13-year-old girl stabbed her 2-year-old half sister 7 times

By Sandra Rose  | 

13-year-old charged with killing stepsister

The DeKalb teenager who stabbed her 2-year-old stepsister 7 times will be tried as an adult, The Atlanta Journal Constitution reports.

DeKalb police have charged the 13-year-old girl with the murder of her 2-year-old half sister, Sasha Ray.

“The girl had multiple stab wounds,” said DeKalb County police spokeswoman Mekka Parrish, who told reporters the teen would be charged as an adult. “The 13-year-old was angry about something,” Parrish said.

Sasha's parents left her and her siblings in the care of the teenager on Monday while they ran errands.

The parents returned home around noon and were told Sasha was missing. After a search, the toddler was found dead in the backyard of the family's Decatur condo in Waldrop Station.

Sasha's father, Shelton Ray told Channel 2 Action News that his stepdaughter confessed to him in a phone call from jail.

Ray told Channel 2 he takes comfort in knowing his daughter is in a better place. "She's gone on to glory now. Now it's up to me to make it to where she is," he said. "She is in a better place than I am, and with that known, I know I'm good."

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    • coco creamy

      Bye :kona:

    • Donna del Gatto

      :no:

    • luVn_liFe…

      :crying1:

      OMG she stabbed this baby seven times!!!

    • luVn_liFe…

      :crying1:

      OMG she stabbed this baby seven times!!!

    • Donna del Gatto

      :no:

    • NaijaGal

      so what happened with the other siblings? how old were they? how did the 2 years old get the wrath...just an overall fcuked up situation

    • KyCakes

      Aww man... :wail:

    • Milky

      :cry: :pray: for everyone involved. :kona:

    • iAmChan

      I am really saddened by this....what on earth possessed her to do such a thing? My heart really aches.

    • prynsexxx

      :wail:

      Why the rage? Two children lives lost.

    • A.J.

      She needs her ass-whooped still.

      Why both parents have to leave tho?? Kids are out of school aint they??

    • https://voteobama2012.bigcartel.com San

      Yea other kids prolly witnessed it :no:

    • Milky

      :newpost: dis here is awful and depressin

    • Gigi26

      JESUS CHRIST! That's horrid :no:

      Girl had to be possessed. That's the only thing that can explain this.

    • sassyshe

      :cry: this is so sad. This is the reason why when my kid says he does not want to be at home with my teenage nephew I dont leave him cause you never know what can happen when these kids get angry at the younger one

    • prynsexxx

      I :pray: those other babies didn't see what happened.

    • luVn_liFe…

      there are still so many Questions here,And is a 13yr Old Even allowed to be at home supervising other children.
      In FL you have to be 15 and up . . . *lesigh,ask me how i Know

    • A.J.

      “The 13-year-old was angry about something,” Parrish said.
      ____________________________
      :whip:

    • Donna del Gatto

      I just had a thought of that movie 'The Good Son' with McCauley Caulkin...

    • Gigi26

      She tortured all of them I am sure of this. The 2 year old just got the brunt of the torture.

      May babygirl rest in paradise. That girl in jail needs prayer and intense therapy...

    • Bad Influence

      man, this is terrible... RIP lil bits *lip quiver*

    • https://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      prynsexxx says:

      Why the rage?
      ________________

      Because at age 13 the girl was not emotionally equipped to handle a 2-year-old who is throwing a tantrum or misbehaving. The parents were wrong for burdening the 13-year-old with their children. She didn't give birth to those kids. They were not her responsibility. She was a child herself. :no:

    • prynsexxx

      ....and the baby is sooo cute!

    • Daisy

      This story is beyond :sad: I am :pray: for the entire family. I can't even imagine :cry:

      BTW All other reports state STEP sister not half sister.

      Greetings all :waves:

    • https://voteobama2012.bigcartel.com San

      luVn_liFe... says:

      there are still so many Questions here,And is a 13yr Old Even allowed to be at home supervising other children
      _______________
      U know how some ppl are. Long as you can dial a number.... :tea:

    • A.J.

      The parents need some jail time as well!!

    • Bad Influence

      Prynn ur lips look a lil chapped... :hi:

      *moisturizes Prynns lips with a lil vaseline from the Morning Glorys weave*

    • Daisy

      The fact that she went back in the house chilling like all was well stands out to me..Jesus TAKE IT!

    • marquez269

      Glad everybody invited me to this post but its a depressing one so I'm gonna just finish my lunch :kona:

    • https://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      sassyshe says:

      This is the reason why when my kid says he does not want to be at home with my teenage nephew I dont leave him cause you never know what can happen
      _________________

      You should ask him what the teen has done to him to make him so fearful.

    • http://www.landofpure.net iWhip

      :crying1: at what her dad said. RIP sweet angel Sasha. praying for this family, my God! :pray:

    • SweetP1984

      I just had a thought of that movie ‘The Good Son’ with McCauley Caulkin

      ___________

      Me too! Good movie by the way, but this here is just a sad situation.

    • INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST

      HOW IN THE HELL COULD YOU FORESEE OR PREDICT THAT A 13 YEAR OLD GIRL WOULD BE CAPABLE OF KILLING ANYONE, LESS KNOWN A CHILD?!?!

      THE PARENTS ARE NOT TO BLAME FOR LEAVING THE CHILDREN WITH THIS 13 YEAR OLD AS MUCH AS WE WOULD LIKE TO POINT FINGERS, THE 13 YEAR OLD HAS SOME SERIOUS ISSUES, WHEN THEY FIND THAT OUT MAYBE THEN WE'LL HAVE SOME ANSWERS-THESE ARE TRULY THE LAST DAYS THE CRIMES GET MORE HEINOUS AND THE CRIMINALS GET YOUNGER AND ARE NO LONGER ANGRY TEEN BOYS BUT GIRLS TOO

      PRAY CHURCH-SERIOUSLY!!

    • Donna del Gatto

      @Sandra

      I get what you are saying...but for her to stab this child means that she had passion behind this murder...it wasn't just knocking the child out or giving her some pills...she had some serious feeling behind this!

      My father's girlfriend's son just murdered my father's dog because he HATES my father...he beat the dog with a baseball bat and stabbed it in the neck with a screwdriver...crimes like that have feeling behind them...it's not just a 'oops' or an accident...

    • prynsexxx

      Sandra says:

      The parents were wrong...
      ________________________

      :rolleyes: :tea: I KNEW this was coming. I KNEW IT! Just b/c the parents left that baby with her (which probably wasn't the first time) is NO REASON that child should have killed her. Our parents did a LOT of things that WE as children felt were wrong but to say THEY were wrong? No, YOU'RE wrong for the finger pointing! UGH!

    • Milky

      What really drives a 13 year old gurl to stab here 2 year old sista to deaf and hide the body. She may have bee molested or something. #speculation

    • prynsexxx

      Just go :scared: somewhere...

    • INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST

      PEOPLE SAY I'M TOO OVERPROTECTIVE, NO THE HELL I AINT WHEN THEY RAPING AND KILLING KIDS LEFT AND RIGHT AND IT'S NOT EVEN BY STRANGERS ANYMORE, YOU BET YOUR ARSE I DON'T TRUST JUST ANYONE WITH MY CHILD

    • luVn_liFe…

      The parents were wrong for burdening the 13-year-old with their children. She didn’t give birth to those kids. They were not her responsibility. She was a child herself
      ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
      Agreed SANDRA!When my Son would go visit His "father" i would stress HE IS NOT TO BE KEEPING AN EYE ON ANYONE!!!
      Once my son called asking how to make Jello for his lil sisters . . .
      Chille :steer: i was there in a heartbeat :nono: No SIR!

    • Daisy

      As the oldest I watched my siblings all the time if my mama/daddy had to run to the store/meeting/etc. and they are both still alive today :lol: I am not sure how long the parents were gone though so I will wait on the full story.

    • https://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      @ INTENSEMOCHA:

      A 13-year-old is not a responsible adult. She is a child. Have you ever felt frustration dealing with small children? Well imagine the confusion that a 13-year-old must feel. You never leave small children with a 13-year-old. :nono:

    • Daisy

      @Milky Somebody on FB has your same theory

    • INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST

      HOW MANY OF YALL WERE LEFT WITH SIBLING WHO WERE 13 AND YOU TURNED OUT OKAY OR BETTER YET DIDN'T KILL ANYONE

      I SWEAR YALL GO ALL THE WAY TO THE LEFT SOME DAMN TIMES

    • marquez269

      Hold up we got new emoticons and aint nobody tell me :facepalm:

    • http://myspace.com/afiya00 Afiya

      This is so disturbing

    • A.J.

      Idk what anyone says, the law says a 13 year old is a minor (child). The parents are responsible for them and their actions.

    • Donna del Gatto

      INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST says:

      HOW MANY OF YALL WERE LEFT WITH SIBLING WHO WERE 13 AND YOU TURNED OUT OKAY OR BETTER YET DIDN’T KILL ANYONE

      __________

      Exactly. Shoot most 13-year olds are more fun because they'll probably let you get away with more than an older teenager...

    • marquez269

      @intense My parents left me at home with my older siblings all the time I think I turned out pretty good *checks self* no marks yup Im good

    • https://voteobama2012.bigcartel.com San

      INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST says:

      HOW MANY OF YALL WERE LEFT WITH SIBLING WHO WERE 13 AND YOU TURNED OUT OKAY OR BETTER YET DIDN’T KILL ANYONE

      I SWEAR YALL GO ALL THE WAY TO THE LEFT SOME DAMN TIMES
      _______________
      True. I won't say how old I was learning how to change diapers and keeping an eye out, before 13

    • prynsexxx

      @Bad

      They REALLY are. LOL :rofl:

      My lips so chapped, I bet if I scraped the skin off, I'd have a new brand of cornflakes.

    • https://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      luVn_liFe says:

      Once my son called asking how to make Jello for his lil sisters . . .
      Chille :steer: i was there in a heartbeat :nono: No SIR!
      ________________

      :rofl: I don't blame you. It's too convenient for parents to use their teenagers as instant babysitters. But it's not fair to the teens who may be going through the fluctuating hormonal changes of puberty. I can see why the girl snapped.

    • Daisy

      @San :cosign:

    • INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST

      @SANDRA

      THANKS FOR YOUR OPINION AND ALL BUT MY SON TOOK A BABYSITTING COURSE AT THE AGE OF 13 OFFERED BY THE RED CROSS BECAUSE IN NYS THERE IS NO DEFINITE ANSWER AS FAR AS HOW OLD A CHILD CAN BE TO BABYSIT, HE NEVER BABYSAT ANYONE BUT I WANTED HIM TO KNOW WHAT TO DO IN CASE OF EMERGENCY WHEN HE WAS HOME IN THE AFTERNOON AFTER SCHOOL

      SO THANKS FOR THE INFO, BUT IT ISN'T NECESSARILY RIGHT OR THE LAW :coffee:

    • https://voteobama2012.bigcartel.com San

      But it’s not fair to the teens who may be going through the fluctuating hormonal changes of puberty. I can see why the girl snapped.
      ___________________
      I see more to it than that.

    • Daisy

      @Sandra Nobody knows why she "snapped" if you will yet. May not have had anything to do with watching her sibilings.

    • Milky

      @Marquez :kiss:

    • luVn_liFe…

      @sandraRose
      ~ ~ ~
      Yep in BD case for sure he wants to be FATHER Of the Year and get his chirrens but wanna sleep til 2PM :nono:

    • Donna del Gatto

      I guess from the age of 0-now I've never even THOUGHT of stabbing a child or anyone for that matter when I get agitated or frustrated with them....if I did have that thought it would indicate some mental illness IMHO.... :shrugs:

    • Gigi26

      Ahhh as a latch-key child, please believe I was left to watch my sister and myself at the tender age of 13 and the most she walked away with was a black eye and that was cuz...uhh we ain't getting into that right now. :lol:

      Now my parents did different with my brothers cuz his maturity level was not at the level my folks felt comfortable with leaving my little brother at home alone with him. He did stupid shyt and they didn't need my brother getting caught up with that :no: But once my brother turned 14, yeah he was watching him. But my mom made breakfast and lunch and they called to check up on them throughout the day.

      Babysitters n shyt is expensive :lol:

    • NaijaGal

      Donna del Gatto says:

      I just had a thought of that movie ‘The Good Son’ with McCauley Caulkin…
      =====================
      I think some folks are born with the devil inside of them

    • GellySammich

      Why yall staying in here though?! :crying:

    • iAmChan

      @ Sandra

      You really taking up for the lil chick? There are 13 year olds that are out here getting nasty and having babies these days. The world is so different with how fast these kids are growing up. She knew what the hell she was doing when she stabbed that baby up not once or twice...but seven!

    • QueenSJ

      Precious Lord. Prayers, prayers, and more prayers.

      I understand the teen being young-minded and not emotionally equipped, but fatally stabbing a kid because she's throwing a temper tantrum is beyond extreme.

      I remember years back when I used to babysit my baby brother. His lil'ass was bad and wanted his way, but I NEVER thought about taking his life. (I cared about mine not to mention I adored him in spite of his tantrums). But then again, that's just my personal experience in my 20 and some years of living. Call me cookie-cutter, naiive or blessed. I was fortunate enough not to be sick mentally and depraved emotionally.

    • NaijaGal

      Gigi26 says:

      Ahhh as a latch-key child, please believe I was left to watch my sister and myself at the tender age of 13 and the most she walked away with was a black eye and that was cuz…uhh we ain’t getting into that right now.

      Now my parents did different with my brothers cuz his maturity level was not at the level my folks felt comfortable with leaving my little brother at home alone with him. He did stupid shyt and they didn’t need my brother getting caught up with that But once my brother turned 14, yeah he was watching him. But my mom made breakfast and lunch and they called to check up on them throughout the day.

      Babysitters n shyt is expensive
      =========================
      Thank and You...at 13 you know better period...let's not start this bullchit about blaming the kids cause they asked a teenager to watch her siblings for a few hours...this is coming from someone who was cooking, cleaning and changing diapers by 10

    • Donna del Gatto

      NaijaGal says:

      Donna del Gatto says:

      I just had a thought of that movie ‘The Good Son’ with McCauley Caulkin…
      =====================
      I think some folks are born with the devil inside of them

      ____________

      :cosign: that's exactly my point...this shyt is not NORMAL. Yes, the parents should not have left the child with a child herself...and I can see if some crazy shyt happened that was beyond the child's control like trying to cook and the house caught on fire or the 13 year old trying to spank the 2 year old and maybe going too far with the discipline because she is a child herself....some NORMAL shyt like that...

      But stabbing a child 7 times is beyond sadistic...there is evil intent behind that...

    • Daisy

      @Naija :preach: & :cosign:

    • Gigi26

      Sandra are you attempting to rationalize what this sicko did to her sibling? Please tell me you are not cuz that would be sick :no:

      That 13 year old is possessed. Period. Never would I think to MURDER my sibling.

      @Donna: Damn dude stabbed the DOG?! They better keep an eye on him :no:

    • Bibi

      Thank and You…at 13 you know better period…let’s not start this bullchit about blaming the kids cause they asked a teenager to watch her siblings for a few hours…this is coming from someone who was cooking, cleaning and changing diapers by 10

      :yes:

    • NaijaGal

      Sandra Rose says:

      @ INTENSEMOCHA:
      A 13-year-old is not a responsible adult. She is a child. Have you ever felt frustration dealing with small children? Well imagine the confusion that a 13-year-old must feel. You never leave small children with a 13-year-old.
      =====================
      :stop: cause you know this is some bullchit

    • Gigi26

      Thank and You…at 13 you know better period…let’s not start this bullchit about blaming the kids cause they asked a teenager to watch her siblings for a few hours…this is coming from someone who was cooking, cleaning and changing diapers by 10
      ---------------------------
      YUP and African parents especially don't play that ish, you the big auntie when they leave the house so...yeah I don't understand what Sandra trying to get at.

    • coco creamy

      Because at age 13 the girl was not emotionally equipped to handle a 2-year-old who is throwing a tantrum or misbehaving. The parents were wrong for burdening the 13-year-old with their children. She didn’t give birth to those kids. They were not her responsibility. She was a child herself
      ____________________________________________________

      Sandra I dont normally Agree with your logic but this here, :yes: is how I raised my Child she never ever had to keep her Step siblings NEVER. I told her father hell no U laid and had them yall figure that chyt out, not MINE, and til this day she dont keep folks chirrens. :no:

    • luVn_liFe…

      Our child hood days are NOT Like childrens child hood days Now.they see more and get influnced more than we ever wer.
      When we wer Children we got our a.s.s.whooped :ido: I did!
      This day and age children are whooping ther Parents a.s.s.
      I dont know what drove the teenager to stab and kill BabyGirl,Yes she could be mentall,Yes she could just be Damion Reincarnated,whoknows or maybe she was just in cyber space and got the idea. :shrug:

      This is a Diffrent day and age,It Just is.
      peace Be with All Involved.

    • Donna del Gatto

      @Gigi

      Yeah that little fukker stabbed and killed that poor dog (it hasn't been proven but everybody knows he did it when he was home alone)...I told my dad he's gonna grow up and be a fukking serial killer...

    • SOTHERNGRL

      I am the oldest of three kids you darn right I had to watch my sisters who are both still alive and we are all doing ok. This has nothing to do with watching kids this girl has hatred in her heart to do this.

    • WUT IZ UR PROBLEM NOW

      This plays a big part in knowing your kid too. If you know your child has an issue... why put the little kid in that type of situation. I know parents don't want to see the crazy some kids posses but sometimes you have to face it when your kid is not all there socially, or emotionally.

    • Milky

      I kept my little bro at the age of 13 and he was a bad muthasucka. I wuld want beat his head in sometimes but never did I actually do it. My bro was considered "The Golden Child". I protected him like my own.

    • Who Dat

      @Intense…I agree ma'am. My sister is 11 years older than me. I tell dudes that I date that really its not my parents approval you need to seek sir…its HER approval.

      My sister dressed me and took me to school everyday. The daycare was across the street; until I started school and then she drove me. Age 11-18. She did my hair in the morning. She made sure I ate. She is the one who kissed me goodbye. She is the one who signed fugged up report cards so mom and dad wouldn’t find out. She came and signed me out of school and took me to doctors appointments…

      We are currently at war over a piece of meat for Thanksgiving (the ham) but I know if she call me and call me all kinds of bishes...and say..hoe you GWANNA eat the kind of ham EYE want and you gonna STFU about it...Imma shut the fugg up and eat that fatty azz ham she picked out.

    • Bad Influence

      i dont even pay sandra no mind. i was 12 years old babysitting my 6 year old neice and my 1 year old niece. i fed, bathed, combed hair and play school all damn day ( i had a giant chalkboard in my room :D )
      my mother and my sister were both out working their asses off and i understood that. my 1 yr old niece cried all the damn time. at NO pint did my 12 year old ass say "oh imma kill that baby btch stabstabstab redrum redrum" some kids are more mature than others and some kids are just FUGGED UP in the head...clearly this child had issues.. Sandy Mae u can miss me with ur opinions of the life and struggles of parents... girl boo.

      shid, i was the leader of my own babysitters club. ya'll know i died 4 the books. i rounded up my lil homegurls and we were getting that gwap for about 2 months then i was over it... but point is, Sandras argument holds no merit..

    • Donna del Gatto

      @Sandra

      Didn't you do a post a long time ago about a sick young teenager who raped and killed his little brother??? Was that because he was left home alone with him or because he was a sick young individual??? If I remember correctly you said he was messed up for life and was not able to be rehabilitated....

    • NaijaGal

      @GIGI - Right!?! My parents believed in that whole village thing starting with me :lol: Sandra just likes to play devil's advocate but sometimes that ish is uncalled for...this is a sad enough situation without trying to blame the parents

    • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

      I feel saddened! But Im sorta with Sandra in how times are different now and the 13 y o today seem to be so much emotionally drained! Back when I was growing up my parents would sometimes leave me with my older sis but they were more 14-16 not that the age holds that much a bearing but back then times were different than now! No one knows how many times this 13 yo had to watch all her siblings no one know what type of framemind this 13 yo has and no one knows what she was dealing with herself at the age of 13 when puberty and emotions are all abound! No excuses but very sad to hear of how this 2 yo died

    • Gigi26

      shid, i was the leader of my own babysitters club. ya’ll know i died 4 the books. i rounded up my lil homegurls and we were getting that gwap for about 2 months then i was over it… but point is, Sandras argument holds no merit..

      :rofl: I shoulda did that damn! :thinking:

    • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

      i dont even pay sandra no mind. i was 12 years old babysitting my 6 year old neice and my 1 year old niece. i fed, bathed, combed hair and play school all damn day ( i had a giant chalkboard in my room
      _____________________
      Yes but those were different times is all I'm saying! Some kids are very unstable in todays times more than less it seems

    • https://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      Donna del Gatto says:

      Didn’t you do a post a long time ago about a sick young teenager who raped and killed his little brother???
      _________________

      The circumstances are vastly different. The boy who raped and killed his younger brother was not babysitting him. The boy showed signs of being mentally ill prior to the crime. In this incidence, the teen was left in charge of all of her younger siblings which would've been a difficult task for any adult babysitter to handle. :no:

    • WUT IZ UR PROBLEM NOW

      SOTHERNGRL says:

      I am the oldest of three kids you darn right I had to watch my sisters who are both still alive and we are all doing ok. This has nothing to do with watching kids this girl has hatred in her heart to do this.
      -------------------------
      Absolutely... This kid was feeling some kind of way.. Wasn't she the step kid? If that girl felt slighted because the baby was shown more attention and that anger coupled with instability in the mind and the fact she is 13 and hormones flying everywhere then there is the pot that was waiting to boil over.

    • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

      “oh imma kill that baby btch stabstabstab redrum redrum”
      __________________________
      :rofl: :rofl: WHY THE FUK DID YOU WRITE IT LIKE THAT :rofl:

    • Donna del Gatto

      @Sandra

      Ok, I digress....this is too sad as it is... :(

      #goingtolunch

    • https://voteobama2012.bigcartel.com San

      hoe you GWANNA eat the kind of ham EYE want and you gonna STFU about it…Imma shut the fugg up and eat that fatty azz ham she picked out.
      ______________
      :rofl:

    • luVn_liFe…

      >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>CHOCO<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<
      Yes but those were different times is all I’m saying! Some kids are very unstable in todays times more than less it seems
      ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
      Exactly my sentiments in #72

    • Who Dat

      This has nothing to do with watching kids this girl has hatred in her heart to do this.
      ^^ Which is JUST as sad as the death of that baby.

      Why are you so ANGRY young lady?

      What kind of demon do you have in your heart to have DONE this?

      I agree with what @Pryn and others said...now TWO lives lost.

    • https://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      Bad Influence says:

      i was 12 years old babysitting my 6 year old neice and my 1 year old niece. i fed, bathed, combed hair and play school all damn day ( i had a giant chalkboard in my room )
      my mother and my sister were both out working their asses off and i understood that. my 1 yr old niece cried all the damn time. at NO pint did my 12 year old ass say “oh imma kill that baby btch stabstabstab redrum redrum” some kids are more mature than others
      _________________

      :clap: I applaud you for being one of those rare 12-year-olds who are mature enough to handle adult situations. But the situation could have ended badly if you were not mature enough to take responsibility for the little ones.

    • WUT IZ UR PROBLEM NOW

      Sandra Rose says:

      Donna del Gatto says:

      Didn’t you do a post a long time ago about a sick young teenager who raped and killed his little brother???
      _________________

      The circumstances are vastly different. The boy who raped and killed his younger brother was not babysitting him. The boy showed signs of being mentally ill prior to the crime. In this incidence, the teen was left in charge of all of her younger siblings which would’ve been a difficult task for any adult babysitter to handle.
      ---------------------------

      I think maturity plays a part. I babysat for summer money at 13. I had to go take a CPR class, but I did it.

    • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

      This plays a big part in knowing your kid too. If you know your child has an issue… why put the little kid in that type of situation. I know parents don’t want to see the crazy some kids posses but sometimes you have to face it when your kid is not all there socially, or emotionally.
      _________________________
      Agreed!

    • luVn_liFe…

      @SandraRose
      Can you just put up a :newpost: this here is SAD! Plex signed to the STEELERS

      Umhh,Screw it put up a trap post anything

    • coco creamy

      I never made my child keep her siblings, NEVER I feel so strong on this to this day. even when My X said why she cant keep them, CAUSE I SAID so DAMMIT. u had them you keep them. I love his kids to this day will do anything for them. but that was one thing I never compromise on but of course She grown now :coffee:

    • Milky

      So she was on hur menstrual and couldn't take da cramps, bloatin, and backache boyfriend just broke up wit her and is wit her bff and snapped and killed da baby! GTFOH

    • GellySammich

      Sooo we hafta be sent off into the holiday season with this gloomy ass post or can we just get a new one please?

    • https://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      Who Dat says:

      We are currently at war over a piece of meat for Thanksgiving (the ham) but I know if she call me and call me all kinds of bishes…and say..hoe you GWANNA eat the kind of ham EYE want and you gonna STFU about it…Imma shut the fugg up and eat that fatty azz ham she picked out.
      _________________

      :rofl:

    • NaijaGal

      :yawn: babygirl is with the angels...God rest her parents and other siblings hearts

    • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

      @Luvn
      :thumbsup: My daughter was 12 when I had her brother it was rare she watched her brother - and it was because she didn't want to - but as she got older she didn't mind helping out - I didn't push the issue she was 12

    • Milky

      :kona:

    • NaijaGal

      :listen: ing to Lionel Richie station on Pandora

    • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

      @Creamy
      :cosign: Part of me doing that was I didn't want her resenting me or her brother

    • https://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      SOTHERNGRL says:

      I am the oldest of three kids you darn right I had to watch my sisters who are both still alive and we are all doing ok.
      __________________

      Just because some of you were mature enough to handle the adult responsibilities your parents forced on you does not mean it was okay. It's never alright for parents to force their kids to grow up before their time. Kudos to you all for being mature children. :clap:

    • Who Dat

      hoe you GWANNA eat the kind of ham EYE want and you gonna STFU about it…Imma shut the fugg up and eat that fatty azz ham she picked out

      ^^ MamaDub is so fuggin done about us calling her every night complaining behind the other person back...

      Mama: So this is over a piece of meat?
      Me: YES. Why she gotta have stuff HER way? I aint good enough to pick out the ham/pay for the ham but the heffa want me to cook and transport the ham she done picked? She can suck a fatty.
      Mama: I am not sure exactly what a fatty is...but that is not NICE. I done about HAD it with BOTH of yall over a piece of meat!

      Why I just met my mom 2 hours ago for my youngest school program...she done got a Honeybaked Ham from her homie who work there part time...and walked it to my car...

      Mama: I sure as hell hope this shuts you UP. Lord have mercy...over some MEAT!

    • Bibi

      We are currently at war over a piece of meat for Thanksgiving (the ham) but I know if she call me and call me all kinds of bishes…and say..hoe you GWANNA eat the kind of ham EYE want and you gonna STFU about it…Imma shut the fugg up and eat that fatty azz ham she picked out.

      :hahaha:

    • https://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      coco creamy says:

      this here, :yes: is how I raised my Child she never ever had to keep her Step siblings NEVER. I told her father hell no U laid and had them yall figure that chyt out, not MINE, and til this day she dont keep folks chirrens. :no:
      ___________________

      :clap: You are a responsible, caring parent. :)

    • luVn_liFe…

      :rofl: @ 1 0 5 O_o :lol: thats what these holidays do4Ya!

    • Who Dat

      to Lionel Richie station on Pandora

      ^^ Pre or POST the Brenda Richie beat down Lionel?

      Lionel from Bama or California Lionel?

    • WUT IZ UR PROBLEM NOW

      Why is it the one day I can sneak and play... we get post like this... Sandra...whyyyyy? :wail:

    • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

      :lol: @ MamaDub

    • Milky

      Mama kdubb said takes this damn ham and shut da fcuk up Na!

    • coco creamy

      Just because some of you were mature enough to handle the adult responsibilities your parents forced on you does not mean it was okay. It’s never alright for parents to force their kids to grow up before their time. Kudos to you all for being mature children

      _______________________________________________________

      Doggone Sandra me and u is >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> *.* <<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<

    • NaijaGal

      :rollseyes:

    • prynsexxx

      Can we get a :newpost: b/c I was the youngest child and I have no dog in this fight. When I was younger and my brother (RIP) had to watch me and my siblings, he use to make me eat dog biscuits and tied towels around my neck like a cape and tell me to jump from the top bunk. I in turn ended up breaking my arm. That was back in the day, where there were no cellphones and you bet not call yo mama'nem on her GOOD job. So I had to wait until she got home, and my brother cried; not b/c he was in trouble for making me do it, but b/c my mother had to load all of us up in that big ass YT Caprice Classic to go sit in the ER all night. The fact that he was going to miss Grizzly Adams (almost comparable to our reality shows of today) was the worst punishment of all. Do I blame my mother, HELL NO! Can I look back on that shyt today and laugh, yep. So anywho.

    • https://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      @ INTENSEMOCHA:

      THANKS FOR YOUR OPINION AND ALL BUT MY SON TOOK A BABYSITTING COURSE AT THE AGE OF 13 OFFERED BY THE RED CROSS BECAUSE IN NYS THERE IS NO DEFINITE ANSWER AS FAR AS HOW OLD A CHILD CAN BE TO BABYSIT
      _____________

      that was very responsible of you. I lived in NY once, so I know how hard it is to find a babysitter.

    • Bibi

      oh chit :lol: :rofl:

    • NaijaGal

      @WHO DAT :lol: pre the :chase:

    • Bootcampgirl

      Soooo, I just found out that one of my cadets is wanted for attempted murder. I really don't know how to feel right now because, he was doing so well and almost done with Aftercare.. :wtf:
      And, once again RIP for this little girl...I'm not even going to get into this sub-topic...

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBrmhl70e38 Unpredictable

      I baby sat my niece and little cousins at the age of 13 on a regular basis, hell, I even got paid for it. I was even staying home alone at the age of 9, and didn't do a damn thing that I had no business doing. Didn't burn down the house, didn't open the door for a soul, reached for the phone to call Mom, Dad, Sis, or Big Cuz if we needed anything, and for damn sure didn't kill a child. :no:

    • https://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      @ prynsexxx: I teared up a little reading your comment. :(

    • GellySammich

      <--- oldest child/ second mother... not because my mom didn't care (she prolly one of the most loving women I know)... just because I was the oldest :shrug: just doing what I was supposed to do
      HOW DARE I HELP MY MOM OUT?!?!?! :mad:

    • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

      Soooo, I just found out that one of my cadets is wanted for attempted murder. I really don’t know how to feel right now because, he was doing so well and almost done with Aftercare..
      _________________________
      What?????

    • Bibi

      @Boot

      Sorry to hear that...

    • NaijaGal

      Sandra's World:

      you get raped b/c of how you dress
      homosexuality leaves the world imbalanced yet you remain a lesbian
      single black women should be sterilized but whities get a pass
      spanking your kids is equivalent to beating them
      it's parents fault for expecting their teenage kids to not kill the baby
      ============================
      anything else I'm missing???

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBrmhl70e38 Unpredictable

      Something was going on within the 13 year old for her to stab that baby seven times, and to leave her in the backyard. Mental issues, jealousy, something. That chit ain't normal. :no:

      I sure hope the other kids didn't witness it. :sad:

    • luVn_liFe…

      OMG :woohoo: Girl on FiYahhh is ON!!!!! :shank:

    • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

      I baby sat my niece and little cousins at the age of 13 on a regular basis, hell, I even got paid for it. I was even staying home alone at the age of 9, and didn’t do a damn thing that I had no business doing. Didn’t burn down the house, didn’t open the door for a soul, reached for the phone to call Mom, Dad, Sis, or Big Cuz if we needed anything, and for damn sure didn’t kill a child.
      _______________________
      We are living in the end of days. Girl back then it was easy not to eff up while babysitting because you would get your azz beat! Children don't fear azz whoopings anymore

    • A.J.

      oh my:hahaha:

    • Bibi

      dammit Naija :thumbsup:

    • NaijaGal

      Unpredictable says:

      I baby sat my niece and little cousins at the age of 13 on a regular basis, hell, I even got paid for it. I was even staying home alone at the age of 9, and didn’t do a damn thing that I had no business doing. Didn’t burn down the house, didn’t open the door for a soul, reached for the phone to call Mom, Dad, Sis, or Big Cuz if we needed anything, and for damn sure didn’t kill a child.
      ===============================
      your parents should be skinned :sarcasm:

    • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

      Something was going on within the 13 year old for her to stab that baby seven times, and to leave her in the backyard. Mental issues, jealousy, something. That chit ain’t normal.
      _____________________
      Thats what Im trying to say that is not normal behavior and I'm willing to believe their were signs showing she was a bit off

    • A.J.

      :scared:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBrmhl70e38 Unpredictable

      prynsexxx says:

      Can we get a :newpost: b/c I was the youngest child and I have no dog in this fight. When I was younger and my brother (RIP) had to watch me and my siblings, he use to make me eat dog biscuits and tied towels around my neck like a cape and tell me to jump from the top bunk. I in turn ended up breaking my arm. That was back in the day, where there were no cellphones and you bet not call yo mama’nem on her GOOD job. So I had to wait until she got home, and my brother cried; not b/c he was in trouble for making me do it, but b/c my mother had to load all of us up in that big ass YT Caprice Classic to go sit in the ER all night. The fact that he was going to miss Grizzly Adams (almost comparable to our reality shows of today) was the worst punishment of all. Do I blame my mother, HELL NO! Can I look back on that shyt today and laugh, yep. So anywho.
      _____________________

      :dead:

    • NaijaGal

      NaijaGal says:

      Sandra’s World:

      you get raped b/c of how you dress
      homosexuality leaves the world imbalanced yet you remain a lesbian
      single black women should be sterilized but whities get a pass
      spanking your kids is equivalent to beating them
      it’s parents fault for expecting their teenage kids to not kill the baby
      ============================
      anything else I’m missing???
      ==============================
      I almost forget...it's in men's nature to cheat so when he does it it's only natural
      as a woman you're supposed to put your life on hold for your husband but if the First Lady does it then she has no self-estee

    • GellySammich

      anything else I’m missing???
      _____________
      love dayum near doesn't exist... only dopamine
      you're prolly just a gold digger if you're LSLH
      :thinking:

    • INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST

      AT THE AGE OF 13 HE DIDN'T NEED A BABYSITER AND UNLIKE THE STEREOTYPES YOU RUN AMUCK TYPING ABOUT SINGLE MOTHERS, MY GRANDPARENTS HELD ME DOWN WITH BABYSITTING AND WOULD PICK MY SON UP IN A NANO SECOND, HE LIKED THE FREEEOM AND THE RESPONSIBILITY AT THE AGE OF 13, AS HE SHOULD LIKE ANY OTHER TEENAGER

      AND SINCE YOU LIVED IN NYS THEN YOU WOULD KNOW THAT CHILDREN ARENT ACCEPTED INTO DAYCARE AFTER 12YEARS OF AGE EITHER :coffee:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBrmhl70e38 Unpredictable

      Choco aka Hippie says:

      I baby sat my niece and little cousins at the age of 13 on a regular basis, hell, I even got paid for it. I was even staying home alone at the age of 9, and didn’t do a damn thing that I had no business doing. Didn’t burn down the house, didn’t open the door for a soul, reached for the phone to call Mom, Dad, Sis, or Big Cuz if we needed anything, and for damn sure didn’t kill a child.
      _______________________
      We are living in the end of days. Girl back then it was easy not to eff up while babysitting because you would get your azz beat! Children don’t fear azz whoopings anymore
      _______________

      You mean, children don't GET azz whoopings anymore??????????

    • Who Dat

      Funny part about THAT is she done sliced HERSELF off HALF of the Honeybaked Ham…cause rather tell her oldest daughter NOBODY wants that ole Depression Era struggle meat she pick out every year…she suffers in silence. Would rather purchase secret Honeybaked Ham from Ms. Elaine.

      :coffee:

    • Bibi

      :hi: @Gelly

      :rofl:

    • NaijaGal

      @SANDRA just come lay on this couch ------> :scared: so you can get us a new post cause your comments are doing too much right now

    • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

      You mean, children don’t GET azz whoopings anymore??????????
      _____________________
      Yep cuz if they had things would be a lot different

    • Iheart

      Man this is so :sad:

    • GellySammich

      Hey Bibi! :hi:

    • luVn_liFe…

      :listen:

    • GellySammich

      I love how KDubb just continues her story no matter what's going on in the post :lol:

    • Bootcampgirl

      @Bibi/Choco, I just found out this morning, he is on the run now. He used to tell me every week, Ms. Boot, I can't go back to jail anymore. He would have been done with Aftercare next month, no dirty urine, no missed curfews and working. I tell you this is the hardest thing about my job when you see someone with potential and they just fluck it up over dumb shat. He didn't kill dude those, just shot him in the leg 3 times, he was also an ex-cadet of mine from 2010.

    • NaijaGal

      "Careless Whisper" is on...my :heart: was beyond broken when I found out fine ass George Michael was into Patrick and not Patricia :crying1:

    • Who Dat

      single black women should be sterilized but whities get a pass

      -----------------------------------------
      ^^ UNLESS you are :chickenhead: (Shouts out to @Man)

      Or :pigsfly: (Shouts out to @Strangers...)

      :rofl:

    • A.J.

      love dayum near doesn’t exist… only dopamine
      ______________________
      :hahaha:and it fades like the clouds

    • free

      CHOCO said: Yes but those were different times is all I’m saying! Some kids are very unstable in todays times more than less it seems

      **********************

      this is the point. we don't need to go back to slavery times when 13 year olds had bout 5 kids of their own and a husband. something is WRONG with our youth and it's manifesting itself in all sorts of scary ways.

    • NaijaGal

      Bootcampgirl says:

      @Bibi/Choco, I just found out this morning, he is on the run now. He used to tell me every week, Ms. Boot, I can’t go back to jail
      ========================
      Definitely not belitting the situation but when they make that statement they're most def heading back to jail...I remember watching a show where dude got pulled over and had his 6 years old daughter in the car...made the same exact statement and proceeded to beat the female officer almost to death cause he didn't want to go back to jail :huh:

    • Donna del Gatto

      GellySammich says:

      anything else I’m missing???
      _____________
      love dayum near doesn’t exist… only dopamine
      you’re prolly just a gold digger if you’re LSLH
      :think:

      _____________

      :cosign: I swear I read those dopamine posts sometimes and I'm like....uhhh, could it be an honest feeling of love and compassion but folks just ended up on a different page later on in the relationship??? :lol:

    • Who Dat

      “Careless Whisper”

      :2dance:

      This is me and KyCakes SONG...it used to be me and Tatted song :wail:

      GUILTY FEETS AINT GAT NO RIDDYUM :2dance:
      ^^ The island remix

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FeuqgD6GKjw&feature=related French KI$$E$

      :scared: <~~~~~~~~~~~ really do :lol:

      Ummmmmmmm Keyshia Cole & Ashanti on ONE TRACK TOGETHER :blink:

      :listen: <~~~ me checking it out

    • Bad Influence

      Gelly :hug:

    • Who Dat

      I was even staying home alone at the age of 9, and didn’t do a damn thing that I had no business doing. Didn’t burn down the house, didn’t open the door for a soul, reached for the phone to call Mom, Dad, Sis, or Big Cuz if we needed anything, and for damn sure didn’t kill a child.

      ^^ :yes: PREACH chile...

    • Bad Influence

      @KDubb, when ur ass had bronchitis, i was on the board crying 4eva one day when that shat came on my at my job... :crying:

    • CheBell

      There was a case sometime ago about a little girl who drowned her brother in the bathtub while her momma went to see who was at the door. The girl dragged the 2 year old baby to the tub by his hair and held his head under water. When asked why she did it she said because i didn't like him. There are a number of reasons this girl could have done this...babysitting isn't one of them. If this was her stepsister then there could have been resentment just because she now has a new sibling...jealously...whatever. Either way this isn't normal. She may be young and inexperienced but that doesn't justify stabbing and killing.

    • free

      prynsexxx says: When I was younger and my brother (RIP) had to watch me and my siblings, he use to make me eat dog biscuits and tied towels around my neck like a cape and tell me to jump from the top bunk. I in turn ended up breaking my arm.

      **********************************

      * secretly :rofl: *

    • GellySammich

      Heeey HisBad! <-- said like MJ's Who's Bad... why she won't give us a new post? :crying:

    • NaijaGal

      Donna del Gatto says:

      I swear I read those dopamine posts sometimes and I’m like….uhhh, could it be an honest feeling of love and compassion but folks just ended up on a different page later on in the relationship???
      ===========================
      it's not love until you're willing to stick it out after a beat down or multiple cheating...and probably outside kids too...until you've stood by your man through the test of time it's all dopamine :tea:

    • Bootcampgirl

      NaijaGal says:

      Bootcampgirl says:

      @Bibi/Choco, I just found out this morning, he is on the run now. He used to tell me every week, Ms. Boot, I can’t go back to jail
      ========================
      Definitely not belitting the situation but when they make that statement they’re most def heading back to jail…I remember watching a show where dude got pulled over and had his 6 years old daughter in the car…made the same exact statement and proceeded to beat the female officer almost to death cause he didn’t want to go back to jail
      __________________
      I agree but, after you've worked with someone for almost a year, I guess I just expected something different but, that's the optimism in me. At the end of the day some chose to still have that "live by the gun die by the gun" mentality.
      I seen that episode also and he did walk the dog on her...

    • Bibi

      :hugs: @Boot

      It has to be hard but don't beat yourself up...

      Shouldn't have ran though..always makes it worse. Hopefully he'll be ok..

    • Gigi26

      Hell when me and my sis were home alone shyt it was party time, we watched tv and played all type of stupid azz games like:

      House and Club (taking our moms shoes n makeup and turn the tv to the music choice channels and dance our azzes off). Went to the Park and all that..before the folks came home :yes:

    • GellySammich

      NaijaGal says:

      Donna del Gatto says:

      I swear I read those dopamine posts sometimes and I’m like….uhhh, could it be an honest feeling of love and compassion but folks just ended up on a different page later on in the relationship???
      ===========================
      it’s not love until you’re willing to stick it out after a beat down or multiple cheating…and probably outside kids too…until you’ve stood by your man through the test of time it’s all dopamine :tea:
      _______________
      it's only love if you stay after he's been to jail a few times and maybe even been arrested together! THAT'S love

    • free

      CheBell says: There was a case sometime ago about a little girl who drowned her brother in the bathtub while her momma went to see who was at the door. The girl dragged the 2 year old baby to the tub by his hair and held his head under water. When asked why she did it she said because i didn’t like him

      ******************

      empty souls who have no self discipline and do not know how to handle certain emotions. i'm afraid for these children because, sooner or later, the justice system is going to catch up and start giving these extreme juveniles (as young as 8 or 9) life w/o parole. watch and see.

    • Who Dat

      FIRST time oldest stayed home by herself we coached and coached and practiced…I sent BFF over there to “test” if she was gonna open that door for ANYBODY…BFF said she wont een finished KNOCKING and the door flangs OPEN.
      BFF: WHAT are you DOING? :eek:
      17 yo: Well its YOU. :shrug:
      BFF: What did your mother TELL you tho?
      17 yo: She said not for ANYBODY :wail:
      BFF: You gonna getcho azz stomped by your mom. Getcho coat. You aint ready.

      Depends on the kid really. This happened and she was 10. Aint start staying alone until she was 12.

    • GellySammich

      this post blows... I'd rather get to my dr appt early...

    • Bootcampgirl

      @Bibi, I'm not, Counseling 101, you can't help those who won't help themselves. No, I'm hoping he just turns himself in today but, I don't think he will. He as told me before that if he ever got into a situation like this that the cops will have to kill him first and in Delaware, they will...

    • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

      @Bibi/Choco, I just found out this morning, he is on the run now. He used to tell me every week, Ms. Boot, I can’t go back to jail anymore. He would have been done with Aftercare next month, no dirty urine, no missed curfews and working. I tell you this is the hardest thing about my job when you see someone with potential and they just fluck it up over dumb shat. He didn’t kill dude those, just shot him in the leg 3 times, he was also an ex-cadet of mine from 2010.
      _____________________
      Yes that would be a hard job for me as well # SAD

      @Free
      Yes our youth of today seem touched and not all of them by GOD

    • Who Dat

      @KDubb, when ur ass had bronchitis, i was on the board crying 4eva one day when that shat came on my at my job…

      ^^ Okay now its our song too (*sorry Ky*)

      :2dance:

      We could have been so good togeva.....We coulda lived this dance foreva..
      But now who's gonna dance with me? Plllllease stayyyyy.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rVQqQuOO9yQ Bedazzled His Razzle

      My lord. This hurts my heart. I basically had to help raise my sister while my parents worked until I got a job and worked for my own gas money. I had to bathe my sister, feed her, iron her clothes and from time to time if her hair wasn’t braided, I combed her hair. I can recall being jealous of her at one point in time in my life around the time she was born, (I'm 8 years older than her) but I NEVER thought of inflicting any harm on her.... and the occasional pinching and just being a big sister terrorizing her little sister doesn't count :lol: My sister told me some female stepped to her at school while I was visiting...was ready to take names :lol: but that's just sibling love

    • Gigi26

      Hey Sandra i'll even take a TI and Tiny post right about now..

      Esp cutie Major and Tips sister Precious going on that date...

      Hell I wanna know does Shekinah bleach herself? Where did her edges go? How did things work out with the guy and Precious?

    • Donna del Gatto

      @Naija and Gelly

      Uh huh...but Ion call that love, I call that doing some shyt just to say you did it and trying to prove a point that don't need to be proven.... :lol:

    • anw_rootbeer

      A.J. says:

      She needs her ass-whooped still.

      Why both parents have to leave tho?? Kids are out of school aint they??

      ________________________
      who, the 13 yr old? What would that prove or help??

    • Bootcampgirl

      Queen Riese :no: and :stop:

    • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

      I remember that episode of that man beating on that cop it was very sad and disgusting

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rVQqQuOO9yQ Bedazzled His Razzle

      You gonna getcho azz stomped by your mom.
      ---------------
      :rofl:

    • kingstonn

      <---- babysat my brothers @ 12 & 13and ain't none of em died

      so imma need a better excuse as to why she did this. :coffee:

    • luVn_liFe…

      Choco aka Hippie says
      I remember that episode of that man beating on that cop it was very sad and disgusting
      ~ ~ ~ ~
      That Poor child was hollering and terrified

    • Who Dat

      it’s only love if you stay after he’s been to jail a few times and maybe even been arrested together! THAT’S love

      ^^ Or caught doing the hand jive while he is there and you was visiting...and he on lock down and you banned from coming back. That is LOVE chile.

      :rofl:

      DOOOOO the hand jive babbbbbbbby :danban:

    • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

      Choco aka Hippie says
      I remember that episode of that man beating on that cop it was very sad and disgusting
      ~ ~ ~ ~
      That Poor child was hollering and terrified
      ______________________
      Which makes it so disgusting to see her own father act like a duranged animal!

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rVQqQuOO9yQ Bedazzled His Razzle

      hand jive= :jack: right?? :blink:

    • luVn_liFe…

      @choco Yup

    • sassyshe

      This is the reason why when my kid says he does not want to be at home with my teenage nephew I dont leave him cause you never know what can happen_________________You should ask him what the teen has done to him to make him so fearful.
      _____________________
      I do all the time. I thoroughly question my child on the who, what, why, when, where. My nephew has an attitude and would hit him or scream at him, so my son dont like being with him unless,he knows hes in a good mood

    • luVn_liFe…

      RAZZLLLE
      that Pic of lil RAZZ IS tooo Cute!! :heart:

    • Bad Influence

      Who Dat says:

      FIRST time oldest stayed home by herself we coached and coached and practiced…I sent BFF over there to “test” if she was gonna open that door for ANYBODY…BFF said she wont een finished KNOCKING and the door flangs OPEN.
      BFF: WHAT are you DOING?
      17 yo: Well its YOU.
      BFF: What did your mother TELL you tho?
      17 yo: She said not for ANYBODY
      BFF: You gonna getcho azz stomped by your mom. Getcho coat. You aint ready.

      Depends on the kid really. This happened and she was 10. Aint start staying alone until she was 12.

      November 20, 2012 at 1:52 pm
      :dead:

    • luVn_liFe…

      :newpost: on Rhi

    • Who Dat

      I see lil Razzle too. Cayute.

      Yes that is the hand jive I speak of.

    • Trendsetter

      Bedazzled His Razzle says:

      My lord. This hurts my heart. I basically had to help raise my sister while my parents worked until I got a job and worked for my own gas money. I had to bathe my sister, feed her, iron her clothes and from time to time if her hair wasn’t braided, I combed her hair. I can recall being jealous of her at one point in time in my life around the time she was born, (I’m 8 years older than her) but I NEVER thought of inflicting any harm on her…. and the occasional pinching and just being a big sister terrorizing her little sister doesn’t count My sister told me some female stepped to her at school while I was visiting…was ready to take names but that’s just sibling love

      ____________________________

      my sister is 10yrs older than me and when our father died...she stepped up and help take care of me....because my mother worked two jobs and was in school trying to raise two daughters...when my sister went away to college that just left me and my mom...she didn't trust anybody else with me... so i would go to school with her and i would go to her second job as well...

    • coco creamy

      @ his i mention u earlier when i was lookig at WUZ Gravin. :hug:

    • Who Dat

      Girl my BFF was so ticked at Kirah for opening that door. Like I said we had practiced for DAYS. BFF still bring it up to this day :rofl: 17 yo thought her and her godmother was getting ready to hit the streets...She saw her pull up and allll practice scenarios went OUT the winder.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rVQqQuOO9yQ Bedazzled His Razzle

      KDub and Luvn Thanks! That's my boo!

      @trend I kind of wish my mom had of done that with me sometimes. before she got married to my stepdad I would be over my greatgrandma's house either bored as hell watching her stories or being slapped in my face with ciggarette smoke at my other ganny's house :(

    • aqtpie

      According to Ray, Jackson called him Monday around 11 p.m. from jail and confessed to the murder.

      Ray said Jackson was caught with a boy inside the townhome while he and her mother were away from the house.

      A neighbor went to the home and found the boy hiding inside a closet. The neighbor told Jackson that the boy had to leave the home.

      Ray said Jackson told him that after the boy and other friends left, Jackson asked for her siblings to go upstairs and kept 2-year-old Sasha downstairs.

      Jackson told Ray she then took Sasha towards the back door of the home and stabbed her seven times in the chest. She then threw Sasha's body over the balcony.

      When her parents returned home, Ray said they asked Jackson where Sasha was and began looking for her.

      Ray and Jackson's mother found Sasha's body in the backyard with serious injuries and attempted to take her the hospital. Before they reached the end of their subdivision, Sasha died.

    • Flawless

      INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST says:

      HOW MANY OF YALL WERE LEFT WITH SIBLING WHO WERE 13 AND YOU TURNED OUT OKAY OR BETTER YET DIDN’T KILL ANYONE
      I SWEAR YALL GO ALL THE WAY TO THE LEFT SOME DAMN TIMES
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      :cosign:

    • Dr.GiGi

      I can't believe it...but for once I actually side with Sandra (partially) on this one. Yes, we have all been made the babysitter from time to time...including myself. Most of us, and I say most because some of our azzes are CRAZY and wont admit it, turned out fine. But the real issue that I have here is when we have all of these kids that WE are not equipped to care for OURSELVES. Hear me out...There have been times when there were plenty of things I wanted or needed to do, but did I call my 13 year old niece to babysit my little ones...no I didn't. I dont care if she could handle it or not...those are my kids and I an not pawning them off on another child. Now do I think babysitting is what made this child snap. In my professional opinion, probably not. More than likely she has some deep rooted issues that may or may not have surfaced. What I am saying is if all your resources are able to care for adequately are two than know when to fold...if it is one...then call it quits...for many it should probably be none. But because none of us really knows all the circumstances here all we can do is speculate at best. At the end of the day, what bothers me more than anything else is "What happened to Big Momma"? That is who we really need in the homes now. You all have a happy, safe, and relaxing Thanksgiving! Tells someone how much you love him/her!

    • Crickett

      The 14yo wanted to have sex with a boy and was so upset when she got caught so she took out her frustrations on the littliest one in the house and threw her away like a doll. She is an emotionally unstable teenager in heat. If she old enough to want a di@k in her, she old enough to watch out for kids a couple of hours while me and my husband go pay the light bill- play with your sister while we gone. Those are directives that most kids can handle at 14yo- she been bleeding for at least 2-3 years by now, washing dishes, washing her own ass, and cleaning her room-if something happens while I'm gone call me and I tell you how to handle it. But to kill and murder because you can't get screwed, you are a monster.

    • INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST

      AGAIN THE PARENTS, TWO PARENT HOUSEHOLD, WENT TO RUN ERRANDS AND RETURNED AROUND NOON, HELL FOR ALL WE KNOW THEY COULD HAVE ONLY BEEN GONE FOR AN HOUR, EITHER WAY IF SHE WAS THAT MAD TO STAB THE CHILD TO DEATH AND UNABLE TO CONTROL HERSELF, HOW DO ANY OF US KNOW SHE WOULDN'T HAVE SNAPPED AND DID THE SAME IF THE PARENTS WERE HOME BUT JUST NOT IN THE SAME ROOM?!?!

      YOU DON'T KNOW, TRUST ME I'M CERTAIN THE PARENTS ARE ALREADY BEATING THEMSELVES UP OVER THIS AND WILL HAVE TO LIVE WITH THIS FOR THE REST OF THEIR LIVES, WHILE MOST OF US WILL FORGET BY NEXT WEEK IT HELPS TO EASE THE MIND OF THOSE WHO ARE SO HARSH AND JUDGMENTAL IF WE CAN ASSIGN BLAME TO ANYBODY, TO MAKE OURSELVES FEEL EXAMPT FROM HEINOUS CRIMES SUCH AS THESE, IT CAN HAPPEN ANYWHERE AND TO ANYBODY-DUH

      THE DEVIL HAS NO LIMITS

    • KayCeiSoul

      :cosign: @ Crickett. This is such a sad story!
      The 13 year old is mentally disturbed and needed some help. Period.

    • free

      Crickett says: But to kill and murder because you can’t get screwed, you are a monster.

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      :cosign: when i read this part of the story, i immediately knew why she killed the child. the sad part is the baby was still fighting for life when the parents returned. we'd better take a hard look at these chickens coming home to roost.