once shame on you, that chit won’t happen twice though. Karma’s a bish depending on how you treat her. 
He still hasn’t gotten his life right and calls me crying daily and it’s been almost 2 years since we broke up. I won’t be going back.
@ GAGirl, You’re right about that! I know my worth. If I catch cheating…even in progress, SURE it will take JESUS HIMSELF to come down and snatch my hand back from not slitting throats BUT I’mma move on….You’ll miss me before I miss you!
Ain’t nobody seen Why Did I Get Married….leaving 80% for a fuggin’ 20%!
Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven says:
I’m just wondering where no dude is leaving his wife/girlfriend has come from. There has been PLENTY of men who left home for their side bish!
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I was only speaking about the people I know. Men left women for the mistress that’s true. but if he decided to stay with the wife he knew taking care of home was a priority. and there was some shame even for the man if he left his wife and kids. shid sometimes they left town to start over cause they knew they would be given the side eye in the old neighborhood for leaving his wife and kids. People still did dirt. there just seem to be some shame about it. People knew they wasn’t doing right and wasn’t proud of it and running around telling everybody about it.
CHA Deuce says:
chibytex aka the people’s champ says:
My hubby’s best friend. His wife knows. I talked to her the other day and she said she dont give a fukk. Let them suck his dick. Let them wear them hoes pussy out. She is the one getting them military benefits not them.
Does she have low self esteem?
Does she ever smile?
Is she on medication?
Is she depressed?
Does she cry alot?
Does she have low self esteem?
Are there kids involved?
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I’m sure many people in here can answer those questions
chibytex aka the people’s champ says:
@chiby
re-read:
who you KNOW is openly sleeping with someone else on the side?
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My hubby’s best friend. His wife knows. I talked to her the other day and she said she dont give a fukk. Let them suck his dick. Let them wear them hoes pussy out. She is the one getting them military benefits not them.
Everybody’s relationship is different. I dont really knock people and their reasons for staying in a relationship. I got friends that get their asses beat by their hubbies/boyfriend….I dont understand it but who am I to judge.
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Wtf? She is full of it. That makes her feel better bacause she getting his benefits? This is why some men cheat…no consequences to their actions. What happens if he decides to bounce on that arse? Then what?
This is why relationship or not, I’m handling my OWN business financially. I’m not about to accept ish cuz I have no where else to go, can’t pay my own bills, have a child to raise. Always live and prepared to do ish on your own. Married or not.
Does she have low self esteem? no she’s really pretty lady
Does she ever smile? yes all the time
Is she on medication? no drugs that I know of…
Is she depressed? not that I know of
Does she cry alot? Ion know I dont live with them
Does she have low self esteem? see # 2
Are there kids involved? yes he has 2 before her, she has one before him and they just had a baby in April
Let me get the f*uck outta this post and go home
This is something I feel passionately about I’m not sharing nary dick “knowingly” AND I’m not playing second best to nary hoe. Now if you do that’s YOUR BUSINESS with all due respect
CHA Deuce says:
Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven says:
I’m just wondering where no dude is leaving his wife/girlfriend has come from. There has been PLENTY of men who left home for their side bish!
See: JLO – Ol Boy
Alicia – Ol Bioy
Fantasia- Ol Boy
LeeAnn Rhimes – Ol Boy
Tori Spelling – Ol Boy ……ect ect
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hell, Donald Trump
L.A. Reid
Eddie Murphy…well, that was for Johnny Gill (still a sidepiece tho)
‘ol dude from Why Did I Get Married…….
THE LIST GOES ON AND ON!
& 
datsmdubya2u says:
@ JMO
No I’m not judging however in my personal opinion, its not ok to accept a man, or anybody, of their cheating ways because of his financial input.
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Well me and chi are talking about back in the day. Women didn’t have so many options it was harder for a woman with kids to just leave and go off and get a job. And being on welfare was more shameful than having a cheating hubby. so they stayed. the men were different too their sense of honor would not let them do less for their wives than they did for their jump offs. and if they couldn’t do both that mistress was not staying around hell women had good sense then. If they were gonna be the side ho they was trying to get something out of it besides a beat up puzzy.
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No Chi said she felt this way now. Thats why I said I disagreed.
Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven says:
@ GAGirl, You’re right about that! I know my worth. If I catch cheating…even in progress, SURE it will take JESUS HIMSELF to come down and snatch my hand back from not slitting throats BUT I’mma move on….You’ll miss me before I miss you!
Ain’t nobody seen Why Did I Get Married….leaving 80% for a fuggin’ 20%!
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Already ala
He Gone Miss Me When I’m gone bye Tatted 
GAGIRL87 says:
Let me get the f*uck outta this post and go home
This is something I feel passionately about I’m not sharing nary dick “knowingly” AND I’m not playing second best to nary hoe. Now if you do that’s YOUR BUSINESS with all due respect
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Ion’even do dyck and I
This is why relationship or not, I’m handling my OWN business financially. I’m not about to accept ish cuz I have no where else to go, can’t pay my own bills, have a child to raise. Always live and prepared to do ish on your own. Married or not.
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That eaiser said than done. When I met my hubby I had my own crib, good as job, my own money. Now things have changed. When you get married u never know what curves life will throw at you. I never ever thought I’d be solely depended on a man, I guess God got the last laugh with that huh
Dont ever say what you aint gonna do….
Lud i was talking about back in the day….jesus people you ain’t got to stay now if you don’t want to.
I never said Draya couldnt be a Hoe cus she was cute
Aside from that how we know her mother is trailer park…that was mean 
Why even get married if you still are going to allow that nicca the luxury of living the single life. He’s married but can fukk other hoes, get his dyck pulled, tugged and sucked. Run up in somebody snatch, eat, lick and do whatever else he wants and you’re cool with that. That’s why hoes be winning because of this nonchalant and ignorant azz attitude.
Bytch fukks with mine and trust she gone be the proto type for HOES BE LOSING AND DYING
@chiby says:
Does she have low self esteem? no she’s really pretty lady
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chibs, you my girl, but being “pretty” does not equal having high self-esteem…
MzTisch says:
chibytex aka the people’s champ says:
@chiby
re-read:
who you KNOW is openly sleeping with someone else on the side?
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My hubby’s best friend. His wife knows. I talked to her the other day and she said she dont give a fukk. Let them suck his dick. Let them wear them hoes pussy out. She is the one getting them military benefits not them.
Everybody’s relationship is different. I dont really knock people and their reasons for staying in a relationship. I got friends that get their asses beat by their hubbies/boyfriend….I dont understand it but who am I to judge.
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Wtf? She is full of it. That makes her feel better bacause she getting his benefits? This is why some men cheat…no consequences to their actions. What happens if he decides to bounce on that arse? Then what?
This is why relationship or not, I’m handling my OWN business financially. I’m not about to accept ish cuz I have no where else to go, can’t pay my own bills, have a child to raise. Always live and prepared to do ish on your own. Married or not.
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No Chi said she felt this way now. Thats why I said I disagreed.
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So what? Cause cheating is not my bottom line its a problem or something is wrong with me. I said earlier I dont put a lot of value on sex. A 15 minute nut aint worth my marriage and relationship. Now if I find out you spending TIME and kicking it with this broad and taking her shopping and chit, then you needs to be with that bish and let me on my way and pay me my ALIMONY and CHILD SUPPORT….
Please and thank you
*raises pointer finger*
I’ll be Malaysia cause i cant relate to those other ladies…
FeFe says:
@chiby says:
Does she have low self esteem? no she’s really pretty lady
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chibs, you my girl, but being “pretty” does not equal having high self-esteem…
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You beat me to it girl
@ JMO
No Chi said she felt this way now. Thats why I said I disagreed.
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Chi likes security.. I think it depends on how much drama a person can take. And these days women are marrying or moving in with someone then he cheats then they leave and do it all again over and over. move-in/marry somebody else then HE cheats and she leaves again. Maybe by that time she’s had another kid. I don’t see how that’s better than staying. And it don’t look like men are gonna quit cheating anytime soon sooo i dunno..
chibytex aka the people’s champ says:
This is why relationship or not, I’m handling my OWN business financially. I’m not about to accept ish cuz I have no where else to go, can’t pay my own bills, have a child to raise. Always live and prepared to do ish on your own. Married or not.
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That eaiser said than done. When I met my hubby I had my own crib, good as job, my own money. Now things have changed. When you get married u never know what curves life will throw at you. I never ever thought I’d be solely depended on a man, I guess God got the last laugh with that huh
Dont ever say what you aint gonna do….
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The only man I know I can depend on is my daddy. And I’m prepared at all times to go at it alone. You never know.
I gotta log off here, heading home…good discussion folks!
While you sitting on ur azz cooking him dinner every night, thinking its ok for him to cheat, there’s another chick out there who’s doing twice what you’re doing and holding her own. Eventually, he will leave and go be with her because he would have to contribute less with her…
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As long as I’m getting my alimony and child support, then that’ll be him. I’m sure she aint gonna be happy about him STILL taking care of his ex-wife.
My paternal GD cheated on my GM and had a baby she pulled out a double – barrel rifle on that ninja and shot him in the back of his thigh. This is after she got some hot coals from the fireplace and tossed them on him. He ran out of the door of course, hauled as to the center of town and thumbed a ride to his new residence. She literally ran him out of Georgia. He couldn’t drive because she had flattened the tires on his car before she confronted him. Oh did I mention his new residence was in Cleveland?
No they never divorced, because that wasn’t ‘a good look’ for a woman back in the day. She still held him financially responsible for his 6 kids and that house. It was that man who taught me about relationships and how not to let a man disrespect me, always have my own money, etc. He said he always regretted messing up his marriage.
I don’t come from passive women so to each its own. Not judging any of your decisions.
but being “pretty” does not equal having high self-esteem…
Yeah, often it equals low… “God help you if you are an ugly girl, ‘course too pretty is also your doom, ’cause everyone harbors a secret hatred for the prettiest girl in the room.”
chocolate divalicious aka CD says:
Bytch fukks with mine and trust she gone be the proto type for HOES BE LOSING AND DYING
PREACH PREACHA
@dats
Just had to state this real quick…
I’D RATHER BE ALONE…
*porno shop is down the street and I can blow the dust off my little black book *
CHA Deuce says:
I never said Draya couldnt be a Hoe cus she was cute Aside from that how we know her mother is trailer park…that was mean.
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Oh you must have missed that broke down ho on the show. Really she ain’t even trailer park. That white broad was straight up ghetto. She raised Draya to get on the pole and inhale multiple d*cks at a time and now she is raising her black son. How many black men raised by two hoes do you know that came out well?
I don’t want to make her out to be the devil. I just saw a lot of comments where this ho was being put on a pedistal just because the big ole chicks were calling her out like all of us would do in the presence of a super celebrity ho.
chocolate divalicious aka CD says:
Bytch fukks with mine and trust she gone be the proto type for HOES BE LOSING AND DYING
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Girl you ain’t neva lied!
Chi likes security.. I think it depends on how much drama a person can take. And these days women are marrying or moving in with someone then he cheats then they leave and do it all again over and over. move-in/marry somebody else then HE cheats and she leaves again. Maybe by that time she’s had another kid. I don’t see how that’s better than staying. And it don’t look like men are gonna quit cheating anytime soon sooo i dunno..
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Thank you!! I seen my mama go through this chit! Her and my daddy split cause they both were cheating. She got with my middle brother’s daddy who was a crazy Vietnam vet. He aint never did chit for my brother. Only saw him once. Then she leaves him and meets my step-father and you have heard that horror story.
I know for a fact that my father wishes he could have worked it out with my mama cause he tells me all the time. Even though he’s been with my step mother for 25 years now. He still loves my mama. And deep down I know my mama wishes she would have stayed with my father cause he’s good man. I know my daddy has cheated on my step mom, but he took care of his family and is good man. And she aint letting that chit go.
FeFe says:
@dats
Just had to state this real quick…
I’D RATHER BE ALONE…
*porno shop is down the street and I can blow the dust off my little black book *
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Yep that’s an option too… ain’t nothing wrong with being single. Women have more options these days than the women i was talking about back in the day…I was really talking about the men and how they did things different back then.
chibytex aka the people’s champ says:
No Chi said she felt this way now. Thats why I said I disagreed.
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So what? Cause cheating is not my bottom line its a problem or something is wrong with me. I said earlier I dont put a lot of value on sex. A 15 minute nut aint worth my marriage and relationship. Now if I find out you spending TIME and kicking it with this broad and taking her shopping and chit, then you needs to be with that bish and let me on my way and pay me my ALIMONY and CHILD SUPPORT….
Please and thank you
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I think I said this before, not sure, but I think there is something wrong with you, or any woman, who thinks its ok for a man to cheat as long as he “takes care of home”. I’m sure you’re a beautiful woman but you’re worth much more than that. Never put yourself in a situation that you can’t handle without a significant other. Hell, If my man depended on me, that would be a huge turnoff and his stock would drop faster than Draya’s panties at a b ball game so I cant imagine how a man would feel if a woman depended on him for so long …
That’s just how I was raised.
OutsidetheBox says:
*raises pointer finger*
I’ll be Malaysia cause i cant relate to those other ladies…
Ima be KIMSHAYSHAY ARTEST or the blonde body builder chick …just take my azz off the show period
they probably sitting back like “Thank God I dodged a bullet” 
In a relationship, I go on with life (financially) like that nicca not even there. If you wanna pay my car note this month for me…cool. Imma put my money up in the bank that I had for the car or make a double payment. Thanks, boo.
A bish may be able to make it so you MAN/HUSBAND don’t even have to work no more…she may just simply have that dough. He leaves and then what?
I just can’t…..
. How many black men raised by two hoes do you know that came out well?

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OutsidetheBox says:
*raises pointer finger*
I’ll be Malaysia cause i cant relate to those other ladies…
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So wait, am I the only one who doesnt even believe Girlbert’s abandoning ass?
Ion trust niggas . <—"Period" out loud
“Thank God I dodged a bullet”
Beyonce voice of course! Just sanging it!!! LMAO!
Bird says:
Oh you must have missed that broke down ho on the show. Really she ain’t even trailer park. That white broad was straight up ghetto. She raised Draya to get on the pole and inhale multiple d*cks at a time and now she is raising her black son. How many black men raised by two hoes do you know that came out well?
WOW REALLY
I still feel you are being harsh, judgemental and thats unfortunate buttttttttttt course your entitled to your opinion…
still lubs you Bird!
chibytex aka the people’s champ says:
Chi likes security.. I think it depends on how much drama a person can take. And these days women are marrying or moving in with someone then he cheats then they leave and do it all again over and over. move-in/marry somebody else then HE cheats and she leaves again. Maybe by that time she’s had another kid. I don’t see how that’s better than staying. And it don’t look like men are gonna quit cheating anytime soon sooo i dunno..
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Thank you!! I seen my mama go through this chit! Her and my daddy split cause they both were cheating. She got with my middle brother’s daddy who was a crazy Vietnam vet. He aint never did chit for my brother. Only saw him once. Then she leaves him and meets my step-father and you have heard that horror story.
I know for a fact that my father wishes he could have worked it out with my mama cause he tells me all the time. Even though he’s been with my step mother for 25 years now. He still loves my mama. And deep down I know my mama wishes she would have stayed with my father cause he’s good man. I know my daddy has cheated on my step mom, but he took care of his family and is good man. And she aint letting that chit go.
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Did he cheat once? That I understand because mistakes happen… but did he continue to cheat WHILE taking care of your step mom?
Thats not a good man. He’s probably a good father but a horrible husband
I think I said this before, not sure, but I think there is something wrong with you, or any woman, who thinks its ok for a man to cheat as long as he “takes care of home”. I’m sure you’re a beautiful woman but you’re worth much more than that. Never put yourself in a situation that you can’t handle without a significant other. Hell, If my man depended on me, that would be a huge turnoff and his stock would drop faster than Draya’s panties at a b ball game so I cant imagine how a man would feel if a woman depended on him for so long …
That’s just how I was raised.
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I was raised that a MAN takes care of his home. And that hoes gonna be hoes and men gonna be men.
Security is the most important thing in a relationship to me. I dont see anything wrong with. I know my value. Trust me!
I just want to SAY I LUV when Y’all LADIES Talk and Share on these type of Discussions (Grown Folks SHYT…)
MzTisch says:
In a relationship, I go on with life (financially) like that nicca not even there. If you wanna pay my car note this month for me…cool. Imma put my money up in the bank that I had for the car or make a double payment. Thanks, boo.
A bish may be able to make it so you MAN/HUSBAND don’t even have to work no more…she may just simply have that dough. He leaves and then what?
I just can’t…..
I AGREEE
Imma put my money up in the bank that I had for the car or make a double payment. Thanks, boo.
Tisch dont be coming in here with that forward-thinking, common sense ass bullchit
Get on now. 
chibytex aka the people’s champ says:
While you sitting on ur azz cooking him dinner every night, thinking its ok for him to cheat, there’s another chick out there who’s doing twice what you’re doing and holding her own. Eventually, he will leave and go be with her because he would have to contribute less with her…
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As long as I’m getting my alimony and child support, then that’ll be him. I’m sure she aint gonna be happy about him STILL taking care of his ex-wife.
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And I’m sure you can’t be too mad at her considering you used to cheat in ur past life as well
OutsidetheBox says:
Imma put my money up in the bank that I had for the car or make a double payment. Thanks, boo.
Tisch dont be coming in here with that forward-thinking, common sense ass bullchit
Get on now. 
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Did he cheat once? That I understand because mistakes happen… but did he continue to cheat WHILE taking care of your step mom?
Thats not a good man. He’s probably a good father but a horrible husband
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I’m not sure if she knows, but she’s not stupid. See I look at things different. You can have a man that loves u and is honest and blah blah blah, but if this nigga aint providing for his family he aint chit to me. That’s not a good husband. Just cause he love me. So what? I can “love” myself.
@OutsidetheBox:
Exactly. This nicca abandoned you and HIS four kids multiple times. I still cant quite understand how is she coming at Draya like that when her name became known because throughout the whole 2nd season all we heard about was Gloria sister Laura who had slept with Shaq.
ELove says:
I just want to SAY I LUV when Y’all LADIES Talk and Share on these type of Discussions (Grown Folks SHYT…)
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Do you mind if I call you drake? Thats who I think of every time I see your gravi
ELove says:
I just want to SAY I LUV when Y’all LADIES Talk and Share on these type of Discussions (Grown Folks SHYT…)
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So do I. I really do, even if we have 50-11 opinions on the topic. Reminds me of the old days.
chibytex aka the people’s champ says:
Did he cheat once? That I understand because mistakes happen… but did he continue to cheat WHILE taking care of your step mom?
Thats not a good man. He’s probably a good father but a horrible husband
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I’m not sure if she knows, but she’s not stupid. See I look at things different. You can have a man that loves u and is honest and blah blah blah, but if this nigga aint providing for his family and he cheating,he aint chit to me. That’s not a good husband. Just cause he love me. So what? I can “love” myself.
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Now had you added my bold comment we would finally agree
And I’m sure you can’t be too mad at her considering you used to cheat in ur past life as well
I’ve never cheated. THEM niggas was doing the cheating. NOT me. I’ve only had two serious relationships in my life. My ex I first met when I first moved here and my hubby. I aint have time for all that serious chit in college. It was too much variety to be with just one. I had to mature…and hell sometimes I still dont know. 
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Mrrrrmmmm.
Chi I just wanna call you, or shake you like one of the Teen moms be doing they babies…no judging though. Im Malaysia remember?
@JMO is Laura/Jackie/’nem.
Yo Mama aint shyt.. Yo Granny aint shyt… Yo Daddy aint shyt…. So guess what lil nicca …YOU AINT GON NEVA ………
Reminds me of the old days.
CHA Deuce says:
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what you say now!
CHA Deuce says:
WOW REALLY I still feel you are being harsh, judgemental and thats unfortunate buttttttttttt course your entitled to your opinion… still lubs you Bird!
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Luv ya more girl. I’m just saying what I was thinking when I saw mama with her hood talk and scared up face. It made me that much more sympathetic toward Draya. I still think the girl needs some positive influences in her life cause mama wasn’t that.
@Chiby,
I’m not judging you and I get what you are saying. But, the story about the best friends wife blew the phuk outta me. And I think you are not sitting around cuz you don’t have nowhere to go or is dependent on him.
1) You are a college educated woman who is LOOKING for a job.
2) Your husband isn’t cheating on you…(I don’t think you said he was)
@ Chi
I was raised that a MAN takes care of his home. And that hoes gonna be hoes and men gonna be men.
Security is the most important thing in a relationship to me. I dont see anything wrong with. I know my value. Trust me!
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Chi you me and you don’t agree on everything but that right there is real talk. Some people be posting about how things should be or how they wants things to be. and some be straight up lying..but you post about how things are….
If you gonna deal with a man you gonna deal with a cheating man. It’s not a matter of if he will cheat it’s when will he cheat….A woman just need to know what’s she’s gonna do when she finds out. Im sure there are a few thousand who won’t cheat but that’s about as rare as winning the lottery. Now somebody is gonna post “my man ain’t cheated” well I say good for you keep your fingers crossed and your eyes open.
Chi I just wanna call you, or shake you like one of the Teen moms be doing they babies…no judging though. Im Malaysia remember?
@JMO is Laura/Jackie/’nem.
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So I guess that makes me Draya!!!
chibytex aka the people’s champ says:
And I’m sure you can’t be too mad at her considering you used to cheat in ur past life as well
I’ve never cheated. THEM niggas was doing the cheating. NOT me. I’ve only had two serious relationships in my life. My ex I first met when I first moved here and my hubby. I aint have time for all that serious chit in college. It was too much variety to be with just one. I had to mature…and hell sometimes I still dont know. 
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*sigh* Chi, you were just as guilty and a piece of sh*t as those guys that had girls that you KNEW about.
One of my friends broke up with her bf of 5 years because he was cheating. He always said he wasnt ready for marriage, kids blah blah and she felt eventually he would change. Needless to say after they broke up, just over a yr later, he’s married and expecting his first child with his wife… enough to make a woman go crazy right?
@JMO (Comment #402)
<—– My FOH Face !!!
NOT Only Do I LIKE Puzzy (I Actually LUV Puzzy…)
OutsidetheBox says:
Mrrrrmmmm.
Chi I just wanna call you, or shake you like one of the Teen moms be doing they babies…no judging though. Im Malaysia remember?
@JMO is Laura/Jackie/’nem.
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Why I hafta be the angry birds??
JMO says:
chibytex aka the people’s champ says:
And I’m sure you can’t be too mad at her considering you used to cheat in ur past life as well
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I’ve never cheated. THEM niggas was doing the cheating. NOT me. I’ve only had two serious relationships in my life. My ex I first met when I first moved here and my hubby. I aint have time for all that serious chit in college. It was too much variety to be with just one. I had to mature…and hell sometimes I still dont know.
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*sigh* Chi, you were just as guilty and a piece of sh*t as those guys that had girls that you KNEW about.
One of my friends broke up with her bf of 5 years because he was cheating. He always said he wasnt ready for marriage, kids blah blah and she felt eventually he would change. Needless to say after they broke up, just over a yr later, he’s married and expecting his first child with his wife… enough to make a woman go crazy right?
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Wow, I hear about situations like this often. He was ready for all those things…he just didn’t want it with her.
ohpretty1 says:
ELove says:
I just want to SAY I LUV when Y’all LADIES Talk and Share on these type of Discussions (Grown Folks SHYT…)
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So do I. I really do, even if we have 50-11 opinions on the topic. Reminds me of the old days.
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I’m just trippin over the fact that no one has come to cyber blows yet. Just civil conversation. Hallelujah!
If you gonna deal with a man you gonna deal with a cheating man. It’s not a matter of if he will cheat it’s when will he cheat….A woman just need to know what’s she’s gonna do when she finds out. Im sure there are a few thousand who won’t cheat but that’s about as rare as winning the lottery. Now somebody is gonna post “my man ain’t cheated” well I say good for you keep your fingers crossed and your eyes open.
Hell your man could tell you baby I’m going to the store and that nigga go chop down some broad. You never know. And if you are willing to throw your relationship away because of that then kudos to you. But I’m not. Who’s to say I’m never gonna cheat. I wouldnt want my hubby to divorce me.
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Shaunie probably sitting back laughing her ass off at Laura. Laura fukked Shaq, Shaunie done one up’d her and done hired and paid the bitch that fukked her babydaddy and air it for the world to see. Smart bish move. “Laura tell me how my azz taste” #Shaunievoice
Wow, I hear about situations like this often. He was ready for all those things…he just didn’t want it with her.
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that’s usually the case…when a man tells you he ain’t looking for nothing but to kick it. believe him. save yourself a lot of trouble
*sigh* Chi, you were just as guilty and a piece of sh*t as those guys that had girls that you KNEW about.

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Bird says:
ohpretty1 says:
ELove says:
I just want to SAY I LUV when Y’all LADIES Talk and Share on these type of Discussions (Grown Folks SHYT…)
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So do I. I really do, even if we have 50-11 opinions on the topic. Reminds me of the old days.
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I’m just trippin over the fact that no one has come to cyber blows yet. Just civil conversation. Hallelujah!
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Yall know I love yall.
I want yall to be great! Malaysia be saying “jury” and her teeth be sliding like
when she speaks but she so nice and calm. 
chibytex aka the people’s champ says:
*sigh* Chi, you were just as guilty and a piece of sh*t as those guys that had girls that you KNEW about.

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You would laugh at that part of my comment… silly azz
LovelyLady says:
Shaunie probably sitting back laughing her ass off at Laura. Laura fukked Shaq, Shaunie done one up’d her and done hired and paid the bitch that fukked her babydaddy and air it for the world to see. Smart bish move. “Laura tell me how my azz taste” #Shaunievoice
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Damn and that my friends is all it all went down. And she paid Gloria to bring her in the “circle.” Shaunie is a bad bish!
Bird says:
CHA Deuce says:
WOW REALLY I still feel you are being harsh, judgemental and thats unfortunate buttttttttttt course your entitled to your opinion… still lubs you Bird!
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Luv ya more girl. I’m just saying what I was thinking when I saw mama with her hood talk and scared up face. It made me that much more sympathetic toward Draya. I still think the girl needs some positive influences in her life cause mama wasn’t that
I dont know….yeah she made some flucked up parenting decisions…shyt I would NEVER EVER do, we all make mistakes and fall short…She said herself though that she gets around…my whole thing with that is she is single. I dont know, regardless of her mothers appearance I applaud her for steppin in for her daughters inconsistencies and raising her grandchild with hopefully the love he is lacking from his mother. She does seem smart though, when she speaks I dont get “hood rat” like I hear whenever BODY BUILT WRONG AKA LAURA speaks
IJS
@Lovely
THAT was a GOOD One BABY (Whaddup Though Sexxy !!!) 
@ CHI
Hell your man could tell you baby I’m going to the store and that nigga go chop down some broad. You never know
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And that’s because there is always so low self esteem having woman out there who will let him fluxx her in the car for 15mins on the way to the store then drop her off and think she is WINNING!!!!!! Yes he shouldn’t want a woman who thinks so little of herself. But hasn’t MIJDC tole us over and over men don’t care why dey gettin the puzzay as long as they gettin it?
@chibytex
I’ve been reading Your Comments and I GET Everything that YOU are SAYING (Real !!!)
She does seem smart though, when she speaks I dont get “hood rat” like I hear whenever BODY BUILT WRONG AKA LAURA speaks
IJS

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FLUCK U OTB FOR COMMENT #425 FLUCK YOU WITH ALL MY HEART AND SOULJA BOY TELLEM
Is it me or does Laura seem like she has ADHD
She always looks lost to me 
ELove says:
@chibytex
I’ve been reading Your Comments and I GET Everything that YOU are SAYING (Real !!!)
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Thanks Buddy!
I’m clocking out folks!!
Good Conversation today!
chibytex aka the people’s champ says:
ELove says:
@chibytex
I’ve been reading Your Comments and I GET Everything that YOU are SAYING (Real !!!)
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Thanks Buddy!
I’m clocking out folks!!
Good Conversation today!
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Same here …
One of my friends broke up with her bf of 5 years because he was cheating. He always said he wasnt ready for marriage, kids blah blah and she felt eventually he would change. Needless to say after they broke up, just over a yr later, he’s married and expecting his first child with his wife… enough to make a woman go crazy right?
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Wow, I hear about situations like this often. He was ready for all those things…he just didn’t want it with her.
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Situations like the above: When someone shows you who they really are, believe them. I know of plenty like that and it didn’t require hindsight to know how the story would end.
I would say I’m gonna have to watch the episode again to see what I missed with Mama, but I know I won’t. I don’t even like the show and am amazed that I keep tuning in every Monday. Maybe I’m remembering wrong…..but I doubt it. And she definately wasn’t well spoken so I’m starting to think yall are trying to pull my leg.
ohpretty1 says:
One of my friends broke up with her bf of 5 years because he was cheating. He always said he wasnt ready for marriage, kids blah blah and she felt eventually he would change. Needless to say after they broke up, just over a yr later, he’s married and expecting his first child with his wife… enough to make a woman go crazy right?
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Wow, I hear about situations like this often. He was ready for all those things…he just didn’t want it with her.
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Situations like the above: When someone shows you who they really are, believe them. I know of plenty like that and it didn’t require hindsight to know how the story would end.
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Yea, I wonder about that but she said she had no clue. I never really got to meet him because they are in the army and they traveled pretty often.
Hey Elove
I still be here just more lurking, but now the goverment fisical year has ended I got a few weeks of breaks.
datsmdubya2u says:
@ CHI
Hell your man could tell you baby I’m going to the store and that nigga go chop down some broad. You never know
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And that’s because there is always so low self esteem having woman out there who will let him fluxx her in the car for 15mins on the way to the store then drop her off and think she is WINNING!!!!!! Yes he shouldn’t want a woman who thinks so little of herself. But hasn’t MIJDC tole us over and over men don’t care why dey gettin the puzzay as long as they gettin it?
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And in my opinion the WIFE is no better than the other woman with low self esteem if she knowingly accepts her husband busting down other bishes every chance he gets because her name is on the insurance card or he paying the mortgage. Both women are LOSING and the only one WINNING is the man!
@ Oh pretty
Situations like the above: When someone shows you who they really are, believe them. I know of plenty like that and it didn’t require hindsight to know how the story would end.
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but my puzzay is magic and filled with skittles and glitter…when he hits it he’ll want to marry me no matter what he just said…..Im different….
Peace out folks. It’s wonderful that the one time I had a few minutes to myself at work we could have a great conversation about Draya. lol
Catch ya next time.
i just read all of these comments and had to log in just to say…i totally get where you are coming from Chi! Life ain’t perfect. People deal with what they want to deal with. My mama told a woman my daddy cheated on her with (that is his past life, daddy is a great husband now…they were really young when they got married) “do you think i am going to leave him and have him over there while my kids have 1/2 a father and i struggle to pay these bills?” i couldn’t have done that…i would have bounced, but i totally see where she came from.
And in my opinion the WIFE is no better than the other woman with low self esteem if she knowingly accepts her husband busting down other bishes every chance he gets because her name is on the insurance card or he paying the mortgage. Both women are LOSING and the only one WINNING is the man!
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yeah but a some of women are not gonna just move out, traumatize the kids, find her own place, pay all her own bills, go through a divorce, custody battle sell their nice house (or worse the judge gives it to him then he moves the bish in). Start having to wait on Child support, working out visitation, explaining to everyone about the divorce on and on and on……cause of some 15mins in the back of the car. Most MARRIED women are gonna try to work it out multiple times. The ones saying “he gets one chance only…im outta there” ain’t been married they only talking out the side of their necks about a situation that ain’t happened to them….Now Shacking women may leave right away but most married women are trying to work it out multiple times before leaving…
datsmdubya2u says:
And in my opinion the WIFE is no better than the other woman with low self esteem if she knowingly accepts her husband busting down other bishes every chance he gets because her name is on the insurance card or he paying the mortgage. Both women are LOSING and the only one WINNING is the man!
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yeah but a some of women are not gonna just move out, traumatize the kids, find her own place, pay all her own bills, go through a divorce, custody battle sell their nice house (or worse the judge gives it to him then he moves the bish in). Start having to wait on Child support, working out visitation, explaining to everyone about the divorce on and on and on……cause of some 15mins in the back of the car. Most MARRIED women are gonna try to work it out multiple times. The ones saying “he gets one chance only…im outta there” ain’t been married they only talking out the side of their necks about a situation that ain’t happened to them….Now Shacking women may leave right away but most married women are trying to work it out multiple times before leaving…
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Trying to work it out with a husband that’s remorseful and wants to be forgiving is totally different as a husband who doesn’t give a damn and is single in his lifestyle.
@ dats #442 – Chile, now that type of thinking is for another post on another day. Don’t get me started with that one.
I just want to SAY I LUV when Y’all LADIES Talk and Share on these type of Discussions (Grown Folks SHYT…)
So do I. I really do, even if we have 50-11 opinions on the topic. Reminds me of the old days.
I’m just trippin over the fact that no one has come to cyber blows yet. Just civil conversation. Hallelujah!
datsmdubya2u says:
And in my opinion the WIFE is no better than the other woman with low self esteem if she knowingly accepts her husband busting down other bishes every chance he gets because her name is on the insurance card or he paying the mortgage. Both women are LOSING and the only one WINNING is the man!
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yeah but a some of women are not gonna just move out, traumatize the kids, find her own place, pay all her own bills, go through a divorce, custody battle sell their nice house (or worse the judge gives it to him then he moves the bish in). Start having to wait on Child support, working out visitation, explaining to everyone about the divorce on and on and on……cause of some 15mins in the back of the car. Most MARRIED women are gonna try to work it out multiple times. The ones saying “he gets one chance only…im outta there” ain’t been married they only talking out the side of their necks about a situation that ain’t happened to them….Now Shacking women may leave right away but most married women are trying to work it out multiple times before leaving…
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And I’ve never been married and I’m certainly not saying what I may or may not do if my husband cheating. What I’m saying is that if I stay it’s not cuz I don’t have a choice or an option. I’m staying cuz I love you and I want to work it out.
datsmdubya2u says:
yeah but a some of women are not gonna just move out, traumatize the kids, find her own place, pay all her own bills, go through a divorce, custody battle sell their nice house (or worse the judge gives it to him then he moves the bish in). Start having to wait on Child support, working out visitation, explaining to everyone about the divorce on and on and on……cause of some 15mins in the back of the car. Most MARRIED women are gonna try to work it out multiple times. The ones saying “he gets one chance only…im outta there” ain’t been married they only talking out the side of their necks about a situation that ain’t happened to them….Now Shacking women may leave right away but most married women are trying to work it out multiple times before leaving…
Girl that is REAL TALK…REAL REAL REAL TALK!!!!
@MzTisch
Trying to work it out with a husband that’s remorseful and wants to be forgiving is totally different as a husband who doesn’t give a damn and is single in his lifestyle.
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Most of them are remorseful when caught..that’s why alot married women try to work it out to see if its a slip up or a lifestyle… Im not saying never leave but once you’ve built something with somebody it’s not easy to just move out after some cheating. Hell a lot of women don’t leave until people outside the family find out about his cheating then she is embarrassed…then they leave.
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NOW the exception might be if I was Eddie Longs wife… AINT NO COMING BACK FROM YOU playing and digging in a bunch of lil boys buttholes NOPE
In my Bernadette voice (W2E) GET YO SHYT…GET YO SHYT…AND GET OUT

datsmdubya2u says:
@MzTisch
Trying to work it out with a husband that’s remorseful and wants to be forgiving is totally different as a husband who doesn’t give a damn and is single in his lifestyle.
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Most of them are remorseful when caught..that’s why alot married women try to work it out to see if its a slip up or a lifestyle… Im not saying never leave but once you’ve built something with somebody it’s not easy to just move out after some cheating. Hell a lot of women don’t leave until people outside the family find out about his cheating then she is embarrassed…then they leave.
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Sad, but true.
@CHA
<— should read… That was my life story… I tried to stick it out as long as I could until trying wasnt helping me no mo' it was making me sick and unstable.
Girl that is REAL TALK…REAL REAL REAL TALK!!!!
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Well I'm glad you made the decision that was right for you…People be posting about how things should be but not how things really are….
Night CHI baby
Night CHA
Night MzTisch
Night OHPretty
If ya’ll still lurking when i get home then i’ll get back witcha! see ya tomorrow otherwise…
NIGHT DATS :wave: BTW yes..LIFE IS GOOD IM GOOD IM REALLLLLLL GOOD
datsmdubya2u says:
@CHA
<— should read… That was my life story… I tried to stick it out as long as I could until trying wasnt helping me no mo' it was making me sick and unstable.
Girl that is REAL TALK…REAL REAL REAL TALK!!!!
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Well I'm glad you made the decision that was right for you…People be posting about how things should be but not how things really are….
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I don't think that's true. It's women that will stay no matter what and there is women that will bounce if they man dip out on them. All marriages nor are all women the same.
Anyways, great healthy debate without any name calling…..
We can continue this on the next hoes vs husbands vs mistresses vs military pay vs. Draya in the locker room posts!
Good night!
MzTisch says:
datsmdubya2u says:
@CHA
<— should read… That was my life story… I tried to stick it out as long as I could until trying wasnt helping me no mo' it was making me sick and unstable.
Girl that is REAL TALK…REAL REAL REAL TALK!!!!
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Well I'm glad you made the decision that was right for you…People be posting about how things should be but not how things really are….
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I don't think that's true. It's women that will stay no matter what and there is women that will bounce if they man dip out on them. All marriages nor are all women the same.
Anyways, great healthy debate without any name calling…..
We can continue this on the next hoes vs husbands vs mistresses vs military pay vs. Draya in the locker room posts!
Good night!
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chibytex aka the people’s champ says:
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I see what you did there
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CHA Deuce says:
NOW the exception might be if I was Eddie Longs wife… AINT NO COMING BACK FROM YOU playing and digging in a bunch of lil boys buttholes NOPE
In my Bernadette voice (W2E) GET YO SHYT…GET YO SHYT…AND GET OUT

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re: hoe talk
seems like the ‘celebrity’ is only a hoe if the person commenting doesn’t like her
i don’t ever comment on anyone else’s sex life tho bc its not my business
anywho, nobody is probably even here this late
IM HERE CANDIIIIIIIIIIIII *busts out the tic tac toe board and hits you with a X
@Mz Tisch
I don’t think that’s true. It’s women that will stay no matter what and there is women that will bounce if they man dip out on them. All marriages nor are all women the same.
Anyways, great healthy debate without any name calling…..
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I agree with you wholeheartedly. I am married and I’m openly stating that I will not stick around for repeated cheating over and over again…I can be ALONE for all that bullshat. I’m alot like my mother, she was very independent and didn’t have time for bullshyt AT ALL. She and my father divorced not because he was cheating (he told me when I became an adult that he NEVER cheated on my mother when they were married) but because of money and drug problems. Every situation is different, every marriage is different, and every person in the marriage is different. People make mistakes, sure, and I do not judge the next person for what they put up with, but I know what I can put up with and open cheating is not one of them…
Have a great night everyone, as stated by others, this was a great discussion…
Lets keep an open mind here its and open forum but any woman having sex with a man thats not her husband is considered a whore, unclean, jezebel, fornicator, weather it be one man or 7 , shes still the same thing, she is considered loose, Yea I fit in that catagory. 3 in one night seems a xtreme but its still all tbe same.
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Having SEX with ONE PERSON in a Day/Session isn’t the SAME AS Having SEX with THREE DIFFERENT PEOPLE in a Day/Session But I DO understand what you are Saying Though… THIS coming from a Former (As in PAST) Man-WHORE
whatever draya did is what the rest of them hoes-cum-baby mamas did too. they all hoes, some luckier than others.