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@Luv’n,

What was the blind item about?

@topic,

Although I hate to hear of the dissolution of any seemingly healthy marriage, I respect two people who are honest enough with both themselves and each other to know when to throw in the towel. You can’t breathe life into a corpse no matter how hard you try.

As opposed to the days of old, now women and men no longer have to stay together to save face. Now divorce is a more common practice. No longer do people have to stay in unhealthy situations. I’m all for ridding yourself of old skin, baggage, dead weight, and anything else that prohibits you from being the best you can be.

On certain levels, some people are meant to be in your life for only a season. They can still parent in separate but healthy environments, which I believe to be crucial during this time in their lives. May God bless them and best of luck to them.

@Yardie,

Babe, I am so sorry to hear of your mother’s loss. There is a person in my family (not sure if they read this blog, hence being ingcognito) who is still grieving the loss of their mother, and it’s been almost three years, so my heart goes out to you. What I can say is to allow yourself to grieve, as that is part of your process. Furthermore, don’t let ANYBODY tell you how to grieve. The process takes what it takes…..TRUST THE PROCESS. Understand you are where you are supposed to be. You do what you need to do for your wellness. I am here if you need to talk. Love you and muah babe

@Blanche,

Oprah said, “God will throw you a pebble before He throws you a brick.” It is unfortunate that you didn’t get to see your gma at the hospital. Were you able to take a pic of/with her on Christmas?? I will keep you and the Blanche family in prayer. I pray your gma makes a safe, full speedy recovery. I will also say this to you….and I hope you know this comes from a place of love.

Sometimes we pray prayers of healing, and sometimes we pray prayers of acceptance. The discernment between the prayers is solely between you and your higher power. I will ask God to give you the strength to handle this ordeal as well as the subsequent outcome. I am here for you, so please keep the rose garden updated. Love you babe.

Luv’n,

Thank you ma’am. You know what? Not to be all in your business and put you out on front street, but as a married woman perhaps you can shed light on this issue…….you were so helpful with the fashion on last week

Is it hard for married peepa to remain monogamous? I mean, I get we are all human beings, and we all have vices, but if you are in a monogamous relationship, don’t you have to CHOOSE everyday to be faithful? Furthermore, don’t you have to fight for your marriage EVERY DAY? If you are doing this, how can infidelity creep in?

DISCLAIMER:

And yes, to those wondering, I am a bit naïve to this, as I am not married and my purview is rooted in logic, not necessarily emotions.

Thank you

@RoseGarden,

Good morning….how are you roses doing!

@Luv’n,

I love you too babe.

@Taylor,

Hippopotamasaurusus is not only a word you should add to your vocab, but it’s also one for the record books!

@Blanche,

Hearing how supportive your beaullifah gma was just makes my heart ache for you all the more. She sounds like she has been your rock and many times, God’s way of reminding you that you have the ability to keep putting one foot in front of the other no matter what your circumstances. Gma instilled in you to be a fighter and a conqueror. In addition, the memories and her love will keep you warm on eventhe coldest of days. Continue to keep the rose garden in the loop, and if you need to talk, we are here. Muah

@Man,

Good morning! Regarding your comment…..I thought Denzel/Pauletta, Samuel/LaToya, and Blair/Desiree had all had 20+ year marriages? Educate me on this please.