Syndicated radio host Rickey Smiley took calls from listeners who weighed in on singer/songwriter Akon’s controversial comments on monogamous relationships.
In a recent interview, the 40-year-old Senegalese singer, who is reportedly married to multiple women, said monogamy is not only “stupid”; it’s “impossible.”
“I don’t know no one woman that can satisfy every man’s one need. It’s impossible. Just like there’s no man that can satisfy a woman’s every need,” said Akon. He added: “Women just aren’t built to breed like that or… mate with more than one partner. Women aren’t built that way, men are.”
Of course Akon is correct. Since the beginning of time man has evolved by mating with multiple women to ensure the survival of future generations.
Polygamy, the practice of marrying more than partner, is mentioned numerous times in the Bible. Religious leaders had multiple wives and concubines in the Old Testament. Polygamy is still practiced in many parts of the world where women outnumber men, such as Africa and the middle east.
A divorce rate of 80 percent in America is further evidence that monogamy is an exercise in futility and goes against Nature.
One way or another, married men will find a way to creep with other women (or other men). It’s in their Nature.
[audio:rickey-smiley-akon.mp3]Thanks to loyal reader MisTaken for the tip!
The Bible was written by man
Folk that don’t believe in monogamy should remain single…
Here we go.
I gave this tip to SR
in the comments for The Harts. No need to shout me out Auntie. I don’t need the validation 
Isn’t polygamy a crime in ALL states except Utah
It’s important to read and learn the Bible. Non believers lve to add and take away from the Good News. Same thing happened with Adam and Eve
Same thing happened with Adam and Eve
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akon have a dam seat somewhere
Heard this on the Breakfast Club this morning……
I’m not looking to Akon for any advice about anything
Awww daggone I logged in on the wrong post. I am not here for any of this……anyway good murnin!
men I get it you want EXTRA PUZZY … what i don’t get is WHY it is good for men to have multiple women but NOT VICE VERSA….
AND did TARA slap the DOGSHYT out of Amina last night or was it just me … DUDE they fighting over PETER GUNZ… let that sink in for a minute PETER GUNZ!!!!!
WHY SHOULDN’T HE BELIEVE IN POLYGOMY WHEN HIS [Comment edited]
Bnat: I flirted with listening to the Breakfast Club a few weeks back because Rickey can get lame, TJMS doesn’t play the music I like and Steve H just doesn’t do it for me outside of the Strawberry Letter. I was good with listening to them until somebody here
prompted me to watch when Charlamagne crucified Lil Mama for no reason and she was crying 
Every since then I have no listened. I know no one is perfect and heck I used to listen to Wendy when he was on there but he seems just vicious and hateful for NO REASON. Like who is he to call her ugly?
I’m not looking to Akon for any advice about anything
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If I read that correctly, he is saying that Women cannot be monogamous and that men can. I agree with his theory except that it’s usually the men who have the issue.
[Comment edited] NICCAS kill me with an overbite, gap, dirty fingernails, stank breath, etc and a damn LOUIS VUITTON BELTS and Louboutin sneakers… SMH
AND did TARA slap the DOGSHYT out of Amina last night or was it just me … DUDE they fighting over PETER GUNZ… let that sink in for a minute PETER GUNZ!!!!!
him. Of course she should be mad at Peter but I think she was justified with being PIST @Teethmina because on a human respect level she was dead wrong. And Teethmina stood up like she was bad. :stop: SHE WASN’T REEAADDDYYY
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I think it had more to do with the fact that Teethmina met her WITH Peter, was all in her face and acted like she was just an artist but was
I was good with listening to them until somebody here prompted me to watch when Charlamagne crucified Lil Mama for no reason and she was crying Every since then I have no listened. I know no one is perfect and heck I used to listen to Wendy when he was on there but he seems just vicious and hateful for NO REASON. Like who is he to call her ugly?
He’s a bully. He don’t pull that mess when them “thug rappers” come in there
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Yea I didn’t like that lil mama interview either
deedeegirl says:
If I read that correctly, he is saying that Women cannot be monogamous and that men can.
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Read it again. He is saying women aren’t built to multiply with many partners, but men are. Which is why many husbands have children that their wives don’t know about.
does amina have false teeth or what??? my thing with dudes is WHY do they mess around with chicks that look alike..minus the TEETH amina and tara could be “kin” LOL
he is saying that Women cannot be monogamous and that men can
Some people are in relationships for more practical reasons and feelings don’t necessarily hold much weight.
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The other way around. He’s saying women aren’t meant to breed in the same manner that men are. We can’t get pregnant AGAIN when we’re pregnant (currently). Men, however, can continue to sow seed even while one of his women is pregnant. What he’s saying makes sense biologically. Just doesn’t match up with our newer (in the grand scheme of world history) views on relationships.
Did I forget to mention that Akon is a friend of the blog?
Yea I didn’t like that lil mama interview either
He’s a bully. He don’t pull that mess when them “thug rappers” come in there
about all the stuff he says normally. He intentionally says things to people who are less intimidating or not as popular. Screw that. I would get in his 
because you should get respect if you give it. He was intentionally being cruel to her. I mean slide a joke or two in there and leave it alone. He kept calling her ugly, manly and a loser that nobody cares about but only mocks for jumping on stage. I wanted her to say yea but you make a living talking about people like ME so what does that make you? Not on my level even 
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Right. When GROWN men come on there he is
So when does hit the floor come back on?? I am ready to see some more Kyle
Oh so that’s why someone is agreeing with someone….
Sandra Rose says:
Did I forget to mention that Akon is a friend of the blog?
oops ….. my bad
he still got that gas pump at his house from the show MTV cribs??? ask him can a bish get a fill-up thanks auntie!!!
Hey Gelly
I have hope that more people will show up today if you are here 
The other way around. He’s saying women aren’t meant to breed in the same manner that men are. We can’t get pregnant AGAIN when we’re pregnant (currently). Men, however, can continue to sow seed even while one of his women is pregnant. What he’s saying makes sense biologically. Just doesn’t match up with our newer (in the grand scheme of world history) views on relationships.
Some people are in relationships for more practical reasons and feelings don’t necessarily hold much weight
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GellySammich says:
The other way around. He’s saying women aren’t meant to breed in the same manner that men are. We can’t get pregnant AGAIN when we’re pregnant (currently). Men, however, can continue to sow seed even while one of his women is pregnant.
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Exactly. As women we tend to think too much. The answers we seek are all there if we pay attention. We are born with reproductive organs, therefore we are born to breed. Men can breed with multiple women throughout the year. Pregnant women can not (unless she has an abortion or miscarriage).
Oh is that where the cosigning comes in?
GellySammich says:
“Just doesn’t match up with *WOMEN’s newer (in the grand scheme of world history) views on relationships.”
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I fixed that for you, hun.
lexdiamonz says:
Sandra Rose says:
Did I forget to mention that Akon is a friend of the blog?
oops ….. my bad
he still got that gas pump at his house from the show MTV cribs??? ask him can a bish get a fill-up thanks auntie!!!
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Oh Word? What city he live in? Because if it’s Atlanta I might need to make an unscheduled stop when I leave here next week… and take an extra gas can…or two… I’ll even pay him for it.. $0.97/gal
gypsyeyes says:
Oh is that where the cosigning comes in?
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You and EYE are HERE >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>.<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<< *Rasheeda hand gesture*
Did I forget to mention that Akon is a friend of the blog?
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Nope… When I read this >> Of course Akon is correct<<< I knew what time it was
our newer… woman’s newer… ain’t I a woman? *unzips pants*
Akon has like four wives..Of course he thinks monogamy is stupid…
EVERYONE knows we make the CHOICE to be monogamous… IF people agree to have open relationships or multiple partners that is fine and dandy BUT for dudes to be creeping and lying to bishes THAT is the problem… because really MOST side-chicks KNOW the dude has a woman it is the chick at home playing wifey, cooking and cleaning and playing house who is STUPID…come on where there is smoke there is usually fire… like on LHHNY… TARA he had a BABY on you and you took him back she was with that cat 13 YEARS!!! and he didn’t put a ring on it… BUT he put a ring on vampira in less than a year green card or not ish was FOUL… but that is what she get for playing wifey and not WIFE!!!!! also if a man can take care of multiple women and THE WOMEN are fine with that more power to them my thing is WHY women be tripping over dudes who are NOT doing anything for them … I know PLENTY or Africans who have MULTIPLE women and the women are ALL friends, all taken care of .. DON’T have to work, are not on welfare… now I have YET to see this work with AFRICAN AMERICAN women and men… I would LOVE to have a sister wife … hell then I can take a couple days off from sucking dyck and puzzy popping LOL
Wendy when he was on there but he seems just vicious and hateful for NO REASON. Like who is he to call her ugly?
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I can’t get mad at this man he comes from a different culture and this is what they practice. I think men and women can be monogamous if they want to. It’s a choice that you have to consciously make over and over again. You have to remind yourself that you are in a relationship and what cheating would do to that relationship and then count the cost.
SO I JUST HEARD ON THE RYAN CAMERON MORNING SHOW THAT PEBBLES WILL BE ON WENDY WILLIAMS WHERE THE RUMOR WILL BE ADDRESSED ABOUT CHILI SLEEPING WITH LA REID AND THAT IS HOW HE GOT THEM AWAY FROM HER…
Morning roses!
nybrn2 says:
Folk that don’t believe in monogamy should remain single…
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Morning everyone !!!!!!!
gypsyeyes says:
SO I JUST HEARD ON THE RYAN CAMERON MORNING SHOW THAT PEBBLES WILL BE ON WENDY WILLIAMS WHERE THE RUMOR WILL BE ADDRESSED ABOUT CHILI SLEEPING WITH LA REID AND THAT IS HOW HE GOT THEM AWAY FROM HER…
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and that is how he got them away from her
JDORE-WHERE DID YOU GET THAT AGE ENHANCED PICTURE OF TERRIO…OOOOH KILLEM!
What is there to disagree with in his statements?
@SANDRA
Man, Sandra must be BALLIN these days with all these new “friends” she got!
Don’t forget the people that got you there Sandra, don’t forget where you came from….
It’s a choice that you have to consciously make over and over again.
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Which to me only proves the point that monogamy doesn’t come naturally to us. We force it on ourselves.
Are we talking about humans or animals….people these days act more like animals instead of humans which is the only reason his veiws are somewhat valid.
I hate to say this but he has a valid point!
@GELLY
“It’s a choice that you have to consciously make over and over again.
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Which to me only proves the point that monogamy doesn’t come naturally to us. We force it on ourselves.”
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And then we wonder why so many people walk around mad and stressed and flippin out and chit.
@PERFECTO
“Are we talking about humans or animals….people these days act more like animals instead of humans which is the only reason his veiws are somewhat valid.”
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Humans are animals tho….
Akon is Senegalese sooo his views on monogamy are culturally based. I think it is possible for a man to be with one woman. I dont think that a man at 21 is ready to settle down and be monogamous but with age comes maturity and when one is truly committed to their partner and their faith, they can, in fact, be with one woman.. but that’s $0.02
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
What is there to disagree with in his statements?
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Hey either you agree with it or you don’t… either way everyone has a choice. You can either put up with this lifestyle and accept it(which can’t say a word about this ninja stick his dyck in other females or males ) for that matter, or you can say hell no :stop: I’ll pass …. just that simple
Yeah, yeah hold deez Akon
Morning Roses & Thorns :wave:
Gyps, Jenie, Doc, Razzle, Taken, Gelly, Zoe
Kenya and the Half Stepper
All this is Bullshyt
I’m not here Taken *waves hands in front of face all mystical* Just had a quick opinion
Come back *clicks heels together*
about Terio age progression. He ain’t even missing and he got a milk carton gravie
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#Gyp
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
@PERFECTO
“Are we talking about humans or animals….people these days act more like animals instead of humans which is the only reason his veiws are somewhat valid.”
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Humans are animals tho….
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If you believe in theory of evolution..
kingdom animalia.
I was good with listening to them until somebody here
prompted me to watch when Charlamagne crucified Lil Mama for no reason and she was crying
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Say what nah
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“One man can’t please one women”? (Oocho voice) Child please! Don’t call yourself a man then!
Hey either you agree with it or you don’t… either way everyone has a choice.
<my co-sign 
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You have to work at ANYTHING you do. Heck I have to make a decision to go to work and get up in the morning. That doesn't come naturally
gypsyeyes says:
JDORE-WHERE DID YOU GET THAT AGE ENHANCED PICTURE OF TERRIO…OOOOH KILLEM!
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LOL! From my frat in his “say something nice” post
nybrn2 says:
Folk that don’t believe in monogamy should remain single…
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That I agree with. It’s not fair to lead someone on or have them thinking you are committed to them when you’re not..
Good morning yall!!!
on this topic
@JENIE
“What is there to disagree with in his statements?
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Hey either you agree with it or you don’t… either way everyone has a choice. You can either put up with this lifestyle and accept it(which can’t say a word about this ninja stick his dyck in other females or males ) for that matter, or you can say hell no I’ll pass …. just that simple
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Yeah, you don’t have to “participate” or “be involved” with him. But the facts of what he is saying is true, which is what I mean by saying there isn’t anything to “disagree” with.
You can choose not to like those facts but there is no counter argument against them.
:wave: Morning Smonae
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
@GELLY
“It’s a choice that you have to consciously make over and over again.
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Which to me only proves the point that monogamy doesn’t come naturally to us. We force it on ourselves.”
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And then we wonder why so many people walk around mad and stressed and flippin out and chit.
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I don’t know what the hell ya’ll talm bout, but I ain’t sharing no damn dyck
I don’t give a damn what anyone says, and if I have to stay single because of this notion than so be it 
and folks wonder why disease is at an all time high !!!!!!! Loose dycks running round here too and fro !!!!! Just because you can do it, don’t make it right …. wtf …… so a man doesn’t have to have self control over his peen !! Nah 
Are Sandra’s friends her friends?
Ty,
Look what the cat dragged in 
Akon and his multiple wives are entitled to their beliefs
MisTaken
The Black Mamba says:
Bnat: I flirted with listening to the Breakfast Club a few weeks back because Rickey can get lame, TJMS doesn’t play the music I like and Steve H just doesn’t do it for me outside of the Strawberry Letter. I was good with listening to them until somebody here
prompted me to watch when Charlamagne crucified Lil Mama for no reason and she was crying 
Every since then I have no listened. I know no one is perfect and heck I used to listen to Wendy when he was on there but he seems just vicious and hateful for NO REASON. Like who is he to call her ugly?
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Charlemagne attacked her for NO reason at all…it was after the whole thing at the VMA’s…her jumping on stage…I think that it was a few months after that….
It was DEAD wrong but that’s kind of what he is known for…he’s definitely a jerk…but it’s funny other times. I forgot all about Rickey Smiley since the Breakfast Club has taken over in VA.
Loose dycks running round here too and fro !!!!! Just because you can do it, don’t make it right …. wtf …… so a man doesn’t have to have self control over his peen !! Nah
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Say that shyt again and anytime someone make something sound good and logical, ppl jump on it
I think it had more to do with the fact that Teethmina met her WITH Peter, was all in her face and acted like she was just an artist but was
him. Of course she should be mad at Peter but I think she was justified with being PIST @Teethmina because on a human respect level she was dead wrong. And Teethmina stood up like she was bad. :stop: SHE WASN’T REEAADDDYYY
Good luck to you though, because between you and your husband Peter…together yall have love and hip hop, dirty feet, and less than half a damn career….and will forever be know as two triflent ass hoe ass dusty ass dingy ass people.
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All of this! So all of that Amina was talking about she did not know, bytch you knew. You just did not care.
Even tho, i do not think i can engage in a polyamorous relationship. i do agree with AKON. Besides he is financially set to care for his wives more than adequately
GM lovebugs
Good Morning everyone!! Hey Sandra!!! How are yall!
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
@JENIE
“What is there to disagree with in his statements?
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Hey either you agree with it or you don’t… either way everyone has a choice. You can either put up with this lifestyle and accept it(which can’t say a word about this ninja stick his dyck in other females or males ) for that matter, or you can say hell no I’ll pass …. just that simple
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Yeah, you don’t have to “participate” or “be involved” with him. But the facts of what he is saying is true, which is what I mean by saying there isn’t anything to “disagree” with.
You can choose not to like those facts but there is no counter argument against them.
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Hey here’s a fact, a dyck can fit inside of a man’s butthole and he can get extreme pleasure that way
now do I think its right 
but you as a man (heterosexual) say nah I am not going to stick my peen in a bung hole 
my point is , just cause it can be done, and even a fact don’t mean its right in my book 
Good luck to you though, because between you and your husband Peter…together yall have love and hip hop, dirty feet, and less than half a damn career….and will forever be know as two triflent ass hoe ass dusty ass dingy ass people.
Nakeya
If you are with someone that doesn’t mind that you want or have the desire to be with more than just her than ok, but if you take that choice from me and stick your dickle in everything we have a problem. I understand that he is an FOB but he is no longer in his country so the rules don’t apply here. That kind of shyt goes down in these here United Stated will get your DACK super glued to your thigh!!!
You have to remind yourself that you are in a relationship and what cheating would do to that relationship and then count the cost.
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I disagree. Just because someone is attractive, doesnt mean you’re attracted to them. You hve to have very weak flesh to be tempted EVERY TIME you leave the house. If you have to constantly remind yourself that your married or with someone, then you need therapy. Seek help immediately.
Either you’re not happy with your partner or you have deep issues with your self esteem if you constantly seeking attention. Again, my .02.
@JENIE
“And then we wonder why so many people walk around mad and stressed and flippin out and chit.
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I don’t know what the hell ya’ll talm bout, but I ain’t sharing no damn dyck I don’t give a damn what anyone says, and if I have to stay single because of this notion than so be it and folks wonder why disease is at an all time high !!!!!!! Loose dycks running round here too and fro !!!!! Just because you can do it, don’t make it right …. wtf …… so a man doesn’t have to have self control over his peen !! Nah
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Lol. No one’s telling you to share peen. But you will anyway. Just like your man will share puzz. Most people are NEVER monogamous. That’s just the truth.
If you think these people that been married 50,000 years never cheated on each other, let me sell you this magical white milky lotion that heals all that ails you
:jack:
Bnat- what station Breakfast Club come on in VA now? 103?
Morning Smonae!! lol
PERFECTO says:
“One man can’t please one women”? (Oocho voice) Child please! Don’t call yourself a man then!
Pleasure is both mental and physical, for me anyway. No matter how many ducks I have access to
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San I am not sipping the koolaid
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chile this right here is organic chai tea >>>>>
It’s called what is morally correct, not stating facts to tickle a ninja fancy , to give him leeway to fawk off ….. I think not
I thought of you when I saw this story on TMZ yesterday. It’s not true. We can all ho. We all see many people that are attractive to us. We don’t have to screw all of them and humans have the ability to control their impulses if they want to. Some cultures decide that the men don’t have to. Only the women have to. That’s all that is. It’s not biological. We rule the earth because we are the most intelligent species. Akon and men/cultures like him want to pretend we don’t have the ability to control our actions which of course is not true.
It’s called what is morally correct, not stating facts to tickle a ninja fancy , to give him leeway to fawk off ….. I think not
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And I agree. You will get fed a lot of “facts” in this world
It’s a choice that you have to consciously make over and over again.
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GellySammich says:
Which to me only proves the point that monogamy doesn’t come naturally to us. We force it on ourselves.
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Exactly. Monogamy is unnatural if it has to be reinforced through constant reminders, intimidation or threats.
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
@SANDRA
Man, Sandra must be BALLIN these days with all these new “friends” she got!
Don’t forget the people that got you there Sandra, don’t forget where you came from….
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Akon has only laced my pockets one time. It’s not what you think.
Go ahead and share that
And say cheese! While you doing it 
SO I JUST HEARD ON THE RYAN CAMERON MORNING SHOW THAT PEBBLES WILL BE ON WENDY WILLIAMS WHERE THE RUMOR WILL BE ADDRESSED ABOUT CHILI SLEEPING WITH LA REID AND THAT IS HOW HE GOT THEM AWAY FROM HER…
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Is she bringing TLC’s contract
Hey Smonae
MSVALLDAY says:
It’s a choice that you have to consciously make over and over again. You have to remind yourself that you are in a relationship…
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And yet you don’t have to remind yourself to breath or eat.
@SANDRA
“Man, Sandra must be BALLIN these days with all these new “friends” she got!
Don’t forget the people that got you there Sandra, don’t forget where you came from….
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Akon has only laced my pockets one time. It’s not what you think.
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“Make the money, don’t let the money make you!”
@PERFECTO
“Are we talking about humans or animals….people these days act more like animals instead of humans which is the only reason his veiws are somewhat valid.”
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Man, I just don’t care™ says:
Humans are animals tho….
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True. We have a more complicated thought process than animals, but we are still animals. And when we are stressed, we revert back to our original animalistic tendencies.
Bird says:
We can all ho. We all see many people that are attractive to us. We don’t have to screw all of them and humans have the ability to control their impulses if they want to.
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You’re thinking from a female perspective. Men think differently because they are wired to have multiple random sexual encounters with women. Listen to Akon. He’s trying to school you ladies.
jeniefrumdabloc says:
It’s called what is morally correct, not stating facts to tickle a ninja fancy , to give him leeway to fawk off ….. I think not
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He’s a man. He’s going to do it anyway whether you like it or not. Unless you’re chained to him 24/7….
Polygamy is human practice not God’s intention he joined one man and one woman not several chicks to one man! People do what they want not always what is right!
Friend of the blog::: Great Akon take your azz back to Africa with that dumb ish you talking trying to brainwash women… That’s why you 40 looking like you 62 because all them women done stressed and sucked the youth out you… And. FYI for your goofy azz while you out picking up more sister wives the ones you got sucking on the next man peen in the clothes your brought her and picking him up in the car you paying the note on because no woman in her right mind would be faithful to a man like you.. So you got bishes and the next man smashing yo bishes for free.. You ain’t home to keep a watch of what’s going to busy picking up more wives and more bills… And lets see will they stay around when the money goes….. Wake Up if you can discipline yourself to make millions of dollars you can put the same effort into loving one woman and not to mention the herpes and all the other std you can spread around… Always remember anything you can do women can do it better and you won’t even know it!!!
I hate when people try and take excerpts from the Bible and try to twist it to make it fit their mold and way of thinking. Just because polygamy existed back then in Bible times doesn’t make it right. God says that only One woman And One belong together. Period. Point. Blank. Anything other than that is a lie And the devil wanting u to think it’s right. But that is all. *goes Back to lurking*
He’s telling the truth! Since the dawn of time men from all cultures have had multiple wives. only within the last few centuries have they changed this tradition. They changed it mainly for political reasons and not for religious reasons.