Joe Budden hasn’t had good luck with women in the past. But it appears his streak of bad luck may be coming to an end.
The former rapper-turned-reality TV personality has hooked up with a new woman straight off of Instagram. Her name is Blu Gem Martinez (@blu_gem), and she apparently got Budden’s attention by flaunting her surgically enhanced curves on Instagram.
According to The Shade Room, Budden found his new gold digger on the social media platform. Budden immediately assumed the father role to Gem’s 3-year-old son.
The new couple was spotted cuddling in the VIP while celebrating her birthday at Studio 21 in NYC.
Budden formerly dated butt model Tahiry Jose. The couple broke up last year after a rocky on-again, off-again relationship.
I know what “check to check” looks like and this is it. She looks a mess.
Joe definitely has a type.
i think she’s cute. 
enough 
I know what “check to check” looks like and this is it.
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She favor Selena Gomez in some pics… That’s all I got
HEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY Errybody!
I think I can see her butt pad in dem jeans
goes to eat me some spinach dip..cause if THIS is what is in then i am doing much better than i thought
JD says:
I know what “check to check” looks like and this is it. She looks a mess.
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I like Joe.
Look at me in the new year. #socialbutterfly
Now. How is it possible?
These chicks dont be having a piece of cellulite but they stay dranking liquor?
If your trademark is having blue hair…your hair better be LAID and died to perfection. She needs to take notes from Olori Swank and Heather Sanders.
goes to eat me some spinach dip..cause if THIS is what is in then i am doing much better than i thought
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the prize daughter……. they might want to get her intrack…
oh i just saw the hair clip from RHOA…Claudia said THAT is the hair you chose to buy and it looks like uncooked top Ramen noodle. BISH WAIT WHAT….. Your hair
them struggle tracks.. only look a smidge better than Nene’s.. and that is ONLY because her looks REALLY BAD.
Did the just open the garage to show off their new Bentley?? the second sister? oh yea they petty…. alll of them
Yes sir, my nigga, yes sir! CHIT! Bytch look like he can power squat a small car!
She’s not cute. She looks just like Amber Rose in some of those pics…
Joe Budden hasn’t had good luck with women in the past. But it appears his streak of bad luck may be coming to an end.
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Luck?
He a man right? No luck needed. He playing the game you authored. There is no luck in it for them. Mating by Excel is for women. Duh.
So…
She already blue..he just gone add some black to it.. 
She’s not cute. She looks just like Amber Rose in some of those pics…
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Hoes… yall something else sometimes.
Well she’s the biggest loser of 2015. He can’t even help her with a reality show career since Mona got tired of making up fake story lines for him and Tahiry who have not actually been a couple since long before LHH was even on the air. Why are you reporting on these non celebs?
I mean…she looks of struggle. Joe is the king of saving these hoes.
Look at Kaylin. He was banging a skeletor lookin bytch with shark teef. Now she done got em fixed. He left her with somethin
Maybe he’ll do the same for ole Maria here. Her shape is trash tho. Gross.
I think I can see her butt pad in dem jeans
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+1
Joe does have a type: ugly in the face, light skinned, fat a$$.
Hoes… yall something else sometimes.
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FIRST. DON’T call me a hoe!
Second. Cuz she cute to YOU don’t mean she gotta be cute to me. We don’t all give light skinned bonus points. I will say again, she ain’t cute. Looks like that funny looking Amber Rose
Did the just open the garage to show off their new Bentley?? the second sister? oh yea they petty…. alll of them
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ALL.
Thats why I cant cry a river for baby sister. It was “fine” when she did it too. But now that she in grad school (her atitude was SO elitist hunty!) and small family and :eyeroll:
But yeah. They showed out. But the fact that the whole fam was crunk and she waited to be stank in confessional…petty gellish.
JD says:
I know what “check to check” looks like and this is it. She looks a mess.
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How about her bootleg “Fashion Killa’ cut off sweat shirt with the hijacked Tommy Hillfiger logo. Joe shole ain’t gonna help her financial situation.
Joe Budden hasn’t had good luck with women in the past.
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His career either
Looks like the estranged sister was there for the favorite daughter. She said she is school and had young kids…. the little girl is saying well she should have said finances from the beginning. She doesn’t owe your STAY IN A CHILD’S PLACE an explanation :stop: Use common sense. Duh. Everybody don’t have $$$$ like that ..
She looks like Waka lady to me.
Joe can find 10 of these types in Washington Heights or the Bronx
Ole Goya lovin hoes…
That all white outfit came straight off the model at the 5 for 10 dolla store
and the pay half bra..lawd Jesus. Joe done downgraded hard.
Here we go
she looks of struggle.
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Sandra I think you linked the wrong IG account
Look at Kaylin. He was banging a skeletor lookin bytch with shark teef. Now she done got em fixed. He left her with somethin
someone please call 911.
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@OTB
So do I need to dye my hair blue now? What’s up with black women and blue hair now??
How about her bootleg “Fashion Killa’ cut off sweat shirt with the hijacked Tommy Hillfiger logo. Joe shole ain’t gonna help her financial situation.
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Bird… I buy my kids Tommy, its quality and no one is checking for it in macy’s so great prices, sizes etc.
On IG tho Tommy has exploded?
Dese broads paying real US dollas to anotha IG boo-teek to refashion tommy stuff.
light skinned
They must either:
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1. Crossed the border by foot, or come through on a raft
Joe does have a type: ugly in the face, light skinned, fat a$$.
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Khloe should look Joe up in the white pages
So I watched Sorority Sisters and it is quite entertaining. I see some women on there can get it poppin real quick.
@OTB ok see i didn’t see all of last season…. i can tell the little sister is a bit snooty too. now it seems like she has fallen and is talking like she has sense
Ole Goya lovin hoes…
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LMMFAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
Hmmmm ok. Good luck? Wth hell happened to him on LHHNY tho? The proposal didn’t work out so he got the boot?
@MISS ARTIST
A light skinned “bonus?”
You must be giving a light skinned punishment.
She ain’t cute and she lookin young and pretty with a nice smile, smooth skin and chit.
But will turn around and be talkin bout some big deformed whale like Jill Scott is “beautiful.”
I tell ya.
Joe can find 10 of these types in Washington Heights or the Bronx
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*dries eyes*
See @Mayne. Get cho ass out the boot. I tole you. Average. Maynnnne yo mind gonna be blown once you get some BJ’s and your type of “foreign” broad. Dont marry the bitch Chris Bosh.
How about her bootleg “Fashion Killa’ cut off sweat shirt with the hijacked Tommy Hillfiger logo. Joe shole ain’t gonna help her financial situation.
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He sure ain’t! But neither is she. They gonna do this struggle thing together.
They busted out her husband for being in jail in front of the kids
These petty tricks
It might behoove some of these reality stars to be like Kandi or Phae Phae and have several lucative side hustles in addition to your main grind. Times are hard for many folk, and stacking your coints is real. Ain’t nobody tryna jangle 2 wooden nickels in their pockets.
Gigi26 says:
That all white outfit came straight off the model at the 5 for 10 dolla store and the pay half bra..lawd Jesus. Joe done downgraded hard.
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Don’t let Kaylin’s dental work fool you. Joey got her right from under the bridge. He like these downtrodden hoes. They don’t complain as much when you beat em.
@OTB
“Joe can find 10 of these types in Washington Heights or the Bronx
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*dries eyes*
See @Mayne. Get cho ass out the boot. I tole you. Average. Maynnnne yo mind gonna be blown once you get some BJ’s and your type of “foreign” broad. Dont marry the bitch Chris Bosh.
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Yeah yeah.. every hoe on the planet look exactly like this and there only a few fat hoes with dog faces in the history of man kind and I must be blind and blah blah blah.
Hoes waistline need an engineer to measure it but then be talkin bout EVERY fine chick is “average.”
Just :stop: EVERY fine chick ain’t “average.” Most of these hoes ain’t near bout in the kind of shape this girl is. Please stop your lies.
But will turn around and be talkin bout some big deformed whale like Jill Scott is “beautiful.”
**not today**
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Oh and :wave: to roses and lurkers alike
A good college graduate classy business minded women has went out of style from what I see. Instagram has put us our of bizness…
It might behoove some of these reality stars to be like Kandi or Phae Phae and have several lucative side hustles in addition to your main grind. Times are hard for many folk, and stacking your coints is real. Ain’t nobody tryna jangle 2 wooden nickels in their pockets.
by Unshakable on Jan 5, 2015 at 1:30 pm
Gigi26 says:
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Kandi and Phae Phae ain’t stupid they kno these reality checks don’t last forever. I wonder how they get paid to act stupid.
A light skinned “bonus?”
You must be giving a light skinned punishment.
She ain’t cute and she lookin young and pretty with a nice smile, smooth skin and chit.
But will turn around and be talkin bout some big deformed whale like Jill Scott is “beautiful.”
I tell ya.
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Don’t go there with me. I give no “light skinned punishments,” but definitely no light skinned bonuses. If you think that woman with blue hair is cute, so be it. However, don’t tell me who I need to find attractive. What does Jill Scott have to do with anything? Would that be you in your photo????
Looks like the estranged sister was there for the favorite daughter. She said she is school and had young kids…. the little girl is saying well she should have said finances from the beginning. She doesn’t owe your STAY IN A CHILD’S PLACE an explanation Use common sense. Duh. Everybody don’t have $$$$ like that ..
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Yeah but no…thas how they let the queen role so the estranged one imo should have reached out to her. How you call somebody your kid pretty much but dont show up for them? If you aint fukking with her mama, thats cool, I think she should have told her that..instead of making it about her time which was bogus. I mean its real…but clearly its bogus. She aint have no money. Say that. Im strecthed thin..but your mom is welcome to send for me! and if not, say you know were not getting along, plus im stretched thin, congrats but i wont be there.
IDK folks have too much ado about nothing. I dont think the queen should be “hurt” cause girl stfu and graduate :yanw: but i also dont think the aunt should be acting like she getting crucified.
A good college graduate classy business minded women has went out of style from what I see. Instagram has put us our of bizness…
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Euphrates.
I mean she dont go to school no more…but she could. 
Joey got her right from under the bridge. He like these downtrodden hoes
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I was bout ready to call MSNBC on Joe with Kaylin. That was some straight child sex worker type shyt
Joe be saving these hoes and destroying em at the same time
Look at Maria up top. Shoes from Danice but she flexin on these hoes
TANKARDS: she just said your husband in jail (for traffic tickets) and you acting like it is perfect. She said SAY SOMETHING
This reminds me of a comment for OTB about Porsha being phony. I did not fault her for being marriage perfect patty.. i do that. nobody needs to relish in our ups and downs.if my husband was in jail for a small crime i wouldn’t tell. 
i mean if he gone get right out why tell? 
For Porsha I meant phony in the sense of after the fact she was all Kordell might be gay 
you knew that from the jump.. said he told you he wasn’t… not you all he might can be 
they are dead wrong for saying the sister being too secretive. Why would she tell ya’ll anything so you can talk about her?? These heffas just said we know your water been cut off every other month
now it seems like she has fallen and is talking like she has sense
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This.
She crute to me..but I also like AMB
**not her parenting skillz
@HairLova,
No siree bob.
They both know what the deal is. Even Evelyn Lozada learned how to market her Hello Kitty to keep them cbecks coming in. No judgment here. Folks become real resourceful in the midst of scruggle.
@Vanna,
I would have to agree to an extent. Seems like thw more common sense you have, the more put together you are, the more articulate you are, the less attractive you are. I be like
fa real doe?
@OTB I agree she should have told the “QUEEN KID” I think it was all about screw yo mamaa and pride at that point.
Yeah yeah.. every hoe on the planet look exactly like this and there only a few fat hoes with dog faces in the history of man kind and I must be blind and blah blah blah.
Hoes waistline need an engineer to measure it but then be talkin bout EVERY fine chick is “average.”
Just EVERY fine chick ain’t “average.” Most of these hoes ain’t near bout in the kind of shape this girl is. Please stop your lies.
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Umm. Ok.
@MISS ARTIST
“Don’t go there with me. I give no “light skinned punishments,” but definitely no light skinned bonuses. If you think that woman with blue hair is cute, so be it. However, don’t tell me who I need to find attractive. What does Jill Scott have to do with anything? Would that be you in your photo????”
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Oh… so it’s her hair that makes her “ain’t cute.”
**looks at her again**
Man, stop. This chit right here… bruh.
So who is “pretty” to you … or “cute” or whatever adjective you want to use to say attractive?
And, yeah, that’s me in the pic. Why don’t you post your pic?
He like these downtrodden hoes.
they all look skank and in need of a Captain Save ‘Em
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She looks like a horse. This is NOT cute. And damn she got some big azz arms!
Don’t go there with me. I give no “light skinned punishments,” but definitely no light skinned bonuses. If you think that woman with blue hair is cute, so be it. However, don’t tell me who I need to find attractive. What does Jill Scott have to do with anything? Would that be you in your photo????
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Back in my day Strawberry Shortcake had a homegirl…Blueberry Muffin I think her name was. Well when I was a wee lass, the Blue haired hoe was yt. SOMEWHERE along the way she became Hispanic. I think that is who this chick is channeling. Blueberry Muffin. Look her up. She look just like the bish.
Wait. So this is Joey and his blue haired girl. Is he tryna be like Carrigton’s Joey or is Carrington’s Joey tryna be like him?
Here for this. Your font is so serious this is gonna be good.
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Oh don’t use Evelyn as an example. That hoe has now settled with a cross eyed frog nigra that done kicked his previous chick with 2 kids (by him btw) and thought she done upgraded.
I know she has to get high to holy heaven or drunk as fukk to screw him. Cuz that nigga look truck hit in the facial area. Damn eyes struggling to focus in one direction
She better pray she don’t get tossed either cuz that’ll be embarrassing.
:stop: This girl does not look like Amber Rose :nono;
they are dead wrong for saying the sister being too secretive. Why would she tell ya’ll anything so you can talk about her?? These heffas just said we know your water been cut off every other month
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LMAOOOOOOO they new black ppl cause by that point kids shouldve been fighting kids and mamas shouldve been fighting each other!
Dont chu never think you finna talk wreck bout me round my kids and they just cry 
Fighting words. She need to hurr’up and raise “her family” so they can have her back. 
Oh… so it’s her hair that makes her “ain’t cute.”
**looks at her again**
Man, stop. This chit right here… bruh.
So who is “pretty” to you … or “cute” or whatever adjective you want to use to say attractive?
And, yeah, that’s me in the pic. Why don’t you post your pic?
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No, it’s her face that makes her “ain’t cute.” Have you even seen a pug? She’s just not my cup of tea. I find a variety of women to be cute, beautiful, etc… That’s not you in that pic
Damn eyes struggling to focus in one direction
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Lottery Ball Eyes
Bob Whitfield Syndrome (BWS)
She looks like a horse. This is NOT cute. And damn she got some big azz arms!
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I dont see the horse with her. I gave yall porsha. Her arms are what got you?
I love the Garden. 
At least her parts go together.
She looks like a horse. This is NOT cute. And damn she got some big azz arms!
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well her ppl been known for having no necks and having to swim to Florida so…
Now DaddyTankard went and rescued the Queen kid from crying ..everybody upset tho.. but he found her
THIS RAGGEDY SOMMAMABISH.. I don’t like him… i will see the bad in him…in all cases.. he should have been up there ministering…instead his thrown away daughter.. trying to mediate….now he up there…. get outta here you FB
Damn eyes struggling to focus in one direction
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Lottery Ball Eyes
Bob Whitfield Syndrome (BWS)
by KDub on Jan 5, 2015 at 1:46 pm
I love you Roses. Ya’ll are just making my day while I’m here
@Vdot
You like Amber Rose…
I would have to agree to an extent. Seems like thw more common sense you have, the more put together you are, the more articulate you are, the less attractive you are. I be like fa real doe?
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ITA it can seem like that but I dont really think so. This small sample of men that sandra features…for sure. But they dont want a partner, they want trophies.
@Gigi,
Waymin…….she ain’t married no more to home slice a la the baseball playa….from the himalayas? Whatchu say nah! Than you for filling me in.
Say what, say what, say huh?
@KDub,
She looks more like a Monchichi…..memba them? I membas it like it was yestaday.
We all know to let Man ramble. Every once in a while, a newbie comes through.:smh:
Bob Whitfield Syndrome (BWS)
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And got a receding hairline at 30. Not an upgrade at all. She went from Chad to THAT.
You like Amber Rose…
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She looks more like a Monchichi
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I got snot cause I do remma them and she does. If she got freckles its a wrap. Oh. Ohh.
*I love me some Amber Rose.
Monchichi
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You like Amber Rose…
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Know somebody who saw her in person. Said girl is BADDD. I just don’t see it. She has a beautiful body but looks like a cue ball…
@MISS
“Oh… so it’s her hair that makes her “ain’t cute.”
**looks at her again**
Man, stop. This chit right here… bruh.
So who is “pretty” to you … or “cute” or whatever adjective you want to use to say attractive?
And, yeah, that’s me in the pic. Why don’t you post your pic?
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No, it’s her face that makes her “ain’t cute.” Have you even seen a pug? She’s just not my cup of tea. I find a variety of women to be cute, beautiful, etc… That’s not you in that pic
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You know what… don’t even worry about it.
I know hoes like you. Time Sandra post some monstrosity you goin be talkin bout how “beautiful” she is. 
Yeah, I know your type.
And, yes that’s me in the pic. You must be mad I’m not ugly but oh well. You just goin have to sit there and be mad at your own self for finding me handsome. 
I see you ain’t say chit bout putting up YOUR pic tho.
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Why girl
Now DaddyTankard went and rescued the Queen kid from crying ..everybody upset tho.. but he found her THIS RAGGEDY SOMMAMABISH.. I don’t like him… i will see the bad in him…in all cases.. he should have been up there ministering…instead his thrown away daughter.. trying to mediate….now he up there…. get outta here you FB
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I watched this sort of play out IRL over Holidays. My kid’s dad was all up in his kids but never the one who looks like me. We still waiting on him to come for my baby haircut. Xmas gift? Hardy har har.
Go home and anything you have by Revlon throw that chit out and dont buy another damn thang from this company.
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I will need more information
LMAOOOOOOO they new black ppl cause by that point kids shouldve been fighting kids and mamas shouldve been fighting each other!
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bruh :fistbump: ON EVERYTHING I LOVE. STRAIGHT UP WE GOT TO FIGHT. how you claiming to want to draw me closer and your trashing me in front of the CHIRREN????? <305/561 STYLE
Ion think she look like AMB nope, they just both thickidus but could be fake kushun
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She dont look like Amb to me either.
@Vanna,
I would have to agree to an extent. Seems like thw more common sense you have, the more put together you are, the more articulate you are, the less attractive you are. I be like
fa real doe?
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I get it. But when these black men start taking this ish home to momma tho? The mommas I grew up with would be like
@sotherngrl
Y i gotta throw out meh siren creme lippy
Wut revlon did?
@KDub,
She looks more like a Monchichi…..memba them? I membas it like it was yestaday.
by Unshakable on Jan 5, 2015 at 1:49 pm
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Omg I remember them! Lol
Monchichi
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TB.
And, yes that’s me in the pic. You must be mad I’m not ugly but oh well. You
Make me want to put mine up with my new eyebrows i BOUGHT 
just playing but i saw where folks buying weave brows
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My nig say he BIG GRAVIE CUTE. PLAY WIT IT
She has a beautiful body but looks like a cue ball…
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Cause she has a short cut? Or cause she bland/unremarkable??
@sotherngrl
Y i gotta throw out meh siren creme lippy
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I ain’t for throwin out shat I already bought. What that gon do besides waste MY money, they already got theirs. But what I won’t do is buy more or tell folks where I go it or what it is, if I am boycotting a product/company.
@OTBizzle,
You are right…..not all men roll like that. However, I do see that becoming more common amongst Black peepa.
I give you an example. I was conversing with this brotha, and he was like (to paraphrase) women should be submissive and not think too much. He was somethin like “I’m not even tryin to spend money on a first date……that’s a privilege.” So I respectfully.countered with a woman should do what works best for her, even if that includes being sbmissive. She shouldn’t feel forced to do anything. Tell me why he didn’t call back.
When i reached out to him, he stated I was too aggressive, which meant that I had my own mind and wasn’t a yes woman. Then he realized I wasn’t needy or clingy and wasn’t dependent upon a man for my existence. He stopped talking with me soon after. So I get where Vanna is going.
Go home and anything you have by Revlon throw that chit out and dont buy another damn thang from this company.
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I saw that. Imma using my stuff up first tho.
And that hair color is so 96 *Amber from Clueless voice* As if!
You know what… don’t even worry about it.
I know hoes like you. Time Sandra post some monstrosity you goin be talkin bout how “beautiful” she is. 
Yeah, I know your type.
And, yes that’s me in the pic. You must be mad I’m not ugly but oh well. You just goin have to sit there and be mad at your own self for finding me handsome. 
I see you ain’t say chit bout putting up YOUR pic tho.
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I won’t put my pic up. I have NOTHING to prove. You don’t know shti about me, so don’t even try it. Like I said, you don’t have to justify why you find that blue haired woman attractive. I don’t have to justify why I don’t. You said I’m mad at myself for finding you handsome
I’m not going to say anything about you calling me a hoe cuz we just two bitchez chatting
I’m not going to say anything about you calling me a hoe cuz we just two bitchez chatting
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like Chris Bosh and his wife?
which meant that I had my own mind and wasn’t a yes woman. Then he realized I wasn’t needy or clingy and wasn’t dependent upon a man for my existence. He stopped talking with me soon after. So I get where Vanna is going.
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The good men realize submissive =/= stupid. and smart =/= headstrong
Unshake: Those are COON negras. Stay clear away.
And to be honest a lot of those niggas have MAMMY issues. Its disgusting. The shyt they’ll complain about with black women is the same shyt they’ll accept from a non black. So let em have their useless asses
OMG these people around here don’t tespect a closed door. I got my office door closed so I can eat my lunch in peace, and not be subjected to folks watching me dog my food (cause I’m hungry) the up in here knocking like the police. I’m running to the door with bones in my hand and Shyt. Lady comes talk my head off then before she leaves says “have a nice lunch if you haven’t already” com’on now lady, you see the container of food on my desk and grease on my lips.
Go home and anything you have by Revlon throw that chit out and dont buy another damn thang from this company.
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Revlon employs almost HALF of the town of Oxford, NC. Imma gone head and say more than half. It is DIRT cheap in this part of the state for that reason, and pretty good products. Cherries In The Snow lip color has been in my lineup since I was 19 years old. Pray tell why. I CAN if we protesting.
Did the no makeup pic only show up for loyal readers…?
Cause she has a short cut? Or cause she bland/unremarkable??
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The short cut. She’s not bland at all. Just weird looking, but not in a good way IMO…
@OTBizzle,
What is TB? Is that short for thanks babe? this broad? thanks beaullifah? Ion use curse words, so it can’t be anything like an expletive.
Seaux mannie options
Did the no makeup pic only show up for loyal readers…?
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i had also scrolled up to look
Let me go see about Revlon. Oh boy.
OTBizzle,
You are right…..not all men roll like that. However, I do see that becoming more common amongst Black peepa.
I give you an example. I was conversing with this brotha, and he was like (to paraphrase) women should be submissive and not think too much. He was somethin like “I’m not even tryin to spend money on a first date……that’s a privilege.” So I respectfully.countered with a woman should do what works best for her, even if that includes being sbmissive. She shouldn’t feel forced to do anything. Tell me why he didn’t call back.
When i reached out to him, he stated I was too aggressive, which meant that I had my own mind and wasn’t a yes woman. Then he realized I wasn’t needy or clingy and wasn’t dependent upon a man for my existence. He stopped talking with me soon after. So I get where Vanna is going.
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I’ve had that happen to me. I guess I don’t understand the world in which I have to settle. Not me u keep on rolling and find that woman and I guaruntee u gon regret it in yo 50s when u wanna get yo life. I’ve seen it happen that “bad bytch” gets old and so will her antics
Did the no makeup pic only show up for loyal readers…?
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I scrolled up too… but left it alone cause well, we all know man
This conversation is his “black nuclear warhead” argument
I saw that. Imma using my stuff up first tho.
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shewt me too
wut they did tho
Unshake: Those are COON negras. Stay clear away.
And to be honest a lot of those niggas have MAMMY issues. Its disgusting. The shyt they’ll complain about with black women is the same shyt they’ll accept from a non black. So let em have their useless asses
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u can’t tell me kobe ain’t getting cussed out at home. Please
I’m not going to say anything about you calling me a hoe cuz we just two bitchez chatting
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BOL.
You keep coming back to that hoe. #bodycounter
Oh SNAP. Revlon is out. Racist fugg! Thanks for letting me/us know.
Revlon employs almost HALF of the town of Oxford, NC
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I damn sure considered going to them.
I cant stand no cold tho no more. I done got tooo old or somethin. I promise I wanna leave Florida. Everytime I turn on the news I get back right tho.
Oh trust Kobe is paying DEARLY for marrying that puta. Trust every damn day. That’s why his ass is playing and is GARBAGE. He don’t know if he’ll retire cuz Vanessa runs through the money like her peepa do the border. He needs them coins
@GiGi,
You betta preach on that! Guhl, and he did have mammy issues! I dodged a bullet. But what had got me in disarray is that he assumed I was aggressive, which to me has a negative connotation. I am not aggressive towards men…I am assertive and don’t back down. I won’t disrespect you, but will hold you to the same standard.
@RoseGarden,
When is it ok to walk away from someone/end a situation?
I ask because I read this blog about 8 signs it’s time to end the relationship. However, a surprising number of peepa commented that you should still stay, unless it’s physical violence or threat of your life. But I thought a relationship is supposed to be symbiotic, not one directional.Thoughts?
You keep coming back to that hoe. #bodycounter
I truly shed mannie funny tears about that one. I still crack jokes about it for kicks. Folk sensitive about words on the blog. THE ..B L O G :crying1:
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was you here when i jokingly said this hoe cray and i got called NOT A WOMAN…ANTI FEMINIST…A TUCKER OF THE PAYNUS? NOT OF GOD?
I promise I wanna leave Texas. Everytime I turn on the news I get back right tho.
What are y’all talking about!?!?
Hey Take… Happy New Year and chit
GiGi,
Kobe’s ball n chain looks like she would crack if she had to smile. She looks like she has to chew on tamale husks or eat lucas all day.
@TIME
I am at home for this last day… accomplishing nothing. About to work out. 
1. I give you an example. I was conversing with this brotha, and he was like (to paraphrase) women should be submissive and not think too much. He was somethin like “I’m not even tryin to spend money on a first date……that’s a privilege.” So I respectfully.countered with a woman should do what works best for her, even if that includes being sbmissive. She shouldn’t feel forced to do anything. Tell me why he didn’t call back.
When i reached out to him, he stated I was too aggressive, which meant that I had my own mind and wasn’t a yes woman. Then he realized I wasn’t needy or clingy and wasn’t dependent upon a man for my existence. He stopped talking with me soon after. So I get where Vanna is going.
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@Shake Oh I get it! Even without the story for sure! I unfriended a guy on FB cause he was saying something about “reversing roles with a woman since good men are limited?” Like he would be waiting to see which of the chicks “chases” him, compliments him, takes him out..
You aint wrong Sis. Hold your ground. I just think its easy to think your compliment is not out there when you faced with so many of them that seem to be just like the last one.
A guy asked why I wasn’t married etc. And told me not to say that there are no good men. I said I know plenty good men. I just dont know/haven’t met the one who is good for me.
Do these dudes know what aggressive means? Disagreeing does not mean youre aggressive.
“TB” in that instance was Throwback.
First doorters
“black nuclear warhead” argument
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This chit tickled me deep in my soul.
@unshakable its all depends. Today I wont stand for any stupid ish and the minute things are going left I leave because I already compromised once and have no intentions of repeating. My position now is that if dude is good to you and he messes up once, he gets a 2nd chance but that’s it, next mess up Im out the door. If dude is a fool makes no sense to keep prolonging a pointless situation
When I was with my son’s father (which was horrible) I kept going back no matter what he put me through. My mamma told me to stick it through till I cant no more. Her reasoning was that with some type of love you just have to endure the mistreatment till you are way past fed up that way when you leave you leave for good and never look back. Makes no sense to be karate chop and every monday morning you announcing you single then by friday you wrapped up with dude cause you look a fool.
About my Revlon statement. The new CEO is a fugging dyckwad. The EYETALIAN
muddacunt says that he can smell black people when they enter the room also said America was uncivilized country. ION care really about the America part but the smelling black folks when they enter a room.:nono: Sir your people dont even use deodorant so you may be smelling your top lip. Sorry yall but I read that and just felt some sorta way.
damn sure considered going to them. I cant stand no cold tho no more
Revlon DO pay them dollars. Good luck getting in is the issue for alot of folks here. You gotta know a man who know a man of a man. Whole FAMILIES be working there. You done met your spouse there, and yall have kids who grow up to work there and meet THEIR spouse there. Its one of those. If the CEO can smell a black when he enter a room, he must have nose plugs on when he go to his Oxford, NC facility then. I read that and was like WHET? 
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We get maybe 2-3 cold weeks out the year. Like stupid dumb cold. One of them happens to be THIS week.
She’s cute. She sorta looks like Kelis.
I ain’t for throwin out shat I already bought. What that gon do besides waste MY money, they already got theirs. But what I won’t do is buy more or tell folks where I go it or what it is, if I am boycotting a product/company.
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@MissyJ you right dont throw chit away ION know what I was thinking. No need in throwing away something you spent money on already. I just read that chit and was like you no bazing mafukka.
This ain’t Carrington’s DoorterInLaw, is it?
jk, unless it is