Police are scouring the South for a toddler who hasn’t been seen since Thanksgiving. According to published reports, Columbia Police Chief Randy Scott says they’re still getting very little help from the mother of the missing toddler about that child’s whereabouts.
The boy’s mother, Zinah Jennings, 22, was taken into custody Dec. 24, when Jennings crashed her Dodge Neon into a tree near her home in Columbia, S.C.
Jennings’ mother, Jocelyn Jennings Nelson, called Columbia police on Dec. 8 to report Jennings’ 18-month-old son, Amir, missing. Amir’s grandmother was concerned because her daughter had gotten into a separate car accident several days earlier and made “cryptic phone calls to other family members indicating her ongoing fight with depression is continuing,” police said in a report.
“Zinah was not necessarily reported as missing,” said Jocelyn, “It was the child that I was concerned with because I had actually seen her the night before.”
Amir’s biological father told police he last saw his son during Thanksgiving. That’s when Jennings left Columbia en route to Atlanta with Amir to stay with her sister. Police were able to confirm that Jennings and Amir had indeed arrived in Atlanta. Police are analyzing video surveillance tapes to determine Amir’s last location in Atlanta.
During 3 days of interrogation, Jennings told police, first, that she had no son. Then she told police that she left the boy with her sister in Atlanta.
“First it’s, ‘He’s with my sister in Atlanta. Oh no, I’m sorry, he’s with my friend in Charlotte,'” said Scott. “It’s all over the place. … Everything she’s telling us is just lies.”
Scott was also concerned about a bizarre statement Jennings made during the interrogation:
“During an interview with her, when I mentioned she would be going to jail, she said, ‘That’s the place I need to be,'” said Scott.
When her lies failed to lead police to the boy, Jennings was charged with unlawful conduct toward a child by lying to police, and she was jailed on a $150,000 bond.
“I’m trying to stay optimistic about this,” Scott said. “But short of being optimistic, this case bothers me.”
Thanks to loyal readers KDub and TPTotalPackage for the tips.
This woman looks liek a real life dodo bird, geesus, scrolls back up to read the story
i was just going to ask in another post how do parents feel about having to put their kids before them? do you have any resentment, etc? not everyone’s thrilled to have kids. If you had to do all over would you have kids?
When i hear stories like this it just saddens me. I will never understand how people who desperate want to have a child can not( esp with ifv being $$$) and these scumbags and procreate over and over again. it hurts my heart
Good Morning All
I really hope they find this little boy alive and well. Some people just don’t need to be parents. There are so many women who can’t have that will gladly adopt or foster a child.
This story is tragic but so is her Nicki Minaj weave.
She killed that baby. Don’t know why or how but…yeah. Hope they put the btch under the jail.
She will NOT get the Casy Anthony child killer package
so sad. sick of seeing these stories. morning fam
Lord have mercy look at this chile!
YSoSrs says:
She killed that baby. Don’t know why or how but…yeah. Hope they put the btch under the jail.
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Hate to say it, but you may be right. You can look at the mugshot and wig and tell that b!tch ain’t wrapped too tight.
Oh and…… Hey
Praying for the little boy. Hopefully he will be found safe… I hope.
As for the mom-> That Hair and those brows
somebody should’ve known something was wrong with her SMH!
Thank you so much for posting this Sandra!!! I am tears I am so grateful. It is unbelievable the lack of support I feel that Amir is receiving. Please go to https://www.facebook.com/pages/Find-Amir-Jennings/253379741395908 and Like the page I am going to come back in a second and post the contact info for the investigator.
@Pointhimout
I have no type of sympathy for people that have children and don’t want them. From the time you are in middle school you hace sex ed classes that teach you all about birth control. There are WAY too many preventative measures out here.
Once you have the child…DEAL WITH IT!!! Give them up for adoption. Make sure that child has a good life.
I want to kick this bish in the face.
pointhimout says:
i was just going to ask in another post how do parents feel about having to put their kids before them? do you have any resentment, etc? not everyone’s thrilled to have kids. If you had to do all over would you have kids?
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My first instinct has always been to put my kids and their needs first before myself. I still will go into a store and put 30 things for my children in the buggy and then when it comes to find me one thing for myself I always say “that’s too much money”. But I have made a conscious decision this year to invest more in myself hell even my older children are starting to say mommy you dont have to get us anything go and buy you something.
Depression.
Jennings was charged with unlawful conduct toward a child by lying to police
I saw Casey Anthnoy’s video diary this morn.
@ Point, I have three I would change a thing. They didn’t ask to come here, so to mistreat, abuse, and kill a child is the worst. I feel resentment towards myself when I shop for me, I’ve always put their wants and needs ahead of mine. I only wish I was wealthy so I could spoil them even more than I do.
#iwasborntobeamother
@PHO
Before my boys were placed with me almost five years ago, I never knew what it was like to be truly selfless. Never would have thought I’d even be capable of it.
Now, almost everything I do has them in mind first and foremost and I wouldn’t haver it any other way, even when they make me want to choke their asses out.
i still pray tho :praying:
“Amir’s grandmother was concerned because her daughter had gotten into a separate car accident several days earlier and made ‘cryptic phone calls to other family members indicating her ongoing fight with depression is continuing,’ police said in a report.”~Sandra Rose
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So a child is knowingly left with someone suffering depression and isnt seen for a month the mother is invovled in two wrecks and they JUST call the police.
They should prolly start interrogating the rest of the fam. Starting with Sis nad Grandma.
My God
they find that baby soon and unharmed. I don’t understand it, my kids drive me crazy every damn day of the week cause that’s what kids do but never have I wanted to take them outta this world
@ CD, I’m going to the spa monthly, alone just for me, that’s my treat to me.
HOG!! :fistbump:
How you been?
YALL YSo Hershey
mawnin ladies!
I also agree with the mother’s that are saying they feel guilt when they buy for themselves. I rarely buy anything for myself and when I do, it’s always on sale.
Before I had him it was nothing to spend $500-600 on a bag. Now all I can think about is what I could buy for that amount for him, and that I could put it towards his college fund.
Amir was last seen in Atlanta. They are asking that anyone that has seen Zinah or Amir between Thanksgiving and Christmas to contact Law Enforcement.
I saw Casey Anthnoy’s video diary this morn.
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me too! bish lookin & soundin like the epitome of crazy!
this is sad on so many levels judging from her hairstyle CLEARLY she is disturbed but the child is innocent i pray he is found alive and well….
@ point i think when you have kids, YOU HAVE to put them first they are helpless and need care and nuturing and sad to say some people never received that from their own parents so they don’t know how to do that it is human nature to be selfish but as a MOTHER …. i think that protective instinct kicks in but so many kids are having kids they think that they are missing something and find the children as an inconvenience or burden.. they still want to be on FB, club, hang out, chill… I don’t resent having children and the things I feel I had “gave” up were irrelevant anyway..
It’s scary, her eyes read “Love Me”, I bet she wasn’t shown love and attention as a child. I hope they find her son alive and well and lock her up after they drop kick her dumb ass.
:praying: that the little boy is returned home safely
@Hershey
Yeah I need to invest in something like that
Fayla :hugs: hopes she inhales the scent of my whip-terrific cream
@CD
You sound like me. Even when I’m supposed to be out shopping for myself, I end up spending more on Things 1 and 2.
OTB but ole girl up top aint eem gone be makin no vid if this boy shows up..ya know
she jus gone get the clink or whatnot
Point to be honest, when they were younger I felt some resentment because while I was married and having babies, everyone around me was in college and dating and living their life, plus I never wanted kids (or a husband) to begin with but I loved them so much that the resentment was really tiny and only reared it’s ugly head when I actually had the time to stop and think about it. Now though, they drive me insane, tear up my house, make me want to snatch my head bald half the time but I can’t imagine my life without them and wouldn’t trade them for the world
…and tell that b!tch ain’t wrapped too tight.
And her ppl knew this. Each one, reach… out and slap a Baker Act on that b!tch ‘for she kill the future. Ugh.
FAYLA!! :hugs:
Can someone tell me what that psycho bytch Casey Anthony was talking about? I cant pull it up here at work
I hope they find this baby…..and I hope they find him okay! This chit burns me up!
I also agree with the mother’s that are saying they feel guilt when they buy for themselves.
Ive been a mother for a while tho; this may be something that comes with time.
@YSO says:
@CD
You sound like me. Even when I’m supposed to be out shopping for myself, I end up spending more on Things 1 and 2.
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Funny how that chit happens aint it. I swear I go to the store for me and walk out everybody carrying a bag but my ass
MS. E says:
Now though, they drive me insane, tear up my house, make me want to snatch my head bald half the time but I can’t imagine my life without them and wouldn’t trade them for the world
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THIS
Y’all gone get me all mushy this morning.
Aww heck hear we go! I am sorry there should be a law against people having children
, Haven’t thought of what Law but something needs to be put in place for these dag gone psychos 
, and by the way Icki Manaj got women running round here with these wigs, and hair and chit. Still havent figured out what part of the game is that 
But I will be praying for the child and that nut job of a mother too. Depression is a demon, please seek Jesus if your going through that. He will be able to help and lead you to the right doctors if need be. Pray 
that mess off of people. Depression is awful
Fay
(1st about the cost, then about the thought of “do I really need it”, then I think about what the little one could use).
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Yep, my crumbsnatcher comes 1st! I haven’t bought myself anything in quite a while because when I do I feel guilty
PHO, I love my son to death, but if I could go back I would’ve waited till now to have him, because I’m much more stable than I was 12 yrs ago. But shooot, maybe he’s the reason that I got my ish together. So, no regrets here
(JM if you want ION give nofkc)
Hershey
how bout i use it for aromatherapy sometimes to lift my spirits 
Did Point just put this scum of the earth bytch as his gravi that quick
@MJEFF
Not even Marge Simpson?
From what I know this girl actually comes from a “good” home. I know that she went to the same private school that both myself and my daughter attended.From the looks of her mugshot I too made a lot of the same assumptions you are making. I believe she is just a selfish narcissistic sociopath much like Casey Anthony. I know of hoodrats with blue weave that are wonderful mothers. Someone told me that they thing she got mixed up with a “bad” guy. An excuse I don’t even want to hear. Women putting nothing a** men above their children is never an excuse.
@SANDRA ROSE
Please make another post so I can tell Long Time Lurker that I share his appreciation for the art of photography judging by his gravie.
This just ain’t the right place to discuss that.
Ugh @ this loon. Poor baby, didn’t ask to here
@ PHO, it is an adjustment even if its one you’ve embracing/hoping/planning/praying for, but never any resentment here. There are definitely a lot of people that aren’t really cut out for it (naturally or with time to grow into it), but unfortunately there are no “undo” buttons for those folks who usually don’t realize its not for them until the child is settled into their life
we share the same sentiment. If I opt to bring a kid into this world (or mistake), I’ve always thought the kid didn’t ask to be born. That’s so simplistic, but also a reality. Why abuse or make a kid suffer? There are only a few guys on here and I dont recall most even mentioning kids if they have them, so it’s no surprise the women are speaking of being selfless and putting the kids first.
Because I know, felt, and saw my mom put us before herself all her life, I do anything for mine (mom). Dad, not so much. Guys are different and many aren’t selfless, hence single parent homes lead by women. Not to turn this into a man/woman thing, but I’m just saying. Mother’s day is a much needed holiday for sure.
I dont have friends who “regret or resent” having kids, but many speak of losing their freedom. lol.
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
“Amir’s grandmother was concerned because her daughter had gotten into a separate car accident several days earlier and made ‘cryptic phone calls to other family members indicating her ongoing fight with depression is continuing,’ police said in a report.”~Sandra Rose
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So a child is knowingly left with someone suffering depression and isnt seen for a month the mother is involved in two wrecks and they JUST call the police.
They should prolly start interrogating the rest of the fam. Starting with Sis and Grandma.
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Man, I kinda agree with you, however, sometimes, even family can’t help people. My sis who I met on FB that I explained was bat chit cray has issues and the fam has tried to reach out to her to help but you can only help those that want to help themselves. All I can do is pray
for my nieces and nephew.
Good Morning everyone
this woman looks mentally ill. hope the boy is found alive and well.
@Man – You’re welcome. She nice ain’t she?
pointhimout says:
i was just going to ask in another post how do parents feel about having to put their kids before them? do you have any resentment, etc? not everyone’s thrilled to have kids. If you had to do all over would you have kids?
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Great question. Being a parent or loving a child is the most selfless and easiest thing I’ve ever done. I would do anything for my son! I remember when he was born and even barely weighed a pound and they told me he would never walk or talk, I told them to DO WHATEVER IT TOOK TO SAVE HIS LIFE! He’s now 14 and is perfectly healthy….It was tough at times with the 5 months he spent in the hospital, but I never gave up.
A person that cares for a child in any capacity has to have a toolset for that particular charge. When you don’t have the tool set, then you do crazy shiat like this young lady, Casey Anthony etc.
Lord have mercy on her soul.
she jus gone get the clink or whatnot
She can thank Casey for that. Yup.
@ChocD. That b!tch talked about everything EXCEPT that baby. She was acting like she still in fukking jail or something, saying, “imma be here…even if its months from now, I will be here.” I think she still in OC, Fla.
OH! ANDDDDDD they let the b!tch get a dog.
Somewhere Micheal Vick is crying.
I read this fraggle naggin bull yesterday. Why when we (meaning black folks) see someone headed for destruction, we look the other way? Her mom said she was exibiting depression signs… why didn’t she get the girl some help
Prolly because the mom was scared she might get stuck watching the baby why she got help? I don’t know this is crazy!!
Repeat of hello from previous post
<< I HOPE DIABLA GIVES HER A WARM WELCOME.. SHE LIKES FRESH MEAT..
OTB…I didn’t have my son until I was 39. He is 2. It was hard for me to even learn how to do for anyone else to begin with. But, the love for my son was so great that all I wanted to do was make him have a prefect life. I’m learning to do for myself again. Until then, no more Gucci bags for me.
Mom guilt can be brutal but I comfortably spoil myself guilt-free. Like I’ve started brainwashing my son (old man already gets it), “keep me happy or your life will be crappy.” :/
Shait like this burns me up… I hate when I read stuff like this about killing children.
I read this yesterday, sad wow
these parents these days LORD help them.
@JMO
“Man, I kinda agree with you, however, sometimes, even family can’t help people. My sis who I met on FB that I explained was bat chit cray has issues and the fam has tried to reach out to her to help but you can only help those that want to help themselves. All I can do is pray for my nieces and nephew.”
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Yeah, tis true. I got a cray sis too. Thankfully my mom has her two kids (they cray too tho).
Come to think of it we got quite a few fam members should be in Arkham Asylum.
<—————-Agrees with Man. If a person acknowledges and shares that they're depressed suicidal or whatever, why would you leave a helpless child with them? I'm not gonna go in on her for her parenting skills when I don't know what she was like as a parent before her depression hit. I have a bipolar aunt and my dad committed suicide so I know depression can be a very serious issue.
did she think she was gonna pull a casey anthony
u black gul, they gonna throw the book at you 
I rarely feel like I’ve lost my freedom raising kids cause I’ve been taking care of folks most my life it seems. Can’t miss what you never had I guess.
Plus, I’m a lame and pretty anti-social so not being able to go out doesn’t usually bother me.
I know of hoodrats with blue weave that are wonderful mothers.
The worse thing about the mothers in the hood is just the overall lack of basic education. That chit rots the whole community if the women arent educated.
Poor Lil Boo just wants to be loved. Too bad the mom wasn’t prepared for motherhood, and she took it out on her lil man.
I hope he’s okay.
@ Wut
My first instinct has always been to put my kids and their needs first before myself. I still will go into a store and put 30 things for my children in the buggy and then when it comes to find me one thing for myself I always say “that’s too much money”.
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ I do this same thing! My kids don’t have a problem with it tho
@Roc
Which is why I added that maybe that comes with time.
Speak, listen, read mothers who have been mothers from a long time…everyone starts out that way…but the sooner Mama becomes #1 the more the family benefits.
MzDimplez1123 says:
<—————-Agrees with Man. If a person acknowledges and shares that they're depressed suicidal or whatever, why would you leave a helpless child with them? I'm not gonna go in on her for her parenting skills when I don't know what she was like as a parent before her depression hit. I have a bipolar aunt and my dad committed suicide so I know depression can be a very serious issue.
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Wow. Sorry to hear that MzDimps. Life sure can be tough sometimes.
@Roc I had all my kids before 25 and back to back so I had a bit of an adjustment period simply because my life stopped in a sense. And I dealt with it, in the early years, I didn’t buy nothing for myself but now that they’re older I can take care of myself better as long as I know their needs are met (which they are).
Plus, I’m a lame and pretty anti-social so not being able to go out doesn’t usually bother me
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To all the lames….
“keep me happy or your life will be crappy.”
Beautiful.
She needs to have her uterus removed and burned.
Thanks Mrs.
He told his sister if she even thought about going out looking like that she would be voted out the house like on Big Brother.
He pulled her page to show me and we laughed for a good half hour. Bad example I know, but her mama should have been brought up on charges for child neglect.
WUT!!
DIMPZ!! :hugs:
My aunt is all kinds of fcked up but beyond my help. The best I could for her was save at least two of her many kids from the system.
@LONG TIME AND I GO THERE
OK OK! I get the message, it’s time for me to change gravies! Geez. Yall harrased me into it.
MzDimplez1123 says:
<—————-Agrees with Man. If a person acknowledges and shares that they're depressed suicidal or whatever, why would you leave a helpless child with them? I'm not gonna go in on her for her parenting skills when I don't know what she was like as a parent before her depression hit. I have a bipolar aunt and my dad committed suicide so I know depression can be a very serious issue.
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Don't understand that to save my life. Going through that with my stepkids…their moma is FREAKIN NUT! Ya'll remember the story, the bish had lives chickens in her house. I've already called CPS on her once. Her moma talkin bout if the kids are takn from her, she will go over the edge.
OTB…I promise I’m working on it! I have to make sure I’m pretty on the outside. I’m still vain
!*LaKErCHiC@*! says:
<< I HOPE DIABLA GIVES HER A WARM WELCOME.. SHE LIKES FRESH MEAT..
Me too! Im tired of putting money on Diabla's books!
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Oh and if she happens to be reading this… uh my SandraRose account was hacked and this isn't really me that said I was tired… I LIIKE sending money
Slinks off to look for number to witness protection/relocation…
the fam has tried to reach out to her to help but you can only help those that want to help themselves.
Tthe fam aint the professionals though right? If somebody wants their family TRULY “checked” out…theres an app for that.
Ok J/K about the app but seriously Baker Act’s / CPS / Inquiries. Its there for these reasons. Nobody knows folks are crazy or disturbed unless you tell it.
YSO!
@ My Ride or Die – You had your son at 39??? WOW, you give me hope that it’s not to late for me to have a child! Thanks for that!
caligirl says:
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Great question. Being a parent or loving a child is the most selfless and easiest thing I’ve ever done. I would do anything for my son! I remember when he was born and even barely weighed a pound and they told me he would never walk or talk, I told them to DO WHATEVER IT TOOK TO SAVE HIS LIFE! He’s now 14 and is perfectly healthy….It was tough at times with the 5 months he spent in the hospital, but I never gave up.
A person that cares for a child in any capacity has to have a toolset for that particular charge. When you don’t have the tool set, then you do crazy shiat like this young lady, Casey Anthony etc.
Lord have mercy on her soul.
AMEN to this post GOD IS GOOD !!! like big momma says the Dr. aint GOD!!!! and Casey Anthony is going to burn in hell her and her mammy
Sandra you have a lot of details that haven’t been included in the local news stories here. It’s an utter shame.
WUT WUT
Where have you been suga??? 
YYYYYSSSSOOOO
HEYYYY NAAAAAAH Hershey!
Check this
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/01/04/mom-kills-intruder_n_1183336.html?ref=fb&src=sp&comm_ref=turner_social
OTB!!
I think I need lessons on how to make myself a priority more than once or twice a year.
While I dont resent my children at all I do express to my children the importance of having your “own” life before you bring children into the world. I am only 33 years old and all I know is my kids. I had my son two months to the day of graduation, my daughter the following year and 3 years ago started all over (none of u muthafuggas betta be judging me either). I went to college but it was hard because not only was I working 40+hours a week, maintaining a home and still pussay popping for they daddy
all at the tender age of 19.
OutsidetheBox says:
I know of hoodrats with blue weave that are wonderful mothers.
So true. Its some good girls in the hood, just like its some rats in the ‘burbs. Story of modern times.
The worse thing about the mothers in the hood is just the overall lack of basic education. That chit rots the whole community if the women arent educated.
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But few talk about how its some great azz parents in the Hood… and you see more times that many. ITs some girls right now that are workind and going to school and are great moms. But for every 1 or 2 good one you get that one bad mother that makes people think they are all like that.
MzDimplez1123 says:
<—————-Agrees with Man. If a person acknowledges and shares that they're depressed suicidal or whatever, why would you leave a helpless child with them? I'm not gonna go in on her for her parenting skills when I don't know what she was like as a parent before her depression hit. I have a bipolar aunt and my dad committed suicide so I know depression can be a very serious issue.
<– that's for you!
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@ MZD
MzDimplez1123 says:
<—————-Agrees with Man. If a person acknowledges and shares that they're depressed suicidal or whatever, why would you leave a helpless child with them? I'm not gonna go in on her for her parenting skills when I don't know what she was like as a parent before her depression hit. I have a bipolar aunt and my dad committed suicide so I know depression can be a very serious issue.
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On another note, its your turn on words w/friends
MYYYY MAVEN!!!
I was on disability leave because of de accident. I am back now!
HOW JU Doing?
@Lakerchic~ Your gravi scares me
Was she on an episode of “Scared Straight”?
I pray that they find this baby and he is safe. As for me nobody and I mean nobody better not touch a strand on the head of the little one in my gravi. I love that little girl and will go to my grave protecting her. All mother’s should feel the same!
OKAY, so I see Sandra has left us with all of her new ads, and is off living in Twitter Land.
Call me, Sandie, when you’ve got some news on the Yaki and her Camel.
@lexdiamonz – Don’t forget that daddy…
@WUT
@DIMPZ HEY MAMI
ChocD aka C.D. says:
While I dont resent my children at all I do express to my children the importance of having your “own” life before you bring children into the world. I am only 33 years old and all I know is my kids. I had my son two months to the day of graduation, my daughter the following year and 3 years ago started all over (none of u muthafuggas betta be judging me either). I went to college but it was hard because not only was I working 40+hours a week, maintaining a home and still pussay popping for they daddy
all at the tender age of 19.
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I rarely feel like I’ve lost my freedom raising kids cause I’ve been taking care of folks most my life it seems…
Plus, I’m a lame and pretty anti-social so not being able to go out doesn’t usually bother me.
Growing up I was the “girl” in our large brood. I cared for everybody. But a large brood meant a lot of learning PLUS a large support system for me when I had my own child early…so admittedly, I never missed anything in high school unless I wanted to. but I still had responsibility.
Now a bish just tired.
<—my lame's cheer.
@ Cali…PPl tend to be in denial about their family members needing help then when they do harm to themselves and or their children, they act like they saw no signs of illness before hand it’s crazy or as man said, they don’t wanna be bothered with kids themselves but don’t want them put in the system.
@MAN
Please don’t come back with any of your “ladies” in your Gravi. I’ve seen some nice pics of Jill Scott you can use.
@CHUBBS
THIS IS HER IM FINNA GO OFF LOOK 
@Ms Everything…Thanks. I really am working on it.
@ choc d, wow, tip my hat to you for being able to maintain all that and any traces of sanity. Well I dont have kids, but I try to be as involved with the kids in my fam or help out when possible. It’s nowhere near the same, but I try.
Are all the guys on SR without kids, or just me?
@PHO
I like my kids. I mean, I love them of course, but I like them too. They’re funny to me and I see alot of myself in each of them. I fought for mine and got custody and learned that there are a lot of single fathers out there, they just aren’t celebrated or as loud as the single mothers are. IDGAF because that’s not what I’m in it for. Best believe their needs come before mine but I do stunt with money on myself if only to show them that they can have things without taking the route I and so many black men have taken before them to get things.
I Go There says:
Plus, I’m a lame and pretty anti-social so not being able to go out doesn’t usually bother me
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To all the lames….
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I BLAME The Casey Anthony DEFENSE TEAM along with The Dim-Witted Prosecutor’s Office for THIS Though… Giving all of these Worthless Piece-of-SHYT Individuals “LIFE” to even think It’s EVEN A POSSIBILITY of doing this and Getting Away with It
And of course I BLAME This TRICK-AZZ Baby-Carrier ALSO… THAT Goes W/O Saying (WORD)
IF A FAM MEMBER TELL US THEY DEPRESS WHY LEAVE A CHILD WIHT THEM… I WENT THRU SOME DEPRESSION AND MY MOTHER TOOK MY KIDS FOR 3 DAYS SO I COULD CLEAR MY HEAD CRY IT OUT GET ME RIGHT.. THATS WHAT FAMILIA IS FOR RIGHT..??
@CD
I really admire women like you.
SamYell JacksEm says:
@PHO
I like my kids. I mean, I love them of course, but I like them too. They’re funny to me and I see alot of myself in each of them. I fought for mine and got custody and learned that there are a lot of single fathers out there, they just aren’t celebrated or as loud as the single mothers are. IDGAF because that’s not what I’m in it for. Best believe their needs come before mine but I do stunt with money on myself if only to show them that they can have things without taking the route I and so many black men have taken before them to get things.———
Good for you, Sam Yell. There are many men like you, but the bad ones always get the greatest press.
I wonder if they want me to do some work today.
Thanks Tatted!
@ JMO….What is yo name?
@ WUT WUT – I’m good. I’m glad you’re doing better. Disability?! You didn’t mail me my cut! THAT’S SOME BULLCHIT (Kandi’s moms voice)
Ride or Die…YES!!! I was 39. He just turned 2 last month. I’m very happy that I waited. I have TONS of patience and he truly made my life complete.
Now he wasn’t planned just like if I was in my teens but GIRL being a mommy when you can actually AFFORD vacations and shyt is the best!!!
SamYell JacksEm says:
@PHO
I like my kids. I mean, I love them of course, but I like them too. They’re funny to me and I see alot of myself in each of them. I fought for mine and got custody and learned that there are a lot of single fathers out there, they just aren’t celebrated or as loud as the single mothers are. IDGAF because that’s not what I’m in it for. Best believe their needs come before mine but I do stunt with money on myself if only to show them that they can have things without taking the route I and so many black men have taken before them to get things.
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!*LaKErCHiC@*! says:
I WENT THRU SOME DEPRESSION AND MY MOTHER TOOK MY KIDS FOR 3 DAYS SO I COULD CLEAR MY HEAD CRY IT OUT GET ME RIGHT..
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Your mom sounds like a great woman!
But she should have kept your kids if you were that depressed, hun. Sometimes grandmothers are better equipped to raise grandchildren.
MzDimplez1123 says:
Thanks Tatted!
@ JMO….What is yo name?
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I’m Soopa_stah girl!
SAM!! :hugs:
I’ll help to celebrate the men out there like you.
LAKES!
SAM!
WELCOME HOME, SANDIE MAE! I see you got the bills paid and shat…..
I think I need lessons on how to make myself a priority more than once or twice a year
I got you sis. It includes the kids at a lot of the turns believ it or not
I tell yall the stories here…some of my best laughs come from game night.
@SANDRA IT WASN’T DEEP DEPRESION NO BAD THOUGHTS JUST DOWN AND OUT AND NEEDED A BREAK A BREATHER MY MOTHER WOULD NEVER PUT ME BEFORE HER GRANDKIDS AND FOR THAT I LOVE HER MORE.. SO IF I WAS NOT READY AND SHE SAW THAT I COULD HANDLE IT THEN SHE WOULD OF KEPT THEM BUT IM GOOD.. THANKS
@Laker
That’s how my mom is when I first had my son at 18 he would not stop crying one night so much that I started crying. I swear that chit went on for like 5 hours straight. Finally I hollered
please just stop it already before I knew it my mom had kicked my bedroom door in snatched my baby and said dont you eva holler at MY baby. Once I looked into my momma’s eyes and saw my tombstone with that date as my passing I got my chit together real quick 
6 months later me and my babies had our own place. My kids was not going to be a witness of they momma getting a whipping
Hershey says:
Did yall hear that mama Braxton is getting hitched next month?
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Mother Braxton need to sat down somewhere and find her a nice gentleman caller. The last thing I would want is to be is married again after all that drama
But for every 1 or 2 good one you get that one bad mother that makes people think they are all like that.
Thats why I try my best to be louder and more vocal then them b!tches bruh.
Vote for OTB.
@Dimpz – Yeah, I agree with you and I’ve heard that BS before. She got one more time.
@Dimpz – Yeah, I agree with you and I’ve heard that BS before. She got one more time.
My parents were foster parents for decades…So I’ve seen alot! Alot of things bother me, but neglect and abuse boils my blood. I haven’t called CPS but once, cause I know she is sick. The little girl, comes to US every week dis-shelved like Thing 1 form Dr. Suess, the lil boy be bites and sucks his thumb…I gave his daddy until Feb 5 to retain attorney and get them kids from that crazy mess. She doesn’t work, but has dual degrees, asking for more child support.
@ JMO……Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!
@SANDRA
Do you mean that Laker’s mom should have kept the kids longer than three days or on a more permanent basis?
Mother Jefferson says:
Hershey says:
Did yall hear that mama Braxton is getting hitched next month?
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Mother Braxton need to sat down somewhere and find her a nice gentleman caller. The last thing I would want is to be is married again after all that drama
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She old, hun. Mama Braxton is cute and all, but how many more “gentleman” callers do you think she has left?
Best believe their needs come before mine but I do stunt with money on myself if only to show them that they can have things without taking the route
@CHOCD I CRIED WITH MY SON TOO
HE CRIED AND CRIED AND I LOOST IT I WAS 19 AND SINGLE MOM BUT MY MADRE WAS A PRO TOOK HIM CALM HIM DOWN AND GAVE ME SOME TEA TOLD ME TAKE MY AZZ TO BED TRY TOMOROW AND DONT EVER THINK TWICE TO ASK FOR HELP IF I NEED IT.. 
I LOVE MY MOMMY!
<—- Blessed…my baby NEVER cried for hours straight. He knew I was too old for that shyt.
<—- Blessed…my baby NEVER cried for hours straight. He knew I was too old for that shyt.
It sounds like there are some great parents on this blog
MrsMommy says:
Call me, Sandie, when you’ve got some news on the Yaki and her Camel.
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We have gone a record number of days without a Yaki bump post
@SIS
Someone still trying to get banned it seems.
@JMO –
Hey now…You got plenty of time!!!
to hell with lace-fronts
Poor baby
@ Cali….I applaud you for being so selfless. I think it takes a big heart to be so considerate. You know alot of women wouldn’t wanna be bothered with HER kids.
Her= the ex
I’m also glad you’re feeling better.
@Roc
been there, I had to threaten the life of an EZ Bake oven just to get one of mines dressed and out the house for school this morning 
between that one and my son who just got himself a little “girlfriend” and spends extra time getting dressed and brushing his waves out I could scream lol
@SamYell
I know a lot of good single fathers out there and I hate that they don’t get the same support and respect that single mothers do (or mothers in general) but that just makes my appreciation of the ones out there taking care of their kids that much greater
Mother Jefferson says:
MrsMommy says:
Call me, Sandie, when you’ve got some news on the Yaki and her Camel.
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We have gone a record number of days without a Yaki bump post
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I can’t wait for the SURROGATE to spring that child, so we can see what monkey-business the Yak and the Camel be up to next.
Ride or Die – I really want a child, but I felt I was getting to old. It really is my desire to have one before I’m 39, but I only have 2 years to make that happen. If they Lord see’s fit………
Doing the most always @Sis
Lord give that family a miracle. What I don’t understand is if you KNOW your relative is suffering from depression, why not do what you can to get them kids away from the parent. Maybe my mama just crazy, but I KNOW better to not let her hear from them more than a day. That Casey Anthony mess would not have went down with her. She said I would have given you five minutes to put them on the phone then I would have called the cops.
My daughter had acide reflux, where she would projectile vomit and my son had colic. Those first six months I got no sleep, they cried, I cried. I went into the bathroom crying. Not ONCE did a shake them, yell or anything. Some folks ain’t fit to care for a piece of bread, much less a child.
@ Mrs
you’re wrong for that! Chit she still got her lil figure, some money, she deserves to have a husband that will lay it low and spread it wide, for just her 
MrsMommy says:
She old, hun. Mama Braxton is cute and all, but how many more “gentleman” callers do you think she has left?
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Enough, if she wasn’t so picky! And Toni gets on my damn nerves
WHAT HAPPEN TO NOT COMPARING PEOPLE TO ANIMALS…??
@Tatt I never pegged you for a glass half empty chick. For real, for real.
The first part of it is Faith, the 2nd is actually getting some d!ck unless you waiting on the immaculate conception
@Dimpz – Yeah, that just how I was raised. I love him, so I love his kids. It isn’t their fault, their momma is worthless, low down trodden, good for nothing, blood sucking leech.
My grandma usta say, we all black, we all family….So I do what I can for folks…
Thanks
I can’t afford to get too syck…lol
Hershey says:
@ Mrs you’re wrong for that! Chit she still got her lil figure, some money, she deserves to have a husband that will lay it low and spread it wide, for just her
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I agree with you there. She is cute as a button. But like she stated, she’s older and isn’t looking for the looks or the penis (although I’m sure she likes her world rocked just like the rest of u.
TOTAL PACKAGE
that happened here
the police think that dude was stalkin her cuz it happened the day of her hubby’s funeral. They said he had come over another night late talkin bout he just wanted to introduce himself!
OTB ain’t shyt! That is all.
Thanks Dimpz
Lucky for me my oldest son was the only one who had colic really bad. After my momma let a bytch know she would still get in my ass even though I was a new mother I straighten up real quick and fast :rofl and :hugs: back to ya boo
@CALI AWW MAMI THATS A BIG
LAKER :2dance:
That only applies white meat and the other white meat it seems.
Mother Jefferson says:
MrsMommy says:
She old, hun. Mama Braxton is cute and all, but how many more “gentleman” callers do you think she has left?
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Enough, if she wasn’t so picky! And Toni gets on my damn nerves
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Haven’t watched the show lately. Mama Braxton says she is looking for companionship in her old age. She sure is cute though.
@ OutsidetheBox I like your gravi!
pointhimout says:
i was just going to ask in another post how do parents feel about having to put their kids before them? do you have any resentment, etc? not everyone’s thrilled to have kids. If you had to do all over would you have kids?
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@ Point – I love it. Would not change it for the world. I live for my sons – they truly do give me life.
I cannot understand these brauds. I just can’t. This is the very reason why I recently told my oldest son to step away from the lil’ chic he was seeing.
She has about 8 different personalities, and tells 5 lies a minute.
I told him to “Get that bish up out of here. Tell her azz Bye Bacon.”
This is what they turn into….chicks like this nutcase who now has added on to the many missing kids that folks are already searching for.
Funny thing is, you always hear women talk about how men don’t take responsibility but the first thing I usually hear from chicks who know I got my kids say is, “How could you take her kids away from her?”.
I wanted to cry many a night too
I betcha that was God’s way of making sure I wasnt on the evening news. My kids were never sick babies. My preemie was the only rough patch.
Now, if only I could get some more grace. It was so much easier when they were younger. Now they got opinions and appetites and chit.
ChocD aka C.D. says:
@YSO says:
@CD
You sound like me. Even when I’m supposed to be out shopping for myself, I end up spending more on Things 1 and 2.
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Funny how that chit happens aint it. I swear I go to the store for me and walk out everybody carrying a bag but my ass
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My Mother adopted five girls plus had her biological child and raised us ALL by herself…
I remember being little, we may hit a drive thru somewhere’s after a long night at many-a church functions, and my Mother would never get herself anything to munch on. I always wondered why, until I had a child of my own. My Mother sacrificed frequently and now I am glad to be able to assist her in any way I can! (Thank you Lord)
A Parents natural instinct is to put their childrens needs above their own.
Unfortunately, as we see all too often, these young bishes have no concept of that.
As an abused child myself, I weep for these beautiful babies being born to selfish females…..
OK Ride or Die…Let me put some things in perspective….my grandmother had her FIRST at 27. She had NINE (9)…yeah I had to spell it out for you.
You are NOT too old. You just need to figure it out and make it happen. I’m confident that I could have another now if I wanted to. I just don’t want to. I will tell you this…I absolutely LOVED being pregnant. I was totally gorgeous and people are SOOOOOO nice to you LOL!
You and your wife need to make it happen!!!
They said he had come over another night late talkin bout he just wanted to introduce himself!
Introduce his self with that big ass knife?
No ma’am. She inspired me to take a weapons class. Fukk that chit.
What are yall talking about folks
<—Missed all the colic and midnight feedings. #TeamAdoption
<—But paying for it now. #TeamCanIGiveThemBack
AWW A BETTY BOOP BAYBAAY!!
@Cali
You are a GOOD woman
I wish all women felt that way if you are with someone and you love them you should embrace their kids. I thank God for my oldest two stepmother she has been nothing but good to my children but my youngest son daddy is stupid and so is his woman. Let me stop I said I would stop calling dem fools out in 2012 
SamYell JacksEm says:
@Dimpz + YSo
Funny thing is, you always hear women talk about how men don’t take responsibility but the first thing I usually hear from chicks who know I got my kids say is, “How could you take her kids away from her?”.
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You talkin to DUMB WOMEN, Sam Yell. The one’s who know nothing about life, such as death and dying, and other complications of life that leaves a home in the hands of a single parent.
OTB ain’t shyt!
I try, Kita. I try.
Dream crushing ass bishes.
@Mother Jefferson
Rih say she tryna quit smoking in the new year. Im just tryna lessen my amount.
Ms. Everything says:
Oh good Lord why is the never ending baby bump being brought up again???? Feel like I’m in a damn horror movie, everywhere I go it just keeps popping back up
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Cos, Sandie Mae stirs that sht up good like nobody else in the blogosphere.
@SamYell…
Every woman isn’t meant to be a mommy. I commend you for raising your children!
@Sam that baby cuteeeee
:kiss;
OTB
her hubby had just died from cancer, her baby is 3 months old and she said she doesnt know what she’s gonna do financially so I’m hopin the community will step up and help her out and get her a decent place to live. That’s a lot for an 18 yr old to have to deal with, losin a hubby and killin someone
men, stop having (and leaving) babies with women you don’t know. women, stop having (and leaving) babies with men you don’t know. that would eliminate at least 50% of child homicides.
i’m sorry but i wish they could burn these m******f****** at the stake. even THAT would not be horrendous enough but it would be some kind of justice. the trend, post-Casey Anthony, is to kill the child, dispose of the child, lie and play crazy.
if we torture war criminals, we need to be able to torture these bytches until they give us an answer we can work with.
now that murderous bytch casey is back rubbing the shyt in our face with her lil video diary. where is justice for our children?
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
“Amir’s grandmother was concerned because her daughter had gotten into a separate car accident several days earlier and made ‘cryptic phone calls to other family members indicating her ongoing fight with depression is continuing,’ police said in a report.”~Sandra Rose
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So a child is knowingly left with someone suffering depression and isnt seen for a month the mother is invovled in two wrecks and they JUST call the police.
They should prolly start interrogating the rest of the fam. Starting with Sis nad Grandma.
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@Man, you’re so right.
But some of our people LOVE to be in front of the camera acting a damn fool on the news, but know damn well they didn’t want to be bothered with her or the baby on the help tip. Some people just don’t look out for fam like they should. Selfish bastids will talk all day about what “you should do”, but know you have a genuine issue and will not help.
They should have took that boy a long time ago.
@AWESOME (Comment #168)
AIN’T THAT The WEIRDEST SHYT EVER Though !!! SMDH In PURE DISGUST Too
tips hat to Sam Yell. I watched my brother battle that when he was like 23-24, 2 kids by the same idiot lyin heffa tail mama. I’ve seen him become mature and much settled/better father over the years. Even with his own business, he shuts it down at 6, and home with his kids (and wife). Now he still cheap as hell and deprive the kids of christmas, but he’s in their lives, activities, education, etc.
All the bad womens have babies with colic and other problems. They were incubating in a bad woman, with bad thoughts and actions.
KAYCEI!!
My boys are gonna HATE my ass when they are of dating age. My Crazy Btch radar is gonna stay on high.
#TakesOneToKnowOne
I absolutely LOVED being pregnant. I was totally gorgeous
I love pretty preggo ladies. So cute with that glow. Now if you get the “mask” I just pray for you.
caligirl says:
@JMO –
Hey now…You got plenty of time!!!
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Thanks!!
OTB says:
Now, if only I could get some more grace. It was so much easier when they were younger. Now they got opinions and appetites and chit.
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The nerve of they asses
I swear before I go to bed when I look in the mirror I feel like this
To go from helping kids with Algebra and science projects then hear my lil one talm bout “mommy I wanna color in my Yo Gabba Gabba coloring book”.
Sometimes I just wanna go sit in my car and drink Cognac and smoke Marlboro’s. 
I saw the story about the mom who shot the intruder GOOD! I am not a fan of guns, but trust and believe, if you walk in my house uninvited, you won’t walk out. BELIEVE THAT!
I’m just so damn SICK of these stories…smdh
Good Morning folks….waiting for new post…
@MrsMommy: Say what now? You want to explain that one?
Oh my fukkin gawd. That dumb ass green gravi bish. Ugh.
Lovezoe I was hopin it would be ignored
MrsMommy says:
All the bad womens have babies with colic and other problems. They were incubating in a bad woman, with bad thoughts and actions.
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Bytch you betta :stop: right nah. I could give two fuggs that you a fukkin idiot who stans for pillow pets, smurfs and whateva else you do but dont go throwing no ignorant ass statements about mommas like that.
@OTB She looks like her pappy.
@ELove I know you know.
@Yso- I tried, really did. Let me just let it go before I be the one banned.
lovezoe says:
@MrsMommy: Say what now? You want to explain that one?
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I once worked in an office evironment where almost everyone started popping off, having babies.
I found it very interesting (may just be this one particular case) where all of the ugly women (gossipers and sht starters) all had colicy kids or kids that keep ’em up all night.
@OTB…What is the mask?
@CD- Please change your gravie
They are TWINS!
MrsMommy << IDIOT ON DECK!!
BISH SILLY!! 
#HUMANFAIL!
@MrsMommy (Comment #178)
ALOT of them aren’t DUMB WOMEN but THEY are Extremely Discriminative against FATHERS BEING The Primary PARENT Though — IMO
@ SamYell
Good for you.
My 5 sisters and I were raised by my step dad. My mother was out there so he chose to take care of me and my sister when he came to get his girls. I’m grateful that he was able to take us. 1 man 6 girls. all a headache and a half. It’s not easy, but you make the choice to deal with it and keep it moving.
Let me go to the
because this bytch will get it today
I don’t understand?
ChocD aka C.D. says:
MrsMommy says:
All the bad womens have babies with colic and other problems. They were incubating in a bad woman, with bad thoughts and actions.
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Bytch you betta right nah. I could give two fuggs that you a fukkin idiot who stans for pillow pets, smurfs and whateva else you do but dont go throwing no ignorant ass statements about mommas like that.
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Well, Choco, haven’t read you or “spoken” to you this morning. Sometimes the crime, er, the truth really, really hurts. Sorry, you saw yourself in a comment not directed at you, but you show is screaming like a dude with his ddyke stuck in a drawer…..
Sometimes I just wanna go sit in my car and drink Cognac and smoke Marlboro’s
ChoccccccD. My whip is my sanctuary!! My room used to cut it but now that don’t deter them! We got bedrooms, a den, the living room ,front/back yards…chit we live in a nature conservatory! You would think they got plenty to do! Moms is the best though. They love to demolish me on the games (video only and NEVER Mario), but they don’t wanna see me in any kind of thinking game…be talking “bout lets play Dance Craze.” LOL!
Girl I be out there in that car laidddddddd back, cheifing, listening to smooth jazz or something
All that money and I’m out the door.
Roc says:
OK Ride or Die…Let me put some things in perspective….my grandmother had her FIRST at 27. She had NINE (9)…yeah I had to spell it out for you.
You are NOT too old. You just need to figure it out and make it happen. I’m confident that I could have another now if I wanted to. I just don’t want to. I will tell you this…I absolutely LOVED being pregnant. I was totally gorgeous and people are SOOOOOO nice to you LOL!
You and your wife need to make it happen!!!
My friends always telling me that Im gonna have my first baby at 40.. A part of me want a child then the other half of me doesnt want to be responsible for another human being. But I :applaud: good mothers and fathers! It takes alot of patience..
LAWD.
I was hoping it was kidding/just trying to get attention. I shouldn’t be surprised, though.
<—-Was a pretty preggo.
Got no "facial" spread at all! 
@CHOCD CAN U DO ONE OF CHILLI AND THE DUDE OF CALI SWAG.. THEY LOOK LIKE TWINS TO ME
free says:
men, stop having (and leaving) babies with women you don’t know. women, stop having (and leaving) babies with men you don’t know. that would eliminate at least 50% of child homicides.
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That would be #helpful, but sometimes it’s the mofo’s you know.
Can’t win for loosing.
ELove says:
@MrsMommy (Comment #178)
ALOT of them aren’t DUMB WOMEN but THEY are Extremely Discriminative against FATHERS BEING The Primary PARENT Though — IMO
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That’s dumb in my book. You’re being discriminatory because you haven’t developed very much yet as a person. How are you just going to run up on somebody and “pretend” that you know their life. There could have been a death in the family.
@OTB She looks like her pappy.
Niggas.
Ayyyy watch BM start showing up at all the ceremonies and award shows/pageants “claiming” and being “proud” and chit.
Never fails with the real bum ass co-parentals.
Someone disable this child’s log in… I swear
I had a colicy baby… but I also had 3 non colicy babies so I guess I was a “bad woman” during one pregnancy but an angel during the other 3??? wtf
DON’T FEED THE TROLL. :stop:
Bartow County sheriff’s officials say they’re investigating the discovery of what appeared to be a broken piece of a syringe with the needle intact.
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be careful Peps folks are sick out here
*** please let’s not lose our logins today, people. ***
OutsidetheBox says:
I absolutely LOVED being pregnant. I was totally gorgeous
I love pretty preggo ladies. So cute with that glow.
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That shyt is sexy to me.
Is that sick?
ChocD aka C.D. says:
MrsMommy says:
All the bad womens have babies with colic and other problems. They were incubating in a bad woman, with bad thoughts and actions.
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Bytch you betta right nah. I could give two fuggs that you a fukkin idiot who stans for pillow pets, smurfs and whateva else you do but dont go throwing no ignorant ass statements about mommas like that.
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Well, Choco, haven’t read you or “spoken” to you this morning. Sometimes the crime, er, the truth really, really hurts. Sorry, you saw yourself in a comment not directed at you, but you show is screaming like a dude with his ddyke stuck in a drawer…..
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I came out screaming Pillow Hoe because I am a mother. Second of all I could care less if you spoke to me I am speaking to you. You pop every post like fukkin herpes stanning for a pillow pet, slobbering at the mouth like a gotdamn moron. FOH you fukkin retard
Oh boy! Things are about to get very “REAL” in here. Back to lurking mode!
Ms. Everything says:
Someone disable this child’s log in… I swear
I had a colicy baby… but I also had 3 non colicy babies so I guess I was a “bad woman” during one pregnancy but an angel during the other 3??? wtf
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Were you working in my office? Was this directed at you?
Some of you people……your replies are dead give-a-ways!
@LONGTIME NOPE THATS SWEET MY BF WAS ALL INTO ME WHEN I WAS PREG.. BEST :hunch:
What in the world is going on
I’m not even a mother yet as I feel kind of offended by some of these comments..back to lurk mode until a new post is up..
Creamy says:
CARTERSVILLE, Ga. — Authorities say another syringe has been found in clothing purchased from a Cartersville Walmart, bringing the total number of cases to 15.
Bartow County sheriff’s officials say they’re investigating the discovery of what appeared to be a broken piece of a syringe with the needle intact.
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Did they test the syringes? LAWD
YSoSrs says:
KAYCEI!!
My boys are gonna HATE my ass when they are of dating age. My Crazy Btch radar is gonna stay on high.
#TakesOneToKnowOne
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Hey Yso!
That bish is bonafide nutso in my book.
And I want her out of the picture. I told my son I have nothing to do with who he chooses, but I do not condone nutso bishes. Not a’tall.
Her attitude is stank, she talks condescending, and cries at the drop of a pin, does not have a good relationship with EITHER of her parents, and has no friends. I’ve tried to be a good role model and confidant, but when she told me she’ll never take birth control, I was like “that bish cray.”
ugly women (gossipers and sht starters)
I aint had nary a colicky baby and Im the biggest chit starter I know…watch me…
*douses MrsMommy with accelerant*
I’ve had it with these binches that can’t take care of their offspring!! I’m fucken DONE!!
@ OTB – My glass is NOT half empty, but I would want a child one day, if that is the Lord’s plan for me! Ion need no dack in order to have one, heffa!
Ummmm
it’s coming
I came out screaming Pillow Hoe because I am a mother. Second of all I could care less if you spoke to me I am speaking to you. You pop every post like fukkin herpes stanning for a pillow pet, slobbering at the mouth like a gotdamn moron. FOH you fukkin retard
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Poor thing. You had to make this about you, when your name wasn’t called, and I was in none of your conversations.
Well, if the shoe fits……
can we get a
**lights the match**
@otb
So sad, I don’t know whats wrong with some people. If you feel you can’t take care of your child I know somebody in your family will be glad to take them. Bitches like this Zinyah character sicken me, I’m still pissed over the Casey Anthony verdict.
@PHO, to answer your original question at the top of the post. No, I don’t feel any type of jealously or ill-will toward my daughter. I knew what I was getting into when I had her. Her father on the other hand is a different story. He was so used to being babied by me, he’s actual jealous of her.
If my child is suffering from serious depression, I will gladly take the kids until she gets herself together. I don’t understand. Grandparents back in the day used to this all the time. If mama sneezed wrong grandma came and got them. Now days, grandmas don’t want no parts of raising any more babies.
What is the mask?
The mask of pregnancy or chloasma Some women glow while some women….get more “ruddy”…like they develop a dark appearance to their neck and face, etc.
Rie or Die – My grandmother had her first @ 28! I knew we were sis’ in a former life! She had 6 (back to back) and had her last @ 40! Every other woman after that went in balls deep and were teen mothers in my fam!
That heffa JMO took my word! We just cant neva be friends!
So ummmm I will be in Houston tomorrow, I don’t really care for Houston, but…. my friend is having her 29 bday party festivities this weekend and I need to be there. So besides the gallery mall where can I go shopping at?
(lights the match)
WHOOOOOOOOOOOOSH!
Now who has the stake and the garlic to shove down it’s throat?
Sandra can you please put up a Beyonce post for this fool so she can go somewhere in a dark corner jack off and shut the fukk up. Please and thanks
NO, alot men love their sexy pregnant women…Most women love the attention at that time.
@MrsM please stop
…. seriously
Uh-Oh
@OTB Also Father + daughter out anywhere = Chicks be ON it. Shyt’s like catnip. It works with young boys too (no sandusky), but not to the same effect.
@MrsMommy
I’m going to ASSume that you missed taking Your Daily MEDS (FOR TODAY…) 
I DON’T have a F-ing Clue HOW Your Retort to My Comment towards YOU became THAT RESPONSE Though
Jmo, don’t have no kids until you’re done living your life
because you’re life doesn’t end, BUT a new chapter does begin.
It’s the little things: Can’t jump out at the corner store no more (never thought about that until I had a carseat strapped in the back)
:tootsyourhorn: You are doing it the right way! You got your education
and still gots to get married 
and then plan your baby! Read Outliers, and you can see what you can do to position yourself and your unborn children with a better life 
^That’s for Jmo
Long Time Lurker – H.O.G. says:
I don’t understand?
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Posted again, because I really don’t understand. Maybe K Dub can call her hookup (Tiffany, I think) at Walgreens to get someone’s meds filled.
@YSO IT WAS BURNING ALREADY… LEST ROAST SOME MARSHMELLOWS
RYAN!!
Aw…she has your cheeks. I just want pinch then kiss them.
That shyt is sexy to me.
Is that sick?
Nope. I used to get hit on all the time. It would baffle me. I really think it has something to do with a man’s primal nature. Remember you guys are ABOUT procreation.
And they say that preggo puss is the best..
IONO what she did, but I’d forgive her if she yells out one more “FLOPPPPY”
#yallshouldntmesswiththesick
@makeup – My mama had my sister at 41…But that bish crazy as hell, maybe se was swiched at the hospital.
Ms. Everything says:
@MrsM please stop …. seriously
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Stop what?
SamYell JacksEm says:
@OTB Also Father + daughter out anywhere = Chicks be ON it.
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Til Deja started snithcing and letting chicks know her mama was at home.
damn!!! shyt just got real..
Cali, that's the hug I forgot to give you earlier
OTB I thought I was getting the mask during one of my pregnancies, turns out it was just a rash
I was blessed that my face (outside of the general fatness that comes with the territory) was never affected, my ass and ankles though :noo:
I
he’s ok
The Makeup Maven says:
@ WUT WUT – I’m good. I’m glad you’re doing better. Disability?! You didn’t mail me my cut! THAT’S SOME BULLCHIT (Kandi’s moms voice)
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Sorry yall Im lurking off and on.. I gotz a pile o chit on my desk from being gone..
OutsidetheBox says:
And they say that preggo puss is the best..
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Chit like this REALLY makes me wish we could go back to medevil methods in extreme cases like this, just strap that bish to a torture device, and literally BLEED the information out of her, straight up “jigsaw” style
@LAKER
I see that now but you know it probably will take more than one lighting to get the job done. These types go down hard.
(gets out the graham crackers and waits for HERSHEY so we can make smores)
I tell people all the time to wait unti they have done all they wanted to have kids. Yes, my husband and I can vacation, but it is different. No matter who you leave them with, YOU. WILL.WORRY! My husband takes the phone from me when we go out because I constantly text the sitter. She is awesome, but still. I never tell them when I am coming back.
ryand91
You had your BABY!!!!
GORGEOUS!! 
Congrats girl.
@ OTB….Yeah and ignant fools with thoughts like, I can hit all I want and she can’t get nomo pregnant.
YSoSrs says:
(lights the match)
WHOOOOOOOOOOOOSH!
Now who has the stake and the garlic to shove down it’s throat?
I’ll end this with a “Devil is a Lie” statement
back in the days, the grannies were grown women, now you have grandmothers that are barely 30 yrs old now.. no home training.
lovezoe says:
I tell people all the time to wait unti they have done all they wanted to have kids. Yes, my husband and I can vacation, but it is different. No matter who you leave them with, YOU. WILL.WORRY! My husband takes the phone from me when we go out because I constantly text the sitter. She is awesome, but still. I never tell them when I am coming back.
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I am going on my first trip without my kids this year. Hopefully I will enjoy the cruise and not be worried or
Tatted…I encourage EVERY woman to have a baby. It it the greatest joy you will ever know.
Yall still crazy says:
IONO what she did, but I’d forgive her if she yells out one more “FLOPPPPY”
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FLOP-PAY!!! FLOP-PAY!!! FLOP-PAY!!! FLOP-PAY!!! FLOP-PAY!!! FLOP-PAY!!! FLOP-PAY!!! FLOP-PAY!!! FLOP-PAY!!! FLOP-PAY!!! FLOP-PAY!!! FLOP-PAY!!! FLOP-PAY!!! FLOP-PAY!!! FLOP-PAY!!! FLOP-PAY!!!
Hey Wut! :wave:
Aside from your home, kids are also a great tax deduction. JS..
@YSO I GOT THIS TEQUILA BOTTLE WE CAN PUT IT OUT LIKE THIS
**BRING THE FAJITAS AND TORTILLAS**
It’s the little things: Can’t jump out at the corner store no more (never thought about that until I had a carseat strapped in the back)
tell em about all that throw up and chit you gotta clean that aint yours…tell them how they gone loose your favorite pair of earrings…over and over again…
Oh you like sleeping in on Saturdays? Not if you grooming a “sports” star.
What you mean you didnt like math? Dont worry you’ll get a chance to go back to school all over again.
Thats the chit they shouldve told OTB.
And IF That isn’t a Photoshopped PIC… WHY didn’t ANYBODY that knows her take the child away from her JUST On The STRENGTH of Her Wearing a BLUE-MOP (On TOP of Her Head Though…)
Hello everybody…Happy Thursday!!
I’m hopin this heffa with the Ronald McDonald eyebrows didnt do anything to this poor lil chap…but my gut says different. But how is this lil child’s absence not noted since Thanksgiving???!!!
Anyway, Imma say a lil prayer for the tyke.
I DON’T have a F-ing Clue HOW Your Retort to My Comment towards YOU became THAT RESPONSE Though I’m going to ASSume that you missed taking Your Daily MEDS (FOR TODAY…)
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What retort? Could you be more specific please?
STILL no new post????
Those of us who don’t have kids or prefer dumpin our kids on our parents don’t wanna be talkin bout kids all day.
I know SOMEBODY got arrested or fired or something that we can talk about.
ROC
I used to feel like that but then when I realized I’d have to be tied to that negro for life I changed my mind! When I break I break!
<—Does NOT like ELove.
@ROC
Not I. I can find joy in other things besides giving birth.
@BK2- I agree! Grandparents ARE getting younger and younger. It is a trend. Mama has daughter early, granddaughter has great grand early. The cycle needs to be broken, BUT there are older grandparents that refuse to step in as well.
@ E-bestie – girl, the last one my grannie had at 40, that nig is NUTS!
@ Rie or Die – Thank you girl. I’mma put my prayers up and see what happens. I’m an only child too, so my mom would have a nut-ball fit of joy!
@ Smurfette – You are such an instigator!
I love it though!
Aside from your home, kids are also a great tax deduction. JS
Head of Househols much.
@MizzD there’s always Memorial City Mall
she can’t get nomo pregnant.
Till she deliver and he cant wait that 6 weeks…and yall pregnant all over again.
My son is a naturally early-riser. He be up before 7 EVERYDAY! I don’t get it, I am like it’s Saturday, leave me alone!
WUT-IZ-SWAGU says:
The Makeup Maven says:
@ WUT WUT – I’m good. I’m glad you’re doing better. Disability?! You didn’t mail me my cut! THAT’S SOME BULLCHIT (Kandi’s moms voice)
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Sorry yall Im lurking off and on.. I gotz a pile o chit on my desk from being gone..
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Since I hadn’t heard from you, I didn’t just wanna be all up in yo’ account. I’m too old to be going to prison, besides, a bish wouldn’t do good there!
YALL
I’ve seriously considered your “side hustle”
@OTB @LTL (Regarding Pregnant-PUSS)
IT is just Sooooooo NICE-n-WARM Though (Sometimes It’s EVEN HOTT…)
OutsidetheBox says:
It’s the little things: Can’t jump out at the corner store no more (never thought about that until I had a carseat strapped in the back)
I ALWAYS ALWAYS say they threaten teens with the wrong chit when the tryna stop pregnancies.
tell em about all that throw up and chit you gotta clean that aint yours…tell them how they gone loose your favorite pair of earrings…over and over again…
Oh you like sleeping in on Saturdays? Not if you grooming a “sports” star.
What you mean you didnt like math? Dont worry you’ll get a chance to go back to school all over again.
Thats the chit they shouldve told OTB
All that chit. I give it to my kids real no chaser to the point they be like “we get it mommy” 
I will not be nobody grandma no time soon ya hear me my mind and heart couldnt take that chit. 
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MizzDallas they say Beyonce is in Houston to have her baby.
Tatted, *whispers* I was just testing out the level of craziness, ya know? Like that man that is crazy in the street, but he ain’t crazy enough to walk out into the moving cars.
Official Response: It was just a test
#notcertainwhattheresultsmeanthough
He be up before 7 EVERYDAY
OMGAWD I would never keep him :rofl
My kids still take naps, big as chit. My mama be hollering laughing.
Hey Dimpz!
Going to lunch talk at ya soon
MY FURLEY’S JUMPOFF AKA SUGA WALLS says:
YALL
I’ve seriously considered your “side hustle”
I was watching this segment on the Tiger Mom, while she may be a BIT extereme, I agree with her. She said she told her kids they were being lazy and the like. She said life will not coddle them and if you tell your child they are perfect all the time they will be in for a rude awakening. So true. Just like I don’t get kids’ teams no longer taking score. WTH? Schools no longer give out F’s. Some give out E’s or nothing below a D. If my child gets an F, you give them an F. We gone deal with that accordingly.
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
STILL no new post????
Those of us who don’t have kids or prefer dumpin our kids on our parents don’t wanna be talkin bout kids all day.
I know SOMEBODY got arrested or fired or something that we can talk about.
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I know that’s right. I try not to overload w/my grand daughter stories, just because I don’t want someone to talk about how smart their 35# cat is, or how dumb their dog is all day.
lovezoe says:
My son is a naturally early-riser. He be up before 7 EVERYDAY! I don’t get it, I am like it’s Saturday, leave me alone
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That’s my baby that chit is so annoying. Now he tries to pry my eyes open screaming mommy wake up the sun is out
@OTB **THROWS SOME MORE MAPPLE WOOD TO IT** THE FAJITAS ARE NEXT!!
OTB-They do too. It is the early rising that gets me! He can go to bed at 12 and be up at 7. The bad thing is he ready to eat soon as his feet hit the floor.
Anna youre too kind to the spinsters.
@ OTB…I was referring to dudes trying screw a chick preggo by somebody else.
@LOVE MY SON AND DAUGHTER TOO!!
WAKE UP STARVING…
Zoe, I read the book Tiger Mom (or tales of ?) & it was really good and showed how the little things done at home is what separates a regular child from an exceptional child
@Tatted…I just saw you message about your grandmother. You are just goin to go all out. I’m not sure how you and your wife intend to do it. I HAD a good relationship with my son’s father. No more. Just be sure that its someone you can deal with.
Would like to think you can never do ALL the things you’d like before having children. Yes, you should be educated or have a skillset to provde for your child/family.
Thankfully I didnt’ wait…
Got a cuz, that graudated Magnu Cum Luade from IVY leaugue with a law degree, lives in million dollar home. NO KIDS and will not birth none at age 44…cause she was chasing the dream. She thought if she got married, she could convince her husband to want kids. DUMB MOVE.
I have threatened my 9 year old with grievous bodily harm for waking me up before 8 o’clock on the weekend. Need to start using NyQuil like my mama and em did.
She looks like she’s been
Tardy to the party…Anywho thanks for posting this Sandra! When I emailed it to ya I was unsure if you would. I want this baby to be found safe
and I want his cray azz mammy to find Jesus, some meds, and some truff.
@Yall- I think I am going to pick that up. Her daughter is at Harvard and everything. Husband and I agreed, we are not funding college. You best get a ACADEMIC scholarship being you can twist that knee at any moment. I will help pay for room and board, but you need to be working on a scholarship.
I’ve hit a chick that was alot of months pregnant with a kid that wasn’t mine before. djm
Brace yourselves, an argument about Beyonce and Jay-Z got so heated between two men that one of them was stabbed! Deets inside….
You might want to be up on your Beyonce trivia when speaking to Ronald Deaver, 31, of Cleveland. Cops say Ronald got into a fight with a man at his Garfield Heights apartment after the dude didn’t know that singer Beyonce’s husband is rapper Jay-Z. So what did Ronald do? He stabbed him!
It happened on New Year’s Eve and Det. Marty Compton of the Parma Police Department told the news that the victim is at MetroHealth Medical Center where he is in good condition. Ronald, however, was arrested for his actions. SMH……
I mean, we love Beyonce and all her wigtastic glory too. But damn. The foolywangness that ensues these days….
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I fukking love Fajitas.
lovezoe says:
I was watching this segment on the Tiger Mom, while she may be a BIT extereme, I agree with her. She said she told her kids they were being lazy and the like. She said life will not coddle them and if you tell your child they are perfect all the time they will be in for a rude awakening.
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I agree, but why do some “Tiger Moms” seem cold, and soul less? I think of Rory’s friend on “Gilmore Girls”, her mom was mean spirited.
Since we talkin babies, my niece had twins last friday and cried Tuesday becasue she was releaed to go home and she couldnt take em and I thought babay the day is gonna come when you gon be cryin wishes they lil asses would be gone somewhere!
:rofl
He STABBED him??????????? OMGAWDDDDD.
They was queens huh?
SMH
Sandra pulled a name from her twitter hat lately, or she laying low for now?
One of the greatest days of my life was the day my older kids learned how to fix their own bowls of cereal… Now if I wanna sleep in on my weekends off I can. Problem now is after so many years of waking up at the crack of dawn popping out titties and changing diapers my brain automatically wakes me up
@AWESOME (Comment #320)
I Have TOO Before (Shyt Happens SOMETIMES Though…)
YSoSrs says:
I have threatened my 9 year old with grievous bodily harm for waking me up before 8 o’clock on the weekend. Need to start using NyQuil like my mama and em did.
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NyQuil don’t work. It’s strong and they can smell it when you try to mix it with juice. Try Benadryl. It tastes like bubble gum. #helpful
Really just kidding, but I’d be lying if I said I hadn’t comtemplated it SEVERAL times.
I want his cray azz mammy to find Jesus, some meds, and some truff.
Somebody said you had a friend who could help..in a pharmacy..
@OTB ME TOO!!
*breaks down door and shouts WHAT IT IS SR? *ponders to sandra no bey spwan post for 2012* walks back out after being thrown out in shame.
I have two, and one isn’t biologically mine, but I’ll kill for their lil bad azzes.
My youngest’s name is Ahmir. I put the “h” in there to “keep it real”
Heyyyy yall
@ZOE
Just some old new-age, hooray-for-everybody bullsht.
It’s why we have a generation of self-entitled whiny brats that want to slit their wrists at the slightest sign that they ARE NOT actually perfect and the rest of the world WILL NOT kiss their asses. Not mine, not ever.
@dimpz …
@yall … Thanks!
@man … U quit?!
thought babay the day is gonna come when you gon be cryin wishes they lil asses would be gone somewhere!
Being tied to a man for life is HARD! Be sure because otherwise you have nothing but drama.
My BD thinks he can talk to me any way he wants…ummmm….that ish ain’t gonna happen. I blocked him and his wife from calling me. I don’t play that ish.
Damn, ninjas stabbin folks over Bey-Bullet-Proof weave??????
Chit just got real.
my brain automatically wakes me up
Praise God for chirren who can reach the cereal!
So you dont pull the eye thingy over your eyes and force yourself back to sleep…
LOL
Not mine, not ever.
Had to leave this *high 5* sis!
“You might want to be up on your Beyonce trivia when speaking to Ronald Deaver, 31, of Cleveland.”
hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
Don’t talk about Bey and stabbing in this post please. Someone doesn’t need much of a reason today.
@Yso- Same goes for mine. You don’t do right, consequences will be had. My dad lived with my grandparents on and off til the day they died. Finally he had to stand on his own two feet. My grandmother coddled him all his life. Every car, she bought. Sad. Not going to happen round these parts. You better have a plan entering 11th grade. We not gone wait until July after graduation for you to figure it out.
@Unpredictable SAID:
Chit just got real.
Damn, ninjas stabbin folks over Bey-Bullet-Proof weave??????
MF-ing
!!!
@sam …
…. You naaaaasteee 
@ OTB, thanks! I had her Thanksgiving morning. And as for that glow you’re talking about mine totally disappeared right before I had her. I got at least 6 shades darker and my whole left side was swollen, one side of my body looked like it belonged on somebody’s else, smh.
@JMO Yes. Yes I am…
OTB nah but I will lay my ass in bed listening to music for at least an hour or until the kids make too much noise
Ms. Everything says:
OTB nah but I will lay my ass in bed listening to music for at least an hour or until the kids make too much noise
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This is what I do.
I will either lay there and force myself back to sleep or watch tv, til I hear, “BOOM, OUCH, or 
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Good Morning everyone
I KNOW my son is the reason that I am where I am in life today. Had I not decided to keep him, depression would have kept me down and doing things way beneath myself. I never had much of a drive or ambition until I was Blessed with a reason 12 years ago…
As for this blue- haired chile here, I feel very sorry for her and even more for her son. I have had women go through depression in my family and dropped kids off on my porch and even picked some kids up (which I am thankful for). We have to be more active in each other’s lives as a family unit. This is so sad. I hope that baby is fine.
She hurt that baby it’s written all over her face. If you know a depressed woman with children please go get those babies and get her help.
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
“Amir’s grandmother was concerned because her daughter had gotten into a separate car accident several days earlier and made ‘cryptic phone calls to other family members indicating her ongoing fight with depression is continuing,’ police said in a report.”~Sandra Rose
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So a child is knowingly left with someone suffering depression and isnt seen for a month the mother is invovled in two wrecks and they JUST call the police.
They should prolly start interrogating the rest of the fam. Starting with Sis nad Grandma.
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Wow! So True!! this story is crazy! I was reading about this last week. I have fam’ in the Carolinas & I mentioned the same thing, why didn’t grandmother step in and remove the child out of her daughters care.
I lurked the grandmothers FB page: “Jocelyn Jennings” – Now I see why, this family looks like the type that would hide ‘Depression’ as it would embarrass them. Grandma looks like an attention whore too. Go check it out.